The King's Hall - August 15, 2025


Why Tribal Leaders Are Essential for Building Christian Boroughs

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Building Christian Boroughs: In Defense of Monocultures 10 Principles for Leading with Nerve in the Christian Borough

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00:00:56.600 In just six minutes of time, a small slender wooden boat powered by eight men will cover
00:01:09.900 2,000 meters on the water. Each man will consume roughly eight liters of oxygen per minute,
00:01:16.340 whereas the average healthy adult male can only consume about four liters per minute.
00:01:21.420 When they're done, the men in the boat will have exerted the same amount of energy as having played
00:01:26.080 two full-length college basketball games back-to-back, and all this in under six minutes.
00:01:32.280 When you think about it, there's not a lot of glamour in rowing crew. It's a sport that requires
00:01:37.400 intense physical discipline, a unique combination of raw stamina and power, and the mental toughness
00:01:43.760 to push through excruciating pain. For those who row, pain marks only the beginning of the race.
00:01:49.860 Beyond the physical, the sport requires a high degree of intelligence and an almost mystical
00:01:54.800 ability for eight men to work in perfect harmony for six minutes of total exertion. Sure, you're
00:02:01.500 on a body of water, but mostly you just stare at the back of the guy in front of you. One guy in
00:02:06.400 front faces the others and gives the cadence. As anyone who's ever sat upon the rowing machine at
00:02:11.760 the gym can attest, even one minute at a moderate level of exertion is enough to leave you completely
00:02:17.240 gassed. One minute at full effort for the uninitiated, on the other hand, will make you want
00:02:22.660 a puke. As the famous boat builder and crewman George Yeoman Pocock once said, quote, in a sport
00:02:28.860 like this, hard work, not much glory, but still popular in every century, well, there must be some
00:02:35.520 beauty which ordinary men can't see, but extraordinary men do, end quote. Pocock had devoted himself to
00:02:42.600 the perfection of building boats and the men who drove them across the water, and in turn had become
00:02:48.620 obsessed with the philosophical ideal of men operating in complete brotherly love on a single
00:02:55.160 unified endeavor. Later in life, he would build boats for the University of Washington and help
00:03:01.080 inspire a generation of crewmen. Like the other coaches on the team, the British trained oarsmen
00:03:06.880 quote, sometimes spoke of life transforming experiences. He held out the prospect of becoming
00:03:12.580 part of something larger than themselves, of finding in themselves something they did not
00:03:17.880 yet know they possessed, of growing from boyhood to manhood. At times he dropped his voice a bit
00:03:23.960 and shifted his tone and cadence and talked of near mystical moments on the water. Moments of
00:03:29.980 pride, elation, and deep affection for one's fellow oarsmen. Moments they would remember,
00:03:36.400 cherish, and recount to their grandchildren when they were old men. Moments even that would bring
00:03:41.920 them nearer to God, end quote. Pocock's influence would pay off in dramatic fashion. In 1936,
00:03:49.180 Joe Rance and nine other men who rode crew for the University of Washington won the gold medal
00:03:54.340 at the Olympics in Germany. Many of the young men came from such impoverished and hardscrabble
00:04:00.080 Depression-era circumstances that it hardly seemed the bunch would stack up against elite
00:04:05.120 rowing crews from around the world. And yet, to the surprise of everyone except perhaps their coach,
00:04:11.400 the working-class men from Seattle pulled off a stunning upset.
00:04:15.860 Rowing events had been dominated by the host nation,
00:04:18.620 as German teams medaled in every single event,
00:04:21.640 and took home five of seven gold medals.
00:04:24.840 Yet in the final race, the men's eights, or eight-man rowing,
00:04:27.900 the American boys managed to close with thundering pace,
00:04:31.760 out sprinting two other teams with only a second separating the top three finishers.
00:04:37.100 Many years later, as Joe Rance was in the last days of his life,
00:04:40.860 Author Daniel James Brown paid him a visit.
00:04:44.200 He wanted to tell the story of the boys from Washington
00:04:46.900 who captured gold in Hitler's Germany.
00:04:49.800 As they talked about Joe's tumultuous upbringing
00:04:51.960 in the midst of the Great Depression
00:04:53.560 and the many adversities he faced in life,
00:04:56.840 Joe recounted the story as a newspaper man would.
00:04:59.780 Just the facts, very little emotion.
00:05:02.420 Rance agreed to help with the book under one condition.
00:05:05.540 It could not be about him, but about the boys in the boat.
00:05:08.840 When they started to talk about Joe's career with Washington's crew team, Rance's words would become increasingly saturated with deep feeling.
00:05:17.860 From time to time, this tough-as-nails man, who'd hewn timber with his own hands, lived in desolate coal-mining towns, and faced life's many obstacles with stoic resolve, would pause to cry.
00:05:29.860 As Brown describes the conversation, quote,
00:05:32.380 Ranz talked about learning the art of rowing, about shells and oars, about tactics and techniques.
00:05:38.780 He reminisced about long cold hours on the water under steel gray skies, about smashing victories
00:05:45.100 and defeats narrowly averted, about traveling to Germany and marching under Hitler's eyes
00:05:50.720 into the Olympic Stadium in Berlin, and about his crewmates. None of these recollections brought him
00:05:56.780 to tears though. It was when he tried to talk about the boat that his words began to falter
00:06:02.320 and tears welled up in his bright eyes.
00:06:05.620 At first, I thought he meant the husky clipper,
00:06:07.940 the racing shell in which he had rowed his way to glory.
00:06:11.480 Or did he mean his teammates,
00:06:13.420 the improbable assemblage of young men
00:06:15.960 who had pulled off one of rowing's great achievements?
00:06:19.280 Finally, watching Joe struggle for composure over and over,
00:06:22.900 I realized that the boat was something more
00:06:25.980 than just the shell or its crew.
00:06:28.300 To Joe, it encompassed but transcended both.
00:06:32.320 It was something mysterious and almost beyond definition.
00:06:36.180 It was a shared experience, a singular thing that had unfolded in a golden sliver of time long gone
00:06:43.080 when nine good-hearted young men strove together, pulled together as one,
00:06:48.180 gave everything they had for one another, bound together forever by pride and respect and love.
00:06:54.740 Joe was crying, at least in part, for the loss of that vanished moment,
00:06:59.460 but much more, I think, for the sheer beauty of it.
00:07:02.320 end quote. And that was an excerpt from that book, The Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown.
00:07:08.000 Rance had learned from Pocock and Ulbrichtson about the glorious and near-mystical experience
00:07:13.680 of becoming one with his fellow oarsmen in pursuit of a single goal. Even the recollection of that
00:07:19.720 moment, a rare moment of perfection on a team of men, had brought tears to Joe so many years later.
00:07:26.600 He had learned to live not for himself alone, but for the boys in the boat. Together, they had done
00:07:32.100 something remarkable. A group of poor kids from the hard times of the Depression had won gold on
00:07:37.700 a world stage. In an age like ours, it's an experience of togetherness that few men ever
00:07:43.880 get to experience. Years later, Phil Jackson would say something very similar about his run as coach
00:07:49.420 with Michael Jordan and the Chicago Bulls. In his book, Eleven Rings, Jackson talks about the kind
00:07:55.640 of leadership required to motivate and equip a group of high-achieving men to accomplish
00:08:00.580 championship greatness. When he took the job, Jackson said the biggest challenge was convincing
00:08:06.080 Jordan that winning scoring titles and MVPs paled in comparison to winning a championship,
00:08:12.360 something Jordan had never experienced. When he first started working with Michael, Phil would
00:08:16.780 say, Michael, there's no I in the word team, to which Jordan would respond, yes, but there is an
00:08:22.800 I in win. Disclosing his source of inspiration, Phil references the book Tribal Leadership.
00:08:28.280 In the book, the authors describe five levels of a tribe, ranging from dysfunctional Tribe 1 to highly functional Tribe 5.
00:08:37.100 Getting from Tribe 1 to Tribe 5 is largely about replacing the me with a we, and this task requires what the authors of the book call tribal leadership.
00:08:47.580 Eventually, Michael would buy into Jackson's triangle offense,
00:08:51.320 which distributed the ball and the points to other players
00:08:54.340 and in turn made it impossible for teams to simply double or even triple team Jordan himself.
00:09:00.380 As a result, the team thrived, winning six championships.
00:09:04.360 What the players would later describe was the same thing that stirred Joe Rance to tears.
00:09:09.640 They'd come to know the deep power and the bond of the team.
00:09:12.880 No longer was it about any individual player saying, I'm great, but about a cohesive whole saying, we're great and we're doing great things.
00:09:22.440 The leader's job, as Phil demonstrated, was bringing together talented individuals and getting them to buy into a system that would elevate them to unstoppable greatness.
00:09:33.200 More than anything, Phil was able to motivate, inspire, and often diplomatically get players
00:09:38.800 like Dennis Rodman, Scottie Pippen, and Michael Jordan to play together as one mystical living
00:09:44.740 organism. Jackson would often quote Rudyard Kipling to his men.
00:09:49.220 Now this is the law of the jungle, as old and true as the sky. And the wolf that shall keep
00:09:54.920 it may prosper, but the wolf that shall break must die. As the creeper that girdles the tree trunk, 0.83
00:10:01.360 the law runneth forward and back, for the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the
00:10:07.320 wolf is the pack. Central for Jackson as a leader was the cultivation of a deep bond of joy that
00:10:14.780 can only come from the pursuit of a unified goal. People, he discovered, are bound together by this
00:10:20.580 deep sense of connectedness. Kobe Bryant, one of Phil's other pupils, once said,
00:10:26.060 we've been through so many battles, the trust naturally grows. The more wars you fight together,
00:10:30.940 the more you understand the people you're in battle with.
00:10:34.080 One breath, one mind, one spirit.
00:10:37.020 This kind of joy, Phil wrote, is contagious and impossible to fake.
00:10:41.420 With enthusiasm, you find you don't have to do it all yourself.
00:10:45.260 In fact, there's nothing significant you can do by yourself.
00:10:49.120 Sustained enthusiasm brings into existence a wave of creative energy,
00:10:53.380 and all you have to do then is ride the wave.
00:10:56.780 If we're to build a new Christendom,
00:10:58.460 it will take great tribes and great tribal leaders.
00:11:02.620 Men like Jackson, Olbrickson, or Pocock,
00:11:05.640 who can motivate, challenge, and organize men
00:11:08.520 around incredible missions.
00:11:10.800 The truth is the work is too great for any one man,
00:11:13.860 but there's hope buried in that reality.
00:11:16.020 See, God loves to use small tribes of courageous men
00:11:19.440 to reshape the world.
00:11:21.480 Our work is aimed at cultivating the kind of tribe
00:11:24.220 that having experienced the intoxicating heights
00:11:27.200 of a greatness shared together no longer says I'm great, but we're great and we're doing great
00:11:32.980 things. In Ogden, this is at the heart of what we're building, a Christian borough. And in contrast
00:11:39.100 to many institutions or movements from the past where one great man aspires to wield near totalizing
00:11:45.320 influence on every aspect of his community and culture, we are a group of mostly ordinary men
00:11:50.700 pursuing great things together. The strength of the wolf is the pack. By himself, no single man
00:11:57.800 is all that impressive, not really. But together, we have the opportunity to do great things that
00:12:03.880 leave a lasting impact for generations to come. In pursuit of this aim, we believe that calling
00:12:10.180 and training and cultivating tribal leaders is essential to the success of the Ogden Borough.
00:12:15.780 In this episode, we wanted to talk about some of the core principles that shape how we think
00:12:21.200 about leadership in the process of raising up new leaders in our midst. We'll talk about our
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00:12:45.420 well welcome to this episode of the king's hall podcast and joined today by pastor brian
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00:17:45.160 Brian, we're continuing this series on Christian Burroughs.
00:17:49.060 And one of the things that we were talking about last time
00:17:51.500 that we promised our listeners, dear listeners,
00:17:54.860 that we would address as sort of the leadership question.
00:17:59.800 One of the things I do think, you spoke about it in the cold open, that is so unique about what we're doing in Ogden, I think is this idea that not only teams and men and tribe, but in particular, you've said something in the past that the closer you get, you want it to look better, not worse.
00:18:18.860 Whereas for a lot of groups, it's like it looks really good far away, but you get closer and you see a lot of problems.
00:18:26.100 We've tried to deal with that.
00:18:27.420 God's brought a lot of opportunity for sanctification.
00:18:30.580 But why is this issue of team, brotherhood, tribe, men working together?
00:18:37.120 Why is this concept so important to the task that we have underway?
00:18:41.900 Yeah, I mean, we talked a lot in the last episode in the work of Building Christian
00:18:45.860 Burroughs about like just we referenced it over and over.
00:18:48.480 We have to understand the way God made the world and then live at peace with the way
00:18:52.780 that God made the world.
00:18:54.180 This is what it means to follow the law in many ways.
00:18:57.060 It's understanding the moral law that God wove into the world and then living at peace
00:19:01.780 with it, not trying to be joyful and satisfied and build a harmonious human society where
00:19:06.740 everybody murders each other.
00:19:08.200 Yeah.
00:19:08.480 Like you're not just doing something with physical stuff in that scenario.
00:19:12.420 You're breaking a law that God wove into the fabric of the immaterial and the material.
00:19:19.520 So one of those laws, and we referenced it again last episode, has to do with leadership,
00:19:25.880 with hierarchy with the distribution of gifts with how societies are ordered and what you find
00:19:33.780 inevitably when you look at the world and whether you zoom all the way in to um even something like
00:19:40.040 an individual human being and how that individual human being needs to rule and order his own self
00:19:45.900 the various parts of his own self where he needs to rule over his spirit well in order to say spirit
00:19:52.080 you will go and now obey God and be a glory. You zoom out to a family where there's a husband,
00:19:58.920 father, there are children, there's a helper, a mother, there are children under both. You zoom
00:20:05.880 out to a clan and you zoom out to a city state and you zoom out to a nation and you zoom out to
00:20:10.780 an empire. All the way up to God's very throne, you find that God built hierarchy, leadership,
00:20:18.380 submission, love, self-sacrifice. There's all of these various elements, competence, loyalty,
00:20:26.020 skill. There's all of these different things that he put there in the world that govern human
00:20:33.720 relationships and societies in harmonious or unharmonious ways, disharmonious ways.
00:20:39.900 And what leadership is, is figuring out those hierarchies, how the rules God wrote for them,
00:20:47.380 And then figuring out how to live at peace with them in the world and in your organizations.
00:20:53.380 And that's why it's genuinely so difficult to create the kind of thing that the closer you get, the better it is.
00:21:01.320 Marketing is not that hard.
00:21:03.080 Like people have figured marketing out.
00:21:05.560 You can make anything look good from a distance.
00:21:09.660 It's like they call China like the hundred foot city or something like that.
00:21:15.420 I'm probably getting that wrong.
00:21:16.620 but the idea is things in China look good from a hundred feet away or
00:21:21.780 further it, but when you get close, you're like, Oh,
00:21:25.260 that's poor workmanship. That's falling apart.
00:21:27.540 That veneer wasn't put on the building. Right. Um,
00:21:30.660 like the outside of this building looks great, but the inside is squalid. Um,
00:21:35.160 and I, I'm not, this wasn't like a dunk on China episode necessarily,
00:21:37.860 but that's, I think what a lot of human endeavors can be the family that looks
00:21:42.960 really good from a distance,
00:21:44.040 but then you get closer and you find out that there's coldness between the husband and wife
00:21:47.460 the church that looks great from a distance and then you find out that it was all sermon editing
00:21:51.740 videos and on social media well even though i think we've kind of grown up with this in the
00:21:57.060 church um my heroes growing up um a lot of them have kind of fallen into shambles or or disrepute
00:22:06.380 think of somebody like steve lawson where um i i remember for years people would say to me
00:22:11.520 you know this is the ideal is to be like this guy it all falls apart of course uh within the
00:22:16.880 last year but then you start digging and it's like here's a guy who's like the authority on
00:22:22.320 the elder board is questionable it doesn't seem like he reports to anyone yeah um it's actually
00:22:27.640 not a biblical pattern going on at the roots they weren't obeying that law that god wove into
00:22:34.260 creation now part of it is you i think you could get jaded and you can say none of these projects
00:22:39.060 will work. Yeah. Anything you try to build is just going to blow up like that. Yeah. We haven't done
00:22:44.160 that. We've actually said, actually, we could learn something. Yeah. And though it is common
00:22:48.820 in our day to have institutional or movement collapse, for lack of a better term, we could
00:22:56.060 actually try to build something differently. Yeah. And I think that is challenging within our day
00:23:01.580 as we'll get into. It's very important. Central to any tribe is going to be leadership. Yeah.
00:23:07.940 even this concept though of tribe um this is not how a lot of people have thought like if you read
00:23:14.020 tim keller for example on the church they're actually anti-tribal yeah it's funny this is
00:23:19.700 part of like tribalism and nationalism are seen as bad things yeah that you shouldn't want to pursue
00:23:25.180 and here we are saying no tribe is everything tribe is absolutely everything you need a tribe
00:23:31.160 you should be building tribes you should notice that god made the world to operate and function
00:23:34.900 and tribes and clans and gangs of men and in groups and small communities like people do this
00:23:40.200 dumb thing in churches um where any community but it's it's prevalent in churches where they 0.77
00:23:46.580 they say you know i came to this church but it was just full of cliques 0.98
00:23:50.600 and and like there is such thing as a a sinful cliquishness where nobody can get in it's
00:23:57.920 impermeable no no new people no friends can come in it's inner rings it's lewis there's a lot of
00:24:03.100 bad dynamics that really can be described in that language. What I discovered though, as a pastor
00:24:07.880 in, you know, the last decade and a half is that often when people say there's cliques,
00:24:15.960 what they mean is there are groups of people that genuinely like each other in this group,
00:24:20.440 in this church, and they all tend to share some interest or thing that they love.
00:24:25.260 And I don't seem to be in that group. I don't fit. And so now I'm kind of bitter about that.
00:24:32.200 You know, like all these guys get together and, you know, they love to hang out and, you know, play golf or smoke cigars or talk about, you know, sports or like all this stuff.
00:24:43.880 And they're like, no, the church needs to like establish this order where anybody can be in any group of friends and anybody can be in any.
00:24:50.620 Well, but no, that's not how God made the world.
00:24:52.900 Yeah.
00:24:53.160 Friendship works.
00:24:53.940 I think even in the Constitution, this is why we have the freedom of assembly.
00:24:57.720 Yeah.
00:24:58.000 Right. That it's noticing something in nature that groups will naturally form.
00:25:03.200 And one of the things we will talk about is, you know, what is the right way that they form?
00:25:07.760 I would argue it's around courage, competence, loyalty.
00:25:11.320 Yes.
00:25:11.860 That sort of thing, not just an empty bureaucracy that's formed, you know, through DEI or forced integration of some kind.
00:25:19.380 Yeah.
00:25:19.880 One thing I do want to highlight is the book.
00:25:22.040 I know people on video will be able to see this.
00:25:24.600 This is The Boys in the Boat.
00:25:25.820 And if you can see that title, I paid a whopping $1.50 from Deseret Industries for this book.
00:25:32.280 Wow, dang.
00:25:33.000 Mint condition.
00:25:34.420 You got photos.
00:25:35.740 I mean, come on.
00:25:37.160 Dude, look, there's a Hitler photo on that.
00:25:39.040 Yeah, we got Hitler photos in here.
00:25:40.540 From the 36 Olympics.
00:25:41.540 The 36 Olympics.
00:25:43.340 It is interesting in the book, they talk actually about how beautiful Germany was.
00:25:49.260 And like they went there and they were expecting, you know, this is pre-war.
00:25:53.900 Yeah.
00:25:54.740 So they're expecting, you know, an Olympic stage.
00:25:57.720 But I think most of the men were just shocked because they came from Depression-era America.
00:26:01.820 And Seattle wasn't a tech hub or Starbucks hub yet.
00:26:04.980 No, no, no, no.
00:26:05.480 It was kind of like a dirty logging town.
00:26:08.040 Oh, it was an absolute dangerous place to live.
00:26:12.640 Yeah.
00:26:13.200 And so here they go to Germany and they're like, it's like pristine.
00:26:16.860 Yeah.
00:26:17.040 I mean, they put a lot of money into it and built just amazing stuff there.
00:26:21.000 So that's kind of interesting.
00:26:22.180 but the book we were talking about this offline but it was interesting we're talking about tribal
00:26:26.860 leadership we're talking about how to cultivate leaders and i have this practice where i just
00:26:31.780 start in the evenings i i'd actually heard you say you did it yeah i i love to do this as well
00:26:36.820 i'll go walk four or five miles in the neighborhood and just listen to audible and so encourage people
00:26:41.740 to check out the book if you have a spotify membership uh it's actually the book is free
00:26:46.000 right now nice so i just i saw it on there i said watch the movie it's really good um and started
00:26:51.220 listening to it. And it was funny, uh, as they're going through it and Pocock is talking in the
00:26:57.380 book, I'm, I'm like having just this flashback, like this is exactly what we're talking about.
00:27:02.180 Yeah. Like this is perfect. Um, but I want to talk in specific about this, this pursuit of an ideal.
00:27:09.000 I think most people who are on a team like this, it's a very rare thing. First of all,
00:27:13.280 championship teams are rare, uh, or championship endeavors we might say for, for our sakes.
00:27:18.760 But when you're on a team like this, at some point, there is a moment where you recognize, wow, we are a part of something special.
00:27:27.460 If you're on the Bulls, part of it is we have an insane level of competence.
00:27:32.940 But it's also the way the parts fit together.
00:27:36.100 Because, you know, if you took a Scottie Pippen and you put him on a different team, he played for other teams.
00:27:41.100 He wasn't all that good by himself.
00:27:43.640 But he just fit perfectly in Phil's system in previously Tex Winter and the Triangle Offense.
00:27:49.100 He fit in the system, and everybody learned how to play their part.
00:27:52.840 But as you think about these tribes coming together, I guess one of my questions is,
00:27:57.360 why is this so rare today that you find a group of men working on a project?
00:28:03.820 We were sitting in the elder meeting the other day talking about this.
00:28:06.620 I think Kevin Griffin said, we are just so lucky.
00:28:09.740 God has been so kind to us.
00:28:11.360 most people will never get to experience this yeah but just explain like from your perspective
00:28:17.220 why that's so important and rare yeah i mean there there are levels to it one of them is
00:28:23.340 competence competence is rare and especially competence is rare in a dysfunctional age
00:28:28.360 when we have institutions that are not producing a high level of competence on the average
00:28:33.460 that are calling the average up to high productivity and fruitfulness and we certainly
00:28:39.400 don't have that on the whole in our nation right now, public, the state of public schooling,
00:28:44.140 the state of our cultural forming mechanisms are not creating a generally competent culture,
00:28:50.960 but a generally incompetent culture. So when you have a generally competent culture, there's
00:28:56.540 those people who are even like a top five or 10%. And again, God gives gifts unequally.
00:29:05.020 God is the one who did that. God loves to say, this guy's going to get 10 talents. This guy's
00:29:08.780 going to get five. This guy's going to get one. That's God did that. We have to embrace and love
00:29:13.120 that. So in a, in a system that's generally producing competence, the 10 talent guys rise
00:29:20.300 very high. The five talent guys rise way higher than they should. One talent, like everybody rises
00:29:26.340 up. But in our culture, we have the opposite where our, our general mode of life and enculturation
00:29:34.220 and education does not produce on the average or aggregate competence. So it makes it more rare
00:29:41.360 than to find above average teams. One thing that does happen though, is that truly above average
00:29:48.900 teams tend to rise meteorically in that culture because there's such a vacuum of leadership
00:29:55.220 and of competence that you do have situations where like a super elite rises. I think of a guy
00:30:06.180 like Elon Musk is one of these types of people. I think he does well given his wiring and gifting
00:30:11.080 wherever he goes, but that's a guy who just, he's going to rise. But in a, in a day of little
00:30:17.800 competence, like look at the way the U S government manages space exploration and rocketry, a guy like
00:30:23.300 Elon Musk's looked at that and says there's a lot of incompetence, inefficiency.
00:30:26.500 They're spending way too much to do too little.
00:30:28.160 And he goes, I can do five times more for half the cost.
00:30:32.080 And then he steps up and he does it.
00:30:33.400 What is interesting, like you said, even take something like DEI, you know, the initiatives that come out of the civil rights era really functionally.
00:30:42.840 But you look at how that would even interplay in the church.
00:30:45.860 You have Matt Chandler saying, I would actually rather hire the less competent black person than the more competent white person.
00:30:52.360 well that's you know jeremy carl's talked about this too uh with the unprotected class you have
00:30:58.640 the elevation of people who are less qualified yeah as a systematized process the purpose of
00:31:06.060 a system is what it does and so when you look at the purpose of dei is to create incompetence
00:31:12.940 to erode trust to deracinate society that's that's the purpose of the system that's what it does
00:31:19.500 so competence is a huge part of this but there's there's far more than that competence is one
00:31:23.980 piece i think another reason that this that leadership and hierarchy and organization in
00:31:29.960 general are so difficult is because it requires two things that seem to tug at tension with one
00:31:35.900 another but you need both of them and you you cannot do it without both one of them is um men
00:31:44.480 of competence and character who look at a problem or a thing or an office or leadership or a system
00:31:53.120 or a people or a nation or city or clan or whatever, and they say, that needs leadership.
00:31:58.280 I have been given the gifts to lead it and I should go put my hand to the wheel and lead.
00:32:05.300 Absolutely. And I'm the right guy to do this. And I know what needs to be done.
00:32:09.500 that kind of courageous conviction, even if 10 people told a guy like that, you know, you're
00:32:16.060 wrong. This is wrong. This is how we've always done things. This is how the bureaucracy works.
00:32:20.580 You need a guy who's like, I don't care what anybody else thinks. I am 100% certain that I'm
00:32:25.760 the guy to do this right now. Yeah. Okay. You need that. And this, this guy that's like, no, no,
00:32:32.260 no. Everyone's saying this can't be done. It can be done. There's a certain amount of will that's
00:32:37.780 required. Like a will and a conviction and a courage. And at the same time, the other thing
00:32:43.100 you need is humility, mutual submission. You need, um, a, a non egotistical execution of a mission
00:32:54.540 that God gives that is for the good of the people of people, not just the glory of the guy who has
00:33:01.860 that conviction well this was one of the shocking insights i think that we have this stereotype
00:33:08.000 from movies about what the good leader say in a business business has been
00:33:12.940 you know uniquely in in the 20th century with guys like john d rockefeller
00:33:18.260 the focal point became leaders as business guys so in the past that actually wasn't the case
00:33:24.240 i think it's just american consumerism that would tend to elevate the business leader
00:33:28.520 but it is interesting. You get into like good to great with Jim Collins talking about business
00:33:35.040 leaders who are the 10X builders of a generation. And he said the best leaders, this is one of their
00:33:40.900 keystone findings. The best leaders were humble and self-effacing yet incredibly strong-willed.
00:33:47.360 Absolutely strong-willed. They knew how to do a thing and they would not settle for that thing
00:33:53.840 not being done the way that they had the vision to do it and the competence to do it. But at the
00:33:59.300 same time, the best leaders, the ones who were loved and remembered and did great, they, you're
00:34:04.740 right. They were also, they, I think of Ford, Henry Ford. What were, what were some of his primary
00:34:12.200 concerns? It wasn't creating the most value for the shareholders. It wasn't just amassing the
00:34:18.960 greatest amount of wealth for himself, though he, though he did produce huge value for himself and
00:34:23.480 others um and you know stakeholders in the business he was very concerned with creating
00:34:29.260 a uh a kind of culture where everybody who worked for him would be well taken care of
00:34:37.060 that they would love their job that they would get paid well to do it that they would work a
00:34:41.180 human amount and they would have leisure that um his products would be excellent and serve people
00:34:47.000 didn't even get sued for paying his workers so much like the competition was like he's paying
00:34:51.520 too much. Yeah. There were multiple vectors of attack in Henry Ford's life against his iron
00:34:58.480 will determination to pay his people well and to actually build a culture that was about what I
00:35:05.960 would say the moral law of loving your neighbor. Yeah. Truly loving your neighbor and not just
00:35:10.940 stripping the most value out of your neighbor and then discarding your neighbor and finding a new
00:35:15.340 neighbor that you can strip the most value from at the lowest cost. So you need both those things.
00:35:20.700 And another thing that plays into that, because it sounds like I'm just talking about this like really point key leader, you do need really key leaders, you need a king, you need a, you need a point guy, you need like leaders who are in charge genuinely, but you also need within the whole hierarchy of an organization that the awareness that like we said in the cold open, one guy cannot do it.
00:35:40.080 And so you have to have a team of leaders that work together. But that team of leaders has to have, again, two things. They have to have total confidence in their area of competence and they have to be really well suited to be like, I am on the right seat in this organization and I am pushing to plow on something deeply meaningful and important and I contribute to in this way.
00:36:02.060 But then they also need a humility that says, I'm not always right. I don't know everything. I don't have to be the number one guy. I can take a lower seat. I can, you know, like that, there's this constant tension between that conviction, courage, competence, will, and humility, service of others, self-sacrifice, giving of yourself for others.
00:36:29.340 And in the hierarchy, you need a lot of people who also recognize I'm not a number one guy.
00:36:37.080 Even where you are a number one guy, a number one guy needs to know I'm not a number one guy in everything.
00:36:45.000 I'm not omnicompetent.
00:36:46.220 Only God is omnicompetent.
00:36:47.680 So there's going to be people I need around me.
00:36:49.960 Even if you're a number one guy of the number one thing, like you're the number one seed in an organization, you're in charge.
00:36:54.880 that guy will do way better if he recognizes that he's not omnicompetent and so raise up
00:37:01.260 enable empower the right humble competent guys who are bought in on the vision of the team and we not
00:37:07.080 i but then actually trust their instinct it's all of this is very hard like it's very very
00:37:14.420 tremendously hard yeah i think having like you said core tribal leaders um who really do a lot
00:37:19.940 of the driving of the bus and you know i'm stealing from jim collins the bus analogy
00:37:24.160 if you think of a company like a bus or a church or whatever your institution is
00:37:28.800 you do have guys driving but one of the other roles that we found is so important is figuring
00:37:35.360 out the seats on the bus you get the right guys on the bus but the right guys for that mission
00:37:40.860 for whatever direction you're trying to go and then you we do spend a lot of time saying does
00:37:46.960 this guy's job title and what he's tasked to do does it fit his giftings yeah um one of the things
00:37:52.840 that has been hard in that process is there are times where we have it can be us it can be other
00:37:58.640 people and we can say like these three tasks are on my plate and i'm not good at them but hey look
00:38:04.400 over here we have this other guy who's kind of sitting on the bench and we could elevate him to
00:38:10.700 a role where he could help more and i'll give one example yeah um this last year we were kind of
00:38:16.080 going through a lot of these processes and headmaster Kevin Love was doing, doing the
00:38:22.140 school stuff. And he was giving me a lot of feedback about maybe how we could run meetings
00:38:26.440 better, um, org charts for the church side, um, how we could be more productive and making sure
00:38:33.060 that tasks are getting done, all this sort of thing. And a lot of hours of conversation. Finally,
00:38:37.420 I looked at Kevin and I said, Kevin, would you like to be like basically the ops manager
00:38:41.560 of the elder team and he's like what do you mean and so we just kind of said yeah let's chart out
00:38:47.320 together your giftings and what you can contribute with and kevin is great this is where you have
00:38:53.680 a bold will to lead but you also have humility he said okay i'm great at these things some of
00:38:59.660 the administrative operations functions and i'd love to help there and kind of be your right hand
00:39:05.060 man on the elder team he said here's the five things i'm not good at yep here's where utilizing
00:39:10.360 me won't be the best. And that was really key. I think as our organization has grown, we've had
00:39:16.580 to build scale and hierarchies to match them. Whereas in the early days, it was first you and
00:39:23.560 Dan, then it was you, Dan, and myself, Kevin Griffin, Kevin Love, but then the elder team
00:39:28.740 expands. Ben, Ethan. The church has gone from 180 to like 450 in a couple of years. You got Ben and
00:39:35.940 ethan on the team now and so then you're saying okay well ethan is really good at training young
00:39:40.740 men and and equipping future leaders so let's put him in charge of the training guild that'll be
00:39:45.500 overseen but that's his his wheelhouse so just a lot of internal i bet most people have no idea
00:39:52.620 what goes on internally oh yeah because you're looking from the outside you're like oh they
00:39:57.100 produce content or they pastor we see that yeah brian preaches but there's so much more complexity
00:40:03.520 to, to the tribe and the inner workings. Yes. You have to figure out who should be in what seat.
00:40:10.960 And what's very painful about this process is that this happens for both yourself, but for
00:40:16.800 others. And I actually think it's, it's equally painful in both directions because everybody,
00:40:21.480 because they're not God and they're not omnicompetent, they're always finding
00:40:25.120 aspects where they're, they shouldn't be in charge. They shouldn't be doing something.
00:40:30.080 Maybe they should be leading and overseeing some area, but they're not actually the executor of that thing.
00:40:34.800 They don't see it through themselves.
00:40:37.080 And there is a pain there.
00:40:38.900 It's humility.
00:40:39.840 It's where you're actually admitting, I'm not God.
00:40:43.120 And then giving something to somebody else.
00:40:45.740 And you're raising, you're pulling someone up in that process.
00:40:49.840 That's very painful personally.
00:40:51.720 And like it sounds not that painful when you describe it there.
00:40:54.220 But think about the feeling of having something taken away from you.
00:40:58.720 when other people around you say,
00:41:01.020 hey, you know, you're actually not that good at this thing.
00:41:03.460 Yeah.
00:41:04.020 Because a lot of times this doesn't come through
00:41:05.540 just sober self-reflection all by yourself.
00:41:07.640 It comes from people around you saying,
00:41:10.000 hey, you know, we've had this problem 10 times
00:41:11.860 in the last year at the organization,
00:41:13.620 at the church or whatever it is.
00:41:15.840 And, you know, it seems like every single time
00:41:18.680 it actually traces back to fundamentally
00:41:20.980 that you're in charge of something you shouldn't be
00:41:23.200 or in a way that you shouldn't be.
00:41:25.660 And this other person might be way better at it.
00:41:27.500 They should be doing that, not you.
00:41:28.980 A lot of times that's how this comes
00:41:30.480 into your own self-reflection.
00:41:32.360 Well, and a lot of times the task,
00:41:33.980 I know this can be true for myself,
00:41:35.280 the task becomes so wrapped up in how you,
00:41:37.940 like how you view your identity.
00:41:40.120 Yes.
00:41:40.600 That to give up parts of it.
00:41:41.960 I remember having this discussion with Ethan
00:41:43.460 where I was like, well, I'll oversee the guild
00:41:46.240 and I'll really be, you know,
00:41:48.720 kind of hands-on giving it direction.
00:41:50.940 And then Ethan came and he presented me
00:41:53.220 with like this, yeah, it's Ethan.
00:41:55.260 And so it's like a 10 page thorough outline of the guild and there was curriculum and
00:42:00.220 this is what we've been doing.
00:42:02.500 And in that moment, like somebody in the meeting, I can't remember who said, I think Ethan's
00:42:06.940 competent to handle this one on his own.
00:42:08.500 We should put Ethan in charge of it.
00:42:10.440 But that moment, it was good and it was humbling, but you're right.
00:42:13.660 There's also pain in it because you have to realize, Hey, somebody else is probably better
00:42:19.620 suited for this task than I am right now.
00:42:21.520 Yeah.
00:42:21.980 And people are saying that's okay. 0.99
00:42:24.000 And it's like, oh, they're saying I suck. 0.98
00:42:26.120 Like what the flesh wants to do is say, no, no, I'm great. 0.99
00:42:28.800 I can do this.
00:42:30.020 Maybe I let it slip a little bit, but I need to go grab.
00:42:32.520 I can grab the reins again.
00:42:33.600 It's like you're losing a part of your self image where you have a perception of yourself,
00:42:39.060 your competencies, gifts, greatness, excellencies, wonderfulness, all of this.
00:42:43.500 And then other people are rudely intruding upon that by trying to bring your self image
00:42:49.840 into alignment with this very difficult painful thing called reality one is it's it's so interesting
00:42:57.440 there's a parallel in the boys in the boat uh where you have i forget his name but the guy at
00:43:02.160 the front who faces them and calls cadence yeah um at one point they had one guy doing it and the
00:43:08.340 team was just not bonding um it just wasn't working and then finally the coach was like he
00:43:13.040 was like get out of the boat and the guy's like what because he was like the varsity like he
00:43:17.240 should have been he was on paper he looked like the guy who could do it and then they take the
00:43:21.660 guy who's like mopping floors but you know had kind of been a troubled guy uh but the guys loved
00:43:27.160 him and they put him in the front seat and they said okay you call cadence and he called cadence
00:43:33.300 and they rode like they never rode before dude you know how painful it is for that guy that
00:43:37.620 varsity guy yeah and he's sitting there he's not a bad guy yeah yeah he put in all the work with
00:43:41.860 everybody else. Um, but I think this is part of leadership and coaching too, is, uh, we'll get
00:43:48.360 more into it, but you cannot be conflict averse. No, I would say one of the core competencies
00:43:53.720 of a leader, as we look for future leaders, I'm looking for the guys who, when, when a building
00:43:58.780 is on fire, everyone else is running away and he's running in. Yeah. How do I have a hard
00:44:03.280 conversation like 20 times a day? Yeah. How do I, uh, I'm looking for that guy who can bring
00:44:10.920 order to chaos in whatever his realm is like he knows how to be a stable presence to go in
00:44:16.680 and to just order things yeah and sometimes it can be i mean we we start seeing them more and
00:44:22.560 more through experience on the team but uh if we have a tough doctrinal thing that needs to be
00:44:28.100 worked out yeah through a rigorous like 10 page document my first thought at this point is like
00:44:35.000 ben garrett would be really good at this he would really enjoy doing it he would love it he's good
00:44:39.000 at it in fact we'll have to say not 20 000 words yeah and we have to say like no not in a month
00:44:44.200 like do it in a quarter because you need to do other things like there's he'll be super passionate
00:44:48.840 about it the other side of it that's really hard so there's that self-reflection where you're
00:44:53.240 learning more about yourself and some of it is is good some of it is like others noticing and saying
00:45:00.840 hey you're really good at this and that feels good like it's good when someone says you're
00:45:05.320 really good at this. You, we enjoy that. And then it's painful when people say, and you know what
00:45:09.800 though, but you're not really good at this. And this guy is so getting on the right seat, but
00:45:14.020 what's, what's hard in some ways, I think this is the harder task and it is the rarer competency.
00:45:21.620 You don't find many of these types of leaders, but it is one of the, the quintess unknown of
00:45:25.700 leadership is the coach who can look at the boat and say to the varsity guy, you shouldn't be in
00:45:33.840 that seat of calling cadence it should be this guy that's the junior or the lower guy or the
00:45:39.420 and so there's also maybe even more painful is tell is that muscle of leadership of telling
00:45:48.580 other people things they don't want to hear and creating order from chaos and dysfunction or even
00:45:54.660 creating greater order from less order it's not that everything has to be terrible and then you
00:46:00.360 order everything. But it's really like, this is one of the hardest aspects of leadership
00:46:04.220 is not just people going into conflict outside of the leadership team. And you certainly need
00:46:09.120 to do that in a church or any organization, but also people saying in the midst of the leadership
00:46:14.540 team, the people in the front of the bus, directing the bus, directing others and saying,
00:46:21.660 you two need to switch seats. You need to step down. You need to step up. This isn't working
00:46:27.960 over here. Organization grew, it outgrew your competence. You need to submit to a lower seat.
00:46:33.640 We need another guy in that seat. Think of how difficult that is because really good teams are
00:46:39.000 good friends. Really good teams develop relationships that are years deep and thick
00:46:44.600 and good. And it's like, so there's this mutual danger in that relationship where the leader can
00:46:52.420 shrink from doing the things that must be done in an organization because of loyalty, because
00:46:57.940 he loved out of out of love and loyalty he could he could actually fail to love and truly be loyal
00:47:03.540 out of love and loyalty and then on the receiving end of that um it's back to that
00:47:10.380 deep pain of realizing i'm not this i thought i had 10 talents i have four
00:47:19.580 that hurts my passion is art design yeah it'd be like if eric was like i am i have you know i was
00:47:29.860 walking last night and listening to a book on graphic design i wrote a cold open for it you
00:47:35.400 know for the next episode and guys i think i need to be the art director for new christendom press
00:47:40.100 they're actually and early on as funny as the the the relationships but also the organization
00:47:46.000 changes because you know when we started new christendom press we didn't have staff no we
00:47:51.260 were the staff so brian and i would like argue about graphic design and finally like yeah i did
00:47:59.300 have that realization like this is not my wheelhouse yeah in the same way that if you ask me
00:48:04.660 to go lead worship singing it would be like yeah we have many other people who are gifted at this
00:48:12.560 i'm not super great and it's funny and that's okay it's so in the other direction too it's like
00:48:19.820 so this is one of the things that we we come to you and we we show you a meal like a finished
00:48:26.120 meal that's an episode of the king's hall yeah but some of the meals took three years to make
00:48:30.740 so like this is an example of that this episode is an example of that um everything that we just
00:48:37.000 talked about the pain of this of learning this about yourself of saying this about others like
00:48:41.580 we've lived through that guys. Like you don't, until you've done it, other leaders understand,
00:48:45.700 like, you know, the pain of this process, but do you know how difficult it has been for two
00:48:52.920 absolute, like people who are two men who are absolutely certain of their own convictions and
00:49:00.900 correctness of what to do in an organization and vision and all these things. I'm talking about me
00:49:05.280 Eric, figuring out how to work together to where today I have no doubt about the gifts that you
00:49:13.740 have. Like I know, I know I could list them. I could explain Eric's gifting maybe better than
00:49:19.360 Eric. I don't know. Say, this is what Eric's really good at in the organizations. This is
00:49:23.600 what I need him to do. He's got to do this or no one else is going to be able to do it as good as
00:49:27.340 he can. And so, and also like that took years. And then in the other hand, one of the painful
00:49:34.580 parts about that is that all of those things are nearly all of those things correspond to
00:49:38.740 areas that I am not very good at, but had been in charge of for a long time in one way or the other.
00:49:45.180 So there there's like, here's the finished meal, but do you know what this took? It took three
00:49:49.980 years where like for two of them, we were probably both like, what is wrong with this guy? Like he is
00:49:56.140 an idiot. Yeah, you're right. I mean, you, you, every one of those lessons was learned 1.00
00:50:01.460 and sort of the the heat and furnace of conflict and some of the conflicts i mean we're still
00:50:08.800 working together and we're still still figuring stuff out but yeah you could have a month or two
00:50:13.500 where you're like i just am so confused by the way brian sees the world i have no idea what's
00:50:18.880 going on here but i do think one thing that happens it's confusing uh well i guess i would
00:50:23.440 say one thing that's required for all this to work that a lot of people don't have is the element of
00:50:27.800 time yeah so one thing that's really helped is we've all kind of said we burned the boats
00:50:32.840 we're here for life yep and there's been many moments where you and i dan anyone on the team
00:50:38.560 we've said hey this is really tough i don't see a way through it yeah but we're all committed
00:50:44.340 nobody's going anywhere so we have to figure it out yep whatever seat whatever place i need to
00:50:51.320 be in in whatever season i'm here yeah so that element of time i just think if you're in companies
00:50:57.600 particularly where you're moving every two years it's not even possible to gel as a team in the
00:51:03.740 way that i think we have um kind of interesting parallel this is why phil jackson got out of
00:51:08.980 coaching was because the end of his dynasty with the lakers was the beginning of free agency
00:51:14.180 and when they did kind of through a lot of the collective bargaining and then free agency
00:51:19.520 you simply salary cap you could not keep a team together ah and so he was like i'm just not
00:51:25.080 interested anymore yeah if all i have is players for a year or two you're gonna pour in all that
00:51:30.360 work and then they leave and some of it makes certain aspects of it easier when you're when
00:51:34.840 you're leading a group and you're looking out at 15 employees you manage and you see three of them
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00:55:33.840 Yeah, I think that's really good. One other thing you and I are kind of talking about is
00:55:38.180 our roles on the team, in particular, senior pastor, executive pastor, how that stuff works.
00:55:45.020 What's interesting to me is that there's distinction, even though it's a good task to do.
00:55:53.440 But we recently went through Myers-Briggs surveys, figuring out a little bit more who each other
00:55:59.800 are as teammates and stuff like that one of the things i had to laugh at is that we were both
00:56:05.200 entjs we were like identical and now they have a new one it's entja so these are typically known
00:56:11.440 as life's natural leaders life's assertive leaders or as mark driscoll once said the entj is basically
00:56:20.300 a j-e-r-k um but he had a way with words he did have a way with words i think he's speaking from
00:56:29.300 Self-understanding.
00:56:31.140 But it is interesting.
00:56:33.080 We were looking through in the Myers-Briggs.
00:56:36.020 This is not like to toot our own horn,
00:56:38.040 but Myers-Briggs said like the ENTJs,
00:56:40.320 it's like one of the rarest personality types,
00:56:43.640 you know, which makes sense in God's hierarchical world.
00:56:47.100 Like if you had, can you imagine a whole church full of us?
00:56:49.840 I'd be insane all the time.
00:56:51.100 If there was just all me or all Eric,
00:56:52.580 it'd be like the worst place to be. 0.68
00:56:55.260 It would, we would probably kill each other.
00:56:57.000 Well, there wouldn't be many after a time.
00:56:58.840 Because of the bloodshed.
00:57:00.700 Yeah, because of the bloodshed.
00:57:01.780 Because of the bloodshed.
00:57:02.260 This is an interesting thing, though.
00:57:03.440 I think most organizations, and all the stuff that I've read on C-Suite stuff and on the business side,
00:57:09.440 most organizations cannot tolerate having two people of that personality near each other at the top.
00:57:15.980 It's funny.
00:57:17.180 And yet, here we are.
00:57:19.020 I want to kind of speak to something you said about recognizing the differentiation in gifts.
00:57:24.760 Because you could say, okay, so you're the same person.
00:57:27.020 Not at all.
00:57:28.840 I think, Brian, you are much more focused on outward communication.
00:57:33.400 You do the bulk of the preaching.
00:57:35.400 You have a unique role in shaping and communicating the vision of the church.
00:57:40.560 I think even because of the preaching, but also just the dynamic of your family,
00:57:45.800 it's a cultural driving engine of the culture of the church in terms of joyfulness, household.
00:57:52.340 Breithearth plays a big role in this.
00:57:53.780 um the stuff that i do like we were looking at you know how do we spend most of our time
00:57:59.820 and i think i on the team i think i had the highest percentage spent in meetings right and
00:58:06.980 we were talking about this the other day and it's like well yeah because a lot of that time is
00:58:11.840 coaching it's having hard conversations it's uh working with guys in both organizations trying to
00:58:18.040 come up with solutions yeah we're talking about hiring training yeah guilds all sorts of stuff
00:58:24.260 like that so I guess just speak to how those things could work together even with so much
00:58:29.720 distinction yes so it is true that often if you had two people who were as similar in wiring as
00:58:38.320 you and I particularly because that thing I said earlier about the high conviction that you're
00:58:43.640 correct about a thing that's the way our egalitarian culture reads that is pride
00:58:49.060 intrinsically that that's pride yeah that's actually not the case you if you don't have
00:58:54.320 people like that god made the world with some people who were like that who are able to look
00:59:00.060 at a thing and parse it out neutral like with without emotion and to order it to say you know
00:59:07.420 this should be like this this person should be here that's a lot of vision leadership like
00:59:11.460 communication that's that rule is another word that's very key to that that's a good thing it
00:59:16.200 can go wrong and certainly become highly corrupted by pride um so when you have a couple people two
00:59:23.340 like two people who are we both have that kind of gear or certitude about that what you can
00:59:29.660 if there's not over time corresponding humility self-reflection in both in both directions both
00:59:38.120 people doing that and learning about the other and developing trust and loyalty to saying
00:59:41.740 I know this about myself I have this kind of certitude but part of my certitude over time
00:59:50.640 becomes I am certain that Eric is better at this than me I am just as convinced about that as I am
00:59:58.620 about other things that takes time and humility and to develop in both directions and likewise
01:00:04.740 Like Eric saying, I'm certain that Brian's good at this and he should, he should do this.
01:00:09.940 If we were identical in every way though, it wouldn't work.
01:00:12.520 I don't think God deploys people that way because he tends to put like, does, is the
01:00:16.500 body all mouth?
01:00:17.360 Is the body all nose?
01:00:18.480 Is the body all hand?
01:00:19.100 It's not.
01:00:19.520 The body's many members and that's true of the whole thing, but it's also true of its
01:00:22.960 expression and local instantiate, like of local expressions of the body universal.
01:00:28.740 You have a mouth and eyes and hands in each congregation over time.
01:00:32.940 I think the Lord's faithful to do that.
01:00:34.360 And he deploys his troops in that manner.
01:00:37.140 But when it comes to specialization amongst the roles, the secret sauce is really in figuring
01:00:44.180 out, again, how to keep intention those two things.
01:00:47.720 I'm certain about this, and that can even include your own gifting as a leader.
01:00:52.060 I'm certain that this is what I'm supposed to do.
01:00:54.040 And I'm certain what they're supposed to do.
01:00:56.220 And so we can now work together and figure out how to rule and lead in these different
01:01:02.320 things so that order and beauty and life comes out of it. And it means figuring out very practical
01:01:08.960 things like it's success. If Eric spends a lot more time in meetings than me, because a lot of
01:01:16.080 Eric's gifting is in that management, ordering, leading of people in that kind of context,
01:01:24.680 particularly on the, on the leadership level of the church, like leading leaders going and
01:01:29.020 having a meeting with this leader. And, you know, before we come to any kind of major decision
01:01:33.960 as a church or as an elder team or as New Christian Press staff, you will have found
01:01:39.840 when it's done well that Eric has spent about 15 times more time than anybody else on it
01:01:45.840 because he's been talking to everybody, figuring out what everybody thinks about something,
01:01:51.920 building consensus, coming to like, oh, you know, this perspective from this team member
01:01:56.420 and this perspective from this team member could really come together and create this vision for
01:02:02.120 this change. And so by the time when you come together in a table of like, we need to make a
01:02:06.660 call, everybody actually has a pretty deep awareness of what needs to happen, of where
01:02:11.320 everybody else is at. And it's because Eric is good at leading in that way. But at the same time,
01:02:18.740 if I spent my time like that, it would be a bad, bad, bad thing. I'm not very good at it,
01:02:25.960 Number one, I'm, and there, I'm figuring out why, as I work with Eric, why I'm not very good at it, deficiencies in my own gifting, but also because I would then not be doing the thing that I am good at, which is that if I'm, I'm actually really failing the church and the school and New Christian Press, if I am not spending a significant amount of my time with my head down, writing, thinking, producing, preparing.
01:02:53.840 Yeah, because the communication is part of leadership too.
01:02:57.080 It is interesting.
01:02:58.000 I think you could see the difference in both of us
01:03:00.860 simply by the posture of our doors.
01:03:03.500 Because if you're doing the thing that you're supposed to do,
01:03:06.040 your door's closed.
01:03:07.140 And if I'm doing the thing that I'm supposed to do,
01:03:09.460 generally speaking, my door is open 24-7.
01:03:12.900 I mean, there's phone calls on the ride home,
01:03:16.500 there's early morning meetings, there's-
01:03:18.560 Constant.
01:03:19.240 Yeah, and one thing I would say that I've learned over the years
01:03:21.800 from older, wiser pastors,
01:03:23.880 especially in organization and management
01:03:27.620 on eldership teams that you mentioned
01:03:30.740 was the need to realize
01:03:33.320 when you go to an elder meeting
01:03:35.400 and you have to have the discussion,
01:03:36.900 you have to make it, let me say this,
01:03:38.460 you have to make a decision.
01:03:40.060 Yeah.
01:03:41.020 That is not the first time
01:03:42.340 you've talked about that issue.
01:03:43.620 Shouldn't be.
01:03:44.100 The amount of diplomacy, negotiation,
01:03:47.040 bouncing ideas back and forth.
01:03:49.920 Generally, as a leader,
01:03:50.820 you need to know where you're going and that's something that we talk about what are we trying
01:03:54.300 to accomplish where do we need to go um but then that process of going and getting feedback addressing
01:03:59.260 objections yeah well what about this if if we change this then would you be more on board with
01:04:05.980 this if we alleviate these fears concerns whatever desires that you have for whatever initiative we're
01:04:11.420 trying to accomplish so that a lot of times by the time like you said by the time you come to the
01:04:15.440 meeting um people are like wow we're all on the same page this is great let's move forward
01:04:20.740 there's harmony and you might be misled and thinking that like that just naturally happened
01:04:25.720 no no no a leader led really well and put a lot of work into that harmony it's like a conductor
01:04:32.260 of an orchestra he he works with the brass section and then he works with the strings and he works
01:04:37.560 with the the rhythm section over here and he gets a couple together and they workshop and he gets
01:04:41.940 key people from the violins together and hey let's make sure we tighten up that part and tell them
01:04:46.040 this and then they get together and they practice as a whole thing and then they perform as a whole
01:04:50.000 thing, but there was an enormous amount of special work in my, I played competitive soccer in my
01:04:56.460 teens and I was a goalkeeper and we, goalkeepers, a weird position in the sport. Like you use your
01:05:03.380 hands, you don't get to leave your box. Like it's a weird position. You don't wear the same shirt.
01:05:07.700 It's just, you have gloves on. And we had separate, like we'd have practices with the team,
01:05:12.380 but in my organization, we had a goalkeeper coach and he was a, he was a former, um,
01:05:18.700 world cup goalkeeper. He had played world cup level and that's all he did. And his role in
01:05:25.020 our team was to coach the two goalkeepers, me and another guy. And that was it. So we got together
01:05:31.540 and we did our own stuff and then we practiced with the team. And then lo and behold, the team
01:05:35.600 works together way better when you've done that. And that's, it's like, the way I think about it
01:05:42.460 is that Eric's type of leadership, gifting, wiring, calling, charge in the church, seat on the bus
01:05:47.960 is that he's doing that
01:05:50.220 and having a lot of meetings with smaller groups.
01:05:53.840 And part of it is so that I can,
01:05:56.200 because so that I can have one meeting with 450 people
01:06:00.380 and preach or teach something else
01:06:05.360 or write something and have a meeting with a thousand people.
01:06:08.500 And the reality is if Eric isn't doing that,
01:06:12.540 I cannot do what I need to do in the organization.
01:06:17.040 And if I'm not doing what I need to do, Eric can't do that.
01:06:21.000 So the dynamic you find, and maybe we could circle here, what we're talking about sounds
01:06:26.940 very corporate and people are like, what about plurality of elders?
01:06:29.940 What about mutual submission?
01:06:31.440 What about all these things?
01:06:32.180 But hang on.
01:06:33.220 One of the deep principles of leadership that we discover, not just in nature, but also
01:06:37.560 in scripture is the variegation of leadership and the types of leadership.
01:06:44.080 and each of those types of leaders
01:06:46.120 interact with people differently.
01:06:47.980 They interact with them in different numbers
01:06:49.480 and the work looks different.
01:06:51.180 You see this in Exodus 18.
01:06:53.260 Exodus 18, when Jethro comes to Moses
01:06:55.300 and he says, Moses, what you're doing is not good.
01:06:58.980 What is Moses doing?
01:07:00.640 Well, Moses has a line out his door
01:07:02.120 from this nation of a million people that he's leading
01:07:04.280 and he's trying to individually judge,
01:07:07.220 basically counsel all million of them himself.
01:07:11.640 And he's like, well, you could see
01:07:14.060 how the temptation might arise. I'm failing the people if I don't love them by meeting with each
01:07:17.740 of them individually. I'm not doing a good job. I need to hear them. I need to serve them. I need
01:07:21.480 to make, make this ruling. God has appointed me as the leader. Jethro says, what you're doing is
01:07:25.840 not good. And what he was missing is that God had actually already created in that nation of
01:07:33.020 a million plus many, many other leaders, chieftains that were waiting for Moses, the leader to call
01:07:39.900 up. And Jethro gave this insight that, that this should forge a lot of how we think of all
01:07:45.300 leadership. He said, God gave some to rule over tens and some over fifties and some over hundreds
01:07:50.640 and some over thousands. So you need to go find those people and deploy them properly.
01:07:55.540 When I also think this is interesting because in Genesis, when God makes everything, you know,
01:08:01.820 there's, there's all this differentiation distinction. You have the day, the night,
01:08:05.060 the sea, the land, everything is in its proper place and proper order. And at the very end,
01:08:09.800 God says, and it was very good. And then you have the reverse to Moses from Jethro when there's
01:08:15.840 chaos and there's no hierarchy, no distinction. And he says, this is not good. He flattens it all
01:08:21.320 out. He's missed. Now a light bulb went off in my mind as we were wrestling on this, even as an
01:08:27.820 elder team in different things, like as our church grows or as, as even a new Christian
01:08:32.900 impressed, you say you need increasing specialization and leadership. And, and it was
01:08:37.640 like, is this businessy? Is this wrong? Is this anti-biblical or anything like that? And we went
01:08:43.920 back to Exodus 18 and the light bulb was, does the leader over a thousand interact with those
01:08:51.820 thousand people the same way that a leader over 10 interacts with those 10? And it was like,
01:08:59.580 they actually can't. Why not? Because they're not God. The leader over a thousand, it's not to,
01:09:05.620 it's not to gas up the guy over a thousand. It's actually, it's actually a limitation that he has.
01:09:10.780 He's not omnipresent. God can meet with a thousand people in exactly the same way. A human being
01:09:16.660 can't. So the leader over tens by the nature of his place, he is going to work much more one-on-one
01:09:23.960 with those 10 people. This is like a father in a household level of leadership. That's the leader
01:09:29.180 over tens. Or maybe it's a leader of a small clan where the heads of, there's 10 households
01:09:34.260 and all the heads of households get together.
01:09:36.320 And there's one guy that's kind of the point leader
01:09:38.320 of those 10.
01:09:39.740 Well, he can know the opinion of all 10 of them.
01:09:42.200 He can have a meeting in a month with all 10 of them.
01:09:44.720 He can have lunch with all 10 of them.
01:09:46.560 He can be in the house of all 10 of them.
01:09:48.900 The second you get to a leader over 50, 100 or a thousand,
01:09:52.420 it's no longer possible for that leader
01:09:54.940 to even meet with all thousand of them the same way.
01:09:58.440 And so here's the, if you require
01:10:00.460 as a principle of your leadership
01:10:02.060 that all leaders interact with the people they're leading
01:10:04.800 in an identical way,
01:10:06.620 you're actually claiming that those leaders over thousands
01:10:09.580 that God, and God made, by the way,
01:10:11.240 leaders over millions, like Moses.
01:10:13.400 Moses was leader over millions.
01:10:15.620 You're actually saying, oh, that leader is like God.
01:10:19.760 He can meet with everybody.
01:10:21.740 In humility, that leader has to recognize,
01:10:25.060 I can't do that.
01:10:26.720 I have to actually lead as a leader over a thousand
01:10:30.460 or 10,000 or 500 or whatever it is.
01:10:32.880 I actually have to lead through mediators.
01:10:35.420 I have to lead through teams.
01:10:36.900 I have to lead through other leaders.
01:10:39.000 Yeah, so we're kind of discovering
01:10:41.340 that there's different kinds
01:10:42.680 and different levels of leadership that's required.
01:10:45.220 And I think particularly in growing organizations,
01:10:47.980 you have to face that reality of scale.
01:10:49.700 Yep.
01:10:50.320 And as you do that,
01:10:51.840 I think one of the things you realize,
01:10:53.800 yeah, just quite naturally,
01:10:54.800 there's guys, we have deacons in the church.
01:10:56.780 They're great.
01:10:57.480 I would call them like sergeants.
01:10:58.900 They know the people well.
01:11:00.460 They're in the camp with multiple families.
01:11:03.140 And then those people will come to us and say, hey, here's three trends we see.
01:11:06.720 And then a lot of what my job is, is interfacing with you and saying like, okay, what are the different levels that we could address that as a body?
01:11:16.520 But I can't go and meet with every single family who has an issue and provide weekly counseling for each one of them.
01:11:23.560 No, it wouldn't actually be. Even in a church of 150, a pastor by himself would have a very hard time meeting with all 150 people in any kind of consistent basis.
01:11:35.240 If you just start looking at the hours in a day.
01:11:37.520 Yeah. One of the other things I think with scale, if you look at our eldership team, I'd say we have kind of a radical concentration of competence.
01:11:47.180 meaning like if you look at somebody like um for a while you know kevin love was one of the newer
01:11:53.100 elders but then i'm like in most small churches in america or many churches like kevin would
01:11:59.800 probably be the lead pastor um and then you look at like ben and ethan they're you know much newer
01:12:05.940 to the elder team but i look at them and i think they could probably pastor a church um but it's
01:12:12.580 unique when you get them all together and then it's kind of a grace too because i think this is
01:12:18.860 why a lot of smaller church pastors just feel this pinch because you're basically asked to do
01:12:24.860 everything even though it's a smaller group of people you're asked to do everything really well
01:12:29.180 yeah and it was kind of drilled in our minds in seminary that like the competent leader can do it
01:12:33.360 all um but there was another ditch too i think outside of competence where you would have one
01:12:40.520 leader who was like not necessarily competent at everything in leadership but very charismatic
01:12:45.400 and what he would do is he would accrue around himself mid to low level manager type yeah guys
01:12:52.480 uh rubber stampers guys who you know really towed the company line well yeah wouldn't push back on
01:13:00.560 him yeah um and what you ended up with were really mediocre movements institutions and
01:13:05.560 organizations and they look like a hyper exaggeration of the strength of that one
01:13:09.860 charismatic leader like high loyalty yeah and the hyper exaggeration of his weaknesses yes
01:13:14.540 deficiencies so i think i almost want to say that was kind of a feature of boomer style leadership
01:13:21.940 yeah it kind of worked maybe in the old world but i think people are starting to drift back to
01:13:28.380 things that are actually more like even think about david and his mighty men i think this is
01:13:33.580 written in nature david didn't run all the mighty men in exactly the same way that they you know you
01:13:39.500 have divisions there's the one there's the three there's yeah different levels of commander and
01:13:45.600 there's a reason even modern militaries have copied that tiered structure of hierarchy it's
01:13:50.140 very efficient the roman empire did this the lord jesus and yeah it wasn't a new thing he had peter
01:13:55.520 he had the three he had the 12 he had the 72 goes out yeah so really helpful uh one of the books
01:14:01.400 Brian, that we'll talk about a little bit more is tribal leadership. This concept of learning the
01:14:10.440 we over the me has been, I think, a painful process at points. I'll give one example. Just
01:14:19.060 when I was in Colorado, I had Hard Men Podcast, started that, had a small following, but there
01:14:25.360 were more people who were saying like, yeah, I'm really interested in what you're saying.
01:14:28.100 um but i was sort of looking at the culture society and particularly the church and i was
01:14:35.280 saying i don't think that me as an individual can change all this um we're talking about tribe but
01:14:42.240 i don't have one and we're talking about building a great culture but you know i haven't really
01:14:48.040 experienced that myself and just in conversations with you and dan i it was challenging to have to
01:14:55.260 say, if I want to do anything great, any lasting legacy changing work, it's going to have to be a
01:15:01.460 part of a team. And so look, there are a lot of people who will tell you this, you know, the,
01:15:06.640 the only ship that doesn't sail is a partnership, right? There's all these warnings, like just be
01:15:12.540 a sole proprietor. It's so much easier. Or just be that individual pastor, build your entire
01:15:18.360 organization with mid-level managers who just say yes, and you won't have conflict. Two things are,
01:15:23.880 I think problematic with this number one, you can't achieve very much, you know, Dan had this
01:15:30.840 saying, you know, it was something like, it's an old slogan, but it's like, if you want to go fast,
01:15:35.020 go alone. If, if you want to build long, go together, like you're going to need a team for
01:15:40.980 these. So that's kind of one of the problems. But then the other one I would say is a lot of
01:15:45.740 these organizations where they built it with one key personality and a bunch of mid-level managers
01:15:50.980 around him they still have conflict they still fall apart you don't actually avoid the thing
01:15:57.120 that you're claiming that you're going to avoid it's just easier to fire people yeah because you
01:16:00.920 can do it alone you can do it with soul discretion correct but a lot of the a lot of the time we we
01:16:06.360 can there's the temptation could be to fire away um things that actually would have helped you
01:16:12.280 yeah because you don't like them because they're unpleasant pushback yeah so you can fire away
01:16:16.860 this is particularly dangerous for pastors because of the a businessman can succeed in business and
01:16:24.480 be fairly immoral and and still make a lot of money and so the business succeeded kind of in
01:16:31.160 the way in what a business is for well maybe maybe it serves the customers pretty decently
01:16:36.080 and whatnot but a pastor who builds an organization such that he's insulated from all criticism or
01:16:43.320 help and just immediately shuts down anybody who might threaten his self-conception, he's really
01:16:52.460 guaranteeing that he will experience the much greater pain of either the Lord's displeasure
01:16:59.960 or total failure. Because it just doesn't work. That's not how God made the church to function.
01:17:05.960 He's going to bring shame on the church. He's going to bring shame on himself.
01:17:09.380 He's ultimately going to disobey God and put himself in the way of God's displeasure.
01:17:16.180 You just, you actually can't, like you cannot do that.
01:17:20.960 And so if you're that, no matter where you are in this, like I think a lot of pastors
01:17:25.920 listen to this, one place to start if you're like, what do I do?
01:17:29.140 Where do I start?
01:17:30.180 Is that you really need to start looking around and saying, who are those leaders of tens?
01:17:34.620 Because God is faithful.
01:17:35.620 He doesn't bring together 500 people in church or 100 people in church.
01:17:39.260 And literally, there's only one guy that can do anything.
01:17:42.060 That's just not how the Lord works.
01:17:44.400 Go find the leader of five.
01:17:45.860 Go find the leader of 10.
01:17:46.820 Find the leader of 50 and start to pour into raising them up in leadership and giving them
01:17:52.980 opportunity and training them and having hard conversations and doing all of that.
01:17:57.160 And also listen to them and learn more about yourself, your weaknesses, deficiencies, needs.
01:18:04.320 Yeah, I also think this is true in a lot of, especially smaller churches at local levels.
01:18:07.980 Maybe you feel kind of isolated, but it's the mistake of just elevating somebody because
01:18:12.260 they're there, not necessarily because they fit a qualification.
01:18:15.740 So one thing I would always tell guys is, look, the thing that you're talking about
01:18:20.480 is pursuing greatness together and you're doing something that is in rarefied air.
01:18:27.320 So you shouldn't expect that everybody whom you have a conversation with is the guy to
01:18:32.680 do it with.
01:18:33.240 yeah we're gonna be a leader yeah i mean like maybe it looks good on paper but it is gonna
01:18:38.380 just like finding your tribe like it's really hard yeah um but it's i guess i would just say
01:18:43.600 it's it's worth the effort we said small front door for the borough small small small front
01:18:48.740 door for leadership way smaller way smaller it's like this big can you fit through this hole you
01:18:54.120 gotta be very you gotta be you gotta be very very selective with leadership slow to elevate slow to
01:18:59.260 lay hands on and even quicker to deal with problems because they will have huge multiplied
01:19:07.400 effects in the people. Yeah. If you don't deal with them. Yeah. See, we need a small front door.
01:19:13.400 We we've talked a lot in this, in this episode, I think we're actually going to need to do a two
01:19:16.720 part on this because the time looking at it, I want to do it justice. So, so maybe we can land
01:19:21.360 the plane relatively soon here and just say this episode, we've talked a lot about team dynamics.
01:19:26.760 we've talked about some of those things keeping intention in teams sell you know the the absolute
01:19:31.880 conviction to lead and the humility to know yourself accurately and then also the courage
01:19:37.320 to help other people learn to view themselves accurately and get on the right seat in the bus
01:19:41.060 this stuff is so huge and not it's not often talked about especially in church leadership
01:19:46.820 because there are so many landmines where you can be misunderstood i think people are scared
01:19:51.340 to talk about these things well i think the other part of it is that just like the boys in the boat
01:19:55.980 right that you have think about the insane amount of discipline and hard work that goes in to get
01:20:01.880 to experience that moment like that magical team moment of we're doing great stuff and i think that
01:20:08.240 a lot of people just aren't it's maybe like working out you start doing some of the hard
01:20:12.180 disciplines you say this is really hard didn't produce what i wanted but just telling people
01:20:16.140 it's going to take years of the hard disciplines to get everybody rowing because that's a lot of
01:20:22.120 seat changes that's a lot of um honing people's skills and sharpening and changing a little bit
01:20:28.040 of job descriptions and stuff like that but it's getting if you could just get people to the point
01:20:32.640 where in weightlifting like you could look in the mirror and say whoa i'm nine percent body fat this
01:20:36.660 actually feels good yeah i'm not after the first workout as a nine percent body fat guy i can
01:20:42.400 really identify with that yeah i'm actually 12 yeah i mean times a few but
01:20:46.780 i think just getting people the buy-in that this is so important if you want to do great work
01:20:54.080 one of the things we'll do brian in the next episode is jump into really the core principles
01:20:59.200 that are driving this and then we'll talk more about the leadership guild and the particulars
01:21:04.220 of like what we actually do yeah nuts and bolts how we raise up leaders who we pick how we why
01:21:09.120 we do it in-house why it looks the way it does because people are really asking okay how do i
01:21:14.520 do this? What, what, what's the next step? How, what can I do in my place? How does seminary play
01:21:19.760 into this versus local training? Yeah. And, and I think we can explain pretty granularly why we do
01:21:25.180 what we do. And, uh, yeah. One of the things I would encourage people to, um, if you have
01:21:30.000 questions about this content or last episode, we'd love to have those submitted. Um, I think
01:21:35.560 they can do that through the podcast channel. Yeah. There's a send us a text button, send us
01:21:39.640 a text. Now we cannot actually text you back, but, uh, we do address these in the patron only after
01:21:46.720 hours. Yeah. Um, so definitely encourage you to do that. We'll be doing that after this, uh, just
01:21:51.240 talking more about some of those specific questions that you have about leadership, about your church
01:21:57.060 organization, whatever it is. So submit those. We'd love to answer them best we can. And I think
01:22:01.760 that'll be helpful for a lot of people. Yeah. Yeah. Well, let, let, let me land the plane then
01:22:06.020 just leave you guys with this encouragement. I know leadership can be really lonely. A lot of
01:22:10.500 you guys are probably neck deep in a lot of the dynamics. You're like, oh, I know what you're
01:22:15.400 talking about there. Yeah, that's, it's not just painful. It's currently painful. Like it's an
01:22:19.740 open wound in my life right now trying to lead this thing. Remember that the Lord went before
01:22:24.720 you in all of this. The Lord is the good shepherd and he's also the head of his church. The Lord
01:22:30.120 walked through this road. He was rejected by men. He was absolutely, he dealt with every single
01:22:36.120 thing that we just listed in the perfect and pure form, sinlessly. And he did that because he loves
01:22:44.280 you and he is your good shepherd. So leaders, don't forget in the course of leading that you
01:22:49.280 are also, you are a son. You are the object of the Lord's affection. He's for you. You can do
01:22:57.320 these hard things and not even stake your eternal hope on the success of them. Cause sometimes we
01:23:01.800 fail. Sometimes it doesn't work. Um, but the Lord is, is on your side and he's using even this,
01:23:07.120 like he's custom made every aspect of our life and the journey of our own leadership to bring
01:23:12.780 us to glory. So if you're in the midst of a really hard season and you're looking at another
01:23:16.640 leader and you're like, why are they killing it? Why is this working so well? And it's not working
01:23:19.760 for me. Just remember that even that is a part of the Lord's kindness for you as a leader.
01:23:23.840 He is making you into the man that he wants you to be
01:23:27.720 And so he made your life to bring you there
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