00:05:08And there is no way that it's financially sustainable, because if you look at the projections of the British economy, this is government spending, the blue line that's constantly rising.
00:05:21This is government revenue, the yellow line that's slowly declining.
00:05:33And the question is, does it end in violence after the state is bankrupt?
00:05:38In which case, it's going to be an insane level of violence as the system completely breaks down.0.73
00:05:44Or does it end in a very limited amount of violence as a result of political choices that do lead to re-migration?0.87
00:05:54But these are the only realistic options, and this has to be the starting point.
00:05:57I would expect from a modern government's perspective, the economic argument for if they were going to try to truly defend from an economic perspective,0.71
00:06:06doling out all of this welfare towards foreigners would be that it acts as a form of economic
00:06:13stimulus. These are populations who would otherwise be economically unproductive. They
00:06:18need some kind of cash injection so that they are able to go out and spend to benefit their
00:06:24local and national economies. The problem is that if that was the case then all of the high
00:06:28streets across the country wouldn't look like desolate hell holes and the actual things that
00:06:35they spent their money on wouldn't remain entirely within their own0.99
00:06:38communities within potentially sham shops like the Turkish barbers the the0.62
00:06:45phone shops all going to within the black black market economy as well so
00:06:51the Turkish barbers and the vape shops these are just money laundering fronts
00:06:55they're not making well just just one other thing that I forgot to mention how
00:06:59much of that is going in remittances as well so it's actively been taken out of
00:07:02economy is not stimulating anything exactly exactly exactly and so which which gets us to a
00:07:08slightly different point uh which i was going to get to which is what happens when this population
00:07:13reduces but i'll get to that in a moment now the government already has full authority to deprive
00:07:20people of citizenship uh it can do that for anybody who's naturalized and it can do that
00:07:26on really very flimsy grounds, which is national interest.
00:07:33They did it recently with, was it the chap who was in Russia or married to a Russian woman?
00:09:11My heart absolutely does not. But this is actually important because if banks lose enough money, what they do is the Lebanon scenario and the Cyprus scenario, where, and I think Greece as well, where they go after the deposits of people.
00:09:30Just generally freeze people's deposits and people are locked out of their money.
00:09:35Well, one of the things that I've seen people sharing about recently was that following the 2008 financial crisis, the actual bankers, the people involved in the financial institutions, and those of a particular strata of economic wealth actually did recover very quickly.
00:09:50And it's the rest of us who just got screwed over.
00:09:53So in the case of an economic crisis, having all of the politicians in your pocket is very beneficial to you.
00:09:59which the inverse of it is if you want mass deportations you can't have
00:10:05politicians who are in bed with the banks if you actually want this one of
00:10:11the tests severely narrows the list which really really narrows the list which
00:10:15really really narrows the list but this is going to be a big economic thing and
00:10:19if you look at where the government gets its its money there is a pretty big
00:10:25chunk that comes from VAT and that comes from company taxes and this is definitely going to fall.
00:10:34This is most certainly going to fall as a result of there being a lot less people buying stuff
00:10:40and therefore money that goes into VAT and money that goes into corporate profits that then
00:10:46translate into corporate taxes. And so the answer to that has to involve a couple of things.
00:10:51the government needs to cut its spending and there is no way around it and the
00:10:57biggest spending item for the government is welfare now within welfare the
00:11:06biggest item is pensions which is a genuinely eye-watering amount 170
00:11:13billion pounds every year on pensions and constantly increasing because of the
00:11:19combination of aging population and the triple lock. What this means is that the
00:11:27triple lock has to go. That much is obvious. It is entirely unsustainable. It
00:11:32is a transfer from the older generation, from the younger generation to the
00:11:35older generation. Plus with pensions it's an inherently destructive idea because
00:11:40government pensions by their very nature break the generational compact. In old
00:11:47age the only people who owe you anything are your children and if you for some reason don't have
00:11:53children but have been a good member of your community your community might decide to help you
00:11:59except that when you make that shift from this being a charitable act and a personal duty to
00:12:07To this being a coerced act, you end up wrecking how generations interact with each other,
00:12:17and you end up with this insane bill that nobody can pay for.
00:12:23I will just say one thing, because I do see a lot of people being very angry at boomers
00:12:29for this, in a way that I don't think is entirely fair.
00:12:33Because I do think that there is a strong argument that if you have been a productive
00:12:37member of society if you've been a well-behaved member of society if you have brought something
00:12:42to the table for your community and for your nation that you should have some kind of benefit
00:12:47come off of the end of that um so i don't think the argument for pensions is is unreasonable um
00:12:53the problem with it is how it has been funded and how the funds have been used historically since
00:12:58they were taken from the people originally put into hedge funds and whatnot uh the problem is
00:13:03that most people don't know that that's how they were being used i think a lot of people assumed
00:13:08well the money is going from my paycheck or i'm paying directly into some account that is labeled
00:13:14with my name that somehow gathers slightly more revenue over time that then will be untouched
00:13:21until it's time for me to take out of it a lot of people did not know that it was a ponzi scheme
00:13:26and i think it's quite unfair for a lot of people to kind of accuse these older boomers who were
00:13:33lied to just like the rest of us are constantly lied to um of having some kind of malicious intent
00:13:39towards the younger generations correct on a broad level i think that's unfair target people
00:13:44individually if they are doing something individually that is that is wrong if you
00:13:49have some kind of boomer who is genuinely like sucking up land and revenue and stealing from the
00:13:53younger generations absolutely target them but the normal the normal grandmother who's just sort0.83
00:13:58of like well I thought you know my husband was paying into his pension fair and square
00:14:02I think it's unfair to be cruel to her absolutely so you what I would humbly suggest is that there
00:14:09is a cut-off date everybody under 35 knows from now on that they're not getting a pension
00:14:14or everybody under 30 knows that they're never getting a pension so that this whole thing simply
00:14:20goes away and it becomes a shrinking liability rather than an ever-increasing liability and so
00:14:28that the generational compact can be fixed. If this was simply, you know, the government telling
00:14:33you you should save money for your old age, well, yes, absolutely you should. But it was, as you
00:14:37said, a Ponzi scheme and when financial intermediation gets in the middle of it and you
00:14:44have these giant financial empires taking control of pension contributions and using them in all
00:14:49kinds of ways on the promise don't worry 30 years later i'll pay you back when in reality their own
00:14:56interests make that quite unlikely then you get this disaster and guess what the people making
00:15:01those bets with your money that you've paid in they have all the protections you have no protection
00:15:06exactly exactly exactly so this has to go universal credit uh there is maybe 10 million claimants 9
00:15:15million claimants of universal credit. And this is one of a couple of things. You're
00:15:20either paying for people to be unemployed, and therefore the more you pay for it, the
00:15:25more you get of it. Or you are supplementing the income of some people, meaning that you're
00:15:31providing a corporate subsidy. Neither of these things is tenable in any way. You can't
00:15:38keep on spending on universal credit. All that it will do is generate more claimants0.97
00:15:43for universal credit. It simply doesn't work. And if you've removed a portion of the labor
00:15:49force, legal or illegal labor, people in very low-paying jobs that could be taken by others,
00:15:58well, then these people should be, the people who are on universal credit should be taking
00:16:02those jobs. And it's just not sustainable to keep on financing idleness or subsidizing
00:16:10corporations this has to go this has to go and there are very few push pack push factors as well
00:16:18it encourages you to drag your feet or that is to say that um you know my experience of it where
00:16:24there was a time when i was living in london i got made redundant and found myself in universal
00:16:28credit for a few months it was that i just realized that if it weren't for me actually
00:16:34willing myself to find a job and get out there and start paying tax and working again despite
00:16:40what there would be those taxes were going to be spent on that i could have carried on like that
00:16:45for a long long time and no one at the actual offices you know for job seekers were ever really
00:16:52going to push no and so this whole thing just continues indefinitely exactly and it's gotten
00:17:00to such an extent that you want to be kind and generous to people but at the same time it's just
00:17:07too big and the bigger that it gets the more the severe action that is required it's it's like with
00:17:14every problem that you allow to fester if you let yourself get too fat you the diet you have to go
00:17:20on will be much more severe it's it's the nature and and by that this entire idea of the fact that0.99
00:17:28you know because for the longest number of decades now the argument has been well we need immigrants
00:17:34We need mass immigration for the economy because we have just inextricably tied these two things together so that now this is the only model by which the economy can function from.
00:17:47And obviously no government since then has ever gone, well, that is true, but let's at least start making the moves to detangle ourselves.1.00
00:17:56We're as bound to it now as we ever have been, and more so by dint of the sheer number of foreigners.1.00
00:18:04Absolutely. And then when you look at things like the eligibility for universal credit or disability benefits, you just have to do some things, especially for disability benefits, because the number of people claiming disability is again in the millions, which doesn't comport, it doesn't match what the reality of it is.
00:18:25One thing you can easily do is make doctors liable.
00:18:28If you issue fit notes that give eligibility to disability benefits
00:18:35to people who don't deserve them, who aren't eligible,
00:18:38well, you as a medical professional can be made liable for the money
00:18:41that is taken out of the system as a result.
00:22:23A climate change levy. That's an insane amount.
00:22:27ETS this is exchange exchanges of carbon credits these are just things that complicate the lives
00:22:36of employers and require the government to hire inspectors and they don't bring in any any anything
00:22:45significant in taxes they just bring in a very small amount but the burden that they add is an
00:22:51insane drag on growth it all adds up it's all adds up just fuel costs in england alone being
00:22:59boosted by what 25 percent by the fuel fuel duty that you have to pay on it for environmental green
00:23:05levies exactly i mean it's it's crazy it's it would be bad enough were it not for all of the
00:23:11problems with supply coming from the middle east and the strait of hormuz right now but then the
00:23:16fact that the government just carries on levying these insane taxes exactly and why is it is it
00:23:23because the government really needs the revenue uh for that well they have immense bills to pay
00:23:28but ultimately if they don't get the revenue which they haven't as you showed in that graph
00:23:32for years now they will just print the money they they will just print the money so why is it that
00:23:38they're pushing these taxes well it's for social engineering exactly exactly and then you look at
00:23:44Things like, yeah, there you go, the digital services tax and the diverted profits tax.
00:23:50Nobody knows what these are, but they employ thousands and thousands and thousands of people in government.
00:23:57Cut the spending, cut the taxes, it'll work out.
00:24:00And reduce the burden on people to allow them to do business.
00:24:04Corporation tax, you slash that massively, your revenues increase, they don't decrease.
00:24:09your revenues will increase because more companies will want to book their profits
00:24:14in a low-tax environment and your tax take will as a result increase if you reduce the taxes with
00:24:21the income taxes it's the same thing the number of brits who go to dubai and singapore and saudi
00:24:27arabia and so on to work where they really don't like being there for all kinds of rather obvious
00:24:33reasons except for the fact that it cuts their taxes. These people would relocate if they
00:24:39had to pay, I don't know, 10, 15 percent instead of 40 percent. And therefore that will generate
00:24:47a lot more taxes. So there is going to be a massive economic shock when you try to do
00:24:53something about mass immigration. There is going to be a huge shock when you try to work
00:24:59this out. However, if you keep this continuing, you're going to definitely go bankrupt and end up
00:25:07in civil war. The inflation will come. When you reduce the labour force, there will be higher
00:25:13wages. That will actually be a good thing because it will make a fairer society. A lot more young
00:25:20people who are actually British will be able to earn enough to have families and own houses,
00:25:24especially if house prices drop but this is one of the reasons for the boris wave wasn't it as
00:25:30they did during the lockdowns they said well we don't want to be raising wages now do we so we'll
00:25:34just bring in a few million people the the best way that i've heard it put is uh human quantitative
00:25:41easing it's the equivalent of printing money but for people and the effects of it are certain
00:25:50bankruptcy. Well, amusingly, if you were to look at it from a leftist perspective as well,
00:25:54there's this economic measure called the genie coefficient, which is used to measure how equal
00:25:59or unequal a society is. Typically, you find the ones with the worst genie coefficients are the
00:26:05most diverse societies. Because as you say, what typically ends up happening is one class or0.97
00:26:12ethnic group will gang up together, direct everything in their own interests, and just
00:26:18try and suck everything up at the detriment of all of the other groups within that society exactly
00:26:24exactly now i won't get into all of the other things that have to go um like devolved government
00:26:32and the spending on devolved government which is just a hundred billion pounds so that people in
00:26:37in hollywood to breed separatism to breed separate okay fine the three billion on asylum
00:26:46accommodation from the Home Office. Thank you for that. $6 billion for foreign aid. Much appreciated.
00:26:53Environmental levies, just subsidies to green energy. $17 billion and the compliance cost that
00:27:00comes with that. Parties that want remigration are dropping in the polls. Well, reform at least
00:27:07is dropping in the polls significantly. Part of the reason that they lack credibility is because
00:27:12they're not telling the economic story of how to do this and what are the consequences of the
00:27:17economic policy. They're also not clear about the consequences of continued diversity, which is
00:27:23definitely going to be civil war in the end. So Restore was a breath of fresh air when it's set
00:27:30off by saying it's going to be hard work, it's going to be difficult, it's going to be very,
00:27:35very challenging, but it's worth it. That's the kind of message. But if you want to be taken
00:27:41seriously on this message, you've got to dig into the insane numbers that are here as to what the
00:27:48government is spending money on and figure out how to actually manage this burden, this insane
00:27:56spending burden, and still give people a sense that they are going to come out on top as a result.0.91
00:28:04And until this is properly addressed, nobody's going to take remigration seriously. It's not0.96
00:28:09enough to tell people it's going to be civil war in five years time 10 years time they will choose
00:28:14to look away they will constantly choose to look away there has to be a way of selling the public
00:28:20that yes there will initially be a difficult period of transition after which there will be
00:28:26prosperity and that does involve looking into the nitty-gritty of what the hell the government is
00:28:31doing and what it is spending money on and how to fix that and replace that so that you can have a
00:28:38so you can promise people prosperity after a challenging period well here's the thing right
00:28:44there is a legitimate argument to be made from our perspective on this the left has always been
00:28:50better in the past you know 20 years at the catchy slogans yes like Bernie Sanders has spread his
00:28:58message and made it very popular by singling out it was millionaires and billionaires but then he
00:29:02became a millionaire so then it just became billionaires everybody's well well aware of that
00:29:06one um but really if you were reform if you're a store what you kind of need is some kind of
00:29:11professional pr firm consulting with experts who can actually break down this information
00:29:17and tell them where all of the waste is coming from what the effects of this would be where the
00:29:22pr firm can then come up with the catchy slogans the one sentence pitch to the public for how your
00:29:29life will be better if we implement our policies for work not idleness something like that yeah
00:29:36Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. So this is what I wanted to mention. Dan and I might do a bit of a deeper dive on what the government is doing on a brokonomics or realpolitik. Check them both out on the website and subscribe. But the economic story has to be addressed if you're going to be serious about remigration. And that's why the AFD is now beginning to back down on it. This is why Trump decided to slow down the mass deportations. This is why you're seeing these challenges.
00:30:01is people aren't thinking through the economic consequences and they're not able to promise
00:30:06a paradise after what horrors that must be enduring what about all those americans i've
00:30:13seen that clip going around on twitter of the american i think he was a roofer landscaper
00:30:19builders association yeah the the builder who was saying oh you know i was a big part of the blue
00:30:23wave because you know old jorge here who doesn't have a correct visa was going to get kicked out
00:30:29the country and i'm strong maga but my livelihood would have been hurt off the back of it that
00:30:34there needs to be a solution uh to these to these problems i mean ideally my solution would be well
00:30:41you've just publicly admitted to a felony so you should probably be put in prison right um so there
00:30:47should be also like legal consequences for this but that but there does need to be some kind of
00:30:52some kind of solution one of the better ones i've seen was the white paper policy institute saying
00:30:57like for people uh like that well not necessarily like the builders but like farmers who complain
00:31:02oh if i can't get uh if if i can't get an enzuela or whatever his name is to come out over the
00:31:07border every summer then my business will be ruined well you know if the government's spending
00:31:11this much money anyway pay a one of it on pay a one-time subsidy yeah for some kind of automated
00:31:18robotics yeah if you have to exactly exactly exactly um all right um you've got the mouse
00:31:26do you want to go through the rumble rants oh yeah sure let's see why are you talking about the same
00:31:31subject three times in a row this past month because it's an important one you could have
00:31:35talked about chinese honeypot honeypots and ai i promise you we will i may talk about the chinese
00:31:40honeypot stuff tomorrow and when it comes to ai if you're referring to the ai data centers being
00:31:45defeated at the midterm ballots in the 41 places where they were i've already covered that on the
00:31:50daily channel on a video called um the people have spoken so if you want if you want some stuff that
00:31:57isn't covered on the podcast you can check the daily channel where oftentimes me or one of the
00:32:01other presenters will go into going to stuff that we may have missed here yep welfare in the west
00:32:06runs there on a double jizzier says that's a random name one for the boomers who are other
00:32:12they're not ever devouring their greed no and another for the invaders who are ever ungrateful
00:32:17yep that's right so much of the gdp is fake and unproductive if it is actually tackled it could
00:32:23cause a genuine economic depression this is true if you deregulate a lot of industries like hr will
00:32:29suddenly disappear overnight and that will be a net good thing yeah um and then you can focus on
00:32:35the productive sectors i speak speaking of ai i need to i need to cover the fact that ai
00:32:41interviews for jobs is becoming a real thing and it's amazing because you would think for some0.97
00:32:45people they'd be like oh my god thank god i don't have to talk to a noxious hr woman anymore to try0.99
00:32:52and get through the jobs process no no the ai has perfectly programmed in the quintessential1.00
00:32:58awful hr woman so even even automating that out you still have the same the same problems1.00
00:33:05Yep, yep. I doubt the bankers will sit idly by while a party like Restore gets elected.1.00
00:33:11How would a truly patriotic party enact remigration without the system sabotaging them?
00:33:16Well, that's a good question, but the politics has to change.
00:33:20And part of changing the politics is making people think about the economics and the long-term benefits and the long-term threats,
00:33:26and then making this into an inevitable reality.
00:33:29also that's just that that's kind of a problem that governments have been trying to solve for
00:33:35the past hundred years if not slightly longer since the effects of the industrial revolution
00:33:40and financialization became clear and what you find is sometimes that if you try and do something
00:33:45for your own country to solve the problem the the people will just go to war with you
00:33:50either literally or financially yeah anyway then let's get on to the next segment
00:33:59thank you so to all of our good viewers out there there has been a scam being pulled on you
00:34:09for a little under two years now it's a trick that certain influencers and financial interests
00:34:18have wanted to lead you into and that is the trick of supporting the mass surveillance state
00:34:25You've seen it with things like the Flock cameras across the United States, and you've seen it specifically with Palantir and all of its affiliates worming its way into national government databases and creating infrastructure which the United States government is increasingly reliant on and has been telling you for the past two years is desperately needed to be able to enact the mass deportations that the Trump administration promised.
00:34:49I am here to tell you now that that was a lie and that these businesses, these massive corporations, which in the case of Palantir literally started as a contractor for the CIA, they are only in it for themselves, for their own financial and power interests, and that they will flip on a dime for the sake of those interests.
00:35:11they do not care about you never let yourself get folded into these things as a man who lives in
00:35:16britain one of the most comprehensive surveillance states of the entire planet i can tell you it will
00:35:23not solve the problems that they are telling you that it will solve so let's take a little bit of
00:35:28a trip through memory lane at the pr campaign that's been enacted over the past two years
00:35:34to try and convince you that these guys are on your side they're totally based they care about
00:35:39all the same things that you do. So this is a tweet from the 7th of December 2024 that went
00:35:45slightly viral. You can see it went to almost over 700,000 viewers, but then was shared out by
00:35:52someone who got 45 million views almost, and then was again shared out by Elon Musk saying that this
00:35:59was based to the support of 43 almost million views on Twitter, which was this speech at the
00:36:07Reagan National Defense Forum by Palantir CEO
00:36:10Dr Alex Karp. Now I've spoken about this man before on the podcast I believe
00:36:16last year talking about the connections to the CIA with Palantir, talking about
01:05:28Sorry, I was unhappily married. Thank you. Important point.
01:05:31Until we agreed I could sleep with other people.
01:05:34That sounds like a very one-sided arrangement they developed as well.
01:05:37Four years ago, I requested a threesome over dinner.
01:05:41Find out how it settles on the path that would save our relationship.
01:05:44So the framing of the telegraph is very, very clear here, which is that, yeah, Cuckoldry saves relationships.
01:05:53That seems to be the official telegraph position on all of this.
01:05:57And look, I'm just going to say, I think it's kind of sus, right?
01:06:01At the end of the day, as we go into here.
01:06:03What I'm finding out is if you stay in a hotel, there's a 9 out of 10 chance that the chair in the corner of the room has been used by a telegraph writer.
01:06:12there are many such cases indeed uh and so we find this one here for example and this was from
01:06:20uh last year that they go back years and years as well so that's the other thing as well
01:06:24it's an established practice yeah don't be under the misconception here that this is like a new
01:06:30frontier that the telegraph have unlocked as a result of being taken over by alex springer no
01:06:36no no they are a deeply traditionalist newspaper it just so happens that the tradition they support
01:06:43is advocating for cuckoldry uh and so you get pieces like this saying i'm glad my wife still
01:06:49swings with other with younger men i've lost my stamina so it uh so it's good to outsource
01:06:55this retired british couple retired splits their time between their south of france home a yacht
01:07:04an ever-evolving cast of lovers look i grant you i neither own an expensive property i don't take
01:07:12holidays to the south of france and i don't own a yacht so i fully accept that i'm perhaps not
01:07:18the target audience uh for this particular piece however i think that there are actual certain
01:07:26principles that should hold across society when it comes to i'm also just going to say like i've
01:07:31i've lost my stamina mate they sell pills for that well that shows what his preference is doesn't it
01:07:38apparently so yes uh but they just talk about all these sorts of things and it's like okay but there
01:07:44is a standard here like a normative standard of relationships that is just being left by the
01:07:50wayside here and it's very very odd indeed so we get this piece it says i'm a happily married man
01:07:58and I've been having an affair for the past
01:08:25they just come out with an article promoting this sort of trying to ingrain the idea in the
01:08:32minds of conservatives yeah in the minds of the telegraph readers yes strolling down the
01:08:37caribbean beach hand in hand with lizzie his wife of 35 years james appears the epitome of a loving
01:08:45and attentive husband but just a few years ago the 63 year old was in the hotel room with his
01:08:51mistress jane making passionate love and drinking champagne for nine long years he's been uh been
01:08:58seeing his lover and he has no intention of giving her up and if he's brutally honest a part of him
01:09:03wishes it was uh her hand um he was holding instead of lizzie's he says i know that it's shocking and
01:09:10in many ways a bigger betrayal than the sex the longevity of my affair and emotions involved
01:09:15would crucify my wife. She has every reason to believe we're in a happy marriage. All the boxes0.93
01:09:22are ticked. We make each other howl with laughter. We go to bed at the same time every night and
01:09:28chat. We still have sex. It's not only my wife, but our kids that think we have an ideal marriage.
01:09:35I remember once strolling hand in hand along the river near our home in Henley, of course,
01:09:40and them quipping that we were sickeningly in love they aspire to have a marriage like ours
01:09:46if my affair was discovered it would destroy them too i do enjoy our life together it's not a
01:09:53complete farce i love my wife dearly i will end up getting old with her sitting on deck chairs
01:09:58admiring the sunset and then passing away presumably with her totally ignorant of the
01:10:04fact that this entire picturesque marriage that she will i assume have kept her vows to maintain
01:10:12will have no idea that this has just been going on and the peculiar thing about all of this i
01:10:19would just add is the fact that this is written up in an article in the telegraph almost as a
01:10:26boast of yes look what i've got away with but i've got everything you could possibly want in life
01:10:33and then some yep and the one person that i actually owe honesty to about the nature of
01:10:42this marriage is the one person i'm going to withhold it from what i'm instead going to do
01:10:47is appeal to the telegraph yeah the telegraph of who i'm going to tell all of this too for the
01:10:54juicy gossip yeah and and this is framing it in a very positive way it even promotes the author of
01:11:00a book called the state of affairs yeah infidelity now the the only thing i will say that makes this
01:11:07more interesting than the others and kind of makes it stand out is that this is the only one that i
01:11:13have seen that isn't about the woman cheating on the man and male humiliation yes this is this is
01:11:21the only one that i've ever seen where it's about the man having the affair and presenting that
01:11:26positively yes that's what makes this conservative this that's that's like the guardian would never
01:11:31publish this article um but it's a peculiar thing as well especially with the talk of children and
01:11:38just how long you've been married to your wife for it's like so the children are presumably going to
01:11:44grow up as well thinking that their father is a role model yes of husbandry and they're not going
01:11:51to know about this entire dark underbelly to the entire thing and i i don't know which is worse
01:11:59they don't know or that they do know it's terrible yeah um it goes on to as you pointed out here now
01:12:05i will say this article seems to have been the one exception of the many that i've taken where
01:12:12it actually goes on to uh say here relationship counselor ryan uh kevitz uh however is firm that
01:12:19an affair is destructive to a marriage she says uh to this sort of double life you have to be good
01:12:26at uh compartmentalizing and deceit in general men are more able to do that women tend to have
01:12:35affairs because they need more emotion and connection which is harder to compartmentalize
01:12:39to say your his wife is happy is a red herring because it's based on false information she
01:12:45doesn't know uh that her marriage entails a third party and given the choice she probably wouldn't
01:12:51accept it if he thought she would then he'd ask about opening up the relationship this is the one
01:12:58part of all of these articles that i could find all of this always cheating bad but but the solution
01:13:07to all of these always yes always ends up with being a solution to well still cheat just make0.98
01:13:14sure she's okay with it first by suggesting the open relationship yeah
01:13:18always make sure that consent is the source of all goodness and rightness the solution to these
01:13:23is always open the because what we saw the first one is like oh i've got an open marriage with my
01:13:28husband again the only the only thing that makes this somewhat different is the fact that it's a
01:13:34bloke doing it to a woman and not the other way around yeah uh but again just absolutely peculiar
01:13:39why would you publish this uh moving on um oh no sorry i've had that one again doubled up
01:13:45says uh i'm cheating on my husband with a man i met 40 years ago the sex is thrilling say the
01:13:53telegraph uh very quickly back in 2025 of these in the middle of 2025 um but also as well you
01:14:02just read the first two paragraphs here and it goes on to say i had a beautiful traditional
01:14:07wedding in my parents village church with flowers festooning the picturesque church gate my cute
01:14:13three-year-old niece dressed in a pink floral dress as my bridesmaid a fabulous bouquet made
01:14:20of lilies and a simple but beautiful wedding dress it was made of ivory silk and had spaghetti
01:14:25straps and tiny buttons all the way down the back my husband graham they always change that because
01:14:31they're so proud of what they've done yes they always change the names in all of these pieces
01:14:36My husband, Graham, meanwhile, who I'd met a couple of years before when we were friends in North London pub, looked movie star handsome in his navy blue tailcoat.
01:14:47I honestly said my marriage vows and meant them with every fibre of my being.
01:14:53And both of us spent the day beaming at each other and our hundred or so guests.
01:14:59You could not think of a more picturesque start to a marriage.
01:15:04but not also like the that moment of the good times and the wish to preserve them now look i
01:15:13readily admit that i am not a married man i'm not in a relationship right now but i have been in the
01:15:19past i understand how complicated they can be i understand how magical how stressful they can be
01:15:25right i have enough of a knowledge of this subject but again there is a standard here
01:15:30that is just let slip as things go on and for some reason the telegraph treats the the letting
01:15:37slip of that standard as the aspiration itself yes and actually what marriage is is a prison
01:15:44that you need to break away from at the first sign of difficulty and i just i just find it
01:15:53very strange from the conservative newspaper of the united kingdom this article is tim stanley
01:16:02approved i mean what did we find out what did we find out about piers morgan and his wife which
01:16:09who seemed to have a very she writes for the telegraph too this seems to have a very specific
01:16:15relationship i mean i i find it hard to believe that all of this isn't just a lot of the staff
01:16:22at the telegraph think the same way and like it hey and then i think they love it and then you
01:16:30get more to write as well so it's an absolute conveyor belt of material isn't it um but the
01:16:36other the other aspect of it as well as you go through it it doesn't for the sake of time because
01:16:41i've just realized where i'll have to race through but there is no attempt to explain to the husband
01:16:48like the state that she's in the boredom the tedium that she's feeling it's just no straight
01:16:53over there's no attempt to say that yes marriages do get tiring and some boredom is to be expected
01:17:00and you just have to go through it and accept just kind of like that you've made these vows
01:17:07that you have to take them serious and how many vows do we even make in a modern society