The Podcast of the Lotus Eaters #1302
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Summary
In this episode, I'm joined by Stelius Ferris and Robertson to talk about the government's new plan to experiment on children to see if blocking their puberty is actually a good idea. We also discuss Elon's big reveal, and how stay-at-home mums are doing a disservice to their children.
Transcript
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I'm joined by Stelius Ferris and Joseph Robertson, political strategist, and we are going to be talking about how the British government has decided, actually, they do need to experiment on children.
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We are also going to talk about how Elon's big reveal has been illuminating, and then we're going to chew out some stay-at-home mums, because they don't work hard, they don't do anything, and really, you know, we shouldn't consider it a job at all, or so I've been told.
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Anyway, without further ado, let's get on with it.
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So West Reading has come out and decided that there is such a thing as children with gender incongruence, it does, you know, and decided that affirmation should be an option here, and that really what's required is more evidence to look at whether or not blocking the puberty of children can, in fact, be good for them.
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So he's allocated around £11 million for this study, and it's going to be done by King's College in London, by two scientists, but I use the term hesitantly, Michael Absoud and Emily Simonov.
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And they are going to be looking at whether or not blocking the puberty of kids is, in fact, a good idea.
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Now, the target of this experiment is, by definition, underage children.
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It can only, the study can only be done by experimenting, literally, on children, and injecting them with enormously destructive drugs that intentionally block their puberty.
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And I think transgender trend here had a very, very good article about it that I really encourage you to read.
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And they say that essentially what they argue correctly is that what has happened previously was that the gender identity service at the Tavistock Clinic had done all kinds of studies, and they refused to release their own data.
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So we've also learned that follow-up data on outcomes for children have been through Tavistock GIDS, which the Adult Transgender Identity Clinic refused to share, was never released to the CAS review research team.
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The CAS review research team did a big study on these puberty blockers and said that there was no evidence that they were beneficial.
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But the study was done by people who really wanted this kind of thing to continue.
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It's just that they could find absolutely no evidence for it.
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And so they had to say that, look, unbalanced, the evidence is that this is harmful.
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So there is data there to be looked at because they experimented with around 2,000 children who were prescribed puberty blockers.
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These children are out there, and if you wanted to do research on this topic, you would just have to track what has happened to them over the long term.
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Rather than do that, they decided to launch a new experiment on 200 children to study the long-term effects of these puberty blockers.
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So no actual science is going to come out of this.
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No actual beneficial research is going to come out of this.
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There is no way that this can be beneficial to children.
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And we've known this for some time, and we've run this experiment for some time.
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But even as this experiment was run, there was a study that was funded by Fering Pharmaceuticals.
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This is an excellent post here from Connor Tomlinson, by the way.
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There was a study funded by Fering Pharmaceuticals that produces a puberty blocker.
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So you can see immediately the conflict of interest there.
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That followed 70 children that were prescribed first puberty blockers and then cross-sex hormones.
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That is intended to sort of change the appearance of children so that they appear to be of the opposite sex.
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They just kept on prescribing cross-sex hormones after blocking puberty.
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And so all of them went on to take cross-sex hormones, which is sort of what you're supposed to be studying.
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So that's a huge number that makes the study completely invalid.
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And one of the children died because of the medical procedures that he was undergoing while they were trying to place a vagina on the body of a boy.
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This means that if they study 200 children, you're looking at three children dying on average.
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And we know that this is destructive without the need for any further research.
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There is no objective reason to study this any further.
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It's definitionally destructive and it's proven destructive.
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What we must do instead is to try to analyze the causes of this and to understand what is animating these people.
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This is West Streeting, the health secretary who's authorized this, as I mentioned earlier.
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And he says that the ban of puberty blockers was necessary because of the evidence and that he was highly constrained.
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He could do nothing about it to sort of keep this experiment going, even though he wanted to.
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So the question that arises really is why is he uncomfortable with this?
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Why is he uncomfortable with the idea that there is a natural order that says that boys are boys and girls are girls and they have different roles?
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Because fundamentally, let's go through a couple of others here before we get there, because I want to explore a little bit of the tension and the ideology.
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He is a entertainer on X who says that he's a nurse.
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But this is the tension at the heart of this ideology.
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He claims that being gay isn't the choice, even though the largest genetic study on homosexual individuals found that it is not defined by genetics, that there is no genetic reason why somebody would be gay.
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And then he extends that and says that being trans isn't the choice, being disabled isn't the choice.
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Well, if you mutilate your own body and end up disabled as a result, there is a question mark there.
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He completely misunderstands the meaning of love your neighbor.
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I like the way that all he can do now is invoke Christian morality, though.
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And this is Dr. Helen Weberley, more like, anyway.
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And I want you to listen to her for a couple of seconds, and then we can pick her message apart a little bit.
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To boil it down to biology, essentially, gametes or other physical manifestations of your sex, is very mathematical.
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What she's invoking here is that there is a spiritual dimension, that there is an inherent self that needs to be expressed.
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So, in a real sense, she's conflating the soul with sexual identity.
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Instead of it being eternal, created by God, touched by the Holy Spirit, a part of the Holy Spirit within all of us, really, it's a question of sexuality.
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But then, when you listen to her further, it becomes also clear that she believes it's a choice.
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So, there is this tension in the transgender ideology between this being innate and this being a choice.
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On the innate side, as I said, this is a very corrupted expression of what a soul is.
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This is a sexualized expression of what a soul is.
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Because what these people are saying is that you should be free enough from all constraints and all of nature and all of hierarchy.
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So that if there is a baby that you don't want, you can kill it.
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And if there is a relationship that is unnatural, you should be free to pursue it anyway, because you want to.
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And if there is a different sex that you want to pretend to be, you should also be allowed to do that.
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So, in a very real sense, and I know Brother Stelios is going to disagree with me here,
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this is the spirit of liberalism, that we should bring down some hierarchies, that everything is a matter of consent and choice,
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The debate, I think, is whether or not a natural conclusion or an extreme.
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And that people should be completely free of anything that constrains them.
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And that if you try to tie them down to reality and say to them, no, no, you can't actually be a man if you're born with a vagina,
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And you even see that expressed in the kinds of court judgments that we've seen coming out in Britain in the past.
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So, Kira Bell, who sued the Tavistock Clinic in 2020 because she was given puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones as a teenager,
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But in her case, the high court had ruled that under-16s were unlikely to be able to give informed consent.
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And then the court of appeal ruled that, no, doctors can judge whether or not young people can give consent.
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And consent here is the operative word because neither court looked at truth or reality or what is verifiable.
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Both the high court and the court of appeal based their decision on whether or not this was consent freely given
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and therefore whether or not it was right for the children to pursue this path if they wanted to.
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which really sort of, again, it's the very spirit of liberalism taken to an extreme,
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the idea being that you shouldn't be constrained by what is above,
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be it divine authority or political authority or social hierarchy.
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They're actually thinking of material universe.
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You'll notice that everything for them is about determinism.
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The very nature of this is to suggest that actually the human body is somehow a fundamentally oppressive instrument.
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Because deterministically you are born with one of two gametes and you will become a man or a woman.
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She was saying this is fundamentally a form of oppression.
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I do agree, though, that it is the spirit of liberalism taken to a ridiculous extreme where it's obviously inappropriate.
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I want to give a different explanation because I think it accounts for some of the things that aren't particularly discussed in this,
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but are hidden in plain sight, is that the explanation is power politics.
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The people you mentioned, Harry Eccles, all these leftists, West Street-ing, they're not saying that, they're not against banning.
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They want to ban free speech and brandy hate speech if you're criticizing their agenda.
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So they're not having any kind of anarchist or extreme libertarian zero banning account.
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They are allying right now with the trans lobby and with other people who think that they have the back of the trans lobby
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and they want to be seen as having the back of the trans lobby.
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So to me, this is power politics, West Street-ing, Harry Eccles, that lady you showed.
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They're trying to protect their own, their political friends.
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Friends, and all this is just a giant pyramid of BS that they are using in order to hide the fact that they're doing power politics.
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I don't see this, but let me give you another surprise here.
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I don't think that there is any kind of particular thinking in it,
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but what I will give you is that frequently the language of rights can be abused in the same way that the language of common good can be abused,
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which is one of the arguments that lots of libertarians are giving.
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They're saying the common good, we shouldn't talk about the common good because it can go totalitarian, only rights.
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And I think what you're showing here is definitely a case of that.
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The first point is that pretty much every major organization from NATO to the British government to most European governments to the WHO to the UN
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all believe in affirming transgender identity, the WEF, etc.
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If I can make somebody say that a man is a woman, I can pretty much make them say anything.
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And there is also the usefulness of this madness as a loyalty test.
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If you're a middle manager and you want to signal to the company that you will do exactly whatever they want,
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all you have to say is that no trans women are real women.
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Because HR told me five minutes ago and now all of reality has changed.
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And there is this element of the language of rights gone mad.
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You know, the right to deny reality, the right to deny biology.
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But there is the question of where is this impulse coming from?
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Because I think a lot of this conversation is being framed as one ideology or another.
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The reality is what we're really talking about is a different framework.
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Because liberalism or any other ideology operates behind a framework.
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The framework in, let's call it the Western Hemisphere, for a long, long time has either been a Christian paradigm
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or a neoliberitarian kind of Darwinistic approach to life.
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Both are the two kind of fundamental approaches to life, in this country at least.
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And now we're looking at a third framework that doesn't fit either of those two narratives.
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So baseline talking about libertarianism or anything else doesn't really work here
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because you're not actually fundamentally operating in the same framework anymore.
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And so what we've really got to be talking about is what is the deeper framework that they're trying to impose
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as opposed to a particular ideological kind of position.
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And that's when you start talking about, well, what is their ultimate end?
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And it's not necessarily any of the things we're discussing.
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It's not communism in a pure form, although I'd say it's closer to communism than anything else.
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It's a completely new way of looking at the world.
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And that is what we've got to get to the core of.
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This is where we take ourselves out of ideology and actually replace us with something new.
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So the only thing I disagree with there is that we're taking ourselves out of ideology.
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So it's a new, that's my point, it's a wider framework that we're looking at.
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But basically the objective is liberation from the biology.
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So on your point, Stelios, I agree that that is a layer of it.
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But if we can go back to West Streeting very quickly, I think that the reason that it unsettles
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him is because he has a moral argument that underpins it, right?
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And he's actually, and I think they're all like this.
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Like, I don't think there's a difference between West Streeting and the trans lobby.
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Because all it takes to become part of it is to have a moral commitment to it.
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And so he is as much a part of it as anyone else on that side, as the doctor that you showed
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And I think they are genuinely morally motivated in the ways that they are telling us.
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I don't think that they're concealing any, you know, alternative or hidden motivations
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I think they're being completely frank with us that they feel that these people are trapped
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in the wrong bodies with all of the insane metaphysical commitments that they can't
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possibly articulate that come along with that, as in, where was the person before they
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And I think this, to them, is a truly moral mission in the same way that abolishing the
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slave trade was back in the 1900s or the 1800s, sorry, 19th century.
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And I think you are correct that this is the spirit of liberalism that is taking us into
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this new framework, this new paradigm into a place where we've not been before because
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it was never appropriate to apply this spirit in this realm.
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So I think this is something they will never stop.
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And I think that's what explains, if we can go through Wes's little tirade here, because
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So he says, children with gender incongruence deserve safe, compassionate, effective care,
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that health care must always be led by evidence.
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So again, he's already taught past the sale here, right?
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Because the question is not, is there evidence that we can change a child's sex?
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Because, I mean, let's assume that technology will allow us to literally, at the molecular
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level at some point in future, just put a kid in like a Star Trek style transporter,
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teleport them to this other thing and just rearrange all their genes as we like.
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Okay, even if we've got the technology to do it, should we do that?
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We just need to know that the technology is sufficient.
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There isn't enough evidence that puberty blockers are safe or beneficial for children
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Well, we assume that children can have gender incongruence, but obviously the medicine itself
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is not safe or beneficial for them because it is interceding in a perfectly healthy natural
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process to create an unhealthy, unnatural result.
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And so Dr. Cass recommended a ban on prescribing them and a clinical trial to build that evidence.
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So Dr. Cass has said, right, what I want to do, as you pointed out before we started,
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she wants to do this, but can't bring herself to say it because the scientific evidence isn't there.
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So I have to, I am forced to say for utilitarian reasons, not moral reasons, that we have to stop
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But then I want to start experimenting on children, more children, in order to try and build a case
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for my presupposed ideological position, which is mad.
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I mean, it sort of brings Mengele to mind, doesn't it?
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I was going to say that, but I didn't want to go that far because it sounds a bit gorsh.
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I mean, look, if you're going to experiment on people for the sake of a characteristic,
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which obviously the Nazis were genuinely looking for reasons to make Jewish people
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We're basically now looking for reasons to make children something different.
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In fact, it's worse because I don't think Mengele started out experimenting on children.
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He did eventually, but, you know, it took him a while.
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These guys are going straight in at the deep end.
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But it is genuinely monstrous what they're proposing, and we're streeting, was he the
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And he's in government, and he's just publicly saying, we're about to start experimenting
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on children because we have a series of insane beliefs about the world, and we're going to
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I mean, that story that Conor said about the guy dying on the table, having his genitals
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This is not the stuff of government-style stuff.
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And the question about, oh, well, they think the doctors can tell whether the children can
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That's the purpose of the study, is to gather this information.
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So you can't possibly, nobody can give informed consent for this, because the knowledge simply
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And even if the knowledge was present, this is a deeply immoral thing to do anyway.
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And so when he follows on and says, we extended the ban on prescribing them, we're now setting
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up clinical trials to build the evidence base we need to support vulnerable children
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It's like, well, it seems like you're taking advantage of vulnerable children.
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And why are their parents consenting to this at all?
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They're constantly told that if they don't agree, their children will commit suicide.
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And that they would be absolutely horrendous people.
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And then the nature of the study means that only parents who are willing to consider this
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as a possibility will allow their children to participate.
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And there are no safeguards on whether or not these children have had any other psychological
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So it's very much, as you say, they're assuming already that the better outcome would be liberation
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That the desired outcome would be for material reality not to constrain individuals in this
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way and for people to be able to choose which gender they want to be.
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Now they want to try to plant uteruses in men to see if they can get men pregnant.
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So there's no way of stopping this ideology except by going back to the basics.
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But can I point out that IVF, much as we can contend the morality of it, is what has led
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Because you begin experimenting outside of the womb in a lot of cases.
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And then you are basically just using toys to play around with by the end of it.
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And to go back to your point on parents, this is the same generation that forces their
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kids to sit in front of a TV rather than taking care of them.
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So again, we're just in this disassociative mindset.
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This Operation Seahorse, like they try to make men...
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The seahorses make sense because male seahorses actually do just...
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And there is no breaking mechanism on this, except by going back to the basics about hierarchy
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being good and natural, about the roles of men and women being fundamentally different,
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about the sinfulness of all sexual relations outside of marriage, about the purpose of sex,
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and to have a lot less tolerance for deviant sexual behavior of all kinds that we've now learned to tolerate.
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We can't have a situation where we say men can get married and that the roles of women
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and the roles of men in society are the same without this being turned on its head.
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And us being told, well, if the roles are the same, then somebody who chooses to play the role of a woman
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is in fact a woman, which is what we're being told here.
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So there is a non-Catholic interpretation that is slightly more moderate,
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which is that the material realm is deterministic in some ways.
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For example, it is determined from your point of birth that you will become a man or a woman.
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And that, in fact, unchosen impositions that the universe puts upon you
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are actually not themselves bad or oppressive or wrong.
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And these are the normal things you need to live within.
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We don't have to necessarily adopt the metaphysical positions of a staunch Catholic on that.
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Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't or anything like that.
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Without getting into that argument for the sake of time, if nothing else.
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From a much more moderate perspective, I think that the average person can see the reality in front of their faces,
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which is, actually, there is a lot in the life that is unchosen, but that still is good and valuable.
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And this insane extremist experiment to try and overthrow the nature of reality's dominion over us
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is not only doomed to fail, but it's going to create thousands of victims,
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many of whom will die, and their lives will be unrecoverable afterwards, even if they don't.
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If you say that it is an imposed reality that is good, that a child-born male will grow up to be a man,
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you can then say, be a man and behave like a man.
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But the point is, the extremist liberals here would see this as deterministic and non-consensual
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and say, well, this deeply troubles me that this is the case.
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And so it's worth pointing out that most people are not in this camp and are sane.
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Even if they're not particularly religious, they still have a commonsensical view of the world.
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Who hold absolutely extreme views that people just don't agree with.
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Anyway, we've got loads of super chats on this subject, as you can imagine.
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JM says, the moral paradigm that prioritizes harm reduction is the top concern.
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Mill, Bentham, et cetera, logically leads to extinction.
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Each additional human life will result in some degree of harm.
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Well, again, you can take anything to a logical conclusion that is extreme.
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I mean, I'm against utilitarianism for lots of reasons, but the point of extremity on it isn't really it.
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The thing is, they can't really just call themselves materialists because their own philosophy does presuppose the kind of existence of something they would have to call a soul.
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In fact, the very separation of the brain from the body is a thing that really we should be interrogating them on.
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If you are the liberal you claim you are, I mean, I am a materialist, right?
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So I'm under the impression that my consciousness is a phenomenon of my brain, right?
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And so there's no separation between brain and body, mind and body.
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The mind is actually a product of the body, in my opinion, because I'm a materialist.
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If they're not, they need to explain themselves on that.
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I mean, the overwhelming amount of materialists do not agree with gender ideology.
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Yeah, there's a second point, though, which, you know, Firas, your position earlier was taking something to its logical other extreme.
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But I think the reality is the reason why extremes are coming out of this is because there's so much confusion in the middle.
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Like, the marriage argument, as an example, I have no opposition to people doing what they want to do in their own houses, in their own time.
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If you want to be in a gay relationship, so be it.
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But the word marriage fundamentally comes from the root of motherhood.
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It's nothing to do with the relationship between two people.
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And so if we get back to definitions, all of this stuff starts to fall apart.
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That's actually a really important point as well.
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The very purpose is about the children, actually, not the two people.
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So a non-procreative marriage is basically a vanity project.
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And, you know, like, if you've got a man and a woman that get married expecting to have children and actually one of them is infertile, well, that's unfortunate.
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They still get married to that purpose, though.
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But that's obviously not the case in same-sex couplings.
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They believe that we make up reality in our minds.
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The madness will not end up anytime soon because the damage has already been done over decades.
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If they reverse course, it's an admission of fault or guilt.
00:32:41.500
And also, you're absolutely correct, but they just don't believe it.
00:32:44.660
They just don't believe that they're doing wrong.
00:32:49.700
Yeah, they genuinely think they're liberating people from the oppressive shackles of reality.
00:32:55.320
This experiment is just evil, which is completely correct.
00:32:59.180
These people are sick freaks that need to cancel to normalcy.
00:33:10.620
That they have co-opted and redefined the language of sex and gender gives them power.
00:33:13.980
Otherwise, we would just call it what it is, medical experimentation and mutilation.
00:33:20.320
Anyway, on that dour note, let's go to a slightly more exciting subject.
00:33:26.400
When I say exciting, a slightly more entertaining subject, which is Elon Musk's big reveal.
00:33:34.300
I think we should start the segment after we have.
00:33:39.420
We're going to talk about Elon Musk's big reveal.
00:33:42.960
I think a good relationship is founded on sincerity.
00:33:46.960
And this is what the mainstream media have done.
00:33:56.200
And now we have alternative media and new media.
00:33:59.440
And we constantly try to find better sources of information.
00:34:09.240
And talk to you about what it is that is going on in the world.
00:34:13.080
And one of the good things is that on X, we had a series of revelations of the origins of particular accounts.
00:34:23.020
And I want to get out with the political dimension of it really quickly and move on to the fun stuff.
00:34:29.340
And say that it is absolutely certain that there are psyopsis on X.
00:34:36.360
Lots of critics of liberal democracies are saying that other regimes are planning for decades ahead.
00:34:46.240
This means that they aren't going to leave X unturned.
00:34:54.380
They're going to infiltrate all sorts of media.
00:34:56.680
So people should be very mindful of who they're listening to.
00:35:00.220
I mean, Elon Musk had to fight with armies of Chinese bot farms when he first took over Twitter, right?
00:35:04.980
Yeah, but it ended up, right now, as I'll show you in a meme, it wasn't so much Russia and China.
00:35:14.820
Okay, so up till now, we had very few revelations.
00:35:23.800
This is one of those accounts that is, I mean, complete shit posting.
00:35:30.660
For the word, but it's so good at it that you can't tell him to stop.
00:35:35.040
It's like telling Einstein to stop doing physics.
00:35:38.840
So we had this kind of revelation, but now we have endless revelations.
00:35:44.300
So go out on X and look at the origin of accounts.
00:36:02.480
Right, so this is a meme with Homer Simpson in a bar, realizing that people around me are not like me.
00:36:13.780
And this is the most representative one, although not a particularly big account.
00:36:21.040
It says American, at American, very aggressive eagle here, the U.S. flag before, based in South Asia, connected by South Asia App Store.
00:36:32.520
See, it's the connecting via the App Store that really matters, right?
00:36:36.980
Exactly, you've got VPNs, or you could be traveling, right?
00:36:39.620
But even when you're traveling, I'm still going on the U.K. App Store, because that's what my phone is configured to.
00:36:46.200
So you've got the dual way of checking and confirming there.
00:36:53.440
People right now in VPN companies are having a really good time.
00:37:15.040
Definitely VPN, because the United Kingdom is connected, yeah.
00:37:30.640
Occasionally, it's fun, because also, I love maps.
00:37:33.540
And it says here, countries with the most handsome men, 20, 25.
00:37:38.900
Number one, they have India, two, United States, three, Sweden, Japan, Canada, Brazil, France, Italy, Ukraine, Denmark, etc.
00:37:46.320
But do you have an idea where this account is from?
00:37:53.740
I mean, it can't be used to being a Russian bomb.
00:38:11.860
Now, we come to a distinct category of posting.
00:38:16.360
Frequently, they have really hilarious replies, but I don't know about that.
00:38:21.040
And I think it's people, women saying how hot they are and how much they're searching for a partner.
00:38:34.680
I've got to say, like, they always have, like, two followers and they've, you know.
00:38:58.820
It doesn't have a birth certificate, so that's worrying.
00:39:03.260
We're hating the players and not the game here, right?
00:39:07.320
Like, if you're some guy in Pakistan, you're in some rural village, and you've managed to
00:39:11.140
get a smartphone, and now you have access to the internet, you're like, I'm going to
00:39:14.940
You're going to make unlimited hot women on croc.
00:39:17.840
And there are millions of Indian simps who are going to send me their rupees, right?
00:39:22.120
So, actually, I'm going to make out like a bandit here, and my family are going to buy
00:39:31.760
Account based in Pakistan, connected via Pakistan Android app.
00:39:48.280
We had also proud Democrat, professional MAGA hunter, Ron Smith.
00:39:53.660
Account based in Kenya, and the account got nuked.
00:39:57.060
So, he had like 50,000, 60,000 followers or something.
00:40:01.040
This is something that I've seen the left-wing media reporting on.
00:40:04.720
Oh, all these MAGA accounts are actually foreign interlopers.
00:40:07.940
Well, yeah, but a load of Democrat ones are too.
00:40:16.060
Is he supporting the Democrats because of Obama?
00:40:40.720
As Carl points out, account based in Hong Kong.
00:40:45.600
Saying that Hong Kong isn't part of Britain, Carl?
00:40:51.460
Also, Jackson Hinkle, who had an audience growth that I don't consider organic.
00:41:02.160
After starting today, a really hot Russian spy, yeah.
00:41:10.720
He went to Yemen to support the Houthi in Yemen.
00:41:14.880
But I can't express to you how insane you have to be to support the Houthi in Yemen.
00:41:31.740
As Carl says here, I didn't even know they had internet there.
00:41:55.660
Again, this is what I mean about hating the players and not the game, right?
00:41:59.480
Because I bet none of these guys are really particularly invested in any of this that's happening.
00:42:12.700
There's a little something that you're missing there.
00:42:15.540
In Lebanon, to my chagrin, fights actually break out every World Cup between the fans of Germany and Brazil.
00:42:29.280
And the Shia support Brazil and the Sunni support Germany.
00:42:35.480
So you see this kind of weirdness in ways that you don't have a mental map of.
00:42:50.720
Here we have Make Europe Great Again, account based in South Asia, connected by South Asia Android app.
00:42:58.980
At least we can all agree with the sentiment, right?
00:43:01.140
Like, you know, from an abstract disinterested observer from South Asia.
00:43:10.500
It's like one post is going to be, Italy has fallen.
00:43:14.740
And then the next post is going to be the Colosseum with the gladiator music saying, remember who we are.
00:43:22.020
Also, what you said before, it's like the relationship we have with gossip and people who gossip.
00:43:26.760
Everyone loves gossip, but they distrust people who gossip.
00:43:33.060
Because they love the game, but not the players.
00:43:53.480
There's a bunch of models who'll be in the trenches with you.
00:44:00.360
Shira Shea Rivka, she said proudly, Israeli and conflict and war.
00:44:05.440
IDF soldier in the account based in Nigeria, connected by Nigeria.
00:44:09.000
Just on foreign deployments, I don't know what you're talking about.
00:44:11.880
The one thing I've never understood is, despite the fact that this is thousands of people,
00:44:16.280
the way they express their account profile, their bio and their messaging is always identical.
00:44:22.760
There's different words, so it's clearly different people.
00:44:24.760
But they have this lexicon that we just don't understand.
00:44:46.100
These people have got nothing bad to do with their day, do they?
00:44:50.220
Torah Judaism, based in Philippines, connected via web.
00:44:55.920
I'm sure there's a Jewish diaspora in the Philippines.
00:45:01.840
There was this meme, Chinese and Russian bots poking the US.
00:45:07.360
Another declaration of memes says, turns out it was actually Bangladesh and Nigeria.
00:45:14.700
You know, I think I know why they have that particular lexicon, right?
00:45:19.460
And I think it is due to not being native speakers of the language and not being native
00:45:23.760
livers of the political lives that we are, right?
00:45:26.940
If you, like, if I were to, like, do something in French, I wouldn't be able to innovate on
00:45:40.780
Even with the advent of AI, where they could just say, how would a sexy European lady talk?
00:45:52.600
So they say here, this America First account based in Bangladesh, but do check where they're
00:46:03.740
So war hamster here, based in United Arab Emirates.
00:46:09.720
They say that they purport to be from the US, but their account is based in the UAE.
00:46:15.240
In fairness, there's a lot of Americans in the UAE.
00:46:25.020
If they're stupid enough to use their Emirati number, then, you know, it's a problem.
00:46:34.120
We have Native American culture talking about in the smoke of ancient pipes, our ancestors
00:46:41.340
whispered to the winds from the northern lakes where the eagle soars to the southern rivers
00:47:07.160
So we have this account that was talking constantly about Japan, colonel otaku gatekeeper talking
00:47:17.000
Weebs most affected based in Europe, connected by a European Android app.
00:47:24.440
And now we're moving to, I think, my favorite revelation.
00:47:28.120
We have a conscious philosopher who was saying in the American Civil War, confederates were
00:47:36.760
But what was interesting is that, contrary to others, he accepted it.
00:47:49.520
And here he says, since I've gotten a lot of Serbian followers since telling everyone I'm a Serb for God knows
00:47:56.760
which time I wanted to tell you something in Serbian.
00:48:11.040
I would ask you before you start cursing me, threatening me, if you care about the truth, ask me to clarify whatever is
00:48:16.160
bothering you or unclear to you, because I know that a lot of lies have been circulating about me for years already.
00:48:23.940
We have Gavin Newsom-Groyper, one of the Burberry nationalism defenders.
00:48:39.380
Ivanka Trump News, based in Nigeria, connected by a Nigeria App Store.
00:48:44.480
If it helps, that's probably authentic veneration.
00:48:51.360
And the question remains, where is Inevitable West from?
00:49:04.520
You know, though, have you watched Catch Me If You Can with Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Hanks?
00:49:09.400
It feels like right now, all of the online rights is at the Tom Hanks position.
00:49:18.360
I'd imagine at this level of account, there's probably someone in the UK being asked to log
00:49:44.320
Remember that Kenya has a lot of Indians there, so the guy from Kenya might still be Indian.
00:49:53.780
I can't imagine why everyone that actually wants MAGA torn apart would push Operation Fuentes
00:49:58.420
to unravel everything and get their USAID H-1B grift back.
00:50:14.900
Remember when Jussie Smollet allegedly got battered by Nigerians who shouted,
00:50:26.920
Anyway, let's go on to the final thing that we're going to talk about today.
00:50:34.000
I've decided they have it too easy, their lives are too simple, everything is just too straightforward,
00:50:39.820
and it's not actually a job title, as you can see from the BBC, which we will read from
00:50:45.400
at length because they're determined to make this a thing.
00:50:48.880
Many women returning to the workforce after having children say they face a challenging
00:50:54.700
Professional networking site LinkedIn recently added a new feature allowing parents to use
00:50:58.420
stay-at-home mom or stay-at-home dad as a job title.
00:51:02.600
In January 2020, after more than a decade raising her two young children, Heather Boland was
00:51:09.740
On her resume, it was a master's degree in her record of a successful corporate career
00:51:13.940
at Starbucks, but for the past 11 years, excuse me, she's been a full-time parent,
00:51:22.800
And so this, of course, was a real problem for her.
00:51:26.200
And this 11 years at home has been tough for her to get back into the corporate world
00:51:32.280
after, I assume, her children have matured to an age where she can get a job now.
00:51:42.640
And as she says, this is an implicit bias against women.
00:51:49.980
I've never even heard of these before I found, before I started researching this article.
00:51:53.180
Um, but, uh, they were meeting Anna, a PhD scientist turned stay-at-home mom, from career
00:51:59.400
woman to stay-at-home mom, a position she really does not enjoy, a topic that's often
00:52:09.040
I miss my job terribly, but I love my crazy children and they're constant talking.
00:52:12.660
Yet I am on constant and complete brain overload.
00:52:22.040
Now I get shouted at because I'm not perfect and I never get a thank you from the children.
00:52:25.840
I constantly say the same things every single day, but no one ever listens.
00:52:28.840
And I, I, I, I just, I mean, lately even my husband is doing it.
00:52:38.800
As a scientist by training, I didn't have much of a choice, but I'm finding that since
00:52:42.420
becoming a full-time mom, my time seems to be much more of a warp all day long.
00:52:46.320
I never seem to stop, I never seem to stop still, yet somehow the day goes by and I have
00:52:52.300
And somehow I'm also much more tired than when I did have a full-time job.
00:52:55.480
My husband comes home and wants to chat about his day and I'm like, can we just sit here
00:53:05.400
It's tough being a stay-at-home mom, according to the stay-at-home moms.
00:53:09.000
So I say, let's hear from the stay-at-home dads and see what they think about it because
00:53:14.940
If we can get this to the beginning, just thank you.
00:53:23.120
Because of what I get to do for work, I can still stay home and pay all the bills and
00:53:27.280
my wife will have to go to work to make her money.
00:53:29.940
And I have a one-year-old daughter, so I'll stay at home and I'll take care of my daughter.
00:53:34.820
And while I'm taking care of my one-year-old daughter, I can give her three meals a day,
00:53:40.180
change her on time, get her and do her naps, play time, arts and crafts time, and still
00:53:48.920
And I can clean the whole apartment while watching her before 12 or 1 o'clock.
00:53:54.980
And yes, I know an apartment is different than a home, but I have a 2,300 square foot
00:54:00.260
But I do know that I can just be ignorant to a lot of people's situations.
00:54:03.860
So can someone please tell me when does being a stay-at-home mom become hard?
00:54:10.580
I mean, you can imagine how that went down with stay-at-home moms on the internet.
00:54:17.400
So, obviously, I'm being very sarcastic with this segment because this is obviously...
00:54:25.300
I mean, what I love most about this is this guy being like, I've got a one-year-old daughter
00:54:48.100
I mean, there's this one by a guy that was just brilliant.
00:54:52.720
One just started school and the other is a feral toddler.
00:54:56.940
Update us when you have a kid that can move more and has malice in their heart.
00:55:03.040
It is malice against the tidy house that both of my, well, four and, well, nearly five
00:55:12.280
And, yeah, so I figure what we do is we go back to the beginning and actually go through
00:55:19.000
Because, actually, I do totally agree that stay-at-home parent is a full-time job title.
00:55:25.000
And, actually, especially a stay-at-home mom when you're on your own and your husband's
00:55:30.580
out of work, this is actually not just a sort of domestic duty, but, actually, you gain
00:55:37.620
a suite of skills that you basically don't get in the workplace.
00:55:42.520
Because the workplace is a lot more structured and there are a lot more rules about how you
00:55:48.120
And so, actually, being a stay-at-home mom gives you incredible administrative skills
00:55:54.640
And this is something I've witnessed in my own life with my own wife.
00:55:57.760
If I need something actually done, like, you know, bills sorted out or something like
00:56:05.340
Because I actually don't tend to develop the skills to, you know, interface with all of
00:56:10.080
And my wife just gets these things done like that and I'm like, oh my god.
00:56:12.680
Like, if it wasn't for her, I would be, you know, deep in, I would lose papers, I would
00:56:18.040
lose, you know, if it wasn't for her doing all these things.
00:56:20.400
And then, at the same time, managing my two incredibly rambunctious children, this is
00:56:28.440
And what actually being a stay-at-home mom does is teaches you how to manage an unpredictable
00:56:34.040
environment, which is actually a really useful skill that a lot of people don't develop because
00:56:40.560
And as this other woman here was saying, the workplace was so straightforward.
00:56:47.680
Everyone knew the rules and everyone followed the rules.
00:56:53.280
And it's because actually you're doing something completely different and you're gaining a
00:57:00.480
It's quite difficult when they're very noisy and they're running around the house and doing
00:57:06.840
It's much worse when you notice that it's been 10 minutes of quiet.
00:57:12.000
And that means that there is a disaster that you just haven't discovered yet.
00:57:16.340
So, the hard bit is that the noise can, you know, all of a sudden you hear a very loud
00:57:24.160
bang and you know one of them has fallen and possibly hurt themselves and you have to
00:57:31.120
And then there is, because my son, when he was young, he would stop breathing for a minute
00:57:46.220
Um, but then when they're quiet and then you go and check on them, there's a 10% chance
00:57:56.040
There's a 90% chance that they're doing something that they absolutely should not be doing and
00:58:01.600
Marvelous work of art on the wall with the crayons, for example.
00:58:07.700
Because they, they used to really enjoy playing with the water in the bathroom.
00:58:17.780
And so it's, it's, it's the fact that the silences and the quiet times are just as scary
00:58:24.020
And it's, it's because they, they play with their toys all day, every day.
00:58:26.700
And so the toys, they're noisy, you know, they throw them around, they don't care.
00:58:30.600
But when they've discovered something they shouldn't have access to.
00:58:33.740
Suddenly their entire attention is focused on that thing.
00:58:37.540
And they are artists at discovering the stuff that they really shouldn't be doing.
00:58:56.920
Not only that, there's the stress of it as well.
00:58:59.040
So, um, for example, my two, sometimes they'll just have screaming competitions.
00:59:04.400
Where they're running around and they start screaming.
00:59:06.280
And then the other one's like, oh, I can scream louder than that.
00:59:08.520
And if I walk in the door, I can just see in my wife's face, she's like, can I have some quiet?
00:59:14.320
You know, you can go just sit in the bedroom where it's, there's no screaming children for, for an hour if you want.
00:59:19.640
You know, I'm happy to, you know, I'm happy to deal with them or whatever.
00:59:26.240
Um, and so this, but this, this whole thing, uh, teaches patience, right?
00:59:31.580
It's a, it's a, it's a sort of, and, and I, I love this as well.
00:59:35.220
I get the house done by, by 12 and then it's orderly for the rest of the day.
00:59:38.860
It's like, it is an entire, eternal struggle against chaos.
00:59:47.120
We may not like seeing it sometimes, but they, but many of them are.
00:59:52.660
But it's, the thing is, you don't have children yet, do you?
00:59:58.080
Like it's, it's not just, I've done the house chores.
01:00:02.520
My children are waging jihad against the order of the house, right?
01:00:08.240
Um, for example, uh, if you've got boxes full of toys, they won't take the toy that they
01:00:14.580
That box has to go across the living room so they can pick and choose at their leisure
01:00:18.100
for a few seconds until they're bored of that one and the board of that one.
01:00:21.280
And literally it can be your, you go to the toilet, you come back in and it's a, it's a
01:00:28.820
And you can see why after having cleaned and tidied the entire house, your wife at 11am
01:00:39.400
If she wants to have an orderly house, which everyone does, uh, she has to do it.
01:00:44.580
And so it's one of those things where it's, it is a level of personal control that the
01:00:55.340
And that's why the PhD student who's like, my God, I feel like I can't think straight.
01:00:59.820
I bet you feel that way because that is actually what happens.
01:01:04.620
No matter what it is that you're in the middle of, when there is the emergency, there is
01:01:10.820
And if you don't respond, you could end up with a puddle on the living room floor.
01:01:18.820
My two-year-old has worked out how to poo and take off his nappy at the same time.
01:01:29.960
And, and he's watched me putting clothes into the washing machine.
01:01:37.980
Or, I'm not joking, like, you know, this whole thing is just like, the women are right about
01:01:46.940
Then I kind of agree with the BBC for once, because isn't...
01:01:50.280
Solution is basically just a Hungarian family policy.
01:01:55.760
A tax model that actually incentivizes women to get back to work.
01:01:58.640
Yeah, but the thing is, like, there will come a time where the children are, like, you
01:02:02.860
know, 10, 11, 12, whatever, and you actually don't need to be at home to look after them,
01:02:06.940
They're going to be at school all day, and so the women will want to go back to the
01:02:12.000
And actually, I do completely sympathize with the ladies here, saying, well, I have a master's
01:02:15.740
degree, I've, you know, had a corporate career in Starbucks before I became a mum,
01:02:20.280
and the corporations do act as if being a full-time mum was just her laying around on her
01:02:26.920
laurels, doing nothing, learning nothing, you know, not developing any skills.
01:02:33.400
Like, you are developing a massive level of skills in certain things that you didn't realize
01:02:40.260
There was a phase when the children discovered that it would be really entertaining to empty
01:02:44.720
the dirty laundry basket and spread it all over the stairs.
01:02:48.740
And it took us a while to get them out of that habit, but then you'd sort of tidy up
01:02:54.240
the living room or the kitchen, you're like, okay, I'm done for the day, and you discover
01:02:57.340
that actually they spent the hour before bedtime tossing the laundry out of the laundry
01:03:02.260
basket onto the stairs, and now you're about to go read them a story, and good luck.
01:03:10.440
And this is one thing that I do think the stay-at-home mums deserve a bit of recognition
01:03:15.540
You've got to create some societal gratitude, haven't you?
01:03:18.060
But not just that, because there will come a time where a lot of them will want to go
01:03:21.960
back to work, because the children are now essentially not independent, but, you know.
01:03:26.080
We need to have a stay-at-home mum awareness month.
01:03:30.800
I actually think that would be much better than transgender awareness, whatever.
01:03:33.340
Yeah, at least a world stay-at-home mum day to go up on Google once a year, I think.
01:03:43.100
And so, like, I actually am strongly in favour of stay-at-home mothers getting some respect,
01:03:51.440
But doesn't this fundamentally talk to the fact that we don't value kids as well?
01:03:56.640
Because it's the mothers, but the whole point is, and, you know, you look at it from a purely...
01:04:00.600
You can look at it from a utilitarian perspective.
01:04:05.360
Let's just say they don't have a soul and a brain, according to West Streeting.
01:04:08.380
Then we can basically just look at them as economic units.
01:04:11.780
Well, you need a functional economic unit to be a better workforce.
01:04:18.380
The sort of Jordan Peterson-esque sort of what kind of people do you want to live around?
01:04:22.400
You know, like, children who are raised by their mothers are much more well-adjusted
01:04:26.340
than children who are just shoved into nurseries all day.
01:04:29.060
You know, what kind of people do you want passing in the street?
01:04:37.060
There's an element of it that sort of comes from the fact that social networks between women
01:04:47.260
So basically, if you had your sister living next door as a woman, if you were on constantly
01:04:56.840
good terms with your neighbors because you have similar values and beliefs and you've
01:05:02.680
grown up together, life becomes a lot easier for mothers.
01:05:06.420
So the atomization of society also erodes these kinds of relationships between women that would
01:05:18.920
And you saw that happen to the British working class when the council houses were built.
01:05:23.360
For all of the faults of houses pre-council housing for the working class, the way that
01:05:29.720
these neighborhoods had developed was very organic, meaning that big families lived next to
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They didn't live in the same house, but they lived next to each other.
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So now the real difficulty is that there aren't other women who can sometimes lend a hand.
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You sort of go and hang out with your neighbor.
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The fact that it's that atomized for the women is really difficult.
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Can I add the entire cottagecore online right, just briefly, because this is the whole point.
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They look at 1950s housewifery as kind of the ideal standard, and they think everyone
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There were women raising six children and going out to work on top, with normally the fourth
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And that was all the way up to the middle classes.
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And there are lots of women comparing themselves to these Instagram trad wives who...
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It's like, oh, look, her house is always so tidy.
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She's got nine kids or whatever she wants, she's following.
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And you're looking at our living room full of toys and mess and whatnot.
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There's keeping up appearances, but we're taking that a whole step further.
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And so it was just one of those things where I, like, for example, the woman saying,
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You find yourself not having enough just personal space.
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And with the atomization, women end up missing adult interactions.
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So constantly talking to children is itself daunting because you have to talk at the child's level.
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And that involves just brush your damn teeth already so that we can get moving.
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Do this so that we can, you know, move on to the next phase of the day.
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And children are obviously going to be resistant to being told what to do because that's in their nature.
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But the impact of that is that you spend all of your energy speaking on these conversations rather on anything that is of a deeper personal interest to you.
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And you have to spend a lot of energy on these things.
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And you have to spend a huge amount of energy on these things.
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And so having some avenue for adult interactions is necessary for women's mental health, really.
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But you're in this highly atomized society where you barely have any interactions with your neighbors.
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And female conversation also is what you're talking about.
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But also, how often do they get to make an interaction with another female friend?
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Because, you know, we can come home and talk about tanks at the end of the day.
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It's about, and I've had my wife complain about this.
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She's like, I haven't spoken to an adult all day.
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I just want to have a conversation like I would to any other normal person.
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And you can completely understand that, actually, there is a real issue with the breakdown of society.
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Because, I mean, this is what happened when women en masse entered the workforce.
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Like, yeah, okay, well, there were a series of things that women did outside of the economic zone that was what we consider to be society.
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This is why all of the churches are run by church ladies.
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One of the consequences, they lived in these networks and they had a center of community, which was the church and the parish center next to the church or whatever it is.
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And that provided them with these outlets for adult conversation, adult organization, actual work that kept society together and kept the community together.
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Your neighbors are strangers and they're constantly shifted.
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So the ability to build lifelong friendships and relationships that are just as necessary for women as they are for men is sort of gutted.
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I mean, this is the sort of thing that I – I mean, my dad was in the RF, so we moved around all the time.
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When we went to visit them, like, their neighbor – we'd go to their neighbor's house.
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And so their parents would have some free time while we're, like, playing PlayStation or Nintendo or whatever in their cousin's friend's house, you know.
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Everything was – you know, they were all friends and totally trustworthy.
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They lived next to each other their whole lives.
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But now women are basically finding themselves completely self-alone.
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Like, it's genuinely the sort of rugged individualism has been forced upon stay-at-home mothers.
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And it doesn't suit the women much more than it doesn't suit the men because women are a lot more social.
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I think this is something we've forgotten, right?
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You know, my parish is quite, I would say, forward-thinking, although it's actually looking backwards in what it does.
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These are, you know, at least bi-weekly men's groups, women's groups, you know, parish family days, all that kind of stuff, picnics, whatever it is.
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They don't have to come to every one, but they can connect and they can go away and they might find out they live next door.
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And then they can actually build that network themselves.
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But the problem is we don't have – where are you going to meet?
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They used to, but, like, it's not just that, though, as well.
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It's like with the loss of the sort of the stay-at-home mum community, I guess we could call it.
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It's the unexpected intercessions, right, where, like, oh, little James and his sister are going over to Bonnie's house to, you know, because she's baking a cake and do your kids want to come over for a few hours?
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And, you know, the mother's like, oh, thank God, a couple of hours.
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I can have a bit of peace and quiet for a couple – for an hour or so.
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So, like, these random events that alleviate some of the burden –
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And you've also got to check that the surname isn't Blue because that would be a real problem.
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I was trying to think of an old-fashioned name.
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But the, you know, the point is that there were always these series of unexpected and pleasant surprises that, you know – and then you'd do the same for them.
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You know, it's always like, you know, I'm going to go down the shop.
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There's always a gift and dig because it's a neighbourhood.
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I'm walking down to the local shop, you know, do your kids want to ride their bikes down with my kids?
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And it was always this small, like, lattice of things that are happening.
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And if you could have them play with other children, you could sort of say, well, you know, you get to play in this room and you don't get to go up to the bedrooms.
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Whereas if it's your children on their own, they have free run of the house.
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And so the damage is contained to one room, whereas we're working on the others.
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So this ability to shift burdens by having social networks is absolutely critical.
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There is a practical element as well about knowing who your kids are playing with.
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That's the other issue that now, because I think a lot of parents, particularly conservative parents, get insular because they feel like they're going to be literally going around to Bonnie Blue's house or whoever.
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You know, if you just let your kids play in the street, they're probably going to end up, you know, coming back with Wes Streeting on your case or whatever.
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This is generally one of the problems, is that you don't, because of the diversification of society and the mobility that people demonstrate in society now, like not social mobility, but like physical mobility.
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Well, it's not even, it's not even that you think like that.
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And so it's not that they can just go to that kid's house or their kids can come into your house.
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So the erosion of shared values means that you don't trust your neighbors as much as you could.
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And the source of these shared values was pretty obvious.
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And it was in part homogeneity and familiarity and people growing up next to each other and being able to say, well, he's my childhood friend.
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And this is the point of all of this, is that it is not unreasonable for this PhD woman, you know, scientist, to be like, I am frazzled trying to raise just two children as well.
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I can't seem to, like, find anything solid or secure to stand on.
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And by the end of it, I just want to have an adult conversation and a bit of quiet.
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You know, that is a totally reasonable response to the circumstances that are put in.
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But they shouldn't really be in these circumstances.
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And modern liberal capitalism, as we are in, actively undermines that.
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And having their own networks and their own independence and their own parallel society.
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I actually am against rugged individualism for mums.
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And I think that's what, genuinely, as you say, a proper, like, feminism, like, a womanism,
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would actually be more geared towards making that life easier.
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And that's, I think, what would be more helpful.
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And it involves stable housing situations for people.
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And it involves development, economic development, across the board, not just in London and the southeast.
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When you think this way, it has implications for pretty much everything.
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So if you put life first, and if you put the welfare of children first, naturally, you put the welfare of mothers first.
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And then you ask yourself, what is the best society for a mother to function in?
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And you can tell that this would be a community that had a kind of internal vitality.
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Rather than a series of individuals who feel like they're barely hanging.
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And that's the irony of the left, because they're always trying to cater for outliers.
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But only in a society like that are outliers catered for.
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So in a society like that, if family X had a tragedy, and the father was out of work, or died, or whatever, you can easily see the community coming together and saying, well, we have a duty towards this family.
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And we want to make sure that, you know, their living standards may not be the same, but they're not living in property.
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In a charity like that, you can afford to be charitable to your neighbors.
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Whereas what we have here is a new coerced charity by the state, which ends up supporting the worst elements of society.
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And you would want to help your neighbors as well, but you wouldn't resent it.
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Like, I'm, you know, the new tax year is coming up, and man, am I already really resentful.
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So, you know, but I wouldn't, obviously, I'd be very happy to help.
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So anyway, the point being is the way that we're doing social life and family life is just wrong.
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And I'm actually very sympathetic to what state-owned mothers have to go through, frankly, on a daily basis.
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Martin says, invoking Christian morality, we shall too.
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Let those who lead the little ones astray be thrown into the sea with the millstones around their necks.
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Omar says, the term for someone who experiments in defiance of nature and the natural order is a mad scientist.
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These lunatics are so steeped in the sin of pride that they think they can play God ethically.
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It's just so mad that they say, yeah, so we're going to experiment on some kids now.
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Irreversible, irrevocable, and possibly life-threatening experiments.
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Because this is what the scientific process requires.
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Baron from Warhawk says, and it literally is creating eunuchs.
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In any other period in history, these types of doctors who want to experiment on children by injecting them with chemicals and slicing apart genitals would have been burned at the stake by now.
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There should be trials for all of these people at some point.
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Because I think that they, because they sincerely believe what they are doing is right, nobody believes them to be evil.
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The average child sacrificer thinks that he is doing the right thing to appease the gods.
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There's that famous experiment where, you know, someone gets treated unfairly in a class and the whole point of the experiment is to show that no one does anything about it.
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I think that basically the prevailing morality of our society is more freedom is better, right?
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And so we're streetings of the world saying, well, we're trying to provide these poor children with more freedom.
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It goes back to frameworks because what is freedom?
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But the point is that it doesn't flag up red flags for us, right?
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Whereas if someone's like, well, I'm a practicing Aztec and now I have to sacrifice some humans, we would naturally take umbrage with it because it goes so against the grain of our own morality.
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But I think the problem is because it's flowing down the same river of our own morality, we just can't muster the outrage and the indignancy.
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Steve says, I think the only way that I will be okay with this is if we perform these experiments on life sentence criminals.
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The thing is there are no children serving life sentences, so it can't be done.
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So basically it should be an area of science that is essentially effectively off limits for moral reasons, if not for the practical reason of dementing a person's body.
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Ben says, I don't think Christianity is actually a solution to this.
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But Christianity failed to stop this, failed to condemn it, and in many cases openly supports it, so all of the cope of atheists did this falls flat.
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Firstly, and secondly, I mean the 20th century is most characterized by atheism, arguably the 19th as well.
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The beginning of the 19th was the high watermark of, like, Protestant proselytizing across Africa and wherever else.
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So, you know, I don't think I'd argue for that, but definitely the latter of the 20th century has just been the death of religion.
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Well, I mean, I would have said a slow decline than a falling off cliff, right?
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If you want to know what Christianity thinks about this, ask an African Christian the same question.
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Where they haven't been tainted by this ideology, and they'll tell you the answer.
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Thanks, Scotty says, it's all well and fair saying, don't hate the player, hate the game.
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The game is being held up by players who choose to do so.
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I mean, you know, what am I going to say to this?
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Moral determinism in South Bangladesh is at an all-time low.
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I should be able to hate groups of people whose culture is based on lying and deception,
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especially when it's an attempt to try and pass themselves off as one of my countrymen and ideological fellows.
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We have traditional warnings about creatures which appear to be human, but which aren't.
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People who wear your face in an attempt to deceive you for their own benefit should be despised and genuinely cascaded.
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We thank you, Thane, Scotty, and we agree with you.
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How can he ensure a steady stream of segment material?
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The slop accounts have been doing their thing, too,
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where they announced breaking news, such and such account as Indian,
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where they've self-admitted it on their timeline years ago.
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I've been a stay-at-home mum for 20 years, and these women are fuck shit.
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There's literally nothing I would rather have done.
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I miss them being younger and all the ups and downs that went with it.
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So what I like is that, you know, I think that what we were saying was generally true,
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You've got the mums who are just built for this kind of thing, who got it down.
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And I'm not commenting on her particular situation, but like, for example, with my eldest son,
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he was absolutely just the most lovely, cooperative child in the world.
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And we left it about like six, seven years until we had more.
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And we took for granted just how lovely and cooperative he was, because the other two are
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little terrors and it is built into them in the various earliest moments.
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It is part of the core person that they are, that they will just act in the way the character
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And I mean, we're very lucky with the younger two, but they are just stop doing stuff.
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Well, you actually, you made a really good point that can be reversed earlier, which is
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that you learn this set of skills through being a stay at home mom, but society used to teach
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And because society is geared towards going into career for both men and women, you don't
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learn what it means to be a father or a mother.
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And also siblings don't have the same interaction they used to in larger families.
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And if you have a larger family, the eldest children are trained to take care of the child.
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I'm the de facto mother at some age, because you pull your, you pull your little brother
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off the edge of a cliff or whatever, then you're already.
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My eldest daughter does take care of the other two extremely well.
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And you can see that she's learning skills that are going to help her.
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And you can see that there, the more of them there is, the more of them are going to learn
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That's why there are these stereotypes about the youngest kid being always lazy.
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There are all kinds of stereotypes about the youngest.
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Oh, he's going to be absolutely lazy and spoiled.
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Whereas for the others, it's just not an option.
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You have to take care of somebody smaller than you, and you have to learn how to do that.
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Not only that, they, they are occupying them as well.
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A lot of the trouble that my youngest two get into is when they're just bored.
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Oh, you know, my, my four-year-old will find something and he'll bring over the two-year-old
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And if there was like, you know, a seven or eight-year-old around also playing with them,
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Because they will get it in the neck from the parents.
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Child psychologists have been saying for years that children need a parent at home for at least the first six years,
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preferably 12 years with the absolute ideal of 18 years.
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Study after study shows the reason our children are going off the rails is usually due to a lack of mothers going back to work too soon.
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I don't know how we make staying at home socially acceptable yet, but we really need to.
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All of society has to be geared towards the welfare of women.
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And the welfare of women doesn't mean them going to the workplace.
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It's the welfare of children, but that requires the welfare of women, and that requires the work of the men.
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But that's, Lady Sarcastro, this is the reason I was covering this.
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It's like, look, it was in particular this guy's TikTok, where I was just like, man, you've no idea what's coming.
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If you think stay-at-home mom's being lazy, you have no idea what you're in for.
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Logan has something to say, and I want to sort of let him say it.
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If I find a woman that's willing to be a stay-at-home mom, I'm putting a ring on her.
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I don't care if I have to work 60-plus hours to support her.
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But this chap, for me, there was some sort of pleasant naivete about it.
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Because they take a mid-morning nap, and they take a mid-afternoon nap,
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and then mealtime just involves sitting them in a chair and feeding them,
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My eldest, when she was one, she could do things.
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It's just that they don't have the sort of manual dexterity and physical power
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Mostly it's opening drawers, finding jars, and throwing them.
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Yeah, but, you know, that's, the thing is, it gets worse.
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if your children are ungrateful, that's most likely a you problem.
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Gratitude is almost always needed to be taught,
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since a child's default setting is selfishness.
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And stay-at-home moms and dads are also the people usually volunteering
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at schools and charities, and as you were pointing out on the local parish,
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But anyway, so thank you for joining us, folks.
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And we're going to be going live, Joseph and I, in half an hour
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and having a long conversation about the condition of Britain