Dr. Simon Baron Cohen is a world-renowned clinical psychologist and Director of the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge. He has done groundbreaking work on autism, empathy, systemizing, and the extreme male brain. In doing so, he has reshaped our understanding of neurodiversity. He is the author of numerous books, including his latest, The Pattern Seekers: How Autism Drives Human Invention. He spoke to us at length about tool use, theory of mind, and most controversially, perhaps, the differences in male and female approaches to the world.
00:02:01.360And there's a lot of things that we, there's a lot of interest that we share.
00:02:05.860So I thought what I'd do to begin with is outline your main domains of interest.
00:02:11.720And you can correct me and make sure that I've got that formulated properly,
00:02:15.340because I would like to walk through them, you know, with, in some relatively systematic and empathic manner.
00:02:22.540So, so let, tell me what you think of this breakdown.
00:02:26.220You're very interested in how people adopt the mindset of other people, how we understand other people.
00:02:34.620And I really want to talk to you about that.
00:02:36.780So I want to throw some ideas at you and see how your vision of mutual understanding and emotional alignment differs and maybe is similar.
00:02:46.580You're very interested in gender differences.
00:02:48.480Let's call them sex differences, just to be politically incorrect.
00:02:53.960That, that shades off into your concern with systematizing versus empathizing, which is a, I suppose, a dimensional analysis of, of interest, although it shades into temperament.
00:03:07.940You're quite curious about empathy and evil, and you're very interested in pattern seeking.
00:03:14.760And so, are there, are there other major domains that might be worth delving into, or does that give us a reasonable rubric?
00:03:27.420And I just want to start by saying, I'm honored to be in conversation with you.
00:03:32.340I've been looking forward to talking to you for a long time, too.
00:03:36.260And actually, this is going to sound funny, but I was sitting right at the back when you spoke at the O2 Center in London.
00:03:44.760And that was probably one of your largest gigs.
00:03:48.080And I was way at the back row, so you were quite small on stage, but it was, it was fun listening to you.
00:03:54.900And I'm looking forward to our conversation.
00:03:57.240In terms of the topics, I guess there's one other thing to mention, which is that I'm the director of the Autism Research Center in Cambridge.
00:04:07.140And on, you know, the long list of topics that you mapped out for us, I guess we'll probably touch on the field of autism and autistic people.
00:04:19.800Yeah, yeah, I guess I would have segued into that through systematizing and empathizing.
00:04:25.580But it is good to highlight it as a major, obviously, it's good to highlight it as a major concern, since it is a major research area of yours.
00:04:34.840Maybe we'll start with understanding others.
00:04:38.620And so let me, I'm going to ask a relatively complicated question.
00:04:42.960And then I'd like you to indicate your agreements and disagreements, if you would.
00:04:48.680So I was very influenced in my understanding of social perception by J.J. Gibson and his theory of affordances, and also by Jeffrey Gray and his cyber, essentially cybernetic neuroscience theory.
00:05:03.920And so this is how I'm understanding it at the moment, and it's relevant to an understanding of stories and also an understanding of mind, I think, is that we shape our perceptions around a goal, a destination, let's say.
00:05:20.480Our perceptions are guides to navigation.
00:05:23.120And when we occupy the conceptual space of someone else, we adopt their goal, that syncs our perceptions, and it also syncs our emotions, because we experience emotions in relationship to a goal.
00:05:41.480And I was also influenced in that notion by Piaget, you know, the developmental psychologist who was interested in how children establish shared frames of reference in games.
00:05:52.040So, anyways, I'm curious, start with that, if you would.
00:05:58.200It's interesting to hear your influences, because mine are a little bit different.
00:06:04.220So for me, the major influence in how I think about other people's minds and the whole question of how do we imagine what someone else is thinking and what they might be feeling, the influence came from the philosopher Daniel Dennett.
00:06:22.920And I don't know if you know his work, but he published a book.
00:06:29.420So he published a really, I think, really important book called The Intentional Stance, probably in the late 70s or early 80s.
00:06:40.280And the idea of the intentional stance is that when we look around at the world, like the world of objects, we don't particularly attribute mental states.
00:06:51.820But when we look at people, what humans do, and some people would say uniquely, is that we take this intentional stance.
00:07:00.980That's to say, we try to imagine what's going through their mind.
00:07:06.860And, you know, mental states, you know, he argued, cover not just emotions and goals.
00:07:16.340But importantly, also epistemic states, so beliefs, what people know.
00:07:23.000So in every conversation, in every interaction, what most people are doing is that they're monitoring the other person's state of mind.
00:07:33.620What does the other person know, what do they think, what do they want, what are they feeling?
00:07:39.500And in my terminology, more recently, I call that cognitive empathy.
00:07:47.820But Dennett called it the intentional stance, taking the intentional stance.
00:07:52.360So the word intentional is meant to cover the whole range of mental states that another person might have.
00:07:58.960And, you know, he gives this wonderful example in his book of how important this is, that every time we venture out on the highway, we are making assumptions about other people's mental states.
00:08:15.100For example, that other people want to stay alive, so they're going to stay in their lane and not swerve into our lane.
00:08:21.800And that other people can see us and we can see that they know that we can see them.
00:08:26.760So many different kinds of unconscious sort of processing of what other people are thinking, what they believe, what they know, what they want.
00:08:36.640And that's happening in every conversation, or at least it should be.
00:08:40.720So the intentional stance, I think that that idea was influenced by Husserl and Heidegger.
00:08:48.340Maybe Heidegger more particularly, because he insisted that our fundamental attitude towards the world was one of care.
00:08:59.040And that's a good way, I think, of uniting perception with emotion.
00:09:04.200I mean, if we perceive our destinations, I guess you're doing that on the highway with other people too.
00:09:12.580One of the destinations would be to arrive alive, for example.
00:09:16.520So you're inhabiting a shared structure of value, and that highlights certain perceptions and foregrounds certain perceptions and hides others.
00:13:03.660And they may come over and console her or give her a kiss or give her a hug or a cuddle, you know, because she's acting as if she's in distress.
00:13:15.500So I don't see, I don't think even the typical two-year-old is oblivious to another person's feelings.
00:13:23.160And nor are they kind of like detached, I don't know, psychopaths where they just don't care that somebody else is in pain.
00:13:32.400They actually have the natural reaction of wanting to alleviate another person's suffering.
00:13:38.080And, of course, there may be differences in maturation.