00:33:09.400They might identify as such, but you can't actually be that.
00:33:12.480That is not a legitimate state of being that anyone can really claim for themselves.
00:33:18.560And I think with this, with what Trump said there, you see this, obviously, at the highest levels now of the Republican Party, you have the top guy making precisely that argument.
00:33:33.740On the same kind of topic, Lives with TikTok posted this video.
00:33:39.940And according to Lives with TikTok, this person is named Zachary Sandry, a teacher at a school in Texas, a school in Red Oaks Independent School District, to be exact.
00:33:49.020And here he is talking about his, quote-unquote, gender euphoria.
00:33:56.200So needless to say, this is a trans-identified person, a male identifying as female, talking about, he's very happy in this case, how happy he is to be affirmed by his students.
00:34:08.440Hi, I'm Rosie, Texas English teacher and transgender goddess, here with just a couple of thoughts about some gender euphoria that I have been feeling today.
00:34:20.020So for those of you that don't know, gender euphoria is the feeling you get when you finally feel comfortable in your gender, when you, something good happens and it just brings you a lot of joy and calm.
00:34:31.440And it's been happening to me a lot today.
00:34:34.340This morning, when I stopped at the gas station for my morning energy drink, I got manned, which is so funny because I know that there are a lot of women who really don't like being called manned, but I like it a lot.
00:34:45.720It's so new to me and it's so wonderful.
00:34:48.060And it was such a small thing to make me this happy.
00:34:51.340And then at school today, I'm surrounded by kids.
00:34:55.080I teach sophomores and I have these 15, 16 year olds who are completely on board, who, when I told them I had changed my pronouns, jumped right into it.
00:35:26.300So we've talked about the progress that we've made on this issue.
00:35:29.260We still have a long way to go, clearly.
00:35:31.600And the next step, one of the next steps, should be laws that ban people like this from teaching.
00:35:42.280This person should be legally barred from teaching children.
00:35:46.820Now, if we're banning trans-identified people from the military, which is a policy I agree with, of course.
00:35:51.860But if we're doing that and we say, well, they're not, right, it would be a threat to national security to have them in the military if they're struggling with these kinds of very serious mental health issues.
00:36:10.080But then how in the hell are we allowing them to teach children?
00:36:15.700If it's a national security threat to have a trans-identified person in the military, then what kind of threat are we talking about if they're teaching kids?
00:36:25.160Because there are two ways of looking at this.
00:36:26.880When you look at this video and you see this man, either he is confused about the basic facts of human biology, or he's not confused, but he enjoys acting out his fantasies in public.
00:36:45.040In the first case, clearly he would not be qualified to teach children.
00:36:49.400In order to teach, you need to have, at a minimum, a basic grasp of the laws of physical reality.
00:36:55.820Whatever the subject is you're teaching.
00:36:57.220You're teaching some subject that is based in reality, one would hope.
00:37:04.580And so if you don't understand really, really fundamental things like the fact that men can't have babies, if you don't understand that, then there's no possible way that you could be qualified to teach.
00:37:15.040But in the other case, if this guy actually is not confused, if he actually understands perfectly well that men are men and women are women, then that means that this is a kind of role-play fantasy game that he's engaging in.
00:37:28.480And that makes him even less qualified to teach children.
00:37:31.900Children in school should not be sucked into a teacher's role-play game.
00:37:37.580Teachers should not be depending on children to give them a feeling of euphoria.
00:37:40.880Like, I don't want teachers feeling euphoria in the classroom at all, for any reason.
00:39:47.880The son of Snow White producer Mark Platt, Jonah Platt is the son's name.
00:39:51.940He is speaking out publicly against Rachel Zegler and blaming her for the film's catastrophic failure at the box office.
00:39:58.140He wrote a comment on Instagram in response to someone who was upset that his dad reportedly reprimanded Zegler for her antics, you know, at some point before the movie came out.
00:49:50.520We've been divorced for a while at this point, but still, every day I feel gratitude that the father of my children loves actually being a father,
00:49:58.560and I never once have had to thank him for simply participating in parenthood.
00:50:03.540Now, there are many more comments, some quite a bit more vulgar and angry, but all of them are along these lines.
00:50:09.540And as I said, this is a very common attitude these days, which is why it's worth discussing.
00:50:13.100All of these women agree that Inez's husband is doing, quote, the bare minimum, and that it's ridiculous to thank him for it.
00:50:22.100So they all concur with each other that thanking your husband for being helpful is outrageous, and it's a sign that you're some sort of battered wife.
00:50:30.260And then there's that last comment from a woman named Charlotte who recommends not thanking your husband for things, and, you know, you should take her advice on how to have a healthy marriage.
00:50:40.820After all, she's been divorced for quite some time.
00:50:42.780And it has not occurred to Charlotte, apparently, that perhaps the reason why she's divorced is that she never once felt the need to express any kind of gratitude to her husband at all by her own testimony.
00:50:55.600So let me offer a few thoughts, a few things that these feminists might want to consider.
00:51:00.340First of all, a father who helps with the baby at night or early in the morning is, in very many cases, doing a lot more than the, quote, bare minimum.
00:51:14.540Often the father has to get up and go to work in the morning, and that means that helping with the baby at night or in the morning represents a very real sacrifice on his part.
00:51:22.760And these kinds of women, the ones who left the comments, seem to think that if the dad is doing less than exactly 50% of the childcare, then he's automatically doing the bare minimum.
00:51:34.200But none of the roles in a functional and happy household are going to be split down the middle 50-50 like that, which means their conception of what constitutes the bare minimum is completely off base.
00:51:46.940If the man is earning 100% of the income that keeps a roof over everyone's head and food on the table, or even 80% or 70%, but then he's also doing, say, 20% to 25% of the childcare duties, is that still the bare minimum?
00:52:02.940Like, couldn't he just as easily flip it around and accuse her of doing the bare minimum, seeing as how she's doing 70% or 80% of the childcare but contributing nothing or almost nothing to the family income?
00:52:12.600Now, I have no idea if this actually applies to Inez's household or not, but my point still stands either way.
00:52:20.280My point is that there's a lot of work that needs to be done constantly all the time to keep a household running and a family alive and fed and cared for and happy.
00:52:30.080And for all of our talk about being a society that has moved beyond gender roles, the fact is that the man is still the primary breadwinner in a majority of American households.
00:52:42.720And the woman is the primary breadwinner in only a small minority, 15% or 16%, last I checked.
00:52:49.200So all the feminist complaints about men not contributing enough to childcare and to household duties just simply ignore this point entirely.
00:52:56.760They treat the man's role of working every day and carrying the burden of supporting the family as if it's nothing, as if it doesn't matter at all.
00:53:07.760A man can carry the financial needs of the family on his shoulders alone, but if he changes fewer than 50% of the diapers, then he's still effectively a deadbeat.
00:53:19.240But this is the attitude they have, and it's why almost all of them are single or divorced or married yet soon to be divorced.
00:53:27.860Now, in the real world, almost, again, none of the roles in a family are going to be split 50-50.
00:53:34.280And any married couple that insists on portioning the responsibilities out that way will become very unhappy very quickly.
00:53:41.380And almost certainly get divorced before long unless they grow up in a hurry, because marriages with scorecards fall apart.
00:53:50.000And this is true in, like, 100% of all cases.
00:53:54.620Lose the scorecard or lose your marriage.
00:53:57.600And once you lose the scorecard, you realize that statements like, he's doing the bare minimum, are often incoherent.
00:54:07.560Because he might be contributing minimally in one specific area, but he might be contributing maximally in plenty of other areas.
00:54:19.460Who is doing more when you factor everything together?
00:54:22.380Well, if you're asking that question about your marriage, you're basically already halfway to divorce court.
00:54:29.000And if you're asking that question about somebody else's marriage, you're simply a childish moron.
00:54:34.620And second point, putting all that aside, no matter who is doing what, no matter who's earning the money, no matter who's feeding the baby at 7 a.m., no matter who's changing the diapers, no matter what, one thing will always be true.
00:54:48.500It is good to show gratitude to your spouse.
00:54:53.280It is, in fact, necessary to show gratitude to your spouse.
00:54:58.140Whether this was the first time Inez's husband ever got up with a baby in the morning, or whether he gets up with a baby every morning, we don't know.
00:55:04.960But in either case, it is good that she said thank you.
00:55:10.340Wives should show gratitude to their husbands.
00:55:23.860Let's go back to our friend Charlotte's comment again, because I think it's instructive.
00:55:27.240She said, we've been divorced for a while at this point, but still every day I feel gratitude that the father of my children loves being a father,
00:55:33.640and I never once had to thank him for simply participating in parenthood.
00:56:27.840You know, if you're trying to judge how much work your spouse does, and therefore how much gratitude you should have for them, which is entirely the wrong attitude,
00:56:37.040but if you are, remember that you don't see all of it, or even most of it.
00:56:45.220You don't see all or even most of what your spouse is actually doing.
00:56:51.060You know, we hear a lot about the so-called emotional labor done by women.
00:56:56.180You know, we hear this term emotional labor.
00:56:58.640And I object to the term labor, by definition, cannot be done emotionally.
00:57:02.760Labor is something that you physically do.
00:57:04.320But the point of the term is that women carry a lot of stress and a lot of emotional weight,
00:57:10.300especially if they're the primary caretakers of their children.
00:57:14.220And that's the emotional labor, so-called.
01:01:23.380And what you get in exchange for that bare minimum on your part is a husband who feels appreciated and loved and respected and a marriage that is immeasurably strengthened.
01:01:35.220And as a bonus, he'll be even more inspired to do even more and help even more in the future.
01:01:39.940And the same goes for husbands in the other direction.