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00:05:07.000And, and, and so it's useful, I think, to consider such considerations, or such conceptualizations as the, of the, as the patriarchy in that light.
00:05:15.000Because, it's an archetypal truth that the social structure is corrupt and incomplete.
00:05:20.000And, and what that means, is that it's something that you have to contend with every moment, in some sense, of your life.
00:05:28.000It's a, it's a permanent fact of existence.
00:05:31.000And, to be upset that the structures, the social structures, or even the biological structures within which we live are incomplete and imperfect.
00:05:43.000Is to, and to take that personally, that, that's the worst part of it.
00:05:48.000To take that personal, personally, is a misreading of the existential condition of humankind.
00:05:53.000Because, it's always the case that what you have been given, and, and what you live in, is degenerate, and corrupt, and in need of repair.
00:06:07.000Because, there's also a positive element, and the positive element is, well, you, you've been granted something, rather than nothing.
00:06:16.000And, maybe you haven't been granted pure hell, because, especially in a culture like ours, where many things actually function quite well.
00:06:24.000So, there's room for gratitude there, even if it's a broken machine, it's not one that's completely devastated.
00:06:29.000And, it's not absolutely hell-bent, at every second, on your misery and destruction.
00:06:34.000And, it easily could be, because many societies are like that.
00:06:38.000And, so, the fact that we happen to live in one that isn't corrupt beyond imagining, is something to be eternally grateful for.
00:06:47.000Well, so, we live inside a damaged structure.
00:06:51.000And, we also bear responsibility for that damage, because, we don't do everything we can to constantly repair it.
00:07:00.000And, you might say, well, that's actually one of the fundamental, you know, people say, well, what's the meaning of life?
00:07:06.000What they really mean is, what's the positive meaning of life?
00:07:08.000Because, as we've already discussed, the negative meanings of life are more or less self-evident.
00:07:12.000Well, the positive meaning of life is to be found in noting the state of lack of repair of the walled city that you inhabit.
00:07:21.000And, then, sallying forth to do something about that, to repair the breaches and to fix up the walls and to make the structure that you inhabit as secure and as productive as it possibly can be.
00:07:37.000And, there's no shortage of opportunities to do that.
00:07:42.000You can do that in your own mind, you can do that in your own room, you can do that in your own household, in your local community.
00:07:50.000And, maybe if you get good at doing it at all those levels, then you can start to look beyond that.
00:07:56.000And, so, there's challenges, that's the thing that's kind of interesting about this insufficient structure, is that it has a set of challenges built into it, because of its insufficiency, and perhaps even because of its corrupt nature, that calls forth the potential response from you of heroic adventure.
00:08:13.000And, the heroic adventure is to man the barricades and repair the city.
00:08:18.000And, you can always do that, it doesn't matter what your personal circumstances are, there's always something that isn't right near you, isn't correct, isn't laid out properly, that you could just fix if you wanted to.
00:08:33.000And, one of the things that we're going to talk about, tonight, is the idea that, if you adopt the attitude, an attitude that's like that, that the role that you should play is to make things better wherever you are, however you can.
00:08:50.000That, what would actually happen would be that things would get better wherever you are, in all sorts of ways, and that we've really, as a species, you might say, or maybe even as singular individuals, we've explored that rarely.
00:09:05.000It isn't something that's put forth as a proposition that often, and it's quite surprising to me.
00:09:10.000And, you know, I had an interesting experience the other day, I went to the keg, I go there because I have food allergies, and they're very careful with people who have food allergies.
00:09:19.000And, the waiter took me to the table, and he said that he had been watching my lectures, and that's a very common experience.
00:09:28.000And, he was happy about that, and he said that he'd had two promotions at the keg in the last four months, because he'd been watching my lectures.
00:09:35.000And, like, I really found that an affecting experience, because, you know, you might say, well, he's working as a waiter at the keg, and there's nothing particularly heroic about that.
00:09:44.000And, I disagree with that, actually, because, I don't care where you're located, you can do a hell of a job, and I mean that literally.
00:09:53.000At whatever job you have, you can take whatever job you have, and you can make it a real nice little piece of absolute misery.
00:10:00.000Or, you can do, you can act like a civilized human being, and notice that, no matter where you are, there's a richness and a complexity that's completely inexhaustible right at hand.
00:10:12.000And, then you can take that seriously, and you can say, well, I happen to be a waiter at the keg, and perhaps that's not what I expected, and he's a young guy, and perhaps that isn't where I want to end up.
00:10:24.000But, it's not nothing, it's a rich environment, and I can make it a lot better if I want to.
00:10:29.000I can get along properly with my co-workers, and not gossip behind their back, and I can treat my customers properly.
00:10:35.000And, if an opportunity comes my way, I can take it, and I can see what happens.
00:10:41.000And so, he said that's what he'd started doing, and that things were working out much better for him.
00:10:45.000He was in a much better job than he was three months ago, and three months, that's nothing, right?
00:10:50.000I mean, that's a nice trajectory, it's an uphill trajectory, and that's what you want, really.
00:10:55.000An uphill trajectory is actually even better than being somewhere good, as far as I'm concerned.
00:11:00.000Because, one of the things that really makes your life meaningful is the clear realization that you're headed somewhere better than you are now.
00:11:07.000And then, it's even better if you also understand that there's a direct causal relationship between the things that you're doing, and the steepness of that incline.
00:11:15.000And so, I get a lot of letters from people like that, and they're most frequently young men, although not always.
00:11:21.000And they say, well, you know, I've been listening to these lectures, and I decided that I'm going to try to take responsibility for my life.
00:11:28.000And so, I've started to stop doing all the stupid things that I know that are stupid, that I know I shouldn't be doing.
00:11:35.000And I've started doing some of the things that aren't stupid, that I know I should be doing.
00:11:39.000Which seems pretty obvious, really, if you think about it.
00:11:41.000But, obvious though it may be, that isn't necessarily what people do.
00:11:45.000And then, they write and say, you can't believe what difference that makes.
00:14:01.000And you can emerge forward, you know, heroically, magically to confront the chaos that constantly threatens the structure within which you live.
00:14:11.000And you can free something as a consequence of that.
00:14:17.000Because the way, what you're actually made of, in many ways, what informs you, what you're made of, is what you encounter when you voluntarily encounter the unknown.
00:14:27.000And so, the more you voluntarily encounter the unknown, the more you get made of.
00:14:31.000And the more you get made of, the more there is to you.
00:14:33.000And then the more you're good at encountering the unknown and restructuring order and calling forth proper order out of the potential of being.
00:14:42.000And, God, you've got to think, why wouldn't you do that, since you can do that?
00:15:42.000But, it's okay to not be in a very good place if what you're trying to do with that not very good place is make it better.
00:15:49.000And one of the things I really have learned as a clinical psychologist is that you just cannot believe how powerful incremental progress is.
00:15:57.000You can do the calculations like, it's like compound interest, you know.
00:16:01.000If you make your life a tenth of a percent better a week, man.
00:16:04.000In two or three years, you're in such a better place than you were that it isn't even like the same domain.
00:16:11.000And if you keep that up for ten years or twenty years, you know, especially if you're young and you start early.
00:16:16.000You start to straighten yourself out and fix the things that you can fix.
00:16:20.000You can transform your lives in ways that are completely unimaginable.
00:16:24.000And God only knows what the upper limit of that is in terms of human possibility.
00:16:29.000Because we are amazing creatures, you know.
00:16:31.000When we really get our act together and stop running at ten percent of our capacity, you know.