Ep. 1702 - The Quality Of Literally Everything Is Declining. I’m Investigating To Find Out Why
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 9 minutes
Words per Minute
175.64656
Summary
Daily Wire Plus is premium entertainment built to compete with the best that's out there, with epic production, cinematic storytelling, and every project crafted with major studio precision but grounded in truth, not trend. That standard comes to life with the Pendragon Cycle: The Rise of the Merlin, a seven-part cinematic epic that premieres January 22nd, 2026, exclusively on Daily Wire Plus.
Transcript
00:00:07.060
Home Title Lock's $1,000,000 triple lock protection
00:00:37.920
from the most trusted voices in conservative media,
00:00:45.340
built to compete with the best that's out there.
00:00:49.020
every project crafted with major studio precision
00:01:36.180
have only had the opposite of the intended effect.
00:01:44.760
Not the kind of story I would usually comment on,
00:56:58.480
podcast gave some insight into his relationship
00:57:06.960
never once had an argument with her with taylor
00:58:05.580
their spouses they feel bad and they ask well is
00:58:09.960
there something wrong with my marriage that i do
00:58:11.740
have arguments with my spouse is it okay that we
00:58:19.080
perfect like taylor swift and travis kelsey so let me
00:58:22.900
say this is it okay to argue with your spouse is it okay to
00:58:27.660
argue in a marriage absolutely in fact you should in fact you
00:58:32.180
should have arguments not all the time not saying you should be
00:58:34.420
arguing every single second of the day obviously but um you should
00:58:38.320
have arguments you you should not it's unhealthy to
00:58:42.300
not if that was true someone say when i never argue my
00:58:47.520
wrong with your marriage something like seriously wrong with
00:58:55.260
have fights that you should not do and that's the distinction it's an
00:59:01.180
maybe escapes a lot of people uh so a fight what is a fight well a
00:59:07.600
fight is when you're trying to hurt the other person that's what a
00:59:10.040
fight is the whole point of a fight is to try to hurt somebody
00:59:13.200
now hopefully we're talking about in a relationship not physically
00:59:17.020
but in a fight you're trying to cause pain and usually
00:59:21.520
in a marriage if there's a fight it's you're trying to cause emotional pain
00:59:26.720
you're trying to make the other person make your spouse feel bad feel guilty
00:59:32.540
feel embarrassed feel um defeated feel uh whatever the objective of a fight what
00:59:40.860
makes it a fight is to hurt that's what you do in a fight
00:59:44.660
and so you should not do that in a marriage now it may happen because you're both
00:59:52.800
weak and ridiculous people as all people are we're all weak and ridiculous in our
00:59:56.620
own ways so it may happen but it should be very rare
01:00:00.140
and it is possible actually to to have a marriage where you just never fight at
01:00:05.620
all and there are people that do a lot of coping the other way
01:00:07.800
where they where they actually get in fights all the time in their marriage and
01:00:11.500
they say well this is just part of being married there's no no it shouldn't
01:00:14.440
be it might be part of your marriage but it should not be
01:00:16.280
it's possible to never have a fight it is actually possible
01:00:20.280
and uh if it is going to happen it should be i don't know
01:00:23.980
once or twice a year at maximum but it is possible to go like a decade
01:00:30.480
and never fight if you're fighting weekly or daily in your marriage
01:00:35.220
then your marriage is in dire shape your marriage is in really bad shape
01:00:40.180
and um it's like it it is uh i'm not gonna say it's terminal but it's it is on
01:00:45.440
it's it's very sick it's on the hospital bed it's it's critical
01:00:49.320
okay it's in the icu and if you have kids you're creating a miserable home life
01:00:54.960
for them and you're just setting a god-awful example
01:00:57.740
so just like knock it off now an argument on the other hand is a
01:01:02.940
discussion where you're both trying to assert your point of view that's what
01:01:05.920
an argument is that's all an argument is you have a point of view the other
01:01:09.780
person has a point of view your point of views are not exactly the same
01:01:12.440
and so you are trying to persuade them of your point of view that's an argument
01:01:17.700
you're not trying to hurt them right because if you're doing that it's a
01:01:22.160
fight you're just trying to sway them in your direction you're trying to get
01:01:26.020
your point across they don't get your point they don't see your point and so
01:01:29.720
you're trying to get them to see your point and it
01:01:33.100
doesn't have to involve yelling and it shouldn't it doesn't have to be angry and
01:01:36.600
it shouldn't be although sometimes it might get a little heated
01:01:38.580
but it you know it's better if it isn't and again you're not trying to hurt the
01:01:43.400
other person the moment you do that your argument has devolved into a fight and
01:01:46.940
now there's nothing productive that could possibly come out of it once it
01:01:50.040
gets to a fight stage the best thing you do is just end it just there's not you
01:01:53.380
can't win there's no winning on either side there's nothing productive that can
01:01:57.440
come out of it and the best thing you could possibly do is just stop just stop
01:02:02.340
and go to bed go to bed angry uh if that's what it takes just just shut up now
01:02:06.180
because you're at your fight stage the best thing you do is just stop um and you know
01:02:12.820
there's the there's the there's the moment that every married person has that thing has
01:02:18.620
those things that they know they could say that will hit their spouse in a sensitive spot
01:02:25.960
emotionally right make them upset make them feel bad make them defensive very often these
01:02:32.300
are the things that you say that start with a phrase like you never or you always
01:02:37.820
right and that's like childish it's you know that's in a discussion with your spouse in your
01:02:44.420
argument you should if you're making any statement that begins with you never or you always you're
01:02:50.880
being immature and you should just shut up because it's almost never true like you know i just said
01:02:55.360
it myself but it's it's almost never the case that someone always or never does something
01:02:58.360
so whatever you're saying that thing and uh and that's that's when the argument starts but or
01:03:05.400
that's when the fight starts but an argument is just asserting your point of view right you're
01:03:09.260
making your point and that's it and you should do that so when someone in a marriage claims that
01:03:16.380
they never have an argument what that tells me if it's true either they're lying or it tells me
01:03:23.320
that one of the members of the marriage usually the man simply never asserts his point of view
01:03:31.260
and just allows himself to get trampled you know a marriage without argument is not healthy a marriage
01:03:39.420
without argument is is a marriage where that's there's indifference there's apathy uh fear of
01:03:45.200
conflict and all that sort of thing and that's usually what it means usually if it's a marriage without
01:03:52.160
argument if that's actually true it's because the man just doesn't think it's worth it to even
01:03:57.320
defend his point of view or even articulate it he doesn't even want to say what his point of view is
01:04:03.620
because he doesn't want to get nagged to death by his wife and so he just allows himself to become
01:04:08.360
he just kind of lays prostrate and submits and uh and that's what happens and this interpretation by
01:04:14.660
the way is borne out in the clip of this exchange uh watch it here you claim that you and
01:04:22.100
your wife haven't gotten in a fight in 10 years that's right are you lying no i'm not lying
01:04:27.200
uh uh travis shall we ask you the same questions well it's only been two and a half years and you're
01:04:36.220
right i haven't gotten an argument all right never once honestly you know neither of us are going to
01:04:43.340
win the argument so why get in it there we go there you go that's a smart man right there
01:04:47.640
what's the secret just not just staying out of the argument altogether dude i'm 64 years old and
01:04:53.720
what am i going to argue about at this point you know i'm like yeah you know i've met this incredible
01:04:58.380
woman that you know is you know she she's uh beautiful and smart and she stands for all the
01:05:06.300
most important things that i believe in in the world and i i can't believe how lucky i am so what am i
01:05:11.540
gonna fight about so he says that neither of them meaning neither he nor travis neither of the men
01:05:18.500
is what he's saying will win the argument so there's no point so that's exactly what i said this
01:05:24.040
is like a henpeck submissive attitude that you might as well never assert your point of view because
01:05:29.020
you're too pathetically weak to actually persuade anyone of it and you're too afraid of making your
01:05:33.580
wife upset and so you're just not going to do it and that is uh you know that is not healthy and
01:05:38.780
it's certainly not anything to brag about and it's this kind of a sitcom dad trope that's still
01:05:42.700
indoors ah you know you can never win an argument with your wife i hear guys say that i'm like why
01:05:49.240
really why not why can't you win an argument i mean it's not really about winning but it's about
01:05:53.160
it's about persuading it's about getting the person to see your point of view really you can't ever do
01:05:57.540
that i've had plenty of arguments with my wife where in the end she solved what i was saying it's
01:06:03.560
like okay i see what you're saying but then there it's gone the other way where i say okay i see
01:06:08.360
what you're saying it happens like really you've never had that happen you can't you've never had
01:06:14.920
like a conflicting point of view from your wife about anything and been able to just like get her
01:06:19.540
to see that point of view really never and cluny says oh his wife's beautiful and smart okay well my
01:06:27.960
wife is beautiful and smart also but even smart beautiful people can be wrong about something
01:06:31.980
i mean you know and um and so you should tell them not by screaming or making wild accusations
01:06:39.960
but by saying hey i think you're wrong about this here's why and unless they immediately just agree
01:06:47.640
with you which they're not going to do because that's not human nature i mean they if they're wrong
01:06:51.660
it's like they think they're right so you gotta you know you're not just saying you're wrong is not
01:06:55.540
gonna be enough you're gonna have to kind of have a discussion but um you should be able to do that
01:07:00.540
in the marriage although sometimes your spouse is also right about things that happens a lot too my
01:07:06.000
wife for example is the one who bought the fish cam fish so that that's uh that's part of the lore of
01:07:14.720
the fish cam i don't know if i've mentioned that but let's go to the fish cam again my wife actually
01:07:19.540
bought this for me uh not even as like a birthday gift or a christmas gift she just came home one day
01:07:26.440
this is true she just came home one day with this giant wooden fish
01:07:30.860
she just came in the room with it and said do you like the fish and i said do i like it
01:07:38.420
what do i like it it's the most beautiful work of art i've ever seen what do you mean do i like it
01:07:44.560
i mean you know the answer to that question i don't know how long i've i don't know how i've lived
01:07:48.940
this long without it that's how i'm feeling do i like it i i've i feel like my life up to this
01:07:55.560
point has been empty because i didn't have the fish in it that's how i feel about it
01:07:59.720
this is what keeps marriages going i think this is what keeps it strong is um
01:08:04.900
having discussions communication and also having a wife who periodically buys
01:08:12.300
giant wood carvings of aquatic animals that's that's our secret i think
01:08:18.620
and there it is and that will do it for uh the show today and this week
01:08:24.480
talk to you next week have a great weekend godspeed
01:08:28.520
hey there i'm daily wire executive editor john bickley and i'm georgia howe and we're the hosts
01:08:43.860
of morning wire we bring you all the news you need to know in 15 minutes or less watch and listen to
01:08:48.880
morning wire seven days a week everywhere you get your podcasts
01:08:51.860
matt walsh show is a daily wire production copyright daily wire 2025
01:08:57.100
matt walsh show is a daily wire production LI notion where john bickley and he doesn't know
01:09:01.540
what到底 design associations is now know and check out hangout and check out the Cocem out