Did Miller Lite manage to put out an ad even more obnoxious than Bud Light s Dylan Mulvaney campaign? Meanwhile, Target is celebrating Pride Month early with an elaborate array of LGBT themed merchandise. Also, a 300-page report confirms what those of us with brains already knew which is that the Trump-Russia collusion narrative was a hoax. And the Atlantic interviews a late-term abortionist who proudly admits to murdering developed and viable infants both inside and outside the womb.
00:00:00.000Today on the Matt Wall Show, did Miller Lite manage to put out an ad even more obnoxious than Bud Light's Dylan Mulvaney campaign?
00:00:05.960Maybe it's not quite that bad, but it's close.
00:00:07.680Meanwhile, Target is celebrating Pride Month early with an elaborate array of LGBT-themed merchandise, with much of it aimed directly at children.
00:00:15.100Also, a 300-page report confirms what those of us with brains already knew, which is that the Trump-Russia collusion narrative was a hoax all along.
00:00:23.060And the Atlantic interviews a late-term abortionist who proudly admits to murdering developed and viable infants both inside and outside the womb.
00:00:31.020In our daily cancellation, a wife goes on TikTok to air her petty complaints about her husband publicly.
00:00:36.140The video goes viral. What can we learn from all of this?
00:00:38.560All of that and more today on the Matt Wall Show.
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00:01:47.160As Bud Light continues to suffer the repercussions of their experiment with wokeness, another ad campaign from a different beer company has gone viral.
00:01:56.460Miller Lite tried its own hand at Woke Virtue Signaling in a commercial that was first released actually a few weeks before the now infamous Dylan Mulvaney Bud Light can.
00:02:06.100In their case, Miller Lite did not alienate the vast majority of their customers for the sake of appealing to a tiny fraction of trans people.
00:02:13.380Instead, they alienated the vast majority of their customers for the sake of appealing to a tiny fraction of feminists who were offended by beer ads in the past.
00:03:26.620You know, if you're the kind of woman who's offended by ads with bikinis, but you love ads with lots of cuss words, then this Miller campaign is perfect for you.
00:03:35.180And the three or four other people who fall into that demographic.
00:03:39.280The rest of us, however, are left with some questions.
00:03:42.340Questions like, what do you mean that beer companies put women in bikinis?
00:03:48.380Were the women abducted out of their homes in the middle of the night at gunpoint and forced against their will to wear skimpy bathing suits for beer advertisements?
00:03:57.880Or did those women respond to casting calls, knowing what they were getting into and choosing of their own free will and volition to participate in these ad campaigns?
00:04:08.760And if the answer to the latter question is yes, then why would feminists complain?
00:04:14.000So I'm a little confused here because on the one hand, we're told that things like OnlyFans and the porn industry and quote-unquote sex work are empowering for women, allowing them to harness and wield their sexuality to their own benefit.
00:04:28.340And on the other hand, we're told that bikini ads for beer companies are demeaning and dehumanizing.
00:04:37.200There's no way that OnlyFans can be empowering while a bikini ad for a beer company is dehumanizing.
00:04:46.380The answer seems to change depending on the situation.
00:04:49.060Sometimes sexualization is good and it's empowering and sometimes it's degrading.
00:04:54.920All told, feminism basically sells two options to modern women.
00:04:58.940Either they can be empowered and independent by becoming sexual objects, glorified masturbatory aids for men,
00:05:08.020or they can be empowered and be independent by becoming cold and angry and resentful of wrong supposedly done to them in the past.
00:05:16.180These are the two paths that feminism presents.
00:05:18.980Women are urged to choose one path and then jump to another one, someone at random,
00:05:23.460just as long as they never search for a third path, you know, a different option where they are neither sexual objects nor resentful bitter harpies.
00:05:33.900There is that other path that exists, but modern feminism does not want women to choose that path.
00:05:39.620Of course, the question still remains as to how any of this will help Miller Lite sell its product.
00:05:44.760The majority of their customers are men under the age of 45, and just a little bit of a marketing insight I can give you.
00:05:54.060The reason why in the past beer companies used attractive women in bikinis to sell their products is because they're selling the product mostly to men.
00:06:01.700It's men who want it, and men also enjoy looking at women in bikinis, attractive women anyway.
00:06:08.860I mean, pretty simple, but that was the concept.
00:06:11.100It was back in the days when companies had this idea that you should advertise to your audience and your customer base by giving them things that they want instead of lecturing them.
00:06:24.700Back in the old days, that was kind of the marketing, the most popular marketing strategy.
00:06:31.040And, you know, all of their customers, Miller Lite, both men and women, are undiscerning beer drinkers simply looking for a cheap adult beverage option that they can buy in bulk.
00:06:41.100These are people who willingly buy and consume what is essentially alcoholic goat urine.
00:06:47.680It's unlikely that they're going to be able to significantly expand their customer base with this girl power routine.
00:06:55.200But it's not about expanding their customer base, obviously.
00:06:57.600It's about signaling their allegiance to the woke religion.
00:07:00.780Which also explains the other woke corporate campaign that's getting a lot of attention this week, and that is from Target.
00:07:06.540Target is, once again, getting Pride Month kicked off a few weeks early by unveiling their ever-expanding selection of LGBT-themed merchandise, with much of it specifically aimed at children.
00:07:20.220Target unveiled a number of clothing items and accessories, including apparel and books meant for babies and young children, as part of the retail behemoth's latest Pride collection.
00:07:29.860In addition to the adult collection, which included a t-shirt emblazoned with the words, queer, queer, queer, queer, a short-sleeved bright green boiler suit, and a hoodie, which declares, not a phase.
00:07:40.820The company offered several items meant for kids and babies.
00:07:44.080The store is selling onesies and small shirts with phrases like, being proud, and just be you and feel the love, as well as rainbow-colored leggings, tutu skirts, and jumpers.
00:07:54.920Target likewise offers bibs that say, I am proud of you always, rainbow sandals and swimwear, and socks with various LGBTQ-related themes.
00:08:03.720Shoppers with pets can purchase rainbow backpacks, chew toys, treats, leashes, collars, and cat scratchers.
00:08:10.820The retailer has garnered controversy for several years with Pride collections meant to commemorate the June LGBTQ festivals.
00:08:17.560Items sold last year included breast binders, packing underwear, and other offerings meant for self-identified transgender individuals, drawing backlash against the company.
00:08:27.020Now, I should also mention that they're, along with these products for kids, they're also selling LGBT children's books and all the rest of it.
00:08:35.520And if you go into a Target right now, you're going to see all that, as soon as you walk in the store, you're going to see all of that front and center proudly on display.
00:08:44.520The chest binders and the packing underwear, those are items that are still on offer this year.
00:08:51.520Here's a video posted by somebody who seems to be trying to defend Target against claims that it's selling these kinds of things for children.
00:08:59.700So this is someone who's, she's not upset about this, it seems.
00:10:31.100Which means that if you're a parent who wants to dress your son up like a girl and put him in a girl's bathing suit,
00:10:37.180Target has items especially tailored to those, quote, needs.
00:10:42.020Now, it should go without saying that this is far, far worse than anything Bud Light did.
00:10:48.500Target is specifically marketing products for children and putting them on display right in the front of their stores for all to see.
00:10:57.060Target is actively trying to recruit kids into the LGBT camp.
00:11:02.320And Target feels safe doing this even after the Bud Light fiasco because they assume that they can, for one thing, rely on the ubiquity of their brand to cover them.
00:11:12.500They, you know, of course, Target isn't just, it's not just one product in the refrigerated section of the grocery store that you can walk past and get another product.
00:11:22.380No, they sell all kinds of items from clothing to groceries and everything in between.
00:11:26.400So to cut them out to boycott Target would require a level of discipline and sacrifice on the part of consumers.
00:11:35.760Now, it's only a very small amount of discipline and only the meagerest sacrifice, but still it's more than what was required to ditch Bud Light.
00:11:45.800So we could, that's the problem Bud Light ran into is that they discovered that they are incredibly expendable and we can ditch them and you could buy a different beer and there's really no sacrifice at all.
00:12:06.420And lots of people were willing to do that.
00:12:08.780But for Target, what they're counting on is that it's not quite so easy because if you have a Target right down the street and it's got everything that you need and you're a busy parent or something, if you decide I'm not going to go to Target, that might mean that rather than driving 12 minutes down the street, now you've got to drive 17 minutes down the street to go to a different store.
00:12:32.500And that's, that's, that's at least more of a sacrifice than is required to not drink Bud Light anymore.
00:12:43.000It needs the business of the people that it is angering intentionally with its LGBT indoctrination.
00:12:49.840And now it's essentially calling our bluff.
00:12:52.860The company is making the assumption that we will be satisfied with our victory over Bud Light and kind of, you know, leave it, leave it there.
00:12:59.860We have that one trophy on the wall and they're assuming, and just like many other corporations come, come Pride Month, they're going to assume that we're going to be satisfied with that.
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00:19:24.600I'll read this report from The Daily Wire and I'm going to read a little, a pretty good chunk of it because I think that this explains it better than I would if I was just going off the top of my head on it.
00:19:37.180But Special Counsel John Durham, who was tasked by former Attorney General Bill Barr to examine the propriety of the FBI's investigation of President Trump, released a 320-page report on Monday that found that the FBI had no evidence to support a Trump-Russia scandal when it began its investigation and found, quote, sobering differences in how it approached the Trump probe compared to other politically sensitive investigations.
00:20:01.620So this report, in other words, tells us what any sensible person knew all along.
00:20:08.340There was no reason, there was no actual evidence-based reason to investigate Trump for being somehow tied to Russia or some kind of secret Russian double agent.
00:20:20.260Most of us knew that from the beginning.
00:20:22.060And we also knew that they, they, the intelligence community was treating Trump very differently from how they treat other politicians and powerful people who are caught up in scandals far worse than this fake one that Trump was accused of.
00:20:38.920Reading some more, it said, the FBI immediately opened a full investigation based on a brief note from an Australian diplomat recounting that he had a, he had met with George Papadopoulos, a volunteer with the Trump campaign, in which he mentioned that Russia might have information negative to Hillary Clinton.
00:20:55.840Quote, at the time of the opening of Crossfire Hurricane, the FBI did not possess any intelligence showing that anyone associated with the Trump campaign was in contact with Russian intelligence officers at any point during the campaign.
00:21:06.740So, they launched this entire investigation, but there was no intelligence, there was no, not a single shred of evidence that would justify the investigation to begin with.
00:21:22.180Because that's the whole point, you know, investigation is not supposed to be, hey, let's just at random look into this person to see if we can find any crimes.
00:21:31.580There's supposed to be an evidence-based reason to open the investigation to begin with, and in this case there was not.
00:21:37.600The probe later relied on the Steele dossier, which came from a circular loop of people with little insight into Russia, except that some of them had been on the FBI's radar for possible misconduct or ties to Russian intelligence in their own right, it said.
00:21:51.560The FBI knew it was nothing but rumor and speculation, according to the report.
00:21:55.060Quote, upon receipt of unevaluated intelligence information from Australia, the FBI swiftly opened the Crossfire Hurricane investigation, in particular at the direction of Deputy Director Andrew McCabe.
00:22:08.860Deputy Assistant Director for Counterintelligence Peter Strzok opened Crossfire Hurricane immediately.
00:22:13.560Strzok, at a minimum, had pronounced hostile feelings towards Trump.
00:22:17.060And so here we're told that not only did they open this investigation with no evidence, but the people that were involved at the highest levels in this investigation had a partisan bias against Trump.
00:22:33.580This was anyone with two eyes and ears and a brain could see this from the beginning.
00:22:41.000The matter was opened as a full investigation without ever having spoken to the persons who provided the information.
00:22:45.760Further, the FBI did so without, one, any significant review of its own intelligence databases, two, collection and examination of any relevant intelligence from other U.S. intelligence entities, three, interviews of witnesses essential to understand the raw information that it had received, or four, using any of the standard analytical tools typically employed by the FBI in evaluating raw intelligence.
00:23:09.340None of that was done before they launched this investigation.
00:23:11.880Had it done so, the FBI would have learned that their own experienced Russian analysts had no information about Trump being involved with Russian leadership officials, nor were others in sensitive positions at the CIA, the NSA, the Department of State aware of such evidence concerning the subject.
00:23:25.620In addition, FBI records prepared by Strzok in February and March of 2017 show that at the time of the opening of Crossfire Hurricane, the FBI had no information in its holdings indicating that at any time during the campaign,
00:23:37.780had anyone in the Trump campaign had been in contact with any Russian intelligence officials.
00:23:43.240In the 18 months leading up to the 2016 election, the FBI was required to deal with a number of proposed investigations that had the potential of affecting the election.
00:23:51.180In each of those instances, the FBI moved with considerable caution.
00:23:54.880In one such matter, FBI headquarters and department officials required defensive briefings to be provided to Clinton and other officials or candidates who appeared to be targets of foreign interference, it said.
00:24:05.140In another, the FBI elected to end an investigation after one of its longtime and valuable CHSs went beyond what was authorized and made an improper and possibly illegal financial contribution to the Clinton campaign on behalf of a foreign entity as a precursor to a much larger donation being contemplated.
00:24:19.980All right, it's a 300-page report thereabouts.
00:24:22.200You can read, you know, much of it yourself if you want to.
00:24:25.300Although, it will tell you what we already know, which again is that there was no evidence to justify this investigation.
00:24:35.120There was never any reason to even entertain the notion that Trump was in cahoots with Russia.
00:24:45.300And also that this is not how they've treated other people like Hillary Clinton, for example.
00:24:49.360And it's, you know, it's good that this report, after all these years, is now being published and we can see it, I guess.
00:25:16.400Especially the people, the only people who will pay attention to this and actually look into it are the ones who are already smart enough to know that the whole Trump and Russia thing was bogus.
00:25:30.820Those are like the only people that are going to pay attention to this.
00:25:34.940Everyone else, you know, they rely on the mainstream media to get their information.
00:25:38.620The mainstream media is going to gloss over this very quickly.
00:25:41.040And so it's not going, it's not going to, it's almost certainly not going to convince any of the people who in the past were convinced that Trump was a Russian secret double agent.
00:25:54.540And then, and nothing will, there won't be any penalties.
00:25:57.980No one's going to pay a price for this.
00:25:59.880We'll, we'll get all this information in this report about what happened and this, this effort to derail the Trump campaign with these completely bogus accusations.
00:26:17.160And no one is going to pay a price for it.
00:26:22.460But if you're looking for where the, the attacks on our democracy are coming from, this is it.
00:26:32.340This actually is an attack on our democracy.
00:26:35.500It's a, it's an attack on our, on our system.
00:26:39.360And not just because we had these, these department, these, these government agencies that were weaponized against Trump and weaponized against their political enemies.
00:26:50.920That's part of the attack on our democracy.
00:26:53.420But the other part is the effect of that, which is that, which is the total collapse of faith in our institutions and in the government.
00:27:09.940But how do you have a democratic system when nobody trusts it?
00:27:14.540Trust is the, uh, faith, trust, you know, these are the, this is the fuel that keeps everything going.
00:27:22.260And once people get to the point where they just have no faith in any of this anymore, and they see it all as a giant facade, which is what so much of it is, uh, that's when things really start to fall apart.
00:27:33.340Which is what we're experiencing right now.
00:27:34.820Okay, the Atlantic has an article about a late-term abortionist named Warren Hearn, who has been in business for half a century.
00:27:44.060And, uh, I want to just read for you, if I can pull it up, a few choice excerpts from this article and interview.
00:27:52.560The article is written by Elaine Godfrey in the Atlantic.
00:27:55.200Again, Warren Hearn has been practicing, uh, abortions, been performing late-term abortions, uh, infanticide, uh, in other words, for 50 years.
00:28:03.060And I just want to read a couple of excerpts from this article.
00:28:08.040And this, these are, uh, excerpts that were posted originally by, um, John McCormick of the National Review.
00:28:15.300Okay, Hearn is now nearing his fifth decade of practice at his Boulder Clinic in Colorado.
00:28:20.600He has persisted through the, the entire arc of Roe v. Wade, its nearly 50-year rise and fall.
00:28:25.580He specializes in abortions late in pregnancy, the rarest and most controversial form of abortion.
00:28:30.520This means that Hearn ends pregnancies of women who are 22, 25, even, even 30 weeks along.
00:28:37.520Although 14 states now ban abortion in most or all circumstances, Colorado has no gestational limits on the procedure.
00:28:43.800Patients come to him from all over the country because he is one of only a handful of physicians who can and will perform an abortion so late.
00:28:50.820During the conversation and the ones following it, I prodded for cracks in Hearn's certainty.
00:28:55.520At one point, I thought I'd found one.
00:28:57.320Hearn had told me about a woman who'd sought an abortion because she didn't want to have a baby girl.
00:29:25.800Every pregnancy is a health issue, he said.
00:29:27.900There's a certifiable risk of death from being pregnant, period.
00:29:32.060You see there, so when you hear about the life-saving abortions, which are totally mythological, okay?
00:29:38.060Abortion does not, there's never a time when you need to actually do an abortion to save a woman's life.
00:29:42.460But when you hear about the life-saving abortions, this is what they mean.
00:29:47.000What they mean is that theoretically, you know, a woman can die in childbirth, can die in labor.
00:29:55.480There's a certain, as he says, a certain risk of death when you're pregnant, in theory.
00:30:01.440And so for that reason, every abortion is a life-saving procedure.
00:30:04.800Not to mention, you know, which, of course, I guess we're disregarding all of the many risks of death and injury that come from getting an abortion in the first place.
00:30:16.480Continues, in the 1970s, physicians did not induce fetal demise during abortion.
00:30:21.180And once or twice during a procedure at 15 or 16 weeks, he used forceps to remove a fetus with a still-beating heart.
00:30:26.960The heart thumped for only a few seconds before stopping, but for a long while after, a vision of that fetus would wake Hearn from his sleep.
00:30:35.240So there he's saying, that's infanticide, extracting a baby who is still alive and then watching the baby die.
00:30:41.800Abortions that come after devastating medical diagnoses can be easier for some people to understand.
00:30:47.620But Hearn estimates that at least half, and sometimes more, of the women who come to the clinic do not have these diagnoses.
00:30:54.600He and his staff are just as sympathetic to other circumstances.
00:30:59.200Okay, so this is coming right from the horse's mouth.
00:31:02.340This is someone who clearly does not have a pro-life bias.
00:31:07.140And he is saying that at least half of the women who come to him for late-term abortions, okay, these are babies that are, and I hate using this term, but that are viable, okay?
00:31:20.540These are babies who could survive outside of the womb.
00:31:22.820You could deliver a baby at 30 weeks, and that child is almost certainly going to survive.
00:31:30.120With modern technology and modern medicine, delivering a baby at 30 weeks is like, that's no big deal.
00:31:59.840So, according to him, women who come in for abortions that late in pregnancy, at least half of them are not, it's not because of some medical diagnosis.
00:32:16.580It's not because they're going to die if they don't get an abortion, which, again, is totally mythological in the first place.
00:32:23.800It's not because the babies are going to die anyway because of some severe fetal defect, which would not justify abortion even in those cases.
00:32:53.500These are the kinds of stories that we need to be putting front and center.
00:32:58.400We know that on the pro-abortion side, they want to make the entire conversation always revolve around the hardest cases, the rarest cases.
00:33:13.700They don't want to talk about this, even though this is happening all the time.
00:33:17.360I mean, thousands and thousands and thousands of viable, developed infants who could have survived outside of the womb are killed, have been killed, thousands of them.
00:33:36.860And this also shows why this issue of abortion, we cannot abandon it, okay?
00:33:47.360And I know that there are some Republicans who, as far as they're concerned, they want to throw up the white flag and say, okay, we're done with this.
00:34:15.600And if it is a losing political issue, it's not because of the issue itself fundamentally.
00:34:21.780It's just because of the way that Republicans tend to approach the issue.
00:34:27.560That they're too stupid in how they address this issue.
00:34:30.980And they're too stupid to realize that stories like this should be plastered everywhere.
00:34:35.900Okay, we have an abortionist currently in operation right now who is admitting proudly to killing developed infants that could survive outside the womb for no reason other than the fact that the woman just wants them dead.
00:34:50.240So why are we not taking a story like this and plastering it everywhere, shouting about it from the rooftops?
00:34:56.160If this, if this is a losing political issue, it's for that reason.
00:35:02.020Because many Republicans and conservatives are too freaking stupid to realize how we should approach issues like this.
00:54:12.780And I just feel so frustrated right now.
00:54:15.960Because I feel like not only do women bear so much more of the emotional labor, women also have to bear the emotional labor on behalf of other women when their men and their lives don't show up for them.
00:56:00.400The women planned their own Mother's Day dinner because they decided several days ahead of time that the men weren't doing enough for Mother's Day.
00:56:08.080Notice she never said that the men weren't going to do anything for Mother's Day.
00:56:10.780There's no indication that they would or had in the past completely ignored the day.
00:56:14.040But it wasn't enough or wasn't going to be enough, they decided.
00:56:17.680The men in their lives were selfishly distracted with things like work and providing for their families and medical emergencies.
00:56:23.920The stepdad, it seems, had his Mother's Day planning maybe interrupted by a crippling leg injury.
00:56:32.120Now, I'd like to submit a few points for consideration here.
00:56:34.680And the first point is very important, and it's this.
00:56:38.480Whatever the reason for your marital spat, you are automatically the bad guy when you decide to go on the Internet and throw your spouse under the bus.
00:56:49.840Haley already has her mom, her sister to commiserate with.
00:56:53.760And it sounds like the three of them have done plenty of commiserating about this.
00:56:58.980A woman like this also almost certainly has at least a few friends that she keeps in her back pocket so that they can act as sounding boards for her complaints.
00:57:07.180After whining to her mom, to her sisters, her friends, she still has enough complaint energy saved up to go on the Internet and whine to the entire world.
00:57:16.780And what this tells me is, first of all, she has no respect for her husband.
00:57:20.700The fact that she would scold him publicly like this only reveals her own flaws as a wife, and those flaws are deep and serious.
00:57:29.220Now, maybe she does go out of her way to plan elaborate Father's Day events for him, though I doubt that's the case.
00:57:34.460But that doesn't mean much, because for one thing, she's doing it with strings attached.
00:57:39.380She's doing it, well, I'm doing all this for you, so you better do something that I feel is equal to this for Mother's Day.
00:57:46.140And the moment you have that attitude about a gift or about something special you're doing for a loved one, it doesn't mean anything, actually.
00:57:55.660It is the thought that counts at the end of the day.
00:57:57.800And if you're doing something with the expectation that you are going to get the exact same sort of thing in return, it means nothing.
00:58:12.240You're not actually worried about doing something special for this person.
00:58:15.660And for another thing, whatever she gives him on Father's Day, she's not giving him what he needs the other 364 days of the year, which is at a basic level of respect, including respecting his privacy as an individual and their privacy as a couple.
00:58:31.780But the other thing this video shows is that she wants to have something to complain about.
00:58:41.300You don't share things on the Internet unless you want lots of people to know about it.
00:58:45.280And why would you want lots of people to know about your squabbles with your spouse?
00:58:49.980Well, because you believe that it makes you look like a persecuted saint.
00:58:53.840Your spouse's shortcomings are a pedestal for you to step on to elevate yourself in the eyes of the world.
00:58:59.780This is the only reason why you would complain about your spouse on the Internet.
00:59:04.620And Haley basically confirmed this point herself in a follow-up video that she posted a few days after this, reacting to some of the feedback that she got.
01:00:04.340But I think the really sad thing to me about that is those comments are why women feel the need to maintain a facade of perfection around their relationships.
01:00:13.800Because if they do open up about these really significant issues and major points of dysfunction, that is what a lot of people are going to say to them.
01:00:23.340My husband is very actively working on this.
01:01:38.440But she assures us that she has forced her husband into therapy to work on his major points of dysfunction.
01:01:45.160Like not planning Mother's Day dinner.
01:01:47.880That's a major point of dysfunction that is causing her to suffer.
01:01:56.740She also tells us that if he wasn't doing as he was told, she would leave him.
01:02:02.080And why did she decide to share all this with us?
01:02:04.300Well, as she says, it makes her feel seen and validated.
01:02:08.800She's the kind of woman who cannot get enough validation, which is why she seeks it on social media.
01:02:13.940And this also shows us that most likely, no matter what her husband did for her on Mother's Day, it's almost certainly not going to be enough.
01:02:23.000She needs extreme amounts of validation.
01:02:47.340When you're in a marriage and nothing that your spouse does is ever good enough, eventually they will stop trying because they're going to figure it doesn't matter.
01:02:55.440I can't do anything for you without you having a problem with it.
01:03:00.640Now, I don't know if that's the case here, but it is quite often the case, and all signs are pointing in that direction.
01:03:07.380And at any rate, this is a possibility that I think she should consider.
01:03:10.360It's a rule of thumb for everyone in a marriage to keep in mind.
01:03:14.900Whenever you have a dispute with your spouse, if the story that you tell yourself and tell your mom and your sister and your friends and the internet is one where you are 100% the good guy and your spouse is 100% the bad guy,
01:03:29.540a story where you have done everything the right way and they've done everything the wrong way and it's all their fault, that's a pretty good indication that your perception is flawed.
01:03:39.720Because disputes between people, especially people in close relationships, are rarely so simple or one-sided.
01:03:45.500And I'm guessing that if we could hear from her husband and he was willing to share, he would have a great many details to share with us that would make his alleged lack of effort on Mother's Day seem petty by comparison.
01:03:57.880It already seems petty, even without that additional context.
01:04:01.480But we aren't hearing from her husband because, unlike Haley, he is not unloading all of his complaints publicly on the internets as content for strangers to consume.