Harry and Meghan's Complaining, and Putting Faith and Family First, with Kirk Cameron and Maureen Callahan | Ep. 454
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1 hour and 22 minutes
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182.16432
Summary
The Duchess of Cambridge is at it again. Meghan Markle claims the royal family is just jealous of Meghan because she did the job better than they did it, and Prince William once left him terrified after screaming at him in front of the queen during talks over the couple s proposal that they be allowed to be half in, half out of the Royal Family.
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Ahead in this program, we are going in-depth with former teen star Kirk Cameron.
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He was still acting as a grown-up, but we fell in love with him when he was a teen,
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and when I was a teen, and I have a confession to make when he comes on.
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He's had a fascinating career, and we will discuss his path toward faith and patriotism
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and how he's trying to spread that message to this day.
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The final three episodes of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's Netflix, quote, documentary,
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In them, Prince Harry claims the royal family was just jealous of Meghan.
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Veruca Meghan Markle's assault, because she did the job better than they did it.
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And he claims Prince William once left him terrified after screaming at him in front of the queen
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during talks over the couple's proposal that they be allowed to be half in, half out of the royal family.
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The couple taking one moment of responsibility for their role in any of this.
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They also don't reveal the name or any additional details of the supposed racist royal who questioned what skin color the couple's future children might have.
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Joining me now to discuss what we've seen so far, Maureen Callahan, columnist for The Daily Mail.
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Maureen, thank you so much for being back with us.
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I don't know about you, but I did manage to watch it.
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I will say the second three hours I thought were more interesting than the first three hours, which bored me to tears.
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Now, finally, we got down to some juice, some dirt that they wanted to spew.
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But I remain convinced that their number one complaint, and they don't like the mean media, the mean media.
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Maureen and me, they weren't going to say nice things about Megan.
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This, I, like you, I watched all three episodes today.
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I'm really, you know, earning our paychecks this week, Megan, I think.
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What, to me, my biggest takeaway is that these two are, their greatest offense is that they are boring.
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They are, yes, seething with rage, with jealousy, with resentment.
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They move about the world with a remarkable lack of self-awareness.
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They cannot take a note of criticism, and you are 100% right about the lack of accountability.
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You know, these two such enlightened souls, these global humanitarians who talk so much about the importance of love and treating each other with kindness and giving back.
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And, you know, my favorite phrase is standing in your truth and taking up space.
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And there is, you know, for two narcissists, the lack of introspection, I mean, maybe it's not that surprising.
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And to your point, I also was sort of, my jaw was hanging open when Harry complained that his brother yelled at him during the Sandringham summit with the queen.
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First of all, whether it's true or not, if it's true, grow a pair.
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The whole thing, he's sort of weirdly effeminate and soft and incapable of actually sounding and acting like a man.
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It's like, but what you're actually doing is crying in your soup over mean media articles, which they make it sound, Maureen, you are in media.
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And having been the subject of a gazillion nasty articles, I have no sympathy for them.
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I got to tell you, it's like I, too, have been the target of a lot.
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You understand it's part of the deal and you don't spend your grown up life whining about it.
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And, you know, this sort of avalanche of negative press that they keep carping on about, you know, is really quite a fiction.
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In the beginning of this second volume of this reality series, we see an abundance of positive press.
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They open with, you know, Meghan marveling that there were 115,000 people lining the streets and cheering.
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We learn that not only did Charles enthusiastically walk Meghan halfway up the aisle, but that the queen, when presented with this idea of having a gospel choir at the ceremony, which had never been done at a royal wedding before,
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she not only immediately greenlit the idea, but suggested that what they do was to take the best vocalists from every gospel choir in England and commingle them into one giant super group.
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So, you know, again, these complaints, it's like they're rooting around for things to be aggrieved by.
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They they're unhappy with the cottage they lived in while at Kensington Palace.
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Even Oprah, the other queen, was horrified by their living conditions.
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You know, I loved also when Megan casually dropped in.
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She said I was an agent for generational change and killing trauma like this.
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But it's like what's great about it is the very next message in all these scenes is poor me, poor us.
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I want to show people a little bit of what you just said.
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She said she wants me to feel safe and protected.
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She admires and respects my bravery and vulnerability and thinks I was selected to break generational curses that need to be healed.
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It just so happens that she decided to read that and get that text when the cameras were rolling for their documentary.
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And then my other favorite sort of quote unquote private moment they share is after the Oprah interview airs and they're in their kitchen and Harry or H, as Megan infuriatingly calls him, holds up his cell phone, his iPhone.
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And she gets up and she rolls her eyes and she says, I'm not going to say anything about your brother, but, you know, it's your brother.
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He's such a it's it's that kind of passive aggressive shadow boxing that she does.
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That is just it just makes her so profoundly unlikable.
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Meanwhile, the brother is going to wind up king and these two are going to wind up a couple of podcasters in Montecito.
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So it's like, OK, I have a podcast, but, you know, I wasn't a royal, so it's not a fault to get a podcast at this point.
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I don't think Spotify is renewing Megan's archetypes for season two.
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And she's so here's the other thing that jumped out at me after they got out of the hideous palace.
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They're like, you know, they say it's a palace.
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But if you if you could just see our facilities, you know, that's so tiny.
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Tyler Perry plays a major role in part two, or he rescues them from the hell that is being a royal.
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And he flies them out to Montecito and he puts them up or wherever they were in California, puts them up at his mansion.
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There's a scene of Harry going, oh, it's so beautiful.
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Just let me just cut this hundred million dollar deal with Netflix and this could be ours.
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The second part is it is they wind up at their Montecito mansion, which is 14 million bucks.
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I've ever seen a massive gardens where the baby is picking the tomatoes with mama.
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And in the midst of all this, there's a soundbite of Harry saying, all I ever wanted was this normal life.
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This is why the world crawling out of, you know, post lockdown trauma, dealing with runaway inflation hates you.
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And I also love so these two who never tire telling us how enthusiastically they are in pursuit of the most authentic life possible.
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They we see Harry and Meghan leaving Vancouver in their words, essentially fleeing with nothing but the clothes on their backs.
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They had no plan in place, which, again, that's squarely on them.
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Um, Harry says that they are en route to meet a friend they've never met yet, which I mean, square that circle and that person being Tyler Perry, who, having never met them, simply offers up his mansion for, you know, an indefinite period of time.
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And then later turns around and asks him to be godfather to their second child, a new Hollywood friend.
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They barely know shades of I'm going to take my beloved niece to the curb.
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But these celebrities I've never met, such as George Clooney and Oprah Winfrey and the Beckhams, they're invited.
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You know, she's so she asks Tyler Perry to be godfather and he has the temerity to say to her, well, if it's over in England with your crew, you know, the royals, I won't be doing that.
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Meanwhile, they have everything, everything in their lives they owe to the royals.
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The only reason anyone cares what these two have to say, the only reason Netflix is getting a single viewer is because of the association with the royal family.
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No one gave two dams about her when she was on Suits.
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And Harry's been interesting because he's a prince within this royal family.
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Once they stop talking about the royals, no one's what that's why the Spotify podcast was so insufferable and bad and poorly rated, because we don't actually care what she thinks about the world.
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So how dare they portray it through Tyler's soundbite?
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As if it's this disgusting thing with which they wouldn't, you know, they wouldn't go near it with a 10-foot pole now.
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And you know why the Netflix series is as boring and difficult to watch as the podcast was to listen to?
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It's because neither one of them actually have a discernible personality.
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Neither one of them have anything original or interesting to say or to share.
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That, you know, Harry doesn't have a personality and you can kind of understand it given, you know, the world into which he was born, the life into which he was born, his wealth and his privilege, his status.
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Like that all sort of meant he never even really had to develop a personality.
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You know, he was always going to be surrounded by people.
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He was always going to be invited to the party.
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But, you know, the other infuriating thing about her is she continues to pretend she had no idea who Prince Harry was until she met him.
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She continues to insist that she had never heard of this entity called the British royal family.
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The theme in the in last week's drop, when she mocked that curtsy to the queen, there's a reason that went viral.
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It was so low and it was so emblematic to me of her gaping insecurity, which is her need to sort of bring down all things royal in order to elevate herself.
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And it's like, well, you didn't seem to me making such a joke out of it when you were throwing a fit.
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You didn't get the tiara you wanted for your wedding.
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But I guess the curtsy to the queen was a bridge too far, which I don't even believe.
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I believe she curtsied to the queen just like a normal person would.
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And now she's just trying to revise the story so she can sound like, ha ha ha, I'm in on it.
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Now, here's the thing I wanted to ask you about there.
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There's a scene in this part two where she's talking about how she realizes what's happening, how she's been fed to the wolves.
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And her friends are calling her up saying, Meg, they're not protecting you.
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Now, Maureen, as a person who's been in the press quite a bit in my career, often negative, sometimes positive, I have had people in my life who do this, who are like the, I'm so sorry.
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And I learned pretty quickly in my career as a public figure, just right back to my friends.
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I don't read press about myself for this very reason.
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Like the press is going to do what we're going to do.
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She doesn't have the maturity to understand that.
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What, in fact, to this moment, she's repeating it on air with Netflix in an effort to make us feel sorry for her.
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And this was supposed to be her aha moment of how, like, she needed to fight back against this evil palace.
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Any seasoned journalist is like, you know what?
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Maybe the palace did dish dirt on them to deflect off of William and Kate.
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I actually I think a lot of British journalists are going to say that's not true.
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You can't be such a savvy, sophisticated, independent, rule breaking maverick figure.
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While also being a total victim who doesn't understand how the game works.
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And needs her friends in Hollywood to tell her that she is being taken advantage of by a media that she depicts as as monolithic, as as moving in lockstep, which you and I both know is just completely it's it's.
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To even feign that level of naivete is ridiculous and a gross miscalculation.
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You know, my other favorite thing about these two and their their media tour over the past couple of weeks.
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And you're so right, too, about having, you know, a foot in both camps.
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You can't you can't castigate the media for being so barbaric to you and then go and cash checks from the biggest media entities on the planet.
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Checks that are meant to pay for your family secrets and your personal torments and everything you're supposed to hold sacred.
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But last week, when they were at the RFK gala getting honored for standing up to, quote unquote, institutional racism.
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One of the star columnists at the Daily Mail went right up to Gayle King and said, do you believe that the royal family is racist?
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Alec Baldwin on the red carpet was asked, do you believe the royal family is racist?
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I don't I'm not familiar, but his name is Kendi Andrews.
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And he's talking about that yet again in the second part.
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And she talks about how she was just shocked, shocked, shocked after the Oprah interview when she told us all she was suicidal.
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At one point, that was supposed to be the lead, Maureen, that we were supposed to understand that was our lead.
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That instead, the biggest takeaway was she accused the royal family of being racist.
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She knew very well that that was going to be the headline.
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Can't say I'm sure about Harry, but she's not an idiot.
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She knew with racism that that was going to be the takeaway.
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Anyway, here's this author talking about once again, this is all about race.
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But it's perfectly fine to kind of dog whistle, give a nod to.
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He just really came that came to the fore really quite suddenly.
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And I just say for the record, I've been called all that stuff to all of it.
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It's like it's not even because I'm a woman either.
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Like, why do they have to make it about color at every stage?
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And it's such a terrible condemnation and such an unfair condemnation of Britain itself,
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of, you know, one of the most diverse countries in Western Europe.
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It's an unfair and untrue condemnation of the royal family, which by Meghan's own admission
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did nothing but fast track her in, welcome her in, try to get her to learn the ropes as
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As we saw in the beginning of that series, the media was just lavishing praise on her as
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a as a breath of fresh air and the power that she and Harry would have had the kind of soft
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power, but real world power they could have had had they stayed.
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But their real issue, their real rage is that they would forever be second best.
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Does anybody even remember that Prince Charles has like yet another brother?
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You got Andrew and then you got the youngest one.
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I can't remember his name sitting here right now.
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The brother of the air leaves the news cycle eventually.
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Like eventually they forget about you unless you start hanging out with pedophiles like Andrew
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And according to Valentine Roy, this British author, Harry was dreading it.
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OK, I can't remember what her name is, but she's got the long hair.
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And Abigail is she's the one who's like crying.
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And like, I couldn't do anything to protect her.
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Actually try to blame Megan's miscarriage on her emotions.
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Which is bullshit, because now they're telling women worldwide, if you're stressed out, you're
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If you're getting bad press, it could kill your baby.
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Like there have been doctor statements on this, you know, like miscarriage in the very
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I'm not a doctor, but you don't bring that on by being too stressed out.
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And so she wants they Terry actually blames it on the royal family and the bad press.
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You know, one of the there I will say there is one sort of fascinating aspect to watching
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And it's this really, I think, sick dynamic that these two have with each other.
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They really stoke the worst in each other and bring out the worst in each other.
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So it feels as though Harry is sort of attempting to replay this trauma he endured in losing his
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mother in such a sudden, unexpected, tragic way.
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And his default is to blame the media, you know, not her drunk driver, not that his mother
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And Meghan seems to also feed into this need he has to save the most important woman in
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So there's this really weird scene in last week's part where they're in the backseat
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of this SUV and they're in New York City and they're being chauffeured from as Meghan says
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from garage to garage and they spy or so they say one lone paparazzo on a bike, right?
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Like one guy who's like on a scooter and Meghan leans into Harry and she goes, safety first.
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But like that's they're in this weird little bubble they've created where like they're saving
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And then when they're through saving each other, they're going to somehow save the world.
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And in doing so, they must need to somehow abolish the monarchy.
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There's self-talk in the midst of all of this is not.
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I always find it very empowering to say, what can I do better?
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They have a guided meditation, which, of course, Maureen, they just happen to have on camera
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This is what she gets paid to do before she got married.
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SOT 7 brings us to what their messaging is about themselves.
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When you try to prove that you're good and that you're not the person they say you are.
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She that's basically their message throughout is we are the good ones.
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And every piece of bad press about us was a lie.
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And that scene, too, is like it's the the money shot of the trailer originally was Megan wiping
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those tears off both cheeks as Harry threw his head back in like helpless exasperation.
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And, you know, it sort of led you to believe they were having they were in the middle of
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And no, it's the aftermath of some personalized guided meditation, reinforcing all of their
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And Megan, to that point about their self-talk being so negative, you're so right about that
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because one of the other scenes that really stuck out for me in this morning's edition
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was Harry talking about the aftermath of their wedding and their first royal tour to Australia
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and then to South Africa and how they were kind of on this victory lap.
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And he's he he's a little puffed up and you can tell he's like feeling himself a little
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and he says, I'm amazed at what we were able to accomplish in such a short period of time.
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And Megan looks at him in utter somber seriousness and says, well, even more so because, you know,
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They must be suffering at all hours of the day.
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Also, like the insanity of her thinking, do you know what every working mother out there
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in America and the UK and beyond does when they're pregnant?
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No one cares that you were pampered day and night and then you had to go out and be loved
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and adored by a bunch of people while you're shut the F up.
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You know, like I didn't have people bringing me my meals and put it rubbing my feet at the
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end of the day, as I guarantee you, these two did.
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They are with the women who work two or three jobs just to put food on the table, who have
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husbands who aren't present, who are already supporting kids, who are in shitty jobs and
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Here's a little bit of this recalling like one of those tours and why the family, not
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the media, why the family turned on them because they were just that good.
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The issue is when someone who's marrying in who should be a supporting, a supporting
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act is then stealing the limelight or is doing the job better than the person who was born
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It shifts the balance because you've been led to believe that the only way that your
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charities can succeed and the only way that your reputation can be grown or improved is
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if you're on the front page, front pages of those newspapers, but the media are the ones
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My God, they show for the listening audience, they're showing now King Charles, then Prince
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This documentary is saying we're overshadowed by Megan because the next scene is all Megan's
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So she overshadowed the Queen, the now King and Kate Middleton.
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And those were the nasty, petty, jealous ones, apparently.
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And Megan, she overshadowed them to such a degree.
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Don't forget, she refrained from wearing bright colors for nearly her entire 72 day tenure as
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She made the supreme sacrifice to wear oatmeal, cream, beige, brown, just to blend in.
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One of the biggest things, though, is the mismatch, like the juxtaposition of the sob story
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The soundtrack, which is borrowed right out of Downton Abbey.
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You know, it's all supposed to be building this magnificent love story like nobody has
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Maureen, these two, they're the number one lovers against like this sad, everyone was
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And it ends with her absurd reading of her weird little wedding speech to him.
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You know, that is also the thing I've been thinking about since watching both of these
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drops, this six hour wine fest, is that really when you get down to it, they're both really
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They don't fit in the world like they can't really think they can't move in the world the
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way other people can or do, nor do I think they want to.
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I think that that in their sick sort of psyches would mean that they're actually one of us
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I think they really need to believe they're so much better and that they exist on this
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Um, so and maybe in that way, it's, it's great that they've found each other.
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Her, her self-talk and his like self-help talk.
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This is what happens when you speak truth to power.
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I'm like, oh my God, this is like spending the day with Ibram X.
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One of the words she used that I thought I found really creepy.
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So she was talking about the people magazine cover that I mean, only in Meghan Markle's
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world, her friends without her knowledge engineered as a pick me up, right.
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For all the bad press she was getting in, in, in the UK.
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And then she turns around and says, that cover story was a mistake.
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She says, I was afraid that something in the papers, it was, she said, I thought it was
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planted there as a way to form like an imprint.
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It's so, it's so, um, precious and annoying and just, again, for someone who's supposed
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to be so highly educated, it, it, it, it's all, it's all this like soft sanded.
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It's like what I call like the language of like morning shows, you know, that are hosted
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by these women who wear like necklaces with their children's initials and diamonds.
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And they talk a lot of nonsense about like finding your power and standing in it or standing
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There's a lot of verbs going with like vague nouns.
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And that's where we're at with the discourse that, you know, we're being afforded with the
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It's, as my husband would say, an air sandwich.
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So they, they finally, she said her hope a couple of years ago was for truth.
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She wanted truth to prevail and then truth didn't bring her any peace.
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This is telling your story, taking control of your story.
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And you and I both know as member of the media, um, this is not going to bring them peace.
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They did not stand down the daily mail, the New York post, you, me, the sun, the tabloids,
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The media do not get deterred by you suing them, attacking them, playing the victim and
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continuing to do ridiculous, absurd, self-aggrandizing, pathetic things.
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You don't get to put yourself in the crosshairs and then complain that there's something pointed
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So next we're going to have the book, Harry's memoir, which, you know, I'm sure promises
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more quote unquote truth bombs in their parlance.
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Um, but I do think these two are running on empty.
00:32:29.900
I don't think they have any more content to give, uh, nor do I think they've got like a
00:32:38.920
I'll bet you they're saving the, the angry William text for his book spare, which comes
00:32:46.960
It's like a belated Christmas present, uh, from them to the family.
00:32:56.600
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As long as we got each other, we got the world spinning right in our hands, baby.
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You and me, we gotta be the luckiest dreamers who never quit dreaming.
00:34:12.040
First of all, welcome back to the Megan Kelly show.
00:34:15.920
And today we are super excited to have one of the stars.
00:34:18.780
I mean, the biggest star, let's be honest, of Growing Pains with us.
00:34:22.760
In the years since that huge hit show, he has become well-known for his outspoken beliefs
00:34:30.320
He is a devoted family man and somehow has managed to make his marriage of 30 years work
00:34:39.820
Along with his wife, Chelsea, Kirk Cameron has raised six, count them, six children.
00:34:45.360
He's author of the new children's book, As You Grow, and he's host of the American Campfire
00:34:51.540
Revival with Kirk Cameron podcast, which is really great.
00:34:56.360
If you are somebody, a person of faith who wants to sort of get back to, what is it about
00:35:13.540
And I want to take you, I'm sure you've heard this a million times, but you and I are almost
00:35:27.660
I think I was like a tween when you were the big star on Growing Pains.
00:35:41.020
I was, all I remember was that I was trying to convince you to love me.
00:35:44.820
I was like listing my credentials, like what I had done in school.
00:35:51.180
I don't remember if I sent it, but I never got a response.
00:35:58.200
And that's why I'm here on your show right now is to finally reply after 35 years to say,
00:36:08.980
And I'm going to send you the last remaining dreamy Mike Seaver pillowcase.
00:36:15.380
It should be arriving in the mail in about two days.
00:36:22.640
If I, if I, you know, it's funny is if I had known that Megan Kelly was watching on the other
00:36:28.640
side of that camera lens, it's just, it's crazy to me to think about that now, noticing you
00:36:38.360
I probably would have been, you know, more concerned about, you know, how I looked, what
00:36:48.140
You, you wound up marrying a different girl and I approved of your choice because she came
00:36:52.820
on the show and she's, your wife is like this preternaturally beautiful woman.
00:36:59.860
I mean, she's like kind of glowy, you know, she's just this person.
00:37:03.560
And you're like, what, how did this person get to be like this and emanate these kinds
00:37:08.680
I wasn't surprised at all that you got married.
00:37:11.400
Well, you know, my, my kids are surprised that she married me.
00:37:17.440
I mean, how did you, how did you pull that one off?
00:37:20.860
I'm like, I know, I, I, I, you know, it was a gift.
00:37:26.660
I'm going to find out one day she's, you know, she has wings.
00:37:33.040
And, but, but everybody at the time was like, it'll never last is you were 20 years old
00:37:40.280
And everybody's like, there's no way it's going to last.
00:37:53.000
And, uh, I, I thought to myself, man, there's no way.
00:37:56.540
I mean, she's, she's out of my league and, and, and every way.
00:37:59.640
And then when I realized that we shared so many of the same values and the same faith,
00:38:08.300
And I asked her out and she went out with me and, and pretty soon, like everything just
00:38:15.860
I think, I think at the end of the day, I, I understand that I married up and out of my
00:38:21.520
And that when I look around and I, I see the diet, the downward spiral that so many people
00:38:29.100
are in, but families and marriages in generally speaking and culture, I recognize that I've
00:38:40.740
I tell my kids all the time, guys, don't worry about us ever splitting up.
00:38:43.540
If mom ever leaves me, I'm going with her, uh, because I'm never going to do better than
00:38:48.840
And, uh, truly, I mean, it truly, I'm, I'm grateful.
00:38:57.840
If you connect over God in the midst of faith and nurture it in each other, in your lives,
00:39:03.220
in your children's lives, I'm not going to say none of those marriages fall apart, but
00:39:07.080
it does make it tougher for them to fall apart.
00:39:11.220
I think it is, it is the glue that holds us together because we're both committed to something
00:39:15.060
that's much bigger than our marriage or our happiness.
00:39:18.000
Um, if, if, if marriage was simply a contract, um, that says, Hey, you know, let's just keep
00:39:24.160
this party going, uh, while I'm still happy with you, then, um, you know, we probably would
00:39:29.200
have been over a long time ago, but we look back and we say, wow, uh, I think that there
00:39:36.620
is, has been a story that has been written over the last 31 years that is pretty great.
00:39:44.100
We just trusted in the author who was writing the story and it involved six beautiful kids.
00:39:51.180
Um, I've learned so much from my wife by, uh, honoring her, listening to her, understanding
00:39:57.300
that, uh, I need her and, uh, it's not good for, for me to be, uh, all alone.
00:40:03.820
And I think that she recognizes similar things and we're better together.
00:40:08.200
So trusting in the author of marriage and life and doing things according to the manual,
00:40:16.140
which for us is the Bible has really served us well.
00:40:19.660
And, uh, I can honestly say, I can't wait for the next 31 years.
00:40:24.480
Oh, I know your kids are getting older now that they're what I had this on my sheet.
00:40:36.520
And, uh, I mean, my, my, my youngest child has a beard.
00:40:39.500
It's, it's, it's amazing to me how fast this all goes by and they've all moved out of the
00:40:46.080
Although we're really excited that we're, the house is going to be filled back up with them
00:40:49.720
So as you can see, we've got the Christmas decorations up here at the fireplace and, uh,
00:40:56.940
Ah, now the thing about the, about adopting children, um, good friends of mine adopted
00:41:01.960
both of their kids and they, they wrestled for so long with infertility and they were
00:41:08.000
And I don't think that was your situation, but they were devastated that they weren't
00:41:11.520
going to be able to have their own biological children.
00:41:13.260
And then they wound up adopting two little girls.
00:41:15.500
And I remember them saying, if only we knew when we went through all the emotional turmoil
00:41:20.580
of not being able to have our own, how you just totally forget.
00:41:26.140
Once you have this child, it is a nothing that you're not genetically connected to this
00:41:30.040
And I've read you say you, you forget which of your kids was adopted in which, cause you
00:41:35.180
wound up having two biological children after you adopted four as well.
00:41:41.900
Well, adoption is a very special part of our family.
00:41:44.580
And, and, uh, my wife is an adopted child herself.
00:41:49.000
So when we started the conversations about having our own kids, uh, we started with how about
00:41:55.220
And we knew that there were thousands and thousands of babies out there who are needing
00:42:02.160
And Chelsea was, uh, uh, you know, on the receiving end of two loving, uh, people who adopted and
00:42:10.120
So we thought, why don't we start our family through adoption?
00:42:12.520
And so we actually chose, uh, voluntarily to adopt our first four children.
00:42:19.080
And we were going down that road and it was great.
00:42:21.300
I mean, we adopted Jack, uh, and Bella and Anna and Luke, and they were all the same.
00:42:25.760
When we adopted them all here domestically, none of them are biologically related.
00:42:33.000
So when Chelsea told me one day that she was pregnant, I was like, wow, we, we weren't, we
00:42:39.480
weren't really expecting that or planning on that, but we were thrilled.
00:42:44.740
And then, um, about a year later, uh, she was pregnant with James.
00:42:48.280
So we had six children, seven years old and under.
00:42:53.440
So if you can imagine, uh, you know, getting up and going to school or going to the grocery
00:42:58.400
store with, uh, six car seats or five car seats in the 15 passenger van while Chelsea's
00:43:08.160
So again, this, this is just increasing the angel factor of my wife.
00:43:12.760
She, she, she is a rock star and, uh, and those were great days.
00:43:17.820
And then when they all become teenagers, that those were even crazier days.
00:43:21.340
So, uh, you know, I mean, think of having a 20 year old, 19, 18, 17, 16, and 15 year
00:43:28.220
Now, you know, now, you know, now, you know why we pray.
00:43:34.700
I have to ask you because we just mentioned Ibram Kendi in our first segment, and it made
00:43:38.760
me think of you because some of your children, if I'm not mistaken, are mixed race or, or
00:43:44.500
And, um, you know, there's this growing message by some on the left, including him, that there's
00:43:50.460
something suspicious or problematic about white couples who adopt black babies or mixed
00:43:58.940
Now, he claims he didn't mean to impugn Amy Coney Barrett, who did the same, um, when he
00:44:04.280
tweeted out during her confirmation hearing, some white colonizers adopted black children.
00:44:09.040
They civilized these savage children in the superior ways of white people while using them
00:44:13.300
as props in their lifelong pictures of denial while cutting the biological parents of these
00:44:19.080
Uh, and then he goes on to say, whether that's Barrett or not is not the point.
00:44:22.340
It's a belief too many white people have if they adopt or have a child of color, then they
00:44:26.900
I wonder if you've ever had any weird pushback like that on your beautiful decision to adopt
00:44:32.020
a child irrespective of his or her race in your life.
00:44:34.660
Well, you'd think that the human race has evolved past that kind of, of ludicrous thinking.
00:44:41.780
Uh, and, and, and surely at this point that we have, I, I think there are those who still
00:44:46.460
profit off of the old ways of thinking and, and, and perpetuating a victim mentality.
00:44:52.000
Um, I can just tell you that in our family, we, we've got this beautiful array of colors
00:44:57.680
of skin and, and the idea that some of, some of our kids have more melanin content, melanin
00:45:09.820
And all of the other factors that come through adoption.
00:45:12.940
I mean, some of our kids are incredibly musically talented.
00:45:15.680
I'm not, uh, some of our kids are very academic.
00:45:18.200
Some of them are very people or sports oriented.
00:45:20.520
And, and all of this comes from all of this, this, this genetic, uh, hodgepodge that's all
00:45:26.700
come together in this beautifully, this beautiful tapestry called the Cameron family.
00:45:30.320
And, um, adoption has been wonderful for us and it was never an issue growing up.
00:45:36.140
Um, you, you, you literally just, I see my kids, I don't see the color of their skin.
00:45:41.540
Uh, and, and, and other, other characteristics, but, um, it's when they get out into the world
00:45:47.360
and people start to say things to you like, um, oh, um, you know, which ones are yours
00:45:54.300
or which, which, which ones of these are your kids.
00:45:57.440
And they say that sort of like mindlessly in front of the kids who know exactly what
00:46:02.720
And so you just sort of want to go, hello, um, are you, are you aware of what you're saying?
00:46:08.880
There's all, uh, we said, of course, all of them are our kids.
00:46:13.420
So, you know, I love, I love how our families come together.
00:46:21.360
I think, I think adoption is at the heart of God.
00:46:23.980
It's Christmas time and I, it's not lost on me that, that even the baby Jesus was the
00:46:29.120
result of an unplanned pregnancy from Mary's human point of view and Joseph full of love
00:46:35.900
for Mary and faith in God adopted and raised that baby boy as his own son.
00:46:43.920
And as a result, here we are 2000 years later, celebrating salvation, redemption, and new beginnings
00:46:56.160
In fact, I just made a movie about it called life mark, uh, based on a true story that came
00:47:01.340
And, um, um, it's now, now available to everybody else everywhere else.
00:47:05.840
So super, I love the way you did it because if you, if you, if you adopt first and then,
00:47:11.900
you know, as you say that there's the last two babies may have been a surprise, but if
00:47:15.320
you adopt first, your adopted children never have to worry whether you really wanted to
00:47:20.020
adopt, you know, whether they were sort of an afterthought, whether they were like, forgive
00:47:23.180
the term, but like a charity case, that wasn't it at all.
00:47:25.900
When you bring them in first, the messaging is very clear.
00:47:31.400
And, um, and, and, and that wasn't even on our minds, but you're right.
00:47:38.100
We actually wanted you, uh, and we couldn't be more thrilled and we were praying for you.
00:47:45.380
And, um, I remember the time that my wife had this incredible conversation with my son
00:47:53.460
She was pregnant with Olivia and, uh, she was in the 15 passenger van and there's a four
00:47:58.060
year old in the back seat, a three year old, a two year old, and a one year old Chelsea's
00:48:02.660
And our four year old was getting excited about the fact that a new baby was coming and growing
00:48:08.600
And he said to my wife, so mom, whose tummy was I in?
00:48:13.800
And that's when she took a deep breath and she looked in the rear view mirror and she said,
00:48:20.880
And she, she explained to him, Jack, I don't know her name, but I feel like I know her because
00:48:27.300
she's a part of you and I love her and I'm so thankful to her because she loved you and
00:48:34.140
she carried you for nine months in her tummy, even though she knew that one day, uh, you
00:48:43.380
And we were praying for a little boy, just like you.
00:48:45.960
And God sent an angel who knew that lady whose tummy you were in and she knew us and she connected
00:48:51.860
us together so that when you were born, you were delivered right into our arms where you
00:48:57.640
And we hope to meet her one day, but just know that she's a very special woman.
00:49:03.020
And Jack just looked up, backed up at her and he goes, Oh, and he looks back down and starts
00:49:11.180
There was no like, you know, crisis of identity.
00:49:24.020
I want to talk about kind of leaving Hollywood and what that's done for you and your family
00:49:27.260
right after this quick break with Kirk Cameron stays with us.
00:49:35.060
So Kirk, let's talk about leaving Hollywood, at least figuratively.
00:49:39.100
Um, I think at some point, relatively young, you realized this may not be the, uh, the town
00:49:48.400
And you must've had to wrestle with that given your coming to faith.
00:49:55.040
As I look back on those days, uh, it was, it was so exciting because not only was I on
00:50:00.540
this hit TV show called growing pains, but I had just met the love of my life.
00:50:05.020
We talked about Chelsea a little bit earlier and to tell you the truth, I couldn't wait.
00:50:13.000
I couldn't wait to honestly start the new chapter because I had recently come to faith
00:50:22.220
In fact, I thought everybody would be excited about it.
00:50:24.020
You know, so many, so, so often you see teenage actors, uh, wind up, uh, uh, living a life
00:50:34.380
And we feel so bad for these kids who don't have any moral guidance.
00:50:38.560
They grow up and you know, they wind up with a gun in their hand or you, you see their
00:50:45.560
And here I'm like, no, I want to, I want to love God.
00:50:50.120
Now I'm believing that we're actually here on purpose for a purpose and that there's a
00:50:56.440
And that my job in life is to love other people.
00:50:59.760
Well, you'd think, at least I thought everybody'd be excited about that.
00:51:04.000
And then there were times where people were like, no, you're going to try to like pull
00:51:08.140
this celebrity muscle combined with some new religious, um, uh, you're, you know, passion
00:51:14.120
that you're going to try to force on other people and change the show.
00:51:16.840
And I'm like, no, really, I'm not, I just have, I, I just want to do my job, go home
00:51:22.580
and be with my girlfriend and, uh, you know, just plan my life.
00:51:26.820
But that ruffled so many feathers that, that it was uncomfortable working on growing pains
00:51:33.140
And so I was really looking forward to moving on.
00:51:36.380
And when I got married to Chelsea, um, it wasn't like I wanted to leave Hollywood, but
00:51:45.420
Uh, it was a spinoff called Kirk that lasted about a year and a half on a network called
00:51:51.480
And as I continue to make choices that lined up with the stuff I was passionate about,
00:51:57.360
um, family valued things, things that would reflect, um, sort of the, the, the priorities
00:52:05.020
of truth, goodness, and beauty in the projects that I chose, uh, I, I found that new doors
00:52:14.280
And so, so maybe I didn't take Leonardo DiCaprio's career path or, uh, Brad Pitt's career path,
00:52:22.640
both of whom, by the way, were on growing pains in early episodes, but I took a path that
00:52:26.440
now has me married for 32 years, six children, parts of projects that I'm passionate about.
00:52:35.320
I'm making inroads for light and I'm talking to Megan Kelly on her podcast.
00:52:44.960
It's just a question of where you place your priorities and your energy and what you get
00:52:49.900
I mean, I will say, uh, you don't have to say, but I will say, you know, Leonardo DiCaprio
00:52:53.240
is in the news every week for the fact that he won't date anybody over the age of 24.
00:52:56.440
He stretched it most recently with, I think one of the Hadid sisters, who's now 27.
00:53:05.000
And I would submit it's really not the life that God would want him to lead.
00:53:12.180
Um, look what you've done, you know, with your children and your beautiful wife and all
00:53:15.700
And I heard you say, actually, my producers pulled this soundbite.
00:53:18.320
I'll play it because I thought this was a great point, um, that Hollywood is not, it's
00:53:35.860
So, uh, please do tell like Hollywood, you know, the, the most common deity is your is
00:53:56.180
I think it's a, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's inescapable, uh, in the human experience.
00:54:00.920
We're, we're gonna, we're, we're gonna put somebody on the throne.
00:54:04.580
Um, it's, it's either going to be, um, in a posture of, of humility and reverence saying
00:54:09.500
thank you for life and breath and friends and family and health and everything else.
00:54:13.420
Or, uh, it's going to be the state, it's going to be the government, and we're going
00:54:16.540
to have a supreme leader like you might have in North Korea or.
00:54:21.260
Um, you know, Germany or whatever, what pick, pick, pick your scary, uh, supreme dictator,
00:54:28.080
or, uh, it might be a group of people, or it may be yourself.
00:54:32.060
And the me monster is often the most dangerous because you knew exalt yourself.
00:54:38.160
Um, you know, everything else becomes second in the world sort of exists to serve you and
00:54:44.540
And I've found, uh, and my wife says this to our kids all the time, kids, um, your focus
00:54:50.860
determines your, your, the outcome, me, misery, others, joy.
00:55:02.840
As long as, if you're feeling blue and you're writing your gratitude journal, you write down
00:55:05.840
three things you're grateful for, you go out and you volunteer and you help somebody else.
00:55:08.480
That's an instant pick me up in more than a drug, more than a therapy session, more than
00:55:17.700
And the, the older that I get, um, I learned things that I was wrong about things before.
00:55:24.380
And, um, I learned that that is absolutely true.
00:55:28.320
So you serve other people rather than looking for everyone to serve you and, uh, start your
00:55:34.360
day out, uh, with a great big bowl of gratitude for breakfast and you're on the right road.
00:55:42.960
And regardless of your circumstances, you can have peace of mind.
00:55:49.960
And these are the kinds of things that I want to live by and I want to teach my kids.
00:55:53.760
So, uh, I got to live by example and put the stuff into practice, not just, not just talk
00:55:58.260
the talk, but I've got to, I've got to walk the walk too.
00:56:01.340
So let me ask you about Leonardo DiCaprio and, um, Brad Pitt being on Growing Pains.
00:56:05.960
Was there any, like, was there a hint of greatness there?
00:56:08.580
Did you see, you know, were you like, oh yeah, really?
00:56:14.500
And you know, Hollywood is, it's kind of this small world.
00:56:18.780
I think there's, it's, it's hard to work in Hollywood, uh, just because there's so many.
00:56:22.800
And I think that, I think the statistic is something like 90% of all, uh, SAG actors
00:56:28.300
on any given day are unemployed, uh, looking for, looking for work.
00:56:32.620
And so, uh, I don't know all the reasons for that, but certainly the ones who are working,
00:56:37.620
um, you know, you, the, the good ones stand out.
00:56:41.060
And so Leonardo DiCaprio was, uh, was, was a bright shining star on our set at 14 years
00:56:47.820
He was the cute little kid who we brought in to sort of, um, bring new life to the storyline.
00:56:52.800
Uh, all the little kids on growing pains, Mike, Ben and Carol were now grown up.
00:56:57.080
I was what, I don't know, maybe 19 years old, 20 years old.
00:57:00.760
And, and so I couldn't be sneaking out of the house anymore as the rascally teenager.
00:57:05.760
And so they brought in a new one and it was Leonardo DiCaprio who lived in the janitor's
00:57:16.700
He had an intrigue about him and he had a natural, authentic quality about his acting
00:57:24.620
And we all knew that he was going to go places.
00:57:26.440
And then he did, um, who's, uh, basketball diaries and yeah, Gilbert Grape.
00:57:33.120
And when he did those and he's working with De Niro and these, these other amazing actors,
00:57:40.860
So we were cheering him on way back on the set of growing page.
00:57:44.240
Now, much closer to home, you are, you have a star in your family, your family of origin.
00:57:49.200
Candace Cameron Burr is your sister and she's also a huge star.
00:57:53.940
She, my, my crack producer, Kelly tells me that she actually starred in like the most
00:57:58.100
successful, uh, movie on Hallmark Christmas movie ever Christmas under wraps under Hallmark's
00:58:06.600
And now she's jumped ship and she's gone over, um, to a new competitive, uh, sort of,
00:58:12.400
you know, sort of the non woke answer to the Hallmark channel.
00:58:16.940
Um, and I think this is actually an interesting experiment that they're doing over there because
00:58:20.980
it's, um, the guy, Bill Abbott, who used to run Hallmark is now running great American
00:58:24.520
family network, which is run by a friend of mine, Tom Hicks.
00:58:27.440
Uh, well, in part, he's got an ownership interest and their answer.
00:58:30.260
Cause Hallmark started getting like a kind of look, you could say woke, you could just say
00:58:34.080
more progressive, but they were not sticking to sort of the more, more traditional messages.
00:58:38.500
And Bill Abbott got in trouble over speaking out over it.
00:58:41.080
He's now running this other network and Candace, Candace is the chief content officer for the
00:58:47.340
She gave an interview to the wall street journal.
00:58:49.640
And of course they asked her if she expects her new channel to feature same sex couples as
00:58:57.300
I think the great American family will keep traditional marriage at the core.
00:59:00.760
Well, you're not allowed to say that as she found out.
00:59:05.940
And there was all this blowback on her with people like one tree Hill actress, Hillary Burton
00:59:13.860
So what do you make of the blowback that Candace got on that?
00:59:17.600
Well, I've known Candace my whole life and, um, there's, it, it, it was sort of amazing
00:59:26.560
to me because like, there's, there's nothing to talk about here.
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Candace is, is a person who's built an entire career on being the kindest, the sweetest, the
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most compassionate, the most, uh, loving toward all people, uh, regardless of their, their color,
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their creed, their religion, their beliefs, and, and all of that.
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So the fact that she wants to, uh, be working with a group of people that highlights things
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that she loves and celebrates and believes in, um, I mean, doesn't everybody do that?
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I mean, I mean, aren't there other people with other worldviews and beliefs that are really
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into their thing that they want to highlight and make their projects around those values?
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And Candace's values, um, uh, reflect the values of millions and millions of people, uh, across
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I mean, I, I go places and, uh, she's referred to as just as the Hallmark movie queen.
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Uh, people love her movie just because they make her, they make them feel good.
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You know, they get on their, their Hallmark sweater to sit down and watch their Hallmark
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Um, that's starring my sister Candace and, uh, that people would make some sort of a controversy
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over her wanting to celebrate and highlight movies and storylines that she really believes
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in is, um, yeah, that's, that's, that's crazy to me.
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And this is something that always mystifies me.
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You know, I have a lot of friends who are in gay and lesbian marriages that I support,
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but I also understand the objection by people who are deeply Christian, deep, deep, deeply
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faithful to anything other than traditional marriage.
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And, and honestly, like most of the thing about like Dave Rubin, he's a friend of mine.
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And he's in a gay marriage, he, he wouldn't object to, he would understand Candace.
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He would under, I I'm, I'm going out on a limb and taking a risk for how he feels, but
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You know, my marriage to my husband can be featured on Hallmark or someplace else.
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Not every channel needs to celebrate my choice.
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And I understand there's room in this country for people who have their own beliefs, but
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now, you know, what months among some sex it's, you're no longer allowed to have your
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That's one of the things I love about our country, right?
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I mean, when we really go back to the very, to the very root of all of this, we have enough
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room within our country, as you just said, Megan, for different communities to have a
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And we, we, we, we have so much diversity that, that exists within this country that we,
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And so if you go to a place that is 100% dogmatic in their religious view or in their, you know,
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a dictatorship or something like that, where you don't have freedom of speech, you don't
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have freedom of religion, freedom of expression, financial freedom, political freedom, religious
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You don't even have these conversations because it's, you know, stuff's just not allowed at
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all, but here in America, uh, the fact that you can even have, have a press that makes
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comments like this and create stories, uh, that don't make sense coming from, uh, someone
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like my sister, Candace, uh, just shows that we live in a very special place with lots and
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lots of freedom and people need to, I think, have a lot more respect for that and understand
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the, the, the precious and rare gift we have here to be able to live in different ways
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It'd be one thing if great American family channel was the only channel on earth.
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And so if it's not represented on that channel, no one's ever going to see what a gay marriage
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looks like or what, you know, whether you can see a happy union like that, there's plenty
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Like it's not, we are not living in 1950 anymore.
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It's 2022 and gay marriage is very well represented and celebrated on most channels now.
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So in any event, um, it reminded me of something that with you, because one of the secrets
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to your marriage is not only do you absolutely love and revere it one another, but you are
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not one of those actors who's running around doing the hot, steamy sex scenes with actresses
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Like you, you got to sing where you, you will only kiss your wife even on the air.
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Like you're not making out with other actresses.
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If a, if a scene calls for it, is that, is that true?
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Um, I, unfortunately, well, you know, I, I, I, I do too.
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You know, I, I, um, worked on a movie called fireproof and fireproof is a movie all about
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And it's about the story of a firefighter who's doing great at his job.
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He can put out burning buildings, but his marriage is, uh, going up in flames at home
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And, uh, his dad gives him this book called the love dare.
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And it's a 40 day challenge, uh, to see if he's man enough to love his wife unconditionally,
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And it gives him a thing to do every day and it, it wrecks him.
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And he finally recognizes that the problem isn't his wife.
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And then he, he gets right with his wife and, uh, he reconciles with her in the fire
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It's a beautiful romantic scene where, where they run toward each other in slow motion.
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And, and she says, I want to grow old with you.
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Well, I, I, I said, you know what, this is something that I've stood at an altar and
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said that I would only do with my wife and, uh, call it make believe or not.
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Um, I know how this would make me feel if I saw my wife doing this.
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And so we, we, we, we did things, flew my wife out.
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We, she'd put on a wig that matched the actress's hair in the, in the movie.
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So you couldn't tell, but when I'm kissing my wife in the movie, I'm actually kissing
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my wife, Chelsea on screen, not the actress who played my wife.
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And some people actually thought that was, um, such an inconvenience to the production
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and an offense to them personally, that, uh, that sort of, I wasn't professional enough
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And I thought, you know, I've got to choose my priorities here.
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I'm not nearly as concerned about what the industry thinks or what these individuals think.
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Uh, I'm much more concerned about what my wife thinks because I want my marriage to last
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We've got a lot of skin in the game and I don't want to do anything that's going to
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So that's just been a conviction of mine and nobody else has to copy that, but it's one that,
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I, I love the whole thing and I, I want to talk about it more.
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Where you'll, they'll see the kiss, the people on who watch it on YouTube.
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And I want what happened to you to happen to me.
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My other producer, Canadian Debbie just said in my ear, I bet Jennifer Aniston wishes Brad
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Pitt had the same rule for when they were married.
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I mean, I mean, it's, it's, it's amazing, um, that there are things that we really ought
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And, and so many things is like, we just don't treat them that way.
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Um, and, and I, don't you think I can look back on my life and say, yeah, that's true.
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In the same way, like I've, I've interviewed felons, you know, people who serve time for
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And I've had this conversation a few times where if you crossing the first ethical line
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It's, it's a bigger deal than the bigger ethical lines you cross down the line, right?
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Because there's sort of a before and after moment.
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And I understand kissing for a movie role is acting, but let's be honest.
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I'm sure in a lot of those circumstances, there is a spark.
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I realize there's people on the set and the whole bit, but come on.
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And I'm referencing Brad Pitt things because that he, you know, supposedly fell in love
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with Angelina while they were making that movie, Mr. and Mrs. Smith together, which
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So I, I too would not want to see my husband kissing another woman, even if it were for show.
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And I too would feel like it was crossing a line that I'm sure he would not want me to
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cross and would probably try if I were an actress to avoid roles that required that of
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And I, I, it's important to me also to point out that, um, I, I love what you're saying
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and I, I, I, um, I, I respect you for feeling that way.
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Um, and at the same time, I want people to know that like, you know, listen carefully,
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uh, neither me or Megan are saying that like, this is a moral standard that we're trying
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And, um, no, this is something that I, that I want to do.
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And, um, I want to keep making decisions like that.
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You know what it reminds me of, um, Mike Pence and all the blowback he got when he said he
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wouldn't have a meeting alone with a woman, you know, not his wife.
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And I understood, trust me as a, as a woman of the 21st century, I get what people were
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He can't control himself or women are gonna be throwing themselves at him.
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This is, you know, women are everywhere in modern day, uh, America in the business world,
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Having grown up in the legal industry and then the news industry, they can be incestuous
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It's like, instead of just completely beating the guy up, why didn't more people pause and
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say, maybe there's like a pearl of wisdom there to be gleaned for people.
01:10:00.440
You know, somebody put it to me this, this way, uh, one time that it, you know, it's,
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it's like, um, one of the places I love to go is Yosemite and there's a place called
01:10:08.500
Tuolumne Meadows and there's a very windy, dangerous road that leads you there here in
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the Sierra Nevada is out here on the West coast.
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And, uh, there's maybe a 2000 foot cliff that you go over.
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If you, if you get too close to the edge of that road, I'm not going 50 miles an hour
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up against the guardrails, uh, creating sparks on that thing, just cause I think it's fun.
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I'm going to hug the other side of the road because the reward at the top is much, much
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greater than the thrill of riding the guardrails.
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I feel that way, uh, also in, in, in my faith and with my children, there's way too much at
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And the reward is too great, uh, when I finish well, and I don't want to lose that.
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I think, uh, to, to one of your other points, Megan, this was, um, um, cool that, that, that
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Uh, I think my faith in God also plays a great role in the ability to make decisions like that,
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Like for instance, um, one of the concerns was, wow, man, Kirk, if, if you don't, if you
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don't cross some of these moral, uh, lines that you've drawn for yourself, uh, these ethical
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boundaries that, uh, you know, they're not universal.
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Uh, you may lose a job, you may burn a bridge, and this may affect your career and your income.
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I'm sure that there's roles that I've lost because, oh, Kirk has content issues or Kirk's
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got some moral boundaries and that's ridiculous.
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Um, but my faith is not in Hollywood's ability to make me happy and successful because of their
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My faith is in a God who put me here for a reason that is much bigger than Hollywood
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and that he will take care of my family and my reputation is what's important to me.
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I want to, I'm, I'm, I'm here on the stage of the world for a short period of time.
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And then I trust the one who's watching over me.
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I, it definitely hurt you in your book deal because I, I saw the story on Fox.
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I love as a news person, I love it because the, you have a book out, uh, it's a children's
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book and it's called as you grow and it celebrates faith, family, and biblical wisdom.
01:12:35.420
Well, Fox news has the report out that over 50 public libraries, this is spectacular, have
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either outright rejected you or not responded to requests on your behalf for you, Kirk Cameron,
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a big star to show up and do a story hour on your book about faith, family, and biblical
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Uh, the same libraries that are actively offering drag queen story hours or similar programs
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Some of these library programs, according to Fox, uh, promote gender fluidity, inclusion,
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Others offer name change clinics for older teens and adults who want to alter their paperwork
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They went down and called a bunch of these libraries.
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They promote a regular offering for young people called queer umbrella.
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They didn't want you city Heights, uh, Weingart branch library in San Diego.
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We don't want Kirk Cameron and on down the list.
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It teaches on things like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness,
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I mean, it's, it's not like children, uh, in public schools today are struggling with
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mental illness, drug overdoses, cyber bullying, and school shootings, and could use a book
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on kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control.
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Why would they want to hear a story hour about that?
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We need to see somebody guy, some guy gyrating in front of our four-year-olds.
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You know, what, what's, what's, uh, what's interesting about this is that it's highlighting
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the, the, the moral war that's going on here and, and how, who could be opposed to
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I don't think it is, uh, a misalignment of, um, of messaging per se, but I think that the
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messaging is misleading from some of these libraries and groups where, where tolerance
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Um, and coexisting, uh, feels to me to be more like, um, a cloak for conquest of ideologies
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And all I'm asking for is to be able to use the same space that other people have used
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in the same way to teach children wisdom through their seasons of their life.
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As they go through difficult times, uh, happy times, sad times, challenging times, and learn
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to develop patience and kindness and perseverance so that they can flourish as truly radical.
01:15:30.240
Well, as I said, that's just radical stuff, but here's the good news.
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The good news, Megan, is that parents and grandparents and librarians are rising up, speaking
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up, they're calling, they want the book because they want to host their own story hour in their
01:15:48.740
Actually, I've written letters to some of these libraries that you mentioned, uh, telling
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them that I hope that this is a misunderstanding.
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I sent them a free copy of the book to review, to give to their patrons, uh, whatever, and
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that I'd like to come in and actually read the book and we'll pay the fees and go through
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And that if they don't change their mind and want to continue to exclude certain viewpoints
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that I'm prepared to assert my constitutional rights in court.
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And, uh, we're looking forward to being able to go to those libraries soon.
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That'll be a fun, a fun showdown for the librarians too.
01:16:23.740
So I'll, I will be covering that as it unfolds.
01:16:26.500
Now you mentioned something a couple of times, uh, totalitarianism, the absence of faith leading
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And this brings me to COVID and what's happened to our country, because I have to tell you
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I was very hardcore and remain hardcore anti-mask mandate.
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I'm also anti-mask for myself and people I love.
01:16:56.540
It was, I think, December of 2020 and did something radical.
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And we have a clip of the crazy helicopter news coverage of your event.
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It's just a good reminder too of how insane people were over this issue and really kind
01:17:19.760
It looks like actor Kirk Cameron may be hosting another large Christmas gathering.
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Let's go to Air 7 HD and Chris Christie for the details.
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He has announced that he is, uh, well, he's told people to plan on this event.
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It's a caroling event outside of the Oaks Mall.
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We're looking at about 75 to 100 carolers, not one of them wearing a mask, by the way.
01:17:45.740
There are children, there are senior citizens and everything in between here.
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We are, again, outside the mall, but directly next to a COVID testing site.
01:17:54.700
So clearly a crusade of a COVID denialist outside the whole thing, by the way, outside, you know,
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Megan, this, this was, this was one of the most joyful things that people had done in
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months in our community, because, you know, here in the communist state of California,
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under our governor, uh, Gavin Newsom, we were essentially under house arrest for so long.
01:18:18.500
We were stuck, not just for the initial 14, 15 days, but then the governor says, we're
01:18:31.780
The mental health issues, the anxiety, the depression, the suicide.
01:18:35.460
And all people wanted to do was to find somebody who said, look, the fear virus is worse than
01:18:43.180
How about you join me outside and let's sing Hark the Herald Angels Sing at Christmas time?
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And by the way, you don't have to come if you don't want to.
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If you're not afraid, join me and let's sing a little town of Bethlehem and joy to the world.
01:19:01.420
And you'd have thought that we were burning down the mall.
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Actually, actually, remember that was during the times of some of the season of riots.
01:19:15.200
And maybe if we had actually thrown chairs through windows and like lit things on fire,
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they wouldn't have they wouldn't have covered it so much.
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Well, in the medical community, you couldn't get COVID.
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So, yeah, if you'd gotten just a little bit more violent, you would have been fine.
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So, gosh, I just I just think that critical thinking is in short supply these days.
01:19:38.700
And with all of the censorship that has gone on, particularly through all of the pandemic
01:19:43.740
and all of that, and now we're seeing all this stuff with the election and Elon Musk
01:19:47.800
and Twitter and all these things, all of us start to go like, you know, people are finally
01:19:52.840
I didn't think I mean, you know, how could this be bad?
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Well, all we have to do is read history a little bit.
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And we understand that government is it's got its lane.
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But once it gets out of its lane, it becomes very dangerous.
01:20:08.200
And the government is not here to be in charge of your health care or mine or the education
01:20:17.020
And that's why it's important to read the Constitution, to understand the difference
01:20:28.780
And there are walls of separation that are very important between them so that you don't
01:20:33.040
have a government like the pilgrims had in England, where your king becomes the head
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And he determines everything you do from cradle to the grave.
01:20:47.100
We turn the world upside down and put the power and authority into the hands of the people
01:20:51.720
to govern themselves rather than to be beaten into submission by a dictator, a king or a
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And we lose those liberties all too quickly if we don't stand up and fight for them.
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The series for the book, again, is called As You Grow.
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You can get it despite the objections of your possible local librarian.
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Answers questions like, what made America so special?
01:21:21.080
And listening to Kirk Cameron, you can hear not only does he understand what the proper
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You are part of what has made my America so special, Kirk Cameron.
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I'm happy that Dr. Jay Bhattacharya is going to be back on.
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He's going to talk about the news this week about the lunatics at Twitter suppressing