#341 - Overcoming insomnia: improving sleep hygiene and treating disordered sleep with cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia | Ashley Mason, Ph.D.
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Ashley Mason is an associate professor at UCSF where she leads the Sleep, Eating, and Affect Laboratory. Her research focuses on non-pharmacologic interventions for mental health, particularly exploring how treatments like whole-body hyperthermia and mindfulness-based approaches can improve mood disorders, sleep, and eating behaviors. She s also the Director of UCSF's Center for Obesity Assessment, Study and Treatment, known as COAST. Her work integrates clinical psychology with integrative medicine, aiming to develop accessible treatments that address the biological and behavioral aspects of health. In this episode, we focus almost entirely around one area of her expertise, which is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia, or CBTI.
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head over to peteratiyahmd.com forward slash subscribe. My guest this week is Ashley Mason.
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Ashley is an associate professor at UCSF, where she leads the Sleep, Eating, and Affect Laboratory.
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Her research focuses on non-pharmacologic interventions for mental health, particularly
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exploring how treatments like whole body hyperthermia, mindfulness-based approaches can
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improve mood disorders, sleep, and eating behaviors. She's also the director of UCSF's Center for
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Obesity Assessment, Study, and Treatment, known as COAST. Her work integrates clinical psychology
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with integrative medicine, aiming to develop accessible treatments that address the biological
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and behavioral aspects of health. In this episode, we focus almost entirely around one area of her
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expertise, which is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia, or CBTI. Ashley gives us a masterclass
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exploration of CBTI, including various methods, including time in bed restriction, stimulus control,
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and cognitive restructuring to combat insomnia. We speak about how to manage racing thoughts and
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anxiety, and Ashley shares techniques like scheduled worry time to address stress during the day and
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prevent sleep disruption at night. We talk about the impact of temperature regulation and the role
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of warming extremities and optimizing sleep environments for effective sleep onset. We
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discuss behavioral and cognitive interventions and the impact of leveraging small, actionable changes
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in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to overcome patterns of insomnia and other mental health
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challenges. Ashley shares some sleep hygiene fundamentals addressing blue light exposure, food, and alcohol
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intake, and creating bedtime routines for better sleep. She provides practical tools for tracking
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progress, like using sleep diaries and A-B testing to identify and refine effective interventions. And we
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explore the potential for AI and digital tools to democratize access to CBTI and address the growing
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demand for sleep therapy. So without further delay, please enjoy my conversation with Dr. Ashley Mason.
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Hey, Ashley, thank you so much for coming to Austin to talk about a lot of interesting things. Let's start
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with the one that I think everybody listening can probably relate to at least once, which is insomnia.
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Well, I've been interested in sleep for a long time. I was fortunate to go to the University of Arizona for
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my doctoral work. When I was there, the late Dick Bootson was also there. And he's one of the co-inventors
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of cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia. And I think I found it particularly interesting because
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it works so well. We have so many different psychological treatments, and they all have varying
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degrees of efficacy and effectiveness. And the thing about cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia is that
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it's kind of like a recipe. If you do it, it works. And this was always just so interesting to me because
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it was so different than so many other psychotherapies out there that had just so much more unpredictable
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outcomes. I would say that I became much more interested in it after my postdoctoral work when
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I'd gotten to UCSF. I was a postdoc at UCSF, but I started my assistant professorship at UCSF.
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And there was this gaping hole in treatment availabilities for people with insomnia. And I thought,
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oh, this might be a good way for me to get back into some clinical work. I was doing just research at the
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time. I fell back in love with it because there's almost nothing as rewarding as being able to see a
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patient seven times. And that seventh time, have them say something to you along the lines of, have my life
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back. I'm going to go get my driver's license back. I'm not afraid to drive with my kids in the car
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anymore. I'm going to go back to work. I have my life back. Not much better than that. And so I grew
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the clinic that I do CBTI in. And now I just love it so much that I do it on top of my job. Like I do
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it at night with patients after hours because it's the most rewarding thing and you can have such a big
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Before we dive into what CBTI is and how it works and how profound it can be, let's maybe help folks
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understand a little bit about insomnia and maybe go through some of the definitions around the
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different types of insomnia and maybe some of the different causes for it and maybe even what some of
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the other treatments are, pharmacologic and otherwise.
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Broadly speaking, most people at some point in their lives are going to have an issue with
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insomnia. I think some 90% of adults at some point are going to struggle with insomnia and point
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estimates I think at any given moment might be between 5 and 10%. The interesting thing about
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insomnia is that it's a very clinical diagnosis. There's no blood test for insomnia. We can't put
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you in a sleep lab overnight and do a test to see if you have insomnia. And we don't diagnose
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insomnia based on one night of bad sleep. If someone says, oh, I didn't sleep at all last night or I
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haven't slept even for just the last week, that's not going to get you a diagnosis of insomnia.
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And there's a whole suite of different insomnias that we could talk about. But I think the point
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that is the most salient is just that when you have a problem sleeping and when it's been going on for a
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long time, at least like three-ish months, when you really feel it's a problem, that's when it's time
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to get help. Because there's plenty of people who don't sleep a whole lot, but it's not distressing to
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them. It's not causing any problems in their life. They're not going to meet a definition of
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insomnia per se. It's the folks who will tell you that I can't sleep. I haven't been sleeping for
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months. It's interfering with my life. It's really upsetting. And they've probably already started
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trying a whole bunch of things to try and help themselves to fix it. And this is where things get
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interesting. And just to be clear, Ashley, when you say that a point estimate of 5 to 10% of the
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population would have insomnia at any point in time, you mean according to that definition where
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it's been going on for months, it's causing distress, and it's impacting life?
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So it's low-end 1 in 20, high-end 1 in 10 people, adults?
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Adults, yes. By the way, I do not do pediatrics, so please assume everything we're talking about
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So that's a higher estimate than I would have guessed, given your definition. If the definition
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was three nights of bad sleep, I would say, yeah, that makes sense.
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Yeah. That's at any given point in time. Insomnia is, for most people, probably quite episodic.
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It's not necessarily a permanent state. People go in and out of it. And the question is,
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how quickly do people go out of it when they go in it? And that's what CBTI is so beautiful for.
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It's helping people get out of it quickly. There's going to be things in your life that are going to
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just happen, and they're going to put you over the threshold for insomnia. So maybe we can talk for a
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minute about how insomnia begins and then how it's perpetuated, because these things are actually
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quite different. So you and I and everybody have a certain level of predisposing factors that are
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going to put us at risk for having sleeping problems, in particular insomnia. Then we may
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experience what's called a precipitating factor. That could be a major life event like losing your
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job, getting a divorce, getting in a car accident, some major unexpected unhappy life event that might
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throw you into a bout of insomnia. That event will end, though. That event ends. The car accident
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ends. It resolves. The job loss ends. You get a new job or you don't. The divorce ends. You move on.
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But in the meantime, when you're dealing with that event, you develop behaviors to cope with it.
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And so you might, for example, pop a Benadryl to help you sleep or an Ambien, something stronger.
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You might start taking naps the next day after a bad night of sleep to try and cope with it.
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You might start reading in bed a lot or flipping through your smartphone in bed. Doing all these
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different types of behaviors to try and help yourself calm down and actually get to sleep,
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which in the short term make a lot of sense. You're trying to help yourself in the acute moment.
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But in the long term, these kinds of behaviors aren't actually doing you any favors. And over time,
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that precipitating factor is going to go away. But all of these behaviors that you've started doing
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to respond to the precipitating event, they're what stick around. And those are what are going
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to perpetuate insomnia symptoms and problems. Can you say more about the predisposing factors?
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Are those genetic? So there's, of course, genetic predisposing factors. I've had patients come and
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say, I'm a really light sleeper. Can you fix that? That's going to be pretty tough to fix. I'm going to
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recommend something like earplugs, an eye mask, a white noise machine, what have you. But yes,
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there are going to be predisposing factors. So if you are higher on the general psychological
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reactivity, you're going to probably get pushed over the threshold more easily than someone else.
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Some people might get in a car accident, a fender bender, and they're over it by the next day. The
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car's in the shop, whatever. Other people might feel antsy about driving for a while after that.
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They might feel more anxious as a result of that event. And that's going to differ from person to
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person. You can argue that that's genetic. You can argue that that's based on early childhood or
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other experiences. But nature and nurture probably both contribute to that predisposition. And there's
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not a whole lot that we can do about that. But this is the beauty of cognitive behavioral therapy
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for insomnia. When people come in for treatment, they're often pretty focused on what caused their
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insomnia. And I actually don't ask people what caused their insomnia until the end of my first
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session with them. I'm asking them all these other kinds of questions about their behaviors now.
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And at the end, I ask, okay, so when did this start? What do you think might have caused this?
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And get their attribution for what's going on. Because at the end of the day, the intervention's
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the same. And that's what's beautiful about this and might differ a lot from the practice of
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medicine. I'm not an MD. I'm a PhD. I think in a lot of disease states, we often look at what caused
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what's going on. I'm not really concerned. I'm more concerned about what you're doing now that's
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perpetuating the problem. And that's where I intervene. And that's why this particular treatment
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is so effective for so many different presentations of insomnia and causes of insomnia. Whether people
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have difficulty falling asleep in the beginning of the night, waking up in the middle of the night,
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waking up too early in the morning, you might think on their face, these people all need
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wildly different treatment. But that's not actually the case.
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. So the focus is much more on the coping strategy and the behavior
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that came out of the predisposing factor or the precipitating event actually is really...
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Used to respond to the precipitating effect. Exactly.
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Okay. Can we talk a little bit about, is there a difference, for example, between the individual
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who can't fall asleep, this initiation of sleep insomnia versus the person that I hear much more
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about, frankly, I experience more, which is, it's not that hard for me to fall asleep, but boy,
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I will jolt up at one in the morning with some thought or anxiety that I can't get out of my mind
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and my mind starts running and I can't go back to sleep. Or I get up because I got to pee,
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but when I come back, I erroneously just do something with my mind where I get thinking
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about the day's problem or whatever, whatever. Do you think of those as difference or the
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Those people need the same stuff. And the people who can't fall asleep at the beginning of the night,
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their mind's just racing earlier than yours. Yours is just waking you up. And there's a whole
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suite of interventions that are part of cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia.
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There are a lot of ways that I could approach an answer to this question. So I think starting by
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addressing the racing mind issue. I always tell patients, if you don't deal with what's causing
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you stress or anxiety during the day, it's going to demand to be dealt with in the middle of the
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night. It's going to say, oh, Peter, I noticed you're laying there peacefully, not doing any work
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or tasks and you don't have anything you need to do right now. So you're going to pay attention to me
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and it's going to demand your attention at that time. Other people, that happens right when their
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head hits the pill at the beginning of the night. Oh, you're relaxing now. Okay, here's your 10
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things to worry about. So one of my favorite interventions that's actually born of anxiety
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treatment, but that I've co-opted and I've moved into cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia because
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it fits with the theoretical framework is something called scheduled worry time. This sounds a little
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bit pedantic and silly, but hear me out. If a patient came to me and said, Ashley, I worry all
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day. I'm worried about all of these things. My life is just a constant ball of worry. And I said,
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okay, I've got a solution for you. And it's two words. Ready? Stop it. That wouldn't work.
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It doesn't work. I take the opposite approach. Okay. This is really important to you. This is
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something you're doing all the time, all day. Guess what? What do we do with things that are really
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important to us? Make time for them. We schedule them. Exactly. Back in the day of paper calendars,
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this felt like a different exercise. Now people get out their phones, but I have them get out their
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phone or whatever and say, all right, we're going to schedule worry time. And it's going to be an
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hour a day for the next seven days. It is non-negotiable. I may or may not schedule an email
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to go out to you at the end of that time. And you have to go and reply to it and tell me what you did.
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And what we find is that when people work with this during the day, it does two things.
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The first is, let's say it's 9am and you are trying to do something in your life and instead
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a worry pops up. You can actually think, oh, okay, I don't have to deal with this now. I'm
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going to write this down because at four o'clock I've got scheduled time to deal with this.
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So that way you're uncluttering the rest of your day by moving all of the worry into that scheduled
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time. So this could be a valuable technique, even absent insomnia.
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Totally. I'd say that probably between a third and half of my patients who come in with insomnia,
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they've got some bad sleep stuff for sure. But for some of those people, it's a primary anxiety
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disorder and sleep is suffering also. Whereas other folks, it's primary insomnia and that's
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driving them anxious. But to rewind back to your earlier question about the middle of the night
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versus the beginning of the night. So the other thing that scheduling worry time does besides
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uncluttering your whole day is it helps you get it done during the day so that when your
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head hits the pillow, it's not there. Oh, I already worked on this. And also the knowledge,
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oh, I have time set aside tomorrow to work on this or to think about this. So I don't have to do that
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now. Cognitively, this all makes sense and you would maybe think you can think your way out of
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this, but you can't. You actually have to try it. And I've done this with a lot of people.
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I've done this with doctors, police people, people from all walks of life can really find this
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valuable. The other thing when it comes to falling asleep at the beginning of the night versus the
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middle of the night is that there's sometimes low hanging fruit that we can think about.
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You mentioned getting up to go to the bathroom. I've found that for a lot of men who are 45 and
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up who still have a prostate, just not drinking very much fluid with dinner and after dinner is
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huge. And also throwing an electrolyte tab in there can really help. Granted, it's got to be
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the right osmolarity and everything else, but there are ways to find this. Don't slam Gatorade at night.
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That's not what I'm suggesting, but just throw a noon tab or whatever element, whatever electrolyte
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replacement. I've had some male patients go from waking up three times in the night to pee to one time.
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And the fewer times you wake up in the night, the fewer times you risk not falling back asleep.
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So little things like that can actually make a difference for waking up in the middle of the
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night. The other one I have about the middle of the night is a little more out there, but hear me
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out. If I had five cents for every time I took away a down comforter from someone and their sleep got
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better, I'd have like $8. I mean, this is huge. And this is because everybody's heard of circadian rhythm,
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but it's missing a word. Circadian temperature rhythm. Your body is supposed to be its coolest
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at night and its warmest during the day. And my favorite people to talk with about this are
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actually anesthesiologists. They know more about body temperature than anyone. It's remarkable.
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But what I've had the great good fortune of learning is that your body temperature,
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it's supposed to be the warmest during the day and the coolest during the night.
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When we do things like trap heat with down comforters, quilted nonsense, even cotton replacement,
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if the word duvet is in it, comforter is in it, it's a no for me. And I give people a handout. I'm
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like, here's the definition of a cotton blanket. Here are links to examples of what cotton blankets
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are. If you are cold, buy two, buy three, use these. And I'm telling you, it's made a huge difference
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for a lot of women in particular with night sweats. And people wake up less sometimes because they're
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not giving their body this message that it's time to wake up because they're not as warm.
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People complain about their feet and their hands. And I say, that's fine. You can put your down
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comforter over the foot of your bed. You can wear some socks. But I take body temperature regulation
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very seriously. And sometimes it's a quick fix and we don't need a whole lot of muss and fuss.
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This is a very long word to answer your question, but I'll finish after this. The people at the
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start of the night, it's worth asking people at the start of the night if they're cold,
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if their hands and their feet are cold. Have you ever tried to fall asleep when your hands and
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your feet are cold? Yeah. I try to be uncomfortably cold when I get into bed.
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Right. But your hands and your feet? No, generally not. I mean, it's just my body. But again,
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I'm using a device to cool me as well. Slightly different. But spoiler alert, it's pretty hard to fall
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asleep when you have cold hands and feet. And what we have data on from some interesting
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research in a totally different realm is that people with extremity circulation disorders who
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have really cold hands or something like that. Yeah. They will have what we call early insomnia,
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which is difficulty falling asleep at the beginning of the night. And when they get successful treatment
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or when you warm their hands and their feet, much easier to fall asleep. The whole warm foot bath
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before bed thing, that's an actual thing. Your extremities help you dump heat. So when you actually
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warm your hands and your feet, you can actually help dump heat from your core because you're
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vasodilating. And when you fall asleep, you want to be dumping heat from your core. Hard to do that
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when you're vasoconstricted in your hands and your feet. So for folks who have trouble falling asleep
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at the start of the night, we want to make sure their hands or feet are warm enough and that they've
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dealt with the thoughts and the worries during the day and that they're not trying to go to sleep at
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nine o'clock when their body doesn't want to go to sleep until 11. A lot of people just think,
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I need to have this much time in bed each night. And they get into bed and they struggle for two
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hours before their body actually wants to go to sleep. So a major part of CBTI is aligning when
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your body can produce sleep with when you're in your bed. I want to kind of go into many more of
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these because I know this is the exciting stuff that people are interested to hear about. I do want
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to take one step back and just make sure we understand what constitutes cognitive behavioral therapy
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before we even get into cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia. So we've had a podcast where we
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talked about dialectical behavioral therapy, DBT, but we haven't covered CBT. Can you give us a little
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bit of the tapestry of what defines it and why it of course then has this additional subset of
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treatment for insomnia? I should have done that first. Cognitive behavioral therapy, my favorite way to
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think about this is in a triangle. We have thoughts, we have feelings, and we have behaviors. You can think
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about this triangle as having these three pieces that are all connected. And cognitive and behavioral
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therapies or cognitive behavioral therapies generally will focus on one intervening on this
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process between thoughts, feelings, and behavior, thoughts, feelings, and behavior on one of these
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sides of the triangle. So let me just spell out a quick example process. So let's say we have a patient
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with type 2 diabetes who has the thought, I'm never going to be able to get my blood sugar under
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control. I'm never going to be able to manage this. I'm not going to be able to do this. When a person
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has those thoughts, how do they feel? Crummy, feel bad about themselves. When people feel bad about
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themselves, what do they do? Eat some chocolate cake. Eat some chocolate cake. What does that do? That
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reinforces the thought, I'm never going to be able to do this. So we've got this pattern of thoughts,
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feelings, behavior on repeat. Cognitive behavioral therapies will choose where to intervene on a process in that
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triangle. Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, for example, is really focused on the area between
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thoughts and feelings in many ways, because people will have a lot of thoughts. I can't sleep. I'm never
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going to be a good sleeper. If I don't sleep eight hours tonight, I'm going to lose my job, whatever.
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And then the big emotions that follow from that. We work on questioning a lot of those thoughts to then
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recalibrate the feelings that follow. Like, oh, if I don't sleep eight hours tonight, I won't feel great
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tomorrow, but I'll probably be okay at work. The feeling is much smaller than, if I don't sleep
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eight hours tonight, I'm going to lose my job tomorrow. They're noticeably different. In terms
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of depression, an example that I like might be someone saying, oh, I'm really depressed now, but
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when I feel better, I'm going to take my grandkids to the movies. That's what I'm going to do. I'm going
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to take my grandkids to the movies. I'm going to take them to the zoo. I'm going to do all these
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things. So as a therapist, what I might do is I'd have the patient write all of this huge long list of
00:22:31.900
stuff they're going to do when they feel better. And then you know what I'm going to do. I'm going
00:22:35.400
to get out their calendar with them and I'm going to say, all right, I don't care how you feel.
00:22:39.580
We're scheduling all of these things. So we're intervening on that behavior to thoughts line.
00:22:45.080
So we're going to make them take the kids to the zoo. We're going to make them take the kids to the
00:22:49.220
movies. And then the kids are going to have a great time. And the patient's going to come back
00:22:52.660
and say, oh, you know what? Pretty kick-ass grandma. Kids had a great time. This was pretty great.
00:22:57.260
So we're intervening on the behavior to change the thoughts about the self. Like, oh, I'm going
00:23:02.540
to do these things when I'm better. A major feature of cognitive behavioral therapies is
00:23:07.120
intervening on behavior to change thoughts, but also intervening on thoughts to change feelings.
00:23:13.920
And there's just many, many applications for this. Cognitive behavioral therapy has been adapted
00:23:19.120
for a whole host of disorders, for eating disorders, for insomnia, specifically for anxiety.
00:23:25.420
That's going to be more in the thoughts and feelings realm too.
00:23:28.740
Is that kind of running the triangle in the other direction? So you change behavior to change
00:23:36.040
Yeah. So you can change thought to change feeling. You can work on behavior to change thought. You can
00:23:40.920
operate on any way of those with different techniques that have been just repackaged into different
00:23:48.200
And tell me a little bit about the history of CBTI specifically. When did the idea come to
00:23:54.020
existence in a way that's been packaged more or less the way it is today?
00:23:58.360
Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia is actually old news. I mean, we can go back to
00:24:03.420
the 1970s. I remember when I was learning cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia,
00:24:08.440
one of the most fun studies to read about was this study of, I believe it was college-aged men who were
00:24:16.020
not doing well academically. And the intervention that they did with them was one of the two pillars
00:24:22.800
of cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, which is called stimulus control. And what they did with
00:24:28.400
these young men is they told them, all right, you're going to be assigned a carol in the library.
00:24:33.020
And in this carol is the only place you can study. You can't study in your dorm. You can't study outside.
00:24:38.920
Can't study anywhere else. Just this carol. And only this amount of time can you study each day.
00:24:46.460
If you're on a roll, we don't care. You have to stop. If you're miserable, we don't care. You just
00:24:51.240
have to keep on doing whatever portion of the study over and over again that you're stuck on.
00:24:56.220
So they trained these young men to just study in that one place. And it succeeded in helping
00:25:03.700
these men. And these men were struggling with anxiety or actual insomnia? Academically. This is
00:25:08.800
just stimulus control, where we learn to associate a place with a behavior. And fast forward a little
00:25:17.080
bit. It was called the Bootsen method at one point for Dick Bootsen. But one of the hallmarks of
00:25:22.460
cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia is your bed is only for sleep. There are two things you're
00:25:27.980
allowed to do in bed. I always tell my patients, your two things that you can do in bed are sex and sleep.
00:25:32.460
If you're not sure if something counts, message me and I'll clarify it for you real quick, whether it
00:25:37.320
counts in one of those two buckets. But we really want to just associate the bed with sleep.
00:25:44.140
And to be clear, just going back to this study, was there a belief or were some of these guys
00:25:48.740
studying in bed? They were studying in their dorms, in their beds and everywhere else. I mean,
00:25:53.480
everywhere. So this wasn't specifically a study focused on sleep per se. It was just focused on this
00:25:59.240
associative pattern that became the bedrock of this treatment. And we can go back even further
00:26:06.200
and we can look at Pavlovian conditioning, the dog and the bell and the food. And we don't need to go
00:26:11.200
over what that whole thing was again right now. But the point just is that the dog came to associate
00:26:15.920
the bell with getting food. And a lot of times when people are struggling with sleep, you know what
00:26:20.800
they're doing in their bed? They're reading, they're scrolling, they're watching TV, they're listening to
00:26:25.900
podcasts. They're doing like everything. A lot of people, by the time they get to me, they're camping
00:26:30.480
out in their bed just in case they're able to sleep. Oh, I'm going to go have a snack in bed because
00:26:34.280
if I'm sleepy enough, I'll roll over and take a nap and I'll get some extra Zs. So people have moved so
00:26:39.180
much of their lives into their beds that it's completely dissociated from sleep. That's one of
00:26:44.740
the bedrocks. And then another bedrock is what we now call time in bed restriction. This used to be
00:26:52.460
called sleep restriction. But I don't know where along the way in the last number of years it went
00:26:58.260
from being called sleep restriction to time in bed restriction. But whoever made the change, I'm still
00:27:02.600
not sure who made that change. I am thankful to them for it. Because the other key component of CBTI is
00:27:08.140
that we restrict the amount of time that a patient is in bed to match how much time their body can actually
00:27:15.020
produce of sleeping. A lot of times people with insomnia will say, okay, I need to be in bed for at least
00:27:19.960
12 hours if I want to get seven hours of sleep. I know it's hard to believe, but it's true. And we
00:27:26.620
just obliterate that notion. And this is another core and very old part of CBT that dates back, what,
00:27:33.860
1970s, 80s? But when you take those two parts, then you start to add in some of the cognitive
00:27:41.200
components that have been around also for decades. The cognitive therapies part, the Aaron Beck stuff with
00:27:46.980
cognitive restructuring, which is where we take a thought. Have you ever heard that phrase,
00:27:50.800
don't believe everything you think? So you take a thought, and on the classic thought record tool,
00:27:56.480
you'll have patients write down the thought, write down how they feel, rate their feelings from,
00:28:00.960
say, zero to 90%. And then we have them write down, what's the evidence for this thought?
00:28:05.560
If you had to go to court right now, and there was a judge and a jury and what have you,
00:28:10.640
and you had to present evidence for your thought, what would you be able to present?
00:28:14.660
Evidence for a thought is not another thought. It's not a belief. It's evidence. Last time I
00:28:20.440
slept six hours, I got a worst grade on a test or something. That would be evidence. You got a
00:28:26.920
worst grade on a test. But then we look at all the evidence for a thought, we look at all the
00:28:29.960
evidence against a thought. Like, oh, last time you didn't sleep so well, you didn't get fired,
00:28:35.900
still did fine in school, whatever the thing. And then we create a balanced thought, which is,
00:28:41.260
even though I'm not going to be as well rested, I'll still get through this day.
00:28:45.480
Then we have people re-rate their emotions, re-rate how much they believe this new thought,
00:28:49.400
this whole song and dance. This is the cognitive component. And that's kind of the bedrock of so
00:28:54.720
much of cognitive therapy. Of course, people have so many negative thoughts about sleep and
00:28:59.640
dysfunctional thoughts about sleep that aren't true or that are catastrophizing and whatnot.
00:29:04.160
That is also blended in to the treatment. And then we have relaxation techniques, which are
00:29:10.940
things like progressive muscle relaxation that came along as well. And those are part of the
00:29:15.520
treatment. Progressive muscle relaxation will be like where you squeeze your hands and let it go
00:29:19.500
and squeeze your hands and let it go and then squeeze your arms and let them go and move through
00:29:23.520
your whole body to get out of your head and into your body. And I don't know what order those
00:29:27.760
actually were packaged into CBTI. But I can tell you the first two, the stimulus control
00:29:34.160
and the time in bed restriction, those are among the earliest parts of CBTI. And what we know from
00:29:39.860
dismantling studies is when you take either of those out of the treatment, no dice.
00:29:45.520
Yeah. I want to talk about both those a little bit more. I want to bracket sleep hygiene and come
00:29:50.520
back to it because I think, again, the temperature and all that light stuff, we shouldn't gloss over
00:29:54.300
that even though it's easy to take for granted. And I know that many people listening to this podcast
00:29:58.620
will have heard other content where we talk about it, but I'd love to have it all in one place.
00:30:02.460
I think the time in bed restriction is pretty interesting. And in talking with sleep physicians
00:30:08.540
who also implement this, it seems quite draconian at the outset. It can be remarkably difficult.
00:30:16.860
They're giving people five hours in bed max and they're really trying to force sleep pressure.
00:30:22.700
How do you navigate that and how do you decide how hard to squeeze the tube of toothpaste?
00:30:26.740
Let me draw a line in the sand between what CBTI says broadly as a treatment and then how I've
00:30:32.740
actually implemented it in my clinic. So what CBTI will have you do is they will have you,
00:30:38.520
and I say you as the royal you, your patient, they will have you fill out something called a sleep
00:30:41.740
diary. And this is a paper diary that covers seven days. Because if I asked you how well you slept
00:30:48.420
four nights ago, you'd be like... It's like a food frequency questionnaire in epidemiology.
00:30:54.020
Total. So you have to do it every morning. Okay. And of course, I'm not obsessed with it being exact
00:30:59.720
because I'm much more interested in the picture pattern of it. If you asked someone to fill it
00:31:04.020
out for just one day and then worked with that, you'd have a totally distorted picture. You wouldn't
00:31:07.500
know what you're working with. But what classic CBTI does is they'll take that seven day sleep diary
00:31:12.200
and then they will actually use it. The time you got in bed, time you fell asleep, how many times you
00:31:17.460
woke up, how long you were awake, what time you woke up. It has all of these different questions
00:31:22.920
in it. And you can use that to calculate how much time a person was sleeping on average over the
00:31:29.180
course of the week. And what CBTI does is it says, you patient, why don't you pick what time you want
00:31:35.380
to get up every day? And then you would ostensibly pick a time. The CBTI clinician, let's say your sleep
00:31:41.500
blog said you were naturally sleeping six hours a night. The clinician would add 30 minutes to that
00:31:46.540
and make it six and a half hours and then work backwards from your chosen wake time.
00:31:51.200
So let's say you chose a wake time of 7 a.m. I would work back six and a half hours to get to a
00:31:58.100
bedtime for you of 1230 a.m. And of course, that's the bedtime of your childhood dreams. Imagine going
00:32:03.140
to a sleepover and your friend's mom saying, all right, kids, you can't go to bed until after 1230
00:32:08.660
a.m. Kids love it. Adults think this is torture because it is. That's what classic CBTI would do.
00:32:17.300
Six and a half. You get that half hour of grace. As far as I know in CBTI, almost nobody's restricting
00:32:24.760
less than five and a half hours. Five and a half seems to be the floor. I've not seen people
00:32:29.800
restricting to five. There are a subset of people, and I don't know the data on this because I don't
00:32:35.260
even know if the data exists on this, who are what we call genetically short sleepers. And these
00:32:41.740
people know who they are. They have always been like this. And it's not upsetting and distressing
00:32:46.420
and causing them grief. We're not talking about those people. Okay, so that's what CBTI will do.
00:32:51.680
And just to be clear, let's say five and a half is the floor. Six is typically what you would do.
00:32:56.820
So six and a half in bed. Well, no. If your body is producing six hours of sleep, I add 30 and I get
00:33:02.820
six and a half. If your body is producing only five and a half, I add 30 and you get six. So I do this
00:33:08.900
computationally for each person. I see. So when I bring my sleep log to you, you've seen that for
00:33:14.700
the past week, I've been spending 12 hours in bed. But by my recollection, because I'm looking at the
00:33:20.580
clock when I'm not sleeping, I'm only getting six and a half hours of sleep in the 10 or 12 hours I'm
00:33:27.360
laying there, you're going to say, oh, okay, that's your sleep time. Take that, add 30. That's your time
00:33:32.280
in bed. I got it. Yes. Yes. And here's where what I do is slightly different, but also the whole
00:33:39.380
theoretical underpinning is not disturbed at all by the way that I do this. So how many times have you
00:33:44.480
had a patient come to you and say, oh, I really want to be that person who wakes up at 5 a.m.,
00:33:49.580
get to go on my day. I want to get my exercise in. I want to get my meal prep in, do all this stuff.
00:33:55.640
And you're like, oh, okay, cool, cool. So you want to be a five in prison. What time do you get up now?
00:33:59.280
Oh, like 11. And I'm like, oh, okay. All right. So this whole part in CBTI where people choose their
00:34:04.840
wake time, that's not a thing for me. In my clinic, we play a game called democracy within a dictatorship.
00:34:11.600
What that just means is that instead of just letting patients carte blanche choose their wake time,
00:34:16.360
I actually look at their sleep diary and I let them think they're choosing their wake time. And if I
00:34:20.280
agree with it, they will have chosen. If I don't, the dictator comes in and I look at their diary and
00:34:26.460
if they are getting up at 7 a.m., 6 a.m., 7 a.m., 7 a.m., 6 a.m., 6 a.m., 6 a.m. And they say to me,
00:34:35.460
oh, I want to wake up at 8.30. I will say, well, we have no evidence that you can sleep until 8.30.
00:34:40.900
That's not realistic. But we have evidence that you can sleep until 6 because four of the last
00:34:47.100
seven days, you made it until 6. So 6 o'clock is your wake time. And this is not anywhere in CBTI.
00:34:53.800
I've spoken with a lot of my colleagues who do CBTI and asked them, how do you choose a wake time? And
00:34:57.960
there is no standardized method. But by using this method, I'm definitely making sure that I'm at
00:35:04.080
least gating the patient's sleep at a reasonable time. Because if I let that patient just choose 8.30 a.m.
00:35:08.860
as their wake time, and they were only producing six and a half hours of sleep.
00:35:14.680
They're going to bed at two in the morning, and they're getting up at 8.30 because they chose their
00:35:19.440
wake time as 8.30. But really, they're going to wake up at like six or seven, and they're not even
00:35:23.100
going to cash in on the full six and a half hours that they should be getting a bed. So I've added in
00:35:28.540
this component of my own of setting their wake time to be a much more reasonable time. And then what I do
00:35:35.500
before giving them a bedtime, I give them a week at that wake time. And I see how much sleep is your
00:35:40.680
body producing with this new wake time. Now, let's say you're doing the sleep log, and they're
00:35:47.040
spending, you know, eight hours in bed, getting four hours of sleep. Let's say they're getting
00:35:53.420
five hours of sleep, eight hours in bed, and then they're taking an hour nap a day. So they're
00:35:59.940
removing all their sleep pressure during the day by taking that nap, but they kind of need to take the
00:36:03.960
nap because they're not getting enough sleep. So they're in this vicious cycle. So do you add the
00:36:08.040
hour of nap time back to sleep and say, actually, you're getting six hours of sleep. Let's do the
00:36:13.440
exercise based on five plus one plus a half, 6.5? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. We want to extinguish
00:36:18.660
that sleeping during the day thing. So there's a difference between a person without insomnia
00:36:23.160
healthily using naps, and then there's a person with insomnia who's napping to compensate for what's
00:36:28.520
not happening at night. So I think that to best explain this, I should just finish this example
00:36:33.480
of the wake time thing because this directly ties in. If I'm setting their wake time and then I'm
00:36:38.480
seeing how much time they're actually producing sleep, that first week when I give them the wake
00:36:42.020
time, I don't give them a bedtime. I don't even do time in bed restriction that first week because
00:36:46.580
for some people, setting a wake time solves the issue, which is kind of nuts. But one or two of every
00:36:54.000
eight patients who I see, because I see patients in groups of eight, will have a huge improvement
00:36:58.460
from just having a consistent wake time because their body actually recalibrates and they start
00:37:03.600
getting sleepy at a more consistent time each night because they're not doing that. And I do say in that
00:37:08.740
first week, I take away the naps. I say, I don't care how you slept last night. You need to just stay
00:37:12.900
awake until you're ready to go to sleep. No naps for now. Now, when I have patients, probably older
00:37:20.220
patients, like 80 and up, I'll be okay with a nap, but I'll often, at this stage, I'll say, look,
00:37:27.040
you have an opportunity of 25 minutes. And a 25-minute nap opportunity means you set the alarm
00:37:33.000
for 25 minutes, you get in bed, and it's going to go off 25 minutes later, and that's when you get up.
00:37:37.000
I don't care how long you actually slept during that time because I don't want you going into
00:37:41.240
phase three or phase four slow wave deep sleep during the day because that's what's going to really
00:37:47.240
mess you up at night. A stage two sleep nap is not really an issue during the day as much. It's
00:37:54.260
not going to be so bad. But at this stage of the person with insomnia that we're talking about,
00:37:58.520
I don't want them taking a one-hour nap in the day. And they come back that second week having
00:38:03.020
done the wake time that I said, and I then recompute how much time in bed they're spending.
00:38:07.360
And then I still use that wake time, and I then calculate their bedtime. And then the true time
00:38:13.240
to bed restriction begins week two. Okay. But just to be clear, if you have someone who is using a nap
00:38:19.580
to compensate for their insomnia, step one is just kill the nap. Kill the nap. And then let the cards
00:38:25.820
settle where they may for a week, recalculate actual sleep time, and then go through the exercises
00:38:31.560
described. I've made this point on a podcast before, I think, but just want to get your blessing.
00:38:37.860
When we're on bow hunting trips, you are going to bed insanely late and waking up insanely early.
00:38:45.380
It's just the nature of when you get back to camp and eating, and then you got to be up super early.
00:38:50.140
So I've never been on one of these trips where I could actually be in bed for more than five and a
00:38:55.380
half, six hours in a night. So the strategy is to get that sleep, but then I always try to get a 90
00:39:02.000
minute nap at around one in the afternoon. And the reason I pick 90 is to get a full sleep cycle.
00:39:09.560
And I tend to function incredibly well under those circumstances, because remember, you're also very
00:39:13.640
physically active. Like this is demanding time. So would I be better off not doing that nap midday?
00:39:19.760
Oh, that's a bow hunting trip and you don't have insomnia. That's not a problem.
00:39:23.880
Yeah. Totally different monster. And I tell people too, a lot of the last few years,
00:39:28.380
people have had serious illnesses. They've had COVID, they've had whatever. When you're sick,
00:39:32.320
all bets are off. What I tell people is, if you need a nap when you're sick, you need a nap when
00:39:35.900
you're sick, but we maintain stimulus control. You don't nap on the couch. We're only napping in bed.
00:39:41.220
And if you're awake and feeling sick, then you can be on the couch, not in bed.
00:39:45.480
While we're on that topic, what do you say to the legions of people watching who
00:39:52.300
Oh, the worst. A lot of people fall asleep on the couch because they're just so overtired
00:39:59.920
that the ship has sailed. Their body's ready to go to bed and they're just letting it and they're
00:40:05.340
not getting up and doing the thing. I tell people, look, if you want to prioritize your sleep,
00:40:10.680
pay attention to your body. When you're watching TV, do you notice that you're starting to nod off?
00:40:15.060
Do you notice your eyelids feeling heavier? Your hands feeling warm? Are you starting to sag a little
00:40:18.720
bit? Okay. These are indicators that it's probably time to get off the couch and go to bed. For people
00:40:24.800
who can't figure that out, I say, okay, you want to watch TV at night? Sit in a stool. You're going
00:40:30.400
What about just the social dynamic of it, which is when you have a couple, not that I'm saying this
00:40:35.100
from experience at all, and one part of that couple, they want to be together and watch TV,
00:40:41.140
but one member of that team falls asleep immediately while the other does not.
00:40:47.000
And the one that does not tries to tell the one that is to go to bed, but that one wants to be
00:40:53.400
with the other. I don't know if you can ever imagine a scenario like that.
00:40:58.580
Okay, good. I'm glad you're making that one up. I have a lot of these couple level issues that come
00:41:02.320
up in sleep clinic. This is not uncommon because what's more intimate than being completely
00:41:07.600
unconscious next to another person. If you think about it evolutionarily, that's probably the
00:41:12.320
riskiest thing you can do. So there is this desire for closeness in lots of couples, and it
00:41:17.840
becomes a challenge when one of the members of the couple has a sleep problem. And the first step is
00:41:22.460
remembering this is not necessarily permanent. We need to go about fixing this now, and then we can
00:41:27.240
find a new winning solution. So in the interim, I'm assuming you've already tried maybe watching
00:41:34.100
something different on TV that might be more exciting to the second partner, et cetera. It's not
00:41:39.140
about the boringness of the show per se. Doesn't appear to be.
00:41:42.380
Okay, good. So if that's the issue, then I would say, hey, if this is a priority, what are we going
00:41:47.900
to do? We're going to schedule it. We're going to schedule time to be on the couch together at a time
00:41:52.620
when I can definitely be awake and be spending meaningful time with you.
00:41:56.100
The problem is sometimes other members of the family who tend to be smaller also tend to be
00:42:03.900
occupying all of the bandwidth during those earlier hours when the member of the family in
00:42:11.700
question is able to be awake. This is a hard problem to scale. But what I would just say is
00:42:17.740
if you're actually ready to go to bed and your body is saying that you need to sleep, you should
00:42:23.600
probably do that. It's more likely that then you'll be awake the next day and be a more pleasant,
00:42:30.260
exciting partner to be around and be able to have more meaningful experiences with your partner
00:42:36.800
that way. Otherwise, I tell people, look, this is an issue. If it's really an issue, we're going to
00:42:41.240
get a babysitter. Figure it out. There are ways to get around these things. People just often want it
00:42:47.820
to work like they see in the movies. Like, oh, this should be easy.
00:42:51.500
Obviously, I'm talking about my wife here, so I'll stop double speaking. But if my wife falls asleep
00:42:56.420
every single time on the couch, but then when said Netflix is over and we go up to bed,
00:43:02.000
she falls right back asleep and it doesn't seem to keep her awake, is it pathologic?
00:43:07.900
This isn't necessarily a problem. But what I would say is we sleep more deeply at the beginning of
00:43:12.380
the night. We experience more slow wave sleep in the first half of the night and more REM sleep in
00:43:16.880
the second half of the night. I think other podcast guests you've had can definitely go into the
00:43:21.220
neurobiology of this much more deeply. But a way that I like explaining this has to do with
00:43:25.660
evolution. If you think about it, when we're deeply, deeply asleep, we're kind of tuned out.
00:43:30.380
And on the prairie, when we figured, okay, it's safe to go to sleep right now,
00:43:33.700
our bodies prioritized getting that really deep sleep when we knew it was safe. And then as the
00:43:37.380
night goes on, we sleep more and more lightly, which makes sense because, hey, there could be
00:43:40.880
lions and tigers around or whatever that are going to come and eat us. So evolutionarily speaking,
00:43:45.280
it was adaptive to sleep more deeply in the first half of the night. Now, if your wife is falling
00:43:50.940
asleep on the couch and getting some of that sleep at that stage of the night and maybe getting
00:43:55.320
more interrupted aspects of that, because there's noise from the TV or whatnot, it could be
00:43:59.860
disturbing the quality of... That's the drawback.
00:44:02.960
To that effect, on the prairie, it also makes sense that evolutionarily, there's diversity in
00:44:08.180
people who are night owls and early morning larks. We needed that diversity in order to keep the
00:44:13.060
tribe safe from the threats on the prairie. Some people were staying up late. Okay, no lines. Some
00:44:17.480
people were up early. Okay, no lines. And there's nothing pathologic about being a person who's going
00:44:23.400
to be more likely to fall asleep earlier. Be a person who's more of a night owl. And it's very
00:44:27.700
hard to change that. A lot of patients want to change it.
00:44:30.940
Broadly, two to three different archetypes of that. I know there's a circadian rhythm test you
00:44:35.980
can take online that gives you a sense of it. I almost think it's so self-evident if you pay
00:44:43.440
It is. I'm really a clinician, so I deal with what's in front of me all the time. I'm not so
00:44:49.380
concerned about these tests. I'm more concerned about what's the problem that's messing up your
00:44:53.040
life right now and how can we work around that.
00:44:55.720
Let's go back to sleep hygiene for a second. We talked about temperature. Nowadays, we have these
00:44:59.640
incredible devices that can cool our mattresses and things of that nature. Obviously, we have air
00:45:04.780
conditioning that can cool the room. Do you have a preference for one or the other? I mean,
00:45:11.380
clearly, not everybody needs to buy a mattress cooling device if they can't afford it. That
00:45:15.160
shouldn't be an impediment to sleep. Do you have a room temp set? We typically talk about the mid-60s
00:45:22.140
Yes. Mid-60s is terrific. If people say, oh, this is just too cold, I say, well, what's too cold?
00:45:26.800
And often they will say, my feet. And we have wonderful solutions for that. They're called socks.
00:45:31.380
We can get really thick socks. I'm also not opposed to, you know, those tiny little heating pads you can
00:45:36.020
get, they're like this big foot and a half by a foot or something. Putting one of those in the foot of
00:45:40.320
your bed, it's gotten auto shut off. It shuts off after like an hour or something to fall asleep
00:45:45.280
with. I don't have a problem with that. There's no issue there. But yes, a cool room is definitely
00:45:50.740
key. And insert my refrain about down comforters, duvets, et cetera. Get cotton blankets, get cotton
00:45:56.860
sheets. Let's talk about light. Do we need to have it so pitch black you can't see your hand in front
00:46:02.320
of your face? Do we need to block the moonlight? How dark do we need it to be? This is a common
00:46:09.180
question. If you closed your eyes right now, you'd be able to tell that it's light in this room.
00:46:14.220
We can sense light through our closed eyelids. And many women would tell you that their eyelids seem
00:46:20.420
to get thinner as they age. So I think an eye mask is a great addition. And this is for a lot of people
00:46:26.200
with early morning awakenings. Eye mask can be a game change because they don't realize that what's
00:46:30.720
causing their early morning awakenings is a little bit of light getting into the wrong part of their eye,
00:46:35.700
indicating it's time to be awake right now. I don't know the details on what wavelength of
00:46:41.260
light that is or what necessarily the light is coming from, whether it's a light outside from
00:46:46.200
the sun or the moon or whatever it might be. But the point just is a lot of folks with early
00:46:50.300
morning awakening can really benefit from having something covering their eyes, whether it's a
00:46:55.460
sleep mask or there's like hats that go down here now. I'm a big fan of making your room dark.
00:47:01.200
I am one of those people who travels with a roll of black electrical tape because you go to a hotel
00:47:05.700
room and there's like 50,000 lights everywhere. You wouldn't just get relief from the eye mask?
00:47:10.980
I do, but I'm one of those people who rips my eye mask off in the middle of the night and I've tried
00:47:14.580
every single eye mask and it's coming off. So I like to wear it. I start with it. I try and keep it on as
00:47:21.720
much as I can. But I also, if there's egregious lights in a room, I cover them with a lot.
00:47:26.220
Meaning like you're going to cover the alarm clock and or whatever the.
00:47:30.680
My trick is I unplug alarm clocks because I realize sometimes they're so complicated that
00:47:35.280
they just go off in the middle of the night and I didn't realize it. And yeah.
00:47:38.100
Oh, totally. And the microwaves are the worst. Those are the blinking time.
00:47:42.140
But you mentioned the cooling mattress stuff, which I'm intrigued by, but I also am concerned about.
00:47:48.580
It seems that a lot of these mattresses have settings where you can make it cooler,
00:47:52.480
but also you could make it warmer. And I worry about two things. One is I worry about messing
00:47:58.700
with our circadian temperature biology because you remember in the 1980s for a hot minute when
00:48:04.100
electric blankets were really popular and all of a sudden they're not. They were starting to see
00:48:08.960
associations between electric blanket use and some cancers. And at the time there was a lot of
00:48:14.580
speculation that this was related to EMF. But the great thing that time does is it gives us more
00:48:19.380
perspective. And there are some indications that actually that might've been messing with circadian
00:48:24.260
temperature. And that might've been part of the issue. We know that night shift work is
00:48:28.960
carcinogenic. Do we though? Yeah. Night shift work's been declared a carcinogenic. Well, I mean,
00:48:34.200
no disrespect to the WHO, I don't know what I believe that they say. I know that there's an
00:48:38.380
association between night shift work and cancer, but do we really know that it's causal?
00:48:43.560
I think if we go Bradford Hill on this and we look at temporality, I think that there are
00:48:49.920
age-matched case control studies where they can look at people going through different control for
00:48:57.180
history effects to see are people getting more and less cancers. It is tricky because if, for example,
00:49:01.980
you look at firefighters, they're way more likely to get cancer. They work way more.
00:49:05.360
They have way more chemical exposure. They have way more other things in the mix. But I think that
00:49:10.140
some of the more classic studies have also been done with hospital workers, also confounding effects.
00:49:15.860
How do we get around the confounding effects of the obvious dietary shifts that occur in people
00:49:20.200
when they're working under those conditions? I mean, if I think back to how I ate in residency
00:49:25.820
or how I eat after a night of poor sleep, I mean, to me, that would be more the cause. I'd put more
00:49:33.100
of that on kind of the metabolic ill health that might result. But carry on.
00:49:37.380
Yeah. I think that it's often hard for people to sleep during the day. Making that change from
00:49:42.680
going to sleeping at night to being a person who sleeps during the day, for some people,
00:49:47.120
it's not even possible. You talk to some night shift workers, they sleep very little because they
00:49:51.820
just can't sleep during the day. They're not able to flip their circadian biology. But there's a whole
00:49:58.020
history, and I know we'll probably talk about thermal stuff in a bit, but of looking at
00:50:03.000
disruptions in circadian temperature as one of the most common circadian disruptions in mental
00:50:09.900
health disorders. But going back to the cancer thing, what would be the believed mechanism of
00:50:14.360
action? I would talk to an oncologist about that, and I would probably talk to a circadian biology
00:50:20.980
person about that. But what I can just speak to is just my understanding that electric blankets are
00:50:27.100
no longer here with us and very common because there were these observed ill health effects,
00:50:32.880
whether they're due to EMF or whether they're due to messing with your body temperature at night.
00:50:37.460
But what concerns me about some of the exogenous interventions like mattresses that might heat up
00:50:43.600
is there's supposed to be a normal circadian temperature rhythm that we do during the day and
00:50:50.000
during the night. And when we start imposing things on that, some of these mattresses can
00:50:55.020
actually be set to cycle at different temperatures during the night and all of these things.
00:50:59.480
Yeah. So the one that I use, just by full disclosure, I'm an advisor to that company.
00:51:03.600
The one that I use, you change how cold it is throughout the night. So I think I run it as,
00:51:09.340
I think the settings go from zero to minus 10. Minus 10 is the absolute coldest. Zero is no
00:51:15.200
temperature change. Is that like a point scale or is that degrees?
00:51:17.420
No, it's a point scale. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. So I think I get in and I have it at
00:51:22.400
minus five and then I run it down to minus 10 and then I bring it up to minus five in the morning,
00:51:28.820
something to that effect. So I'm taking it from cold to really cold up to cold.
00:51:37.320
You're saying people would heat themselves with these things. Yeah. But that gets to the point,
00:51:41.140
which we know we don't want to be warm. We don't want the duvet.
00:51:43.720
Right. But a lot of people get in bed and they don't like feeling cold because it is easier to
00:51:49.660
fall asleep when your hands and your feet and your skin is warmer. So people will maybe mistakenly do
00:51:54.540
this for more of the night than they should. And I'm just concerned that our circadian temperature
00:52:01.340
rhythm is an exquisitely controlled system. And a 10 point scale on a device, I think,
00:52:09.640
pales in comparison to the complexity of what our bodies need to do in terms of temperature
00:52:13.700
during the night. The good news is if you can keep your room at 65, none of this matters.
00:52:18.020
And the biggest challenge, honestly, is hotels for most people. It's where you have the hardest
00:52:21.720
time. Hotels are the worst. And there are some mattresses now, they're just hot. There's a short
00:52:26.940
list of mattresses. I just tell people like, look, that's going to be a hot mattress. Don't get that.
00:52:31.320
And you want to be really careful to make sure that you can be cool in your bed. And I think the
00:52:36.600
easiest way to do that, if you don't have the money to splurge on something that's going to be
00:52:41.060
a mattress that's going to definitely be cool, would be keeping your room cool.
00:52:45.040
What about blue light before bed? I've looked at these data quite a bit. And I would say that
00:52:52.520
six years ago, I was in the camp of every light had to be red. So I had to have my phone shifted
00:53:01.160
into a red light phase. My computer shifted into a red light phase. I had all of these apps that
00:53:05.940
managed all of this stuff. So as soon as the sun went down, blue light was being removed from my
00:53:11.960
electronics. And I have to say, I sleep subjectively and objectively better today. I say objectively,
00:53:20.480
if you can believe what a sleep tracker tells you, but we can bracket that and come back to it,
00:53:25.300
we should. Never taking blue light out of my devices, but instead paying attention to what I'm
00:53:31.780
consuming. In other words, my new hypothesis has become, it's not the blue light that is the
00:53:37.980
problem. It's the stimulus that often comes with the blue light. In other words, not looking at social
00:53:44.760
media, regardless of light color is a far greater positive impact on my sleep than looking at those
00:53:53.480
things, but just making sure that there's no blue light coming through. So let's talk about that.
00:53:58.080
What is the role of minimizing blue light when it comes to preparing for sleep?
00:54:04.160
First, I want to completely agree with you. We didn't evolve for the neural experience of Instagram.
00:54:08.960
We're not ready for that. I think regardless of what color light you're getting your Instagram on,
00:54:13.920
that's probably not helpful before you go to bed. So I think that you're entirely right. I think the
00:54:18.720
larger problem is not necessarily the blue light, but is the thing that we're interacting with,
00:54:23.800
whether it's an iPad or a phone or a computer, because typically those things are going to involve
00:54:28.680
social media, work, email, all of these other things that I think are much more potent disruptors
00:54:35.140
of sleep than the blue light itself. I must caveat this though. I have had a few patients who they were
00:54:41.560
not using Instagram before bed. They were not doing email before bed. None of this.
00:54:47.000
Not doing anything stressful or stimulating. No, but I just finished with a patient recently like
00:54:51.800
this who found that using orange colored glasses, and I'm talking orange colored glasses, not those
00:54:58.300
beautiful blue light blocking glasses that are clear lenses that I'm not sure what they're really doing
00:55:02.860
sometimes. I'm talking ugly motorcycle looking orange lenses. I found that a handful of patients
00:55:10.740
wearing these two hours before bed, it completely ameliorates their sleep onset insomnia such that
00:55:17.400
they were able to almost immediately quit Ambien. The beauty of these interventions is if you can
00:55:22.560
isolate them to one change at a time, you can be empirical about it. And something like wearing
00:55:27.640
glasses is benign. I mean, you're only out the money you spend on them. And if it works, great.
00:55:34.720
And if you really want to test it, take them off and see if your symptoms return. And if they don't,
00:55:40.200
maybe it fixed you, maybe it wasn't that. Who cares if they return and you can fix it? Yeah. Like
00:55:44.300
I try not to be terribly dogmatic about this stuff, but I also think that when people go to
00:55:50.480
great lengths to remove blue light without removing stimulus, they're missing the boat a little bit.
00:55:57.540
And for me, social media is not much of a stimulus actually, because I don't pay that much attention
00:56:01.140
to it, but work is. So for me, the single worst thing I can do right before bed is look at email.
00:56:08.560
Whereas watching TV, it's a total beautiful way for me to be distracted by watching something
00:56:14.860
mindless on Netflix for an hour. And as long as I don't go and check my email and see what got sent
00:56:21.200
to me in the last hour, it'll be great. It doesn't matter that I just finished watching a big bright
00:56:26.180
screen of Netflix. It doesn't seem to impact me. Well, one is much more interactive and stressful
00:56:31.080
and one is very passive when you're just watching a movie that has nothing to do with you,
00:56:34.180
no bearing on your life. What I would say back to your, what I'm going to call A-B testing,
00:56:39.080
whenever you want to test one of these individual, what I call low hanging fruit interventions,
00:56:43.600
you want to collect your own data on a paper sleep diary for two weeks, make the change.
00:56:48.440
You must do it for two weeks. And there's a few more low hanging fruit pieces of sleep hygiene.
00:56:53.920
By the way, do you have a nice template? We have one that we give our patients. Again,
00:57:02.680
Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Maybe we'll link to it in the show notes.
00:57:06.020
We'd link ours as well, but yours is probably better. Ours is like boxes you color in.
00:57:10.900
And it's like you put C when you had caffeine, A when you had alcohol, E when you exercise. So
00:57:17.060
we're documenting when did you exercise? When did you have food, alcohol, caffeine, and when were
00:57:20.940
you in bed and when were you sleeping by the shading?
00:57:23.460
Yours might be even more high tech than mine, but what I will tell you is mine is just enough to get the
00:57:28.760
information that I will definitely act on and nothing else. But I will tell you, can I go over
00:57:33.460
a couple more pieces of low hanging fruit on sleep hygiene?
00:57:37.880
Okay. So back to the glasses. If you are a person who has trouble with what we call early insomnia,
00:57:42.980
so difficulty falling asleep at the beginning of the night, and you're already not looking at your
00:57:47.520
email, not doing Instagram, you're just annoyed that you cannot fall asleep at the beginning of
00:57:52.200
the night. It's worth it to try these glasses for two hours a night for two weeks and see what
00:58:01.560
I have no affiliations with any of these things. I can tell you there's some really nice ugly ones
00:58:06.500
from lowbluelights.com, I think, if they're still in business. But they look like motorcycle goggles.
00:58:12.080
I do think that the wraparound feature is important because if we're going for it, let's go for it.
00:58:18.660
Another important thing to do is to talk to your physician.
00:58:22.700
I'm not a physician, but I work with a ton of them. And I learned this from an anesthesiologist.
00:58:28.640
All medications have circadian effects. All of them. Somehow, it's probably not known for all of
00:58:34.180
them how they do, but they do. Make sure you are taking your medications at the same time every day
00:58:38.940
and at the right time of day. For example, I once had a patient coming in saying they were taking
00:58:44.020
450 milligrams of bupropion for depression before bed. No. That's going to be a pretty stimulating dose
00:58:50.440
of something to take for bed. So make sure that you go over your medications with your doctor
00:58:55.000
and that you're taking them at the optimal times of day and be really consistent with your medications.
00:59:01.040
And another one that is a particularly low-hanging piece of fruit is something called
00:59:06.560
decaffeinated coffee. Turns out there are speculations that decaf coffee can have as much
00:59:12.560
as 15 to 30 percent of the caffeine that regular coffee has. I haven't found that reference.
00:59:18.180
I've dug. I've tried to find one that will show that. I haven't found exactly that.
00:59:22.860
But there are some data from 2006 that were published saying that 15-ish percent. But then
00:59:27.680
again, more recent data have shown that Starbucks, I think, says that their 12 ounce has 155 milligrams
00:59:33.600
of caffeine. But outside laboratory testing found 310, something like that. So when you're
00:59:39.920
decaffeinating coffee that's much more caffeinated than you started with, this can make an absolutely
00:59:44.600
huge difference. I tell people we're done with caffeine by 11. That's my 11 a.m. That's my
00:59:49.580
standard. Unless we've got an extreme phase delay or phase advance, I should define those terms.
00:59:54.960
A phase delay is when you go to bed really late and you wake up really late. A phase advance is
00:59:59.120
when you wake up really early and you go to bed really early. So someone who's waking up at like
01:00:03.800
3.30 in the morning and going to bed at like 8 p.m., that would be a phase advance. Phase delay would
01:00:11.560
be like, I'm going to bed at 3 a.m. and I'm waking up at 10 a.m. So in those cases, I might do something
01:00:17.160
differential with the caffeine. But for most people who are neither of those, I'll cut it off
01:00:22.020
at 11. That includes your caffeinated coffee and your decaffeinated coffee. And I never take people's
01:00:26.920
caffeine away. Caffeine withdrawal is not something I want to deal with in my clinic, and I don't think
01:00:32.000
it's necessary. You can cause a lot of damage taking away someone's coffee. People really don't like
01:00:36.980
that. It really puts them in a bad mood. And it's not necessary. So I tell people, do not change how
01:00:42.660
much coffee you're drinking. Put it all before 11. Just move it all.
01:00:47.320
What fraction of people are such rapid caffeine metabolizers that they seem immune to caffeine and
01:00:54.000
I think that that person doesn't actually exist. I need to be convinced what the normal caffeine
01:00:59.700
half-life is four to six hours. So even if we take someone who's four hours, that means after four
01:01:06.280
hours, you still have half of a cup of coffee. And after eight hours, you still have a quarter of a
01:01:11.500
cup of coffee. And if you have that coffee at 2 p.m., and that coffee actually had 310 milligrams of
01:01:19.320
caffeine in it, and it was only a tall coffee from Starbucks, there's a lot of contingencies to build
01:01:24.360
in here. But I could tell you people, someone we both just know, actually stops using decaf coffee
01:01:32.320
after dinner. And it's a world of difference for their sleep quality. People will say, oh, no, I fall
01:01:37.340
asleep just fine. It doesn't affect me. Well, it is affecting you. It's affecting the electrical quality
01:01:42.120
of your sleep throughout the whole night. And I would refer you to talking to a sleep neurologist
01:01:47.040
to interpret some of those sleep studies and talk with you more about that. For my purposes,
01:01:53.020
all I need to know is the person who's trying to fix the insomnia is, oh, you're having two decaf
01:01:57.680
coffees after dinner every night. That could add up and that could be doing something, and that could
01:02:02.180
make your sleep less restful. Okay. Low-hanging fruit. Just stop it at 11. Stop it. Like, do the
01:02:07.640
experiment at a minimum. Okay. So those are three. But don't reduce it is the key thing. Any other
01:02:13.400
really obvious things to A-B test for two weeks? No, I think that that's the major part. I will tell
01:02:19.860
people also, people like to fall asleep with podcasts on, don't do that. Including this one, right?
01:02:26.220
Right. Yeah. This is an easy one to fall asleep to, but I don't know. I hope that people aren't
01:02:31.560
falling asleep listening to this. Although, if this helps some sleep. One other thing I want to
01:02:35.040
talk about is on the relaxation techniques, where does or does mindfulness-based practice come into
01:02:40.020
it? So anyone who's done mindfulness-based meditation probably appreciates how difficult
01:02:45.560
it is. It's not like transcendental meditation where you're focusing on a mantra. You're instead
01:02:51.800
focusing on a sensation, typically breathing. But body awareness is a thing that you want to focus
01:02:57.240
on. Is that counterproductive or is it productive as you're laying there awake?
01:03:02.180
So my unsatisfying answer to so many questions is always going to be, it depends,
01:03:05.880
because there's moderator variables. And when it comes to CBTI, what we know is that what's been
01:03:11.160
tested is progressive muscle relaxation, which you could argue is a form of a body scan, which is part of
01:03:17.140
many mindfulness practices, where you scan your whole body, you think about your hands, you notice
01:03:22.500
how they're feeling, are they warm, are they soft, whatnot, and you move through your whole body.
01:03:26.320
With progressive muscle relaxation, you squeeze your hands and you let them go. You squeeze them
01:03:30.540
and you let them go. It's more of an active process that you're paying attention to throughout
01:03:34.760
your body. Doing this in bed right before you fall asleep for a few minutes is fine. That's the one
01:03:40.320
exception to the sleep and sex rule. I tell people that it's also fine to practice this in other parts
01:03:45.320
of your house. You don't have to just be in bed. But the body scan and mindfulness in general has
01:03:50.300
been studied in combination with CBTI. And what the data have shown is somewhat fascinating. There's
01:03:57.140
no actual differential improvement on sleep duration or metrics of sleep. But people like
01:04:05.360
the mindfulness stuff. They report they're more happy with it. They like doing that. But in terms of
01:04:10.280
actual improvement on sleep outcomes, I don't think it really adds too, too much to CBTI. The effects
01:04:16.440
with CBTI are pretty whopping. When it's done well, 50 to 60% of people can get remission and 70% can get
01:04:24.280
clinically meaningful improvement to their sleep. So in the world of psychological treatments,
01:04:29.760
that's really good. But to circle back to your question, mindfulness is great. I think there's a lot
01:04:36.140
of practical uses for it for helping yourself when you're in psychological states you don't want to
01:04:41.620
be in. It's a great way to be in life. But when it comes to sleep, do I need you to start a
01:04:47.680
mindfulness practice to improve your sleep? No. So you mentioned 50 to 60% of people are going to
01:04:52.760
have a remission. Closer to 50, but yeah. 70% will have a meaningful clinical improvement. Of the 30%
01:05:00.560
that do not. Why? When does the treatment fail? The treatment fails when people don't do it.
01:05:07.100
So in other words, we're really saying 30% of people are not able to adhere to the treatment.
01:05:11.620
I wouldn't go that far. There are some people who are genetically short sleepers.
01:05:15.580
And at some point, this may become distressing for them. I had a story of a patient who was in her 70s,
01:05:22.020
came to me saying, I have a huge problem. My sleep is not good. And I asked her, okay, so tell me all
01:05:28.320
about this. She was like upper 70s, had a volunteer job, really active, full workout plan. I'm like,
01:05:36.060
you're crushing it, lady. What's the problem exactly? She says, well, I joined this study
01:05:40.520
and I had to wear this wearable device. And I woke up in the morning and it says that things are not
01:05:47.080
going well every morning, morning after morning. And it says I'm at risk for different things. I'm not
01:05:52.740
going to say which wearable company it was. And I said, oh, okay.
01:05:55.320
There's an amazing treatment for that. Can I see the wearable device?
01:06:00.900
Boom. Exactly. This was a while ago, but I took it away from her and the wearable devices now are
01:06:07.200
not doing this. This was, gosh, seven, eight years ago.
01:06:10.860
I made a note to ask you this question. When do you tell people, because we do this with our patients,
01:06:16.840
which is take the tracker off. We're doing a six month tracker holiday, done with the tracker.
01:06:22.680
So is that mainstay part of your treatment is like, let's get all that anxiety out of there?
01:06:27.640
For people with insomnia, I tell them, yes. Coming to me in my clinic, the people who have
01:06:34.640
bothered to wait a year and a half to get into the clinic, those people, yes, I am telling them that.
01:06:40.460
And so to go back to your 30% of people, the genetically short sleepers who become distressed
01:06:45.120
about their sleep are not going to be helped by CBTI. They're not.
01:06:49.120
Maybe they shouldn't be helped. Maybe there's nothing to fix.
01:06:51.060
Correct. But they're presenting, so I'm putting them in the group. And then, yes, we know that
01:06:55.520
there's such a huge body of data on CBTI at this point. It's just wonderfully studied. And we know
01:07:01.540
that when people don't do the treatment, it doesn't work. Adherence is a major, major component.
01:07:06.300
Duration of treatment also matters. It seems that if you do four or more sessions with a therapist
01:07:12.300
doing the CBTI, your outcomes are going to be way better than if you try and cut it way short with one
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or two. My treatment is five sessions. I do an intake, you get five treatment sessions,
01:07:20.820
and then I do a follow-up where we just tidy things up.
01:07:25.300
Always one week. I am militant about this. If you're going to miss a week, you can't be in it.
01:07:32.160
Given that people are waiting a year and a half to see you,
01:07:35.400
tells me that there's a mismatch on the supply-demand curve.
01:07:41.420
First of all, there is a great directory. Can I give you for the show notes?
01:07:48.580
The Society of Behavioral Sleep Medicine thing?
01:07:50.840
So that is how you would find a provider who definitely knows how to do CBTI.
01:07:55.460
One of the major problems comes down to psychologists and providers taking insurance. A lot of the
01:08:02.940
best folks there in private practice, they don't take insurance. And you could be paying hundreds of
01:08:08.160
dollars a session to see them. And they're pretty backed up as it is, and they don't take insurance.
01:08:13.600
I am fortunate. I get to work at UCSF at the Osher Center for Integrative Health, and
01:08:17.600
we take Medicare and all kinds of insurance so people can pay minimal or non-existent co-pays
01:08:24.260
to see me. And there are other CBTI providers at UCSF. Their wait lists are long, long, long too.
01:08:31.880
In fact, in order to see patients now with any volume, I don't see individual patients. I see
01:08:37.820
eight patients at a time in group medical visits. And I do it 90 minutes every week,
01:08:42.420
all eight patients in that 90 minutes to get it done.
01:08:46.720
So what will it take for AI to replicate what you're doing to scale this much more? Because
01:08:53.020
a lot of this, a lot of the work I do can be done by an AI. How much of the art and science of this
01:09:01.780
is teachable to LLMs, and at least as another offering? I'm not saying it should ever displace
01:09:07.580
what you're doing or what a therapist is doing. But if we have a backlog of people for years,
01:09:14.280
shouldn't we have an alternative which might say, look, there's an online course that you can do that
01:09:18.960
will give you 70% of the value of what you might get sitting in the group with Ashley?
01:09:24.340
Hey, if you can find a way to replace me, I'm here for it.
01:09:30.040
Here's the issue. There are some CBT apps, smartphone apps, interventions out there.
01:09:35.740
And I've had patients who've tried these while they're waiting.
01:09:39.580
And they'll come in and they'll say, oh, it might have helped a little bit.
01:09:43.440
And I think the major issue is that many, many people with sleep problems think that their sleep
01:09:47.740
problem is unique. It's special. This can't be treated by just a generic app.
01:09:53.100
My problem is different. And the joy of me having a group is that people can hear that
01:09:58.340
everybody's problems are different. And I'm going to treat you all the same way.
01:10:01.700
Y'all are going to do the same things. You might do it at different times,
01:10:03.760
but you're all going to do the same things. And I think that there is a world where AI can
01:10:09.800
help with the personalization aspect. I'm actually helping a company that's making an app. It's called
01:10:16.000
Rest. And they are integrating AI to use, for example, the way that I calculate someone's wake
01:10:23.100
time, which is not something that's in standard CBTI. They're incorporating that and they're able
01:10:28.940
to actually do more tailoring. And I'm excited to see where it goes. But I think that the biggest
01:10:33.220
fly in the ointment with this is going to be getting patients to look at the fact that they
01:10:37.240
have been assigned to wake up at the same time every day for the next seven days and think,
01:10:41.500
oh gosh, I only wake up at 5 a.m. two days a week. Normally now I have to do it every day.
01:10:46.940
Getting them to really do it is going to be hard. Before my patients enroll in my clinic,
01:10:51.400
they watch a 10-minute video. And it's a really scary video. In that video, I'm basically saying,
01:10:56.260
look, this is going to be hard. You're going to hate me. You're going to want to make a dartboard
01:10:59.680
with my face on it and play darts on it. You are going to suffer in the beginning of this treatment.
01:11:04.860
But guess what? You have been suffering for months or years. Now you're going to suffer for
01:11:11.260
five weeks. You're going to do it my way. And if you don't like it, you can go back to your way.
01:11:15.000
This is five weeks of your life. How bad can it be? How much worse can it get?
01:11:19.140
So I do one of these kind of pep talk videos. There's just something about knowing that someone
01:11:25.060
else is actually really paying attention to one of the biggest problem, if not the biggest problem
01:11:30.700
in your life at that moment. Sleep is a 24-hour-a-day problem. This is not just a problem at night.
01:11:35.680
It is affecting you all day. It is intensely personal. So it's a lot to trust an algorithm
01:11:42.420
or an app to know, oh, okay, I really should do these things. I think it's a big ask and it's hard.
01:11:49.600
By the way, when you're giving them that bootcamp speech, is the time in bed restriction typically
01:11:56.500
They don't know about that at that stage. People are in the dark at that stage. I just say,
01:12:00.040
look, we're going to do this thing. It's going to be really hard. You're going to get worse before
01:12:03.500
you get better because everybody sleeps less the first couple of weeks while we're getting
01:12:06.820
all these things lined up. And for some people, what ends up being the hardest is the wake time
01:12:13.380
because they're used to just sleeping in whenever they can or catching up on those hours when they
01:12:18.520
can. For other people, the super late bedtime that I give them, that's what crushes them.
01:12:24.840
They're like, oh my gosh, I have to stay up until then. But the great news is that we dial it back
01:12:29.420
over time. And I don't think we talked about this part with time in bed restriction,
01:12:32.180
which is just that there's a benchmark for efficiency, sleep efficiency. And we define
01:12:37.400
sleep efficiency as the amount of time that you're in bed sleeping divided by the entire
01:12:42.160
time that you're spending in bed. And the benchmark is 85%. So each week I'm actually calculating sleep
01:12:47.740
efficiency from people's paper sleep diaries. And once we do time in bed restriction, if they are
01:12:52.540
above 85%, I move their bedtime back 15 minutes. And then if that's the same for another week,
01:12:58.820
you move back another 15 minutes. And people say, 15 minutes, what? Who cares? I'm like, oh,
01:13:03.700
you'll care. After four weeks, that's an extra hour every night. That's huge.
01:13:09.180
And are people able to, with a high enough fidelity, report awake time in bed? For example,
01:13:16.100
like if I were doing this, let's assume I've got a clock next to my bed that I can look at,
01:13:20.200
because you have to do that for this purpose. You have to have some device to keep track of time.
01:13:24.460
So I get in bed because my time in bed tonight is 11 and my wake up time tomorrow is 530. Okay. So I
01:13:31.700
get in bed. It's 11. Check. Okay. How do I know what time I fell asleep? Let's just say I didn't
01:13:36.800
have an issue falling asleep. How do I know if it's 1115 versus 1130? I'm looking for the difference
01:13:42.580
between five minutes and 50 minutes for that time to fall asleep thing, right? And in the middle of
01:13:47.280
the night when you're waking up, guess what? If you're not getting laid, you're getting out of bed.
01:13:50.660
So you can look at the clock and be like, all right, I'm out of bed. And then you have to go do
01:13:54.100
what I call a very fun and potentially embarrassing activity. Embarrassing meaning if your boss caught
01:14:01.960
you doing this activity during the workday, you should feel embarrassed. So for example,
01:14:07.180
reading People magazine or reading some trashy magazine, you wouldn't want to be caught at your
01:14:11.220
desk doing that at work. That's exactly what you should be doing in the middle of the night.
01:14:14.840
So person wakes up at two in the morning and they can't go back to sleep. Get up,
01:14:19.360
go and do something that is not productive, not rewarding in the way that, hey, this is,
01:14:26.720
I'm building a pattern around getting up and doing something I like. So I wouldn't be able
01:14:30.620
to get up and play chess. I wouldn't be able to do the online chess thing that I love.
01:14:34.900
Maybe, maybe not. I mean, I tell people they can play solitaire. Adult coloring books are all the
01:14:39.200
rage. I couldn't check email. No. Work-related work is a definite no.
01:14:43.740
What about scrolling social media? No, no. We don't like that. Although that meets the criteria
01:14:49.120
of you wouldn't want your boss catching you doing it. We don't do social media or interactive.
01:14:56.340
But we don't read about global warming, current events, politics, pandemics. Those things are
01:15:03.920
Ooh, not if it's stressful. I wouldn't do that.
01:15:06.800
Okay. So there's a narrow subset of activities that you are going to get out of bed to do.
01:15:10.780
Yeah. Stuff that's kind of boring, but entertaining enough. Because we don't want you to get a habit
01:15:16.740
of looking forward to doing something in the middle of the night. This happens with parents.
01:15:19.940
Like a parent, for example, who might be busy all the darn day with their kids and their family's
01:15:25.040
needs and everything else. Then in the middle of the night, they wake up and it's like, oh,
01:15:28.580
this is me time. This is when I'm going to do all these really fun things that I don't get to do
01:15:33.380
during the day. We don't want to make a habit of you time being between 3 and 4 a.m. That's really
01:15:38.600
when you want you to be sleeping. Sometimes you have to schedule that stuff during the day,
01:15:42.580
but we want the stuff in the middle of the night to be mildly boring. And to that end,
01:15:44.920
back to your blue light thing. I don't mind if people watch, for example, an episode of MASH
01:15:49.560
or Gilligan's Island or Sex and the City or some other sitcom. I like 20-minute episodes because
01:15:54.860
then you can generally turn it off, check in with your body, think, am I ready to go back to sleep?
01:15:58.860
And then you can go back to sleep. Do you remember in the 90s, if you played video games ever,
01:16:03.440
how we had those cartridges and we'd put them in. And sometimes we have to take them out and
01:16:07.760
blow them out to put them back in and reset them because they would freeze. That's what you're doing.
01:16:12.960
When you get out of bed in the middle of the night, you do a different activity,
01:16:15.880
you're resetting and then you're going back to sleep instead of just having stewed in bed that
01:16:20.400
whole time. And it's much easier to fall back to sleep when you have that reset.
01:16:24.300
So we don't want the activity to be too stimulating, but just mildly boring and entertaining enough.
01:16:31.340
Yep. One obvious thing we haven't talked about, and maybe it's so obvious we don't need to,
01:16:35.180
but just to close the loop on it is food and alcohol and how they pertain to this.
01:16:39.800
What's the checklist you run through with the clients?
01:16:41.580
So since we're dealing with so much life, I actually don't mess with their food. All I do
01:16:46.820
is say, hey, really, let's try to not eat within three hours of going to bed. Sometimes it's rare
01:16:51.500
that I'll have nighttime binge eating disorder to deal with at the same time or a blood glucose issue
01:16:56.820
that in diabetes that's poorly controlled at the same time. But I'm going to put those cases aside
01:17:00.860
for just a moment. So I generally will go with don't eat for three hours before bed. And when it comes
01:17:06.180
to alcohol, I tell my patients, look, this is five weeks of your life. I'm not going to drink
01:17:10.640
and you're not going to drink. So when I'm running a clinic, nobody's drinking. And the reason for
01:17:15.280
this is that in order for me to actually see what's going on with your sleep, I need to see
01:17:19.480
this with the least perturbation possible. Alcohol and marijuana are those things. Now,
01:17:24.660
if people are using a lot of marijuana or a lot of alcohol, I'm not here to put people into withdrawal.
01:17:32.220
No, no, no. I'll let them in. So what I'll do is before people come to their first group,
01:17:36.160
I have them do a sleep diary so I can see what's going on. And before that, I will have done their
01:17:40.460
intake and I'll have them have told me their alcohol intake. And I'll have decided, all right,
01:17:44.000
here's what you're going to do. You're either going to not, or I just finished with some people.
01:17:48.120
One of them was drinking between 16 and 20 ounces of wine a night. It's huge. And I said, okay,
01:17:53.740
so you're going to drink two ounces of wine a night out of that same glass. And then, you know,
01:18:00.040
you're going to keep using that glass and you're going to drink something else, some other frou
01:18:03.220
frou drink. I don't care what it is, but I want it to be something that you don't drink during the
01:18:07.020
day. So I want it to be overpriced juice or overpriced bubbly water or something like this.
01:18:12.240
Something special. And you're going to keep drinking it out of that wine glass. And I have them do that.
01:18:16.620
And I make sure they can do it before they start treatment. And they generally can,
01:18:20.120
because again, the other part that I have going for me is that people have been waiting so long
01:18:24.560
that by the time they get to me, they'll do what I say, which is just this lovely gift that I have.
01:18:31.020
But I'll make people be very consistent with that. They'll be like, oh, I have to drink two ounces
01:18:35.600
of wine a night. I'll say, yes, you do. You must. I want this consistent. That's the thing,
01:18:40.220
consistency. So if someone's saying, oh no, I drink three nights a week. And I'll say, all right,
01:18:44.320
cut it out. You're going to stop. I'm going to stop. We're all going to stop.
01:18:46.760
Are there any specific cognitive techniques that people are instructed to be working on
01:18:53.160
when they first wake up? No, nothing. There's nothing, no mind game to play. It's all behavior,
01:19:01.380
behavior, behavior. I'm all business. Yep. At CBT, I'm a purist and I don't involve the cognitive
01:19:06.720
techniques until week three of five with treatment. And that's when we get into things like scheduled
01:19:12.340
worry time, working with the thought records. And then also one of my favorite things to do with
01:19:18.800
patients who seem to wake up in the middle of the night, maybe at 1 a.m. they jolt themselves awake,
01:19:24.080
worrying about something in particular. I have a patient like that who every night in the middle
01:19:29.200
of the night wakes up at 1 a.m. and says, I'm very worried about thing A. I'll say, okay, thing A.
01:19:35.780
Here's what I'd like you to do with thing A. I would like you to track how worried you are about
01:19:41.320
thing A all day, every couple of hours. This is called tracking degree of belief in a thought.
01:19:47.620
And what you might find is that I'll build on this with an example of a patient that I had,
01:19:51.860
actually. This might be an easier way to explain it. I once had a patient with multiple sclerosis,
01:19:56.340
early 30s, pretty debilitating disease to have when you're that young, working a full-time job,
01:20:00.820
who used to jolt awake in the morning, every morning at 7 a.m., thinking, I'm never going
01:20:05.220
to make it through this day. My whole body hurts. This is a mess. I'm never going to be able to do
01:20:08.760
this. And she would lay in bed for two hours until like nine o'clock, thinking these thoughts,
01:20:13.200
just, oh, I can't do this. By nine o'clock, she'd get out of bed. She'd shower. She'd get to work by
01:20:18.000
10 o'clock because in the Bay Area, all these startups don't start till like 10. She'd get her coffee,
01:20:23.380
work with her assistant, do her meetings. And if I asked her, how much do you believe that thought,
01:20:27.460
I'm never going to make it through this day at noon? She'd probably say, oh, like 60%. Like
01:20:33.020
this afternoon is going to be rough. I don't know if I'm going to make it through. But if you ask her
01:20:36.160
at 5.30 when she's done working or whatnot, oh, how much do you believe that thought, I'm never
01:20:41.580
going to make it through this day? She'd be like, oh, I made it 0%. Day after day, she started realizing
01:20:46.260
like, oh, I don't believe this thought at 7 a.m. because it's true that I'm never going to make it
01:20:51.560
through this day. I believe this thought because it's 7 a.m. Once she was able to make that connection,
01:20:56.560
we were able to recapture her mornings. And at 7 a.m. she went and sat on her couch and she started
01:21:00.860
doing something she loved between 7 and 9, which for her was learning Italian with an app. She loved
01:21:06.560
it. And 7 to 9 used to be her most hated part of the day. But by the end of treatment, it was her
01:21:12.580
most beloved part of the day because no one was bothering her and she could learn Italian and
01:21:16.000
whatnot. And so one of the cognitive tools that I've built into CBTI in that cognitive package is
01:21:21.980
tracking how much you believe a thought over a given day. And if you believe a thought in different
01:21:27.840
levels throughout the day, how true can it really be? And it's really enlightening. And I would invite
01:21:33.040
you to notice what you're thinking about at 1 a.m. and then just see how worried are you or how much
01:21:37.100
do you believe this the next day at 3 p.m.? Oh, not at all. How come this deserves airtime at 1 a.m.
01:21:42.980
but not 3 p.m.? Let's talk about sleep supplements. So do you do a purge of supplements when people
01:21:52.260
come to you and they say, hey, I'm taking a pound of melatonin every night. I'm on an ashwagandha
01:21:58.740
drip. Just rattle them off. We could go through the list. Can I give you two links for the show notes
01:22:05.040
to studies of melatonin supplements that found that these melatonin supplements either had none of what
01:22:10.920
they said they had in them? Yes. I think we wrote a newsletter on one of them. Oh, great. Well,
01:22:14.500
there's been two. And when people come in and they say they're taking melatonin, I'm like, okay,
01:22:18.840
the alleged melatonin, how much of this are you taking? Let's assume that they're taking melatonin
01:22:23.000
because they're getting it from one of the companies that submits to third-party testing.
01:22:27.060
And so now they know they're doing it. And again, let's further posit that they're not taking a dose that
01:22:34.700
is deemed too high. So if you look at some of the sleep literature, there seems to be most people would
01:22:40.340
agree anything north of a milligram is probably just too much. Whereas kind of in the three to
01:22:46.040
600 microgram, there might be some benefit and more importantly, not just benefit, but actually
01:22:50.860
safety. You're not down-regulating melatonin receptors. You're offsetting the natural decline
01:22:56.460
in melatonin levels over time. I can tell from your face, you don't agree with any of this.
01:23:00.700
It's puzzling. So my face is also because it's hard to know where to go with this question because
01:23:04.300
some countries you need a prescription for melatonin. This is something prescribed by a doctor. It is
01:23:09.380
regulated. I don't remember all the countries off the top of my head, like Australia, New Zealand,
01:23:13.340
whatnot. You want that? You're not going to find it at their Walgreens. But in the U.S.,
01:23:17.040
taking too much can't kill you. So here you go. By the time someone gets to me, if they've got a huge
01:23:20.740
list of supplements and they still have a sleep problem, I say, okay, so clearly these aren't
01:23:24.500
doing what you want. They might be undermining what we want to do. I don't know what's actually in all
01:23:30.320
of those things because none of that's regulated. The data for things like ashwagandha are weak.
01:23:35.300
If you want to go Bradford Hill, we could. The data are also pretty weak for melatonin,
01:23:41.040
except in certain cases, which we can unpack a few of those with the explicit acknowledgement
01:23:46.800
that I'm not a physician. I've not been trained in the biological substrates, whatnot. But your
01:23:51.440
question is, do I take people off of this stuff? Yes. Get off that stuff. If you want to take it
01:23:55.920
after treatment with me again, great. But let's get off of it for now and let's see what your body's
01:24:00.540
actually doing. Because chances are you've been adding a supplement or two or whatnot over time
01:24:05.160
for years, and we don't even know what your body wants to do now. And you actually could be shooting
01:24:08.440
yourself in the foot with some of these things. Now, on the contrary, sometimes a patient will come
01:24:13.120
in and will say, oh, I'm taking a beta blocker for blood pressure. Now, you and I both know that's
01:24:16.780
like a fourth or fifth line treatment for blood pressure at this point. Nevertheless, beta blockers
01:24:21.800
inhibit melatonin secretion. And yet most prescribing doctors who are giving out beta blockers don't
01:24:27.900
realize that there's a significant risk of insomnia when you prescribe these to patients.
01:24:32.240
And I've had some patients who don't need treatment with me at all. They need a 0.5 milligram melatonin
01:24:39.020
pill every night, and that's it. And those are some of the most angry and satisfied patients ever.
01:24:45.240
They have one visit with me. It's done. They're furious that they've been suffering for 5, 10. I had one
01:24:50.480
patient who suffered for 30 years taking, oh gosh, metoprolol. He couldn't change his supplement
01:24:56.660
because something having to do with the vocal cords. He was a singer. Some of the other blood
01:25:00.440
pressure medications affect that. I didn't fully understand, but he would not change his blood
01:25:04.720
pressure med. So that was all that he needed. But do I think that the average healthy adult should be
01:25:10.700
taking melatonin? No, no. Now, there's probably some excellent data that you are much more aware of
01:25:17.080
than I am about how our melatonin secretion inhibition processes, whatnot, change as we age.
01:25:25.300
There may be some patients who benefit from taking melatonin, which is a hormone to induce sleep. But
01:25:31.040
remember, melatonin is like the guy at the start of the race. He's the guy with the gun. He fires the
01:25:36.260
gun. He doesn't have a car in the race. He's not helping you stay asleep. He's telling you when to
01:25:41.140
start the thing. So for a lot of adults, taking melatonin is really messing them up because they're
01:25:47.080
trying to go to sleep when their body isn't ready to go to sleep. They're forcing it to go to sleep.
01:25:50.460
Then they wake up in the middle of the night and they wonder why. And it's because, oh, you went to
01:25:53.960
sleep at the wrong time and your body's all kinds of confused. Yeah, interesting. So I really try and
01:25:58.600
take people off of these things so I can see what's really going on. And then if there's something
01:26:03.320
going on that looks like it might necessitate melatonin, I tag in one of my physician friends and talk
01:26:08.740
about it. So what about sleep medications? And let's talk about as many as you want. We can talk
01:26:16.460
about benzos. We can talk about trazodone. We can talk about Ambien. We can talk about the erexin-based
01:26:21.200
drugs. How many of the patients who come to see you are regularly taking one of these prescription-based
01:26:28.560
drugs for sleep? So a lot of people take over-the-counter drugs and prescription drugs for
01:26:35.420
sleep. And there was a huge shift that I noticed when COVID started. And there was a ban on flying
01:26:43.680
to different countries, Mexico and Europe. And it turns out there are a lot of people who will fly
01:26:48.880
to Mexico to get their Ambien and fly to Europe to get various sleep drugs that you can't necessarily
01:26:54.640
get here. All of a sudden, I saw a wave of patients dealing with withdrawal in the early months of the
01:27:01.260
pandemic because they couldn't go get more of their drugs. Oh my gosh, I'm screwed. What am I doing now?
01:27:06.520
Why couldn't they get them here in that situation?
01:27:10.220
They couldn't get a prescription while they were here?
01:27:12.140
Yes, because they were taking so much that they were well beyond what they could convince someone
01:27:17.780
to prescribe them. A lot of my patients are physicians. And a lot of physicians are pretty
01:27:22.820
reticent to go above FDA-recommended doses when it comes to Ambien. A lot of people don't realize
01:27:28.880
that I believe, I believe this is the case, Ambien is still the only drug that is differentially
01:27:34.420
prescribed to men and women. According to the FDA, the starting dose for women should be five
01:27:38.800
milligrams. Starting dose for men is five to ten for instant release. And then for extended release,
01:27:43.600
I believe, for women, it's 6.25. And then for men, it's 6.25 all the way to 12.5 because women
01:27:48.600
metabolize it less efficiently. So the people who I've seen, I've seen people taking 30 milligrams,
01:27:53.880
big doses. And gosh, this is a very loaded question. But there's a lot of patients who come
01:27:58.460
to me who will say, I've read something in the news. It turns out this medication I'm taking for
01:28:03.300
my sleep is bad for my brain. They're like, oh, you saw that, huh? And I want to quit immediately.
01:28:07.920
I need to quit by next week. Oh, okay. And you've been taking it for how long? Oh, 20 years. Okay,
01:28:13.560
right. So that never works. That never works. I wouldn't say that I have any sort of extreme
01:28:19.380
expertise in the different classes of sleep meds. But what I can tell you is the ones that people
01:28:24.460
most often are coming to me saying, I want to quit this. I hate being dependent on this. What
01:28:29.620
do I do? These are going to be the benzos, which doctors are becoming less and less hip to prescribing
01:28:34.840
for sleep. Ambien, the Sonata-Lanesta stuff. And then over-the-counter stuff like Benadryl,
01:28:42.120
maybe your occasional Doxepin. And then people are often prescribed Remeron for sleep and they run
01:28:47.640
into metabolic issues and they need to get off of it. So I think that covers the broadest swaths
01:28:53.680
that I see of things people wanting to quit. Now, the QVIC, it's some of these newer ones.
01:28:57.580
I don't see them as much yet. I'm sure it's coming. And what about Trazodone?
01:29:01.660
Trazodone is the one that I'm the least concerned about for a couple of reasons. I've not seen
01:29:06.800
compelling data that it negatively impacts the electrical quality of your sleep.
01:29:11.300
No. In fact, I've seen data that it does the opposite, that it's slightly positive.
01:29:14.780
Great. I'm looking for what's negative. I don't know if the study that you're speaking
01:29:18.940
of was statistically powered, if the primary outcome was improvements in sleep or decrements
01:29:24.260
in sleep. Now I'm trying to remember something that I wrote probably three years ago. I believe
01:29:29.640
the study looked at sleep duration as the primary outcome and a secondary outcome may have been
01:29:35.140
staging. Yeah. So I don't think it was powered for that, but I think they incidentally did find
01:29:39.100
an improvement. I think you've talked about extensively, like it's important to think about what was
01:29:42.840
a steady power to look at and all that. But I'm not the most worried about that also because
01:29:46.840
it's an antidepressant drug. And if someone's taking it and it is helping with their depression
01:29:52.720
and I take them off of it in the name of trying to help with their sleep, I have created a different
01:29:58.200
problem. Although the dose people take it, it tends to not have that effect. I mean, most people are
01:30:03.920
typically taking it at 25, 50, typically no more than a hundred, maybe at a hundred, depending on the
01:30:10.100
size of an individual. They're getting some of that benefit. I often see a hundred for sleep.
01:30:13.660
Yeah. And so for me, I'm thinking, Ooh, I don't know if that's just for sleep. And then I'm also,
01:30:18.180
if I see 50 even, and then I see another antidepressant, I think, Ooh, these could be
01:30:21.580
working together. You actually also have a diagnosis of depression. We need to think about
01:30:25.380
this carefully. If folks are showing up on 20 milligrams of Valium or Xanax or pick your favorite
01:30:33.020
benzo, do you have them go and do a taper detox with their physician before they come into the
01:30:40.020
CBTI program? No, I have them do it with me. So you will manage the medical withdrawal on that?
01:30:47.020
Let me explain exactly what I do. Scope of practice. So first of all, I always work with
01:30:51.760
the prescribing physician. I never start without making sure the prescribing physician is explicitly
01:30:56.980
aware of what I want to do. I talk with them. And this has to be one of your colleagues at UCSF
01:31:01.860
or whoever they're prescribing physician is. It's whoever is prescribing the medication to
01:31:04.880
this person. We now share a patient and have an obligation to. Every single time I have done this,
01:31:10.440
the physician has been in support of getting their patient off of benzos, except for one time,
01:31:16.580
which isn't even worth really getting into. But the point is, it's an overwhelming amount of support.
01:31:20.960
Yeah, I can imagine. Most of the time, these physicians have already tried to get their
01:31:24.280
patients to quit and to reduce. But in my opinion, they've tried to do it way, way, way too quickly.
01:31:31.860
And that's because there are physiological dependencies on these drugs and psychological
01:31:37.800
dependencies on these drugs. And we have to attend to both of them while we're doing this
01:31:42.520
taper process, or it's going to be a botch and the patient's going to relapse and we're going to be
01:31:46.920
back at square one or square negative one, unfortunately. So here's what I do. Let's take
01:31:53.040
a boring example. Pick your favorite benzo, favorite dose.
01:31:57.080
I don't particularly like them myself, but let's take Valium.
01:32:02.400
So let's say we've got a patient on Valium. They've tried to quit. They've occasionally abused.
01:32:07.420
They've gone up. They've split an extra in half. They've gone up to 15 sometimes, whatnot.
01:32:11.520
The first thing that I do with a patient is I say, all right, actually, for sake of better
01:32:15.860
example for sleep, can we do Ambien because it's a little more fun?
01:32:20.240
Let's say 10 of Ambien every night at the beginning of the night. And then let's say sometimes they're
01:32:23.440
actually taking a fiver in the middle of the night when they wake up because they want
01:32:29.080
Right. So let's say some nights it's 15, some nights it's 10. What do we do? So the first
01:32:33.940
thing I do is I take out the middle of the night dosing and I say, we're done with that.
01:32:37.200
You're limited to 10 a night and you got to take it before bed.
01:32:40.100
Yes. You have to take it before bed. You have to take it the same time every night. But if
01:32:42.960
you're going 15, five nights a week and 10, two nights a week, I'm going to make it a
01:32:46.280
12.5 before bed. Let's be generous. Start higher. So we'll agree on a dose that the
01:32:51.300
patient will take and it agreed upon time. So the prescriber and I agree on this. We're
01:32:54.360
like, okay, same page. This is what the patient's going to do. And they start doing that. Generally
01:32:58.240
the patient's like, no, no, no, I'm trying to quit. I don't want to take more. And I
01:33:01.080
say, no, no, before you quit, it must be stable. You cannot quit from a point of instability.
01:33:06.320
It will not work. I've seen people try and people say, oh, I want to quit. I want to go
01:33:11.080
from 10 to five. No, that's not how we roll. So let's say this patient's taking 12 and a
01:33:16.020
half and they're like, okay, I want to cut down. I'm like, all right. Okay. So how does going
01:33:20.420
from 12 and a half to five sound? And they say, oh my gosh, that's going to be really
01:33:24.180
scary. I don't think I can handle that. And what I actually have them do is I rate it on
01:33:28.080
a scale from one to 10 with 10 being the most anxiety provoking upsetting thing. And one
01:33:34.480
being not upsetting at all. This is called a subjective units of distress scale, suds, have
01:33:39.920
them suds it. So I say, okay, going from 12.5 to five, that sounds really terrifying now
01:33:45.020
because they've just done a week where they're consistent with 12.5 at the beginning of the
01:33:48.800
night. They've had no middle of the night crutch and they're not feeling great about that.
01:33:52.280
So then I say, okay, so how about going from 12 to 10? And they say, oh, not as bad, but
01:33:57.700
that's still like a six on my scale. And I do this process all the way until I get them
01:34:01.780
to a one. And I'll say, all right, so next week we're going from 12.5 to 12.
01:34:10.300
I can tell you exactly how we're doing that. We're going on the internet and we are buying
01:34:14.000
something called a gem scale. Now you and I both know that people who are wealthy enough
01:34:17.320
to have gems worth measuring aren't measuring their own. So the people who are buying those
01:34:20.760
scales are using them for other things. And so what my patients end up doing is they buy
01:34:24.440
these scales and they get a full-blown breaking bad setup in their bathroom. Like we're cutting
01:34:28.600
pills, we're weighing pills, we're doing math because the pill actually weighs more than
01:34:31.980
12 and a half because it's got binders and fillers. What percent do we need? And we kind
01:34:35.440
of make it fun. And they end up having to put the crumbly pill into a shot glass with some
01:34:39.580
water. We shoot it and the whole thing. We make a whole production out of it. But the point
01:34:42.760
just is. They're going from 12.5 to 12. And we do that for like three weeks. If they've
01:34:47.320
been on it for years, we're looking at three weeks. And the first couple of nights are
01:34:51.840
If they're only doing a seven-week program with you...
01:34:54.560
Oh, no, no. This taper program we make and it will last a long time.
01:35:00.320
This is a separate issue. And we do this after they've finished CBTI treatment. During CBTI
01:35:03.700
treatment, I stabilize them on their meds. And we just get it so they're not erratically
01:35:07.440
taking five different cocktails of things. When people come in to see me for treatment,
01:35:11.880
they'll say, oh, yeah. So Mondays, I do Ambien. Tuesdays, I do Trazodone. Wednesdays,
01:35:16.060
it's Benadryl. Because they have it in their head.
01:35:18.680
Because they think they don't want to get dependent on one. So they think that by doing
01:35:22.260
a rotating merry-go-round of these things that it's...
01:35:25.260
That's actually smart. I would have never even thought of that.
01:35:30.480
So I generally work with the doctor and we decide, okay, here's the one you're going
01:35:33.260
to do. Here's the dose you're going to do. And you're going to be consistent
01:35:36.160
So vodka on Monday and then tequila on Tuesday, red wine on Wednesday, and then Chardonnay
01:35:44.180
Thursday. And this way, I'll never become an alcoholic.
01:35:46.480
Oh, figured it out, Peter. In short, I have people really stabilized during CBT. And sometimes
01:35:51.440
during week four, week three, four, they're ready to start this. And we start them on this
01:35:55.400
program. And once I have them in this way, they're able to do this on their own. So they'll
01:35:59.980
go from 12 to 12.5 for like three weeks and they'll be keeping sleep diaries. So they'll
01:36:03.720
see, oh, okay. And we'll get some confidence. And then they'll email me, you know, they'll
01:36:08.280
message me and they'll say, okay, so now what? And I'll say, all right, well, how are you
01:36:11.320
feeling? Like, what if we go down to 11.5? How does that sound? Sometimes that'll be too
01:36:15.400
scary. For some reason, crossing the five threshold is really scary. So we go from five
01:36:21.200
And just to be clear, this is psychological. There can't possibly be a physiologic difference
01:36:27.260
between four, 4.75 and five milligrams of Ambien. In fact, the medicine isn't even
01:36:32.600
homogeneously enough compounded within the capsule. So as long as everybody understands
01:36:38.800
Probably not. But think some for tablets and I don't know about the requirements.
01:36:41.440
Yeah. Cause the binder and the active ingredient.
01:36:43.620
Yeah. And generic has to be 85% similar to the real deal. So there's all kinds of mess ups
01:36:47.620
here. Remember how I said there's a psychological part and the physiological part. This is a psychological
01:36:51.400
part that I think it's left out of a lot of the, oh, just cut it in half to start
01:36:55.760
decreasing your dose aspect, which is dealing with, okay, what can we physiologically do?
01:37:00.220
I'm talking about what can we psychologically do?
01:37:02.520
And do you think that this methodology of the incredibly slow taper with incredibly high
01:37:11.780
So I don't think I've ever seen that in my clinic. It's just not something I've had to
01:37:19.740
Oh, I don't mean for sleep. I just mean in general. Or is the problem so grave that you have to be
01:37:24.720
a little more aggressive and switch them to a completely different class of drugs?
01:37:30.880
I can't speak to it. But what I can tell you is just that doing this method with the sleep
01:37:36.880
drugs slowly over time, people get more confidence and they can make larger reductions at a time.
01:37:42.360
And then importantly, Peter, when someone is tapering and something crazy in their life
01:37:46.420
happens, like a child gets diagnosed with cancer or something terrible happens, we stop the
01:37:51.820
taper and we stay where we're at. So your taper might look like this, but there's not a huge rush
01:37:57.440
to get off this thing. You've been on it for 20 years. Better to stably get off it. I always joke
01:38:01.980
with people like if you can lose 10 pounds in two days, how quickly do you think you can gain two
01:38:05.400
pounds? So when it comes to quitting these meds, slow and steady wins the race. Having people gain
01:38:10.360
the confidence that they can do it is such a big part of it. I know that one of the critiques I've
01:38:14.840
gotten from folks is like, well, wait a minute, some of these pills have coatings and da, da, da, da,
01:38:18.800
but it's a lot of it is psychological. So this works really well for a medication taper and people
01:38:25.900
can do it themselves. There's no like magic. I mean, I think we've covered a lot on CBTI and
01:38:33.920
let's now revisit the idea of the types of things that people should be on the lookout for that need
01:38:41.120
to be addressed first. So we haven't talked about sleep apnea. We haven't talked about restless leg
01:38:47.280
syndrome. What are the other things where you just want to have some sort of sign off that says,
01:38:54.540
hey, we've also confirmed that these things aren't present or what gets your suspicion roused that
01:38:59.640
says, hey, we got to look at something else because you're presumably not doing polysomnography on
01:39:04.600
everybody on the way in. How do you navigate that?
01:39:08.380
So I have the wonderful luxury of being able to look in people's charts and see who referred them to
01:39:16.100
Everybody needs a referral of some kind and it can be from anybody, but any referral. A lot of my
01:39:20.520
referrals come from sleep disorder centers because they've already done all that work up and they
01:39:24.740
say, all right, it's none of these things. So here you go. If a patient tells me, I always ask a patient
01:39:30.380
like, oh, has your partner or anybody you've slept with ever told you that you snore or that you sound
01:39:34.980
like you're gasping for air in the middle of the night? I do have a bunch of those types of screening
01:39:38.560
questions. And I aggressively refer to colleagues with expertise in those areas before treatment
01:39:44.520
with me. A lot of times people have a CPAP and they say, oh, I don't really use it. I'm not sure
01:39:49.760
about that. And I say, well, I'm here to tell you that you should be sure about it and that you should
01:39:53.760
use it every single night. It doesn't fit. Cool. I'm going to make a call because we're going to get
01:39:58.300
it to fit. There's a different mask you can probably get. There's all these different issues that we can
01:40:02.320
tackle. It just sometimes takes making a phone call. And unfortunately, a lot of patients don't
01:40:08.940
have great follow through for their CPAP in terms of help using it and figuring it out. So sometimes
01:40:15.040
I have to just make that extra connection. The one thing I think I want to make sure that we put a bow
01:40:20.320
on also is this obsession with bedtime. I can make you wake up at any time by setting a very loud
01:40:28.240
alarm. I can anchor you into your day with a wake up time and that can be consistent every single
01:40:33.600
day. I cannot wave a magic wand and make you fall asleep at the same time every day. So when people
01:40:38.860
think, all right, I'm going to get a handle on my sleep, I'm going to go to bed at the same time
01:40:41.960
every night. No, no, no, no. Wake up at the same time every day. That's a much more important first
01:40:47.240
step. And if you're waking up at different times throughout the week, that is the first thing to fix.
01:40:53.740
Yeah. What degree of social jet lag do you tolerate? Just for folks listening, social
01:40:59.120
jet lag, meaning the experience of changing your sleep time during weekends, which could be akin
01:41:05.160
to jet lag if it differs by hours. In an ideal world, there would be zero, right? In an ideal
01:41:09.780
world, I wake up at seven o'clock in the morning every single day of the week. For an individual who
01:41:15.500
says, oh, but God, on the weekends, it's just so nice to not have to get up at seven. Do you say,
01:41:21.140
look, give yourself a 30 minute grace and that would still be considered perfectly healthy?
01:41:25.220
So during treatment, I tell people you need to wake up at the same time every day that ends in
01:41:29.440
DIY. So that means Monday, Saturday, Sunday. Yeah. That's all of them.
01:41:33.920
Yeah. That's during treatment. I have to check.
01:41:35.640
Yeah. Good. There is no room for negotiation during treatment. We're in the dictatorship.
01:41:40.840
But what I do teach people at the end of treatment is how to cope with the fact that life is going to
01:41:46.700
happen when treatment ends. It happens during treatment, but there's a lot that pauses during
01:41:50.620
treatment, to be honest. But let's say that you've got a major event on a Friday night. You're going
01:41:55.960
And you're going to be out way later than usual. What I tell people is, look, you need to pick
01:41:59.680
which day of that weekend do you want to suffer and which day do you want to feel good? Because
01:42:03.940
we can sleep in one day. You cannot sleep in two days in a row. That's going to take you off the
01:42:09.000
wagon. We're not doing it. So let's say Friday night you go to a concert and you want to feel good
01:42:13.320
on Saturday. Cool. Sleep in on Saturday. Sleep in by an hour on Saturday. Okay, fine. Go to bed on
01:42:19.380
Saturday night when you get tired. Spoiler alert, you're probably going to get tired past your usual
01:42:23.240
bedtime because you slept in. But then Sunday you have to wake up at your wake time and Sunday
01:42:27.440
you're going to suffer. But let's say you want to feel good Sunday. That means on Saturday you're
01:42:31.600
going to wake up at your usual time. Saturday is going to be a struggle bus, but you'll make it to
01:42:35.000
your bedtime and you'll go to bed at your bedtime. Then you'll feel better Sunday. So you just have
01:42:38.380
to choose. When do I want to do the suffering? The immediate day after?
01:42:41.040
So basically force the suffering into the narrowest place possible.
01:42:45.000
But you can choose because sometimes people don't want the suffering to be the next day.
01:42:48.380
They want it to be the day after. So you get to choose that. But I tell people, look,
01:42:51.640
don't sleep in more than one day in a row. It's going to mess you up. You're not really
01:42:55.000
getting quality sleep when you sleep in past your wake time. When it's been a pattern for
01:42:58.840
a long time, when you sleep in past your wake time, you're probably getting some extra stage
01:43:02.620
two sleep. You're not getting more deep sleep. That's for sure.
01:43:06.240
We're recording this on a Tuesday. Sunday, two days ago, I was flying back to Austin from LA
01:43:12.420
and the flight got delayed over and over and over and over and over again for reasons that are
01:43:21.260
so asinine they're not even worth describing. And then we finally got on the plane and taxied and
01:43:28.100
then the water was leaking out of the coffee machine. So we had to go back to get another
01:43:33.460
plane. I'm not making this up, but I can, I can only tell you how ridiculous this is.
01:43:39.520
The punchline of the story is we didn't get home till two in the morning, which is long past my
01:43:43.380
bedtime. So what would your strategy have been getting home at two in the morning prior to
01:43:50.900
Monday, a work day where you do have some leeway? I don't have to get up at six, which would be my
01:43:55.800
normal wake up time. Would you have said, just get up at six, stick with it and make it up by going
01:44:01.840
to bed a lot earlier Monday night? Or would you say sleep until eight? You'll probably feel better
01:44:07.220
than if you woke up at six. How would you handle that situation?
01:44:10.500
I'll say which day is more important for you to feel good on Monday or Tuesday.
01:44:13.660
Let's say I said Tuesday because I'm sitting down with you.
01:44:16.200
Well, then I would say probably try and not to sleep in too much so that you can go to bed at
01:44:20.760
your regular wake time on Monday. If you sleep in horribly on Monday morning, you're going to stay
01:44:25.280
up later Monday night and then you'll get up at your wake time today. You will have had shorter sleep
01:44:30.120
for today. It will have rolled all the way over.
01:44:32.320
That's actually what I did. So having not thought about this, I just slept until I think my wife
01:44:38.200
tried to get me out of bed at seven and I said, can you let me sleep till eight? So I didn't get
01:44:41.960
up till eight. But last night, you're right. I had a very hard time going to bed. It was like 11 o'clock
01:44:49.400
Yeah. You just have to very carefully decide which day do you want to prioritize and that's how you make
01:44:53.540
that decision. So you have more control than you think is what's beautiful about that. And I just
01:45:00.000
remind people, you can never really make up for lost sleep that easily because sleep architecture
01:45:06.460
really matters. And when you're sleeping in, you're not getting more deep sleep. You're getting some
01:45:11.040
more maybe light sleep. And at worst, that's robbing you of maybe some of the deep sleep you
01:45:15.800
would have gotten the following night because you're on a circadian plan here. And we didn't
01:45:20.520
really talk about process S and process C. Maybe I can just briefly tell you what those two things
01:45:25.080
would be. Absolutely. Okay. So process S is sleep homeostasis. And that's this sleep pressure idea
01:45:31.420
that we are working on. Every day we build up sleep pressure until it's bedtime and then we
01:45:36.340
capitulate, we fall asleep. And then our sleep pressure drains throughout the night while we
01:45:40.360
sleep. And then in the morning, we build it up again the next day. And this is just adenosine
01:45:45.200
building up? Yeah. Think about it that way. And that's also why caffeine is problematic. So
01:45:49.300
caffeine blocks adenosine receptors. The caffeine crash when it wears off and then all the adenosine
01:45:54.360
floods the receptors and we experience that, oh, sleepiness. And that's why taking a nap is so
01:45:59.200
difficult because what napping does is it basically kind of deflates your balloon a little bit of your
01:46:04.080
sleep pressure. It robs you of some of that sleep pressure. So by the time you get around to your
01:46:07.720
normal bedtime, if you've taken a long nap, you've reduced how much sleep pressure you would ordinarily
01:46:12.240
have at that time. That's why napping can be dangerous. And then we have process C, which is the
01:46:16.820
circadian process. And that just marches on. It doesn't really care about your sleep pressure or how much
01:46:22.740
you've slept. I'm sure you've pulled an all-nighter, but when people pull all-nighters,
01:46:27.060
what they often will notice... How many all-nighters do you think I've pulled in my life?
01:46:30.220
Oh, hundreds. Yeah. I would need scientific notation to count them. It's so pathetic.
01:46:34.540
Yeah. It's a lot. The thing to note about that is that you're sleepy during the night when you're
01:46:39.180
pulling the all-nighter, but in the morning, you kind of have a burst of energy. And that's the
01:46:43.060
circadian part speaking up. And when we look at the sine curve of it, that's because your
01:46:48.300
temperature is coming back up. Your adrenal glands still make cortisol.
01:46:51.760
Right. So your circadian process doesn't really care much about the sleep pressure. It says,
01:46:56.740
oh, okay. If you line these two things up on a graph, they look like they talk to each other. They
01:47:00.200
don't. But these two processes really determine a whole lot about your sleep. And there are things
01:47:05.880
that we can do to support each of them. But CBTI really focuses on the sleep pressure aspect
01:47:11.780
by regularizing people's schedules. And then it supports the circadian aspect by some of these
01:47:19.560
little things that I talked about that I don't even know if you can't really call them standard
01:47:24.020
CBTI, like standardizing what time people are taking their medications, for example, doing things
01:47:29.340
that we know support circadian biology, not eating right before bed. In my perfect world, all of these
01:47:34.420
different Zykebers, which are timekeepers during the day, would be consistent from day to day.
01:47:39.040
You eat lunch every day at the same time, breakfast every day at the same time.
01:47:41.780
All of these things would support your circadian biology and probably improve your sleep.
01:47:46.640
Any rules about exercising? Do you have people that are showing up and you're going through your
01:47:51.780
intake and you realize based on their schedule, based on work, based on kids or other obligations,
01:47:59.240
the only time they're going to get their workout in is in the evening? And is that counterproductive?
01:48:04.520
Put it this way. If it is an issue, how do you adjust?
01:48:08.420
This is a really nuanced issue. I once had a patient who, a long time,
01:48:11.780
ago, who said, oh yeah, I take the 10 o'clock spin class in the Castro. I was like, oh, okay,
01:48:16.020
moving on. I assumed it was 10 a.m. I was wrong. And I learned that the next week when we were talking
01:48:20.780
about other things. But for some people, exercise at night is fine. For other people, it's super
01:48:27.940
stimulating. And it also really depends on what kind of exercise we're talking about.
01:48:31.740
I think one moderating variable here is also going to be level of fitness. If you take a person who's
01:48:37.380
extraordinarily cardiovascularly unfit and you put them in a spin class in the evening,
01:48:41.820
do you know it could take their heart rate quite a while to recover? You could probably provide me a
01:48:46.320
lot more information about that than I know. And what we know in order to fall asleep is that your
01:48:49.880
heart rate should be lowering. So if your heart rate is still elevated from a whole bunch of exercise
01:48:53.880
you just did, that's not going to help you. But if you're super fit and your heart rate recovers
01:48:58.160
really quickly, it might affect you less. So this matters. I think there was, for a long time,
01:49:03.940
this general suggestion to not exercise close to bedtime. I still think for the most part it applies.
01:49:09.700
But I think that it's important to think about what kind of exercise you're doing. If someone
01:49:13.260
tells me, oh, I'm going to a yoga class, I find this really relaxing and calming. It's a form of
01:49:17.560
stretching for me. Fine. Okay. This is the only time of day you can do it. You got a job, you got kids,
01:49:22.520
whatever. I'm not going to tell you to not go just because of the time of day that it is or
01:49:26.740
weightlifting or whatnot. But if you want to go to a HIIT class, I'm going to say, well,
01:49:30.580
can we not do it at 10 o'clock at night? I think it would really be great if we could move it earlier.
01:49:35.340
We try to do that. I do tell people, I have some patients who've come in and said, oh,
01:49:39.980
my body wants to wake up every day at seven o'clock, but I really want to go to this 5 a.m. spin class
01:49:45.580
every day. I'm like, okay, well, I understand. Exercise is very important. I'm a believer. Also,
01:49:51.760
your circadian biology has you going to bed at 11 and getting up at 7. And even if you're getting
01:49:58.420
up at 4.45 to get on your home spin bike to do this thing with this group, your body doesn't want
01:50:03.580
to go to bed until 11. And we're not going to be able to change that. So you're going to have to
01:50:07.180
make that cost-benefit analysis with, do you want to lose that much sleep to do that thing?
01:50:12.880
Yeah. My brother-in-law plays in a men's hockey league and you only get ice time late at night.
01:50:19.160
So I think they literally play Sundays at 11 p.m. or something. And he's always fried Monday because
01:50:25.760
pretty hard to play a game of ice hockey and then fall asleep after that. So I want to understand
01:50:32.860
more what the spectrum of CBTI looks like. I mean, your process sounds super dialed in,
01:50:40.700
but also it's quite bespoke. You've brought a lot of your own expertise to it and you've created a
01:50:46.780
system where you've got, we're going to do the intake. We're going to do these five sessions,
01:50:50.740
which I think are group sessions, the way you've described them. Then we do kind of the exit.
01:50:54.920
You bring so much rigor to it. Is that the way it is always done? Or are there CBTI therapists out
01:51:00.500
there who function like psychotherapists and they say, yeah, we're just going to engage with each other
01:51:05.840
until your problem is fixed. And we'll see each other once a week or maybe once every other week.
01:51:11.360
Everything you're doing sounds formulaic. And I say that not in a bad way. I think that's
01:51:15.280
probably a big part of its efficacy. Is that something people should expect
01:51:18.860
when they are going to a CBTI therapist? It's something people should ask for
01:51:22.980
before people start treatment. They fill out the Pittsburgh sleep quality index and they fill out
01:51:27.100
the insomnia severity index. And I tell them, look, we're going to fill this out when you're done
01:51:30.020
with treatment too. And we're going to see how this worked for you. We're going to actually take
01:51:34.100
measurements. What type of scores are you getting on the PSQI? I mean, it ranges from zero to 21.
01:51:39.680
I get all the way to 21. Yeah. And below five is considered no clinically significant sleep
01:51:45.760
problems. I relax that to six or seven, because if you have a prostate or if you're going through
01:51:48.980
menopause and have hot flashes, you're going to be elevated on that scale by no fault of your own
01:51:53.500
or your sleep's fault. And the insomnia severity index, I mean, yeah, we see all the way up to what
01:51:59.000
was it? 22, 23, something like that. So I see all the way up to the most severe levels in both of
01:52:04.800
these scales commonly. And the average point drops are huge in clinic. So I don't know if it was like
01:52:11.620
10 points in the insomnia severity index. Like it's very high, very responsive to this treatment.
01:52:16.580
But back to your original question is, I wish everybody did it by the book. I think there's a lot
01:52:22.020
of practitioners out there who want to do this by the book. I have a luxury to do it by the book
01:52:27.280
because I'm able to enlist help from my team to help me process sleep diaries every week and do
01:52:37.440
probably two hours of work outside of my clinic of prep for me. So they feed me my stuff that's been
01:52:45.120
built into the systems that I have. I'm prepping half an hour before clinic. I see everybody for an
01:52:50.220
hour and a half. And then I've got my notes, my templates and things. But I think that it is very
01:52:54.180
difficult to do CBTI when you're not seeing patients weekly because I look at weekly sleep
01:52:57.440
diaries and I make changes based on that. So when you find a CBTI therapist, I would say ask if you
01:53:02.200
can set up a time in the future with that therapist and see them weekly for a set of whatever, five to
01:53:08.160
eight weeks and put it on the calendar that way with them. If they say, oh, they don't have bandwidth
01:53:12.120
to do that for another month, say, okay, cool. I'll wait and then get on every week. And a lot of
01:53:16.780
practitioners also aren't going to necessarily score your sleep diaries for you. You can score them
01:53:21.220
yourself if you want to. I mean, it's not that difficult. If you just Google online, you can find
01:53:26.780
a sleep diary calculator and it's very easy to do the math yourself. There's a book that I really like
01:53:32.600
called Quiet Your Mind and Get to Sleep, written by Rachel Manber and Colleen Carney and Dick Bootsen
01:53:37.700
wrote the foreword. It's kind of a guided way through the treatment and you can use that workbook
01:53:42.760
yourself to do it. And you could also use that workbook when you're working with a provider.
01:53:47.320
But I think there are a lot of CBTI providers out there who can see you weekly and can do this.
01:53:53.700
You'll probably just have to do your back-end work with your calculations because they don't
01:53:57.420
have the billable time for that. They'll be busy during the sessions trying to teach you things.
01:54:01.460
I would also note that between my sessions with my patients, I make them watch very annoying videos
01:54:07.180
that I've made of myself giving a lecture about all of the science because I've found that if you
01:54:11.040
explain the science to patients, you'll get the adherence. Here's why we're going to do this.
01:54:16.020
People think, wait, I have problems sleeping. Now you're going to make me not go to bed?
01:54:19.660
This is not what I'm going for. And I have to explain to them, okay, here's why we do this
01:54:23.960
because this will ultimately get you where you want to go. But the principles of what I'm doing
01:54:29.020
are not at all bespoke. I'm doing the time in bed restriction, stimulus control, the cognitive
01:54:33.980
techniques, the relaxation techniques, and the sleep hygiene. Those are the five major components.
01:54:38.140
What is bespoke is the way that I set the wake time because that's not been standardized in
01:54:42.040
literature. The way I deal with standardizing medications, the way I deal with medication
01:54:46.320
tapers, some of the anxiety tools that I bring in like scheduled worry time, tracking due belief
01:54:51.800
during the day. I think that is actually pretty well incorporated into CBTI. But some of those
01:54:56.860
are a little bit more tilted toward my audience, which tends to be higher in anxiety. I build those
01:55:02.660
in. But otherwise, find someone on the website that we'll put in your show notes who knows how to do
01:55:08.600
CBTI. And I have a feeling you'll go far. The treatment works when you do it. And it doesn't
01:55:13.660
work when you don't do it, is what I tell all of my patients.
01:55:16.960
The book, Quiet Your Mind and Get to Sleep, you mentioned that that's something that people could
01:55:23.500
do in therapy. But you also mentioned that it's something people could just do on their own. So
01:55:27.320
if somebody is listening to this and they're thinking, A, I can't afford CBTI, or B, every practitioner
01:55:33.240
I've called said the soonest I can get in is nine months from now. If my choice is continue to
01:55:38.340
suffer or do something proactively, you would recommend that as a great strategy to start?
01:55:43.040
They can get that. They can try some of the apps. They're out there. I think they have less
01:55:47.400
traction currently. They're still in early stages, but try and help the rest app. But the Quiet Your
01:55:52.680
Mind and Get to Sleep book, people can do it by themselves. And I actually had a patient this
01:55:56.220
summer who was on the wait list. He got his intake and he was like, look, I'm fixed. I did the book.
01:56:01.380
It was awesome. But I still want to be in this group because I want to see what it's all about.
01:56:05.180
I'm not giving up my spot. And it was great having them in the group because they just
01:56:10.020
cheerlead everybody else and said, this works when you do it.
01:56:13.920
Any concerns with extreme temperature changes before bed? So people using sauna,
01:56:18.040
people using cold plunge, taking hot showers, hot baths. Subjectively, from my experience,
01:56:24.100
a sauna before bed really seems to help. Maybe it creates a bigger gradient in temperature drop as I
01:56:30.760
go from high body temp to low when I get into that super cold bed. But what is your experience
01:56:35.360
with that? And how do you manage it through the process?
01:56:37.400
Well, let's first take cold plunge before bed off the table. That's not a good idea because we know
01:56:41.860
that when you get in the cold plunge, it's immediately cold on your skin. But then once
01:56:45.120
you get out, your body is busy warming itself back up. And that's not what we want to be doing
01:56:48.520
right before bed. Then I'm going to come to the sauna part by saying that it's another
01:56:52.720
it depends. The outline that you just gave of the temperature gradient is beautiful. It makes a lot
01:56:56.800
of sense. For people who are naive to sauna, who get in a sauna and it increases their heart rate,
01:57:02.180
increasing your heart before bed. It might be the same problem as the exercise issue.
01:57:04.880
It might be the same problem as the exercise. Yeah, yeah, yeah. If they don't have the rapid
01:57:06.400
recovery. They don't have the rapid recovery. So that's something to learn about yourself.
01:57:10.540
And in fairness, I don't actually go straight from sauna to bed. It's usually sauna to 30 minutes
01:57:15.320
of Netflix to bed. That's going to be person to person. Another thing to keep in mind is that some
01:57:19.860
people who will go in the sauna at night then drink a whole bunch of water afterwards. Yes.
01:57:25.000
And then that ends up causing them to wake up more in the middle of the night. So it defeats the
01:57:28.560
purpose. That's a consideration also if that's an issue for you. But I would say just don't make it
01:57:34.220
too strenuous. Some people find that it's really helpful. I do best with it a few hours before bed
01:57:40.180
as opposed to right before bed. I think it's going to be a do what works situation because we don't have
01:57:45.900
enough data. But we are. I just started an NIH funded trial where we are looking at people who have
01:57:52.720
difficulty with falling asleep. And we are giving them whole body heating at home before bed. And
01:57:58.640
we're giving them cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia through an app. And we're going to have
01:58:03.640
them do this whole home-based treatment that's going to combine a body-based heat treatment for
01:58:07.880
before bed with the CBTI treatment. And the idea here is what you explained, which is that by heating
01:58:14.120
you up right before bed, if we're heating up your hands and your feet, we're helping you actually
01:58:18.520
open the vasculature and dump some heat. It's going to create that gradient. And we think that
01:58:23.540
gradient might be important for people with the early kind of insomnia with falling asleep at the
01:58:27.120
start of the night. So we're going to see if that helps people using a sauna blanket type thing.
01:58:32.600
Ashley, someone listening to us for the last two and a half hours might assume that the only thing
01:58:36.740
you know about is CBTI. But it turns out that we've only scratched the surface of your area of
01:58:42.040
expertise. And there are other clinical areas that you have a lot of interest in that I think our
01:58:47.400
listeners would have interest in as well. The good news is we've, when I say we, I mean you,
01:58:52.700
you've delivered kind of a masterclass on a topic that I've wanted to know much more about. You know,
01:58:56.860
it's interesting. It's a bit of a black box because we send a number of our patients to CBTI therapy
01:59:01.900
around the country. And I would concur with what you said, which is based on their ability to comply,
01:59:09.640
the efficacy has been unparalleled, simply stated. As far as regular old doctors, I think we're
01:59:16.780
pretty good at helping people with sleep, given the nature of our practice and how much attention
01:59:21.100
we can pay. And therefore, I think by ourselves, we do pretty well. But when we can't, and we refer
01:59:27.180
to CBTI, I would have to think if there's been a patient who hasn't been helped. So that's great.
01:59:32.960
But truthfully, you've filled in all the gaps for me. And I think more importantly, I think you've
01:59:37.680
really helped listeners understand this. And I hope given people a lot of confidence,
01:59:43.320
because what I also take away from this is, there's really nobody who should be suffering
01:59:47.740
from insomnia. It's really not a necessary thing to suffer. There's things we might have to suffer
01:59:51.620
within life, but this isn't one. I think from very large percentage of the population, that's the
01:59:56.340
case. I'm afraid to say never, because you just never know. But there are so many, so many people,
02:00:01.840
countless, suffering from this who definitely don't need to be. The drawback is, we have kind of
02:00:08.060
run out of time to talk about a few other things that are really interesting, which is not uncommon
02:00:13.000
on this podcast, which means we're going to have to do a part two at some point to talk about eating
02:00:18.900
behaviors, thermal regulation, the impact that that has on depression or other things like that.
02:00:24.480
So apologies that maybe we spent more time on CBTI than we intended to. But as I kind of warned you
02:00:32.180
before we started, we love to just meander where the discussion goes. So is there anything else you
02:00:37.880
want to talk about on the CBTI front? I have a lot of notes on where I wanted to go, but I also
02:00:43.620
realized there's probably something I've forgotten, or there's an area you want to double click on?
02:00:48.420
No, I think it's important for people just to remember with this one that even if you don't
02:00:54.240
know what caused your insomnia, you can do this treatment. You don't have to have figured out,
02:01:00.680
oh, this is where it started, or this was the root of it all. You can start this treatment without
02:01:05.760
that knowledge, because this treatment is going to address what you're doing now that's actually
02:01:10.080
perpetuating the problem. And don't wait. There's never going to feel like a good time to do it.
02:01:16.000
Now is the best time. Your life is always going to be crazy. You're always going to have 50 more
02:01:21.180
things on the schedule than you wish you did. It's always going to be too busy. You're always
02:01:24.840
going to have events. Just do it now, because it's so difficult to live with insomnia and all of the
02:01:31.780
problems that it causes. I had this patient who was 87, who I finished treatment with last year,
02:01:37.660
and she just said, my, I wish I'd done this 40 years ago. Don't wait. Just do it. You won't regret
02:01:44.060
it. Are you under the impression that obviously people are waiting a long time to see you? That
02:01:49.700
probably speaks to how good you are and the resources that UCSF provides maybe in combination.
02:01:56.540
But if a person's listening to this and they're like, yeah, I wish I could work with Ashley,
02:02:00.940
but I just want to work with somebody. Do you have a sense of how large the CBTI community is
02:02:06.320
and how long a person should expect to wait? And do these therapists ever work via telemedicine
02:02:11.920
so that you have more opportunity to work with folks? I think that it is easier now to get than
02:02:18.000
ever, largely because of telemedicine. So I see patients all over California. I'm licensed in
02:02:22.900
California. Oh, so your eight people per bracket don't all physically come to San Francisco?
02:02:28.080
Nobody does. Great. I only see patients on Zoom now, which is actually a whole lot safer
02:02:33.120
because patients used to drive in, for example, from Fresno, they'd stay overnight in a hotel
02:02:36.720
in San Francisco. Yeah, they would just screw up the whole thing.
02:02:38.280
Screw up everything. Patients would have to fly in in some cases. It was nuts. But now I just see
02:02:43.140
people on Zoom, which is great. And there's a lot of versions of me who do that. By going to that
02:02:47.380
website, you'll be able to find a CBTI provider. And chances are they do telemedicine.
02:02:52.640
And there are just so many benefits. And one of the great pieces of news about that is that if
02:02:57.000
you live somewhere more rural now, it is instantly more accessible to you.
02:03:01.740
Although we have to hope that the providers, if you live in Iowa, we want to make sure they have
02:03:05.760
license in Iowa because you wouldn't be able to see somebody.
02:03:08.120
Right. They'll be licensed in Iowa. And there's also actually a growing and great thing called
02:03:14.060
PSYPACT, where I think 40 different states now are members of PSYPACT, where if you're licensed in
02:03:20.900
one state, you can be licensed in all of these states. Of course, California does not participate
02:03:24.220
because we're California. But it's getting easier and easier. And I do think that there's ways you
02:03:31.620
can start to do this on your own. If you get that book, if you try an app, you can actually do this.
02:03:36.800
You just have to remember that as special as each human is, you need to try and not feel like a
02:03:42.720
delicate flower with your insomnia. Just assume that you need to do this as it says you need to do it.
02:03:48.080
Well, Ashley, this was awesome. I learned a lot and I'm pretty sure everybody listening did. So
02:03:52.460
thanks for sharing and look forward to round two at some point next year.
02:03:57.800
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