00:00:00.000Today on the Matt Wall Show, the murder of a white high school student in Texas has led to a long overdue conversation about violent crime in this country.
00:00:06.820A conversation about who is actually committing most of this crime and why, although there are still plenty of people who are very determined to shut down this conversation.
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00:02:09.840There are a few skills that are hardwired into the brains of infants that are so fundamental and so critical for survival that they're operative from the moment of birth, if not sooner.
00:02:19.040And one of them is pattern recognition, which is how infants recognize their mother's faces.
00:02:24.460Even the youngest child is capable of matching a new stimulus with an event that's previously established in their memory and alter their behavior accordingly.
00:02:33.380But a funny thing happened to pattern recognition starting around the middle of the last century.
00:02:38.960Pattern recognition transformed from a fundamental feature of human psychology to something that we were told is far more sinister.
00:02:45.860To paraphrase the author Steve Saylor, a war on noticing commenced.
00:02:50.460And over the past several decades, we've been told that we are not allowed to notice patterns of human behavior.
00:02:56.500And if we do notice them, we must pretend that we don't.
00:02:59.260It's not enough to say that all men deserve equal rights under our Constitution, that all men are created in God's image.
00:03:06.060Instead, it's now incumbent on all Americans, we're told, to affirm that their past experiences and observations should have no bearing whatsoever on their current thought process or future behavior.
00:03:17.520White Americans, who observed that cities were becoming much more dangerous, for example, were not supposed to flee to the suburbs for the safety of their families.
00:03:25.380Rather than engage in white flight, they were supposed to stay put and enjoy the fruits of diversity.
00:03:31.120This campaign has been going on for several generations.
00:03:33.680And as we all know, the cities aren't any safer.
00:03:36.460They're far more dangerous in every respect.
00:04:55.400And again, national media buried the story.
00:04:59.280You weren't supposed to notice that it happened.
00:05:02.520In 2023, there was a similar response, or lack thereof,
00:05:05.500when a white handyman named Lawrence Herr was murdered while he was fixing his elderly mother's mailbox in a suburb of New Orleans.
00:05:12.800We talked about the murder on the show at the time, but no other major media outlet has ever been interested in the story.
00:05:18.380Two black men had taken the day off of their jobs at IHOP in order to find a white person to murder.
00:05:22.860That was their explicit goal, which they later admitted to police.
00:05:26.700They wanted to go hunting for white people.
00:05:29.340And so when they saw Lawrence Herr, they circled the block a few times before gunning him down and leaving him to die in the street.
00:05:35.620No words were exchanged, no altercation.
00:05:39.080Their only motive was that Lawrence Herr was white.
00:05:41.600So these two black men decided that he had to die.
00:05:45.800That same year, a white social worker named Leah Rosen Pritchard was butchered with a hatchet while she worked in a homeless shelter in Vermont.
00:05:52.880And again, not a robbery, not the result of an altercation.
00:05:56.840It was a premeditated murder that was not provoked in any way.
00:05:59.920Now, whatever community conversations this liberal prosecutor in Vermont had in mind, it's hard to say.
00:06:15.940Apparently she can't say either because she never explained what she meant.
00:06:19.580But her general sentiment, at least, is absolutely correct.
00:06:22.100It's time to talk about something that nobody in mainstream politics is willing to talk about, which is why there are so many black people, young black males in particular, committing violent crimes.
00:06:34.520And why they're committing so many crimes against white people.
00:06:38.520Now, for years it's been obvious that this violence would only become more overt and intolerable as a major political party in this country openly encouraged anti-white race hatred.
00:06:47.440And indeed, that's exactly what's been happening.
00:06:49.020The lynchings, as the media would call these killings if the races were reversed, are continuing in broad daylight.
00:06:55.100And they're becoming harder and harder to ignore despite the best efforts of the media.
00:06:59.020And on Wednesday, as you may have seen, the latest instance of black-on-white homicide took place in Frisco, Texas, which is a short drive from Dallas.
00:07:07.240A white 17-year-old high school junior named Austin Metcalf was stabbed to death by a black athlete at a championship track meet, which was being held at a local stadium.
00:07:15.440I want you to listen to how the local media is reporting on what happened.
00:08:21.740But what kind of fight was it exactly?
00:08:23.840Did Austin Metcalf attack his killer first?
00:08:26.920Why exactly would somebody bring a knife to a track meet?
00:08:30.320And where exactly did the murder take place?
00:08:33.340Apparently, none of these questions seem relevant to the local Fox affiliate that aired that report.
00:08:37.660Pretty much all the reporting has been like this.
00:08:39.440You're supposed to gloss over details from the arrest affidavit, which states that the black athlete, Carmelo Anthony, was spotted in a tent that was reserved for Memorial High School, even though he was competing for a different school called Centennial.
00:08:51.140And that's when Austin Metcalf, who was running for Memorial High School, told Carmelo Anthony to get out of the tent.
00:08:57.540In response, one witness says that Anthony opened his bag and reached inside.
00:09:02.120Then he told Metcalf, quote, touch me and see what happens.
00:09:04.800At some point, Metcalf reportedly grabbed Anthony or his backpack to get him out of the tent.
00:09:10.300In response, according to the affidavit, Anthony pulled a knife from his bag, stabbed Metcalf in the heart, and ran away as Metcalf bled out.
00:09:19.080And police say that he then threw the murder weapon into the stands in order to hide the evidence.
00:09:23.460Those are facts that look a lot like premeditation.
00:09:26.020I mean, after all, bringing a deadly weapon into the opposing team's tent during a track meets and then daring them to touch you so you can stab them is exactly the kind of thing you'd do if you wanted to find a pretext to kill someone.
00:09:38.840And of course, if you had just defended yourself in any kind of legitimate way, you probably wouldn't flee the scene and then throw the murder weapon.
00:09:45.160The local news station, you know, they don't want to talk about these aspects of the story because they might lead to some unapproved conclusions.
00:09:53.480It's the same reason they don't show you Carmelo Anthony's recent social media posts.
00:09:57.280And you can look at these two images here.
00:09:59.560As you can see, Carmelo Anthony has an evil grin while extending his middle finger towards the camera.
00:10:05.400In other images, he's hoisting a gun in the air.
00:10:08.140By contrast, here are Austin Metcalf's recent posts.
00:10:10.920He's celebrating that his hard work paid off and that he won linebacker of the year in football as well as team VP and also team MVP rather.
00:10:23.100And just a week ago, he was writing about his faith in God and all the hard work paying off.
00:10:31.780So the contrast could not be more obvious or more predictable.
00:10:34.260Now, the reason these images aren't being played in primetime by every news outlet is the same reason they showed you the childhood images of Michael Brown and Trayvon Martin and so on.
00:10:46.660Instead of the images where they were wearing gold teeth or flashing gang signs, they're trying to short circuit your pattern recognition.
00:10:54.280You're not supposed to notice that posing like a thug and acting like one is a commonly accepted aspect of black culture in this country.
00:11:03.080Everybody knows that's true, but no one's supposed to say it.
00:11:07.640But no matter how much the media tries to deceive us, the fact remains that pattern recognition is hardwired at birth.
00:11:14.880And to prove that point, consider this hypothetical, which I posted yesterday on social media.
00:11:19.120A lot of people were very upset by this post, which is why, you know, of course, I'm going to repeat it.
00:12:07.540The race's reverse scenario would almost certainly not happen.
00:12:12.240Okay, black people don't have to worry about being murdered in cold blood if they say something slightly irritating to a random white person.
00:12:19.580White people have a lot more reason to worry the other way around.
00:12:24.500The statistics on this point could not be more stark.
00:12:29.100And really, any stat you look at bears it out.
00:12:31.800But let's just look at this, for example.
00:12:34.320From 2010 to 2020, as one of my followers pointed out to me yesterday,
00:12:37.920there were a total of 14,689 black-on-white homicides.
00:12:41.860By contrast, there were just 6,148 white-on-black homicides.
00:12:48.000This is in spite of the fact that there are over 200 million white people in this country and only 40 million black people.
00:12:55.020And so that means that, adjusting for population size,
00:12:57.680a black person is approximately 12 times more likely to kill a white person than vice versa.
00:45:46.600Won't do anything that requires any effort.
00:45:48.740In fact, she'll put an effort to avoid doing things for her husband.
00:45:52.240This is a woman who apparently picks through the dirty laundry, puts her husband's stuff to the side, and forces him to do it himself.
00:45:59.760Then she calls it an act of kindness when she buys him a bag of chips at the grocery store.
00:46:03.900Now, why is Paige so committed to never doing anything that might lead to embarrassing accusations that she actually loves and respects her husband?
00:46:11.860Well, because Paige, as the woman in the relationship, is burdened with an enormous, quote-unquote, mental load.
00:46:18.760Now, Paige talks a lot about the mental load.
00:46:21.500She has a mental load explainer front and center on her website.
00:47:28.620But it's a fiction that is apparently very appealing to a large number of women.
00:47:32.480So let's now play the latest video from Paige, which has gone astronomically viral on X.
00:47:37.920It has over 100 million views, well over 100,000 likes.
00:47:41.700Tens of thousands of women are cheering and shouting amen to this video.
00:47:44.720And it is a five-minute rant where Paige tears her husband down, complains about him, belittles him, and reveals that she even considered divorcing him.
00:47:54.980And she offers all of this to the public for some reason.
00:48:52.160And when we have kids, women tend to carry a disproportionate amount of the work in the home, the work of raising kids, and the mental load.
00:49:00.160And that is exactly what happened to us.
00:49:02.460About three months after my fourth baby was born, I remember looking at my husband and saying, I need more.
00:49:28.800Just tell me what to do and I'll do it.
00:49:30.320And I said, okay, you know, something that would make my life easier is if in the mornings when I came downstairs with the four kids, because I do mornings by myself, the dishwasher was emptied, the dishes were put away, and the trash was taken out.
00:49:41.960That would make my life so much easier.
00:49:44.480Okay, now, by the way, just a note there.
00:49:47.500You notice how she says that he asks her what to make for dinner.
00:49:53.160Well, we learned in the other video that this man makes dinner for the family every night.
00:50:30.480And yet she still considered blowing up her family and upending her children's lives because she was frustrated that he wasn't doing chores the way she wanted.
00:50:37.940Now, why would that thought even enter her mind?
00:50:39.880And how in the world could the dissolution of your marriage ever even be considered as a solution for household chores?
00:50:48.060Well, she goes on to explain it all came to a head one morning when she walked into the kitchen only to discover that her instructions had not been followed.
00:50:54.580That was the precise moment when she considered throwing her marriage vows straight into the garbage.
00:51:00.640And there was this one morning where I woke up and I went to put something in the trash and it was overflowing.
00:51:06.500And I went to get my son's water bottle and it was in the dishwasher with all the other clean dishes.
00:51:12.580And I felt so disrespected and unseen and unvalued at that point in time.
00:51:19.640And I remember texting my husband being like, what happened?
00:51:34.140He doesn't care about the impact on me and he doesn't see how every single thing in our home happens because I asked him to do it or because I do it myself or because I planned and organized it.
00:51:45.020The diaper bag is full because I filled it, right?
00:51:55.760Now, the happy ending to this story is that she decided not to divorce her husband because he started doing what she wanted him to do without being told.
00:52:05.060And as she puts it, a woman's love language is not having to ask.
00:52:08.940So she expects everything to be done exactly as she wants, exactly when she wants.
00:52:13.180And she expects all that to happen without having to say it out loud.
00:52:16.920If it doesn't happen, she will seriously entertain ending her marriage.
00:52:22.200And somehow she sees herself as the good guy in this scenario.
00:52:26.620Even worse, thousands of women seem to agree.
00:52:29.600Even though approximately 100% of those women would be furious if their husbands ever came up to them and said,
00:52:38.460Honey, I expect you to do what I want without being told.
00:52:42.520Okay, a man who said that publicly about his wife would be denounced as an abuser by the very same women cheering Paige Connell.
00:52:50.260The glaring double standard in this video and in literally every video this woman makes is just one problem.
00:52:56.960Let's start with the fact, again, that she is criticizing her husband publicly.
00:53:02.080The first rule of marriage is that you do not attack, criticize, or tear down your spouse publicly.
00:53:08.940Much less do you use your spouse's supposed flaws as clickbait on the internet.
00:53:15.060Paige, though, has made an entire brand out of doing exactly that.
00:53:18.100But again, we can bet that if her husband ever made one single video where he spent even one minute offering the slightest critique of his wife, she would lose her mind.
00:53:36.020She desperately wants to feel seen, but I'm guessing she doesn't want to be seen like that.
00:53:40.600Now, Paige insists that she is the exclusive carrier of the mental load.
00:53:46.120All that tells us is that she is a raging narcissist who has never stopped to even consider what kind of mental and emotional burdens her husband might be shouldering.
00:53:55.940Now, we talked about this during a segment last week.
00:53:58.000We often hear about emotional labor in a marriage, which means basically the same thing as the mental load.
00:54:04.540And these terms are always used by and about women.
00:54:09.000The assumption is that men have no mental load, that they have no emotional labor.
00:54:12.340And the reason why some women like Paige have come to that conclusion is that along with being raging narcissists who are fundamentally incapable of showing the slightest empathy for the men they married, they're also confused.
00:54:23.580They confuse their husband's lack of complaints with a lack of things to complain about.
00:54:30.040The fact that he's not saying his complaints out loud is taken to mean that he has no complaints in his head.
00:54:36.420But their husbands don't go around whining about their mental and emotional troubles because they're trying to spare their wives from having to share in their burdens.
00:54:47.460Also because they assume, rightly, that their wives will hold it against them and resent them if they open up.
00:54:54.980If Paige's husband were to actually talk about his mental load with Paige, she's the kind of woman who would flip it around and make it immediately about herself.
00:55:04.220Because suddenly, his sharing of his mental load has only contributed to her mental load.
00:55:10.500Next thing you know, she's filming another TikTok video bashing him while he's at work.
00:56:31.240More than that, if we were solely talking financial reasons, what I've said is oftentimes people leave the work for a short period of time.
00:56:40.760And for me, the short-term cost savings didn't outweigh the long-term opportunity for my career, for my income growth, for my retirement fund, for my benefits, right?
00:56:52.100All of these things that I want to do in 10 years require me to stay in the workforce now.
00:57:19.820But, and this is important to understand, the mental load of your job is significantly decreased if you're doing it essentially for fun.
00:57:32.380On the other hand, if you asked Paige's husband why he works, he would likely give the same answer that almost any husband and father would give.
00:57:40.840Go up to any man, ask him why he has a job.
00:57:42.740Okay, I guarantee you he's not going to say, well, first and foremost, I work because it gives me purpose.
00:57:48.680No, he will say that he works because he needs to provide for his family.
00:57:56.840The pressure and burden of providing for the family still falls primarily on him, even if her income is equal or almost equal or even, even greater than his.
00:58:05.260Because she could quit her job if she wanted to.
00:58:32.560It's like comparing a woman walking a tightrope five feet off the ground to a man walking 500 feet off the ground with no safety net and his wife and kids balancing on his shoulders.
00:58:55.660I want you to listen to this clip from the same podcast.
00:58:57.440It's the last clip of this woman that I'll play, I promise.
00:58:59.120But this short 45-second snippet is too perfect to not share, because the whole problem with this woman and every woman like her is contained in this one moment.
00:59:13.080Okay, Paige, my squirrel brain really won't let it go.
00:59:16.080What dangerous job does your husband do?
00:59:18.700Oh, yeah, he's a lineman, which when I say that people will think football, which is not football, it's an electrical lineman, essentially.
00:59:25.560So he climbs utility poles and fixes electricity.
00:59:27.660And it could get electrocuted any day.
00:59:30.520For you, that's what your brother-in-law does, right?
00:59:52.100So you put the video out saying that you chose to stay in the workforce, take the temporary hit and cost, and you got a lot of, quote, unquote, reaction.
01:00:00.380What was some of the pushback to that argument?
01:00:10.500He's out climbing utility poles, putting his life on the line every day, this incredibly demanding job, while his wife is at home complaining about him on TikTok.
01:00:17.960And then he comes home and makes dinner for the family every night.
01:00:27.420That's one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet.
01:00:29.760And in the middle of Paige whining about all of her mental loads, she briefly acknowledges that point and then pivots right back into whining about people being mean to her on Instagram or whatever.
01:00:41.520Hey, Paige, do you think that maybe there might be some mental loads involved in doing a job with a fatality rate 400% higher than the national average?
01:00:52.400You think the possibility of dying on the job might weigh a bit on your husband's mind?
01:00:57.140You think the mental load that he carries because he might die on the job might even be just a bit higher than the load you carry because you have to write a grocery list?
01:01:10.300He is literally risking his life every day to provide for his family.
01:01:14.000But you insist that the mental burden is carried exclusively by you because you spend more time worried about the dishes than he does.
01:01:20.840Your husband left in the morning to go do a job that might kill him.
01:01:26.080Then you woke up and the only thing you could think about was the fact that he didn't unload the dishwasher.
01:01:32.560You complain about feeling unseen because some household chore wasn't completed.
01:01:36.720Meanwhile, you apparently don't see your husband at all.
01:01:40.300I mean, I've never met the guy and I have a greater appreciation for the sacrifices he makes and the struggles he faces than you do.
01:01:46.100Now, Paige's problem, aside from being monstrously self-absorbed, is that it's the same problem that, thanks to feminism, plagues so many marriages.
01:01:55.940She insists that everything has to be equal, even though equality in a marriage is impossible.
01:02:04.000Yes, women, it's true, often end up taking on a disproportionate amount of the domestic responsibilities.
01:02:11.360Okay, that is millennia of biological hardwiring.
01:02:14.280A woman's mind tends to be more focused on needs inside the home, which is why a woman might tend to be, like, the fact that there's dishes to do, a man can do the dishes.
01:02:25.100But he's not going to be troubled by that fact to the extent that a woman will be, which is not an insult to women.
01:02:32.080It's just women are more focused on that.
01:02:36.020A man's mind is more focused on what needs to be accomplished outside the home for the sake of the family.
01:03:04.160There are things that the wife will bring to the table in unequal measure.
01:03:08.220There are also things that the husband brings to the table in unequal measure.
01:03:11.720Most obviously, as we discussed, in the vast majority of cases, the husband is the financial bedrock of the family.
01:03:16.220He's the sole breadwinner, the primary breadwinner, or even in cases where he's neither sole nor primary, still very often, the necessary breadwinner.
01:04:13.720As a husband, I have absolutely no bitterness about the fact that I carry the pressure of providing for my family and making them feel safe and secure.
01:04:20.820I am honored that I can do that for my family.
01:04:23.460I take joy in the inequalities, in the things that I can do without receiving an equal measure in return.
01:04:30.940And that is the only way to have a happy and lasting marriage.
01:04:34.360You have to accept that your spouse is not the same as you.