00:03:18.680I've been seeing you out and about on the internet, so I'm glad that we can finally talk.
00:03:23.660Yeah, that's awesome. Yeah, I sort of just stumbled into the world of the internet making
00:03:26.700these videos, and now people reach out to me and they're like, I see your face everywhere,
00:03:29.980so it's just been a really wild ride. That's fun. Okay, before we get started,
00:03:34.160can you give a brief background about who you are and what it is you do?
00:03:37.480Sure, yeah. My name is Amla Penobi. I am 21 years old, and I currently work at PragerU
00:03:42.760as a personality, which basically means that I make social content, I do political commentary
00:03:48.320about things that are happening day in and day out and I got here because I was raised in a really
00:03:54.460far left-leaning household and was what I like to call indoctrinated from a pretty young age and
00:04:00.760wanted to be an activist and eventually through my experience working with the political left
00:04:05.960sort of woke up and realized oh well maybe I don't quite align with these views and when I started
00:04:11.380getting on the internet to talk about that that of course shook the shook the space a little bit
00:04:15.700wow okay there's a lot to unpack there so yeah how does how does your family feel about you
00:04:21.560working with PragerU uh so for the most part my family is really supportive of it it was
00:04:28.160a moment where when I started talking about what I was doing and making these videos online there
00:04:33.380was a rocky road particularly with my mom because I was raised by a single mother and she works for
00:04:39.140the political left so she was not really happy about the whole transition that I went through
00:04:45.380yeah okay that's that's fair um so what did your acts you said you actually did activism
00:04:53.600did you have activist days yes so from a really young age i was super involved in politics really
00:05:02.120on the social end of things talking about uh racism environmental racism women's reproductive
00:05:09.180rights and feminism and all that fun stuff because that's what my mom did for a living
00:05:12.940She was fundraising for people who were organizing and working on different amendments and getting bills passed.
00:05:19.420So I was constantly going to work with her as a child and I would volunteer, help them make signs whenever they were going to do a new protest.
00:05:27.480And when I graduated high school, I thought, well, there's higher education is not that important to me right now.
00:05:32.660I need to go and pursue activism because nothing's going to happen if I don't change the world myself.
00:05:37.980And I ended up getting a position at my mom's organization as a youth organizer, which essentially just had me traveling around to different middle schools and high schools where I grew up and finding other young people and making them into activists as well.
00:05:53.180Interesting. OK, I mean, there's something to that, to being told that you have the ability to change the world.
00:06:00.780Oh, absolutely. That doesn't seem super unhealthy.
00:06:04.120it's just unhealthy I guess if you end up pushing things you don't believe in right
00:06:08.060yeah and I think it's it's something that I think is different where I've changed is I'm
00:06:13.480no longer in this pool of oh I'm trying to transform the world and constantly change
00:06:17.720things and create a new society or whatever the case may be I'm more so trying to look
00:06:22.560from the view of understanding the world and understanding my place in it and and what
00:06:27.420the meaning or purpose of my life is as opposed to just constantly pushing things on other
00:06:33.040people as I was doing before. Okay. Okay. So what changed and when did that change for you?
00:06:40.540Man. So for me, it changed about three years ago. I was 17 turning 18 at the time and I was working
00:06:48.260for this organization nine to five every day. And a lot of my job was revolving around misery. I was
00:06:57.020sort of waking up every day and looking for the injustice in the world, as you can imagine. Yeah.
00:07:01.600looking for racism and sexism and misogyny and looking for areas where people were oppressed
00:07:07.640and trying to educate other young people about that. And in a lot of ways, retrospectively,
00:07:13.820I realized that I was kind of stealing hope and optimism away from a lot of young people in my
00:07:17.860life. And I think that reflected in my attitude, whether or not I was conscious of it or not.
00:07:23.260And that mixed with going into work every day and recognizing intolerance among the people that I
00:07:31.400was working with really pushed me so yeah I'm biracial I was I was raised by a white family so
00:07:37.240I would go into work every day and hear about how whiteness is evil and white people have controlled
00:07:42.020the conversation for too long and we need to start pushing them out of our spaces and making
00:07:46.400them into allies and then I would go home to my white family who had took care of me my entire
00:07:50.840life and I couldn't see the racism that everybody was talking about and and that really broke down
00:07:56.500the walls of my ideology uh from that from that moment okay uh how did you end up working with
00:08:03.380prageru and when did that happen how long have you been with them i've only been with them for
00:08:07.860a little over a year now and it started because they made videos on tick tock i left the organization
00:08:14.500that i was working for and for about a year and a half did nothing but just research because i
00:08:19.620had found all these issues where i was deciding to change my mind and open up a little bit more
00:08:25.140and I thought well what else could I possibly be wrong about or what else could I have a different
00:08:28.880right have you experienced that yeah mine was mine was okay I'll I'll give you a bit of background
00:08:34.800because mine mine was different um I was very ill I had an autoimmune disorder and I was like put
00:08:40.800into the medical system that's how I put it anyway when I was seven and I was in the hospital all the
00:08:45.900time and when I was 23 it was when I was 23 so a bit older than you but um I ended up putting
00:08:53.940myself into remission with diet with a paleo diet at the beginning and all my health symptoms went
00:08:59.000away and I was on like eight medications I was unbelievably ill and that happened and I thought
00:09:05.800I had no idea that that was possible I didn't know that was possible I was told that wasn't possible
00:09:10.960and then I had the same kind of experience where I started looking around being like
00:09:14.620I so firmly believed this and I was so wrong that what if I'm wrong about a whole bunch of
00:09:20.420other things and I'm conducting my life in a way like based on lies. And so my belief in everything
00:09:26.240disappeared for a while. Yeah, I went through the same exact thing as you. And I'm wondering
00:09:30.840if you experienced this where when you started to recognize that you might have been wrong or
00:09:35.320might have had a different perception, you wanted to hold on to what you believe to. And I wanted
00:09:40.560to hold on and wanted to believe everything that I had thought my whole life where it was kind of
00:09:44.260hard to open up and go in and look at new things. Did that happen to you at all?
00:09:48.060i mean yeah i think what i mean i had a difficult time like the way i got to diet was through
00:09:56.560reading scientific papers and that slowly led me to diet and it hurt it definitely hurt when i had
00:10:02.820that switch and was like i was wrong there was like i would say there was some physical pain
00:10:07.680there letting go of some of those beliefs so if that's what you mean it wasn't easy it wasn't just
00:10:12.600like a switch it was it broke me for a number of years it wasn't a quick recovery it was like I
00:10:18.900was so kind of uh I felt arrogant that's how I felt it was like I was so pot sure about myself
00:10:25.140and like how could I have been that sure and so wrong and I hope I never make that mistake again
00:10:30.660type of thing same and it's like it's part of it's part of growing up too I was so confident
00:10:34.980as a young person like I was going out and doing speeches and organizing students and like being
00:10:39.880the person to lead that now I look back at myself and go oh my gosh you were you had so much audacity
00:10:44.460for such a young person who truly didn't know anything at the time and then when you realize
00:10:49.480you don't know anything you're like wow I just dedicated all this time all this energy to
00:10:54.540something that I thought was just absolutely true and then it's not and it's it's devastating in a
00:10:59.800way but then you seek some fulfillment out of learning what is what is actually true or at
00:11:04.380least trying to find what is actually true well then that's good and you're obviously going about
00:11:09.620that the right way because there are lots of people who kind of realize that they're wrong
00:11:13.220about something and then rather than pursuing the truth they just go oh well never mind I'm just
00:11:18.700going to double down on what I believe even if it's not true because it hurts to change what you
00:11:23.460believe right a hundred percent and when I had gone into the rabbit hole of of this whole transition
00:11:29.760and of actually finding out where I where I laid on things I entered the journey with the intent
00:11:36.560of doubling down on what I believed and I had a particular instance where I was pulled over by a
00:11:42.480police officer and through my younger years in life I had obviously always followed the news
00:11:49.420and things that my mother and her organization had shown me and it was stuff like Tamir Rice
00:11:54.040and Michael Brown and Eric Garner and Philando Castile like I watched that video with my own
00:11:59.260eyes so I had already had this preconceived notion that if I had ever had an encounter with a police
00:12:04.300officer it was going to go poorly and when the moment came to fruition and I saw the lights and
00:12:10.040this guy walks up to my car I started freaking out and I had never had such a visceral response
00:12:14.560I mean just like crying shaking remembering to like turn your camera on put your hands on ten
00:12:20.300and two and this white male cop walked up which was my worst nightmare at the time and he just
00:12:27.140recognized something and said you know I'm not here to hurt you at all you were just driving a
00:12:31.280little too fast yeah it was just like a beautiful moment and I've never seen that man again he'll
00:12:36.140never know exactly what he did for me but that moment crushed something in me so I went to the
00:12:41.380internet and I was like no there's no way that there's good police in America I need to look
00:12:45.520into this I need to double down on what I believe and I found the opposite so that's what sparked
00:12:50.200it for me wow that's wild yeah in retrospect I had a lot of just like crazy weird moments that
00:12:58.060made me question where I was and who I was yeah okay well fair enough so what was so did Prager
00:13:06.280you find you on TikTok through the TikToks yeah so I started making videos on the internet just
00:13:11.540as a hobby just saying like hey I'm a conservative I believe this this and that and this is my old
00:13:16.320self and the videos just slowly started picking up traction and I think I had a video that all
00:13:22.240of a sudden just got 10 million views on the platform wow yeah it was it was wild and and it
00:13:28.340blew up and I was getting all this hate and all this support and one of the people working here
00:13:33.720at Prager E reached out to me and was like hey I'd love to just get on a call with you to discuss
00:13:38.320your story and I hopped on this call and told her my story and she said well we're doing a casting
00:13:45.000call to find the next will wit and yeah we're very similar as you can probably see uh and she's
00:13:53.820like we'd love to bring you out to la to tell your story so i i flew out and uh did a video
00:13:58.740called stories of us where i told it and went over everything and then they offered me a job
00:14:02.660and i thought you know what i'm young whatever i should take this opportunity so i within a span of
00:14:07.920like three weeks moved out here yeah wow that's awesome thank you so what what's it like are you
00:14:13.580i mean i suppose they're there watching you so you can't really tell me but what's it like
00:14:17.820are you enjoying are you having a good time it's i am having a good time and i imagine it's it's
00:14:23.020similar to to what you're doing like you have this massive platform that's just been thrown in your
00:14:28.020lap a little bit which can be stressful and overwhelming but you have so much freedom about
00:14:32.200what you talk about and what you say and i get to just be really open about the things that i'm
00:14:39.580learning and going through. And that's the wonderful thing about it. I think the only
00:14:45.600downside is I often feel an immense amount of pressure to just stay on top of everything that's
00:14:51.940happening all the time, which I'm sure you feel too, and to constantly just have something to say
00:14:58.040about everything that's happening in the world. But other than that, there's so much freedom
00:15:01.260involved with this job. That's nice. That's great. That's great. That's good to hear. That doesn't
00:15:06.920sounds stifling either. No. What's an average day look like for you? Average day I sort of get up
00:15:16.520start looking at what everybody's talking about in the news and looking at all the differing
00:15:22.340perspectives on it and just sort of getting a grasp on on what people think and feel and I
00:15:27.820will make like micro content for social media on the biggest trending stories and those are the
00:15:32.740little reels and shorts that everybody sees and then I start working on my daily show which I do
00:15:37.560an hour every single day talking about any given topic yeah and I'll write out the different
00:15:44.140stories for that start bullet pointing my perspective and giving voice to people who
00:15:49.280oppose what I have to say and and then we go live at three o'clock and do that for everybody
00:15:54.640wow that's really fun that's every day that's every day
00:15:59.440yeah so you must be pretty involved in what's going on I'm not
00:16:04.940I'm not honestly no I keep hopping on this podcast and they're like
00:16:08.520remember there was the don't say gay bill I didn't even hear about it for a month
00:16:12.100oh lucky you yeah I've been like I don't know Elon buying Twitter I was on top of that
00:16:17.900is that something that's been about it are you just like I I'm actively trying to stay away
00:16:24.020from this because it's not something that's good for my life or is it just something that you don't
00:16:27.560particularly take interest in um I've just been busy like I do um I have my podcast but I don't
00:16:33.540spend very much time hopefully I'm going to spend more time on the podcast because I used to put
00:16:37.280episodes out twice a week that was better but I got so busy with uh work for my dad and we're
00:16:43.120building a new platform and so I have haven't been up to date I think it's been that and then moving
00:16:48.300all over the place now I can only imagine how busy it must be especially with all the family
00:16:52.780work you guys are like building an empire and it's so it's so needed I can imagine it's a stretch
00:16:57.300thin yeah it's very thin but it's fun I think when I settle down in Miami then I'll put episodes
00:17:02.820twice a week and I'll be more on top of oh you're gonna have so much fun enjoy it yeah you're gonna
00:17:08.100do so well in Miami too Florida is the best and I miss it so much did you did you move from Florida
00:17:13.260where in Florida were you yeah I was in central Florida near Orlando and about a little over a
00:17:18.980year ago i moved out here to la which was just massive culture shock a super change from like
00:17:24.840freedom states to california which was just so different for me yeah yikes oh yeah okay yikes
00:17:32.640is the word that sums it up yeah no every time i go to california i'm like eh nah just give it a
00:17:39.420few more years nah i always wanted to move to la i wanted to move to la since i was little from
00:17:43.920california and then a couple years ago i was like maybe not so much oh me too i had these wild
00:17:49.360expectations of what la was actually going to be and then i got here and it by no means was the
00:17:54.380reality yeah yeah okay i'm gonna go through i've got a whole list of questions for you okay cool
00:17:59.960um but okay let's start with no let's start with this just to finish up what we were talking about
00:18:08.180did your kind of uh i wouldn't say conversion but switching beliefs uh did you end up losing
00:18:13.760a lot of friends or were you able to kind of explain the transition to people? It's interesting
00:18:19.360because I had a wide variety of friends at the time and my conservative friends who were friends
00:18:27.680with me somehow during my crazy radical period when I was contesting everything they had to say
00:18:33.260all the time, they stuck around and just cheered me on and were just happy to see that I was
00:18:38.800evolving and getting more open to things it was my progressive friends who dipped out and they did
00:18:45.360so silently which was the really interesting thing for me like I had been talking to them on a daily
00:18:50.600basis and uh on the side was just posting these social media videos and uh promoting that and
00:18:56.920talking about the the journey that I was going through and just slowly but surely they stopped
00:19:01.800messaging me I and then I was blocked and then it was just absolutely no contact with no explanation
00:19:07.880which i can only ascribe to them seeing those videos and not being happy with what i had to
00:19:14.020say because it was sort of this unspoken uh reality that we were experiencing where they
00:19:19.220just wouldn't bring up politics with me anymore uh and yeah it was it was rough for a little bit
00:19:25.380there but then i just recognize you know those people are not true friends if they can't stick
00:19:29.960around when you have a differing viewpoint yeah yeah okay okay okay so then on to my list of
00:19:36.840questions okay you have a lot of thoughts on only fans so I do what are what are some of the first
00:19:44.840things that come come to mind about only fans the first thing that comes to mind for me is you know
00:19:49.880if you're a grown woman and that's something that you want to do by all means I do not want to
00:19:54.520infringe on people's right to go and do that where I took issue with that platform in particular
00:19:59.180was being on social media and seeing it pushed so hard for young women saying that this is a
00:20:06.340not only is this a career alternative, but this is something that's going to make you hundreds of
00:20:10.900thousands, if not millions of dollars, which is a lie for the most part. Of course, if you're one
00:20:16.000of their top creators, that's the money you're going to get. But I was just scrolling through
00:20:19.660social media. And of course, they curate these pages for you based on your demographics and
00:20:24.400your age and what they think you're going to like or at least be susceptible to. And it was all of
00:20:28.840these young women saying, you know, if you need a sign to go be on OnlyFans and sell your pictures,
00:20:34.080yeah here's my bank account and i make eighty thousand dollars a month doing this and i saw
00:20:38.620just all these young girls i'm talking like 13 14 15 commenting well as soon as i turn 18 this is
00:20:44.800what i'm gonna do i can't wait like who needs to go to school who needs to pursue a career when you
00:20:50.940can just do this as your career and that i just think culturally is probably a no-no for for our
00:20:58.180future I would imagine it's not gonna not gonna look up yeah yeah I think the issue I've had with
00:21:05.680that is people play it off as if it's not as if it's fine right they're like oh do this for a
00:21:11.380while it's fine like maybe things change maybe you drop it later but like you do that kind of thing
00:21:16.020and you're not going to feel good about yourself right and I don't and I honestly don't think I
00:21:21.120believe that there are people maybe there's the very rare individual that does that and is like
00:21:27.020yeah i'm fine it's fine but i don't think that makes people feel good about themselves and i
00:21:32.300think like saying that it's fine it is a lie i completely agree with you i think it's a veneer
00:21:38.180that they put on i think money shields that a little bit too yeah i was looking into it it was
00:21:42.920like the average uh income that you make from only fans is somebody just starting out it's like
00:21:47.080180 a month so you're getting all of these young women to go like oh yeah i'm gonna make so much
00:21:52.180money here's my pictures and you never get to take that back and you have to think that even
00:21:58.000the women who are super successful have to be experiencing some form of like psychological
00:22:03.140trauma walking around and not knowing who has seen you naked or who has just got to experience your
00:22:08.680body in a way that is so intimate and I yeah I'm just with you on that one I think it's a total
00:22:13.760veneer of people saying this is positive and I don't mind it at all yeah and then like you said
00:22:19.060they prey on really young people so at like 17 or 18 or 19 or 20 21 even i think like i'd say
00:22:27.300probably anything under 23 uh that that idea of having money especially when you don't have any
00:22:33.140so like if you're in university or something you're like i don't have you know i i have money
00:22:36.720barely to cover groceries and that's about it but it's like this is easy like i'm already kind of
00:22:42.580doing it on instagram just to go a little bit further do it on only fans but then you know
00:22:47.180like i said these advertising agencies that advertise only fans so basically only fans
00:22:52.520offer it as an alternative and it's not something that it's going to make you feel good once you can
00:22:57.980think more properly i would say no it is it is legitimately just a massive massive trick and i
00:23:05.180can understand why young people fall for it like when i was in high school i would always joke
00:23:08.820about you know oh when i graduate i'm just going to be a stripper and that's what's going to pay
00:23:12.260for my college yeah like yeah exactly i don't know why that's a joke people have i had that as
00:23:17.380well so did my friends be so much easier stripping yeah yeah and you think that you think that and
00:23:23.980because but it's not at all it really isn't and it's not going to pay off your house it's not
00:23:28.260going to pay off your college but i could see like if you're a young person growing up in this
00:23:31.860climate right now and you're looking at like how expensive higher education is if you are not
00:23:37.600particularly happy with the minimum wage if you're looking at how devastatingly difficult it can be
00:23:43.360to buy a house how you'd be like oh i'll just sell my body for a few years and then we'll forget
00:23:47.760about that and move on but you don't move on that's the thing yeah and you don't forget about
00:23:52.240it no and i just imagine like you you do only fans and then like 15 years later you're sending
00:23:58.580your kid to school and the other kids find out that your mom has naked pictures on the internet
00:24:02.840just I can only imagine all the horrible ways that it could go wrong yeah there are a lot of
00:24:07.760them so many uh okay I have to be very careful about some of these questions okay no worries
00:24:18.640yeah um okay let's cover I haven't actually talked about this on my podcast yet the
00:24:26.100Amber Heard Johnny Depp trial did you stay up to date on it and what do you think about the
00:24:32.560outcomes i didn't watch the the trial in its entirety but i did keep up with sort of the
00:24:38.020ins and outs who was testifying what was happening and just the general pulse of the entire situation
00:24:43.480and my view i'm very happy with the verdict that they got on this of saying that she did defame
00:24:49.020him and it's an interesting thing i i wonder if this sort of trial is just something that
00:24:55.020was a car crash that people couldn't look away from and that's why they're so interested or if
00:24:58.960it's actually going to change the culture around some of these conversations my hope is that this
00:25:05.160sort of annihilates the believe all women narrative that we've been subjecting ourselves to because
00:25:11.380it's just inherently untrue you can't look at a group of people and because of their gender say
00:25:15.520that they're meant to be believed and yeah I hope that that's what happens I think the unfortunate
00:25:20.800side of this is now that you have a lot of actual female victims of domestic abuse who are not going
00:25:26.560to be believed in the wake of what she's done so there's a lot of different sides to this
00:25:30.900yeah it was weird to see something like a trial like that online although I think it was probably
00:25:37.880appropriate I know there were people commenting saying this should have been kind of behind
00:25:41.760closed doors but the fact that Johnny Depp's career was actually completely sabotaged it was
00:25:46.740like no maybe people do deserve to kind of see this given the fact he was like the star and then
00:25:52.260disappeared yeah i had that same conversation like is this okay is this a reflection of a healthy
00:25:58.900society yeah yeah basically but then i thought about it and i was like well she's the one who
00:26:04.660brought this whole story to the press she made this a worldwide announcement and it deserves to
00:26:10.080be uh reconciled as a worldwide announcement if that's what you came to the table with so that's
00:26:14.940the thing that's justified it for me but i still feel that same creepy feeling about just watching
00:26:20.000people display all the intimate ins and outs of their relationship it is it's weird i don't know
00:26:25.940why that was allowed i might have to look into that there must have been a reason that it was
00:26:29.340actually televised because that's that's do you know why it was actually televised and i i tried
00:26:34.240looking into it too like did they have to consent to it being televised and if so is that another
00:26:39.180incentive for all this and yeah it's just it's a sticky situation because it's just this mix of
00:26:44.860just celebrity and fame and salacious stories and all this stuff and i i've i've been watching
00:26:50.380russell brand a lot lately and he's been he's been commenting on it and saying oh he's fantastic
00:26:54.980like i i've i've been obsessed with him for a while but even more so now with with his views
00:27:00.380and how he communicates these things but his view has just been the same like this is a really
00:27:04.900strange thing for us all to be going through but also brings up discussions that need to be had so
00:27:10.020is that the trade-off that we have here yeah yeah fair enough did you get did you get banned on
00:27:16.080TikTok I've been banned so many times on that why so I the main marker that I get on that platform
00:27:24.520is hate speech so if if you go and say that men are men and women are women it's hate speech if
00:27:30.080I go and say well I'm a black person who doesn't particularly agree with the idea of systemic
00:27:35.920racism hate speech taken down and i get permanently banned i think i've been permanently banned three
00:27:40.980or four times now uh and then they always give me my account back wow is that did you think that's
00:27:47.420the most left-wing platform out there right now honestly i think so uh we could go through and
00:27:54.000look at everything but tiktok is truly i've never seen something more sensitive to saying something
00:28:00.260outside of the box or that is not widely accepted by that ideology. And I have just never seen more
00:28:08.020young people so confidently espousing what is really radical ideology and millions and millions
00:28:16.780of likes, hundreds of thousands of comments. And it's, it's just sold to you. It's, it's insane.
00:28:23.540And that's, what's made me start making videos in the beginning. I just hopped on TikTok just
00:28:27.580to see what it was because everybody was talking about it and then trump did that whole ccp thing
00:28:32.200so i was like okay let's look at this and i went on my for you page for what they curated for me
00:28:37.620and it was all this stuff about just like racism and sell your body and grooming and and uh you
00:28:44.300know sexual empowerment and all this stuff and i thought this is insane this is unbelievable
00:28:48.400wow mine was strange at the beginning too i haven't been on it very much but i remember at
00:28:53.360the beginning i was like whoa they didn't get me right if that's like the average consumer that
00:28:57.000they didn't get me right at all no but then then i'm thinking okay well they know that their
00:29:01.360platform is widely used by people who are like 13 to 18 and those people are impressionable and
00:29:07.260might not have uh direct distinct opinions yet and if you see just all these other young people
00:29:13.540saying the same thing you're like oh well everybody literally everybody on tiktok says this is true
00:29:18.980so this is what i believe now it's crazy yikes yikes that's concerning okay um
00:29:27.520how much sex ed should schools have this is something that i struggled with uh just thinking
00:29:37.580about i tried to remember when i started getting sex education in school and i don't think it was
00:29:43.160until about fifth grade and I don't remember how old you are in fifth grade same for you I think
00:29:48.580I think mine was fifth grade too and I think you're about 11 10 or 11 okay 10 or 11 and I just
00:29:56.420remember learning that you know if you're gonna have sex you should use a condom and you should
00:30:03.980get STD checked and and just the very basic simple this is how a baby is made so watch out
00:30:11.760and I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with that I think if you approach the
00:30:17.160subject with just here's what is objectively true about making this decision in your life and here
00:30:23.860are the things that could happen that's totally fine I think where we got into like the whole
00:30:29.320don't say gay bill and all of this stuff is going farther outside the the span of neutrality and
00:30:35.900talking about things like gender and the different sexual experiences you can have and you know I
00:30:42.400don't want to get too explicit. Did you get that? Did you get that in school? No not at all there
00:30:47.620was no discussion of you could possibly feel dysmorphic from whatever body you were born in
00:30:55.080around eating like eating disorders and things like that we would talk about that sort of
00:30:59.640dysmorphia but nothing in relation to gender we never got that we never got like these are
00:31:05.740the different sex acts that you could perform with somebody, which is screenshots that I'm
00:31:10.680seeing right now from a lot of like elementary school, middle school age kids. So that's where
00:31:16.760I sort of draw the line. Just talk about what is objectively true. And I would even say you can
00:31:21.120talk about the fact that some people choose to do that with the same sex. Totally fine. And here are
00:31:26.440the things that you need to do if that's your choice. Totally fine. But we don't need to do
00:31:30.760all that other stuff let the parents handle it yeah yeah let the parents handle it um how do
00:31:36.820you feel so this is something i kind of shied a topic i shied away from for a while because dad
00:31:40.800was all um wrapped up with bill c16 and you know compelled speech he was very well he's still
00:31:48.060against compelled speech and it kind of got wrapped up in the trans debate if that's a debate
00:31:51.940um and so i kind of avoided it but then recently seeing especially in college sports seeing these
00:31:58.620people that are like biological males especially the swimmer this really pissed me off because it
00:32:04.440was like you know six foot I don't know three like giant man competing with like women and
00:32:13.000it just boggles my mind and it feels regressive like like women had a lot to fight for for a long
00:32:22.080time to be taken seriously to be able to work in the workplace even to go to university in the
00:32:27.880first place and then to have oh the the people winning in women's sports are biological men but
00:32:33.320don't worry it's fair it's just too far um what's your opinion on on how that's been going i mean
00:32:41.980i completely agree with everything you just said and i i like to approach people who disagree with
00:32:47.200me with a high degree of empathy because i was there before in my life but when you when you
00:32:52.060watch things like this happen and you see how devoid they are of logic and just actually being
00:32:59.020having integrity when it comes to talking about these things it makes me upset to see it and that
00:33:04.780swimmer that you're talking about in particular leah thomas just went on good morning america to
00:33:08.200talk about uh i don't know what pronouns to use their experience uh being a part of this this swim
00:33:16.060team and said you know i know a lot of people are upset about this but i'm happy and this idea that
00:33:21.980an individual's happiness is above fairness is above infringing on other people's rights is above
00:33:28.380infringing on like the careers that these young women have worked their entire lives for
00:33:32.460unbelievable to me that anybody could see it and then you know if you're gonna approach it in good
00:33:37.940faith and go yeah I recognize the biological advantage but I still think it's okay that's a
00:33:42.800different discussion but there are people coming to the table and saying well there's no advantage
00:33:46.940there the body is not different it's the exact same you know cisgendered women are different too
00:33:52.100and there's a lot of variation so it doesn't matter and when you start being disingenuous
00:33:55.800that's when i'm like okay we need to we need to knock this out and i'm sure you can speak to this
00:34:01.960you're accepting of people who are adults and are are transgender and want to change their bodies
00:34:08.160is that something that you're you're cool with if they're adults right if they're adults i don't
00:34:13.660really care like do what you want as long as it's not going to be kind of put on me yeah if they're
00:34:18.580adults yeah and that's why we're we've sort of been forced to get into this discussion about it
00:34:23.700because we agree on that and i think that's something that your your dad agreed with when
00:34:27.520he was talking about the c16 bill and all this stuff too and suddenly they're like okay not only
00:34:33.720is it okay but we need to we can step on female athletes and we can compel your speech and we can
00:34:40.120force you to accept this reality too and that's where we go whoa whoa wait a minute i said it was
00:34:45.880cool just don't come and step on my right in my lifestyle please yeah yeah yeah pretty crazy
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