The NXR Podcast - February 03, 2023


DAILY TRUTH - How To Care For Your Elderly Parents As They Die

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When our fathers and mothers get old, we send them to the glue factory. We let somebody else deal with that problem. Whereas there are many cultures and societies where, when they reach an elderly stage of life, they live with their grown children until they die.

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00:00:40 All right, listen, guys, I get it.
00:00:42 Many of you are unable to financially support this ministry
00:00:44 because you're spending your cash and your lives
00:00:47 on raising young children
00:00:48 in the fear and admonition of the Lord.
00:00:50 Praise God for you and that endeavor.
00:00:53 However, algorithms are a thing.
00:00:56 Shadow banning, sadly, is a thing.
00:00:58 And one major way that you can help to expand the reach and effectiveness of this ministry
00:01:04 that doesn't cost you a dime is by spending just a few moments leaving us a five-star review.
00:01:11 Also, perhaps even more effective than that, you can share our podcast with a friend.
00:01:16 We hope you'll take the time to do so.
00:01:18 Thank you so much.
00:01:19 God bless.
00:01:21 Jesus said,
00:01:22 Man cannot live on bread alone, but from every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.
00:01:27 You're listening to Daily Truth.
00:01:31 Honor your father and mother.
00:01:34 And I do believe that this includes, at some level, as best we can with the resources that God has given us,
00:01:41 not just to give mere lip service to our father and mother,
00:01:47 but to honor them in practical, tangible ways.
00:01:50 um our society has done a terrible job at honoring our father and mother
00:01:57 a terrible job at honoring our father and mother when our fathers and mothers get old
00:02:05 we send them to the glue factory we ship them off we let somebody else deal with that problem
00:02:13 whereas there are many cultures and societies where fathers and mothers when they reach
00:02:20 an elderly stage of life they they live with their grown children until they die
00:02:28 and that's just the way that the society and culture functions i think of my parents
00:02:34 and my grandmother that when she was older and could not care for herself they moved her into
00:02:41 their home and she died physically in that house and they were there caring for her of course
00:02:48 outsourcing some medical expertise towards those later moments of life when she was in physical
00:02:54 pain, but they honored my dad's mother, that she died with them. She didn't die surrounded by
00:03:02 strangers. She died surrounded by people that she loved, that she knew. My mother did the same for
00:03:10 her mother. They weren't able to bring her into the home, but my mother was gone for several months
00:03:18 collectively with her mother when she had leukemia, when she died, caring for her, loving her,
00:03:27 comforting her, reminding her of God's promises, singing some of her favorite hymns, sharing with
00:03:34 her some of her favorite Bible verses. I think of Jim Wilson, who recently passed away. Doug Wilson's
00:03:42 father. He passed away in the home with the family. And as he got older, Doug and Nancy,
00:03:50 they left their house and they moved into Jim's house. It seemed to make more sense for whatever
00:03:57 reason practically. And when he died, he had his son, daughter-in-law, grandchildren,
00:04:04 great grandchildren about 20 25 individuals all in all singing and praying around his bed as he
00:04:16 breathed his last breaths and entered into glory honoring your father and mother
00:04:22 now practically one of the implications of honoring your father and mother
00:04:27 is money. Money. At some level, to care for your parents as they age will likely require some
00:04:39 inconvenience. It could just simply be having to move homes or this or that, but it also might
00:04:45 involve money. Now, the scripture also says it is not right for the children to save up for the
00:04:51 parents, but rather that the parents would save up for the children. So that's not an excuse for us
00:04:58 before we reach a point of being elderly to do our best to store up an inheritance not only for
00:05:03 our children, but our children's children. So as best we can, that we would not be a financial
00:05:08 burden, but it will be a physical and time burden. And God has orchestrated things in his providence
00:05:16 and sovereignty in such a way. Right now, my wife and I have four young children. Later in life,
00:05:24 it's likely that we'll have more money than we currently do. But we won't have more energy
00:05:30 than we currently do. And right now, with the stage of our children, what they need is energy.
00:05:37 They need parents who can run after them. They can be with them, training them, loving them,
00:05:44 encouraging them, disciplining them, teaching them, 12 hours a day. And I praise God that it's
00:05:51 12 hours a day. Really 10, if you can really get a good nap in there.
00:05:59 I mean, when you think about it, right, waking up at 7, going to bed at 7, getting a little nap
00:06:04 from 1 to 3, whatever it may be, in that 2, 3-year-old age, if God didn't design children
00:06:11 to require as much sleep as they do, the human race would have ended. I really, I think because
00:06:18 of our sin and our selfishness, I really think we would have been done by now, like thousands of
00:06:23 years ago. So it's the mercy of God that children require as much sleep as they do. And it's the
00:06:29 mercy of God that God gives us, if we're willing, many children. Because as tiring as it sometimes
00:06:37 is there's it's just there's no greater blessing apart from marriage and salvation itself
00:06:43 i thought i knew the things in life that would make me happy and i've realized again and again
00:06:51 and again that every single one of the things that i thought would make me happy actually made
00:06:56 me miserable that i've always been wrong like always so i think i need more free time and god
00:07:05 thinks I need four kids. And those things are at odds with one another. One made me anxious
00:07:11 too much time. The other made me joyful. It's good for a man to go to bed tired,
00:07:20 to live a full life, to spend himself for someone else. So honoring your father.
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