In this episode, Father Gregory Pine of the Order of Preachers joins me to talk about St. Thomas Aquinas and his impact on the Catholic intellectual tradition. He's a professor of philosophy at the Dominican House of Studies, as well as the Assistant Director of the Thomistic Institute, named after the aforementioned saint, Thomas, Aquinas, and the author of Training the Tongue and Growing Beyond Sin's Speech.
00:45:56.560A lot of people think you can lie in any number of ways.
00:45:58.800But we all recognize at a certain level that if we were free to lie, okay, in a sense that like it couldn't be adjudicated, it was non-justiciable, then you couldn't make contracts.
00:46:48.380The types of things which we agree represent a kind of atrocity in the case of the event and social progress that we recognize that corporately as representing an atrocity.
00:46:57.160So just as soon as somebody admits that, they're granting something after the manner of objectivity.
00:47:38.120That's a very wise statement because I think it explains all of it.
00:47:41.260They want to be really nice and inclusive and polite in a certain understanding of politeness, probably a misbegotten understanding of politeness.
00:47:53.200And so they backfill a bunch of philosophical gobbledygook and anthropological gobbledygook to just get to their end which is, shouldn't we be nice to the gays or something?
00:48:04.760I mean that's like a lot of our discourse, especially as pertains to sexual morality over the last 10 years, basically comes down to like, hey, I have a gay cousin.
00:48:29.420And so I think it's like, yeah, I find, I mean in conversations that I'll often have with people regarding hangups to Catholic conversion.
00:48:37.800So it's like this person's an atheist or this person's a Protestant or this person's Orthodox and they're thinking about becoming Catholic, but they've got this one doctrinal hangup.
00:48:46.080Sometimes I'll just, I'll try to figure out if there are actually practical considerations in the background.
00:49:06.560Because, you know, you think about Protestants who are thinking about becoming Catholic, that will entail a reorientation of a lot of relationships, you know, because while they may recognize, you know, that becoming Catholic is not the worst thing in the world, there may be some individuals in their family or in their friend group who think of it under that aspect.
00:49:38.280And so, like, I think a lot of us just have difficulty distinguishing between people, their desires, and the realization of their desires, you know?
00:49:45.200And so, like, this person's becoming Catholic, and we just say bad person.
00:49:48.880We don't necessarily, but someone might say bad person.
00:49:51.440Or, you know, as it concerns, like, the same-sex attraction, homosexual orientation, or whatever it is, it's like, you know, unless you wholly embrace, unless you wholly validate what I do, that's a rejection of me as an individual.
00:50:03.500It's like, I didn't say that, you know, but if that's your interpretive lens, then I'm kind of stuck, as it were.
00:50:09.500So I think that a lot of the discourse breaks down when we fail to make basic distinctions, and, yeah, when we fail to actually facilitate a real conversation as to what matters or what the people are actually concerned about.
00:50:20.580Yeah, that does, it just, this idea from that St. Thomas prayer keeps coming up, which is, and even I miss it sometimes, because I really like the abstract stuff, and I love the precision of nailing down every premise, but, no, maybe it's that this person is dealing with an aberrant attraction, or is too, I don't know, connected to some particular vice, or they don't want to disappoint, you know, Aunt Gertrude or something like that.
00:50:50.060And, in a way that, in a way that's much more easily answered, though, maybe more difficult to actually live out when you realize that that's the obstacle, that's the stumbling block.
00:51:02.940I think, I mean, I think about it, too, in terms of, I mean, you say things on the internet, and presumably people on the internet disagree with some of the things that you say.
00:51:13.520At a spiritual director, I would always say, from time to time.
00:51:16.160But, like, in my own very limited experience, I do, like, a quarter of a fraction of not that much.
00:51:23.040But, like, a lot of people tell me to my face that I haven't done well, and which can be difficult, obviously, because I'm proud, you know, and I'm angry, and I'm vainglorious.
00:51:31.380And, like, recently, I just, in those moments, I just pray for the grace to not be against that person.
00:51:38.320You know, because I think that, like, a lot of discourse comes down to the recognition, like, it's not us versus them in many instances.
00:51:43.720There are instances in which it's powers and principalities.
00:51:46.340You know, it's not with flesh and blood.
00:51:47.620And you just got to be straightforward about that.
00:51:49.720There's no sense in, like, making everyone out to be just whatever.
00:51:56.660But, like, just to not be against that person.
00:51:58.920Like, I was having a conversation with somebody the other day, and this individual was informing me as to ways in which things that I said could be misinterpreted and applied in a way that would hurt people, which I'm sensible to.
00:52:08.800Like, certain things that the individual said, I don't necessarily agree with.
00:52:11.860But at the end of it, I just said, like, hey, because she was basically moving to the exit because she just expected me to be angry with her, you know, in my proud, vainglorious way, which is a reasonable expectation.
00:52:25.700And I said, like, hey, if you don't want to go, you don't have to go.
00:52:28.720I'm not against you, you know, and I'm open to the things that you're saying and dot, dot, dot, you know.
00:52:35.220And eventually she did have to go because blah, blah, blah, and thus and such.
00:52:37.560But, like, I think that we often have it in our minds that it's us versus them.
00:52:42.120Well, truth be told, it's, I mean, it's us versus the evil one, and the evil one is sowing up.
00:53:34.400Because the American right has adopted a position that actually comes from liberalism.
00:53:40.920It was more of a left-wing position, but now they've adopted, which is free speech absolutism, that you should be able to say not just, like, things within the confines of justice and morality and the law, but, like, literally everything, and there should be no consequences for it whatsoever.
00:54:01.700I don't think that's a traditional conservative view or a Christian view.
00:54:06.180So, how do we rein in our nasty little tongues?
00:54:09.540So, I think the first step is a recognition of the purpose of the faculty of speech, which is communion, without sounding too—what did you refer to it earlier as woo-woo?
00:54:19.980A little woo-woo, a little, you know—
00:54:22.540Okay, yeah, woo-woo or touchy-feely or whatever it is.
00:54:27.180But, like, the point is to come together in a sense that—and this is a traditional philosophical position, namely that we are social animals or political animals.
00:54:36.400Sometimes you'll hear it conjugal animals.
00:56:13.800Because I think that is how many people, including conservatives, many of them, view themselves, view their human nature, and view the ideal of human nature as, you know, the kind of person who can, if I want to serve God, I will serve God.
00:56:29.560And if I don't, by golly, that's my right as an American, isn't it?
00:56:33.100And I think that's not, the Mayflower pilgrims were Protestants.
00:56:39.000They didn't have, probably have a fully Thomistic view of things.
00:56:41.520But I don't think they would have agreed with that statement, you know.
00:56:44.300I don't think they would have agreed with this notion that freedom is for the option of license.
00:56:52.320And yet, that now predominates, certainly on the left, but also on the right.
00:56:57.900Yeah, so I think the idea is that freedom is the promise of fulfillment.
00:57:01.080It's the promise of flourishing, but we need to, we need to heal.
00:57:05.740We need to discipline our human activity in a virtuous fashion so that we can come together.
00:57:11.140And so, on that basis, then, like these, I make the emphasis in the book about cultivating verbal virtue, because I think a lot of time when we hear sins of speech, we hear like, root this out, root that out, root the other thing out.
00:57:21.900And at the end of the day, if all you do is root out weeds from a garden, you just have an empty garden.
00:57:29.140And there might be weeds that crop up, but the idea is that they'll get kind of forced to the periphery, and then they'll be easier to identify, easier to root out by God's gift.
00:57:38.380So, yeah, just like telling the truth is something so basic, but there's a recognition that the only way in which we can genuinely share is on the basis of the truth.
00:57:46.600Because if I project some false notion of who I am, you know, let's say that I tell you that I like, I know a lot about New York sports.
00:57:52.560I don't know anything about New York sports.
00:58:14.340So, yeah, so if I were to pretend to be other than I am, that's not real communion.
00:58:19.900You know, it's just like I'd always be insecure in the sense like if he finds out that I'm actually a Philadelphia sports fan, he's going to know that I come from a kind of strange middle-class town where people use the F word not just as a point of exclamation, but also as a conjunction, as a verb, as a noun, as a, I mean, it comes in as commas sometimes.
00:58:40.240You know, it's just like, you know, it's like it's somewhat of a crass city.
00:58:42.600I'm not going to impress anyone by the fact of being from Philadelphia, except for Philadelphians, you know, because it's kind of a cult.
00:59:08.600And it's not always clear what it's for at the outset.
00:59:11.280Like, I think if you approach somebody whom you don't know and say like, let's talk about very serious things, that person can be like back away slowly.
00:59:31.020So, yeah, the idea there is that we're hosting a conversation because talking helps because life is worth sharing, because we have a hope that we can go to God together.
00:59:41.340And so then in order to do that, we need to encourage people to come kind of out of the cold and like gather around the hearth.
00:59:48.400Like, it's cold out there and we just lose touch with our extremities.
00:59:53.800But when you gather around a fire, you can feel life returning.
00:59:56.680And I think that's what conversation is meant to do.
00:59:58.840It's meant to welcome people into a human exchange, a human encounter.
01:00:02.160But in order to do that, like, we need to build each other up because if we're always criticizing each other, whether to each other's faces or behind each other's backs, then there's a suspicion which keeps us at a distance.
01:00:14.580We're never going to be able to open up.
01:00:17.700So I think that, yeah, the basic idea is the promise of communion is real, but that we need to discipline our faculty of speech in pursuit thereof.
01:00:24.400Yeah, I've heard lying described as contraceptive speech.
01:00:39.880So I love the idea also that you cultivate these positive virtues because going back to good old Aristotle, you know, he describes sort of four states of virtue in my recollection of the ethics, which is they're the people who are just vicious.
01:00:57.580You know, they just, they love sinning, man.
01:02:08.100So, leave pre-algebra at the door next time.
01:02:09.960Okay, so, the promise is that it becomes easier, prompter, yet more joyful to act out of those kind of good dispositions.
01:02:19.440So, I think, like, a lot of what we're doing as we seek to respond to the various goods in our life generously is we're addressing various obstacles or hindrances.
01:02:29.620Like, a lot of times, when we recognize, like, I'd like to be more attached to this good, it will mean a kind of detachment from other things.
01:02:36.700Like, if I'm going to be wholeheartedly for this, I'm going to have to leave other things behind.
01:02:40.900So, you think about, like, an athlete, for instance.
01:02:43.180Let's say that, you know, a talented basketball player, the point guard for the Philadelphia 76ers is named Tyrese Maxey.
01:02:48.980Let's say at the age of 12, he came to appreciate that he was better than a lot of his classmates.
01:02:52.500And he realized that if he really invested in this, that, like, he might be good.
01:02:58.260And let's say at the time, like, he was in the school play, he was on the mathletes, you know, he was doing scholars bowl.
01:03:14.200But he probably said to himself, like, listen, these things all meet at the same time.
01:03:18.140I'm going to have to detach from certain lower goods in order to attach to certain higher goods.
01:03:23.000And human life's like that in the sense that, like, you know, I like Sour Patch Kids and I like cool conversations with cool people by chance happenstance.
01:03:33.800And I like Eucharistic Holy Hours, right?
01:03:37.920Don't yet know what it's going to be like entirely, but I've had some glimpses, you know?
01:03:41.340Okay, so let's just say that it's Ash Wednesday, all right, and I can only have one meal today because that's the church's law.
01:03:49.780And I might be lusting after Sour Patch Kids, but this lower good has to take the backseat to this higher good in the circumstances, right?
01:03:57.920And truth be told, my affections should not be as enslaved to Sour Patch Kids as they are in fact.
01:04:03.400And so I'm seeking to mature such that these higher goods have more purchase, that they have more claim to me.
01:04:08.480And so I think that, like, what's happening as our characters are developed is that, like, a space is being created in our life to accommodate those goods.
01:04:16.560And, yeah, like, we're addressing certain obstacles or certain hindrances to the full realization.
01:04:21.060But then we're also coming before God and saying, like, hey, if this is going to work, it's going to be you who does it.
01:04:26.960So, one, grant me the grace to desire it, and two, bring it to perfection.
01:04:31.960So, yeah, the promise is that it should be easy, which is wild.
01:04:35.880Before I let you go, I know you have to, you've done one of these whirlwinds.
01:04:39.380And I actually, I enjoy doing this myself, fly in and out same day.
01:05:25.440So I think goodness comes from beyond us, irrespective of whether one believes or does not believe.
01:05:34.460Like even Aristotle recognized that there's a certain measure of chance, luck, fortune.
01:05:40.500He thought that the virtuous man needed that.
01:05:42.960And so in Aristotle's estimation, virtue is kind of an aristocratic thing, because he thinks that you need to have enough time, enough leisure, enough money in order to be genuinely virtuous, virtuous in the plenary sense.
01:05:52.900But part of what I think is especially beautiful about the proclamation of the gospel is that the Lord's for each and every.
01:05:59.680And not like a Marxist, you know, like he recognizes that there's, there's a certain goodness to differentiation, because he wants to incorporate us in a mystical body.
01:06:08.380He doesn't want us to just like be blandly egalitarian.
01:06:10.700Just a blob, like some kind of Marxist gray blob.
01:06:17.460And so I think that each human being can have the confidence that his life, her life is not an accident.
01:06:25.580There might be bad things that happen, decidedly bad things.
01:06:29.260You may have experienced some measure of pain, a heaping helping of suffering.
01:06:33.500There might be a lot of like seeming incoherences, but it's part of a story.
01:06:38.700And that story redounds to God's glory and potentially your salvation.
01:06:42.820And so you can have the confidence that if you gaze into it, like it won't be the void that gazes back.
01:06:49.220Like, so like, I think like a couple of preparatory virtues, which I commend to all people of all times and places are curiosity and honesty in the sense, like be curious about what you're actually experiencing.
01:06:59.280I think a lot of people are worried to inquire as to what's going on in their life because they fear that there are no answers or there are no solutions.
01:07:05.980But the fact of the matter is just taking on someone else's counsel or authority that there are.
01:07:17.360I am less than I ought to be or I am, you know, I think a lot of people feel that they are simultaneously too little and too much, which is a terrible place to be.
01:07:24.880But you can stand to be curious about your experience and honest with what you find.
01:07:28.360And you can try to hand that over, you know, like goodness comes from without.
01:07:33.520And if there's going to be a goodness that enters your life, it's often going to be by asking for help from a friend, from a member of your family, from a trusted kind of source of wisdom, somebody who's been through it, somebody who's, whatever, been down that road.
01:07:46.100But ultimately, like, I think that that network of relationships and interactions is meant to conduct us to God.
01:07:51.720And so when he comes knocking, you're probably going to be able to recognize the sound at the very least and maybe even the voice.
01:07:58.760So, yeah, even in my attempts to be less than preachy, I end up being more than preachy.
01:08:04.060But, like, it's just, yeah, people can have the courage to live their lives because it's not beyond us.
01:08:08.920People need a little preaching sometimes.
01:09:12.160So I think part of the reason for which I think it's good to navigate around craft speech or naughty language, as you describe it, is that it tends to lower the tone of a conversation.
01:09:22.280And when you consciously or deliberately lower the tone of a conversation, I think you open the door to further verbal vices or to further sins of speech.
01:09:31.920So when you say, like, hey, this is a place in which we say this word, that word, the other word, it seems to suggest this is a place in which we detract, calumniate, and otherwise gossip.
01:09:40.780Because it's like, hey, you know, you can let your hair down.
01:09:43.880Hey, you know, you can be at your leisure and say whatever occurs to you in the moment.
01:09:48.580And so I think that, like, it goes back to the idea that speech is for communion, that we're meant to build each other up, not in, like, patronizing or condescending ways, like patting each other on the proverbial head.
01:09:59.220But in a sense that I think there's a lot of excellence that lies hidden in each of us that requires the community, in a certain sense, to recognize and then to elicit.
01:10:08.620I think it's like the office of a friend to kind of coax the good out of his friend.
01:10:12.400Not in that, like, again, it's not in that, like, he knows better.
01:10:14.880But I think that there are ways in which our friends pull things out of us.
01:10:17.700And I think that our speech should reflect that.