This morning we continue our series through the book of Matthew, focusing on verses 18-25. In this episode, we focus on four primary points drawn from the text: The goodness of marriage, fatherhood, the goodness of capital punishment, and mercy, and 1) The saving role of Christ, which we see in verse 18, 19, 20, and 21.
00:00:00.000This morning we continue with our series through the book of Matthew.
00:00:04.500If you're joining us for the first time, the Steady Diet here at Covenant Bible Church
00:00:08.860is expository preaching through whole books of the Bible, starting at the beginning,
00:00:13.300working towards the end, taking a few verses each week as the primary text for the sermon
00:00:18.560that Lord's Day. We have most recently done this with the book of Joshua and then the book of Ezra,
00:00:24.440And by God's grace, we're going to now work through a New Testament gospel, namely the gospel according to Matthew.
00:00:32.420And so this is our second week now. We began last week with the genealogy of Christ.
00:00:37.980And this week we're going to be looking at the latter half of the first chapter of Matthew, which is Matthew chapter one, verses 18 through 25.
00:00:46.020Again, that's Matthew chapter one, verse 18 through 25.
00:00:49.660I'll read our text in its entirety. When I finish reading the text, I'm going to say this is the word of the Lord.
00:00:54.080at which point I'd appreciate very much if you would respond by saying thanks be to God.
00:00:59.420One final time, our text for today is Matthew chapter 1, verses 18 through 25. The Bible says
00:01:05.420this. Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed
00:01:12.180to Joseph, before they came together, she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit.
00:01:17.420And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame,
00:01:22.080resolved to divorce her quietly but as he considered these things behold an angel of the
00:01:30.020Lord appeared to him in a dream saying Joseph son of David do not fear to take Mary as your wife
00:01:38.100for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit she will bear a son and you shall call his
00:01:44.080name Jesus for he will save his people from their sins all this took place to fulfill what the Lord
00:01:50.980had spoken by the prophet behold the virgin shall conceive and bear a son and they shall call his
00:01:57.700name Emmanuel which means God with us when Joseph woke from sleep he did as the angel of the Lord
00:02:04.780commanded him he took his wife but knew her not until she had given birth to a son and he called
00:02:11.700his name Jesus this is the word of the Lord all right please be seated let's begin so there's four
00:02:19.520primary points that I would like to draw out from the text today, namely focusing our attention.
00:02:26.900We're looking at verses 18 through 25, but we'll focus the lion's share of our attention on verses
00:02:32.24018, 19, 20, and 21. So one key point from each of these four verses. In verse 18, the first thing
00:02:39.880that I want us to see is the goodness of marriage and fatherhood. Again, that is the goodness of
00:02:45.860marriage and fatherhood. That Jesus came about in his conception by the Holy Spirit with the virgin
00:02:53.020Mary. And yet God in his providence did not allow his son, the son of God, Jesus, to be raised
00:03:00.840by a single parent. Joseph was not needed in terms of conception. And yet God saw fit, even though
00:03:09.020Jesus, his true ultimate heavenly father, is God the father himself, God still saw fit that his son
00:03:16.340would have an earthly father, that he would be raised by an earthly father in a two-parent home.
00:03:22.740So the goodness of marriage and fatherhood. The second point, verse 19 of our text, that I want
00:03:27.500us to see is the goodness of capital punishment in general and the goodness of mercy in particular.
00:03:34.100And so I'll do my best to flesh that out from the text, namely verse 19, the goodness of capital punishment in the general sense, but also the goodness of mercy in the specific or particular sense.
00:03:46.920And then in verse 20, I want us to see from the text the goodness of a royal identity, the goodness of a royal identity.
00:03:56.820And then lastly, in verse 21 of our text, we'll see the goodness of the Savior.
00:04:01.460The goodness of Jesus Christ himself in his name.
00:04:05.740You shall name him, call him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.
00:09:51.780It's kind of the the OG elite regime, you know, grid work. Right. You know, George Soros would probably I mean, if he read some of the early guys, heretics on narcissism, he'd be like, yes, they did it.
00:10:06.000This is it. This is my whole my whole view. You know, that that's I mean, that is his worldview.
00:10:11.260There's there's, you know, the the the peons. That's you and me. Right.
00:10:16.140And then there's the guys who are smart enough to know what the world really needs.
00:10:21.520And those guys can be given the intel, the secret gnosis, the secret knowledge.
00:10:27.300And then furthermore with Gnosticism, so that's one element at the rudimentary level.
00:10:31.880It's this secret knowledge that can be attained by the elite.
00:10:34.840But getting more specific now, what is it that distinguishes the elite from the peanut gallery?0.50
00:10:42.100What are the kinds of things that you need to do in order to be enlightened, in order to join this rare minority group of elite Christians that can have access to this higher level of knowledge?
00:10:55.520Well, in a nutshell, it can be fleshed out in multiple different varieties of ways.
00:11:01.680But to get to the common denominator, what is required in order to attain this secret higher level of knowledge, according to Gnosticism,
00:11:38.440Their, you know, that would be like their pledge of allegiance.
00:11:42.900Their anthem is being so heavenly minded that there's no earthly good.0.92
00:11:49.340And Gnostics, actually, there were, you know, the majority of them, they viewed the body, all of them, viewed the body, the flesh, the physical as actually it was a hindrance.0.95
00:11:59.820There was nothing good in the material, physical world.
00:12:03.580And that pertains not only to the cosmos at large, but to the human body in particular.
00:16:08.660The others, the other curse is your desire will be for your husband, but he shall rule over you.
00:16:16.520And that word desire in that context of Genesis chapter three is very much the same kind of context that we find just a chapter later in Genesis chapter four, where God confronts Cain.
00:16:27.460Cain is bothered by the fact that God accepted the sacrifice of his brother Abel, but had rejected Cain's sacrifice.
00:16:34.640And so Cain is envious and jealous and embittered.
00:16:38.660And God confronts him and says, Cain, sin is crouching at your door, and, here's the word, it desires to have you, but you instead must have it.
00:16:52.640Meaning, sin desires to master you, to subdue you, but instead you must master sin.
00:23:35.400You don't all just represent yourself.
00:23:37.300You have designated and hopefully elected representatives of counties and cities and states.
00:23:45.280Well, Adam was God's chosen representative, not just of mankind, he, his wife, and all their posterity, but all the created order.
00:23:56.200So that when Adam sinned, even the ground was cursed because of him.
00:24:02.900Even the ground was cursed because of him.
00:24:06.080and so in all these things back to the original point in verse 18 and all these things the curse0.99
00:24:18.120of even the dirt that work in the same way that i believe women would have had some measure of child
00:24:23.940of pain in childbirth but the curse is that it would be greatly increased so to work certainly
00:24:29.780existed before the fall but the curse is not that men will have to work the curse is that
00:24:34.400men will have to work but there'll be a futility now assigned to his work where the ground is
00:24:39.960actually working against the man in his work that work would be hard and at times even unnecessarily0.95
00:24:47.040hard all these things it's easy for the gnostic to then come in and say well the earth and the
00:24:57.040created order and even the ground not just mankind but even the ground and the animals
00:25:01.280everything is under the curse of sin so all the world now is bad it's all sinister it's all
00:25:09.260not just vain not just shallow but it actually has some kind of innate wickedness attached to it
00:25:17.060some evil is is attached in a way that it can never be severed from the physical material
00:25:24.420world. And that's what the Gnostics hopped on board with. That was their idea. And so they1.00
00:25:31.280despised the flesh, viewed it as a prison entrapping the soul. They despised not only
00:25:37.080themselves and their flesh, but the world around them. They despised nature and they despised the
00:25:44.340natural order as it pertained to, for instance, marriage. And many of them opted for a perpetual
00:25:52.980singleness, thinking that it was somehow more spiritual and therefore somehow more pleasing
00:25:59.620to God. That to be married is permissible, perhaps, but it really is a concession.
00:26:08.320At some level, it's a degree of compromise to get married and have kids. The Lord will allow it.
00:26:15.860But man, if you really want to please Him,
00:26:18.720you should have no kids and no spouse,0.88
00:26:22.660live in a hole, beat yourself when you pray,0.99
00:26:26.520and sleep on slats of wood so that you're uncomfortable at night.
00:26:31.900And this is how the Lord is truly pleased.
00:26:35.140And by God's grace, I think that Gnosticism has been thoroughly debunked
00:26:40.880by the church fathers and the ancients early on within church history.
00:26:44.940And yet, although the work has theologically been done, the heavy lifting is already there for us.
00:26:51.460Gnosticism, with each generation, finds new variants and tends to once again rear its ugly head.
00:27:00.060And we see that, I think, within evangelicalism, especially over the last couple of decades with groups like the Gospel Coalition.
00:27:07.300And when you think about it, the reason why the Gospel Coalition emphasized and esteemed singleness so, so, so, so, so much was not because they had the correct exegesis of 1 Corinthians chapter 7.
00:27:23.940Because again, the Apostle Paul does not say that the state of singleness is the gift.
00:27:30.140The gift is celibacy, which would enable someone to remain single.
00:27:35.940But singleness is actually a form of suffering.
00:27:40.820And we should recognize it as such so that we might actually, as a church and as the people of God, brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, have compassion towards those who later in adult life find themselves single.
00:27:54.800in the same way that you want to go up to someone with cancer
00:29:19.880Some have received the gift of marriage.
00:29:22.480And some have received the gift of celibacy, which might allow for the state of singleness, but the state of singleness is a hardship in many regards that must be endured and could rightly be referred to as more of a form of suffering than a gift.
00:29:42.000But celibacy would be the gift that allows for that state
00:29:45.080so that even in the midst of a state of singleness,
00:29:58.360with whatever state the Lord called us to.
00:30:01.320That's also in the context of 1 Corinthians 7.
00:30:03.840So that if you come to the Lord in conversion
00:30:06.760by God's grace and the sovereign work of the Spirit,0.95
00:30:09.920and you are married, and perhaps in your case married to an unbeliever,
00:30:16.100if that unbeliever resolves to remain with you despite your newfound Christian faith,
00:30:22.040that you too should be willing to remain with your unbelieving spouse.0.92
00:30:26.540So the larger context of 1 Corinthians 7 is contentment.
00:30:31.360In whatever various state of life the Lord sovereignly called you to.
00:30:36.160So none of it is esteeming singleness as this positive, supernatural, spiritual gift
00:30:44.060that's somehow more spiritual and superior to the state of marriage.
00:30:51.580That's a wrong reading of 1 Corinthians 7.
00:30:53.700But the reason why modern evangelicals like the Gospel Coalition
00:30:57.320spoke of not the gift of celibacy, but actually the gift of singleness
00:31:01.800is because they were acclimating to the culture and the times,
00:31:08.580which much of that, as I've already said,
00:31:10.360was already seeping into the church and its culture.
00:31:14.380And so they instinctively knew that many men and women in the church were single,
00:31:23.120and not just because they were 21 years old,
00:31:25.500but were single into their 20s and 30s and 40s and 50s.0.66
00:31:30.920And so the Gospel Coalition had a brilliant, in terms of business strategy, that was wicked and wrong in terms of Christian obedience, but in terms of raw business strategy, they had a brilliant idea.1.00
00:31:43.840They realized, wait a second, women work.0.90
00:31:57.000And so if single women are in the workforce and they're getting preference over men, which they are, it's a statistical fact you need to recognize that if you're going up for a job interview as a young man and you're competing against a woman who is going up for that same job, you have statistically less of a chance of getting the job.0.67
00:32:17.480the wage gap disparity that women are, that is a joke. If you think that women are victimized today,
00:32:25.620then you just don't know what time it is. You just got to wake up. You have to wake up.
00:32:32.780There, there is disparity, but the sex that is at, you know, the short end of the stick0.86
00:32:40.640is men not women women have every advantage today and that being said that has ultimately made women
00:32:50.440more depressed more suicidal so i i am very compassionate for the record i think we should
00:32:57.280have much compassion and concern for women because all these advantages have actually made them less
00:33:04.420happy but we should be aware of of which way the statistics link and the statistics are not
00:33:11.560leaning in the favor of the patriarchy to the oppression of the the poor woman that is that
00:33:18.620is a fantasy land that's like never ever land you know it's it's great if you want to dress up in a
00:33:24.160costume you know and and pretend but if you want to live in the real world and you know put on your1.00
00:33:30.300big boy pants and grow up and be an adult, then you got to drop the narrative of women getting,0.93
00:33:36.940you know, getting mistreated. That's not the case. And again, I'm speaking in group dynamics.1.00
00:33:45.300We have to be able to speak in categories. So I'm speaking in generalities. That is not to say
00:33:49.060that there's never an isolated individual case of a woman being mistreated. Of course there is.
00:33:54.600right in the same way if i said men are stronger physically than women and of course somebody would
00:34:00.860object and say well i know you know one woman who can out bet bench press you know one man is
00:34:06.120that wasn't my statement my statement was not that there's never been one woman in the history of all
00:34:11.100you know humankind that doesn't have more physical strength than one man it's a general truth in
00:34:17.340general men are stronger physically than women and so too in general in western society in the
00:34:24.180year of our lord 2024 the deck is rigged against men far more than it is against women and so the
00:34:31.420gospel coalition knew this they knew women aren't getting married they're foregoing marriage but
00:34:37.800they are they're not getting husbands but you know what they are getting they're getting jobs
00:34:41.520and they're getting jobs with a low overhead of expenses right all they have to do is pay for
00:34:47.920themselves and there's 17 cats but cats are a low cost you know low maintenance kind of animal0.98
00:34:55.460and so you know what these women have they have money to give to us and so in came article after0.99
00:35:02.860article after article and sermon after sermon and video after video and podcast after podcast1.00
00:35:08.540that all anytime they would talk about marriage what kind of language would be used to be
00:35:13.760are you sure you aren't idolizing your marriage right it was always idolatry it was always the
00:35:21.040idol of family the idol of patriotism the idol of children the idol of parenthood the idol of
00:35:29.840healthy eating the idol of working out like basically they took everything that would be
00:35:34.780good for society and said yeah it is good but actually it could be an idol and then everything
00:35:43.060that ultimately is not good for society
01:02:28.900That's literally what Paul says in the book of Romans about Pharaoh.
01:02:32.120Egypt was the superpower of the world at that time, the known world.
01:02:35.440It was an empire. It was undefeatable.0.82
01:02:39.100And what does Paul say? He says, for this reason, God raised up Pharaoh.0.75
01:02:43.480So it wasn't just Egypt got this far on their own and then God took them down.
01:02:47.000No, Egypt couldn't have become that strong apart from God's help.
01:02:49.960God was literally actively thinking and working, saying,0.95
01:02:52.620I need an enemy that is so strong that I get a chance to show off a few of my tricks that I
01:02:58.800haven't showed off yet. There are certain elements of my power and my redemption that I haven't got
01:03:04.300to show my people yet. And part of the reason I haven't got to show it, it's like a box in the
01:03:09.220ring. I can't show you my left hook because you never make it past my right. But I'd like to. So
01:03:15.140I'm actually with one hand, I'm going to hold you up because you require my power to be powerful
01:03:22.180enough for me to show off my power and then i'm going to go ahead and wail on you a little bit0.91
01:03:27.780that's what god does with goliath that's what he does with pharaoh that's what he does again and
01:03:31.540again and again and by his grace he could do it with us he could he could so there is a goodness
01:03:37.780of god's law the law of the lord being the law of the land there's a goodness there the law
01:03:43.100functions as a tutor the law functions as a shield restrains outward manifestations of evil
01:03:47.880It protects the church so that the church can do its job, word and sacrament, so that hearts really would be regenerate in God's sovereign plan, according to his timing, however many he determines.
01:03:59.160And yet, when that's the case, when you have the law of the land reflecting the law of the Lord, then there's something also honorable about an isolated instance of Joseph choosing to be merciful with Mary.
01:04:11.740So all that was the framework to show you that the headline of the story is the law of the Lord is functioning in this land.
01:04:23.700And then the footnote of the story is one man named Joseph was a very honorable and merciful man.
01:04:31.060And he chose to put his betrothed, his fiancee, to put her away privately in order to spare her the death penalty.
01:04:39.000Now, how do evangelical Christians read that?
01:04:41.400you know. They don't read it as capital punishment for adultery was good. And God is not arbitrary or
01:04:48.640capricious or harsh. But in isolation, individual Christians can at times exercise mercy. And that's
01:04:54.680also honorable and good and right. That's not how they read it. They read right past where it says
01:04:59.960he was within his rights to do so. They read right past that. And they read Joseph showed mercy.