In this episode, I speak with Canadian social media influencer, blogger, entrepreneur, and YouTube channel creator, Derek Kamb, about his journey to becoming a multi-millionaire over the course of a few years. Derek talks about how he became a social media personality, how he transformed his life, and how he was able to find success in a male-dominated industry. He also discusses the importance of mental and physical health in the modern world, and why it's important to have a healthy relationship with your mental health and physical well-being. Derek is a serial entrepreneur who runs three companies, Merrick Health, which is an organization that I use, Gorilla Mind, and The Intelligent Shop, a company that he co-founded with Dr. Jordan B. Peterson. With decades of experience helping patients, Dr. Peterson offers a unique understanding of why you might be feeling this way. In his new series, he provides a roadmap towards healing, showing that while the journey isn't easy, it's absolutely possible to find your way forward. If you're suffering, please know you are not alone. There's hope, and there's a path to feeling better. Go to Dailywire Plus now and start watching Dr. B.P. Peterson's new series on Depression and Anxiety. Let this be the first step towards the brighter future you deserve. - Dr. P.B. Peterson - Let This Be the First Step towards the Bright Future You Deserve. . Dr. Dr. J.B.'s Daily Wire Plus is a new series that could be a lifeline for those battling depression and anxiety. We know how isolating and overwhelming these conditions can be, and we wanted to take a moment to reach out to those listening who may be struggling, and offer a moment of support and a place of hope and encouragement. , and we know that we're all worthy of a better future you can find a way to feel better, no matter where they are at home in the next episode of Daily Wire plus. -Let This be the light at the end of the tunnel. -Dr. Jordan P. Peterson - Thank you for listening to this episode of the podcast, . . . - Thank you Dr. :) and I hope you're not alone! to you, too! -Derek , Dr. Kamb Derek I hope that this episode is a good one.
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00:00:57.420Hello, everybody. Today, I have the opportunity to speak with Derek, a social media influencer, Canadian social media influencer.
00:01:16.700There are a few of us. He runs a YouTube website, a famous one, More Plates, More Dates.
00:01:22.200He's also a serial entrepreneur who runs three companies, Merrick Health, which is an organization that I use, Gorilla Mind, and Intelligent Shop.
00:01:35.020Well, we discussed how Derek transformed himself and made himself successful over a multi-year period, but really starting intensely in 2016.
00:01:46.240How he became a blogger, how he became a blogger, how he became a blogger, how that transformed into a YouTube career, how that rearranged his relationships with women and with people in the social environment more generally, how that opened up the marketplace for him, how that helped him become financially successful to look for entrepreneurial activities,
00:02:04.040and what that meant for him psychologically, and what that meant for him psychologically, and interpersonally, and financially.
00:02:12.540And so, and on the way, we talk about issues pertaining to men's mental and physical health on all sorts of different fronts.
00:02:21.840Most particularly, because this is where Derek started, with regard to the facilitation of performance and physical fitness, but also with forays into the broader issues of motivation, enthusiasm, and confidence.
00:02:45.580So, why don't you start by telling everybody who's watching and listening what you're up to, like, and how you got to the place that you are.
00:03:09.640I went to a university in British Columbia, did an undergrad in business administration, and kind of irrelevant and useless for what I'm doing now, but that was my beginnings.
00:03:23.500And through that, I thought I was going to become an accountant or some typical, you know, business-oriented position in downtown Vancouver or something of that nature.
00:03:34.260And I was actually bouncing downtown, and I got injured, and while I was injured, I started writing blog articles online about my fitness journey, I suppose, because I was very into bodybuilding at a young age and essentially enthralled in the science of human optimization and biology.
00:03:54.240And through that, I had accumulated a decent amount of knowledge at that point that I felt useful enough to impart to whoever was interested in reading.
00:04:04.880And at the time, WordPress blogs were actually a fairly reasonable way of getting information out there.
00:04:11.100So I started writing on a blog, MorePlatesMoreDates.com, and it was essentially named after, at the time, in my early 20s, something that was catchy, memorable, encompassed what I was, I felt my content oriented around at the time, self-improvement, fitness, et cetera.
00:04:31.620And as it went on, it sort of evolved into a pretty, it was snowballing in popularity, especially the YouTube channel, as I started to accumulate more viewers, subscribers.
00:04:48.2802016. And how long after the blog? How long after you began the blog was that?
00:04:52.780So, technically, I started the blog in March, I believe, and I probably waited about a month or two to publish my first YouTube video.
00:05:01.020Or it might have been a couple months before that. It's actually, I don't remember the exact date of my first article.
00:05:05.560But they're pretty close together in time.
00:05:07.320Yeah. Essentially, I had somebody who was, at the time, you know, a big name in the, like, Manosphere, Red Pill community, who's like a self-improvement guy, tell me,
00:05:18.420you should be publishing everywhere, which was good advice even at the time, too.
00:13:40.980I think this is pretty typical, but a lot of people have this underlying feeling that they're destined for more than what they are currently doing and there's just something they're missing that is the missing piece to solving that equation to set them on the right path and I've always felt like that piece was missing in my life to really guide me forward on what I actually should be doing.
00:14:02.980Maybe that's not as common as I think, but I feel like a lot of people could.
00:14:06.880No, I think that's the voice that calls people out of the safety of their foyer's tent into the world, right?
00:14:13.660If you pay attention to it, that's the voice of adventure.
00:14:16.760That's what people used to call a calling, right?
00:14:20.120It's a very strange thing because a calling has an independent, it's like an independent spirit because you have to act in cooperation with it.
00:15:44.540And so, that's the voice that you just described.
00:15:47.820So, in the story of Abraham, for example, the biblical story of Abraham, Abraham's about 75 when the story opens.
00:15:54.160And he's from a very wealthy and privileged background.
00:15:56.780And he has no reason to do anything because everything that he could have is already at his hand.
00:16:03.360And a voice comes to him and says, you have to leave all this.
00:16:06.720You have to go out into the world and have your adventure.
00:16:10.080You have to get beyond your infantile security and dependence, even if it's providing for you, you know, everything you might need out into the world.
00:16:18.280And he follows that voice and it leads him into all sorts of catastrophe.
00:16:22.760Like, it's not a story without its ups and downs after that.
00:16:26.740It's not an uphill trek towards ever-increasing paradises, right?
00:16:30.480It's war and famine and starvation or war and famine and betrayal and the necessity of sacrifice, all the things that are terrible about life.
00:16:40.980Going online without ExpressVPN is like not paying attention to the safety demonstration on a flight.
00:16:46.500Most of the time, you'll probably be fine.
00:16:48.440But what if one day that weird yellow mask drops down from overhead and you have no idea what to do?
00:16:54.380In our hyper-connected world, your digital privacy isn't just a luxury.
00:16:59.460Every time you connect to an unsecured network in a cafe, hotel, or airport, you're essentially broadcasting your personal information to anyone with a technical know-how to intercept it.
00:17:08.780And let's be clear, it doesn't take a genius hacker to do this.
00:17:11.640With some off-the-shelf hardware, even a tech-savvy teenager could potentially access your passwords, bank logins, and credit card details.
00:17:19.420Now, you might think, what's the big deal?
00:18:16.280So that voice that you said, or that sense that you had when you were a kid, I think that's in every kid that hasn't had it thrashed out of them by, through one means or another, tyrannical father or over-intrusive mother.
00:18:32.080Those are the most common crushing elements, let's say.
00:18:35.080And then the other thing that you've pointed to, which is the desire to be attractive to women, that's a major motivator for men.
00:18:43.280And it's partly because the biggest predictor of male success on the mating front is socioeconomic success.
00:18:52.420And the reason for that seems to be that women are attempting in some ways to level the economic playing field, right?
00:18:58.140Because pregnancy, childbirth, all of that, child care is very hard on them economically.
00:19:03.040And so they're looking for someone to split the load, let's say, or share the opportunity.
00:19:09.100That's another, that's a much more positive way of thinking about it.
00:19:12.500So I think that voice is common, although I think we're doing everything we can in our culture to squelch it.