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00:15:38.300and i remember like the shirts you know like there was like uh you did like a campaign
00:15:44.920correct me if i'm wrong but it was like are you going to be a sheep or are you going to be a lion
00:15:48.900yeah remember right yeah well it actually took that thrust yeah shout out to sean whalen
00:15:54.560lions not sheep is his company okay i had different shirts but i wore his shirts too
00:15:59.900because i'm like this appeals yes and it's interesting uh in a frightening way when you
00:16:05.940castrate the men you're also castrating the women in effect because men with masculinity
00:16:14.520are supposed to be there to protect and represent the women and the children so if you cut up if a0.99
00:16:22.640man cuts his own balls off like a guy can sit there and be uh minor shouldn't do gender transition0.99
00:16:28.560surgery well you did it on yourself spiritually logically yes um yeah so when a guy allows1.00
00:16:35.440himself to be castrated he needs to realize now the woman is effectively castrated her strong
00:16:43.420protector provider the warrior that she needs and the children needs is not there and there's a0.90
00:16:51.960a recent study I saw that compared men with optimal testosterone, excuse me, I still have
00:16:59.180COVID. COVID is real, by the way. It compared men with optimal testosterone versus men with
00:17:04.980low testosterone, and it was social behavior. Men with low testosterone are much more apt to do
00:17:12.400people-pleasing behaviors at the expense of violating what they believe is to be true,
00:17:19.320Whereas a man with ideal levels of testosterone statistically is far more prevalent to do and say what he believes to be right.0.93
00:17:31.500So to your point, yes, during COVID calling out the wacky science and the stupid mandates and all the tyranny, I saw, well, all of that is a symptom.0.94
00:17:44.300The symptom is a lack of real masculinity.0.98
00:17:49.480And real masculinity, it ain't just physical.
00:18:22.440Obedience was the opposite of that.0.99
00:18:24.320If healthy masculinity was in place in 2020, the amount of compliance and obedience would have been far less.
00:18:33.960and and by the way you also look at these wackos in power the bill gates is the klaus schwabs
00:18:43.540the government officials the you know currently ted cruz plenty of them on the right now
00:18:49.900those are weak men yes the reason why they're so hungry to have power over
00:18:56.460other people is they don't have masculinity they don't have the power of their own0.99
00:19:02.840balls, metaphorically speaking. They are not good men. They are weak men. And the weaker a man is,0.99
00:19:11.620the more he'll often compensate to get power outside of himself. Not from God, not through
00:19:18.140empowering his family, not by doing what's right, not by being mission-oriented, but by seeking
00:19:24.640power and control outside of himself. That's not masculinity. That is a symptom of weak
00:19:32.280masculinity so i saw both the tyranny and the obedience to tyranny to both be symptoms of
00:19:41.560very weak masculinity in our country absolutely right i love how you said um how you linked it
00:19:49.120to you know you didn't make it just physical but you also said that but that is a piece of it like
00:19:54.320men with a certain testosterone level like that plenty of studies have been done that guy behaves
00:20:00.840a different way like the like the shock um experiment where you know you you get someone
00:20:06.080to keep every time they say uh push the button to shock this person behind the the one-way glass
00:20:11.120you know and you're watching this person you're you're literally electrocuting them yeah or at
00:20:15.440least you think so maybe it's a placebo whatever however they run the experiment but as far as you
00:20:19.620know you're pushing a button that's causing immediate direct correlated pain in someone else
00:20:24.760and you're just being compliant because you're being told to do it and men with lower testosterone
00:20:29.340push the button women i think it's like 80 or 90 percentile um um they're they're pushing the
00:20:36.220button every time they're told to do it uh whereas masculine men with higher testosterone
00:20:40.900uh will say no no i'm not i'm not going to do that and so the point is like you're saying like
00:20:47.720it's not just you know well how much does the person you know how much does this dude you know
00:20:51.940bench um no there's there's a psychological masculinity spiritual masculinity mental
00:20:57.460masculinity, emotional fortitude, masculinity, and the physical. But I like that you brought
00:21:03.040testosterone into it, not to be brash, not to be overly truncated or simplistic, but there's a
00:21:13.380ditch on the other side of the road. So I can speak as a Christian pastor. The last couple
00:21:19.380decades, and I'm sure it's longer than that, but at least the last couple decades, one of the things
00:21:24.360that i've noticed in the church world is pastors um talking about masculinity um in every conceivable
00:21:32.040way except for anything that has to do with the physical yeah so it's like so you can be a bean
00:21:39.040pole and um and struggle to lift the bar um but you can be just as man as anybody else by you know
00:21:48.140your character and virtues and and it's not to say that there's nothing to character and virtue of
00:21:54.120course there is. But if we really want to be Christian, I've, you know, I'm not the world's0.74
00:22:00.600greatest theologian by a long shot, but I've studied enough of theology to know some of the
00:22:05.180ancient, most foundational heresies that were combated, like in 1 John, for instance, in the
00:22:11.700New Testament. One of the groups of heretics that was most prevalent in the early first century
00:22:17.700church were the Gnostics. And the Gnostics were known for saying that the spiritual is not just
00:22:24.080important, because the Bible, of course, would affirm that, but they would say that the spiritual
00:22:29.000is the only thing of value and importance, and the physical is of no regard, not just less regard,
00:22:36.880but no regard and if anything the physical is um is is almost it's almost like um irredeemable
00:22:47.320it's it's um it's it's not just of no value it's a hindrance and it and it can't be changed in any
00:22:55.000positive way so the Gnostics viewed like the soul as as the actual person was is historic Christian
00:23:02.860doctrine teaches that we are not souls that have a body. We're not just a soul that happens to have
00:23:11.040a body as an accidental characteristic. And we're not just bodies that happen to have a soul. We are
00:23:17.680in souled bodies or embodied souls is probably the better way to put it. So what is a human being?
00:23:24.540A human being from a Christian perspective is an embodied soul, which is why Christian doctrine
00:23:29.340teaches that to be absent of the body the moment that you die is to be present with the Lord
00:23:34.700spiritually but in the final culmination at the end of the age when Christ returns there actually
00:23:40.980is going to be a resurrection of the body and so our bodies that were buried or lost at sea and
00:23:46.580eaten by fish you know and particles spread across the whole known you know planet for a thousand
00:23:52.120years I don't know how he's going to do it but he's God and and I've been reliably informed he
00:23:55.900can do all things. But when he returns, he's going to resurrect our bodies. And this isn't
00:24:01.620just a spiritual statement. Our soul, which upon death, if a person's a Christian, their soul is0.92
00:24:07.020present with the Lord in heaven. But eventually, at the end of the age, Christ returns and resurrects
00:24:12.140the body, and the soul will then be rejoined, reunited with a now resurrected body that's
00:24:17.360never tired, never hungry, never in pain, and never given to death ever again or decay.
00:24:22.680But the reason that matters is because although if Christ tarries in his return, it may be a
00:24:30.320thousand-year period of a person who dies today and is with the Lord spiritually but whose body
00:24:36.880is in the grave. But the eons and eons eternal forever existence of a human being with the Lord
00:24:44.720will not merely be a spiritual existence but will be a spiritual and physical existence because we
00:24:51.640are embodied souls. We are physical beings. And so all that to say, the point is that to only focus
00:25:01.960on the spiritual, as important as spiritual matters are, is to neglect a piece, a significant
00:25:10.680piece of how God made us to be. If God wanted to make us just floating spirits on clouds,
00:25:18.220he could have done that but he didn't he made us physical and spiritual creatures and so to say
00:25:25.520that i'm going to train my mind and i'm going to um i'm going to esteem virtue and and um and i'm
00:25:34.240going to train myself in character and mental fortitude and psychological fortitude and
00:25:40.800emotional stability while also um drinking seed oil you know like vegetable oil right out of the
00:25:49.260bottle every day um is a misnomer it's it's an oxymoron because the reality is is people don't
00:25:57.020like this because it feels overly simplistic but the reality is um and i'm not saying we should do
00:26:01.920this because this gets into the liberties that we talked about but if there was some benevolent
00:26:06.900right-wing may not be that benevolent but let's just say a right-wing dictator that came to power
00:26:13.000like basically like the trump that liberals think he is but we all kind of wish he was but he's not
00:26:18.120even close you know but like if that guy actually did come to power and he said you know what new
00:26:22.940law um every man in the nation um has to do this uh physical regiment every day this workout plan
00:26:31.400every single one of them um i don't think democrats would ever win an election again0.71
00:26:35.900like and it's like no come on man that's ridiculous dude the studies are mind-blowing
00:26:42.040like if a man has this kind of physical reaches this benchmark of physical stamina and and
00:26:49.900testosterone levels he is this the statistical likelihood for him to vote conservative rather
00:26:56.640than liberal is shocking yeah shocking it is and uh bet i love everything you said and i appreciate
00:27:06.120you pointing out how you see christian pastors really neglecting the value of the physical body
00:27:14.480they're all overweight you don't have sex before marriage um but the bible also talks the bible
00:27:21.180talks about that but the bible also talks about gluttony yeah and here you are telling us not to0.98
00:27:25.840in one area, but you are a physical walking contradiction. But you got winded. We can all
00:27:32.360see it. You got physically winded on your way up three steps to the pulpit. Why am I going to
00:27:38.480listen to you? Yeah. And maybe to a point they make, of course, let's acknowledge you can be
00:27:45.660enslaved by your body's gratification of five senses, your desire to gratify your five senses
00:27:51.780taste. You can be loading up on sugar all day if you're just looking to gratify yourself. Alcohol,
00:27:58.960let's feel buzzed. So, of course, there's a caution with the physical body. But if you look at
00:28:08.560what's your life mission, how can you serve God? A strong, fit, resilient, capable body full of
00:28:17.440energy will most likely make you a better servant of your family. You know, I've got a five-year-old
00:28:24.560and a five-month-old. It takes a lot of energy to not only keep up with them, but to guide them
00:28:31.500and have experiences with them. You know, I'm throwing my five-year-old onto the bed.
00:28:37.740Like that takes strength, but it also takes resiliency. It takes energy to do the work I do,
00:28:44.620the work you do, which I think we both, we're not perfect, but we do our best to serve God
00:28:50.720through our work. Oh, that takes energy. To stand up for what's right takes energy. It takes strength.
00:28:59.200And I think the warrior archetype that we all need that psychologically and physically,
00:29:05.860that archetype that says, here's what I know is right. Here's the cause greater than me.
00:29:12.700and i'm willing to die for that hope i don't have to but i'm willing to right the physical body is
00:29:18.940very important when you're on the front lines even if you're on the third row back but the
00:29:25.060physical body is just so important and i can tell you my experience i'll share two quick things
00:29:31.020one of the things that makes my mind stronger more than anything i'll just say i need a strong
00:29:37.560mind, one for my own discernment, my own critical thinking. And then when I voice that, there will
00:29:43.060always be plenty of disapproval, no matter what, back when I was talking about gluten.0.91
00:29:49.320And now when I'm talking about, gosh, our government is occupied by Israel. You know,0.91
00:29:54.520331 of the 435 seats in Congress are all Israel lobby funded and controlled.
00:30:01.020now comes the tidal wave online of backlash disapproval character smearing if you don't
00:30:09.600have a strong mind you're going to back away you're going to pop i'm sorry i'll never talk
00:30:13.040about that again so i need a strong mind i think everybody does but i just recognize here's how i
00:30:19.440need one the thing you're right real quick yeah anybody in the public sphere who's going to
00:30:25.080who's going to actually oppose the narrative approved dogma of the day
00:30:31.260has to be resilient how many times have we seen guys like poke at the bear
00:30:36.860um to like 48 hours later all of a sudden like clockwork the apology tour yeah begins like we
00:30:46.700don't you can't do that like if you're going to be the man in the arena you actually have to be
00:30:51.920the man yeah if you're apologizing because you said what you believed in you're not being a man
00:31:01.420in that moment you're succumbing to cowardice and to the point of how that relates to the physical
00:31:06.900i know for myself when doing hard physical things that give me a lot of discomfort for example
00:31:15.820my workouts filled with lactic acid i'm winded it is so hard nothing makes my mind stronger than
00:31:24.600that because yes i'm experiencing it physically and how that translates mentally is i'm doing
00:31:31.960something very uncomfortable that just at a perceptual reactive level kind of makes me feel
00:31:39.100like I'm going to die. So instinctively, I want to stop and back away, seek comfort.
00:31:44.740But integrating my mind into that, not only do I keep going, I go harder and I go as hard as I can.
00:31:52.100That carries over to how we do everything else in life. And then specifically with my family,
00:32:01.020five months ago when we had our newborn, you know, life is chaotic for the first week. It's just
00:32:08.480all over the map it's bliss and it's just chaos so I wasn't doing my workouts and then you know
00:32:15.540I got back to my routine doing them again I said to my lady I said well when I'm working out
00:32:21.740regularly I think I show up like 50 better for you and she's like there is no question you do
00:32:30.160The family gets more when I am physically taking care of my manhood and my mind and ability to be resilient enough to unapologetically serve my best discernment of what God's mission is for me.
00:45:03.660We'll just let it slide today with the kids.
00:45:06.840So for me, there is great hope because we can like we're the change.
00:45:12.620If we see men are weak, not enough real whole masculinity in the world, in our countries, our families, our communities, well, then how cool is it to find out you can change that starting right now and then build the habits and discipline that have that positive change your consistent routines?
00:45:38.520That's why I don't need anything else to do in life.
00:45:43.040I'm busy as it is, but that's why shameless self-promotion.
00:45:47.280I just launched a new YouTube channel called The Better Man Project.
00:45:51.560It's because I want to directly address what you're talking about.
00:45:56.600I'm so grateful you've seen it as I simultaneously talk about specific issues that are symptomatic of the weak masculinity.
00:46:04.920but also it's time to just address it consistently full on and i want to use my voice to do that and
00:46:12.340that's why i started the better band project awesome the whole time you were talking that
00:46:17.680the keyword that that stood out to me was uh the word change and i think that that is um it's it
00:46:24.640and i'll frame it like this um on the front end there's pain but on the back end there's hope
00:46:31.800the core, like one of the top five core doctrines of the Christian faith is repentance, which is,
00:46:40.180you know, to repent is to change, is to change one's mind. You're going one direction by the
00:46:45.940grace of God. There's a conviction. The conviction is really just the, it's the exposure. It's the
00:46:55.220knowledge of, hey, this thing that you thought was good or at least at minimum permissible
00:47:03.780is actually bad. It's actually wrong. That's the conviction. Like that moment of the aha moment,
00:47:13.140the moment of revelation where the Lord reveals to you, you're going down the wrong path.
00:47:18.860um that's convicting and conviction hurts it it hurts it's it's much it's much more palatable
00:47:27.340um and much less painful when uh when we convince ourselves that we have some kind of excuse
00:47:35.080that it's like um this isn't your fault or it's and it's not your fault because you don't actually
00:47:41.780through one reason or another, one explanation or another, it's not your fault. You don't bear
00:47:49.480moral responsibility, agency, because you're not in control. So you don't have moral
00:47:58.120responsibility because you don't actually, in this thing, for whatever reason, have agency.
00:48:03.900You're not at fault because you're not in control. And I've found, as a husband, as a father, as a
00:48:11.780even though it hurts and the initial feeling is hurt and you might even arouse in the person
00:48:20.960you're speaking with initially a defensive posture, offense. The person might be offended
00:48:28.000at what you say. I've always, or I'll say, you know, leaving room for human error, I've virtually
00:48:34.600always, not maybe right away, but eventually on the back end, been profusely thanked by anyone
00:48:44.020where I've been able to point out something as, and this is the biblical word, sin. Because
00:48:51.360if it's not merely circumstances outside my control, well, outside my control may make me
00:48:58.420be able to sleep a little better at night because I don't feel responsible for it because I don't
00:49:02.320have agency, or I've convinced myself I don't have agency, but the things that are within my control
00:49:07.220that I'm still doing that are wrong of my own volition, I'm willfully doing something wrong.
00:49:12.020Well, the Bible lists that as sin. Nobody really likes to be told that they're sinning.
00:49:16.980But what I've found is that realizing that you're sinning is painful, even angering,
00:49:25.240but it's actually one of the most hopeful things in the world. And I love the two words that stuck
00:49:30.920out to me one you kept saying change but you also said um hope and i think like if i was to define
00:49:37.340the word hope in in the simplest shortest definition possible most concise i would say
00:49:42.220hope is the belief that change is possible yeah if you if if you believe to me the to state it
00:49:50.900the opposite um the most hopeless um bleak glum uh despairing
00:49:59.820mindset that a person could possibly ever have is to think that um there can be no change yeah
00:50:09.160so even if it's like hey this is wrong oh and and by the way it's also your fault
00:50:16.360that sucks and i might my initial reaction might be a defensive posture and even taking offense0.79
00:50:25.560even hey okay that's cool i hate you i'm really mad at you for saying that but overall if i you0.97
00:50:33.440know give me a while i always tell people i respond really really well about 24 hours later
00:50:40.060Yeah. Give me 24 hours and I will have the most charitable response. Now, I don't always have the
00:50:47.080best response right away, but give me 24 hours. Let me sleep on it. Give me a moment. Get my
00:50:53.320emotions in check. Think about it. Come to my senses. I respond really well in time. And I'm
00:51:01.220convinced that most people are probably the same way that I am. You're probably in a similar way.
00:51:07.220uh my first reaction um thanks so much also unrelated i hate you you know and i hope you0.93
00:51:14.760get hit by a truck you know but 24 hours later or maybe you know maybe it's 48 72 but within a day0.95
00:51:20.880or two gosh darn it i think he might kind of be right and even though that hurts and i don't
00:51:28.700particularly like it you know what it's actually more hopeful than the previous narrative that i've0.52
00:51:35.220been using to console myself. Because the previous narrative, it absolved me of moral responsibility
00:51:41.160because it said, I don't have agency. I don't have real control or say in the matter. But although
00:51:48.940I was consoled by my previous narrative that I'm not at fault, I also was hopeless in my previous
00:51:56.480narrative this one blames me but it also liberates me because now if i could believe this
00:52:04.840if anything that that person just told me right the proverbs say um the wounds of a friend are
00:52:11.660better than the kisses of an enemy and sometimes that's what brothers do they it's like i'm gonna0.98
00:52:18.580give you a little bit of tough love and the tough love is you suck but also the good news is it's1.00
00:52:25.560your fault that you suck. That's the good news? Believe it or not, it actually is. Because if1.00
00:52:30.840it's your fault, meaning you could do something about it, then you could actually stop. By the
00:52:36.140grace of God, you could stop sucking. And I feel like the guys that have piqued my interest over0.98
00:52:44.020the last few years, you being one of them, one of the common denominators across the board with all
00:52:49.180those guys are that they have a message of hope. And whether it's Zionists have occupied our0.90
00:52:56.940government or, you know, Trump wasn't supposed to win in 2016, but he won even with a popular vote0.90
00:53:04.640in 2024, maybe because this time he was supposed to win. This time he was regime approved. All
00:53:11.960those kinds of messages that are like really blackpilling, really frustrating, you know,
00:53:17.220on the front end what i've noticed is is guys like you the common denominator undergirding all
00:53:22.460of it is um here's the bad news dot dot dot fine print here's the good news it doesn't have to be
00:53:31.200this way yeah you you can't get out of a jail you don't know you're in so let's acknowledge
00:53:36.980the bad news knowing that we're doing it because it's empowering you can change i it shouldn't be
00:53:45.800this way, but I think our, our country is so void of self-responsibility that now if you have
00:53:54.700a decent level of self-responsibility, it's like a superpower. Yes. And there, there's a reason
00:54:01.300also why most people would rather be wrong than admit they're wrong. Synonymous with sin. Most
00:54:07.060people would rather sin than admit they've sinned because it's painful. It's shattering. You can
00:54:14.100even lose if you're wrong about something you can even lose self-identity like you kind of have this
00:54:20.580sense of who am i is if that's not true then i don't even know who i am yeah but the payoff is
00:54:26.880freedom yes like you if you free yourself from a self-induced prison a coffin of a comfort zone
00:54:33.440formed out of a belief then you you are a very free very powerful person and if you're willing
00:54:41.600to be guided by the truth, here's your destiny. You will have to acknowledge you were wrong so
00:54:48.460many times because you ain't right about everything right now. So that's one of the
00:54:54.160prices you have to pay to be guided by the truth. You're, oh, I was wrong about this. I was wrong
00:55:00.380about this. You have to have the humbleness and the tolerance to go through that pain,
00:55:04.660but know there's the payoff of i'm a freer person now yes and i'm more empowered now
00:55:10.780i'll share this there's uh i love admitting when i'm wrong after i've had time to process
00:55:18.560on my youtube channel past few years uh five years i've released two videos i was wrong about
00:55:29.540abortion second video i was wrong about guns and in that i wanted to just model like i i've
00:55:38.320legitimately changed my mind on these issues jp nobody people change their uh their minds because
00:55:43.980it gets to the point where it's like you you can't keep going with the narrative because everyone
00:55:47.460sees it it's blatantly obvious but this is what guys will do it and it's so insulting to their
00:55:52.640audience is they'll literally be like hey i'm going to do a video today about second uh amendment
00:55:58.420rights and never acknowledged gaslighting yeah it's just like um and and what they're actually0.99
00:56:03.640saying is hey you three million followers on youtube um i think you are so stupid like and0.99
00:56:11.140but but people do it all the time yeah trump literally said right and and he's supposed to0.99
00:56:15.500be a christian right he literally said in an interview they were like um what do you do when
00:56:20.220you're wrong you know do you repent do you apologize and trump said well no my strategy
00:56:24.940you is is instead just to never be wrong yeah and and you people to actually admit you're wrong it
00:56:31.240it should be you were talking about a superpower earlier like taking responsibility as a superpower
00:56:35.560here's another one because people are like we got them now they do it with me all the time it's like
00:56:39.500we got them now we caught them in inconsistency and they think it's going to be like the the end
00:56:43.540of my my career and my superpower is i'll just come out and i'll say yeah you did get me i was
00:56:49.880wrong yeah i saw on twitter a few days ago you did that again yeah it's like i was wrong and
00:56:55.100they're like no you can't do that it's like you know you actually can um especially as a christian
00:57:00.700by the grace of god at any given moment simply say out loud and it will put you in the top
00:57:06.4600.1 percent of all leaders of all time to be like no actually i just got something wrong and and you
00:57:14.500one you have a clear conscience before the lord that's most important two you will garner
00:57:18.880the irony is um everyone is telling you you'll lose all respect you will garner more respect
00:57:25.040more loyalty more appreciation from the people listening to you than virtually anything else
00:57:30.920you could possibly do they they perceive you to be trustworthy yes and and embedded in that has
00:57:39.400to be what you were talking about you owning why it's your fault if you cast blame no now you're
00:57:47.140you're faking it. You're, you're almost there, but you're faking it. For example, by the way,
00:57:52.200I mess this up all the time. I'm just sharing an example where I think I did it right with a video
00:57:57.660I did about gun control back in 10 years ago, I released a video making fun of gun advocates as1.00
00:58:05.620a comedy sketch and portraying them as stupid. And yeah, we need guns to protect ourselves from1.00
00:58:11.480a tyrannical government. Like that's ever going to happen. Then 2020 comes around. I was like,
00:58:15.860oh that's the government they were talking about yeah so i've completely changed my mind i i see
00:58:21.180our second amendment to be a so important and that's vastly different than the content i put
00:58:26.760out before so in my video why i was wrong about guns i even showed clips from my old videos
00:58:34.180that's powerful modeling how i was making fun of the people i am now just i wanted to rub it in
00:58:42.620their faces really own it here's what i thought watch here's me thinking it here's what i think
00:58:49.080now here's why i allow myself to believe that my self-ownership was it was more acceptable in the
00:58:57.120crowds to uh say you know these guns we wouldn't have mass shootings it got me a sense of belonging
00:59:04.220i didn't have to risk feeling disapproved of and i didn't have to do my own critical thinking i
00:59:10.300wasn't doing my own critical thinking and now I am. And it was very weak of me to not do my own
00:59:18.660thinking and to do something just to go along with the crowd or to believe something to just
00:59:25.100go along with the crowd. But man, I know in my relationship with my lady, nothing builds trust
00:59:32.180more when she comes up to me or I come up to her and say, you know, that thing we were kind of
00:59:38.240arguing i can see how i was wrong i can see here's what i did or here's my part and i apologize for
00:59:46.660that you don't build trust with people and you don't build trust with yourself through that
00:59:53.620gaslighting and contorting yourself trying to present this i'm never wrong i can't change my
01:00:00.280mind you're just holding your life together like a stack of cards yes yeah and all that plays into