The Megyn Kelly Show - June 10, 2024


Fraud Week: Fiancé Doctor Pulls Off Personal and Medical Fraud, with Journalist Benita Alexander | Ep. 814


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1 hour and 43 minutes

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184.53703

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19,023

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1,391

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

This week on The Megyn Kelly Show, we begin the week with the story of an NBC News producer who fell in love with a super surgeon, a pioneer, a miracle worker. That surgeon was Dr. Paolo Macchiarini. The handsome George Clooney lookalike doctor was once the darling of the medical world. He promised incredible developments in regenerative medicine. He was the first person to transplant synthetic windpipes into patients. While covering Paolo for an NBC special, producer Benita Alexander fell for the doctor. But romantic getaways soon turned into a bed of lies.


Transcript

00:00:00.520 Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show, live on Sirius XM channel 111 every weekday at noon east.
00:00:11.800 Hey everyone, I'm Megyn Kelly. Welcome to The Megyn Kelly Show. It's fraud week on the show
00:00:17.220 this week and we are bringing you incredible and disturbing true crime stories, all featuring some
00:00:23.740 element of fraud. That's all I'm going to say because I don't want to give any of the stories
00:00:28.920 away. Lots of them take different and unexpected twists and turns. We begin the week with the
00:00:36.100 story of an NBC News producer who fell in love with a super surgeon, a pioneer, a miracle worker.
00:00:43.740 That surgeon was Dr. Paolo Macchiarini. The handsome George Clooney lookalike doctor was once the darling
00:00:50.500 of the medical world. He promised incredible developments in regenerative medicine. He was
00:00:56.180 the first person to transplant synthetic windpipes into patients. While covering Paolo for an NBC
00:01:02.560 special, producer Benita Alexander fell for the doctor. But romantic getaways soon turned into
00:01:10.320 a bed of lies. Benita Alexander is here to tell her story.
00:01:17.460 Benita, it's great to meet you. Thank you so much for being here.
00:01:21.080 Thanks for having me, Megan. It's great to be here.
00:01:23.840 Okay. I've been watching all of it. I did. I watched the Dr. Death thing that originally did
00:01:29.780 this. And then the Netflix special, of course, you did a special on investigative. I mean, like I'm
00:01:35.500 obsessed with your story. It's just nuts. There's so much about it that I find incredibly
00:01:42.300 telling and complex and it raises so many issues. Not to mention the fact that you were a star
00:01:48.960 news producer and I love star news producers. You remind me in so many ways of my own star news
00:01:55.280 producers who I love on my team. And it's one of those things where like, if this could happen to
00:02:00.580 you, it could happen to anybody. Not only are you smart and savvy, but you are literally in the
00:02:07.720 business of detecting bullshit. And yet, right? So that's, those are some things that make it so
00:02:16.440 compelling. So let's start at the beginning for people who are not aware of the story. And even
00:02:20.160 people who are aware are going to be interested to hear you tell it as I have been so many times.
00:02:24.640 You're an NBC news producer and you get asked by Meredith producer or Meredith Vieira, who is
00:02:30.700 an NBC to work on a special based on a doctor that she had read about, I guess, in a magazine,
00:02:37.940 because this guy, Paolo Macchiarini was getting some press at the time for this very innovative thing he
00:02:44.900 was doing in medicine. So take us there. Yeah, we were actually looking at doing a
00:02:50.120 documentary about regenerative medicine, which is this very promising, exciting field where to boil
00:02:56.280 it down to its most simple terms, we're looking at a future where you make new body parts and organs
00:03:00.860 in the lab. And this has so much potential, right? To eradicate the need for donor organs and all the
00:03:08.560 problems that come with it, and just basically go to the go to lab and order a new body part. And so
00:03:14.800 there's a lot of excitement attached to this field. And when we started looking into it, Dr. Paolo
00:03:19.900 Macchiarini's name kept coming up, he was considered the pioneer in this field, the at the forefront of
00:03:26.240 this groundbreaking revolutionary field. And his nickname was a super surgeon. And he worked at the
00:03:33.020 place in Sweden that awards the Nobel Prize in medicine. And so there were tons of accolades,
00:03:39.860 tons of press. I mean, he kind of had this reputation, like he walked on water and people
00:03:44.520 were clamoring to work with him. And there was just a lot of excitement surrounding this man.
00:03:51.020 So you decide to do a profile on him along, he gets, he's going to get the long form NBC treatment.
00:03:56.920 And this is in advance of him performing one of these surgeries on a little two-year-old girl,
00:04:03.180 right? And where was she located? So he was about to do one of his transplants on this Korean toddler,
00:04:10.780 beautiful little girl named Hannah, who had tragically been born with no windpipe at all.
00:04:15.820 So she had spent her entire little life in the hospital. She had never left the hospital. And she was
00:04:20.680 going to be the first toddler that had received one of these transplants and also the youngest person
00:04:27.900 in the world and the first one ever operated on in the US. And so that made that case appealing to us.
00:04:34.380 And then I talked to her family who were just the most beautiful people, her parents, and they had
00:04:39.920 been through so much, you know, trying to save this little girl's life. And they were besides themselves.
00:04:45.320 And they thought that Dr. Paolo Macchiarini was the answer to their prayers, basically the savior.
00:04:52.660 He was going to step in and save the day when nobody else could. And that was the reputation
00:04:56.460 that this man had. And so we decided to focus our story around Hannah and her family and follow her
00:05:02.340 surgery. So you and he have to spend a lot of time together as much as the anchor spend some time
00:05:10.160 with the star guest on a piece like that. The producers spend way more time with him. The
00:05:17.140 producers all do, but especially the lead, which you were. And what happened? Like he was, is a good
00:05:24.160 looking man. He does look a little like George Clooney. Um, he's, is he, I can't remember what he's
00:05:30.080 Italian. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. He's got that going for him too. Exactly. He's very charming. He's one of
00:05:37.620 those people that has that quality that when he walks into a room, you know, he turns head people,
00:05:43.500 people pay attention to him. He's got that commanding presence. You know, he's very arrogant,
00:05:48.900 very confident, very self-assured. He speaks five or six different languages. You know, he's Italian.
00:05:55.840 He dressed very well. He's, um, he's, you know, he's kind of flirtatious with everybody,
00:06:01.840 men and women. And he's got that confident air. And also on top of that, here, he is doing something
00:06:08.400 that literally nobody else in the world was doing. He's rumored to be in contention for a Nobel prize
00:06:14.160 himself. And he seemed to be very devoted to giving hope to patients who had no other hope. So there
00:06:22.960 was something very intriguing about him and something very admirable. And so just start with all that,
00:06:30.340 you know, and we, we had a joke in the office that, Oh, you know, he's a storage Clooney lookalike.
00:06:34.480 He definitely had that appeal. But then when I met him, he seemed to be incredibly caring. We were
00:06:42.100 friends first. We just started talking a lot over, you know, a coffee after a shoot, a dinner after a
00:06:47.760 shoot on long plane rides. We flew Hannah all the way from Korea to Illinois. I at the time was at a
00:06:55.200 very vulnerable place in my life. I would not realize how vulnerable until much later and how
00:07:00.160 susceptible that made me, but my ex-husband of our then nine-year-old daughter was tragically dying
00:07:06.640 of brain cancer. And I was sort of holding it together at work, but inside, I think I was
00:07:11.860 crumbling. I was facing the enormity of what this meant for the rest of her life, for our lives.
00:07:19.220 How was I going to cope with this? How was she going to cope with this? You know, all of it. And I
00:07:24.500 started pouring my heart out to him and he just seemed like such an attentive, caring listener.
00:07:30.980 And that's what kind of blew me away. It was none of the other stuff. It was the fact that this man
00:07:35.960 seemed to genuinely care about this little girl, my daughter, that he'd never met. And that's what got
00:07:42.020 me. He, in, in some of these documentaries, they show clips of him with Hannah, the two-year-old
00:07:50.360 girl and with other patients and his bedside manner seems impeccable. It's beautiful.
00:07:57.040 Exactly. Exactly. And that's so I see how you were fooled. Yeah. Well, that's, I look at those
00:08:02.740 videos now and I think, you know, damn it. That's exactly the way he was with me. I mean, he appears
00:08:07.660 to be exactly the opposite of what he actually is and what he actually turned out to be, but he,
00:08:12.860 he just seemed so caring, so genuinely caring and, um, attentive and really a really good listener.
00:08:21.240 You know, now, of course I realized he was gathering information to use against me, but at the time I
00:08:26.800 just thought he was an incredible human being. Oh, that's very interesting. I want to return to
00:08:31.680 that. I haven't heard you cover that in your earlier pieces, but there's a lot I want to ask
00:08:35.760 you that I, you know, just watching all of this, I have a lot of questions for you outside of the
00:08:39.740 story that I'm like, I got to know this and I got to, okay. Gathering information. We got to come
00:08:43.700 back to that. Um, so it moves quickly and we can spend a minute on the ethical piece. You're not
00:08:51.060 really supposed to date your, the subject of your piece. You knew that sometimes it happens. It's not
00:08:57.400 great, but you know, you deal with it when it happened in this case, it is interesting that it
00:09:03.460 happened because, you know, in retrospect, do you believe he made it happen so that you would
00:09:09.700 be so distracted by him and your blossoming love affair that you would not be paying attention
00:09:14.300 to the medical problems surrounding his supposedly, you know, groundbreaking work?
00:09:21.620 I now believe that I was targeted from day one. You know, he had a plan from day one and it was not
00:09:30.060 what I thought it was. You know, I thought we were genuinely falling in love and this man was sweeping
00:09:35.160 me off my feet. I now believe when I met him in 2013, the world still thought he was the super
00:09:41.660 surgeon. He was a superstar. You know, he was doing this groundbreaking pioneering procedure,
00:09:47.140 you know, getting all sorts of press, all sorts of accolades behind the scenes. The whistleblowers
00:09:53.120 were starting to figure out that something was wrong. Patients were dying. However, at the time,
00:10:00.180 he was still sticking by what he said and has continued to say all along that whenever you do
00:10:06.060 an experimental procedure, patients do die, which is actually true. You know, you look at heart
00:10:10.880 transplants, lung transplants, anything new, radical and experimental patients do die at the beginning.
00:10:17.200 However, you know, what he wasn't telling the world and what nobody knew yet was that he had not done
00:10:23.400 one single one of the preliminary steps that you're supposed to do before doing an experimental
00:10:30.900 procedure on humans. He had literally skipped everything and he's standing at press conferences
00:10:36.440 and interviews saying that his patients are doing beautifully well when in fact they were suffering
00:10:41.160 and they were dying slow, horrible deaths. He's lying about the success in papers. So all this is
00:10:48.360 happening. The world does not know this yet. Unfortunately, I wish we had, but he had to
00:10:53.640 know, right, that it was going to implode. It was a matter of time. It was a, it was just a ticking time
00:10:58.340 bomb. So I think he met me and he thought, okay, here's this successful, smart journalist. Um, I'm going
00:11:06.540 to make her fall in love with me. And when the shit hits the fan, I'm going to have her in my back
00:11:11.200 pocket. So she's going to protect me. I think that's exactly what he was doing. I think he was using me.
00:11:15.700 Yeah. Because you're a top producer, all sorts of awards, Edward R Murrow and so on. And you're
00:11:24.940 working for one of the top anchors at NBC as well, uh, on this piece, Meredith Vieira. And, um, you're
00:11:32.780 super smart. So if he can get you to vouch for him in this piece on an ongoing basis, it's huge.
00:11:39.180 That's gold. So I can see, yeah, that was my suspicion in watching it. Cause that's one of my big
00:11:44.040 questions all along is why, why, why, why, why, why did he do this to her? And especially because
00:11:49.220 you were so vulnerable and you were going through this personal family tragedy and your poor daughter.
00:11:54.320 So, okay. So that's our suspicion right now is that it was an intentional latching on.
00:11:59.940 You're supposed to be investigating him. I mean, a producer investigates, but it's not like you're
00:12:04.440 treated like a private detective where you really expected to unearth any crime attached to the guy.
00:12:10.460 You have to do a reasonable level of research on him when you were doing that and also falling in
00:12:15.800 love. Were there red flags? You know, did you see that patients had been dying on this? You know,
00:12:20.900 he had this fake trachea that he would put this to do this synthetic trachea that he would coat in
00:12:26.020 the patient's own stem cells and put it in their necks as a new trachea to replace one stricken by
00:12:31.040 cancer. Or in the case of the little girl, Hannah, that was never there that she'd been born without
00:12:36.580 one. So had you seen any of those red flags or deaths? You know, there were, there was an
00:12:43.480 investigation in Italy, which had nothing to do with the plastic tracheas. And he was put on house
00:12:49.200 arrest and accused of extortion. And that raised some red flags for a minute. We actually considered
00:12:54.600 putting the story on hold. And in fact, there was a hold in bringing Hannah to Illinois during that
00:12:59.620 time while the FDA investigated. But then the lawyers in Illinois came back, the FDA came back and
00:13:05.040 everybody said, no, it's fine. He's clear. The charges were dropped. It's, you know, all a
00:13:08.880 misunderstanding. And so that seemed fine. And if the FDA, FDA is endorsing him and, you know, a hospital
00:13:14.700 still bringing him all the way to Illinois to do this very radical transplant, that seemed okay.
00:13:22.720 With the patients dying, he was still at the time able to stick by this argument that these patients
00:13:28.840 are pioneers. And whenever you do something experimental, you're learning and people do die.
00:13:34.360 And all of that is valid if you've done everything you're supposed to do. But again,
00:13:39.420 what nobody knew is that he hadn't done everything he was supposed to do. And he was literally using
00:13:45.020 people as human guinea pigs. I mean, it's, it's atrocious. It's all beyond awful. But at the time,
00:13:51.580 you, the patients, even the patients that died, their families were still supporting him.
00:13:56.900 The hospital in Illinois still supported him after Hannah died. And the FDA was backing him.
00:14:04.320 Karolinska, for goodness sakes, the place that awards the Nobel Prize in medicine, they're still
00:14:07.960 employing him. They're still endorsing him. They're still backing him. So there was no reason,
00:14:13.960 you know, really to doubt him. And anytime you're doing something radically new, and you're a pioneer,
00:14:20.200 you're going to have critics, of course, right? And he did have critics. But most of the criticism
00:14:24.120 was about the fact that he was running all over the world. And he didn't stick around long after
00:14:29.860 doing the transplants to take care of the patients. And he seemed more like an arrogant surgeon than
00:14:37.200 anything else. There just wasn't, there wasn't enough there yet. You know, unfortunately, I,
00:14:42.660 in hindsight, God, I wish we had known, but nobody did.
00:14:45.640 Sure. If you had approached and it was like, well, nine out of nine patients have died.
00:14:49.760 He would have done a very different, a hard turn away from this guy. I, I, exactly fully,
00:14:55.180 but I understand medicine and these new procedures do go through, you know, highs and lows when they're
00:15:00.980 first being unleashed. And he was pretty open about that. He was talking about that in a way that sounded
00:15:05.820 credible. Like, Hey, you know, these are experimental procedures. I'm not trying to hide that.
00:15:10.400 And I only am really kind of doing it on people who have no hope, who are willing to take this huge
00:15:17.620 risk. And yet what he knew, what they didn't know is, you know, they, they hasn't, this hasn't been
00:15:23.240 tested. He didn't do the animal trials. He's done nothing. You are a human Guinea pig. You're the
00:15:28.020 first line of experimentation. And there's been no success with it so far. Here he is. Um, this is from
00:15:33.680 bad surgeon, uh, on Netflix, uh, um, and it's footage from an old interview of Paolo talking
00:15:39.560 about this very issue. The more complex surgery is to more higher, the chances of risk you take
00:15:46.460 the first liver transplant, the first kidney transplant, the first heart transplant, did they
00:15:52.020 go all well? No, we don't have the magic crystal to show in the, to look in the future. I think that
00:16:00.900 this is the future. Okay. And we'll get to the specifics unfolding after this. So you're working
00:16:07.720 with him in early 2013 on this NBC news piece and things are starting to unfold. You're spending lots
00:16:15.560 of time together over in Europe. It's romantic and you know, it's not exactly professional, but it's
00:16:20.740 hard. And I'm sure you're feeling sad over your ex-husband dying and all the things. And then it was
00:16:28.500 what, uh, June of 2013, you flew to Venice, had an incredibly romantic weekend. By the way,
00:16:34.680 he was very generous. This was not a financial con. He paid for everything. Everything. I mean,
00:16:39.760 that's one of the things that distinguishes him. And it's also so perplexing because most
00:16:43.740 con artists, you look at somebody like the Tinder swindler or all these other ones that we've heard
00:16:48.060 of their motive is money, right? They're, they're trying to get money. Money was a non-issue. He was
00:16:53.300 exceedingly generous, you know, over the top generous, not just with me and my daughter,
00:16:58.420 my friends, my family, you know, lavish vacations, everything over the top. He would take 20 people
00:17:05.240 out to dinner and pay for everything, you know, buy the most expensive champagne. I mean, he was just
00:17:11.380 extraordinarily extravagant and generous. Um, you know, I, even, even things like I had a friend that
00:17:18.700 was going through breast cancer and he insisted that we send her some money for her treatment
00:17:23.040 because she was struggling at the time. He, yeah, money was a non-issue.
00:17:27.840 Mm-hmm. So Christmas 2013, he proposed things move very quickly. Had the piece aired yet?
00:17:39.440 No, but it was, we were done shooting it. We had been done shooting it for a while and it's,
00:17:43.360 it's sat for a long time as, as you know, stories sometimes do before they actually hit the air.
00:17:48.540 And this one sat for a long time. It was, I think June of 2014, when it finally aired,
00:17:54.680 it might've been April, May. Um, but it was, it sat for a long time, which was frustrating. I mean,
00:18:00.580 we were in a difficult position. I mean, as you said, I had crossed this invisible, but very
00:18:06.220 important ethical line that you're not supposed to cross in journalism for a very good reason,
00:18:10.620 right? You don't get involved with the source of your story because then your objectivity could go
00:18:14.180 out the window. And it wasn't like, I didn't struggle with that. I did. And I had actually
00:18:19.380 pushed him away for a few months and said, we have to wait. We have to wait until the story airs. We
00:18:23.360 can't, we can't be together, but it was just so difficult, especially in the wake of my ex-husband
00:18:27.840 actually passing away. And then I had my own health scare on top of it the same year. And even all my
00:18:35.940 friends and family were just like, are you crazy? This man's nuts about you. You know,
00:18:39.480 he's madly in love with you. What are you waiting for? Um, but this proposal was a surprise and,
00:18:47.260 and that's another, in hindsight, another red flag. It is things moved very, very quickly,
00:18:52.680 you know, and in the normal trajectory, trajectory of a relationship, you know, things take time,
00:18:58.340 right? It takes time to fall in love, but as that's one similar similarity, he does have to other
00:19:04.020 con artists. Everything was on the fast track. Everything was moving at rapid fire speed. You know,
00:19:09.180 he said, I love you very quickly. He was talking about marrying me very quickly, moving in very
00:19:13.660 quickly because he was in a rush. I didn't realize that. Right. I just thought it was all very romantic,
00:19:18.360 but, um, so yeah. And the, the beauty of the proposal, because this man was so over the top
00:19:24.800 with everything, you know, I'd walk into a hotel room and there'd be every time the rose petals all
00:19:30.080 over the floor, you know, bouquets everywhere, champagne everywhere. And the proposal was just simple.
00:19:35.820 It was just me and my daughter and Paolo at home at Christmas. And he just handed me a little box
00:19:42.060 without saying anything. And I had no idea it was coming, but yeah, we, we actually have a bit of
00:19:48.400 you talking about this, uh, in the, in the special bad surgeon. Again, that's the Netflix version of
00:19:53.840 Benita story. Here it is. Fast forward Christmas, 2013. Paolo came to stay in New York with me.
00:20:01.040 It was very casual. He cooked a big elaborate meal. He handed me this little box and I opened the box
00:20:12.220 and it's this beautiful diamond ring. Oh my God. I just, I, I kind of froze.
00:20:22.820 And then I'd said to him, is this what I think it is? And he just smiled and he nodded as wow. You
00:20:35.900 know, I was completely floored. Hmm. So he was love bombing you. Yeah. I mean, it was a long,
00:20:47.200 slow form of love bombing because we were together almost two years and it never stopped in the two
00:20:52.020 years. It wasn't this sort of only love bombing you at the beginning, but the love, love bombing
00:20:57.380 is very calculated. Also, everything about this, I think was calculated. The love bombing is designed,
00:21:03.960 you know, you're, you feel like you're in the clouds, you're floating sort of on a cloud of bliss.
00:21:09.080 And it's in very intentional because then you don't look at anything else. You don't question
00:21:14.320 anything. You don't, it's designed to sort of put you in a haze and distract you from what's really
00:21:18.880 going on. I wonder, you know, as I watched that, I think maybe it was just a personal preference.
00:21:24.840 I'm not sure. I feel like if somebody did that to me, like constantly, cause I saw every voicemail
00:21:29.520 was like, my love, my love. I think I'd be like, eh, and it's a no, but would you have said that too
00:21:35.260 prior to meeting him? Yeah. A hundred percent. That's not my style at all. And actually we did have,
00:21:41.820 you know, it's interesting because not only was it always these consistent, lavish,
00:21:46.260 over the top gestures, but also he was videotaping everything all the time. Like the video camera
00:21:51.680 was never not on. And so we had arguments about that. I said, you know, number one, I don't need
00:21:57.840 all this. You don't need to do something every time we go on vacation. It's too much, you know,
00:22:02.160 it's kind of embarrassing, you know, everything was a show. And also why do you have to videotap
00:22:08.780 everything? We don't have to, you know, document every moment, which now is bizarre. It was sort of like
00:22:14.780 he was documenting his own demise. Cause he left me with so much video. It's wonderful.
00:22:19.180 Yeah. Um, but it's cool. Can I ask you why, why do you think he was doing that? Because you think
00:22:25.240 somebody who's, and we'll get into the details of what exactly, you know, we know now about him
00:22:29.560 while he was doing all this, but you think anybody who's doing something somewhat nefarious
00:22:33.240 would not want it all on tape. Which is interesting because now when I talk to women who've been conned by
00:22:39.260 men, a lot of them talk about the fact that the man would never pose for a photograph with her.
00:22:44.160 Right. But this was exactly the opposite. I think it just goes hand in hand with the
00:22:50.220 narcissistic arrogance. I think this man thought he would never get caught. And I think he got a
00:22:57.060 sick thrill out of lying to people and conning people. And I just think it was part of the game.
00:23:02.300 Gosh, it's disturbing, but I think you're right. That's how it feels. So he, um, there comes a day
00:23:11.840 in which he gets, he reveals to you that he's got, in addition to this amazing ability to create these,
00:23:18.400 you know, regenerative tracheas that he implants and the people who are suffering, he's got this secret
00:23:25.880 client list and he's got this secret life as VIP surgeon to the most well-known people on earth.
00:23:35.480 And I have to say, I defend you on this piece of the story. I believe coming into it with this amount
00:23:42.920 of press and this amount of like medical professionals touting this guy, this would be believable. This
00:23:48.780 is who Barack Obama might quietly see on the side. Right. So give us a feel for the number of, you know,
00:23:55.880 celebs he said he was secretly catering to. So it first came up actually right after he proposed
00:24:02.120 because it was Christmas and he said he couldn't stick around for new year's and I was not happy
00:24:06.160 about it. And I kept peppering him with questions. Well, you know, where do you have to go? And he
00:24:10.220 kept saying, it's an important surgery. It's an important surgery. I'm like, come on. And finally,
00:24:14.140 that's when he said, look, I have to tell you something. And of course it was all built up with,
00:24:18.260 I've never told this to anyone before. Even my ex-wife doesn't know about this and blah, blah.
00:24:22.980 Um, and he said, I'm part of a clan, very clandestine secret network of doctors from around
00:24:30.540 the world with all different specialties. And we cater to the world's most important people,
00:24:35.860 famous people, dignitaries, because these people don't want their private medical life,
00:24:41.000 you know, no known in public. And he told me that new year said he was going to take care of Hillary
00:24:47.860 Clinton and that he had been taking care of the Clintons for some time and that he was friends with Bill
00:24:52.500 Clinton. I thought it was ridiculous. And I, I said, that's, I've never heard of anything like
00:24:58.100 this. That's, this is absurd. However, I did call, I called a friend in LA who's very connected,
00:25:03.440 um, to a lot of celebrities. And I just said, look, you know, is this feasible? You know? And
00:25:07.940 you know, she said, Benita, come on. She said, you don't think these people have private personal
00:25:12.340 doctors? Of course they do. They all do. You know, they all have doctors that fly to them privately and,
00:25:17.420 you know, they're private jets. They don't want everything made public. So on the one hand,
00:25:22.240 it seemed, yeah. So on the one hand, it seemed absurd and on the other, it didn't. And I understand
00:25:28.400 why people who have never sort of been in these circles or don't understand this type of lifestyle
00:25:34.040 would go, come on, that's not true. But I don't think it's so far from the truth, you know, and
00:25:38.640 not far from the truth. I don't have such a doctor in my life, though. I would love,
00:25:41.900 but I know doctors as friends who get, they get offered $250,000 to fly to Saudi Arabia and help
00:25:49.880 somebody. If you have enough money, this is how you live. And this is how you expect to be taken
00:25:54.400 care of. Right. Right. So he, the, the name sort of dribbled out over time because it was all,
00:26:01.480 you know, so secretive and he wasn't supposed to be telling me, but it ended up being, um, I mean,
00:26:08.380 all kinds of people, the emperor of Japan of all people was in there people in Russia because he
00:26:13.520 had a very, very lucrative multi million, if not billion dollar grant, um, in Russia to do clinical
00:26:20.440 trials in Russia. So he said, he did have that. Yeah, that was real. Yeah, that was real. And then
00:26:26.640 all kinds of celebrities, you know, the Obamas, the Clintons, the Sarkozy's from France. I'm trying
00:26:33.240 to remember who they all were. It was a long list and, and people at the Vatican, which will become
00:26:39.660 very instrumental. So you're going to get married, but he can't spend New Year's with you because he's
00:26:47.320 got to go take care of some very important clients. And these are his secret patients. And then
00:26:52.500 I do not understand this piece of the story. I, I don't understand. I'll help you. Why,
00:26:59.100 why did he say, let's get married by the Pope? So at the Pope's summer residence, the apostolic
00:27:09.260 palace of, uh, castle Gandolfo. Why? Yeah. Why take it there? Well, yeah, this, this gets
00:27:18.060 unfortunately very simplified. And I understand from an outsider's perspective, why people say,
00:27:22.700 Oh, give me a break. You know, she really thought that sorry, fucking Pope was going to marry her.
00:27:26.740 Like who believes that I get that, but it did not happen like that. It was a very, very slow,
00:27:33.140 meticulous weaving of this very clever lie. It started with, he wanted a big Catholic wedding
00:27:39.920 in Italy. And I said, well, how's that going to work? You know, we're both divorced or so I thought,
00:27:44.840 and I'm not even Catholic, you know, and I don't know much about the Catholic religion,
00:27:48.800 but I don't think Italy lets divorcees get married in the Catholic church. And he said,
00:27:53.180 don't worry about it. I'll take care of it all. Um, I was very, very busy at the time. Um, I had
00:27:59.820 a new job at NBC. Meredith had a new talk show and I was working crazy hours. And he said, look,
00:28:04.360 you're too busy. Let me take over the planning of the wedding. Let me go and find us a priest in
00:28:09.560 Italy that will marry us. And so he spent months actually, supposedly going to one church after
00:28:17.320 another in, in Italy, trying to find a priest that would marry us. And he would send me pictures
00:28:24.720 of these churches. He would send me long texts, you know, all kinds of stuff. And this went on
00:28:31.320 for months and months and months. And finally he just said, I can't find a priest that's willing
00:28:35.560 to marry two divorcees. And I said, what are we going to do? And he said, uh, you know, I, I said,
00:28:44.220 maybe we should think of something else. Maybe we should go and get married on a beach.
00:28:47.500 And he said, look, um, I'm going to go to Rome and call in a favor. And I said, what do you mean?
00:28:53.340 And he said, I'm going to go to the Vatican. Now, as ridiculous as that sounds, he had told me that
00:28:59.220 he had done consulting work at the Vatican, which again, as absurd as it sounds on the one hand also
00:29:04.760 made sense. This is one of the world's leading cardiothoracic surgeons. This is a man who's rumored
00:29:11.720 to be in contention for the Nobel prize, who is doing something that nobody else in the world is doing.
00:29:16.420 He's Italian. Why wouldn't he be called in to consult at the Vatican? And he had told me and
00:29:21.620 many other people that he had helped consult on the previous Pope's healthcare who actually had
00:29:27.100 his trachea taken out, had a tracheotomy. He did not say that he took care of him directly. He just
00:29:31.780 said that he was called to the Vatican to help. And I had heard other doctors talking about this.
00:29:36.860 I had seen paperwork talking about the work that Paolo had done at the Vatican. So this was not
00:29:43.200 so ridiculous. And that's when he told me, look, the Pope is one of my clients. He's one of my secret
00:29:50.240 celebrity clients and that I'm not allowed to tell anybody. So then he says, he's going to the Vatican
00:29:55.660 to ask him for help ostensibly finding us a priest to marry us. And that's when everything went crazy
00:30:02.760 town, because he calls me after this meeting. This was now October of 2014. And he says, look,
00:30:09.740 I have great news. They've agreed to help us. They'll find a priest that will marry us. And I
00:30:15.240 said, great. And he said, and there's something else, you know, and it's all so dramatic. He said,
00:30:19.500 sit down and all this nonsense. And he said, Pope Francis actually agreed to marry us himself.
00:30:24.820 And I said, oh, bullshit. You know, I said, the Pope doesn't even marry people. You know,
00:30:28.300 I thought he was playing some kind of game with me, to be honest. And I was so pissed off.
00:30:32.120 And I actually hung the phone up on him. And I went straight to my desk. I was at work and I
00:30:37.680 literally Googled, does the Pope marry people? But what popped up was one month earlier, September
00:30:43.540 of 2014, the Pope had married 20 couples in the Vatican. And these were all couples that were
00:30:48.740 quote unquote, living in sin, you know, that were not, had children out of wedlock or whatever.
00:30:53.200 So the Pope actually can marry people if he wants to. That's the first thing people think he can't,
00:30:58.820 he can, if he wants to. So it took some convincing, you know, it took about three,
00:31:03.660 four days, maybe a week, actually, of Paolo convincing me. And this was also very clever.
00:31:09.680 His argument to me was that because he was a Pope's personal private doctor,
00:31:14.380 and because this is this very forward thinking progressive Pope, that the Pope had been looking
00:31:20.760 for a couple of divorces, that he could use a sort of poster, a poster couple to marry publicly,
00:31:27.180 to make a statement that he was willing to open the doors of the Catholic Church to divorces. And
00:31:33.180 the Pope wanted to do Paolo a favor to thank him for being his private personal doctor. And we
00:31:39.980 now needed to do the Pope a favor and do this. And so it almost became not about us anymore. It wasn't
00:31:46.580 even about our wedding. Paolo made it sound like this was an obligation that by virtue of he wanted
00:31:52.540 to do this for the Pope. And by virtue of being his fiance, I had to go along for the ride. And I
00:31:57.460 needed to do this because this was going to I might not care because I'm not Catholic. But this would
00:32:02.100 help open the doors of the Catholic Church to, you know, divorces. And in that context,
00:32:09.200 it makes sense because, yes, this is not just like Joe Schmoe, who exactly Olive Garden saying that
00:32:16.400 the Pope wants to perform the wedding. Exactly. Well, that's what I always say. It's not like I
00:32:21.080 woke up one day and he went, hey, the Pope's going to marry us. And I went, oh, great. You know,
00:32:24.780 it just it just didn't happen like that. You know, you know, he had credentials that could
00:32:29.480 potentially make that an actual thing, or at least some of them were real and some of them were fake.
00:32:34.880 But he had been laying the foundation for you to believe all of this, this level of lie
00:32:39.740 for months. Right. So it's not as outlandish as it seems. What I don't understand what I so I
00:32:47.700 understood all that. Like I saw how he how he got you. What I don't understand is now with retrospect,
00:32:52.800 can you say, why would he do that? Like, I get why he would woo you and try to reel you in. But why
00:33:02.260 take it to that far potentially catastrophic level? It was unnecessary. Why? Why do you think
00:33:10.100 he complete all of it was unnecessary? And it just kept growing and growing. I don't know. I can't
00:33:16.760 get inside the man's head. You know, I'm not I'm not an expert. I can't diagnose him. I believe
00:33:21.380 he's at a minimum a pathological liar. I think he's probably also a sociopath. And he's an extreme
00:33:29.400 narcissist. And I think people like that don't really have a plan. I think they get a sick rush
00:33:36.800 out of the lie. You know, they get a high out of it, out of getting away with it. And they
00:33:42.200 they're they keep they usually do get away with it. Right. And so and the more they get away with,
00:33:47.840 the more they want to up the ante and the bigger the high. It's like a drug. And so they don't have
00:33:53.800 a plan. They're just kind of putting one foot in front of the other. And it's like a game,
00:33:57.100 you know, and I think they just think somehow they're going to wiggle the way out of this,
00:34:00.980 because usually they do. Yes, because he did not need to propose to you in the first place.
00:34:07.660 You know, he could have rolled along. As you said, it kind of happened soon. He could have just been
00:34:10.420 rolled rolling along in a relationship if he just wanted you to be close and in his corner.
00:34:15.020 And he certainly didn't need to come up with this. We're going to get none of it, you know,
00:34:19.260 at the pope's private residence by the pope himself. Like, it was so extraordinary.
00:34:24.240 And I completely agree with every word you said about the high they get. And I do think,
00:34:31.620 yes, it's no accident he chose you as an NBC News producer and somebody with access to,
00:34:36.320 you know, power and messaging that could be beneficial to him. But I also think your smarts
00:34:41.900 were part of the calculation. He enjoyed that. He liked that.
00:34:46.720 Exactly. That's part of the rush. I think they often target smart, intelligent women because that
00:34:52.400 is part of the rush. You know, if I can, if I can pull it over on her, you know, it just, and that
00:34:57.740 also going back to an earlier thing with all the extravagant, elaborate surprises he was doing,
00:35:04.500 I always thought that was for me, right? You know, the roses, the, the lavish trips, the everything.
00:35:11.200 And I now realize it wasn't for me at all. None of it. It was all about feeding his ego. You know,
00:35:16.360 when we went to a hotel and the staff was gushing because, you know, they had helped prepare the
00:35:21.920 room with all the roses and the champagne and women at desks were pulling me aside and saying,
00:35:27.520 you know, does he have a brother? How do I meet somebody like him? And I, it was all for show.
00:35:32.360 It's all for his ego. It's all about narcissism. None of it had to do with me,
00:35:36.760 me swooning over him and me being in awe of, you know, the adulation and just adoring him was just
00:35:46.640 feeding his narcissistic ego. It's in part, it's a conquest. He said, uh, Andrea Bocelli was going to
00:35:54.100 sing during the wedding service. I mean, right in line with all these extraordinary attendees. He said,
00:36:00.800 he said that, uh, among those who would be attending the wedding would include Mr. Mrs. Obama,
00:36:06.180 Mr. Mrs. Clinton, Sarkozy, Vladimir Putin. I mean, he really, but again, he's got actual
00:36:12.040 connections to all, he is performing these, you know, swing for the fence of surgeries in Russia.
00:36:17.240 So it's not, it, it sounds crazy now. We know it is crazy now, but yeah, she's built it up
00:36:23.660 appropriately. But then here's another big moment, uh, in anticipation of your move to Europe to be his
00:36:31.280 wife. Uh, you on May 13th left your job at NBC and notified your daughter's school that she would
00:36:38.420 not be coming back. I know this maybe seems small ball in the grants, but like he let you quit your
00:36:45.240 job. He let you pull your daughter out of school. Exactly. Exactly. And it was a very difficult decision
00:36:54.960 for me to make. I mean, I loved my job. You know, I had a very, very successful career. I never,
00:36:59.620 if you had told me before I met Paulo that I would give up everything to write off into the sunset with
00:37:04.880 Mr. Charming, I would have laughed at you. You know, I mean, I'm not that kind of person. I've
00:37:08.500 never been, you know, the kind of, you're a news producer. Yeah. It's a bunch of cynical mofos in
00:37:14.460 this business. And that's the only way you can be a good news producer. Exactly. You know,
00:37:19.020 the Cinderella shit is not for me. So I just, and it was a difficult decision, but it seemed like
00:37:24.880 the right thing to do. I was very cognizant of what my daughter was going through after having
00:37:29.960 lost her dad. And I thought Paulo, he was never going to replace her dad, but he seemed to be
00:37:36.260 a good man and somebody that would be good for both of us. He promised to take care of both of us for
00:37:42.380 the rest of our lives. And I thought this would be a good new start for us. And so I made this difficult
00:37:47.880 decision to, to leave my job and, and even uprooting my daughter, you know, what children
00:37:56.020 need after something traumatic and tragic like that is, you know, consistency and normalcy. And I was
00:38:02.480 pulling her away from everything that she knew. And he allowed me to do that. He sat in front of my
00:38:08.160 daughter. This still burns me to this day, talking about the school he had enrolled her in, in
00:38:14.040 Barcelona and the life she was going to live in Barcelona and on and on and on about this in
00:38:18.520 Barcelona. And then in Barcelona, how the hell you do that to a child who just lost her dad to brain
00:38:23.700 cancer is beyond me. But yeah, he took it to such extreme lengths, you know, and the whole time.
00:38:31.160 But of course, you know, what we, what we know is that at the same time he was doing this,
00:38:36.900 he was killing people. So just when you get to this point of the story where you're like, how could
00:38:41.580 he, how could he let you give up your amazing career and pull your daughter who was already
00:38:46.540 having a tough time in the loss of her dad from a school she knew and a life she knew and a friendship
00:38:51.420 network she had. He was killing people. He was recklessly killing person after person,
00:38:57.940 lying about successes that had never been there. And I'm going to get to that next, but before we
00:39:03.720 leave this lane, so that was May 13th, 2014, um, that 2015 now, 2015, 2015, sorry, 2015. And the next
00:39:15.040 day, May 14th was the day it all started to come down because you got an email from a friend. Tell us.
00:39:24.520 Yeah. And before I tell that, just to back up very quickly, I think we had been arguing for a good four
00:39:31.620 months at that point. And one of the things we had been arguing about was I had never been to the
00:39:37.360 house in Barcelona. He had flown me and my daughter all over the world, all these beautiful trips, but
00:39:42.760 every single time we were supposed to go to Barcelona, the trip got canceled at the last
00:39:47.240 minute because he had an emergency surgery. This happened three, four times. I think one time I was
00:39:52.160 actually at the airport when the trip got canceled and it was a huge source of contention. I said,
00:39:57.600 you know, I'm not marrying you without seeing the house where I'm supposed to be living after
00:40:01.480 the wedding, without my daughter seeing the house where she's supposed to be living. I mean,
00:40:05.060 who, who would do that? Who would marry a man without seeing the place where they're going to
00:40:08.220 live? So we had been arguing a lot about that. And there were other little things that were starting
00:40:14.180 to nag at me, but not huge red flags. You know, it wasn't like somebody was waving a giant flag on a
00:40:21.080 football field saying alert, alert on man. But I think there were at that point, little things that
00:40:26.600 were nagging at my gut that I was pushing down because I think I didn't want to face the fact
00:40:31.940 that I was starting to realize that something was wrong. And then the day after I left NBC,
00:40:38.060 I had a group of girlfriends that took me to a spa because they knew what a difficult decision it was
00:40:42.980 for me to leave NBC. And I come out of the spa, we'd been in there laughing for hours. We had put our
00:40:48.680 phones away and I pull out my phone. I'm at the desk paying and it's an email from a colleague. And the
00:40:54.460 subject line just says the Pope. And it's a link to an article that says the Pope is going to be in
00:41:00.380 South America on the date of our wedding, which was July 11th, 2015. And that the trip had been
00:41:06.260 planned for a very long time. The second, I mean, the second I read that article, you know, all those
00:41:12.900 little red flags that had been sort of bubbling up that I guess I had been ignoring all exploded.
00:41:18.340 And I just felt sick. And I, in that second, I knew, I just thought, you know, this fucker is
00:41:26.640 lying to me about everything. This man is lying to me about everything. Everything's a lie. I knew it.
00:41:30.600 I didn't have all the evidence. I didn't know by any stretch yet the extent of it, but yeah,
00:41:36.480 it was just a moment of, I mean, I almost fell over in the spa. I just felt ill.
00:41:41.300 Wow. Wow. Were your girlfriends there? Do they remember the moment? Did you share it immediately
00:41:47.520 or were you embarrassed? No, they immediately, they just said, you know, Benita, what happened?
00:41:53.020 What's the matter? You know, and I could barely talk. And a couple of them came back to my apartment
00:41:58.680 with me. It was still early in the morning and I was just pacing back and forth and trying to figure
00:42:03.020 it out. And they were so sweet because they kept trying to say, well, maybe it's not as bad as you
00:42:07.200 think it is. And maybe there's an explanation and maybe there'll still be a wedding. And, you know,
00:42:11.720 you never really wanted the Pope to marry you in the first place, which is true.
00:42:15.820 But I kind of knew, and I called him, of course, immediately. I called him, texted him. And
00:42:21.520 of course he denied everything. You know, he immediately said, I don't know, you know,
00:42:25.660 I just found this out myself and I'm going to get to the bottom of it. And it's a misunderstanding,
00:42:29.720 you know, blah, blah. But I knew from that moment, I knew that he was lying to me.
00:42:33.460 You did. That was it. The before and after moment.
00:42:38.160 It's almost like, again, I think it was those little red flags. It's sort of been bubbling
00:42:43.620 under the surface and I had been uncomfortable for a while, but couldn't quite figure out what
00:42:48.600 it was. I mostly attributed it to leaving NBC and to my daughter, but I think it was much deeper than
00:42:55.860 that. I think at some level I knew, you know, long before I actually knew.
00:43:00.000 So at this point, you've already sent out the invitations for the wedding and you've said,
00:43:03.980 it's going to be at the Pope's. Like we're going to, like you've, we are eight weeks out.
00:43:09.060 We are eight weeks out from the wedding to the day almost. Cause it was, yeah, May 14th,
00:43:13.300 July 15th. People had bought plane tickets. We had almost 300 people coming from all over the world.
00:43:20.240 My family's from Australia. We had people coming from Australia, from Europe, all over the place.
00:43:24.560 They had spent thousands of dollars on fancy red carpet attire and booked hotels and, and
00:43:32.280 everything, you know, this thing was, he had taken it that far, you know, this, this, it's ridiculous.
00:43:38.580 It's insane.
00:43:39.380 Don't you wonder, I'm sure you wonder. So it just happened that a friend, uh, you know,
00:43:44.120 who's paying attention to news events, like, uh, like the Pope's schedule saw this and realized it
00:43:50.260 was BS, but what do you think he had? Yeah. Well, what do you've done? What do you've seen
00:43:56.880 it through and just come up with an excuse at the last minute for why it's not the Pope and we're
00:44:01.320 not at the Pope's private residence and done it like a fake marriage. You know, the only thing I
00:44:06.460 can think of is because I've asked myself this question so many times, it's one of the big money
00:44:10.720 questions. You know, what, what was his end game? You know, this had to implode. He was literally lying
00:44:15.780 about everything. He created an entire fake fantasy wedding. It turned out he had told me he
00:44:21.600 was divorced. He wasn't even divorced. So he couldn't have legally married me in the first
00:44:25.360 place. So this never could have happened if he had allowed everybody, you know, I mean, 300 people
00:44:31.940 descend in Italy, in Italy thinking they're going to this, you know, lavish wedding. The only thing I
00:44:37.320 can think of is that he would have said there's some kind of security threat, right? You know,
00:44:41.840 there's been a death threat on the Pope's life or one of the dignitaries or celebrities that
00:44:46.300 were supposed to be coming. We can't, it's too dangerous. It's too controversial. We can't have
00:44:50.220 this wedding. But even if he had done that, what was he going to do with me? What was he going to do
00:44:55.760 with my daughter? You know, I'm there with my bags packed in my wedding dress and I think I'm moving
00:44:59.600 to Barcelona. I have no idea how the hell he thought he was getting out of this. It's like, part of me
00:45:05.440 wishes it had played out like that just so we could see, just so we could know. Yeah, because
00:45:11.520 it's true. It's true. You know, there was, there was never a wedding scheduled. The Pope had nothing
00:45:16.280 to do with it and he couldn't marry you because he was already married, which again, in retrospect,
00:45:22.140 now the proposal, sending out invitations, the recklessness of it, Benita. Oh yeah, I know.
00:45:30.200 Recklessness. Wow. And of course it would get much worse. I mean, I, and ultimately I'd find out
00:45:35.120 he was juggling four families at the same time. Wait, what? I didn't see that. I did not see that in the
00:45:40.920 earlier pieces. I know about the one wife because eventually you and your girlfriends and I love
00:45:45.820 your girlfriends. They're the best friends. That's a wonderful story, but they take you like
00:45:52.360 the best girlfriends would to Barcelona on what would have been your wedding day. And you've got
00:45:56.980 a fake wig on and the girls go up to his front door, ring the doorbell and he comes down and it
00:46:03.880 turns out, Oh, we have this actually, we have this clip. Let's, let's play it so we can watch a bit of it.
00:46:08.760 Okay. Nancy and Lee just knocked on his door and I saw him come down the steps with his
00:46:14.960 dog. Asshole. He's there. Not in fucking Russia.
00:46:21.960 Oh, no.
00:46:22.960 Hola, Paola, como está?
00:46:24.560 Hola, Paola, como está?
00:46:24.660 Sí.
00:46:25.360 Hola, Paola, como está?
00:46:25.560 ¿Qué?
00:46:26.060 ¿Qué?
00:46:26.560 ¿Qué?
00:46:27.560 ¿Qué?
00:46:28.560 Sí, señor?
00:46:29.560 ¿Estamos pasando por aquí?
00:46:30.560 ¿Estamos pasando por aquí?
00:46:31.560 ¿Estamos pasando por aquí?
00:46:32.560 ¿Estamos pasando por aquí?
00:46:33.560 No sé lo que está pasando.
00:46:35.560 I'm not sure what's going on, but...
00:46:37.560 Two little kids coming down the stairs.
00:46:41.560 Yeah, so that was the day you learned not only does he have a wife already, but two young
00:46:56.560 kids, which is what stopped you, I think, from going to the door yourself.
00:47:00.560 When I met him, he told me that he had been separated from his Italian wife for a very
00:47:08.860 long time. So I knew from the beginning, there's a lot of misunderstanding about this,
00:47:11.860 that he had a wife. He had two children who at the time were, I think, 19 and 20, who were
00:47:16.940 actually supposed to be coming to the wedding. And he said that they had been living separate
00:47:20.940 lives for many years, which was well documented. He lived in Barcelona, had been for years. She
00:47:25.640 lived in Italy. And I mean, I met the man's mother, I spoke to his sister, his sister's,
00:47:32.640 his niece was supposed to be one of our flower girls. So this was no secret. He just told
00:47:37.860 me that they had never gotten divorced because it's Italy and they're Catholic and it's complicated.
00:47:41.740 But he told me when he met me, that now he finally wanted to get divorced. And that was
00:47:46.580 why he proposed, because he said he had filed for divorce and that the divorce was going through.
00:47:50.840 So I knew there was that wife. I knew about her. I'd seen pictures of her, everything.
00:47:55.980 The woman in Barcelona, when I went to the house in Barcelona, I went there because once I figured
00:48:01.620 out he was lying, I went into hyper investigative mode. It's kind of like I woke up out of my love
00:48:07.560 haze, you know, and, you know, woke up and put my journalist hat back on. And I just went nuts. I mean,
00:48:13.080 I was investigating, I hired two private investigators, one here in the US, one in Italy. And I mean,
00:48:20.020 my bedroom looked like something out of a Law & Order episode. There were binders everywhere. I was
00:48:24.520 trying to figure everything out. And for me, the last piece of the puzzle was Barcelona. I mean,
00:48:29.480 clearly there was a good reason he had never let me go to that house. And so that's why we decided to
00:48:34.400 go there. And it was part sort of a fuck you girl, you know, fun girls trip. And which is why I got this
00:48:43.500 hideous blonde wig, which I didn't really know if I would need, but I didn't, wasn't sure what I was
00:48:47.540 going to find in that house. So I ordered this cheap blonde wig on Amazon and we went to the
00:48:53.860 house. And one funny thing about that is when I put in the address for the house, he had given me an
00:48:59.860 address for the house in Barcelona so people could send wedding gifts. It was a bogus address. So I
00:49:05.260 had to find the right address. He didn't even, he didn't even give me the right address for the house.
00:49:08.800 So he had no idea I was coming and I wanted it to be a surprise attack, so to speak, you know,
00:49:14.800 that he, and he, he claimed he was in Russia, which is why you hear me saying that in the video.
00:49:19.380 And at the time I'm still talking to him. Right. So I, when I first discovered that he was lying,
00:49:24.420 I made an almost immediate decision that, okay, this man is never going to tell me the truth about
00:49:31.100 everything. I realize now that he's a pathological liar and I wanted hard, indisputable, irrefutable
00:49:39.000 evidence before I confronted him. Because one of the things that goes along with this, of course,
00:49:43.920 is gaslighting. These con artists, including Paolo are very good. If you question them
00:49:49.380 about muddying the waters and making you think that you're the one who's crazy for asking them
00:49:54.180 questions. They're so good at it. It's rapid fire. They have an answer for everything. And so
00:49:58.620 I decided I'm not confronting him until I have all my ducks in a row. And I know every single lie
00:50:05.400 I've uncovered everything. And so I had to play kind of a game with him. I, I called off the wedding
00:50:10.680 and luckily for me, he was being investigated at the time for scientific misconduct. Uh, it was
00:50:17.580 sort of the beginning of the revelations about his medical lies. And it was very convenient timing
00:50:22.780 because his, he was having a very difficult time in Sweden. And I just said, look, you know, there's
00:50:27.140 too much going on right now. Let's just call off the wedding and postpone it. And he must have breathed
00:50:31.420 such a sigh of relief when I did that. I got him off the hook, but it was also the perfect
00:50:35.800 excuse to cancel the wedding. And that's all I told all our wedding guests as well.
00:50:40.460 And so I'm still talking to him, you know, he's, I'm still talking to him, still saying,
00:50:44.440 I love you, which killed me and playing along as if we were going to reconvene the wedding at some
00:50:51.320 point. So he had no idea I was coming to that house and a, he wasn't in Russia. So that was the
00:50:57.960 first thing that pissed me off. He had just texted me, texted me that morning.
00:51:00.880 So when you, when we see that video of you and your friends in Barcelona,
00:51:03.660 he was still under the delusion that you were fooled and you guys were still together.
00:51:07.920 Correct. Correct. Okay. All right. Okay. Keep going.
00:51:11.340 I mean, he had some idea I had been grilling him. I had been telling him for a long time that
00:51:15.340 I thought he was lying, but I still, he, I think he still thought he had me under his thumb and he
00:51:19.540 was going to bring me back around and that the wedding was just being postponed. He had no idea
00:51:23.960 that I was onto him or that I knew that he was not really divorced, any of that, or that I knew
00:51:31.060 everything about the wedding was fake. And I kind of expected to find another woman in that house.
00:51:39.200 I wasn't sure if it would be the Italian wife or somebody else. I was prepared for that.
00:51:43.540 And my girlfriends and I had, we had been through several different scenarios, you know,
00:51:47.320 what if he's there? What if someone else is there, blah, blah. And the reason I sent them to the door
00:51:51.960 without me was I wanted them to sort of do the initial reconnaissance and see what was going on
00:51:57.400 before I came down. And if he was there, I had planned, I fully intended to confront him.
00:52:04.780 But what happened happens is he comes to the door. So first of all, he's there.
00:52:09.800 And then I see, even from, I'm sitting in the car at the top of the hill, he can't see me.
00:52:14.160 And I see a woman and two young children come out on the veranda of the house. And even from where I
00:52:20.660 am, I can hear them calling him dad. And this is a young woman. This is not his Italian wife. I know
00:52:25.840 exactly what his Italian wife looks like. So this is when I completely lose it and fall apart because
00:52:31.200 this is another family. This is a third family, you know, it's the Italian wife. He never divorced.
00:52:36.280 It's me and my daughter in New York. And now here in Barcelona, the real reason he never let us come
00:52:41.060 to Barcelona is because he's hiding another family here. And it was the children that sent me over
00:52:47.560 the edge. I mean, I, another woman, okay. At that point I was prepared for that, but the kids and
00:52:52.960 little kids, they were about five and seven years old. I was wholly unprepared for that. And
00:52:58.500 that's when I lost it. I mean, you see in the video, I just, I think I had been investigating for
00:53:05.020 a couple of months at that point. And I had not dealt with any of the heartache, the devastation,
00:53:10.740 and I just fall apart. I just, I'm screaming, I'm kicking, I'm wailing, I'm calling him every name
00:53:16.600 under the sun. It was just devastating. It was just, I, you know, he just took it so far. It just
00:53:25.140 was sort of incomprehensible to me that you had been sitting here, that you let me think I'm moving
00:53:30.560 here with my daughter and you planned this whole fake wedding. You let me quit my job. So much was
00:53:36.460 at stake. You let me pull my daughter out of her school. You let me give up my entire life. And
00:53:42.200 the whole time you're hiding another family here. And the whole time, you know, none of this is ever
00:53:47.240 going to happen. Gosh, it's just so devastating. It's crazy. It's crazy. I spoke with a friend
00:53:55.320 once whose husband had betrayed her and she did what almost every woman does, which is start to
00:54:03.860 obsess over his phone records and anything she could get her hands on. Right. Just to know she knew,
00:54:09.740 she knew it, you know, it was, she knew, but she needed the details. She needed the specifics and
00:54:16.100 she needed to know, you know, when and how long and how many times. And I said to her, you know,
00:54:21.840 it's, it's almost like in the Catholic faith, when somebody dies, they have the wake and you go to the
00:54:30.320 wake. And even though many Catholics and non-Catholics especially find it kind of very jarring,
00:54:36.260 what a jarring tradition to go and see the dead body. If it's an open casket, you know, what kind
00:54:41.160 of a tradition is this? What is, why would you do this to yourself? And I get that reaction very much,
00:54:46.860 but there is something, I don't know if the word's cathartic, if there's something necessary
00:54:53.220 for many people in seeing the dead body. It's like the beginning of coming to terms with what's really
00:55:01.540 happened and how your life has changed from what you thought it was a day earlier, a couple of days
00:55:06.040 earlier. And I almost see the behavior you're describing on your part as part of that process
00:55:10.460 for you. Like it's got, you've got to make it real for yourself. So acceptance can come a hundred
00:55:16.560 percent. And I think that's why the house in Barcelona was the last piece of the puzzle for me.
00:55:21.240 I mean, at that point, I already knew that he wasn't divorced. I already knew that, you know,
00:55:26.620 he had created this whole fake fantasy wedding. I mean, everything about it, you know, every place
00:55:32.660 he said was booked the caterer, the, this, the, that none of them had ever heard of us. Um, I knew
00:55:37.900 that he didn't know a damn one of these dignitaries or celebrities he claimed was coming to the wedding
00:55:42.600 or he claimed he was, you know, the personal, personal doctor too. He sure as hell was not the
00:55:47.540 Pope's personal private doctor. I mean, the Vatican practically laughed at me. Um, but for me,
00:55:53.560 the, the last piece of the puzzle was Barcelona. And that was the thing that just sort of, and that's
00:55:59.160 when I can finally confronted him. Hmm. Wait, can, before we get to conversation, who is the fourth
00:56:04.900 family? You see her actually in the Netflix special. So after, um, the older, after, um,
00:56:13.780 she's, she's younger. She, Anna Paula, she comes in the third episode. So after I went public,
00:56:19.560 which I, I do shortly after this, she contacted me and it turns out that she, and her story is just
00:56:26.300 horrific because her son died. Um, he was a patient of Paulo's. He did not have a plastic trachea,
00:56:32.860 but he did operate on him. Her son dies in Italy. There's an investigation into manslaughter. So
00:56:39.180 Paulo's facing manslaughter charges in Italy. So what does he do? He seduces her and basically so that
00:56:45.780 she will drop the charges, which she does. And then he gets her pregnant and she has a child
00:56:51.020 that's born with him basically right around the time that he's proposing to me. So that's four
00:56:56.600 families that I know about, you know, it's, it's the Italian wife. He never divorced. It's me and my
00:57:01.320 daughter in New York. It's the woman and the two kids in the house in Barcelona. And then this other
00:57:05.980 poor woman in Italy that he has a child with. Oh my God. It's like, in a way you got away.
00:57:12.940 Oh yeah. You know, which is interesting because he really wanted to have a child. He was desperate
00:57:19.480 to have a child and that would be such a nightmare. I'm just so glad that never happened.
00:57:24.740 I know. So can we talk about the confrontation? Because I know that after, hold on, I pulled the
00:57:30.500 email because I know that, um, after you canceled the wedding, you emailed him and, and it reads as
00:57:37.700 follows. I believed you were exactly who you presented yourself to be to me, to my friends
00:57:43.720 and family, to the world. Congratulations. You charm me and all of us into la la land.
00:57:50.000 I will never ever understand how you could have done this to me or to your daughter. Uh, who the hell
00:57:56.060 are you and what the hell is wrong with you? But this is not the confrontation to which you refer.
00:58:02.300 No, it is. So that was the first part of the confrontation. This was by text. Actually,
00:58:07.420 when we left the house in Barcelona, we went to a place that had wifi. Keep in mind, he had no idea
00:58:13.620 that I was there. He knew my friends were there. He couldn't get rid of them fast enough. Um,
00:58:18.620 and they told him, Hey, look, you know, we, the wedding got canceled so close to the wedding day.
00:58:23.940 We, as a lot of people did, we decided to come to Italy anyway on vacation. And we just dropped by to
00:58:29.300 bring you a wedding gift. That was their excuse for knocking at the doorbell,
00:58:32.640 which the whole thing was so suspicious, right? Because ostensibly he and I are still getting
00:58:37.400 married and we're still talking and he didn't invite them in. He could not get rid of them
00:58:42.480 fast enough. He just wanted them to leave. But anyway, we get to this restaurant and I write
00:58:47.020 him a text that's literally about this long. I mean, what you read is just one part of it and
00:58:51.560 called him every name under the sun, named everything that I knew he was lying about. And,
00:58:57.820 you know, just called him a despicable, disgusting human being, told him I hated him and et cetera,
00:59:04.700 et cetera. And I think it took him about 10, 15 minutes to reply. And he wrote back one word.
00:59:12.000 Wow. That's all I said. Wow. Unsatisfactory. Well, I think he was caught, right? What was,
00:59:21.040 what was there to say? Game over. There's nothing to say. He's caught. I want more.
00:59:24.260 I want me to see his face and see him, I don't know, beg for forgiveness or I want to see him
00:59:32.700 ashamed. I know that the man has no shame or empathy or remorse or any of the other things,
00:59:39.000 but yeah. We're never going to see that. Was there ever any more contact?
00:59:42.820 Um, yes. And 20. So what happens right after this is I'm devastated, of course. Um, but almost
00:59:52.680 immediately I had whatever you want to call it, an epiphany or whatever you want to call it. But I
00:59:58.500 thought, Oh my God, you know, if he's lying to me like this and creating fake relationships with the
01:00:05.320 Pope and with, you know, celebrities and dignitaries and presidents and creating a whole fake fantasy
01:00:12.020 wedding and allowing people to book tickets and spend money and allowing me to quit my job and
01:00:18.120 quit their jobs and their schools. Yeah. All of it. If he's doing all of that and we'll go that far,
01:00:23.820 there's no way, there's no way in hell. He's not also lying in his medical and professional life.
01:00:28.540 It can't be. And that thought was so horrifying to me because I, you know, he has people's lives
01:00:34.160 in his hands. You know, he's doing something revolutionary and groundbreaking and people
01:00:40.080 think the man walks on water. And I thought, shit, you know, I have to tell my story. I have to go
01:00:46.460 public. I have to expose him. I almost felt an obligation to do it. I thought, you know, maybe this
01:00:53.240 happened to me because I know how to do this. You know, if, if, if I need to go public, if I need to
01:00:58.020 tell my story, it's not going to be pretty, it's not going to be fun, but I know what to do. And
01:01:03.660 I need to do this. The world needs to know who Dr. Paolo Macchiarini is. And it wasn't vindictive.
01:01:11.280 It wasn't about revenge. It was simply about sounding the warning alarm that, you know,
01:01:16.920 this man is a fraud. This man is a con. He's not who you think he is. And so I very, very quickly
01:01:24.320 connected through a friend with a reporter at Vanity Fair who told me that he could do it,
01:01:30.100 he could do it quickly, which is what I wanted. And so this is July of 2014. And the article came out
01:01:35.960 in January of 2016, my story. And I did not know this when I went public and when I decided to do
01:01:44.700 the story, but within a week of me, my story coming out in Vanity Fair, a scathing documentary
01:01:51.100 came out in Sweden called The Experiments, which exposed all his medical lies. And it was
01:01:57.140 actually worse than I feared. I mean, watching that documentary was one of the most difficult
01:02:03.200 things I've ever had to do because it was so obvious that he blatantly used people as human
01:02:10.040 guinea pigs that he knew, I believe from the beginning that this thing he was transplanting
01:02:16.120 into them would never work. It was, it was a plastic tube that might as well have been a straw.
01:02:21.000 He knew damn well, it wasn't going to work. And he did it anyway. He, and it just, it's just so
01:02:27.320 obvious how reckless this man is and how dangerous he is. And it was the combination of the two things
01:02:33.420 that sort of blew everything up because now you have these insane, you know, over the top,
01:02:39.260 egregious lies in his personal life, coupled with this evidence that he's been lying in the medical
01:02:45.700 arena. And the two things were what finally blew everything up.
01:02:50.460 The, that lane of the story well covered in all the pieces I mentioned,
01:02:54.520 as disturbing as your piece that is, is the most.
01:02:57.800 Oh, it's horrific. It's way worse than what happened to me. I mean, there's just,
01:03:01.640 what happened to me is nothing.
01:03:02.880 But it's a similar pattern. It's a similar pattern if you look at it, right? In well-meaning,
01:03:07.280 earnest, kind people in some turmoil, trusting him, trusting him. Yeah. Trusting him to do right by
01:03:18.460 them, to take care of them, to see them through, you know, the most difficult times of their life,
01:03:24.660 wooed by his bedside manner, which we discussed and his credentials and all of these institutions
01:03:29.880 around him, vouching for him. Exactly. Only in their cases, it was a deadly mistake. And amazingly,
01:03:37.800 there are still some families still believing in him, even after their loved ones died in his care.
01:03:46.640 And I can only think they have to do that just as a self-protection mechanism. Like they just have to
01:03:52.560 say, we didn't put our loved one in the hands of a madman. You know, we did something smart and we took
01:03:59.460 a calculated risk. And I just, when I, as I see the people in like the Netflix documentary wrestling
01:04:04.420 with it, well, no, it's okay. You know, we're still grateful to him. All I can think is that's,
01:04:09.040 that's something other than acceptance. That's, I believe that too. I think
01:04:14.400 Paolo was very good at convincing the families when patients died, that the patients were pioneers,
01:04:21.160 you know, and they would sort of live in history as pioneers who helped him help pave the way for a
01:04:28.700 better, better medical future. And that's a much nicer thing to think than you put your loved one in
01:04:34.860 the hands of a madman who is reckless and dangerous and a murderer, quite frankly, probably a serial
01:04:42.380 killer. And I think for some of these patients, families, you know, who had been so desperate and
01:04:52.000 especially Hannah's family, you know, they, they thought Paolo was the answer to their prayers.
01:04:59.160 They thought he was their last hope. They believed in him. They, they put so much into that and they
01:05:04.300 sought him out. And I think that's the other thing. A lot of these people found Dr. MacIarini on the
01:05:09.140 internet, you know, they did a Google search and that's how they found him. So, you know, the, to deal
01:05:14.880 with the death of your loved one, especially a child. And then on top of that, you sought out the
01:05:20.360 person, you know, that probably killed her. I don't, I think that's just too much to wrap your head
01:05:25.360 around. Yep. It would be for me. There's Chris Liles, whose story is heartbreaking, a 30 year old
01:05:33.260 man, electrical engineer from Maryland. And he was diagnosed with cancer, but heard of Paolo MacIarini.
01:05:43.060 And he did the procedure on Chris and Chris, like all the others who kept that fake trachea
01:05:52.960 in died. Here's a bit on him from the piece. Saw three.
01:06:00.060 We didn't see Paolo that much. He was flying this place. He was flying that place. He had, um, one of his
01:06:08.800 assistants look after Chris. If you're okay, Chris. Yeah. Don't try to hold it.
01:06:16.800 Very soon after surgery, Chris Liles gained an infection in the airway. So he started to cough
01:06:22.160 enormously hard. This, you know, really, really deep cough. He got mucus clots in the airways.
01:06:30.540 They did. What also happened was he got an infection in this wound. So he had a quite
01:06:39.300 dramatic post-operative, early post-operative period. But it was a little bit unusual that
01:06:44.340 you get the infection. So early on after surgery.
01:06:48.480 And he had a young daughter.
01:06:51.440 Horrible.
01:06:51.640 And the family died. And the family continues to stand by Paolo.
01:06:56.120 No, actually, no, not anymore. They did initially. Yeah, they did. They, they finally came around
01:07:02.560 and realized, you know, initially they still stood by him, but now, no, now they know.
01:07:09.580 Yeah.
01:07:10.040 They were in the Netflix piece sounding like, well, you know, Chris, he was terminal. And so
01:07:15.420 it was a risk we decided to take. But that's interesting. Was it after they saw the compilation
01:07:19.780 of stories, you know, that they realized how Chris fit into the story? Or what, what do you think
01:07:25.720 did it for them?
01:07:28.100 You know, I think it just takes time. And I think it's the same for any of the people that
01:07:33.780 Dr. Macchiarini fooled. I mean, we're talking some of the, the world's most prestigious, esteemed
01:07:40.200 institutions, doctors, scientists. I mean, he pulled the wool over so many people's eyes. It's not just
01:07:46.080 me and the other women in his life. It's not just the patients and their families. I mean,
01:07:51.380 so many people. And I think it's a very, very difficult thing, A, to admit that you got fooled,
01:07:58.280 but B, to wrap your head around the fact that this man who you thought was either the answer to your,
01:08:07.020 your, your patient, you know, your loved one dying, or was, you know, in the case of Carolyn's
01:08:13.300 Get Sweeting, bringing you all kinds of accolades and money and esteem. It's just very difficult to
01:08:19.060 wrap your head around the fact that Dr. Paolo Macchiarini is not who you thought he was and that
01:08:24.580 he's exactly the opposite of who you thought he was. And I, I think it just takes time.
01:08:30.600 And that you may have entrusted your loved one to a madman, to somebody with empathy,
01:08:34.760 who may be a sociopath. The, um, the case out of Russia, also disturbing. We've mentioned his
01:08:42.740 contacts there on this young ballerina, ballerina, uh, whose name was Yulia. Yeah. He performed her
01:08:50.200 surgery in 2012. And there's a bit of Paolo talking about her in the piece, young, beautiful. She was
01:08:56.460 not, she was not terminal. Um, no, she did not need the surgery. And she begged him actually,
01:09:02.500 they actually had a lottery in Russia because he was looking for quote unquote, healthy patients to
01:09:07.380 try this procedure on. She had been in a car accident. So she had a hole in her throat. She
01:09:11.940 had a tracheotomy, but she could have lived the rest of her life like that. And she begged,
01:09:15.860 she made a video begging Paolo to pick her and he picked her tragically. Here's a, here's a bit of
01:09:21.860 Paolo talking about her from the Netflix show, Badge Surgeon.
01:09:29.580 This is Yulia. When I met Yulia, she was not able to play with her child. It was a very emotional,
01:09:39.400 uh, moment for me. And I immediately said, this is the right patient. And I still do not believe that
01:09:47.080 a few days ago, she couldn't breathe and talk normally. So, um, she's a little bit, uh, afraid
01:09:55.040 of you. So please be very sweet.
01:09:58.480 You know, her case when I eat it out and around like us, like she was one of his success stories.
01:10:17.840 And as they point out in the piece, it was a lie. And indeed she died.
01:10:23.020 Yeah. And not only died, but they died horrible deaths. I mean, this plastic tube that was coated
01:10:29.140 in the patient's own stem cells was literally rotting inside their throats. So Yulia's mother
01:10:34.840 talks about the fact that she smelled horrifically because this thing was rotting. She smelled like
01:10:39.600 rotting fish because this thing was rotting inside her throat. And then they suffocated to death
01:10:44.380 because this thing disintegrated and rotted in their throats. It's not only did they die,
01:10:49.380 but it's, it's like a torturous death. It's, it's awful. And he kept doing it. He kept doing
01:10:57.360 exactly. Can you speak about the Institute doing good. Is it Carolina? What's it called in Sweden?
01:11:04.720 Karolinska. Karolinska. Okay. That was principally backing him for a while. He also had the Russian
01:11:10.080 Institute as well, but it seems like those doctors there were like, there are a couple of them who
01:11:16.640 are featured who turned out to be good guys who recognize what he was doing was very wrong
01:11:21.380 and started to blow the whistle on him. Yeah. I think, um, and what they did was very brave.
01:11:28.880 And as is typical with many whistleblowers, unfortunately they went through hell, you know,
01:11:33.440 it took them a long time to pull together all the evidence against him and they put their own careers
01:11:39.360 on the line. They were questioned. I mean, some of them were called into the police station. Some of them
01:11:43.960 were threatened with losing their jobs. Some of them have left Karolinska now and they went through
01:11:49.240 hell, but they started realizing slowly that this thing was not working, that the patients were
01:11:55.620 suffering and dying and that Paolo was lying in medical papers and very, very prestigious ones,
01:12:03.100 the new England journal of medicine among them about the results of the transplant. So he's standing
01:12:07.580 at press conference talk, press conferences, talking about how the patients are doing so beautifully
01:12:11.760 well. When in fact, behind the scenes, they're suffering and they're dying exactly the opposite
01:12:17.880 of what he was saying. And also he's publishing in these prestigious medical journals saying that,
01:12:23.060 you know, this thing is working beautifully and he's leaving data out. He's faking data. He's lying
01:12:27.840 about stuff. So they start piecing it all together and they spent some insane number of hours piecing all
01:12:33.860 the parts of the puzzle together. And at first, when they first went to Karolinska,
01:12:37.800 they were shunned. They were shooed away. Karolinska didn't want to hear it. And I think
01:12:42.720 it just speaks to what happens with somebody who's so cunning and so charming and so manipulative like
01:12:50.140 Dr. Paolo Macchiarini. It was, he was bringing in so much money to Karolinska and there was so much
01:12:58.080 promise and hope attached to this man. They were talking about building a whole institution around
01:13:02.860 him. He's getting grants. He's getting published in these prestigious journals. He's operating all
01:13:08.040 around the world. He's bringing them notoriety. So when somebody first comes to them and says,
01:13:13.620 you know what? This guy's not who you think he is. It was a very, very inconvenient truth.
01:13:19.560 Nobody wanted to hear it. And it's a massive crisis. You go from having a golden boy who's going to make
01:13:25.140 you a fortune and bring you nothing but accolades to having a potential criminal serial killer working
01:13:32.200 for you. Who's only going to bring you shame and condemnation. Exactly. Which is why I think
01:13:40.460 initially people tried to sweep it under the rug because it just, nobody wanted to deal with it.
01:13:45.760 But there were a couple of doctors there who just didn't allow that.
01:13:49.000 Oh, they were tenacious. Yeah. They were tenacious. Those, those whistleblowers refused to give up.
01:13:54.660 And I've now met them and I, they're, they're lovely guys. And we, um, I really admire what they did and
01:14:01.760 what they went through. Um, but they just refuse to give up. They, and they still do, you know,
01:14:07.600 like me, they still keep talking about him and none of us will stop until there's full justice,
01:14:12.760 which we still don't have. Well, that's the question because I think most people hearing the
01:14:18.220 story at this point are asking, please tell me he's in jail. Is he in jail? There have been some
01:14:24.340 criminal charges, but they haven't gone nothing nearly to the level of what we would want or what
01:14:31.500 we think he deserves. Can you talk about what's happened to him in the criminal lane?
01:14:35.660 Yes. He finally was in Sweden. They had tried going after him a few years ago and it is a difficult
01:14:42.940 case to prove because they're experimental procedures. So to prove that he knew that the
01:14:48.540 patients were going to die to prove that he did this intentionally is, is not so easy. So the first
01:14:52.800 time they tried to do it, they gave up, they sort of dropped the charges. Sweden was furious. This is,
01:14:58.660 this whole thing is a giant scandal in Sweden. And it's so embarrassing. I mean, people got fired,
01:15:04.220 people on the Nobel prize committee stepped down in shame. And so luckily another prosecutor came back
01:15:09.160 and said, no, I'm going to try again. And so he was on trial in 2022 and he got convicted of one count
01:15:17.260 of bodily harm. They could only go after him in Sweden for the three patients that were operated on
01:15:23.480 in Sweden, including Christopher Lyles, the U S patient. And then he appealed that. And so last year
01:15:30.800 there was an appeals trial and I think he was thinking he was going to get off. Well, instead the appeals
01:15:37.220 court came back hard and convicted him of three counts of aggravated assault on for all of the
01:15:43.760 patients that were operated on Sweden and sentenced him to 30 months behind bars. Of course he appeals
01:15:49.840 again, all the way to the Swedish Supreme court. But in October, the Supreme court came back and said,
01:15:55.120 no, we're not taking the case. The conviction stands. That was October. Here we are six months
01:16:02.040 later. The man's still not behind bars. It's crazy. He managed, this just came out last week to
01:16:08.720 negotiate with Swedish authorities that he wants to spend his time behind bars in Spain where he lives,
01:16:15.480 not in Sweden on house arrest. So he basically wants to sit at his damn house by the pool,
01:16:22.380 sipping cocktails. And that's how he thinks he's going to serve his 30 months, which is
01:16:26.160 just, I don't even know what word to use. It's so horrific and so unfair to those patients.
01:16:32.840 You know, it's just, that is not justice. So what are the likely, what are the odds that that's going
01:16:38.640 to happen? Pretty high. I think, I think now the Spanish, the Spanish authorities have to,
01:16:44.840 Sweden has basically washed their hands of him and said, no, serve your time in Spain. Spain has to agree
01:16:49.920 to it. So that's a more delay without him being behind bars. And if they agree to it,
01:16:55.660 I, you know, I think he will, I think he'll have an ankle bracelet and be sitting by his,
01:16:59.420 by his pool. The most important thing is that he's not allowed to do this to anybody else.
01:17:05.120 Has he lost his medical license? And even if he hasn't have, don't you, don't you think that the
01:17:10.320 Netflix show that your documentary, all the work you've been doing along with these doctors from
01:17:15.200 Karolinska have made his reemergence as a physician impossible? Yes. It's a, it's, I get
01:17:22.420 asked this all the time. It's a tricky question because there isn't one medical license to yank.
01:17:26.700 It's not like the U S in Europe. It's country by country. So if a country still allows him to operate
01:17:34.020 in, in Europe, he could in theory. But as you said, his reputation is clearly severely tarnished and,
01:17:42.180 you know, tanked and his, he's had a drastic, you know, crash from, from fame and notoriety.
01:17:49.420 So I doubt anybody would want him operating on them, but technically he still can.
01:17:56.800 He's making a documentary with his side. I can't wait. I'm actually really looking forward to that.
01:18:05.240 I hope you'll come back on after that hits. What on earth do you think that is going to look like?
01:18:12.180 He, because he's not behind bars, he has been doing interviews in Italy in the past months and
01:18:18.100 he did one, I think it was right before Christmas and I was on the show and his, he was not on,
01:18:22.980 but his attorney was not on and he's desperate. And the only thing that he can do at the moment is try
01:18:30.980 to muddy the waters and try to distract attention from his patients. And so he's going after me and
01:18:35.840 Anna Paula, the woman who also went public in the Netflix documentary, and he's just trying to victim
01:18:42.000 shame us, slut shame us, whatever he can, you know, he's just trying to throw dirt, you know,
01:18:46.900 and make up lies about us and, and muddy the waters and distract attention from the real issue,
01:18:53.640 which is that he killed people. And none of the things he's saying are true, but even if they were,
01:19:00.240 it wouldn't matter. You know, that's, it doesn't matter. You know, what matters is you use people
01:19:06.120 as human Guinea pigs. You broke all kinds of legal and ethical laws and recklessly destroyed people's
01:19:17.560 lives and you're killed people and patients lives without caring. So nothing else matters. So he's,
01:19:23.900 have there been massive civil suits against him? Somebody should own his bar, his Barcelona home other
01:19:28.320 than Paula. I know the Turkish family, um, that Turkish girl that you see on the Netflix documentary,
01:19:34.640 the one that had something like 200 surgeries. I mean, her, her case is so horrific. They've sued
01:19:39.860 him. I don't know the outcome of that yet. We need an American family to sue, but we're,
01:19:45.480 we're very good at suing. As you know, that's our forte here in America. Um, one of the American
01:19:50.880 families needs to sue for wrongful death and then they will own the home in Barcelona and whatever else he
01:19:56.240 has. That's, that's the true way of punishing somebody like him. He said to La Nazione, uh,
01:20:04.020 an Italian publication that wrote, wrote up his plan to do a new documentary. He said,
01:20:09.160 the deaths are glorified, meaning those he caused, but there is no mention of the lives saved. I was
01:20:16.840 crucified in an inhumane way. The history of transplants must be read. The initial phases are
01:20:22.840 always associated with high mortality, but despite this, they continued until they, until they become
01:20:30.980 almost routine operations. As for you, he said, she's the one who always lied. Okay. So we'll, we'll
01:20:40.600 look forward to him filling that out in his quote documentary. Um, I do want to talk to you about a
01:20:47.120 couple of things. The, the thing you lost your, your train of thought on that we were getting to was
01:20:52.040 contact you've had with him since, wow, since that text. So was it after all these pieces hit that you
01:21:00.100 and he? So in, in 2018, I made a film for discovery called he lied about everything. Um, after the
01:21:07.380 vanity fair article, which was just, I was, I was in such a state of post-traumatic stress when it, when
01:21:12.780 that article came out and I felt like it didn't fully encompass the whole story or my story. And
01:21:18.120 I wanted to tell it in my own words, which is why I did the documentary. And during the course of
01:21:23.420 making that documentary, I tried to find him. I traveled actually to Russia, to Italy, to several
01:21:28.920 places. I met with some of the families, um, including Yulia's husband, which was heartbreaking. Um,
01:21:36.000 and I couldn't find him. So finally I got him on the phone and it was such an interesting phone call
01:21:43.320 because I called from a phone that wasn't mine. So he didn't know it was me. And I had to tell him
01:21:48.740 that I was recording him obviously for legal reasons. But as soon as I said, I said, I said,
01:21:54.540 hi, Apollo, it's Benita. And immediately his voice, you know, that soft voice. Oh, hi, how are you?
01:22:02.120 And I thought this asshole, he, he thinks either he thinks I'm calling to reconcile or he thinks he
01:22:07.960 can get me again. He thinks he can, you know, pull me in again. It was just so disgusting. And
01:22:13.860 then I started, I, I, you know, I started finding questions at him. Why did you lie to me? Why did
01:22:18.420 you lie about this? And there was silence and you could, I, it was maybe a minute and you could almost
01:22:24.320 hear the cogs in his brain turning, thinking, okay, I'm being recorded. I think I'm supposed to say,
01:22:29.340 I'm sorry. And so after I shut up, he, he just says, I'm sorry. It was the lamest,
01:22:36.320 most insincere apology you've ever heard in your life. He sounded like a robot, you know,
01:22:40.260 he didn't mean it. And then I asked him some other question and then he hung up on me.
01:22:45.280 No. Yeah, that's it. That's the moment. It's up. It's over. You got me. Yeah. I have no need to
01:22:55.060 sing or dance anymore. Yeah. But of course now, now that he's, I think even then, I think all of
01:23:04.860 this time, he still thought he was going to get away with it. You know, he still thought somehow
01:23:09.440 he was going to crawl his way out of this and restore his reputation. And so I think this
01:23:15.140 prison sentence and the Supreme court refusing to take his case was a, was a hard awakening and
01:23:22.040 that's why he's desperate. And that's why he's doing all this stuff now and calling me a liar or
01:23:26.700 calling Anna a liar or what else can he do? You know, there's nothing else he can do.
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01:24:29.140 So let's talk about what we can figure out in his psychology and really warning signs for other
01:24:41.060 women, because you said at the top, which I wanted to follow up with you on, um, the thing about,
01:24:46.740 I believe he was gathering information to use against me from the start. So interesting. What do
01:24:54.780 you mean? So one of the things, and I think this is true of most of these guys, most of these con
01:25:01.200 artists, I thought Paula was a very good listener at the beginning, right? Who, who doesn't love a
01:25:06.360 good listener, especially when you're in a vulnerable place, but what they're doing, if you go back and
01:25:12.080 look at it very carefully, they give you very little information about themselves. And what they're doing
01:25:16.780 is literally gathering information and stockpiling it to use against you. They study you. They, they
01:25:23.900 try to figure out everything they can about you so that they can use it against you. And they target
01:25:29.400 you when you're vulnerable. And so this is one of the things I tell women all the time. Now,
01:25:33.780 if you are vulnerable for any reason, whatever, there's been a death in your family, you lost a job,
01:25:40.360 you just went through a divorce, a breakup, anything, anything that makes you more vulnerable than usual,
01:25:45.000 you have to be hyper vigilant about protecting yourself because this is when these people
01:25:49.820 target you because it's, and it's, it's so basic, but when you're vulnerable,
01:25:55.140 when you're going through something difficult, what do you want? Do you want somebody to tell
01:25:59.140 you everything's going to be okay? You want somebody to wrap their arms around you and give
01:26:02.340 you a big hug and reassure you. And that's what Paula was doing. He, I'm pouring my heart out about
01:26:09.280 my ex-husband is going to die and I don't know how to do this. And I don't know how to tell my
01:26:13.040 daughter and he's listening to me. He's reassuring me. And at the same time, he's figuring out what my
01:26:20.040 weaknesses are or what my vulnerabilities are. And they turn it around on you. They use it against
01:26:25.980 you. This is a weird reference, but it's almost like a dog in heat. How, you know, the humans walking
01:26:34.640 around the dog have no idea, but every male dog in the neighborhood is at your door. Like
01:26:38.320 sociopaths have that sense when a woman is in trouble. And when she's a hundred percent,
01:26:46.120 they have, I don't know how they develop it. They do. It's a very strong, effective radar.
01:26:50.680 They can find them in a crowded field. They can, they know in like death in the family. It doesn't
01:26:56.320 have to be like your basket case. It can be like, I just had something really sad happen to me and I'm
01:27:01.100 feeling kind of low. They have like a homing beacon. Exactly. I call it the vulnerability radar.
01:27:09.000 Yeah. And so that applies by the way, that applies by the way to anybody I would, I noticed,
01:27:15.640 and I thought about this in hindsight at a party, for instance, you know, there were certain people
01:27:21.060 Paolo wouldn't spend a lot of time talking to and later, and it was subtle. People didn't know,
01:27:26.660 but later I had to find out that those people didn't like him or that there was something about him
01:27:30.740 that didn't necessarily make them suspicious, but they were turned off by him. And he, he kind of
01:27:36.420 knows it, you know, he knew who he could play with and who he couldn't. So I, yeah, they're highly
01:27:41.840 skilled manipulators and highly skilled at knowing who they can target. I mean, it's yeah. Not unlike
01:27:48.100 any other criminal. They, they target their prey and that for, for mere mortals to respond to
01:27:54.660 appropriately, to see through, to identify, you know, I've, I've said this to my audience many times,
01:28:00.160 but my husband and I are very different in this lane because he would be somebody Paolo would spend
01:28:05.500 no time with because Doug is very good at like sociopath dark, you know, he just knows immediately
01:28:13.560 when he's met a bad person. And I'm ironically as the news person and you'd think it'd be the
01:28:18.360 opposite, but I'm like, no, you're being too hard on him. He's a nice guy. And Doug's always right.
01:28:25.940 At 16 years of marriage, I finally got to the point where I'm like, if Doug says he's bad,
01:28:30.560 he's bad. He's bad. I should not trust my own instincts on this, but for mere mortals out there
01:28:36.300 dealing with these skilled sociopaths, it's a very uneven playing field. So you, as a mere mortal,
01:28:43.680 if you don't have Doug's sociopath dar, you have to follow the clues that Benita is giving you. Like
01:28:49.800 you are most vulnerable when something has happened to you, whether you're strong normally or not,
01:28:57.200 you, you're putting out the scent that, you know, victim here. You also, I know you talked about it
01:29:04.280 a little bit. You didn't use the term, but I know you've talked about the fog that these guys can
01:29:08.440 create around you. And I think that'll be familiar to a lot of people. You feel it. You, you don't know
01:29:13.220 what it is. You feel the fog. So talk about how they create that and what that is.
01:29:16.660 Well, it's a form of gaslighting, right? So they're, they're master manipulators and they
01:29:23.140 come into the relationship or the friendship, whatever it is, could be even be a business
01:29:27.820 arrangement, quite frankly, with some sort of nefarious intention. They want something from
01:29:32.560 you, whether it's money, whether it's whatever it is. And so they're plotting the whole time.
01:29:37.620 And so they are very prepared. So if you start becoming suspicious, they're very prepared for that.
01:29:43.320 And they come back at you rapid fire. You know, they have an answer for everything and they shoot
01:29:48.260 you down so fast and they get angry and they question you, why would you ask me that? And
01:29:53.100 well, you know, and they have evidence, you know, they have all the evidence. And so
01:29:56.460 it's gaslighting. So you start thinking, oh, okay, maybe it's me, you know, maybe,
01:30:02.160 maybe I'm wrong. And it feels like a fog. You know, you just feel, you can't quite figure it out,
01:30:08.300 but you know that you, something doesn't feel right, but they're so convincing and so rapid fire
01:30:13.660 and, and so determined to shoot you down that you just start thinking, okay, it must be me.
01:30:19.160 And that's why I call it the fog. And it's very intentional. It's very manipulative because again,
01:30:25.060 it's designed to distract you and sort of muddy the waters and, you know, get you off the scent of
01:30:32.120 something's wrong or whatever it is that you've clued, clued into. And they're very, very good at it.
01:30:38.300 It's cunning. It's the way you feel when you have low blood sugar.
01:30:43.000 Oh, that's so interesting. It's so true. Yeah. That's exactly what it feels like.
01:30:47.400 Yeah. Your brain's just a little muddled. You're not a hundred percent yourself.
01:30:52.460 You're slightly confused. You're not processing things as quickly as you normally do.
01:30:56.720 Exactly.
01:30:57.000 Just like there's some separation between the real you and the current you,
01:31:00.460 and they're so good at creating it. They can create it just a million facts that they throw at you.
01:31:04.820 And they're smart. The people who get away with this are very, very smart. So it's not,
01:31:09.280 it's not illogical, their responses and their manipulations. And that brings me to another
01:31:13.840 thing you said, um, about how you said, Oh, um, he probably would have canceled the wedding
01:31:21.920 claiming, Oh, there's some massive security threat. Or you talked about how he said, um,
01:31:27.420 some trip was canceled because of an emergency that the big excuse for the cancellation or the letdown
01:31:34.960 is also a characteristic of these people. Yeah. I call it the walking catastrophe. So if you're,
01:31:41.940 if you're dating somebody, or again, it could be a business relationship. It could be a friendship.
01:31:46.120 And there's one dramatic excuse after the other. It's always dramatic, right? It's somebody's in the
01:31:52.640 hospital or I'm in the hospital or somebody's dead or something so dramatic that if you, if you
01:31:59.380 question them, let's say you're supposed to go on a date with somebody in there. Oh, you know,
01:32:03.000 my kid got hit by a car. If you then question them and well, I thought we were going away for the
01:32:08.860 weekend. I thought we were going on a date. You look like the idiot and the asshole because you're,
01:32:13.640 who wouldn't be empathetic and sympathetic in that situation. And it's very calculative. It's designed
01:32:18.600 again to make, you know, to take the focus of what they're not doing or why they're not showing up
01:32:24.820 and make you feel bad. And, but it's a huge red flag. I mean, if it happens once, okay, that's life,
01:32:30.140 you know, things happen. But if it happens over and over again, these dramatic wild, you know,
01:32:36.280 excuses and catastrophes, that's a giant red flag.
01:32:40.520 Right. So looking back on your relationship with Paolo before poke gate, was there a moment,
01:32:49.340 you know, now in retrospect, was there a moment or two that you, that you can point to where you're
01:32:53.040 like, I want to talk to that girl and say, sweetheart, this is a big deal. Here's your red flag, like run.
01:32:59.900 It's so hard because it's such a slow weaving of the web of lies. You know, it's so meticulous. And
01:33:12.500 again, that fog. So it's, it's happening, happening very gradually. And by the time you realize that
01:33:19.700 you're ensnared in this web, the spider's web, you know, it's too late. It's been going on. I mean,
01:33:25.680 keep in mind, we were dating for almost two years. So it's hard for me to pinpoint a moment
01:33:30.520 like that. Um, clearly not having been to the house in Barcelona was a huge red flag,
01:33:36.640 but we were arguing about that. It wasn't, it wasn't as if I didn't question him about that.
01:33:40.520 And there were things about the wedding that I questioned him about. So again, there wasn't one
01:33:45.320 big giant thing that said, you know, wake up because he had the credentials, everything as nuts
01:33:53.660 as it sound also seemed equally plausible. You know, he, he had a, he's very adept at explaining
01:34:00.900 things into sense, into them making sense. So with you, we speculated, maybe this was about
01:34:09.120 getting a friend in the media, getting a, getting a beautiful NBC piece and perhaps more or, you know,
01:34:16.740 who knows? Cause he did include encourage you ultimately to quit NBC. So at that point,
01:34:20.140 but you're still a journalist, you still have connections. And at this point he may just be
01:34:23.760 seeing it through, but in general, do you think it's just the high that we talked about? Like
01:34:30.680 of lying, of fooling someone smart, like, uh, you know, like a guy who gambles and goes for the high
01:34:37.500 of winning. Is it, is it like that normally? Cause I think this happens to people who don't have
01:34:41.940 the kind of power and job that you had. Yeah. I, I think it goes back to the narcissism. Um,
01:34:49.720 I've asked experts about this and I mean, one of the things is people like him don't go into therapy,
01:34:55.180 obviously. So they don't know a lot about these types of people, but one person explained it to
01:35:00.300 me that all the, okay, let's say you, you were standing on the edge of a cliff and somebody is
01:35:04.840 about to push you off. Think of all the things you'd be feeling, you know, the, the fear, the anxiety,
01:35:09.780 the trepidation, this person said that it's almost like a part of their brain is missing,
01:35:16.240 right? So all those things that we feel, you know, fear, anxiety, remorse, guilt, you know,
01:35:22.860 all the normal things people feel when they're dealing with other human beings or they make a
01:35:26.980 mistake. It's like that part of their brain is blank. They feel nothing. They have no empathy.
01:35:32.000 They have no remorse. They have no guilt. And so therefore they're always seeking a high,
01:35:38.280 something that sort of jolts their brain into feeling something because it's almost blank.
01:35:43.980 And so the rush and the high of getting away with lying for is just fueling them. It's just
01:35:50.520 fueling their ego. It's almost like they need it. Like they, they can't exist without it.
01:35:58.200 So now what is every time I've heard your story, I think, how is she ever going to trust somebody
01:36:04.220 again? How is she going to fall in love again? You're still a young woman. You're beautiful.
01:36:08.880 You're smart. You have to have love in your life at some point. How's that been? And are you up
01:36:14.640 against some major trust issues at this point? So I, first of all, I don't think you can go
01:36:21.600 through something like this and not have trust issues. I mean, it, it would be impossible. I mean,
01:36:26.100 something would be wrong with me if I, if I didn't, and it's taken a while. I mean, this has been,
01:36:31.120 you know, I was 2015. We were supposed to get married. So we're nine years this summer.
01:36:37.380 And I think I didn't realize it at first, but what, when I first started dating people that were
01:36:42.900 more than casual, um, I was choosing people that I knew I wouldn't fall in love with. And I think that
01:36:50.080 was a way of protecting myself because if I, if I wasn't really in love with somebody, then somebody
01:36:55.120 couldn't hurt me. Right. Um, so it has taken me a long time, but I am now in a, in fact, I'm sitting
01:37:02.320 in his house right now. I'm in a, a very serious, very happy, lovely relationship. We've been together
01:37:07.760 for a little over a year now. So, um, that's awesome. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. I imagine he's
01:37:15.040 got his challenges. I mean, I, I feel like if I were dating you and I was your boyfriend, I'd be like,
01:37:21.200 I'm going to work and you can call me there and you can speak to my boss and you can come by any
01:37:25.620 time. And here's my everything number, right? Like, I feel like I would feel the need to bend
01:37:30.260 over backward to prove to you. Everything I'm telling you is true. Yeah. And yeah, I'm lucky
01:37:36.320 because he's very patient and very, very understanding, um, and really, really gets what
01:37:41.880 I've been through. And I have my moments, believe me, I put him through the ringer, but he's,
01:37:45.960 he's really good and he's very good at, at immediately sort of quelling any anxiety I have.
01:37:52.140 And yeah, he's just a good guy. And finally, well, cause you know, Benita, I hadn't thought
01:37:56.780 about this word, but I think it's apt. You've been abused. This was an abusive relationship.
01:38:03.760 Yep. Yeah. And there's PTSD that goes along with that. It's trauma. It's, it's, you know,
01:38:09.360 and trauma doesn't go away overnight. So, and it's something you have to be very cognizant of,
01:38:15.100 um, and there are times when that's really frustrating. You know, sometimes I've even
01:38:18.920 said that to him, I'm behave, I behave a certain way. I'm like, you know, this sucks. You know,
01:38:22.900 I hate that I'm doing this. I hate that I'm acting this way. I'm hate that I feel this way. You know,
01:38:27.420 I don't want to give Paulo that power. Um, and I try very hard not to.
01:38:33.520 It's not like what happens to, you know, women who have been sexually abused where you take something
01:38:37.920 that's supposed to be absolutely lovely and enjoyable and a source of connection and turn it into
01:38:43.280 something that's really fraught and complicated for a woman. It's the ongoing victimization of a woman
01:38:49.180 in this position. And that, that's how I see what's happening to you too, as a result of him.
01:38:53.940 Um, I'm, I'm delighted that you have a partner. What, what do you, what do you do with your
01:38:59.660 daughter? Like she must be 21 now. Is she right? She's 20. Yeah. She'll be 21 in the fall. Yeah.
01:39:05.540 Um, so how do you talk to her about, I mean, she, she clearly she's seen it all, but like,
01:39:10.740 what, what are the takeaways? Like what kind of lessons do you impart to your daughter over
01:39:14.580 something like this? Please not repeat mom's mistakes for one thing. Um, and to learn from
01:39:20.380 my mistakes. And I'm, I'm very transparent. I've been very, very transparent with her about
01:39:24.420 everything. And we've always had a very close relationship, maybe closer than we might've just
01:39:30.960 because her dad died and she's been the two of us. So, and she's a strong cookie. She's a smart
01:39:35.600 cookie. You know, that kid is, is super wise and no nonsense. I'm not worried about her at all.
01:39:41.320 You know, I think, I think thankfully she, I think she's proud of me and she's, you know,
01:39:46.460 she sees what I've done with this and she's proud of me for speaking up against him and fighting back,
01:39:51.860 but she won't make my mistakes. You know, she's, she has definitely read about this in her college
01:39:57.320 application essay. I certainly hope she used it for some way for good.
01:40:03.040 I know she does. She prefers not to deal with it. And I appreciate that. You know, she,
01:40:07.680 she deserves to have her own life and her privacy and, um, very adamant about shielding her from
01:40:13.320 this now because, you know, she's, this shouldn't be hanging over her for the rest of her life either.
01:40:18.320 She's 53 years old. I have to, I'm a big fan of compartmentalization now. I really believe in it.
01:40:22.600 I don't believe what we're told. We have to talk about everything. The more you can shove it down
01:40:25.740 and ignore it like a good Presbyterian, the better. Um, that's my husband. I'm Catholic,
01:40:30.300 but anyway, the last thing, how about professionally? Cause like you didn't go back to NBC,
01:40:36.380 right? What are you doing now? Um, I'm, I freelance, but I'm very busy. I'm a show runner.
01:40:41.200 I'm sure running two different true crime shows at the moment. Um, and so, yeah, no, I'm busy back to
01:40:46.880 work. Um, I also narrate stuff. So, um, and I, yeah, I actually like, I didn't think I would,
01:40:52.780 but I liked the freelance life and not being, you know, tied to one job always all the time. So
01:40:57.380 it's good. Everything's good. Yeah. And I'm sure, well, if you're investigating murders over on
01:41:03.140 investigative discovery, you're not, you're not falling in love with your subject matter. So
01:41:06.080 that's good. I know that's a door's been closed. Oh, all the best to you. Thank you for telling
01:41:12.140 this story. Hope that the whole process has been cathartic to you. And, um, you know, at some point,
01:41:18.140 I know you'll probably feel the need to respond to his documentary, but I do hope you can close this
01:41:21.820 door and move on from it. You've got so much to do and so much to live. Yeah. Yeah. It's,
01:41:27.480 it's nice knowing that I'm able to help other women by sharing my story and that always keeps
01:41:32.700 me going, but it does, you know, it's reaching the point where, okay, enough time to stop talking
01:41:39.240 about this, you know, and move on with my life. I just want to, I just want to be happy and move on
01:41:44.040 with my life. I know I, and so many others are grateful that you did, that you did tell the
01:41:48.880 story and you found the guts, even though it's parts of it, I'm sure it felt humiliating and you
01:41:52.640 didn't want to do it, but good on you. You're the only reason he was doctors. He's been held
01:41:56.800 accountable and hopefully more to come all the best. Yeah. Thank you. Thanks for having me. Yeah.
01:42:02.680 Thank you too. Wow. So happy to have Benita telling her story and helping others.
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