00:05:31.800And the idea that today, in the 2020s, in the West, in places like the United States and Great Britain, that lots and lots of people, particularly young men, but anyone really, that sense of loneliness, isolation, the atomization of society, even family units.
00:05:51.400yeah and uh whether that whether in the marxist view or not that's going to think to do with
00:05:56.480capitalism is something else but it's something that ever since i think since the industrial
00:05:59.960revolution i think for a good couple hundred years now or more that's just increasing and
00:06:05.220if anything if anything i feel like even with the internet it's still increasing still quickening
00:06:11.040going ever faster if anything so some people would say in part because of the internet quite
00:06:15.020possibly yeah yeah you think you've got lots and lots of online friends but actually physically
00:06:19.760you're sitting in a room on your own for most of your life right um and so that then and so that
00:06:24.940i feel that there is a market for for some sort of real life brotherhood yeah whether you want
00:06:34.840to call them mutual aid societies that's quite a 19th century early 20th century way of phrasing
00:06:39.200it but something something yeah yeah um right so so i'm i i'm going to use some language i learned
00:06:45.640for my wife who's a therapist okay so psychological language for a moment okay but it just really has
00:06:51.040do with how humans function as mammals we need bonds we're a pack animal yes we we need connection
00:06:58.300with other humans um yeah you you might know that it's considered a form of torture and it's
00:07:03.740supposedly not allowed that people do it anyway to have someone in solitary confinement for long
00:07:09.340periods of time because you just can start going loopy without connection other people most people
00:07:13.860Yeah, and then there's the failure to thrive thing that happened.
00:07:19.400I think it was after World War II, a lot of orphaned babies, very few care workers to take care of them.
00:07:25.820They're feeding them, they're changing their diaper, and they're dying.
00:07:28.660And they're like, what in the world is going on?
00:07:30.360Finally, they asked some volunteers to come in and just hold the babies, and they stopped dying.
00:07:36.740Because we need connection, we need bonds.
00:07:39.560And what you're talking about is a very frightening development.
00:07:42.580My wife and I are very concerned about the lack of family formation, namely people getting married or coupling.
00:07:49.000I don't care if it's a state-ordained marriage.
00:07:51.040The point is coming together, having kids, building a family.
00:18:43.440And it's something that somehow, whether the welfare state's a massive part of it or not, I imagine it is, but somehow in the Anglosphere, in the West, over the last century or more, we've lost that.
00:18:57.020A lot of people in the West these days have got an out-grouped preference, if anything.
00:19:01.840What a perverse thing that is to discover.
00:19:05.120Yeah. And so we're having to, this is kind of an awkward phrase, reinvent social technology or rediscover social technology. How did we have high trust societies in the past? How were we able to do the things we were able to do and cooperate in the way we were able to cooperate? Because now it seems very difficult to just be able to trust other people enough to make long term commitments. Right? You've got to have trust to have a long term commitment.
00:19:32.480I had a conversation with Professor Ed Dutton not too long ago
00:19:57.720And there's many, many, many, many examples of that1.00
00:20:00.620But it seems that like the Anglosphere, something like that, so we've lost something, lost somewhere along the way, somehow lost that sort of that trust.1.00
00:20:11.220I would sound slightly conspiratorial and say it's actually been attacked.1.00
00:21:15.740I say what's stopping us, much less stopping us in the United States.
00:21:20.100in britain we do have or in europe certainly in britain we do have like equality legislation where
00:21:25.140if you said i want to form a society a group well however you want a brotherhood a formal
00:21:31.380organization where people and there's money involved people are paying into it um and it's
00:21:36.760gonna be only englishmen only englishmen from southwest and they must be white and they must
00:21:43.400be protestant let's just say that just random set of things sure sure you know you're not allowed0.89
00:21:47.700to that you have to you have to let women and people of color into it you have to otherwise0.97
00:21:52.420it's illegal the police will come around and knock on your door and say you're not allowed to do this0.98
00:21:56.960maybe now i'm not a lawyer don't take my advice i kind of thought that was true in the united states
00:22:02.480because we have a lot of the similar kind of legislation along those lines right
00:22:06.040but actually it's not okay it depends on what you're doing if you're running a for-profit
00:22:11.540business yeah you can run into that okay but non-profits actually can have a lot of
00:22:16.680a lot of latitude so there might be more latitude than you'd guess okay maybe we should look into
00:22:21.500that yeah that's the point of me bringing it up just while we're on exploring this vein maybe it's
00:22:29.040the moment to just mention um the the basket weavers yes and there's something like that so
00:22:33.460you've you're aware i asked you this morning if you're aware of them and you said of course i am
00:22:36.860yeah yeah well i was i was doing it right so what was your experience with that and how did you
00:22:41.940Yeah, well, this was Academic Agent's suggestion originally. He said, you know, we can't just be online all the time. There's something missing. We need to meet together in real life. And he says, I don't care what you do. Just get together. Weave baskets. So jokingly, they called it the basket weavers, right?
00:22:59.700now what do basket weavers do in practice in a local area they get
00:23:04.820together and they go on a hike or whatever kind of the local and this is
00:23:09.660the true of our chapters in the OGC as well it's really up to the local area
00:23:15.760the members in the local area kind of to decide what they want to make of it is
00:23:19.200this going to be kind of a regular game night that we get together and do board
00:23:22.180games or just have a drink or are we just going to have a pint together
00:23:26.220different people do different things or do a variety of things depending on
00:23:29.680what they feel like that's that's fine right the point is you're meeting together in real life
00:23:35.140you're having the opportunity to form bonds trust loyalty and that means that when something comes
00:23:43.280along that you didn't expect you can think of somebody to call that you don't feel awkward
00:23:47.520about calling right of course it's okay to call these people they know me yeah right right yeah
00:23:53.460and and they'll they'll help me out with whatever this is there's no substitute for that yeah i
00:23:58.640I mean, I've always been, I guess I've always been lucky where I've never found myself in a place in my life where I was truly isolated.