In this episode, I was privileged to have as a guest Hastie Gomez, who was born in Iran into a Muslim family. We address the differences between Islam and Christianity, as well as the million dollar question: Does Islam promote violence?
00:05:31.140It makes me think of Hebrews that, you know, that we should strive for the holiness for
00:05:35.160without which no one will see the Lord or to work out our salvation with fear and trembling.
00:05:40.800And there's a lot of people in the reformed camp that I think overemphasize grace to the
00:05:45.820point that they, um, that they don't really understand that, uh, that there is a sense in
00:05:50.020which the Christian diligently strives, um, to follow after God. So Derek Thomas, he's great
00:05:55.660Ligonier, uh, big fan. So all that being said, let's go ahead and get to your personal story.
00:06:00.660So you were born in Iran and you were born into Islam. You, your family, your parents,
00:06:08.200uh, talk about that. Talk about your journey out of Islam. Yeah. Well, yeah, I was born in Iran. I1.00
00:06:15.160I was I went to school there for a couple of years and my dad decided that he didn't want to live in Iran with the regime and with the with the craziness of Islam.1.00
00:06:26.240And it was in the middle of the Iran-Iraq war when I was born.1.00
00:06:30.760So we were there until the war actually ended.
00:06:33.560So I was around eight years old when we moved to Denmark, which is like black and white, like completely different countries.
00:06:42.020um and i to this day i thank god that i was raised there because it's a beautiful country
00:06:47.580um so we moved to denmark my brother and i my mom and my dad and uh we started living there
00:06:56.400as we identified as a muslim family even though my dad was a very nominal christian very
00:07:03.140liberal christian um i went to school there we'll just say you just said christian but
00:07:09.920did you mean to say nominal yes okay all right go ahead yeah yeah that's what i feel a liberal
00:07:15.800yeah a very liberal muslim yeah and we identified as a muslim family um so i went to school there
00:07:23.120and um the only time um i would go to a church was for a school play or concert
00:07:29.120and that was the extent of christianity that i knew um it was beautiful churches and that's about
00:07:36.760Nobody ever in the 10 years that I was living there shared the gospel with me personally.
00:07:45.060I was living in a Christian country, but not one person shared the good news with me.
00:07:53.680And so fast forward, my parents were going through marital problems.
00:08:00.780So my mom decided that she wanted to move away and she wanted to move to Vancouver with my brother and I.
00:08:08.240So we moved to Vancouver and started over here.
00:08:11.700So I went to school here, high school.
00:08:14.540And so my mom kind of like, because my mom was the one that was very devoted to her faith, to Islam.
00:08:24.360But she was just not finding peace in Islam.
00:08:29.860She was not finding that it was the truth, especially after she went to she took the pilgrimage to Mecca with my dad while they were in Denmark.
00:08:40.340And she had come back even more confused and more unsettled because she was told, you know, she was visiting one of the holiest and most sacred sites for Muslims.
00:08:51.460And she did not feel that. She came back and she's like, something's off. This is not right.
00:08:57.180and so not knowing better she started going to seek temples to buddhist temples and to anything
00:09:05.600and everything trying to find that peace and um and we were just oblivious just being teenagers
00:09:14.260and and one day one of her friends um asked her hey do you want to go to church with me so she
00:09:21.880invited her to church and she was like fine like again like to her church was like a museum they're
00:09:28.500beautiful you go in you come out and she could have she would go out with her friend the next
00:09:32.860that day on a sunday so she goes to church and um while the worship was happening happening one of
00:09:40.220the one of the songs worship songs was about the character of god about god and who he is and
00:09:46.740and that was that did it for her she felt that that was the truth about god who god is
00:09:55.940what the what the words how the words were describing god is who she really believed
00:10:01.620that that this is god this is is who i've been seeking um now that i that we know that god had
00:10:09.980regenerated her heart, giving her the gift of faith to actually draw her to himself.
00:10:16.380So she goes home and she started reading the Bible and she keeps going back to that church.
00:10:21.600And so she became a believer about like a year before my brother and I.
00:10:28.180And so she would share the Bible stories with us.
00:10:31.700She would share verses with us and she would pray for us.
00:10:36.340And, you know, my brother and I were like, oh, my gosh, now she's on a Jesus journey now.
00:10:41.900Like, first, it was like the Buddhism stuff.0.96
00:13:09.100And I can't help but think you said, you know, like they were rejoicing,
00:13:12.080they were so happy, and you kind of were lost and didn't know what was going on.
00:13:16.580And I can't help but think, you know, you mentioned that they didn't talk about sin.
00:13:20.660They didn't talk about the holiness of God, this thrice holy God and, you know, the severity of man's sin and therefore God's just wrath towards man in his sin and man's sin being an affront and offense to his holiness.
00:13:35.280And really, it just, you know, it got me thinking that you can't rejoice in the good news without first understanding the bad news.
00:13:45.060Exactly. So for you, you're sitting there and they're, you know, they're excited and, you know, right. Cause in their view, it's like, you've just been cured from cancer. Um, but in your view, you don't even know what a cure from, from cancer is, but not only that, you don't even know what cancer is, you know? And so exactly. Yeah. So go, go ahead. Back to you.
00:14:03.360Yeah, so that was, so that was my, my entrance into Christianity. I mean, there's a reason for everything. And I trust that God knew what he was doing. And now looking back, I wouldn't have been able to do what I'm doing, for example, on Instagram, if I actually wasn't in that for a while, in the false teachings and the wrong ways of doing things.
00:14:30.360um he allowed me to be there and to so for me to be able to bring glory to his name at the end you
00:14:37.940know so i'm not upset about whatever happened in those 15 years i think i was in that church
00:14:45.580um 15 is that what you said yeah yeah that's a long time yeah so i was 19 and i was there when
00:14:55.360i got married so i met my husband there so i was 25 when i met him and then stayed there until
00:15:02.060a few years back where everything just started um stuff started happening while i was at that
00:15:09.140church stuff that didn't make sense for example like uh then the word gospel would come up and
00:15:14.120i would be like what is the gospel like why don't i know this why why why why isn't the preacher
00:15:20.440explaining what the gospel is what is uh why can't i share about christ easily as other people say
00:15:26.780they do how do you share how do you share about your faith like so these things and then i would
00:15:32.140say um you know why is the bible not being taught at our church you know why are we watching movies
00:15:41.240on a sunday you know hollywood movies right like exegeting it's funny when pastors like you know
00:15:48.460what the bible is 66 books you know it's 1500 to 3000 pages long depending on your translation
00:15:54.700and even though you would think that there's a plethora of scripture to exegete let's go ahead
00:16:00.040and exegete the latest brad pitt film i think that's what the people need yeah it doesn't make
00:16:05.840a lot of sense no and like um i would um this is this is the crazy part that nobody told me that i
00:16:15.020was in a in a prosperity gospel church that I was in a word of faith church I didn't even know what
00:16:19.480those things were um but I knew something's off like I knew I didn't like Joel Osteen the way he
00:16:26.540taught and I was like why is Joel Osteen endorsing our church why are you selling his books here and
00:16:32.720then when I would ask the pastors they would bring up the bible where some have the gift of this some
00:16:38.320have the gift of this so we you know we don't judge and we so and then slowly started like I
00:16:45.420just I was like why um why is my mom who needs financial help putting her tithes on her on her
00:16:53.340visa and uh she asked she one time asked the pastor um you know I don't I don't have money
00:17:01.660for tithing i'm putting it on my visa and she knew that you shouldn't be in debt and the bible
00:17:09.080clearly says you can't go in debt and um in the past i was standing there and the pastor said
00:17:15.360you put it on your visa god will bless you you just keep giving and in my head i'm like that
00:17:21.620doesn't make any sense you know slowly stuff started why is why is the pastor marrying
00:17:29.600a muslim to a christian the bible clearly says you can't be unequally yoked why is that okay
00:17:37.800so stuff like that started like ding ding ding you know and um i didn't have anybody to talk to
00:17:43.580except my mom so we kind of started like what is going on and then with my husband i started
00:17:50.900talking to him later and uh one day um speaking about the movie we were in this um campus where
00:17:59.220was mainly for the area was where drug addicts are and a lot of homeless people. So this church
00:18:08.040was basically there mostly for them to attend it. And, you know, there was, I was, I arrived
00:18:14.900to church and there was all of those, you know, less fortunate or homeless people were in the
00:18:21.020church as well. And I hear that we're going to watch this Kevin Costner movie. And I just like,
00:18:27.420i couldn't i i couldn't handle it anymore i was like i look around the movie was playing and i'm
00:18:33.400like this is what you're giving these people who are here to hear the gospel the word of god the
00:18:39.360bible we're watching a movie it was over for me i just i was so angry and um i went home and i uh
00:18:47.360researched um when is it okay to leave your church and um todd frill from rested radio showed up on
00:18:56.380youtube and i just clicked i didn't even know who he was and it was like if they use hill song music
00:19:04.240if they use these music emotional music if they're if they're not sharing the gospel if they're
00:19:09.200watching movies if and if they're using gimmicks and all that everything he said was like a check
00:19:15.780mark i was like oh my word what where am i what is going on and so um so then another video popped
00:19:24.420up and it was Justin Peters about false teachers so I clicked on it and lo and behold every single
00:19:31.700teacher he was talking about my church endorsed Beth Moore, Lisa DeVere, John Bevere, Kenneth
00:19:37.960Copeland, Joel Osteen I mean I was it was like it rocked my world I was like I mean this I was
00:19:49.380like a twilight zone i was like where what is happening right now am i actually
00:19:54.480i felt like i was lied to for 15 years you know nobody had told me different so i told my mom and
00:20:02.900my husband and um somehow by god's providence um we we just came out of that church and um
00:20:13.900found the church that we now attend and it is biblical and it is um sound and it's expository
00:20:23.040preaching and there's you know everything you need in a church so you found a good biblical
00:20:29.260reformed church which you think is mainly presbyterian um and you came out of the
00:20:35.540prosperity preaching church that you were part of for 15 years and before that it sounds like
00:20:40.320you know, you were doing the teenager thing that most teenagers tend to do. And your mom was on
00:20:45.540really this journey of trying to find Christ. And she didn't even know she was looking for Christ,
00:20:50.740but trying to find the one true God. And she did her Mecca, her pilgrimage, and realized there's
00:20:59.180nothing here. And she tried out Buddhism, I think you said Hinduism, eventually found
00:21:04.240And yeah, a Christian church that had at least an anemic presentation of the gospel, perhaps
00:29:36.100and he turns and stops nursing for a moment and turns.
00:29:41.260And as an infant talks and rebukes the crowd that's mocking his mother.
00:29:46.860And those are actually, those are teachings that were floating around in the Christian tradition, but not actually inspired texts from the apostles commissioned by Christ to write scripture, but by Gnostic writers and heretical writers.
00:29:59.900And so you can see, and they were floating around and became popularized in the specific area where Muhammad was living.
00:30:04.800And so it's very clear that like he was trying to, it's almost like he was trying to get some kind of credibility for the Quran by piggybacking on Christianity, but he piggybacked accidentally on heretical Gnostic teachings of Christianity without even realizing it because that happened to be what was prevalent in his lifetime.
00:30:23.120And so the Quran is fairly easily, just from an objective standpoint, easy to date.
00:30:28.720It's easy to be able to say, yeah, this isn't the eternal word of Allah that existed before time began and fell out of the sky.
00:30:36.300So anyway, do you have any thoughts on that?0.85
00:30:39.760Yeah, I mean, it's very, Islam is also very superstitious, you know, they're very superstitious.0.95
00:39:00.100So anyways, I said a lot there and I'm sure you maybe had a few thoughts.
00:39:03.220So go ahead if there's something you want to.0.92
00:39:06.300No, but like everything you said is exactly right about Islam.
00:39:11.420So it's, I think that's why also people don't have, you know, because we know fully that we're forgiven.
00:39:20.360We have this, we can find the strength to say, I'm forgiven of everything.
00:39:25.040And you trust that God is faithful to forgive you.
00:39:30.260You have the strength to forgive others.1.00
00:39:32.160but islam doesn't have that so there's no they can't they can't put their strength in anything1.00
00:39:38.040to say well allah forgave me because they don't know if he has they don't know if you know what0.90
00:39:42.980i mean so there's this um there's no um security in believing in allah you know and also the
00:39:52.440teachings of islam they not alone do they they deny the truth about everything about christ0.84
00:40:00.420And unfortunately, Muslims don't comprehend how Allah would allow his prophet Esau, Jesus, to die a horrible death on a cross.0.99
00:40:12.460So to them, they see it as weakness.0.97
00:40:15.280You know, to them, they would be like, why would, you know, why would he allow him to die if he's God or if he's, you know, even his prophet?
00:40:22.600but the bible again shows us how the death of the perfect sinless son of god is the only way
00:40:31.660to atone for our sins so everything we believe they they turn it upside down and they don't0.89
00:40:38.920believe that so that's really profound yeah and it's and it's funny that actually islam even0.91
00:40:45.460though it's this religion of works and you think of just all these rules and regulations and and
00:40:51.060heavy burdens laid upon the you know the adherence of islam and all these kind of things and yet0.87
00:40:57.620the irony is that um it's not a heavier view of the holiness of allah and the sinfulness of man0.96
00:41:06.080it's actually a much that islam in my assessment has a much lighter not heavier but a much lighter0.88
00:41:12.840view of sin because it's it's a sin that man in himself can still in his own effort in his own0.85
00:41:20.080will, his own strength atone for. Whereas in the Christian faith, we're saying, no, no, no. It's
00:41:26.140like, well, God, I want to make this up to you. You know what? Why don't you sit a couple plays
00:41:30.160out? That's cute. I don't think you understand, son, daughter, how sinful you actually are.
00:41:36.680You can't make this up to me. For your sin to be atoned for, it took my son bleeding out at
00:41:46.060calvary and drinking the full cup of the white hot wrath of god and so it's not as christianity
00:41:52.120it's not a lighter um idea of holiness and and sin and um it's actually a much heavier view of
00:42:00.420all those things uh infinitely so because uh because the only thing that's enough is death
00:42:07.180the wages of sin is death there is there is no substitute uh for death someone has to die
00:42:13.800either you or the savior in your place back to you i'm sorry no don't be um one thing i feel like0.78
00:42:22.220islam is heavy on is the fear of god but not in the way we fear god where it's the reverence0.77
00:42:28.340you love him and you want to honor him that's why you fear him in a you know it's islam is like0.94
00:42:34.440i'm afraid like you freeze you want to you know what i mean when you just can't move1.00
00:42:39.920that's the kind of fear that they feed you so okay it's uh again it's an upside down kind of
00:42:47.980thing you know right completely that's another really good that's another really good insight
00:42:53.700i can't remember the text i'm gonna this is a bold move in an episode to actually try to find
00:42:59.980a text i know it's hebrews i want to say it's hebrews too somebody who's going to listen to
00:43:03.480this is going to be like they're going to know what it is and i don't know what it is and they're
00:43:07.060going to be shouting at their computer trying to tell me the reference but anyways uh it's when
00:43:11.940jesus um it's when oh nailed it oh my goodness it's hebrews 2 i knew it hebrews 2 verse 14 thanks
00:43:19.980verse 14 and 15 says this since therefore the children share in flesh and blood he being christ
00:43:25.740himself likewise partook of the same things so the incarnation took on flesh the divine took on
00:43:31.460flesh, that through death, that is his death on the cross, he being Christ might destroy the one
00:43:38.680who has the power of death, that is the devil and deliver, verse 15 is key and deliver all those who
00:43:46.960through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery. Fear, this is my point, fear and slavery
00:43:55.800go hand in hand. You can't be a slave apart from fear. That's, that's the weapon. That's the,
00:44:02.340those are the chains, the chains that, that ultimately enslave are the chains of fear.0.98
00:44:10.360And so any false religion, and not just, you know, false religion of Islam, but the false0.54
00:44:15.260religion of secularism, right? You know, we were talking about that before we started recording0.91
00:44:20.420the false religion of secularism same thing how how how do you if you're if you're an elite if
00:44:26.740you're the civil magistrate you're some kind of ruling elite somebody in power and and you want
00:44:31.180to accrue more authority more power uh how do you get it well you can't get more power unless
00:44:36.500unless people are willing to give it to you forfeit it so you have to enslave them so what
00:44:40.980do you use what's your tactic what's your strategy fear hey coronavirus everybody's gonna die you
00:44:47.120You know, and so, you know, and, and, you know, the, you know, that it's the old adage, I think Hillary Clinton even said it, you know, that never let a good crisis go to waste, which is like, it's like, what?
00:44:57.480How do you like, I mean, you can't even hear that without cringing.
00:45:02.660And aren't, aren't you ashamed that that just came out of you?
00:45:05.900But that's, that's the, that's the mindset.
00:45:08.320So whether it's the false religion of Islam or the false religion of Joe Biden, you know, either way, secularism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, there's always this sense of the people are enslaved.
00:45:21.160And what I love about that text, Hebrews chapter two, verse 14 and 15 is the scripture, the Christian scripture says that all people were enslaved, particularly, specifically to the fear of death and that Jesus took on flesh and by his death.
00:45:39.900So Jesus, by his death, ransomed us, delivered us from slavery, lifelong, it says lifelong slavery to the fear of death.
00:45:48.800And it seems like that's what you're saying, that precious people made in the image of God who are steeped in Islam, there's just this constant fear.0.68
00:45:59.180And you bifurcate and say, you know, the fear that they have is very different than the way that we're commanded as Christians to fear the Lord.
00:46:04.960And I think one of the big differences is it's the fear of God himself, which is what the Christians commanded to have, that reverence and awe of God, versus the fear of what God might do to me.
00:46:15.860the fear of God's judgment, the fear of, exactly. And so that's what it is. It's the fear of death.
00:46:23.060And it's really, to me, it seems like it's the fear of death at the hand of Allah. It's the fear
00:46:28.000of, of the judgment of God rather than the fear of God himself. So it's not even that Allah is so0.82
00:46:33.260holy and so, so awe inspiring that, that I tremble with R.C. Sproul used to say, you know,
00:46:40.800it's a sense of trembling in fear, but also exhilaration, excitement, right? Adrenaline.
00:46:46.480It's like to stand in the presence of God will be this, it'll be like, on one hand,
00:46:52.960it's almost like a sense is we'll, we'll, we'll, we'll like, we can't take it. It's like, I, you
00:46:58.040know, I, I don't know if I want to be here any longer. And yet at the very same time, it's like,
00:47:01.980how can I be anywhere else? I want to see, I want to know him and be known by him. And so it's this
00:47:07.880awe in spite, like, like lightning and thunder that you're just like, wow, like it, like it
00:47:13.940crashes. You're afraid, but you're in awe. Yeah. But you're in awe. Like if you know that the
00:47:19.040lightning is not going to strike you, right. You somehow have this guarantee that you're not going
00:47:23.120to be the object of, of, of the lightning that it actually strikes. Then, then there's, there's this
00:47:28.920trembling of fear, but also this exhilaration, this excitement. And that's the fear, the Christian1.00
00:47:36.060fear that that children of God have for our our heavenly father we fear God there's a difference
00:47:42.700in fearing God himself versus fearing uh what what what God might do to us fearing God's judgment
00:47:49.440fearing death at the hand of God and it sounds like that's what you're saying that that the
00:47:53.880Muslim has this not a fear of Allah so much that Allah is such this incredible awe-inspiring
00:48:01.520beautiful um robust being but rather it's it's all the things that all law could do to you
00:48:07.560if you don't shape it's like a child your child obeying you out of fear of being punished or
00:48:14.080obeying you because he actually loves you and respects you there's a complete difference you
00:48:18.580know one is a um sick relationship like it's not healthy do you know what i mean like that's not
00:48:25.860what you want even for your children um so yeah yep no you're right so okay so some of the
00:48:33.080distinctions just to kind of recap for a moment because you you've you've listed some good things
00:48:37.720so you're saying one is this idea of fear um fear of god versus a fear of allah and and really his
00:48:44.900judgment his punishment another is works-based salvation versus grace-based uh and with that
00:48:51.040You know, we talked about the idea that Allah isn't constant.
00:49:20.720His constantness, his steadiness is our good.
00:49:26.720And so those are some of the difference.
00:49:28.260So grace-based versus works-based, not constant versus immutable, fear of judgment, fear of death versus an actual fear of God himself in reverence.
00:49:40.200Were there any other distinctions that you mentioned that I'm forgetting or another one that you wanted to mention?
01:10:48.480Yeah, we would say you're not a Christian and you have so clearly interpreted this wrongly.
01:10:54.300Whereas in the case of Islam, although it is true that the mass majority of Muslims, as far as I can tell, are very peaceful people, they would, my point is this, I said it earlier, but I'll say it again, violence, when there is that outlier, right?
01:11:13.700That person who claims to be a Christian and, and yet they are responsible for a school0.97
01:11:19.860shooting or, or the man, for instance, who, you know, who went to a Christian church and
01:11:24.020claimed to be Christian and said that he was struggling, uh, with lust and, and he went
01:11:29.060and shot up, um, a bunch of massage parlors and killed a number of, of women.
01:11:35.080Um, we, we would look at that and we, we would be able to, you know, we would say that guy
01:11:40.760was off his rocker and probably needed some serious medical help and that is uh that that
01:11:46.300is not a christian action and that's also not christian doctrine and again to be fair the
01:11:52.100muslim would say you know with 9-11 right they would say that's not muslim doctrine and that's
01:11:57.040not a muslim action but when you look at but it is a doctrine yeah that's right and you look at
01:12:02.920the christian text i have a text where i can say nowhere in this text will you find us and but but
01:12:08.480then with with the quran i can say yeah i see how that guy got there yeah i i feel like you know0.70
01:12:15.440like you're saying that this guy's off his rocker and that he's crazy and that's just this horrible
01:12:19.800interpretation but that seems like a much plainer reading of the quran because they're basically
01:12:25.980imitating their leader right they're imitating muhammad that's their claim that's right yeah
01:12:31.320Anything else you want to add on the issue that we've been discussing of violence and Islam?
01:12:39.640I think that was really good. Is there anything else?1.00
01:12:42.600I would reiterate that most Muslims that I know and that I've known have been gracious, peace-loving people.1.00
01:12:54.000And that's because they don't practice Islam, really.
01:12:56.080that's the reason they're very nominal just like i was a nominal muslim um i mean i used to go to0.61
01:13:03.420mosque i used with my parents i used to pray i used to fast and i wholeheartedly rejected a lot0.87
01:13:09.340of islam laws and um you know um so i understand when they when people are like but look at all0.91
01:13:18.860these peaceful people right you know what i mean right so we the same way that i wouldn't want to
01:13:24.880be stereotyped as a christian like um i don't know like um there are many types of christians
01:13:31.880right so there are those who just profess by name and just take the label of a religion but they
01:13:37.560don't really apply they don't believe anything about it or practice it and and there's those
01:13:43.920who actually profess faith in christ but they just profess it but they don't have faith they
01:13:49.960don't possess faith in christ they don't actually live it they're not saved they're not christian
01:13:54.480so it's the same way i wouldn't be like yeah yeah i'm i'm a christian they would be like you know
01:13:59.520there's tons of christians in denmark by name right it's a christian country but you go and
01:14:04.940you're like oh no definitely not a christian country this is a very secular country and
01:14:11.260culture so um and like muslims are a large group of people they're all defined by their following0.60
01:14:19.100of islam but they're very different so they're like indonesian muslim is different than turkish0.68
01:14:23.980muslims and turkish muslims are different than malaysian muslims so they're all very different
01:14:29.340and they can't be grouped into one you know um so there's um you know there's a cultural aspect
01:14:38.260to the religion yeah there's elements of of islam that certain muslims uh carry they have to be0.99
01:14:45.680like and it has elements of peacefulness in it but they have to it's a huge uh different
01:14:52.660different from the jihadist militant jihadist muslims um so you can't we can't lump them
01:15:00.080together so yeah if people um say that i i agree with them i would say i would say islam is still0.93
01:15:08.840a false religion um yes it's uh they don't follow the true god but not all muslims are the same so1.00
01:15:16.800Right. No, I agree. I think the vast majority of Muslims, as far as I can tell, are peaceful people. And yet, I would say that the outlier, and just to be fair, I don't think that the outlier is quite as much of an outlier as we have within Christianity, at least today.1.00
01:15:41.100Today, yeah, there are some examples of violent Christians, but there are really few and far between.0.69
01:15:47.280Whereas when it comes to Islam, present time today, we have, it's not like it's just, you know, one in a million or a needle in a haystack.1.00
01:18:54.780Because if you just said, you know, he didn't want to interact with her.
01:18:57.920Then again, I would play the devil's advocate and push back and say that we do, Hastie, have a verse in the New Testament that for those who profess, they claim to be a brother.