The Matt Walsh Show - October 19, 2021


Ep. 821 - The Left Turns Womanhood Into A Halloween Costume


Episode Stats

Length

58 minutes

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178.21782

Word Count

10,494

Sentence Count

677

Misogynist Sentences

51

Hate Speech Sentences

44


Summary

Our culture has turned womanhood into a costume for men to wear. We ll discuss the latest example. Today on The Matt Walsh Show, we will deal with a feminist college professor who says that men have an unfair advantage in the workplace because of all the bonding we guys do in the bathroom. Plus, outrage over hooters. Did you know they require their waitresses to wear skimpy outfits? Shocking stuff.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Today on The Matt Wall Show, our culture has turned womanhood into a costume for men to wear.
00:00:04.540 We'll discuss the latest example. It's a pretty ridiculous example. Also, Colin Powell died of
00:00:08.260 COVID, and the media are quick to point out that he had comorbidities. But why is this the one time
00:00:13.060 that they actually want to talk about COVID comorbidities? And the Loudoun County prosecutor
00:00:17.040 defends his decision to send a rapist student to another school where he proceeded to rape again.
00:00:21.640 His defense is not very convincing. Plus, outrage over hooters. Did you know that they require
00:00:26.280 their waitresses to wear skimpy outfits? Shocking stuff. I had no idea. In our daily
00:00:30.240 cancellation, we will deal with a feminist college professor who says that men have an unfair
00:00:34.380 advantage in the workplace because of all the bonding we guys do in the bathroom. There are
00:00:39.240 a number of problems with that theory of hers, and we'll discuss that and so much more today
00:00:42.980 on The Matt Wall Show.
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00:02:01.640 So we begin today with perhaps the most important news story of our time. This is an urgent controversy,
00:02:06.680 one which demands our full attention. The question at issue is this. Who was the first man to wear a
00:02:11.220 dress? Was it Billy Porter or Harry Styles? That's what we find ourselves debating today,
00:02:15.980 and I think for good reason. You know, I can't imagine any subject more salient, more paramount
00:02:19.800 than this. You may remember about a year ago when the pop star Harry Styles appeared on the cover of
00:02:25.360 Vogue, dressed like a nine-year-old girl who just raided her grandmother's closet. And this was,
00:02:30.640 as we were informed at the time, a historic moment. I mean, a man in a dress. What courage. What
00:02:35.500 innovation. Previous generations won world wars and they invented space travel. We put our male pop
00:02:42.500 stars in dresses. That is our contribution to the historical conversation. And what a contribution it
00:02:48.460 is. When it was all said and done, of course, most of us thought that the story was over. Harry Styles
00:02:55.100 had worn a dress. Peace and harmony had been established across the globe. Mankind had reached
00:03:01.380 its zenith. Utopia was upon us. Or so we thought. Little did we know that things were far more
00:03:08.560 complicated. There was a darker side to Harry's blouse. There were skeletons in the closet, or perhaps
00:03:15.080 out of the closet in this case. As has been reported this morning by CNN, BuzzFeed, Yahoo News,
00:03:20.500 the Daily Beast, the Los Angeles Times, TMZ, many of our nation's other most prestigious publications,
00:03:26.940 Billy Porter has emerged all these months later to talk about the pain and trauma that Harry Styles'
00:03:32.940 skirts have caused him. Now, Porter is an actor, I think. Honestly, I'm not exactly sure what he
00:03:37.780 actually does for a living or why anybody knows his name. As far as I could tell, his primary
00:03:42.020 occupation is to dress in tacky pantsuits and attend award shows. Somehow he's found a way to
00:03:47.440 monetize that hobby of his. More power to him, I suppose. And he's not happy that Harry Styles is
00:03:52.840 stealing his cross-dressing drag queen thunder. From the CNN report, it says, in an interview with
00:03:59.500 British paper The Sunday Times, Porter argued that there was a disconnect in the opportunities
00:04:04.220 afforded to him as a black gay man and those given to Styles. Quote, I feel like the fashion industry
00:04:09.620 has accepted me because they have to, he said. I created the conversation about non-binary fashion,
00:04:15.420 and yet Vogue still puts Harry Styles, a straight white man, in a dress on the cover for their,
00:04:20.440 for their first, uh, for the first time. I was the first one doing it, and now everybody's doing it.
00:04:26.040 I'm not dragging Harry Styles, but he doesn't care. He's just doing it because it's the thing to do.
00:04:32.040 This is politics for me. This is my life. I had to fight my entire life to get to the place
00:04:37.360 where I could wear a dress to the Oscars. All Styles has to do is be white and straight.
00:04:42.520 Then he later on, went on to say, I changed the whole game. I personally changed the whole game.
00:04:48.840 And that's not ego. That's just a fact. This is, he's fought his whole life. This is the, this is,
00:04:56.440 this is it. This is the achievement of his life is to wear a dress to the Oscars.
00:05:00.840 And it's not ego. You know, uh, he wants to be sure that we understand it. Not at all.
00:05:06.680 Why would we think that a man who cries to the media because he doesn't get to be the only guy
00:05:10.740 wearing a dress has an ego? Billy Porter's a humble man. I mean, he's a man of dignity,
00:05:16.640 a man of humility, prancing on the red carpet in a ball gown. Yeah, he's prancing, but he's doing it
00:05:23.980 in a dignified way. But is it true that he invented the concept of cross-dressing? Well,
00:05:28.880 no, of course it's not, not remotely. This is one of the many contradictions we run into with
00:05:33.160 the proponents of gender fluidity. On one hand, they insist that, you know, nothing they're doing
00:05:38.420 is novel or unprecedented. They assure us that all of their wildest gender inventions have a long
00:05:43.400 and storied history. They say that there were, you know, trisexual, genderqueer, sadomasochistic
00:05:49.660 furries back in George Washington's time. Maybe he was one himself. Who knows? Traditional
00:05:55.760 cultures throughout the globe have expansive ideas about gender, they tell us. You could hack
00:06:00.220 your way into the Amazon rainforest and stumble across an uncontacted tribe, and no doubt that
00:06:06.880 tribe will have its own sex reassignment clinics. This is all quite widespread. It's universal.
00:06:13.580 It's in keeping with historical precedent, they say. But then on the other hand, when a man puts on a
00:06:18.380 miniskirt and winks at a camera, they want us to throw him a parade as if he just landed on the moon.
00:06:22.820 So all of this stuff is normal and universal and totally ordinary, and also revolutionary and bold
00:06:30.560 and unique and daring. All at once. Well, okay then. And yet, there's something revealing, I think,
00:06:37.980 about this controversy, if we can call it that. Because we notice again, in perhaps, you know,
00:06:43.400 the most direct and explicit way that we've seen yet, how womanhood has been turned into a trophy
00:06:50.000 to be won or a flag to be captured. Billy Porter, other guys like him, they wear femininity
00:06:58.240 like a Halloween costume. And it looks ridiculous on him. It looks ugly, profane, vulgar. He appropriates
00:07:06.140 it. He makes a mockery of it, and he demands to be celebrated. Now, sure, anybody can wear a dress.
00:07:11.660 That's precisely why it's no achievement to wear one. But dresses are designed to accentuate the female
00:07:17.200 form, if you have no female form to accentuate. At best, you'll end up looking silly, like a dog
00:07:23.580 in a sweater. Worse, because you're ridiculing, and you look worse than that because you are ridiculing
00:07:29.400 the feminine, even while trying to claim it as your own. You have turned womanhood into a performance,
00:07:36.200 into a comedy, a not very funny one, more of a farce, a tragedy. But there are still more direct
00:07:44.680 ways of going about that, of course. Like Rachel Levine, who's the biological male HHS official,
00:07:50.740 who, according to an announcement for the Biden administration this morning, has now been sworn
00:07:55.100 in as a four-star admiral, making him the U.S. Public Health Service's, quote, first ever female
00:08:02.540 four-star admiral. That's the official announcement from the Biden administration. That's in their press
00:08:07.460 release. First ever female four-star admiral is a man. Female. Not even saying woman, but female.
00:08:17.020 He's been given not just the social designation, but the biological one as well. Womanhood was awarded
00:08:23.240 to him, like the four-star rank. It's a badge that he can wear around on his chest, like his fake
00:08:31.120 breasts. It's just a fake thing that he can wear around. It's an object. That's what these people
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00:10:11.300 on the road here as our world tour continues. And a note to pilots, if I could, on planes.
00:10:23.220 You know, there's this thing, there's a concept of TMI, too much information. And I think if you're,
00:10:28.980 and far be it for me to give you any advice whatsoever. But this is a mistake that pilots
00:10:36.500 make sometimes where they, they, and I guess they figure, you know, we're sitting back there.
00:10:41.600 We want to know everything that's going on. We don't, at least I'll speak for myself.
00:10:45.840 I don't want to know. I don't, I don't want to know what's happening up there. I just want you
00:10:48.640 to get us there. I don't even like to see when, when the door cracks open and I see the cockpit and
00:10:54.700 I see all the buttons and the levers and everything. And it just looks like for, it looks to me like
00:10:59.880 600 opportunities for things to go terribly wrong. So I don't like to know. I don't like to see,
00:11:04.120 but sometimes the captains, you know, they'll come on the intercom and they'll, they'll give
00:11:06.840 information. So we were about to take off on our flight yesterday to head here. And, uh, the pilot
00:11:10.920 comes on the intercom and he says, he says, uh, he apologizes for the delay, which is all he needed
00:11:16.060 to do. Cause there was a delay. Just say, Oh, you know, we're, we're working something out. It's a
00:11:18.980 delay. But instead he tells us that, uh, they're having a problem with one of the engines.
00:11:23.520 And he says, it's no big deal, but it doesn't start like normal. And so it has to be manually
00:11:27.540 started. No big deal. It's just that it's a problem with the engine. We're about to be 35,000 feet in the air
00:11:31.600 going 500 miles an hour. Uh, and we have a faulty engine. No big deal.
00:11:36.380 And it probably is no big deal, but you know, I'm ignorant. I don't know anything about any of this.
00:11:41.380 None of us do. So as far as we're concerned, it's basically pixie dust that keeps us up in the sky.
00:11:46.320 It's magic. We're flying on the wings of angels basically. And so if you give us a little bit of
00:11:53.380 information and we don't have the rest to fill in the context, then all we're left with is our
00:11:58.980 imagination. And that's the problem. So unless you're going to give us a full on lesson in
00:12:04.080 aerodynamics to explain to us why the faulty engine isn't a big deal, then don't tell us
00:12:08.600 anything. Cause then I'm thinking you need, you need to manually start it from outside of the
00:12:14.320 plane is what he said. So, so what happens if the engine goes out in the air and it needs to be
00:12:18.420 manually restarted from outside of someone crawling out on the wing? Is that one of the jobs of the
00:12:23.600 person in the exit row? Is that like, I've always wondered when they tell you in the exit row
00:12:27.260 and they come up and they say, Oh, you're in the exit row here. You know, you have to be ready to
00:12:31.280 help us. And nobody ever asks what exactly are we doing for you in case things go wrong? Maybe this
00:12:37.460 is one of them. You're closest to the exit row, pop that thing open, climb out there, get the engine
00:12:41.580 started. Uh, anyway. And then they also told us before we got on the flight, the, uh, the woman at the
00:12:48.900 gate said that, uh, we should be happy. Um, and, uh, we should, you know, say, say hello to the
00:12:53.640 captain on the way in because, uh, he's a, he's a really good pilot. He's one of the best.
00:12:57.240 And then that made me think, well, this is the first time I've been specifically told about a
00:13:02.480 really good pilot. What about all the other flights I'm on? Are those the bad ones?
00:13:07.600 All right. Uh, we'll, we'll start here. This is from Breitbart. It says president Joe Biden
00:13:13.100 expressed his regret Monday that former secretary of state, Colin Powell died of complications from the
00:13:17.920 coronavirus despite being fully vaccinated. Biden commented on Powell's death after a surprise
00:13:23.280 appearance at the white house, honoring the state and national teachers of the year on Monday.
00:13:29.660 And here's what he told reporters. He said, by the way, he had serious underlying conditions. As you
00:13:33.980 know, that's the problem. It wasn't that the vaccinations aren't good. He had two very serious
00:13:39.500 underlying conditions and unfortunately didn't work. God love him. Unfortunately didn't work. The
00:13:47.900 vaccine didn't work. It sounds like what he's saying. So this is this interesting thing that's
00:13:52.520 happening now where, um, president Biden, the Democrats, the media, you know, I say these as
00:14:01.260 if they're all mutually exclusive groups, which they aren't, but they're very quick to tell us
00:14:06.040 that Colin Powell, he was, uh, I think 84 years old. He had multiple comorbidities. You know, he had
00:14:11.900 multiple serious illnesses, 84 years old. He gets COVID. He's, he's been fully vaccinated. He dies.
00:14:17.580 And they're very quick to tell us about the comorbidities and Hey, by the way, he's, he was
00:14:22.820 very, very old and he was, and he was sick. And, um, and you know, his, his time was, was, was coming
00:14:28.120 very soon, unfortunately anyway. And so it's, it's, it's, it's not that the vaccines didn't work.
00:14:33.740 This is the one time I can't think of any other time. This is the one time when they've, when they
00:14:38.960 have made a point to focus on comorbidities, on the fact that someone's older, but one time they do it.
00:14:47.880 In fact, it, this, a total role reversal because Tucker Carlson was talking about, uh, Colin Powell's
00:14:55.620 death on his show yesterday. And he mentions how he was fully vaccinated and he got COVID and he died.
00:14:59.620 And that's true. And this morning the media is blasting Tucker Carlson for not making a, a, a point to
00:15:09.300 highlight the comorbidities when usually they're the ones who aren't highlighting that fact. Why are they
00:15:16.380 doing it? Well, obviously because they're trying to defend the dignity and honor of the vaccine that this,
00:15:21.920 that's why this is the one time, uh, when the comorbidities actually matter. If it wasn't
00:15:29.580 for that, you know, if he was not fully vaccinated and he died with COVID at the age of 84 and along,
00:15:38.260 alongside a bunch of other, uh, terminal illnesses, they wouldn't be mentioning those illnesses at
00:15:43.260 all. We know that. All right. Next we've got from the daily wire. It says, as we continue to track
00:15:49.180 the situation in Loudoun County, Loudoun County prosecutor Buddha Bibaraj defended the decision
00:15:55.180 to transfer a boy accused of sexually assaulting a female student in a girl's bathroom to a different
00:15:59.320 high school in the same school district late last week, telling local media that the boy had no
00:16:04.240 prior record. The daily wire reported earlier in October that Scott Smith's daughter was allegedly
00:16:09.580 raped in a high school bathroom by a male student who reportedly identifies as gender fluid. Um, so we
00:16:15.480 know about the background there. Then the 15 year old student who was according to Smith charged with
00:16:20.240 several counts of sexual assault, uh, including a charge of forcible rape and a charge of forcible
00:16:25.000 sodomy, ostensibly violent crimes. The student, however, was transferred to another school
00:16:29.480 within the same district and reportedly went on to commit a second sexual assault.
00:16:34.740 Bibaraj, according to Smith and Smith's attorney, Elizabeth Lancaster pushed for jail time against
00:16:39.640 Smith who was slapped with charges of disorderly conduct and resisting arrest.
00:16:45.500 And Bibaraj, of course, knew when Smith showed up to the, to the school board meeting and was
00:16:51.880 extremely, extremely angry because his daughter had just been raped in a bathroom. Um, and then gets
00:16:58.180 arrested. Bibaraj knew exactly all, all of the background on it. He's the prosecutor
00:17:04.160 and yet he's still pushed for jail time for this father.
00:17:12.260 Think about how evil and twisted that is and just cruel and callous.
00:17:18.220 You know that this is the father of a, of a young girl who's been raped
00:17:23.740 in a school in your district.
00:17:28.520 And he commits the crime of getting upset
00:17:31.220 at a school board meeting, upset after
00:17:34.780 they just lied to his face
00:17:37.000 and said that no rape occurred.
00:17:40.780 And you want to throw him in jail for that.
00:17:42.560 Just complete and total callousness
00:17:47.540 and cruelty on the part of these people.
00:17:50.140 Um, Bibaraj told a Washington DC news outlet, quote,
00:17:54.060 we believe based on the facts
00:17:55.520 that he had no history of having done this prior to this offense that was alleged.
00:18:01.420 Um, she said, because of that, there was a belief it was unlikely
00:18:05.380 he would re-offend.
00:18:07.140 She said her office consulted with the family of the victim
00:18:10.140 and the office of probation about the decision.
00:18:12.720 She said the judge agreed with the recommendation.
00:18:16.760 She then suggested that there are unreported details about the alleged attack.
00:18:20.900 I would ask this for people to be patient because as we know,
00:18:23.980 what sometimes is reported initially
00:18:25.500 is not then what the end result of all the facts are.
00:18:28.480 So her excuse for sending this, um, alleged rapist to another school
00:18:37.380 where he allegedly raped again
00:18:38.980 is that he had no prior history of committing a rape
00:18:41.460 except for the one he just committed.
00:18:45.180 So what she's saying is,
00:18:47.020 yeah, except for that,
00:18:49.240 except for that he hadn't raped anybody.
00:18:51.940 And so that's why we sent him to another school.
00:18:58.480 Again, cruelty and callousness,
00:19:00.760 total disregard for
00:19:02.300 the safety of, uh, of, of the kids in the school.
00:19:08.480 Not at all concerned about what is actually the right thing to do.
00:19:11.560 That, that doesn't even factor in.
00:19:15.400 Related issue here, Terry McAuliffe,
00:19:17.200 as we head to the gubernatorial election
00:19:19.460 in early November in Virginia.
00:19:22.600 Now we know that Terry McAuliffe has gotten himself into trouble
00:19:24.840 because he said during a debate
00:19:26.860 that, that parents should not be the ones deciding
00:19:29.940 what their, their, their own kids are taught in school.
00:19:33.700 That's what he said.
00:19:34.340 Those were his own words.
00:19:36.580 And, uh, he's, he,
00:19:37.860 it was a mistake to say that out loud.
00:19:41.480 That's, that's one of those things that, uh,
00:19:43.180 you shouldn't think at all,
00:19:44.180 but if you do, you shouldn't say it out loud
00:19:45.340 when you're running for governor in Virginia.
00:19:47.180 And so this has been a,
00:19:48.240 this has been a, a real crisis for him
00:19:51.320 heading into the election.
00:19:52.000 And to, to, to show you how bad it is,
00:19:54.180 here is an ad that the Terry McAuliffe campaign
00:19:57.400 just put out as we're just two weeks away
00:19:59.120 from the election.
00:19:59.960 And this is their kind of closing argument.
00:20:02.300 Listen to this.
00:20:04.300 As parents, Dorothy and I have always been involved
00:20:06.800 in our kids' education.
00:20:08.240 We know good schools depend on involved parents.
00:20:11.220 That's why I want you to hear this from me.
00:20:13.580 Glenn Youngkin's taking my words out of context.
00:20:16.300 I've always valued the concerns of parents.
00:20:18.700 It's why as governor, we scaled back standardized testing,
00:20:22.600 expanded pre-K,
00:20:23.920 and invested a billion dollars in public schools.
00:20:26.800 I'm Terry McAuliffe, candidate for governor.
00:20:28.600 And I sponsored this ad because working together,
00:20:31.060 we can give our kids the education they deserve.
00:20:34.060 Yeah, that is never a good sign
00:20:35.680 when you're running a campaign
00:20:36.780 and you have to put out an ad
00:20:38.400 that contains the words,
00:20:40.420 I've been taken out of context.
00:20:42.620 That is never a good sign,
00:20:43.960 especially two weeks from the election.
00:20:45.200 And it's not true, of course.
00:20:46.280 He's not being taken out of context.
00:20:47.360 That's exactly what he said.
00:20:50.300 Parents should not be the ones
00:20:51.540 to decide what their kids are taught.
00:20:54.500 That's what he said.
00:20:57.200 That's the quote from his own mouth.
00:20:58.540 We all heard him say it.
00:21:00.820 Now, when he says taken out of context,
00:21:02.060 what he means is,
00:21:02.800 I didn't mean to say that out loud.
00:21:05.860 And that's not the same thing
00:21:06.480 as being taken out of context.
00:21:09.140 But never a good sign
00:21:10.300 when this is your closing argument
00:21:11.820 that, oh, I've been taken out of context.
00:21:13.460 That means, of course,
00:21:16.240 that you're on defense.
00:21:19.560 This is almost at the level of,
00:21:21.700 not quite,
00:21:22.440 but who was that Republican in Delaware
00:21:24.020 years ago who put out the ad,
00:21:26.180 I think running for Senate,
00:21:27.380 put out an ad saying,
00:21:28.280 I'm not a witch.
00:21:30.160 She had to defend herself
00:21:31.140 from charges of being a witch.
00:21:33.340 And, you know,
00:21:34.140 this is not quite as bad as that,
00:21:36.040 but it's still pretty bad.
00:21:38.400 All right.
00:21:38.860 So here are two people
00:21:39.800 that we're going to lump together,
00:21:40.900 seemingly unrelated,
00:21:41.660 Stacey Abrams and Pete Buttigieg.
00:21:44.100 First, there's a documentary
00:21:45.300 about Pete Buttigieg coming out
00:21:47.280 for some reason.
00:21:49.300 And there's a trailer.
00:21:50.600 And for some reason,
00:21:51.200 I'm going to play that trailer
00:21:52.140 for you now.
00:21:52.800 Here it is.
00:21:53.260 Watch it.
00:21:54.520 Anything you want to make sure
00:21:55.840 that I ask him?
00:21:57.580 You spent so much of your life
00:21:58.980 hiding who you truly were.
00:22:01.160 Did you feel like you were able
00:22:02.560 to be your true self
00:22:03.620 for the campaign trail?
00:22:06.300 A hometown boy
00:22:07.500 who went to Harvard
00:22:08.360 and became a Rhodes Scholar
00:22:09.780 only to return to the city
00:22:11.700 where he grew up.
00:22:12.840 He's also a newlywed.
00:22:14.420 I made Pete promise
00:22:15.380 that we would have fun.
00:22:17.160 This is the only chance
00:22:18.220 you'll ever get
00:22:18.920 to vote for a Maltese American
00:22:20.780 left-handed Episcopalian
00:22:22.200 gay war veteran
00:22:22.940 Mayor Milena.
00:22:23.560 It's a leap going
00:22:27.460 from being a mayor
00:22:28.260 to being a presidential candidate.
00:22:30.320 But I realized
00:22:31.180 I had something to offer
00:22:32.040 that was just different.
00:22:34.080 I mean, there are literally,
00:22:36.200 literally dozens
00:22:38.080 of people who will be waiting
00:22:40.620 to watch that documentary.
00:22:42.900 That's probably,
00:22:43.880 that's probably a generous estimate.
00:22:46.160 Now, I'll have something
00:22:47.540 to say about that in a minute.
00:22:48.380 But like I said,
00:22:48.820 I'm going to put these together.
00:22:49.860 We also have Stacey Abrams.
00:22:51.120 She was campaigning in Virginia
00:22:53.560 for Terry McAuliffe
00:22:54.540 and he's brought in
00:22:56.380 Stacey Abrams.
00:22:58.160 He's brought in Kamala Harris.
00:22:59.360 He's got, you know,
00:23:00.200 Joe Biden helping him out.
00:23:02.120 So he's bringing in
00:23:02.880 all these people from outside
00:23:04.040 for this gubernatorial race,
00:23:06.040 all these people
00:23:06.400 who are not,
00:23:06.800 who are not residents of Virginia.
00:23:08.780 And he's bringing them in
00:23:10.020 to help him out.
00:23:11.780 But, but, but remember,
00:23:13.160 you know, at a school board meeting,
00:23:15.600 they don't want outsiders.
00:23:17.300 If you're, if you're not from Virginia,
00:23:18.660 if you're not a resident
00:23:19.400 or at least a former,
00:23:20.520 a former resident like me,
00:23:21.960 then you don't belong there.
00:23:23.940 And they say that
00:23:24.860 while their,
00:23:25.600 their gubernatorial candidate
00:23:27.800 is enlisting,
00:23:30.940 it's pretty much nothing
00:23:32.520 but people from outside of Virginia.
00:23:34.720 What does that tell you?
00:23:36.900 So here's Stacey Abrams
00:23:38.140 campaigning in Virginia
00:23:39.280 for Terry McAuliffe.
00:23:40.260 And here's what she had to say.
00:23:42.880 You see, I'm here to tell you
00:23:44.260 that just because you win
00:23:45.820 doesn't mean you're one.
00:23:48.800 We've got folks
00:23:49.780 who were ready to take back
00:23:51.140 what they think is theirs,
00:23:52.600 but they are not entitled
00:23:53.920 to our progress.
00:23:55.400 They are not entitled
00:23:56.700 to our justice.
00:23:57.940 They are not entitled
00:23:59.220 to our votes.
00:24:01.880 But either we use them
00:24:03.340 or we lose them.
00:24:05.360 I come from a state
00:24:06.700 where I was not entitled
00:24:07.960 to become the governor,
00:24:09.460 but as an American citizen
00:24:10.800 and a citizen of Georgia,
00:24:11.760 I'm going to fight
00:24:12.260 for every person
00:24:13.060 who has the right to vote
00:24:14.200 to be able to cast that vote.
00:24:15.420 And here in Virginia,
00:24:16.580 you need to cast that vote
00:24:17.640 for Terry McAuliffe.
00:24:21.260 You need to cast that vote
00:24:22.760 for Hala Ayala.
00:24:24.540 You need to cast that vote
00:24:26.180 for Mark Herring.
00:24:27.720 And while you're at it,
00:24:28.880 go all the way down the ballot.
00:24:30.380 Don't stop till you reach the bottom.
00:24:33.680 And then double check your work.
00:24:38.320 Because we know,
00:24:40.200 blow-vue all the way through.
00:24:41.480 Because we know what is possible.
00:24:45.860 Okay, first of all,
00:24:47.160 you're actually correct,
00:24:48.800 Stacey Abrams,
00:24:49.460 that you're not entitled
00:24:51.180 to become governor.
00:24:53.460 She says that like it's a bad thing.
00:24:55.780 I wasn't entitled to be governor.
00:24:57.700 Well, yeah,
00:24:58.580 of course you're not entitled
00:24:59.480 to be governor.
00:25:00.040 No one is entitled
00:25:00.720 to be governor.
00:25:04.140 That's exactly our point.
00:25:05.840 But she still has not accepted
00:25:08.700 the results of that election,
00:25:10.140 which is,
00:25:10.560 this is an ongoing insurrection
00:25:12.920 being led by the militant,
00:25:16.420 radical insurrectionist,
00:25:18.720 Stacey Abrams,
00:25:19.500 in the state of Georgia.
00:25:20.820 Ongoing.
00:25:21.420 She has not accepted those results.
00:25:23.580 She still claims to be,
00:25:24.800 basically,
00:25:25.260 the shadow governor
00:25:26.180 of Georgia.
00:25:27.840 But when you watch that clip,
00:25:31.520 you see the thing
00:25:31.940 with Pete Buttigieg.
00:25:34.460 These two are similar in that
00:25:36.380 these are two of the most
00:25:39.420 incredibly unimpressive,
00:25:44.000 relentlessly unappealing people
00:25:46.500 in all of politics.
00:25:51.060 And they're also losers.
00:25:54.160 I mean,
00:25:54.460 they're making a documentary
00:25:55.640 about a guy who was
00:25:57.080 mayor of South Bend,
00:25:59.060 I think it was.
00:26:00.080 And then he runs for president
00:26:01.320 and he fails miserably.
00:26:04.020 And then they make him
00:26:04.980 transportation secretary.
00:26:07.700 And he proceeds to take
00:26:08.760 a two-month paid vacation
00:26:09.980 in the middle
00:26:11.120 of a transportation crisis.
00:26:12.380 And he gets a documentary.
00:26:14.820 Stacey Abrams
00:26:15.440 has just never done anything.
00:26:17.920 What has she done?
00:26:18.880 Why is she a thing?
00:26:19.740 She's like Billy,
00:26:20.380 this is the political
00:26:21.700 Billy Porter.
00:26:23.920 She's a thing.
00:26:24.840 We all know her name.
00:26:25.460 Nobody knows why.
00:26:26.440 She's never done
00:26:27.100 anything at all.
00:26:29.180 She has no talent,
00:26:30.460 no charisma.
00:26:33.440 She looks a little bit
00:26:34.660 better in a dress
00:26:35.320 than Billy Porter,
00:26:36.020 but not much.
00:26:39.420 But you see how,
00:26:42.400 this is what makes them,
00:26:43.740 they're almost impressive
00:26:44.900 in their unimpressiveness
00:26:45.960 because they have
00:26:48.220 the most powerful PR team
00:26:49.740 in the world,
00:26:50.840 which is the American media,
00:26:52.140 trying to make these two,
00:26:54.360 Stacey Abrams
00:26:54.920 and Pete Buttigieg,
00:26:55.780 into rock stars,
00:26:57.140 doing everything they can
00:26:59.220 to make them into rock stars,
00:27:00.520 to make them a thing.
00:27:02.200 And it still isn't taken.
00:27:05.080 I mean,
00:27:05.280 if you have that kind of
00:27:06.660 PR support,
00:27:08.900 and if you have
00:27:09.540 that sort of marketing,
00:27:11.320 this is really millions
00:27:12.660 and millions of dollars
00:27:13.980 of marketing
00:27:14.700 that are behind them,
00:27:16.100 officially and unofficially.
00:27:17.780 And that should be enough
00:27:20.160 to make almost anyone,
00:27:21.440 at least on camera,
00:27:23.220 seem like a star.
00:27:25.960 You could just pull
00:27:26.980 like any random person
00:27:28.360 off the street,
00:27:30.260 put millions of dollars
00:27:31.240 of marketing behind them,
00:27:33.160 put the entire media
00:27:34.080 behind them,
00:27:35.100 and you can make them
00:27:36.320 into a star.
00:27:38.300 And it still has not
00:27:39.420 really worked with
00:27:40.160 Stacey Abrams
00:27:40.720 and Pete Buttigieg.
00:27:43.500 That's what nothings they are.
00:27:46.080 Absolute nothings.
00:27:48.700 For them,
00:27:49.420 it's not like you're
00:27:50.060 pulling a person
00:27:50.700 off the street
00:27:51.160 to try to make them a star.
00:27:52.100 This is like trying
00:27:52.980 to pull a roll
00:27:54.120 of paper towels
00:27:55.020 off of your kitchen counter
00:27:57.040 and making that
00:27:58.020 into a rock star.
00:28:01.420 Harder job.
00:28:02.860 Okay,
00:28:03.400 we got to talk about
00:28:04.900 this Hooters thing,
00:28:06.160 which is really important,
00:28:07.260 but before we get there,
00:28:09.860 one other brief thing
00:28:10.680 I want to play for you.
00:28:11.420 This is Jon Stewart
00:28:12.900 in an interview
00:28:13.620 had some thoughts,
00:28:15.000 some I thought
00:28:15.440 quite incoherent thoughts
00:28:16.580 about cancel culture.
00:28:17.780 Let's listen to that.
00:28:19.340 People that talk
00:28:20.340 about cancel culture
00:28:21.460 never seem to shut
00:28:23.340 the f**k up about it.
00:28:25.680 Like,
00:28:26.420 there's more speech now
00:28:27.880 than ever before.
00:28:29.420 It's not,
00:28:30.440 you can't say,
00:28:31.840 it's that when you say it,
00:28:33.820 look,
00:28:34.420 the internet
00:28:35.220 has democratized criticism.
00:28:37.660 What do we do
00:28:38.560 for a living?
00:28:40.020 We talk s**t,
00:28:41.420 we criticize,
00:28:43.600 we postulate,
00:28:44.980 we opine,
00:28:45.980 we make jokes,
00:28:48.300 and now other people
00:28:50.320 are having their say.
00:28:53.120 And that's not cancel culture,
00:28:55.440 that's relentlessness.
00:28:57.380 Yeah,
00:28:58.760 he didn't say it,
00:29:00.040 but he's going with,
00:29:01.300 it's not cancel culture,
00:29:02.180 it's accountability,
00:29:03.100 right?
00:29:03.600 That's what he's going with.
00:29:06.040 And we're simply pretending,
00:29:09.200 or at least Jon Stewart
00:29:10.320 is pretending
00:29:10.720 and wants us to pretend
00:29:11.640 that,
00:29:15.780 you know,
00:29:16.660 or rather,
00:29:18.220 we're ignoring
00:29:18.900 all of the canceled people
00:29:20.820 who weren't even public figures,
00:29:23.500 weren't even trying
00:29:24.700 to make a statement.
00:29:25.800 I mean,
00:29:25.960 think about this.
00:29:26.780 There are so many examples,
00:29:28.280 you couldn't possibly list them all.
00:29:30.020 One that comes immediately
00:29:30.960 to mind is,
00:29:31.900 what about that,
00:29:32.440 you know,
00:29:32.580 the truck driver
00:29:33.620 who was driving along
00:29:37.920 and,
00:29:38.340 you know,
00:29:38.960 was like cracking his knuckles
00:29:40.100 and made the mistake
00:29:42.060 of,
00:29:42.820 you know,
00:29:42.960 when he was cracking
00:29:44.220 one of his fingers
00:29:45.180 to make the okay gesture,
00:29:47.740 incidentally.
00:29:49.340 And next thing you know,
00:29:50.580 that guy's got the internet mom
00:29:51.880 coming after him,
00:29:52.340 he loses his job,
00:29:53.020 he loses everything.
00:29:55.600 Is that,
00:29:56.220 is that Jon Stewart,
00:29:57.080 is that just relentlessness?
00:29:59.340 Okay,
00:29:59.520 that was someone
00:30:00.000 who wasn't trying
00:30:00.700 to make any statement at all.
00:30:02.420 He was just living his life.
00:30:06.360 And the mob tracked him down
00:30:08.400 and ruined it
00:30:09.340 for no reason.
00:30:14.080 This is one of the hallmarks
00:30:15.400 of cancel culture.
00:30:17.760 No,
00:30:18.320 cancel culture is not just,
00:30:20.400 I express an opinion
00:30:23.100 and people are,
00:30:24.320 just disagree with that opinion
00:30:25.680 and they let you know about it.
00:30:27.900 That's not cancel culture.
00:30:29.380 People let me know every day
00:30:30.280 that they disagree with my opinions.
00:30:33.560 A cancel culture is,
00:30:36.420 one of,
00:30:40.080 one of the hallmarks is
00:30:41.400 when you go,
00:30:43.200 they go digging for it.
00:30:44.920 They go looking.
00:30:47.600 Okay,
00:30:48.020 let's,
00:30:48.320 let's find a reason.
00:30:49.620 Let's dig up a reason
00:30:51.080 to ruin someone.
00:30:55.700 John Gruden.
00:30:57.980 I mean,
00:30:58.620 he,
00:30:58.820 he wasn't out making
00:30:59.860 any public statements
00:31:00.980 at all to anyone.
00:31:03.920 This is not him
00:31:05.020 being held accountable
00:31:05.960 for the opinions
00:31:07.020 that he chose to express.
00:31:09.200 You know something,
00:31:09.660 with John Gruden,
00:31:10.820 if he had stood up
00:31:12.420 during a press conference
00:31:14.300 after a game
00:31:16.880 and had said
00:31:18.300 some of those things
00:31:19.460 that he said in the email
00:31:20.380 and he lost his job
00:31:23.160 for it,
00:31:24.260 I wouldn't be defending him.
00:31:26.360 I would say,
00:31:26.980 okay,
00:31:27.380 fine.
00:31:28.240 Because
00:31:28.660 you're,
00:31:29.800 you're a football coach.
00:31:31.280 Your job is to coach football.
00:31:32.840 You chose
00:31:33.860 to stand in front
00:31:34.860 of a microphone
00:31:35.700 and do that.
00:31:38.660 When,
00:31:39.120 when the people you work for,
00:31:40.260 they have no interest
00:31:40.900 in,
00:31:41.100 in that.
00:31:42.600 Okay,
00:31:43.000 so you,
00:31:43.420 you chose to take it
00:31:44.480 this direction
00:31:45.100 knowing the kind of environment
00:31:46.600 that we live in.
00:31:47.780 You have,
00:31:48.620 have chosen to bring
00:31:49.860 this kind of heat
00:31:50.740 on your employer
00:31:51.460 and yeah,
00:31:52.040 you're going to face
00:31:52.520 the consequences for that.
00:31:55.180 A football coach
00:31:56.000 just stick to football.
00:31:58.540 But that's not what happened.
00:32:01.220 These were private conversations
00:32:02.440 from a,
00:32:02.960 from a,
00:32:03.560 not only in a private email,
00:32:04.840 but from a private email address,
00:32:06.480 not even like an employer's email address.
00:32:08.560 This is from a Gmail account
00:32:09.620 or a Yahoo account
00:32:10.280 or something.
00:32:13.020 And they went digging for it
00:32:14.500 to ruin his life.
00:32:18.900 That's cancel culture.
00:32:22.900 Cancel culture is also ideological.
00:32:24.700 It's also political.
00:32:27.160 It's,
00:32:27.720 it is,
00:32:28.120 uh,
00:32:28.400 inconsistent
00:32:28.900 in the people that it targets.
00:32:34.260 So,
00:32:34.860 I mean,
00:32:35.080 you can call it
00:32:35.680 whatever you want.
00:32:36.680 Cancel culture
00:32:37.360 is just the label
00:32:38.480 that we've come up with
00:32:39.480 for this social phenomenon.
00:32:42.920 If you don't like cancel culture,
00:32:44.100 call it something else.
00:32:45.560 We can go back to just
00:32:46.540 good old fashioned pitchfork mob,
00:32:48.220 but,
00:32:48.460 but there's no denying
00:32:49.800 the phenomenon itself.
00:32:51.740 You can deny it all you want.
00:32:53.020 People can see what's right
00:32:53.720 in front of their face.
00:32:56.720 All right.
00:32:57.240 So,
00:32:57.980 there's been a controversy
00:32:59.180 over the new uniforms
00:33:00.720 for Hooters waitresses.
00:33:02.100 it is.
00:33:03.520 Um,
00:33:04.380 apparently the,
00:33:05.360 the weight,
00:33:06.100 the,
00:33:06.280 the uniforms are,
00:33:07.800 have been judged
00:33:08.500 too skimpy,
00:33:09.540 um,
00:33:11.320 for,
00:33:11.980 for the waitresses.
00:33:12.620 It,
00:33:13.160 I guess they,
00:33:14.800 Hooters had assigned
00:33:15.700 new shorts
00:33:17.280 that are not really shorts,
00:33:18.340 but they're more like bikini bottoms.
00:33:20.380 And,
00:33:20.860 um,
00:33:22.000 the waitresses
00:33:22.480 are very upset about this
00:33:23.500 and they were making their TikToks
00:33:25.180 and they were posting
00:33:26.060 on Instagram
00:33:26.480 and saying,
00:33:26.980 look,
00:33:27.120 look at what we're being for.
00:33:27.940 This is objectification.
00:33:29.180 We're being forced to wear this.
00:33:31.560 This is not what I signed up for
00:33:33.020 when I went to work
00:33:33.820 for something called Hooters.
00:33:36.400 And now here's the latest
00:33:37.460 from the New York Post.
00:33:38.740 It says,
00:33:39.420 Hooters rump roasted
00:33:40.400 new uniform policy
00:33:41.800 has bottomed out.
00:33:44.500 What?
00:33:45.980 Hooters rump roasted
00:33:47.100 new uniform policy
00:33:48.320 has bottomed out.
00:33:49.060 I don't even know
00:33:49.380 what that means,
00:33:49.840 New York Post.
00:33:50.980 That,
00:33:51.180 that doesn't mean anything.
00:33:52.040 Just get,
00:33:52.420 get to the point
00:33:53.000 or get to the,
00:33:53.520 the article.
00:33:54.080 Okay,
00:33:54.240 I will.
00:33:54.940 It says,
00:33:55.280 the company now says
00:33:56.060 it is reversing
00:33:56.780 its recent mandate
00:33:57.660 that female servers
00:33:59.000 trade in their
00:33:59.600 already short shorts
00:34:00.520 for new skin-tight
00:34:01.660 bikini cut bottoms.
00:34:03.980 A Hooters America
00:34:05.060 representative
00:34:05.700 wrote in an email
00:34:06.860 to Business Insider,
00:34:08.320 quote,
00:34:08.560 as we continue to listen
00:34:09.540 and update the,
00:34:10.300 the images of the Hooters girls,
00:34:11.940 we're clarifying
00:34:12.860 that they have the option
00:34:13.640 to choose from
00:34:14.220 traditional uniforms
00:34:14.960 or the new ones.
00:34:16.880 Quote,
00:34:17.520 they can determine
00:34:18.200 which style of shorts
00:34:19.160 best fits their body style
00:34:21.060 and personal image.
00:34:22.860 The Cheeky Company's
00:34:23.940 turnaround came after
00:34:25.180 some of its servers
00:34:25.960 took to social media
00:34:26.740 to rip the new underwear shorts.
00:34:29.100 Employee Kristen Songer
00:34:30.480 said in a trending
00:34:31.500 TikTok video,
00:34:32.380 oh look,
00:34:32.820 a wedgie.
00:34:34.540 Added Songer,
00:34:35.620 this is why all the
00:34:36.280 Hooters girls are upset
00:34:37.780 because this is not
00:34:39.280 what I agreed to wear
00:34:40.320 a year ago
00:34:40.980 when I was hired.
00:34:43.300 Still,
00:34:43.840 there are some others
00:34:44.420 who appear to plan
00:34:45.860 to,
00:34:46.200 they're still going
00:34:46.720 to wear them.
00:34:48.200 TikTok user
00:34:49.260 Jaz E
00:34:50.960 says,
00:34:51.580 I've been making
00:34:52.140 way more money
00:34:52.880 with the new shorts.
00:34:53.660 Okay,
00:34:56.840 so Songer says,
00:34:57.760 this is not
00:34:58.440 what I agreed
00:34:59.880 to wear
00:35:00.400 a year ago.
00:35:01.040 Well,
00:35:02.180 maybe not,
00:35:04.500 but you agreed
00:35:05.800 to work
00:35:06.400 for a company
00:35:07.840 called Hooters.
00:35:10.500 What did you think
00:35:11.480 that meant?
00:35:14.100 Did you,
00:35:14.540 did you,
00:35:15.020 did you think
00:35:16.660 that it was
00:35:17.160 a fraternity
00:35:19.780 of owl enthusiasts?
00:35:21.080 Is that what
00:35:21.840 you actually thought?
00:35:23.640 Did you think
00:35:23.980 you were going
00:35:24.260 to work
00:35:24.500 for a nature center?
00:35:25.940 A bird sanctuary?
00:35:31.420 Somehow,
00:35:32.000 I doubt that.
00:35:35.000 This is what
00:35:35.860 we find again,
00:35:37.060 as usual,
00:35:38.400 with this new,
00:35:39.320 especially pitiful
00:35:40.900 form of feminism,
00:35:43.520 where there's,
00:35:44.120 there's no personal,
00:35:45.540 talk about accountability.
00:35:47.980 It's like women
00:35:48.840 acting like they
00:35:49.520 have no free will.
00:35:51.600 Like they're
00:35:52.060 automatons
00:35:52.840 or something like that.
00:35:55.260 Like you just
00:35:55.960 woke up one day
00:35:57.060 and,
00:35:57.760 and you,
00:35:58.320 you,
00:35:58.700 you woke up
00:35:59.820 in a Hooters uniform
00:36:00.520 working for Hooters
00:36:01.260 with the name tag
00:36:01.880 and everything,
00:36:02.400 serving people hot wings.
00:36:04.120 Or maybe,
00:36:04.740 like you were kidnapped.
00:36:05.660 Like the Hooters
00:36:06.620 showed up at your house.
00:36:08.140 They sent,
00:36:08.700 they sent their,
00:36:10.000 their,
00:36:10.320 their armed goons
00:36:11.380 to your house
00:36:12.000 and put you in chains
00:36:13.500 and dragged you
00:36:14.380 to,
00:36:15.320 to go work for them.
00:36:16.160 If Hooters does that,
00:36:17.220 then I totally agree.
00:36:18.120 Then,
00:36:18.320 you know,
00:36:18.520 I oppose,
00:36:19.420 I oppose that.
00:36:20.300 I oppose all of it.
00:36:22.240 Um,
00:36:23.080 but no,
00:36:23.600 you,
00:36:23.900 you decided,
00:36:25.040 Hey,
00:36:25.160 I'm going to go work
00:36:25.940 for a place
00:36:26.900 where the whole attraction
00:36:29.780 is women wearing
00:36:31.000 skimpy outfits.
00:36:32.560 And I'm going to try
00:36:33.380 to profit off of that
00:36:34.300 because I'm going
00:36:36.400 to make more tips
00:36:37.100 working at Hooters
00:36:37.760 than I would
00:36:38.140 at Applebee's.
00:36:39.780 Presumably.
00:36:42.200 You know,
00:36:42.700 no one,
00:36:43.080 no one's going
00:36:45.240 to Hooters
00:36:45.620 for the,
00:36:46.060 for the food.
00:36:47.640 We all know
00:36:48.280 why they're going.
00:36:48.740 So you,
00:36:49.520 you make that choice
00:36:51.180 and then add,
00:36:53.240 act victimized
00:36:54.900 because you're
00:36:56.040 being objectified.
00:36:57.080 Yeah,
00:36:57.400 it is.
00:36:58.060 Is it degrading?
00:36:59.180 Is it insulting?
00:36:59.960 Is it objectifying?
00:37:00.840 To work at a place
00:37:03.160 called Hooters?
00:37:05.500 Yeah,
00:37:06.000 it absolutely is.
00:37:08.880 I could see why
00:37:09.900 women wouldn't want
00:37:10.560 to work there.
00:37:11.060 I could see why
00:37:11.360 most women don't.
00:37:14.540 This is why
00:37:15.180 no daughter of mine
00:37:16.060 is ever going to work
00:37:16.680 for a place called Hooters.
00:37:19.040 But that's the decision
00:37:20.140 that you made
00:37:20.920 to go and work there
00:37:22.380 and to objectify yourself.
00:37:24.640 And here's the thing.
00:37:27.340 When you make that decision,
00:37:29.580 now,
00:37:29.820 you could make
00:37:30.900 that poor decision
00:37:31.780 and then change your mind
00:37:33.100 and leave.
00:37:33.880 That's a great idea.
00:37:34.720 You could say,
00:37:35.280 actually,
00:37:35.580 I don't want to do this.
00:37:36.160 This is incredibly insulting.
00:37:38.000 Maybe I will go work
00:37:38.880 for Applebee's,
00:37:39.440 which is only,
00:37:39.820 which is only
00:37:40.500 slightly less insulting.
00:37:43.960 You can,
00:37:44.780 you know,
00:37:45.220 you can make that decision.
00:37:46.580 But if you choose
00:37:47.500 to stay there
00:37:48.440 in this objectifying
00:37:50.320 environment
00:37:51.680 where you,
00:37:52.760 where you have made
00:37:53.540 yourself
00:37:54.160 and your,
00:37:54.860 sort of your sexuality,
00:37:56.180 your body
00:37:56.940 into a commodity,
00:37:58.240 when you do that,
00:38:00.160 you can't really
00:38:01.100 start drawing lines
00:38:02.600 in the sand.
00:38:03.820 You can try,
00:38:05.560 but you've already
00:38:06.600 bought in
00:38:07.320 to making yourself
00:38:08.920 into a commodity.
00:38:12.400 So,
00:38:13.020 when you say,
00:38:13.520 I'm going to sacrifice,
00:38:15.080 you know,
00:38:15.360 I want to sacrifice
00:38:15.940 my dignity,
00:38:17.320 but,
00:38:17.460 but this little shred
00:38:19.980 of it,
00:38:20.240 I want to hold on to.
00:38:22.580 I'll give you my dignity,
00:38:23.680 but there's this little
00:38:24.520 thimble full of dignity
00:38:25.760 that I want to keep
00:38:26.520 for myself.
00:38:27.360 I can't give you
00:38:28.120 all of it.
00:38:30.220 You can try to do that.
00:38:31.380 Many people have tried
00:38:32.280 that,
00:38:32.780 but it's,
00:38:33.160 it's,
00:38:33.820 it never works.
00:38:36.400 Because once you agree
00:38:37.340 to it,
00:38:37.780 what you find is that
00:38:38.740 you give up
00:38:40.360 a little bit of your dignity,
00:38:41.360 you end up giving it all.
00:38:44.640 Better option would be
00:38:45.520 to just keep it
00:38:46.840 for yourself
00:38:47.360 in the first place.
00:38:49.040 That would be my advice.
00:38:50.780 All right,
00:38:51.060 let's get now
00:38:52.040 to reading the comments.
00:38:54.980 This theocratic
00:38:56.260 vowship dictatorship
00:38:57.540 is on its way.
00:38:58.900 Daily cancellations
00:39:00.180 are the law
00:39:00.920 and order of the day.
00:39:04.280 We're the sweet baby gang.
00:39:09.160 All right,
00:39:09.700 let me see here.
00:39:10.280 Caleb says,
00:39:11.060 dad of three daughters here.
00:39:12.580 Matt is 100% correct
00:39:13.860 on paternity leave.
00:39:15.540 My current employer
00:39:16.280 gave me two full weeks
00:39:17.400 of paid leave
00:39:18.120 for the birth
00:39:18.600 of my youngest.
00:39:19.760 I recognize
00:39:20.200 this is a luxury
00:39:21.120 that it is a discretion
00:39:22.460 of my employer.
00:39:24.280 My previous employer
00:39:25.180 made me use
00:39:25.840 my own PTO
00:39:26.680 and anything more
00:39:27.540 than a week
00:39:27.900 was frowned upon.
00:39:29.320 When we had
00:39:29.940 our youngest
00:39:30.300 earlier this year,
00:39:31.000 I did spend
00:39:31.440 most of my two weeks
00:39:32.220 caring for the older
00:39:32.880 two girls
00:39:33.340 and doing housework
00:39:34.560 for my wife,
00:39:35.120 especially because
00:39:35.560 the baby refused
00:39:36.260 to bond with me
00:39:36.980 for a full week.
00:39:40.520 Yeah,
00:39:40.960 that is,
00:39:41.340 that's why I said before,
00:39:42.640 paternity leave,
00:39:43.860 whatever you want to call it,
00:39:44.740 whether you're taking
00:39:46.100 leave or not,
00:39:47.140 or if you just have
00:39:48.020 a few days like I did,
00:39:48.980 like Caleb did,
00:39:50.420 if you have older kids
00:39:52.120 as the dad,
00:39:53.260 then that becomes
00:39:55.280 your primary role.
00:39:55.980 You're taking care
00:39:56.480 of your wife
00:39:56.920 and you're taking care
00:39:57.440 of the older kids
00:39:58.100 while your wife recovers
00:40:00.260 and also is the one
00:40:02.600 who's doing the lion's share
00:40:03.660 of caring for the baby.
00:40:05.360 So that is another one
00:40:07.340 of the really important roles
00:40:08.660 that a dad plays.
00:40:09.600 It's just that
00:40:12.440 this is a,
00:40:13.580 this is a sort of
00:40:14.540 a supporting role.
00:40:17.040 And the thing is
00:40:17.800 that there's,
00:40:18.240 there's humility
00:40:19.220 in acknowledging that
00:40:21.460 and in saying,
00:40:24.060 you know,
00:40:24.320 when the,
00:40:24.620 when the baby is born,
00:40:25.760 really all through
00:40:27.640 the pregnancy,
00:40:28.200 the baby is born,
00:40:30.020 uh,
00:40:31.020 the,
00:40:31.240 the mom,
00:40:32.220 mom and baby
00:40:33.040 are the stars
00:40:34.420 of the show,
00:40:35.020 right?
00:40:35.320 They're,
00:40:35.600 they're the focal point
00:40:36.640 and you as the dad,
00:40:38.240 you're kind of,
00:40:38.860 you're doing the grunt work.
00:40:40.200 You're out on,
00:40:41.220 you're,
00:40:41.480 you're out on the edges.
00:40:42.980 Um,
00:40:43.880 you're,
00:40:44.440 you're doing what's,
00:40:46.040 what's asked of you to do.
00:40:47.840 And,
00:40:48.360 uh,
00:40:48.480 you're,
00:40:48.740 you're picking up slack
00:40:50.480 where you can
00:40:51.100 and playing that kind
00:40:52.860 of supportive,
00:40:53.640 supporting role.
00:40:55.600 And you would think
00:40:56.500 for men,
00:40:56.920 for men to acknowledge that
00:40:58.540 and say,
00:40:59.000 look,
00:40:59.140 that's my role after when
00:41:00.300 that,
00:41:00.920 that is my role here.
00:41:02.680 You would think
00:41:03.480 that feminists
00:41:04.340 and women
00:41:04.920 and the left,
00:41:06.220 you,
00:41:06.520 you'd think that they would
00:41:07.900 embrace that
00:41:08.900 and say,
00:41:09.500 great.
00:41:12.560 But no,
00:41:13.020 it's like they,
00:41:13.460 they got mad at me
00:41:14.620 for not pretending
00:41:18.060 that I had a bigger role,
00:41:19.740 that I have a bigger role
00:41:20.540 than I really do,
00:41:21.560 which is interesting.
00:41:24.860 Um,
00:41:26.980 E432 says,
00:41:28.220 you can make the argument
00:41:28.980 that twins are harder,
00:41:30.120 but oh wait,
00:41:30.900 Mr. Walsh has twins
00:41:32.000 and knows what it's like.
00:41:33.640 Yes,
00:41:33.900 dads can help more with twins.
00:41:35.360 I nanny twins.
00:41:37.080 But the four weeks
00:41:37.780 of paternity leave
00:41:38.580 he got was just too much.
00:41:40.320 Yeah,
00:41:40.520 twins,
00:41:40.980 twins do,
00:41:41.440 of course twins make it
00:41:42.080 a lot harder.
00:41:43.840 Having twin babies
00:41:44.740 is very difficult.
00:41:46.340 That was our first way.
00:41:47.240 We started with twins.
00:41:48.280 We,
00:41:48.380 we dove right into
00:41:49.360 the deep end with it
00:41:50.240 and it was really hard.
00:41:51.540 But the other thing is
00:41:52.160 also,
00:41:53.080 no matter how much
00:41:53.540 paternity leave you have,
00:41:54.900 and I think my wife
00:41:56.320 and I,
00:41:56.560 we realized this that,
00:41:58.040 uh,
00:41:58.460 because I only had a few days
00:41:59.400 and I had to get back to work.
00:42:00.920 Well,
00:42:01.760 even if you have four weeks,
00:42:02.640 even if you have eight weeks,
00:42:03.520 you're going to have to figure out
00:42:06.040 how to do this
00:42:06.800 with at least one of you
00:42:07.760 working eventually.
00:42:10.640 So,
00:42:11.140 even if you buy yourself
00:42:12.120 four weeks,
00:42:13.100 in the end,
00:42:13.800 it doesn't really make much
00:42:14.720 of a difference
00:42:15.180 because you've got a whole life now.
00:42:17.500 Okay,
00:42:17.700 you've got a lifetime now
00:42:18.980 of,
00:42:19.360 of being a parent of twins.
00:42:21.420 And at least 18 years
00:42:22.700 of that life
00:42:23.340 are going to be,
00:42:24.020 there's,
00:42:24.540 there's going to be
00:42:24.980 a lot of challenges.
00:42:26.560 So,
00:42:26.940 you've got to figure it out.
00:42:28.760 One way or another.
00:42:31.080 Um,
00:42:32.800 LRT says,
00:42:33.880 when are you going to do
00:42:34.480 a review of the
00:42:35.400 Let's Go Brandon rap song?
00:42:37.480 Number one on iTunes.
00:42:40.140 Yeah,
00:42:40.460 I wanted to play that song.
00:42:41.540 Okay,
00:42:41.740 so I,
00:42:42.100 you,
00:42:42.400 I didn't know about it
00:42:43.080 until you told me about it.
00:42:44.040 Uh,
00:42:44.240 there is a rap song,
00:42:45.080 a Let's Go Brandon rap song.
00:42:48.560 And,
00:42:49.000 um,
00:42:49.480 I,
00:42:49.740 I did want to play it,
00:42:50.900 but
00:42:51.080 there's,
00:42:53.040 I think every second
00:42:54.480 in the song,
00:42:55.280 there's an F-bomb,
00:42:56.420 bomb.
00:42:57.040 Uh,
00:42:57.320 it's,
00:42:57.600 it's like part of the,
00:42:58.320 part of the beat
00:42:59.120 is the F-bomb.
00:43:00.040 And so I,
00:43:00.400 I decided not to do that.
00:43:01.860 I had some mercy on our editors
00:43:03.100 and I decided not to do that.
00:43:04.420 So I can't play,
00:43:05.260 but you could go if you wanted to
00:43:06.180 and go track it down on YouTube.
00:43:08.080 Um,
00:43:08.440 I did listen to it.
00:43:09.320 What's my review of it?
00:43:10.260 Uh,
00:43:10.620 first of all,
00:43:11.160 I just want to say that it's,
00:43:12.240 it's great that,
00:43:13.040 you know,
00:43:14.000 the rapper,
00:43:14.620 and that song is so,
00:43:15.960 so supportive of Brandon.
00:43:17.780 It's great that everybody
00:43:18.700 is so supportive of Brandon
00:43:19.840 these days.
00:43:21.100 And,
00:43:21.520 um,
00:43:21.880 other than that,
00:43:22.440 what can I say?
00:43:22.900 I mean,
00:43:23.020 the song really spoke to me.
00:43:23.980 It's catchy,
00:43:24.640 but it has real depth.
00:43:27.160 It has soul to it.
00:43:28.940 I loved it.
00:43:30.080 Too early to talk about
00:43:31.400 where it falls in the list
00:43:32.400 of greatest songs of all time.
00:43:33.760 I think it's definitely
00:43:34.700 in the top 50,
00:43:35.380 no question about it.
00:43:36.840 Um,
00:43:37.400 and,
00:43:37.800 uh,
00:43:37.940 beyond that,
00:43:38.460 it's really in the conversation.
00:43:39.600 Also,
00:43:40.640 about the Let's Go Brandon
00:43:41.980 trend in general,
00:43:43.240 I,
00:43:43.960 I did want to say
00:43:44.660 that I actually think
00:43:46.020 that this is pretty devastating
00:43:47.340 politically for Joe Biden.
00:43:50.220 Not to make too much of it,
00:43:51.960 but,
00:43:52.860 but I mean that.
00:43:54.240 The trend is devastating,
00:43:56.220 not the song specifically.
00:43:57.360 Though the fact that
00:43:58.200 they're making songs now
00:43:59.300 really tells you something.
00:44:00.700 And I'll tell you why
00:44:02.500 it's devastating politically.
00:44:04.500 Because Let's Go Brandon
00:44:05.800 along with the more vulgar
00:44:07.760 version of that chant.
00:44:10.460 All of this makes a mockery
00:44:12.000 of Biden,
00:44:13.080 right?
00:44:13.920 It makes him into a joke,
00:44:15.640 into a silly,
00:44:16.580 sort of contemptible,
00:44:18.120 ridiculous person.
00:44:19.800 And that's the death knell
00:44:21.160 for a president
00:44:21.960 or for any politician.
00:44:24.420 If not the death knell,
00:44:25.620 it's,
00:44:25.760 it's,
00:44:26.020 it's very hard to come back
00:44:27.260 from that
00:44:27.680 when you become
00:44:28.560 a ridiculous punchline.
00:44:31.040 And the left usually
00:44:32.460 has a much easier job
00:44:33.740 of doing this
00:44:34.280 to Republican presidents,
00:44:35.820 partly because they have
00:44:36.780 the media on their side.
00:44:38.080 Also because,
00:44:39.960 you know,
00:44:40.100 let's face it,
00:44:40.720 some of the most recent
00:44:41.760 Republican presidents
00:44:42.700 have made it pretty easy
00:44:45.380 for the left
00:44:46.200 to make fun of them.
00:44:47.400 But Obama
00:44:48.340 never really became
00:44:50.240 a joke.
00:44:50.960 the right could never
00:44:53.480 quite get there with him.
00:44:54.740 He was a joke
00:44:55.560 in many ways,
00:44:56.840 but he was never seen
00:44:57.660 that way
00:44:58.220 in the popular imagination.
00:45:01.520 Even Clinton.
00:45:02.540 Yeah,
00:45:02.700 there were a ton
00:45:03.260 of Clinton punchlines,
00:45:04.580 but it wasn't,
00:45:05.760 it wasn't like this
00:45:06.840 where Joe Biden
00:45:08.840 is just a joke.
00:45:10.180 He's this pitiful,
00:45:12.280 pathetic,
00:45:14.040 ludicrous clown.
00:45:17.260 And there are a lot
00:45:18.120 of things.
00:45:18.560 I mean,
00:45:18.700 you can make a politician,
00:45:20.940 you can paint them,
00:45:21.920 you figure out
00:45:22.640 how you want to brand them
00:45:23.920 as the opposition.
00:45:25.460 You can brand them
00:45:26.360 as tyrannical,
00:45:28.100 as lawless,
00:45:29.240 as corrupt,
00:45:30.720 dishonest.
00:45:31.380 You can brand them
00:45:32.160 as,
00:45:33.280 I mean,
00:45:33.720 even incompetent.
00:45:38.460 None of that.
00:45:39.220 I mean,
00:45:39.320 all of that
00:45:39.940 they can work around.
00:45:42.380 But you brand them
00:45:43.460 a joke.
00:45:44.500 You brand them
00:45:45.180 ridiculous.
00:45:47.760 And that's hard
00:45:48.480 to come back from.
00:45:49.840 And that's kind of
00:45:50.340 what the Let's Go Brandon
00:45:51.580 thing represents.
00:45:54.660 And I think it's fantastic.
00:45:55.900 I think it's great.
00:45:56.880 You know,
00:45:57.100 for those of us
00:45:57.580 who grew up
00:45:58.200 before smartphones
00:45:59.520 and before the internet,
00:46:02.800 it may seem
00:46:03.380 to younger people
00:46:04.180 like we have
00:46:04.760 no past at all
00:46:05.940 because you can't
00:46:06.600 find our past
00:46:07.920 on the internet.
00:46:09.440 We don't have it
00:46:10.220 stored away
00:46:10.720 on the phones.
00:46:11.240 Like,
00:46:11.340 did we just fall
00:46:12.400 from the sky one day
00:46:13.400 or we dug up
00:46:14.520 out of the ground
00:46:15.280 or something like that?
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00:46:16.880 it's just that
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00:46:17.880 and our memories,
00:46:18.700 they are stored
00:46:19.300 on antiquated technology
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00:47:35.140 Let's get now
00:47:36.100 to our daily cancellation.
00:47:40.960 So today we cancel
00:47:41.980 a woman named Alice Evans
00:47:43.460 who, according to her bio,
00:47:45.900 is a lecturer
00:47:46.660 at King's College London,
00:47:48.340 a faculty associate
00:47:49.300 at Harvard
00:47:49.740 and an author
00:47:50.700 who writes about issues
00:47:51.640 related to gender equality
00:47:52.860 and the patriarchy.
00:47:53.660 That's probably more information
00:47:54.680 than you ever needed
00:47:55.660 to know about somebody
00:47:56.420 called Alice Evans
00:47:57.180 but you never know
00:47:58.000 what you'll learn on this show.
00:47:59.360 So the reason we're talking
00:48:00.260 about her today
00:48:00.780 is that she recently wrote
00:48:01.980 a blog post
00:48:02.800 which she shared on Twitter
00:48:04.280 titled Smash the Fraternity
00:48:06.060 and in the post
00:48:07.340 she complains
00:48:08.160 that men have an advantage
00:48:09.620 in the corporate world
00:48:10.420 because of the fraternal bonds
00:48:12.000 formed through
00:48:12.940 sports banter,
00:48:14.380 she says,
00:48:15.120 smoke breaks
00:48:15.840 and in the men's restroom.
00:48:18.240 Now if you're a man
00:48:19.180 hearing this already
00:48:19.900 you're probably confused
00:48:20.860 because you probably
00:48:22.380 don't take smoke breaks
00:48:23.460 and you've never held
00:48:24.220 a conversation
00:48:24.800 with another person
00:48:25.580 in any restroom
00:48:26.280 in your life
00:48:26.920 and I'm just as confounded
00:48:28.580 as you
00:48:28.920 but we'll get back
00:48:29.680 to that in a moment.
00:48:30.560 First let's hear from Alice
00:48:31.560 let's let her
00:48:32.360 make her case.
00:48:33.820 She says,
00:48:34.260 quote,
00:48:35.060 male bosses
00:48:35.700 and male dominated
00:48:36.500 workplaces
00:48:37.120 consistently fail
00:48:38.080 to recognize
00:48:38.740 and elevate
00:48:39.900 female talent.
00:48:42.140 Rewards and promotions
00:48:43.060 go to those
00:48:43.840 who put in long hours.
00:48:45.280 Men can take advantage
00:48:46.040 of this system
00:48:46.600 because they're emancipated
00:48:47.560 by women
00:48:47.920 who continue to shoulder
00:48:49.040 the burden
00:48:49.460 of social reproduction
00:48:50.340 at home.
00:48:51.400 Thus the contemporary
00:48:52.020 system of employment
00:48:52.800 is predicated
00:48:53.400 on the domestic gender
00:48:54.640 division of labor.
00:48:55.800 Entrenching their
00:48:56.340 first mover advantage
00:48:57.340 the male nomenclature
00:48:58.680 tends to disregard
00:48:59.480 women's expertise
00:49:00.280 and resist
00:49:01.300 family friendly reforms.
00:49:02.360 So if you really want
00:49:03.420 to level the playing field
00:49:04.180 it's time to smash
00:49:05.540 the fraternity.
00:49:06.980 By the way
00:49:07.420 the word fraternity
00:49:09.480 doesn't just refer
00:49:10.880 to a group of
00:49:11.600 drunken hooligans
00:49:13.040 doing keg stands
00:49:13.880 right?
00:49:14.960 Fraternity also means
00:49:15.980 friendship,
00:49:17.200 bonds,
00:49:18.340 mutual support
00:49:19.340 and respect.
00:49:20.880 What feminist Alice
00:49:22.140 wants to do
00:49:22.880 is smash
00:49:23.640 male friendship.
00:49:25.520 She's noticed
00:49:26.000 that men can get along
00:49:27.040 with each other
00:49:27.580 can develop bonds
00:49:29.040 of respect
00:49:29.720 and she wants
00:49:30.880 to destroy that.
00:49:32.980 This comes as no
00:49:33.820 surprise of course.
00:49:35.180 Feminists have always
00:49:35.800 been driven
00:49:36.260 almost exclusively
00:49:37.080 by their desire
00:49:37.960 their jealousy
00:49:39.320 of men
00:49:39.760 and their desire
00:49:40.260 to become men.
00:49:41.660 And the thing
00:49:42.000 that constantly
00:49:42.540 reminds them
00:49:43.320 of the fact
00:49:44.480 that they aren't men
00:49:45.260 is that they're
00:49:46.340 unable to bond
00:49:47.220 with men
00:49:47.680 the same way
00:49:48.200 that men do
00:49:48.700 with each other
00:49:49.200 which means that
00:49:49.920 those bonds
00:49:50.700 are the things
00:49:51.120 that they hate
00:49:51.560 the most.
00:49:52.820 That's why you
00:49:53.200 should never marry
00:49:53.780 a feminist
00:49:54.200 or date a feminist
00:49:55.200 or spend more
00:49:55.880 than 45 seconds
00:49:56.680 in a room
00:49:57.100 with a feminist.
00:49:58.600 She'll make
00:49:59.120 your life miserable
00:49:59.740 in many ways
00:50:00.420 ways you can't
00:50:00.980 even imagine
00:50:01.500 but this will be
00:50:02.480 a big point
00:50:02.980 of contention.
00:50:03.500 She will not
00:50:04.020 want you to have
00:50:04.680 male friends.
00:50:05.280 She will resent
00:50:05.880 your ability
00:50:06.540 to get along
00:50:07.400 with other men
00:50:07.920 given that she
00:50:08.460 cannot get along
00:50:09.440 with other men
00:50:09.920 or other women
00:50:10.560 for that matter
00:50:10.980 or anybody.
00:50:12.640 Back to Alice.
00:50:13.220 She says
00:50:13.480 patriarchy has persisted
00:50:15.260 for thousands of years.
00:50:17.000 Yada yada yada
00:50:17.840 etc.
00:50:18.280 Skipping ahead.
00:50:19.560 Male bonding
00:50:20.080 is part of the story.
00:50:21.420 Building trust
00:50:21.980 and respect.
00:50:23.500 Homosocial schmoozing
00:50:24.620 talking about sports
00:50:26.280 and sharing smoke breaks.
00:50:28.220 So if you ever talk
00:50:28.800 about sports
00:50:29.220 with another man
00:50:29.980 just so you know
00:50:30.740 you're engaging
00:50:31.720 in homosocial schmoozing.
00:50:34.880 Just never call it that
00:50:36.180 when you're talking
00:50:36.660 to the other guy.
00:50:37.500 Hey you want to do
00:50:38.260 a little homosocial schmoozing?
00:50:40.260 No?
00:50:42.220 Anyway
00:50:42.660 that accounts
00:50:43.240 for over a third
00:50:43.920 of the gender pay gap
00:50:44.860 at one Asian bank.
00:50:46.540 Likewise
00:50:46.860 in U.S. Big Oil
00:50:48.120 where women comprise
00:50:49.000 38% of entry level posts
00:50:50.500 but only 10%
00:50:51.660 of executives.
00:50:53.120 Now she continues
00:50:53.720 to complain along
00:50:54.460 these lines
00:50:55.020 listing all of the areas
00:50:56.080 where men
00:50:56.560 are able to socialize
00:50:57.800 while excluding women.
00:50:59.140 She's especially concerned
00:51:00.080 with male fraternizing
00:51:01.540 in the restroom.
00:51:03.120 And she includes
00:51:03.620 this cartoon
00:51:04.220 I'll show you
00:51:04.680 of a woman
00:51:05.160 looking on dejected
00:51:06.640 as a group of
00:51:07.300 back slapping men
00:51:08.300 head into the men's room
00:51:09.380 together
00:51:09.700 with a sign that says
00:51:10.940 corporate boardroom
00:51:11.860 on the door.
00:51:13.320 Alice also shared
00:51:13.960 a message she received
00:51:14.900 allegedly from a man
00:51:15.860 going into more detail
00:51:17.340 about all the
00:51:18.060 gabbing and bonding
00:51:19.460 that we boys do
00:51:20.460 in the bathroom
00:51:21.000 supposedly.
00:51:22.020 Here's the message
00:51:22.720 from her friend.
00:51:23.140 It says
00:51:23.480 with all your thinking
00:51:25.580 about gender
00:51:26.120 and management
00:51:26.640 I wanted to share
00:51:27.720 this little anecdote.
00:51:28.940 I used to work
00:51:29.360 at a large organization
00:51:30.300 and I happened to work
00:51:31.020 on the same floor
00:51:31.620 as the organization's
00:51:32.380 vice president
00:51:32.840 who was also a man.
00:51:34.360 Sometimes I'd run into him
00:51:35.200 in the bathroom
00:51:35.600 and while we were
00:51:36.240 both using urinals
00:51:37.020 he'd tell me
00:51:37.940 some new idea he had
00:51:39.060 and often asked me
00:51:39.860 to take some action on it.
00:51:41.580 At some point
00:51:42.160 to avoid getting new work
00:51:43.160 I started using
00:51:44.200 the bathroom
00:51:44.860 on another floor.
00:51:46.100 But it definitely
00:51:46.720 suggested to me
00:51:47.420 that with male managers
00:51:48.420 male employees
00:51:49.240 get more casual contact
00:51:50.520 and potentially
00:51:51.480 more assignments
00:51:52.140 with opportunities
00:51:52.760 to succeed
00:51:53.320 even in something
00:51:54.100 as simple as
00:51:54.640 running into them
00:51:55.280 in the restroom.
00:51:56.960 Okay.
00:51:58.000 Let's just get one thing
00:51:59.140 out of the way up front.
00:52:00.160 Alright.
00:52:01.880 Ladies,
00:52:02.400 take it from me.
00:52:03.440 As a man
00:52:04.200 who has been a man
00:52:05.380 almost my entire life
00:52:06.600 literally 85%
00:52:08.440 of my life
00:52:08.780 I've been a man.
00:52:11.660 And I've used
00:52:12.400 hundreds of restrooms
00:52:13.160 all across
00:52:13.620 these fruited plains.
00:52:15.680 The situation
00:52:16.500 described here
00:52:17.140 is as imaginary
00:52:18.400 as Alice's friend.
00:52:19.540 It does not happen.
00:52:21.560 You do not need
00:52:22.120 to worry about it.
00:52:23.400 Men are not bonding
00:52:24.420 in restrooms.
00:52:25.060 We don't even speak
00:52:25.940 in restrooms
00:52:26.520 unless it's absolutely
00:52:28.080 necessary
00:52:28.540 which it never is.
00:52:30.580 We don't rest
00:52:31.740 in restrooms.
00:52:32.520 We don't take baths
00:52:33.260 in bathrooms either
00:52:33.960 for that matter.
00:52:34.860 We are business oriented
00:52:36.300 in that environment.
00:52:37.940 We go in
00:52:38.460 we take care of our business
00:52:39.560 and we leave.
00:52:40.340 We don't discuss
00:52:40.840 that business with anybody.
00:52:42.140 We don't discuss
00:52:42.680 any other business
00:52:43.360 while conducting that business.
00:52:45.140 Male restrooms
00:52:45.660 are quiet places
00:52:46.880 except for the sounds
00:52:48.440 of dribbling
00:52:48.980 and kerplunking
00:52:49.620 which echo
00:52:50.060 through our chambers.
00:52:51.160 Otherwise,
00:52:51.720 we remain silent
00:52:52.500 and we give each other
00:52:54.380 space.
00:52:56.060 It's an unwritten rule
00:52:57.000 which all men know
00:52:58.000 that when confronted
00:52:59.300 with an empty line
00:53:00.060 of urinals
00:53:00.480 a man must pick
00:53:01.580 one on either end
00:53:02.820 never one in the middle
00:53:03.700 never one in the middle
00:53:05.260 the man who comes in next
00:53:07.420 will pick one as far
00:53:08.220 from the first man
00:53:08.880 as he can
00:53:09.360 the next will again
00:53:10.600 maintain that distance
00:53:11.640 as much as he can.
00:53:13.360 You never choose
00:53:14.200 a urinal directly
00:53:14.980 next to another man.
00:53:16.160 Never.
00:53:16.580 Unless it's an emergency
00:53:17.960 and it better be
00:53:18.660 a real emergency
00:53:19.340 and you better be
00:53:20.200 on the verge
00:53:20.620 of your bladder rupturing
00:53:22.120 and even then
00:53:22.900 a decent man
00:53:24.180 would allow his bladder
00:53:24.960 to rupture
00:53:25.360 in a dignified way
00:53:26.440 a dignified rupture
00:53:27.840 rather than choose
00:53:28.540 to pee six inches
00:53:29.380 from another guy.
00:53:30.800 These are the rules
00:53:31.420 they're set in stone
00:53:32.120 maybe not literal stone
00:53:33.420 but in our hearts
00:53:34.300 and our souls.
00:53:34.860 We as men
00:53:35.300 are born with this knowledge
00:53:36.360 it's our destiny
00:53:37.220 to follow these guidelines
00:53:38.800 we all know it.
00:53:40.780 This may be more information
00:53:41.980 than you ladies need
00:53:42.760 but I'm trying to explain
00:53:43.640 that men's restrooms
00:53:45.660 are not women's rooms.
00:53:47.140 Despite the confusion
00:53:48.060 our culture has
00:53:49.020 on this topic
00:53:49.600 you know
00:53:50.340 that's not the case.
00:53:51.360 Alice seems to think
00:53:52.080 that because women
00:53:52.800 will take a day trip
00:53:53.920 to their local restroom
00:53:54.900 and hang out there
00:53:55.800 for 14 hours
00:53:56.660 pampering themselves
00:53:57.640 talking and doing
00:53:58.380 God knows what
00:53:59.020 that men must have
00:54:00.480 the same approach.
00:54:01.140 We don't.
00:54:01.960 You'll notice that men
00:54:02.640 never go in groups
00:54:03.460 to the bathroom
00:54:04.000 like women do.
00:54:04.980 We'll never see a man
00:54:05.720 stand up at a restaurant
00:54:06.520 and say
00:54:06.780 hey I gotta take a leak
00:54:07.620 hey Bill
00:54:07.980 you wanna come with?
00:54:09.600 In fact
00:54:09.960 if Bill does also
00:54:10.940 have to go to the restroom
00:54:11.720 he'll wait for the other guy
00:54:13.140 to come back
00:54:13.780 and go and leave
00:54:14.940 and come back
00:54:15.300 before he goes
00:54:15.860 or else he'll say
00:54:16.520 oh you're going
00:54:16.940 to the bathroom too
00:54:17.500 well I had to go also
00:54:18.700 you know what
00:54:18.980 I'll just get in my car
00:54:19.860 and drive to Omaha
00:54:20.580 and use a bathroom there
00:54:21.680 so you go ahead
00:54:22.540 because men can never
00:54:24.260 be far enough
00:54:24.880 away from each other
00:54:25.760 in bathrooms.
00:54:26.640 That's the point.
00:54:28.160 Now there are some men
00:54:28.860 who violate these rules
00:54:29.820 the men who treat urinals
00:54:31.020 like water coolers
00:54:32.260 not literally
00:54:33.440 maybe they do actually
00:54:34.860 drink from the urinal
00:54:35.540 who knows
00:54:36.160 the freaks
00:54:36.600 but they'll try to spark
00:54:38.380 a small talk exchange.
00:54:39.740 There are men who do this
00:54:40.520 a few
00:54:40.920 believe it or not
00:54:42.460 there are some men
00:54:43.360 who will relieve themselves
00:54:45.160 in a urinal
00:54:45.760 right next to you
00:54:47.140 even when there are
00:54:48.280 other open ones available.
00:54:50.720 We normal men
00:54:51.660 always assume
00:54:52.340 those guys are weirdos
00:54:53.360 and deviants
00:54:53.900 and we judge them
00:54:54.600 and we hate them
00:54:55.300 and are justified
00:54:56.960 in feeling that way.
00:54:58.380 They're the exception.
00:55:00.220 The rule is
00:55:01.140 as I have described.
00:55:02.620 Now I may be making
00:55:03.540 too much out of this
00:55:04.120 but I think
00:55:04.740 what we find
00:55:05.520 in this bathroom issue
00:55:06.380 is a microcosm
00:55:07.800 a symbol of feminism's
00:55:08.980 great flaw
00:55:09.380 one of its great flaws
00:55:10.600 and that is
00:55:11.900 that feminists
00:55:12.460 don't know
00:55:13.140 the first thing
00:55:14.280 about men.
00:55:15.520 They don't understand
00:55:16.360 us at all.
00:55:17.280 They have no understanding
00:55:18.240 of who men are
00:55:19.280 how we act
00:55:19.940 why we act
00:55:20.580 the way we are.
00:55:21.280 We're not even
00:55:21.660 that mysterious
00:55:22.240 it's just that
00:55:22.760 they're that stupid.
00:55:24.820 As far as men
00:55:25.640 having more success
00:55:26.340 in the corporate world
00:55:27.000 it's certainly not due
00:55:28.280 to any kind of
00:55:28.740 institutional bias
00:55:29.740 in favor of men.
00:55:31.640 All of the
00:55:32.020 institutional bias
00:55:32.680 all of it
00:55:33.140 without a doubt
00:55:33.560 cuts against men
00:55:34.440 especially white men.
00:55:35.940 But if we still
00:55:37.180 have greater success
00:55:38.000 some of that
00:55:38.500 might have to do
00:55:39.100 with the inherent
00:55:39.740 masculine skill sets
00:55:41.460 that men tend
00:55:42.100 to possess.
00:55:43.260 I understand
00:55:43.680 this is heresy
00:55:44.380 I mean all true
00:55:45.280 things are heresy
00:55:45.920 in a culture of lies
00:55:46.760 but men and women
00:55:47.900 have different skills
00:55:48.700 and they excel
00:55:49.140 at different things.
00:55:50.080 Men generally speaking
00:55:50.920 may tend to be
00:55:51.640 better suited
00:55:52.240 and more cut out
00:55:52.920 for some of these jobs
00:55:54.100 and some of that
00:55:55.340 has to do
00:55:55.760 with different priorities
00:55:56.680 also.
00:55:57.400 For all the talk
00:55:57.980 about gender
00:55:58.520 pay gaps
00:55:59.120 and everything
00:55:59.400 the gap
00:56:00.400 if it exists at all
00:56:01.200 exists because
00:56:01.820 women tend to make
00:56:02.720 different choices
00:56:03.500 they choose
00:56:04.020 different career paths
00:56:05.020 they take different routes
00:56:06.400 in life
00:56:06.820 and that's fine
00:56:07.400 that's good
00:56:07.820 that's called diversity.
00:56:09.500 One other point
00:56:10.300 if men are better
00:56:12.700 able to get along
00:56:13.620 work as a team
00:56:15.200 relate to each other
00:56:16.060 outside of the restroom
00:56:17.320 I mean
00:56:17.580 that's not some kind
00:56:19.080 of unfair advantage
00:56:20.180 it's an advantage
00:56:21.260 yeah but it's not unfair
00:56:22.500 we earn that advantage
00:56:24.300 by being direct
00:56:25.820 with each other
00:56:26.300 by not taking things
00:56:27.740 too personally
00:56:28.280 by not getting
00:56:29.840 overly focused
00:56:30.500 on personal slights
00:56:31.480 not getting involved
00:56:32.040 in personal feuds
00:56:32.860 and so on
00:56:33.360 women can tend
00:56:35.160 a little more
00:56:36.680 towards the dramatic
00:56:37.640 as evidenced by Alice
00:56:39.400 seeing men walking
00:56:40.240 into the restroom
00:56:40.800 and imagining
00:56:41.600 that they're hatching
00:56:42.260 some kind of
00:56:42.660 Game of Thrones
00:56:43.320 conspiracy
00:56:43.980 while they stand
00:56:44.840 at the urinals
00:56:45.380 the slightly more stoic
00:56:48.120 emotionally removed
00:56:49.000 and coolly practical
00:56:50.060 approach of a man
00:56:50.780 often works well
00:56:51.660 in business
00:56:52.120 it can sometimes
00:56:53.440 cause tension
00:56:54.020 and strain
00:56:54.480 in relationships
00:56:55.160 though
00:56:55.480 and at home
00:56:56.040 which is why
00:56:57.060 a man needs a woman
00:56:57.960 to help him
00:56:58.440 become more empathetic
00:56:59.460 more caring
00:57:00.020 more relational
00:57:01.000 there's no problem
00:57:03.480 with this dynamic
00:57:04.140 unless you decide
00:57:05.680 to make it a problem
00:57:06.620 and Alice is the kind
00:57:08.500 of woman
00:57:08.840 who likes to make
00:57:09.840 problems
00:57:10.400 but business is about
00:57:12.300 solving problems
00:57:13.200 not making them
00:57:13.900 which is why
00:57:15.380 she's a college professor
00:57:16.340 not a CEO
00:57:17.200 and it's also why
00:57:19.220 she is today
00:57:19.860 cancelled
00:57:20.660 and we'll leave it there
00:57:22.420 thanks for watching
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00:58:15.900 as vaccine mandates
00:58:16.980 hit home
00:58:17.380 police departments
00:58:18.120 begin firing cops
00:58:19.120 en masse
00:58:19.680 plus the New York City
00:58:20.560 council removes
00:58:21.260 a statue of Thomas Jefferson
00:58:22.640 remember when Trump
00:58:23.280 said they would do it
00:58:23.860 well it was right
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