Walsh Vintage Dating Advice
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Summary
Dating advice from the late 1800's and early 1900's is back with a vengeance! Join us as we take a look at an old-timey dating advice video that was originally released in 1949, and see if you can figure out how to be a gentleman on a date.
Transcript
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So this should be a lot of fun, hopefully edifying for all of us.
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We talk a lot about, we do a lot of dating advice stuff.
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So I thought today we're going to take a look at a dating advice video,
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We know that these days people have no idea what to do.
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And that's very clear in some of the videos we've done.
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People have no idea what to do on the dating scene.
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That was back when they believed in chivalry and self-respect and etiquette.
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If you wanted to date, you had to ride your horse to the next town, a five days journey,
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That's what you had to do, at least in my imagination.
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Let's check out this old-timey dating PSA, and let's get the real scoop on dating.
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Doc says I'll be all right, only I have to stay off my feet for a week or so.
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Okay, just to stop it there for a second, I don't mean to be rude,
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but why is the kid reading like it's the first time he's encountered the written word in his life?
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The biggest waste of time in school is they made us learn cursive,
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and then I graduated, and then I discovered that nobody in actual adult human life ever writes in cursive.
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They may as well have made us become fluent in, like, hieroglyphics or something.
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I thought we did something wholesome from the 1940s.
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You can let your kid go on a date to a carnival full of high teens.
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And the high part is, I mean, it's kind of redundant.
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We already know that, especially the people operating the rides.
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Like, the guy running the ride is blitzed out of his skull,
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and you're putting your four-year-old onto this spinning metal death trap.
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You're putting your child's life in this man's hands.
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I was expecting something more buttoned up than this.
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Woody thought of Janice and how good-looking she was.
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Except, well, it's too bad Janice always acts so superior and bored.
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Well, perhaps someone who doesn't feel superior.
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And yet, it just doesn't seem as if she'd be much fun.
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She knows how to have a good time and how to make the fellow with her relax, have fun, too.
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Okay, I gotta say, now, here's what I like so far.
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I like that all the onus is being put on the women to impress the man.
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I like how we're ranking the different kinds of women.
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You're never gonna find this kind of thing these days.
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These kids are way too young to be dating in the first place.
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You shouldn't be dating until you're at least 25, 30 years old.
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First, second, Ann here, who gets chosen, has the manners of a damned barn animal chomping away at the cotton candy.
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I'm shocked that these kinds of manners were considered appropriate in the 1940s.
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The correct response as a gentleman, if you're dating a lady who eats like that,
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is to say, excuse me, ma'am, your manner of eating repulses me.
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When I was single, I had at least 12 first dates.
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You know, speaking of kids in the 1940s dating, what you never want to have to say is that your home got stolen.
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I'm holding a copy of the legal title to my home in my hand.
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This is proof that it's a legal title to my home.
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It says that I sold my home, even though I didn't.
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Luckily, this is just a demo, though, from Home Title Log.
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The title documents to our homes are kept online.
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The thief forges your signature on a quit claim deed stating that you sold your home and he's the new owner.
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You never know until it's too late and you've got the late payment or eviction notices arriving.
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The instant Home Title Log detects someone tampering with my home's title.
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Go to hometitlelock.com and register your address to see if you're already a victim.
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Oh, mom, is it all right with you if I have a date Saturday night?
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Well, of course you generally go out on Saturdays.
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I well, I haven't asked her yet, but I'd like to take Aunt Davis to the high teen carnival.
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Well, if you don't overdo on dating, Ed knows what I mean.
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Both boys are talking back, mouthing off to their mother.
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Where is the father coming in with his belt, ready to fix some attitudes the old-fashioned way?
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Speaking of father, why hasn't the father been consulted about this date at all?
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The proper way to get a date is to bring gifts of silver and gold to the lady's father
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If you get the okay, and then the courtship will last for about four days,
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That's the way that things, that's the way I assume things were done.
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Not this liberal nonsense we're seeing in the video.
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Hijinks, frivolity, dancing, hot dogs, totally inappropriate, unacceptable behavior.
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These kids should all be home engaged in vigorous study and reflection.
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Now we see how we ended up where we are today, right?
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We see the slippery slope, because first you got kids dancing at a carnival,
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and next thing you know, WAP is the number one song of 2020.
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I'm a feeling it's going to get a lot worse now.
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So that's the date, and now we get to the end of the night.
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And let's see what advice the 1940s can give us for how to end a date.
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After all, a girl likes to know you've had a good time.
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I'd ask you in for a bite to eat if it were so late.
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Um, let's plan to get home in time for a sandwich or something next time.
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See, the appropriate way to say goodnight is to walk the lady to the door no later than
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Shake her hand and say, have a pleasant afternoon.
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No, nothing suggestive like kissing, smiling, laughing.
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I have to say that the advice here turns out to be far too progressive for my taste.
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I always thought, you know, I should have been born in the 1940s.
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What we get instead is pure, unadulterated hedonism.