COVID Hysteria Aimed at Kids, New Proposed Gun Laws, and Cuomo Latest, with Janice Dean, Bethany Mandel, and John Lott Jr. | Ep. 220
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1 hour and 32 minutes
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191.78206
Summary
J.D. Devens is joined by Bethany mandel and John Lott Jr. to discuss Chris Cuomo s comments about his sister-in-law and her criticism of the governor, Andrew Cuomo, and why he deserved to be fired.
Transcript
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Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show, your home for open, honest, and provocative conversations.
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Hey everyone, I'm Megyn Kelly. Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show. We have three great
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guests for you today. In just a bit, I'm going to be joined by Bethany Mandel. She is an
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editor at Ricochet, a mom of five, and a favorite of mine at calling out COVID BS and hypocrisy.
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I'm also going to be joined just a bit by gun rights advocate John Lott Jr. about self-defense,
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concealed carry, and gun storage laws, as well as California Governor Gavin Newsom's just
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announced plan to restrict guns. We're seeing more and more of this in the week of that school
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shooting in Michigan, but will more gun laws solve any of our problems? But first, my old pal J.D.
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Janice Dean is here. Over the weekend, reports emerged that newly fired CNN anchor Chris Cuomo
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didn't just go after the women who had been accusing his brother Andrew Cuomo of sexually
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harassment. He was none too happy with Janice Dean, who was very vocal about Andrew Cuomo's
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failings when it came to elderly people in the nursing homes of New York State, like her two
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in-laws. And while I call her, you know, Janice Dean, the weather machine, or Janice Newman weather
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woman, he apparently calls her that Fox weather bitch. Such a charmer, J.D. He's such a charmer.
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But I mean, like I saw him over the weekend. I'm not surprised, but it is the continuation
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of a pattern of just bullying, narcissism, and honestly, like attacks on women at every turn.
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Mm hmm. Should I get business cards made? The weather bitch? Oh, let's get t shirts. Weather
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bitch. I'm going to get a t shirt that reads I'm with weather bitch. I'm not surprised you
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and I have had discussions about this for the last almost two years, right? At the very beginning,
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when I started to speak up about Sean's parents and how they died tragically in nursing homes and
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how we found out that there were over 9,000 infected patients put into those nursing homes by
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the governor, Andrew Cuomo, and then how he covered up the numbers at least by 50% to sell his $5.2
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million book, I got an email from someone that knows the family very well that said, you need to watch
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your back. And they were being very honest about that, that these are vindictive people. They, if anyone
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dares to go against them, they're going to do whatever they can to silence them. So I wasn't
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surprised. And over the last year and a half, this isn't the first time that they've tried to demean me
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or my family. They, uh, rich as a party, which is Cuomo's main henchman that is still acting as his
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publicist. He, um, went after my sister-in-law Donna on Twitter and told her to get a life, get a life
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after she was trying to find answers as to why her parents died. They also called us to death cult
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because we wanted to find out why the governor and his administration were treating seniors so badly
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by essentially, you know, putting, uh, COVID and like wildfire through, through dry brush. That's
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what the governor actually said. Putting infected patients into nursing homes was going to spread
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like wildfire. He said that before he did it. Um, so it doesn't surprise me that we're starting to
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find out they were actively trying to smear me like they were trying to do with, uh, the sexual
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harassment victims. Well, that's all we know right now is what Chris Cuomo said. We haven't found out
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what Andrew Cuomo said. I'm sure it made Chris's comments look completely G rated, but I want to talk
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to you because you and I haven't yet had the talk, had the chance to talk about Chris Cuomo. I mean,
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you've been coming on the show since its launch first, just to talk about what Andrew Cuomo had
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done with your in-laws and so many 15,000 other seniors in New York state, his stupid book tour
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using state employees to write the book and so on. And then it emerged, it evolved to where Cuomo got
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fired. Andrew Cuomo got fired. And now we see the brother fired and the whole story really has come
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full circle for you. But I was at an event last week, JD, and I was giving a speech or talking to some
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people. And, um, they asked me about this and I, you know, like, why did he deserve to get fired?
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Your thoughts? And I was like, a hundred percent, he deserved to get fired. And it, and the reason is,
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and I want to get your reaction. It's not, it's not good what he did, you know, violating the ethics
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of journalism by helping his brother using his post to help a sitting politician who happened to be his
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brother. But it's about so much more than that. To me, it's about the, the repeated, consistent
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breaking of trust with his audience. And why did he do it over and over the repeated breaking of
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trust? He did it because of his narcissism, because of his sense of entitlement. I was just thinking
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about it going back. Let's go back to, cause you and I have talked about all this. Let's go back to,
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um, the, when the COVID story broke. Okay. Let's just start there. Cause we could go back further,
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but, and the testing, something you raised questions about at the time and thereafter.
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To me, that's exhibit a in the story of Chris Cuomo's narcissism in the course of this pandemic.
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So what happened with the testing? He got VIP COVID tests before nursing homes could ever get
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them. So in the early stages of the pandemic, when the tests were, you know, no one could get them,
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including nursing homes, they could not test incoming patients to see if they had COVID. They were
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prohibited to do that. Um, so, but in the meantime, we learned that Chris Cuomo and others, friends and
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family were getting VIP COVID tests. And what had to happen was the testing had to go to their homes.
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So the state resources, um, the, the, you know, the people from the hospital or the state troopers
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would go out to the Hamptons to do the test on Chris Cuomo. And then they would have to drive
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upstate a couple of hours to get that test done. So they were already abusing these tests for friends
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and family, uh, when it could have been used elsewhere to actually save lives of people like
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my in-laws. So that's the beginning of how we're seeing that state resources were abused. And by the way,
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that's against the law, not only Chris Cuomo, but Chris Cuomo's sister and, uh, Chris Cuomo's, uh,
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brother-in-law who was Kenneth Cole, you know, the designer of the shoes, Kenneth Cole. So he was
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also getting these VIP COVID tests and state judges here in New York state, which by the way, I filed a
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complaint against. That's like giving a gift to somebody, uh, a state judge. And that's also against
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the law. She's not supposed to be abusing her power to get these perks like a VIP COVID test that
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essentially no one else could get. Yep. Right. So, but he, and by the way, he's our age, you,
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Chris Cuomo and I are all the same age. We're all 51 and he had no business getting those tests. He
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didn't need a test more than the senior citizens who were dying and really needed to know whether they
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had it in those nursing homes, but he was more important. And that's the theme you see with this
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guy at every turn, right? He gets diagnosed with COVID ultimately while he's covering this story,
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he walks out and about in the Hamptons outside, right? And this is before, listen, I will say right
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now, my God, we know a lot more about the disease and it doesn't transmit effectively outside. I don't
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know of any cases that have been identified as having occurred outside, but at the beginning of the
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pandemic, we did not know that. And Chris Cuomo thought, even though he'd been diagnosed with
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COVID, it'd be just fine for him to walk around the Hamptons, even though no one was doing that
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at that point, people were still very terrified of the virus. Why? Why was he okay? Because he was
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more important and we wouldn't have even known it if it hadn't been that guy who wanted to speak into
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the post, right? Who's like, he, I told him he should be quarantining and he yelled at me.
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Yeah. Yeah. And he lied to his viewers as well, right? Every night he was pretending
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to do his show live from his basement. Meanwhile, he's out doing whatever he wants and he gets
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caught and he, and he threatens the guy on the bike. I think Tucker Carlson had him on a show and
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this guy is a Democrat. He admitted that he was like, but I'm seeing Chris Cuomo, the hypocrite who's
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supposed to be inside quarantining because he apparently has COVID. Yep. Which he probably found
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out from one of Andrew's tests that should have gone to an elderly person. So then, um, after that,
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we see the fake emergence from the basement tape, I mean, the most absurd CNN segment ever. And that's
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saying a lot. He literally fakes his emergence from the basement is the very first time. It's a lie.
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He's lying to his audience. It's a massive break of trust. It's CNN's fault. 100% just as much as it is
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Chris Cuomo's. It is. That is not just a Chris Cuomo problem. Um, another break of the trust. And then
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he, let's not forget the, um, I'm not sure exactly sure where this went in the sequence,
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but remember the infamous Fredo tape where some guy in a bar called him Fredo. Now, you know,
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as well as I do, when you're in the public eye, sometimes people call you nasty names. It's
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happened to me. It happened to you just, just by Chris Cuomo, right? Right in the middle of the
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segment. Um, and Chris Cuomo went off on the guy. Do we have the soundbite? I think we've got it.
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To be on television. Yeah. But if you want to play, then we'll fucking play. You got something
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you want to say about what I do on television and say it, but I'm going to fall in the
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fucking insult. Hey man, hey, listen. I don't want any problems, bro. You're going to have
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a big fucking problem. What's the problem? It's a little different on TV. Don't fucking
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insult me like that. I had an insult. Oh, look, I'm such a tough guy. Fucking fuck. You know
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what? I am Italian, Chris Cuomo. Di Mayo off the boat from Italy on my mother's side.
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And you are Fredo. Um, but what does that show to me? Cause I look at that JD and I think
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contrast that Mr. Tough guy with his steroid infused. That's my guess. I don't know if he's
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on steroids, but it certainly appears that way. Um, workout videos and contrast that with what
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happened to Tucker. Tucker gets approached in a fishing store by some guys with his family,
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minding his own business. And what does he do? He tries to deescalate the situation. He tries to
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politely move on. He doesn't let it turn into some viral moment. It did only because it's Tucker,
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but the contrast between the two men is pretty stark. Right. And that's why I believe that there
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are probably not one, but several texts with maybe more choice words than just the B word,
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uh, the B weather girl. Um, he, these guys have abused the Cuomo name since the very beginning.
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Right. And, and, and they've never really had to do anything, but get away with stuff. And I didn't
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know, I didn't know Mario Cuomo obviously. And I wasn't in New York when he was governor, but from
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people I've talked to, they say he was a kind man. He was kind to people. So it's just such a travesty
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that these men, uh, use their name for power and, and, and just disgraced their father's name and
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bring back the Tappan Z bridge because they have just, just, you know, disgraced that name so much,
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uh, that it's, it's really hard to even see, you know, the sign when you're crossing over the bridge.
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It's so true. Why should all the families like yours who lost loved ones once thanks to Andrew
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Cuomo's order or women who have been harassed by Andrew or Chris, I could go on, have to drive over
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that bridge and be reminded of it because Andrew needed to rename the Tappan Z bridge, which we've
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all had forever here in New York, the Mario Cuomo bridge. My GPS lady's so confused. I go by it every
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day. Um, I'm halfway there. She's like coming up the Tappan Z bridge. Then you go like another 50 yards.
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She's like the Mario Mario Cuomo bridge. Even my kids are like, no, no, it's just, it's, it's really,
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it's, it's too bad. And I feel really bad for the families. I've never brought up, uh, Andrew Cuomo's
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daughters or his mom or any of Chris Cuomo's family members because, you know, they're not responsible
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for these people's behavior. Um, but I do feel for them, uh, seeing what has happened to these,
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these brothers in the last year and a half. I mean, really incredible. If you had told me
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last year at this time, when I was ready to give up the fight, I literally was writing my last op-ed
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thinking these guys, my voice is never going to be heard loud enough, right? He's got an Emmy.
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He's got his book deal. He's on every single late night show on the CNN program, the pandemic
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politician, perhaps a president one day. Uh, if you had told me that both brothers would be out of
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work this time last year, I would have said you were completely insane. Right, exactly. But, um,
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it didn't quite work out the way they had planned. And that's, you mentioned rich as a party, that guy
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who's still Andrew Cuomo's spokesperson. He's the one. So the New York Post has this article saying,
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um, Chris Cuomo schemed, quoting now from the report, schemed to discredit Fox News meteorologist
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Janice Dean, allegedly calling her that Fox weather bitch and texts after she criticized his brother,
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Andrew. He texted with Andrew's staff. Oh, remember how we were told he only did that
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with respect to the women who came forward against him and accused him of sexual harassment? Oh, also
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this woman too. Uh, he texted with Andrew staff re how to defend his brother and discredit Janice Dean
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saying, and this is again, the post is quoting a source who saw the communications, any help painting
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her as a far right crazy. Um, and then rich as a party says to the, to the post, I have no knowledge
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of this ever happening. And you must ask why then did the AG not put anything about it in her report
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or ask any of the relevant people about it. Rich as a party. JD has no memory of anybody conspiring
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against you, even though his own comment on you was on the record attributed to him. And I quote,
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last I checked, she's not a credible source on anything except maybe the weather. So his word
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is worth zero. But how about Chris Cuomo trying to paint you as quote, a far right crazy.
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I'm not surprised. And not just Chris Cuomo, by the way, uh, you know, the blue checks and reporters,
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I've had many reporters, uh, want to do this story. And, and when they do, instead of the main focus
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being a meteorologist who had a terrible atrocity happened within her family, uh, two family members
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close to her dying in New York nursing homes and her trying to find answers and accountability,
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it's always, Oh, but she works at Fox news. So she must've voted for Trump. So let's go dive into
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her Twitter feed and all the articles that she's ever written to try to, you know, discredit her
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because she's probably a right wing loony. It's not just Chris Cuomo. That's the go-to. And that's
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what's really sad. I think to myself, Megan, what if I worked at another channel? What if I worked over
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at CNN and we found out that Tucker Carlson, uh, was trying to do oppo research on me and trying to
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find out who I voted for, or if there was any, you know, problems with, uh, maybe, uh, the husband's,
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uh, record with the FDNY, you know, I believe that they did do a deep dive and how unfortunate that not
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only the family that's trying to smear, smear my name, but actual reporters that want to try to do a
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story, uh, a New York story of, of trying to do something good, uh, to find out answers for
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family members and over 15,000 that died, you know, it would be quite a different story. I think if I
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worked at another network. Yep. All you have to dangle is Fox news, right wing. And I mean, honestly,
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it's got all the stuff in it, right? You're crazy. Cause you're, uh, they, they're wondering if
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you're a Republican cause you're at Fox and you're a woman and you're a bitch, crazy bitch, far right
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Republican. Okay. So that's Chris Cuomo, such a classy guy, his way of attacking you for, wait,
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what were you mad about again? Oh, oh wait, you're dead in-laws. Sean's parents dead. And Sean, who's
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a hero, nine 11 firefighter, who's never spoken out. He, the man only wants privacy, dignity. He's the
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kindest, honestly, most elevated person. He just doesn't get sucked into these things. You're, you're
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your own kind of fighter, but how dare they? How dare they? You're, you're speaking out for your
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husband for at the loss of your, your son's grandparents, both of them in a month's time.
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And their response, this is who the Cuomo's are, is to look at you and say, bitch, far right wing,
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crazy. Let's discredit her. I mean, it's disgusting. So, but to me, it's a pattern.
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You see how Andrew Cuomo treated the women on his staff, Chris Cuomo. We had Shelly Ross on the show,
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and I know you saw her, her piece in the New York times. And I know you listened to that show.
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Janice was texting me during it. Shelly Ross was one of the many women who Chris Cuomo diminished.
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He doesn't even deny it, but it was part of a pattern. It's not what anyone act. It's a pattern
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of him being narcissistic, misogynistic, and believing he can get away with anyone because
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he's a Cuomo. Here's a bit of what Shelly told me when she came on the show. At this moment, here's
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this guy who's, you know, an anchor, a talent at the, at the network. You're in a very well-respected
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position there. You've been there almost 20 years. And what goes through your head as this
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It was belittling. It was clearly a power trip to make me feel, you know, you're no longer
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my boss. I can do anything I want with you. You know, he knew he, something in his head said
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he couldn't do that when I was his boss. Maybe he thought he would get, you know, I would fire him
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or something. But it was meant to diminish. Chris Cuomo is over six feet tall. I'm 5'2".
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I'm under a hundred pounds. And it, it was, uh, it, it was overpowering and I certainly didn't like it.
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Hmm. She wasn't alone. You had what his executive producer on Cuomo primetime was reportedly pushed
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out. She had to resign because she couldn't deal with his bullying. She went out of the digital
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property. Um, there was a woman who came forward when he was, you know, on ice during his alleged
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suspension. We haven't heard anything about that report. I don't want to give it credence because
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we haven't, but CNN says it's why they wound up finally pulling the trigger. Um, there's you,
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it's just, cause I'll tell you, one of the things that's on my mind is I've heard of more than one
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person say they feel bad for Chris Cuomo. He lost his CNN show. He, he lost his Sirius XM show.
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He lost his book deal. And I've heard some people say like, he was just trying to protect his brother.
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It's about so much more that he, a, he was wrong to handle that situation the way he did.
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He did do oppo research on the women who accused his brother and then lied about it. He did use his
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journalistic resources against the women and then lied about it. But even if you table that we've had
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a year, two years plus of Chris Cuomo bit by bit, putting himself above his audience, above trust.
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And at every turn decides to side against women who are in a vulnerable position.
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I listened to that interview and you know, I said to you afterwards, what kind of man just goes up
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to a woman and grabs her behind at a party? You know, you have to think to yourself, that's a guy
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that's gotten away with that before with that kind of behavior. Can you imagine Doug or Sean actually
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going up and doing that to someone? That's the difference between Chris Cuomo who has gotten away
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with this kind of behavior for a very long time. Uh, and, and, you know, shame on Jeff Zucker too.
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Like something has happened between those two. I feel like, listen, I don't know if, if this is
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true or not, but I think about those VIP COVID tests. Who did Chris Cuomo give VIP COVID tests over
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at CNN? That's a possibility, right? I mean, what, why did Jeff Zucker's just know all of this
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information and still stick by him. And then all of a sudden one fell swoop. He's gone. You know
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what I, if Chris Cuomo had a conscience, he should have removed himself off the air at the very
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beginning. And, you know, even after the, the Cuomo brothers comedy hour, I would actually even say I
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would forgive that. But afterwards, realizing that his brother was in trouble saying, you know what,
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I'm going to take, remove myself from the situation. And if he knew he was going to help his
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brother out, why didn't he just remove himself from CNN? I would have given him props. I would
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have given him props and said, he took himself out so he could help his brother. And, and that's good.
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He took him off himself off the air. So he wouldn't be lying to the people he works with and his viewers.
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And instead he did the Cuomo brothers show and then had the nerve to lie about that too,
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saying that, well, it was all in good fun. And he didn't, it wasn't a dereliction of duty because
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there was no scandal at that time, which is a, which is false. He was on the air with him
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March, April, May, or it was April, May, June, and the nursing home scandal broke in May. It was,
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the order had been given earlier. It, there was, there was reporting on it. He just chose to ignore
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it. Well, if it wasn't for the Cuomo brothers comedy hour, I wouldn't have gotten upset, you know,
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and I probably wouldn't have gone on television. So I'm grateful for their hypocrisy and narcissistic
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clown behavior and CNN for letting them get away with it because I saw them with that big cotton
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swab when nursing homes couldn't get them joking around. Who's their mother's favorite son? Who
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has the greatest meatballs? The love gov, the love gov. And I thought to myself, Oh my gosh,
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if, if I don't go out and say something, who's going to, they're going to get away with this and
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shame on Jeff sucker for allowing them to do that. Yeah. CNN allowed it. Same as everybody else.
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Right. Because I tweeted that night, like, what kind of behavior is this? And then Anna Navarro was
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like, Oh, it's two brothers with levity. We all need a little levity. I mean, while body bags are
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being piled up outside of nursing homes, these guys are joking around and all the celebrities and
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everyone gave them a pass because it's two brothers and they love each other. We need a laugh.
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It's just, it's so gross, right? No, is CNN allowed that interview to go forward, understanding
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that they had had a policy against it in place for many, many years, which was a good policy.
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Don't let him interview his brother. It's going to make us all look bad. So they allowed it to
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happen. They allowed him to not challenge the brother on anything, but just to lionize him.
00:23:53.900
And they allowed Chris Cuomo to do his fake emergence from the basement when they knew it
00:23:58.780
wasn't true to let him lie to his audience. And there's no question that they knew he was
00:24:03.700
coordinating with the governor's staff because it was in the New York Times. New York Times did a big
00:24:08.580
write up about the two of them during the Cuomo brothers show, which the left loved and explicitly
00:24:14.280
said he was talking to the governor's aides that he dealt with the governor's aides and helped his
00:24:18.640
brother out. Jeff Zucker didn't read that article at the time. So I don't buy for one second that he was
00:24:23.320
shocked by what Chris Cuomo did. That's for Cuomo and Zucker to work out in the context of this
00:24:27.440
battle. My only point is that he didn't deserve that post. He had sacrificed trust. He was all
00:24:32.860
about himself so that they can argue about whether he gets his final payout or not. I have no dog in
00:24:38.320
that hunt. But but this guy was allowed for far too long to be on the air misrepresenting to his
00:24:45.720
audience. And I will say, J.D., there's a poll out today, Economist YouGov poll. Two thirds of
00:24:49.900
Americans agree with his firing. Two thirds of America, 65 percent say they agree. Only 12 percent
00:24:54.840
said, I don't think it was the right move. The rest are unsure. Even among people for whom CNN is
00:25:00.520
their primary news source, 49 percent of people agree with the firing. Just 23 percent disagree,
00:25:05.980
27 percent unsure. And the vast, vast majority said they would have made the same decision to let him
00:25:11.860
go. So once again, you have the last laugh. Wait, before you go, I do have to ask you because
00:25:20.680
there's awful, awful weather news today and over the weekend. I've been following your reporting on
00:25:26.660
it. Can you put into perspective what happened this past week in Kentucky and Tennessee in these
00:25:32.500
states where now the death toll is over, they believe, 80 people?
00:25:36.620
It's something that happens. You know, there are two seasons when it comes to severe weather. There's
00:25:42.860
the springtime outbreaks that can happen. It really has to do with the fact that you've got leftover
00:25:47.600
air masses, a cold air mass from winter and then turning into the springtime. And then there's a
00:25:53.200
secondary season, the fall into the winter. And we've had abnormally warm temperatures across the
00:25:59.620
east coast. So the similar setup was there. And these tornadoes struck populated neighborhoods and
00:26:06.900
they were at night, which is when you don't want tornadoes to strike. Unfortunately, these types of
00:26:13.380
situations happen. And I know that there's been a lot of reporting like, well, this is climate change.
00:26:18.760
Actually, when you look at it, we have had a deficit of tornadoes for the past couple of years. We are down
00:26:24.820
from what we typically see over the last couple of years in terms of tornado reports. And December
00:26:32.900
tornadoes do happen around the Mid-South. Kentucky, the last time they had a severe weather outbreak
00:26:39.380
this bad was actually, I believe, in the month of December. So they do happen. But the loss of life
00:26:45.240
is tragic. And it hit areas that were working, you know, the Amazon factory, the candle factory,
00:26:51.700
because it's Christmas time. So people were in their place of business. And these tornadoes struck
00:26:58.560
and maybe people didn't have enough time. There was warnings. National Weather Service does a great
00:27:03.640
job. But unfortunately, Megan, it's like not like a hurricane where you have several days of lead up
00:27:08.480
time. You don't have a lot of lead up time with these tornadoes. We did have a bullseye of where we
00:27:13.600
thought the severe weather was going to happen. But you know, unfortunately, we can't pinpoint the exact
00:27:20.160
areas and December tornadoes unfortunately do happen. These will be historic because of the loss of
00:27:26.680
life and the fact that this one tornado lasted over 200 miles. It's tragic. It's awful. I will say this
00:27:33.240
when weather disasters strike, any disaster, is you see the best in humanity. Neighbors will help
00:27:41.540
neighbors, strangers coming across the state line to bring water, food, blankets. And that's what we're
00:27:49.120
seeing right now. We're actually seeing the best of America when a tragedy strikes and people need
00:27:55.640
Look for the helpers. J.D., so good to catch up. Love you. Miss you.
00:28:05.020
Coming up, John Lott Jr., gun rights advocate. As more and more officials take a look at the school
00:28:13.540
shooting we saw in Michigan and some of these other gun cases as a reason to tighten the gun laws
00:28:19.920
Joining us now is president and founder of the Crime Prevention Research Center,
00:28:32.840
John Lott Jr. John's here to discuss the renewed calls for gun storage laws in the wake of the
00:28:37.760
Oxford school shooting. The latest in the Kim Potter case and the defensive gun uses that the media
00:28:43.240
won't tell you about. John, good to see you again. How are you doing?
00:28:48.540
You know, I was thinking about you the other night because I went out to dinner with some of my very
00:28:52.360
close friends in New York. And these are all Manhattan liberals. And we were talking about
00:28:57.800
the Oxford shooting. You know, this kid in Michigan, this 15 year old who brought a gun to school and
00:29:03.360
there had definitely been warning signs that were missed or ignored. And now his parents have been
00:29:07.840
charged with involuntary manslaughter and he's facing four murder counts and others. The school's
00:29:13.160
already been sued for 100 million and on it goes. And one of the things that people are saying in
00:29:17.380
the wake of that is we need a gun storage mandate, a law in Michigan where there wasn't one.
00:29:24.200
And that might have stopped this tragedy from happening. And I'll tell you, look, unlike you,
00:29:30.160
I'm not an expert when it comes to gun laws or even guns. I understand both sides. I'm the mother of
00:29:35.960
three kids. I'm much more worried about their safety, you know, than I am about anything else.
00:29:40.140
And every time one of these comes up, I say to myself, let's put it all on table. Let's great.
00:29:46.120
Let's do. Look at all of it. Show me the reform that would have prevented this shooting. And I will
00:29:53.280
go march in the streets for it. I don't care who gets mad at me. And I don't care. But to be honest,
00:29:59.840
I haven't yet seen the one, you know, I just the ones that get proposed in the wake of these
00:30:05.620
shootings just seem like comfort measures that wouldn't have prevented this shooting.
00:30:11.740
And that's kind of what I'm seeing with Oxford. But when I read your piece posted, where was it?
00:30:18.240
It was on Real Clear Politics, why gun storage laws would do more harm than good. I was like,
00:30:23.020
oh, my gosh, it's got all the answers in it. And I wanted my New York liberal friends to hear your
00:30:27.700
answers. So I'm going to forward this segment to them. But let's start there. The gun storage laws
00:30:32.740
in Michigan and elsewhere. Why aren't those the answer to teenagers taking guns and shooting up
00:30:38.220
people? Right. Well, I hope they're listening. But what I can say is, I think you're exactly right
00:30:46.020
about the reaction after these just in general. I mean, the normal law that keeps on getting pushed
00:30:51.700
after mass public shootings is background checks on the private transfers of guns. And usually the point
00:30:59.720
I raise there is, would it have mattered in the last case? Is there one mass public shooting this
00:31:06.120
century that would have been stopped if such a law had been in effect and been perfectly enforced?
00:31:11.940
And the answer is no. But yet it's usually the first law that people keep on raising that we need
00:31:17.580
to have to stop these attacks. And in this case, look, it's not even clear whether the gun was locked or
00:31:25.280
not in the family's home. The parents claim that it was. I guess we'll find out later whether or not
00:31:31.180
that was the case or not. But what we need to talk about a little bit are the costs and benefits of
00:31:38.140
these types of laws that can be there. You know, in Michigan, they average about less than two
00:31:44.740
accidental gun deaths for kids under 18 in any given year over the last 20 years in the state.
00:31:51.840
The main purpose of gun lock laws is accidental death. I mean, as you are implying, referring to your
00:32:00.160
kids, you know, nationwide for children under 10, there's 35 accidental gun deaths. The vast majority
00:32:08.920
of those, about two thirds of those actually involve adults in their mid to late 20s who are firing the
00:32:15.940
guns, who have criminal records usually and are either drug addicts or alcoholics. And
00:32:21.600
gun locks aren't going to stop those types of attacks when, in many cases, it's illegal for
00:32:28.580
people to be owning these guns. And it's not going to stop an adult in any case. But the issue that you
00:32:35.400
have is that they're trade-offs. To the extent it may reduce these accidental gun deaths, you also have
00:32:44.180
to take into account that people are going to find it more difficult to have access to guns to be able
00:32:50.760
to go and protect themselves and their families. When you see these types of laws get passed, what you
00:32:57.420
see is an increased breaking into people's homes when they're there. You see an increase in successful
00:33:03.740
crimes. Gun locks make it more difficult for people to go and protect themselves and their families.
00:33:10.960
And, you know, we've had four since 19, since 2000, we've had four mass public shootings involving
00:33:20.140
schools, involving juveniles. We've had a couple others, the Parkland and Sandy Hook involving people who
00:33:29.560
were over 18, 19 in one case and 21 in the other case. You know, so, you know, I, my goal is to try to
00:33:40.980
look at on net what saves lives. And while I understand the desire for many of these types of laws,
00:33:49.700
I worry that they're actually going to increase the number of deaths.
00:33:54.980
What about the other argument I hear is the, um, the mass carnage that can be inflicted so quickly
00:34:01.540
with a gun, you know, that's reason enough to crack down on firearms. And, you know, certainly you
00:34:09.080
mentioned anything like an AR-15 and that's the argument you'll get. What's the response to that?
00:34:13.560
Well, surely guns make it easier to kill people and it makes it easier to go and kill people quickly.
00:34:21.240
Uh, you know, with the, but guns also make it easier for people to protect themselves and prevent
00:34:27.400
bad things from happening. You know, so people focus on the AR-15 that you mentioned. Uh, I think
00:34:35.280
there's a lot of misnomers about what it is exactly, you know, and surely things like entertainment
00:34:41.740
television creates a lot of that misimpression over last year. If you look at ABC, CBS, NBC,
00:34:49.260
and Fox, their police shows about 80% of the time that criminals were using guns, uh, they're depicted
00:34:56.240
as using machine guns, often being referred to as AR-15s in many segments. But you're talking about
00:35:03.640
in actuality, a semi-automatic rifle that fires the same bullets with the same rapidity, doing the
00:35:10.940
same damage as any semi-automatic hunting rifle. Now, if you want to go and ban all semi-automatic
00:35:17.180
guns, I mean, just so people know, semi-automatic gun is one pull the trigger, one bullet comes out,
00:35:24.640
it reloads itself, one pull the trigger, one bullet comes out, and so on. Uh, it's not a machine gun where
00:35:30.760
if you hold your finger down, bullets will continue to come out as long as you have your finger
00:35:35.980
depressed on it. Uh, the thing is, though, civilians benefit from having semi-automatic guns for self-defense.
00:35:43.480
I mean, the alternative is a manually loaded gun where you have to physically put another bullet in
00:35:50.700
the chamber yourself, uh, after you, after you fire. And, you know, if you're facing multiple, uh,
00:35:58.980
attackers, or if you fire and you miss, or if you fire and wound somebody, uh, you may not have the
00:36:05.920
luxury of time to go and manually reload your gun at that point. And so, you know, uh, you have to go
00:36:15.460
and take into account, you know, how often people use guns defensively, uh, at the same time there.
00:36:22.760
And unfortunately, a lot of the discussion there doesn't weigh both the costs and benefits of these
00:36:28.460
things. Well, and one of the things I was saying to my friends is even if you somehow got a Congress
00:36:34.940
and a president who wanted to ban any semi-automatic weapon, right? A handgun, AR-15s, all of them,
00:36:42.520
right? That's what they wanted to do, which is not, which is not what we've done before. Um,
00:36:47.940
you couldn't there, you tell me, John, what the numbers are. But the last time I looked at it,
00:36:52.580
it was like, there were over, there were more guns in America than there are people. It was like 330
00:36:57.000
million. And I don't know how many of those are semi-automatic, but there are hundreds of million,
00:37:02.800
like there's just not, there's no way of getting rid of semi-automatic weapons in America. It's just
00:37:09.860
not going to happen. Right. I mean, it's just a guess how many guns people have in the United States.
00:37:15.260
It depends upon what rate you assume guns depreciate. And there's issues about surveys and whether
00:37:21.140
people honestly say whether they own guns in the home, but you're exactly right. Uh, we probably have
00:37:26.920
hundreds of millions of guns that are there. And the vast majority of guns owned in the United
00:37:32.080
States are semi-automatic guns. Uh, there are reasons why people have semi-automatic guns for
00:37:39.380
self-defense. And there's reason why hunters have semi-automatic guns. So, you know, you're right.
00:37:47.220
At least it would be logically consistent if we would talk about banning all semi-automatic guns,
00:37:53.380
rather than just picking certain guns based on how they look. I mean, they often use the term
00:37:58.800
military style. The key word there is style. You know, some people like to have guns that look like
00:38:06.520
military guns, but they're not guns. You know, they refer to them as weapons of war and stuff,
00:38:12.500
but these aren't the types of guns, uh, that are used by militaries around the world. They use-
00:38:18.380
No, this is, this is John, this, to me, this is the same thing as we did at the airports after 9-11.
00:38:23.240
You know, we're, we're still taking off our shoes. Why? Not because there's been bombs in the shoe.
00:38:28.560
It's because in, since that one guy, um, it's because we want to make ourselves feel like we're
00:38:34.700
doing something on a trap, on a trap after tragedy that is unspeakable and you can ban AR-15s. It's not
00:38:41.320
going to, it's not going to change anything. It's not going to change anything. I mean,
00:38:44.720
I really do think, okay, maybe if you banned all semi-automatic, uh, guns in America, maybe,
00:38:50.220
but that's not possible. It's not going to happen. And by the way, you know, that's what they have in,
00:38:55.140
in England, right? In Europe, you can't, you can't have a gun. Even if you're a cop in London,
00:38:58.860
those bobbies walking around, they're not armed. So they stab each other. And even here in America,
00:39:03.780
we just saw some guy mow down a bunch of grandmothers and children with a truck.
00:39:08.520
That's not to say guns can't kill people quickly, but there are many ways for a deranged murderer
00:39:12.700
to take out victims. And yeah, go ahead. No, I mean, I agree with you completely. Look,
00:39:20.700
gun bans have been tried in parts of the United States, uh, Chicago and Washington DC tried to
00:39:27.680
ban all handguns. It's been tried in many different countries. If you look at any place that's tried to
00:39:33.900
ban all guns or all handguns, every single time murder rates have gone up. You think out of randomness,
00:39:41.940
once or twice murder rates would go down or at least stay the same. You know, if you think guns
00:39:48.060
on net are bad, then surely the solution would be, let's just get rid of all guns or at least all
00:39:54.200
semi-automatic guns or all handguns. And yet there's a reason why you see that murder rates go up every
00:40:01.700
single time, often by large amounts, even in island nations that have tried it like Jamaica or Ireland
00:40:07.860
or, uh, the UK. Only law, the law abiding citizens turn in their guns. The criminals keep theirs and
00:40:15.220
use them for ill. Hold on. We're going to come right back with John Lott. Uh, more I want to
00:40:18.960
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00:40:23.520
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00:40:57.920
So John, especially with the crime rates going up as they have been a 30% increase in homicide rates,
00:41:03.280
uh, in our top 12 cities, our largest 12 cities in America, year over year, uh, people are thinking
00:41:08.440
about how to protect themselves. And, um, and many people have had to use a gun in the past year
00:41:14.540
or two to prevent crime. I think it's fascinating that you say in the same way the media takes one
00:41:22.080
bad cop, um, killing of an unarmed black man, you know, and we do see this and they put it, this is my,
00:41:28.720
this is my editorializing and they put it on loop to try to make us believe that, you know,
00:41:33.800
this is a problem that happens every day in America. And it's not, you know, out of 10 million
00:41:37.480
arrests, you've got between 13 and 18 men who are unarmed and shot by police and unarmed is
00:41:42.900
questionable in these cases, but that's it. You know, let's say, let's call it 15 out of 10 million
00:41:47.280
arrests, but the media leads people to believe it's much more. And you make the point that the same is
00:41:52.680
true when it comes to you bad use for lack of a better term of guns by criminals versus good use
00:42:01.160
of a gun by people who are saving innocent others. Can you speak to that? Sure. You know,
00:42:08.100
what makes something newsworthy doesn't always reflect reality. Uh, so earlier this year through
00:42:16.200
January through August, I looked at, uh, the top five largest newspapers in the United States for
00:42:22.620
news coverage. They had between them about 2,600 and some news stories about gun crimes.
00:42:29.340
By contrast, between the five of them, uh, New York times, LA times, Washington post, USA today,
00:42:36.620
the wall street journal, they had a total of 10 defensive gun use stories. And many of those were
00:42:43.160
very unusual cases where something went wrong with the defensive gun use. Uh, overall for the first
00:42:51.100
nine months of the year, we found about a thousand, uh, news stories across the country about defensive
00:42:57.120
gun uses. But one thing that was interesting is that most of those involved cases where the attacker
00:43:03.300
was killed in the defensive gun use. Close behind that with over 40% were cases where, uh, the attacker was
00:43:12.300
wounded. And only 4% of those involved cases were wounding or brandishings occurred with the gun.
00:43:20.280
And the thing is, those are the exact opposite proportions from what we believe how people use
00:43:26.000
guns defensively. It looks like about 95% of the time that people use guns defensively, they simply
00:43:32.660
brandish it. Uh, woundings are less than 1%, but times where attackers are killed are about one eighth
00:43:41.640
the rate of woundings. Uh, those numbers we know pretty much for sure. And, uh, and, you know,
00:43:49.200
but I understand why the media covers that to some extent. If you have your editor of a news bureau and
00:43:55.800
you have two stories, in one case, there's a dead body on the ground. In another case, let's say a
00:44:00.940
woman's brandished a gun. It would be attackers run away. No shots are fired. Nobody hurt. You're not
00:44:08.320
even sure what crime would have been committed. I think any of us as news editors would pick the
00:44:14.540
first story as being more newsworthy than the second. But as far as policy is concerned, we care
00:44:20.440
about both of those cases, or at least we should. And they just don't get one quick thing on the
00:44:27.180
police things. We've actually gone through and looked at police shootings. Uh, when a, when a white
00:44:33.760
officer shoots a black suspect, news reports were there will almost always mention the race of both
00:44:40.920
the officer and the suspect. When a black officer shoots a black suspect, the race of only the suspect
00:44:47.940
will be mentioned in the news stories. Uh, when a black officer shoots a white suspect, the race of
00:44:54.940
neither will be mentioned in the news stories. Wow. I I'm, I'm not surprised. Um, meantime,
00:45:02.980
92% of violent crime has nothing to do with guns. It's not a panacea. Even if we could get out every
00:45:08.400
gun out of the country, as Gavin Newsom would like to do, he's now saying he's going to follow the Texas
00:45:14.240
abortion law and do the same with guns. This was a risk that people had on the right side of the
00:45:19.440
country had raised where you basically outlaw it despite the constitutional right and then create
00:45:24.840
sort of a private right of enforcement. And it might be a way to end around the constitution.
00:45:29.660
Um, do you think that will help California with its skyrocketing homicide and crime rates?
00:45:36.380
Look, I mean, I think there's an easy reason to explain why crime's gone up over the last year
00:45:41.660
and a half or so. And that is we've had, uh, police officers being ordered to stand down,
00:45:47.960
police budgets being cut. We've had large numbers of inmates in places like Los Angeles. It's something
00:45:53.620
like a two thirds of the inmates have been released from jails in the county there. Um, you know,
00:46:00.940
across the country, you have many places where, uh, over half of the inmates have been released from
00:46:06.240
jails and prisons. And you have prosecutors in many urban areas from Los Angeles to Philadelphia to
00:46:12.400
Boston and Chicago, which are refusing to prosecute even violent criminals. I mean, you just had a case
00:46:17.960
a few weeks ago in Chicago where you had two drug gangs fighting against each other in broad daylight.
00:46:24.920
It was caught on high definition video. Police were there as witnesses. One person was killed.
00:46:31.520
Several people were seriously wounded. And yet the initial statements from the district attorney was
00:46:38.000
this was mutually agreed to combat. Right. And so that they weren't going to prosecute anybody involved
00:46:44.320
later on. They said they just didn't have sufficient evidence. So, uh, even though the
00:46:49.700
cops were there. So you've got, you've got two thirds of the prisoners being let out in certain
00:46:54.520
places. You've got soft on def on defendant, uh, crime laws that don't, they don't like bail
00:46:59.440
anymore. So you, instead you just get a, you know, go roam the community free card. And then they want
00:47:03.840
to take away your guns. If you want to defend yourself, you can see why people are getting a little
00:47:07.780
concerned, John, such a pleasure. Thank you for the, for the facts and the data. We appreciate it.
00:47:12.760
Joining me next is Bethany Mandel. She's an editor at Ricochet. She's one of my favorite advocates for
00:47:17.380
kids on Twitter, and she's got the latest on the COVID madness. Don't miss Bethany.
00:47:27.580
Very excited to chat with my next guest. I've never met her real time until today. She's a mom of five
00:47:34.980
who homeschools her children and somehow finds time to school the left on Twitter too. How is that even
00:47:39.920
possible? Bethany Mandel has become a powerful voice for children's rights in the wake of COVID.
00:47:45.980
She's also editor at Ricochet, a contributed, right? A contributing writer at, I never know how to say
00:47:51.980
it. Desiree news. Desiree. I think. Thank you, Bethany. And also she has a new project, uh,
00:48:00.180
involving a book, which we'll get to Bethany. So fun to talk to you live.
00:48:03.400
You too. And we have met in person like a bazillion tea years ago. I was just joking
00:48:08.860
with your producer before we came on. And I joked before I went on air with you in person,
00:48:14.240
when you were hosting Fox that I was drunk and your producers came in and they were like,
00:48:19.040
I'm sorry, ma'am. Was that a joke? Because we cannot have you on air if you're actually drunk.
00:48:23.700
And I was like, no, no, just, I'm just kidding. Just kidding. And they like sort of pow out before
00:48:28.500
they came back and were like, okay, we will let you on air if you swear. How many years ago is this?
00:48:34.140
Six years ago. Oh man. All right. Well, other than that, I've never met you before. And I'm
00:48:38.680
excited for this talk because I'm a huge fan of yours. I fell in love with you really on Twitter
00:48:42.560
where everybody, you know, you battle anybody and everybody, but you were one of the ones early on
00:48:47.800
to say like, love grandma, but lockdowns, this is insane. And it was before it was like, okay,
00:48:54.780
for a large segment of the population to say that, you know, now that's more than half the country
00:48:59.760
saying that. But back then you, you were kind of alone. And so it was a risk.
00:49:03.400
And you were 100% right. So in the news today, we've got stories. This made the viral rounds
00:49:10.760
the other day of kids at Capitol Hill Elementary School in Portland, Oregon, sitting on buckets
00:49:16.360
to socially distance from their classmates outside in 40 degree weather. That's also happening in New
00:49:22.340
York City. It's not just Portland and it's cold in New York. All of this is madness there. As far as
00:49:28.460
I understand, there are either no or almost no documented case of people getting COVID outside.
00:49:33.680
And yet still we punish the little ones, Bethany.
00:49:38.620
Yep. Yep. It's, it's really infuriating. So I wrote a column about this today for Deseret News.
00:49:43.360
I'd even wait for my editor to say that he wanted it. I just sent him the column and I was like,
00:49:46.900
I'm really angry. And usually that's when I write good stuff. So here's a column for you,
00:49:50.200
if you care to put it on your website. So it's right now on Deseret News.com. But I mean,
00:49:54.560
I'm basically talking about this and I, the sort of, I think the turning point and the final screw
00:49:59.200
in the coffin of Terry McAuliffe's campaign in Virginia was when he had Randy Weingarten on and
00:50:03.980
he, it was like his sort of final push. And by having her on, he said, you know, this is the
00:50:09.240
status quo as far, as far as he's concerned for Virginia schools. And she was the reason why kids
00:50:14.920
in Virginia didn't go back to school, why things still feel like a prison. I honestly think that it's
00:50:19.160
probably better in some prisons than it is in public schools around the country. And I now
00:50:24.640
Jen Psaki is out there saying, you know, it's not really so bad. And my three-year-old does it. My
00:50:30.020
three-year-old eats outside. So, I mean, what's the big deal? And like, if that's going to be the
00:50:34.360
Biden campaign, the Biden campaign's message in a several years and going into the midterms,
00:50:39.440
they're going to get absolutely buried because this is absolute insanity to see people
00:50:43.880
on one weekend, shoulder to shoulder, at concerts, at Broadway shows, at restaurants,
00:50:50.440
doing normal things. We can do normal things as adults. But then on Monday, kids are in school
00:50:55.520
wearing masks, silent lunch, facing a wall, sitting on the floor, social distancing at lunch as if they
00:51:02.740
were the most at risk instead of the least at risk. Yeah, exactly. Even unvaccinated, they are the
00:51:07.440
least at risk. And by the way, so Jen Psaki's focus group of one is infuriating. I don't, with all due
00:51:13.020
respect, I don't really give a damn that her kids has no problem with it. Her job is literally to
00:51:18.060
listen to the millions of Americans with different feedback and come up with policy, her boss's job,
00:51:23.660
that makes sense. I don't want to hear one more word about her kid and how delightful it is for
00:51:28.420
them to be in a mask. I mean, tell it to, this reminds me of, this is full screen too for my staff.
00:51:33.340
Tell it to this kid who's hearing impaired. A mom tweeted this out. My hearing impaired son drew this
00:51:37.920
picture in October. He wears one hearing aid and you can imagine the challenges he has faced
00:51:42.340
we went back to school in August, 2020. Her little kid cannot understand what anyone is saying
00:51:50.900
because their mouths are covered. There was a lawsuit. There was a lawsuit, Bethany, by the,
00:51:57.700
by parents with kids who have disabilities against DeSantis in Florida saying his, his law that he signed
00:52:05.020
saying, I'm not going to mandate masks and I'm, I'm not going to allow anyone to mandate masks is what
00:52:11.840
he said. You know, parents can make up their own mind, but I I'm against mask mandates in this
00:52:14.960
state. They said it's not fair to the kids with disabilities. They won't be able to go to school.
00:52:19.180
They're immunocompromised. They can't, they have to be assured that everybody there is going to wear
00:52:22.460
a mask. What about this kid? What about his disability? What about the fact that he can no
00:52:26.120
longer understand anyone? This sweet little boy who can't complain about anything. Finally,
00:52:33.980
Yeah. I'm not sure why we think that COVID is the first and only virus that has ever existed in
00:52:40.800
humanity. I have a friend who has a severely immunocompromised, very delicate, medically
00:52:45.920
fragile child. And during flu season, every year she pulled both of her kids out because she knew
00:52:50.880
that if her kids got the flu, it would be a death sentence for her child. And so she pulled him out.
00:52:55.880
I don't understand what, why it's any different and why we have to reorder all of society around
00:53:02.700
a few really tragic cases. But the reordering society also comes with a cost. And that's
00:53:08.700
something that no one feels comfortable talking about. We sort of, we talk about masking toddlers
00:53:13.160
and masking five-year-olds and high schoolers and whatever. And we act as though it's a zero cost
00:53:17.940
intervention, but we're seeing those costs. We're seeing those costs in the Surgeon General's report,
00:53:22.780
a 53 page sort of emergency statement from the Surgeon General saying there's a youth mental
00:53:27.640
health crisis going on and rates of depression and anxiety are skyrocketing. The number of teenage
00:53:34.240
girls who are attempting suicide has literally doubled. This is an absolute crisis and it has a
00:53:40.300
lot of components, but masks are part of it. Quarantines are part of it. And just also the
00:53:45.300
unpredictability of life for these kids. I shared last night on Twitter, I was talking to my eight-year-old
00:53:51.380
and she said, I don't remember life before the masks. Like I have vague memories. My six-year-old
00:53:58.300
doesn't really remember it. And my four-year-old and my two-year-old have absolutely no memories
00:54:02.100
of life before masks and life before COVID. And I'm, as a parent, I'm sick of saying we can't do XYZ
00:54:08.160
because of COVID. And I mean, I'm not locked down. We are living our lives every day for the last year
00:54:14.380
and a half, but we can't get on. And this was another Deseret News column. We can't get on a plane
00:54:18.880
because my two-year-old can't wear a mask for six hours through the airport and down to Florida
00:54:23.480
or California or whatever. So should we drive? Is that the answer? We'll just be driving to
00:54:29.160
Florida. They're saying more and more parents are doing that. It's like, okay, well, that's great
00:54:31.680
for you. But if you've got five kids driving to Florida, it really isn't all that much of a joy.
00:54:35.860
It's not that easy. And by the way, with gas prices, what they are, it's extra difficult right
00:54:40.700
now. And statistically, it's more dangerous. Yeah, absolutely right. And more dangerous than COVID
00:54:45.860
for children too, by the way, putting them in the car and driving them down to Florida.
00:54:49.120
That makes no sense whatsoever. A friend of mine, a woman who I follow on Twitter, who I love,
00:54:54.140
and she had sent me this a while ago. I couldn't get it out of my head. I'm going to put this up.
00:54:58.680
It's full screen number one. It's a kid drawing another kid. And she said, this is a drawing one
00:55:07.060
of my little boy's classmates did of him. And it shows her son in a mask. This kid has never seen
00:55:14.540
her son's face. This child drew a portrait of their new friend with the mask. They don't know
00:55:22.720
what his smile looks like. It's heartbreaking. It actually does make me upset. It's deeply wrong
00:55:28.140
and immoral. And I have to tell you, Bethany, I'm a little tired of people. I love Rand Paul,
00:55:33.960
but I'm tired of people being like, resist. It's like, don't you understand? They have to go to
00:55:39.620
school. I know. I appreciate moms who homeschool. For me, I can't. I have a job. I need to do that.
00:55:46.920
And also, I want stability. I just pulled them from the New York City schools because of the crazy
00:55:50.960
CRT stuff. Now I'm going to pull them again. They need stability. I just want reason. I don't want
00:55:56.020
to have to pull them. I want reason to be restored. Yep. And that's the thing that gets me to people.
00:56:02.380
Last night, one of my favorite people on this issue, Rory Cooper, he's a parent of three kids out of
00:56:07.580
Fairfax. And he posted a video of a concert, wall to wall, no masks, no distancing, people shoulder
00:56:14.920
to shoulder, literally probably thousands of people. And he said, my 11-year-old has to eat
00:56:20.620
lunch. My vaccinated 11-year-old has to eat lunch silently. My nine-year-old has been going to school
00:56:27.700
in a mask this whole time. And my six-year-old has never experienced a normal school setting.
00:56:32.880
And it's infuriating. And the people that were responding to him were like, fight, Rory, fight.
00:56:37.580
What would you like him to do? I texted him. I was like, Rory, why don't you fight? Why didn't
00:56:43.320
you think about that? We are powerless as parents. And it's a really enraging feeling and really
00:56:51.140
heartbreaking feeling knowing that my children's childhood is just slipping away. And there's
00:56:55.300
nothing we can do about it. It's not like CRT. How I kind of get it out. It's not like CRT or crazy
00:57:00.120
trans ideology or the inappropriate sexual lessons on kink at school. That we can fight. That we can show up
00:57:06.220
at the school board meeting. We can yell at people. And we can argue about the COVID mask policies and
00:57:10.880
the mandatory vaccines and all that. But the truth is, with that stuff, our kid will not be allowed
00:57:15.820
to show up and go to class unless we comply. You know, there's a woman at our school who was her son
00:57:22.440
was 16. He'd been at the school since pre-K. And he had until November 1st to get his vaccine
00:57:28.460
or get kicked out. They didn't care that he'd been there since he was a babe. Get him the vaccine
00:57:35.160
or he's out. If I try to send my kids or any of us who are at these mask mandatory schools without
00:57:39.840
their masks, they wouldn't make it past the foyer. Yeah. And to what end? And this is something that
00:57:46.900
I think a lot of people without children don't understand. For a lot of people, it probably feels
00:57:51.540
like the pandemic is over. But for those of us with kids, even kids, I mean, I homeschool. Even for my
00:57:57.060
homeschool kids, it's heartbreaking and infuriating because it's not just schools that are affected.
00:58:01.660
It's the planes that I talked about. But it's also there was a heartbreaking tweet from a parent in
00:58:06.000
Chicago. His three-year-old special needs kid was kicked out of a science museum over the weekend in
00:58:12.220
Chicago because they couldn't comply with the mask mandate. So it's literally everywhere that we might
00:58:18.040
have wanted to send our kids. And all of those places that survived, by the way, the pandemic, one of
00:58:22.460
our favorite places, like one of those, you know, like the gymboree places that was like a really
00:58:28.200
just bedrock of normalcy for my kids, they went out of business because not enough people were going.
00:58:33.300
And so they went out of business. And so we're sort of watching every aspect of our kids' lives
00:58:37.800
sort of disappear. And as parents, we sort of have to decide what our line is. And so over the spring
00:58:44.940
and fall, we had kids in a local soccer league here in like outside of D.C. And they required the
00:58:52.100
four-year-olds to wear masks outside. And we said, no, that is our that is our line in the sand. We
00:58:56.940
will not mask our children outside. And then they made it, you know, masks optional. And so we allowed
00:59:01.900
our kids. But then the whole season, especially for my oldest, all of her friends were asking her,
00:59:06.980
where's your mask? Where's your mask? And my eight-year-old was like, I don't have a mask. I'm not
00:59:11.840
sure what it's normal not to have a mask. That's normal. What we want to do is is what's normal and
00:59:18.700
expected and has been accepted by society since the dawn of time. What they want is not two weeks
00:59:25.240
to stop the spread. They want more lies to keep these masks on us forever. And to all the people
00:59:30.200
out there who say, well, the difference between these people at the sports arenas and the concerts
00:59:34.840
and, you know, at anything run by any Democratic governor who don't have their face masks on while
00:59:39.400
they keep our kids with the face masks on is vaccines. The adults have the vaccines. That's
00:59:44.000
not true either. In our schools, in L.A., in all these schools that are requiring vaccines as
00:59:50.300
mandates, those are already the most uptight schools when it comes to COVID, mostly based on
00:59:55.940
politics. And they are not. They're specifically saying the masks will stay on. The CDC said that as
01:00:02.420
its recommendation, the masks stay on your kid even after he's vaccinated. So screw you because
01:00:09.440
he's not going to die of COVID. The odds are overwhelmingly against a child getting COVID and
01:00:14.340
then dying from it. If your child has comorbidities, he may be in a different situation. You already know
01:00:19.360
that. So he's not at great risk of hospitalization or death. He's already going to catch COVID even if
01:00:26.860
he's vaccinated. The odds are. Right. Look at what's happened with Delta Delta and now Omicron or
01:00:31.320
whatever, however you pronounce it. So so what is it preventing? What is it's just and it's not a get
01:00:36.620
out of mask free card. So screw you. I'm not doing it. If those if those are the stakes for which we're
01:00:41.160
playing and we don't know the long term effects of the vaccine, where is my incentive? Yeah. And what
01:00:46.240
sort of makes me really reticent and I say this as someone who has written pro vaccine pieces for
01:00:51.760
literally every single major newspaper in the country over the course of my entire writing
01:00:55.520
career. The difference is when the FDA panel met and discussed boosters for healthy adults,
01:01:01.760
they voted against it. And you know what the CDC did? They did it anyway. And they didn't meet to
01:01:06.840
talk about boosters for 16 and 17 year olds. They just did it because they knew that the panel was
01:01:11.180
going to say no because of the risk of myocarditis and the risk of myocarditis. The FDA never took
01:01:18.020
seriously. I was sort of going to the way back machine into June when all of the data started
01:01:23.420
rolling in. Like there's actually like seems to be a heart risk that's associated, especially with
01:01:27.880
the second dose. And they waited weeks to meet. And then they finally had a date on Juneteenth.
01:01:34.880
And then the federal government very last minute made Juneteenth a federal holiday. And so what did
01:01:39.840
they do? They were like, OK, for this holiday that literally was just put on the calendar yesterday,
01:01:45.400
we're going to have to move this meeting. This is not a meeting about like, oh, let's let's set a
01:01:51.140
let's set a schedule and digital. Like this is a literal life or death meeting about heart defects
01:01:56.080
and heart sort of events that are happening in teenage children, teenage boys mostly. Where is
01:02:01.960
your urgency? And so for me as a parent, my my trust is gone. And when I saw how big the sort of size of
01:02:08.040
the study was to see if there were any adverse effects, the study size was not big enough to ever record
01:02:14.420
anything. And so for me as a parent, I'm like, why would I give this vaccine to my children who
01:02:18.860
are not at risk? And as a homeschool parent, I have absolutely no reason to do so.
01:02:23.040
And giving them the lower dose, right, like giving my 12 year old who who weighs less than my 10 year
01:02:28.040
old. OK, he's a boy. She's already hit puberty. He hasn't yet. That's that happens. So he weighs less
01:02:33.400
than my 10 year old daughter. Why? Why do I have to give him the 30 milligram dose because he's 12
01:02:39.600
and she can get the 10 milligram and it's fine. What sense does that make?
01:02:44.180
Why isn't it up to me? Forgive me. This is what fucking pisses me off. This is a decision for me,
01:02:50.120
Doug and our doctor and everyone else can piss right the hell off because who's going to tell me
01:02:54.540
I've got to stick the vial in my 12 year old and get him a certain MG that is not appropriate for his
01:02:59.000
weight class. Right. In any other society, we'd be looking at that like they do in Europe. But you have
01:03:04.480
bureaucrats saying I will tell you what goes in your son's arm or you can get out. And you know
01:03:10.060
what? Maybe we will get to the point where we say goodbye. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, that's the thing.
01:03:15.280
And sort of my frustration with schools in general, it extends to the private schools. They think that
01:03:21.800
they have a say in our parenting decisions. And we're seeing that with any number of things,
01:03:25.960
the sort of sex education conversations that they're having, the CRT conversations that they're
01:03:30.020
having, they think it's up to them to do everything. And it's not. It's our place as a parent to make
01:03:35.600
these medical decisions. And it's also our place as parents to sort of set for our kids. Like this
01:03:41.120
is what we believe as a family about any number of sort of social issues that are outside of the
01:03:46.920
purview of the schools. This is none of your business. Teach them math, teach them writing. And
01:03:50.500
by the way, maybe if you focused on that, the test results would be a little bit better.
01:03:54.480
That's right. Who the hell told you you could talk to my kid about kink? Screw you. I don't want you
01:03:58.700
to stay in your lane. But you raised a good point a minute ago. And I really,
01:04:03.260
I'm hanging my hat on this. David Leonhard of the New York Times was on last week. And he's definitely
01:04:09.140
more left-leaning than I am and I think than you are. But I said, what's it going to take for your
01:04:15.720
people to listen to reason? Your leftist people. And he said elections. He said, if there's one thing
01:04:25.160
that will change, you know, the tide, you know, because it hasn't been even Bethany,
01:04:30.760
you mentioned the surgeon general's report, who's suffering most of the children from the
01:04:35.660
effects of the pandemic. You know, it's black and brown children. It's socioeconomically
01:04:39.540
disadvantaged children. It's kids with disabilities. You would think that they would
01:04:44.400
be at the top of the list of these so-called woke leftists. Like that should make them see
01:04:49.640
reason and change policy. It doesn't. COVID fear rates above everything. It trumps everything.
01:04:59.660
But if they lose power, it's a different story, right? So I think if they get punished in 2022,
01:05:06.420
I mean, that's what, that's when we have, that's the eye on the prize, right? November of 22.
01:05:10.980
Yeah. I mean, I, I never knew the name of my local county council members before,
01:05:15.400
and now I am the biggest thorn in their sides. I will knock on doors until my knuckles bleed to get
01:05:22.460
every single local official out of power where I live because they have made life really, really
01:05:28.280
unpleasant. It's like, um, it's the way I think a lot of people felt when Trump was elected, you know,
01:05:33.460
the, the diehard never Trumpers thought he was just an emergency. He himself was an emergency. And,
01:05:40.440
um, uh, somebody I used to work with said that he thought his wife was being radicalized by Trump,
01:05:45.820
like against him. You know, she was never super political, but he radicalized her. And a friend
01:05:51.460
of mine who is definitely a established left person, um, when they put Steve Bannon on the
01:05:57.400
National Security Council, she literally called both senators every day, every day to say Steve
01:06:02.460
Bannon needs to come off the National Security Council. And eventually he did. He was an advisory,
01:06:06.400
whatever. Um, I think that's starting to happen to parents across the political aisle left and right,
01:06:11.640
uh, who have seen enough is enough. It might not fight for myself. I might not be a squeaky wheel
01:06:17.640
when it's me. Um, but this is severely damaging. And by the way, what was the problem in 2019,
01:06:24.340
according to that surgeon general isolation causing anxiety and depression with kids. And now what do we
01:06:29.740
do in the pandemic created further isolation? The iPhones, you know what the iPhone did in creating
01:06:35.500
disease in our children when it comes to anxiety and depression and loneliness and isolation,
01:06:39.840
the pandemic restrictions only exacerbated, right? It, it, it's like they took that disease
01:06:46.600
and it multiplied tenfold. And we're still looking around saying, get, get your child vaccinated.
01:06:52.200
That's the solution to everything. Yeah. Remember at the pediatrician when they used to ask you how
01:06:56.860
much screen time your kids got? I haven't gotten that question in two years. Good point. That's exactly
01:07:02.540
right. And now more and more are going remotely again. And these teachers in Michigan who were
01:07:06.900
like, we need Fridays off for our mental health. Get to work too. Yep. In New York, doing it here
01:07:12.120
too. There there's in, in DC and they're saying, you know, we're so burned out. I live in Montgomery
01:07:17.200
County, Maryland. They're saying we're so burned out. Student behavior is so bad that we're, we're just
01:07:20.960
going to have to take a couple of days off. Do you not see the link between instability and ripping
01:07:26.480
school away from kids with absolutely no notice and their behavior, your actions have directly
01:07:31.420
contributed to the problem that you're now facing. And this is sort of a generational societal problem.
01:07:37.600
Instead of addressing problems head on, they've decided to, to cop out and to say, we quit or we'd
01:07:44.660
like less time in the classrooms, or we want to keep the masks on because I, I feel like they like the
01:07:50.800
masks on kids because it makes them more subdued because they can't express their emotions as much.
01:07:55.520
And so it's sort of like puts them into their shell a little bit, but the masks are also dehumanizing
01:08:01.400
to children. And when you dehumanize kids and you make them feel like they're animals in a cage and
01:08:06.120
don't let them talk and don't let them drink water during class. This is the result. When you treat
01:08:11.840
children like animals, they will act like animals.
01:08:14.600
Oh my God. I mean, like I don't let my kids have the mask on for one second longer than they have.
01:08:19.940
If they forget about it, they have it on the car. I'm like, get it off your face, get it off.
01:08:23.460
It's not normal. Do not get used to it. And by the way, there was just a study out. This is in North
01:08:28.680
Dakota that took a look at two different school districts to see whether the masks were making a
01:08:34.120
difference. And what they found at best, at best for the mask mandate advocates was there was no
01:08:40.480
difference. That's the best case scenario. But really, if you look at it, there's a slightly
01:08:44.340
they did slightly better at preventing covid in the school that did not have the masks.
01:08:51.120
And that was what the CDC's own study in Georgia said when it looked at 90,000 students.
01:08:55.640
And then they promptly ignored it. And, you know, people don't listen. They don't. The leftists don't
01:09:03.080
watch Fox News and the mainstream or, you know, right wing media outside of Fox and the mainstream
01:09:09.180
won't report on things like that. You know, just a little bit here, a little bit there.
01:09:13.760
They're starting to Bethany. I'm sensing some sort of. End of opening a little bit. Some
01:09:18.620
right on the center left. But it I feel like at this rate, it's going to take years before
01:09:24.660
they see each other's faces at school. Yep. Yep. And at that rate, I mean, I think that we're
01:09:29.480
going to see the ramifications societally forever. We're going to see increases in crime,
01:09:34.420
increases in dropouts, mental mental health. I mean, we're already seeing that with the
01:09:38.740
surgeon general. The the just monetary costs of this are going to be significant. I don't
01:09:45.840
see how a lot of kids come out of this pandemic without without serious sort of mental illness
01:09:51.240
and and problems, honestly. That's right. And and then what we're told, though, and I saw
01:09:57.460
this in your piece, they're resilient. Children are resilient with this fake Stephanie smile
01:10:03.480
that you want to smack. It's like that doesn't mean you can just pile onto them ad nauseum in
01:10:10.260
trying to ramp up your vaccination rates that in a situation that where children's participation
01:10:16.640
is not required. It's not required. And other countries have confirmed that we're the only
01:10:23.100
ones who are the lunatics. We in Australia have been the the covid lunatics. This is not a race we
01:10:29.840
want to win. All right. Stand by because there's much more to go over with Bethany Mandel. We're
01:10:33.220
going to have more on covid and she's got a new children's book out, which I think you're going
01:10:36.900
to like. She's working to counter the woke drift in schools. Right. It's not going to be all. Let's
01:10:42.380
celebrate Ruth Bader Ginsburg anymore. And she's fine. Like RBG. I mean, I did. God rest her soul.
01:10:46.760
Not necessarily her judicial philosophy, but her as a woman. Now, what about if your child read a book
01:10:51.020
about Amy Coney Barrett? How about that? So, Bethany, how do you do it? How do you raise five
01:11:02.840
children and homeschool them and still work, still work outside the home, write, write columns and so
01:11:08.720
on and write a book and on it goes? How? Yeah. Yeah. So I don't sleep is really just the answer.
01:11:15.760
A lot of people, you know, they give like answers like I'm really good at time management. Like, sure,
01:11:20.160
that's part of it. But I also just don't sleep. I'll sleep when I'm dead. Have you always been a
01:11:24.980
bad sleeper or is it that it's not that you're a bad sleeper? It's just it's not a bad sleeper to
01:11:29.280
sleep. If someone would allow me, I would be a great sleeper. But I, you know, I have every every
01:11:36.940
other year I have another baby in my bed or in my belly or something. I mean, basically,
01:11:40.540
I just don't sleep. How old are they? My short answer. Eight, six, four, two and zero. And while we
01:11:47.280
on commercial break, my husband ran up the stairs to get the baby to bring him to the basement. So
01:11:50.940
oh, my, my friend just had her fifth child and she's in New York City. And she's so funny. She
01:11:56.700
says, MK, what kind of a person has five children? She says about herself. She's like, we're crossing
01:12:04.100
over into weird now. Do you ever have people look at you with that stunned like five?
01:12:09.540
Yeah, no people. I I've noticed people's eyes starting to count now once we hit five.
01:12:15.680
And my favorite moment, and I'm happy to send you one, by the way, on our Hanukkah card,
01:12:19.960
the text box ran out of room and it didn't give me a warning. And so on 180 cards, I had to like
01:12:27.700
handwrite and and the baby's name because I don't say my kid's name is in public. So I had to handwrite
01:12:31.960
his name on the bottom. Like, that's amazing. That's pretty classic. Yeah. So you you like yours truly do
01:12:37.800
not show pictures of your kids online. And but you've gone one step further. I've noticed you
01:12:42.940
you give them pseudonyms. And one of them is Altima. There's a lot of stories about Altima,
01:12:47.760
which I love the story behind why you chose that, because somebody is like you named your kid
01:12:51.160
Altima. Can you tell us how that one child got that one name? So he it really fits his personality
01:12:57.940
to say. So he is four years old. And four years ago, I had like a number of false labor scares. And so
01:13:06.000
my midwife told me, like, I cannot have you come back to the hospital unless you're actually in
01:13:09.540
labor. So wait until your water breaks. And so I was asleep and my water broke and we got in the car
01:13:13.880
and we were driving to the hospital about 45 minutes away. And he only had about 20 minutes
01:13:17.920
left in him before he was like, I'm done. I'm out. I don't care where you are. I don't care what you're
01:13:21.420
doing. And so he was born in my husband's Nissan Altima with like 200,000 miles or something on it.
01:13:27.420
And he pulled over into a gravel parking lot of an auto body shop off the highway in New Jersey.
01:13:31.980
And that's where he was born, covered in gravel. And that's like who he is to this day. I'm like,
01:13:36.620
oh, yeah, that's that's the one that was born on the side of the highway.
01:13:39.020
That is amazing. So how do you make it work? Homeschooling for all five different ages?
01:13:45.000
Are you in a network with other homeschooling parents?
01:13:48.580
Yeah, so my older, my oldest two are officially homeschooling. And then my other two younger ones,
01:13:55.060
my four and two year old are in like an in-home preschool for a couple days a week.
01:13:58.980
And that's when we bang out a lot of school. And a lot of our a lot of our homeschooling is just
01:14:03.180
reading out loud and reading to them. And so it's not it's not like a big heavy lift. Like we were
01:14:08.720
we were done with school today in two hours. And then like, this is how I'm spending my afternoon
01:14:12.460
with my children hiding in my basement. Well, this is not in any way to compare you to the Duggar
01:14:16.620
family. But I did go out there and do an interview with the Duggars and they're like 19 children.
01:14:20.540
And what I noticed when I was there was the older ones really take care of the younger ones. Like
01:14:25.560
when you're when you have a lot of children, you really have no choice but to make the older ones
01:14:30.520
help you out. And I thought it was such a not the Duggar family, but that dynamic is healthy,
01:14:36.500
right? Like I wish I could get my older kids to take on more of the family burden and help out
01:14:42.840
like with my little guy or even just I've got to do a better job of getting them to help around the
01:14:47.580
kitchen, around like picking up after themselves. And I feel like you probably have that down.
01:14:51.460
No, not at all. You should see my house. There was a profile of me in Deseret News and the
01:14:56.560
reporter who's a friend of mine now mentions like six times how messy my house is. She's like,
01:15:01.740
I can't can't fit my water bottle on her coffee table. I'm like, yeah, well, that's that is my
01:15:07.900
life. That is really messy. Like this is a very tight frame. OK, I love I love my house. It's OK.
01:15:14.380
This is the part that's presentable. The only part. OK, but we won't we won't wander.
01:15:18.900
The other thing I did not know about your family background, your family of origin.
01:15:25.020
And whenever I hear that somebody lost both of their parents at a young age, as you did,
01:15:28.860
I wonder like if they're doing well, if they're thriving in the world as you are,
01:15:34.160
how they did that. Right. Because it's so important to have parents who are involved,
01:15:38.400
who are loving at least one. And you I didn't see your mom died when you were in high school
01:15:44.360
and your dad not not that long after. Yep. Two and a half years after, maybe three years after.
01:15:50.920
Yeah. I mean, I think a lot of it was because of sort of how my mom raised me and my mom raised me to
01:15:55.900
not dwell and not not get bogged down in it because we knew that my mom was not going to survive high
01:16:01.500
school for me. And so she sort of gave me a lot of like life skills like she had me paying the bills
01:16:07.140
when I was in high school and middle school. She had me doing a lot of stuff so that when I
01:16:11.120
eventually was on my own and we knew it was going to be way too early, I was able to sort of
01:16:16.040
live life in that way. And so it was a lot of like my mom's sort of coping mechanisms was like to not
01:16:22.840
dwell, to not sort of submerge, submerge myself and to not define myself by victimhood and to just
01:16:29.900
sort of plow on and to fake it until you make it. There's there's something to be said for like,
01:16:35.460
I'm really, really frickin miserable, but I am just going to get out of bed and I'm going to get
01:16:39.480
dressed and I'm going to do these things and I'm going to find one thing to look forward to.
01:16:43.900
And eventually sort of faking it until you make it. You don't have to fake it anymore. You're just
01:16:47.840
making it. That's so true. So the reason you were on your own after she died is your dad was not in
01:16:55.520
your life. He wasn't in the picture. Yeah, yeah. I had a very fractured relationship with my dad,
01:17:00.520
so I didn't see him from when I was seven to 17 or 18. And he died when I was 19 and he committed
01:17:06.160
suicide. So that was like a whole other sort of, you know, when when someone makes that choice to
01:17:11.500
do that there, there's like a whole other set of baggage that you have to sort of deal with. And
01:17:14.920
so I was I was basically on my own. No brothers or sisters? Just you?
01:17:21.000
No, which is why I have five kids. Yeah, of course. That's absolutely linked. And so were you really on
01:17:29.200
your own when your mom passed? Like it was just you trying to figure out life as a what, 16 year old?
01:17:34.000
Yeah. I mean, I had one really amazing cousin who let me sleep in her like loft in her one bedroom,
01:17:41.620
like sort of on Gold Street in lower Manhattan. Like she let me sleep in her loft and she brought
01:17:47.240
me to Target and bought me stuff for college. Like she really stepped in without resources of her own
01:17:52.660
because she knew that no one else was going to do it. And so she did it. And my mom's ex-husband was
01:17:57.620
sort of another person that was there for me in really critical moments. And so they like really
01:18:02.940
pitched in and I could not have survived my childhood without the two of them. But yeah, I mean,
01:18:09.220
in a lot of in a lot of ways, I was on my own. But I can't sort of ignore the fact that they they
01:18:14.680
stepped in and they weren't the obvious choices. Like I still had grandparents when my mother died
01:18:19.240
and they didn't step up. I had my mom's sister actually stole most of my inheritance. And like,
01:18:26.120
wow, that was unfortunate. Well, this is, you know, one of the things I like about you on Twitter is
01:18:31.660
you and in your columns, too, is you really aren't pro victimhood. You know how the whole society is
01:18:36.960
pro victimhood. Now you recognize when somebody's been hurt. You're not one of these people who's
01:18:40.300
like, get over it. No, rape. No, you're fine. You're not that person at all. But you're not
01:18:44.900
leaning into victimhood. And now hearing your backstory, it's even more impressive because you
01:18:49.960
could absolutely be that person. How how is what's happening in our society? How does it make
01:18:55.880
you react having, you know, been through all you just discussed? Yeah, I mean, I think it's really
01:19:01.860
important to me as a parent. I am so grateful that my children will never, God willing, have any of the
01:19:07.360
experiences that I had. I sort of look at my kids at like eight and six. I'm like, oh, my life was very
01:19:12.660
different when I was your age. But I don't resent them for it. And I don't sort of throw it in their
01:19:16.280
faces like, well, you know, when I was your age, I was walking uphill both ways. Like, that's not
01:19:19.920
I don't think that's healthy either. But I really want to sort of give them coping mechanisms without
01:19:25.780
without sort of the the anvil that was hanging over my head, because I do want them to be able
01:19:31.660
to cope. I do want them to have coping mechanisms. And and a lot of that we get through through
01:19:36.960
literature and through books, because I'm very grateful they don't have the real world experiences
01:19:41.520
of hardship. Now, you I know that you're you're Jewish. You write about it online. But your dad was
01:19:49.340
the one who was Jewish and your mom was Catholic. And so he didn't really he wasn't around that
01:19:53.860
often. So how did that happen? How did you connect with the faith?
01:19:57.240
So it was it was kind of weird. So my mom, I was like a very rebellious child. And so my mom
01:20:03.260
brought me to Catholic Church. And I was like, this doesn't feel right. This is weird. And also,
01:20:07.720
like I was told that Jesus was the son of God. And I had accidentally walked in on my parents,
01:20:12.860
one of my parents, my father, with his girlfriend and sort of I don't think God did that
01:20:19.340
that was that was my seven year old. I was like, that is disgusting. And that is not holy. So I
01:20:24.460
don't think that's what happened. And so my mom was sort of explaining to me Judaism. And they're
01:20:28.660
like, well, they don't believe in Jesus. I'm like, well, that's good. Because I thought that thing
01:20:32.000
that happened was gross. So that no Jesus thing is a plus in my column. That's what got you?
01:20:37.940
What? That's what got you? That's so funny. No. So no, it's ridiculous. It gets even more
01:20:42.720
ridiculous. And then my mom was like, they're people of the book. And I was like, well, I love books.
01:20:46.400
Books are like my favorite thing to do. And she said, Oh, and your favorite soup that I make matzo
01:20:51.120
ball soup, that's also Jewish. And I was like, done, sold. No fornication. No, there's matzo ball
01:20:57.620
soup. And there's tons of books. That's like my dream religion. That's what I am. And so stubborn
01:21:02.520
person that I am, I was like, I am Jewish for now and forevermore. Poor Seth. He probably was raised
01:21:07.840
more traditionally. It was like, is this what is within all this? You've misunderstood the whole thing,
01:21:11.900
your husband. Yeah. No, I mean, he understood what he was getting into. He was like, this is
01:21:17.100
a whole ball of weird. But Seth is weird, too. There's a reason why. Tots and Tots is what his
01:21:21.580
grandmother used to say. What's his actual title at the Washington Examiner? Executive? What's his
01:21:25.940
title? Executive editor of the magazine. Okay. Okay, great. So he's sort of immersed in more conservative
01:21:32.360
media. And how's that going? Like with the two of you, I mean, you're living in an area of the
01:21:37.280
country that's pretty blue. Have you struggled to connect with, you know, people in your neighborhood
01:21:42.040
and your town and so on? So yes and no. So I have a really wonderful pocket of in-person friends.
01:21:49.760
There was, you know, multi-page, multi-week-long thread about me on a local mommy board that I'm
01:21:56.260
still getting Google alerts about. This is about grandma? No. So I stopped reading it for my own
01:22:01.660
mental health. I was like, I don't need to know. But a friend that read it was like, yeah,
01:22:04.900
they're talking about how your kids are brats and about how your kid Altima pooped in the community
01:22:09.840
pool two years ago. I'm like, okay, I feel like we don't have to talk about that on a community
01:22:14.560
thread. Two-year-olds poop in the pool. I'm sorry. So I mean, there's definitely some people in the
01:22:20.900
neighborhood that are not fans. But I, you know, that's one of the nice things about COVID. I don't
01:22:24.860
have to deal with you because you're locked in your house terrified. Yeah. I don't, I'm wondering,
01:22:30.180
because I do see you get a lot of blowback online. And I do think very strongly opinionated women
01:22:35.840
always do. I mean, I'll say that on the left or the right, there's something about
01:22:39.960
you're supposed to be shyer about it. You're supposed to be a little more sorry that you've
01:22:45.600
got these strong opinions. You know what I mean? Yep. And they tell Janice to just read the weather.
01:22:50.900
Oh my God. Can you believe that story? Did you see? I don't know. I'm so angry.
01:22:54.120
Chris Cuomo, fucking weather bitch. Or no, I had the fucking, sorry, weather bitch.
01:22:58.420
That weather bitch. Oh my God. That's why I was like, people are like, oh, I've been hearing a
01:23:02.980
little bit in my corners. You know, I feel sorry for the guy. You know, he lost everything. I'm
01:23:06.880
like, no, no, no. You have to follow. It's not just because he helped his brother, right? That's
01:23:10.360
what you will hear. I love Tucker, but that you hear on Tucker, that's not it. But Tucker will also
01:23:13.480
tell you about all the bad stuff he did. It's a, it's a, it's a, it's been years of accumulation,
01:23:17.820
right? Of, of distrust and bad behavior and narcissism. And that's why only 15% of the country
01:23:23.560
thinks he shouldn't have gotten fired. He had no base. There was no one rooting for him to stay. I mean,
01:23:27.800
why do you think that was? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's infuriating to me that Andrew Cuomo
01:23:32.780
lost his job because of the groping instead of the killing elderly. And it's infuriating to me
01:23:37.340
that Chris Cuomo lost his job over this one. There was any number of things that he could
01:23:41.720
have been fired for breaking quarantine and wandering around the Hamptons or, you know,
01:23:46.300
having his brother on in the first place, which was highly unprofessional. There were so many other
01:23:51.160
reasons why the Cuomo brothers should have lost their jobs. And it's, it's frustrating that
01:23:55.080
this is what they lost them over. I do think though, with the, with the loss of
01:23:59.060
all three properties, right? The, the CNN show unclear what happened here at Sirius XM. He's
01:24:04.720
trying to spin it certainly as a decision to step down. But I mean, listen, no, no one here has said
01:24:09.500
anything to me. I'm not giving inside information. I just feel like that's suspicious. You don't,
01:24:13.120
you don't get fired from one job and then just quit the other. I mean, the other job would probably
01:24:16.960
become more important to you than ever in that moment. And then, and then the book deal gets taken
01:24:21.240
away. But I wonder why, because it's not a situation where, you know, the, the offense with
01:24:27.960
respect to like the women would have been perceived in most corners is so awful. He could never work
01:24:32.980
again. So, I mean, what do you make of the complete implosion? I mean, I think that they just realized
01:24:38.340
that he was not stable and they were looking for a reason to, to offload him. And I think there might
01:24:44.260
have been some sexual stuff going on too, that we don't really know about. The there's, I, I, I'm not
01:24:50.000
sure we'll ever hear the full story, but I think that they just realized that he was becoming too
01:24:53.260
much of a liability. Well, that's the thing. Cause it's like, there was the Shelley Ross incident
01:24:57.320
happened years ago while he was at ABC, but she came public with it. Now there was the executive
01:25:01.760
producer at CNN who left his show because she said he was a bully and she got farmed off to the digital
01:25:07.140
property. Um, and then there was this other woman who came forward. We don't know anything about that.
01:25:11.860
In the meantime, he's back there doing oppo research on his brother's accusers and calling Janice
01:25:15.520
Dean, a weather bitch asking how he can discredit her because she's upset at her dead in-laws. I
01:25:21.520
mean, that's who he is. That's who Chris Cuomo is. What did you make of, um, the other big media
01:25:27.820
news over the weekend, which is Fox news is Chris Wallace stepping down from his post on Fox news Sunday
01:25:34.240
and going to CNN digital, not even like the main CNN, but CNN digital for a five day a week show.
01:25:40.580
I don't understand. Um, I, I, I like Chris Wallace a lot. I, I, I'm not really sure what's
01:25:49.240
going on there because it, from the outside, it doesn't make much sense, but who knows,
01:25:54.840
who knows what's going on in other people's homes and other people's lives. And I don't know.
01:25:59.440
Yeah, I know. I think that, um, Wallace was disliked and remains disliked by most of the Fox news base
01:26:06.680
after his performance in the last presidential election. And I've spent a lot of time with Chris
01:26:12.060
Wallace. I know him pretty well, but I think he lost the Fox news base in a particular way,
01:26:17.600
right? Like in a way that wasn't mendable. And, um, I'm sure he doesn't like, you know,
01:26:23.380
the direction that Fox is going to, you know, they've sort of embraced some of their right wing
01:26:28.340
leanings and they're not as ideologically balanced as they were, but I mean, they're still the only thing
01:26:32.820
on television basically that's in anything to the right of, you know, everything else out there.
01:26:38.520
Right. It's like, you got news max, which doesn't really put a bunch of points on the board though.
01:26:42.060
I like them. Um, and then you've got Fox. So I just think he probably didn't feel like he was at
01:26:46.960
home anymore and, uh, he didn't have the support of the audience. And so you can sort of see where
01:26:52.800
that's going to go. Not to mention he's 76 years old. It's like my, like, like at that point,
01:26:56.320
but God love him for taking on a five day a week job at 76. Yeah, no, I mean, 74. Sorry.
01:27:02.960
We'll see how it goes. Yeah. I think it'll go fine because I think the CNN audience will like him a
01:27:08.020
lot better than the Fox news audience did. Um, I think they're sort of, he showed his partisan stripes
01:27:12.500
and he was right. He was on, he was on the wrong team. He was not on the team that, that loves him.
01:27:18.280
And the CNNers I think will feel differently though. I don't know. Maybe he'll wind up with a digital
01:27:21.620
producer from quiz Cuomo that, that wound up not working out. Bethany,
01:27:25.760
such a pleasure to talk to you. Good luck with, Oh, wait a minute. Shit. I forgot. Sorry.
01:27:30.520
Forgive me the books. I didn't forget. I did forget. And I need to talk about the books.
01:27:34.400
So I love this idea because Amy Coney Barrett, I think is amazing and would be celebrated by most
01:27:38.680
of the left if they just didn't, if it shouldn't have a stance on abortion she has. So what's it
01:27:42.360
called and what are you doing? So it's called heroes of Liberty and you can get our books at
01:27:47.280
heroes of Liberty.com. And we created a promo code for your viewers. So it's Megan is the promo code. So
01:27:52.840
you can get 5% off, but it's, we're a literary startup and we're producing a book series about
01:27:57.240
great people who embody life values that we want our kids to sort of carry with them through their
01:28:01.680
childhoods and into their adulthoods, Liberty, freedom, family, standing on your own. Kids
01:28:06.900
follow the, these amazing people, Amy Coney Barrett, Thomas Sowell and Ronald Reagan from childhood
01:28:12.220
through adulthood. And they're learning from example. And so, you know, instead of sort of teaching our
01:28:17.500
children about victimhood, for example, as we were talking about, we were teaching them about
01:28:21.620
sort of standing on your own and Thomas Sowell was a great example of that. That's one of my
01:28:26.660
favorite books. And, you know, it's not preachy, it's not political. It's just telling great stories
01:28:31.280
with really incredible and engaging art. And, and so we're sort of teaching about the importance of
01:28:36.500
family, Amy Coney Barrett. That's like sort of the theme of that book and resilience and standing on
01:28:41.700
your own is, is the theme of the Thomas Sowell book. And Ronald Reagan, I mean, he was just like
01:28:46.660
the kindest, most wonderful president and we want our kids to sort of have a family, a familiarity
01:28:52.280
with all of these sort of people that were so instrumental in our, in our country's history.
01:28:56.240
So folks can get the books at heroes of liberty.com and heroes of liberty.com. And what's the,
01:29:03.940
and what was the second part? Megan, Megan. And so they can read them with their kids at night and
01:29:08.300
whatever, whatever is going on in their kid's school, they can sort of push back a little bit
01:29:12.800
at home and teach their kids sort of the right way that we want our kids to be because we can't
01:29:18.440
count on the schools to do it. What's the age target range for these books?
01:29:23.440
So it's between ages six to 12. The illustrations are really, really captivating. So they really
01:29:28.700
kind of hook the younger kids in and the, the prose is also like really challenging and really
01:29:33.380
wonderful. It's, it's sort of one of those like throwback books that you sort of remember from your
01:29:37.540
childhood that were really sort of I think about sort of the Chronicles of Narnia, like the really
01:29:43.560
intricate prose. That's really challenging. That really tells you a story. That's really what
01:29:48.440
we're shooting to do. And, and we hope to eventually become like a more wholesome and moderate scholastic
01:29:54.960
because they've gone just completely off the cliff. I love this. I love this. It's hard to find those
01:30:01.860
books. I mean, I always post pictures from my local bookstore on the Upper West side. And it's,
01:30:06.200
of course, it's like all RBG, AOC, Fauci, Michelle Obama. I mean, you, in no world would there ever
01:30:13.560
be a Thomas Sowell ever. So it's wonderful to have this as an option. Yeah. Yeah. So here's
01:30:19.680
the liberty.com and people can use the promo code Megan for 5% off. I'm doing that today. Abby,
01:30:25.100
will you, will you get me all three of them? It's just the three so far. Yeah, so far. And we're
01:30:29.620
going to, we're planning on producing one a month into the new year. And so we're going to have John
01:30:33.540
Wayne, Mark Twain, Margaret Thatcher, that's the one I'm editing right now. Churchill is another
01:30:39.140
one, Douglas MacArthur. And so sort of all of these people that our kids desperately need to know
01:30:43.540
about. And, you know, speaking of resilience, my God, like Winston Churchill, you really can't get
01:30:47.780
a better sort of role model for your kid. And I would love my kids to walk around saying, you know,
01:30:52.160
my hero is Thomas Sowell or Winston Churchill. It doesn't get much better than that.
01:30:56.180
And of course the left is to be like, of course you ignored his history of colonialism and they're
01:30:59.980
all racist and so on. And it's like, okay, no one, not even your heroes were perfect. Go take
01:31:04.840
a look at the FBI report about Dr. Martin Luther King and what his own Pulitzer Prize winning
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biographer unearthed when he was studying Dr. King and his history with women and alleged sexual
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assault. It's not to say that, you know, we dismiss all flaws, but our heroes are heroes for a reason.
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They did extraordinary things in extraordinary times. And that's why people continue to love MLK.
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And continue to love Winston Churchill. Bethany, thank you so much. I'm buying them right now.
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And you guys should do the same. Tomorrow, our friend Charles C.W. Cook will be here. Excited
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