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00:00:00.000Hey everyone, real quick before you skip, I want to talk to you about something serious and important.
00:00:06.000Dr. Jordan Peterson has created a new series that could be a lifeline for those battling depression and anxiety.
00:00:12.000We know how isolating and overwhelming these conditions can be, and we wanted to take a moment to reach out to those listening who may be struggling.
00:00:19.000With decades of experience helping patients, Dr. Peterson offers a unique understanding of why you might be feeling this way in his new series.
00:00:27.000He provides a roadmap towards healing, showing that while the journey isn't easy, it's absolutely possible to find your way forward.
00:00:35.000If you're suffering, please know you are not alone. There's hope, and there's a path to feeling better.
00:00:41.000Go to Daily Wire Plus now and start watching Dr. Jordan B. Peterson on depression and anxiety.
00:00:47.000Let this be the first step towards the brighter future you deserve.
00:00:57.000Welcome to Season 2, Episode 28 of the Jordan B. Peterson Podcast.
00:01:04.000I'm Mikayla Peterson, Dad's daughter and collaborator.
00:01:07.000This is a podcast from Westbury, New York, recorded on September 6th, 2018.
00:01:12.000We're going to get back to interviews as quickly as possible.
00:01:15.000We're still having some health trickiness.
00:01:17.000I'm currently in New York, visiting my dad, who has checked himself into rehab to get off of a prescribed anti-anxiety drug that he started taking when mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer.
00:01:30.000Turns out it's very difficult to get off of without having physical withdrawal.
00:01:35.000If this recording doesn't sound ideal, it's because I'm in New York visiting my dad.
00:01:41.000So, interviews at the moment for the podcast are kind of out of the question.
00:01:46.000We should be back at it in a couple of months.
00:01:49.000If you want to hear how my mom is doing and how my dad is doing, please go to my YouTube page or type in Peterson Family Update September 2019 into YouTube.
00:02:00.000I go into why he's in rehab, how mom is doing.
00:02:05.000Don't worry, everything's fine, but there's more information on YouTube in that video.
00:02:11.000We're okay, we just need a bit of time to get back on our feet after all the stress that we had to deal with following mom's diagnosis.
00:02:19.000I've named this podcast, Risk Being a Fool, a 12 Rules for Life lecture.
00:02:55.000Well, it's surreal to be doing all of this.
00:02:57.000It's surreal to have Dave Rubin introduce Eric Weinstein, the mathematician, so he can come out here and sing a Doors song to you and then play the harmonica.
00:03:07.000I don't know what universe that makes sense in, but apparently it's this one.
00:03:12.000So, I don't know what to make of that except it's very amusing and it's very good that things can be amusing from time to time.
00:03:21.000It's nice to have Dave along to add some levity to the situation in the Q&A as well because I think that no matter how serious the topics that you're talking about, if you can't maintain a sense of humor about it, then something has gone seriously wrong, right?
00:03:37.000And I think something's gone seriously wrong, I suppose, to the degree that we are increasingly unable to tolerate comedians.
00:03:43.000They won't come to speak at campuses, for example, it's not really a very good thing, even mainstream comedians like Jerry Seinfeld.
00:03:53.000Okay, so, I use these opportunities, privileges, because it's a privilege to come here and speak to all of you, to further my thinking about whatever it is that I happen to be thinking about.
00:04:11.000And, you know, Dave was talking about ideas, and there's two things that are sort of relevant when you're talking about ideas.
00:04:20.000One is, I think, the ideas that you bring forward, but the other is the engagement in the process of generating ideas, and that's actually more important.
00:04:30.000And I really think that that's what you need to do if you're speaking with people.
00:04:34.000I mean, you do that in a conversation, you don't want to just trot out the same old things you've been thinking about for the last ten years, you know?
00:04:43.000There's something stale and dead about that. You want to be pushing the envelope with what you think.
00:04:48.000And that's a good hint if you want to speak publicly, or if you want to speak in a manner that's interesting, is you have to take a bit of a risk, you know?
00:04:55.000Otherwise, you fall back on your notes, and then you're like your own tape recorder. Or, it gets even worse, you might become your own parody, you know?
00:05:02.000Because you keep imitating your past successes, or your past lack of failure, which is even a worse thing to imitate.
00:05:10.000It's better to take a risk. And then that's kind of exciting, because, well, it's exciting to be the speaker, because you don't know what the hell is going to happen.
00:05:17.000Because I never know backstage. I don't even really know what I'm going to talk about when I come out.
00:05:22.000Like, you know, I sit back in the dressing room for forty-five minutes, and I think about what it is that I'm thinking about.
00:05:28.000And I have some sense of the direction that I want to go in, but I don't know exactly how it's going to go when I come out on stage.
00:05:35.000And so, that gives me some rather anxiety-provoking moments. I usually have at least one small panic attack before I come on stage.
00:05:43.000They don't last that long, but they're there. But, but I don't think you can do anything worthwhile without risk.
00:05:51.000And I can bloody well tell you that you can't think without risk. That's for sure.
00:05:55.000Because if you're thinking without risk, then you're not thinking about anything important.
00:05:59.000And if you're not thinking about anything important, well, the first issue is, well, why the hell bother then?
00:06:03.000Why bother thinking? And second, you're not thinking, if you're not thinking about something important.
00:06:08.000And if it's going to be important, it's going to be contentious. And you know, that's part of the reason why free speech is so important.
00:06:14.000Because you have to be able to stumble around blindly like an idiot while you're trying to figure out difficult things.
00:06:19.000Because otherwise, you'll never get a chance to figure them out.
00:06:22.000Because you're not going to bloody well get it right the first time. That's for sure.
00:06:26.000And so, there's a lot of idiocy on the way to wisdom. And you have to be, you have to understand that.
00:06:32.000If you're going to allow your society to proceed with any degree of certainty.
00:29:25.000else is perceiving. And that's terribly dangerous. Because you don't want to be wandering around in a world
00:29:30.100where no one else is looking at things the way you are. Right? Now maybe you're a spectacular genius
00:29:35.680and you're on the cutting edge and all of that. But you're still going to suffer for that. But probably
00:29:39.640not. Probably you're just unbelievably alienated or edging towards psychosis. And even if you're
00:29:47.020correct and everybody else is wrong, it's not like that's going to be a comfortable place to be.
00:29:51.880That's for sure. And you can tell that by how fast people backtrack online when they're mobbed on
00:29:58.760Twitter. Right? They put something forward and say, well, here's what I think. And there's like mob.
00:30:03.620And they go, whoa, no, I don't think that. Sorry. You know, I've also been fascinated by that.
00:30:11.520Because one of the things I learned as a clinical psychologist is, you know, I often had clients
00:30:15.960who had been backed into a corner by people who were very malevolent and were trying to discredit
00:30:20.780them in various ways. And various, like various subtle and intelligent and pernicious ways.
00:30:28.780Right? To undermine them. And one of the things I noticed was that people were very bad at mounting
00:30:33.340their own defense. You know, so I spent two years with one client. Someone I worked with in a consulting
00:30:40.220firm. And she had, she worked in a consulting firm. And she had moved in from another firm
00:30:44.860with a big client. And when she moved into the new firm, someone undermined her with her client and
00:30:50.860then took it. And then made up a story that she was neurotically insane. Partly because she objected
00:30:56.860to the theft. Right? And this person was very, very effective at doing this. And he was winning
00:31:02.860the battle. He was blackening her reputation in a very effective way. And it took like two years
00:31:08.860to mount a defense for her to get the story straightened back out. Even in her own head. Right?
00:31:12.860Because she wasn't sure what the reality was. Because it had got so twisted. It was then that I realized
00:31:18.860that partly then how difficult it is to presume innocence instead of guilt even on your own behalf.
00:31:24.860And then I also realized what an absolute bloody miracle it is that we have a legal system where
00:31:30.860the fundamental presumption is one of innocence. You think, well that's self-evident. It's like,
00:31:34.860believe me man, that is not self-evident. If ten people go after you and they say you're guilty,
00:31:40.860you're gonna have a hell of a time disagreeing with it. Now maybe you're one ornery son of a bitch.
00:31:46.860And you can tell everybody to screw off. In which case you probably have your own problems.
00:31:50.860But, well, because that doesn't come without a cost. But the idea that you would just
00:31:56.860automatically rise to your own defense if you were attacked unfairly. It's like,
00:32:00.860I wouldn't rely on that presupposition too hard. Because if you were put to the test,
00:32:06.860you may find that that's not the case at all. And that might even be a testament to your
00:32:10.860fundamentally socialized nature. Right? Because like, if a hundred people come after you
00:32:15.860and shake their finger and say you're wrong, you might be wrong.
00:32:19.860And if, you know, you know what I mean. It's like a pure psychopath would just say screw you people.
00:32:25.860Like I don't care what you think. But, you know, we're not really admirers of pure psychopaths.
00:32:30.860And your own sociability might doom you under those circumstances.
00:32:34.860So, anyways, back to the hierarchy idea. Now, so, here's something else that's really interesting about gaze.
00:32:42.860So, not only do we have this interesting finding about the monkeys. They'll look at higher status monkeys more often.
00:32:48.860And look where higher status monkeys look. Which is unbelievably cool. It's such a...
00:32:54.860This is why I love animal experimentalists and ethologists. They come up with these weird little findings.
00:32:59.860And you think, well, who cares if monkeys look where high status monkeys look.
00:33:03.860It's like, no, you don't get it. You're a monkey. Right? And you look where high status monkeys look.
00:33:09.860And that means it's wired into your biology. And to look... And it bears directly on the question of how we determine what constitutes value.
00:33:19.860And it bears directly on the fact that one of the ways that we determine what constitutes value is by coming to a consensus about what's valuable.
00:33:26.860And then having people mark what's valuable by their gaze. So, here's something else that's cool.
00:33:31.860Particularly about human beings. So, we can really see. We can see better than any other animal except predatory birds.
00:33:38.860So, and there's a variety of reasons for that. One of them seems to be that we evolved extremely high resolution vision.
00:33:45.860Comparatively speaking. To detect reptilian predators. That's one of the... It's not the leading theory.
00:33:52.860But it's one of the leading theories about how that was developed. So, I think that's extremely cool.
00:33:56.860But here's something else. So, if you look at human beings eyes.
00:34:00.860They're very particular and peculiar. Because we have an iris that's marked out by the white of the sclera.
00:34:08.860Right? So, you know, you have a pupil. And then you have an iris. And then you have the white of your eyes.
00:34:13.860Other animals don't have that. It's just us. What's the hypothesis?
00:34:18.860Everybody... Every one of your ancestors who had eyes that other people could not read.
00:34:26.860Either got killed or did not reproduce.
00:34:29.860Because one of the things we absolutely want to know about everyone that's around us all the time.
00:34:33.860Is what the hell are they doing with their eyes?