Jordan Peterson Live on Tour: There Are Still Dreams Worth Chasing
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1 hour and 1 minute
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132.95937
Summary
In this episode, I talk about the concept of being devoted to something greater than yourself, and how this concept can be applied to our relationships with those we care most deeply about. I discuss Leo Tolstoy's The Confessions, and the dream he had that changed the course of his life.
Transcript
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So imagine that if you have the ambitions to accomplish something,
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other destinations towards which you might direct your actions,
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you have to sacrifice those to that thing you're devoted to.
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If you marry someone, you declare your devotion to them.
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You sacrifice the relationship you could have with all other men or women to that person.
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You put them at the pinnacle of the hierarchy of your relationships.
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And you do that when you, well, when you start a new business or when you take on a new job.
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if you're in it in the manner that would most assure your success,
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you devote yourself to it and you make the relevant sacrifices.
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you prioritize one thing and then perhaps that comes to its conclusion
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Or perhaps while you're prioritizing one thing,
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your understanding of where you're heading transforms.
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And imagine you repeat that continually and you do that in good faith
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and you continue to pursue your object of devotion.
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But you observe that what it is that you're aiming for transforms across time.
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Now that doesn't mean that the things you were aiming for along the way were improper.
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Although it does suggest that as you move towards your destination,
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your understanding of the nature of that destination transforms as you accrue wisdom,
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I remember reading the autobiography of Leo Tolstoy called Confessions.
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and a master of literature on par with Shakespeare.
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He was an aristocrat in Tsarist Russia with immense estates.
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In many ways, he had everything, even by his own admission,
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He sometimes, when he was walking on his estates,
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he would carry a rope with him on the off chance that he would
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finally make the decision to hang himself from a rafter.
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And during that time of immense fame and productivity and abundant life
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Wrestling to understand the meaning of his life.
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To understand his despair in the face of everything that had been granted to him.
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Tolstoy's attention turned more to religious matters as he became older.
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a very short book, it's very much worth reading,
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And when he looked down, there was an abyss of infinite depth beneath him.
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And to be suspended in midair with an abyss of infinite depth beneath you
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It doesn't take much literary analysis to comprehend the meaning of that vision.
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It means that when any of us look down, we can see the abyss in front of us.
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And we can easily become, we can easily despair in consequence of that sense of vertigo
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that the unknown spread out like that in front of us might produce.
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he realized that he was suspended by a rope above this abyss
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and that the rope extended upward farther than he could see.
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So the rope above him extended into the infinite space above
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And then he woke up and that is the end of his book.
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And he understood that something invisible and transcendent
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supports us above the abyss that extends below us.
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But the book ends there and the readers left with some resolution
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of the problem that Tolstoy was facing, but with no real explanation.
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The resolution was the hypothesis put forward in the dream image that
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we're suspended by something that supports us above everything that threatens us.
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So one of the things you want to understand about the way that
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that which should be put in the highest place is characterized in the Judeo-Christian tradition
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is that in the final analysis, whatever God is, whatever is to be put in the highest place,
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whatever is transcendent, is outside of time and space.
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It's not to be found within the confines of anything that presents itself immediately to us.
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And that in the final analysis, its nature transcends our understanding.
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And so that begs the question, first, does something like that exist?
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And second, if it does exist, yet it's incomprehensible, ineffable, and transcendent,
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how are we to understand it and what is the nature of our relationship to it?
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So imagine that you're devoted to something and you pursue it,
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and as you pursue it, your understanding of what it is that you should be devoted to
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So what that implies is that what's good and motivating calls to you as that which grips
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your attention and motivates you, but as you approach that destination and become wiser
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in consequence, your understanding of where you're headed broadens and deepens or becomes
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So then you could posit that behind the things that call you is that which calls to you as
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such, which makes itself manifest as you approach it, but continually recedes.
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So the idea would be, well, there's always another mountain to climb,
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and that there's a sequence of mountains that never end, and that the peak of each successive
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mountain is higher than the peak of the mountain previously, and that the ultimate destination
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That's the heaven that Jack climbs when he climbs the magic beanstalk, right?
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That's a representation of the sacred tree at the center of the cosmos that shaman have
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That which is at the peak of that, that recedes as you approach it, and that calls you continually
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to what's better and better, that's what's properly put in the highest place.
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Now, that phenomenon of ultimate value, it's that phenomenon of ultimate value that shines
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through everything of value that attracts you in your life.
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This is what happens to Moses, for example, when he encounters the burning bush.
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So, Moses is going about his business as a shepherd.
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He's attending to his flock one day, performing the duties of a typical productive and protective
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man, and something beckons to him that's off the track.
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It captures his attention, and he goes to investigate.
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And as he approaches it, he realizes that it's a tree that's on fire.
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The tree that's on fire, that's the tree of life.
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A tree has been a symbol of life forever, and there's many reasons for that.
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Not least that life itself has branching forms that make themselves manifest in the morphology
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of trees, but in the branching relationship between kingdoms of animals as they progress
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through time, in the branching structure of the blood vessel system that keeps you alive.
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That replicating and differentiating structure that's tree-like is central to life itself.
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And a tree that's on fire is something that is and is becoming at the same time.
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It's something that exists and is transforming at the same time.
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Of course, life has that characteristic, because you are what you are, but at the same time,
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And it's the combination of those two things, really, that makes you alive.
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Form plus possibility transforming itself into form.
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And what Moses encounters is a manifestation of that central pattern of life.
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And when something calls to you, that's what you encounter too.
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When something makes itself interesting to you, when you find yourself compelled by something,
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when you fall in love with someone, when you're motivated by forces outside yourself to pursue
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something that interests you, the same thing has happened to you that happens to Moses.
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Moses has the faith to investigate what it is that fascinates him.
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And as he does so, his experience becomes deeper.
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And he begins to understand that he's starting to tread on sacred ground.
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And he takes off his shoes, which means he's not going anywhere,
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The shoes are emblematic of identity, which is why you can walk a mile in someone's shoes,
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And he abandons who he is in pursuit of what he could be.
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And the consequence of that is that a voice speaks to him out of the depths of the burning bush
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and then announces itself as the spirit of being and becoming itself.
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And what that means is that if you pursue that which calls you deeply in us,
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the voice of the spirit that gives rise to order itself will make itself known to you.
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And we know that because we know, all of us know,
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that if we pursue something deeply, if we pursue something with commitment,
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And that as our understanding of that particular phenomenon deepens,
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we start to understand its connection with everything else.
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And the deeper, and there's no limit to the depth of that.
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And the consequence of that, and this is the consequence for Moses,
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is that the revelation of the spirit of being and becoming to Moses
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And so what that means is that that's what makes Moses into a leader.
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Is that he takes what compels his attention with all due seriousness,
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allows his identity to transform as a consequence,
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and transforms himself with the help of what it is that's calling to him,
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transforms himself into the sort of man who can stand against tyranny
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and who can find the final optimized destination.
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and that's indicated by the fact of calling and interest.
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Now what happens in the biblical corpus is that
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so that the nature of that spirit can be made clear
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so that individuals and societies can organize themselves
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The biblical stories are a library of characterizations of God.
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And so God is this spirit that calls us forward
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and as the character to whom ultimate devotion should be paid.
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There's something that's like the spirit of devotion itself
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it's different people are devoted to different things,
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but that doesn't imply that they're not devoted.
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And that's the spirit that makes itself manifest
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And I'm going to tell you a very specific story tonight.