00:11:02.100Shouldn't he also, and I want to get your reaction to this, because you talk about the fear, and fear is natural.
00:11:10.720There's always going to be fear, you know.
00:11:12.620It's whether or not you let it dominate you.
00:11:14.560And also, I think you have to be willing to take risks.
00:11:18.100And I think that's, in my opinion, that's one of the major roles that a father can play in the life of his sons in particular, also his daughters, but in particular his sons, is to teach them how and show them how to take good risks.
00:11:36.280Now, there are foolish risks that a person could take, but there's also good risks, and a man has to be willing to take risks.
00:11:41.980So when I hear from young men, well, if I get married, here's the long list of awful things that might happen as a result.
00:11:49.700How do I know that's not going to happen?
00:11:51.660You know, if I go and get married to this woman and we have kids, how do I know that 15 years from now she's not going to go and run off with some guy she met at the gym and leave me in ruins?
00:12:00.020And the answer, of course, is that, well, there's a whole lot you can do to guard yourself against that.
00:13:10.260I think one other question for them to ask, if they're like seriously in this predicament and they're not just lying to themselves and thinking about how to think about risk.
00:13:20.240You have to ask yourself the question, if this fails, was it still a good thing for me to do, right?
00:13:29.060Did I become a better person for just trying it out, right?
00:13:33.140And, you know, of course you have to do your calculation, figure, you know, as much as is warranted about figuring out who this person is that you're marrying or, you know, building your financial model, making sure that the numbers make sense before you take the leap into a new startup or something like that.
00:13:51.600But, you know, ultimately you have to say, would I regret the time?
00:13:58.380You know, would I become a better person even if this flopped?
00:14:02.380And I think that's like the ultimate litmus test.
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00:14:59.200One of the great things about having kids is that it's one of those things that once you do it in life, and you have a child, and you love your child, you can never really fully regret.
00:15:16.420There's a lot of things I did in my life prior to having kids that, a lot of mistakes that I made.
00:15:21.440Like, I can't really live in regret about anything because I have my kids, you know.
00:15:29.080And so even to your point, if you go off and you start a family and you have children, even if something goes horribly wrong, and there's other ways.
00:15:40.220It's not just, oh, your wife might leave you.
00:15:43.960But it's one of those things that once you've experienced it, you can never really regret it.
00:15:50.460Because you've been, you're experiencing something that's so objectively good that even if things go off the rails somehow in some unforeseen way, you can't have regret.
00:16:09.740Because the pushback on that that I get all the time when I talk about this, and I'm sure you've heard the same thing, talk about the value of work.
00:16:32.960What I hear is, hey, man, you know, you're telling young men to go out and be wage slaves and to be corporate pawns and to live, to just embrace this life of meaningless drudgery.
00:16:46.260I want more than that out of life, you know.
00:16:52.300Okay, well, I mean, look, it is interesting.
00:16:54.920If you go back and take a look at the ancient world and what they all thought the creation of the world was like, they all said the same thing.
00:17:03.500I mean, think about the Atrahasis, which is like the Babylonian myth.
00:17:07.740It's like bestseller in the ancient world.
00:17:09.660Like if you were a young Christian kid growing up today, your parents probably read to you the beginning of the Bible.
00:17:15.200In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.
00:17:16.940If you were a good Babylonian boy 3,000 years ago, 4,000 years ago, you were being read this myth, which opens up,
00:17:25.400in the beginning, the gods and not the men bore the load and handled the drudgery.
00:17:31.940They're complaining about work right from the beginning, right?
00:17:35.580And you look around at pretty much any ancient myth, and they all say the exact same thing.