Why Did Fun American Neighborhoods Vanish? This Might Be The Reason
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
181.34854
Summary
We live in a wonderful world of ubiquitous statistics, where virtually everything is tracked from real-time biometrics of NFL players to the precise amount of time you spent listening to Spotify while on the toilet last year. And one inevitable side effect of this development is that we ve all developed a real blind spot for massive signs of civilizational decay that are very difficult to measure in a scientific way. I m talking about ways in which our life is clearly getting worse, and everybody knows it, even though there s no widely recognized, peer-reviewed metric to prove it.
Transcript
00:00:00.660
Everyone's story sounds different. We get it. So when it comes to finding a life insurance plan
00:00:06.420
that's in tune with yours, we got you. Co-operators financial representatives take the time to
00:00:11.760
understand your full financial picture from insurance to investments so you can get coverage
00:00:16.460
that sounds good wherever your story takes you. Get your whole story heard. Start your life
00:00:21.180
insurance conversation with a local co-operators financial representative at cooperators.ca.
00:00:26.360
Life insurance is underwritten by Cooperators Life Insurance Company.
00:00:30.000
Now that we live in a wonderful world of ubiquitous statistics where virtually everything is tracked
00:00:35.960
from the real-time biometrics of NFL players to the precise amount of time you spent listening to
00:00:40.920
Spotify while you were on the toilet last year, it's easy to fall into the trap of worshiping
00:00:47.180
data and raw information. At no point in American history have we been able to quantify so many
00:00:53.240
different aspects of day-to-day life, which is probably not a healthy thing. Prediction markets,
00:00:59.320
draft kings, AI assistants, they all contribute to the quantification of everything.
00:01:05.280
And one inevitable side effect of this development is that we've all developed a real blind spot
00:01:09.840
for massive signs of civilizational decay that are very difficult, if not impossible, to measure
00:01:16.400
in a scientific way. I'm talking about ways in which our life is clearly getting worse,
00:01:21.600
and everybody knows it, even though there's no widely recognized peer-reviewed metric to prove it
00:01:27.320
exactly. Now we've talked in the past about various manifestations of this decline, including the
00:01:31.680
quality of restaurant food and the quality of children's entertainment all going down, but maybe
00:01:35.940
the best example of what I'm talking about is the death of neighborliness and fun neighborhoods.
00:01:41.000
It's a very real issue that's almost never talked about. When did neighborhoods, even suburban
00:01:46.680
neighborhoods and nice areas, become such cold, uninviting, antisocial places? Why is it that if
00:01:53.280
you're a typical American living in a suburb, you probably don't have a great place to take your
00:01:56.880
kids to hang out? You don't have good friends on the block. You don't spend a lot of time at local
00:02:02.200
events. You might not even know your, you might have never even spoken to your neighbors.
00:02:06.020
Now it was more than 25 years ago that a political scientist named Robert Putnam wrote the book
00:02:10.240
Bowling Alone about the decline of social capital and meaningful relationships in America.
00:02:14.560
And to this day, that's still the book that's always brought up when people try to have this
00:02:19.540
conversation. University professors are still citing Putnam's findings about how Americans
00:02:24.440
aren't joining civic groups and bowling leagues and so on. But the decline has only gotten much,
00:02:29.580
much worse over the past 25 years. And remember, he wrote this before things like social media,
00:02:34.880
before our life, before our lives had migrated fully to the internet. He had already spotted this
00:02:43.560
problem. So think about how much worse it's gotten. And although you won't find the evidence
00:02:48.220
in a sociology textbook, it's all over the internet that this has gotten a lot worse. Consider the very
00:02:53.480
sad but increasingly popular TikTok genre of lonely Halloweens. This is something I noticed in my own
00:03:00.540
neighborhood as well over the past few years. Trick-or-treating in a lot of places is all but dead.
00:03:07.960
A lot of people have stopped putting up decorations or hosting gatherings entirely.
00:03:12.920
But even households that do want to participate in Halloween are coming to the realization that kids
00:03:33.800
It's the full-size candy for trick-or-treaters.
00:03:52.540
My mom finally can afford to hand out candy to trick or treaters,
00:04:17.860
So even the cat is depressed by the state of Halloween.
00:04:25.160
because some of the most popular videos on TikTok and YouTube
00:04:27.400
are about the fact that kids don't trick-or-treat anymore.
00:04:29.740
This video has more than 10 million views, for example.
00:04:33.360
Instead of partying on Halloween, we give out candy every year.
00:05:04.220
This very simple and straightforward 30-second video
00:05:06.380
is half the viewership of the finale of Game of Thrones,
00:05:13.440
Everyone knows this kind of thing is happening at scale.
00:05:20.380
We can all see it, but we don't really know why.
00:05:23.660
there are a lot of theories as to why young people
00:05:25.900
aren't interested in trick-or-treating anymore.
00:05:28.620
Maybe they're more interested in spending time on their cell phones
00:05:30.860
than interacting with anybody in the real world.
00:05:33.380
The COVID lockdowns, which forced children to become antisocial,
00:05:38.300
There's also the fact that our culture has been trending heavily
00:05:42.840
and therefore insecurity is at an all-time high.
00:05:49.620
in a ridiculous costume and interact with strangers,
00:05:53.660
because they're considered embarrassing or uncool.
00:05:57.560
play video games, watch TikTok and YouTube videos,
00:06:00.040
where they can watch an infinite number of other people
00:06:07.200
Now, if you don't spend a lot of time in the world of TikTok,
00:06:10.180
then you really have no idea how bad things have gotten.
00:06:28.100
And there's a bunch of girls lined up against the wall
00:06:31.640
which they pop as soon as they hear something they don't like.
00:06:34.040
The idea is that if any girl is holding a balloon by the end of it,
00:06:37.580
then the guy gets the chance to go out with her.
00:06:39.960
But invariably, the guy says something extremely inconsequential
00:06:45.740
and make some judgmental comments and walk away.
00:06:50.300
Every one of these videos gets millions of views,
00:07:40.460
It's just so, like, cliche romantic, like, boring.