100% Accurate Dating Hacks ｜ Michael Knowles (Flow Chart)
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In this video, The Love Doctor explains why looks are not the most important thing in a woman s mind when it comes to a man's ability to get a woman. He explains why virtue is more important than looks.
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Hey everybody, it's the Love Doctor here, your romance guru from The Daily Wire to help those
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of you who are struggling in your romantic life to go out there and get the guy or girl of your
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dreams. Now I'm going to focus here mostly on the fellas trying to get the ladies. The reason I got
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to make this video is because there are a lot of people who are giving advice to young men who are
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having an increasingly difficult time in their romantic lives and they're giving them kind of
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bad advice. Slap, slap, grab, choke, shut up, sex. Okay, and so I as a board certified love physician
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have to come in and correct the record. This video is sponsored by Janusel. More from them in a minute.
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First, let's get started. I saw a video by someone named the Wheat Worker or something. What's the
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guy's name? Wheat Waffle. And the Wheat Waffle had advice for men. This is the tried and true
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rationalist system for how to get a chick. Okay, so here's what he had to say.
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In this video, I'm going to be telling you how you should play your cards in dating based on your
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looks. In other words, depending on which category you fall, you'll have a different set of procedures
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to get the best bang for your buck out of dating. Any blue box is an action you need to take, for
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example, looks maxing? And any green box is a question you need to ask yourself. The first of
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which is, are you a sub five, normie, or chads? Okay, all right. So he's saying I'm basing all of
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this on looks. I'm not saying looks don't matter. Looks matter a lot, but looks actually are not the
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most important thing. Even if you want to improve how you look, you shouldn't think first of how you
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look. You've got to look at something a little deeper. So he opens up with, are you sub five,
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like on a one to 10 scale, I assume? Are you a normie, or are you a chad? So I've changed this
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to, are you homely? Are you a normie, or basically average to perfectly fine looking person? Or are you
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a big, you know, giga chad of donks? So which of those do you fall into? And then this guy,
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he says, okay, if you're a sub five, can you looks max to normie? And I take by looks max,
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he means, can you hit the gym, get certain, even maybe get cosmetic procedures done? Can you get
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better clothing? Can you do whatever you got to do, grow beers or something to, to bump yourself up
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from the homely category to the normal category? Okay. And then for the chad, he doesn't need to
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worry about the looks max. Okay. I get rid of that. Get out of here. Get out of here, man.
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You know what I'm saying? Now the question you have to ask yourself is, are you virtuous? Now,
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if you're a normie, the question you've got to ask yourself is, are you virtuous? Okay. And then,
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and this is where it gets a little confusing. If you were just a cool, hot giga chad,
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the question that you should ask yourself before you start to analyze your dating life is,
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are you virtuous? So that's going to be a yes or a no. If you are not virtuous, you should practice
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virtue. If you are virtuous, we'll get to that in a second. The reason you should begin with this
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here is not because I'm trying to avoid the issue of looks or the issue of, you know, dieting or going
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to the gym or anything like that. But if you practice the virtues, you will look smacks. You will
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look better because let's say you've fallen into the sin of gluttony. That's one of your vices.
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Well, if you practice virtue, you're going to stop being quite so gluttonous and you're going to put
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the cupcake down. But it's not only going to end, it's not going to end there because you're going
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to have other things that you think about as well. Are you, I don't know, lustful? Well, if you're
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really lustful, that's going to screw up your dating life. One, you're probably going to be looking at a
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bunch of porn and, you know, doing what Woody Allen called having sex with someone you love.
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And that's not going to make you look good. It's going to make you look terrible. It's going to
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make you have a, have your brain melt and it's going to, to cause you to be all like a big weirdo,
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like a pervert, you know? So you don't want to do that. Start out by virtue maxing. That will fix all
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of these other problems, not just your looks, but all the rest of you because you're an integrated
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person. You're not just a facade with like either the chiseled, cool Chad jaw or the, you know,
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no chin kind of homely, not doing very well kind of guy. Now, if you're practicing the virtues,
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okay, then you go to the next level. That's, are you cultured? When I say, are you cultured? I mean,
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do you know anything about anything? It seems to me that the essential quarrel that the intellectuals
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have with the free society is that it is almost on a continuing basis, plebiscitary.
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Do you have interests? Do you have hobbies? Are you curious about things? Do you read books? Do you
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listen to music? If you don't, if you're not cultured, then the next step would be learn things,
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learn anything. Just pick up any book, pick up a book on ornithology, just anything. I promise you,
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So if you are cultured, then we move on to the next phase. Do you have dating options within your
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social circle? Now, Mr. Wheat Waffle also raises this question. So it starts out with the chat here.
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He says, are you looking for a relationship or casual dating? Okay, so first of all, right there,
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relationship or casual dating, that's another place he's going totally wrong because you're not going
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to virtue max if you're considering just casually dating. That means just hooking up, right? Rather
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than engaging in a love affair with someone that has an end that is proper and will be conducive to
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both of your flourishing and you're not just consuming one another for pleasure like you're
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a couple of hyenas or demons. Hopefully, you're interested in love within its proper context.
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Okay, good. Then, you say relationship. Are you interested in casual dating? Casual,
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are you neurotypical? Neurotypical is one of these new phrases. It just refers to being autistic or
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not autistic. And it says if you're autistic, then you've got to go to online dating because it means
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you won't be as socially adept as other people. And if you're neurotypical, then you should do day
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and night game and online dating, which is all these little tricks to pick up chicks and then
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steal their virtue and leave them high and dry. So erase all of that, okay? Then, though, he says,
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if you're looking for a relationship, do you have dating options from within your social circle?
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If it's a yes, you go to a warm approach. If it's no, you go, do you live in a big city? If the answer
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is no, it says relocate. Leave your nice community, leave your country, just get out of here. Okay,
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no. Question is, do you have dating options within your social circle? If the answer is yes,
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you get to the question, are you confident? We'll get to that a little bit later. If the answer is
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no, you don't have dating options within your social circle, then you've got to join social
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circles that include women that you would like to marry. I know this is mind-blowing stuff here,
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folks. Minds will be blown. It just means, hey, okay, maybe instead of looking for women
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just in my friends of friends or, you know, my sister's friends or something, I'm going to look
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for women at a church. I'm going to start going to church. I'll get involved in politics. I'll join,
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I don't know, the young Republicans or something, or I'll join a bowling league. I don't know.
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Whatever it is, you've got to put your, you're probably not going to meet a lot of women who
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want to get married at a bowling league. But you will at church or other places like that. Okay,
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so then you have to put yourself in those situations. It gets very complicated for this
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pickup artist guy here because there are so many options. There's no tea loss to what he's doing.
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There's no point to it. It's just, okay, is it going to titillate you to hook up with a blonde
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today? Or do you want to get married and have children? You know, there's so many options here.
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But if you are following that first step, then you're going to recognize that no,
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everything has a purpose. And dating has a purpose, which is to get married and have children. Okay.
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Let's say you do have dating options within your social circle. The question is, are you confident?
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If the answer is no, we need to go back up the chart to practice virtue.
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If you have improved at anything, you will become more confident. You'll say, I am able to do
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something. I have some measure of control over my life. Don't try to fake it. There are a lot of
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pickup artist types who will say, fake it till you make it. No, people smell that out in two seconds.
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You like me because I'm a scoundrel. That's going to be the best, surest way
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to get some confidence. So are you confident? You've tried that. You go back through the list
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again. Okay. Yes, you are confident. So here's the next step. This one, this really trips a lot
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of people up. You need to ask a girl out. You need to go up to a girl and say, hey, you want to get a
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drink sometime? Hey, would you like to have dinner? Hey, let's go for a walk. If you do that,
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you might get rejected. Do you have a six pack? No.
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Sorry. Yeah, sure. You might. You might get rejected a bunch. But if you do it sincerely,
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not in a sketchy way, you might, you might be accepted even if you do it in a weird kind of
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sketchy, dodgy way. But the better is you just go up. Hey, you want to go out?
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Oh, um, no, thank you. No, I've got a boyfriend.
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Okay. All right. That's fine. It's too bad. Lucky guy.
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Oh, um, no, I'm not really interested in a relationship right now.
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Oh, okay. That's true. I sort of am interested, but you know, okay, that's fine. Listen,
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you tell me whenever you're interested, you let me know. Doesn't need to be, you know,
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are you, are you going to marry me? It doesn't need to be how many children do you want to just
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be, Hey, you want to get a, you want to have a cup of coffee? Now you got the girl on the date.
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Homely guys, normie guys, Chad guys have all gotten married for all of human history.
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You could do it too. If you follow those steps, now you got the girl on the date. The question
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then is, do you find this girl more desirable? Obviously you found the girl desirable before the
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date. That's why you asked her out. So then the question is after that date, do you find her
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more desirable than you did before? Because what that will tell you is you're not just infatuated.
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You're not just trying to get a wife, get a girlfriend in a generic way, but you really
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like this particular person because you're going to marry a particular person. You're not going to
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marry a generic figure. The final step is you ask her out again, and then you repeat this step until
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you either break up or get married. This is kind of the real version of, you know, work on yourself,
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just work on yourself. Now don't just work on yourself and make yourself feel really good. It's
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do the things that objectively are good for you and will lead to a flourishing life. And then
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step by step, by step, by step, by step, by step, you get married and you have lots of kids.