The Matt Walsh Show - ＂Is Owning A Pitbull A Dealbreaker？＂ - Matt Walsh Gives Advice

00:00:00.000 So I think I can break my own rules today because there's some ground we've missed.

00:00:05.620 I'm going back a day with a lot of, you know, on Wednesdays when we respond to people that

00:00:10.900 are asking for advice for things. And so I'm looking over that. There's some good questions

00:00:14.360 here. And so we're going to do that today instead. This is from Jody. Hi, Matt. All thanks to you

00:00:19.480 and the rest of Daily Wire crew. I'm writing to you as a former blue-haired feminist who has been 0.98

00:00:23.200 saved from leftism. I'm now 30 years old and I wasted my 20s trying to find a career sleeping

00:00:28.060 around and doing the feminist things. Now, more than anything, I want to settle down and have a 1.00

00:00:31.400 big family. As I've been dating, there have been several conservative Christian men who have great

00:00:35.000 potential but have one downfall, owning a pit bull. Is it shallow of me to not want to date a guy who

00:00:41.420 has a pit? I've now known of two attacks, one where they almost had to shoot the dog in front of

00:00:45.920 children because they wouldn't let go. I don't feel comfortable or safe raising a family around a pit

00:00:49.980 or being around one myself. I feel so dumb saying that, but I also feel like it's a valid concern. 0.53

00:00:55.380 Is this something that I am being too stubborn about and should be willing to budge on or find 0.88

00:00:59.720 a compromise? I absolutely would not raise kids around a pit bull. Wouldn't do it. Not worth the

00:01:05.820 risk. Okay. Anytime you have a pet, anytime you have a pet, anytime you have a dog in the house,

00:01:09.600 any kind of dog, there's always a chance the dog could bite. Do you talk about percentages? What's

00:01:13.040 the percentage chance? The chance is much too high that this dog will attack the child. And then the

00:01:19.040 other problem too, it's not just about will the dog bite the child? If the dog snaps or gets angry or

00:01:25.140 whatever wakes up on the wrong side of the bed one morning, what is that going to actually mean?

00:01:28.960 How's the dog going to respond to that? Like if a golden retriever bites you, it'll hurt,

00:01:32.620 it'll be painful. Maybe you need snitches, but you don't very often hear about golden retrievers

00:01:36.140 mauling people to death. That's what pit bulls do. If they decide to attack you, they will try to

00:01:42.460 kill you. So you're sort of like trusting this dog to not do that. And that's not trust I would 0.89

00:01:48.040 have. So it's not that you're not taking it seriously enough. It's that you are taking it seriously.

00:01:51.740 And so I don't think you're being too stubborn. And I do think it's a valid concern. I don't

00:01:56.080 think it's silly at all. If this works out and I marry this man, I want to have kids. I'm not

00:02:00.680 going to have kids with a pit bull now. I'm just not going to. I don't think you have to toss this

00:02:04.060 guy to the side right away, but it is something to bring up. And you say, I think this is really

00:02:08.660 going in a great direction. I really like you. All these kinds of things. Talk to them about it,

00:02:12.880 but then also say, I don't want to be around the pit bull. I can't imagine ever raising kids around

00:02:16.620 a pit bull. And let them decide what's most important to them.

00:02:19.640 We should obviously kill all the pit bulls, right? 1.00

00:02:21.640 This is also something that maybe men should keep in mind. You want to make yourself as 1.00

00:02:26.700 desirable as possible. You want to give yourself the best chance possible. Is it worth it having

00:02:32.620 a pit bull around? That could literally scare very high quality women away. These great women 1.00

00:02:39.400 who just, everything about them is great. They don't want to be around a pit bull. Nothing wrong

00:02:44.380 with that. That's a reasonable concern. So do you want to scare those people? Is it worth it to

00:02:48.260 have the pit bull? Or do you want to just go get a golden retriever instead?

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00:03:51.300 an eight-year-old son. He's an only child and was homeschooled to the age of seven. My wife and I

00:03:56.300 signed him for MMA, soccer, skating, and t-ball to help socialize him. This year we enrolled him into a

00:04:01.760 Christian school and he's having a hard time adapting. I constantly hear how nice my son is or that

00:04:06.360 he's too nice from teachers and coaches. I'm proud my son is a kind, respectful, and generous kid.

00:04:11.100 However, it hurts my heart to see him struggling to make friends. I'm torn because I like that he's

00:04:15.060 independent, but I don't want him to be a loner. Can a child be too nice and should parents be

00:04:19.360 responsible for toughening up their children? What are they trying to say? Is he allowing himself to

00:04:23.060 get pushed around? Is he getting bullied a lot and he's not able to stand up for himself? Well, that's

00:04:27.620 something you want to work with him on, but I would never say that for an eight-year-old child

00:04:32.800 we should see it as a problem that they're nice. No, I certainly don't think that you have to worry

00:04:39.340 that an eight-year-old child is too nice and too respectful. Put some respect on my name. Or maybe

00:04:43.900 I put it this way. If that's the problem that you have with the kid, if that's your biggest problem

00:04:47.020 is that your child is too respectful and nice, then you're in a really great spot. That is a great

00:04:53.000 problem to have. Very often, especially these days, the problem goes in the other direction.

00:04:57.320 As far as him not making friends the way that you would like, I also wouldn't worry about that.

00:05:04.960 I'm biased a little bit because my old son's nine years old and it's kind of a similar sort

00:05:10.240 of situation in that he's a very outgoing kid. He loves playing with other kids. We haven't

00:05:17.160 evolved in activities and he's very athletic and creative and all that, but he's also extremely

00:05:23.460 independent. He can go up to the woods for four hours and by himself and just work on building

00:05:27.760 a fort. And he loves doing that. So he doesn't make friends as easily as some kids do. And I

00:05:31.680 know that there are parents who see that with certain kids. They're very independent. They

00:05:36.160 can entertain themselves easily. And you start to see it as a problem and you worry that,

00:05:39.720 well, they'll be friendless their whole life. I don't see it that way. I think that a kid

00:05:44.340 at eight or nine years old is still really young. Nothing is set in stone. Yeah, you want to put

00:05:49.100 them in situations where they can meet other kids and you push them a little bit to socialize,

00:05:53.460 but I wouldn't go too far with that. There's nothing wrong with being independent. And again,

00:05:59.000 being able to entertain yourself as a child is a really important skill to have. A lot of kids

00:06:03.360 don't have that. These are positive qualities in your child that maybe present some challenges,

00:06:10.600 but it's not worth trying to kind of mitigate those positive qualities. I would just kind of let

00:06:16.640 it play out. All right. Finally, from anonymous says, yeah, all that about marriage is well and

00:06:22.020 good. And your head is no doubt in the right place, man, but you offer no actionable solutions

00:06:26.760 other than throwing ourselves into the thing that you just canceled. I suggest that you never get

00:06:32.140 married in the system and you instead try your best to sincerely get married with regard for being

00:06:36.720 seen by God only. This argument obviously boils down to whether or not this country is going to

00:06:41.760 hell sooner rather than later. Us despised Gen Z conservatives are trying to tell you that it's

00:06:46.620 sooner. And in light of that, we will need a little bit more advice. I find it hard to

00:06:50.420 believe that you don't see that, especially with the brain dead comments you've brought up on the

00:06:53.960 show so far. It seems you're trying to avoid this and it does scare me a little to see you shill for

00:06:58.200 America on this particular topic. Shill for America. You don't want me to be concerned about

00:07:04.220 the country? You see that as a negative? Am I shilling for America? I don't think shilling would be the

00:07:12.740 word I would use. I'm advocating for the future of the country. I'm not advocating for the government

00:07:18.360 or for the regime that controls our country, but I am advocating for the country. Yes, I love the

00:07:23.820 country and I want to see the country have a future. It's not going to have a future if people don't get

00:07:29.980 married and start families. Everything falls apart and is destroyed in that case and nobody benefits from

00:07:36.020 that. You cannot have a country, you cannot have a civilization where young people are not getting 0.70

00:07:42.840 married and having families. You cut that out and it is the death of civilization is what it is.

00:07:48.200 And my position is that that would be bad and I don't want civilization to die. And if we're just

00:07:53.480 going to embrace that and accept it, then what are we even talking about? What's the point of anything?

00:07:58.380 Why bother? Why are you watching this show if you're willing to just give up on civilization?

00:08:03.260 civilization. I understand what the problems are. I understand how severe they are, but I want to

00:08:06.640 fight to save civilization, not simply give up on it. Again, if we're going to do that, then there's

00:08:10.900 no point in any of us talking about any of this. Just give up, go home and wait for it to all fall

00:08:14.900 apart. And you can do that. And some people have done that, but don't tell me that that's the

00:08:19.000 respectable, certainly don't tell me it's the masculine, manly response, uttering complete

00:08:26.220 surrender, being passive. Is that what being a man is now? No. The problems in the system with

00:08:32.960 marriage, I've talked about that extensively. And I have advocated what many of those solutions are,

00:08:38.260 including, for example, getting rid of no-fault divorce, incentivizing people to get married and

00:08:46.100 stay married, strengthening that marriage covenant as much as we can, certainly reforming a lot of the

00:08:53.800 alimony laws and so forth that put men at a severe disadvantage. But it's just a question of,

00:08:59.820 yeah, those are long-term goals. Those are systemic changes that we're advocating for,

00:09:05.120 we're fighting for, promoting. But what are you going to do in the meantime? What is society going

00:09:11.180 to do? Are you just going to give up completely? You're going to consign yourself to the death of

00:09:17.460 your own bloodline? That is not a strategy for dealing with the problem. That is a refusal to deal

00:09:23.320 with it. That is surrender. And so if what you're really saying is we should surrender, then fine,

00:09:29.180 but I strongly disagree with you. That's my pep talk. And we'll do it, that'll do it for us today.

00:09:35.180 We'll talk to you tomorrow on Friday. Have a great day.

00:09:37.820 We'll talk to you tomorrow at Caspi.

The Matt Walsh Show - April 01, 2023

＂Is Owning A Pitbull A Dealbreaker？＂ - Matt Walsh Gives Advice

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