The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - April 05, 2020


Personal Responsibility


Episode Stats

Length

2 hours and 14 minutes

Words per Minute

149.98625

Word Count

20,190

Sentence Count

129

Misogynist Sentences

41

Hate Speech Sentences

21


Summary

This episode is the final lecture in Season 2, Episode 53 of the Jordan B. Peterson 12 Rules for Life lectures. It's the last lecture in the series, and the final episode of Season 2. In this episode, Jordan talks about the importance of personal responsibility, and how it ties into the 12 Rules he wrote about in his new book, "The Rules For Life: How To Live A Good Life: 12 Simple Rules for a Good Life." He also talks about a new series created for those battling depression and anxiety. With decades of experience helping patients, Dr. Peterson offers a unique understanding of why you might be feeling this way. He provides a roadmap towards healing, showing that while the journey isn't easy, it's absolutely possible to find your way forward. If you're suffering, please know you are not alone. There's hope and there's a path to feeling better. Go to Daily Wire Plus now and start watching Dr. Jordan B Peterson on Depression and Anxiety. Let this be the first step towards the brighter future you deserve. On to something new next week, Jordan's daughter, Scarlett Peterson, is starting to speak in sentences again. She's still busy writing and editing his book, but she's starting to get her sentences together. That's a good sign. That's all for updates soon, I hope you enjoy this episode. Thank you very much, Michaela Peterson - Jordan (p.S. Note: This episode was recorded on February 23rd, 2019 from Auckland, New Zealand, where I did some work on a new podcast I'm working on a book I'm writing on the next episode of the show, The Rules for life. I'm still writing a book, and it's going to be out soon. I'll be out in March, so stay tuned for the next week. - Michaela and I'm starting a podcast soon. (Sorry about the delay in the next few weeks, but I'm trying to figure out how to do that.) - I'll get back to you guys! -- Thank you so much for all the love and support you all the support I've gotten so far. -- I appreciate it! -- thank you for all your support and support I appreciate you, I really appreciate it, love you, bye, bye! -- BABY LOVE YOU! -- Jordan -- -- - Kristy, Sarah ~ - MJ


Transcript

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00:02:06.720 Welcome to episode 53 of the Jordan B. Peterson podcast. I'm Michaela Peterson, Jordan's daughter.
00:02:20.200 I hope you enjoy this episode. It's called Personal Responsibility, recorded on February 23rd, 2019
00:02:26.640 from Auckland, New Zealand. This is the very last of dad's 12 rules for life lectures that we're
00:02:33.040 producing his podcasts. On to something new next week. Dad's still busy writing and editing his book
00:02:38.960 and recovering. Scarlett, my daughter, is starting to speak in sentences, and I'm starting a podcast soon.
00:02:46.540 That's all for updates today.
00:02:54.700 Season 2, episode 53, Personal Responsibility. The last of the Jordan B. Peterson 12 rules for life lectures.
00:03:03.040 Thank you very much.
00:03:21.000 So, I was debating what to talk about today backstage, as I always do, trying to specify a particular
00:03:32.700 problem that I could attack in a relatively new manner, and I thought I'd concentrate on three rules
00:03:45.160 tonight. Weave them into a story, because they're related. All the rules in the book are related,
00:03:59.320 because otherwise it doesn't really make much of a book. So, you know, I picked the 12 rules that did make it into the final draft on the basis of their
00:04:11.120 integration, their potential integration, into a coherent narrative.
00:04:16.500 And, but it gives me, also gives me a chance to play with different combinations of the rules, to highlight different elements of what are, is crucial, what's important.
00:04:30.500 And, I've been kind of avoiding this one. I did some lectures on it early in the tour, but it's quite a difficult chapter, because it goes from what's quite mundane, in some sense, to what's as deep as deep can be, or at least as deep as I can go.
00:04:57.080 And, it's hard to bridge that gap, and it's easy to make a mistake, but I'm going to try that. I'm going to try it anyways and see if I can manage it, manage to bridge that gap.
00:05:09.200 So, rule two is treat yourself like you're someone responsible for helping.
00:05:18.060 And, rule three is the social analog of that, I would say, in some sense, and also a logical conclusion of it, which is to make friends with people who want the best for you.
00:05:34.920 And, then rule four is a set of instructions, in some sense, about how you might go about rule two, which would be taking care of yourself, as if you were someone, you were responsible for helping.
00:05:50.540 Rule four is compare yourself to who you were yesterday, and not to who someone else is today.
00:06:01.500 And, it's a reminder to a certain kind of humility, and realism, and also a, what would you call it, a maxim that allows you to maintain a necessary ideal,
00:06:19.700 because ideals are necessary for reasons that we'll discover, or that we'll discuss, but they also can make you envious and jealous, especially, or angry,
00:06:33.840 especially if you see if you haven't accomplished your ideal, and then if you also see, at least in principle, at least from your perspective,
00:06:41.700 that other people have, and so it's often difficult to have an ideal, even if you need one, without becoming bitter as a consequence, and it's not helpful to be bitter.
00:06:58.660 It just makes everything that's already not good worse, and unless that's what you want, it's not a very
00:07:06.720 practical, or useful solution, not a well-advised solution.
00:07:17.000 So, with regards to rule two,
00:07:22.080 there's a social psychology literature, which I don't trust, by the way,
00:07:27.500 which
00:07:27.940 indicates that people tend to have a pretty high opinion of themselves,
00:07:33.660 at least if you ask them certain kinds of questions,
00:07:37.480 if you ask people whether they're better drivers than average,
00:07:41.960 they tell you yes,
00:07:44.000 with a fair bit of regularity,
00:07:47.460 for example,
00:07:48.940 and
00:07:49.400 they're likely to exaggerate their
00:07:52.100 abilities in other directions,
00:07:55.080 gives you the impression of a kind of global narcissism.
00:07:58.760 It's a complicated problem, you know, because
00:08:02.280 extroverted people, for example, tend to be more optimistic about the future than
00:08:08.200 non-extroverted people,
00:08:11.220 and
00:08:11.620 it's not obvious exactly how it is when you're
00:08:15.460 prognosticating about your future, whether it can be determined, determined, whether or not you're accurate,
00:08:21.560 although it does seem somewhat unlikely that statistically speaking 70% of the people in a given room can be better drivers than average.
00:08:31.780 So,
00:08:32.860 something's fishy there,
00:08:34.340 but
00:08:34.920 I think a lot of it is actually the experimental methodology,
00:08:39.660 and that might be wrong,
00:08:41.440 but
00:08:41.700 I'm not so sure it is.
00:08:43.600 there's another literature that indicates that depressed people are actually more accurate in their self-assessment than non-depressed people,
00:08:54.480 although
00:08:55.120 I actually don't believe that either,
00:08:57.360 because I think that
00:08:58.880 mildly depressed people,
00:09:01.620 which are often the people that social psychologists, for example, study,
00:09:06.060 might be more realistic than naive people.
00:09:09.680 that doesn't mean that depressed people are more realistic than healthy people,
00:09:15.180 because depressed people are really depressed,
00:09:18.860 and most of the people that are studied in
00:09:22.180 social psychology experiments, let's say,
00:09:25.240 are sort of,
00:09:26.700 well, they're depressed in minor ways.
00:09:28.740 I'm not trying to trivialize it,
00:09:30.400 but
00:09:30.500 you can be so depressed that you're essentially
00:09:33.880 immobilized,
00:09:35.340 you can be so depressed that
00:09:36.620 you think all of the problems that everyone suffers from in the world are in some direct measure your fault.
00:09:44.080 You know, you can be so depressed that all you can remember about the past is what's terrible,
00:09:49.120 all you can see about the future of the present is what's gray and black,
00:09:54.280 and everything that you can see about the future is a catastrophe,
00:09:58.380 and it's not obvious to me that that actually constitutes a realistic appraisal of the reality of being.
00:10:07.840 You know, it's not so bad to have a bit of a balance between dark and light in your view of reality,
00:10:14.460 but when all the light disappears, and there's nothing but darkness,
00:10:18.840 it's not obvious that that constitutes an accurate or useful way of looking at the world.
00:10:24.880 So it isn't obvious to me that people are prone,
00:10:32.340 except in their more narcissistic moments,
00:10:35.340 maybe their more self-defensive moments,
00:10:37.340 and maybe if they actually are narcissists,
00:10:40.340 to truly believe that they're better than other people.
00:10:45.340 I, my experience has been that in many cases,
00:10:53.800 especially if you start to have relatively deep conversations with people,
00:10:58.800 the truth is actually the opposite,
00:11:01.800 that people are harder on themselves than they are on other people.
00:11:07.800 And, you know, that might be a biased sample on my part,
00:11:13.260 because, of course, I've been a clinical psychologist for a long time,
00:11:16.260 and people who come to see me have trouble,
00:11:20.260 but most people have trouble,
00:11:22.260 and even when I'm not being a clinical psychologist,
00:11:25.260 and I'm not just, I'm just talking to my family and my friends,
00:11:28.260 it generally turns out that they're, they also have trouble,
00:11:31.760 and that they're not prone, except for the more dislikable ones,
00:11:40.220 to presume that they are in somehow, in some real sense,
00:11:45.220 superior to other people.
00:11:48.220 I actually believe that people generally believe the opposite,
00:11:53.220 that they're, that other people are better in some significant senses than they are.
00:12:02.680 And the reason I believe that is because,
00:12:06.680 a reason I think people believe that is because,
00:12:09.680 well, when you know someone else,
00:12:12.680 first, you generally tend to know a fair bit of positive things about them,
00:12:18.060 because that's mostly what they show you.
00:12:21.560 They show you neutral and positive things.
00:12:24.300 This is actually one of the reasons why
00:12:26.460 it's not really very good for your mental health
00:12:29.620 to spend a lot of time on Facebook,
00:12:32.260 apart from the fact that perhaps there are other things that you could be doing
00:12:36.200 that would be more worthwhile.
00:12:38.100 There's also the fact that people tend to put
00:12:43.320 mostly positive descriptions of their life on Facebook.
00:12:48.320 And it's not that that's such a bad thing,
00:12:50.500 because it isn't necessarily like you would want to read an unending,
00:12:55.240 what would you call it, description of misery and wretchedness on Facebook.
00:13:00.560 And so, I don't think it's mere narcissism that propels people to do that.
00:13:05.240 You know, they're inclined, let's say, to share happier moments,
00:13:10.960 and maybe to take delight in them, and to want other people to take delight in them,
00:13:16.700 and also to want to remember them.
00:13:18.440 And maybe to duplicate them, because that's one of the advantages to remembering them.
00:13:23.440 But one of the downsides of that can be that you have your relatively wretched life that's not all
00:13:31.440 Mexican holidays and margaritas in the sun,
00:13:35.440 you go onto Facebook and see what your neighbors and friends are doing,
00:13:42.100 and it looks like a Coca-Cola ad, one continual Coca-Cola ad, you know,
00:13:48.180 minus the obesity that would actually come along with an actual chronic diet of Coca-Cola.
00:13:56.840 And so, I think, actually, that people are quite hard on themselves.
00:14:03.340 And, you know, this is one of the reasons that I believe that the presumption of innocence
00:14:07.540 that characterizes our legal system is such an absolute bloody miracle.
00:14:12.780 I cannot figure out how in the world that idea ever came about and developed universal acceptance.
00:14:21.320 It's so unlikely, you know, if you deal with people in a clinical setting and they're somewhat depressed,
00:14:28.940 which is not uncommon, and they've done something that they are guilty about,
00:14:34.560 independent of whether they've done something that they feel guilty about,
00:14:39.560 independent of whether they're actually guilty, they tend to take themselves apart.
00:14:45.860 Now, that's especially true if you happen to be high in trait neuroticism,
00:14:50.800 which is one of the big five traits,
00:14:53.120 extroversion, which is a positive emotion dimension,
00:14:56.500 neuroticism, a negative emotion dimension,
00:14:59.560 agreeableness, which is compassion and politeness,
00:15:02.720 conscientiousness, which is orderliness and industrious,
00:15:06.480 and openness, which is intellect and openness proper, something like creativity.
00:15:11.720 If you're higher than normal in neuroticism,
00:15:14.180 it's very easy to take yourself apart if you're feeling guilty about something that you've done.
00:15:20.240 And people, many people, will feel guilty about what they've done at the drop of a hat.
00:15:26.880 I mean, first of all, they accuse themselves of their own shortcomings,
00:15:31.360 and then if they are accused by someone else,
00:15:34.640 it's often very, very difficult for them to mount their own defense,
00:15:39.860 you know, to believe in their own innocence.
00:15:41.540 You know, because you'd think, well, you know, the police come to your door,
00:15:45.060 or a mob comes for you, let's say, on Twitter,
00:15:48.180 and you know, you're a stalwart sort of person,
00:15:50.800 and you pronounce your innocence,
00:15:53.980 and you know, you're a brick wall,
00:15:56.660 nothing gets through that,
00:15:58.220 and that's just not how it goes, man.
00:16:00.260 If the mob comes from you, for you on Twitter,
00:16:03.700 the probability that if you're a reasonably well-socialized person,
00:16:08.760 that you're going to be wondering what you did wrong,
00:16:12.720 and how you should apologize,
00:16:14.880 and what you should do to put yourself back in the good graces of the community,
00:16:19.480 is extraordinarily high.
00:16:21.900 You know, because, well, you probably have done some things wrong in your life,
00:16:25.720 and you probably are guilty about this and that,
00:16:28.360 and perhaps you didn't conduct yourself perfectly,
00:16:31.680 and so it's very difficult for you to mount your own defense,
00:16:36.820 to presume your own innocence,
00:16:38.900 and mount your own defense,
00:16:40.660 which, by the way, is why it's a very good reason to have a lawyer.
00:16:46.860 And one of the things I would say,
00:16:48.260 I'm dead serious about this,
00:16:49.820 I've worked with legal cases a lot,
00:16:52.080 and learned a lot about the limitations and lack thereof of police ability
00:16:58.360 to question you, for example.
00:17:01.080 And if you're ever accused of something serious,
00:17:06.820 then do not talk to the police until you have a lawyer,
00:17:13.520 because you will definitely get yourself in all sorts of trouble.
00:17:18.720 And so you might think,
00:17:19.620 well, if you're innocent, and the police will tell you this too,
00:17:22.040 then you have nothing to be afraid of.
00:17:23.920 Of course, that's complete bloody rubbish,
00:17:26.140 because you always have something to be afraid of,
00:17:29.140 and innocence and guilt are relative things,
00:17:32.120 and they're not that easy to determine.
00:17:34.200 So don't be so sure that you can defend yourself,
00:17:38.420 for reasons we'll go into,
00:17:40.440 but also don't be so sure that you don't need someone who's professional
00:17:44.540 to stand sort of outside of you,
00:17:47.300 and to look at you like an individual among other individuals,
00:17:51.000 and to adjudicate your relative guilt or innocence in that manner.
00:17:55.640 You know, in our legal system,
00:17:57.660 you're actually not required to be perfect,
00:18:00.880 and thank God for that.
00:18:02.100 What you're required to be is reasonable,
00:18:06.420 and like a reasonable,
00:18:08.480 and let's say somewhat normative human being.
00:18:11.000 You're not required to go above and beyond the duty
00:18:13.780 with regards to heroism, for example.
00:18:16.840 I was involved in a court case,
00:18:18.720 it was quite a terrible case,
00:18:20.440 where a woman was up on trial for murder,
00:18:23.140 and she happened to be in the wrong place
00:18:26.740 at the wrong time, shall we say.
00:18:29.380 She was in a motorhome in a junkyard
00:18:33.540 waiting for her boyfriend,
00:18:35.140 and she happened to walk out of the motorhome
00:18:38.620 just as a gang was killing an enemy,
00:18:44.340 I guess, an enemy gang member with rocks.
00:18:47.880 Very, very brutal.
00:18:49.420 And they stripped her naked
00:18:50.640 and told her that they would rape her
00:18:52.140 and that they would kill her child,
00:18:54.520 she had one child,
00:18:55.740 unless she participated in the murder.
00:18:58.700 And so she ended up dropping a rock
00:19:01.280 on the unfortunate gentleman's head,
00:19:05.320 although by all appearances,
00:19:07.180 he was well on the way to being dead at that point.
00:19:10.620 And at that point in Canada,
00:19:12.680 the law was,
00:19:14.100 there was no excuse for participating in homicide,
00:19:16.980 regardless of the,
00:19:19.080 what would you call,
00:19:20.400 ameliorating preconditions.
00:19:22.840 But they did decrease her culpability substantially
00:19:27.060 because they believed there was genuine reason
00:19:30.140 for her to believe that her life was threatened
00:19:32.920 and that she was going to be subjected to sexual assault
00:19:36.660 and that her child,
00:19:38.040 I don't think they did threaten her child,
00:19:39.800 but they did certainly threaten her child
00:19:41.860 with no longer having a mother.
00:19:44.840 So,
00:19:46.120 in any case,
00:19:48.380 we can get involved in very terrible things
00:19:50.760 and it's very difficult for us to defend ourselves.
00:19:54.180 You need a lawyer to do that.
00:19:56.320 And,
00:19:56.420 so that's a good piece of practical advice
00:19:58.920 and I would
00:19:59.600 strongly recommend
00:20:01.360 that you follow it
00:20:02.900 if you ever happen to find yourself in trouble.
00:20:05.000 It's also the case
00:20:06.880 if you find yourself in trouble
00:20:08.320 at work
00:20:09.560 or on social media,
00:20:13.060 you know,
00:20:13.480 it's hard to sit
00:20:15.020 and remind yourself
00:20:16.680 that you deserve
00:20:18.140 the benefit of the doubt
00:20:20.440 and then to try to make a coherent case for that.
00:20:23.880 One of the things I often did
00:20:25.360 for my clients
00:20:27.020 who were in trouble at work
00:20:30.160 for one reason or another
00:20:31.380 often because,
00:20:34.120 well,
00:20:34.480 for a variety of reasons.
00:20:35.520 Sometimes because
00:20:36.260 they hadn't done everything
00:20:37.820 they should have at work,
00:20:39.280 you know,
00:20:39.500 and so they carried
00:20:40.460 some burden of responsibility for that.
00:20:42.620 But sometimes because
00:20:43.600 there were people
00:20:44.240 who were genuinely,
00:20:45.840 malevolently predisposed towards them,
00:20:48.900 bullying them in terrible ways
00:20:50.440 and they just weren't good
00:20:52.860 at mounting their own defense
00:20:54.580 which was also one of the things,
00:20:56.380 by the way,
00:20:56.800 that made them prone
00:20:57.760 to being bullied.
00:20:58.740 And so we would work for hours
00:21:01.000 on at least hypothetically
00:21:03.460 outlining a story
00:21:05.800 that involved the possibility
00:21:08.640 that the person
00:21:10.880 who was being accused,
00:21:12.320 so that would be my client,
00:21:13.720 was actually innocent
00:21:14.920 of the charges,
00:21:16.700 you know,
00:21:17.080 and that's something
00:21:18.100 that's useful to do for yourself
00:21:19.720 if you ever run into trouble.
00:21:21.220 It's,
00:21:21.640 you don't have to believe
00:21:22.780 that you're innocent
00:21:23.600 to begin with,
00:21:24.800 but you could make
00:21:26.440 the strongest case possible
00:21:28.860 that you are,
00:21:30.240 right,
00:21:30.500 because everyone's entitled
00:21:31.520 to a strong defense
00:21:33.000 and then just see how that flies,
00:21:36.360 you know,
00:21:36.660 see if it's coherent.
00:21:38.500 I mean,
00:21:38.780 you could make the opposite case too
00:21:40.560 just so you know
00:21:41.300 what you might be in for
00:21:42.520 but,
00:21:43.420 you know,
00:21:43.900 we have an adversarial system
00:21:46.020 for a reason
00:21:47.000 and part of the reason is
00:21:48.320 is that
00:21:48.660 one of the easiest ways
00:21:50.140 to get at the truth
00:21:51.180 insofar as that's possible
00:21:52.920 and that's not an easy thing
00:21:54.440 is to attack,
00:21:56.620 you know,
00:21:57.060 with a certain degree
00:21:57.960 of intensity and viciousness
00:22:00.020 and defend
00:22:01.440 with a certain degree
00:22:02.840 of intractability
00:22:04.360 and coherence
00:22:07.240 and you need both of those
00:22:09.500 and so,
00:22:10.680 and another thing
00:22:11.700 I might mention
00:22:12.440 is that if you ever do
00:22:14.100 happen to
00:22:15.380 unfortunately
00:22:16.880 find yourself
00:22:18.000 in the middle
00:22:18.560 of a mob situation,
00:22:20.000 let's say
00:22:21.120 on social media
00:22:23.060 that one of the things
00:22:24.460 that you consider
00:22:25.340 deeply
00:22:26.000 is
00:22:26.580 not
00:22:27.620 apologizing
00:22:29.160 unless you are
00:22:30.800 certain
00:22:31.600 that you've done
00:22:32.700 something wrong
00:22:33.520 and even then
00:22:34.580 you should wait
00:22:35.320 a number of weeks
00:22:36.820 until the
00:22:37.880 noise
00:22:39.080 and pressure
00:22:40.280 on you
00:22:40.780 which you will
00:22:41.320 definitely feel
00:22:42.580 and deeply
00:22:43.800 until that dies down
00:22:45.740 because
00:22:46.460 there is always
00:22:47.420 the possibility
00:22:48.200 that
00:22:48.620 you know,
00:22:49.340 you've just been selected
00:22:50.580 for relatively
00:22:51.740 random reasons
00:22:52.720 and that
00:22:53.240 if you can just
00:22:54.280 withstand the pressure
00:22:55.960 that the mob
00:22:57.440 will run off
00:22:58.360 and torture someone else
00:23:00.220 not that it's good
00:23:01.540 that they're torturing
00:23:02.300 someone else
00:23:03.020 but at least
00:23:03.880 it's good
00:23:04.380 that they're going to
00:23:05.260 anyways
00:23:05.640 at least it's good
00:23:06.420 that it's not you
00:23:07.500 the other problem
00:23:09.700 with apologizing
00:23:10.700 is that
00:23:11.200 there isn't just
00:23:12.660 one mob
00:23:13.500 let's say
00:23:14.020 on Twitter
00:23:14.500 there's
00:23:14.880 a whole plethora
00:23:16.480 of different mobs
00:23:18.440 and
00:23:18.840 if you're mobbed
00:23:19.980 by one mob
00:23:20.940 and then you
00:23:21.840 apologize
00:23:22.440 all that happens
00:23:24.020 is that that's
00:23:24.800 instantly replaced
00:23:25.960 by another mob
00:23:27.480 that mobs you
00:23:29.080 because you apologized
00:23:30.280 and
00:23:30.800 the fact that
00:23:31.880 it's a different mob
00:23:32.940 is completely irrelevant
00:23:34.360 to you
00:23:34.940 because
00:23:35.300 like if you have
00:23:36.300 one set of neighbors
00:23:37.400 show up to your door
00:23:38.500 with pitchforks
00:23:39.540 and flames
00:23:40.580 and they go away
00:23:42.540 and another set
00:23:43.400 comes up
00:23:44.060 hundred with pitchforks
00:23:45.460 and flames
00:23:45.840 you don't really care
00:23:48.000 that it happens to be
00:23:48.980 two different sets
00:23:50.360 of a hundred people
00:23:51.420 what you really care about
00:23:52.820 is the pitchforks
00:23:54.020 and the flames
00:23:55.060 and so
00:23:56.160 that's a useful thing
00:23:57.460 to know
00:23:57.920 about Twitter
00:23:59.160 hold your
00:24:00.220 hold your damn ground
00:24:02.680 and don't apologize
00:24:04.120 too soon
00:24:05.060 because there's always
00:24:06.060 the possibility
00:24:06.860 that you are correct
00:24:08.000 and you deserve
00:24:09.200 a solid defense
00:24:11.080 now the question is
00:24:12.780 at least in part
00:24:14.140 why people aren't
00:24:16.000 very good
00:24:16.600 at mounting
00:24:17.700 a solid defense
00:24:18.900 for themselves
00:24:19.400 or indeed
00:24:20.600 at sticking up
00:24:21.960 for themselves
00:24:22.580 in general
00:24:23.340 and which is also
00:24:24.640 why again
00:24:25.320 I think that
00:24:25.940 the presumption
00:24:26.760 of innocence
00:24:27.280 built into our
00:24:28.320 legal system
00:24:29.300 is such a damn
00:24:30.460 miracle
00:24:31.320 because look
00:24:32.360 even from a
00:24:33.120 from a personal perspective
00:24:34.960 if you're accused
00:24:36.060 by a lot of people
00:24:37.100 it's very difficult
00:24:38.040 to assume
00:24:38.780 yourself
00:24:39.740 that you're innocent
00:24:40.520 so
00:24:41.220 if you're social
00:24:42.800 because you tend
00:24:43.580 to be prone
00:24:44.960 to the opinions
00:24:46.440 of other people
00:24:47.440 with regards
00:24:48.460 to your social
00:24:49.100 propriety
00:24:49.720 and that's actually
00:24:50.620 what makes you
00:24:51.320 not a psychopath
00:24:52.480 and so
00:24:53.900 the fact that
00:24:54.960 you're susceptible
00:24:56.240 to social pressure
00:24:57.440 indicating your guilt
00:24:58.600 is actually a testament
00:25:00.160 to your sociability
00:25:02.020 as a human being
00:25:03.140 even though
00:25:03.800 it can go wrong
00:25:04.780 and then
00:25:05.760 from a social perspective
00:25:07.420 especially
00:25:08.640 from the perspective
00:25:10.120 of an autocrat
00:25:11.260 it's like
00:25:12.060 well
00:25:12.360 you have a citizen
00:25:14.180 who's conducted
00:25:15.540 a crime
00:25:16.240 perhaps committed
00:25:17.180 a crime
00:25:17.740 and it's a hell
00:25:18.660 of a lot easier
00:25:19.340 well maybe you
00:25:20.220 committed a crime
00:25:21.020 it's like
00:25:21.460 well
00:25:21.760 Christ
00:25:22.820 there's a hundred
00:25:23.500 people more
00:25:24.120 where you came from
00:25:25.040 we might as well
00:25:25.920 just be done
00:25:27.260 with you
00:25:27.780 and if you happen
00:25:28.740 to be innocent
00:25:29.360 well
00:25:29.800 whatever
00:25:30.380 no one's
00:25:31.200 truly innocent
00:25:32.340 anyways
00:25:32.820 as we all know
00:25:33.720 especially in
00:25:34.500 autocratic
00:25:35.480 and totalitarian
00:25:36.360 societies
00:25:37.000 it's much easier
00:25:38.140 just to assume
00:25:39.020 that you're guilty
00:25:39.880 to punish you
00:25:41.200 as a consequence
00:25:41.960 and not to go through
00:25:42.940 all the trouble
00:25:43.520 of having to
00:25:44.120 dig through
00:25:45.160 all the evidence
00:25:46.400 to suggest
00:25:47.200 that on some
00:25:47.980 bloody off chance
00:25:49.340 you might be innocent
00:25:50.380 and so
00:25:51.480 I just don't
00:25:52.620 get at all
00:25:53.580 how we figured
00:25:55.000 that out
00:25:55.460 and how we've been
00:25:56.280 able to maintain it
00:25:57.280 and we should be
00:25:58.120 very very very
00:25:59.740 careful
00:26:00.160 that we don't lose it
00:26:01.160 because it is a kind
00:26:02.040 of miracle
00:26:02.560 it seems to me
00:26:03.660 to be a reflection
00:26:04.580 of the fundamental
00:26:06.060 idea that
00:26:07.100 sits at the bottom
00:26:08.240 of our culture
00:26:09.000 that each person
00:26:10.320 is in some sense
00:26:11.920 of divine worth
00:26:13.280 you know
00:26:13.720 I suppose that's
00:26:15.080 rooted in the old
00:26:16.140 because I believe
00:26:17.660 that our
00:26:18.080 cultural beliefs
00:26:19.560 and in fact
00:26:20.560 our cognitive structure
00:26:21.760 per se
00:26:22.440 the way that we look
00:26:23.300 at the world
00:26:23.800 is nested inside
00:26:25.480 of stories
00:26:26.380 inside of narratives
00:26:27.580 and one of the
00:26:28.900 oldest narratives
00:26:29.640 we have
00:26:30.180 is the one
00:26:30.660 in Genesis
00:26:31.880 and it's a
00:26:33.320 fundamental story
00:26:34.260 and it makes
00:26:35.420 the completely
00:26:36.540 unlikely
00:26:38.320 claim
00:26:39.680 that men and women
00:26:41.040 are both made
00:26:41.940 in the image of God
00:26:43.200 which is a hell
00:26:44.340 hell of a thing
00:26:45.140 for a primarily
00:26:46.100 patriarchal document
00:26:47.620 to posit
00:26:48.300 in its
00:26:50.300 equal
00:26:51.340 treatment
00:26:52.380 of the sexes
00:26:53.400 apart from the fact
00:26:54.540 that it's just
00:26:55.400 a completely
00:26:55.960 outrageous thing
00:26:57.080 to posit
00:26:57.700 period
00:26:58.460 but you know
00:26:59.840 there's something
00:27:00.440 unbelievably powerful
00:27:01.740 about it
00:27:02.260 because what it does
00:27:03.120 is make the suggestion
00:27:04.720 that there's an element
00:27:06.220 that characterizes
00:27:07.420 human individuality
00:27:10.040 human being
00:27:11.060 human consciousness
00:27:12.360 I would say
00:27:13.140 in particular
00:27:13.840 that
00:27:14.680 that has
00:27:16.360 transcendent value
00:27:17.800 that's
00:27:18.460 above
00:27:19.500 it has a value
00:27:21.160 even above
00:27:21.780 the value
00:27:22.280 you place on yourself
00:27:23.560 and certainly
00:27:24.780 above the value
00:27:25.680 that the state
00:27:26.980 is likely
00:27:27.720 to place
00:27:28.460 on you
00:27:29.480 and that as a consequence
00:27:30.940 yourself
00:27:32.020 you yourself
00:27:32.820 and the state
00:27:34.480 are under
00:27:35.420 a moral obligation
00:27:37.100 to treat yourself
00:27:38.800 as if you're
00:27:40.080 something of
00:27:40.880 transcendent value
00:27:42.760 and that's value
00:27:43.900 above
00:27:44.320 all other value
00:27:45.740 let's say
00:27:46.200 not in a selfish way
00:27:47.520 and not in a
00:27:48.820 self-serving manner
00:27:50.080 it has nothing to do
00:27:51.020 with that
00:27:51.440 it's more like
00:27:52.000 an observation
00:27:53.100 of a certain
00:27:53.940 kind of worth
00:27:54.560 I would say
00:27:55.420 it's the observation
00:27:56.640 of the kind of worth
00:27:57.980 that's made our
00:27:59.660 entire culture
00:28:00.560 decide
00:28:01.220 for reasons
00:28:02.360 that are all
00:28:02.960 so equally mysterious
00:28:04.200 that despite
00:28:05.560 all of our flaws
00:28:06.860 we have the
00:28:08.220 responsibility
00:28:09.020 to vote
00:28:10.520 because we have
00:28:11.540 the ability
00:28:12.500 to keep an eye
00:28:14.000 on the pathology
00:28:15.160 of our culture
00:28:16.040 and to speak
00:28:17.240 the words of truth
00:28:18.920 and to pay attention
00:28:19.940 properly
00:28:20.620 so that if we
00:28:21.820 and
00:28:22.380 and if we
00:28:24.480 do that
00:28:24.940 properly
00:28:25.460 then we can
00:28:26.360 keep our
00:28:26.780 society
00:28:27.520 functioning
00:28:28.680 in a proper
00:28:30.220 manner
00:28:30.680 you know
00:28:31.320 we believe
00:28:32.780 we act out
00:28:34.280 deeply in our
00:28:35.160 culture
00:28:35.580 the notion
00:28:36.460 that each
00:28:37.060 of us
00:28:37.560 regardless
00:28:38.660 of our
00:28:39.140 peculiarities
00:28:40.260 and our
00:28:41.600 undeniable
00:28:43.260 ignorance
00:28:43.820 and bias
00:28:44.560 and malevolence
00:28:45.700 for that matter
00:28:46.420 still
00:28:47.280 have that
00:28:48.300 ability
00:28:48.740 to see
00:28:49.700 clearly enough
00:28:50.680 so that
00:28:51.460 genuine
00:28:52.140 sovereignty
00:28:53.040 and authority
00:28:54.760 resides
00:28:55.680 in each
00:28:56.580 of us
00:28:57.100 regardless
00:28:57.740 even of our
00:28:58.460 socioeconomic status
00:28:59.760 or our
00:29:00.380 position in life
00:29:01.520 any of that
00:29:02.380 and that seems
00:29:03.620 to me to be
00:29:04.180 associated with
00:29:04.980 that idea
00:29:05.580 of something
00:29:06.580 of transcendent
00:29:07.720 value
00:29:08.180 that characterizes
00:29:09.440 every single
00:29:10.660 human being
00:29:11.440 and I would
00:29:12.180 also say
00:29:12.740 that we
00:29:13.420 treat each
00:29:14.360 other
00:29:14.740 that way
00:29:16.020 even if we
00:29:16.900 don't believe
00:29:17.860 those words
00:29:19.040 you know
00:29:19.420 because we're
00:29:20.000 atheistic
00:29:20.640 or for whatever
00:29:21.360 other reason
00:29:22.020 we're cynical
00:29:22.900 we certainly
00:29:23.780 treat each other
00:29:24.800 as if that's
00:29:26.160 the case
00:29:26.640 in a variety
00:29:27.580 of ways
00:29:28.200 number one
00:29:29.260 upbraiding
00:29:30.260 ourselves
00:29:30.880 continually
00:29:31.520 with guilt
00:29:32.180 and shame
00:29:32.760 if we don't
00:29:33.700 act up
00:29:34.460 to the potential
00:29:35.420 that we know
00:29:36.160 we have
00:29:37.020 and make use
00:29:37.880 of what's
00:29:38.660 in front of us
00:29:39.360 in the best
00:29:39.860 possible way
00:29:40.700 and also
00:29:41.980 by annoying
00:29:43.080 those around
00:29:44.140 us
00:29:44.460 our family
00:29:45.120 and friends
00:29:45.700 by not
00:29:46.740 treating them
00:29:47.480 as if they
00:29:48.080 are autonomous
00:29:48.920 moral agents
00:29:50.580 who are capable
00:29:51.460 of important
00:29:53.380 choices between
00:29:54.320 good and evil
00:29:55.040 and also able
00:29:56.420 to make a
00:29:57.180 genuine difference
00:29:58.320 in their
00:29:59.240 own personal
00:30:00.260 lives
00:30:00.660 and in the
00:30:01.360 lives of others
00:30:02.200 you know
00:30:02.800 when you're
00:30:03.880 dealing with
00:30:04.700 your own
00:30:05.060 children
00:30:05.480 you're always
00:30:07.000 upset
00:30:07.440 if you believe
00:30:08.460 that they have
00:30:09.060 failed
00:30:09.860 to undertake
00:30:11.100 what you know
00:30:12.460 that they're
00:30:13.060 capable of doing
00:30:14.340 and it's
00:30:15.800 an ache
00:30:16.740 in the soul
00:30:17.620 when you see
00:30:19.000 someone that you
00:30:19.880 love
00:30:20.380 fail to
00:30:21.760 manifest
00:30:22.640 what you know
00:30:23.780 they could
00:30:24.520 manifest
00:30:25.180 and even worse
00:30:26.580 if they turn
00:30:27.380 to the left
00:30:28.540 let's say
00:30:29.220 not
00:30:30.300 not politically
00:30:39.080 speaking
00:30:39.820 but speaking
00:30:40.940 in a more
00:30:41.780 archaic
00:30:42.380 manner
00:30:42.760 and they
00:30:43.900 degenerate
00:30:44.720 downhill
00:30:45.200 instead of
00:30:46.100 moving in the
00:30:47.120 uphill direction
00:30:48.020 that you hope
00:30:49.440 they might move
00:30:50.220 in and that you
00:30:50.960 know they could
00:30:52.160 move in
00:30:52.820 and so
00:30:53.760 these are reasons
00:30:55.280 I've argued with
00:30:56.380 people like Sam
00:30:57.320 Harris about
00:30:58.080 whether or not
00:30:58.680 each of us
00:30:59.660 is intrinsically
00:31:00.840 religious
00:31:03.300 regardless of
00:31:04.980 how we articulate
00:31:06.220 our beliefs
00:31:06.960 and I would say
00:31:08.000 the fact that we
00:31:08.900 act out these
00:31:10.160 principles
00:31:10.700 and that we
00:31:11.860 believe them
00:31:12.800 at least insofar
00:31:14.220 as we act them out
00:31:15.260 and also insofar
00:31:16.860 as they actually
00:31:17.620 work to keep our
00:31:18.780 relationships with
00:31:20.440 ourselves and with
00:31:21.380 our family members
00:31:22.320 and with society
00:31:23.560 highly functional
00:31:24.840 indicates that
00:31:26.000 there's something
00:31:26.660 to them
00:31:27.600 that's true
00:31:28.840 at least
00:31:29.520 in the manner
00:31:32.300 of exceptional
00:31:33.820 utility
00:31:34.660 which is a kind
00:31:35.860 of truth
00:31:36.420 and I think
00:31:37.540 all of that
00:31:38.080 is very much
00:31:39.480 worth thinking
00:31:40.120 about
00:31:40.440 I think the way
00:31:41.580 we code that
00:31:42.600 realization
00:31:43.140 is in these
00:31:44.040 deep stories
00:31:44.880 and that doesn't
00:31:45.740 really help
00:31:46.540 explain anything
00:31:48.160 because we don't
00:31:49.520 really understand
00:31:50.360 what it might
00:31:51.300 mean to be
00:31:52.020 let's say
00:31:52.620 each of us
00:31:53.320 made in the image
00:31:54.160 of God
00:31:54.760 but it's a good
00:31:56.160 starting point
00:31:57.400 and we can't
00:31:58.360 really get
00:31:58.960 underneath it
00:31:59.820 we can't go
00:32:00.400 any deeper
00:32:01.100 than that
00:32:01.600 we run out
00:32:02.580 of wisdom
00:32:04.680 at that point
00:32:06.300 and so
00:32:07.600 well rule two
00:32:09.800 is predicated
00:32:10.800 on the idea
00:32:11.540 that you should
00:32:12.500 treat yourself
00:32:13.280 like you're
00:32:13.780 someone responsible
00:32:14.800 for helping
00:32:15.600 and I started
00:32:16.640 that rule
00:32:17.260 with a bit
00:32:18.700 of a meditation
00:32:19.900 on something
00:32:21.080 I learned
00:32:21.840 decade ago
00:32:23.500 or maybe
00:32:23.900 15 years ago
00:32:24.860 when I was
00:32:25.200 working with
00:32:25.620 a colleague
00:32:26.100 of mine
00:32:26.620 we were
00:32:28.320 trying to
00:32:29.880 figure out
00:32:30.760 ways of
00:32:31.260 hiring better
00:32:32.300 employees
00:32:33.460 and one
00:32:34.460 of the
00:32:35.040 groups
00:32:35.960 that we
00:32:36.760 were
00:32:37.040 working with
00:32:38.420 where we
00:32:39.960 thought
00:32:40.280 there might
00:32:41.260 be a market
00:32:41.860 for such
00:32:43.180 an endeavor
00:32:43.700 was
00:32:44.680 pharmacists
00:32:45.860 because
00:32:46.320 pharmacists
00:32:47.680 make errors
00:32:48.520 like everyone
00:32:49.740 makes errors
00:32:50.480 I don't know
00:32:51.300 if you know
00:32:51.800 this
00:32:52.160 but you
00:32:52.820 should
00:32:53.420 medical error
00:32:56.540 is the third
00:32:57.520 or fourth
00:32:58.260 leading cause
00:32:59.360 of death
00:33:00.200 right
00:33:01.480 so it's
00:33:02.080 heart disease
00:33:02.900 cancer
00:33:03.700 traffic accidents
00:33:06.880 medical error
00:33:09.220 and so
00:33:10.660 and of
00:33:11.860 medical error
00:33:12.680 pharmaceutical error
00:33:14.420 is a
00:33:14.860 reasonable
00:33:15.620 subset
00:33:16.200 and it's
00:33:17.160 a genuine
00:33:18.340 catastrophe
00:33:18.980 I always advise
00:33:20.340 my clients
00:33:21.100 if they go see
00:33:21.920 a physician
00:33:22.520 especially for
00:33:23.300 anything important
00:33:24.040 they never go
00:33:25.160 alone
00:33:25.620 because you're
00:33:26.740 always rattled up
00:33:27.640 and muddle-headed
00:33:28.400 when you go see
00:33:29.100 a doctor
00:33:29.600 if there's actually
00:33:30.380 something hypothetically
00:33:31.520 wrong with you
00:33:32.380 and like you need
00:33:33.540 someone there
00:33:34.040 with a clear head
00:33:34.900 to remember
00:33:35.980 what was said
00:33:37.360 to ask the proper
00:33:38.820 questions
00:33:39.380 and to make sure
00:33:40.380 that nothing
00:33:41.320 that isn't important
00:33:42.580 has been left
00:33:43.540 uncovered
00:33:44.720 and I would say
00:33:45.840 the same thing
00:33:46.620 in a hospital
00:33:47.700 it's
00:33:48.160 you leave
00:33:49.260 your
00:33:49.980 the person
00:33:51.420 you care for
00:33:52.440 in a hospital
00:33:53.640 alone
00:33:54.340 at their peril
00:33:56.480 and it's not
00:33:57.840 because medical
00:33:58.660 people are
00:33:59.260 incompetent
00:34:00.160 although that
00:34:01.840 is part
00:34:02.460 although some
00:34:03.660 medical people
00:34:04.580 are incompetent
00:34:05.700 it's a reflection
00:34:07.460 of the fact
00:34:08.160 that human beings
00:34:09.600 are unbelievably
00:34:10.360 complicated
00:34:11.040 and there's
00:34:11.720 endless numbers
00:34:12.940 of things
00:34:13.580 that can go
00:34:14.180 wrong with us
00:34:15.080 and medical staff
00:34:16.680 are overstressed
00:34:17.720 and overworked
00:34:18.880 and they're also
00:34:19.880 a bit inured
00:34:20.880 to suffering
00:34:21.960 seeing it
00:34:22.840 all the time
00:34:23.900 and they probably
00:34:24.960 don't care about
00:34:26.040 the person you love
00:34:27.060 as much as you do
00:34:28.200 I mean how the hell
00:34:29.020 could they
00:34:29.540 and so
00:34:30.420 it's not such a bad
00:34:31.940 idea to have
00:34:32.860 someone there
00:34:33.440 to keep an eye
00:34:34.120 on what's going on
00:34:35.280 it's important
00:34:36.380 so
00:34:39.220 well
00:34:40.300 so there are
00:34:40.940 many many things
00:34:41.800 that can go
00:34:42.440 that can go wrong
00:34:43.640 with us
00:34:44.060 and
00:34:44.240 it's difficult
00:34:46.280 for us to treat
00:34:47.120 ourselves
00:34:47.600 properly
00:34:48.620 so
00:34:49.420 back to
00:34:50.320 pharmaceutical error
00:34:51.800 one of the things
00:34:53.840 we learned
00:34:54.600 while studying
00:34:55.880 this field
00:34:56.840 was
00:34:57.920 the types of errors
00:34:59.460 that were made
00:35:00.080 by pharmacists
00:35:01.100 and
00:35:01.300 it was generally
00:35:02.220 administering
00:35:03.620 the wrong prescription
00:35:04.520 and
00:35:05.080 for a variety
00:35:06.240 of reasons
00:35:06.820 physicians
00:35:07.640 don't necessarily
00:35:08.880 write in the most
00:35:10.380 legible manner
00:35:11.260 although you'd think
00:35:12.240 that they could
00:35:12.880 like
00:35:14.000 type
00:35:15.020 like
00:35:16.180 everyone else
00:35:17.640 types
00:35:18.220 and
00:35:19.180 and use
00:35:19.740 electronic means
00:35:20.760 of communication
00:35:21.560 but that really
00:35:22.300 hasn't happened
00:35:23.120 and
00:35:23.960 for reasons
00:35:24.960 that are not
00:35:25.580 clear
00:35:25.980 and
00:35:26.880 so it's easy
00:35:28.480 to misread
00:35:29.440 a
00:35:29.800 prescription
00:35:30.960 to give
00:35:32.080 the wrong
00:35:32.500 dose
00:35:33.040 to not
00:35:34.540 notice
00:35:35.060 what other
00:35:35.720 prescriptions
00:35:36.260 people are
00:35:36.880 taking
00:35:37.340 and
00:35:38.040 so to
00:35:38.820 prescribe a fatal
00:35:40.900 combination
00:35:41.580 something the pharmacist
00:35:42.860 is supposed to
00:35:43.600 at least
00:35:44.380 catch
00:35:45.020 and then there's
00:35:46.660 the problem
00:35:47.140 of similarity
00:35:48.160 between names
00:35:49.180 of different
00:35:49.820 prescription drugs
00:35:50.720 it actually turns out
00:35:51.700 that there's an entire
00:35:52.540 industry
00:35:53.360 devoted to
00:35:54.580 naming
00:35:55.140 prescription drugs
00:35:56.520 because
00:35:57.260 the
00:35:57.880 prescription
00:35:58.800 drug name
00:35:59.880 can't have
00:36:00.540 the same
00:36:01.040 name
00:36:01.360 as the
00:36:01.800 chemical
00:36:02.300 because the
00:36:03.560 prescription
00:36:04.140 only has a
00:36:05.620 copyright
00:36:06.140 so to speak
00:36:07.120 for a certain
00:36:07.920 amount of time
00:36:08.740 and so you can't
00:36:09.820 just steal
00:36:10.740 the chemical
00:36:11.360 name
00:36:11.880 and then
00:36:12.580 the prescription
00:36:13.440 name
00:36:13.900 can't sound like
00:36:15.300 any other
00:36:16.380 prescription name
00:36:17.660 and there's
00:36:18.380 lots of them
00:36:19.160 and it can't
00:36:19.980 look like any
00:36:20.960 other prescription
00:36:21.620 name when you
00:36:22.260 write it down
00:36:22.940 and that has to
00:36:23.860 be true for
00:36:24.500 multiple languages
00:36:25.560 and so that's
00:36:26.780 just completely
00:36:27.560 bloody impossible
00:36:28.540 and so
00:36:29.460 it costs
00:36:30.560 tens or even
00:36:31.720 hundreds of
00:36:32.360 thousands of
00:36:32.940 dollars to
00:36:33.740 have a new
00:36:34.220 prescription drug
00:36:35.060 named
00:36:35.520 just so you
00:36:36.480 don't fall
00:36:37.040 afoul of the
00:36:38.000 you know
00:36:38.540 ten thousand
00:36:39.440 regulations that
00:36:40.580 govern such
00:36:41.300 things
00:36:41.680 and that's just
00:36:42.600 a small fraction
00:36:43.480 of the reason
00:36:44.160 that you know
00:36:45.240 prescription errors
00:36:46.220 might be
00:36:46.780 might be
00:36:47.960 made
00:36:48.360 and we were
00:36:49.140 trying to
00:36:49.820 discover what
00:36:51.020 personal
00:36:51.800 characteristics of
00:36:53.200 pharmacists
00:36:54.520 might lead
00:36:55.360 them to
00:36:56.080 make more
00:36:57.520 errors than
00:36:58.260 usual
00:36:58.720 and assessing
00:36:59.880 their competence
00:37:01.080 cognitively
00:37:02.040 and from a
00:37:02.620 personality
00:37:03.100 perspective
00:37:03.800 in an attempt
00:37:04.780 to assess
00:37:06.500 their propensity
00:37:08.540 for error
00:37:09.200 anyways it was
00:37:10.280 kind of an
00:37:10.700 interesting
00:37:11.220 side foray
00:37:12.840 into an
00:37:13.600 area of
00:37:14.460 psychology
00:37:15.460 and medicine
00:37:16.500 that I really
00:37:17.240 had no
00:37:18.120 familiarity with
00:37:19.080 and I learned
00:37:19.580 a lot of
00:37:20.020 things
00:37:20.400 and I learned
00:37:21.640 one of the
00:37:22.600 things I learned
00:37:23.360 was that
00:37:23.960 it was actually
00:37:26.320 really hard
00:37:26.940 to get people
00:37:28.080 to take their
00:37:28.700 prescription
00:37:29.180 medication
00:37:29.940 and so
00:37:31.980 the general
00:37:32.720 rule is
00:37:33.540 I mean I
00:37:34.220 kind of knew
00:37:34.760 this eh
00:37:35.240 because I'd
00:37:36.340 worked with
00:37:36.760 my clinical
00:37:37.260 clients and
00:37:37.880 although I'm a
00:37:38.460 psychologist and
00:37:39.320 so can't
00:37:39.880 prescribe
00:37:40.280 I would
00:37:41.220 encourage
00:37:41.860 people who
00:37:43.060 were depressed
00:37:43.600 and anxious
00:37:44.480 sometimes
00:37:45.100 or who had
00:37:45.620 obsessive compulsive
00:37:46.580 disorder
00:37:47.140 schizophrenia
00:37:47.680 to have a
00:37:48.840 serious conversation
00:37:49.800 with their
00:37:50.760 physician
00:37:51.380 or their
00:37:52.120 psychiatrist
00:37:52.780 if they could
00:37:53.480 find one
00:37:54.080 about the
00:37:54.800 possibility of
00:37:55.580 trying
00:37:56.080 various forms
00:37:58.380 of psychoactive
00:37:59.200 medication
00:37:59.880 on the off
00:38:00.880 chance that
00:38:01.620 that would
00:38:02.040 make their
00:38:02.500 problem much
00:38:03.300 less serious
00:38:04.100 than it might
00:38:04.720 otherwise be
00:38:05.500 and I would
00:38:06.220 very much
00:38:06.700 recommend
00:38:07.240 if any of
00:38:08.200 you are
00:38:08.520 suffering from
00:38:09.380 manic depressive
00:38:10.560 disorder
00:38:11.200 or serious
00:38:11.960 depression
00:38:12.500 or serious
00:38:13.740 anxiety
00:38:14.360 it doesn't
00:38:14.940 have to
00:38:15.240 be that
00:38:15.580 serious
00:38:16.020 it just
00:38:16.400 has to
00:38:16.740 be
00:38:16.920 compromising
00:38:17.580 your
00:38:17.800 life
00:38:18.140 certainly
00:38:18.980 schizophrenia
00:38:19.720 that
00:38:20.860 you
00:38:21.700 that you
00:38:23.480 seriously
00:38:25.060 consider
00:38:26.000 attempting
00:38:27.140 experimenting
00:38:28.560 with some
00:38:29.600 of the
00:38:29.940 psychoactive
00:38:30.640 substances
00:38:31.440 drugs
00:38:32.320 that have
00:38:32.880 been used
00:38:33.360 to treat
00:38:33.920 these disorders
00:38:34.680 because
00:38:35.200 sometimes
00:38:36.240 you can
00:38:36.940 be
00:38:37.520 unbelievably
00:38:38.500 fortunate
00:38:39.160 and you'll
00:38:40.020 take something
00:38:40.640 like an
00:38:41.060 antidepressant
00:38:41.940 for a
00:38:42.500 month
00:38:42.780 and
00:38:43.360 then
00:38:44.120 you won't
00:38:44.920 be
00:38:45.180 depressed
00:38:45.960 anymore
00:38:46.720 and that's
00:38:47.920 a great
00:38:48.560 benefit to
00:38:49.380 you and
00:38:49.800 your family
00:38:50.440 and likely
00:38:52.260 a benefit
00:38:52.840 as well
00:38:53.300 that will
00:38:53.660 extend your
00:38:54.320 life
00:38:54.700 and certainly
00:38:55.200 your quality
00:38:55.780 of life
00:38:56.180 substantially
00:38:56.840 so
00:38:57.820 but I did
00:38:59.280 know that
00:38:59.820 you know
00:39:00.680 you hear
00:39:01.100 well everybody
00:39:01.660 is taking
00:39:02.260 antidepressants
00:39:03.340 and everybody
00:39:04.180 overuses
00:39:05.220 prescription
00:39:05.880 medication
00:39:06.600 and it's
00:39:07.680 as if
00:39:08.080 you have
00:39:08.840 this idea
00:39:09.500 that there
00:39:09.940 are people
00:39:10.380 lined up
00:39:11.280 at the
00:39:11.700 physician's
00:39:12.300 office
00:39:12.700 begging
00:39:13.600 on their
00:39:14.200 knees
00:39:14.700 to be
00:39:15.340 given
00:39:15.580 antidepressants
00:39:16.620 or anti-anxiety
00:39:17.720 agents
00:39:18.180 and like
00:39:18.840 that's just
00:39:19.520 I don't know
00:39:20.280 if I've ever
00:39:20.780 had a single
00:39:21.500 person ever
00:39:22.420 come to me
00:39:23.500 and ask me
00:39:25.160 if I thought
00:39:26.440 that
00:39:26.780 ask me
00:39:29.340 immediately
00:39:29.920 if I would
00:39:31.260 write a letter
00:39:32.620 to a physician
00:39:33.440 suggesting that
00:39:34.560 a trial of an
00:39:35.420 antidepressant
00:39:36.240 would be a good
00:39:36.840 idea
00:39:37.220 most of the time
00:39:38.280 people fight
00:39:38.980 that idea
00:39:39.620 just bloody
00:39:40.300 tooth and
00:39:40.980 nail
00:39:41.300 because
00:39:41.660 I mean
00:39:42.520 who wants
00:39:43.540 to think
00:39:44.060 that they're
00:39:44.420 no longer
00:39:44.940 in control
00:39:45.680 of their mood
00:39:46.640 right
00:39:46.920 something so
00:39:47.780 integral to
00:39:49.140 their own
00:39:49.940 personality
00:39:50.600 it's humiliating
00:39:52.240 to have to
00:39:53.560 admit to
00:39:54.020 yourself
00:39:54.380 that you've
00:39:54.940 lost control
00:39:56.220 let's say
00:39:57.080 or had control
00:39:58.180 wrested away
00:39:59.060 from you
00:39:59.500 for something
00:40:00.560 that's so
00:40:01.320 integral to
00:40:02.500 your own
00:40:02.920 sense of
00:40:03.500 being
00:40:03.900 and so
00:40:04.260 people are
00:40:04.680 often extraordinarily
00:40:05.700 resistant
00:40:06.360 to the idea
00:40:07.040 of trying
00:40:08.040 an antidepressant
00:40:09.320 even for a
00:40:09.860 short period
00:40:10.360 of time
00:40:10.700 and then
00:40:11.180 even when
00:40:11.560 they do
00:40:12.040 try it
00:40:12.640 and it
00:40:13.140 works
00:40:13.620 they're
00:40:14.140 unbelievably
00:40:14.820 likely to
00:40:15.780 stop trying
00:40:16.760 it in like
00:40:17.280 two months
00:40:17.860 when they
00:40:18.180 start feeling
00:40:18.840 better
00:40:19.180 and I
00:40:19.660 understand
00:40:20.020 that
00:40:20.420 they think
00:40:20.740 well now
00:40:21.080 I'm feeling
00:40:21.460 better
00:40:21.760 maybe I
00:40:22.160 don't need
00:40:22.560 this drug
00:40:23.160 and this
00:40:23.720 happens with
00:40:24.240 schizophrenic
00:40:24.860 people all
00:40:25.380 the time
00:40:25.800 they stop
00:40:26.560 taking their
00:40:27.060 medication
00:40:27.600 and usually
00:40:28.580 that's a
00:40:29.360 really
00:40:30.160 really
00:40:31.000 really
00:40:31.700 bad idea
00:40:32.740 like
00:40:33.280 not always
00:40:34.520 because
00:40:34.940 nothing is
00:40:35.980 always
00:40:36.600 a bad
00:40:37.160 idea
00:40:37.580 well
00:40:38.060 there are
00:40:38.640 probably
00:40:38.940 some
00:40:39.260 things
00:40:39.560 that
00:40:39.740 are
00:40:39.940 but
00:40:40.180 that's
00:40:42.340 not
00:40:42.520 one
00:40:42.780 of
00:40:42.900 them
00:40:43.040 and
00:40:43.140 no one
00:40:44.680 wants
00:40:44.980 to be
00:40:45.300 dependent
00:40:45.720 on the
00:40:46.200 damn
00:40:46.520 drug
00:40:46.960 and
00:40:47.720 so
00:40:48.220 people
00:40:48.540 experiment
00:40:49.160 and often
00:40:49.880 to their
00:40:50.320 detriment
00:40:50.780 but anyways
00:40:51.680 people
00:40:52.120 are loath
00:40:53.520 to take
00:40:54.240 prescription
00:40:55.020 medication
00:40:55.620 and it's
00:40:56.020 quite
00:40:56.340 a struggle
00:41:00.440 to get
00:41:01.160 them to do
00:41:01.840 it
00:41:02.020 properly
00:41:02.700 you have
00:41:04.040 to explain
00:41:04.720 to them
00:41:05.560 what the
00:41:06.540 drug does
00:41:07.120 you have
00:41:07.420 to explain
00:41:07.960 its side
00:41:08.740 effects
00:41:09.240 because
00:41:09.660 drugs don't
00:41:11.320 just have
00:41:11.700 one effect
00:41:12.260 they have
00:41:12.560 multitude
00:41:12.900 effects
00:41:13.500 and we
00:41:14.080 just call
00:41:14.540 the effects
00:41:15.020 we don't
00:41:15.460 like
00:41:15.740 side effects
00:41:16.580 and we
00:41:17.220 call the
00:41:17.600 effects
00:41:17.920 we like
00:41:18.460 the effect
00:41:19.180 the drug
00:41:19.580 is supposed
00:41:19.980 to have
00:41:20.400 but they're
00:41:20.740 all effects
00:41:21.540 and if you
00:41:22.400 take an
00:41:22.760 antidepressant
00:41:23.520 for example
00:41:24.100 it might
00:41:24.900 really make
00:41:25.840 you tired
00:41:26.480 for five
00:41:27.300 days
00:41:27.800 and that's
00:41:28.720 often enough
00:41:29.340 to have
00:41:29.720 people just
00:41:30.220 stop taking
00:41:31.260 it completely
00:41:32.000 but it
00:41:32.620 actually turns
00:41:33.260 out that
00:41:33.580 there's a
00:41:33.900 positive relationship
00:41:34.960 between initial
00:41:36.220 side effects
00:41:37.120 like fatigue
00:41:38.320 and the
00:41:39.320 long-term
00:41:40.220 positive benefits
00:41:41.940 of an antidepressant
00:41:43.120 because if you
00:41:43.880 happen to be
00:41:44.460 susceptible to
00:41:45.300 that side effect
00:41:46.740 it actually
00:41:47.340 shows that you're
00:41:48.340 susceptible to
00:41:49.120 the drug
00:41:49.620 and generally
00:41:50.480 the fatigue
00:41:51.260 recedes after
00:41:52.780 five days
00:41:53.560 to a week
00:41:54.200 it's actually
00:41:55.020 more like
00:41:55.580 deep relaxation
00:41:56.480 which if you
00:41:57.740 were depressed
00:41:58.420 you probably
00:41:59.100 hadn't experienced
00:42:00.260 for ten years
00:42:01.320 and now
00:42:02.280 have confused
00:42:03.260 with some
00:42:03.780 form of
00:42:04.480 pathology
00:42:05.340 because you
00:42:06.000 can actually
00:42:06.460 just lay there
00:42:07.180 and relax
00:42:07.960 for a while
00:42:08.700 and that means
00:42:09.660 there's got to
00:42:10.300 be something
00:42:10.780 wrong with you
00:42:11.720 and so
00:42:12.840 but in any
00:42:15.420 case
00:42:15.740 generally speaking
00:42:17.020 it's apart
00:42:18.100 from the
00:42:18.680 psychiatric
00:42:19.220 situation
00:42:20.240 the psychological
00:42:21.080 situation
00:42:21.820 the situation
00:42:23.340 with prescription
00:42:24.020 drugs is even
00:42:24.820 more interesting
00:42:26.260 because if you
00:42:27.660 go to a
00:42:28.880 physician
00:42:29.280 and he
00:42:29.980 or she
00:42:31.000 prescribes
00:42:32.700 to you
00:42:33.140 a medication
00:42:34.020 there's a
00:42:36.600 one third
00:42:37.020 chance that
00:42:37.600 you won't
00:42:37.900 even fill
00:42:38.420 the prescription
00:42:39.140 and then
00:42:40.480 if you do
00:42:41.180 fill the
00:42:41.700 prescription
00:42:42.140 there's a
00:42:43.340 50% chance
00:42:44.840 that you
00:42:45.560 won't take
00:42:46.200 the drug
00:42:46.920 or if you
00:42:47.900 do you'll
00:42:48.300 take it
00:42:48.640 improperly
00:42:49.380 you know
00:42:49.660 you won't
00:42:50.020 take it
00:42:50.860 at the right
00:42:51.340 time
00:42:51.740 or you won't
00:42:52.200 take it
00:42:52.640 at the right
00:42:53.440 dose
00:42:53.900 or you'll
00:42:54.760 just take it
00:42:55.600 a little bit
00:42:56.160 and then
00:42:56.460 stop
00:42:57.000 anyways
00:42:57.600 in any
00:42:58.120 case
00:42:58.360 you'll
00:42:58.880 do it
00:42:59.280 wrong
00:43:00.180 and this
00:43:01.380 is true
00:43:01.760 even for
00:43:02.200 serious
00:43:02.620 disorders
00:43:03.080 and for
00:43:03.700 example
00:43:04.060 there's
00:43:04.640 evidence
00:43:05.020 that
00:43:05.260 like let's
00:43:05.900 say you
00:43:06.160 need a
00:43:06.500 kidney
00:43:06.760 transplant
00:43:07.380 and Jesus
00:43:08.300 you know
00:43:08.660 I wouldn't
00:43:09.020 recommend
00:43:09.420 that
00:43:09.960 because
00:43:10.620 if you
00:43:11.640 need a
00:43:11.940 kidney
00:43:12.140 transplant
00:43:12.600 it means
00:43:13.000 you don't
00:43:13.500 have any
00:43:13.920 kidneys
00:43:14.280 right
00:43:14.700 because if
00:43:15.160 you have
00:43:15.400 one
00:43:15.700 you can
00:43:16.040 still
00:43:16.320 function
00:43:16.820 and if
00:43:17.560 you have
00:43:17.800 none
00:43:18.160 then you
00:43:18.520 have to
00:43:18.780 be hooked
00:43:19.080 to a
00:43:19.380 dialysis
00:43:19.940 machine
00:43:20.400 for like
00:43:20.800 eight hours
00:43:21.300 a day
00:43:21.700 and that's
00:43:22.840 you know
00:43:23.500 that's
00:43:24.040 that's
00:43:24.840 that interferes
00:43:26.820 with your
00:43:27.220 life
00:43:27.660 and it's
00:43:28.400 it's
00:43:29.040 complicated
00:43:29.700 and
00:43:30.580 intrusive
00:43:31.440 and
00:43:31.900 and
00:43:32.440 and
00:43:35.180 and mortally
00:43:35.900 dangerous
00:43:36.420 and so
00:43:36.980 you get on
00:43:38.120 a kidney
00:43:38.480 transplant
00:43:38.980 list
00:43:39.440 and a
00:43:39.740 kidney
00:43:39.980 shows up
00:43:41.280 you think
00:43:41.600 man
00:43:41.880 that's
00:43:42.160 a good
00:43:42.400 day
00:43:42.780 you go
00:43:43.640 have your
00:43:44.160 kidney
00:43:44.460 and then
00:43:44.880 a substantial
00:43:46.300 number of
00:43:46.840 people reject
00:43:47.720 their kidney
00:43:48.480 after a
00:43:49.580 year
00:43:49.900 and the
00:43:51.060 reason is
00:43:51.560 they don't
00:43:51.920 take their
00:43:52.340 anti-rejection
00:43:53.240 medication
00:43:53.840 and you'd
00:43:54.940 think
00:43:55.160 god
00:43:56.020 you know
00:43:56.400 you don't
00:43:58.060 have any
00:43:58.520 kidneys
00:43:58.880 then you're
00:43:59.560 on bloody
00:44:00.180 dialysis
00:44:00.880 which is
00:44:01.440 just a
00:44:01.960 nightmare
00:44:02.740 although it
00:44:03.540 beats dying
00:44:04.320 and then
00:44:05.400 and then you
00:44:06.160 have a kidney
00:44:06.700 transplant
00:44:07.260 which is
00:44:07.760 highly improbable
00:44:08.880 after being
00:44:09.460 on a waiting
00:44:09.900 list for a
00:44:10.480 very long
00:44:11.040 period of
00:44:11.500 time
00:44:11.780 and all
00:44:12.560 you have
00:44:12.880 to do
00:44:13.120 is take
00:44:13.520 your damn
00:44:14.080 anti-rejection
00:44:15.040 medication
00:44:15.580 which has
00:44:16.720 side effects
00:44:17.340 as well
00:44:17.820 by the way
00:44:18.360 and then
00:44:19.360 you won't
00:44:19.980 reject your
00:44:20.860 new kidney
00:44:21.600 and you
00:44:22.700 know
00:44:22.820 you won't
00:44:23.320 die
00:44:23.820 or go
00:44:24.200 back
00:44:24.500 on dialysis
00:44:25.320 and you
00:44:26.160 know
00:44:26.320 you're
00:44:26.660 less likely
00:44:27.200 to get
00:44:27.520 a second
00:44:28.000 kidney
00:44:28.380 if you've
00:44:29.440 rejected
00:44:30.080 the first
00:44:30.680 one
00:44:30.920 because you
00:44:31.380 didn't comply
00:44:32.040 with your
00:44:32.460 medication
00:44:32.980 regime
00:44:33.480 and you
00:44:33.760 think
00:44:33.980 what's up
00:44:35.660 with these
00:44:36.140 people
00:44:36.520 like what
00:44:37.020 the hell
00:44:37.700 that's all
00:44:38.360 of us
00:44:38.640 what's
00:44:40.160 going on
00:44:40.880 well
00:44:41.160 why don't
00:44:41.980 you take
00:44:42.500 your damn
00:44:43.260 medication
00:44:44.020 and you
00:44:44.900 think
00:44:45.140 well
00:44:45.540 you know
00:44:46.080 well
00:44:46.480 I don't
00:44:46.780 like
00:44:47.080 pills
00:44:47.760 which is a
00:44:48.520 pretty bloody
00:44:49.260 simple minded
00:44:50.360 argument
00:44:50.780 because just
00:44:51.860 because it's
00:44:52.580 round
00:44:53.260 and in a jar
00:44:54.840 does not mean
00:44:55.980 that it's the
00:44:56.620 same thing
00:44:58.080 right
00:44:58.800 I mean
00:44:59.500 there's no such
00:45:00.460 thing as
00:45:00.900 pills
00:45:02.120 there's a variety
00:45:03.720 of different
00:45:04.480 chemicals
00:45:04.940 and they're
00:45:05.480 very very
00:45:06.460 different
00:45:06.940 and the fact
00:45:08.100 that they all
00:45:08.480 happen to look
00:45:09.280 the same
00:45:09.860 is not
00:45:10.340 much of a
00:45:11.420 excuse for
00:45:13.040 lumping them
00:45:13.780 together into
00:45:14.540 the simple
00:45:15.220 category of
00:45:16.080 things you
00:45:16.820 don't want
00:45:17.320 to put
00:45:17.620 in your
00:45:17.960 mouth
00:45:18.420 but
00:45:20.700 but
00:45:21.620 you know
00:45:22.300 people can
00:45:22.840 take too
00:45:23.280 many pills
00:45:23.940 that's pill
00:45:24.660 load
00:45:25.020 and so
00:45:25.340 they're not
00:45:25.660 very happy
00:45:26.200 about that
00:45:26.860 because that
00:45:27.380 can become
00:45:27.840 onerous
00:45:28.320 and complex
00:45:29.000 and maybe
00:45:29.720 they don't
00:45:30.080 trust their
00:45:30.760 physician
00:45:31.240 because they
00:45:32.120 haven't been
00:45:32.580 listened to
00:45:33.200 or they haven't
00:45:33.700 been fully
00:45:34.180 informed
00:45:34.720 and they
00:45:35.260 don't trust
00:45:35.700 pharmaceutical
00:45:36.300 companies
00:45:36.960 and you
00:45:38.080 know
00:45:38.180 they're
00:45:38.400 irritated
00:45:38.860 at the
00:45:39.600 world
00:45:39.900 and at
00:45:40.260 God
00:45:40.620 for putting
00:45:41.160 them in
00:45:41.480 this position
00:45:42.080 where
00:45:42.420 they have
00:45:43.200 some
00:45:43.680 insufficiency
00:45:44.800 that now
00:45:45.380 has to be
00:45:45.960 dealt with
00:45:46.420 at a medical
00:45:47.000 level
00:45:47.440 and maybe
00:45:48.900 they're testing
00:45:49.560 other people
00:45:50.240 too
00:45:50.500 it's like
00:45:50.940 well
00:45:51.240 do I really
00:45:53.240 need to take
00:45:53.880 this
00:45:54.280 like do people
00:45:55.160 really care
00:45:55.700 that much
00:45:56.180 if I'm around
00:45:56.900 and you think
00:45:57.940 well people
00:45:58.520 won't play
00:45:59.080 a game
00:45:59.440 like that
00:45:59.820 but they
00:46:00.140 certainly
00:46:00.500 will
00:46:01.000 because we
00:46:01.860 wonder
00:46:02.240 you know
00:46:02.640 how important
00:46:03.340 we are
00:46:03.740 to each
00:46:04.220 other
00:46:04.420 and we're
00:46:05.020 always testing
00:46:05.720 each other
00:46:06.180 to find out
00:46:06.880 and we test
00:46:07.720 in pretty
00:46:08.100 damn harsh
00:46:08.840 ways
00:46:09.360 to find out
00:46:10.280 if we're
00:46:10.600 important
00:46:11.040 and you know
00:46:11.900 I've dealt
00:46:13.080 with people
00:46:13.640 who had to
00:46:14.140 have absolute
00:46:14.680 bloody wars
00:46:15.640 with their family
00:46:16.500 before they
00:46:17.020 would take
00:46:17.440 their
00:46:17.740 let's say
00:46:18.440 antidepressant
00:46:19.340 medication
00:46:19.960 or stop
00:46:21.140 drinking
00:46:21.660 you know
00:46:22.020 like literal
00:46:22.880 like
00:46:23.320 well not
00:46:24.080 literal wars
00:46:25.020 they weren't
00:46:25.320 using tanks
00:46:26.420 you know
00:46:26.880 but
00:46:27.440 but
00:46:28.080 but
00:46:28.480 like
00:46:28.960 like
00:46:29.860 drag
00:46:30.920 down
00:46:31.740 knock
00:46:32.300 them out
00:46:32.740 six month
00:46:33.900 horrible
00:46:34.780 familial
00:46:36.460 arguments
00:46:37.600 about whether
00:46:38.340 or not
00:46:38.720 person A
00:46:39.440 was going to
00:46:39.940 take their
00:46:40.460 damn pills
00:46:41.560 or stop
00:46:42.560 their addictive
00:46:43.320 processes
00:46:43.960 or stop
00:46:44.520 their drinking
00:46:45.020 whatsoever
00:46:45.520 and it was
00:46:46.000 partly
00:46:46.440 at least
00:46:47.260 partly
00:46:47.700 because the
00:46:48.300 person who
00:46:48.760 was affected
00:46:49.440 really needed
00:46:51.640 to know
00:46:52.040 at a fundamental
00:46:52.640 level
00:46:53.260 that other
00:46:53.980 people
00:46:54.320 actually cared
00:46:55.780 enough about
00:46:56.720 their continued
00:46:57.460 existence
00:46:58.000 and health
00:46:58.720 difficult to
00:46:59.780 maintain
00:47:00.200 as it is
00:47:00.860 to actually
00:47:01.700 go to war
00:47:02.480 about it
00:47:02.920 a little bit
00:47:03.540 and it's
00:47:04.280 very frequently
00:47:05.020 the case
00:47:05.600 that if you
00:47:06.100 want to
00:47:06.420 convince someone
00:47:07.280 that doing
00:47:09.060 something in
00:47:09.740 their best
00:47:10.220 interest
00:47:10.600 is important
00:47:11.620 that merely
00:47:12.920 mentioning
00:47:13.660 to them
00:47:14.920 that it's
00:47:15.560 in their
00:47:15.920 best interest
00:47:16.820 isn't sufficient
00:47:18.140 any more than
00:47:19.180 if you have
00:47:20.040 a bad habit
00:47:20.820 mentioning to
00:47:21.920 yourself
00:47:22.400 that it would
00:47:22.880 be you know
00:47:23.700 in your best
00:47:24.600 interest
00:47:25.020 if you stop
00:47:25.900 doing it
00:47:26.400 will actually
00:47:27.260 have you
00:47:28.160 stop doing
00:47:28.960 it
00:47:29.200 which it
00:47:29.720 won't
00:47:30.260 under most
00:47:31.140 circumstances
00:47:31.880 so we're
00:47:32.640 very stubborn
00:47:33.320 creatures
00:47:33.880 and so
00:47:34.920 but
00:47:35.800 there's a
00:47:36.440 twist in
00:47:38.260 this
00:47:38.540 and the
00:47:38.820 twist is
00:47:39.460 this is
00:47:40.380 kind of
00:47:40.820 an incomprehensible
00:47:41.760 twist
00:47:42.220 let's say
00:47:43.120 you have
00:47:43.380 a dog
00:47:44.120 and you
00:47:45.600 like your
00:47:46.120 dog
00:47:46.500 which is
00:47:47.080 fairly common
00:47:47.820 most people
00:47:48.640 like their
00:47:49.080 dogs
00:47:49.460 and it's
00:47:50.980 not that
00:47:51.660 surprising
00:47:52.140 because
00:47:52.460 you know
00:47:53.080 when you
00:47:53.480 come home
00:47:54.040 your dog
00:47:55.360 is
00:47:56.460 almost always
00:47:57.980 happy to
00:47:58.500 see you
00:47:59.080 unlike your
00:48:00.280 wife and
00:48:00.760 your children
00:48:01.260 perhaps
00:48:01.900 perhaps not
00:48:03.900 but it's
00:48:04.280 certainly
00:48:04.560 your dog
00:48:05.160 that comes
00:48:05.660 bounding
00:48:06.300 to the
00:48:06.660 door
00:48:06.980 like
00:48:07.860 kind of
00:48:09.440 insanely
00:48:10.180 and
00:48:10.540 pathetically
00:48:11.160 happy
00:48:11.680 in that
00:48:12.400 way
00:48:12.620 that
00:48:12.880 only
00:48:13.440 dogs
00:48:13.900 can
00:48:14.160 manage
00:48:14.680 and
00:48:15.460 and
00:48:16.020 a
00:48:16.220 slightly
00:48:16.640 contemptuous
00:48:17.780 contemptible
00:48:18.920 manner
00:48:19.300 because
00:48:19.680 part of you
00:48:20.500 thinks
00:48:20.840 you know
00:48:21.200 really
00:48:22.160 you're that
00:48:22.620 happy
00:48:22.920 to see
00:48:23.360 me
00:48:23.700 it's
00:48:24.000 like
00:48:24.220 I don't
00:48:24.660 know
00:48:24.780 what
00:48:25.080 it is
00:48:25.380 about
00:48:25.580 your
00:48:25.800 taste
00:48:26.300 but
00:48:26.520 anyhow
00:48:27.100 you know
00:48:27.860 you're
00:48:28.080 willing
00:48:28.300 to forgive
00:48:28.840 the dog
00:48:29.300 for that
00:48:29.680 and you
00:48:29.940 you pet
00:48:30.420 him
00:48:30.540 and you
00:48:30.720 have a
00:48:31.000 little
00:48:31.120 wrestle
00:48:31.520 and you
00:48:32.120 know
00:48:32.240 you're
00:48:32.540 happy
00:48:32.780 to have
00:48:33.140 him
00:48:33.280 home
00:48:33.540 and so
00:48:34.160 you like
00:48:34.520 your dog
00:48:35.000 and your dog
00:48:36.020 likes you
00:48:36.640 and that's a good
00:48:37.680 deal
00:48:38.020 and then
00:48:38.840 your dog
00:48:39.540 gets sick
00:48:40.280 and you take
00:48:41.780 your dog
00:48:42.120 to the vet
00:48:42.680 which you do
00:48:43.700 generally speaking
00:48:44.840 and the vet
00:48:46.020 gives you a
00:48:46.840 prescription
00:48:47.300 for your dog
00:48:48.900 and you go to
00:48:50.100 the vet
00:48:51.060 pharmacist
00:48:52.060 and you get
00:48:53.080 the damn
00:48:53.820 prescription
00:48:54.540 almost a hundred
00:48:55.820 percent of the
00:48:56.540 time
00:48:56.900 and then
00:48:57.640 you give
00:48:58.160 the prescription
00:48:58.780 to the
00:48:59.280 dog
00:48:59.740 correctly
00:49:01.260 like
00:49:02.220 a hundred
00:49:02.740 percent
00:49:03.160 of the
00:49:03.600 time
00:49:04.020 and so
00:49:05.140 then you
00:49:05.480 think
00:49:05.780 well what
00:49:06.480 in the
00:49:06.820 world
00:49:07.040 is going
00:49:07.500 on there
00:49:08.020 it's like
00:49:08.420 do you
00:49:09.200 actually
00:49:09.680 like
00:49:10.100 your
00:49:10.360 dog
00:49:10.840 better
00:49:11.740 than
00:49:12.380 you
00:49:12.560 like
00:49:12.940 yourself
00:49:14.220 and
00:49:15.560 the answer
00:49:16.060 is
00:49:16.560 yes
00:49:18.320 going
00:49:25.120 online
00:49:25.540 without
00:49:25.840 express
00:49:26.280 vpn
00:49:26.760 is like
00:49:27.120 not paying
00:49:27.640 attention
00:49:27.960 to the
00:49:28.280 safety
00:49:28.500 demonstration
00:49:29.020 on a
00:49:29.400 flight
00:49:29.680 most of
00:49:30.540 the time
00:49:30.820 you'll
00:49:31.040 probably
00:49:31.420 be fine
00:49:32.020 but
00:49:32.400 what if
00:49:32.960 one day
00:49:33.360 that weird
00:49:33.980 yellow mask
00:49:34.580 drops down
00:49:35.120 from overhead
00:49:35.600 and you
00:49:36.300 have no
00:49:36.780 idea what
00:49:37.300 to do
00:49:37.620 in our
00:49:38.180 hyper
00:49:38.460 connected
00:49:38.820 world
00:49:39.220 your
00:49:39.500 digital
00:49:39.900 privacy
00:49:40.320 isn't
00:49:40.700 just
00:49:40.880 a
00:49:41.020 luxury
00:49:41.300 it's
00:49:41.940 a
00:49:42.060 fundamental
00:49:42.520 right
00:49:42.860 every time
00:49:43.420 you connect
00:49:43.800 to an
00:49:44.080 unsecured
00:49:44.580 network
00:49:44.980 in a
00:49:45.300 cafe
00:49:45.640 hotel
00:49:46.340 or
00:49:46.580 airport
00:49:47.040 you're
00:49:47.480 essentially
00:49:47.820 broadcasting
00:49:48.500 your
00:49:48.740 personal
00:49:49.020 information
00:49:49.540 to
00:49:49.840 anyone
00:49:50.260 with
00:49:50.520 a
00:49:50.640 technical
00:49:50.980 know-how
00:49:51.420 to
00:49:51.600 intercept
00:49:52.020 it
00:49:52.240 and
00:49:52.440 let's
00:49:52.660 be
00:49:52.800 clear
00:49:53.060 it
00:49:53.340 doesn't
00:49:53.760 take
00:49:53.940 a
00:49:54.060 genius
00:49:54.300 hacker
00:49:54.600 to
00:49:54.780 do
00:49:54.920 this
00:49:55.220 with
00:49:55.680 some
00:49:55.920 off-the-shelf
00:49:56.520 hardware
00:49:56.920 even a
00:49:57.480 tech-savvy
00:49:58.020 teenager
00:49:58.520 could
00:49:58.820 potentially
00:49:59.240 access
00:49:59.640 your
00:49:59.900 passwords
00:50:00.440 bank
00:50:00.900 logins
00:50:01.380 and
00:50:01.680 credit
00:50:01.940 card
00:50:02.160 details
00:50:02.660 now
00:50:03.220 you might
00:50:03.700 think
00:50:04.000 what's
00:50:04.440 the
00:50:04.540 big
00:50:04.700 deal
00:50:04.960 who
00:50:05.180 want
00:50:05.420 my
00:50:05.680 data
00:50:05.960 anyway
00:50:06.320 well
00:50:06.880 on
00:50:07.100 the
00:50:07.200 dark
00:50:07.400 web
00:50:07.620 your
00:50:07.940 personal
00:50:08.340 information
00:50:08.880 could
00:50:09.140 fetch
00:50:09.360 up to
00:50:09.680 $1,000
00:50:10.500 that's
00:50:11.520 right
00:50:11.680 there's
00:50:11.940 a
00:50:12.060 whole
00:50:12.360 underground
00:50:12.800 economy
00:50:13.280 built
00:50:13.640 on
00:50:13.900 stolen
00:50:14.280 identities
00:50:14.900 enter
00:50:15.560 expressvpn
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00:50:18.780 an
00:50:18.960 encrypted
00:50:19.320 tunnel
00:50:19.680 between
00:50:19.980 your
00:50:20.280 device
00:50:20.700 and
00:50:20.920 the
00:50:21.020 internet
00:50:21.300 their
00:50:21.860 encryption
00:50:22.180 is
00:50:22.540 so
00:50:22.860 robust
00:50:23.300 that
00:50:23.520 it
00:50:23.680 would
00:50:23.780 take
00:50:23.920 a
00:50:24.060 hacker
00:50:24.320 with
00:50:24.520 a
00:50:24.680 supercomputer
00:50:25.140 over
00:50:25.680 a
00:50:25.900 billion
00:50:26.180 years
00:50:26.560 to
00:50:26.740 crack
00:50:27.000 it
00:50:27.180 but
00:50:27.500 don't
00:50:27.780 let
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00:50:28.060 power
00:50:28.320 fool
00:50:28.580 you
00:50:28.840 expressvpn
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00:52:09.020 and
00:52:13.040 then
00:52:13.300 you might
00:52:14.160 ask
00:52:14.520 why
00:52:15.060 and
00:52:15.920 why
00:52:17.220 why would
00:52:18.180 people
00:52:18.580 like their
00:52:19.580 dog
00:52:20.100 love their
00:52:20.920 dog
00:52:21.360 let's say
00:52:22.280 more than
00:52:23.060 they love
00:52:23.440 themselves
00:52:23.840 why would
00:52:24.560 they
00:52:24.840 treat
00:52:26.120 their dog
00:52:26.780 like someone
00:52:27.460 they had
00:52:27.900 responsibility
00:52:28.560 for helping
00:52:29.440 when they
00:52:30.120 wouldn't
00:52:30.800 offer
00:52:31.260 themselves
00:52:31.820 the same
00:52:32.580 luxury
00:52:33.640 you know
00:52:34.760 and I'm
00:52:35.240 not speaking
00:52:35.880 necessarily
00:52:36.460 about even
00:52:37.060 liking yourself
00:52:38.000 as a person
00:52:38.680 I'm just
00:52:39.080 thinking that
00:52:39.620 well there's
00:52:40.200 a dog
00:52:40.620 and it's
00:52:40.940 a living
00:52:41.240 thing
00:52:41.560 and there's
00:52:42.220 you
00:52:42.500 and you're
00:52:42.880 a living
00:52:43.200 thing
00:52:43.520 and there's
00:52:44.300 something wrong
00:52:45.220 with both
00:52:45.680 of you
00:52:45.960 and maybe
00:52:46.280 just as a
00:52:46.960 vaguely
00:52:47.400 moral agent
00:52:48.660 it would be
00:52:49.740 incumbent on
00:52:51.060 you to
00:52:51.600 treat
00:52:52.520 each of them
00:52:53.600 with a certain
00:52:54.280 degree of
00:52:54.840 care
00:52:55.220 but you
00:52:56.120 don't
00:52:56.500 you
00:52:56.680 treat your
00:52:57.780 dog
00:52:58.080 preferentially
00:52:59.280 and so
00:53:00.300 so why is
00:53:02.600 that
00:53:02.920 what is it
00:53:03.660 that makes
00:53:04.140 people
00:53:04.540 prefer
00:53:05.500 their dog
00:53:06.720 to
00:53:07.820 themselves
00:53:08.420 and so
00:53:10.400 and so
00:53:10.420 well I
00:53:11.900 would say
00:53:12.480 one of the
00:53:14.320 things that
00:53:14.760 makes
00:53:15.160 you different
00:53:16.800 in your
00:53:17.800 response to
00:53:18.600 yourself
00:53:19.140 than other
00:53:20.380 people
00:53:20.940 and their
00:53:21.920 response to
00:53:22.780 you
00:53:23.080 is that
00:53:23.980 like you
00:53:24.360 know some
00:53:24.780 other people
00:53:25.320 and you
00:53:25.920 know some
00:53:26.640 of their
00:53:26.900 flaws
00:53:27.400 you know
00:53:28.000 and you're
00:53:28.460 kind of happy
00:53:28.960 about them
00:53:29.520 some of the
00:53:30.200 time
00:53:30.500 because
00:53:31.260 well you
00:53:32.300 know they
00:53:32.720 have flaws
00:53:33.240 and you do
00:53:33.760 and that
00:53:34.060 makes life
00:53:34.560 a little bit
00:53:34.980 easier
00:53:35.300 and maybe
00:53:36.060 it's easier
00:53:36.500 to lord it
00:53:37.020 over them
00:53:37.460 to some
00:53:37.820 degree
00:53:38.100 and to
00:53:38.360 feel superior
00:53:38.980 but whatever
00:53:39.720 you still
00:53:40.180 like them
00:53:40.680 despite their
00:53:41.340 flaws
00:53:41.640 maybe sometimes
00:53:42.400 even because
00:53:42.960 of their
00:53:43.280 flaws
00:53:43.620 and you
00:53:45.100 know you
00:53:45.660 know some
00:53:46.080 of the
00:53:46.300 things they've
00:53:46.800 done
00:53:47.100 that they
00:53:48.760 shouldn't have
00:53:49.260 done
00:53:49.540 which aren't
00:53:50.360 so much
00:53:50.740 flaws as
00:53:51.540 like active
00:53:52.420 active
00:53:53.380 let's call
00:53:54.480 them sins
00:53:55.160 of commission
00:53:55.880 and you
00:53:58.040 know you
00:53:58.360 by and large
00:53:59.160 forgive them
00:53:59.700 for them
00:54:00.140 and and
00:54:01.320 still maintain
00:54:02.360 your relationship
00:54:03.220 and that's a
00:54:03.960 good thing
00:54:04.460 but you
00:54:05.080 only kind
00:54:05.540 of partially
00:54:06.120 know those
00:54:06.720 other people
00:54:07.340 you know
00:54:07.780 and so
00:54:08.700 and as I
00:54:09.420 said they
00:54:09.860 tend to put
00:54:10.420 on a fairly
00:54:10.940 positive front
00:54:11.800 but then
00:54:12.520 there's you
00:54:13.440 with you
00:54:14.520 and that's
00:54:15.480 a big problem
00:54:16.440 because you
00:54:17.820 actually know
00:54:18.980 yourself
00:54:19.680 I'm not
00:54:20.640 completely
00:54:21.300 because you're
00:54:22.160 complicated and
00:54:23.460 opaque and you
00:54:24.560 hide from yourself
00:54:25.540 and and all of
00:54:26.700 that but compared
00:54:27.780 to how you know
00:54:28.520 other people
00:54:29.240 if you're not
00:54:30.880 completely blind
00:54:31.840 you know yourself
00:54:33.100 pretty damn
00:54:33.900 well
00:54:34.360 and as a
00:54:35.420 consequence
00:54:35.860 you're
00:54:36.440 generally
00:54:37.580 quite painfully
00:54:38.860 aware of your
00:54:39.640 own inadequacies
00:54:40.840 one of the
00:54:42.440 biggest fears
00:54:43.900 that people
00:54:44.420 have is
00:54:44.920 speaking on
00:54:46.000 front of a
00:54:46.500 stage
00:54:47.040 and common
00:54:47.880 nightmare is
00:54:48.520 to be naked
00:54:49.240 on a stage
00:54:50.620 and the reason
00:54:51.860 for that
00:54:52.340 well you think
00:54:53.020 why would that
00:54:53.480 be a nightmare
00:54:54.100 it's like
00:54:54.780 we're all naked
00:54:55.900 I mean under
00:54:56.940 our clothes
00:54:57.660 but we do
00:54:58.980 all have clothes
00:54:59.860 on and that's
00:55:00.700 something to
00:55:01.140 think about
00:55:01.700 there's a
00:55:03.820 reason for
00:55:04.320 that
00:55:04.600 it's not
00:55:04.980 just because
00:55:05.440 we're cold
00:55:06.160 or hot
00:55:07.200 there's a
00:55:07.860 real reason
00:55:08.440 for that
00:55:08.860 and clothing
00:55:09.540 is a human
00:55:10.120 universal by
00:55:11.000 the way
00:55:11.340 even in
00:55:12.160 climates
00:55:12.600 where it
00:55:12.940 doesn't seem
00:55:13.340 to be
00:55:13.640 particularly
00:55:14.140 necessary
00:55:14.780 and so
00:55:15.340 people seem
00:55:16.280 obliged
00:55:17.200 in some
00:55:17.860 sense
00:55:18.320 to cover
00:55:18.960 themselves
00:55:19.560 up
00:55:19.980 right
00:55:20.260 to protect
00:55:21.180 themselves
00:55:21.700 from
00:55:22.240 from what
00:55:23.440 from the
00:55:24.140 world
00:55:24.600 from the
00:55:25.580 prying eyes
00:55:26.900 and
00:55:27.300 continual
00:55:27.900 evaluation
00:55:28.620 of others
00:55:29.340 definitely
00:55:30.140 that
00:55:30.820 and so
00:55:31.480 then to be
00:55:32.080 naked
00:55:32.460 on a stage
00:55:33.340 is to
00:55:33.880 have
00:55:34.640 your full
00:55:35.660 physiology
00:55:36.640 and all
00:55:37.520 of its
00:55:37.960 inadequacies
00:55:39.480 fully manifested
00:55:41.020 for the
00:55:41.820 delight
00:55:42.880 of the
00:55:43.600 group
00:55:44.220 let's say
00:55:45.140 and
00:55:46.040 judgment
00:55:46.720 and people
00:55:47.600 aren't
00:55:48.000 very happy
00:55:49.320 about that
00:55:50.040 and then
00:55:50.780 of course
00:55:51.440 to be on
00:55:51.960 stage
00:55:52.540 is also
00:55:53.580 to have
00:55:54.060 to reveal
00:55:55.340 yourself
00:55:55.940 in ways
00:55:56.440 that aren't
00:55:56.960 only
00:55:57.840 physical
00:55:58.600 unless you
00:55:59.460 were there
00:55:59.760 just to
00:56:00.340 do a
00:56:00.660 new
00:56:00.860 dance
00:56:01.500 which is
00:56:02.240 unlikely
00:56:02.780 you have
00:56:03.800 to unfold
00:56:04.880 yourself
00:56:05.520 in an
00:56:05.880 articulated
00:56:06.360 manner
00:56:06.960 and that
00:56:07.620 allows people
00:56:08.240 to make
00:56:08.560 a judgment
00:56:09.220 about you
00:56:09.880 in some
00:56:10.300 profound
00:56:10.780 way
00:56:11.140 and if
00:56:11.460 it's a
00:56:11.740 large
00:56:12.020 crowd
00:56:12.360 of people
00:56:12.880 then that's
00:56:13.780 often quite
00:56:14.400 terrifying
00:56:15.060 because
00:56:15.480 really what
00:56:16.440 it does
00:56:17.320 is put
00:56:17.980 you face
00:56:18.480 to face
00:56:19.020 with one
00:56:19.520 of your
00:56:19.820 fundamental
00:56:20.540 fears
00:56:21.160 you know
00:56:21.900 people have
00:56:22.420 like
00:56:22.720 three
00:56:23.560 well
00:56:24.280 they have
00:56:24.500 four
00:56:24.760 fundamental
00:56:25.400 fears
00:56:25.940 one is
00:56:27.080 fear of
00:56:28.200 their own
00:56:28.740 inadequacy
00:56:29.860 and malevolence
00:56:30.840 that's
00:56:31.520 that's a big
00:56:32.340 fear man
00:56:33.060 that can really
00:56:34.200 that can really
00:56:35.220 do you in
00:56:35.840 if you confront
00:56:36.560 it
00:56:36.920 accidentally
00:56:38.600 and fully
00:56:40.160 happens to
00:56:41.180 soldiers
00:56:41.600 sometimes in
00:56:42.400 battle
00:56:42.740 when they find
00:56:43.740 themselves doing
00:56:44.440 things they
00:56:45.020 can't believe
00:56:45.600 they do
00:56:46.140 and then
00:56:46.800 we're afraid
00:56:47.520 of society
00:56:48.440 that would be
00:56:49.260 the oppressive
00:56:49.940 patriarchy
00:56:50.840 because society
00:56:52.360 judges us
00:56:53.160 harshly
00:56:53.860 and
00:56:54.680 mercilessly
00:56:56.080 in many ways
00:56:56.880 and we don't
00:56:57.860 like to
00:56:58.960 plummet
00:56:59.860 in the
00:57:00.860 what would you
00:57:02.480 call it
00:57:02.980 we don't
00:57:04.600 like to see
00:57:05.320 our reputation
00:57:06.320 savaged
00:57:07.340 in front of
00:57:08.280 the groups
00:57:08.820 that we
00:57:09.200 identify with
00:57:10.060 it's extraordinarily
00:57:11.120 hard on us
00:57:12.300 emotionally
00:57:12.900 for that to
00:57:13.860 happen
00:57:14.200 which I wrote
00:57:14.980 about for example
00:57:15.800 in rule
00:57:16.740 one
00:57:17.180 which is
00:57:17.880 a chapter
00:57:20.000 at least in
00:57:20.580 part that
00:57:21.020 details out
00:57:21.760 the fact
00:57:22.280 that the
00:57:22.800 neurochemical
00:57:23.400 systems
00:57:24.020 that track
00:57:25.200 your
00:57:25.660 comparative
00:57:26.600 status
00:57:27.480 in competence
00:57:28.580 hierarchies
00:57:29.120 also regulate
00:57:30.560 the balance
00:57:31.360 between your
00:57:32.020 positive and
00:57:32.640 negative emotion
00:57:33.440 such that if
00:57:34.540 you suffer a
00:57:35.440 social defeat
00:57:36.400 your proclivity
00:57:37.600 to experience
00:57:38.620 negative emotion
00:57:39.540 radically increases
00:57:40.680 and your
00:57:41.420 proclivity to
00:57:42.220 experience positive
00:57:43.320 emotion
00:57:43.780 radically decreases
00:57:45.280 and people
00:57:46.140 seriously
00:57:47.200 do not like
00:57:48.320 that
00:57:48.640 and it's no
00:57:49.420 wonder
00:57:49.760 because
00:57:50.140 who wants
00:57:51.020 to be
00:57:51.520 completely
00:57:52.300 overwhelmed
00:57:53.000 with sadness
00:57:53.840 and bitterness
00:57:54.540 and anxiety
00:57:55.420 and resentment
00:57:56.140 and disappointment
00:57:57.000 and frustration
00:57:57.700 and grief
00:57:58.540 and then also
00:57:59.820 devoid of
00:58:00.760 happiness
00:58:01.260 you know
00:58:02.060 it's the very
00:58:02.600 definition of
00:58:03.460 hell
00:58:03.800 and if a
00:58:04.740 status defeat
00:58:05.840 will increase
00:58:06.900 that probability
00:58:07.800 then we will
00:58:08.780 fight very hard
00:58:09.780 to maintain
00:58:10.480 our status
00:58:11.200 positions
00:58:11.860 which we
00:58:12.500 certainly do
00:58:13.200 that's another
00:58:14.080 fear
00:58:14.460 and then
00:58:14.780 of course
00:58:15.280 we have
00:58:15.640 the fear
00:58:16.020 of nature
00:58:16.680 and we
00:58:17.920 should
00:58:18.320 because of
00:58:18.920 course
00:58:19.180 nature
00:58:20.000 despite being
00:58:21.500 the environment
00:58:22.340 and this
00:58:23.500 thing that we
00:58:24.360 should be striving
00:58:25.280 to protect
00:58:26.000 and maintain
00:58:26.580 is also
00:58:27.640 trying
00:58:28.460 with all of
00:58:29.360 its might
00:58:29.780 constantly
00:58:31.020 to make us
00:58:32.160 ill
00:58:32.560 and old
00:58:33.580 and kill us
00:58:34.740 and is generally
00:58:36.140 very successful
00:58:37.480 at all three
00:58:38.620 and so
00:58:39.520 there's every
00:58:40.180 reason to be
00:58:40.900 afraid of nature
00:58:41.880 and
00:58:42.840 you know
00:58:44.900 one night
00:58:45.400 alone in the
00:58:46.000 bush will
00:58:46.460 pretty much
00:58:46.920 convince you
00:58:48.980 of that
00:58:49.440 and then people
00:58:50.400 are also
00:58:51.120 afraid of the
00:58:52.520 unknown
00:58:52.900 and so those
00:58:53.620 are the big
00:58:54.060 categories of
00:58:55.000 terror that
00:58:56.240 human beings
00:58:57.340 face
00:58:57.860 and to be
00:58:58.640 naked on stage
00:58:59.820 is to face
00:59:00.520 at least
00:59:01.400 two or three
00:59:02.540 of those
00:59:03.000 simultaneously
00:59:04.560 the nakedness
00:59:06.400 element
00:59:06.760 is a particularly
00:59:07.520 interesting one
00:59:08.480 and that made
00:59:09.380 me think
00:59:09.920 about exactly
00:59:10.720 what that
00:59:11.520 means
00:59:12.000 and the
00:59:14.300 most famous
00:59:15.020 story about
00:59:15.840 nakedness
00:59:16.500 I suppose
00:59:17.460 is the story
00:59:18.200 of Adam
00:59:19.600 and Eve
00:59:20.000 in the
00:59:20.660 Garden of Eden
00:59:21.300 and so I'm
00:59:21.880 going to tell
00:59:22.260 that story
00:59:22.920 and this
00:59:24.580 is the
00:59:24.980 hard part
00:59:26.140 of the
00:59:26.380 lecture
00:59:26.700 I suppose
00:59:27.260 I'm trying
00:59:28.280 to explain
00:59:29.060 why people
00:59:29.940 don't take
00:59:30.440 care of
00:59:30.920 themselves
00:59:31.260 very well
00:59:32.100 it's a pretty
00:59:32.720 practical question
00:59:33.900 in some sense
00:59:34.600 and a very
00:59:34.960 personal one
00:59:35.720 to make
00:59:36.320 the leap
00:59:36.900 I want to
00:59:37.260 make the leap
00:59:37.980 to this
00:59:38.820 ancient story
00:59:40.200 which I think
00:59:41.540 does everything
00:59:43.100 it possibly
00:59:43.820 can in a
00:59:44.700 metaphorical sense
00:59:45.820 to account
00:59:46.980 for what
00:59:48.780 it is
00:59:49.340 that
00:59:49.980 makes it
00:59:51.860 so difficult
00:59:52.740 for us
00:59:53.320 to care
00:59:53.780 for ourselves
00:59:54.520 properly
00:59:55.200 and it's a
00:59:56.240 very sophisticated
00:59:57.040 and complicated
00:59:57.920 story
00:59:58.600 and many
00:59:59.300 thousands of
01:00:00.060 years old
01:00:00.620 we don't know
01:00:01.600 how it
01:00:02.040 originated
01:00:02.720 we actually
01:00:03.640 have no idea
01:00:04.320 how old
01:00:04.760 it is
01:00:05.060 we don't
01:00:05.400 know
01:00:05.640 why we
01:00:06.460 remembered
01:00:06.980 it
01:00:07.240 we don't
01:00:07.780 know
01:00:07.940 how it
01:00:08.420 got
01:00:08.660 aggregated
01:00:09.540 with other
01:00:10.020 stories
01:00:10.480 of its
01:00:10.860 type
01:00:11.220 and we
01:00:11.820 have a
01:00:12.140 very
01:00:12.580 difficult
01:00:13.000 time
01:00:13.540 with its
01:00:14.280 symbolic
01:00:14.700 structure
01:00:15.300 but nonetheless
01:00:16.120 we still have
01:00:17.420 the story
01:00:18.000 interestingly
01:00:19.060 enough
01:00:19.420 and the
01:00:19.920 story
01:00:20.240 goes
01:00:20.840 essentially
01:00:21.320 that after
01:00:21.980 God
01:00:22.400 created
01:00:23.120 the world
01:00:23.620 he
01:00:24.380 created
01:00:25.220 a place
01:00:26.160 for
01:00:26.500 a man
01:00:29.020 that he
01:00:29.360 created
01:00:29.800 Adam
01:00:30.580 Adam
01:00:31.380 made out
01:00:32.040 of
01:00:32.220 earth
01:00:32.940 and there's
01:00:33.780 an old
01:00:34.340 idea
01:00:34.780 it's not
01:00:35.360 exactly
01:00:35.820 canonically
01:00:36.420 Christian
01:00:36.860 that the
01:00:37.520 original Adam
01:00:38.180 was half
01:00:38.800 woman and
01:00:39.340 half man
01:00:40.060 and that's
01:00:40.480 why he
01:00:40.780 could be
01:00:41.140 separated
01:00:41.820 into
01:00:42.720 man and
01:00:43.860 woman
01:00:44.080 and that
01:00:44.520 the purpose
01:00:45.280 of marriage
01:00:45.840 is to
01:00:46.300 reunite
01:00:47.200 that
01:00:47.560 original
01:00:48.120 unity
01:00:48.680 it's
01:00:49.120 kind of
01:00:49.440 a lovely
01:00:49.840 poetic
01:00:50.260 idea
01:00:50.720 and there's
01:00:51.580 something
01:00:51.840 about it
01:00:52.240 I think
01:00:52.580 that's
01:00:52.920 true
01:00:53.260 because of
01:00:54.000 course
01:00:54.200 as human
01:00:55.320 beings
01:00:56.780 we are
01:00:57.500 male and
01:00:58.220 female
01:00:58.640 and it's
01:01:00.340 that union
01:01:00.880 of the two
01:01:01.440 that really
01:01:01.880 defines
01:01:02.400 humanity
01:01:03.000 and so
01:01:04.060 and it is
01:01:05.060 also reasonable
01:01:05.840 to assume
01:01:06.520 that in some
01:01:07.200 sense
01:01:07.560 when you
01:01:08.040 decide to
01:01:09.060 find a
01:01:09.640 partner
01:01:09.980 that you're
01:01:11.920 completing
01:01:12.900 something that's
01:01:14.840 only half
01:01:15.640 without the
01:01:16.320 partner
01:01:16.700 both physically
01:01:17.840 and also
01:01:18.540 psychologically
01:01:19.620 because you
01:01:20.920 can learn
01:01:21.380 from your
01:01:21.780 partner
01:01:22.180 and from
01:01:22.620 the long-term
01:01:23.280 relationship
01:01:23.840 that you
01:01:24.300 have with
01:01:24.760 them
01:01:24.900 so that
01:01:25.220 you're
01:01:25.460 re-establishing
01:01:26.360 an initial
01:01:27.260 unity
01:01:27.700 it's a
01:01:28.300 very
01:01:28.560 sophisticated
01:01:29.740 stream
01:01:31.460 of
01:01:31.880 Judeo-Christian
01:01:33.100 speculation
01:01:34.040 along that
01:01:34.800 line
01:01:35.180 but in
01:01:35.880 any case
01:01:36.400 God makes
01:01:37.280 Adam
01:01:37.640 and he
01:01:38.700 puts him
01:01:39.060 in a
01:01:39.260 garden
01:01:39.620 and it's
01:01:41.280 it's
01:01:41.520 paradise
01:01:42.020 and that's
01:01:43.340 an interesting
01:01:43.880 idea
01:01:44.360 I think
01:01:45.380 especially
01:01:45.860 if you know
01:01:46.300 what the
01:01:46.740 word
01:01:46.940 paradise
01:01:47.400 means
01:01:48.080 paradise
01:01:48.820 comes from
01:01:49.700 the Persian
01:01:50.660 word
01:01:51.080 paradeza
01:01:52.260 which means
01:01:53.260 walled
01:01:54.360 garden
01:01:55.640 and
01:01:56.960 Eden
01:01:57.560 is a
01:01:58.760 synonym
01:01:59.140 let's say
01:02:00.020 for paradise
01:02:00.560 and it means
01:02:01.200 well watered
01:02:02.280 place
01:02:02.680 and so there's
01:02:03.440 this idea
01:02:04.040 that the
01:02:04.500 proper environment
01:02:05.440 for a human
01:02:06.120 being
01:02:06.540 is a
01:02:07.320 walled
01:02:08.000 garden
01:02:08.400 that's
01:02:09.060 well watered
01:02:10.120 and you know
01:02:10.960 that's
01:02:11.420 that's not
01:02:11.980 bad
01:02:12.500 really
01:02:13.020 as a
01:02:13.800 description
01:02:14.200 of the
01:02:15.220 ideal human
01:02:16.240 environment
01:02:16.660 it's kind of
01:02:17.520 what we dream
01:02:18.340 of
01:02:18.600 you know
01:02:18.840 that's
01:02:19.560 what a
01:02:19.840 suburb
01:02:20.540 is
01:02:20.920 it's a
01:02:21.520 whole bunch
01:02:21.880 of
01:02:22.120 fenced
01:02:22.540 off
01:02:23.160 gardens
01:02:24.260 that are
01:02:25.020 well watered
01:02:26.200 places
01:02:26.780 right
01:02:27.180 and
01:02:27.380 the garden
01:02:29.180 is nature
01:02:29.960 not nature
01:02:31.360 in its
01:02:31.700 wild
01:02:32.240 and untamed
01:02:33.040 form
01:02:33.620 you know
01:02:33.960 you don't
01:02:34.720 want it
01:02:35.040 full of
01:02:35.460 viper
01:02:36.060 I mean
01:02:36.560 in New Zealand
01:02:38.060 it's not so bad
01:02:38.880 but it can be
01:02:39.320 really bad
01:02:39.800 in Australia
01:02:40.340 you don't
01:02:41.060 want it
01:02:41.320 full
01:02:41.460 you don't
01:02:42.220 want it
01:02:42.360 full of
01:02:42.820 poisonous snakes
01:02:43.900 and spiders
01:02:44.640 and cactuses
01:02:45.620 for Christ's sake
01:02:46.640 you want it
01:02:47.100 you know
01:02:47.640 to be sort of
01:02:48.640 a friendly place
01:02:49.540 where you can go
01:02:50.120 sit down
01:02:50.620 and throw something
01:02:51.420 on the barbecue
01:02:52.160 and you know
01:02:53.120 and not
01:02:53.540 not die
01:02:54.520 if you sit
01:02:55.100 on the wrong
01:02:55.620 bug
01:02:56.240 and so
01:02:57.320 and so
01:02:58.740 you want nature
01:03:00.140 but kind of
01:03:00.840 under some
01:03:01.340 preconditions
01:03:02.260 right
01:03:02.620 you want it
01:03:03.380 tamed
01:03:04.460 and
01:03:04.740 and
01:03:05.280 and
01:03:05.680 and
01:03:06.160 and brought
01:03:06.960 under human
01:03:07.640 regulation
01:03:08.320 and that's
01:03:09.040 what constitutes
01:03:09.700 a garden
01:03:10.220 rather than
01:03:10.740 a patch
01:03:11.140 of wilderness
01:03:12.120 not that
01:03:13.120 there's
01:03:13.300 anything wrong
01:03:14.080 with wilderness
01:03:14.660 but like
01:03:15.560 it should be
01:03:16.300 out in the
01:03:16.700 wilderness
01:03:17.080 not
01:03:17.660 not
01:03:18.200 not in
01:03:18.680 your
01:03:18.840 backyard
01:03:19.460 and
01:03:20.460 and so
01:03:21.400 that's nature
01:03:22.180 and
01:03:22.600 and
01:03:22.880 in its
01:03:23.440 benevolent form
01:03:24.360 and then
01:03:24.640 the wall
01:03:25.360 well that's
01:03:26.860 culture
01:03:27.360 you know
01:03:27.760 that's
01:03:28.160 that's a
01:03:28.700 man-made
01:03:29.420 structure
01:03:29.980 that delineates
01:03:31.180 your territory
01:03:31.960 from the territory
01:03:32.760 of other people
01:03:33.500 but also
01:03:34.280 walls in
01:03:35.640 the small
01:03:36.300 bit of nature
01:03:37.040 that you
01:03:37.460 manage to have
01:03:38.140 under your
01:03:38.560 control
01:03:38.980 and it's
01:03:39.540 good to have
01:03:39.940 some water
01:03:40.480 so you don't
01:03:41.520 dehydrate
01:03:42.360 and die
01:03:42.820 and so
01:03:43.180 that your
01:03:43.500 plants live
01:03:44.260 and all
01:03:45.020 of that
01:03:45.460 and so
01:03:46.300 Eden
01:03:47.020 paradise
01:03:47.640 is a kind
01:03:48.260 of a good
01:03:48.620 description
01:03:49.540 of the
01:03:50.680 where people
01:03:51.660 would live
01:03:52.820 if they could
01:03:53.500 choose to live
01:03:54.160 somewhere
01:03:54.600 and that is
01:03:55.340 where we choose
01:03:55.980 to live
01:03:56.340 so that seems
01:03:57.180 appropriate
01:03:58.180 and quite a
01:03:59.380 remarkable observation
01:04:00.440 all things
01:04:01.060 considered
01:04:01.540 and
01:04:02.380 now
01:04:03.300 in this
01:04:04.020 garden
01:04:04.480 there are two
01:04:05.880 trees
01:04:06.460 apparently
01:04:07.380 tree of life
01:04:08.740 and if you
01:04:09.880 eat of the
01:04:10.400 tree of life
01:04:10.980 then you
01:04:11.600 live forever
01:04:12.160 and the
01:04:12.760 tree of the
01:04:13.240 knowledge of
01:04:13.720 good and
01:04:14.020 evil
01:04:14.300 which is a
01:04:15.000 very strange
01:04:15.640 tree
01:04:16.020 although not
01:04:17.340 much stranger
01:04:18.220 than the
01:04:18.620 tree of life
01:04:19.260 all things
01:04:19.780 considered
01:04:20.240 and
01:04:21.120 God tells
01:04:22.920 Adam
01:04:23.260 you can
01:04:23.860 eat
01:04:24.160 the fruit
01:04:25.240 of the
01:04:25.540 trees
01:04:25.860 of all
01:04:26.400 the trees
01:04:27.100 in the
01:04:27.360 garden
01:04:27.580 but
01:04:27.820 stay
01:04:28.600 away
01:04:29.160 from the
01:04:29.860 fruit
01:04:30.340 of the
01:04:30.660 tree
01:04:30.860 of the
01:04:31.140 knowledge
01:04:31.440 of good
01:04:31.800 and evil
01:04:32.180 and
01:04:33.280 and that's
01:04:35.280 that
01:04:35.600 and so
01:04:36.420 Adam
01:04:37.520 is there
01:04:38.460 in paradise
01:04:39.560 with the
01:04:40.520 animals
01:04:40.880 and doing
01:04:42.040 whatever it is
01:04:42.740 that he's doing
01:04:43.400 hanging around
01:04:44.300 with God
01:04:44.940 playing around
01:04:45.780 with the
01:04:46.040 animals
01:04:46.460 bored out
01:04:47.480 of his
01:04:47.780 skull
01:04:48.220 and
01:04:49.060 he gets
01:04:51.060 a little
01:04:51.380 bitchy
01:04:51.960 and says
01:04:52.640 to God
01:04:53.140 look
01:04:54.340 you made
01:04:54.960 all these
01:04:55.300 other animals
01:04:56.020 like a
01:04:56.640 mate
01:04:57.040 and
01:04:57.900 where's
01:04:59.200 mine
01:04:59.620 and
01:04:59.880 God
01:05:00.800 says
01:05:01.280 yeah
01:05:01.680 well
01:05:02.080 you know
01:05:02.480 maybe
01:05:02.980 that
01:05:03.340 wouldn't
01:05:03.560 be
01:05:03.740 such
01:05:04.040 a
01:05:04.160 bad
01:05:04.360 idea
01:05:04.780 since
01:05:05.820 it
01:05:05.980 seemed
01:05:06.180 to
01:05:06.320 work
01:05:06.480 for
01:05:06.660 everyone
01:05:06.920 else
01:05:07.280 and
01:05:07.500 so
01:05:08.020 he
01:05:08.320 hypothetically
01:05:09.560 takes
01:05:10.300 Adam
01:05:10.740 apart
01:05:11.080 slightly
01:05:11.560 and
01:05:11.800 takes
01:05:12.180 out
01:05:12.340 a
01:05:12.460 rib
01:05:12.680 and
01:05:12.860 makes
01:05:13.420 Eve
01:05:13.860 and
01:05:14.800 now
01:05:15.460 there's
01:05:15.700 Adam
01:05:15.920 and Eve
01:05:16.320 and
01:05:16.660 that
01:05:17.360 seems
01:05:17.740 to be
01:05:18.020 better
01:05:18.340 and so
01:05:18.720 they're
01:05:19.000 cavorting
01:05:19.480 around
01:05:19.760 in the
01:05:20.260 garden
01:05:20.940 happy
01:05:21.700 as
01:05:22.020 clams
01:05:22.920 and
01:05:23.960 but
01:05:25.740 but
01:05:27.200 but
01:05:28.040 there's
01:05:30.040 a
01:05:30.300 problem
01:05:31.360 in the
01:05:32.400 garden
01:05:32.740 there's
01:05:33.420 a
01:05:33.580 snake
01:05:33.980 and
01:05:35.300 the
01:05:35.880 story
01:05:36.580 says
01:05:36.900 the
01:05:37.100 snake
01:05:37.440 was
01:05:37.660 the
01:05:37.820 most
01:05:38.080 subtle
01:05:38.720 subtil
01:05:39.800 s-u-b-t-i-l
01:05:41.080 of all
01:05:41.900 of the
01:05:42.240 creatures
01:05:42.600 that God
01:05:43.060 had made
01:05:43.420 and
01:05:43.560 it's a
01:05:44.160 weird word
01:05:44.640 subtle
01:05:45.020 it sort
01:05:45.340 of means
01:05:45.640 fog-like
01:05:46.540 and vague
01:05:47.340 and
01:05:47.580 and
01:05:48.200 and
01:05:48.540 and
01:05:49.000 and
01:05:49.160 and
01:05:49.420 camouflaged
01:05:50.200 all of
01:05:50.540 which is
01:05:50.840 true
01:05:51.080 of snakes
01:05:51.560 by the
01:05:51.960 way
01:05:52.140 and
01:05:52.320 and
01:05:52.880 and
01:05:53.440 and
01:05:53.880 and
01:05:54.500 and
01:05:55.720 what would
01:05:57.020 you say
01:05:57.560 sophisticated
01:06:00.280 in a
01:06:01.000 somewhat
01:06:01.300 malevolent
01:06:02.120 manner
01:06:02.520 capable
01:06:03.180 of causing
01:06:03.860 trouble
01:06:04.220 not
01:06:04.740 altogether
01:06:05.220 a good
01:06:05.740 beast
01:06:06.280 and
01:06:06.940 you might
01:06:07.260 ask
01:06:07.540 yourself
01:06:07.960 and
01:06:09.020 people
01:06:09.320 have
01:06:09.600 for a
01:06:09.900 very
01:06:10.060 long
01:06:10.300 time
01:06:10.660 why
01:06:11.440 in the
01:06:11.700 world
01:06:11.880 would
01:06:12.040 God
01:06:12.300 go to
01:06:12.600 all
01:06:12.740 the
01:06:12.880 trouble
01:06:13.140 of
01:06:13.320 making
01:06:13.640 a
01:06:14.020 paradise
01:06:14.940 a
01:06:16.060 whole
01:06:16.280 world
01:06:16.820 whole
01:06:17.200 cosmos
01:06:17.720 world
01:06:18.600 a
01:06:19.100 paradise
01:06:19.500 putting
01:06:20.140 men
01:06:20.380 and
01:06:20.520 women
01:06:20.700 in
01:06:20.920 it
01:06:21.060 and
01:06:21.420 then
01:06:21.600 tossing
01:06:22.140 in
01:06:22.260 a
01:06:22.440 snake
01:06:22.960 and
01:06:23.800 you know
01:06:24.520 that's
01:06:24.920 not
01:06:25.120 an
01:06:25.300 easy
01:06:25.560 question
01:06:26.320 to
01:06:27.000 answer
01:06:27.540 by
01:06:28.300 any
01:06:28.600 stretch
01:06:28.920 of
01:06:29.060 the
01:06:29.180 imagination
01:06:29.580 but
01:06:29.920 I
01:06:30.280 think
01:06:30.420 it
01:06:30.520 has
01:06:30.720 something
01:06:31.020 to
01:06:31.240 do
01:06:31.400 with
01:06:31.600 this
01:06:32.040 I
01:06:32.880 think
01:06:33.200 that
01:06:34.280 it's
01:06:34.820 very
01:06:35.060 difficult
01:06:35.460 to
01:06:35.880 take
01:06:36.200 something
01:06:36.540 as
01:06:36.760 complex
01:06:37.340 as
01:06:37.600 reality
01:06:38.140 which
01:06:38.800 is
01:06:38.960 very
01:06:39.480 very
01:06:39.860 complicated
01:06:40.460 and
01:06:41.160 then
01:06:41.300 to
01:06:41.440 wall
01:06:41.880 off
01:06:42.220 a
01:06:42.400 tiny
01:06:42.700 piece
01:06:43.120 of
01:06:43.280 it
01:06:43.480 and
01:06:44.080 then
01:06:44.220 to
01:06:44.380 keep
01:06:44.680 everything
01:06:45.420 outside
01:06:46.420 that's
01:06:47.320 troublesome
01:06:47.720 actually
01:06:48.720 outside
01:06:49.680 and
01:06:50.520 you know
01:06:50.720 if
01:06:50.900 you're
01:06:51.140 a
01:06:51.280 parent
01:06:51.620 and
01:06:52.140 you have
01:06:52.400 children
01:06:52.900 you
01:06:53.560 might
01:06:53.760 do
01:06:53.980 what
01:06:54.140 you
01:06:54.280 can
01:06:54.580 to
01:06:54.760 protect
01:06:55.140 them
01:06:55.420 from
01:06:55.900 the
01:06:56.140 snakes
01:06:56.560 in
01:06:56.800 the
01:06:56.940 outside
01:06:57.280 world
01:06:57.880 but
01:06:58.420 then
01:06:58.620 if
01:06:58.780 you
01:06:58.880 over
01:06:59.180 protect
01:06:59.480 them
01:06:59.880 you
01:07:00.360 make
01:07:00.600 them
01:07:00.820 weak
01:07:01.220 and
01:07:01.440 that's
01:07:01.700 not
01:07:01.840 very
01:07:02.080 helpful
01:07:02.480 and
01:07:03.300 besides
01:07:03.980 that
01:07:04.400 what
01:07:05.140 are
01:07:05.240 you
01:07:05.280 going
01:07:05.400 to
01:07:05.460 do
01:07:05.680 you
01:07:05.880 you
01:07:06.100 not
01:07:06.420 let
01:07:06.740 them
01:07:07.040 watch
01:07:07.320 movies
01:07:07.800 you're
01:07:08.120 not
01:07:08.300 going
01:07:08.480 to
01:07:08.520 let
01:07:08.660 them
01:07:08.800 have
01:07:08.980 friends
01:07:09.560 you're
01:07:09.820 not
01:07:09.980 going
01:07:10.140 to
01:07:10.220 let
01:07:10.420 them
01:07:10.680 use
01:07:11.260 the
01:07:11.460 internet
01:07:11.840 you
01:07:12.600 know
01:07:12.720 you're
01:07:13.100 going
01:07:13.220 to
01:07:13.360 cut
01:07:13.980 themselves
01:07:14.520 off
01:07:14.920 so
01:07:15.180 completely
01:07:15.720 from
01:07:16.040 everything
01:07:16.440 that's
01:07:16.780 outside
01:07:17.200 the
01:07:17.420 walls
01:07:17.760 that
01:07:18.180 they
01:07:18.320 have
01:07:18.480 no
01:07:18.680 idea
01:07:19.020 what's
01:07:19.340 out
01:07:19.500 there
01:07:19.680 in
01:07:19.800 the
01:07:19.900 broader
01:07:20.160 world
01:07:20.600 it's
01:07:21.180 like
01:07:21.400 you're
01:07:21.660 not
01:07:21.960 you're
01:07:22.480 going
01:07:22.520 to
01:07:22.580 let
01:07:22.780 some
01:07:23.480 snakes
01:07:23.960 in
01:07:24.720 the
01:07:25.720 garden
01:07:26.080 because
01:07:27.320 there's
01:07:27.700 no
01:07:27.880 keeping
01:07:28.160 them
01:07:28.360 out
01:07:28.600 and
01:07:29.140 then
01:07:29.280 maybe
01:07:29.520 if
01:07:29.700 you
01:07:29.800 have
01:07:29.940 any
01:07:30.120 sense
01:07:30.520 you're
01:07:30.760 going
01:07:30.860 to
01:07:30.980 teach
01:07:31.240 your
01:07:31.420 children
01:07:31.740 to
01:07:32.240 handle
01:07:32.620 snakes
01:07:33.160 so
01:07:33.760 that
01:07:33.980 they
01:07:34.380 know
01:07:34.620 what
01:07:34.840 to
01:07:35.020 do
01:07:35.240 when
01:07:35.460 they
01:07:35.640 go
01:07:35.980 out
01:07:36.180 there
01:07:36.400 in
01:07:36.580 the
01:07:36.700 broader
01:07:36.960 world
01:07:37.440 in
01:07:37.980 any
01:07:38.180 case
01:07:38.580 Eve
01:07:39.440 knows
01:07:40.240 full
01:07:40.520 well
01:07:40.800 that
01:07:41.020 she's
01:07:41.260 not
01:07:41.440 supposed
01:07:41.760 to
01:07:42.040 listen
01:07:43.220 to
01:07:43.420 the
01:07:43.600 snake
01:07:43.920 or
01:07:44.200 eat
01:07:44.620 the
01:07:44.920 tree
01:07:45.340 of
01:07:45.500 the
01:07:45.620 knowledge
01:07:45.940 of
01:07:46.140 the
01:07:46.300 fruit
01:07:46.580 of
01:07:47.500 the
01:07:47.620 tree
01:07:47.740 of
01:07:47.860 the
01:07:47.980 knowledge
01:07:48.280 of
01:07:48.500 good
01:07:49.060 and
01:07:49.180 evil
01:07:49.420 but
01:07:49.720 the
01:07:50.040 snake
01:07:50.320 is
01:07:50.580 a
01:07:51.020 very
01:07:51.280 seductive
01:07:52.580 and
01:07:53.280 subtle
01:07:54.520 creature
01:07:55.060 and he
01:07:55.940 catches
01:07:56.700 her off
01:07:57.180 guard
01:07:57.620 and
01:07:58.160 board
01:07:58.580 and
01:07:59.580 suggests
01:08:00.700 to her
01:08:01.260 that
01:08:01.540 maybe
01:08:02.300 God's
01:08:03.420 little
01:08:03.700 on
01:08:03.900 the
01:08:04.020 jealous
01:08:04.300 side
01:08:04.800 and
01:08:05.020 that
01:08:05.200 if
01:08:05.860 she
01:08:06.020 just
01:08:06.280 had
01:08:06.560 this
01:08:06.900 fruit
01:08:07.340 that
01:08:08.020 has
01:08:08.300 been
01:08:08.500 forbidden
01:08:08.900 to
01:08:09.140 her
01:08:09.300 which
01:08:09.520 she
01:08:09.660 is
01:08:09.820 intensely
01:08:10.420 curious
01:08:11.080 about
01:08:11.500 being
01:08:12.300 human
01:08:12.780 because
01:08:13.300 you know
01:08:13.600 perfectly
01:08:14.040 well
01:08:14.420 that
01:08:14.660 you know
01:08:15.280 if you
01:08:15.780 were
01:08:15.920 somewhere
01:08:16.240 that
01:08:16.460 was
01:08:16.620 extremely
01:08:17.120 pleasant
01:08:17.780 and
01:08:18.540 the
01:08:19.120 person
01:08:19.640 who
01:08:19.860 owned
01:08:20.180 it
01:08:20.360 told
01:08:20.880 you
01:08:21.060 that
01:08:21.260 there
01:08:21.420 was
01:08:21.560 like
01:08:21.800 a
01:08:22.160 room
01:08:22.640 that
01:08:23.300 you
01:08:23.700 couldn't
01:08:24.020 go
01:08:24.220 into
01:08:24.600 no
01:08:24.840 matter
01:08:25.080 what
01:08:25.520 but
01:08:25.740 everything
01:08:26.100 else
01:08:26.400 was
01:08:26.580 okay
01:08:26.900 that
01:08:27.140 all
01:08:27.480 you
01:08:27.700 do
01:08:28.000 the
01:08:28.220 entire
01:08:28.580 time
01:08:29.060 you
01:08:29.440 were
01:08:29.580 there
01:08:29.900 would
01:08:30.340 be
01:08:30.620 wondering
01:08:31.120 what
01:08:31.660 the
01:08:31.860 hell
01:08:32.060 was
01:08:32.300 in
01:08:32.480 that
01:08:32.720 room
01:08:33.160 because
01:08:33.700 that's
01:08:34.280 what
01:08:34.420 human
01:08:34.680 beings
01:08:34.980 are
01:08:35.120 like
01:08:35.340 we're
01:08:35.740 curious
01:08:36.880 in a
01:08:37.460 manner
01:08:37.920 that
01:08:38.140 cannot
01:08:38.440 be
01:08:38.860 controlled
01:08:39.440 and so
01:08:40.160 Eve
01:08:40.520 was
01:08:41.100 curious
01:08:41.460 and
01:08:41.840 the
01:08:42.340 snake
01:08:42.640 gave
01:08:43.040 her
01:08:43.160 the
01:08:43.340 fruit
01:08:43.620 and so
01:08:44.360 she
01:08:44.980 ate
01:08:45.620 it
01:08:45.780 he said
01:08:46.220 it was
01:08:46.480 good
01:08:46.780 to
01:08:47.000 eat
01:08:47.300 and
01:08:47.520 that
01:08:47.960 it
01:08:48.040 would
01:08:48.180 open
01:08:48.580 her
01:08:48.820 eyes
01:08:49.240 and
01:08:49.440 make
01:08:49.700 her
01:08:49.860 like
01:08:50.220 gods
01:08:51.400 like
01:08:51.880 the
01:08:52.060 gods
01:08:52.520 like
01:08:53.240 god
01:08:53.680 and so
01:08:55.020 she
01:08:55.240 did
01:08:55.520 and she
01:08:55.880 opened
01:08:56.360 and
01:08:57.540 she
01:08:57.960 ate
01:08:58.240 the
01:08:58.580 fruit
01:08:59.160 and
01:08:59.600 the
01:09:00.220 scales
01:09:00.800 fell
01:09:01.280 from
01:09:01.580 her
01:09:01.800 eyes
01:09:02.200 very
01:09:02.760 interesting
01:09:03.400 phrase
01:09:04.080 because
01:09:04.580 it
01:09:04.720 kind of
01:09:04.980 indicates
01:09:05.420 that
01:09:05.640 before
01:09:06.020 she
01:09:06.800 interacted
01:09:07.500 with
01:09:07.820 whatever
01:09:08.200 this
01:09:08.520 was
01:09:09.060 this
01:09:09.920 thing
01:09:10.180 that
01:09:10.300 was
01:09:10.440 outside
01:09:11.100 of
01:09:11.360 the
01:09:11.540 paradisal
01:09:12.160 world
01:09:12.560 right
01:09:12.860 that
01:09:13.360 indicated
01:09:14.140 maybe
01:09:14.480 the
01:09:14.720 broader
01:09:15.160 reality
01:09:15.880 and
01:09:16.220 even
01:09:16.480 the
01:09:16.700 malevolent
01:09:17.260 reality
01:09:17.700 that
01:09:17.980 surrounded
01:09:18.400 paradise
01:09:18.940 that
01:09:19.600 she
01:09:19.840 was
01:09:20.040 in
01:09:20.200 some
01:09:20.480 sense
01:09:20.940 naively
01:09:22.360 unconscious
01:09:23.160 and
01:09:23.680 blind
01:09:24.080 and
01:09:24.860 I
01:09:25.000 think
01:09:25.200 that's
01:09:25.520 a
01:09:25.660 perfectly
01:09:25.980 reasonable
01:09:26.420 way
01:09:26.740 of
01:09:26.920 looking
01:09:27.500 at
01:09:27.740 the
01:09:27.920 text
01:09:28.340 and
01:09:29.360 the
01:09:29.860 first
01:09:30.160 thing
01:09:30.740 she
01:09:30.940 does
01:09:31.240 is
01:09:31.620 share
01:09:33.720 the
01:09:33.920 fruit
01:09:34.100 with
01:09:34.280 her
01:09:34.400 husband
01:09:34.740 and
01:09:35.220 that's
01:09:35.700 an
01:09:35.820 interesting
01:09:36.220 idea
01:09:36.700 because
01:09:37.540 well
01:09:38.480 women
01:09:39.740 do
01:09:40.000 share
01:09:40.320 food
01:09:40.700 and
01:09:40.920 that's
01:09:41.300 a
01:09:41.440 human
01:09:41.740 characteristic
01:09:42.400 so
01:09:42.740 that's
01:09:43.040 really
01:09:43.240 something
01:09:43.600 because
01:09:43.920 it's
01:09:44.080 a
01:09:44.240 rare
01:09:44.500 characteristic
01:09:45.520 among
01:09:45.900 animals
01:09:46.380 and
01:09:46.620 humans
01:09:47.400 do
01:09:47.680 share
01:09:47.980 food
01:09:48.300 even
01:09:48.620 among
01:09:49.360 those
01:09:49.720 who
01:09:49.880 are
01:09:50.040 not
01:09:50.340 their
01:09:50.580 children
01:09:51.100 which
01:09:51.720 is
01:09:51.840 quite
01:09:52.080 the
01:09:52.280 remarkable
01:09:52.700 thing
01:09:53.120 and
01:09:54.000 Eve
01:09:54.720 recognizes
01:09:55.360 she's
01:09:55.800 naked
01:09:56.100 and
01:09:56.560 then
01:09:57.060 Adam
01:09:57.400 recognizes
01:09:58.040 she's
01:09:58.500 naked
01:09:58.780 and
01:09:59.280 that
01:09:59.460 means
01:09:59.720 they
01:09:59.900 both
01:10:00.180 become
01:10:00.540 self-conscious
01:10:01.620 because
01:10:02.560 to become
01:10:03.500 naked
01:10:03.880 is to
01:10:04.340 become
01:10:04.680 self-conscious
01:10:05.520 and
01:10:06.220 it's
01:10:06.420 also
01:10:06.660 the
01:10:06.900 case
01:10:07.140 I
01:10:07.340 believe
01:10:07.740 that
01:10:08.060 women
01:10:08.920 have
01:10:09.300 been
01:10:09.540 making
01:10:09.960 men
01:10:10.460 self-conscious
01:10:11.540 since
01:10:12.820 the beginning
01:10:13.400 of time
01:10:14.240 and
01:10:15.240 still do
01:10:16.080 so
01:10:16.460 I mean
01:10:16.880 there's
01:10:17.680 almost
01:10:18.060 nothing
01:10:18.460 that makes
01:10:18.920 a man
01:10:19.300 more
01:10:19.580 self-conscious
01:10:20.360 for example
01:10:21.100 than being
01:10:21.760 rejected
01:10:22.340 by a
01:10:22.820 woman
01:10:23.060 it's
01:10:24.040 part of
01:10:24.480 the
01:10:24.780 eternal
01:10:25.560 sort of
01:10:26.300 enmity
01:10:26.880 that
01:10:27.440 characterizes
01:10:28.280 the sexes
01:10:29.040 as well
01:10:29.440 as all
01:10:30.080 of the
01:10:30.340 wonderful
01:10:30.660 things
01:10:31.080 that
01:10:31.320 brings
01:10:31.940 us
01:10:32.140 together
01:10:32.540 in
01:10:33.200 any
01:10:33.420 case
01:10:33.800 Adam
01:10:34.380 and
01:10:34.560 Eve
01:10:34.820 realize
01:10:36.040 that
01:10:36.540 they're
01:10:37.000 naked
01:10:37.680 and
01:10:38.960 the
01:10:39.540 question
01:10:39.940 is
01:10:40.180 well
01:10:40.380 what
01:10:40.660 does
01:10:40.840 it
01:10:41.000 really
01:10:41.220 mean
01:10:41.740 to
01:10:42.520 realize
01:10:43.280 that
01:10:43.780 you're
01:10:44.020 naked
01:10:44.360 and
01:10:45.740 that's
01:10:49.900 the
01:10:50.060 rub
01:10:50.380 you
01:10:50.940 see
01:10:51.200 while
01:10:54.240 human
01:10:54.500 beings
01:10:54.760 stand
01:10:55.140 upright
01:10:55.560 which
01:10:56.220 is
01:10:56.320 kind
01:10:56.580 of
01:10:56.700 a
01:10:56.840 strange
01:10:57.140 characteristic
01:10:57.820 for
01:10:58.300 animals
01:11:00.540 we're
01:11:00.900 about
01:11:01.120 the only
01:11:01.500 creatures
01:11:02.160 that
01:11:02.360 manage
01:11:02.740 it
01:11:02.900 we
01:11:03.080 wander
01:11:03.380 around
01:11:03.680 on
01:11:03.880 two
01:11:04.080 feet
01:11:04.400 which
01:11:04.640 is
01:11:04.760 a
01:11:04.880 hell
01:11:05.100 of
01:11:05.240 a
01:11:05.740 spectacular
01:11:07.440 accomplishment
01:11:08.180 but
01:11:08.540 we've
01:11:08.940 been doing
01:11:09.220 it
01:11:09.360 for
01:11:09.480 a
01:11:09.600 long
01:11:09.780 time
01:11:10.060 so
01:11:10.240 we
01:11:10.380 kind
01:11:10.560 of
01:11:10.640 take
01:11:10.840 it
01:11:10.940 for
01:11:11.100 granted
01:11:11.420 but
01:11:12.060 one
01:11:12.980 of
01:11:13.120 the
01:11:13.340 characteristics
01:11:13.960 of
01:11:14.280 that
01:11:14.500 is
01:11:14.680 that
01:11:14.860 the
01:11:15.160 softest
01:11:16.260 parts
01:11:16.700 of
01:11:16.860 our
01:11:17.040 body
01:11:17.480 the
01:11:17.700 most
01:11:17.980 vulnerable
01:11:18.420 parts
01:11:18.840 are
01:11:19.020 fully
01:11:19.320 exposed
01:11:20.040 you know
01:11:20.760 whereas
01:11:21.000 animals
01:11:21.400 that
01:11:21.600 wander
01:11:21.840 around
01:11:22.100 on
01:11:22.260 all
01:11:22.460 fours
01:11:22.920 they
01:11:23.060 have
01:11:23.300 their
01:11:23.520 armoured
01:11:23.920 back
01:11:24.500 and
01:11:25.180 that
01:11:25.500 protects
01:11:25.940 them
01:11:26.160 from
01:11:26.400 attack
01:11:26.900 and
01:11:27.080 so
01:11:27.280 forth
01:11:27.600 but
01:11:27.780 also
01:11:28.060 from
01:11:28.340 the
01:11:28.600 analytic
01:11:29.440 view
01:11:30.060 let's
01:11:30.500 say
01:11:30.720 of
01:11:30.980 their
01:11:31.220 compatriots
01:11:32.300 who
01:11:32.440 are
01:11:32.580 nowhere
01:11:32.820 near
01:11:33.100 as
01:11:33.280 analytic
01:11:33.660 as
01:11:33.920 human
01:11:34.180 beings
01:11:34.520 are
01:11:34.740 and
01:11:34.860 so
01:11:34.980 we're
01:11:35.460 kind
01:11:35.640 of
01:11:35.760 fully
01:11:36.140 exposed
01:11:37.280 to
01:11:37.580 view
01:11:37.900 and
01:11:38.220 not
01:11:38.700 only
01:11:38.960 are
01:11:39.340 we
01:11:39.520 exposed
01:11:39.940 to
01:11:40.200 view
01:11:40.380 but
01:11:40.620 we're
01:11:40.840 exposed
01:11:41.160 to
01:11:41.580 all
01:11:41.820 of
01:11:41.960 the
01:11:42.140 judgment
01:11:42.620 that
01:11:43.280 that
01:11:43.600 view
01:11:44.180 indicates
01:11:45.400 and
01:11:45.580 you
01:11:45.940 certainly
01:11:46.220 see
01:11:46.500 this
01:11:46.800 I
01:11:47.220 would
01:11:47.540 say
01:11:47.740 more
01:11:48.100 painfully
01:11:48.660 with
01:11:48.900 women
01:11:49.180 because
01:11:49.600 women
01:11:50.780 are
01:11:51.040 more
01:11:51.380 sensitive
01:11:52.420 to
01:11:52.740 negative
01:11:53.020 emotion
01:11:53.500 and
01:11:54.220 body
01:11:54.700 shame
01:11:55.160 for
01:11:55.400 example
01:11:55.820 than
01:11:56.060 men
01:11:56.300 are
01:11:56.520 the
01:11:56.700 clinical
01:11:57.060 research
01:11:57.540 on
01:11:58.120 that
01:11:58.360 is
01:11:58.540 quite
01:11:58.800 clear
01:11:59.200 and
01:11:59.780 that's
01:12:00.060 because
01:12:00.400 there
01:12:00.980 is
01:12:01.180 a
01:12:01.320 tremendous
01:12:01.700 amount
01:12:02.100 of
01:12:02.280 pressure
01:12:02.920 social
01:12:04.140 pressure
01:12:04.580 with
01:12:04.840 regards
01:12:05.200 to
01:12:05.420 evaluation
01:12:06.040 of
01:12:06.720 the
01:12:07.280 manner
01:12:07.660 in
01:12:07.960 which
01:12:08.300 one
01:12:08.940 presents
01:12:09.640 themselves
01:12:10.440 physiologically
01:12:11.680 and so
01:12:12.580 there's
01:12:12.920 a
01:12:13.180 there's
01:12:13.740 a
01:12:13.860 source
01:12:14.100 of
01:12:14.300 shame
01:12:14.720 there
01:12:15.100 and
01:12:15.600 a
01:12:15.780 discontinuity
01:12:17.020 save
01:12:17.380 from
01:12:17.600 that
01:12:17.860 initial
01:12:18.620 unselfconscious
01:12:19.620 paradise
01:12:20.100 little
01:12:20.620 children
01:12:21.120 little
01:12:21.820 girls
01:12:22.280 little
01:12:22.760 boys
01:12:23.060 can
01:12:23.460 run
01:12:23.640 around
01:12:23.880 naked
01:12:24.260 they
01:12:24.680 don't
01:12:24.960 care
01:12:25.340 at
01:12:25.860 some
01:12:26.120 point
01:12:26.500 they
01:12:26.860 start
01:12:27.220 to
01:12:27.440 care
01:12:27.740 usually
01:12:28.380 around
01:12:28.740 three
01:12:29.180 my son
01:12:29.960 really
01:12:30.200 started
01:12:30.500 to
01:12:30.660 become
01:12:30.900 self
01:12:31.260 conscious
01:12:31.680 when he
01:12:32.360 was
01:12:32.500 around
01:12:32.740 three
01:12:33.120 didn't
01:12:33.700 seem
01:12:33.880 to
01:12:33.980 have
01:12:34.100 anything
01:12:34.340 to
01:12:34.540 do
01:12:34.660 with
01:12:34.820 what
01:12:34.980 we
01:12:35.160 were
01:12:35.300 doing
01:12:35.580 my
01:12:36.040 daughter
01:12:36.340 became
01:12:36.740 self
01:12:37.080 conscious
01:12:37.440 in that
01:12:37.840 manner
01:12:38.080 quite a
01:12:38.460 bit
01:12:38.580 later
01:12:38.880 I
01:12:39.380 can't
01:12:39.760 see
01:12:39.900 that
01:12:40.040 we
01:12:40.180 treated
01:12:40.460 them
01:12:40.680 particularly
01:12:41.200 differently
01:12:41.940 in any
01:12:44.140 case
01:12:44.520 you know
01:12:45.020 by
01:12:45.420 by
01:12:45.920 by
01:12:46.520 10
01:12:47.000 most
01:12:47.600 children
01:12:47.980 are
01:12:48.260 wandering
01:12:48.860 around
01:12:49.160 with
01:12:49.340 clothing
01:12:49.740 on
01:12:50.040 and
01:12:50.180 we
01:12:50.560 tend
01:12:50.760 to
01:12:51.020 continue
01:12:51.620 doing
01:12:51.900 that
01:12:52.120 for
01:12:52.280 the
01:12:52.400 rest
01:12:52.580 of
01:12:52.720 our
01:12:52.860 lives
01:12:53.260 covering
01:12:54.040 ourselves
01:12:54.480 up
01:12:54.860 that
01:12:55.680 that
01:12:56.000 that
01:12:56.440 nakedness
01:12:57.420 is
01:12:57.600 what does
01:12:58.740 it mean
01:12:59.240 well
01:12:59.540 it means
01:13:00.080 to
01:13:00.320 it
01:13:01.080 it means
01:13:01.620 a variety
01:13:02.220 of things
01:13:02.680 it means
01:13:03.100 to
01:13:03.320 see
01:13:03.960 your
01:13:04.920 vulnerability
01:13:05.620 in its
01:13:06.820 complete
01:13:07.420 manifestation
01:13:08.300 to understand
01:13:09.800 that you're
01:13:10.260 a vulnerable
01:13:10.940 creature
01:13:11.480 in the
01:13:12.320 world
01:13:12.660 and
01:13:13.320 the
01:13:13.820 story
01:13:14.240 you know
01:13:15.120 later
01:13:15.600 as the
01:13:16.100 story
01:13:16.300 develops
01:13:16.760 God
01:13:17.840 curses
01:13:18.560 people
01:13:18.960 with
01:13:19.220 death
01:13:19.740 and
01:13:19.980 there's
01:13:20.540 an
01:13:20.700 association
01:13:21.400 between
01:13:22.480 the
01:13:23.060 realization
01:13:23.480 of
01:13:23.880 nakedness
01:13:24.460 and
01:13:24.680 the
01:13:24.880 realization
01:13:25.560 of
01:13:26.020 death
01:13:26.400 and
01:13:26.580 to
01:13:26.980 see
01:13:27.220 yourself
01:13:27.660 as
01:13:27.920 a
01:13:28.400 vulnerable
01:13:28.920 physical
01:13:29.520 creature
01:13:30.080 to
01:13:30.820 develop
01:13:31.160 that
01:13:31.380 full
01:13:31.660 self
01:13:32.020 consciousness
01:13:32.560 that
01:13:32.900 comes
01:13:33.140 along
01:13:33.420 with
01:13:33.560 having
01:13:33.860 the
01:13:34.060 scales
01:13:34.480 fall
01:13:35.060 from
01:13:35.320 your
01:13:35.480 eyes
01:13:35.820 and
01:13:36.020 having
01:13:36.380 your
01:13:36.620 eyes
01:13:36.880 open
01:13:37.200 means
01:13:38.100 to
01:13:38.420 be
01:13:38.960 aware
01:13:39.360 of
01:13:39.560 your
01:13:39.700 limitations
01:13:40.420 as
01:13:41.160 a
01:13:41.320 mortal
01:13:41.620 creature
01:13:42.200 across
01:13:43.160 for
01:13:43.440 now
01:13:43.960 in front
01:13:44.920 of
01:13:45.040 everyone's
01:13:45.520 social
01:13:45.780 judgment
01:13:46.140 and
01:13:46.380 also
01:13:46.720 across
01:13:47.620 the
01:13:47.820 entire
01:13:48.140 span
01:13:48.580 of
01:13:48.720 time
01:13:49.020 it's
01:13:49.460 really
01:13:49.640 at
01:13:49.840 that
01:13:50.020 point
01:13:50.300 that
01:13:50.520 death
01:13:50.900 itself
01:13:51.420 enters
01:13:51.800 the
01:13:52.020 world
01:13:52.300 knowledge
01:13:52.940 of
01:13:53.180 death
01:13:53.480 which
01:13:56.400 death
01:13:56.720 for
01:13:57.220 metaphorical
01:13:57.920 purposes
01:13:58.360 and
01:13:58.620 Adam
01:13:59.080 and
01:13:59.220 Eve
01:13:59.360 immediately
01:13:59.880 make
01:14:00.780 themselves
01:14:01.460 clothing
01:14:02.620 rough
01:14:03.360 clothing
01:14:03.820 out of
01:14:04.500 plants
01:14:05.100 and cover
01:14:05.600 themselves
01:14:06.020 up
01:14:06.340 because
01:14:06.800 now
01:14:07.160 they're
01:14:07.480 ashamed
01:14:08.080 and
01:14:09.000 the
01:14:09.520 question
01:14:09.880 is
01:14:10.180 well
01:14:10.800 why
01:14:11.100 are
01:14:11.240 they
01:14:11.400 ashamed
01:14:11.900 and
01:14:12.680 that's
01:14:13.120 a
01:14:13.300 stupid
01:14:13.680 question
01:14:14.360 because
01:14:15.440 the
01:14:15.900 reverse
01:14:16.220 question
01:14:16.680 is
01:14:16.920 really
01:14:17.240 the
01:14:18.020 proper
01:14:18.560 one
01:14:18.820 which
01:14:19.060 is
01:14:19.280 once
01:14:19.980 you
01:14:20.200 realize
01:14:20.760 that
01:14:21.060 you're
01:14:21.380 insufficient
01:14:22.220 in
01:14:22.660 your
01:14:22.860 own
01:14:23.160 eyes
01:14:23.580 and
01:14:24.160 subject
01:14:24.680 to
01:14:24.960 negative
01:14:25.340 judgment
01:14:25.800 on
01:14:26.080 the
01:14:26.220 part
01:14:26.420 of
01:14:26.540 your
01:14:26.700 peers
01:14:27.140 and
01:14:27.880 also
01:14:28.460 fragile
01:14:29.180 and
01:14:30.100 mortal
01:14:30.620 and
01:14:30.940 destined
01:14:31.360 for
01:14:31.660 death
01:14:32.200 how
01:14:32.820 could
01:14:33.120 you
01:14:33.280 not
01:14:33.660 be
01:14:33.960 ashamed
01:14:34.560 and
01:14:35.700 so
01:14:35.880 that's
01:14:36.360 that's
01:14:36.940 a rough
01:14:37.300 break
01:14:37.740 for
01:14:38.400 Adam
01:14:38.640 and
01:14:38.800 Eve
01:14:39.080 and
01:14:39.380 now
01:14:39.860 they're
01:14:40.100 a bit
01:14:40.360 more
01:14:40.620 like
01:14:40.860 gods
01:14:41.320 in
01:14:41.620 that
01:14:41.820 they
01:14:42.580 they
01:14:44.520 know
01:14:44.780 something
01:14:45.260 about
01:14:46.080 the
01:14:46.680 nature
01:14:46.960 of
01:14:47.160 the
01:14:47.280 world
01:14:47.620 but
01:14:48.360 they've
01:14:49.060 also
01:14:49.320 lost
01:14:49.760 something
01:14:50.240 that
01:14:50.720 they'll
01:14:50.940 never
01:14:51.220 regain
01:14:51.700 next
01:14:52.460 day
01:14:52.840 Adam
01:14:54.020 and
01:14:54.160 Eve
01:14:54.320 are
01:14:54.420 in
01:14:54.540 the
01:14:54.660 garden
01:14:55.040 wandering
01:14:56.200 about
01:14:56.500 again
01:14:56.840 and
01:14:57.320 God
01:14:58.220 is
01:14:58.440 used
01:14:58.700 to
01:14:58.880 walking
01:14:59.200 around
01:14:59.520 with
01:14:59.700 Adam
01:15:00.040 which
01:15:00.940 is
01:15:01.200 kind
01:15:01.740 of
01:15:01.800 an
01:15:01.920 interesting
01:15:02.320 idea
01:15:02.700 because
01:15:03.000 it
01:15:03.220 means
01:15:03.780 I
01:15:04.240 think
01:15:04.480 like
01:15:04.800 it
01:15:05.360 sort
01:15:05.580 of
01:15:05.720 means
01:15:06.020 the
01:15:06.320 same
01:15:06.540 thing
01:15:06.840 that
01:15:07.060 characterizes
01:15:08.880 children
01:15:09.420 you know
01:15:09.880 and
01:15:10.360 and
01:15:10.380 maybe
01:15:10.520 animals
01:15:11.060 children
01:15:11.920 are
01:15:12.140 sort
01:15:12.360 of
01:15:12.460 beyond
01:15:12.780 good
01:15:13.080 and
01:15:13.240 evil
01:15:13.480 and
01:15:13.720 and
01:15:14.220 children
01:15:14.580 and
01:15:16.160 animals
01:15:16.560 exist
01:15:17.240 in the
01:15:17.560 natural
01:15:17.940 world
01:15:18.360 in a
01:15:18.700 in a
01:15:19.320 manner
01:15:19.580 where
01:15:20.440 they're
01:15:20.600 not
01:15:20.800 distinct
01:15:21.620 from
01:15:22.000 it
01:15:22.160 like
01:15:22.400 they're
01:15:22.660 immersed
01:15:23.120 in
01:15:23.420 it
01:15:23.620 you know
01:15:24.280 and I
01:15:24.640 think
01:15:24.860 that's
01:15:25.240 what it
01:15:25.520 means
01:15:25.760 in
01:15:25.900 some
01:15:26.100 sense
01:15:26.400 to
01:15:26.600 walk
01:15:26.960 unconsciously
01:15:27.760 with
01:15:27.920 God
01:15:28.300 is
01:15:28.500 you
01:15:28.620 just
01:15:28.840 act
01:15:29.480 out
01:15:29.720 your
01:15:29.920 life
01:15:30.320 and
01:15:30.500 you're
01:15:30.860 not
01:15:31.000 self
01:15:31.300 conscious
01:15:31.680 you're
01:15:31.980 just
01:15:32.160 doing
01:15:32.580 the
01:15:32.860 things
01:15:33.180 that
01:15:33.380 you
01:15:33.520 do
01:15:33.840 and
01:15:39.880 instinctual
01:15:40.600 pathway
01:15:41.160 and
01:15:42.160 and
01:15:42.900 and
01:15:43.160 that's
01:15:43.540 perhaps
01:15:44.140 a fine
01:15:44.840 although
01:15:45.360 rather
01:15:45.820 blind
01:15:46.300 way
01:15:46.560 of
01:15:46.740 being
01:15:47.140 anyways
01:15:48.040 God's
01:15:49.180 walking
01:15:49.520 around
01:15:49.760 in the
01:15:49.980 garden
01:15:50.320 which
01:15:50.660 apparently
01:15:51.000 he does
01:15:51.400 when it's
01:15:51.800 cool
01:15:52.140 in the
01:15:52.800 evening
01:15:53.100 and
01:15:54.080 he's
01:15:54.860 looking
01:15:55.060 for
01:15:55.280 Adam
01:15:55.660 and
01:15:57.180 Adam
01:15:57.520 isn't
01:15:57.800 nowhere
01:15:58.020 to be
01:15:58.300 found
01:15:58.720 which
01:15:59.440 says
01:16:00.160 very
01:16:00.460 little
01:16:00.680 for
01:16:00.920 Adam's
01:16:01.340 intelligence
01:16:01.900 as far
01:16:02.440 as I'm
01:16:02.760 concerned
01:16:03.120 since
01:16:03.500 it's
01:16:04.140 God
01:16:04.540 that's
01:16:04.840 looking
01:16:05.100 for
01:16:05.440 him
01:16:05.680 and
01:16:05.880 Adam
01:16:06.480 happens
01:16:06.900 to be
01:16:07.240 hiding
01:16:07.500 behind
01:16:07.880 a bush
01:16:08.480 which
01:16:09.040 is not
01:16:09.340 a
01:16:09.460 very
01:16:09.660 sophisticated
01:16:10.320 tactic
01:16:11.240 given
01:16:12.020 that
01:16:12.340 it's
01:16:12.940 likely
01:16:13.380 that
01:16:13.680 the
01:16:13.880 almighty
01:16:14.340 creator
01:16:15.060 of
01:16:15.340 the
01:16:15.500 universe
01:16:15.920 can
01:16:16.220 see
01:16:16.680 through
01:16:17.040 bushes
01:16:17.540 if
01:16:18.060 he
01:16:18.220 chooses
01:16:18.600 to
01:16:18.920 but
01:16:19.440 anyways
01:16:19.900 none
01:16:20.960 of this
01:16:21.300 part of
01:16:21.660 the story
01:16:22.060 reflects
01:16:22.540 that well
01:16:23.060 on
01:16:23.300 Adam
01:16:23.580 and
01:16:24.320 God
01:16:25.520 which is
01:16:26.640 another
01:16:26.980 reason
01:16:27.340 why I
01:16:27.700 think
01:16:27.880 the idea
01:16:28.440 that
01:16:28.820 Genesis
01:16:29.580 in
01:16:29.940 particular
01:16:30.360 is a
01:16:30.740 patriarchal
01:16:31.380 document
01:16:31.840 is an
01:16:32.280 absolutely
01:16:32.780 ridiculous
01:16:33.500 proposition
01:16:34.220 because
01:16:34.980 it isn't
01:16:35.340 obvious
01:16:35.700 at all
01:16:36.060 that Adam
01:16:36.500 comes off
01:16:37.040 particularly
01:16:37.500 well
01:16:37.880 in the
01:16:38.160 story
01:16:38.460 Adam
01:16:39.780 God
01:16:40.520 calls out
01:16:41.060 to Adam
01:16:41.400 and says
01:16:41.740 look
01:16:42.200 he doesn't
01:16:43.160 say this
01:16:43.820 it's a
01:16:44.180 paraphrase
01:16:44.800 I don't
01:16:45.060 know what
01:16:45.340 the hell
01:16:45.660 God said
01:16:46.320 but he
01:16:46.620 said something
01:16:47.160 like this
01:16:47.780 where are
01:16:50.080 you
01:16:50.460 we're
01:16:51.060 supposed to be
01:16:51.620 out here
01:16:51.920 for a walk
01:16:52.740 like what's
01:16:53.560 going on
01:16:54.240 and Adam
01:16:55.280 is behind
01:16:55.940 the bush
01:16:56.320 and he
01:16:56.520 says
01:16:56.700 I'm over
01:16:57.460 here
01:16:57.880 and God
01:16:59.300 says
01:16:59.580 I'm
01:16:59.820 hiding
01:17:00.260 and God
01:17:01.300 says
01:17:01.640 why are
01:17:02.980 you hiding
01:17:03.580 and Adam
01:17:05.180 says
01:17:05.500 well I
01:17:05.940 found out
01:17:06.400 that I'm
01:17:06.780 naked
01:17:07.120 and God
01:17:08.200 says
01:17:08.400 how did
01:17:08.760 you find
01:17:09.160 out that
01:17:09.540 you were
01:17:09.820 naked
01:17:10.220 now he
01:17:11.220 knows
01:17:11.560 because he's
01:17:12.000 God
01:17:12.400 and Adam
01:17:13.600 immediately
01:17:14.380 takes the
01:17:15.180 cowardly way
01:17:16.420 out
01:17:16.700 and he
01:17:17.020 points to
01:17:19.160 Eve
01:17:19.580 this is so
01:17:20.620 perfect
01:17:21.040 and he
01:17:21.340 says
01:17:21.500 you know
01:17:21.740 that woman
01:17:22.620 you made
01:17:23.140 me
01:17:23.520 it was
01:17:24.880 her fault
01:17:25.740 she ate
01:17:27.320 the fruit
01:17:28.080 of the tree
01:17:28.640 of the knowledge
01:17:29.260 of good and evil
01:17:29.880 and she wasn't
01:17:30.400 supposed to do
01:17:30.920 that
01:17:31.160 and then she
01:17:31.500 gave it to
01:17:31.920 me and now
01:17:32.860 I'm in this
01:17:33.400 terrible condition
01:17:35.180 and if it's
01:17:36.140 not her fault
01:17:37.020 which it probably
01:17:37.720 is then it's
01:17:38.920 your fault
01:17:39.500 because you
01:17:39.900 made her
01:17:40.480 and so
01:17:42.940 men have been
01:17:44.220 blaming women
01:17:44.900 and God
01:17:45.400 for making
01:17:45.900 themselves
01:17:46.360 conscious
01:17:46.840 for a very
01:17:47.860 long time
01:17:48.640 yeah
01:17:51.500 yeah
01:17:52.400 and that's
01:17:52.780 worth thinking
01:17:53.260 about for
01:17:53.740 about 50
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01:19:22.320 it's not all that
01:19:26.520 happens though
01:19:27.240 when they eat
01:19:27.880 the fruit of the tree
01:19:28.980 of the knowledge
01:19:29.860 of good and evil
01:19:30.500 because it's not
01:19:31.180 called the fruit
01:19:31.820 of the tree
01:19:32.240 of the knowledge
01:19:32.800 of nakedness
01:19:33.680 it's called
01:19:34.720 the fruit of the tree
01:19:35.480 of the knowledge
01:19:36.040 of good and evil
01:19:36.740 and I thought about
01:19:37.820 that for a tremendous
01:19:38.760 amount of time
01:19:39.540 it's like
01:19:39.920 what in the world
01:19:41.620 because I assume
01:19:42.420 these old stories
01:19:43.200 make sense
01:19:44.040 you know
01:19:44.740 it's a game I play
01:19:45.780 it's like they're old
01:19:47.040 they've been around
01:19:47.700 a long time
01:19:48.400 I'm not sure
01:19:49.320 why they're there
01:19:50.020 but there they are
01:19:51.140 they're at the basis
01:19:53.040 of our culture
01:19:54.040 like many many
01:19:55.360 of the stories
01:19:56.300 that we depend on
01:19:57.200 depend on them
01:19:58.140 our whole culture
01:19:59.120 grew out of their
01:20:00.180 roots let's say
01:20:02.060 and so
01:20:02.520 I assume that our ancestors
01:20:04.520 who managed to survive
01:20:05.860 conditions
01:20:06.380 that would have done
01:20:07.200 a lot of us in
01:20:08.060 very rapidly
01:20:08.800 I can tell you
01:20:09.640 were a lot smarter
01:20:11.000 than we think
01:20:11.800 and that the mysterious
01:20:13.340 processes that
01:20:14.420 produced these stories
01:20:16.420 and compelled us
01:20:17.300 to remember them
01:20:18.060 are a lot more
01:20:19.220 psychologically significant
01:20:20.480 than we generally
01:20:21.340 tend to presume
01:20:22.180 so I give them
01:20:23.000 the benefit of the doubt
01:20:24.100 and try to understand
01:20:25.540 why it is
01:20:26.320 that they might make sense
01:20:27.740 instead of assuming
01:20:28.980 that they don't
01:20:30.000 and that's not easy
01:20:31.600 as they're complicated stories
01:20:33.920 and so I thought
01:20:34.920 about this nakedness
01:20:36.160 knowledge of good
01:20:37.480 and evil idea
01:20:38.440 for a very very long time
01:20:40.600 like about 20 years
01:20:42.080 puzzling it out
01:20:43.180 what the hell's
01:20:44.260 the relationship
01:20:44.960 between discovering
01:20:46.300 that you're naked
01:20:47.020 and discovering
01:20:48.140 good and evil
01:20:49.460 and then one day
01:20:50.640 mostly because of
01:20:52.320 studying totalitarianism
01:20:53.900 totalitarianism
01:20:55.300 and the atrocity
01:20:56.880 the proclivity
01:20:57.680 for people to commit
01:20:58.720 atrocity in the service
01:21:00.120 of their group belief
01:21:01.680 or maybe just because
01:21:03.280 that's what they were like
01:21:04.540 clued me in
01:21:06.420 and I thought
01:21:07.740 I see
01:21:08.540 this is one of the things
01:21:09.620 that really makes people
01:21:10.900 different than animals
01:21:11.960 it's like
01:21:12.520 you know
01:21:13.480 it's one thing to realize
01:21:14.580 that you're naked
01:21:15.360 to realize that you're naked
01:21:16.680 means that you know
01:21:17.680 that you're limited
01:21:18.600 in time and space
01:21:19.820 that you're mortal
01:21:21.240 and that you're subject
01:21:22.460 to degeneration
01:21:23.360 and to social humiliation
01:21:25.520 and to your own harsh judgment
01:21:27.080 all of that
01:21:28.100 nakedness
01:21:28.980 to know that you're
01:21:30.040 vulnerable
01:21:31.200 against the world
01:21:32.540 and definitely
01:21:33.400 a source of shame
01:21:34.580 because of that
01:21:36.080 and
01:21:37.340 a felt
01:21:38.460 lack of self-sufficiency
01:21:39.960 and no wonder
01:21:41.000 and no wonder
01:21:41.680 it's understandable
01:21:43.420 but the other thing is
01:21:44.800 is that
01:21:45.160 this is
01:21:46.280 and this is the rub
01:21:47.340 it's like
01:21:48.240 if you're out in the veld
01:21:50.140 and you're not being
01:21:51.420 very careful
01:21:52.060 and a hungry lion
01:21:53.660 jumps on you
01:21:54.460 and eats you
01:21:55.840 you don't really think
01:21:57.120 of the lion as evil
01:21:58.220 I mean
01:21:58.640 you might write
01:21:59.340 at that moment
01:22:00.180 but
01:22:00.900 you know
01:22:01.740 philosophically
01:22:03.060 it's not evil
01:22:03.860 it's just hungry
01:22:04.720 and as soon as
01:22:06.000 it's not hungry
01:22:06.680 then
01:22:06.980 it goes and has a sleep
01:22:09.320 and it's not up to some
01:22:10.960 malevolent trick
01:22:11.920 it's
01:22:12.280 it's done for the day
01:22:13.620 but
01:22:14.420 human being
01:22:15.700 that's a whole different
01:22:16.840 sort of creature
01:22:17.580 and
01:22:17.940 because
01:22:18.680 human being
01:22:19.580 is capable of doing
01:22:20.620 terrible things
01:22:21.560 to someone else
01:22:22.500 and
01:22:23.220 consciously so
01:22:24.720 you think
01:22:25.420 well what's the connection
01:22:26.540 between that
01:22:27.200 and nakedness itself
01:22:28.340 and
01:22:28.580 it seems to be this
01:22:29.900 is like
01:22:30.280 here's the thing
01:22:32.080 is that
01:22:32.460 once I realize
01:22:33.960 that I can be hurt
01:22:35.240 you know
01:22:35.920 I have a self-conscious
01:22:37.180 model of my own
01:22:38.500 vulnerability
01:22:39.160 then I can generalize
01:22:41.880 that to other people
01:22:42.780 I can think
01:22:43.260 oh
01:22:43.560 this is interesting
01:22:44.580 here's how I can be hurt
01:22:46.380 by myself
01:22:47.120 here's how I can be hurt
01:22:48.480 by society
01:22:49.300 here's how I can be hurt
01:22:50.680 by nature
01:22:51.320 and by the unknown
01:22:52.640 and what that implies
01:22:54.020 is that
01:22:54.520 well
01:22:55.140 you can be hurt
01:22:55.980 with exactly
01:22:57.580 the same mechanisms
01:22:58.660 and that
01:23:00.780 immediately
01:23:01.660 becomes part
01:23:02.800 of my
01:23:03.420 what would you say
01:23:05.340 my repertoire
01:23:06.280 of ability
01:23:07.300 and then all of a sudden
01:23:08.960 the world is no longer
01:23:10.540 a walled
01:23:12.260 a walled garden
01:23:14.900 and a well watered place
01:23:16.220 but it's a moral story
01:23:17.680 because
01:23:18.240 with that ability
01:23:19.840 to inflict
01:23:20.920 suffering
01:23:22.100 comes
01:23:23.040 the knowledge
01:23:24.280 of good and evil
01:23:25.160 as far as I'm concerned
01:23:26.560 those are identical
01:23:27.620 propositions
01:23:28.600 because now we have
01:23:29.900 the choice
01:23:30.600 a deep choice
01:23:31.440 about how we're going to
01:23:32.220 treat ourselves
01:23:33.200 and each other
01:23:33.860 we can inflict
01:23:35.120 tremendous pain
01:23:36.860 and suffering
01:23:37.500 on each other
01:23:38.140 in a very
01:23:39.220 voluntary
01:23:40.320 and
01:23:41.220 conscious manner
01:23:43.440 in a way
01:23:44.880 that no other animal
01:23:45.820 can manage
01:23:46.600 and that's
01:23:47.760 the dawning
01:23:48.720 of the
01:23:49.620 moral sense
01:23:51.020 that capacity
01:23:52.420 we now have
01:23:53.380 to choose
01:23:54.900 to
01:23:55.660 mitigate
01:23:56.980 or exaggerate
01:23:58.360 suffering
01:23:59.140 and
01:24:00.020 and that's
01:24:00.740 not all
01:24:01.200 but it's
01:24:01.600 a huge
01:24:01.920 part of it
01:24:02.480 and
01:24:02.620 anyways
01:24:03.420 God tells
01:24:05.620 Adam
01:24:05.920 well
01:24:06.220 you know
01:24:06.580 you weren't
01:24:07.740 supposed to do
01:24:08.340 this
01:24:08.640 and now you're
01:24:09.180 in trouble
01:24:09.600 and he
01:24:09.960 kicks him
01:24:10.740 out of the
01:24:11.260 garden
01:24:11.600 and he says
01:24:12.240 to Adam
01:24:13.000 well now
01:24:14.400 you're going to
01:24:14.720 have to work
01:24:15.320 in the
01:24:15.660 sweat of your
01:24:17.960 brow
01:24:18.300 and
01:24:18.540 the world's
01:24:19.480 going to
01:24:19.780 bring up
01:24:20.440 thistles
01:24:21.000 and thorns
01:24:21.620 and
01:24:21.920 it's going to
01:24:22.980 be a hard
01:24:23.440 lot
01:24:23.820 and
01:24:24.040 you know
01:24:24.660 you're going to
01:24:25.160 strive and toil
01:24:26.080 in difficulty
01:24:27.300 until you die
01:24:28.460 and from dust
01:24:29.680 you arose
01:24:30.460 and to dust
01:24:31.340 you will
01:24:31.760 return
01:24:32.680 and to the woman
01:24:33.320 he says
01:24:33.820 well you're in
01:24:34.780 trouble as well
01:24:35.540 because now
01:24:36.260 you're going to
01:24:36.700 be under the
01:24:37.280 thumb of your
01:24:37.820 husband
01:24:38.180 he doesn't say
01:24:39.320 that you should
01:24:39.960 be or that
01:24:40.600 that's a good
01:24:41.280 idea
01:24:41.700 but that's
01:24:42.400 what's going
01:24:42.840 to inevitably
01:24:43.420 happen
01:24:43.960 and that you're
01:24:44.740 going to have
01:24:45.120 terrible pain
01:24:45.960 in childbirth
01:24:46.840 and that
01:24:47.720 life is also
01:24:49.380 going to be
01:24:50.040 very difficult
01:24:50.860 for you
01:24:52.280 and that's
01:24:54.140 where that
01:24:54.680 story
01:24:55.480 essentially
01:24:56.820 ends
01:24:57.320 the next
01:24:59.580 story
01:25:00.000 one of
01:25:00.700 Cain and
01:25:01.080 Abel
01:25:01.420 plays on
01:25:02.760 that
01:25:03.040 because
01:25:03.400 in a very
01:25:04.160 interesting
01:25:04.620 way
01:25:04.980 because
01:25:05.280 it indicates
01:25:06.440 what happens
01:25:07.360 and I would
01:25:08.460 say it
01:25:08.980 what supports
01:25:11.020 my general
01:25:11.660 hypothesis
01:25:12.300 about what
01:25:13.460 the first
01:25:14.060 story means
01:25:14.900 because what
01:25:15.460 happens with
01:25:16.080 Cain and
01:25:16.460 Abel
01:25:16.780 is that
01:25:17.300 well they're
01:25:17.960 brothers
01:25:18.460 right
01:25:18.880 and
01:25:19.880 so
01:25:20.840 hypothetically
01:25:21.620 the first
01:25:22.080 two real
01:25:22.780 human beings
01:25:23.500 and they
01:25:24.500 don't really
01:25:24.880 like each
01:25:25.400 other
01:25:25.700 Abel
01:25:26.540 is a
01:25:27.320 good guy
01:25:27.820 by all
01:25:28.280 appearances
01:25:28.800 God smiles
01:25:30.660 on him
01:25:31.140 fate smiles
01:25:31.980 on him
01:25:32.280 how about
01:25:32.580 if we put
01:25:32.960 it that way
01:25:33.460 everything that
01:25:34.080 he does
01:25:34.560 seems to
01:25:35.380 work out
01:25:35.820 well
01:25:36.160 he makes
01:25:36.980 sacrifices
01:25:37.920 which the
01:25:38.680 text insists
01:25:39.780 upon
01:25:40.300 and the
01:25:41.060 sacrifices
01:25:41.720 are rewarded
01:25:42.640 by God
01:25:43.340 that's a
01:25:44.000 very
01:25:44.280 very
01:25:44.680 very
01:25:45.060 very
01:25:45.520 important
01:25:46.480 crucial
01:25:47.280 document
01:25:48.200 because
01:25:48.620 we
01:25:49.420 we already
01:25:49.800 noted
01:25:50.540 that
01:25:50.900 men
01:25:51.540 and
01:25:52.180 women
01:25:52.520 had
01:25:52.940 discovered
01:25:53.540 time
01:25:54.320 in
01:25:54.980 Genesis
01:25:55.480 they
01:25:55.940 discovered
01:25:56.540 the
01:25:56.800 duration
01:25:57.400 of their
01:25:57.760 life
01:25:58.060 and the
01:25:58.320 existence
01:25:58.720 of death
01:25:59.300 and the
01:25:59.620 necessity
01:26:00.060 for toil
01:26:00.820 and by the
01:26:01.800 time we get
01:26:02.260 to Cain and
01:26:02.720 Abel
01:26:03.040 human beings
01:26:03.880 have discovered
01:26:04.580 in this
01:26:05.700 dramatic
01:26:06.220 manner
01:26:06.680 that if
01:26:07.260 they make
01:26:07.620 sacrifices
01:26:08.500 in the
01:26:09.020 present
01:26:09.540 that hypothetically
01:26:10.760 the future
01:26:11.440 can be
01:26:11.880 better
01:26:12.320 and that's
01:26:13.400 that's
01:26:13.760 like
01:26:14.080 I don't know
01:26:14.880 if that's
01:26:15.440 not the
01:26:15.840 major
01:26:16.260 discovery
01:26:16.900 of mankind
01:26:17.580 it's certainly
01:26:18.380 among the
01:26:19.080 top one
01:26:19.620 or two
01:26:20.080 because it's
01:26:21.320 very
01:26:21.620 it's really
01:26:22.400 something for a
01:26:23.260 creature
01:26:23.620 for an animal
01:26:24.380 like us
01:26:25.120 to notice
01:26:26.120 that if we
01:26:27.480 give up
01:26:27.860 something that
01:26:28.400 we want
01:26:28.820 right now
01:26:29.660 we can sort
01:26:30.800 of bargain
01:26:31.340 with fate
01:26:32.200 as it were
01:26:32.940 to get
01:26:33.620 something better
01:26:34.340 in the future
01:26:35.060 and that's
01:26:36.000 really what you
01:26:36.540 do when you
01:26:37.020 work
01:26:37.360 right
01:26:37.600 because
01:26:37.900 when you
01:26:38.400 work
01:26:38.680 by definition
01:26:39.620 you're doing
01:26:40.120 things that
01:26:40.560 you'd rather
01:26:40.940 not do
01:26:41.560 right now
01:26:42.380 because otherwise
01:26:43.040 it wouldn't
01:26:43.660 be work
01:26:44.260 and the reason
01:26:45.020 that you're
01:26:45.320 doing that
01:26:45.700 is because
01:26:46.040 you think
01:26:46.420 well if I
01:26:46.840 give up
01:26:47.320 what I
01:26:47.780 really want
01:26:48.340 to do
01:26:48.600 impulsively
01:26:49.300 right now
01:26:50.120 then over
01:26:50.760 the medium
01:26:51.220 to long
01:26:51.700 term
01:26:51.960 things will
01:26:52.780 be better
01:26:53.280 and so
01:26:53.880 you learn
01:26:54.720 you believe
01:26:55.420 that making
01:26:55.920 the appropriate
01:26:56.560 sacrifices
01:26:57.340 has the
01:26:58.400 propitiates
01:26:59.520 God
01:27:00.320 let's say
01:27:01.480 metaphorically
01:27:02.620 and Abel's
01:27:04.320 sacrifices
01:27:04.940 work
01:27:05.420 man everything
01:27:06.080 he touches
01:27:06.620 turns to
01:27:07.400 sheep
01:27:08.080 and camels
01:27:08.840 and women
01:27:09.400 and he has
01:27:10.260 everything he wants
01:27:11.160 and everyone
01:27:11.920 likes him
01:27:12.580 and everybody
01:27:13.200 thinks he's
01:27:13.640 a good guy
01:27:14.440 and you know
01:27:15.740 that's pretty good
01:27:16.440 for Abel
01:27:16.960 but Cain
01:27:18.300 isn't doing
01:27:19.420 so well
01:27:20.060 and nothing
01:27:21.440 he sacrifices
01:27:23.320 appears to have
01:27:24.280 the proper effect
01:27:25.560 and there is
01:27:26.540 some idea
01:27:27.280 in the story
01:27:27.980 that maybe
01:27:28.760 the sacrifices
01:27:29.660 he makes
01:27:30.320 are a little bit
01:27:31.240 on the half-hearted
01:27:32.120 side
01:27:32.620 and that God
01:27:33.940 isn't all that
01:27:34.800 thrilled at those
01:27:36.160 sacrifices
01:27:36.800 as a consequence
01:27:37.740 and that's really
01:27:38.760 worth thinking about
01:27:39.600 again for about
01:27:40.380 50 years
01:27:41.220 because it is
01:27:42.680 possible that
01:27:43.640 if you're making
01:27:44.360 sacrifices
01:27:45.120 and they're not
01:27:46.220 working out
01:27:46.960 that well
01:27:47.660 that it's not
01:27:48.580 so much that
01:27:49.220 God hates you
01:27:50.240 it's that
01:27:51.000 your sacrifices
01:27:52.300 could be of a
01:27:53.360 somewhat higher
01:27:54.120 quality
01:27:54.840 right
01:27:55.620 that you're
01:27:56.260 playing a game
01:27:57.240 with yourself
01:27:58.220 and with the
01:27:58.840 structure of reality
01:27:59.680 and you think
01:28:00.940 you can get away
01:28:01.700 with it
01:28:02.140 and you can't
01:28:03.620 and the fact
01:28:04.420 that you're not
01:28:05.160 getting away with it
01:28:05.960 and that you can't
01:28:06.880 makes you bitter
01:28:07.880 and resentful
01:28:08.800 and cruel
01:28:09.360 and vengeful
01:28:10.140 and homicidal
01:28:11.600 eventually
01:28:12.400 and worse than that
01:28:13.780 because there are
01:28:14.380 far worse places
01:28:15.320 than you can go
01:28:16.180 that you can go
01:28:17.500 than merely homicidal
01:28:18.680 anyways
01:28:19.440 Cain has enough
01:28:20.580 of this one day
01:28:21.400 and he says to
01:28:23.340 he decides to have
01:28:25.060 a chat with God
01:28:26.020 and it goes
01:28:26.900 something like this
01:28:27.940 it's quite a
01:28:29.180 an arrogant chat
01:28:30.620 really
01:28:31.020 it's almost as arrogant
01:28:32.980 as Adams
01:28:34.240 was stupid
01:28:35.340 and Cain
01:28:37.600 basically challenges
01:28:38.600 God
01:28:38.920 he says
01:28:39.220 look
01:28:39.540 I don't know
01:28:40.500 what sort of world
01:28:41.180 you think you put
01:28:41.900 together here
01:28:42.640 but
01:28:43.380 we've got Abel
01:28:45.360 and we've got me
01:28:46.460 and like
01:28:47.400 everything's just
01:28:48.320 working out for him
01:28:49.320 and you know
01:28:50.020 he's perfectly
01:28:51.500 god damn delightful
01:28:52.800 and everyone likes him
01:28:54.340 and whatever he
01:28:55.820 touches
01:28:56.580 like King Midas
01:28:57.940 turns to gold
01:28:58.880 and it's all easy
01:29:00.640 for him
01:29:01.160 and then there's me
01:29:03.340 and I'm like
01:29:04.160 breaking myself
01:29:05.140 in half here
01:29:05.980 and I'm offering
01:29:06.860 up my sacrifices
01:29:08.140 and like you
01:29:09.100 turn your nose up
01:29:09.980 at them
01:29:10.240 and nothing works
01:29:10.940 out for me
01:29:11.660 and implying
01:29:13.360 by the way
01:29:13.960 that it's God's fault
01:29:15.200 I would say
01:29:16.420 more than implying
01:29:17.460 stating quite
01:29:19.660 forthrightly
01:29:21.180 that it's God's fault
01:29:22.400 which
01:29:22.960 you know
01:29:23.660 takes a certain
01:29:24.680 degree of arrogance
01:29:25.620 you might think
01:29:26.840 and that's also
01:29:28.080 worth thinking about
01:29:28.940 for a very long
01:29:29.740 period of time
01:29:30.440 because it is
01:29:31.340 possible that
01:29:32.160 if things are going
01:29:33.360 well for someone
01:29:34.140 that you know
01:29:34.840 and not going
01:29:36.000 so well for you
01:29:37.200 that it is a consequence
01:29:38.560 of the quality
01:29:40.020 of your sacrifices
01:29:41.100 and I don't want
01:29:41.960 to push that too far
01:29:42.920 because I know
01:29:43.540 that people have
01:29:44.300 bad luck
01:29:45.100 you know
01:29:45.400 because we are
01:29:46.020 fragile creatures
01:29:47.380 intrinsically
01:29:48.140 and terrible things
01:29:49.460 can happen to us
01:29:50.360 on a somewhat
01:29:51.200 random basis
01:29:52.160 but it's still
01:29:53.160 very much worth
01:29:54.100 considering
01:29:54.940 that's the rule
01:29:56.020 in chapter 6
01:29:57.080 put your house
01:29:58.200 in order
01:29:58.580 before you
01:29:59.320 criticize the world
01:30:01.660 that
01:30:02.640 the reason
01:30:04.140 that things
01:30:05.020 aren't turning out
01:30:05.840 for you
01:30:06.260 as well as they might
01:30:07.180 is because
01:30:07.620 your sacrifices
01:30:09.000 just don't have
01:30:11.020 enough blood
01:30:12.240 in them
01:30:12.740 they're just not
01:30:14.360 what they should be
01:30:15.260 you're not putting
01:30:16.160 your full heart
01:30:17.080 into it
01:30:17.620 and as a consequence
01:30:18.560 you're not reaping
01:30:20.720 the field
01:30:22.300 you're not reaping
01:30:23.460 the crop
01:30:23.960 that you might
01:30:24.540 otherwise sow
01:30:25.480 and that's a harsh
01:30:27.200 thing to think
01:30:27.860 but that's actually
01:30:28.540 what God tells Cain
01:30:29.800 which is quite interesting
01:30:31.660 I read a lot of
01:30:32.360 different translations
01:30:33.240 trying to understand
01:30:34.180 this and what God
01:30:35.120 basically says is
01:30:36.180 look
01:30:37.460 buddy
01:30:39.560 before you
01:30:43.820 dare
01:30:44.560 to criticize
01:30:45.500 the creator
01:30:46.940 of the world
01:30:48.480 or reality
01:30:49.720 itself
01:30:50.200 for that matter
01:30:50.960 you might give
01:30:52.200 some thought
01:30:52.680 to your own actions
01:30:53.560 and here's how
01:30:54.380 I look at it
01:30:55.260 being God
01:30:56.600 and all
01:30:57.040 you're in a house
01:30:59.340 and there's a doorway
01:31:00.260 and in the doorway
01:31:01.080 there's a
01:31:01.800 predatory
01:31:02.660 cat
01:31:03.680 and it's
01:31:04.300 sexually aroused
01:31:05.800 and it's after you
01:31:07.020 and you invite it in
01:31:09.700 voluntarily
01:31:10.840 and you let it
01:31:12.600 have its way
01:31:13.460 with you
01:31:14.140 and
01:31:16.360 something's produced
01:31:18.240 as a consequence
01:31:19.140 of that
01:31:19.740 that's
01:31:20.340 well you might say
01:31:21.280 unholy
01:31:22.020 and
01:31:23.080 and what's the idea
01:31:24.360 and the idea is
01:31:25.380 well
01:31:25.700 it's sin
01:31:27.280 that crouches
01:31:28.000 at the door
01:31:28.600 the
01:31:29.040 and that means
01:31:30.440 to miss the mark
01:31:31.300 it means to make
01:31:32.180 an error
01:31:33.140 and it's something
01:31:34.540 you have to invite
01:31:35.440 into your life
01:31:36.300 but it isn't just that
01:31:37.240 you invite it in
01:31:38.580 and it stands
01:31:39.300 with you
01:31:39.920 it's that you
01:31:40.780 invite it in
01:31:41.600 this
01:31:42.460 this
01:31:43.000 this malevolent
01:31:44.080 way of being
01:31:44.920 and you
01:31:46.420 enter into
01:31:47.640 a creative
01:31:48.480 union with it
01:31:49.640 that's
01:31:50.020 that's symbolized
01:31:51.160 in this particular
01:31:51.820 story
01:31:52.340 using a sexual
01:31:53.440 metaphor
01:31:53.820 and it's the
01:31:54.880 combination of
01:31:55.680 your perverse
01:31:56.480 will
01:31:56.940 and this
01:31:57.660 capacity
01:31:58.360 for cruelty
01:31:59.300 and malevolence
01:32:00.220 that you
01:32:01.100 meld together
01:32:01.960 into something
01:32:02.620 that's uniquely
01:32:03.500 pathological
01:32:04.580 and yours
01:32:05.660 and that's
01:32:07.180 basically what
01:32:07.740 God tells
01:32:08.360 Cain
01:32:08.720 that's what
01:32:09.620 you've done
01:32:10.140 and that's
01:32:10.960 why your life
01:32:11.580 isn't turning
01:32:12.100 out as well
01:32:13.360 as it might
01:32:14.400 or as well
01:32:15.020 as your brothers
01:32:15.600 and so
01:32:16.380 why don't
01:32:17.160 you
01:32:17.520 get the hell
01:32:19.800 out of my sight
01:32:20.580 and think
01:32:21.620 about that
01:32:22.220 for a while
01:32:23.420 and Cain
01:32:25.060 leaves
01:32:25.520 and he's
01:32:26.020 not happy
01:32:27.020 about it
01:32:28.040 at all
01:32:28.940 which is fully
01:32:30.020 understandable
01:32:30.680 because you know
01:32:31.480 if you're having
01:32:31.940 a wretched time
01:32:32.760 of it
01:32:33.120 then you're having
01:32:34.320 a wretched time
01:32:35.040 of it
01:32:35.300 and then if your
01:32:36.000 brother's doing
01:32:36.740 well
01:32:37.240 you know
01:32:37.860 that's just
01:32:38.620 salt in your
01:32:40.140 wounds man
01:32:40.980 and then
01:32:41.800 then maybe you
01:32:43.180 could rationalize
01:32:44.020 that because the
01:32:44.700 world's unfair
01:32:45.540 and your brother
01:32:46.180 is lucky
01:32:46.720 and you're unlucky
01:32:47.600 and all of that
01:32:48.480 and you can
01:32:49.660 you know
01:32:50.860 reserve a little bit
01:32:52.300 of self-respect
01:32:53.140 as a consequence
01:32:54.080 of that rationalization
01:32:55.540 even though it's
01:32:56.160 pretty thin
01:32:56.840 but then you decide
01:32:58.000 to go and have it
01:32:58.700 out with God
01:32:59.500 and he just
01:33:01.080 basically says
01:33:02.060 no that's all
01:33:03.540 lies
01:33:04.680 and it's actually
01:33:05.800 a hundred percent
01:33:07.140 not only a hundred
01:33:08.820 percent your fault
01:33:10.020 but something that
01:33:11.320 you've done
01:33:11.760 voluntarily
01:33:12.520 and that you
01:33:13.560 know you did
01:33:14.580 and that you
01:33:15.260 made far worse
01:33:16.360 by doing it
01:33:17.680 voluntarily
01:33:18.260 and now
01:33:19.380 you're lying
01:33:20.440 about it
01:33:21.020 and complaining
01:33:21.940 about the
01:33:22.540 structure of
01:33:23.140 reality
01:33:23.620 and so
01:33:25.040 of all the
01:33:26.300 bad news
01:33:26.980 you could possibly
01:33:27.880 get
01:33:28.360 about why it is
01:33:29.720 that things
01:33:30.200 aren't going
01:33:30.720 well for you
01:33:31.500 that's
01:33:32.280 the worst
01:33:33.620 especially if it's
01:33:35.300 actually delivered
01:33:36.060 by God
01:33:36.860 because then
01:33:37.820 it's hard
01:33:38.840 to argue with
01:33:40.120 so what happens
01:33:44.560 well you'd think
01:33:45.900 that maybe if Cain
01:33:46.780 had any sense
01:33:47.760 which he doesn't
01:33:49.100 he's too far gone
01:33:50.360 he'd go sit in a cave
01:33:51.660 for about a decade
01:33:52.560 and
01:33:53.380 and eat locusts
01:33:54.800 and honey
01:33:55.180 if he could find some
01:33:56.200 and think about
01:33:57.240 all the terrible things
01:33:58.340 he did
01:33:58.800 and then come out
01:34:00.380 and like apologize
01:34:01.720 to Abel
01:34:02.580 and to the people
01:34:03.360 he didn't do well
01:34:04.360 for
01:34:04.680 and like
01:34:05.400 with a little humility
01:34:07.200 start again
01:34:08.980 and
01:34:10.180 and maybe have a life
01:34:11.700 but that isn't
01:34:12.580 what happens
01:34:13.240 what happens
01:34:14.820 is that he decides
01:34:15.720 he's going to take
01:34:16.500 revenge
01:34:17.140 and he takes revenge
01:34:18.460 in a terrible way
01:34:19.620 he kills Abel
01:34:21.460 and then you think
01:34:22.860 well what does that mean
01:34:24.060 and this is a terrible story
01:34:26.500 right
01:34:26.700 because it's really
01:34:27.160 the first story
01:34:28.000 about human beings
01:34:29.020 that we have
01:34:30.200 at the base
01:34:31.460 of our culture
01:34:32.120 because Adam and Eve
01:34:32.880 were made by God
01:34:33.700 so they don't count
01:34:34.500 Cain and Abel
01:34:35.380 they were born
01:34:36.060 they count
01:34:37.080 and so the first story
01:34:38.560 is this terrible murder
01:34:39.860 of a brother
01:34:40.800 and a murder
01:34:42.240 that was motivated
01:34:43.640 by jealousy
01:34:44.520 and spite
01:34:45.400 for
01:34:46.240 for
01:34:47.320 for
01:34:49.000 for living
01:34:50.440 positively
01:34:51.140 in the world
01:34:52.080 right
01:34:53.260 it's about the worst story
01:34:54.760 you can imagine
01:34:55.520 and so Cain goes
01:34:56.800 and kills Abel
01:34:57.680 and
01:34:58.840 God
01:35:00.580 you know
01:35:01.720 asks him about it
01:35:03.300 and Cain says
01:35:04.020 well am I
01:35:04.500 my brother's keeper
01:35:05.600 and that doesn't work out
01:35:06.980 so well
01:35:07.360 because God has actually
01:35:08.420 figured it out
01:35:09.120 and Cain says
01:35:09.880 my punishment
01:35:10.820 is more than I can bear
01:35:12.420 and
01:35:13.180 it might be
01:35:14.000 because God
01:35:14.620 has banished him
01:35:15.460 he's put a mark on him
01:35:16.460 and banished him
01:35:17.160 and told people
01:35:17.760 to leave Cain
01:35:18.480 the hell alone
01:35:19.220 and I think that was to stop
01:35:21.500 like a cycle of revenge
01:35:23.520 killings
01:35:24.160 let's say
01:35:24.700 although it's complicated to say
01:35:26.460 but maybe his
01:35:27.580 punishment is more than he can bear
01:35:29.680 because
01:35:30.000 there's a problem
01:35:31.020 when
01:35:31.300 you take your ideal
01:35:32.880 let's say Abel
01:35:34.200 happens to be your brother
01:35:35.580 but your ideal
01:35:36.320 the person you really wish
01:35:37.500 you could be
01:35:38.060 because
01:35:38.380 that's what Cain wants
01:35:39.860 and then you kill it
01:35:41.280 you've killed your ideal
01:35:43.360 you've destroyed your ideal
01:35:44.860 and then what do you have
01:35:46.060 you've got nothing
01:35:47.160 because you need an ideal
01:35:48.380 to live for
01:35:49.240 and if you destroy your ideal
01:35:50.920 then you've got nothing
01:35:51.980 and Cain says
01:35:53.040 well my punishment
01:35:53.800 is more than I can bear
01:35:54.900 and maybe that's because
01:35:55.980 life without that ideal
01:35:57.980 is more than can be born
01:36:00.020 and
01:36:01.360 well
01:36:03.260 it gets worse from there really
01:36:06.580 because
01:36:06.960 you know
01:36:07.420 it isn't only that Abel
01:36:08.960 that Cain killed Abel
01:36:10.240 to get rid of Abel
01:36:12.060 that's bad enough
01:36:13.560 it's plenty bad
01:36:15.160 even at the cost
01:36:16.640 of his own soul
01:36:17.620 in some sense
01:36:18.520 which was something
01:36:19.400 Cain was apparently
01:36:20.380 willing to sacrifice
01:36:21.300 but the real reason
01:36:22.600 that he did it
01:36:23.220 was to shake his fist
01:36:24.740 in anger
01:36:25.360 at the structure
01:36:26.440 of reality
01:36:27.220 itself
01:36:28.360 the unfairness
01:36:29.720 of being
01:36:30.460 and that's metaphorically
01:36:32.060 represented as
01:36:32.920 the proclivity
01:36:34.020 to take revenge
01:36:34.840 on God
01:36:35.400 by destroying
01:36:36.180 God's ideal
01:36:37.780 and so the story
01:36:39.420 is even darker
01:36:40.220 than mere murder
01:36:41.100 because
01:36:41.500 it goes farther down
01:36:43.360 than just homicide
01:36:44.680 and if you're wondering
01:36:46.220 why it is
01:36:46.920 that people do
01:36:47.660 the terrible things
01:36:48.680 they do
01:36:49.060 that are truly terrible
01:36:50.720 the things that are
01:36:51.960 almost incomprehensibly terrible
01:36:53.660 you have to go beyond
01:36:55.000 mere motivation
01:36:56.720 for homicide
01:36:57.620 and even torture
01:36:58.760 and homicide
01:36:59.340 and you have to look
01:37:00.580 at the motivations
01:37:01.420 that will turn
01:37:02.300 human beings
01:37:03.400 against being
01:37:04.480 itself
01:37:05.140 and
01:37:06.160 and if you want
01:37:07.100 to understand
01:37:07.840 the sorts of people
01:37:09.060 who shot up
01:37:10.120 the Columbine High School
01:37:11.340 or who killed
01:37:12.080 the elementary school kids
01:37:13.440 on the east coast
01:37:14.300 of the United States
01:37:15.200 who participated
01:37:16.400 in the terrible things
01:37:17.660 that happened
01:37:18.200 in Nazi Germany
01:37:19.080 or in the Gulag Archipelago
01:37:20.500 individual acts
01:37:22.080 of atrocity
01:37:22.980 and brutality
01:37:23.660 then you have to go
01:37:25.000 to levels of hell
01:37:26.420 homicide
01:37:27.420 the level of hell
01:37:30.220 that you occupy
01:37:31.100 when you're contemplating
01:37:32.160 homicide
01:37:32.580 is a deep level
01:37:33.640 but it's
01:37:34.160 there are many levels
01:37:36.060 that are far below that
01:37:37.560 and to understand
01:37:38.840 atrocity
01:37:39.560 in its full depths
01:37:40.540 is to take a journey
01:37:42.040 into levels of hell
01:37:43.680 that far exceed
01:37:45.540 mere homicide
01:37:46.600 in depth
01:37:47.480 and so
01:37:48.380 to conclude
01:37:49.400 well what is it
01:37:51.320 about human beings
01:37:52.340 that make us
01:37:53.300 unwilling to take care
01:37:54.380 of ourselves
01:37:54.920 and I would say
01:37:55.740 well it's those two things
01:37:57.380 that are laid out
01:37:58.720 so clearly
01:37:59.300 in those stories
01:38:00.160 and one is
01:38:00.880 well we know
01:38:03.120 that we're naked
01:38:03.820 you know
01:38:04.860 we know we're vulnerable
01:38:06.380 in the world
01:38:07.120 and that we're
01:38:08.560 prone to
01:38:09.500 physical illness
01:38:10.560 and we're prone
01:38:11.200 to mental illness
01:38:12.080 and we're prone
01:38:12.840 to self-betrayal
01:38:14.160 and the betrayal
01:38:14.720 of others
01:38:15.180 and we're prone
01:38:16.100 to aging
01:38:16.620 and we're destined
01:38:17.860 for death
01:38:18.500 and it's kind of
01:38:19.360 difficult to
01:38:20.360 consider ourselves
01:38:23.220 truly worth
01:38:24.200 care
01:38:25.200 under those
01:38:26.120 circumstances
01:38:27.280 because it's hard
01:38:29.140 for us
01:38:29.640 to have
01:38:31.260 to maintain
01:38:32.640 intrinsic
01:38:34.220 respect
01:38:35.320 for ourselves
01:38:36.120 of a loving
01:38:37.180 kind
01:38:37.780 let's say
01:38:38.380 when we know
01:38:39.400 that all of those
01:38:40.440 inadequacies
01:38:41.280 fundamentally
01:38:42.060 characterize us
01:38:43.200 and that's bad
01:38:44.160 enough
01:38:44.600 you know
01:38:45.220 why should someone
01:38:46.520 as worthless
01:38:47.120 as me
01:38:47.720 be worth care
01:38:48.760 it's a fine
01:38:50.160 question
01:38:50.620 but it's only
01:38:51.360 half the question
01:38:52.240 because the next
01:38:53.000 question is
01:38:53.680 yeah well
01:38:54.880 what about the
01:38:55.500 malevolence
01:38:56.260 it's not only
01:38:57.860 that we're
01:38:58.620 fragile
01:38:59.180 in the way
01:38:59.860 that we are
01:39:00.460 and that makes
01:39:01.040 us doubt
01:39:01.520 our own
01:39:02.200 value
01:39:03.340 intensely
01:39:04.560 but that we're
01:39:06.260 also capable
01:39:07.120 of doing
01:39:07.700 capable of
01:39:08.760 doing
01:39:09.300 terrible things
01:39:10.580 and do
01:39:11.920 them
01:39:12.360 and know
01:39:14.180 it
01:39:14.480 and each of us
01:39:15.760 know that more
01:39:16.620 about ourselves
01:39:17.360 than we know
01:39:17.920 about it
01:39:18.400 about anyone
01:39:19.500 else
01:39:19.940 and I've met
01:39:20.440 lots of people
01:39:21.520 who were
01:39:22.400 suicidal
01:39:23.760 because of that
01:39:24.720 but also unwilling
01:39:25.560 to take care
01:39:26.360 of themselves
01:39:26.980 you know
01:39:27.440 because they
01:39:28.160 were so guilty
01:39:28.980 about who
01:39:29.540 they were
01:39:30.120 and their
01:39:30.820 mode of being
01:39:31.940 in the world
01:39:32.520 that they just
01:39:33.120 felt that
01:39:33.700 they weren't worth
01:39:35.200 the damn
01:39:35.720 trouble
01:39:36.260 you know
01:39:37.420 and
01:39:37.800 and
01:39:39.060 well and they
01:39:41.200 all had their
01:39:41.700 own particular
01:39:42.240 reasons for
01:39:43.020 for believing
01:39:43.960 that
01:39:44.240 their own
01:39:44.800 failures
01:39:46.300 their own
01:39:47.020 improper
01:39:47.800 sacrifices
01:39:48.600 let's say
01:39:49.200 their own
01:39:49.780 acts of
01:39:50.240 individual
01:39:50.760 malevolence
01:39:51.480 but they're
01:39:52.160 summed up
01:39:52.800 in a lovely
01:39:53.400 metaphorical
01:39:54.220 manner
01:39:54.600 a horrifying
01:39:55.600 metaphorical
01:39:56.280 manner
01:39:56.560 in those
01:39:57.380 ancient stories
01:39:58.700 and those
01:39:59.900 stories explain
01:40:00.700 to us
01:40:01.200 too
01:40:01.620 why as well
01:40:02.720 that our
01:40:03.200 consciences
01:40:03.820 don't sit
01:40:04.780 well
01:40:05.120 with us
01:40:05.860 and why
01:40:06.240 we always
01:40:06.780 feel that
01:40:07.340 there's
01:40:07.680 something
01:40:08.340 undone
01:40:08.960 that we
01:40:09.360 should be
01:40:09.760 doing
01:40:10.000 in the
01:40:10.260 world
01:40:10.560 which is
01:40:11.360 a much
01:40:11.620 better
01:40:11.920 pathway
01:40:12.320 to take
01:40:12.800 by the
01:40:13.140 way
01:40:13.340 than to
01:40:13.780 degenerate
01:40:14.820 into
01:40:15.040 nihilism
01:40:15.640 and
01:40:15.940 catastrophe
01:40:17.220 and so
01:40:18.060 and that's
01:40:19.460 really rule
01:40:19.980 two
01:40:20.360 it's like
01:40:20.960 well
01:40:22.180 you should
01:40:23.200 treat yourself
01:40:23.900 like you're
01:40:24.880 someone responsible
01:40:25.760 for helping
01:40:26.520 and the first
01:40:27.780 question is
01:40:28.520 well why don't
01:40:29.980 you
01:40:30.220 and the answer
01:40:31.100 is
01:40:31.440 well there's
01:40:32.780 a lot wrong
01:40:33.380 with you
01:40:33.840 you know
01:40:35.360 and it's
01:40:36.900 hard
01:40:37.420 to
01:40:38.460 exercise
01:40:40.360 enough
01:40:41.060 love
01:40:42.240 and care
01:40:43.680 in a deep
01:40:44.840 and non-naive
01:40:46.140 way
01:40:46.460 to
01:40:47.180 care
01:40:47.880 properly
01:40:48.480 for
01:40:48.900 something
01:40:49.740 like
01:40:50.260 that
01:40:50.800 but you know
01:40:51.560 you do it
01:40:52.000 for people
01:40:52.400 that you
01:40:52.760 love
01:40:53.080 despite
01:40:53.480 their
01:40:53.840 inadequacies
01:40:54.580 and there
01:40:55.280 is this
01:40:55.680 idea that
01:40:56.360 there is a
01:40:57.240 spark of
01:40:57.720 divinity
01:40:58.100 within us
01:40:58.760 and it
01:40:59.280 is possible
01:41:00.000 that
01:41:00.380 the fact
01:41:01.760 that you
01:41:02.220 have that
01:41:02.920 spark of
01:41:03.600 divinity
01:41:03.980 within you
01:41:05.500 also means
01:41:07.160 that you
01:41:07.540 have the
01:41:07.920 capability
01:41:08.500 to withstand
01:41:09.560 that terrible
01:41:10.980 vulnerability
01:41:11.640 that's what
01:41:12.760 I was trying
01:41:13.240 to get at
01:41:13.740 in chapter
01:41:14.240 one
01:41:14.660 which was
01:41:15.200 to stand up
01:41:15.900 straight
01:41:16.220 with your
01:41:16.620 shoulders
01:41:17.060 back
01:41:17.500 that you
01:41:17.920 could actually
01:41:18.600 voluntarily
01:41:19.860 accept
01:41:20.600 the onslaught
01:41:21.740 of the tragedy
01:41:22.540 of being
01:41:23.100 and that you
01:41:24.040 can constrain
01:41:25.580 the proclivity
01:41:26.420 for malevolence
01:41:27.340 that's part of you
01:41:28.200 and that's
01:41:28.640 part of the world
01:41:30.220 and in that
01:41:31.100 you can discover
01:41:32.000 your own value
01:41:33.640 your own intrinsic value
01:41:35.020 and your own nobility
01:41:36.120 and
01:41:36.540 and all of that
01:41:37.620 might be more powerful
01:41:38.840 than the forces
01:41:39.700 of vulnerability
01:41:41.200 and malevolence
01:41:42.680 themselves
01:41:43.280 which I also
01:41:44.500 happen to believe
01:41:45.560 and I think
01:41:47.220 that that is
01:41:47.840 in some sense
01:41:48.600 the fundamental
01:41:49.360 hallmark of faith
01:41:50.580 and so chapter
01:41:51.860 two
01:41:52.360 and to some degree
01:41:54.500 chapter three
01:41:55.240 which is to
01:41:55.840 surround yourself
01:41:56.640 with people
01:41:57.260 who want the best
01:41:58.600 for you
01:41:59.020 is a
01:42:00.240 it's an
01:42:02.180 encouragement
01:42:02.820 to assume
01:42:05.000 to act out
01:42:06.460 the proposition
01:42:07.600 that even
01:42:08.240 if life is
01:42:09.520 as difficult
01:42:11.040 as it seems to be
01:42:13.080 and if you're
01:42:13.880 as vulnerable
01:42:14.600 and weak
01:42:16.220 in a fundamental sense
01:42:17.660 as you definitely are
01:42:19.160 and characterized
01:42:20.600 by this terrible
01:42:21.940 propensity
01:42:23.080 for
01:42:23.660 the
01:42:24.780 infliction
01:42:25.960 of voluntary
01:42:26.680 suffering
01:42:27.440 on yourself
01:42:28.040 and others
01:42:28.760 and that
01:42:29.620 destructive tendency
01:42:30.960 that there's still
01:42:32.100 something within you
01:42:33.200 that's so
01:42:34.040 remarkable
01:42:35.080 and so
01:42:36.060 aligned
01:42:38.000 with
01:42:38.560 order
01:42:40.760 and being
01:42:41.460 in the proper manner
01:42:42.500 that you can
01:42:43.140 climb above that
01:42:44.260 let's say
01:42:44.760 like Abel
01:42:45.540 and that you can
01:42:46.540 make the proper
01:42:47.260 sacrifices
01:42:48.040 and that you can
01:42:48.760 set yourself right
01:42:50.000 and you can
01:42:50.540 set your family right
01:42:51.860 and you can
01:42:52.720 set the world right
01:42:53.900 and that
01:42:54.660 the mere possibility
01:42:56.100 that that might
01:42:57.260 occur
01:42:57.880 that that might
01:42:58.660 be within
01:42:59.940 the realm
01:43:00.840 of potential
01:43:01.740 means that
01:43:02.920 you have a moral
01:43:04.220 obligation
01:43:04.860 to exercise
01:43:05.780 the responsibility
01:43:06.880 to take care
01:43:08.140 of yourself
01:43:08.760 as if you're
01:43:09.860 something
01:43:10.200 that matters
01:43:11.500 and that if you
01:43:12.600 did that
01:43:13.300 properly
01:43:14.320 it might turn out
01:43:15.800 that what you did
01:43:17.420 would matter
01:43:18.560 that it would matter
01:43:19.680 to you
01:43:20.340 that it would be
01:43:21.320 meaningful in the way
01:43:22.500 that things that matter
01:43:23.580 are meaningful
01:43:24.300 and that it would matter
01:43:25.560 to everyone around you
01:43:27.320 in an
01:43:28.020 important manner
01:43:29.320 and what that
01:43:30.160 might mean
01:43:30.820 and I'll close
01:43:31.840 with this
01:43:32.280 is you know
01:43:33.140 Adam was unable
01:43:34.840 to walk with God
01:43:36.000 in the garden
01:43:36.660 because he was ashamed
01:43:38.020 and deceitful
01:43:40.720 and shocked
01:43:42.380 and all of that
01:43:43.220 and no bloody wonder
01:43:44.540 he had his reasons
01:43:45.880 but then you might think
01:43:47.340 well
01:43:47.620 is that something
01:43:48.840 that could be rectified
01:43:50.240 in some
01:43:51.340 cosmic sense
01:43:52.800 and I would say
01:43:53.720 that's really
01:43:54.260 the exercise
01:43:55.600 of a fundamental
01:43:56.640 religious orientation
01:43:57.680 is an attempt
01:43:58.720 to set
01:43:59.320 whatever's gone wrong
01:44:00.600 at the basis
01:44:01.760 of being right again
01:44:03.040 and the answer
01:44:04.480 might be
01:44:05.020 well if you can
01:44:05.760 if you can take
01:44:06.920 responsibility
01:44:07.580 for yourself
01:44:08.460 if you can
01:44:09.020 manifest the faith
01:44:10.600 that despite
01:44:11.580 your inadequacies
01:44:12.760 and your proclivity
01:44:13.760 for malevolence
01:44:14.620 that you are
01:44:15.520 in fact
01:44:15.960 something that matters
01:44:17.380 part of
01:44:18.780 part of a deep reality
01:44:20.220 that's not fully
01:44:21.280 comprehensible
01:44:22.040 but that you partake in
01:44:23.520 merely in observing
01:44:25.580 but also in bringing
01:44:26.700 to be
01:44:27.360 that you have
01:44:28.600 an important
01:44:29.120 or even a vital role
01:44:30.580 to play in the direction
01:44:31.780 of the world
01:44:32.440 that you can
01:44:33.500 that you can recover
01:44:35.360 to some degree
01:44:36.540 what humanity
01:44:38.120 has lost
01:44:38.940 let's say
01:44:39.560 from the beginning
01:44:40.240 of time
01:44:40.800 and that you also
01:44:41.640 lost in childhood
01:44:42.720 and that you can
01:44:43.520 stand up straight
01:44:44.920 with your shoulders
01:44:46.180 back
01:44:46.600 let's say
01:44:47.200 and you can take
01:44:48.340 responsibility
01:44:49.080 for yourself
01:44:51.080 as if you are
01:44:52.000 something
01:44:52.880 that matters
01:44:54.040 and that if you
01:44:55.220 did that properly
01:44:56.220 and I believe
01:44:57.280 this fully
01:44:58.120 if you did that
01:44:59.420 properly
01:44:59.960 then
01:45:00.760 you would be
01:45:02.020 well on the way
01:45:03.000 to doing
01:45:04.000 what matters
01:45:04.800 and setting yourself
01:45:06.240 right
01:45:06.740 and setting your
01:45:08.920 family right
01:45:09.620 and setting the
01:45:10.300 community right
01:45:11.140 and setting
01:45:12.240 reality itself
01:45:14.340 right
01:45:14.740 because
01:45:15.140 that's as far
01:45:16.520 as I can tell
01:45:17.260 really
01:45:18.220 what we're
01:45:19.400 here to do
01:45:20.740 strange as that
01:45:21.680 might be
01:45:22.300 and so
01:45:23.580 well
01:45:24.960 that's about
01:45:25.820 the end of that
01:45:26.480 lecture
01:45:26.840 and that's why
01:45:27.960 you should take
01:45:28.620 your prescription
01:45:29.260 medication
01:45:29.940 when you go
01:45:30.880 to see
01:45:31.380 the physician
01:45:32.340 thank you
01:45:34.000 very much
01:45:34.620 so now
01:45:50.460 so now
01:46:04.400 now I'm going
01:46:05.320 to sit here
01:46:05.940 in this chair
01:46:06.780 and
01:46:08.040 you
01:46:08.720 had
01:46:09.220 provided me
01:46:10.920 with some
01:46:11.340 questions
01:46:11.820 and I've
01:46:12.780 gone a bit
01:46:13.260 into the
01:46:13.660 question period
01:46:14.400 but I'm going
01:46:15.000 to answer
01:46:15.500 some of them
01:46:16.220 and then
01:46:17.520 that'll pretty
01:46:18.660 much bring
01:46:19.220 the evening
01:46:19.620 to a close
01:46:20.440 so if you
01:46:21.320 give me a
01:46:21.780 moment
01:46:22.020 I'll get
01:46:22.440 my computer
01:46:23.660 up and running
01:46:24.340 with any luck
01:46:25.420 and we'll see
01:46:26.720 what you
01:46:27.180 have to say
01:46:28.640 about all of
01:46:29.360 this
01:46:29.600 one of the
01:46:30.820 things that I
01:46:31.400 find quite
01:46:32.260 interesting about
01:46:33.500 this line
01:46:35.460 of reasoning
01:46:36.100 which I think
01:46:37.700 is very much
01:46:38.640 worth considering
01:46:39.360 as well
01:46:39.800 is that
01:46:40.160 it's very
01:46:41.340 dark
01:46:41.920 in some sense
01:46:42.780 you know
01:46:43.080 I make
01:46:44.400 a case
01:46:44.880 that
01:46:45.180 for the
01:46:46.760 burden
01:46:47.060 that human
01:46:47.540 beings bear
01:46:48.380 a terrible
01:46:49.420 burden
01:46:49.940 and it is
01:46:50.860 outlined very
01:46:51.580 nicely
01:46:51.980 in the
01:46:52.660 story of
01:46:53.380 Adam and
01:46:53.740 Eve and
01:46:54.140 Cain and
01:46:54.520 Abel
01:46:54.800 you know
01:46:55.100 the burden
01:46:55.620 of vulnerability
01:46:57.460 and mortality
01:46:58.360 and knowledge
01:46:59.040 of death
01:46:59.680 and nakedness
01:47:01.440 and then the
01:47:02.060 proclivity
01:47:02.740 for the
01:47:04.060 what the
01:47:05.480 weight of
01:47:06.140 that to
01:47:06.680 make people
01:47:08.520 malevolent
01:47:09.280 and homicidal
01:47:10.660 and genocidal
01:47:12.000 you know
01:47:12.840 Cain's
01:47:14.120 descendants
01:47:15.460 become genocidal
01:47:16.880 interestingly enough
01:47:18.380 and that's all
01:47:19.460 very very dark
01:47:20.420 it's as dark
01:47:21.360 as it can be
01:47:22.080 I would say
01:47:23.180 but you know
01:47:24.760 what's interesting
01:47:25.600 about that
01:47:26.160 and one of the
01:47:26.680 things that I
01:47:27.240 love about doing
01:47:27.880 these lectures
01:47:28.420 is that if you
01:47:29.520 go down deep
01:47:30.240 enough into that
01:47:30.960 darkness
01:47:31.380 you find a
01:47:32.240 corresponding light
01:47:33.320 and the light
01:47:34.440 is the fact
01:47:35.500 that despite
01:47:36.920 that darkness
01:47:37.940 we are the
01:47:39.960 sorts of
01:47:40.340 creatures who
01:47:40.940 can face
01:47:41.600 that
01:47:41.980 we can face
01:47:42.720 our own
01:47:43.140 mortality
01:47:43.720 voluntarily
01:47:44.620 we can
01:47:45.500 confront
01:47:45.980 our own
01:47:46.840 malevolence
01:47:48.560 and we can
01:47:49.980 prevail
01:47:50.520 and in that
01:47:52.240 ability to
01:47:52.940 confront and
01:47:53.640 prevail
01:47:54.060 I do believe
01:47:55.400 and I think
01:47:56.020 this is the
01:47:56.520 fundamental story
01:47:57.460 of the Judeo-Christian
01:47:58.640 tradition
01:47:59.160 is that
01:47:59.760 it
01:48:00.960 it's
01:48:01.800 those stories
01:48:02.680 are there
01:48:03.280 to remind us
01:48:05.160 that if we
01:48:06.240 peer long enough
01:48:07.160 into the darkness
01:48:07.960 we can find
01:48:08.720 the light
01:48:09.320 that leads us
01:48:10.360 to the place
01:48:11.020 where the problems
01:48:11.880 that beset us
01:48:12.740 can be solved
01:48:13.700 and that it's
01:48:14.680 our adventure
01:48:15.340 in life
01:48:15.840 to actually
01:48:16.540 participate in
01:48:17.780 the solving
01:48:18.240 of those problems
01:48:19.180 and that we
01:48:19.900 can in fact
01:48:20.780 do that
01:48:21.440 and so in all
01:48:22.580 that darkness
01:48:23.240 there's that light
01:48:24.280 and I think
01:48:24.880 that light
01:48:25.380 is lighter
01:48:25.960 than the darkness
01:48:26.820 and then I
01:48:27.980 would say
01:48:28.420 that the
01:48:29.640 moral obligation
01:48:32.020 that you have
01:48:32.780 in life
01:48:33.360 then becomes
01:48:34.640 to test
01:48:35.620 to see
01:48:36.140 if that's
01:48:36.640 true
01:48:37.000 to see
01:48:37.520 if you
01:48:37.920 lived your
01:48:38.880 life
01:48:39.280 with
01:48:40.420 truth
01:48:41.280 and with
01:48:41.720 courage
01:48:42.220 and that
01:48:42.660 you made
01:48:43.080 the proper
01:48:43.580 sacrifices
01:48:44.360 and that
01:48:44.800 you bore
01:48:45.300 your responsibility
01:48:46.400 nobly
01:48:47.140 and forthrightly
01:48:48.160 if in fact
01:48:49.300 your life
01:48:50.500 would radically
01:48:51.380 improve
01:48:51.920 if you could
01:48:52.580 tolerate that
01:48:53.420 by letting
01:48:54.260 go of your
01:48:54.840 desire for
01:48:55.540 revenge
01:48:56.060 and
01:48:56.360 punishment
01:48:59.160 if you could
01:49:00.240 allow your life
01:49:01.000 to go well
01:49:01.640 and to set
01:49:02.680 your family
01:49:03.220 straight
01:49:03.640 and to set
01:49:04.180 the community
01:49:04.740 straight
01:49:05.140 just to see
01:49:05.940 exactly how far
01:49:07.380 we could push
01:49:08.000 that
01:49:08.300 because in this
01:49:09.120 realm
01:49:10.120 that we're in
01:49:11.440 of infinite
01:49:12.140 possibility
01:49:12.920 which seems
01:49:14.080 to be the realm
01:49:14.860 that we do
01:49:15.360 find ourselves
01:49:16.120 in
01:49:16.400 there's no reason
01:49:17.520 to assume
01:49:18.180 that we couldn't
01:49:19.240 start making
01:49:20.280 something that's
01:49:21.120 already good
01:49:21.960 much better
01:49:22.920 than it is
01:49:23.560 and then continue
01:49:24.720 that indefinitely
01:49:25.920 and that that
01:49:27.000 could be the
01:49:27.540 adventure of our
01:49:28.420 lives
01:49:28.780 that could justify
01:49:29.760 the suffering
01:49:30.500 and the
01:49:31.000 and the
01:49:31.800 malevolence
01:49:32.440 and overcome
01:49:33.100 it
01:49:33.480 and give us
01:49:34.340 the purpose
01:49:34.840 that we need
01:49:35.620 and all of that
01:49:36.680 seems to me
01:49:37.320 to be correct
01:49:38.540 and so
01:49:40.040 anyways
01:49:41.700 on to the
01:49:43.120 questions
01:49:43.700 what would you
01:49:47.060 say to a young
01:49:47.800 man looking
01:49:48.420 to get into
01:49:48.980 politics
01:49:49.640 well the first
01:49:56.160 thing I would
01:49:56.700 say is
01:49:57.460 it's a mistake
01:50:02.100 to be fatally
01:50:03.300 cynical about
01:50:04.140 politics
01:50:04.840 because
01:50:05.340 for all the
01:50:07.840 reasons there
01:50:08.460 are to be
01:50:09.020 fatally cynical
01:50:09.800 about politics
01:50:10.900 there's much
01:50:12.060 more reason
01:50:12.660 to be fatally
01:50:13.560 cynical about
01:50:14.440 the conflict
01:50:15.680 that will
01:50:16.280 inevitably arise
01:50:17.520 or the tyranny
01:50:18.900 that will
01:50:19.400 inevitably manifest
01:50:20.480 itself
01:50:21.100 if we can't
01:50:22.260 handle the
01:50:22.940 dirty business
01:50:23.620 of politics
01:50:24.480 properly
01:50:25.460 so I would
01:50:27.000 say
01:50:27.380 don't become
01:50:28.540 prematurely
01:50:29.420 cynical
01:50:30.840 about it
01:50:31.760 the next thing
01:50:32.880 I would say
01:50:33.480 is
01:50:33.940 what do you
01:50:36.060 know
01:50:36.440 and that's a
01:50:39.000 very important
01:50:39.580 question
01:50:40.100 it's like
01:50:40.660 what does it
01:50:41.880 mean to get
01:50:42.620 into politics
01:50:43.860 exactly
01:50:44.740 does that mean
01:50:46.100 to seek
01:50:46.560 political power
01:50:47.700 does that mean
01:50:48.740 to seek power
01:50:49.600 well first
01:50:50.800 of all
01:50:50.980 you shouldn't
01:50:51.320 be seeking
01:50:51.800 power
01:50:52.380 you should
01:50:53.360 be seeking
01:50:53.860 competence
01:50:54.700 and in order
01:50:56.180 to seek
01:50:56.580 competence
01:50:57.000 you better
01:50:57.440 know
01:50:57.860 something
01:50:58.400 and so
01:50:59.220 I would
01:50:59.480 say
01:50:59.720 well
01:50:59.980 if you
01:51:00.700 want to
01:51:00.960 get into
01:51:01.360 politics
01:51:02.020 you want
01:51:03.160 to educate
01:51:03.660 yourself
01:51:04.300 you know
01:51:04.640 in all the
01:51:05.320 things you
01:51:05.720 need to be
01:51:06.140 educated
01:51:06.580 in life
01:51:07.180 I mean
01:51:07.480 you can
01:51:08.140 you can
01:51:08.660 start to
01:51:09.200 play the
01:51:09.960 political
01:51:10.320 game
01:51:10.780 to familiarize
01:51:11.840 yourself
01:51:12.200 with it
01:51:12.540 but you
01:51:12.900 know
01:51:13.080 it's not
01:51:13.840 such a bad
01:51:14.380 idea
01:51:14.740 to
01:51:14.940 well
01:51:15.740 it's not
01:51:16.040 such a bad
01:51:16.520 idea to
01:51:16.880 have a job
01:51:17.620 for a while
01:51:18.560 and maybe
01:51:19.580 a career
01:51:20.260 and maybe
01:51:21.400 it's not
01:51:21.780 such a bad
01:51:22.280 idea to
01:51:22.680 have a
01:51:22.940 successful
01:51:23.460 career
01:51:23.960 upon
01:51:24.580 in which
01:51:26.040 people are
01:51:26.600 dependent
01:51:27.060 on you
01:51:27.640 so that
01:51:27.980 you start
01:51:28.400 to understand
01:51:29.020 what that
01:51:29.480 sort of
01:51:29.820 responsibility
01:51:30.400 means
01:51:31.060 and then
01:51:31.700 maybe it's
01:51:32.060 not such
01:51:32.380 a bad
01:51:32.660 idea
01:51:32.880 to have
01:51:33.160 a family
01:51:33.740 because
01:51:34.100 like
01:51:34.680 human
01:51:35.120 beings
01:51:35.700 mature
01:51:36.740 adult
01:51:37.180 human
01:51:37.480 beings
01:51:37.800 tend
01:51:38.060 to have
01:51:38.400 families
01:51:38.960 and
01:51:39.300 and they
01:51:40.080 transform
01:51:40.700 when they
01:51:41.140 have
01:51:41.320 families
01:51:41.780 because
01:51:42.100 when you
01:51:42.440 have
01:51:42.600 children
01:51:42.980 then
01:51:43.220 someone
01:51:43.700 becomes
01:51:44.460 more
01:51:44.740 important
01:51:45.160 to you
01:51:46.260 than you
01:51:46.740 are
01:51:47.000 and you're
01:51:47.560 not
01:51:47.800 mature
01:51:48.420 until that
01:51:49.120 happens
01:51:49.600 and so
01:51:50.040 that's
01:51:50.500 necessary
01:51:51.120 and so
01:51:51.560 I would
01:51:51.880 say
01:51:52.220 well
01:51:52.860 make sure
01:51:53.560 that if
01:51:53.940 you're
01:51:54.240 looking to
01:51:55.060 get into
01:51:55.460 politics
01:51:55.900 that you're
01:51:56.640 even more
01:51:57.260 looking to
01:51:57.840 get into
01:51:58.420 competence
01:51:58.940 and that
01:51:59.480 you learn
01:52:00.280 everything
01:52:01.440 you can
01:52:01.960 possibly
01:52:02.500 learn
01:52:02.940 that would
01:52:03.560 make you
01:52:04.020 a reasonably
01:52:04.920 wise
01:52:05.580 person
01:52:06.180 by the
01:52:06.840 time you
01:52:07.440 attain
01:52:08.360 whatever
01:52:08.820 level of
01:52:09.400 power
01:52:09.740 you might
01:52:10.180 authority
01:52:10.940 let's say
01:52:11.480 you might
01:52:11.840 be seeking
01:52:12.480 I mean
01:52:13.220 I've
01:52:13.400 seen
01:52:13.580 lots
01:52:13.860 of
01:52:14.000 people
01:52:14.340 get
01:52:15.180 into
01:52:15.560 politics
01:52:16.300 you know
01:52:16.780 this
01:52:17.080 happens
01:52:17.380 with
01:52:17.600 ideologues
01:52:18.300 and the
01:52:18.900 way
01:52:19.060 they
01:52:19.260 ratchet
01:52:19.720 themselves
01:52:20.260 up
01:52:20.520 the
01:52:20.680 power
01:52:20.980 hierarchy
01:52:21.560 is by
01:52:22.040 being
01:52:22.440 more
01:52:22.920 effective
01:52:23.660 avatars
01:52:24.640 puppets
01:52:25.340 of their
01:52:26.040 particular
01:52:26.480 ideological
01:52:27.140 stance
01:52:27.800 and there's
01:52:28.420 nothing
01:52:28.900 about that
01:52:29.440 that's
01:52:29.720 useful
01:52:30.120 there's
01:52:30.700 nothing
01:52:31.200 in it
01:52:31.660 that will
01:52:32.000 solve
01:52:32.340 any
01:52:32.680 real world
01:52:33.400 problems
01:52:34.020 and there's
01:52:34.800 plenty
01:52:35.180 that will
01:52:35.560 make it
01:52:35.940 much
01:52:36.180 worse
01:52:36.680 and so
01:52:37.520 if that's
01:52:38.120 what getting
01:52:38.520 into
01:52:38.780 politics
01:52:39.180 means
01:52:39.620 I would
01:52:39.980 say
01:52:40.220 stay
01:52:40.520 the hell
01:52:40.840 away
01:52:41.100 from
01:52:41.380 it
01:52:41.580 but
01:52:42.060 if
01:52:42.180 it's
01:52:42.340 a matter
01:52:42.680 of
01:52:42.900 developing
01:52:43.320 your
01:52:43.600 character
01:52:44.040 and
01:52:44.380 then
01:52:44.600 at
01:52:44.800 some
01:52:45.080 point
01:52:45.420 adopting
01:52:46.000 your
01:52:46.280 social
01:52:46.640 responsibility
01:52:47.440 then
01:52:48.220 go for
01:52:48.840 it
01:52:49.060 and
01:52:49.560 more
01:52:49.800 power
01:52:50.100 to
01:52:50.340 you
01:52:50.540 because
01:52:50.860 we
01:52:51.300 need
01:52:51.620 people
01:52:51.980 who
01:52:52.160 are
01:52:52.300 competent
01:52:52.740 and
01:52:53.020 careful
01:52:53.400 and
01:52:53.680 truthful
01:52:54.040 and
01:52:54.340 courageous
01:52:54.780 and
01:52:55.440 forthright
01:52:56.160 to
01:52:56.860 enter
01:52:57.420 the
01:52:57.640 political
01:52:57.980 sphere
01:52:58.400 so
01:52:58.700 that
01:52:58.920 things
01:52:59.440 don't
01:53:00.140 degenerate
01:53:01.040 and
01:53:01.260 hopefully
01:53:01.720 have
01:53:02.040 some
01:53:02.400 chance
01:53:02.920 of
01:53:03.120 at
01:53:03.500 least
01:53:03.760 maintaining
01:53:04.340 themselves
01:53:04.840 or
01:53:05.120 improving
01:53:05.660 so
01:53:06.840 there's
01:53:09.620 what do
01:53:09.800 you need
01:53:10.100 to
01:53:10.240 know
01:53:10.460 you
01:53:10.700 need
01:53:11.060 to
01:53:11.180 be
01:53:11.300 really
01:53:11.540 good
01:53:11.840 at
01:53:12.000 least
01:53:12.360 one
01:53:12.680 thing
01:53:13.120 you
01:53:13.920 have
01:53:14.060 to
01:53:14.200 specialize
01:53:14.700 you
01:53:15.020 have
01:53:15.160 to
01:53:15.260 be
01:53:15.380 a
01:53:15.520 great
01:53:15.800 networker
01:53:16.460 you
01:53:16.600 have
01:53:16.800 to
01:53:16.920 know
01:53:17.120 a lot
01:53:17.480 of
01:53:17.620 people
01:53:18.000 you
01:53:18.200 have
01:53:18.380 to
01:53:18.480 be
01:53:18.640 honest
01:53:19.140 you
01:53:19.340 have
01:53:19.520 to
01:53:19.620 articulate
01:53:20.320 you
01:53:20.660 have
01:53:20.860 to
01:53:21.020 have
01:53:21.900 to
01:53:22.040 have
01:53:22.240 a
01:53:22.380 vision
01:53:22.880 you
01:53:23.360 have
01:53:23.540 to
01:53:23.660 have
01:53:23.800 a
01:53:23.940 strategy
01:53:24.500 you
01:53:24.740 have
01:53:24.880 to
01:53:24.980 know
01:53:25.120 something
01:53:25.380 about
01:53:25.660 history
01:53:26.140 and
01:53:26.320 economics
01:53:26.940 and
01:53:27.160 politics
01:53:27.680 be
01:53:28.120 good
01:53:28.300 to
01:53:28.460 know
01:53:28.620 something
01:53:28.920 about
01:53:29.240 science
01:53:29.900 you
01:53:30.660 know
01:53:30.840 you
01:53:31.140 have
01:53:31.340 to
01:53:31.440 be
01:53:31.560 a
01:53:31.720 polymath
01:53:32.320 of
01:53:32.500 sorts
01:53:32.760 before
01:53:33.080 you
01:53:33.280 should
01:53:33.540 dare
01:53:33.960 to
01:53:34.200 enter
01:53:34.540 that
01:53:34.860 realm
01:53:35.280 with
01:53:35.800 any
01:53:35.980 degree
01:53:36.300 of
01:53:36.480 confidence
01:53:37.040 because
01:53:37.580 otherwise
01:53:37.920 all you
01:53:38.360 are
01:53:38.540 is
01:53:38.680 a
01:53:38.780 loose
01:53:39.160 cannon
01:53:39.600 and
01:53:40.160 you'll
01:53:40.340 come
01:53:40.480 up
01:53:40.660 with
01:53:40.820 global
01:53:41.380 proposals
01:53:42.080 to
01:53:42.420 improve
01:53:42.940 the
01:53:43.780 world
01:53:44.140 you
01:53:44.600 know
01:53:44.760 by
01:53:45.040 waving
01:53:45.460 your
01:53:45.740 wand
01:53:46.100 that
01:53:46.300 will
01:53:46.440 do
01:53:46.640 nothing
01:53:47.000 but
01:53:47.240 make
01:53:47.500 everything
01:53:47.920 worse
01:53:48.440 and
01:53:49.080 so
01:53:49.380 I
01:53:50.560 would
01:53:50.720 say
01:53:50.960 don't
01:53:51.500 do
01:53:51.680 that
01:53:52.120 why
01:54:02.160 would
01:54:02.400 you
01:54:02.580 say
01:54:02.920 the
01:54:03.940 audience
01:54:04.360 here
01:54:04.640 is
01:54:04.820 predominantly
01:54:05.460 Caucasian
01:54:06.380 slash
01:54:07.080 white
01:54:07.460 as
01:54:07.740 opposed
01:54:08.040 to
01:54:08.260 diverse
01:54:08.700 well
01:54:09.760 the
01:54:09.900 first
01:54:10.140 thing
01:54:10.400 is
01:54:10.580 I
01:54:10.960 wouldn't
01:54:11.380 say
01:54:11.680 that
01:54:12.140 because
01:54:13.040 because
01:54:21.040 I
01:54:21.840 don't
01:54:22.080 think
01:54:22.280 that's
01:54:22.540 a
01:54:22.640 good
01:54:22.780 way
01:54:22.980 of
01:54:23.120 looking
01:54:23.360 at
01:54:23.580 the
01:54:23.740 world
01:54:24.100 but
01:54:26.020 then
01:54:26.460 to
01:54:27.040 take
01:54:27.260 the
01:54:27.440 question
01:54:27.800 with
01:54:28.040 a
01:54:28.200 certain
01:54:28.400 degree
01:54:28.680 of
01:54:28.840 seriousness
01:54:29.280 I
01:54:29.580 would
01:54:29.760 also
01:54:30.000 point
01:54:30.300 out
01:54:30.500 well
01:54:30.760 the
01:54:31.440 culture
01:54:31.820 is
01:54:32.100 predominantly
01:54:32.660 Caucasian
01:54:33.580 and
01:54:34.060 white
01:54:34.420 so
01:54:34.760 why
01:54:35.160 would
01:54:35.480 that
01:54:35.700 be
01:54:35.900 a
01:54:36.060 surprise
01:54:36.620 and
01:54:37.540 then
01:54:37.760 the
01:54:38.040 third
01:54:38.220 thing
01:54:38.420 I
01:54:38.560 would
01:54:38.700 say
01:54:38.960 is
01:54:39.180 well
01:54:39.420 did
01:54:39.840 you
01:54:39.960 do
01:54:40.120 a
01:54:40.260 count
01:54:40.620 like
01:54:41.780 do
01:54:42.720 you
01:54:42.880 know
01:54:43.400 how
01:54:43.880 offset
01:54:44.660 the
01:54:44.940 audience
01:54:45.360 is
01:54:45.740 or
01:54:45.960 is
01:54:46.120 just
01:54:46.580 a
01:54:46.780 guess
01:54:47.140 and
01:54:51.840 reflective
01:54:52.420 of
01:54:52.940 the
01:54:53.180 general
01:54:53.720 demographic
01:54:55.480 let's
01:54:55.860 say
01:54:56.020 of
01:54:56.160 YouTube
01:54:56.520 because
01:54:57.120 most
01:54:57.620 of
01:54:57.780 the
01:54:57.920 people
01:54:58.160 who've
01:54:58.420 come
01:54:58.560 across
01:54:58.860 my
01:54:59.060 work
01:54:59.300 have
01:54:59.440 come
01:54:59.600 across
01:54:59.940 it
01:55:00.060 on
01:55:00.240 YouTube
01:55:00.540 and
01:55:01.000 if
01:55:01.540 my
01:55:01.820 audience
01:55:02.280 is
01:55:02.600 let's
01:55:02.920 say
01:55:03.120 more
01:55:03.620 diverse
01:55:04.420 than
01:55:05.100 the
01:55:05.320 typical
01:55:05.700 YouTube
01:55:06.140 audience
01:55:06.720 which
01:55:07.020 is
01:55:07.180 almost
01:55:07.500 certain
01:55:07.980 because
01:55:08.300 it's
01:55:08.560 80%
01:55:09.220 male
01:55:09.640 then
01:55:10.300 it's
01:55:11.160 actually
01:55:11.540 more
01:55:11.860 diverse
01:55:12.380 than
01:55:12.640 you
01:55:12.760 would
01:55:12.900 expect
01:55:13.460 so
01:55:14.360 and
01:55:14.640 then
01:55:14.760 the
01:55:14.920 last
01:55:15.200 thing
01:55:15.420 I
01:55:15.560 would
01:55:15.740 say
01:55:16.040 is
01:55:16.440 why
01:55:17.020 would
01:55:17.280 you
01:55:17.420 ask
01:55:17.800 that
01:55:18.100 question
01:55:21.840 you
01:55:27.060 know
01:55:27.200 there's
01:55:27.520 an
01:55:28.080 insinuation
01:55:29.020 in it
01:55:29.480 which
01:55:29.740 is
01:55:29.940 that
01:55:30.180 there's
01:55:30.780 something
01:55:31.180 that
01:55:31.480 I'm
01:55:31.720 saying
01:55:32.120 that
01:55:32.400 somehow
01:55:33.000 we
01:55:33.860 didn't
01:55:34.280 add
01:55:34.540 male
01:55:35.000 to
01:55:35.320 it
01:55:35.540 but
01:55:35.860 we
01:55:36.000 could
01:55:36.240 have
01:55:36.400 that
01:55:36.900 there's
01:55:37.320 something
01:55:37.900 that
01:55:38.220 I'm
01:55:38.460 saying
01:55:38.880 that's
01:55:39.360 predominantly
01:55:39.880 for
01:55:40.360 Caucasians
01:55:41.160 or
01:55:41.360 predominantly
01:55:42.520 for
01:55:42.960 whites
01:55:43.360 or
01:55:43.580 predominantly
01:55:44.120 for
01:55:44.580 men
01:55:44.940 and
01:55:45.640 if
01:55:46.100 that
01:55:46.340 was
01:55:46.560 true
01:55:46.920 which
01:55:47.380 it
01:55:47.560 isn't
01:55:48.080 by the
01:55:48.580 way
01:55:48.880 but
01:55:49.340 if
01:55:49.500 it
01:55:49.620 was
01:55:49.940 true
01:55:50.340 then
01:55:50.860 that
01:55:51.100 would
01:55:51.340 conceivably
01:55:52.180 reflect
01:55:52.800 badly
01:55:53.360 on
01:55:53.780 me
01:55:54.120 and
01:55:54.760 you
01:55:54.960 know
01:55:55.100 I
01:55:55.280 have
01:55:55.400 a
01:55:55.480 couple
01:55:55.680 of
01:55:55.840 things
01:55:56.060 to
01:55:56.240 say
01:55:56.440 about
01:55:56.700 that
01:55:57.080 one
01:55:57.440 being
01:55:57.840 if
01:55:58.880 it
01:55:59.020 is
01:55:59.260 the
01:55:59.440 case
01:55:59.720 that
01:55:59.900 I
01:56:00.060 happen
01:56:00.360 to
01:56:00.520 be
01:56:00.740 speaking
01:56:01.200 primarily
01:56:01.840 to
01:56:02.200 men
01:56:02.560 between
01:56:02.920 the
01:56:03.180 ages
01:56:03.500 of
01:56:03.740 say
01:56:03.980 27
01:56:04.680 and
01:56:04.980 35
01:56:05.480 which
01:56:06.020 seems
01:56:06.300 to be
01:56:06.660 approximately
01:56:07.180 the
01:56:07.500 case
01:56:07.820 first
01:56:08.440 of all
01:56:08.760 there's
01:56:08.980 nothing
01:56:09.220 wrong
01:56:09.540 with
01:56:09.740 that
01:56:10.020 because
01:56:10.380 like
01:56:11.080 is
01:56:11.420 there
01:56:11.600 something
01:56:11.940 wrong
01:56:12.420 with
01:56:12.640 talking
01:56:12.980 to
01:56:13.220 men
01:56:13.460 between
01:56:13.780 the
01:56:14.020 ages
01:56:14.280 of
01:56:14.480 27
01:56:15.000 and
01:56:15.200 35
01:56:15.580 are
01:56:16.260 we
01:56:16.400 not
01:56:16.660 actually
01:56:17.180 supposed
01:56:17.580 to
01:56:17.960 be
01:56:18.200 allowed
01:56:18.740 to
01:56:19.120 talk
01:56:19.440 to
01:56:19.620 them
01:56:19.900 and
01:56:20.400 if
01:56:20.540 they
01:56:20.700 happen
01:56:21.000 to
01:56:21.160 be
01:56:21.280 the
01:56:21.440 ones
01:56:21.680 that
01:56:21.840 are
01:56:21.940 coming
01:56:22.200 to
01:56:22.440 my
01:56:22.700 lectures
01:56:23.240 which
01:56:23.720 is
01:56:23.900 absolutely
01:56:24.780 bloody
01:56:25.380 peculiar
01:56:26.020 just
01:56:26.480 so
01:56:26.780 you
01:56:26.960 know
01:56:27.180 it
01:56:27.380 I
01:56:27.760 mean
01:56:27.920 look
01:56:28.520 I
01:56:28.660 did
01:56:28.860 these
01:56:29.080 biblical
01:56:29.440 lectures
01:56:29.960 a
01:56:30.180 year
01:56:30.360 ago
01:56:30.740 a
01:56:31.120 year
01:56:31.280 and
01:56:31.400 a
01:56:31.480 half
01:56:31.700 ago
01:56:31.980 on
01:56:32.460 Genesis
01:56:33.000 right
01:56:33.520 and
01:56:34.200 it's
01:56:34.800 always
01:56:35.020 made
01:56:35.260 me
01:56:35.420 laugh
01:56:35.720 because
01:56:35.980 I
01:56:36.140 thought
01:56:36.400 I
01:56:36.560 rented
01:56:36.840 a
01:56:37.080 theatre
01:56:37.320 for
01:56:37.560 15
01:56:38.020 weeks
01:56:38.360 which
01:56:38.600 was
01:56:38.740 quite
01:56:39.000 a
01:56:39.200 substantial
01:56:39.720 financial
01:56:40.300 risk
01:56:40.780 and
01:56:40.920 I
01:56:41.060 thought
01:56:41.240 well
01:56:41.440 maybe
01:56:41.700 people
01:56:42.020 will
01:56:42.160 come
01:56:42.300 and
01:56:42.460 listen
01:56:42.660 to
01:56:42.820 these
01:56:43.020 lectures
01:56:43.420 and
01:56:43.660 I
01:56:43.760 thought
01:56:43.980 I
01:56:44.660 made
01:56:45.140 business
01:56:45.560 plans
01:56:45.880 before
01:56:46.280 and
01:56:46.480 talked
01:56:46.680 to
01:56:46.800 business
01:56:47.060 people
01:56:47.340 and
01:56:47.480 I
01:56:47.580 thought
01:56:47.800 this
01:56:48.060 is
01:56:48.180 a
01:56:48.320 hell
01:56:48.500 of
01:56:48.620 a
01:56:48.720 business
01:56:49.040 plan
01:56:49.400 man
01:56:49.640 this
01:56:49.820 is
01:56:49.940 what
01:56:50.080 I'm
01:56:50.200 going
01:56:50.340 to
01:56:50.420 go
01:56:50.540 to
01:56:50.700 the
01:56:50.840 bank
01:56:51.200 with
01:56:51.520 and
01:56:51.680 say
01:56:51.920 here's
01:56:52.480 my
01:56:52.660 plan
01:56:53.140 man
01:56:53.500 I'm
01:56:54.980 going
01:56:55.180 to
01:56:55.360 invest
01:56:56.040 $225,000
01:56:59.100 so
01:56:59.720 that's
01:56:59.960 about
01:57:00.140 what it
01:57:00.380 cost
01:57:08.600 and
01:57:08.760 I'm
01:57:08.920 going
01:57:09.020 to
01:57:09.120 talk
01:57:09.360 about
01:57:09.720 the
01:57:11.060 Old
01:57:11.360 Testament
01:57:11.840 and
01:57:14.260 the
01:57:14.720 people
01:57:15.100 I'm
01:57:15.400 going
01:57:15.540 to
01:57:15.660 get
01:57:15.840 in
01:57:16.140 are
01:57:16.640 men
01:57:17.300 between
01:57:17.960 27
01:57:18.720 and
01:57:18.980 35
01:57:19.640 it's
01:57:20.340 like
01:57:20.560 all
01:57:21.460 of
01:57:21.640 that
01:57:21.920 is
01:57:22.280 well
01:57:22.840 it's
01:57:23.040 a
01:57:23.180 sign
01:57:23.380 of
01:57:23.540 insanity
01:57:24.100 no
01:57:24.620 one
01:57:24.780 with
01:57:24.960 any
01:57:25.200 sense
01:57:25.520 at
01:57:25.640 all
01:57:25.840 would
01:57:26.040 ever
01:57:26.460 invest
01:57:26.980 a
01:57:27.180 penny
01:57:27.500 in
01:57:27.840 anything
01:57:28.180 like
01:57:28.520 that
01:57:28.900 because
01:57:29.280 well
01:57:30.160 who's
01:57:30.480 going
01:57:30.640 to
01:57:30.720 come
01:57:30.900 to
01:57:31.060 lectures
01:57:31.420 on
01:57:31.680 Genesis
01:57:32.040 the
01:57:32.220 first
01:57:32.420 damn
01:57:32.700 lecture
01:57:33.060 was
01:57:33.300 three
01:57:33.620 hours
01:57:34.020 on
01:57:34.220 the
01:57:34.380 first
01:57:34.640 sentence
01:57:35.080 of
01:57:35.280 Genesis
01:57:35.700 like
01:57:36.400 that
01:57:36.880 that's
01:57:37.200 a
01:57:37.300 hell
01:57:37.440 of
01:57:37.540 a
01:57:37.640 thing
01:57:37.760 to
01:57:37.920 advertise
01:57:38.440 in
01:57:38.640 posters
01:57:39.080 around
01:57:39.560 your
01:57:39.880 city
01:57:40.380 it's
01:57:40.880 like
01:57:41.080 three
01:57:41.660 hours
01:57:42.140 on
01:57:42.360 the
01:57:42.500 first
01:57:42.760 sentence
01:57:43.120 of
01:57:43.300 Genesis
01:57:43.700 like
01:57:44.080 people
01:57:44.560 are
01:57:44.740 lined
01:57:45.180 up
01:57:45.440 down
01:57:45.780 the
01:57:46.000 street
01:57:46.300 waiting
01:57:46.680 for
01:57:46.920 that
01:57:47.380 well
01:57:48.300 turned
01:57:49.720 out
01:57:49.940 they
01:57:50.140 were
01:57:50.620 and
01:58:00.980 and
01:58:01.420 they
01:58:01.900 were
01:58:02.080 mostly
01:58:02.480 men
01:58:02.900 and
01:58:03.140 then
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02:08:45.040 fruitful
02:08:45.540 and
02:08:45.880 multiply
02:08:51.280 and
02:08:51.980 so
02:08:52.180 don't
02:08:52.620 shy
02:08:52.920 away
02:08:53.200 from
02:08:53.460 it
02:08:53.620 because
02:08:53.880 you
02:08:54.100 will
02:08:54.280 regret
02:08:54.700 it
02:08:55.080 so
02:08:56.380 one
02:09:04.880 more
02:09:05.260 I'm
02:09:06.280 a
02:09:06.380 young
02:09:06.580 man
02:09:06.860 getting
02:09:07.120 married
02:09:07.440 under
02:09:07.720 two
02:09:07.980 weeks
02:09:08.300 time
02:09:08.780 what
02:09:09.240 advice
02:09:09.640 to
02:09:09.840 you
02:09:09.980 now
02:09:10.200 you're
02:09:10.440 in
02:09:10.560 real
02:09:10.760 trouble
02:09:11.100 Jason
02:09:11.580 asking
02:09:13.380 this
02:09:13.640 question
02:09:14.060 what
02:09:14.720 advice
02:09:15.340 to
02:09:16.320 you
02:09:16.700 do
02:09:17.260 you
02:09:17.400 have
02:09:17.740 moving
02:09:18.060 forward
02:09:18.400 to
02:09:18.600 manage
02:09:18.900 your
02:09:19.060 eatable
02:09:19.420 mother
02:09:19.800 and
02:09:20.240 neurotic
02:09:20.660 families
02:09:21.140 in
02:09:21.400 general
02:09:21.800 well
02:09:22.620 one
02:09:22.960 thing
02:09:23.520 I
02:09:23.700 would
02:09:23.860 suggest
02:09:24.340 is
02:09:24.540 move
02:09:25.060 the
02:09:25.340 hell
02:09:25.600 away
02:09:26.140 and
02:09:28.540 I
02:09:28.700 mean
02:09:28.960 that
02:09:29.200 seriously
02:09:29.740 at
02:09:30.020 least
02:09:30.220 far
02:09:30.520 enough
02:09:30.780 away
02:09:31.100 so
02:09:31.420 that
02:09:31.680 you
02:09:32.060 have
02:09:32.300 your
02:09:32.500 privacy
02:09:32.980 you
02:09:33.320 know
02:09:33.460 you're
02:09:33.740 supposed
02:09:33.960 to
02:09:34.320 leave
02:09:34.760 both
02:09:35.360 of
02:09:35.540 you
02:09:35.680 you
02:09:35.860 leave
02:09:36.360 your
02:09:36.620 parents
02:09:37.220 and
02:09:37.780 you
02:09:37.940 go
02:09:38.380 with
02:09:38.660 your
02:09:38.840 partner
02:09:39.280 you
02:09:39.540 you've
02:09:39.960 rearranged
02:09:40.680 your
02:09:40.940 hierarchy
02:09:41.600 of
02:09:42.160 moral
02:09:43.080 obligations
02:09:44.320 it's
02:09:45.080 no longer
02:09:45.720 your
02:09:46.000 parents
02:09:46.440 it's
02:09:46.700 no longer
02:09:47.240 your
02:09:47.520 siblings
02:09:47.900 it's
02:09:48.280 your
02:09:48.440 partner
02:09:48.900 is
02:09:49.160 number
02:09:50.240 one
02:09:51.280 along
02:09:52.100 with
02:09:52.340 you
02:09:52.680 and
02:09:53.680 then
02:09:53.840 you
02:09:54.020 protect
02:09:54.560 them
02:09:54.840 against
02:09:55.220 that
02:09:55.660 over
02:09:56.620 sheltered
02:09:57.760 neuroticism
02:09:58.740 that
02:09:59.040 oedipal
02:09:59.680 danger
02:10:00.420 that might
02:10:00.980 lurk in
02:10:01.400 the background
02:10:02.000 and
02:10:02.620 maybe
02:10:02.840 you do
02:10:03.120 that
02:10:03.380 even
02:10:03.640 it's
02:10:04.100 very
02:10:04.280 difficult
02:10:04.640 to say
02:10:05.080 but
02:10:05.260 maybe
02:10:05.540 you
02:10:05.720 do
02:10:05.860 that
02:10:06.060 by
02:10:06.300 agreeing
02:10:07.760 to
02:10:08.200 limit
02:10:08.700 contact
02:10:09.380 to a
02:10:10.040 certain
02:10:10.320 reasonable
02:10:10.900 amount
02:10:11.300 you know
02:10:11.860 I've
02:10:12.040 had
02:10:12.200 clients
02:10:12.720 whose
02:10:13.040 mother
02:10:13.540 phoned
02:10:14.100 them
02:10:14.320 three
02:10:14.840 times
02:10:15.400 a
02:10:15.660 day
02:10:16.020 you
02:10:16.940 know
02:10:17.140 and
02:10:17.760 if
02:10:17.960 your
02:10:18.100 mother
02:10:18.300 phones
02:10:18.660 you
02:10:18.780 three
02:10:18.980 times
02:10:19.280 a
02:10:19.420 day
02:10:19.560 by
02:10:19.740 the way
02:10:19.980 that
02:10:20.160 that's
02:10:20.520 too
02:10:20.720 many
02:10:20.960 times
02:10:21.440 and
02:10:23.960 all
02:10:24.340 she
02:10:24.660 ever
02:10:24.960 did
02:10:25.300 when
02:10:25.500 she
02:10:25.700 phoned
02:10:26.120 was
02:10:26.780 make
02:10:27.540 my
02:10:27.880 client
02:10:28.320 miserable
02:10:29.020 that
02:10:29.680 was
02:10:29.840 her
02:10:30.000 goal
02:10:30.420 it's
02:10:30.640 like
02:10:30.900 I'm
02:10:32.460 going to
02:10:32.780 phone
02:10:33.000 my
02:10:33.220 daughter
02:10:33.460 up
02:10:33.760 because
02:10:34.040 I
02:10:34.160 love
02:10:34.380 her
02:10:34.500 so
02:10:34.680 much
02:10:35.000 and
02:10:35.640 it's
02:10:36.120 been
02:10:36.320 a
02:10:36.440 whole
02:10:36.600 hour
02:10:36.940 since
02:10:37.280 I
02:10:37.460 talked
02:10:37.740 to
02:10:37.900 her
02:10:38.020 and
02:10:38.500 she
02:10:38.860 hasn't
02:10:39.300 been
02:10:39.560 miserable
02:10:40.080 about
02:10:40.580 what
02:10:40.900 she's
02:10:41.300 wretched
02:10:41.600 about
02:10:42.020 for
02:10:42.320 an
02:10:42.500 hour
02:10:42.780 so
02:10:43.180 it's
02:10:43.380 time
02:10:43.700 for
02:10:43.940 a
02:10:44.140 new
02:10:44.420 call
02:10:45.100 and
02:10:45.700 so
02:10:45.980 one
02:10:46.680 of
02:10:46.840 the
02:10:47.220 experiments
02:10:48.440 that
02:10:48.860 we
02:10:49.220 conducted
02:10:50.120 was
02:10:50.540 well
02:10:51.240 how
02:10:51.880 about
02:10:52.140 once
02:10:52.620 a
02:10:52.820 week
02:10:53.160 how
02:10:53.860 would
02:10:54.000 that
02:10:54.240 be
02:10:54.500 for
02:10:54.700 a
02:10:54.820 while
02:10:55.000 I
02:10:55.120 mean
02:10:55.200 I
02:10:55.300 think
02:10:55.440 she
02:10:55.580 was
02:10:55.760 27
02:10:56.440 it's
02:10:57.180 like
02:10:57.360 how
02:10:57.640 about
02:10:57.800 once
02:10:58.100 a
02:10:58.260 week
02:10:58.580 that's
02:10:59.680 not
02:10:59.840 so
02:11:00.040 bad
02:11:00.420 and
02:11:01.260 how
02:11:01.400 about
02:11:01.580 if
02:11:01.700 she
02:11:01.840 gets
02:11:02.120 miserable
02:11:02.640 on
02:11:02.940 the
02:11:03.080 phone
02:11:03.360 you
02:11:03.740 just
02:11:04.040 hang
02:11:04.400 up
02:11:04.780 because
02:11:06.440 how
02:11:06.700 much
02:11:06.920 are
02:11:07.040 you
02:11:07.140 going
02:11:07.280 to
02:11:07.420 take
02:11:07.800 and
02:11:08.300 where
02:11:08.500 are
02:11:08.580 you
02:11:08.660 going
02:11:08.780 to
02:11:08.880 draw
02:11:09.100 the
02:11:09.280 line
02:11:09.620 and
02:11:10.740 I
02:11:11.060 love
02:11:11.380 you
02:11:11.540 and
02:11:11.680 I
02:11:11.820 care
02:11:12.100 for
02:11:12.360 you
02:11:12.520 is
02:11:12.680 no
02:11:12.840 excuse
02:11:13.240 for
02:11:13.480 making
02:11:13.800 you
02:11:14.140 like
02:11:14.780 unhealthy
02:11:15.680 and
02:11:15.960 dependent
02:11:16.380 and
02:11:16.680 miserable
02:11:17.080 and
02:11:17.800 so
02:11:18.020 if
02:11:18.240 you're
02:11:18.380 going
02:11:18.500 to
02:11:18.560 get
02:11:18.720 married
02:11:19.160 then
02:11:19.920 you
02:11:20.080 make
02:11:20.320 your
02:11:20.480 marriage
02:11:20.800 paramount
02:11:21.520 and
02:11:21.960 you
02:11:22.160 erect
02:11:22.760 walls
02:11:23.300 around
02:11:23.620 it
02:11:23.780 and
02:11:23.920 you
02:11:24.020 don't
02:11:24.240 let
02:11:24.440 anything
02:11:25.080 disrupt
02:11:25.760 it
02:11:26.000 and
02:11:26.400 you
02:11:26.580 put
02:11:27.840 out
02:11:28.000 a
02:11:28.120 hand
02:11:28.360 of
02:11:28.520 trust
02:11:28.840 to
02:11:29.040 your
02:11:29.180 in
02:11:29.360 laws
02:11:29.740 but
02:11:30.220 a
02:11:30.360 careful
02:11:30.720 one
02:11:31.100 because
02:11:31.740 you
02:11:32.080 protect
02:11:32.500 your
02:11:32.720 marriage
02:11:33.180 and
02:11:33.820 you
02:11:34.100 discuss
02:11:34.780 very
02:11:35.160 carefully
02:11:35.720 with
02:11:36.060 your
02:11:41.380 hope
02:11:41.680 that
02:11:41.880 over
02:11:42.060 the
02:11:42.260 medium
02:11:42.600 to
02:11:42.840 long
02:11:43.160 term
02:11:43.480 you
02:11:43.960 make
02:11:44.260 peace
02:11:44.720 with
02:11:44.980 your
02:11:45.280 extended
02:11:45.880 family
02:11:46.400 because
02:11:46.720 that's
02:11:47.140 absolutely
02:11:47.680 necessary
02:11:48.380 especially
02:11:48.940 if you're
02:11:49.300 going to
02:11:49.600 have
02:11:49.780 grandchildren
02:11:50.340 but
02:11:50.920 you
02:11:51.080 don't
02:11:51.440 take
02:11:51.700 any
02:11:51.920 nonsense
02:11:52.360 and
02:11:52.780 you
02:11:52.920 make
02:11:53.140 sure
02:11:53.400 that
02:11:53.620 everyone
02:11:54.040 knows
02:11:54.540 who's
02:11:54.940 who
02:11:55.260 and
02:11:56.320 so
02:11:56.500 that
02:11:56.820 would
02:11:57.080 be
02:11:57.240 my
02:11:57.480 advice
02:11:57.920 for
02:11:58.380 that
02:11:58.820 thank
02:12:12.380 you
02:12:12.540 all
02:12:12.720 very
02:12:12.900 much
02:12:13.100 for
02:12:13.280 coming
02:12:13.580 it was
02:12:14.260 a
02:12:14.400 pleasure
02:12:14.620 to
02:12:14.880 talk
02:12:15.120 to
02:12:15.280 you
02:12:28.820 it was
02:12:48.280 a
02:12:48.480 it was
02:12:49.960 a pleasure
02:12:50.460 it was
02:12:51.000 a pleasure
02:12:51.420 being in
02:12:51.960 New Zealand
02:12:52.500 and I
02:12:53.360 would say
02:12:53.880 hold on
02:12:55.060 to your
02:12:55.440 civilization
02:12:56.180 you've got
02:12:57.220 something here
02:12:57.820 that's very
02:12:58.320 much worth
02:12:58.880 preserving
02:12:59.400 don't let
02:13:00.360 it go
02:13:00.900 not without
02:13:01.680 a fight
02:13:02.300 bye bye
02:13:03.320 if you
02:13:07.380 found this
02:13:07.740 conversation
02:13:08.280 meaningful
02:13:08.800 you might
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02:13:10.560 books
02:13:10.840 maps of
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02:13:11.580 the
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02:13:15.580 an antidote
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02:13:17.880 delve much
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02:13:38.900 week we're
02:13:39.640 starting on
02:13:40.180 dad's biblical
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