The Matt Walsh Show - October 01, 2021


Ep. 809 - Killing Your Children Is A Loving Act, According To Democrats


Episode Stats

Length

53 minutes

Words per Minute

180.90254

Word Count

9,645

Sentence Count

679

Misogynist Sentences

32

Hate Speech Sentences

37


Summary

Dems and abortion supporters ranted, raved and cried during a committee hearing on the Texas abortion law yesterday. Also, the National School Board Association is asking the Biden administration for help in fighting back against domestic terrorists who are saying mean things to them during school board meetings, and a Republican congressman says some brave and necessary things about family and responsibility during a hearing yesterday. And, plus, Demi Lovato has an encounter with aliens and a New York Times oped argues that divorce is an act of radical self-love.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Today on The Matt Wall Show, Democrats and abortion supporters ranted, raved, and cried
00:00:04.360 during a committee hearing on the Texas abortion law yesterday. We'll talk about that. Also,
00:00:07.620 the National School Board Association is asking the Biden administration's help in fighting back
00:00:11.760 against the, quote, domestic terrorists who are saying mean things to them during school board
00:00:15.940 meetings. And a Republican congressman says some brave and necessary things about the family and
00:00:20.820 responsibility during a hearing yesterday. And plus, Demi Lovato has an encounter with aliens,
00:00:25.960 and a New York Times op-ed argues that divorce is an act of, quote, radical self-love. We'll discuss
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00:01:54.300 That again is LifeLock.com slash Walsh for 25% off. Yesterday, the House Oversight Committee held a
00:02:01.440 hearing about the Texas abortion law. Now, I have been reliably informed that outsiders should not
00:02:07.220 get involved in the local politics of states where they don't live. I solved that problem, of course,
00:02:13.360 as you know, by moving to Virginia so that I could speak at a school board in Virginia.
00:02:16.540 And yet, so far as I know, none of the Democrats in Congress yesterday delivering tearful and angry
00:02:21.760 speeches about the Texas abortion law have actually bothered to move there first. That's because, as
00:02:26.580 we've seen, the outside agitator rule only ever applies to conservatives. I am allegedly not affected
00:02:31.960 by Loudoun County policies, which means I should not have involved myself in Loudoun County issues.
00:02:36.580 And yet Democrats from other states who are not affected by Texas laws can still involve themselves
00:02:41.540 in Texas issues. Those are the rules, as we have seen. And those rules freed up the Democrats for
00:02:47.460 the sickening and theatrical spectacle yesterday. One Democrat after another, along with abortionists
00:02:53.360 and others who were called in to testify, took turns in the spotlight, extolling the beauty and
00:02:59.440 wonder of dismembering babies. They were effusive in their praise of abortion, which is, for them,
00:03:04.440 the highest sacrament, the Holy of Holies, the most sacred of sacred rituals. One of the abortionists
00:03:09.640 called to testify actually made this point pretty clear. Listen.
00:03:14.640 SB8 has not only caused a near total abortion ban in Texas, it has made it extremely dangerous to be
00:03:21.280 pregnant in Texas, where our maternal morbidity and mortality rate is already unconscionably high,
00:03:28.680 especially for black women and pregnant people of color. Texas deserves better.
00:03:35.720 I know firsthand that abortion saves lives. For the thousands of people I've cared for,
00:03:41.560 abortion is a blessing. Abortion is an act of love. Abortion is freedom. We need federal protection now.
00:03:48.500 We need laws that elevate science and evidence and recognize the dignity and autonomy of people
00:03:53.480 accessing care. What a ghoul. What an absolute demon. She says abortion is a blessing. It's an
00:04:00.280 act of love. Freedom. But love for who, exactly? Freedom from what? Well, love for oneself, presumably.
00:04:08.640 And freedom from your child, from your responsibilities. She's correct, at least in one sense.
00:04:13.420 Abortion is an act of self-love. It is, in some ways, the ultimate act of self-love because you are
00:04:19.080 prioritizing your own comfort, convenience, and lifestyle above all else, above even your own
00:04:24.140 child. We'll have more on this concept of self-love in the daily cancellation at the end of the show.
00:04:29.000 Abortion is the high sacrament of leftism because leftism is a religion of the self. It is the worship
00:04:33.100 of the self, which is to say that it is Satanism. So there's a certain truth there. But as for the
00:04:38.500 freedom, that's illusory at best. A woman can kill her child to be free of the responsibilities of
00:04:44.000 parenthood, but she'll never really be free. Abortion kills the child. It doesn't erase the
00:04:49.100 fact that the child ever existed. It doesn't turn the clock back. So while she's free from the
00:04:54.620 responsibilities of motherhood, she will have substituted the strain of those responsibilities
00:04:58.900 with the crushing burden of guilt, heartbreak, and grief for the rest of her life. Even women who are
00:05:06.140 pro-abortion and post-abortive will admit to this, and yet they speak of freedom. It's not freedom.
00:05:12.800 It is rather trading one burden for another. And the new burden is much worse than the one you
00:05:17.900 were trying to escape. And then there was the ancient feminist Gloria Steinem, who testified
00:05:22.880 by video, apparently streaming via camcorder from the year 1994. And Steinem used her time to point
00:05:29.480 out that, hey, you know, Hitler also banned abortion. Coincidence? She thinks not.
00:05:35.180 That's why what's happening in Texas is not only a local issue or a women's issue. It's a step
00:05:42.540 against democracy, which allows us to control our own bodies and our own voices. Remember,
00:05:51.500 when Hitler was elected, and he was elected, his very first official act was to padlock the family
00:05:59.860 planning clinics and declare abortion a crime against the state. Mussolini did exactly the same
00:06:08.940 thing. Because they knew that controlling reproduction and nationalizing women's bodies
00:06:16.880 is the first step in a controlling state, an all-controlling state. The huge majority of
00:06:26.020 American women stand for democracy and in opposition to Texas Senate Bill 8. We do not want to have our
00:06:35.720 bodies nationalized. So Texas making its own laws is an attack on democracy, but Congress trying to
00:06:43.160 erase or undermine those laws from the federal position is not. But she says Hitler banned abortion.
00:06:53.680 And I guess that means that pro-lifers are Nazis. Of course, Hitler was also a conservationist.
00:06:58.480 He was also an environmentalist, which means that they're all Nazis too. And Hitler confiscated guns,
00:07:02.860 which makes the gun control crowd Nazis. Hitler also sometimes, from what I understand,
00:07:06.980 would eat cereal for breakfast. This casts sinister new light on anybody who's ever had a
00:07:11.580 bowl of fruity pebbles. As for Hitler's abortion policy, Steinem is leaving out an important detail.
00:07:17.900 Hitler banned abortion for ethnic Germans. He didn't want babies of the master race to be killed,
00:07:25.060 but he felt very different about babies of the undesirable races. For them,
00:07:30.120 he encouraged abortion or even mandated it. You see, Hitler believed in eugenics. So did Margaret
00:07:35.380 Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood. The Hitler abortion comparison cuts against the pro-abortion
00:07:40.700 crowd because they, in fact, share many of his attitudes towards the procedure. Consider the fact
00:07:46.420 that Hitler and pro-abortion people in America in the year 2021 have the exact same attitude about
00:07:51.500 disabled babies in the womb. The vast majority of Down syndrome babies are aborted. In some Western
00:07:56.920 countries, Down syndrome people have been almost entirely exterminated. Hitler had the same approach
00:08:02.440 to the same group of people. He looks up from hell to the pro-abortion lobby and nods in approval.
00:08:08.320 No doubt looking forward to the day when the people in that lobby will be joining him. Speaking of which,
00:08:13.300 Ayanna Pressley shared her thoughts at the hearing as well. And one thing you know about her,
00:08:16.980 and you got to give her credit for this, she always stays on message. Listen.
00:08:19.960 These misguided bans will not actually prevent all abortions. They simply put safe and necessary
00:08:27.960 abortion care out of reach for our most vulnerable, specifically our lowest-income sisters, our queer,
00:08:34.020 trans, and non-binary siblings, black, Latinx, AAPI, immigrants, disabled, and indigenous folks.
00:08:41.980 And none of this is happenstance. It is precise. Like the roots of the anti-abortion movement,
00:08:47.920 these bans are rooted in patriarchy and white supremacy.
00:08:51.540 Always on message. Yes, queer, trans, and non-binary people are especially hurt by
00:08:56.680 anti-abortion laws. This claim is never explained, mostly because it is abject nonsense.
00:09:03.880 But Ayanna Pressley simply cannot give her opinion on any subject or talk about anything at all
00:09:09.420 without giving this list of special protected identities. I'm sure she's in like the drive-thru
00:09:14.220 line at Wendy's going, yes, I, along with the members of the trans, non-binary, queer,
00:09:18.080 indigenous, BIPOC, polyamorous, and Latinx communities, would like to order a Frosty.
00:09:23.120 So you want a Frosty for all those people or just yourself? I'm confused.
00:09:26.140 But out of everyone, Rashida Tlaib probably won the Oscar for best actress at the hearing yesterday.
00:09:31.940 Tlaib has taken on in recent times more of sort of the Ringo position in the squad,
00:09:36.600 the forgotten member. She doesn't get the same press. That used to be the case for Ayanna Pressley,
00:09:40.880 but it seems there's been a reshuffling within the squad, which is really interesting,
00:09:44.800 leaving Rashida Tlaib out on the outskirts. And I think she tried to rectify that yesterday.
00:09:49.700 Listen to this.
00:09:51.180 You know, I grew up in the most beautiful blackest city in the country, where 85% of the city of
00:09:57.080 Detroit is black and it's beautiful. And black mothers are the ones who told my mother to raise
00:10:00.980 her voice when she had that heavy immigrant accent at parent meetings. And, you know, I'm sitting
00:10:06.720 or listening to people pretending, disingenuously, honestly, that they actually care about the lives
00:10:13.120 of my black neighbors. I always get emotional about this because I cannot believe that my
00:10:19.320 colleagues, who didn't even vote for the George Floyd Justice for Policing Act, are talking about
00:10:24.280 the fact that Planned Parenthood, which I believe is literally one of the only healthcare places
00:10:30.000 institutions like cities like mine. The fact that we have some of the worst infant mortality rates in
00:10:38.420 the country among black children. We can't even get them to one years old. It's like, why aren't we
00:10:44.220 spending the same energy, doctor, in saving those lives, getting them to one year? How come when I was
00:10:50.120 in the Michigan legislature, they spent so much time on this that they never wanted to talk about that
00:10:54.620 single mother that we needed to make sure that she had the wraparound services?
00:10:58.000 Okay, first of all, I can't take you seriously if you start by claiming Detroit is beautiful.
00:11:03.820 Detroit is about as beautiful as a highway rest stop bathroom. As for the rest of it, Tlaib says
00:11:08.240 she's worried about infant mortality. She wants to make sure that we get babies to one year old.
00:11:13.600 And the best way to do that is to kill them intentionally in the womb, apparently.
00:11:17.560 This is the kind of argumentation you get from that side. Here's just a little bit more from Tlaib.
00:11:22.480 You know, this is about controlling women in our country, period. Stop pretending it's anything but.
00:11:30.240 You know, what's so distressful about all of this is the fact that it's not just Texas,
00:11:34.760 chairwoman, you know this. This is literally opening the floodgates to the possibility that
00:11:40.400 we are actually going to see our country punish and criminalize abortion,
00:11:47.440 criminalize women, making a very difficult decision. It would be funny if it weren't so
00:11:53.340 gross to watch these ranting, scowling women pretend that there's some higher, nobler reason
00:12:00.400 for their rage. This is about controlling women, they shout. Which even if that were the case,
00:12:05.680 these megalomaniacs have no problem controlling people, women or otherwise, when it comes to most
00:12:10.260 any other issue. They even have no problem making decisions about a woman's body, as we've seen
00:12:14.860 with the vaccine and the mask mandates. But of course, it isn't true. And they know that. It
00:12:21.200 has nothing to do with controlling women. They know that also. They understand, and as was said
00:12:27.420 early on, you know, this is about the elevation of the self. This is about putting the self above
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00:13:57.980 You know, I think I'm usually pretty low maintenance, but there have been a couple of
00:14:02.300 incidents recently where I've had these, I don't know, prima donna moments, I guess.
00:14:08.140 Like last night heading to my speaking event here in Memphis, security came to pick me up
00:14:12.880 and I realized I forgot to pack a tie. And I was the keynote speaker at a fundraising banquet.
00:14:17.600 So I asked them to take me somewhere like on the way so that I could get one. And we went to a
00:14:22.220 Walmart because, you know, that's, I mean, that's of course really, really classy. But it was the
00:14:26.220 closest thing nearby to the venue. And the security guy was with me and we're walking
00:14:30.060 through Walmart and we're walking around the men's section. And apparently they don't sell
00:14:33.500 ties at Walmart. That's, that was a revelation for me. So then they said, there's a men's
00:14:37.200 warehouse nearby. And I said, okay, let's go to the men's warehouse. And we were already late at this
00:14:40.820 point. And a security guy came in with me and we went into the men's warehouse. I had to ask him
00:14:46.040 what color my shirt was and he helped me match a tie. And finally I bought one and we're late to the
00:14:51.780 event at this point. And I missed, there was supposed to be a meet and greet and I missed it.
00:14:55.060 And we had to do it after because I was getting the tie. But then as we, as we pulled up, I looked
00:15:00.680 and I realized that it was a more casual event than I thought. And so I said, nevermind, I'm not
00:15:05.280 going to wear the tie. And so it was all of that. And I didn't even wear it. And you know, so you have
00:15:10.440 little moments like that, but I think, I think for the most part, I'm pretty, still pretty low
00:15:15.500 maintenance guy. All right. So we've been playing a lot of clips from this, from this hearing
00:15:20.820 from the bad guys. And I don't mean to oversimplify it, but I mean, it really is that
00:15:26.980 simple. They're just, they're the bad guys. And when, when, when this is what you're, you're
00:15:30.700 standing for and this is what you're, this is what you're enraged about is that we're going
00:15:35.100 to be killing fewer babies than you're, that's the bad guy side. And there's a very clear line
00:15:39.220 that we can draw there. So we played some of the bad guy clips. There's one of the clip I wanted
00:15:43.860 to play for you and I'm saving it for here because representative Burgess Owens, he's on
00:15:48.540 the good side. He, uh, in the midst of all of this lunacy, he interjected with, I'm trying to
00:15:57.380 stop myself from using the phrase truth bombs because I hate that phrase, but I'll allow it
00:16:03.140 here. Just this one time is the only time you'll ever hear me say it because I think these really
00:16:07.900 are, if anything qualifies as a truth bomb, then, then this actually is. Listen to what he has to say.
00:16:12.420 I think we're going to ever get to resolving the issues we're having in the black community.
00:16:18.000 We got to be honest, my friends. Uh, we just heard that, uh, a pushback on the fact that we're
00:16:24.800 getting black men in the black community, not doing their job. Well, let me give you the facts
00:16:28.360 real quick. First of all, when I, when I was growing up in the sixties, we led the country and
00:16:33.540 men committed to marriage over 70%. Black women could, could, could rely on getting married more
00:16:39.880 than white women until white women until 1970. We now have between 70 to 80% of black fathers who
00:16:47.200 desert their families. And we're not willing to be honest about that. We're not willing to, to say
00:16:52.920 that these, these guys need to man up. Maybe when we start telling, maybe we start telling our, our
00:16:59.340 kids that they're being nothing but whiners, weas and wimps. If men cannot take care of their own
00:17:04.540 kids, that might be a good start. I reject the words of this gentleman. Mr. Chairman, I call for
00:17:10.480 order. I call for order. We, we right now, the facts are in. Mr. Big says the time. The facts are in.
00:17:17.320 Facts. Black fathers, 70 to 80% are deserting their families. You talk to, talk to these black
00:17:23.740 single women out there and see what they think about this. We sit in this little bubble where
00:17:27.860 we're living the life. We were married, many of us, and we cannot be honest about what's
00:17:33.520 happening in our urban communities. While these kids are growing up with no fathers, no example.
00:17:38.060 Do we have solutions? At the end of the day, there's a reason why our kids are being led toward
00:17:43.660 these, this, these options of hopelessness. And for us to sit here in 2021, no, not right now. I'm sorry.
00:17:50.880 Let me just finish. To sit here in 2021 and not point out the fact that we have fatherless homes.
00:17:58.180 We have 70 to 80%. These are the facts, my friends. 70, 80% will not marry the mothers of their
00:18:04.460 children and instead would probably try to convince them so they, to dissolve them from their issues
00:18:09.920 to go and get an abortion. We've lost 20 million black babies over the last 40 years. 40% of my race
00:18:18.600 has been exterminated because we don't have men. Yeah. I wanted, I wanted to play as much of that
00:18:24.100 clip as I could. It wasn't even the whole, the whole thing. It goes on for a few minutes. And, uh,
00:18:27.520 I think it's, I think it's great. It, it, two things are great about it and very instructive and revealing.
00:18:33.020 Uh, the one is what he's saying, but also you hear the woman, I'm not even sure which, which
00:18:38.300 congresswoman that is, but frantically trying to cut in. It's, I object to this language that's being used.
00:18:45.160 He, he actually says, well, we got to take responsibility, care for our families. I
00:18:49.500 object to that language. This is offensive. I can't believe what's being said. Can I, can I,
00:18:55.420 are you finished? Can I, can I, they're, they're so terrified to have that conversation. They don't
00:19:00.940 want to have this conversation at all about taking responsibility for yourself and your own families.
00:19:06.640 They don't want to talk about the state of the family in the black community and across the country
00:19:12.400 and how that ties into all of our problems. Every single problem that we're having, societally
00:19:19.540 speaking, every single one can be traced, uh, in large part back to the collapse of the family.
00:19:28.640 This, this is no great secret and it shouldn't require any courage to point it out.
00:19:35.000 And I shouldn't be so impressed that there's a, someone in Congress making this point because it's
00:19:42.520 so obvious. You, you can't have a society without the family. You know, we've got, we've got thousands
00:19:53.340 of years of history to look at with human civilization. And we can look out throughout the world and
00:20:00.860 throughout history to every single civilization that's ever existed on the planet, every human
00:20:05.160 civilization. And there's never been one that has tried to do it without the family structure
00:20:12.160 at the foundation of it. It can't happen. You can't do it because that, that is, that is the
00:20:21.200 fundamental building block for, for everything else. Everything else rests upon the family.
00:20:26.520 And if you abandon the family, there's, there's nothing else that can come in and sufficiently
00:20:32.780 take its place. That's the experiment that we are conducting right now, especially in the cities.
00:20:41.480 Can we get rid of the family, say we don't need the family and have the government come in and,
00:20:46.080 and, uh, and take over that responsibility. You know, we don't need, we don't need fathers to be the
00:20:51.380 breadwinners and the providers and the protectors. The government could, we can do that. We can put them
00:20:55.240 on the social programs and put them on the welfare programs. Um, and we, you know, we have a bunch
00:20:59.980 of cops there and, and, you know, so we, we will fill all with provider protector. We fill all those
00:21:04.040 roles as the government. So we have watched this experiment play out in the cities for decades
00:21:14.560 and to put it mildly, it has not worked. I mean, it's been a catastrophe. It has been an apocalyptic
00:21:22.580 catastrophe. That's why when you walk through cities today, it looks like a literal apocalyptic
00:21:28.140 wasteland you're walking through. And all, all that you're seeing there, that is the debris
00:21:34.120 of the nuclear family, which has collapsed in the cities and also across the country, increasingly.
00:21:45.580 Fatherless homes are a problem, uh, across the country. People are abandoning marriage,
00:21:50.820 abandoning nuclear family. I mean, this is, this is a social trend that you find everywhere.
00:21:57.480 Um, now the fact that this is happening and the consequences of it are inescapable
00:22:05.040 and the Democrats know that. And so they're, they're only, there's nothing they could say in
00:22:11.700 response to it. So instead they just try to ignore it and they, they always deflect and say,
00:22:17.540 let's look over there. Look at the, let's look at the, no, no, no, no, no. We don't need to talk
00:22:20.260 about, let's talk about guns. Let's, let's talk. If there's, if there are, you know, young men in the
00:22:25.100 cities running around shooting each other for no reason, uh, let's talk about how they got their
00:22:31.340 hands on those guns. That's the problem. Let's not discuss why those young men would want to behave
00:22:38.880 that way in the first place. What went so horribly wrong in their upbringing, in their home lives
00:22:45.520 that if they have guns, they're just going to go out and shoot each other for no reason.
00:22:52.600 Let's not talk about that part of it. No, no, no. Let's just discuss the gun. So that's what
00:22:55.520 Democrats want to do. And if someone sits there, especially some Burgess Owens, Burgess Owens,
00:22:59.660 a black man, uh, if, if he sits there and talks about this, they get very angry and they,
00:23:05.240 they don't want to discuss it. And that tells you everything you need to know. In fact, at one
00:23:10.360 point, I think she actually said, she said something like, well, what are your solutions?
00:23:13.660 You're not, you're not coming up with any solutions. Yeah, he is. He gave the solution.
00:23:21.540 That's the solution was take fathers, take care of your families.
00:23:28.300 You know, when you have kids get married, preferably before you have the kids,
00:23:32.980 but worst case after, if that's what, if that's what you need to do and, uh, and then, and, and,
00:23:40.140 and stay with your kids and raise them. That's the solution. Have kids, a woman, a man have kids.
00:23:48.960 They stay in the same house and they raise those kids. That's the solution. If you're saying, well,
00:23:58.040 give us a solution besides that, let's not do that. And think of a different solution.
00:24:04.200 There isn't one, there is no other solution. There is no plan B because they've been looking
00:24:09.400 for a plan B for decades and they haven't found one. So if we're giving up on the family, then we're,
00:24:14.460 then we just, we've given up on society. We've given up on civilization. There's no point in even
00:24:18.000 talking about any of this stuff. Just forget about it. There's no point. We've given up,
00:24:22.700 let it all collapse and we'll, we'll all live in the ruins, I guess.
00:24:27.980 If you want a real solution, it has to begin there. Yeah. There are other things we can do.
00:24:33.820 It's not like if we have a strong nuclear family in, in, uh, in America that we're going to live
00:24:39.180 in a utopia, there's still going to be other problems we have to fix, but we've got to start
00:24:42.520 there. Have kids, stay at home with them. If we're ruling that out, if you're not going to do that,
00:24:50.560 then, then there's no hope. Then we are hopeless at that point. So it's this or it's nothing.
00:24:58.520 All right. Here's a CBS report about the national school board association asking for Biden's help
00:25:03.860 to stop the domestic terrorists. That's their phrase. Um, the domestic terrorist attacks against
00:25:09.300 them, otherwise known as parents giving their opinions at school board meetings. Here's that
00:25:15.840 report. School board officials are calling for help tonight following increasingly violent incidents
00:25:25.840 like this in Minnesota, a man complimenting school board members during a debate over masks,
00:25:31.480 who's then charged by an unmasked man writing to president Biden, the national school boards
00:25:38.040 association asked for help investigating the violent incidents and suggested the FBI monitor threats to
00:25:45.200 board members likening these heinous actions to domestic terrorism. The impact of the pandemic
00:25:50.560 on public schools is creating this, all this heightened rhetoric around the nation. And
00:25:54.700 unfortunately, in some places it's leading to threats and actual incidents of violence.
00:26:00.760 Former Nevada school board member, Kurt Thigpen said that he resigned after the constant harassment over
00:26:07.320 email, phone and social media made him think about suicide. He cited the January 6th insurrection as a
00:26:14.500 trigger for the unruly behavior. They were coming after me and my colleagues consistently every day
00:26:21.860 through multiple mediums. They saw me as a target for their hate. The White House responding today to
00:26:29.280 the school board letter saying that they're looking at what more the administration can do.
00:26:34.680 Obviously these threats to school board members is horrible. They're doing their jobs.
00:26:39.140 Obviously local police are still going to have a presence at these very contentious, sometimes violent school
00:26:46.500 board meetings. But what school officials nationwide want is for the feds to provide some level of
00:26:53.020 intel that will give them some sense of what kind of threats are heading their way.
00:26:57.620 Yeah, we keep hearing about the heinous, heinous actions at these school board meetings.
00:27:02.920 Violence, domestic terrorism. And then they show us clips. I mean, I'm assuming they're showing us
00:27:09.900 the worst of it. If there's something worse, they would have showed us that. And the clips for the
00:27:16.060 most part, it's like people yelling and getting upset. And every once in a while, all these school
00:27:23.720 board meetings across the country, there have been a couple of cases of minor scuffles breaking out
00:27:29.340 that are broken up and no one is seriously injured. So this is, this is, that, as far as violence goes,
00:27:38.800 that's it. A couple of minor scuffles, that's it. That's the end of that. And, and by the way,
00:27:44.820 it's, it's not as though this is entirely on the part of the conservative parents, which is what we're
00:27:49.180 supposed to take away from this. As you know, I have been to some of these meetings and very often
00:27:56.400 there are people on the other side as well. And then that's where, that's where the arguing and
00:28:00.200 shouting comes from. So a couple of minor scuffles, no one's seriously injured. And then
00:28:05.700 outside of that, it's, it's mostly just people getting upset and, uh, you know, maybe raising
00:28:12.060 their voices a little bit. And this is a, this is a domestic terrorist crisis. We, we, we can't have
00:28:19.520 that. Well, the real crisis here is that these people on these school boards that are, that have
00:28:25.500 been so accustomed for years, they've had such a great job where they get to go in and they go to
00:28:30.440 their meetings and, and, and really no one in the public shows up and nobody cares. And they set the
00:28:34.920 policies and they do exactly what they want and they're uncontested. And, um, they have an enormous
00:28:41.360 amount of power in setting education policy in their districts, deciding what kids are going to be
00:28:47.640 taught, how they're going to be treated, this enormous power they have. And for years, it's
00:28:52.980 like nobody noticed that they had this power. And finally people are noticing and they're saying,
00:28:59.100 wow, you know what? There's people on those boards. They, they, uh, they have a significant
00:29:05.960 amount of control over my kids and my family. Really? I think I want to have a say in this.
00:29:12.760 People are, the public is noticing they're going to public meetings and this is, this, this is a crisis
00:29:19.640 because these school boards, they can't, they cannot defend their policies. They can't argue
00:29:28.040 in favor of them. So all they can do is just label you, say you're a domestic terrorist. And now they're
00:29:34.600 going to the Biden administration. And next thing, you know, we're going to have, um, uh, federal
00:29:40.860 involvement in school boards. And yet again, I got to go back and, and to, to, to the irony here,
00:29:47.220 uh, and the hypocrisy of, uh, uh, you know, I go to Loudoun County school board and I'm interfering.
00:29:52.340 Now the school boards themselves are going to the federal government and saying, please interfere.
00:29:59.420 So while they're, while they're telling the outsiders, the agitators don't come,
00:30:04.320 they are the ones going and getting outsiders and saying, please come here
00:30:07.820 and stop these, these mean people from, uh, saying all these, these horrible things about us.
00:30:18.400 I'm sorry. I, I just don't have any sympathy. I don't want to hear about, oh, we, we got this,
00:30:23.040 we've got death threats. We've got everything for number one. Like I always say with death threats,
00:30:27.980 I, I don't, I don't believe it until you, until you show me the receipts on that. Everyone's always
00:30:32.640 claiming every time someone, you know, is, is, is being criticized in public. We always get these
00:30:38.880 claims. Oh, there's so many death threats, death threats coming all over the place. I just don't
00:30:42.960 buy it until you like show it to me that you're actually getting those death threats or I don't
00:30:46.180 believe it. I think there are a lot of people just claiming they get death threats. Um, and even if you
00:30:52.280 are that, that I get death threats as well. I know what that's like. It's not fun. I've experienced that.
00:30:57.760 Uh, but even if you get death threats, that's not good. I don't know proof of that,
00:31:03.900 but it doesn't suddenly vindicate whatever you were doing that upset people.
00:31:12.700 All right. Um, what else we got here? Oh, this is really important. We got it. We got to cover this.
00:31:17.800 So Demi Lovato, as you know, I'm a big fan of Demi Lovato, uh, who mostly, I think she,
00:31:24.660 what is she non-binary now? Or no, she pansexual or no lesbian, but she's, or she was lesbian and
00:31:30.580 then, and then went pansexual. And most recently she's non-binary. So she's been going through this,
00:31:35.160 uh, this little bit of transformation. And, um, now she has also come out as a believer in aliens.
00:31:43.540 And so this brings together, it's like two of my worlds are colliding Demi Lovato, aliens.
00:31:49.740 She's, she even has a show now, I think, where she goes on, on the hunt for, for aliens.
00:31:55.220 And here she is on the E! News channel talking about her own experiences with, uh, space aliens.
00:32:00.120 Very interesting. Listen.
00:32:02.300 Do you believe in UFOs?
00:32:04.320 Uh, kind of.
00:32:05.240 Well, Demi Lovato does in her news show, Unidentified with Demi Lovato.
00:32:10.980 Demi drags their sister and best friend into the woods to hunt for the unexplained.
00:32:15.620 And they told Aaron all about it.
00:32:18.340 What is that? Look at that! Oh my goodness. Wait, this is so grossy.
00:32:23.700 Convince us why we should watch the show. We laughed a lot and we saw some really interesting
00:32:29.620 things that we catch on camera. I just have a curiosity about this topic that I've always,
00:32:34.740 I've always, I've always had. And, um, and so I wanted to find out for myself.
00:32:40.100 Say hi to night vision.
00:32:41.300 Hi, night vision.
00:32:42.580 And you two were pretty skeptical at first. What was the turning point for you?
00:32:47.300 Yeah, I mean, I identified as a non-believer coming in and I would say I'm definitely a lot
00:32:52.740 less of a skeptic than I was before.
00:32:54.340 With all this UFO stuff, like, you know, being open and being ready to accept it helps.
00:33:00.100 And I think we were. And I think that shows.
00:33:02.660 And Demi, you had an encounter before shooting the show.
00:33:05.700 Can you please give us the details on that experience?
00:33:08.260 We went out into the desert in Joshua Tree and I basically saw like this blue orb that,
00:33:16.180 was about 50 feet away, um, maybe less. And it was just, it was kind of like floating above the
00:33:24.420 ground, just like 10 or 15 feet, but was keeping its distance from me. And I don't know, it just,
00:33:30.420 um, it was really, it was a really beautiful and incredible experience.
00:33:34.980 Yeah. I think those might've been the drugs that you were taking, but no,
00:33:37.940 actually, no, I, I believe, listen, I believe you, Demi Levi, I believe you on this.
00:33:45.540 Uh, some of the other claims you've made about yourself, I, I find a little bit hard to believe,
00:33:50.100 like that you're both, both man and woman all, all, all at once contained within one person.
00:33:56.260 That part I'm not sure about, but aliens, I believe, I believe you. I hear you. You are valid.
00:34:03.140 And I, I just, I buy it. And I say that mostly unironically. There, there are too many people
00:34:11.860 who have had these experiences. And how do you, how do you explain it all? I mean, I guess,
00:34:18.660 you know, there, there are a lot of, a lot of potential explanations, but none of them as
00:34:23.860 interesting as the explanation that we're being visited by, uh, space aliens. Why do they keep
00:34:29.060 coming here in their, in their orbs and then leaving? It's just coming a long way and then
00:34:34.820 leaving. And then they just, they keep coming. You'd think whatever they were looking for,
00:34:37.540 they would have found by now and realize that this is not where they want to be.
00:34:41.380 So I can't explain any of that. I mean, in Demi Lovato's case, I guess I can't explain it.
00:34:49.380 If these, uh, these aliens came all this way, many light years, and they're, they're about to land on
00:34:55.100 earth. And the first people they see are Demi Lovato and her crew. You can't really blame them for
00:35:02.820 saying, nevermind guys, we made a mistake. Let's get out of here. Let's go check out Jupiter instead.
00:35:06.820 All right. Let's, uh, okay. One other thing, I think, before we get to comments, uh,
00:35:14.420 let's see this from the daily wire says former tonight show host, Jay Leno knows comedy having
00:35:19.960 started in standup way back in the early 1970s. But Leno says the recent emergence of cancel culture
00:35:24.520 has changed the rules of comedy during an appearance this week on the people everyday
00:35:29.620 podcast. The 71 year old comedian said that those who hope to succeed nowadays will have to adapt.
00:35:33.920 Uh, Leno said, I think it's like any other thing. You either change or die in football.
00:35:39.660 You have certain rules. And when the rules change, if you don't conform to them, you're out of the
00:35:43.440 game. Leno said sexist, racist, and homophobic jokes were once considered okay, but all that has
00:35:49.060 changed. Now everybody has a voice. He said, you have to change the material to the times you live in.
00:35:54.540 My attitude is, look, these are the new rules. You want to adapt. If you don't, fine,
00:35:59.100 don't get up and tell jokes then. This is really kind of amazing to hear from a comedian. He said,
00:36:07.040 he's, he's, he's openly saying that if you want to be a comedian, you have to conform and follow the
00:36:13.120 rules. Now, silly me, I thought that the point of, of comedy was exactly the opposite of that.
00:36:20.680 Especially if you're in the business of being a standup comedian.
00:36:27.020 Your, your job is to find all of the societal rules and the things that people are conforming to.
00:36:35.260 And you break those rules on purpose. You point out the absurdity of them.
00:36:41.180 That might not be the, the, the, the single thing that comedy does, but it's one of comedy's most
00:36:46.240 important functions. And I think it's actually, it is an important thing for society. We need that.
00:36:53.740 I actually believe that comedians have performed a valuable service in our country, in the past
00:37:02.300 anyway, by pointing to finding these, uh, these sacred cows, these elephants in the room that nobody
00:37:10.660 talks about and pointing to the elephant and saying, look at that elephant. Isn't that funny? Like that,
00:37:14.420 that we, you need that in society, I think. And you're also holding powerful people accountable.
00:37:20.760 Uh, but now we have comedians saying, oh, no, no, no, here are the rules. You don't want to follow
00:37:25.780 the rules and conform. They just don't tell any jokes. All right, let's get now to reading the
00:37:31.780 comments, uh, and let's play the song first.
00:37:34.880 Uh, almost forgot the song, but I didn't. This is knit girl says, if we are so influenced by the
00:37:57.820 pictures of a no name person on Instagram, that companies will pay thousands. Uh, so that said
00:38:03.320 person will peddle their shampoo on their feed. And I think it's safe to say that as a culture,
00:38:07.480 we're influenced by the content we consume. We canceled our Netflix subscription last November
00:38:11.340 and subscribe to DW with that money. Good, good choice. Uh, I've encouraged several others in my
00:38:17.640 little circle to do the same little by little. This is a response, I guess, to our conversation we had
00:38:21.820 about, uh, the squid game show on Netflix right now, the most popular show on Netflix. Uh, there are
00:38:27.840 some other perspectives on that though. Joshua Gibbon says, I think that article about squid game
00:38:32.240 was completely over the top. It's nowhere near that focused on gore as it implies. Saw is far
00:38:38.340 worse. It might not be your cup of cup of tea or your cup of key. Totally fine, but I won't really
00:38:44.300 call squid game torture porn. It doesn't really focus on the gore though. It does have it. And
00:38:48.340 it's general point is that these things are bad. The focus in squid game is on the characters. The
00:38:51.880 gore is incidental, exactly like you described in saving private Ryan and Hanky Hankerson says,
00:38:56.620 I respectfully disagree with your interpretation of squid game. I've only seen the first episode so far,
00:39:00.340 but it's clear just from that episode that the game and the violence in the, in the game is framed
00:39:04.240 as an extreme product of the social slash economic dysfunction endemic in North and Korea. The Korean
00:39:09.900 economy is a highly competitive world with a handful of big winners and a large number of distraught
00:39:13.960 losers. The series is a clever critique of that reality. I think you should watch the first episode,
00:39:18.380 then come back to the, to the show and let viewers know what you think. Okay. Yeah, I haven't watched it.
00:39:24.360 I have no interest in watching it. Um, I mean, this idea that you can't make any judgment calls
00:39:29.820 about a show or a movie without watching it, I think is ridiculous. I mean, there, there,
00:39:33.860 there are certainly things where, uh, there are plenty of movies and shows where you can kind of
00:39:39.660 understand the basic gist without actually having to watch it. Um, I mean, I've never watched
00:39:44.260 the bachelor, but I, I, I, I think I'm, I'm pretty safe in making some assumptions about that show,
00:39:51.560 which is why I don't watch it. Um, as for this, I mean, this idea that it's a parody of social and
00:39:59.720 economic, uh, situation in, in, in Korea and across and across the world, maybe it is. I'm
00:40:07.260 skeptical because I heard that exact same rationalization with, uh, what was that movie
00:40:11.280 that came out and won all the Oscars? Um, it was a parasite. Yeah, I think that was the one.
00:40:17.580 And I heard the same exact thing, like a very violent movie. And, uh, there are, there are
00:40:23.160 scenes that might seem gratuitous, but it's actually, it's, it's this, this really clever,
00:40:29.440 uh, critique of social inequality. And it's a, it's a comment on the class system and class
00:40:36.440 structures. And I watched the movie with that in mind. And no, it's not. It's just a, it's,
00:40:43.920 if you, if you, if you, you could try to turn any movie into that if you want to,
00:40:49.100 but I didn't see it with parasite. I thought that movie was pretty bad.
00:40:53.760 And with this maybe, but, but I'm skeptical. I mean, again, the point with violence
00:40:59.040 in a, in a, in a, in a film is, you know, is it a necessary part of the story?
00:41:07.940 And like, that's why I use saving private Ryan is one of many examples, but in a movie like that,
00:41:14.140 if you're going to tell a story about things that happen in war, if you're going to tell a war
00:41:19.540 story, then violence is a necessary part of that. You take violence out of that and you might as well
00:41:24.240 not tell the story. You can't tell a story without the violence because it's a part of it. And I think
00:41:28.480 we can all agree that there are plenty of stories worth telling, um, that have happened in, uh, in the
00:41:33.200 context of war. So that's obviously the case there. Um, and you just have to ask yourself that with
00:41:40.800 this, with this show or any other, is this violence part of the story? Is it moving the
00:41:45.220 story forward? Is it, is it an important and necessary element or is it just something for
00:41:51.200 us to gawk at? Is the violence and end in itself in the film or in the show where, where at least part
00:41:59.760 of the entertainment value is simply watching the violence itself play out? There's a lot
00:42:03.820 of that. Of course, there are a lot of shows like that, a lot of movies like that. Not all
00:42:09.160 of them are over the top gory, but I think violence in that context, no matter how gory it is, you
00:42:16.800 know, can, can be a problem. It's, I think it, it, that's when it qualifies as gratuitous.
00:42:22.380 Um, okay. I mean, it's the same thing with like sexual content in a, in a, in a film. I mean,
00:42:30.720 we can all agree that, that romance and love, these are important parts of stories sometimes,
00:42:36.480 but very, very often the filmmakers go far beyond that and they show you things, uh, that were not
00:42:44.560 necessary for the story at all. And the only reason they're putting that in there is for this,
00:42:49.260 is for us to just gawk at. So, all right. Uh, Parva says the great thing about dating apps is
00:42:57.240 that as a person who approaches people in person, I have almost no competition. Well, you're right
00:43:02.120 about that because it's like nobody does that anymore. So yeah, I guess the field is open for
00:43:07.060 you. It's a good strategy. Uh, JK says, Hey Matt, what airline do you normally fly with? Whichever
00:43:12.440 one gets me there the fastest and is, has the best prices. I, I don't have any loyalty to any
00:43:18.980 airline because they're all pretty terrible. Um, there was a time when maybe you would say
00:43:23.060 Southwest is sort of different, but I think Southwest, especially with the masking stuff
00:43:26.260 in recent, uh, in recent months has kind of fallen off. So at this point there's, they're all equally
00:43:31.640 as abysmal. So there's no point in even getting that particular about it. And finally, Dan says,
00:43:37.620 you can't really blame Jada Pinkett Smith for what she did. She didn't want to do it.
00:43:41.220 But she cheated against her will. Dan, there are some who would ban you from the show for that,
00:43:48.800 but I will not because I appreciate a good pun, sir. So thank you for that. I can still remember
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00:44:05.100 you would open up and you would flip through it. And there would be like, you'd put physical
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00:45:06.160 Let's get now to our daily cancellation.
00:45:12.240 There are days when it's hard to find something to cancel. Well, that's not exactly true. I mean,
00:45:16.400 there are always millions of options, but today the cancellation presents itself to me,
00:45:19.740 taking the decision out of my hands entirely. I have no choice but to cancel this. This is an op-ed
00:45:24.300 just published in the New York Times, written by a professor at the University of San Francisco
00:45:28.160 School of Law named Laura Malzone. And the title is Divorce Can Be an Act of Radical Self-Love.
00:45:36.560 The professor begins, I used to believe that divorce is a terrible thing, particularly when
00:45:40.420 children are involved. Growing up, I absorbed cultural tropes about absent fathers and efficiency
00:45:44.940 apartments, mothers struggling to support themselves, and awful step-parents and unwanted
00:45:48.740 step-siblings. To this day, divorce is portrayed as precarious and grim. Well, yes, it is portrayed
00:45:54.260 that way because it is that way. But the professor says that she has had a revelation. She sees it
00:46:00.320 differently now. She continues, but I've learned that divorce can also be an act of radical self-love
00:46:05.240 that leaves the whole family better off. My divorce nearly seven years ago freed me from a relationship
00:46:09.840 that was crushing my spirit. It freed my children, then five and three, from growing up in a profoundly
00:46:14.820 unhealthy environment. And then, amid all of the disingenuous rationalizations, she says something
00:46:21.520 shockingly honest. She says, quote, there was no emotional or physical abuse in our home. There was
00:46:27.240 no absence of love. I was in love with my husband when we got divorced. Part of me is in love with him
00:46:32.560 still. I suspect that will always be the case. Even now, after everything, when he walks into the room,
00:46:37.360 my stomach drops the same way it does before the roller coaster comes down. I divorced my husband,
00:46:42.300 not because I didn't love him. I divorced him because I loved myself more. Now, I want to focus
00:46:48.640 on that last sentence there. But first, let's just read how she wraps all this up first. She writes,
00:46:53.460 quote, talking to the subset who are divorced, I found a common theme, even a sisterhood. Divorce is
00:46:59.200 painful and heartbreaking, but it can also be liberating, pointing the way toward a different
00:47:02.860 life that leaves everyone better off, including the children. I no longer think of divorce as shameful
00:47:07.200 or feel sorry for people who tell me that they have decided to end their marriages. There are many ways a
00:47:11.700 family can be broken. Sometimes the healthiest decision is to remove the cracking shell of
00:47:16.060 the nuclear family before the shards embed themselves in the precious little people nestled
00:47:20.160 inside. My divorce spared my children that pain and let me live the life that I was meant to.
00:47:25.540 I view that as an accomplishment. Now, in between that final paragraph and the bit about loving
00:47:31.260 herself more, she explains that the reason for the divorce was her own refusal to put her marriage
00:47:36.820 and family before her career. She was always primarily focused on her job, even when she was
00:47:42.960 at home. And she doesn't say that in a reflective or remorseful way. She's proud of the ways that she
00:47:48.660 neglected her children and her spouse. And she's even prouder of wrecking her marriage and destroying
00:47:52.900 her family. This is all an accomplishment, she says. She claims, as these people always do,
00:47:57.620 that it's been better for the kids. And you can tell that she doesn't really believe that.
00:48:01.960 It doesn't care anyway. You know, she doesn't love her kids all that much. At least she doesn't
00:48:06.520 love them as much as she loves herself. She makes that clear. Her kids barely figure into the story
00:48:10.920 at all. She simply waves them away with a few lines about how they're doing well and they're super happy
00:48:15.700 about this broken home situation. Divorced people will often tell this kind of story about how the
00:48:21.040 kids are better off. What they mean is that the kids have adapted. They've made the best of the
00:48:27.740 circumstances and they've internalized a lot of the pain and trauma of what you've done to them.
00:48:33.020 That's the kind of better off we're talking about. Often I'll hear, and the author makes a similar
00:48:37.660 case, that, hey, the kids are better off with divorced parents than with parents who are miserable
00:48:41.540 and angry and fighting all the time and creating an emotionally and psychologically tumultuous
00:48:45.600 environment at home. Okay, but why are those the two options? I mean, yeah, if you say to the kids,
00:48:52.440 listen, you can either have divorced parents or you can have parents who are awful to each other every day
00:48:56.480 and screaming at each other and pitting you guys against each other. You know, if you present those
00:49:01.260 options, maybe lots of kids would choose the former. But what about the option where mom and dad grow up
00:49:06.520 a little and stop thinking about themselves so much and go out and get the counseling they need
00:49:12.120 and fight for their family and their marriage and stay together that way? Why has that been taken
00:49:17.400 off the table? And if you've taken it off the table, stop saying the kids are better off.
00:49:21.420 They're better off, arguably, between these two false and bad options you've given them.
00:49:30.180 But this woman has enough honesty and self-awareness to admit the truth. She loves herself more.
00:49:35.500 She doesn't say it like it's an omission. She's proud of it. She has the wrong view of her own
00:49:41.500 radical self-love, but she has at least identified the real point. She loves herself more. And indeed,
00:49:46.160 no marriage can work that way. No family can function when the people who are supposed to be keeping it
00:49:50.240 together are primarily focused on their own comfort and well-being. Marriage is the radical
00:49:54.560 giving of the self to another. It is a radical act of love, outward love. You cannot give yourself to
00:50:01.160 another while prioritizing yourself over the other, as this woman has discovered. Now, I say that she's
00:50:06.180 right to identify her self-love as the source of her marital disintegration, but really, self-love
00:50:10.540 probably isn't the right term. You know, it's a bit of an oxymoron, if anything. Love, after all,
00:50:14.460 is a choice. It's a thing you do. It's an act of sacrifice. Affection is a feeling. Love is an
00:50:21.240 activity. So, how can you really love yourself sacrificially? How can you sacrifice for yourself?
00:50:27.860 If it's for yourself, then it's not a sacrifice, by definition. It seems that when people talk about
00:50:32.880 loving themselves, what they mean is either conjuring warm feelings about themselves, which is not love,
00:50:38.240 or they mean simply putting themselves first before everyone else, which is just selfishness.
00:50:43.820 The word love doesn't belong in either scenario. Love is inherently outward. It goes out from within
00:50:50.000 to lift up and elevate the other. Love that goes out and comes back like a boomerang to elevate the
00:50:55.700 lover herself is, again, selfishness. So, let's not sully a noble word like love by associating it with
00:51:01.660 that. So, this woman has chosen selfishness over love, over her family, over her marriage. She claims to be
00:51:07.720 happy with a choice for now, and maybe she is for now, but if she has any sort of conscience at all,
00:51:14.500 that she already has at least some quiet moments, home alone, after work, where the loneliness sets in,
00:51:19.560 she feels deeply isolated by her own selfishness, wonders what any of this striving and effort and
00:51:24.620 career ambition is really worth when she's doing it just for herself. Those moments will become more
00:51:29.760 frequent, less quiet as she grows older and older, and she'll no doubt find other people to blame,
00:51:35.080 but that's not going to change anything, or relieve her misery. And I know that it will play out this
00:51:40.480 way because it always does. It's inevitable. When people prioritize themselves above all else,
00:51:45.840 when they live lives of selfishness, they eventually get exactly what they wanted.
00:51:50.320 Just themselves, alone, isolated. No one to love or be loved by. It's how the story always ends.
00:51:57.460 And that's why it's better to choose love, real love, outward sacrificial love. That's also why
00:52:02.940 the writer of this article, Laura Belzone, is today canceled. And that'll do it for us today
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