00:04:16.980So that'll probably be our first episode, January 6th.
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00:04:26.200This is the last live stream of this year.
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00:04:35.480What are some things that are outstanding over in your minds over the course of 2024 that you would like clarity on?
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00:04:46.900Maybe we're going to get into some announcements and vision for, you know, the future.
00:04:50.180But we also want to basically chart a course for next year and drop some vision and announcement and goals and things like that.
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00:07:53.520next year. Okay. So that's all that stuff. So I think we're probably ready to start getting
00:07:57.660questions. First question. I don't know. Okay. Oh, yeah. So the first question is something that
00:08:05.620i was not really asked in relation to us announcing this live stream uh doing a q a but uh it was
00:08:11.700something that uh on the heels of last week so last week um i was in a great mood and uh and i
00:08:18.140thought it was michael even said he was like hey this was really tame we didn't get in trouble
00:08:21.680we were jovial yeah we're jovial uh there was no like super controversial topic that we breached
00:08:27.440but we uh we still got in trouble so we i got in trouble yeah i got in trouble um what did i get
00:08:37.120in trouble for oh oh i got in trouble um basically uh one of the things that i said and a few guys
00:08:43.460came out and defended me and i appreciate that um but i said you know one of the things that
00:08:47.140conservatives do and i and i said it just i said it jokingly um i was dead serious i absolutely
00:08:54.120believe it because it's a fact uh but i said in a joking you know jovial kind of um demeanor um
00:09:01.220and but part of the reason that i did it in that demeanor is because i literally i i didn't think
00:09:05.980anybody would their right mind would disagree exactly so what i said was um anytime conservatives
00:09:11.440want to take ground or hold the line or you know or make some kind of big you know faithful
00:09:17.520conservative statement um they immediately think uh all right we need to say something that's true
00:09:22.500Let's find a black man or a woman or someone other than a white heterosexual Christian man in order to make this point that we're about to make.
00:09:36.340So we're about to say something, and we need somebody who's diverse in order to make this point for us.
00:09:43.900And so then I said, you know, so conservatives will be thinking, you know, like, all right, we need, you know, quick, we need to hold the line here or make a statement there.
00:09:50.960quick, somebody on speed dial, call Samuel Say, call Allie Beth Stuckey. And I got in big trouble
00:09:56.740for this. I was not saying that Samuel Say has never said anything good. I'm just saying that
00:10:05.100that sentiment of conservatives, especially conservative Christians, and especially
00:10:09.020conservative Christian pastors, to think, I can't just say this, I need to get somebody else to say
00:12:54.320Yeah, cultural Marxism and ethnic Gnosticism.
00:12:56.720And ethnic Gnosticism was essentially standpoint epistemology,
00:13:01.400that you can, epistemology being, you know, how do we know what we know? How do we come to know0.50
00:13:07.120things? And standpoint epistemology, meaning that based off of your whatever, if you're black or
00:13:15.600if you're levels, you know, intersections of oppression, the more of those that you have,
00:13:21.460if you're black, plus a woman, plus a lesbian, plus whatever else, then, you know, then you are
00:13:29.220an elite enlightened individual who can uh you know know many many many things that other people
00:13:35.640can't so anyways voti was one of the first guys um beating that drum which um i'm super grateful
00:13:40.580for um okay what were we talking about well you i thought you were going to clarify what you said
00:13:45.500about um as a general rule you don't have women on the show anymore yeah so okay so that's how i
00:13:51.580got in trouble people didn't like what i said about you know ali beth i basically said like
00:13:55.340MacArthur with Beth Moore, you know, go home. I basically, you know, I said a little nicer than
00:13:59.640MacArthur said, but I, but I, you know, that same sentiment and I applied it to Ali Bestucki
00:14:04.500and people didn't like that. And so, because they didn't like it, one of the things that
00:14:07.480they brought up is, well, this seems hypocritical. You've had women on the show. I think the last
00:14:12.460woman that I had on the show, and that's true. The last woman that I had on the show was Rosaria
00:14:17.060Butterfield who is I think the best of conservative women because she doesn't to my knowledge she1.00
00:14:26.320doesn't have like a regular you know podcast certainly not a regular podcast where she's you1.00
00:14:31.080know going out of the home into a company studio five times a week you know doing hair and makeup
00:14:37.200you know so you got the drive time you got the hair and makeup you got prep with your team those
00:14:41.160kinds of things and then going in and then recording and then coming back you know where
00:14:45.260it's, it really is a full-time job. Um, but Rosaria, uh, pretty much anytime, uh, I've even
00:14:51.340seen anything with her, uh, it looks like, you know, webcam at home and it's, uh, and it's not
00:14:56.440a regular weekly thing, certainly not a daily thing. It's usually, uh, she writes a book about
00:15:01.080once every five or six years. And whenever she writes a book, she does the circuit, she makes
00:15:06.080the rounds and goes on people's podcasts. And so this was right after her most recent book. I think,
00:15:10.840i can't remember five lies yeah the five lies book uh-huh so i asked her to come on the show
00:15:15.120a lot of other guys that that you know are friends and uh had had her on the show and i was like that
00:15:19.980that seems like a good idea i'll have her on the show she did great uh the show's still available
00:15:24.520you can check it out i don't plan on taking it down uh but that was the last time and uh after
00:15:29.640that i decided you know what rosario is great nothing wrong about rosario and i think she does0.66
00:15:34.840this in the best way possible right it's not her day job um she is predominantly domestic she's in
00:15:41.740the home and she's older yeah exactly she doesn't have a toddler she doesn't have a baby exactly so
00:15:47.780she has grown children she's a grandma she has she's very involved with her grandchildren but
00:15:52.080she has spare time because grandchildren are different than you know young children um that
00:15:56.520are yours and um and she's doing it you know on a five-year cycle where she makes the rounds
00:16:01.500of blah, blah, blah related to a book. So that's probably the best way to do it. But I thought,1.00
00:16:06.180you know, I can, I don't have time, nor is it really particularly helpful for me to explain
00:16:11.520that every single time, you know, once every five years when I have Rosario on the show,
00:16:15.200you know, or somebody else that's in that kind of orbit, you know, who's similar. It's just going
00:16:21.740to be difficult to explain this every single time. The simplest solution is I probably should just,
00:16:28.420everybody knows my patriarchal stance and i probably should just try for the sake of simplicity0.99
00:16:34.320and clarity and consistency uh to not have women any longer and i made that decision i think around
00:16:40.980the same time eric khan made the same decision because he had nancy piercey around the same
00:16:45.620time that i had wasaria butterfield because she had just written a book something something about1.00
00:16:50.360toxic masculinity exactly against it she was saying yeah she was not toxic yeah yeah she was0.92
00:16:55.360And she was in defense of masculinity being a good thing.
00:16:58.800But she wrote her book and I didn't interview her, but I did interview Rosaria, I think Eric Kahn on Hard Man Podcast.
00:17:07.260He interviewed Nancy Piercy and got some grief after that, you know, and was like, yeah, I guess, honestly, Hard Man Podcast probably should have men, you know.
00:17:16.680And so I remember talking, you know, offline, me and Eric about that.
00:17:20.140And we both kind of were like, yeah, we, you know, like we have our caveats.
00:17:24.180We have our reasons for why this is actually an exception and this falls within the biblical
00:17:29.100mode and that we're not, you know, but it still could, you know, it could still cause
00:17:34.840people to stumble where it's like, well, Joel had a woman on the podcast.
00:17:37.360And so some, you know, 30 year old woman with, you know, four kids in the home who are all
00:17:41.740underneath, you know, the age of eight years old decides I'm going to podcast every day
00:17:45.920for hours, you know, I, you know, so anyways, so that was the decision.
00:17:50.420And then I think the final thing was some people pointed out, they were like,
00:17:54.180Well, Joel went on Ali Beth's show and then Ali Beth, you know, she, she, you know, she couldn't miss an opportunity to, to go ahead and just get that little dunk on your boy, dunk on him. And so, so she's like, yeah. And he paid for it. And so, so I just thought I'd clarify that you're probably going to still hate me. That's fine. Whatever. I'm not going to win you over, but I'll give my answer.0.56
00:18:15.260So it was 2020, I believe it was, I don't know, April, May, sometime in the first half of the
00:18:20.180year, maybe mid-year, maybe it was June. It was during COVID. I was pastoring in Southern
00:18:25.400California at the time, and I just finished writing my first book. It was a simple little
00:18:32.640book, but basically I preached through 1 John on the Lord's Day with the church, and then I took
00:18:40.620all my manuscripts and things like that and outlines and put that into a book form, like a
00:18:46.920devotional style book on the assurance of salvation. And I titled the book, Am I Truly Saved?
00:18:52.360And so when I finished that, I wanted to try to somehow get it out there. And so I believe there
00:18:58.660was only two, this is four and a half years ago, so it's hard to remember, but Just Thinking
00:19:04.000podcast virgil walker and daryl harrison um i had some measure relationship with them still have
00:19:11.160some some relationship with virgil who i think i live he's a good guy and so i reached out to them
00:19:16.240and said hey um can i run an ad for my book on your on on an episode of your show and they said
00:19:22.920sure and um and then you know i also asked like you think i could come on you know and uh and
00:19:29.760they didn't really have guests it was just the two of them and um and also i'm white and virgil
00:19:34.920said you're white joe i can't have no i'm just kidding no it's because i'm white no it's not
00:19:39.220um and so they're like no we're not gonna have you on um no no harm no foul uh but yeah we'll
00:19:44.700run an ad and i paid them i think you know based off of their show size at the time you know it
00:19:48.820wasn't super massive then and so i think it cost i these are spitballing numbers but i think it was
00:19:53.820like 250 bucks something like that to run it on one episode so we ran the commercial for my little
00:19:58.640book over First John, Assurance of Salvation, Am I Truly Saved? Paid them $250. Same thing,
00:20:04.080reached out to Ali Bestucki and said, can I advertise my book? So it wasn't, can I pay you
00:20:08.700to come on the show? It was, can we pay you to advertise my book? And same thing, I think hers
00:20:13.800was like $750 because she had a bigger platform and I think it was a fair price. And we're like,
00:20:19.020sure, we'll pay you $750 to advertise our book. And then we also, as soon as they said yes to
00:20:25.020the advertisement of the book, not paying for airtime, but paying for advertising the book.
00:20:30.000Then I said, also, I'm working through COVID and these kinds of things and trying to take a stand
00:20:35.460in California, which is we got Governor Nusolemi and the restrictions are insane. And I know that
00:20:42.140you've been talking about COVID and those kinds of things. Everybody has. Would you be willing
00:20:46.020to have me on for a segment? And she agreed and said, yes. So I went on because I was wanting to
00:20:50.720get the word out. Paid for an advertisement of the book, wanted to get the word out about that.
00:20:56.180And then I went on the show because I wanted to get the word out about why pastors, particularly
00:21:00.780pastors in California, needed to be courageous about COVID. And that was four and a half years
00:21:05.100ago. And here's a crazy thing. I said it on X a few days ago, but not everybody knows it. Not
00:21:11.980everybody sees all my tweets. So I'll say it right now. I, and I know this is rough, but I have
00:21:19.500actually changed my views over time i've actually been in development um as a human being i am not
00:21:30.260the same yesterday today and forever um behold i am joel i changes yes i am not immutable but
00:21:39.940rather mutable in fact and this one is really crazy it will probably freak a lot of you guys
00:21:43.960out but um when i was born i didn't even know how to talk i had to learn how to speak
00:21:49.480embarrassing it's embarrassing like so like even my ability to speak is is uh constitutes a
00:21:56.260development and change um of my person and so um pretty crazy i know uh that's enough explaining
00:22:02.460like there's a certain point where it's like i want to offer clarity for the good faith people
00:22:06.040but here's the thing that's tough about this because we debate it like should we even say
00:22:09.220anything west was like screw him don't say anything like yeah you didn't say that but but
00:22:14.620you you're right like yeah essentially that's you know you're like forget them like um and and what
00:22:19.300and west i think is sharp about these things what you were saying uh when i brought up like hey i
00:22:24.920think i want to clarify this you know because i'm getting dragged as the kids would say and you're
00:22:29.020like no like uh he said because it's a it's a one in 100 ratio of good faith people who actually
00:22:36.420they're confused and simply require clarity right and then the 99 people who hate you and have hated
00:22:43.020you consistently all the way back to two and a half years ago because uh you told your wife not
00:22:48.800to read a book on pedo-baptism and that you would read it together with her at a later time right
00:22:53.240because you're a credo-baptist pastor um in other words people just hate you they just they've like
00:22:59.380most people have already made up their mind um and they're gonna like this will mean nothing
00:23:04.500your explanations your clarity it doesn't matter what excuse it doesn't matter what details we're
00:23:09.040missing you know in the conversation you provide those details it's like here's an ironclad case
00:23:13.580of like one i was wrong and i've changed by god's grace that's that's usually if you catch me in
00:23:19.240inconsistency that'll always be one of my um one of the things that i'll say in a response and i
00:23:23.640don't think i really said it clearly so let me say it clearly now um i was wrong and i changed
00:23:28.620You can find, every couple weeks, people find the picture of me standing outside on a stage
00:23:35.580in like a grassy knoll with a couple other officers of the church when I was still in
00:23:40.780California wearing the mask behind the pulpit. It was the last Sunday of April. We were doing
00:23:47.060church outdoors. It was still illegal to do so in outdoor service at the time. We were way ahead of
00:23:51.220most churches. And we couldn't meet inside. We would have, but we couldn't meet inside because
00:23:56.980we didn't have our own building. We got kicked out of the place that we're meeting in.
00:24:00.620But the point is, everybody will say, oh, you're courageous? Well, look at this picture.
00:24:05.160And I have my clarifications. The clarifications are, look, this is seven weeks into COVID. We
00:24:10.460beat John MacArthur by 10 weeks, and everybody praises him for his courage with COVID. We were
00:24:15.160meeting 10 weeks before he started meeting, and we weren't meeting inside because we didn't have
00:24:21.360an inside. We literally didn't have a building. Nobody would let us. We reached out to other
00:24:25.020churches are like, no, we don't want you to get your germs in our church. And I wore the mask
00:24:29.520because a lot of the congregation said they wouldn't come back unless I did. And a third of
00:24:34.300them didn't come back even with the mask, at least right away, they waited. And so I have my
00:24:39.780explanations. However, however, here's the biggest one, the biggest explanation, whether it's with,
00:24:46.940you know, going on Allie Beth Stuckey's show, or whether it's wearing the mask, you know, in April0.99
00:24:52.7802020 as I'm doing an outdoor service, which is absolutely stupid. People are like 50 yards away0.99
00:24:57.600from me and I'm wearing a mask. So here's the first and most important explanation. And I
00:25:02.400missed it earlier, so I need to hit it now. I was wrong. I'm a human being. I'm fallible. And
00:25:09.460my strategy in ministry is not to just offer clarification and clarification. This is what
00:25:16.520you'll see most pastors will do. They'll say, you think you caught me in inconsistency. You think
00:25:21.300you just discovered an example where I'm wrong. But surprise, surprise, you are wrong. You are
00:25:27.540wrong in understanding me. You are wrong in your ability to listen to me. You are wrong in not
00:25:31.500going over my full repertoire of all my work. You're wrong, not me. I don't want to do that.
00:25:39.660I was wrong. COVID, we were in the top 5% of churches in terms of how quickly we came back
00:25:47.840and our courage. Yep. But also we missed five weeks of church and that was wrong. So for five
00:25:55.000weeks, I was wrong. The first quarter of my sermon, the first 15 minutes of my sermon,
00:26:00.580first time we started gathering again, was repentance for shutting down church for five
00:26:04.980weeks. That was wrong. That was sin. I sinned. I sinned. And the fact that my congregation wanted
00:26:11.400me to sin right that doesn't matter like how many kings of israel in the bible say but the people
00:26:17.840like saw like oh the people you know but like yeah it doesn't matter um it doesn't matter i i i still
00:26:23.680ultimately uh chose to do that so i was wrong um for five weeks on covid um i was um i don't think
00:26:31.460it was wrong to go on out like if candace owens asked me to go on her show i would go on her show
00:26:35.180i think or cnn called you and right exactly like uh or what was it a laura um ingram uh is that fox
00:26:43.040nate yeah yeah like like if fox asked and it was and it was a female host instead of a male host1.00
00:26:49.140i would go on do i think that she should be doing that i think she probably should be a mom and stay
00:26:53.500at home that's what i think you guys know that that's that's what i think so no i don't think
00:26:57.260she should be doing it uh but would i be willing to go on the news to reach um a an audience a
00:27:03.260thousand times bigger than ours on something that I thought was important and needed to be talked
00:27:07.160about, like Israel? Yeah, I would. Of course I would. And so paying to advertise a book
00:27:16.540on a podcast, I don't think is necessarily wrong. I have the clarifications. So I really,
00:27:22.560I was wrong. COVID, I had my clarifications. We're ahead of most people, but I still got it
00:27:28.140wrong for five weeks. It doesn't matter. I still got it wrong. I sent, I was wrong. The Alibeth
00:27:31.720the one i really don't think is a sin we paid to advertise a book and i asked if i could come on
00:27:35.460the platform and talk about covid um in addition to that so that i don't actually think is wrong
00:27:39.520but i have had so everyone was like i got you here's your inconsistency i actually don't think
00:27:44.080that works because i would still do that to this day if candace owens asked me to come on on her
00:27:47.700show i would do it um i would um if she personally asked me do you think i should be doing this i
00:27:52.800would say no go home go home let somebody else do it um but i would go on her show and i would use
00:28:00.180those means, that platform, to reach as many people as possible today in the present. And I
00:28:06.220don't think that's an inconsistency. But I would say that where people did get me is not so much
00:28:11.960you went on Ali's show, but I have had women on my show. And I've tried to have women, whether
00:28:16.720it's Rosario Butterfield, who's not podcasting all the time, but primarily just a wife and a0.99
00:28:21.560grandmother or even um some of the moscow um girls um like like rachel jankovic uh who is a mom of
00:28:29.540seven and is there's there's a dynamic difference in ali bestucky um five times a week going out of
00:28:34.960the home to a a commercial studio hair and makeup you know hours of time um that that is different0.57
00:28:41.600than rachel jankovic in her home right um or lexi sovee yeah or exactly so lexi sovee is she
00:28:47.480no there is and this is why some of the nuances actually do matter um lexi sauve is recording
00:28:53.800audio only i don't know they might have started video but historically audio only in bed with her
00:29:02.520husband after all the kids are asleep once uh once a week and probably not even that because they
00:29:07.960usually aren't that consistent and miss weeks um i don't think that's wrong she's neglecting
00:29:12.940nothing and her husband's right there with her on the show leading the conversation and
00:29:17.160And the show is not about political philosophy.
00:29:21.900It's not about teaching seminary students to become pastors.
00:29:33.500So it's not just, you know, so typically the women that I've had on the show have been that kind of scenario.
00:29:39.340your Rosaria types, or Alexi type, or Rachel Jankovic, who is not doing five times, you know,
00:29:45.060a week going out of, you know, leaving the kids and going out of the home, but is recording
00:29:49.220occasionally, typically from her home during a nap time or whatever. So that does matter.
00:29:54.900That said, though, I still think, here's the big one, I still think I was wrong. I think for this,
00:30:01.140right now, feminism is so pervasive in the church, in the world, certainly, but even in the church,
00:30:06.540It is so pervasive that for a while, even though I know those clarifications and nuances, it is probably not helpful with just the broader optic to continue putting forward, conveying the idea that women belong in the public sphere as public voices, leading discourse, because predominantly, they don't.0.98
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01:05:11.980We'll go ahead and do the first super chat.
01:05:13.440So, Ben Huffsteadler, what are your thoughts on not celebrating Christmas due to the convictions of Paul's food sacrifice, proper grounds, or I'm assuming he's saying, or not?
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