00:05:51.020But I think a lot of it is renewed because Isker was on Tucker Carl's.
00:05:56.980and i think it's interesting dan because in in our movement these conferences you go to them
00:06:01.660and it's kind of uh it's a window kind of into what's happening at a broader scale because you
00:06:06.820get to talk to all these people it seems like trends come into play you start to notice trends
00:06:14.000being at the conference talking to different people maybe hearing the same thing over and
00:06:17.920over again so i felt like that was really uh helpful but one of the things like cj had mentioned
00:06:25.340was in the paleocon neocon fights of the 80s and 90s it was really the fact that people on the
00:06:33.640right were just like eating their own they were devouring one another and so cj had called for
00:06:39.360we need to band together those of us who are aligned and we need to allow for differences
00:06:45.480be friends and push the ball forward but we've also noticed something i think that joel said
00:06:51.720which is that now that there's victory a lot of people are actually stepping back uh from the
00:06:58.660fight this is sort of like the bane what is the full bane quote like victory has defeated you oh
00:07:03.700yeah yeah uh he's like you've grown fat in peace time that's not what he says but more or less
00:07:11.800that's the idea victory has made you weak victory has defeated you yeah i have to look up the full
00:07:17.940quote but uh so ben i want to ask you about that um it seems like in the last couple of years
00:07:24.780maybe the game has changed like four or five times uh in terms of the rights political cultural
00:07:32.260so just kind of curious what you make of it yeah it's been a season of shake-up uh really for
00:07:39.960this whole half of a generation i think there's been a lot of shake-up happening
00:07:43.440as the modern world has been revealed for its bankruptcy you get uh it seems to be two different
00:07:50.200responses and there's spectrums on each response there's the ones that for some reason want to
00:07:56.040kind of maintain that bankrupt modernity and that's the left and they do it by either just
00:08:02.700look and that's the left of both sides of the political spectrum by the way the neocons and
00:08:07.720the liberals and some of the liberals want to go very extreme and they're just like well let's just
00:08:12.140dive in and let's make it as as bad as we can thinking that somehow it'll get better uh but
00:08:17.960then there's also the response of saying why don't we try to return back to what we had before
00:08:22.740but in a way that seeks to guard against what got us here and so looking i think cj brought this up
00:08:28.880looking for the transcendent again even in our political philosophy not settling for a purely
00:08:35.660secular mindset in secular matters it can't be like a godless conservative right right so it and
00:08:41.780this is kind of the whole Christian nationalism conversation that Stephen Wolfe reignited with
00:08:46.160this book is it's a secular sphere. It's not a holy sphere. Civics are a natural thing,
00:08:52.620but that doesn't make them inherently holy. But if you remove the transcendent from that secular
00:08:58.720sphere, and I mean, secular classically, then you'll get something that's, I mean, it really
00:09:04.280is a Leviathan. It's this beast that is destroying civilization instead of doing what it ought to do,
00:09:10.680which is building up. And I think you even saw some of the spectrum on the return side of things
00:09:18.560at the conference, where there's different levels of strong, violent reactions against what's
00:09:26.200happening. For example, in America, it's easier for us to be softer towards these things because
00:09:33.160we aren't being uh as violently invaded as like the uk is by the muslims i mean the the uk is0.53
00:09:40.780suffering if half of what calvin robinson said was true or aaron edwards who we talked to if half of0.66
00:09:47.440what they said was true then they are undergoing a legitimate jihad and they're suffering the0.99
00:09:52.660invasion of a muslim horde uh that's killing their people raping their women all these two0.99
00:09:57.720and fully replacing them in america we're seeing that but it's not as in our face yet depending1.00
00:10:03.040on where you live. And so I think it can be easier for us to have this sense of security,
00:10:07.800like we still have time. But one thing that I walked away from the conference with was like,
00:10:13.580no, we need to be more desperate. We need to be more desperate in our fight. We need to be willing
00:10:18.100to pull less punches. We need to be willing to say the thing even more firmly that the left and
00:10:25.860that the neocons don't want to hear. Yeah, I think that's a really good point. Dan, one of the things
00:10:30.180that struck me was sort of, we're in this moment where Trump gets elected. You see some initial
00:10:36.580victories on the right. I don't think that they've, I think it's like in Alfred's time where
00:10:41.660there's a victory in the initial melee, right? You have a first fight. There's a little bit of
00:10:49.020victory on the right. One of the mistakes that could be made is now people, they don't pursue.
00:10:54.860I wonder if you saw any of that, just kind of the need, especially as Ben mentioned from the
00:10:59.840guys in the uk like the fight isn't won and so now isn't the time to pull back as though we've
00:11:06.740secured victory maybe in a battle but the war is is still going on yeah i think i think ben really
00:11:13.580hit it on the nose when he talked about desperation you know i think that there's something that
00:11:17.400really victory is a time of testing to to sort out um i guess uh lower quality men from the
00:11:25.580higher quality men is really what happens when you get victory. We've long said that success is
00:11:34.660much harder to manage than failure or defeat. Because for example, in business, if your business
00:11:41.800isn't making money, it's really easy to manage. It's pretty much like, when do we stop? Where
00:11:46.920success is actually quite difficult to manage. And I think that a lower tier man encounters1.00
00:11:54.260these temptations actually in many spheres outside of just political movements or outside
00:12:00.640of cultural movements and things like that. If you were to take something really simple, say
00:12:05.160like a household budget or work, you work really hard, you finally get a raise, you get that
00:12:12.360promotion, you get a bonus. And this is really what separates a lower tier man from a higher
00:12:19.460tier man, a man of courage that understands desperation and sacrifice and has a long-term
00:12:25.760vision. The man who is more short-term in his thinking is going to take that raise or that
00:12:32.860bonus and often like buy something that they've always wanted and goes into debt. And they have
00:12:38.700the same cycle that actually repeats. They're still continually poor because they didn't know
00:12:44.540how to manage success. And so they end up shrinking back. Whereas instead of thinking strategically
00:12:50.480like, Oh, I've got, you know, I'll just keep living the way I did. And I'll just use this
00:12:55.020money to invest, to buy a business, to, you know, whatever it is to make wise financial moves.
00:12:59.920That's just a really small snapshot example. Businesses do this all the time. They'll just
00:13:03.940gut the business and try to milk the cow for all it's worth and never really reinvest in the0.95
00:13:08.680business. And then it never really grows and eventually it dies. Well, I think what we're
00:13:12.520seeing is like, like you said, Eric, we had massive momentum coming into the conservative
00:13:18.180movement, you know, where all of a sudden, like some of the things that, that is coming from the
00:13:22.700white house that is being said from the white house would have gotten you removed from X,
00:13:27.500you know, just a few years ago, they would have canceled you. And so a lot of guys who have been
00:13:32.760on the front lines and fighting, I, there's probably some exhaustion and battle fatigue,
00:13:37.400but at the same time people don't know how to manage success because think about our lifetimes
00:13:43.020right so eric and i were born in the 80s were you born in uh yeah mid 90s 95 95 there you go
00:13:49.600all we've experienced most of our life is is really defeat or at least fighting a losing battle
00:13:57.360because even even you know the gop conservatives they were fighting to lose that's what they were0.83
00:14:04.960doing. They never really took any ground. They were just trying to figure out how to manage
00:14:08.080failure and defeat. And so now that things have changed and we are seeing some battles won,
00:14:16.000I don't think that men understand how to manage success. And so what's happening is there's this
00:14:22.800strange change of perception, I think, from some guys that we're seeing, especially in our movement
00:14:28.080in the Christian right, the new Christian right and Christian nationalism,
00:14:32.560is that this feeling of success, they don't know what to do and they're starting to see
00:14:37.740radicals emerge. And so it seems like the position that they're taking is shrinking back into more
00:14:44.220big Eva kind of normie sort of positions in order to not be associated with those
00:14:50.740radicals on the right. So I think that that's really one of the principles is essentially
00:14:56.680there is a, you know, snatching defeat from the jaws of victory sort of mentality.
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00:18:21.020Yeah, this is something I tweeted the other day on that same note. I said, there are many who do
00:18:26.120not have the stomach or the will for what must be done to win this is what many conservatives have
00:18:32.320always done and you're seeing this more on the right wing at this moment they will posture right
00:18:37.360wing but they will act like a centrist so you'll keep you'll you'll see guys who will keep saying
00:18:44.360things that are like remotely conservative but then you'll also see the the deeds and a lot of
00:18:51.420it will be very centrist well you're seeing like a magnetic pull towards the center so you have
00:18:56.900some people from the right that are moving back to the center back left and you also have this
00:19:01.660interesting dynamic where leftists are seeing the right as victorious now as the overton window is
00:19:08.200shifted yeah and so you have guys like governor newsom you know that's moving right apparent
00:19:13.880apparently you know right and because that's they're just putting on a different skin suit
00:19:18.400Exactly, exactly. So it seems like people are kind of shifting back to this magnetic center, which is now just slightly right of where we were a few years ago.
00:19:28.240But I love this. So I tweeted that and then Thomas Acord retweeted it with a speech from Henry V, Crispin's Day speech. And he said, he which hath no stomach to this fight, let him depart. His passport shall be made and crowns for convoy put into his purse. We would not die in that man's company that fears his fellowship to die with us.
00:19:50.980And so I think there's also a cool thing happening on the right where, and that panel was kind of a small snapshot of it, where in many ways you have all the guys on that panel, including Joel, who people have tried to dox, cancel.
00:20:08.380um we're sort of i said this at the conference it's sort of like the cave of a dulem
00:20:13.200where everyone who is cast out from saul's regime is now forming a certain kind of alliance
00:20:20.340and thomas is maybe a good picture of this um you know has sins has repented of them
00:20:26.360but there were people in our camp who were hellbent on saying you should be canceled forever
00:20:34.080and it was interesting that was kind of the first time that I got to like sit down and spend a lot
00:20:38.660of time with Thomas and Ben just I want to get your thoughts but incredibly humble incredibly
00:20:46.380brilliant knows the western canon almost by heart and had a ton of really valuable insights
00:20:54.080about this time yeah yeah it I Dan I think you make an interesting point it almost seems like
00:21:01.320people conflate Newton's laws and assume that they apply across the board, even in unmechanical
00:21:10.800ways. So like Newton's first law, an object in motion tends to stay in motion. That doesn't
00:21:15.720seem to be true though, for, for movements of people and ideas where we get this idea that
00:21:21.820since we've had a kind of victory, we can now go back to the comfort. We can go back to the status
00:21:28.320quo because we've created some haven or something for our ideas. But that's not true. If the movement,
00:21:36.120if the idea doesn't keep pushing with the momentum that it has, it'll actually just
00:21:40.740lose the momentum. It doesn't stay in motion naturally. You have to keep pushing. And I think
00:21:47.060that it's going to be tempting for us to be comfortable again because we've lost our stomach
00:21:55.040for discomfort in many ways, but we need to reclaim that. Discomfort is the thing that
00:22:00.500actually brings about either loss or victory. But one thing that'll happen if you certainly
00:22:06.200reject discomfort is loss. You will lose if you seek comfort. Now, if you put yourself in the vice
00:22:13.600and you let it squeeze you and you actually try to push against it, there's a chance of winning.
00:22:18.820uh to your point about thomas i thought that i mean the dude's brilliant like you know we're
00:22:25.640talking about ideas of you know fathers setting their sons up for success and what happens when
00:22:31.420the son is rejected but he nonetheless takes the gifts of will that he inherited from his fathers
00:22:37.900and makes a return on that anyway and he's bringing up like theseus and orpheus and all
00:22:43.100these people he's just pulling them out of out of his head uh at a split second and i think that's
00:22:48.420very important. I think a guy like Thomas, guys like Stephen Wolf, I would hope, you know, more
00:22:53.740and more, especially as time goes on, guys like us are able to reclaim that ethos that built the
00:22:59.040West and said the ethos that built the West did not settle for Europe. It didn't settle for the
00:23:07.120East. I mean, it lost the East because it started settling. No, it pushed further West. It went to0.96
00:23:12.580Hesperia. It had manifest destiny. And I think we need to reclaim that idea that our manifest
00:23:17.860destiny, God has set us up in such a way providentially that not only is the church
00:23:24.060founded in America, but also can ascend in America. And so we have this great opportunity
00:23:31.300where we can basically restart manifest destiny over again and say, let's have the mindset of
00:23:36.880the explorers, the colonizers that were pushing this kind of Pax Western across the world and
00:23:46.160creating beauty out of chaos. But in order to do that, we can't settle for minor victories here
00:23:52.240and there. We have to keep pushing and pushing and pushing until the victory is completely won.
00:23:56.620And even then, you have to do the work of continuing the victory with the next generation,
00:24:01.720setting people up well, not abandoning your sons when they are more zealous than you
00:24:06.860about certain things, but fostering the zeal and giving it the tools that it needs to succeed.
00:24:11.940Yeah. This was something we were talking about in the green room with Thomas is like, how do we, as we, as we're the, you know, younger men at the moment. And so a lot of us like thirties and forties, how do we ensure that we set our sons up well?
00:24:29.740because this is really something that has happened is that there's been a
00:44:50.340Now, I look back at that providentially, and I think God was also honing and shaping me through that, because it's going to take a special kind of fortitude in this generation to get stuff done.
00:45:02.300Oh, I thought you were going to say a special kind of fortitude to disciple a young Eric Kahn.
00:49:14.420So I think that that's really one of the things that doesn't, I mean, I'm not
00:49:17.980scared, you know, when somebody comes in, the things that I'm looking for,
00:49:21.300like is this person a wolf you know is this person seeking to um take away some of my people
00:49:27.960you know so that that's something that i'm more on guard for than just like wow you're you're
00:49:32.560really excited you know there seems to be a lot of work there you're rough around the edges because
00:49:37.160you got to think too for the average person that's moving somewhere for a church they're not coming
00:49:41.960from like a rooted position a stable position there's a reason that they're moving and it's
00:49:48.020not just because they listen to the King's hall podcast, you know, it's probably an association
00:49:52.740with like, well, I can't find a good church near me. My family, you know, my extended family is
00:49:57.900just a mess and my job really kind of stinks or some, some ratio of those, those different,
00:50:04.680um, those different things. So, um, when they're coming here, they're not coming from a stable
00:50:10.420position, but they're coming hopefully into stability and rootedness here.
00:50:15.280Well, it's interesting, too. So I was talking on The Longhouse. Andrew Isker had a lot of
00:50:20.520complimentary things in his talk, I think, just that kind of complimented this idea of The Long
00:50:26.180House. He's talked about it in The Boniface Option, which will be republished through New
00:50:32.280Christendom Press soon. But kind of the idea is we have this huge opportunity with young right-wing
00:50:39.020men. But if you have a longhouse, so if your paideia is into the longhouse, and I was trying
00:50:48.020to show that this is largely what the evangelical church, even the conservative reform church is
00:50:54.520like, it's a longhouse, meaning it's feminine-coded, feminine behavior norms, and particularly0.56
00:51:00.400hysterical women. The worst kind of women are ruling, and that includes women of both sexes.1.00
00:51:06.440uh why well i'll start with ben but i want to get dan's take too why is it so detrimental if you're1.00
00:51:14.660let's start with the church if your church is a long house if the real control is maybe you have
00:51:23.140a session maybe you have elder rule that's men but then like the elders wives control everything
00:51:29.880Why is that detrimental for young men?0.90
00:51:32.540Yeah, I think it's because a man's work is meant to be going into disorder and bringing order.0.55
00:51:40.820Not what women do, which is going into the order that men made, that their husband or their father made, and bringing beauty, beautifying it.0.65
00:51:49.640So when you're ruled by feminine sensibilities, whether that's explicit in the form of, you know, a pastrix or something like that, or implicit in the form of elders on a session that are, you know, emotionally manipulated by their wives, or their decisions have to be kind of, you know, run by their wives to see if it's acceptable.0.54
00:52:12.120um you're you're gonna be trying to do the work of ordering with a feminine sensibility that's0.70
00:52:18.640actually put more towards beautification and beautification requires order you can't invert
00:52:24.880the process and when you try to you'll get a culture that's founded on you know as as rigney
00:52:31.300might say untethered empathy where everyone that might be on the fringe is actually put into the
00:52:38.300center and they are made the most important voices. Instead of having the ordered structure
00:52:45.460of the people in the center being the ones that are actually forming the paideia of the culture
00:52:50.200and then the people on the fringes are being invited, constantly invited in. But the invitation
00:52:56.180comes with a charge to conform. Okay, so you're on the fringe, you want to be further in, great,
00:53:01.960we want you further in. You have to conform in these ways. I think that when you're ruled by
00:53:07.340the longhouse or when you're in a longhouse paidea, that gets inverted. And instead, the people
00:53:12.560on the fringe are assumed to be right just by the mere fact that they're on the fringe. So they're
00:53:16.940assumed to have a voice or a perspective or trauma or whatever that's worth listening to.
00:53:22.480They're put in the middle. And then everyone that should be in the middle is forced to cater to
00:53:27.200their sensibilities. Yeah. Ed Friedman talks about this. It's essentially, instead of having
00:53:31.440true leadership, like strong, well-defined leadership, what you have is the squeakiest
00:53:37.880wheels are controlling everything. We've seen this with wokeness. It's like the fussiest,
00:53:43.800most hysterical women get to control everyone else's speech, for example. You also have,1.00
00:53:50.240I think, what is just untenable for young men is you have an environment in which the way that you
00:53:57.400punish nonconformity is by canceling or destroying the reputation of someone, right? So it's a
00:54:05.620gossip culture. It's a backbiting culture. Instead of going directly to people and saying like,1.00
00:54:10.860hey, I have this problem. Let's work it out. Let's wrestle with our ideas. That would be
00:54:14.820very masculine. What you have instead is, well, I don't like what Dan said, so I'm going to go
00:54:20.000to five other people and destroy his reputation so that he's essentially ostracized from this
00:54:27.020long house. Man, Ben, I knew we were handsome, but I didn't know we were that handsome until I saw
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00:56:39.780i'll say just real quick too like the the dynamic that i just talked about the reason that it1.00
00:56:46.560doesn't happen in the home where the woman is like managing the home and she's given the you0.99
00:56:53.140know she's given derived authority from her husband to rule over the children and to order1.00
00:56:57.520the affairs of the household economy um you know as she's directed by her husband the reason that1.00
00:57:02.640that works is because she's directed by her husband and i think that most godly women will1.00
00:57:09.180I know that this would be true for my mom. I know that it's true for probably many mothers in the
00:57:14.240church, is one of the hardest things that they have to do in life is let their husband turn
00:57:21.000their sons especially into men. So the young boy that grew up grabbing onto mom's apron while
00:57:28.260she's dancing around the kitchen doing her thing, and they form this incredible bond between mother
00:57:34.200and son. One of the hardest things for a mother to do is to watch that son that she rightfully
00:57:40.580brought into this beautiful realm of the home and nurtured and tried to make feel safe and loved
00:57:47.440and secure and all these things. She was only able to do that because her husband made the home
00:57:52.380safe and secure and ordered so much that she could beautify it. But that boy has to go out
00:57:58.180into the disorder. He has to grow up and become a man. And so the father then, or other men,
00:58:04.200as mentors, have to teach him what it looks like to take order where there's chaos. And that
00:58:10.480includes pain, suffering, trial, loss, all of these hugely difficult things. And it really
00:58:18.420does become hard for a mother to watch a son go through that. So if you then take that and then
00:58:25.260right at large, you could say that if the feminine sensibility to keep her son, or the feminine
00:58:31.540temptation, I'd say to keep her son from going through that. If you write that large in a
00:58:36.760culture of a church or broader society, you'll get a bunch of weak men that don't have chests
00:58:44.880and therefore can't take order where there's disorder. And so now when the Muslim whore1.00
00:58:50.180does invade, the men don't know what to do. They've only been trained by the feminine sensibility to1.00
00:58:55.500look for comfort and safety. And so they don't know that you can't beautify chaos. You have to0.88
00:59:00.500order it first. Yeah, it's such a great point. I remember reading this in Ann Douglas,
00:59:04.440The Feminization of American Culture. She was talking about the 1800s, but she said,
00:59:09.780especially with the Unitarian movement, which kind of invaded everything,
00:59:14.920churches became predominantly female. She even says, as patriarchal Calvinism died out,
00:59:23.120that the feminine sensibilities took over the church. And one of the interesting things was,
00:59:28.080She said that because the church was all female, the people who were chosen for pastors were largely sickly indoor boys who stayed with mom all the time because they knew how to, you know, speak to the feminine sensibility.0.58
00:59:48.800And then you look at the church and it's like, well, most of the people in the pews today are women.0.54
00:59:53.300it makes sense why the gospel coalition christianity today are largely feminine coded
00:59:59.380right it's leftist men and liberal women are kind of their audience um dan i want to ask you that
01:00:06.140kind of the same question why for a young man is it so difficult it may be even impossible like
01:00:12.680he's just not going to want to be in the long house yeah i think if you just look at sunday
01:00:17.300worship um and the patterns of a long housed church on uh in their liturgy on lord's day
01:00:25.220worship often you'll get music that's that's quite uh homoerotic and and feminine in nature0.89
01:00:33.200that's really discouraging whereas we we actually in in western civilization have a history of war
01:00:39.060songs like of singing into battle and like the glories of masculine singing and those great
01:00:46.360great songs yeah the psalms are psalms of largely warfare yeah exactly and so instead of we've made
01:00:53.600those even we've uh essentially um castrated the music that we sing to our to one another and to
01:01:03.560the lord and and and now it's it's it's largely feminine coded and so it's disgusting you get0.73
01:01:10.480there if you're a young man you've got you know red-blooded man and now you're singing something0.52
01:01:15.140about jesus kissing people and and all that and you're like oh ah yuck i don't i don't really like
01:01:21.880that um then you get to the preaching of the word and it's it's very squishy especially in the
01:01:27.900application section where it ends up landing and like you just need more quiet time yeah exactly
01:01:35.280it's therapeutic instead of direct application like so therefore you must you know repent of
01:01:42.040these specific sins. Go out and build this. You need to do your duties. You know, it's more like
01:01:48.580marching orders in a lot of way. I don't want to say like the church itself is militant, like an
01:01:53.780army, but there is a lot of army and military type language in the scriptures. And as far as
01:02:00.740like our marching orders go, to go and really subdue the nations and teach them all that Christ
01:02:06.700is commanded. It's interesting you say that. There's actually a historical term, the church
01:02:12.080militant, which is kind of interesting. But I was talking with one of the ladies after church
01:02:17.160a couple of weeks ago, and it was funny because they're, you know, within the last year become
01:02:23.380members. And she said something really interesting. She said, you know, you go to all these churches
01:02:28.720that we've been to in the past, you know, your big box evangelical churches. And it's like this,
01:02:34.300the pastors are always like soft. It's like a very therapeutic, like, you know, Brian's talked
01:02:41.260about it, like the yearning with you. I just yearn that you would know Christ and that he
01:02:48.140would come into your heart and make his home. And there would be warmth and flowers and cookies
01:02:54.540with sprinkles. And there's like this whole vibe to it. And she said, I feel like when our pastors
01:03:00.860get up and give a confession, a charge in benediction or preach. She said, I feel like
01:03:06.280a general is calling us to war. And she said, I just want to thank you. That's so refreshing.
01:03:12.340And so I think what's also lost is that godly women want that too. They were in their natures,0.50
01:03:20.360they were fitted for that. You want strong masculine leadership. It's not soft and effeminate.0.99
01:03:26.540come back with your shield or on it. Yeah. Sort of. Yeah. Yeah. That's great. Yeah. So I think
01:03:32.340that that's really Sunday worship is just a small encapsulation of, of where, you know,
01:03:39.280the long house has dominated because I mean, we even, we've had people in the past where you have
01:03:46.100direct application and it's harsh, it's hard to hear. And you, you have certain types of men that
01:03:53.320like that crushed me and I'm going to rise to the challenge. I'm going to repent and I'm going to
01:03:58.780walk in faith. That's what I'm going to do. But then you have the people that have been so long
01:04:03.480housed that, that they're like, man, that was really hard. I'm afraid someone else might be
01:04:08.120offended at that. What did you think about that person? How did it make them feel? It's like
01:04:13.740preaching the word of God. Do you think I care how it makes you feel? It doesn't make me feel
01:04:18.480great all the time makes me actually feel like a pile of garbage you know but I actually saw this
01:04:23.720the other day it was uh he got fired probably because the long house but uh Nuggets basketball
01:04:29.240coach and uh it was funny because he was like our our players are lazy they're entitled this
01:04:35.180generation of players is awful they get paid millions of dollars they don't want to put in
01:04:39.380the work and one of the female reporter and he said I delivered that message to the players after0.58
01:04:44.200the game absolutely pathetic effort and a female reporter said well how do you think that made the
01:04:50.380players feel and mike malone he goes i don't really care how it made them feel they get paid0.59
01:04:56.080to do a job it was like that is the longhouse mentality of like well and you know when you're
01:05:02.800a three-year-old in your mom's kitchen it's right and good that she has this nurturing yeah you know
01:05:08.620environment but when you're a grown man getting paid millions of dollars uh it's less a good
01:05:15.640thing i do want to ask you guys kind of as we wrap up here um it seems like one of the big
01:05:22.100opportunities is on the right uh with young men isker had something to say in his talk which i
01:05:28.580thought was really interesting on this front he was saying like for a lot of the like purple
01:05:32.540hard leftists, like the message is closed off. Like they don't want to hear it. And I'm not
01:05:38.560saying that we don't evangelize everyone, but certainly you look for where will the seed
01:05:44.600take root? Like where's fertile ground? Um, guys on the right, um, they, they maybe have some rough
01:05:51.980edges, but largely they're like, yeah, I don't think that we should cut the genitalia off0.95
01:05:56.560children. The rising female population of single woke females is detrimental to society. It seems1.00
01:06:05.120like men, even Matt Walsh this week saying like, yeah, ladies, newsflash, men don't want another
01:06:13.000man to marry. They don't want a boss babe. They want someone who's going to raise their children
01:06:18.140and keep home um so as you think about how to how to minister how to reach the right
01:06:25.400which by the way is something the evangelical church was never interested in doing um we'll
01:06:32.560start with ben but what sorts of things uh do you think are important for us to think through and
01:06:37.360like how do we reach them certainly not by longhousing them yeah yeah not by longhousing0.89
01:06:43.020and long housing includes like the number of public facing women should be next to zero1.00
01:06:50.160you know i know i say that and we have bright hearth and lexi but like bright hearth is 80
01:06:55.600brian talking and lexi giving some thoughts as well but always directed by her husband1.00
01:07:01.200right like the seriously what women need is not just more ladies that have these massive public1.00
01:07:09.120platforms where they engage in pugilism with men in order to make them see what it looks like to1.00
01:07:15.120be a woman. This is what Megyn Kelly is totally missing in that stupid tweet where she was talking1.00
01:07:19.220about like, oh, we have a huge dearth of conservative women, but like, do they not have1.00
01:07:24.760great role models? I mean, look at all these conservative boss babes. A godly woman doesn't1.00
01:07:30.500want that. Like a good woman doesn't want to look at a boss babe and think that she must have really1.00
01:07:35.980good advice because look at all that she's accomplished in the outside world. No, a godly0.94
01:07:40.360woman wants to look at a Titus II type woman, who I believe Lexi is, and say, look at how she's1.00
01:07:46.180ordered her home. Look at how she respects her husband. Look at how she loves and nurtures her1.00
01:07:50.380children and sets everything up so that this place of rest in the home can actually be that,
01:07:57.300a place of rest for all of her people. That's what more women want, but they're only going to get that1.00
01:08:02.240in good churches. You're not going to get that on a podcast, at least not enough to actually1.00
01:08:07.900mentor you one-on-one. You're certainly not going to get that from Fox News or any talking head
01:08:14.280lady on Gab or anything like that. You're only going to get that in churches. But I'll say one
01:08:18.920other thing too. I think that it's possible to create a longhouse paideia even without having
01:08:26.260a lot of women in explicit or implicit leadership. And the way that I think that can happen is when0.90
01:08:33.660you get, again, usually the older class of man who is too lazy or too tired, one of the two,
01:08:43.100to look at a young man who's a woe guy, who's like, hey, we need to direct this zeal. You're
01:08:49.960very zealous. We need to do the work of directing it. And the old tired man will say like, yeah,
01:08:56.260I'm not interested, not interested in doing that. Instead, I'd rather have the yes man,
01:09:00.600the giddy up guy who's quiet, lazy, not really zealous about anything, pretty apathetic and who
01:09:07.000you have to just, you know, push tooth and nail to get anything done worth doing. That's really
01:09:12.280attractive to the older generation of man who doesn't want to do any of the pushing or directing.
01:09:17.680And that will create the longhouse. It will. So when, when you hear older men say,
01:09:23.460hey we're really looking for zealous guys we're really looking for whoa guys not giddy up guys
01:09:28.600they are most of the time lying because they've never actually had to do that and i think like
01:09:35.020from my experience again seeing the seeing the the older men at refuge that's been the exception
01:09:40.020not the rule like the the guys here are more than happy to look at young up-and-coming guys like
01:09:46.360your own son you know benjamin and he he's a zealous guy he's a whoa guy at times but everyone
01:09:52.840is stoked about that. And we're stoked to put the work in to say, yeah, dude, this is awesome.
01:09:58.240Like actually become more zealous, but become more zealous in this direction. And then when
01:10:03.880you've won the heart, then it, you know, the work kind of starts to gain momentum and it doesn't do
01:10:08.760itself, but it does compliment itself. So I think a warning maybe to listeners, if you're in a church
01:10:16.840or a job, whatever, where functionally what the men who you look up to want is a yes man
01:10:24.780or a giddy up guy, just an apathetic guy. It doesn't matter what they say. It doesn't matter.
01:10:30.720If that's what they want functionally, then you're in a place on borrowed time. It will be a long
01:10:36.700house. Maybe not in your generation, but someday it will be. If that marks the leadership and
01:10:43.300and unwillingness to actually put the work in to shepherding the zealous young man,
01:10:50.400then it will become a longhouse eventually, unless something radical changes.
01:10:54.900Yeah. I mean, that's one of the, I forget the law, it'll come to me, but any institution that
01:11:00.120is not explicitly right-wing will become left-wing, right? So you can apply that to this as well.
01:11:07.940um dan as you think about that question um any thoughts kind of yeah where would you yeah i think
01:11:14.840the fields are white for the harvest on the right and the the reason somebody brought this up at the1.00
01:11:19.700conference so the challenge the real challenge why why is the pink-haired feminists like why0.99
01:11:25.340why are they so it's not just that they're indifferent towards the gospel and towards0.92
01:11:30.700christianity they they hate it like they hate it well what is what is going on there well i i think
01:11:38.700there's a sense in which god has given them over you know a lot of the leftists but they also deny
01:11:44.120nature it's not just that they deny the gospel they actually despise natural law whereas the
01:11:52.020people on the right they recognize natural order that you know when you said it like you shouldn't
01:11:58.700cut the genitalia off of children like that's obvious to them they understand nature or that
01:12:04.940you know a man can't like give birth to a child and nurse it yeah they're not out of their minds0.98
01:12:09.940where people on the left they have tried to distort even nature that clearly displays the
01:12:15.680glory of god and the knowledge of god and they're they're in order to to really uh successfully
01:12:21.540disciple the left you have to convert them to reality before you can convert them to the
01:12:28.340supernatural you know there's actually like christ exorcisms that need to be done on the
01:12:33.500yeah yeah it really is a demoniac death cult they hate everything not only about god but everything
01:12:40.260that god made yeah and so so people on the right they understand uh you know uh that there is a
01:12:47.280real morality universal morality you know they understand that there are laws of nature things
01:12:52.760that ought not to be done and things that one should do in order to love their neighbor you
01:12:58.360know they have similar categories to where it is fertile soil but people have historically hated
01:13:06.140christians have hated people on the right they've hated them on the right because they're they're a
01:13:11.540lot of the guys on the right they are uh zealous they're rough around the edges they have this
01:13:18.240sense in where they're like i don't really care what anybody thinks about me it's kind of like
01:13:22.420a cultural thing, you know, whereas the left is so concerned with perception, so long housed,
01:13:27.840it's always indirect and, um, you know, subversive and manipulative. Whereas your standard, like,
01:13:36.320you know, blue collar guy on the right, he, he just notices reality. Um, a lot of those guys
01:13:42.200are pretty good guys, just generally speaking, you know, and, and they need to repent and believe
01:13:47.580in the gospel and and to uh you know have new new birth and everything like that but but just
01:13:53.640generally humanly speaking i mean they're they're like pretty average you know like good people
01:13:59.880and i feel like they're also willing to hear the hard truths yeah because i think as we were
01:14:06.580talking about earlier there's this uh misplaced move that people i think right now are making
01:14:11.380where it's like we kind of won with right principles and so now we're going to shrink
01:14:16.620back and we're going to start softening the message so that we get positions of favor and
01:14:20.180power. But actually, I think where you win and where we've won in Ogden is saying to that guy
01:14:26.920in the right wing, yes, you're right. And like Nancy Mace is right for not wanting men to go
01:14:35.600in women's bathrooms. But then we take it a step further and we say, but let's apply that principle1.00
01:14:40.420to Nancy's early life when she forced her way into the Citadel, which was a male only space.
01:14:46.620She is committing the same error that she claims to be against when she goes to the prayer breakfast and jokes about how she was fornicating right before she got there.
01:14:57.560Like, I think one thing we have to do as Christians is not soften the message to win that guy or gal, but we have to go harder.
01:15:08.680When they're noticing something about the left and how insane they are, they're like, oh, yeah, that's because it's a demon death cult and they're worshiping demons.
01:15:16.620by their actions and the way to combat it though isn't a fuss you know and just complain and listen
01:15:22.560to fox news it's actually to repent in the lord jesus christ and to wage war against the demon
01:15:26.700death cult that's what you do just repent and believe in the lord jesus christ yeah and i even
01:15:31.660i even pointed this out in the talk but the you know like riley gains is doing a lot of good work
01:15:36.480on transgenderism you know opposing it but then she poses for like the american conservative dads0.62
01:15:43.560like swimsuit issue and i'm like no like that is something that you have to call out and again you
01:15:50.740just have to be comfortable with like people are going to hate you that's part of the that's part
01:15:55.420of being a faithful prophet you know lower lowercase p prophet in this age um it it also
01:16:04.580points me and we can close with this but it's a big reason i think for our conference this year
01:16:12.640And it's looking back to the founding of our country,