Eric Bolling on Rush Limbaugh's Legacy, The Lincoln Project's Demise and his Crusade to Honor His Son | Ep. 66
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Summary
Eric Bolling is a great friend, a great guy, and somebody who has been through a ton personally, professionally, and has a lot of insight to share, including on Bitcoin, and whether it s too late to buy it.
Transcript
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Like that woman over there with the designer jeans.
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Your home for open, honest, and provocative conversations.
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Well, I wasn't expecting our discussion to go there,
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but actually he had a lot of helpful thoughts on it.
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This is the first time I've ever talked about Bitcoin,
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But Eric is somebody who has been very successful in his life.
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he was from, he was from Cape Girardeau, Missouri,
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that there's still opportunity there I was I was
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you don't have the right sneakers and you don't
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to DC with you how that might long-term wind up
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being not not such a bad thing I can't believe you
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just said that because I wrote in the by I wrote
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money probably because it was just so difficult
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of a childhood living in that in that situation
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runs deep and I was never poor I mean I was poor
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graduated to upper middle class so I'm like that
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sounds better you know I'll go with that but it but
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always had to budget and we had to be careful and
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I heard no a lot when it came to money and that
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buy the things I wanted and I never had extravagant
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taste you know like I remember when I was young
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and I was starting out and I was a lawyer and I
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barn like that's and that and when I got to that
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reportedly getting offered all these millions by
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Fox or so or whatever it was so you know why do
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you need X million and I I said I don't I don't
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need any million and I don't I've lived very poorly
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need any of that money but you also have to know
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you take 20% you know less than your worth or 50%
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less than your worth so you you know you have to
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best deal but that's not to be confused with being
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money obsessed or thinking you have to have it to
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live well because having done both I can say my
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level of happiness having to stay the same it the
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bills come yes 100% I agree with you 100% you that's
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why athletes don't need 26 million dollars but they
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want to get because it makes them feel like they're
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the most important athlete on the field I just I I
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think most of what has motivated me for my whole life
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has been those though just the thought and I can still
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see him laughing at me and those young kids it was it was
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brutal I don't wish that on anyone more with Eric in
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you another edition of a feature we call you can't say that or
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think that or do that oh wait this is America there's a funny
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thing about cancel culture if you talk about cancel culture you
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may get canceled you may get canceled yourself just for talking
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about cancel culture that's we've jumped the shark in the
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movement now people that's essentially what happened to the
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bachelor host you know Chris Harrison who the hell gets offended
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by Chris Harrison you get offended by Chris Harrison you were
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looking for people to be offended by for last week it was Dolly
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Parton now it's this guy please we've run out of people to
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target he's the the host of the ABC dating show right the reality
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show and apparently he's gone woke well he was forced to or he's
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pretending to you see photos of a current cast member were uncovered and
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they they showed her recently at a quote antebellum plantation themed
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frat party when she was in college dumb move sister dumb move Harrison was
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asked about this and he urged quote a little grace a little understanding a
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little compassion noting this this is quoting now judge jury executioner
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thing where people are just tearing this girl's life apart it's
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unbelievably alarming now two things can be true that could have been a
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stupid ass move by the young woman and Chris Harrison could be right that
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there's no reason to tear her life apart over it right like people do dumb ass
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things when they're in college and beyond for that matter and as long as
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they come to see the light and understand it and you know apologize
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whatever however you want to handle it or not if she doesn't feel she says it
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look it was it wasn't meant to cause harm and I don't what it's up to her but
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it's really not his problem to solve so he was making a condemnation of our
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knee-jerk cancellation right on to of everybody pretty reasonable but no it was
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totally unacceptable Harrison then had the guns turned on him
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and he immediately apologized for quote causing harm by wrongly speaking in a
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manner that perpetuates racism but that was most certainly not enough you see
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Harrison announced he's stepping aside from the bachelor franchise effective
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immediately and will instead be spending his time and this is an actual quote
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getting educated on a more profound and productive level than ever before
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this is the only time I've agreed with Don Lemon in my life Don Lemon was on CNN
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saying I don't know if it's sincere it's not Don it's not Don the arbiter of all
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things moral Don who was alleged alleged shoved his hands down his own pants
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fondled his own genitalia and then rubbed his hands all over some random
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stranger in a bar that Don Lemon he denies it but there was a witness that one
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says he's not sure the apology was sincere but I had to say I'm not sure
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either because everyone gets forced into this crouching position saying please
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don't ruin my career well anyway good good luck on your re-education Chris do we
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all feel better now because if you say we should have some grace and compassion like
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he did well you can't say that oh wait this is America and now back to Eric
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Bowling as we talk about our childhoods and you know now our adult situations I'm
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thinking about Eric Chase and I'm wondering before we get to everything that
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happened can can you talk about like raising a child as a rich man and how
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you know you and Adrian tried to not spoil him too much and not you know because
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no matter what's your financial situation you always want to teach your child the
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value of a dollar the value of hard work not to grow up to be you know some
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douchebag rich person who you know thinks they they're entitled to everything and
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you have to actively work on that are you going to wind up with somebody who does
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think that way yeah we saw Eric Chase if if if your audience doesn't know he's it was
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my 19 year old son he passed with from an opioid overdose in college and I I never
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spoiled him I mean he I wanted to give him more than I had obviously and I and I did he
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had his own car when he turned 16 and he had his own room and it was nice but it
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wasn't wasn't extravagance but I always always pushed education I just wanted him
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to learn I just wanted him to be good in school like whatever you know whatever he
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was doing I was always on I would study with him we did we did the the the square
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tables to one square two square three square and he would he could get up to
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like 25 square to 30 squared just rattle them up and so we spent a lot of time on
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numbers and math and reading and education it was always a huge huge focus and and I
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kind of looked the other way on a lot of things that that he was doing as long
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as the grades were good and they were always good he was always an A or B
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student he did fantastic when he said he wanted to go to University of Colorado I
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paused because you know I'm a libertarian and I believe in I don't believe anyone
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should go to jail I don't think anyone should be go to jail for for using drugs I
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just I'm I'm I don't care who you sleep with or what you smoke and just that's my
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world and then it kind of hit me with my son like he wants to go to a place where
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you know we know it's it's marijuana is prevalent it's it's a very uh it's a it's
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it's a lifestyle and it concerned me and I and I knew he was smoking weed and um I
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knew he was but his grades were good his grades were good and then we got that faithful
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call one night and uh can I can I jump in and just and just walk you through that a
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little just so we can we can understand it so when he because I think about this
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of course Eric as you know as a mother myself where do you draw the line and like
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how much of of a leash do you give them when it comes to drugs and alcohol thankfully
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mine are little right now but you know it's coming and and I know great parents who
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have very different ways of approaching this you know some are like you know just
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wait until college and some are like never and some are like I trust you to do the
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right thing starting right now and and so like where so you were okay with pot when
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he was I guess in high school but like how did you telegraph what was your messaging
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around drugs and alcohol to him I think it was always um and again I may have been
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erroneous but I I never saw anything other than than weed and I knew he kids in in the
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neighborhood they smoke pot and they they drank I knew that I just knew that and I
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never really like you know punished him for any of that stuff and it's again Megan
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I was just he had a lot of friends there they seemed to be really nice kids and and
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his grades are good and and I'm just I'm you know I look back and I was like did I
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ignore any signs I don't know I don't know but his his my messaging was stay out of
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trouble stay out of trouble with the law don't do you know don't do things that's
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going to you know get you in trouble but keep keep your studies up and I felt if
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he was able to keep his studies up he was going to be not venturing into things
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that that were going to hurt him and he from everything I've heard you and others
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say he was a happy kid like this wasn't some depressed you know down happy dour like
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he was a happy very social loving kid one of one of the difficult things was
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talking to his friends and and someone that said Derek I miss your happy dances
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because he used to have these happy dances he does you know I see him on TV you
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know people dancing funny with the pop in the in the and I and I just think back and
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yeah it's hard yeah so September 8th 2017 you and Adrian this is your only child
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Eric Chase you and Adrian are driving in the car and what happened
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the proverbial call that parents don't want we got it that no parent wants to ever receive
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we're coming home from uh come home from a restaurant
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that's right uh so we get the call uh that he had uh he had uh taken what he felt was a
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xanax that he bought on campus and it was laced with fentanyl that he didn't know he passed
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I remember this so well and it was such a shock and and the thing I remember most about it Eric was
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one thing everyone knew about you was how close you were with him how much you loved him you were one
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of those dads who constantly talked about your child in a great way like just a big smile on your
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face whenever you tell a story about him or just so generous in your view of him and and wanting
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others to understand how great he was and and not that that should make it somehow impossible right not
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that that that would ever make one family immune but it just seemed it seemed impossible seemed
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impossible for someone that much of a light with that much love in his life to go so young and it's
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such a such a senseless way you know such a damn fucking senseless way yeah yeah um yeah it was uh
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it was a shock um there was another young man 19 years old also that went to a school about uh
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20 miles away from eric was at colorado boulder uh this other young man went to a university of
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denver about 20 miles away who died the same night from the same thing of a fentanyl uh laced
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xanax that apparently there was a batch it's called a hot batch that was in the in the in the colorado
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area and uh killed both of our sons this was a this was a navy officer's son it's just it's and so
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you know i set up the arc chase foundation and and i've spent the last three years just trying
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to create awareness about the dangers of of this of this of opioids generally but specifically
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fentanyl i mean it's a it's a drug that that is just absolutely deadly a couple of grains of fentanyl
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can kill a 200 pound person uh we don't need it there's no reason to have it in society it should
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be it should be just banned completely across the board so anyway it's 50 times stronger than heroin
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it's up to 100 times stronger than morphine it's the drug that killed prince the artist prince it's
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it's incredibly powerful and they were handing it out like candy in way too many hospitals and
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doctors offices for a while but so can you can i just ask you so like how does fentanyl get laced
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into a xanax to police or others believe that was an intentional act by a drug dealer or like how
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does that happen so the most of the fentanyl is produced in some 85 or 90 of the fentanyl is
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produced in china and and there's these chinese labs that are are doing look-alike drugs and they're
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they're using fentanyl to to strengthen the potency of of various types of other drugs like like like
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xanax and and the scary thing is megan what i found is that the the drug dealers who've dealt a drug
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that's killed someone because it's laced with fentanyl end up being the most popular drug
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dealers around because they have the strongest stuff it's just you know we've been caught up in
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the last year on on on uh covid and covid deaths but wait till you see once the the dust settles wait
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to see how many opioid deaths that we're going to be dealing with again because they're happening
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we're just not they're just not newsworthy right now because everyone's counting how many people are
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dying from covid the problem is a lot of what's happening is all these these are young people
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these are primarily young people under the age of 35 a lot of them are under the age of 25 who are
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dying of these overdoses opioids are killing a lot of people it's not it's not as it was a it was a huge
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story two three years ago it's kind of overshadowed right now by covid but it's an epidemic it's an
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right it's a pandemic really the i pulled just a couple of numbers the the cdc says the rate of
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overdose deaths is accelerating during this pandemic that it rose almost 40 percent from june of 19 to
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june of 20 um more than 750 000 have died since 1999 from drug overdoses in 2019 alone more than 70 000
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people died from drug overdoses 48 000 from opioids a stunning a stunning way to think about this is
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overdoses yes um most of them are not all but most of them are opioid overdoses but it's it's literally
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a full 737 airplane packed with people every single day plowing into the side of a mountain
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killing everyone that's how many people are dying from overdoses every day in america and we'd be
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talking about it if we're an airplane crashing every day but we're not talking about it that's right we
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will we will what what what happened like did you ever find out who sold him the drug and was there
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accountability for that person i couldn't i mean it was it was the boy left it with the boulder police
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um it was just devastating it was just absolutely devastating um i don't i mean i see movies of
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parents just going after it i just i i didn't it just took took everything out of me that wasn't
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where you wanted to direct your energy how no i know you've told a story i i read you did a piece
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in usa today and i've heard you talk about it many times but adrian your wife i think about her you
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she was driving she was driving you pulled over you got the news she tried to throw herself out of
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the car how she did she she did she threw herself out of the car uh on a on a busy roadway in long
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beach island new jersey and we sat on the curb i pulled her picked her up and sat on the curb and uh
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you know we we cried i understand i mean i understand i i think every parent out there
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can understand that and like yet i look at you guys now and you seem good like you you seem
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pretty good so can you describe that process of pulling yourselves both of you out of the depths
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of that despair oh you're never out it's every day is like you wake up and go how are you gonna get
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through today but so you don't get out but you you know you you live you have to if you don't live
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you don't i mean you know they're they're obviously you know it's hard every day is is
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every day there's something on tv there's a reminder there's there's reminders ever there's triggers
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everywhere you just have to uh have to have to figure out a way to to pick yourself up and and
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make it through a day make it through that's what it is you know this is a little controversial but
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i didn't this was literally a a weekend it was labor day um and it was a friday night
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labor day weekend and uh there was a storm coming up from like like a hurricane was on its way and
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they were starting to shut down the airports and and i uh when we got the news i'm like we have to get
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to colorado and uh you know a lot of people don't like me because of my friendship with donald trump
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um trump called me and said airports are shut down you can have my plane if you need it to get
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to go to colorado wow wow i you know that gives me pause too i have said before that he does
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not really have the empathy gene you know like it's not really in him but maybe that's not true or at
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least maybe it overlooks that he has a caretaker gene you know like he'll step in when his friends
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need him because i've heard stories like that of him caretaking before anyway the so i have a a reason
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to to be friendly with the guy besides uh you know his politics which uh you know it's been that
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part's been that part's been rough but anyway so yeah it's it's it's uh it's it's you you get up and
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and and and i i try and create awareness for the opioid mess that we have going on that's you've been
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doing amazing on that i mean all the town halls but let me just ask you before we move on from it
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because i know there were reports and i just want to make sure the audience is clear um that eric chase
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died i think it was the same night that that you and fox news parted ways and and it was in the papers
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and it hit the news there were there were allegations against you you denied you've defended yourself
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vigorously and all of that and someday the audience will hear the full story on this and i look forward
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to that day on your behalf um and there were some who quickly i mean o'reilly was one of them
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suggested that eric chase died because of those allegations made against you i do want to say he
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apologized and you accepted i mean you you live what you said earlier you are a forgiver you forgave him
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but that's that's not true just for the record it isn't true it wasn't an intentional overdose
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no no no no no no no um and thank you for for bringing pointing all that out so it was the same
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day it was a couple hours after fox and i separated and and by the way it was amicable um and as the
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media likes to do when i separated from fox i'm immediately you know stories start circulating
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i'm there there there i would i i couldn't that night my son passed i couldn't defend myself i
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literally had to cocoon for a year to to survive hold adrian and just cocoon for a year just to survive
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um he he didn't die he didn't commit suicide o'reilly i and and i was just aghast when o'reilly
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said that um i had filled in for bill 250 times i've known bill a long time never even asked me
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never even never even said how you doing he just went ahead and made a media moment out of it by
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saying that eric died because he uh you know for for whatever reason that i think he said because
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the left-wing media beat me up so badly about separating from fox but it not he probably didn't
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even know he said he died because of the allegations made against him he said and he said
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and i know this to be true and to me i'll tell you eric my my impression was this is a guy who's
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talking about himself and the pain he has suffered from allegations that have been made against him
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and the pain his family clearly has suffered it doesn't mean they're they're not true in bill's case
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um but i'm sure they've brought a lot of pain and he's brought a lot of pain um as anybody has who's
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transgressed or made mistakes to their family anyway i thought my impression was he's trying
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to work out something he's so angry about how the press just throws you know the they an allegations
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made they hurl it around they don't fact check you're you're tarred with it they don't look into
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the background of any of the accusers none of it and i and i think he was feeling indignant in his
01:20:25.080
own situation and sort of try to um not what's not project it's like they transfer it
01:20:30.920
onto you which was totally out of line i was i was i was it was nonsense i was aghast and i i
01:20:37.140
literally picked up the phone and called emily steel at the uh at the new york times and said
01:20:41.220
i don't know where he is because i was i was i was in connecticut hiding just trying to survive
01:20:47.700
but can you i have a statement and to that says bill o'reilly's completely wrong on this and that's
01:20:55.120
nonsense and my son died of an accident will overdose call boulder police if you want to but knock
01:20:59.980
yourself out but and so yeah i look he he did apologize i just don't know what he was up to
01:21:06.980
with that maybe it was just i have no idea i'm not even i'm not even going to speculate on why he did
01:21:11.500
that it was it's certainly not true and no one's ever suggested just and just for the record just in
01:21:18.100
case people want more proof of this um eric chase's girlfriend kayla openly told the police that eric
01:21:27.060
chased it she knew about the fox situation he knew about the fact he didn't seem overly upset about it
01:21:31.120
at all that he was always very happy very positive individual never ever talked to her about being
01:21:37.020
down or expressing any desire to hurt himself it's just it isn't true and people need to know that
01:21:43.680
and they also need to know it eric because it almost lets you off the hook as a parent if you think
01:21:49.320
that's that's what happened as opposed to the reality which is no no not you not you not you i
01:21:56.240
mean like me it lets one off the hook as a parent because you're like oh that special circumstances
01:22:02.000
and this is one of the points you've been very laudably trying to make for the last three and a
01:22:06.720
half years which is you got to get out of the not my kid mentality you and adrian never saw it coming
01:22:14.840
i know i got that from you and like can you just speak to that because i think most parents and
01:22:18.720
people listening to this right now are thinking well it wouldn't happen to my kid i would know
01:22:22.640
yeah so i i developed two lines on this on these tours of of the country well talking to parents
01:22:31.720
talking to kids and it's um before i do this can just tell you it was i want to just address
01:22:37.840
something it was the same day that fox and i separated and yes i did get bludgeoned by the media
01:22:42.680
but i had no fight because my son had just died so i couldn't explain in fact i probably didn't i
01:22:48.980
probably never explained the whole story i would love to do it with you on your show at some point
01:22:56.760
when i'm allowed to do it with regards to legally with fox because there's there's i i was i believe
01:23:04.480
there'll be a lot more to the story and a lot more understanding and maybe a lot more compassion for
01:23:11.020
what happened in to me and my wife on that day and leading up to that day well you know a lot of
01:23:16.860
explanation a lot i would i definitely would want to do with you megan you've you've been just amazing
01:23:22.600
and just a great person so i'm doing these tours um and i i came up with two lines into kids you look
01:23:29.780
i look right into their eyes and say guys one pill can kill one pill can kill and and and the reason
01:23:38.000
why that is is that it was a it was a one it was a fentanyl it was a xanax lace with fentanyl that
01:23:43.580
that had too much fentanyl and it killed my son it killed another young man 23 miles away from from
01:23:48.660
eric chase the same friday night um people need to know kids need to know if you put something if
01:23:54.980
someone says take this you're at a party take this understand that that could be the last thing you do
01:23:59.820
in your life and now it's it's kind of moments where kids look up and i've had moms call me and say
01:24:05.620
i had that conversation with my daughter and only because i heard you say it and it was
01:24:11.340
enlightening and she had no idea and this is in the so these are these are good things these are
01:24:17.700
nice good things that have happened but parents understand you pointed out not my kid's syndrome
01:24:24.340
is deadly is deadly my not my my kid is too smart too pretty the captain of the baseball team too white
01:24:31.580
too black too gay too straight to whatever to ever do something like that you're wrong there's there's
01:24:37.480
these kids are being thrown opioids in middle school even younger than middle school they're having
01:24:44.360
conversations about it stuff is passing across the you know at get-togethers understand your kid is not
01:24:51.800
too young to have this conversation and is not too cool too smart or too athletic to have that conversation
01:24:57.440
too about the dangers of of this stuff is there anything else that like i i already am talking to
01:25:05.240
my kids about it you know and you have to distinguish because uh for too long in this country we demonized
01:25:10.040
like street drugs that you get from some like heroin dealer in the back alley and then after the whole
01:25:15.300
opioid crisis unfolding in the 1990s we started to realize oh we're gonna have to warn about prescription
01:25:20.180
medications too we're gonna have to warn about medications that come in a bottle from a doctor
01:25:24.280
or look like they did you know like what as you say one pill one xanax which you know you watch one episode
01:25:30.700
of the real housewives and you see them talking about that drug like it's like it's a nothing you know
01:25:34.600
like it's a tylenol that has a feel-good component so they're they're being misled and it's up to us to
01:25:40.880
redirect but like one of the things that really bothers me about your situation is he was happy he was a he was a
01:25:50.220
happy kid and and i say again i think you want to believe like well unless my kids started to show
01:25:57.180
signs of depression i wouldn't have to worry about this it's not true so like as a parent do you just
01:26:03.100
keep having the conversation i mean is that the only way forward just keep talking unfortunately
01:26:07.860
that that that's it because it's it's it's beyond cops can't find enough of it they can't bust enough
01:26:15.140
people it it the there's the so-called war on drugs has obviously failed and that's that's not where
01:26:21.160
it's going to come from it's got to be dialogue you just have to create a an open dialogue with your
01:26:27.540
kids because they'll be able to hide if you're if you're pretending it's not happening they're going
01:26:32.000
to hide it and you won't know what's happening if it's happening and i'm not trying to to create a
01:26:36.300
situation where you're rummaging through their drawers because i don't i don't think that's healthy
01:26:40.080
either i honestly think if you're capable and as a parent i would you know i wish i'd done more of
01:26:46.120
it i just have the conversation keep talking keep talking get them to talk find out ways to get them
01:26:51.340
to talk just talk um that's the bet fortunately that's that's the that's the best weapon we have
01:27:00.560
as a parent is to have open lines of communications with our kids and it's unfortunately one of the
01:27:06.720
hardest things and it's one one things we we generally don't do as as adults at least in this
01:27:11.560
country i mean stories like yours serve as a springboard for that kind of discussion and i i
01:27:18.640
know you know that what you've been through eric chase losing his life has saved lives on untold
01:27:26.060
numbers of lives i'm sure that doesn't make it any easier but it is a hundred percent true
01:27:31.860
yeah yeah well hopefully we save a few more megan i mean the more the more we talk about the the more
01:27:38.860
lives there that are saved again i'll tell you the the phone calls from parents saying thank you for
01:27:43.580
for sharing your story because i had the conversation and in fact there was a situation that i'm gonna have
01:27:50.640
to talk about and and work out um those are life-saving stories those that's why that's why you put
01:27:56.640
yourself through it that's why it's not it's not easy as as the listeners know having listened to
01:28:01.900
this conversation not easy for you but you're doing it for us it's a completely selfless act
01:28:07.200
and to honor him so it's a noble act too i it's one of the many reasons i just deeply admire you
01:28:13.840
and and adrian too it's just always thinking about her thank you let me ask you this like at you were
01:28:21.540
off the news when this happened which actually was a blessing and then you got back into the news you
01:28:28.080
started doing you know your job again and was you were with sinclair what was that like because i'll
01:28:33.860
tell you i didn't suffer a tragedy at all but just being off the news for a couple of years
01:28:39.360
it was kind of delightful in a lot of ways just this the break from it because it can seem
01:28:45.280
when something big has happened in your life it can seem pointless it can seem like not the right
01:28:50.300
way to be spending your days and for me it took like these insane culture words words to get me
01:28:55.040
off the couch and sort of make me say oh no no i feel like my country needs me right now like as i
01:28:59.320
said at the beginning people like us get paid to talk about the difficult issues the ones that not
01:29:03.820
everybody feels comfortable talking about so i'm gonna go do that but how did it feel for you getting
01:29:08.180
back out there getting back on the horse i had to um you know it was it was like i said the
01:29:14.820
the perfect storm of of bad stuff happening to me happening in a day and i'll never forget i right
01:29:23.480
afterwards so i'm separated from fox and eric passes i get uh i come home and there are probably five or
01:29:32.400
six reporters daily mail tmz a local news like on my street i'm trying to figure out what's going on
01:29:39.860
there get to my i was living in a townhouse with adrian get to the townhouse and they're waiting
01:29:45.060
for me there i was like are you kidding me are you kidding me this is a photo opportunity for you
01:29:49.800
you know and i go inside and and we're sitting in in the apartment in the townhouse and and they're in
01:29:56.160
my first floor townhouse and they're in my backyard taking pictures into into my kitchen and living room
01:30:02.700
i was just like this just got awful this is off so i packed up adrian and we went to uh we rented a
01:30:10.760
place in connecticut and we just we we literally stayed try to stay under the radar in connecticut
01:30:15.520
but that that is is depressing too it's like you're you're out of your element you're out of your
01:30:20.740
family you're out of your social environment and so i just really needed to to get back on here and
01:30:27.800
just do something and sinclair was good enough to uh well i did i did about like you know six months
01:30:35.200
worth of town halls i did something like i don't know 15 or 17 town halls around the country which
01:30:40.460
is getting up on a stage we taped them we put them up on sinclair air which is kind of jumping a little
01:30:45.380
bit back into it and then at that point then then they decided they wanted more we we had plans to do
01:30:50.380
a a tv show which was going to be a five-day week show it ended up being once a week show so
01:30:56.220
so i needed to get back on and melania trump came to two of those with you and you know in any other
01:31:02.180
world she would have been celebrated for that but because trump orange man bad nothing nothing
01:31:06.880
right same as well she never grazed a magazine cover which was just insane she's incredibly gorgeous
01:31:10.980
she's literally a supermodel anyway you know about the double standard so all right so now you
01:31:16.460
you've decided to leave sinclair and now here we are to you and brett
01:31:22.820
i love this idea because it's you you don't have to worry about being canceled anymore you know like
01:31:32.340
that's one of the things i love about podcasting we can say what we want we can say whatever the
01:31:36.340
hell we want and if people don't like it they don't have to tune in if they do they can but you
01:31:42.200
you get to your point to the point where you basically are uncancellable and there's a real
01:31:46.020
freedom in that are you are you enjoying it so far and are you feeling that we've we've done
01:31:51.360
four episodes three weeks four episodes we once a week i i love it because sports is a passion but we
01:31:57.620
talk about culture we talk about bitcoin we talk about you know what's the latest kanye kimye thing
01:32:06.180
we just we talk about anything we have a lot of fun um it's a respite purposefully don't talk any
01:32:11.740
politics which is is refreshing um i i i i think there's another tv show probably in the works maybe
01:32:21.940
in the works on this cell phone right here right now which will be political but right now it's so
01:32:28.240
so megan so nice to take a breather from the toxic environment that politics is and has become right
01:32:35.080
now i want to get back into it i love it it's it's like i said i'm a provocateur i get it
01:32:40.000
and i want to get back to that but right now it's just it's almost like a vacation
01:32:43.960
wait are you breaking are you breaking news about a tv show or let me just clear that up are you
01:32:49.520
trying to telegraph you're going back to fox news no it definitely won't be fox ain't gonna be fox
01:32:58.260
but it's it's gonna be uh yeah yes so so yes and no yes to the tv show no to fox but
01:33:05.480
right now i'm having a ball with brett brett's hilarious by the way how's he doing he came on
01:33:12.080
my nbc show and he talked about you on i want to invite you on bowl it's called bowling with farve
01:33:18.120
yeah yeah we have some fun he's doing great he's he's uh he's just able to weigh in on everything
01:33:25.520
in a way you just have to laugh it's just he's a couple of guys shooting the shit in a locker room
01:33:30.400
upsetting feeling well when when you last left me when you were last on this podcast just doing
01:33:34.640
political commentary you were saying i want to do something like i want to be able to go talk about
01:33:38.460
like army hammer we were talking about his weird cannibalism thing you're about to go do that
01:33:43.120
which by the way is freaking bizarre the more we learn the more i'm like i i don't even look at arm
01:33:47.780
and hammer baking soda the same way anymore because that's his family that's why why anything in the
01:33:52.800
refrigerator that says arm and hammer brings back is weird i don't know i put together the rundown
01:34:00.580
because brett literally just shows up to the microphone five minutes before and just reacts
01:34:06.880
and it's just funny it's just he just you have to laugh and and the first you know 20 30 minutes of
01:34:13.660
the of the show is is sports related like we talked about jose canseco getting knocked out in 12
01:34:18.860
seconds and dave portnoy from barstool sports who sponsored the whole thing wants to sue jose and
01:34:24.700
we have fun with that kind of stuff or the or the the crazy lady yelling at lebron james from the
01:34:30.280
sideline the courtside karen i think they call her but that's the first half of the show on the second
01:34:35.160
half is is literally pulled from the headlines of daily mail new york post and other tabloids and
01:34:42.780
and it's kind of fun you know it's kind of it's kind of fun to hear brett and bowling way in on
01:34:48.760
wacky stuff absolutely and what's wrong with that right like what's wrong with having a little fun
01:34:53.560
that's one of the things i love about this medium is you really can take an emotional journey you know
01:34:58.420
you can laugh you can cry you can you can get real you can get deep into the news you can not touch
01:35:02.800
the news you can talk about issues it's like what whatever you want it's there for the taking and
01:35:07.380
the i feel like americans are ready for this they're i maybe it's just me but i just feel like
01:35:13.220
the constant vitriol talking heads that we see you know on fox and a lot of the prime time it's old
01:35:20.880
it's like it's tired for me it's just tired we can we can get back to that as in another
01:35:26.640
another time after you signed your deal just having some what's not signed that's the whole point
01:35:35.060
it's okay yes i got it you know this drill right well look i i'm i'd be excited to see you in any
01:35:42.140
forum but uh i i think what you're doing is great and i love that you and adrian have tried to turn
01:35:47.280
something so tough into something that will help the world that will be a force for good for all of
01:35:52.120
us and i and you know what you sitting out there having fun with is is a great way bowling with far
01:35:59.860
i know what it is i'm just joking um it's a great way to move forward right well thank you for having
01:36:07.980
me megan and i apologize for getting emotional in the middle part of this but uh you know it's still
01:36:13.100
it's still raw three years feels like you know every day but i appreciate i appreciate the ability to
01:36:18.600
to to talk to to you about it on your show my pleasure lots of love my friend you too megan
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