The Matt Walsh Show - January 13, 2025


Ep. 1513 - Wokeness Is Dying


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 4 minutes

Words per Minute

175.90263

Word Count

11,259

Sentence Count

752

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary

Today on The Matt Walsh Show, Mark Zuckerberg s interview with Joe Rogan is yet more evidence that wokeness is dying, if not already dead. Also, Gavin Newsom flails around desperately looking for someone other than himself to blame for California s disastrous wildfire response. Some college students stage a To Catch a Predator-style sting to expose a 22-year-old man who was trying to go on a date with an 18-year old. And a woman on TikTok goes viral with a video claiming to reveal one of the most important secrets of male psychology. And for once, the TikTokitor actually isn t wrong.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Today on The Matt Walsh Show, Mark Zuckerberg's interview with Joe Rogan is yet more evidence
00:00:03.360 that wokeness is dying, if not already dead. Also, Gavin Newsom flails around desperately
00:00:07.580 looking for someone other than himself to blame for California's disastrous response to the
00:00:11.440 wildfires. Some college students stage a to-catch-a-predator-style sting operation to
00:00:15.860 expose a 22-year-old man who was trying to go on a date with an 18-year-old. It's to-catch-a-predator
00:00:21.180 minus, you know, the predator. And a woman on TikTok goes viral with a video claiming to reveal
00:00:25.480 one of the most important secrets of male psychology. And for once, the TikToker actually isn't
00:00:30.400 wrong. We'll talk about all that and more today on The Matt Walsh Show.
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00:01:58.980 Last week, the news broke that Meta, the company that owns Facebook, Instagram, and, you know,
00:02:03.440 half the internet would be, or claims that it will be, pulling back drastically from its censorship
00:02:08.160 policies. Free speech will reign again on Facebook, supposedly. The CEO of Meta, Mark Zuckerberg,
00:02:13.460 appeared on Joe Rogan a couple of days ago to elaborate on this decision. Much of what he says in the
00:02:19.420 conversation, along with, you know, the entire conversation itself, the fact that he's talking
00:02:23.680 to Joe Rogan, would have been pretty unthinkable four or five years ago, but it's not anymore because
00:02:28.540 times are rapidly changing. Specifically in the interview, Zuckerberg affirmed that there's nothing
00:02:35.240 wrong with a masculine culture in a workplace, and that, in fact, a lot of companies would benefit
00:02:41.240 from it. Imagine that. Watch.
00:02:44.360 For me, it's just, I think a lot of the corporate world is, like, pretty culturally neutered. And,
00:02:54.540 and I just think, like, having, you know, I grew up, I have three sisters, no brothers.
00:03:01.260 I have three daughters, no sons. So I'm, like, surrounded by girls and women, like, my whole life.
00:03:07.280 And it's like, so I think, I don't know, there's something, the, the, the kind of masculine energy,
00:03:14.440 I think, is, is good. And obviously, you know, society has plenty of that, but, but I think
00:03:19.540 corporate culture was really, like, trying to get away from it. And I do think that there's just
00:03:25.640 something, it's like, I don't know, these, these, all these forms of energy are good. And I think having
00:03:31.180 a culture that, like, celebrates the aggression a bit more has its own merits that are really
00:03:37.380 positive. Both of these things are good, right? It's like, you want, like, feminine energy,
00:03:41.580 you want masculine energy. Like, I think that that's, like, you're going to have parts of society
00:03:46.980 that have more of one or the other. I think that that's all good.
00:03:50.520 Now, eight years ago, these are the kinds of ideas that would have, and if you recall the case
00:03:56.060 of James Damore at Google did get rank and file employees fired at places like Google,
00:04:02.260 and now the head of a major big tech company is saying it, even though there's nothing revolutionary
00:04:06.780 here or all that, nothing provocative either. But, but still, now, of course, the obvious response to
00:04:12.800 this interview and the changes that were made at Facebook is that, well, Zuckerberg doesn't actually
00:04:18.480 believe any of this. He's just saying it because Trump won the election and he wants to cozy up with
00:04:22.780 power. And there's almost certainly a lot of truth to that, but it doesn't fully capture what's going
00:04:28.580 on, which is that there's also been a major shift in American culture this time around. After all,
00:04:34.440 Trump won the election back in 2016, too, and Zuckerberg didn't say anything like this. Instead,
00:04:39.500 actually, his companies reacted by entrenching themselves even deeper on the left. And now the
00:04:44.980 exact opposite is happening. In the interview, Zuckerberg suggested that some of Facebook's censorship
00:04:49.860 was the result of pressure by the Biden administration, although he claims to have
00:04:55.040 resisted some of it. Watch. They pushed us super hard to take down things that were honestly, were true,
00:05:04.220 right? I mean, they basically pushed us and said, you know, anything that says that vaccines might have
00:05:11.840 side effects you basically need to take down. And I was just like, well, we're not going to do that.
00:05:19.340 Like, we're clearly not going to do that. I mean, that is kind of inarguably true.
00:05:24.100 Who is they? Who's telling you to take down things that have-
00:05:27.060 Yeah, it was people.
00:05:27.680 The talk about vaccine side effects.
00:05:29.140 It was people in the Biden administration.
00:05:33.100 Now, of course, it wasn't just vaccine side effects, although that's, I mean, that's bad enough.
00:05:38.700 This is important medical information that he's admitting he allowed to be suppressed.
00:05:45.120 But, you know, they also wanted Facebook to censor the Hunter Biden laptop story for obvious
00:05:49.520 reasons. It was a damning account of the Biden family's corruption, and no one could really
00:05:54.040 dispute its accuracy because it came directly from Hunter Biden's laptop. And Facebook went along
00:05:59.240 with that, too, on the ridiculous theory that the laptop was some secret scheme by Russian
00:06:04.420 intelligence. It goes without saying that Facebook and Zuckerberg could have gone public with these
00:06:11.520 concerns at any time in the last several years. They could have said something about it when it
00:06:15.620 was happening. They didn't need to wait until Trump won a second term. So, no, we shouldn't trust
00:06:22.140 Mark Zuckerberg now that he's made a calculation that telling the truth is in his best interest.
00:06:26.960 He had a chance to do the right thing when it would have required some measure of courage to do so,
00:06:31.220 although not that much considering he was a multi-billionaire at the time, which provides
00:06:35.320 you, you know, a lot of cover that most of us don't have. But, you know, Zuckerberg waited until
00:06:39.800 right now. And there's a lot of this kind of thing going around now. People who are seeing the
00:06:45.480 light and coming out against crazy wokeness now that wokeness is a punchline and has no political
00:06:53.160 power and very little cultural power. Now, I welcome these people to Team Sanity. I'm not going to
00:06:58.600 turn anyone away, but I don't trust them. And I certainly won't congratulate them. You don't get
00:07:04.580 congratulated for finally coming around when there's nothing at stake. When, in fact, not only are you
00:07:09.700 not sacrificing anything by stating the truth now, but actually now you finally stand to benefit from
00:07:16.040 it. At the same time, again, Zuckerberg's shift is a reflection of a broader change in the culture.
00:07:21.760 And it's a shift that is quite dramatic in some respects. Here's how the New York Times
00:07:26.620 is reporting on some of the changes at Meta, for example. Quote,
00:07:31.300 the company removed the transgender and non-binary themes on its Messenger chat app
00:07:35.740 that same day at Meta's offices in Silicon Valley, Texas, and New York. Facilities managers were
00:07:40.760 instructed to remove tampons from men's bathrooms, which the company had provided for non-binary and
00:07:46.340 transgender employees who use the men's room and who may have required sanitary pads. This is according
00:07:51.280 to two employees. So yes, tampons have been removed from the men's bathrooms at Meta. Presumably the
00:07:59.140 tampons have also been removed from the virtual bathrooms in the Metaverse too, although I don't
00:08:04.120 have a MetaQuest VR headset, so I can't verify that at the moment, but we can change. This is a
00:08:11.080 this is a sudden change that happened virtually overnight after years of having tampons in the
00:08:18.080 men's bathroom. And the CEO decides one day to end it, and it ends. Now, why did the men's bathrooms
00:08:25.200 ever have tampons to begin with? Why did he ever think that was a good idea? You know, the problem
00:08:31.640 with taking tampons out of the men's bathroom is that it means that you had tampons in the men's
00:08:36.440 bathroom to begin with? Did Zuckerberg believe that men could have periods? And then did he see
00:08:44.020 the lights after reading a, you know, elementary school biology textbook? I doubt it. I think he
00:08:50.260 probably knew it was absurd the whole time. But guess what? There have been no riots at Meta over
00:08:57.240 this change. There have been no massive protests or mass resignations as far as we know. The Metaverse
00:09:03.200 hasn't collapsed. That's because everyone at Meta, including the supposedly trans employees,
00:09:09.660 know that reality is actually not subjective. They know that men do not need tampons. And now that an
00:09:15.900 adult has told them the truth, they're, you know, they're, they have no choice but to basically accept
00:09:22.900 it or at least tolerate it. That's all it really takes for a return to sanity. And it's happening more
00:09:27.720 and more often. To give another example, and we talked about this briefly on the show, I think on
00:09:31.380 Friday. Recently, a federal court in Kentucky handed the Biden administration a major defeat
00:09:36.320 in a Title IX case. In case you're not familiar with Title IX, it's a law that prevents sex
00:09:40.700 discrimination in educational programs, including sports, that receive any kind of federal assistance.
00:09:45.220 At least that's what it's, you know, was supposedly meant to do. The Biden administration unilaterally
00:09:51.600 tried to reinterpret Title IX so that it prevents discrimination on the basis of so-called gender
00:09:56.740 identity. Their rule would have required teachers to use students' preferred pronouns, among many
00:10:04.180 other demands. From a legal perspective, the Biden administration and trans activists thought
00:10:09.320 they had a winning case. And that's because an earlier Supreme Court ruling had held by a six to
00:10:13.480 three vote that a different provision of civil rights law, Title VII, prohibited discrimination on
00:10:19.240 the basis of so-called gender identity, quote unquote, in the workplace. Gorsuch and Roberts sided with
00:10:24.060 the leftist judges to come up with that rather absurd ruling. But last week, a federal judge in
00:10:29.060 Kentucky held that the same logic does not apply to Title IX because Title IX is explicitly focused
00:10:33.200 on sex discrimination and no other form of discrimination. This is the judge's ruling, quote,
00:10:38.260 the entire point of Title IX is to prevent discrimination based on sex. Throwing gender identity
00:10:42.500 into the mix eviscerates the statute and renders it largely meaningless. This ruling will obviously be
00:10:47.700 appealed and it'll work its way up the courts. But as it stands, it could lay the groundwork for a new
00:10:53.100 Supreme Court ruling, one that rejects any attempt to conflate sex and gender within the meaning of
00:10:58.980 the law. A ruling like that would have seemed rather far-fetched not too long ago, but not anymore.
00:11:07.660 And that's because, you know, everywhere, even in places like California, some of the most left-wing
00:11:11.880 places in the country, there are clear signs that a critical mass of people are tired of this
00:11:18.740 insanity. Consider the eruption of anger over California's DEI policies and general incompetence
00:11:25.540 in the wake of these historic fires, which still are far from under control. The corporate press is
00:11:30.840 trying to run the same familiar narrative where they blame racism and climate change. They're
00:11:36.300 attempting to do it. They're covering the base. For example, here's the AP, quote,
00:11:42.260 the California wildfires could be leaving deeper inequality in their wake. The fires also burned
00:11:48.900 through a remarkable haven for generations of black families avoiding discriminatory housing practices
00:11:53.260 elsewhere. They've been communities of racial and economic diversity where many people own their
00:11:58.140 own homes. Yes, that's the real tragedy of the fires is not that they're causing billions of
00:12:03.020 dollars of damage, not to mention killing dozens of people. It's the effect on equality and equity.
00:12:11.580 That's what makes it a tragedy. Now, the reaction to this article online has been, as you would expect
00:12:19.140 now, universal mockery and derision. People are not persuaded by this kind of thing anymore. Well,
00:12:27.500 people never were persuaded by it. The difference is that now very few people pretend to be persuaded.
00:12:33.020 No one talks like this unless they're a journalist for an outlet like the AP.
00:12:38.460 The rest of us are sharing clips like this one featuring the chief of the Los Angeles Department
00:12:42.840 of Water and Power, a very important agency now, obviously, but this is what she was saying not too
00:12:49.780 long ago. Listen. You call it powered by equity, and I know that it's been really important for the
00:12:56.420 DWP to put an equity lens on everything. Yes. Yeah. And that's the number one thing that attracted
00:13:02.940 me to this role. Coming from the communities that I come, seeing what I've seen through my career
00:13:08.380 in utilities and through the military, I've been in the Coast Guard 19 and a half years now, so I got
00:13:13.680 six more months to qualify for my 20 years, which was my original goal.
00:13:18.160 Wow. Congratulations. And thank you for your service.
00:13:20.560 Thank you. Thank you. It's important to me that everything we do, it's with an equity lens and social
00:13:27.840 justice and making sure that we right the wrongs that we've done in the past from an infrastructure
00:13:33.440 perspective and that we involve the community in that process. And this utility is serious about it,
00:13:39.680 it is authentic about it. And so I'm just super excited to be part of that movement.
00:13:48.180 So again, that is the chief of the Los Angeles Department of Water and Power. And what she says
00:13:54.560 is, quote, the number one thing that attracted me to this role is that it's important for me that
00:13:59.320 everything we do is with an equity lens and social justice. Now, it's reminiscent of the aftermath of
00:14:05.640 the Maui fires when a top official talked about how access to water should involve conversations
00:14:10.420 about equity. These are the kinds of clips that have quickly surfaced in the wake of the California
00:14:14.880 fires, and they're surfacing because people are really sick of DEI hires running their cities into
00:14:20.480 the ground. People are realizing that lives are at stake now. That's especially obvious after the
00:14:27.020 discovery that a key reservoir was empty in the Pacific Palisades when the fires began. Quoting from
00:14:31.760 the Los Angeles Times official said the reservoir had been closed since about February for repairs
00:14:36.860 to its cover, leaving a 117 million gallon water storage complex empty in the heart of the Palisades
00:14:42.720 for nearly a year. Now, keep in mind, that's the LA Times with that exclusive reporting. That's, you know,
00:14:48.260 the same paper that called Larry Elder the black face of white supremacy not too long ago. And then, like
00:14:53.840 Jeff Bezos, the Times' owner withheld the paper's endorsement of Kamala Harris in this past
00:14:58.920 election, so they'd focus more on the news. Now they're exposing genuine misconduct and incompetence,
00:15:04.580 no matter how embarrassing and damaging it may be for California's Democrats. You're not going to find
00:15:10.000 a clearer sign that wokeness, as we've come to call it, which really just means the suspension of
00:15:17.700 reality to appease the preferred demographic groups of the Democratic Party, that is coming to an end.
00:15:24.640 Now, it may be coming to an end in part because of self-interested political actors like Mark
00:15:29.700 Zuckerberg, but it is ending one way or another. When Donald Trump won in 2016, that was not the
00:15:37.680 case. But if there's one overriding reason for optimism for Trump's second term, it's that this
00:15:42.560 time around, no one, not even Silicon Valley megacorporations like Meta, no one is pretending
00:15:49.700 to take this nonsense seriously anymore. Now let's get to our five headlines.
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00:17:09.900 Okay. Fires, as I mentioned, continue to rage in Los Angeles. The winds had died down over the last
00:17:15.420 few days, but they're picking up now and the forecast has them projected to continue until Wednesday or
00:17:21.860 maybe even longer than that. The death toll last I saw was at 24, certainly going to go higher. Rescue
00:17:26.700 workers haven't been able to go into a lot of these communities that were burned to the ground. So 24 is
00:17:31.900 just, you know, that's the number. Those are the victims that we know about so far.
00:17:37.680 Just an unfathomable catastrophe. I think it'll probably go down as the worst natural disaster
00:17:43.660 in the history of the United States when all is said and done. And one of the reasons why it may
00:17:50.520 end up being the worst in history is that California, particularly LA, have some of the worst
00:17:57.520 leadership we've ever seen in history. And that starts with the incompetent governor, Gavin Newsom,
00:18:03.040 who did an interview yesterday where he was asked point blank if the buck stops with him
00:18:09.800 in the wake of this catastrophe. And his answer, I'm not exactly sure what his answer was. It's hard
00:18:17.320 to interpret, but here it is. So I want to, all of us want to know those answers. And I just don't
00:18:22.440 want to wait because people are asking me, I want to know those facts. I want them objectively
00:18:27.440 determined and that the chips fall where they may. This is not about finger pointing.
00:18:31.860 You say what to people who insist that these independent investigations are calls for them.
00:18:36.540 Are you passing the blame on to other people?
00:18:38.820 How could it be when we're doing an independent investigation and we just want the adjudication
00:18:43.080 of the facts? As I say, it's not about finger pointing. It's about answering the questions you
00:18:46.880 and everybody wants answered. And I think there's a propensity to wait to answer those questions.
00:18:51.440 And people want immediacy. They want response and responsiveness. And so that's the idea.
00:18:57.000 Ultimately here, does the buck stop with you?
00:18:59.440 I mean, you're governor of California. You might as well be the mayor of California.
00:19:03.840 We're all in this together. We're all better off. We're all better off. We're all better off.
00:19:07.300 And we're working together to take care of people and to make sure people are supported.
00:19:10.920 We're empathetic. And we're here not just in the immediacy of the crisis, but we're here after
00:19:16.600 the crisis as opposed to creating a crisis in the middle of this by trying to divide people
00:19:21.720 and play political, take cheap political shots.
00:19:26.300 Um, what? Yeah, I'm honestly not sure what he, so he was asked, does the buck stop with you?
00:19:31.340 It sounded like his answer was, uh, you're the governor of California. You may as well be the
00:19:39.480 mayor of California. Isn't that what he said? What does that mean? I mean, he's right. I guess,
00:19:46.640 in a sense, the governor of California is like the mayor of California in the sense that the governor
00:19:53.900 holds the highest executive office in the state, like the mayor holds the highest executive office in
00:19:58.980 the city. So I, like, I'm not sure what that has to do with anything. Um, and then he follows that
00:20:04.460 up by remarking that we're all better off if we're all better off. So this was like, this was kind of
00:20:10.280 a combo of a Joe Biden and Kamala Harris answer. So you had the first part of it that was just
00:20:15.860 gobbledygook. You didn't even know what he was trying to say. And then the second part, you had to,
00:20:21.140 you know, a circular answer like that, which is very Kamala-esque. Look, we're all better off
00:20:27.120 if we're all better off, which again is undeniably true. We are indeed better off if we're better
00:20:34.540 off. We're certainly not better off if we're worse off, but these are not really answers to the
00:20:40.240 question because he can't answer the question because he isn't going to say, well, no, the buck
00:20:46.320 doesn't stop with me. It stops over there with that person because that would be very bad optics.
00:20:52.820 You know, a leader is supposed to take responsibility, but he also isn't going to say that the buck does
00:20:56.900 stop with him because he doesn't want to take any of the blame. And he wants to run for president in
00:21:01.880 2028. All he's thinking about is how he can navigate this in a way that won't destroy his presidential
00:21:09.360 ambitions. That's his only concern right now. That's the only thing he cares about.
00:21:15.040 The actual answer though, of course, is that yes, the buck stops with him. He's ultimately responsible.
00:21:21.440 So is the mayor of the city. And this is a disaster that should mean that those two,
00:21:27.820 along with dozens of other government officials, but at least those two lose their job. There should
00:21:32.460 also be criminal investigations. People should go to prison for this. But before we get to that,
00:21:38.280 yes, every high ranking political leader associated with this disaster should be gone. And you know what?
00:21:45.580 We could say that even if we didn't know, as we do, that California made massive cuts to its fire
00:21:53.300 prevention program, $100 million in cuts to that. Even if we didn't know that, you know, they didn't
00:22:00.040 have enough water to fight the fires because of mismanagement. Even if we didn't know that the
00:22:05.100 city of Los Angeles had deliberately made its fire department less competent and less capable because
00:22:10.640 through DEI programs and so on, even without knowing any of those details, we would still know
00:22:16.960 that at a minimum, Newsom and Bass in Los Angeles need to take the fall for this. And we know that
00:22:24.860 because that's leadership. Leadership means, yes, the buck stops with you, which means that when
00:22:29.700 something like this happens, you take the blame. That's the burden of leadership. That's how it goes.
00:22:36.720 That's why the captain used to go down with the ship. Your whole job as the captain is to make
00:22:42.420 sure the ship makes it across the ocean and doesn't end up at the bottom of the Atlantic.
00:22:47.340 I mean, that's not the whole job, actually. That's the starting point of the job. That's like
00:22:53.720 step one. And if that job is not done, that's on you. You could not have failed any more than you did.
00:23:02.080 And same here, your basic, basic job. Again, step one as mayor and as governor is to make sure that
00:23:11.600 your cities still, you know, exist. I would think that that's, there's more to the job.
00:23:21.640 Okay. If you've done your, your term as, as let's go with the mayor, you've done your term as, as mayor.
00:23:30.760 And we want to figure out whether your term was successful. There's a lot we want to look at.
00:23:35.660 But if this, if like half the city doesn't exist anymore after you were in office, well, okay,
00:23:41.140 we don't need to look any further. You, you failed, you failed.
00:23:44.460 And as I said, we would know that even without knowing any of the details, we would still know
00:23:51.140 that because that's what, that's how, that's what leadership means. And if you don't want to have
00:23:56.060 that kind of responsibility, then don't, don't apply for the job. No one forced you to be governor.
00:24:03.480 No one forced you to be mayor. But it turns out that we do know the details, of course,
00:24:09.500 we know a lot of them. And one of the big details, just going back to this is this issue of the
00:24:14.340 reservoirs. And Newsom was asked about that also during this interview. Let's listen.
00:24:20.900 I called for him to come out, take a look for himself. We want to do in the spirit of an open
00:24:25.260 hand, not a closed fist. He's the president elect. I respect the office. We have a president of the
00:24:29.500 United States that within 36 hours provided a major disaster declaration over a text. We had support
00:24:36.560 from the president of the United States, Joe Biden, with a hundred percent reimbursement,
00:24:40.920 all the resources you could hope for, imagine constant communication. I'd like to extend that
00:24:45.840 to the president elect. I don't know what he's referring to when he talks about the Delta smelt
00:24:51.000 and reservoirs. The reservoirs are completely full of the state reservoirs here in Southern
00:24:55.480 California. That missing disinformation, I don't think advantages or aids any of us responding to
00:25:01.000 Donald Trump's insults. We would spend another month. I'm very familiar with them. Every elected
00:25:07.520 official that he disagrees with, very familiar with them. We do know though, from reporting here
00:25:11.500 locally, that that one reservoir that serves the Palisades was not full. And that's exactly what
00:25:15.840 triggered my desire to get the investigation, to understand what was happening with that local
00:25:20.280 reservoir. That was not a state system reservoir, which the president elect was referring to as it
00:25:24.940 relates to the Delta and somehow connecting the Delta smelt to this fire, which is
00:25:29.360 inexcusable because it's inaccurate, also incomprehensible to anyone that understands water
00:25:37.300 policy. Okay. So he says the reservoirs were full. Then the interviewer says, well, what about the
00:25:43.080 other, what about the Palisades reservoir that wasn't full? And Newsom says, oh, well, yeah, except for
00:25:46.900 that one, except for that one. And we're investigating, we're investigating that one. Then he quickly
00:25:51.360 clarifies that the empty reservoirs are local reservoirs, not state reservoirs. So, which
00:25:58.960 means that, yes, the reservoirs were empty. They didn't have the fire, the water they needed to fight
00:26:04.040 the fire. But he says it's not his fault because that was local. And so I guess the buck doesn't
00:26:10.340 stop with him after all. It stops somewhere over there with those people. Don't blame him. He has
00:26:15.900 nothing to do with that, which, which again, you know, like if that's the case, it's sort of either
00:26:22.360 this is fundamentally your fault as the governor, or we don't even need a governor. Like if you had
00:26:30.020 nothing, if you're, if one of your cities can burn to the ground and there's nothing you could have
00:26:34.800 done differently, nothing you could have done differently to prevent or even mitigate this
00:26:41.140 disaster slightly. So why do we even need you? Apparently we don't need a governor in the state.
00:26:51.160 Which is it? Is my question. I want to talk about this. This is a pretty, pretty bonkers story for
00:26:58.400 you. This is from NBC News. It says six college students in Massachusetts were accused of luring
00:27:04.880 an active duty service member whom they falsely described as a sexual predator to their campus
00:27:09.220 where a group of more than two dozen people chased and assaulted him. Authority said one of the
00:27:14.280 students who was charged told police the plot was modeled on to catch a predator, which is NBC's
00:27:19.220 discontinued program that during the three seasons aimed to catch adults who were seeking to prey on
00:27:23.660 minors. Easton Randall 19 says, quote, catch a predator is a big thing on TikTok currently.
00:27:31.520 11 Illinois teens were charged last month in a similar incident. So it's become a TikTok trend.
00:27:37.260 In a statement at the time, the city's police department did not provide additional details
00:27:41.380 about the trend. At Assumption University, which is where this happened, the private Catholic
00:27:47.280 university where the six people charged in a plot are students. There was absolutely no evidence that
00:27:51.500 the man students accused of being a predator had been seeking sex with a minor, the statement says.
00:27:56.160 Still, he was chased by what the statement describes as a mob of 25 to 30 people, some of them recording
00:28:01.360 the pursuit, and ensnared on a conspiracy carried out by a group of six that includes allegations of
00:28:06.620 systemic mistreatment, false imprisonment, physical assault and battery, and potential character
00:28:11.760 assassination. The statement identifies one of the students as a juvenile whose charges are not
00:28:17.660 included in a criminal complaint. Kelsey Brainerd, 18, was charged with intimidation. Okay, so this was
00:28:23.300 some kind of To Catch a Predator style supposed sting operation that these college students were
00:28:27.420 conducting, where the guy was lured into the situation on false pretenses. The only difference
00:28:35.680 is that, if you recall from that show, in To Catch a Predator, the mark, you know, the person who's
00:28:43.980 being lured, first of all, isn't assaulted, as he was in this case. And also, this is the big one,
00:28:51.060 this is the more important one. In To Catch a Predator, the predator is a predator. You know,
00:28:56.320 that's a really important part of this. It's an important ingredient in this recipe, is that the
00:29:01.100 person that you're luring into the situation, because you're catching a predator, is actually
00:29:04.940 a predator. In this case, the guy wasn't at all. So going back to the article, it says, according to
00:29:14.040 the statement of facts, the incident on October 1st was initially reported to university officials the
00:29:18.540 next day when Brainerd said that a creepy Tinder app contact had come to campus looking to meet
00:29:24.520 a 17-year-old girl. That was the initial story. But turns out, a review of Tinder messages showed
00:29:30.660 the service member believed he was meeting an 18-year-old. The woman's profile indicated she
00:29:35.600 was 18. When officers followed up with Brainerd about where the information about an underage girl
00:29:40.220 came from, the statement adds, she could not answer. Okay, so this is a long story to get to
00:29:46.420 the point, which is that the To Catch a Predator style operation here, which was supposedly exposing
00:29:54.760 and punishing a pedophile, was actually targeting a, this turns out to be a 22-year-old man,
00:30:01.660 so the guy that was, you know, lured into the situation and then chased and assaulted and all that,
00:30:05.800 22 years old, and he was attempting to meet an 18-year-old. So if you're a math whiz,
00:30:14.720 you've already done the math on this, and you know, that's a four-year age gap between legal adults.
00:30:20.780 That's what the Justice League had assembled, you know, for. This is the person that they were
00:30:25.900 looking to expose and punish. Now, this story would be just a weird little blurb, if not for the
00:30:32.220 fact that it's part of a larger trend. This is a thing with Gen Z. Not so much the Chris Hansen
00:30:38.660 cosplaying, although that apparently is a thing too. That's a trend now. But more of this hypersensitivity
00:30:46.620 to age gaps. You see this all the time on social media. It's a constant topic of conversation.
00:30:52.840 Every other day, there's some Gen Z weirdo getting hysterical because, like, a 28-year-old man
00:30:59.260 is dating a 23-year-old or something like that. I mean, I'm not exaggerating. That's not a straw man.
00:31:04.100 That's the kind of thing that is now controversial in some corners of the internet, and in particular
00:31:10.540 with some people in Gen Z, that they would really call that predatory. Any age gap at all. I mean,
00:31:19.040 anything more than, like, a year, two years top. Tops. Even that, who knows? I mean, I'm 38 years old.
00:31:26.300 My wife is 37, so I'm not sure if that age gap would pass muster. Who knows? And I've seen this
00:31:35.240 kind of outrage even when both people in the relationship are over the age of 40. You know,
00:31:40.820 you'll hear some story about some celebrity, older males in his 60s, dating a woman who's 40 or
00:31:47.920 something. That gets construed as predatory somehow with a 40-plus-year-old woman. It's that crazy.
00:31:57.180 That's how absurd it gets. But you tend to see it even more in situations like the one in the article
00:32:01.980 where the woman is between, you know, like 18 and 21, and the man is early to mid-20s, sometimes late
00:32:09.120 20s. And that's when they really reach for the pitchforks. And I guess the claim is that there's
00:32:14.020 some kind of inherent power imbalance when someone in the relationship is older. That's how they would
00:32:21.080 justify saying that this is a predatory. You know, because there's nobody more powerful than a 22-year-old
00:32:29.340 dude who just graduated college. Like, that's the pinnacle of power right there, 22 years old.
00:32:34.460 So obviously the reasoning makes no sense. So what's really going on here? Like, why is it
00:32:40.960 suddenly controversial for adults with very modest age gaps to date? Why is that? Now an age gap of
00:32:51.000 four years is considered perverse. Historically, you know, 15 or 20 years was not uncommon. Now four
00:32:56.880 years is considered, you know, somehow depraved, even though, again, both parties are adults.
00:33:08.840 And so why is this happening? I think partly this is the infantilization of adulthood.
00:33:14.260 A lot of these people on social media who think that a 21-year-old in a consensual relationship is
00:33:18.580 being preyed upon are themselves in their early 20s, and they kind of see themselves as children.
00:33:23.940 And so a person their age in a relationship with somebody even slightly older is viewed as a child
00:33:31.320 because that's how they view themselves. That's how they want to view themselves.
00:33:35.060 They don't want to be adults. They'd rather stay in the cocoon of perpetual adolescence.
00:33:40.080 To them, your early 20s is really just a replay of your preteens and teens. So a 22-year-old might
00:33:46.040 as well be a 12-year-old. That's how they see it or how they want to see it. That's part of what's
00:33:51.100 going on. But that doesn't quite explain it all because there's another piece of this conversation.
00:33:55.740 Really, this is a conversation about consent. And the question is whether a young adult
00:34:00.660 can actually consent to being in a relationship with somebody a little bit older. Now the answer
00:34:08.580 to that question is obviously yes. In young adulthood, you are old enough to exercise your
00:34:15.040 free will and make decisions and understand the consequences of decisions. You may still have
00:34:19.600 some immaturity. You may still be prone to making dumb decisions. Doesn't mean you're not an adult.
00:34:25.360 Like I'm a much, much more mature and responsible person today than I was at 24. Does that mean that
00:34:29.880 I wasn't an adult when I was 24 years old? Does that mean that I was indistinguishable from like a
00:34:34.920 seventh grader when I was 24? Obviously not. But here's where things get weird or weirder, I mean.
00:34:41.980 Because the wrinkle is this, that there is, I'm going to guess, probably a 100% overlap between the
00:34:53.860 people who think an 18-year-old can't consent to dating a 22-year-old and the people who think a 13-year-old
00:35:02.820 girl can consent to a quote-unquote gender-affirming double mastectomy. Like 100% of the people who say
00:35:11.480 that a 21-year-old woman is being groomed if she's dating a man who's 27 also would say that a 5-year-old
00:35:21.780 child is old enough to choose and declare his own gender. There's, like I said, there's probably just
00:35:31.300 about a 100% overlap between these two groups. There might be a few exceptions, but for the most
00:35:37.180 part, if you're in the camp where you think, you know, a guy in his mid to late 20s is a predator
00:35:42.960 because he's dating someone who's old enough that they could have gone to school at the same time.
00:35:51.660 You know, if you're in that camp, you probably are also in the camp that thinks that at 15,
00:35:57.180 you know, a gender-affirming quote-unquote double mastectomy is fine. And what does that tell us?
00:36:05.720 It tells us that their notion of consent and their notions of human psychology and maturity
00:36:11.960 and development, all of that, is just hopelessly contradictory and confused. I mean, what it really
00:36:20.180 tells us, and I don't know when you look at these kinds of contradictions, you look for some kind of,
00:36:23.800 and you can't help but look for some kind of, like, philosophical through line. But there really isn't
00:36:32.320 one. It's just these people have no idea what they believe about anything. They just don't know. They
00:36:38.080 haven't thought through any of this. They probably haven't even stopped to consider how you rectify
00:36:44.020 those two things. They've never even, they hold in their minds two notions. One, that a 15-year-old
00:36:51.260 girl can consent to life-altering surgery and that a 21-year-old woman can't consent to, like, dating
00:36:58.720 someone a few years older than them. They hold those ideas in their head simultaneously and have
00:37:03.900 probably never even noticed that they hold them simultaneously. That's the only way that this kind of
00:37:12.220 logical disconnect can exist is if you have a, just a pathological lack of self-reflection.
00:37:23.280 And I think that's really what lies at the bottom of a lot of this stuff.
00:37:30.740 Finally, before we get to the comment section, here's a pretty rough video, but also kind of funny.
00:37:34.680 Mayor Brandon Johnson in Chicago was at some kind of event recently where he was asked,
00:37:38.360 quite simply, why his constituents hate him so much. It's a valid question. Good question. Not a
00:37:46.000 fun question to be asked, I imagine, but his answer was not so good. Let's listen.
00:37:51.440 To the front again. Hello. Thank you to the IOP for having this event. Thank you, Mayor Johnson,
00:37:55.820 for being here. My name is Tyler Shasteen. I'm a third year studying economics and law letters in
00:38:01.200 society. And in March, I was elected as the Republican Committeeman for the Fifth Ward of Chicago,
00:38:05.880 which is where we're at today. I wanted to ask, you know, it was brought up earlier in 2023,
00:38:11.880 you were elected a little over 52% of the vote in the mayorals race. But in the most recent poll of
00:38:19.000 Chicago voters that you had a 14% approval rating with a 70% disapproval rating. I know you mentioned
00:38:26.120 that there's a lot of numbers that you care about and that you were pointing to things that you are
00:38:30.920 talking about doing for the city. But in a democracy, what really matters is how the voters perceive
00:38:35.260 your administration's work. So why are you so unpopular?
00:38:41.440 Well, I mean, look, you know, fortunately for me,
00:38:46.840 that I'm not moved by polls. They're a snapshot at a point of time. Like, people have their expression
00:38:59.380 opinion of whether or not, you know, we should hire more young people. You know, people have an opinion
00:39:06.760 of whether or not we should open up mental health clinics. Clearly people have an opinion on whether
00:39:11.180 or not we should, you know, stay to international and national law. That people have those opinions. You
00:39:24.500 know, and, you know, I can say this emphatically. I was elected to build a better, stronger, safer Chicago.
00:39:32.960 And I will stop at nothing to ensure that that happens.
00:39:39.140 So he has no idea how to respond. His answer makes no sense. He starts babbling about how people have
00:39:45.140 different opinions about, you know, whether we should hire young people or stay to international
00:39:50.300 and national law. What does that mean? You know, what's he even getting at? I don't know. I guess he's
00:39:57.620 implying that his constituents who don't like him have a problem with the fact that he hires young
00:40:02.420 people and respects international law. What does being the mayor of Chicago have to do with
00:40:08.180 international law? None of it makes any sense. It's total gibberish. I'm always amazed, kind of,
00:40:15.420 kind of amazed by these moments. I shouldn't be, but I am, because you know that you're going to be
00:40:20.840 talking, you're going to be taking questions at this event. I assume that this was not a surprise to him.
00:40:25.660 And you know, you must know, you should know that you're extremely unpopular with the voters.
00:40:34.200 So how do you not know that there will be questions on that topic? How are you not expecting this stuff?
00:40:39.460 How do you not have a canned answer ready? Now, it used to be with politicians that they always had a
00:40:47.520 canned answer ready to anything, and that can be frustrating. But now, with this even lower tier of
00:40:55.020 politician, where politicians are getting dumber and dumber, now you're almost frustrated that you
00:41:01.540 don't have, that they don't have a canned answer ready. It's like, how do you, don't you just have
00:41:08.100 something prepared for that kind of question? How do you not? They seem genuinely, now they, these
00:41:18.100 politicians often seem genuinely caught off guard. I mean, we just saw it with Gavin Newsom, when he was
00:41:25.080 asked, does the buck stop with you? Like, do you, is this, and he stumbles, he gives an answer that
00:41:31.140 literally means nothing. He's fumbling around for anything to say. And again, it's, if you didn't know
00:41:37.120 any better, it would be sort of shocking, because you think, well, how, you must know that that question is
00:41:42.280 going to be asked. And so you must, how did you not go into this with something prepared, just 30 seconds
00:41:48.300 away of, you know, giving, deflecting away from it in a way that is not super obvious.
00:41:57.600 And yet, these politicians aren't, and that's because they really are just, it's a cliche to say
00:42:01.920 they're out of touch, but they really are. And the other thing is this, you know, the other reason
00:42:07.960 Democrats in particular get really flummoxed when you ask questions like this, is that they pretend
00:42:12.760 to idolize democracy. They talk incessantly about defending and preserving democracy. But then what
00:42:18.740 happens when the vast majority of people hate you? Your pro-democracy convictions oblige you to
00:42:24.240 take those people seriously and to defer to their judgment. But of course, Brandon Johnson doesn't want
00:42:29.780 to do that. He can't do that. He can't say, yeah, listen, I respect the will of the people. So if people
00:42:35.900 say that I'm awful, I must be. He can't say that. So instead, we get this nonsense. Let's get to the
00:42:42.160 comment section.
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00:43:58.000 the smartest way to hire. I'm a small female, and if I was in an emergency situation, I wouldn't want
00:44:04.240 to see anybody like me trying to help. Well, that's your internalized misogyny talking. If you're
00:44:10.220 trapped in a burning building, you should be praying for a female even smaller than you
00:44:14.720 to show up. If you were really committed to equality and equity, that's how you would see it.
00:44:19.980 Never have I ever felt the need to see someone who looks like me in any situation whatsoever.
00:44:30.860 Yeah, well, right. I mean, that's normal people don't look at it like that
00:44:34.180 because you're not looking to be represented. I mean, this is part of the wokeness and the left,
00:44:43.100 leftism is, in every situation, the most important thing is that people feel represented.
00:44:51.420 Even though in most areas of life, feeling represented is totally irrelevant,
00:45:00.140 especially in an emergency, but really in any situation where there's a task and it just needs
00:45:06.760 to get done. In any situation like that, feeling represented is completely irrelevant, and no
00:45:13.320 normal person is even thinking along those terms. If you, which isn't to say that you might not make,
00:45:22.760 you might still make cursory judgments, you know, based on appearance in certain situations,
00:45:32.740 but it's not because you want to feel represented. I mean, I've said many times
00:45:35.640 on a, when I'm getting on an airplane, and I think everyone does this, most people won't admit it,
00:45:42.340 but if you get a look at the captain, you know, if you get a look at who's sitting in the cockpit,
00:45:48.900 there's a certain look you prefer that makes you feel safer. But it's not because you feel
00:45:54.420 represented. I don't need to feel represented. In fact, I don't want to be represented because I'm 38,
00:45:59.620 38. And to me, that's still a little bit too young for a pilot. I want the pilot to be
00:46:03.720 between like 45 and 65. That's, that's the age. I'm looking, I'm looking for that, that age bracket.
00:46:14.480 And male, you know, needless to say. Let's see. The timing of I Am Racist could not have been
00:46:20.540 better. People are much better informed when events like this happen. The movie was called Am I
00:46:24.460 Racist, not I Am Racist. So you're banned from the show. I haven't done that in a while, but that's,
00:46:28.940 that's deserving. That was, that's, they're very different titles. I know you just flip one word,
00:46:36.840 but still. I failed the driver's test three times before passing. And ironically, here I am at 30
00:46:44.320 and have never had a speeding ticket and never been in a car accident. I mean, that, that, yeah,
00:46:50.160 that does, that doesn't surprise me because the driver's test has nothing to do with whether you're
00:46:53.860 a good driver. But three times that like the driver's test is really easy. That, that was my
00:47:00.380 whole point. The, the whole, uh, spiel I gave on the driver's test was way too easy. You fail,
00:47:05.760 how did you fail three times? Um, Matt, you say watching childhood movies or TV shows alone as an
00:47:13.680 adult is shameful, but how many times do you listen to music from your childhood slash teen years alone
00:47:18.880 in your car? Be honest. Isn't that the same thing? I didn't say shameful. I didn't say that. I say,
00:47:23.280 I said, it's weird. Uh, it's weird for an adult to spend his own leisure time watching children's
00:47:29.680 entertainment. Yeah. That doesn't mean that an adult can't appreciate and enjoy children's
00:47:35.040 entertainment, but you, you just, you enjoy it as children's entertainment. You enjoy it because
00:47:39.340 it's a great story for your kids. You enjoy it with your kids. Um, I don't know how many analogies
00:47:45.020 or examples I can give to, but like, here's another one. I like playing hide and seek with
00:47:51.120 my kids. I play hide and seek. I play hide and seek with my kids 10 million times. And, um, I enjoy
00:47:56.440 that with them. Now it would be weird as hell if I had some, some friends, some grown men over to the
00:48:03.240 house and I said, let's play hide and seek guys. Okay. That would be strange. All right. If my wife
00:48:11.200 walked into the living room and then one of the guys is like hiding behind the couch,
00:48:15.360 don't tell him I'm here, that it would be weird. That would be a very weird thing.
00:48:20.380 It's not weird for me to play with my kids. It is weird for me to play without them. Uh,
00:48:26.140 so that, that's it with it. But again, some children's movies are great. Great as children's
00:48:30.480 movies. Here's another positive review. I'll mention. I just, uh, just last night I watched
00:48:35.160 with my daughter, uh, my five-year-old, the movie Up, which I'd never seen before. I, you know,
00:48:41.400 of course, of course it came out like 20 years ago, but I hadn't seen it. And it was tremendous.
00:48:45.020 I mean, maybe like the, the best, the best, the best, the first 20 minutes of Ups, probably maybe
00:48:51.980 the best first 20 minutes of a children's film I've ever seen. Uh, it gets a little bit tedious
00:48:56.580 towards the end. Overall, great film, great children's film. I would not watch it alone. I would not
00:49:03.280 sit on my own and watch Up, uh, but with my kids, I enjoyed it. And as for music, you're really only
00:49:10.640 proving my point because there's a lot of music that I liked as a kid that I absolutely would not
00:49:16.840 listen to now. Um, my tastes have changed. They've matured. I've changed and matured. Now, don't get me
00:49:23.140 wrong. I can still listen to nineties music. It was a great era for music. Plenty of songs from that
00:49:28.900 era were just high quality songs for anyone of any age. I can still listen to that, but
00:49:33.620 there's plenty of stuff I listened to when I was 17 that now if I hear it again, I'm like, wow,
00:49:40.160 this is trash. This is awful. And if you never do that, if you never find yourself in a position
00:49:49.180 where you watch or listen to something that you liked when you were a teenager and thought to
00:49:54.300 yourself, man, this is terrible now. I can't, I don't know how I enjoyed it. If that never happens
00:49:59.080 with you, it means either that you had impeccably mature tastes from birth, which is very unlikely,
00:50:07.500 or it means that your tastes have not matured at all. Uh, it, which, but they should.
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00:51:02.700 Today we have a viral TikTok video from a woman who decided to share some marriage and relationship
00:51:08.040 advice. Now the twist in this case is that the advice actually isn't terrible. Uh, this is one of those
00:51:13.860 very rare occasions when somebody on TikTok had something not horrifically stupid to say about
00:51:19.180 romantic relationships. One of the few times where we don't have to lament that this video has been
00:51:23.860 viewed millions of times, which it has, uh, because the point she's making here is actually basically
00:51:30.880 true. Watch. This is a hot tip for the ladies. Men love quests. No, I don't. Not all men, but most men, okay?
00:51:40.540 And, and all the men I want in my life, they like quests. Most men hate puzzles, but they love quests.
00:51:47.320 Most men don't want you to be coy and confusing and elusive. They want you to have very clear quests
00:51:52.740 that you tell them, this is exactly what I want. I want you to do this and I will be happy when you do it.
00:51:56.720 A friend was telling me that her boyfriend offered to scrape off her car the other day and I was like,
00:52:00.680 oh, that's so nice. She's like, yeah, I told him not to, but I thought it was nice he offered.
00:52:04.440 And I was like, oh, you told him not to? She's like, yeah, I didn't want to be difficult and
00:52:07.860 inconvenience him. And I'm like, but didn't he happily offer to do it? And she's like, yeah,
00:52:11.840 but I told him I didn't want him to. I'm like, oh, you didn't want him to? Like you wanted to do it
00:52:14.840 yourself? And she's like, no, I would have loved if he did it for me, but I just, I didn't want to,
00:52:18.660 I didn't want to be difficult. And I'm like, honey, you have to remember men love quests. If you don't want
00:52:24.000 him to do something because you want to do it yourself, that's totally fine. But do not squash
00:52:27.420 yourself down and deny yourself for no reason. Instead, let them do the quest for you and then
00:52:32.340 be super appreciative and kind and happy about it. Nothing makes a man happier than completing
00:52:37.240 a quest for you and you being happy and appreciative about it. So when he offers to scrape your car off,
00:52:42.080 say, that would be amazing. Thank you so much. And then when he comes in, tell him, thank you.
00:52:46.080 That just made my day so much brighter. Maybe make him a warm cup of coffee so that it's ready right
00:52:50.280 when he comes in. It's like a video game. Okay. He did his quest and then you gave him a resource
00:52:54.340 in return. Leveled up in the game. He's winning now. You gave him the gift of winning. When a man
00:52:58.480 loves you, nothing will make him happier than knowing he made you a little happier via a quest.
00:53:03.780 Why do you think there's so many memes of boyfriends and husbands filling a girl's water cup? I'll tell
00:53:07.640 you why. It's a quick, easy quest. If the quest involves something that makes him feel kind of
00:53:11.560 rarely and powerful, that's a double points quest. My husband just put together a little vanity for me
00:53:16.220 and I came upstairs and I just started jumping up and down. And I was like, oh my God, it looks so good.
00:53:19.860 And he's just like beaming. Like I did it. Look how happy I made her.
00:53:24.340 Now I'll admit I was slightly distracted by that mysterious substance in her cup,
00:53:28.100 which came perilously close to spilling over the edge multiple times during the video.
00:53:31.940 Not sure what beverage has a yellowish green tint and is consumed out of a mug,
00:53:36.820 but that's a question for another day. I was also trying to listen to her point in spite of the
00:53:40.060 shaky cam cinematography technique she's using. I'm not sure why that's so popular on social media
00:53:45.280 these days. Every selfie video looks like the opening scene of Saving Private Ryan. It's
00:53:49.560 kind of bizarre. But aside from all that, her fundamental point is basically correct.
00:53:55.040 She says that men love quests. Now I think a better term here would probably be mission.
00:53:59.480 Men love going on missions. A quest technically is a long journey in search of something. So
00:54:06.140 you know, you go on a quest to find the buried treasure. You go on a mission to save the damsel
00:54:12.900 locked in the tower guarded by the evil dragon. So these terms are similar, but not exactly the same.
00:54:17.680 What she's describing in the video is more of a mission than a quest. Although men do also love
00:54:23.700 quests. You might even say that a quest is a mission with a puzzle attached, which is why
00:54:28.160 the only thing she got wrong is when she said men hate puzzles. We don't. What we hate are pointless
00:54:34.540 puzzles. We hate having to crack some complicated code when the answer could be easily obtained some
00:54:41.480 other way. This is one of the reasons like I know for me as a man, I actual puzzles in a box. I hate
00:54:47.320 those. I'm not going to do them because the picture of what the thing is, is on the box. It's it is the
00:54:53.360 box. So why do I need to do it? I'm going to spend six hours putting a puzzle together to just recreate
00:54:57.900 the picture. It's already right there. I don't see a point to it. So I don't want to do it in a
00:55:02.960 relationship. You know, a man gets frustrated when his wife wants something or is upset about
00:55:09.520 something and won't just come out and say what it is. That's the kind of puzzle we hate because
00:55:15.140 it's artificial. It's arbitrary. The woman is creating a puzzle and wasting our time and generating
00:55:20.060 frustration and friction needlessly. But if there if there is a puzzle that actually needs to be solved
00:55:27.400 in pursuit of some ultimate goal, some mission, well, then we love that. You know, that's that's
00:55:32.220 a thrill. And this begins at the earliest stages. Pretty much all of a boy's daydreaming and make
00:55:38.020 believe revolves around him going on grand adventures and fighting bad guys and saving the day,
00:55:44.980 which that alone tells you the tells you almost everything you need to know about the innate
00:55:52.660 differences between boys and girls and men and women, starting with the fact that there are innate
00:55:58.260 differences that go beyond the physical. There are also these innate psychological and I would say
00:56:03.040 spiritual differences. I've never maybe every once in a while, you'll have a girl that does this kind
00:56:09.460 of make believe thing where she's fighting bad guys. But it's I mean, I've never even seen that
00:56:14.140 for boys. This just comes naturally. It's all they ever do. And that continues even into adulthood,
00:56:19.540 by the way, in terms of the daydreaming and everything that even grown men do now. And you
00:56:24.360 see it in more everyday ways. Also, the other day, I had to run to Lowe's to get some bags of sand.
00:56:31.000 Not a very exciting trip. Just had to get some bags of sand. My two older boys were begging to go with
00:56:35.960 me. And anytime I run an errand, they want to come because they you know, I got a little mission I have
00:56:41.340 to go do. And they want to come with me. This is also something I've noticed with my youngest sons who
00:56:47.160 just turned two. And because they're two, if you if you kind of shout to them across the room and tell
00:56:53.100 them to come over to you, the response is quite mixed. They might come most of the time, they'll
00:56:58.120 just sort of stare at you uncomprehendingly and disinterested and then carry on with whatever
00:57:02.920 they're doing, playing with trains or whatever. But I found that if I asked them to bring me something,
00:57:08.900 well, then they'll grab the thing and run right to me. Because because, you know, coming over to dad
00:57:13.860 isn't a mission. But grabbing that random object over there and bringing it to dad, that is a
00:57:18.000 mission. So this has happened many times. I'll say, hey, buddy, come over here. Come here. And he's
00:57:22.400 just staring at me. Hey, go grab me that ball and bring it over. And he gets up and runs for the ball
00:57:27.220 and brings it up. This is how this is how boys are wired from birth. Now, the only risk in this idea
00:57:34.220 that men love quests, or as I would put it, men love missions, is that it can take on a patronizing
00:57:40.820 tone. Now, I don't think the woman in the video was being patronizing, but that's where this line
00:57:44.600 of thinking can lead. If you take it the wrong way, you might think that the way to keep a man
00:57:50.840 happy is just to constantly give him little tasks to complete and then clap and pat him on the head
00:57:55.740 like he's a two-year-old who just picked up the ball and brought it to you. That may work for toddlers,
00:58:00.300 but not for grown men. Because a man loves going on a mission for the reason that it has a purpose.
00:58:10.820 And men need to have a sense of purpose. There are two ways to break a man's spirit. One is to
00:58:16.880 give him nothing to do at all. A man with no mission in life is a man in despair. It's one
00:58:22.440 of the reasons why a lot of men retire and then die a year later, because they have no mission.
00:58:27.820 The other way is to give him something to do with no clear sense of why he's doing it.
00:58:33.380 Not having any task to complete can be soul-crushing for a man, but having a pointless task can be even
00:58:39.160 more soul-crushing. A mission is not a mission unless there's an objective. And a man needs to
00:58:43.720 have an objective. He needs to have little objectives throughout his day and then larger
00:58:47.760 ones that he pursues over the course of months and years. A man with no objectives, no missions,
00:58:54.180 is again a man in a state of total despair. Now, bringing this back to the context of marriage
00:59:01.680 and family, this is all really a long way of saying that men are providers. That's really
00:59:07.880 what we're talking about. When she's talking about a man on a quest, she's actually talking about a man
00:59:13.020 providing. And this is why men love quests, as she said, because men are providers. They love to
00:59:19.000 provide. This is the ultimate mission that gives a man, gives his life a sense of purpose.
00:59:25.660 It's the point that lies behind even the tasks that would otherwise seem pointless.
00:59:32.160 Okay, a man sitting in a cubicle and punching numbers into a computer all day
00:59:36.020 may feel like his job has no grand purpose, and maybe it doesn't. But if he has a family to provide
00:59:43.540 for, then that is the grand purpose. And that alone makes the job at least tolerable.
00:59:49.600 Men love quests and missions because we are born to be providers. It's what we need to do.
00:59:55.740 It's what society needs us to do. Now, of course, I'll be told, as we so often are, that women can
01:00:02.540 also provide. And that's true. I mean, a woman can certainly, in this day and age, get a job,
01:00:09.400 earn a paycheck, support her family. That can happen. It sometimes does happen. But women,
01:00:16.420 generally speaking, can also be happy, and I would say most of the time happier, without the pressure
01:00:22.700 of being the breadwinner and provider. And society, as history has clearly shown, can function very well
01:00:28.480 when men play the provider role nearly exclusively. The same is not true the other way around.
01:00:34.680 Most men cannot be happy when their wives are the ones carrying the burden of providing.
01:00:42.300 And the wives cannot be happy either. Not just unhappy. I mean, I would be in agony if I was at
01:00:50.460 home and relying on my wife to support our family. It would literally kill me. And that's the case for
01:00:58.220 most men. I mean, this is why the stay-at-home dad arrangement doesn't work. It can only work
01:01:05.200 if a man finds a way to stifle and suffocate that innate part of himself that calls him to go out
01:01:12.060 into the world and take on the mission of providing for his family. Which is to say, it works only if
01:01:17.040 the man spiritually and psychologically deforms himself. Which is to say, it doesn't actually work.
01:01:23.380 So unless a man is somehow incapacitated or severely disabled in some way, he should not be relying on
01:01:31.600 his wife to provide for him and their children. To choose such a life is shameful. A man can only
01:01:40.000 pretend that he's not ashamed, but the more he pretends, the more his shame comes through.
01:01:44.220 Now, on a societal level, there's no evidence that a society can function, much less thrive,
01:01:50.460 when the women are the primary providers. No such society has ever existed in the history of the
01:01:55.240 civilization, or could exist, for very long at least. And we know that from history. So this is
01:02:03.000 what the statement, men love quests, actually means. It's a basic truth of male psychology, and it's a
01:02:08.840 fundamental building block of human civilization. It's nice that something like that is being discussed
01:02:13.820 on TikTok for a change, which is why the woman who made that TikTok video is not, today, canceled.
01:02:19.240 So that'll do it for the show today. Thanks for watching. Thanks for listening. Talk to you
01:02:21.800 tomorrow. Have a great day. Godspeed.
01:02:29.240 I have often said that gender affirming care is health care, it is mental health care, and it can
01:02:34.340 actually be suicide prevention care. I think I'm gonna take some medicine so I can kind of like
01:02:42.020 transform into a boy, get surgery. After the surgery, I didn't really feel any better.
01:02:48.400 When it stopped being a thing for adults, and it started to be a, let's teach this to kids.
01:02:53.900 Total lie. Manipulation. It's gaslighting. Please stop. He's a boy, not a girl. How could
01:02:59.380 she do this to my son? What they're talking about is hormonal therapy or sex reassignment surgery
01:03:05.280 on children. I thought fixing me externally would fix me internally, but of course I was wrong.
01:03:12.300 The fact that the state thinks that they're more important and have a better say in what happens to
01:03:16.720 your child over the actual parent's opinion is egregious. Puberty blockers, surgeries, big money makers
01:03:22.240 for hospitals, for physicians. All I want to do is hold my son.
01:03:26.000 Are you asking me to lie to parents? And he said, yes. This is an weaponized use of a parent's sympathy
01:03:36.880 and caring and concern by the left to destroy your child. Let's tell kids that maybe they can be the
01:03:43.380 opposite sex. Maybe they actually are the opposite sex. It is an evil thing to tell children that
01:03:50.080 happiness lies on the other side of puberty blockers or double mastectomies. The left so badly wants to
01:03:55.940 blur these lines. That's a five alarm fire. It's criminal.