Libs are everywhere and they re trying to turn you into a big lib, but it s like it s not working. I ve got a binder full of desperate Libs trying to figure out love and romance and I m here to solve their problems.
00:05:12.880After having the baby, I struggled to lose baby weight and also struggled with postpartum depression.
00:05:17.120I wasn't really focused on my appearance.
00:05:18.880Then my husband started making comments about my body and how I should start working out and wearing makeup again.
00:05:22.760It made me feel really awful and I worried that he might start looking elsewhere because we weren't being intimate anymore.
00:05:27.940He even suggested hiring a nanny so I could have more time for myself, but I wanted to be there for our baby full-time, so I turned down the offer.
00:05:34.480That made him angry and he started acting cold toward me.
00:05:37.520Months went by without any hugs, kisses, romance, or any kind of affection.
00:05:41.000My self-esteem, okay, I'm going to put a pause here.
00:05:42.920I guarantee this husband is addicted to porn.
00:06:06.280Every time I looked in the mirror, all I saw were the flaws that my husband pointed out.
00:06:09.100By this point, our son was two years old.
00:06:10.800I took matters into my own hands and hired some help with more free time.
00:06:13.300I started going to the gym, swimming, and guess what?
00:06:14.860I've lost a ton of weight and feel amazing.
00:06:16.580Suddenly, my husband started touching me, kissing me, buying me flowers, and treating me like the complete opposite of how he treated me before.
00:06:23.080You'd think that would make me feel better, but it made me feel worse.
00:06:25.480All I could think about were the hurtful things he said to me when I was at my lowest and how cold he was toward me.
00:06:30.360Why couldn't he love me as a human being and the mother of his child?
00:06:32.580When my self-esteem came back, I got really angry at myself for putting up with his behavior for so long.
00:06:36.660A few days ago, I told him I wanted a divorce because I don't think I can move past how badly he treated me.
00:06:40.920There's no excuse ever for getting a divorce.
00:06:48.720To say I was angry at my husband because he made some mean comments about me two years ago, so I'm going to blow up my kid's world and force my own problems and my husband's problems on some sweet, innocent baby.