The NXR Podcast - June 05, 2023


DAILY TRUTH - Wives Should Ask Their Husbands At Home

Topics
fathers and wives answering questions
Hosted by
Joel Webbon Harrison Smith Antonio Griffith Dale Partridge Wewsley Todd Calvin Robinson
Mentioned
Jared Longshore Doug Wilson Chris Wiley Joel Webin Haunted Cosmos Brian Sauve Joseph Boot Joel Webb Kuyperianism Brighthearth Kingshall
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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

156.0

Word count

1,506

Sentence count

98

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, Pastor Ken teaches on the role of the father as the resident theologian in the home, and how he should handle theological questions from his children and wife. He reminds us that the buck stops with the father when it comes to dealing with theological questions.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 All right, listen, guys, I get it.
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00:00:37.100 take the time to do so. Thank you so much. God bless. Jesus said, man cannot live on bread alone,
00:00:45.140 but from every word that proceeds from the mouth of God. You're listening to Daily Truth.
00:00:49.940 mothers will spend in many cases a great deal more quantity of time with the children than the
00:00:59.980 father who is obligated to work outside of the home and making physical provision but the father
00:01:06.480 is still at the end of the day the covenant head of the home that means that he is responsible
00:01:12.620 for everything that happens in the household just like a captain on a ship he doesn't do
00:01:18.820 every single job, but he's responsible for everything that takes place on that ship.
00:01:24.980 He's delegating much of the work, but he's ultimately the one who is responsible. The buck
00:01:31.280 stops with him. So fathers are especially responsible to provide answers to their
00:01:37.760 children's questions. Mothers, likewise, are going to be often providing answers. And when you can't,
00:01:44.100 moms in the room, you should be able to go and ask your husband, and he should be able to answer
00:01:50.060 the question. Now, that being said, I like the way that Douglas Wilson has said it. A man may not be
00:01:57.840 a vocational theologian, but in his home, he must be the resident theologian. Not every man will be
00:02:06.740 a vocational theologian. Not every man will go to seminary. Not every man will have a doctorate
00:02:13.780 from a seminary, which, praise God for that,
00:02:16.880 that means you'll probably know the Bible better.
00:02:19.960 Going to seminary usually makes people
00:02:21.960 less faithful to Scripture these days, sadly.
00:02:25.140 It's not the way it always was,
00:02:26.380 but it's the way it is today.
00:02:28.060 But not every man will be equally apt
00:02:32.940 in his theological prowess.
00:02:36.680 Some men will be better theologians than other men.
00:02:40.880 But when it comes to your home,
00:02:43.480 When it comes to your home, you are the resident theologian.
00:02:48.020 You are the family pastor.
00:02:50.980 You're the pastor of that home.
00:02:53.640 You are the pastor of your wife and children.
00:02:56.620 And you are the resident theologian in your home.
00:02:59.840 And very practically, this is what that means.
00:03:03.080 It doesn't mean necessarily that you will be able to answer every question that your wife and children have.
00:03:08.740 but it means that you will be fiercely committed
00:03:12.300 when you don't have the answer to finding the answer.
00:03:17.140 That's a good reply for the record. 0.99
00:03:19.680 When a husband says to his wife,
00:03:22.200 I don't know, sweetheart, but I'll find out. 0.52
00:03:25.240 When a father says to his children,
00:03:27.460 I don't know, but I'll find out.
00:03:30.480 That's a good answer.
00:03:32.260 And the reason just for the record 0.99
00:03:33.700 that I'm including wives in the picture now,
00:03:36.500 that not only children should be inquisitive
00:03:38.500 and ask their fathers,
00:03:40.000 but also wives should ask their husbands,
00:03:42.320 is because that's literally what the Bible says.
00:03:46.180 That wives, if you have a question,
00:03:48.120 this is 1 Corinthians 14,
00:03:50.360 ask your husbands at home. 0.63
00:03:52.560 So wives, likewise, 0.99
00:03:54.840 should go to their husbands. 0.97
00:03:56.440 Not expecting that on the spot
00:03:59.080 that he'll have a perfect answer
00:04:00.680 to every theological question you can muster,
00:04:03.380 but there should be a trust,
00:04:05.420 not necessarily in his perfect theological
00:04:08.100 competency, right? It's not that a wife trusts that the brain of her husband is so perfectly 0.54
00:04:16.180 theologically tuned that on the spot he can give the exact right biblical answer to every question 0.62
00:04:22.860 she could fathom. But what a wife should be able to trust of her husband is not the perfection of
00:04:28.460 his brain, but the commitment of his heart. That if he doesn't know the answer, that the heart of
00:04:36.940 that husband, loves his wife and is thoroughly committed to obeying God's word, to wash her
00:04:43.120 in the water of the word, meaning in the same way that he physically will work out of the home to
00:04:49.140 make physical provision, to make sure that there's food in the cupboards, to make sure that there's
00:04:54.380 a roof over her head, to make sure that there's clothing to wear, that in the same way that he
00:05:00.460 works hard and diligently to make physical provision, that he is just as committed to
00:05:05.460 making ample spiritual provision, theological provision. So it's not that the wife goes to
00:05:12.260 her husband because she believes that her husband is intellectually the best theologian in all the
00:05:18.260 world. It's not that he knows more about the scripture than any other man. Why do wives go
00:05:24.820 to their husbands? One, because the scripture commands it. But two, it's not because his mind 1.00
00:05:31.100 is theologically sharper than any other man,
00:05:33.300 but it's because his heart is more in love with her
00:05:36.920 than any other man.
00:05:38.880 It's his commitment to her.
00:05:41.340 It's because he is her covenant head.
00:05:43.840 It's because he loves her more than anyone else.
00:05:47.380 And therefore, in the same way
00:05:49.200 that he'll be willing to work two or three jobs,
00:05:53.140 80 hours a week, if that's what it takes
00:05:55.420 in order to put food on the table,
00:05:57.460 likewise, he'll be willing to do whatever Google search
00:06:01.080 he needs to perform to go and talk to the pastor or go and do this or go and do that listen to
00:06:07.180 however many lectures on canon plus app you know whatever he's got to do to answer the question
00:06:13.120 why because he loves her because he loves her whoa whoa you're gonna want to hear this our next
00:06:20.360 two conferences are coming up quick we've got first our fall conference this is november 11th
00:06:26.380 and 12th. That's a full day Saturday and a holdover for the Lord's day, November 12th.
00:06:32.840 Who's speaking at this conference? Well, we've got Jared Longshore and Chris Wiley and yours truly,
00:06:39.520 Pastor Joel Webb. And what's the title? The title is the household and the war for the cosmos. Now
00:06:45.260 I know you're thinking, wait a second, you can't use that title, Joel. That's the title for Chris
00:06:49.620 Wiley's book. Well, I can use it because he's going to be there speaking and he gave me his
00:06:54.460 permission. We're going to be talking about the household as the basic building block for pushing
00:06:59.880 back the kingdom of darkness in this world. We're going to be talking about biblical patriarchy.
00:07:05.300 We're going to be talking about marriage and parenting, how to keep your kids, how to shape
00:07:10.180 and form them like straight arrows, like sharp arrows that do damage to the kingdom of darkness,
00:07:16.840 training our children in the fear and ammunition of the Lord. A full day on Saturday, November 11th,
00:07:22.520 and then holding Jared Longshore over for the Lord's Day, November 12th,
00:07:26.740 to preach at my church, Covenant Bible Church, in Central Texas.
00:07:31.520 You can register at the early bird rate, which will not last long,
00:07:35.580 but you can register at the early bird rate today by going to rightresponseconference.com.
00:07:41.740 Again, that's rightresponseconference.com.
00:07:44.920 Now, our second conference is our spring conference.
00:07:47.660 This is Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, March 1st, 2nd, and 3rd.
00:07:53.280 The title for this conference, Blueprints for Chrysidom 2.0.
00:07:58.420 Blueprints for Chrysidom 2.0.
00:08:01.120 We don't want to revert back to Chrysidom 1.0, although it would certainly be a whole
00:08:06.360 lot better than the clown world that we're currently living in, but we recognize despite
00:08:11.300 the phenomenal features of a prior Chrysidom, there were certain bugs that we'd like to
00:08:17.040 see worked out. So we're not going back. We are pushing forward to Christendom 2.0. We believe
00:08:23.440 that the blueprints are seven doctrines for ruling the world righteously. What are these seven
00:08:29.980 doctrines? Well, it's reformed confessionalism. It's covenant theology. It's biblical patriarchy.
00:08:36.640 It's presuppositionalism and Kuyperianism and general equity theonomy and hopeful eschatology
00:08:44.640 post-millennialism. Who's going to be teaching us on these doctrines? Voldemort, he who must not be
00:08:51.300 named, Pastor Douglas Wilson himself. You also got Mr. Brighthearth, Mr. Kingshall, Mr. Haunted
00:08:58.000 Cosmos, Pastor Brian Sauve. And we also have Dr. Joseph Boot, and of course, yours truly, Pastor
00:09:06.240 Joel Webin. We'll be doing seven primary lectures, as well as two 90-minute panels with all the
00:09:12.980 speakers together, and we'll likely add a couple more speakers along the way. Again, that's March
00:09:19.440 1st, 2nd, and 3rd, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. It's Blueprints for Chrysidom 2.0. We've got the
00:09:28.280 early bird rate going right now, but it will run out quickly. So go to rightresponseconference.com,
00:09:35.500 rightresponseconference.com to register today.