Actor Will Ferrell has been canceled for his remarks at the Women in Entertainment Gala, in which he told a group of mostly women that it's time for them to take over the world. Is it time for women to run the planet?
00:10:20.380She keeps failing at marriage, which makes her, if anything, the anti-Tom Brady of the marriage game.
00:10:26.560In fact, even that gives her too much credit.
00:10:28.920You know, because, I mean, Tom Brady, that would be like, Tom Brady did make it to, it's like if he lost a bunch of Super Bowls or something.
00:10:35.620But no, she's more of an NFL washout, a draft bust.
00:10:39.900She's the Jamarcus Russell of marriage.
00:10:42.900She's the Johnny Manziel of matrimony.
00:10:45.780This only goes to show why I have put certain parameters in place for anyone who wants to dispense any marriage tips at all.
00:10:52.520Now, according to my rules, which don't have the force of law behind them, but should, you are not allowed to give any advice on this topic unless you have been married for at least 10 years and you have at least one kid.
00:11:02.740From there, the longer you've been in it and the more kids you have, the more seriously your advice can be taken.
00:11:09.600Here's one area where trust the experts really does apply, except that the experts don't have to have any academic credentials.
00:11:16.420All that matters is that they've actually done the thing and they've experienced the challenges of marriage and family life and they've learned how to navigate them successfully.
00:11:25.700Taking advice from Maya Khalifa would be like having a driving instructor who's been behind the wheel three times and totaled the car all three times.
00:12:02.680Yes, you sign some paperwork as part of the process of buying a home, for example, but it doesn't mean that the home itself is not paperwork.
00:12:11.000And you sign paperwork as part of the process of legally binding yourself to your spouse in marriage.
00:12:15.140But the marriage itself is not a piece of paper.
00:12:18.100My kids all got birth certificates when they were born, but my kids are not birth certificates.
00:12:29.000But if, as Maya says, that commitment is null and void the moment you feel that you aren't getting anything out of it, then there's no commitment.
00:12:53.460Most likely, if you feel that you aren't getting anything out of your marriage, especially if you feel this way and you just got married like a week ago or however long it was in Maya's case, it's a very good indication that you're looking for the wrong things.
00:13:04.600You're expecting the wrong things from it.
00:13:07.800It's like claiming that your oven is broken because it won't wash your dishes.
00:13:11.760That's not what an oven is designed to do.
00:13:14.980Your expectations for the oven are simply insane.
00:13:19.100For marriage, you cannot expect, as Maya and so many women like her expect, that it'll be some kind of machine that exists to constantly make you personally happy all the time and make your life easier and more fun all the time and keep you entertained and enraptured at all times.
00:13:35.040This is what the Maya Khalifas of the world expect of marriage.
00:13:37.300It is indeed what they expect of everything and everyone in life.
00:13:41.180When the thing does not provide them immediate and superficial happiness on a silver platter whenever they ring the bell, then they declare that the thing must be defective, and they are morally justified in smashing it to pieces no matter who is hurt in the process.
00:13:53.160Again, these narcissists approach all of life this way, so it's no surprise that they bring this same sense of entitlement into their marriages.
00:13:59.100And it's even less surprise that this entitlement has the same effect on their marriages that it does on all other aspects and areas of their life by making them and everyone around them miserable and ensuring that they will fail at everything that they half-heartedly attempt to do.
00:14:13.780Marriage is supposed to be a deep source of fulfillment and purpose and joy, but like any other worthwhile thing, it requires work and sacrifice.
00:14:21.680You have to dig deep into the earth to find diamonds.
00:14:25.540There's no use complaining that they don't fall out of the sky.
00:14:28.120Besides, if they did, we'd all be killed anyway.
00:14:29.960The good and beautiful things in life require work, and it's just as simple as that.
00:14:44.240Most of the work is just like living your everyday life, meeting the normal types of challenges that come your way.
00:14:50.180The kinds of challenges that you would have to face if you were alone, only now you have somebody by your side.
00:14:55.480So in many cases, life challenges can be quite a bit easier when you're married for this reason.
00:15:00.540But you cannot expect that the other person lives simply to make you happy every second of the day as if they have no life or identity of their own and as if the marriage is your play thing which exists for your personal entertainment.
00:15:12.800It is virtually guaranteed that this is the attitude a person brought into marriage if they get divorced a year later or two years later.
00:15:22.120This is someone who didn't want a spouse.
00:15:24.640She wanted a video game character that she could control for her amusement.
00:15:28.820I think the real thing to be learned from Maya's video, if anything at all can be learned from it,
00:15:32.760is that this is why so many young men are terrified to get married.
00:15:37.300They have a deep and certainly not entirely unjustified fear that they'll end up in a marriage with a woman like Maya Khalifa.
00:15:44.040The young man who's afraid of marriage is afraid of it because he doesn't want to give his heart and his life to a woman who then treats this sacred union like a piece of paper that she can throw in the shredder the moment that she feels a little bit bored.
00:15:55.420Given that the majority of divorces are initiated by women and that very often their reasons are intensely selfish like this, this fear is understandable.
00:16:03.900Maya Khalifa is obviously a terrible person, an awful woman, a sociopath who professes her love to a man only to casually stab him in the back and treat their vows like a joke.
00:16:13.700And she is far from the only woman of this type lurking out there.
00:16:18.180And this is a source of great anxiety for young men who otherwise long to become husbands and fathers.
00:16:23.620Frankly, it should be a source of worry for them.
00:16:27.720These types of women, if you're a man, if you're a young man, you got to just trust me on this.
00:16:32.240These types of women are easy to spot, okay?
00:16:35.280You can see the Maya Khalifas of the world from a mile away.
00:16:38.640And I don't just mean because she's a porn star.
00:16:40.520I mean a shallow, selfish woman who is concerned for no one's happiness but her own is very obvious most of the time.
00:16:48.580You should be able to pick up on this in one conversation, let alone a date.
00:16:52.720If you get a whole date with someone and you're talking to them for, you know, a couple hours, you should be able to tell all this real quickly.
00:17:00.740It is very unlikely that an awful, self-centered, bimbo narcissist will be able to present herself as some kind of high-character woman.
00:17:08.800Much less will she be able to keep up the act through the entire process of dating and engagement.
00:17:13.040Now, there are a few masters of disguise out there, but most of them wear their awfulness on their sleeve because it's the only way they know how to be.
00:17:20.080And they also aren't aware of how awful they are, so they don't know that they should hide it.
00:17:25.020So then how do men end up with these kinds of women?
00:17:27.560How did three different men propose to Maya Khalifa?