Beyonce's Feminism and Insecurity, and Young Women Finding Good Men, with Mary Katharine Ham and Bridget Phetasy | Ep. 759
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Summary
Mary Catherine Hamm, host of Getting Hammered and author of the book End of Discussion, and Bridget Phetasy, comedian and host of the podcast Walkins Welcome and Dumpster Fire, join host Meghan on the show today to discuss the recent earthquake in the Northeast, the upcoming eclipse, and more.
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Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show, live on Sirius XM Channel 111 every weekday at New East.
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Hey everyone, I'm Megyn Kelly. Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show. We have such a fun show for
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you today. We're going to have a good time on this Friday with two super smart, funny ladies.
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From culture to health to fashion, hint, cracks are back. Did you know that? There's a little
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bit of everything for everyone. Here to discuss, Mary Catherine Hamm, host of Getting Hammered,
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and author of the book End of Discussion, and Bridget Phetasy, comedian and host of the podcast
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Walk-Ins Welcome and Dumpster Fire. Ladies, welcome back to the show. Thank you very much.
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Thanks for having us. There's such goodness to go through. I don't even know where to begin. So I'm
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going to start with the earthquake. Did you guys feel the earthquake? Anybody feel it? Not here.
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I was actually driving. MK, are you down in the mid-Atlantic? Are you down by DC?
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Yeah. So I'm actually in Pennsylvania today, so I probably should have felt it, but I was driving.
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So you don't usually feel it in that situation. Where are you, Bridget?
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I'm in Texas, so we're getting ready for the eclipse. That's right. You didn't. All right,
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right. Okay. So here in Connecticut, I felt it. And I know people in California are like,
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shut up. They get it all the time. They get it at a much bigger, you know, magnitudes. But for us in
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the Northeast, it's very rare. The last and maybe only other earthquake I've felt, maybe
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one when I was a kid in New York, but I was out in Montana. So it's like, you know, it's rare to
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happen in the Northeast. And I was sitting there getting ready in our little studio cottage. And,
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you know, it started shaking. The house started shaking, this little cottage. And it's not sturdy.
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I mean, it's small. And I was like, this thing could come down, I guess. I'm not sure. First,
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you're thinking it's like a huge semi that went by. And then all my years in New York are like,
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is that the number six train going? But no, wait, there's no subway near me.
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And then you're like, this actually might be an earthquake. What in the, and sure enough,
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it was, it was, I think a 4.7 magnitude earthquake. Very fun for us Northeasterners,
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though. I hope everybody's okay. Okay. Did that CERN start up again? The CERN tank,
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the like collider that they have, did that start again? What's that? It's like where they collide,
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all the atoms. And I think they're starting it up again. So look, we're dealing with an
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earthquake and an eclipse. I can't deal with a collider as well. It's too much.
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It is. It's pretty, it's pretty biblical. I'm going to start with a touch of hard news. It's
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not hard, but it's like kind of interesting. The rock appears to regret his endorsement of Joe Biden
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back in 2020. I can't believe this happened. I was shocked, right? I was like, could it be,
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could he actually have spoken out in this way? He did. He spoke with one of my favorite people
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over at Fox, Will Kane. And listen to what he said. Am I happy with the state of America right
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now? Well, that answer is no. Do I believe we're going to get better? I believe in that. I'm an
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optimistic guy and I believe we can get better. The endorsement that I made years ago with Biden
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was one I thought was the best decision for me at that time. And I thought back then when we talk
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about, hey, you know, I'm in this position where I have some influence and it's my job
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then. I felt like that then. It's my job now to exercise my influence and share with this.
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This is who I'm going to endorse. Am I going to do that again this year? That answer is no.
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Didn't realize it then. I just thought, hey, our country feels like there's a lot of unrest.
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It feels like I would like things to calm down. Maybe we need a change. This is what I'm going
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to do. And this is who I'm going to endorse. Months and months and months, I started to realize
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like, oh, man, that caused an incredible amount of division in our country. So I realize now going
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into this election, I'm not going to do that. I wouldn't do that because my goal is to bring
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our country together. I do trust the American people and I trust that whoever they vote for,
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that's going to be my president. And that's who I'm going to support a hundred percent.
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So interesting. What do you make of MK? Have you seen how much it costs to buy protein
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at this point and how much the rock has to consume? Okay. So even with the paychecks he's
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taken home, it's going to be a hit, right? Look, I think that the rock, despite the size of his arms
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is like normie adjacent, he is a person who seems sort of like a red blooded American who kind of
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gets normal things. And I think the feeling that he's feeling is, well, I was pitched normalcy and
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I endorsed this guy who I thought would be that person. And I'm in the gym and I'm paying triple
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for my protein and it's not feeling like I wanted it to feel. And I imagine it feels worse for other
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people. So I think it's, it's a, uh, an unrealized promise of normalcy and feeling better, uh, that
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he's tuning into there. It's so rare that you have one of these so-called elites, Bridget, you know,
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in his own way, he's an elite given the huge amount of money he's earned and what a huge star he is in
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the circles of power that he likely travels in, in terms of getting movies made and so on to have
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them come out and say something like this, because make no mistake about it, there will be blowback to
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the rock in those circles for even going this far. Yeah. It sounds a little bit like he's been
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red pilled, you know, somewhat. He's not outright saying it. It does sound like a man who, so he's
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not saying he will, is he saying he won't endorse anybody in this coming election? He's just going
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to trust the American people, but, and that he regrets having endorsed the last time around that
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it caused more division to come out in favor. So he's not saying kind of the quiet part, which is
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that he's okay with Trump or okay with people who vote for Trump, which is, you can't say that in
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Hollywood, even that, like you said, Megan, it's, but I think his audience is more normie. So he's also
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responding to the fact that there just is a common sense coalition of people who really don't feel
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represented by mostly anyone. And, and the rock is very, he's kind of right over the target.
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It's amazing because like, he's had it, he's feeling what so many people are feeling, which is
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the country's in trouble. And maybe we do need, maybe he likes RFKJ. We don't know if it's Trump,
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but it's certainly sounds like it's not going to be Biden this time around. And I was thinking MK,
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because we, you know, the Biden administration is like begging Taylor Swift for an endorsement.
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So how do you like those? I like, what if the rock actually does signal more that he's on the
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other team he's on, you know, either Trump and then you got Taylor versus the rock going. Now that's,
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that's a contest we can get behind. That's a very serious, honestly, I might prefer that one at the
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ballot box, but I think, I think what he's communicating is something that a lot of regular
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voters feel, which is that, look, maybe they're not in love with the Trump choice, but they
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understand why people would make it because they're looking at what happened under Biden.
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That is a very normal sentiment. And there are plenty of places in our elite circles where they
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act like that's some giant puzzle. It's not a giant puzzle. I was listening to a, to a Chuck Todd
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segment with some analysts today, and they were just scratching their heads, just noodling over like,
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why aren't the American people understanding how amazing everything is and all these accomplishments?
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It's like, maybe it's not messaging it correctly. Not one person thinks maybe it's because they're
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hurting. Maybe it's because these solutions didn't help. Uh, but yes, uh, the other thing I was going
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to say is this big, this big celebrity fundraiser that they did, um, up in, uh, up in New York where
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they, they made a bunch of money, but it felt very different from the Obama years, right? It didn't,
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it felt lackluster. I looked at the, uh, comments on a Vogue Instagram post about it. And if you're,
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if your Vogue Instagram post has all negative comments about a gathering of Obama, Clinton
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and Biden, uh, it's not good for you. It's not good for you. And they're coming from left and right.
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Yeah. Wow. What were they saying? Uh, well, from the left, it was genocide, genocide, genocide from
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the right, or you haven't done anything for me. And from the right, it was like, Hey, maybe check on
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the border guys, since there's three of you presidents together, um, and economy stuff.
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But I just think maybe do the 20 minute drive to officer Dillard's wake. How about that? You know,
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that's an option. Pay your respects to this. And by the way, something the rock would understand
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is, is visiting that, uh, that wake. Exactly. Right. All right. So, um, on the subject of
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presidential politics, the likely next president, Kamala Harris, uh, if Joe Biden gets reelected anyway,
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has spoken out, she's very interested in NCAA basketball. Do you guys have brackets going?
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I'm superstitious. So I don't usually do a bracket, but I'm rooting for this,
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the, the Wolfpack all the way through. Okay. I've got Yukon winning the whole thing and I'm
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looking good. They won the whole thing last year, but I only picked Yukon because my system is as
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between any two teams, whether it's at the beginning or going into the final four, you fill out those
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brackets. I pick the team that I have a connection to either geographically or emotionally. And if I
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have no connection to either of the team, I just go with whatever the ranking is, whoever's, whoever's
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better. And I have to say my final four, I do well in this system every year. I beat most of the men
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I know who are neck deep in basketball. It works. I'll get back to you on how this year goes, but
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Kamala Harris, um, it's possible that she's even less connected to the basketball world than I am
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because she came out trying to have a she woman moment, uh, you know, feminist hero moment and
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weighed in on NCAA women's basketball and the tournament and made the following untrue claim
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speaking with spectrum news. Okay. She reads, she writes, says, do you know, okay. A bit of a history
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lesson. Do you know, we don't have this on tape, do we? Oh yeah, we do have it on tape. Cause it was a
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written interview, but we've got the actual shot. Listen, it's not one. Do you know, okay. A bit
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of a history lesson. Do you know that women were not, the women's teams were not allowed to have
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brackets until 2022? Think about that. And what that talk about progress, you know, better late
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than never, but progress and what that has done, because of course, when, you know, I had a bracket,
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it's not broken completely, but I won't talk about my bracket, but you know what, just how we
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love, we love March Madness. And even just now allowing the women to have brackets and what
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that does to encourage people to talk more about the women's teams, to watch them. Now they're being
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covered, you know, and, and this is the reality. People used to say, oh, women's sports, who's
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interested? Well, if you can't see it, you won't be. But when you see it, you realize, oh.
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Hmm. I'm so glad we got to hear that. First of all, why is she talking with her hands up here?
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Right? Why, why is she doing this thing with her hands? Like, you know, crocodile hands, right? Like
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when people won't reach for the bill. It's very strange that she's got the hands up here. But
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secondly, fact check, the first NCAA women's tournament was in 1982. They had brackets.
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They had brackets in 82, at least regionally. And then by 1996, they had them that nationally
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identical to the way the men do. So it had, it wasn't even like in 1996, I was, I had just
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graduated law school like this a long time ago. It's been a long time since we've had them, but
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she's got to give us her little lesson with her. It's, you know what it's like? It's like a
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Violet Beauregard after she blows up into the blueberry, like with a little hands. That's how she talks.
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It's wild though. Like who's briefing her? Who decided that this was a talking point? Like
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they, they have to play in petticoats until 1994 and you weren't allowed to have brackets and women
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couldn't use pins to fill out the brackets. Their husbands had to do it for them in pencil. I mean,
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it is just completely made up. I mean, I, I, I actually enjoy this more than the days of the
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gaffes, like Lambeau field, which was John Kerry's, uh, or, uh, Lambert field when he called Lambeau
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that, um, this is so much more complex and rich stupidity, uh, sports related. It's amazing.
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So just to add to this, um, Zach Parkinson just tweets out posts on X here's Harris in 2021,
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a year where women's college basketball supposedly was not allowed to have brackets tweeting about
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her husband's women's bracket. So maybe it's a memory problem. Maybe she's having some of the
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same recall problems that her bosses have having, but you know what, what's annoying to me about the
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clip Bridget is that everything for her has to get turned into a little teachable moment where
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educator in chief Kamala Harris is going to explain to the rest of us, dumb dumbs, how life used to be
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and how we can then be unburdened by what has been and her new utopia version of the future in which
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women are equal. And we finally get brackets, even though we've had them for the past 27 years or
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however long it's been. And we'll get to another place in which she's done this next, uh, with respect
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to Beyonce, but I'm kind of tired of her faux feminism, especially given the way Kamala Harris rose
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to the top out in California, which was under. I'm convinced. Yeah, I'm convinced. I'm convinced
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that she is just trolling us. Like I, she, it seems like she watched veep and she's just trying to be
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exactly Julia Louis-Dreyfus's character. I'm how can you be this bad?
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You're getting a lot of credit. It is amazing though. It's like a glitching AI or something. And
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one, one of the things that's annoying about modern feminism is that they do this kind of thing where
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they say like, there's suddenly a new, uh, uh, women's superhero or whatever movie coming out.
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And they act like there's never been a woman in a superhero movie before, even though you had like,
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uh, Princess Leia in 1977, right. Who was a real badass, but they just pretend like all of that
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doesn't exist. And I don't appreciate that as a woman of the eighties, I enjoyed Linda Hamilton.
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Thank you very much. And her biceps, they were inspiring to me.
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To all of us. Well, okay. So enter Beyonce, who is the modern day superhero for untold millions.
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I gotta be honest. I'm not a big Beyonce follower. I don't have anything against her. I just,
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it's like, I don't listen to her music, but I do get kind of annoyed at how, whenever she does
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anything, we have to pretend she's the second coming. It's like, Oh my God, they literally
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call her queen Bay. It's like, she can do absolutely no wrong. If you criticize her,
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there's something wrong with you. Well, too bad deal with it. So she's come out now with a country
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album. And of course these leftists and media whores pretend that no one's ever done country
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before Beyonce's done it countries, this wonderful new genre that the queen Bay has discovered. Oh my
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God, this is wonderful. And the reactions to her, her album called cowboy Carter, which just dropped
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are of course, typically over the top among others who's weighed in on this. Um, Michelle Obama decided
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to post about this and Kamala Harris saying you have redefined a genre and reclaimed country music's
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black roots. Why did country need to be redefined? Why, what was wrong with it? That we needed it to
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be rescued by Beyonce. Right. And that's the same message basically from Michelle Obama, who says,
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once again, you've helped redefine a music genre and transform our culture. You've transformed it.
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I'm so proud of you. Cowboy Carter is a reminder that despite everything we've been through to be
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heard, seen and recognized. I mean, she always finds a way to work how downtrodden she's been
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into her tweets and posts. We can still dance, sing and be who we are unapologetically. I'm sure it's
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very hard for Beyonce to be who she is unapologetically with her billions of dollars that
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she's earned in her husband's husband has earned, despite how crappily this nation has treated her.
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This album reminds us all that we all have power. There is power in our history, in our joy
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and in our vote. And of course it goes on to together, we can stand up for what we believe
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in. We must do that at the ballot box. And as queen Bay says at the end of ya, ya, we need to keep
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the faith and vote. I just, what is this? Is this feminism? Is this aggrievement? And why is it that
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queen Bay is being treated like she's the first one to take a little dalliance over into this weird
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Yeah. My take on this is like, we don't have to do this guys. We don't have to do it. I like Beyonce
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fine. I like country music, like some more than others, whether it comes to Beyonce's catalog or
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country music. Right. Uh, but this thing where we have to be like, it's this, it's compulsory worship
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of this moment. I don't think we need to do that. And I don't think it has to be this. It could just be
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like a decent album, but we don't really do that in our culture anymore.
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We have to make it into something so much bigger. One of the things that jumped out at me in this is
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like how well she lays out like her PR connections. And when she drops this album, like she has a cover
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and we're going to talk about it of Jolene by Dolly Parton. She gets Dolly Parton to endorse it on the
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album. She's Dolly Parton does an intro then publicly. She says something endorsing it. She sings
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um, Blackbird by Paul McCartney and, or at least uses a piece of it. And she gets Paul McCartney
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to write out. I'm so happy with Beyonce's version of Blackbird. I think she's done a fab version and
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would, would urge anyone who has not heard it yet to check it out. Then there's Linda Martell,
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legendary country artist. What she's doing is beautiful. I'm honored to be a part of it.
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Then there's Nancy Sinatra because she uses a piece of, um, these boots are made for walking.
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I love her. This may be the best sample of boots yet. Yes. Nancy, even better than yours. Go ahead
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and lick the boots a little harder. See what that gets you. And then we get to Jolene, which
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everybody loves. Who doesn't love Dolly Parton's version of, or I mean, it's her song of Jolene.
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For those of you who don't know it, uh, I'm sure I'm speaking to like two people. Here's a sample of the OG.
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Oh, but I can easily understand how you could easily take my man, but you don't know what
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he means to me. Jolene, Jolene. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. Oh, I'm begging of you, please don't take my
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man. Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. Please don't take him just because you can.
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Okay. I'm going to talk about and recommend to everybody this Kat Rosenfield piece in Unheard
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today because she, she nailed exactly my own sort of inner reaction to the, to the new Beyonce take
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on this. The original Jolene is a story about a woman feeling threatened by another woman who's
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prettier and more alluring. And she's basically begging her not to steal her man that, you know,
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she can do it. She flatters her. I know you can, you're so gorgeous. And you've got the,
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you know, red hair and the green eyes. And I know what you're capable of, but please don't
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because I love him. And I could never love anybody as much. Then of course, because it's Queen Bay,
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we have to change it to, if you fucking take my man, I will hurt you, bitch.
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She actually uses the word bitch in the, in the new version. And it's much more like threatening,
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which I guess Beyonce and team Bay think is what empowerment looks like for now. The threatened
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woman is just threatening to an, another woman who she thinks might have designs on her life
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partner. Here's Beyonce's version. I can easily understand why you're attracted to my man,
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but you don't want the smoke to shoot your shot with someone else.
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Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. I'm warning you woman, find you your own man.
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Okay. So it's got a lot of that in there. And I have to say, I don't find this empowering at all.
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And I think to Kat Rosenfield's point, there's something strange about what's happening with
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modern day, the modern day definition of what a strong woman is. Like you can't have any
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vulnerabilities or insecurities. You have to be this bad-ass bitch who's like threatening, like,
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fucking a, you know, you mess with my man. I'm it's to me, it's a, it's a turnoff. And actually
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Bridget, what Kat says, and I totally agree with this. She says, paradoxically, this reveals how
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disempowered and insecure Beyonce is in this messaging. If she's a queen, as the song shit says,
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and has no doubts about her man's devotion, then why is she threatening to throw hands at any woman
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who looks at him sideways? And I was thinking the same thing myself. The true power move
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is not to worry and not to have to worry. But Beyonce couldn't quite get there.
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Well, it bugs me about both these versions is they really never take, like, hold the man to
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They're never really saying anything about the man or to the man. But I also, I find it
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interesting, even if I don't agree that it's necessarily the most empowering, it seems like
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it's just a different variation of female insecurity that's kind of shapeshifted over time.
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Dolly Parton came from a different time. It was a more modest and subdued time. And Beyonce is of the
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Yas Queen feminism. And I think that that kind of in your face version is it's still just female
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insecurity. I've definitely seen that in my life. I've I've been on the other side of it. And I think
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there's parts of me that have tried to be like, don't get in my way. Or I mean, I'm not very
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threatening. Who am I kidding? But I do. I think it's like a female. It's interesting to me that this
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is just a it's a more modern female. It still strikes me as insecurity. It's all just female
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insecurity. Yes, that's I mean, honestly, I what woman who's in a real good, healthy relationship
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is running around threatening other hot women. I'll beat you up if you take my man. That's I don't get
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like, I feel like Beyonce would have been better served by just just redoing it. It's your it's your
00:23:52.560
not you don't have to tell your story. Right. Obviously, she was cheated on by Jay Z. She's
00:23:58.180
she's written about it. She's been singing about it for many years now. You don't have to tell your
00:24:03.820
story. You're telling a story. And this is a version of womanhood where an insecure woman
00:24:11.840
feels like feels threatened by a more beautiful other woman. And as Kat writes in her piece, almost
00:24:20.220
savvily figures out a way to land it, not by shaming the man, not by threatening the woman,
00:24:27.620
but with flattery of this beautiful threat, MK. And yes, a plea to stay out of it, which is much more
00:24:36.680
complex and interesting. Well, you know, as a woman who many women come to me and say, you know,
00:24:42.280
I know you can take my man, but please don't. It happens on a daily basis. They're going to be
00:24:48.460
in my Twitter feed right after this. I can say no, look, I think the original Jolene is
00:24:54.360
sad and deep. It's deeply sad song that she's having to do this. And that's what it's fascinating
00:25:02.380
for that reason. Yes. It's like psychologically interesting. Now, would I live my life more like
00:25:08.160
the Beyonce version? Probably. I'm a little sorry. I might be more than speaking of Melinda Hamilton
00:25:14.220
years. But I think there's a whole genre of country music in particular that can get very sad and a
00:25:22.040
little pathetic sometimes. And I would argue that people shouldn't live their lives that way. But I
00:25:26.140
enjoy the character drama of that sadness, of that pain. And that's what I reacted to in the
00:25:31.960
original Jolene. Also, covering it just as Dolly Parton did means you have to compete with Dolly
00:25:37.940
Parton, who is the Jolene of music. So there's that. It's true. It's true. She begins her piece
00:25:44.320
by, I don't know, did you guys see on X a couple weeks ago, there have been some amazing pictures
00:25:48.360
of Dolly Parton, circa 1965 circulating, and she's absolutely stunning. We'll put one on this page for
00:25:55.920
when we air this on YouTube. And she begins her piece by saying, not long ago, a post crossed my
00:26:01.060
timeline featuring a black and white heartstoppingly gorgeous photo of Dolly Parton in the 60s.
00:26:06.700
The caption read simply, what the hell did Jolene look like? One can only wonder. But she's her
00:26:14.000
argument is followed. She says that we have replaced like certain models of female resilience with the
00:26:24.500
quote, badass woman who has no feelings, who has no flaws, who has little use for other people,
00:26:31.680
except as either casual sex partners or punching bags, men in particular. And she writes,
00:26:37.560
it's ironic in a world where women can pursue even more varied paths to fulfillment, that the
00:26:41.720
representation of female strength in art has become increasingly narrow, one dimensional and
00:26:46.120
masculinized. The self rescuing princess who could forget the Snow White actress right out there,
00:26:51.820
how much she hates Snow White. There's not going to be rescued by a prince. The emotionally aloof
00:26:57.360
action heroine, the invulnerable workaholic commitment phobic playgirl, an awful lot of strong
00:27:04.480
female characters these days are basically just men with tits. This is such a good observation.
00:27:13.000
She's right. We, this is a point I've been trying to make in different ways, which is
00:27:17.540
people. Why did we have to go from women shouldn't work? Women should only have babies. Women aren't
00:27:24.880
strong. Women are too emotional. Women have to be locked up for their hysterics. If they express
00:27:29.620
tears or, you know, anxiety to women have no emotion. Women are total ball busters and showing any
00:27:38.200
softness, tears, empathy, vulnerability, insecurity is somehow non-feminine and no longer acceptable
00:27:48.700
in one's idea of what a woman is, what an ideal woman is. Yeah, I think there's, there's little
00:27:57.100
flexibility often. It's like very, it's very confusing what the cultural message is. And even,
00:28:02.360
but Yance herself has fallen into this trap. I wrote in, um, I wrote about this in the past,
00:28:06.700
about the moment where she walked in front of that feminist sign at, uh, whatever it was,
00:28:10.060
the, the MTV awards or something, or maybe the Grammys. And it's just lit up and feminist behind
00:28:14.740
her. And she's standing in front of us very powerful. And then like shortly after that,
00:28:17.900
she takes her, her husband's name and then uses it on a tour. And she got lambasted for doing that.
00:28:24.380
It's like, there's a lot of ways to be, we just like give ourselves that. I don't have to shoot for
00:28:30.340
this C-suite. And I also don't have to only be at home. There's, there's a real happy medium somewhere
00:28:36.240
here. Well, I think it was a swing and a miss. I think this guy from the Atlantic who reviewed
00:28:43.720
Beyonce's, uh, cover of Jolene nailed it where he said he wrote that Beyonce replaced the vulnerability
00:28:50.760
that made Jolene one of the best tunes of all time with a bunch of bad bitch cliches. And if you
00:28:57.740
listen to the whole song, all the lyrics are changed is she's changed the entire meaning of
00:29:02.140
the song, but she's, she's bastardized it because she's kept the name Jolene and the tune,
00:29:07.780
but this is an entirely different message. And it's, I don't buy it. I really don't buy it.
00:29:13.820
I don't think Beyonce did beat up the woman who slept with Jay-Z and like, and I don't think it's
00:29:20.260
empowering to threaten that she's going to beat up the next one. What's empowering is to know he would
00:29:25.120
never do this to me. And I have zero worries about this kind of betrayal because I've nurtured my
00:29:30.760
relationship because I'm an equal partner in it because we have a, you know, a loving partnership
00:29:36.100
in marriage, which leads me to this nut over at the cut. Oh my God, this is so good. My team has
00:29:42.860
found the greatest articles for us to discuss today. Okay. Let me find it. There is a woman.
00:29:49.680
She wrote this lengthy piece in the cut, which is an offshoot of New York magazine. It has a benign
00:29:57.360
headline. The case for marrying an older man, a woman's life is all work and little rest
00:30:03.260
and age gap relationship can help. All right. I don't know. Like I didn't even click on this
00:30:09.120
when I was like, whatever. So there's nothing controversial about marrying somebody a little
00:30:13.000
older until you read the piece until you read the piece. Hold on a second. I don't have it.
00:30:19.780
What's her name? We actually looked it up and we have her picture, which will become relevant.
00:30:23.200
Grazie, Sofia, Christi. Grazie, Sofia, Christi. And, um, let me give you and the audience a taste
00:30:33.320
of her argument. In sum, Grazie believes you should marry someone older and you should do it in your
00:30:40.720
twenties so that he can teach you everything you need to know. You can have a divine time while you're
00:30:48.080
young and you can see beautiful places that match your exterior while it's still beautiful,
00:30:56.100
because there's a symmetry in that. You need to get to the Caribbean ASAP before your 30th birthday
00:31:04.580
by marrying a rich older dude, because your pics are going to look better if you're still pretty.
00:31:10.380
Okay. I'm going to give you a few highlights. When I was 20 and a junior at Harvard, which she gets
00:31:16.920
in there, a series of great ironies began to mock me. I could diligently craft an ideal existence over
00:31:23.860
years and years of sleepless nights and industry, or I could just marry it early. Thanks for taking
00:31:30.380
someone's place at Harvard, Grazie. The, uh, the greater and more visible, the difference in years
00:31:38.440
in status between a man and a woman, the more it strikes others as transactional. True, but she has
00:31:44.580
no problem in actually doing it because I'm 27 now, she says, and most women my age have partners.
00:31:53.020
These days, girls become partners quite young. The problem with a partner, however, is if you're equal
00:31:58.120
in all things, you compromise in all things and men are too skilled at taking. Okay. She goes on.
00:32:05.860
Bear with me. My husband, who is older, struck me as so finished, formed, analyzable for compatibility.
00:32:14.760
He bore the traces of other women who had improved him. My husband isn't my partner. He's my mentor,
00:32:20.760
my lover, and only in certain contexts, my friend. I'll never forget it, how he showed me around our
00:32:27.700
first place like he was introducing me to myself. This is the wine you'll drink, where you'll keep
00:32:33.760
your clothes. We vacation here. This is the other language we'll speak. You'll learn it. And I did.
00:32:41.400
By opting out of partnership in my twenties, I granted myself a kind of compartmentalized,
00:32:46.500
liberating selfishness. None of my friends have managed. I am the work in progress, the party we
00:32:53.320
worry about. A surprising dominance. I don't fool myself. My marriage has its cons. There are only so
00:33:00.260
many times one can say thank you, which is literally part of her name, according to her bio,
00:33:08.020
for splendid scenes, fine dinners, before that phrase starts to grate. Mostly, I worry that if he
00:33:17.380
ever betrayed me and I had to move on, I would survive, but would find in my humor, my preferences,
00:33:24.600
the way I make coffee or the bed, nothing that he did, not teach, change, mold, recompose,
00:33:32.960
or stamp with his initials. There's more, but that's enough. She's not making the bed.
00:33:38.260
She is not making the bed, first of all. What is this? Let me just tell you something. I had a friend
00:33:46.920
who dated an older man who was very wealthy. And one of the things that drove me crazy about the
00:33:52.960
relationship was, I said, he keeps trying to make you into his Eliza Doolittle. You're nobody's Eliza
00:34:00.060
Doolittle. You're a fully formed, strong, independent woman, and you don't need him
00:34:04.260
to show you the wine we're going to drink, the language you'll learn, and you must.
00:34:10.040
This is a Harvard student, Bridget, trying to express to us the liberation that comes with
00:34:17.180
being completely submissive and, I guess, losing yourself to a man who's had the luxury
00:34:24.140
of forming his own independent thoughts. Yeah, it's funny. I was in a relationship like this,
00:34:30.380
like, in a younger part of my life with an older man who was very wealthy and wanted me to learn
00:34:36.140
French and we were in Saint-Tropez. And I've written a lot about this. And he treated me like
00:34:43.200
a pet or like a little entertainer. You know, he found me very, very funny, my backpacking ways and
00:34:50.340
my poverty. And she's really like the sugardaddy.com generation, OnlyFans. I feel like you're not pitching
00:35:01.780
anything new here. Marrying a rich old guy is like a tale as old as time. This is not something
00:35:08.240
that is revolutionary by any means. I think just her spin on it is a lot of self-delusion.
00:35:17.620
Here's the piece that I referenced, MK. Yeah. Very soon, we will decide to have children. And I
00:35:24.600
don't panic over last gasps of fun. This is how this young generation looks at motherhood.
00:35:30.640
Uh, because I took so many big breaths of it early on the holidays of someone who had worked
00:35:37.660
a decade longer than I had in beautiful places. When I was young and beautiful, a symmetry I
00:35:44.500
recommend if such a thing as maternal energy exists, mine was never depleted. I spent the
00:35:51.540
last nearly seven years supported more than I support. And I am still not as old as my husband
00:35:58.700
was when he met me. So that's the thing. Get out there. As I said, before the elderly age
00:36:06.800
of 28, make sure your beautiful selfies have the right background. Because when you're ancient,
00:36:13.700
like the three of us on this screen, it's over. Right. There's a lot of that messaging.
00:36:20.120
Yeah. A lot. Like, I mean, do you think, girl, enjoy, but like, it's just not my kind of shallow.
00:36:26.620
Like I'm like hot and no 401k. I want over older and richer. Like that's fine with me. That's why I
00:36:34.460
make a living. You know, that's, uh, that, that freed me up. Um, I just think all this messaging,
00:36:41.220
by the way, some people seem to think might encourage women voters to vote for the people
00:36:46.260
that they prefer, that it's like, everything is over when you're 28 and a half. So you better get
00:36:52.220
it done before then. Uh, in my personal life has just not been the case. Uh, I've lived several
00:36:58.320
chapters. Uh, I've enjoyed all of them. And the idea of, uh, making sure that someone else takes care
00:37:06.380
of the first independent chapter of my life doesn't sound appealing to me. I enjoyed finding my way.
00:37:13.260
Yeah. Right. Remember, I mean, being in your young twenties and being kind of lost and having to
00:37:21.260
pay for your first rent bill. I remember when I moved to Chicago for law school, I was dirt poor
00:37:26.240
because I was funding my own law school and I didn't have any money. And I literally had an old
00:37:32.860
like love seat that my mother gave me and a mattress that went on the floor and two milk crates with a TV
00:37:41.000
that had antenna. All right. That's how old I am. And antenna the milk crates. I was so happy. I had
00:37:48.220
a box wine, what box wine in the fridge. I felt like a grownup. It's, there was no one taking care
00:37:55.860
of me. I took care of me. I loved every second of the climb. And she talks about it. Like it's
00:38:02.260
something to escape Bridget. Like it's, this is, you're kind of a loser. If you don't take the
00:38:07.500
shortcut where you can just be beautiful wherever you go.
00:38:11.000
Yeah. It's interesting because a lot of the stuff we're covering, it's, it seems almost
00:38:16.020
conflict, flicting. You kind of came up through this like boss bitch air, you know, the, the height
00:38:22.620
of it and a, in a man's world essentially. And we are all bit, you know, we're ancient and
00:38:29.600
geriatric on this panel. So we came up through this time where you did have to try and fight
00:38:35.020
like a man. And it was, it was a bit more of an aggressive feminism. And now I'm seeing
00:38:40.020
this big blowback where, you know, there's the trad wife, um, rhetoric that we hear constantly
00:38:46.600
and that you're pretty much dusty and done at the age of 30. And like MK, I have had many lives
00:38:54.460
and I am a late bloomer. I had my first child at 42 years old. And it it's, um, I, I feel bad for
00:39:02.300
women who get this messaging, like go find somebody to take care of you and just give up before you
00:39:07.800
even get started. Because for me, like you, my twenties, I had a box, you know, a side table out
00:39:13.300
of a box and a blow up mattress. And that, that struggle and hustle really defined, helped me find
00:39:21.460
myself. And it also helps me really identify with people who are struggling and trying to make it on
00:39:29.420
their own because I've been there. I've been too broke to buy shampoo. And I've, I've also been in
00:39:37.020
a situation like her where I had everything taken care of. And I remember being more depressed and
00:39:44.020
lost and than I ever had been in my life in that situation. And I remember looking out at the
00:39:51.160
Mediterranean and thinking like, this is rock bottom, even though it sounds ridiculous. It really was an
00:39:58.240
internal, I had completely lost myself. And this just kind of, in some ways, this article sounds a
00:40:05.560
bit like a cope. Yeah. Well, and by the way, the guy she married is only 37. Like he's only 10 years
00:40:12.200
older than she, she talks to him. Like she's found a 60 year old sugar daddy at age 20. Yeah. It's not
00:40:17.040
what happened. Um, but yeah, what were you going to say? Okay. No, the, the pendulum just swings too hard
00:40:22.480
in our cultural conversations. Right. So it has to go from boss bitch to like, and that does,
00:40:27.260
that did devalue some of the work that women did at home raising children. And I do want to send the
00:40:32.960
message. Um, but it's different than the, the trad wife thing, which is like, I got married. I had a
00:40:38.660
partner. I raised these kids. I enjoy it. Like this is part of the great adventure of my life. It wasn't
00:40:46.180
the end of joy. Um, and also it's coupled with some other things and some independence and things that I
00:40:51.880
want to teach my children. Also the idea that you have to be pretty to enjoy the beauty of God's earth, uh,
00:40:59.700
is so sad. Yeah. It's so sad. You've got your whole life. It is a privilege to age to get to the, to the
00:41:06.460
later years. Enjoy what is in front of your eyes the whole time. Yeah. I'm just saying like, she's fine, but
00:41:12.880
she's an attractive woman, but like, I expected more for somebody who was bragging about how
00:41:17.100
beautiful she was. I'm not going to lie. I did. That's just politics. You got to manage those
00:41:23.500
expectations. All right. No, all of this brings me to my friend, Charlie Kirk, who I think I've seen
00:41:30.860
both of you guys ripping on online and he's taking a fair amount of incoming for his comments on young
00:41:36.040
women. And I will start this by saying, I love Charlie. He, he says a lot of controversial things,
00:41:40.440
but I did. I think he's absolutely beautiful. Beautiful. That's I'm looking, I think at my,
00:41:44.500
my other, he's not beautiful. I think he's absolutely brilliant. Maybe his wife finds him
00:41:47.700
beautiful. Um, and here is what he said in part about young women. If you are a 32 year old young
00:41:55.880
lady who went to college, who has a nice apartment, a corporate job and cats, you know, you're, you're a
00:42:00.860
Democrat voter, right? What's amazing is once they get married, they become 50, 50. Once they have kids,
00:42:07.820
they become like right wing about by 20 points. We basically told a great generation of young
00:42:13.120
women, don't get married, don't have kids, go get a corporate job. And it's created mass political
00:42:19.160
hysteria. Um, and then in their early thirties, they get really upset because they say, you know,
00:42:24.520
the boys don't want to date me anymore because they're not at their prime. And people get mad when
00:42:28.440
I say that was just true. If you're in your early thirties, I'm sorry. It's like, you're not as
00:42:31.760
attractive in the dating pool as you were in the early twenties. But again, you have your corporate job
00:42:35.320
and cats. So I thought, you know, um, and I feel sorry for a lot of these young ladies. They email
00:42:40.780
me all the time and they say, Charlie, I'm broken down in tears. I'm 33. I earn $130,000 a year. I
00:42:46.160
travel a lot and I have no one to share my life with. And I hope they find somebody in time.
00:42:50.800
And that's why they always frame it. They're like, I'm running out of time and running out of time,
00:42:53.520
running out of time. It's like, well, the culture did this to you, but you also made a decision.
00:42:58.620
You made a decision consciously to not date with the intent to marry. And it creates,
00:43:04.720
it creates a lot of bad, um, a lot of bad consequences. I'm not saying that every young
00:43:09.260
woman is called necessarily to be a mother, but almost every single one is. And almost every
00:43:13.280
single one deep down wants to be a mother. And they're told, you know, Hey, I want it all.
00:43:17.620
I want it all, all the time. You need to ask, if you had to choose, which would it be a great,
00:43:21.620
amazing career or a beautiful, healthy family? And they're never actually presented with that binary.
00:43:28.620
Bridget sitting back with her head back in her. I'm just so over this like hole. Oh,
00:43:35.740
it's just so gross to me. All of it. Like, first of all, you're not old and dusty. If you're 32
00:43:40.480
met again, it makes me mad. The focus is never on the quality of men. What are the men like now?
00:43:46.640
What, why aren't we looking at what, why don't we ever discuss what, what the condition of the men is
00:43:52.400
in this situation? Also these women who are like 32,
00:43:57.000
and it's not necessarily because they're not in their prime that people don't want to date them.
00:44:01.620
It's because they're mentally ill often. Like there's also just, there's also just a general
00:44:07.840
craziness. I mean, yeah. When you look at the, when you do look at the numbers, it's wild. Like
00:44:12.940
it's single liberal women who are saying kind of single handedly all voting democratic across the
00:44:20.100
board. And I do think even just from seeing responses to certain pieces and whatnot, that
00:44:27.420
they do feel like the culture has lied to them and that there's, they want, but why not both? Like
00:44:33.100
it's not a binary. You don't have to choose between having a child and having a career.
00:44:38.700
You can do both. And the, the fact that it's being presented as even there's some binary that
00:44:45.360
a woman has to choose makes me insane. Well, and I think what Charlie was talking about, I mean,
00:44:51.700
I understand what he's saying. I think you're understand what he's saying too, which is
00:44:54.820
I've had women come up to me and say the same thing that they're, they were sold a bill of goods,
00:44:59.400
you know, get a job, be a, be a badass, be a boss, be a girl boss. And then they realized
00:45:04.680
they weren't fulfilled and time had gone by. And especially, I don't know about 32, but you know,
00:45:10.140
you get to 38, which is how old I was when I had my first child. And it's not wrong that it's much
00:45:17.500
more difficult to conceive a baby at 38 than it is at 28. That's just facts. That's biology.
00:45:23.820
Um, and then they worry, they're like, wait a minute, what did I do? Did I miss my window?
00:45:28.260
This is why a lot of women are now freezing their eggs young. And I do think that these young women
00:45:32.200
were done a disservice MK by messaging on the front of Ms. Magazine and shows and so on for a long time
00:45:40.900
about how, what, what's worthy, what's valued is a job. That's what we care about. The job fair
00:45:47.380
will be crammed down your throat with all of the girl bosses. And there will never be a stay-at-home
00:45:52.740
mom who parades across the stage to say, this is why I made the choice I did. And raising my family
00:45:58.440
has been spectacular for me. No, I think some of that is true. And I want to have empathy for those
00:46:04.840
women. I want those women to come with me on this journey. One of the things that post COVID I worried
00:46:09.920
about is that like, there is increased mental illness, but you don't get people out of their
00:46:14.480
anxiety by yelling at them that they shouldn't be anxious. Right. We have to be a little bit more
00:46:18.620
compassionate than that. And one of the ways that I hope to message to these women is not to say
00:46:23.360
it's all over for you. And I'm going to make fun of your sadness and your cats, but to say,
00:46:27.660
I have enjoyed my adventure. I love parenting my children. I have four children, which is the number
00:46:34.340
that people go, what happened there? What's your religion? What's happening? And the answer is I
00:46:39.200
have four children because they are fun. They are fun. And this era offers me more flexibility as a mom
00:46:46.360
than any era before now. And I get to live that cool journey. Now, Charlie Kirk had said that maybe
00:46:53.820
you get a couple of people who are inch out of that, uh, inch out of, I think his criticism was
00:46:58.900
mostly of these leftist women. And he criticizes leftist men with their man buns too, to your point,
00:47:04.480
Bridget of like, who exactly are they going to get to partner with and father their children?
00:47:08.160
So he is tough on his own sex as well. Um, but yeah, we, by the way, can I, can I also just,
00:47:13.040
can I also just shout out the, uh, my husband and empirical 10 who I married at the age of 39.
00:47:19.260
So have hope ladies. Same. Honestly, I met Doug when I was 35, we got married when I was 37 and we
00:47:27.140
had babies at 38, 40 and 42. And I have to say to this woman who wrote the cup thing to grazie.
00:47:33.040
I don't know if that's yours is her handle or what. Um, all stages have been awesome. And Doug is very
00:47:39.060
hot. So, you know, screw you. We're still looking good in front of the beautiful St. Farts
00:47:44.040
background. You don't have to only be 20, right? Like just try a little harder. Go ahead, Bridget.
00:47:50.400
You're, I just think that you're not giving people an off ramp. So if you're, you are mocking them and
00:47:55.820
saying, Oh, you're crazy. And you're cats and you're, you're aged out at 32. What aren't you
00:48:00.780
supposed to try to open the tent and be saying like, okay, so maybe you're feeling if these women are
00:48:06.920
calling you and saying, I feel regret. Shouldn't you be, um, offering them some kind of hope,
00:48:12.020
offering them some kind of salvation, offering them something and derision, acknowledging their
00:48:19.700
reality, because there are a lot of women in their twenties who would have loved to have found a
00:48:25.140
partner and gotten married. And they're looking at, you know, around at 34, like, where are they?
00:48:31.800
Where are they? Right? Like that, those women don't need to be mocked. I have, I think he's
00:48:36.700
thinking about a particular brand of lecturing leftists who then turn around and realize their
00:48:41.400
messaging didn't pan out. Okay. Stand by. There's so much more to get to so much more goodness.
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00:49:47.420
Everyone is still abuzz in the Northeast here where there was an earthquake
00:49:56.560
that started in, it was in New Jersey, but it was felt in the New York metropolitan area where I am
00:50:02.620
in Connecticut, of course, across New Jersey and places of Pennsylvania. And this guy, Alex Cohen on
00:50:08.720
Twitter, tweeted out F it best New York City earthquake memes thread. And he's just going through
00:50:15.220
a few of the reactions online. Okay, let's see. It's a text exchange. We just had an earthquake.
00:50:21.560
LOL person responds. No way. Yeah, it was a 4.8 and lasted like 10 seconds. Pretty sweet response.
00:50:28.760
Sounds like someone I know. Okay, let's see. About to did you just feel that earthquake my way back into
00:50:38.920
her life? Then there's a site called earthquake. Did anyone just feel that? And somebody responds,
00:50:45.420
yes. Does anyone know any single men aged 25 to 50? I haven't been on a date in a while. And that
00:50:50.180
earthquake made me think maybe I should kick this life partner search up a notch. This is not a
00:50:53.960
dating site. People are losing it. It's a big deal for us Northeast nerders who just don't get this
00:50:59.280
kind of fun every once in a while. I mean, again, I hope everybody's safe. I haven't heard any reports
00:51:03.500
at 4.7. I don't, there shouldn't be too much fallout, but we'll see in any event. Probably the most
00:51:09.720
exciting weather wise thing we've had in a while. My girl was ready to start her intentional dating
00:51:15.340
journey. That was she's she's turning the page. What do you mean? So she had a taste of mortality
00:51:22.640
and she decided I'm going to find a life partner. And that's what that's what we're encouraging
00:51:26.140
folks to do. We need more earthquakes. Speaking of dating. Do you know who the Hensel twins are?
00:51:36.300
Oh, yes. So they are conjoined twins. And it's very rare for conjoined twins to make it in like to
00:51:53.080
live. Yeah, these, these two have they're 34 years old. They are America's most famous conjoined twins
00:52:01.080
says the Daily Mail. Um, Abby and Brittany Hensel. They actually had their own reality show.
00:52:08.120
They're from Minnesota. And they are one just got married, which is so confusing. How does it work?
00:52:20.740
So I'm going to show you a graphic of what body parts they share. They have two distinct heads,
00:52:28.920
two distinct hearts, two esophaguses, two gallbladders, two stomachs, three kidneys.
00:52:37.880
But then things merge. They have one large intestine, two stomachs, but only one large intestine
00:52:47.980
and one small intestine, one pelvis, two legs, of course, one bladder. But like basically from the
00:52:55.580
intestines down, they look like a single person, like a like just one person. And they also say that
00:53:04.560
Brittany, who's the left twin, cannot feel anything on the right side of the body. And Abigail, the right
00:53:12.180
twin, can't feel anything on the left side of the body. For a task such as replying to emails,
00:53:19.040
they use the keyboard and respond as one. And there are other examples of some of the things they do
00:53:25.260
together from their show. I'll give you an example. This is how they drive. It's hot seven.
00:53:31.420
I think we're good drivers, but we have two licenses. And when we got our driver's license,
00:53:37.340
we each had to take the test. We both passed. Abby is control of the gas and the brakes.
00:53:43.360
And then we both steer, obviously. And then I'm in charge of the clicker for the blinker. So.
00:53:50.820
My God, the challenges these girls have faced. Okay, this is how they type on the computer.
00:53:58.020
But when we type, but we say what we're going to say out loud, like we speak it and then we type
00:54:06.800
it. And it's like we have different opinions on something. We'll be like, Abby says this and Brittany
00:54:11.380
says that. Oh, my Lord. Okay, here is after they got a job as math specialist teachers.
00:54:21.700
It's hot 10. So we got a job, which is really exciting. We are fourth and fifth grade math
00:54:31.640
specialists. So we'll have two classes of math. It's part time, which is nice. So we'll be kind
00:54:38.240
of transitioning into the teaching world. There's so much stuff. Do we really need this stuff?
00:54:44.420
Probably. So there's a lot of stuff you need when you're a teacher, obviously. We didn't really know
00:54:49.440
what we were going to need or like get or need or whatever, but we just went just to at least
00:54:55.040
get started. We have two contracts, but we're only part time. So obviously we don't get full
00:55:00.320
salary, but what they're doing is just splitting it in two and giving me half and Brittany half.
00:55:09.140
That is absolutely fascinating how they both jump in with an um at the exact same time when
00:55:15.580
the other one is speaking. I mean, it really is almost like, you know, two different versions of
00:55:21.200
the same person and they, they are, they literally are. Well, now they're in the news and obviously
00:55:28.000
they've put themselves out publicly. Otherwise I wouldn't be talking about them, but they've put
00:55:32.140
themselves out there and they are, one of them got married. And of course that's left, let everybody
00:55:38.960
ask, what does that mean? Like, how can one of them get married? Abby, um, is the one who's the
00:55:47.320
right twin. And we're showing the, a video of them dancing at their wedding as the first dance. Abby
00:55:55.260
got married. And I guess the sister Brittany, who's on the left, isn't married, but you know, not to put
00:56:04.500
to find a point on it, but they do share everything down South in Rio, but it's unclear who feels what
00:56:12.780
happens down there and what happens to the other one. Like the one here on the outside, Abby is the
00:56:19.460
one who's married. The one on the inside of that shot is not married. What happens with the other?
00:56:24.500
I think there's, everyone's got to go along with it when they consummate the marriage and all that.
00:56:28.980
I'm so confused. I am amazed. I've never heard of these young women before. Have you heard of these
00:56:34.980
women? My, my take is that it's the only acceptable use of they, them. This is the appropriate use of
00:56:45.980
it. This makes sense. It's not hurting my brain to use they, them pronouns. In this instance, I can make
00:56:55.580
sense of it. It is accurate. It is appropriate. I wonder if they're mad that like the gender people
00:57:02.560
took their pronouns. Yeah. Well, I am. Whenever I'm a member of a group, I feel like my, my pronoun
00:57:08.780
has been stolen. I can't believe, like, I can't help but think MK looking at them. I'm like,
00:57:15.040
we got people bitching that like they're, you know, they've got like the disorder where you pull out
00:57:21.400
your hair, shut up, shut up and take a look at the Hensel twins because they seem happy. They
00:57:28.420
actually seem pretty delightful. I mean, talk about life's challenges. Yeah. So the name didn't
00:57:34.800
ring a bell right away, but I have known about them for years. They're younger than I am, but I remember
00:57:39.740
reading about them as a kid, probably in people magazine or something, because they're a medical
00:57:44.180
miracle that they have survived. Um, but I think they're an emotional miracle that their resilience is
00:57:49.920
so clear. Uh, these young women are enjoying life seemingly. Obviously they've done everything
00:57:58.020
together for the entirety of that life. So I'm sure them navigating whatever the arrangements are
00:58:04.660
is something that frankly, they have, uh, had a lot of practice at and to, uh, watch them make a life
00:58:11.180
in the way that they have is kind of amazing. And we had a whole discourse on Twitter, like two weeks
00:58:17.000
ago about how, uh, actually getting door dash was necessary for people because they have too much
00:58:22.440
anxiety to microwave a dinner or go shopping. And I was like, guys, we are really teetering on the edge
00:58:29.620
here. And I would, I would advise that those folks look to these twins for some inspiration because they
00:58:35.340
have whole jobs and meal making and getting married under control. Well, think about it because
00:58:41.440
you got people out there like, Oh, you know, they, they stared at me because I'm different or I'm
00:58:46.320
other, I'm, you know, I'm a minority and I'm in a majority white classroom, whatever it is.
00:58:51.520
You want to talk about getting stared at? These two are not hibernating at home. He got a job
00:58:57.440
teaching in a school. They're out there driving there. There's no way that literally everybody in
00:59:04.900
the grocery store is not staring at them. They, we show that the video of them doing their shopping.
00:59:08.380
They, they get used to it. You deal with it. You get past adversity. And this is about as
00:59:13.240
challenging as an adversity as I've ever seen. I want to know more about the husband.
00:59:18.140
How, like, how do you fall in love only with the one? Does the other one know to be quiet when like
00:59:22.620
the bonding's happening, you kind of try to fade into the distance when they have their first kiss
00:59:26.840
and you're like, I can see you. Like what, what is her role? Yeah. Yeah. My, my husband was like,
00:59:35.460
that's one way to find your way into a threesome.
00:59:41.860
Uh, yeah, by the way, I, I should note there's a viral post going around that proclaims to be an
00:59:48.540
explanation of their sex life, which is not real. So just if you guys have seen that, um,
00:59:54.700
an FYI, wait, is it because the daily mail has a whole writeup on it? Apparently it's not real.
01:00:00.260
No, the Northwestern university person. No, there might be some medical speculation with
01:00:07.100
an expert, but I think the one that allegedly came from them. Oh, okay. No, I trust the daily
01:00:13.420
mail. Daily mail consults with Northwestern university's Feinberg school of medicine,
01:00:17.680
uh, and the professor of clinical medicine, medical humanities, and bioethics, Alice Drager,
01:00:22.660
who says they share one set of genitals that they would both feel any touching down there,
01:00:27.440
whether both would experience the big O at the same time. We don't know. And do they experience
01:00:33.820
it? Like, do they both have sensation? They have separate brains, but this shared reproductive
01:00:39.440
situation. So who knows? Um, Drager from her studies assumes conjoined twins like these
01:00:47.300
likely have less sex than average people. You think not just because finding a partner is harder.
01:00:55.740
We know you don't need a degree from Northwestern. Um, but because they may not need romantic partners
01:01:02.540
as much as everyone else, because they are literally attached to a soulmate. Think about that.
01:01:08.940
You, the funny, the funniest reaction was all the women being like, they can find us and I can't.
01:01:16.260
That was like the best reaction on all of social media is like these,
01:01:20.620
they can find someone and I can't find a good man out there.
01:01:25.180
It's a good point. Um, I don't know. I wish them the best. It's extremely rare to have
01:01:30.060
conjoined twins survive. Usually just imagine never being alone long ago.
01:01:34.900
Yeah. That sounds horrible to me. Yeah. You're never alone ever. Not for one second of your entire
01:01:41.320
life. I would not like that. I like my alone time. I get grumpy if I don't get it. I mean,
01:01:46.360
maybe it's different when you actually share half a body with the person, you know, like she's tired
01:01:50.680
too. You know, if you, I like, are the personalities sharply different where they argue, you know,
01:01:55.300
it's like bloodstream too. Yeah. It is one, like, stop drinking so much. I'm sick of going to the
01:02:00.860
toilet, you know, like, yeah, to get like, can you imagine the fights they must have?
01:02:05.260
I anyway, we'll see. I hope it lasts. I, I have to give the audience an update about another odd
01:02:12.080
pairing that we brought to them. And that is gypsy Rose, the young girl, now a woman who was the
01:02:19.980
victim of a crazed mother who either had Munchausen's by proxy, you know, she was making the daughter sick
01:02:25.960
or just was a big fraud and wanted the daughter to act sick. I don't totally understand what the
01:02:32.820
mother's motivation was to this day, but she was completely ruining gypsy Rose's life and kept her
01:02:37.800
in a wheelchair and was pumping her through full of medications, having her have surgeries that she
01:02:41.520
didn't need. Crazy that the medical community was complicit and gypsy Rose wound up getting a guy to kill
01:02:47.540
the mom. And the guy went to jail forever. And gypsy Rose just got out. And she's like a tiny
01:02:55.400
high pitched voice gal. I'm sure there's been some stunting from all the mother, the mother's
01:03:00.380
mistreatment. But while in prison, she found a husband. Here's a clip of them when she got out
01:03:06.460
just a couple of months ago. Ryan, how are you dealing with the newfound fame and being in the
01:03:11.200
spotlight? I knew who I married. She was like, are you sure? Are you sure? And of course I was. I mean,
01:03:15.980
I'm in love with this girl. Well, you're already clapping back on the social media. I've seen those.
01:03:20.020
I do believe y'all had some spicy things to say to each other. Well, we're new. Like, you know,
01:03:28.000
I mean, we're married. What's hard for me is watching, you know, the negative comments towards
01:03:33.320
him. I can handle negative comments towards me because I don't care. But when it's about somebody
01:03:38.060
that I love, I want to clap back. And that was my, you know, clap back a little bit. I'm going to come
01:03:44.400
to his defense. He's my man. Like, that's what wives do. Okay. She's referring to a post in which
01:03:51.380
she clapped back to somebody who was criticizing, saying Ryan to her husband, don't listen to the
01:03:56.660
haters. I love you. You love me. We owe no one anything. Our families who matters, blah, blah,
01:04:02.440
blah, blah, blah. Besides they jealous because you are rocking my world every night. Yeah, I said it.
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The D is fire. Well, it turns out their marriage didn't last. It's over already. Apparently the D is
01:04:21.160
not fire and the relationship is in embers. Shockingly, their prison marriage did not work
01:04:28.440
out, which, you know, I'm not sure what the odds are, but I'm going to have to guess they weren't
01:04:33.420
very good to begin with. None of the kids, I never understand people who marry people who are in
01:04:36.740
prison, but happened, failed again. It happens a lot. Yeah. Yeah. He looked a little bit like the
01:04:43.800
handsome husband. Oh, he did. Usually it's a woman on the outside though, right? Like marrying the
01:04:49.400
Menendez brothers. I don't know. Like there are women who really get off on like bad boys and I'm
01:04:54.960
going to be the one who changes them. This is something else. I don't know. Gypsy Rose has got
01:04:59.400
like 10 million followers on Instagram might be 20 or something huge. And I'm sure she's a moneymaker
01:05:05.400
not to falsely impugn Brian. Oh, I'm sure given the fire comment had other advantages, but in any
01:05:13.080
event. Okay. Moving on. Sex in the city is coming back. Did you know that it's being re-released on
01:05:21.320
Netflix in the same way friends was just re-released on Netflix. And there is a real question about whether
01:05:29.240
it can make it in modern day America, uh, our old intern for this show, Ricky Schlott, who is amazing
01:05:37.140
and incredibly talented writes for the New York post sometimes. And she's got a piece saying Gen Z is
01:05:43.280
not going to be able to handle this. And apparently she sat, she's younger, you know, she was our intern
01:05:47.500
and she sat and she watched all of the sex in the city episodes and thought Gen Z is going to have a
01:05:54.160
total meltdown when they meet Carrie Bradshaw and this cast of characters talking about how
01:06:00.360
this, you know, looked at through our 2024 eyes is not going to age. Well, she has no problem with it.
01:06:07.760
She's not woke and she's not annoying. Uh, but she is pointing to scenes like this one saying,
01:06:13.860
how's this going to go over? Stop 14. He's a bisexual. Well, I could have told you that,
01:06:20.600
sweetie. He took you ice skating for God's sake. You know, that generation is all about sexual
01:06:25.700
experimentation. All the kids are going bi. So what, if all the bi kids are jumping off a bridge,
01:06:30.380
you're going to do that too? I'm a trisexual. I'll try anything once. When did this happen? When did
01:06:36.220
the sexes get all confused? Somewhere between Gen X and Gen Y, they blended and made XY. I'm not even
01:06:42.600
sure bisexuality exists. I think it's just a layover on the way to gay town. I'm very into labels. Gay,
01:06:54.340
Mm-hmm. Then there's this with Samantha moving into, I think it was downtown,
01:07:01.140
the meatpacking district and encountering quote trannies.
01:07:10.840
Yeah, keep talking. I'll come down there and cut it off for you.
01:07:13.920
The next Saturday, Samantha decided to throw a kiss and makeup party for the up my ass players
01:07:23.580
Already, already you've got people commenting. She's got them in her piece. Lark, I can just
01:07:32.260
see the Gen Z discourse on Sex and the City. Oh no. There's Emily watching Sex and the City
01:07:38.240
on Netflix. And I don't know, you guys, Carrie seems really problematic. And then there's more.
01:07:44.120
Like, already they're having a negative reaction because it's not woke. And they talk the way
01:07:48.860
we've all been talking forever prior to the past year.
01:08:02.180
I don't know. I just hated it. I wasn't, I never liked it. I never got into it. It was
01:08:06.660
like a show that always just rubbed me the wrong way. And it's weird because I grew up
01:08:12.160
in that time when it was like, all my friends had the martini parties and the, and the Cosmos
01:08:18.560
and all of it. And I never, I never got into it.
01:08:21.500
I was, I didn't like the reboot where it was all woke-ified and annoying. Go ahead.
01:08:27.400
No, I'm, I'm in the middle. I was a hate watcher of Sex and the City. And, uh, I considered
01:08:32.180
a lot of it a guide to maybe how not to live. Um, but depending on the character, I mean,
01:08:38.380
I also love Real Housewives, but I'm not like taking life, life tips from it.
01:08:43.180
But I think, I think we should, uh, wait to see with Gen Z here because
01:08:47.380
Gen Z, there are young people who love friends. That's why it took off on Netflix. Right. And I
01:08:53.580
think some of that may be a longing for a time where you don't have to police your own thoughts
01:08:58.660
at every single second, because that conversation they had at the table was fairly tame. It wasn't
01:09:04.080
disrespectful. And what it was, was kind of like a, what's exactly going on here? Am I allowed to
01:09:09.080
ask questions? That's the thing people don't feel like they're allowed to do anymore. And a lot of
01:09:12.860
Gen Z is bothered by that. Even if they do it sort of quietly being bothered by it, maybe this is
01:09:17.800
their revolution. Yeah. I don't know. Are we talking about Gen Z or are we talking about like
01:09:23.320
Gen Alpha? Like I don't know. Maybe a little younger Gen Z is, but I don't know. Members of
01:09:27.720
Gen Z. The older Gen Zers. Yeah. Yeah. I think the younger Gen Zers are sick of woke. They've had it,
01:09:33.340
but I think the older Gen Zers are hashtag the problem. The older Gen Zers are the younger
01:09:40.200
millennials. I always felt like, well, that's the same, that's the same general group, right? I
01:09:44.580
mean, I just think those are the lecturing ones who want to change everything and want to pretend
01:09:48.320
that we were never politically incorrect. And you know, all that, like the lecturers, like,
01:09:53.260
I don't know if they're going to enjoy this or not. I, what I loved about it is I loved the scenes
01:09:57.600
of New York city. I loved the fashion. I thought it was funny. Like that was clever dialogue. I think
01:10:03.040
bias just to what it was like a pause on the, on the bridge to gaydom, you know? Like, yeah,
01:10:08.560
I think most women I know if they're dating a guy and he says, I'm bi, they're like, you're gay.
01:10:13.420
That's like, bi is just something gay men say to make it sound like less shocking. Um, these are
01:10:19.980
feelings that a lot of people have and they weren't afraid to say them. It's only today's day and age
01:10:23.880
that you have to like guard your opinions. Like there's something wrong with the way you feel
01:10:28.320
about these issues, which are unsettled and unsettling. Yeah. It's weird. I've been doing comedy
01:10:35.680
a lot in Austin, which is a younger, more, um, left-wing crowd. And they do seem like they're
01:10:43.460
loosening up a little. So maybe because the culture is loosening up, maybe you age out of some of your
01:10:49.960
obnoxiousness. I was, I always joke that I was like AOC in my twenties. Um, I, I don't know if
01:10:57.540
they're just getting older. It does, it does seem like they're, they're wanting to laugh and
01:11:04.420
loosen up a little bit and let go of some of that, um, annoyingness.
01:11:10.700
Yeah. I mean, I think the good news is that because there's a younger generation who does
01:11:14.920
seem to be like more the younger Gen Z or alpha that does seem to be more open to free speech
01:11:20.240
ideas and conversations that eventually being the speech police might become choogy as the
01:11:25.180
children say. Um, and it will be out of style, which is what we're looking for.
01:11:29.760
I see it even with the teens, they seem to be reacting to a lot of the like woke quote unquote
01:11:35.180
woke wokeness, the younger ones, alpha and whatnot. And they seem like they're pretty chill. So I'm
01:11:41.800
hoping maybe I think if people do jump on it and make it problematic, it will just be for clicks and
01:11:48.720
cloud chasing. The, um, I guess it depends on where you live because I would say for sure where we are
01:11:56.400
in Connecticut, where I'm seeing a blowback to woke, you know, among younger kids and, uh, my friends
01:12:02.460
who have college kids, they'll talk about how they're just over it even at the college level.
01:12:07.020
But, um, there was this piece in the New Yorker talking about the meltdown in a liberal town.
01:12:13.540
Uh, and that town was Amherst, Western mass. I don't get the joke because they say,
01:12:19.340
do you print, isn't it Amherst? Because they, they say the only thing silent, they say, yeah,
01:12:25.500
a joke you hear a lot is that in Amherst, only the H is silent. I don't know if that's a joke on
01:12:30.360
like the message, the Boston accent, Amherst, whatever. Amherst. They're having a problem at
01:12:36.580
their middle school. And this for people like that, I think the three of us was completely
01:12:40.820
predictable. I mean, you read this and you're like, sure. Yeah, this is exactly how it would
01:12:46.800
go down where there's a, there's been a complete meltdown. It's a very lengthy piece, but it's about
01:12:53.000
how it's about trans students and their annoying parents versus black administrators who apparently
01:13:01.680
haven't been supportive enough of their trans expression. And of course the trans students are
01:13:09.420
saying, you know, you need to support me in a firm and the black administrators and their allies are
01:13:14.260
saying, you people are racists. This is what happens when a black person gets into power,
01:13:19.920
especially a black woman. And they're eating their own. They're killing one another. Everyone's
01:13:25.280
losing their jobs, you know, and of course then predictably in another lane, like, uh, Abigail
01:13:30.040
Schreiber's recent, recent, recent book, uh, bad therapy. You've got the trans student who the more
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kindness and like dark, darkly lit room comforting spaces. You provide this kid, the more depressed
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the kid gets, it doesn't help you lean into this kid's unwellness. And so does the kid. It's just,
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it's everything that we talk about when it comes to woke, woke ology manifesting in the absolute
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explosion of this middle school and its administration. And what do I see in here?
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Nothing about how are the kids? Okay. Are the kids learning? This is all about adults and their
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stupid infighting over these issues. So what did you guys make of it?
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Katie Herzog had a great tweet and she said, this is an amazing glimpse into what happens when liberal
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white people with, we believe science posted outside their craftsmen homes are confronted with
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actual diversity. And I think that is exactly what you're seeing. And anyone who's been in this space
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and has been in the discourse could see this coming from a mile away. Yeah. The thing is,
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it's like a hierarchical fight. Okay. Where they're forced to choose what's more important,
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the trans thing or the black thing, because that that's what they're really looking at. And they're
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frozen with fear. No, it's an ideology of division inherently, right? If you do a privilege walk
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in your college freshman class, where you step forward, if you have two parents and you step
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back, if you had a single mom and you'd go forward, if your parents had a college education or whatever
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the whole point of it is at the end of it, you're all standing in separate places. You all see very
01:15:10.460
clearly how divided you are. That is the opposite of the philosophy. When I was a college freshman,
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when we all called the dogs together at the university of Georgia, and that was how we
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found common ground. And then you have your bowl sessions in your college dorm room and you learn
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things from each other because you're experiencing different people without getting this as your first
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introduction. And that now is how students must interact, right? It's like your thing that makes
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you different and is the thing that has cachet. And if you don't have that thing and you're not
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emphasizing that thing, which hopefully is like a disorder of some kind, I feel like that's sort
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of a bonus. Uh, then you have nothing, right? You're just, Oh, are you just like a normal white
01:15:53.840
chick? That's not going to work for you. And so it, it really incentivizes some very bad stuff for
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students who are for kids who aren't fully formed. And these, these adults are enabling all of it
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to the detriment of everyone. That was the crazy part in that college application essays with,
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I came from a happy home with two parents who loved each other and us and taught us to love
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each other and America. Where does that work to get you in? That's the diversity hire now.
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Yeah. Yes. That goes on the trash pile guys. Yeah. That's like Liberty, you know, it's sad,
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but it's true. Anyway, this is such a great example of what will happen if you focus on identity and
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whether it's your race or your gender or whatever it is, you will implode, you will implode badly.
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Everyone will lose their careers, including your most favored races and sexes. And like,
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no one will be spared because it's, it's headed for destruction. It's, it's a mutually assured
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destruction game because eventually you run out of white Republicans to blame. And you're going to be
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stuck only with other woke liberals who also are members of privileged classes and catastrophe will
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follow. So might as well give up the game now and get back to merit, get back to merit. Um,
01:17:10.880
this brings me to a thing I've been trying to get to all week. There was a piece speaking of women's
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basketball, as we did at the top by someone named Lindsay Schnell, who happens to be white and Lindsay
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wanted to weigh in on women's basketball and the race of the biggest players in it. Caitlin Clark
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is the biggest star in the, uh, headed for the WNBA. She's now at Iowa and, um, she's projected
01:17:37.860
number one overall, but there are two up and comers who are a year younger than she is, or maybe more.
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I think they're a year younger who are now going to be the new faces of, um, of basketball. There's,
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uh, Juju Watkins, who's the nation's second leading scorer after Caitlin. And then there's Notre
01:17:58.080
Dame point guard, Hannah Hidalgo, who's the other favorite for freshman of the year. Okay. So she's
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a little younger. This is what Lindsay concludes, not lost on any of the power brokers in the game.
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Both of these up and coming players are black and in a game built by black women, it matters that the
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faces of the future look like the faces of the past. She's openly saying, I'm really glad Caitlin
01:18:25.460
Collins or sorry, Caitlin Clark. I made that mistake is moving on because she's white and it's
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pissing me off that we don't have a black face as the star of women's basketball because of faces of
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the past. How insane is this? What if white people took this attitude in, I don't know, baseball or
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lacrosse? Um, you could go down the list. This is so offensive and her disgusting racism against her own
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race will be given a total pass MK because it's anti-white, which is fine. No, I think you're
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right. It will, it will get a pass. It's disgusting. It's fairly open about being disgusting. And the
01:19:07.400
thing is, look, Caitlin Clark's just really, really good guys deal with it. That J is fire, uh, to,
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to throw it back, but like, she's really, really good. But here's the thing. Angel Reese is black.
01:19:21.300
And we talk about her in conjunction with Caitlin Clark all the time because they are an intense
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and interesting rivalry between two really good athletes. And a lot of the blowback on this seems
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to be like, so women's sports is getting, or women's basketball is getting all this attention.
01:19:38.680
And then you're having all these conversations about, uh, whether the sportsmanship is good
01:19:42.780
enough and, and is Caitlin the goat or is the, someone else need to be considered. And you know what
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those sound like? They sound like the conversations that dudes have about men's basketball all the
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time, right? You're, this is just making it for women's sports. This is what it looks like. It
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looks like controversy. It looks like polarization. It looks like a bunch of people who aren't necessarily
01:20:01.280
always nice dropping a bunch of really amazing shots. Congratulations. She's lamenting Bridget as
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women's basketball grows in popularity, white players get the most attention that really do they,
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or is it just this one white player who happens to be incredibly good? Yeah. I mean, didn't she score
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more points than men or women in a recent game ever? I, I, I don't know. I'm the three, the free,
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the start. She did the three point competition with Steph Curry. I watched this with my kids.
01:20:33.580
She was right behind him. He won, but it was tight. She was respectable and no one could have any
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reaction to that other than props to her. Unless you're a lunatic, like Lindsay Schnell lamenting
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how as the sport grows in popularity, the white players get the attention.
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This is the most I've ever heard about women's basketball ever. So I do think like, I agree.
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It's progress that we're even having this controversial. I'm not really watching women's
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basketball. And I've, my father was watching it the other night and I was like, Oh, that's really
01:21:10.660
cool that you're into this game and you want to know who's winning. That is, that's amazing.
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My, my, my EP tells me it's Sabrina Ionescu who did that Steph Curry thing. I see all white people
01:21:23.800
the same. I confuse them for one another. That's, that's my racism. But my point is like, this girl
01:21:28.520
was amazing. So why wouldn't we cover this girl, Sabrina being able to hang with Steph Curry? Does it
01:21:33.240
count that she was up against a black man? Do it like, is that, does that need to like, does that make
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this woman feel any better? Like, why must we factor in there? And you look at the WNBA, I'm going
01:21:43.840
to guess that there are mostly black faces. So who cares if there's, so there's a couple of white
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women who are actually doing really well in that. Great. Good for them. I mean, it used to be that
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tennis was entirely white. And then we got wonderful players, like very talented black players who were
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featured nonstop. There's an, I don't remember, uh, Lindsay writing an article about how we really
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needed to change. Um, you know, she was relieved that in a game built by white women, it matters
01:22:11.840
that the faces of the future continue to look white. Where's that piece, Lindsay? Nowhere because
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no, no one other than an abject racist would say such shit, but you get away with it. If the targeted
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group is white, I'm sick of it. All right. Last but not least, you know, some of us used to worry
01:22:27.820
about the pants that would give us what we used to affectionately call plumber's ass, right?
01:22:34.960
You don't want to like, you lean over unless you're Monica Lewinsky at the white house as an intern,
01:22:39.600
you do not wish to show your thong or your butt crack upon leaning over until now. The latest
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fascist fashion trend is this is according to the cut with full frontal nudity now played out
01:22:52.260
to drum up the same level of attention. They've become accustomed to celebs have gone
01:22:57.800
in search of a fresh take on the provocative attire intentionally flashing some inter gluteal
01:23:04.680
cleft, but cleavage, they call it. And it's all the rage. They go through the number of celebrities
01:23:12.760
who are engaging in this because I guess now it's not enough to be basically nude. Look at this.
01:23:21.880
Is that who is that? Oh, my God. That's not even cleavage. That's like her whole butt.
01:23:27.200
It's not enough to be basically nude, you know, on these like little mesh one pieces that these
01:23:31.760
women wear with a teeny tiny thong and a barely there bra. Now we have to openly show ass and
01:23:38.000
ass crack. That's Kanye's wife, of course, never wanted to shy away from showing her naked body.
01:23:42.220
So is this a trend you can get behind Bridget? I mean, this is a trend that was is just coming
01:23:48.840
back. I'm a 90s kid. This was like all the rage. We had the low rise jeans and the tramp stamps and
01:23:55.600
the whale tail. Yeah, this was a 90s thing. I was there in the 90s. Oh, it was totally a 90s thing.
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No, we showed by crack. Tramp signs were all the rage.
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Come on, back me up. The tramp stamp goes above the crack. It does. It does. But the whale tail,
01:24:14.220
the whale tail was the whale coming out of your pants. So technically, the butt crack was a little
01:24:19.960
covered, but it was a suggestion, certainly more than a suggestion of that. Not that I indulged in
01:24:26.020
it because I think this is dumb. I don't think your butt crack looks great out for everybody.
01:24:31.320
Didn't Alexander McQueen? No, he had the whole fashion thing. And it was like a big deal
01:24:36.920
because he it made your I loved the low rise jeans because I'm super short and it made me look taller.
01:24:42.900
It was incredible. So I had them with like right around the hips. Okay, I'm very interested now that
01:24:48.420
you've become a mother, whether you feel the same, because I don't know any mother who can wear low rise
01:24:52.960
jeans. No, I'm not wearing low rise jeans now. But I did when I was super like in my teens and
01:25:00.740
20s. Yeah, you can't wear them. I wouldn't wear them now. And I can't. But have you seen the shorts
01:25:05.700
these teen girls are wearing? They're not shorts. They're like a belt. Yeah. It's the tiniest thing.
01:25:12.840
They let it all hang out. I'm against this. I think the ass should be kept covered. It should be
01:25:18.160
something private. I don't really view it as like all that sexy. I don't know. It brings up a lot.
01:25:24.600
You see the ass. You think about a lot of things. It's not just sex. I'm not sure if that's hot.
01:25:29.080
Yeah. Well, and a low a low back, like an extreme low back dress is really hot. But it's like once
01:25:35.320
you go all it's like, why the suggestion is the sexy part? Like, let's just leave it where it is.
01:25:41.900
Those days are gone. I mean, Bianca Sensori is a great example of it. Like the her latest pictures
01:25:46.760
out in the Daily Mail with Kanye. That woman, she doesn't wear clothes. I mean, I can look like
01:25:51.680
Beyonce beyond Bianca Sensori tomorrow. What I'm going to do is I'm to put on an old pair of my legs
01:25:58.180
pantyhose nude. And then I'm going to grab a pillow off the couch and hold it in front of my
01:26:04.400
boobs. And then I'll look just like her. I don't understand. Like any woman can do this,
01:26:09.520
but she gets this attention because I'll tell you exactly what's happening. He's letting the
01:26:13.760
paparazzi know where they can see her. He's making her into what looks like a porn star. And that's
01:26:19.460
what, you know, this is after Kanye went on Tucker's show and railed about how he was so upset about
01:26:26.540
those pictures of his wife, Kim, because he found Jesus and he no longer supported those kinds of
01:26:32.900
pictures of his wife. And now he's got the new wife and he's whoring her around every restaurant
01:26:39.260
in the world and calling the paps because he wants us to see her vag more than her ass crack
01:26:46.000
and her boobs. It's so exploitative. He's got an album coming out. Kanye always does crazy stuff
01:26:52.940
before an album comes out. This is like, he definitely has an album coming out when this
01:26:57.920
nonsense starts happening around him. I'm like, Oh, Kanye is in the news and he's doing crazy stuff
01:27:03.980
and he's exploiting. She always looks like a hostage and all of the pictures. It looks like
01:27:09.440
it looks like he just put something on the bed and is like, all right, this is what you're wearing.
01:27:15.060
Get into it. Look, I get, he's made her a star. We know her name. I never knew her name before she
01:27:21.120
married Kanye and started doing this, but I'm tempted. Like I thought a few times, I'm not
01:27:25.780
going to do this, but I thought, what if I actually did this? I could, I could put this outfit on. I
01:27:29.900
could, I'm holding it together. Okay. For 53, I could put this outfit on and I could go to dinner and
01:27:34.620
guess what? I would be all over the daily mail too. Is this fulfillment in life? Like for people to
01:27:39.400
oogle you while you're basically naked in public, is that a win? Is that a big accomplishment?
01:27:44.640
Like any woman virtually, not any, but like virtual, a lot of women could go out naked to
01:27:51.680
dinner and get press. It's like, they're desperate for attention. They stink of desperation.
01:27:58.480
Yeah. I'm not a fan. I'm not a fan. I did. I did, uh, had, have a memory triggered because we're all
01:28:04.300
old and dusty as we've discussed, uh, of going into like a, uh, a gas station or a drug store and
01:28:10.100
getting that little egg of pantyhose in an emergency. Like when I had to be dressed up for
01:28:13.860
a job interview. Yes. Maybe he should sell those. You know what? Maybe this is all like a prelude to
01:28:21.360
launching a competitor to skims, Kim Kardashian's undergarment. If that's true, I'm actually going
01:28:26.320
to be respectful of it. I'm actually going to be impressed that he lured us into this business,
01:28:29.660
but I think Kanye's got his own clothing line already. He probably doesn't need a new one.
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Ladies. What a pleasure. I hope you have a great weekend. Thank you. Thank you. I think we solved
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all the problems. Clearly. I'm feeling good about it. MK Ham and British Bridget Phetasy to be
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continued. See you again soon. Thanks for listening to the Megan Kelly show. No BS, no agenda, and no fear.