A Deep Dive Into Evolutionary Psychology (The Saad Truth with Dr. Saad_950)
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In this episode, Dr. Kelly interviews evolutionary psychologist, evolutionary economist, evolutionary psychologist and evolutionary economist Dr. Jay Sheinfeld. Dr. Sheinfeld is a professor of psychology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, specializing in evolutionary psychology and evolutionary economics. She is the author of The Mating Market: How Evolution Programs Us to Mating and Mating Behavior, and the founder of the evolutionary psychology journal Evolutionary Psychology.
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So the question I have is why do people consume what they consume and I want to start you off by
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asking why would evolution program animals humans for consumption? Right so evolution does not
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program for the modern consumatory behaviors that we see rather it programs certain behaviors that
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would have been adaptive in our environment of you know our ancestors which now we see their
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signatures in contemporary settings. So let me give you an example. So we know for example that
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across many species when females of a species are sexually receptive and other species not humans
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they will go into estrus meaning during that period they are open to mating and other periods they are
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not. Well we know that females in those species will engage in certain signaling behaviors to say
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hey I'm interested in potential mating. Well so then I take this principle and argue well we know that
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of course humans are a high form of an animal could we see similar behaviors in human females and so I
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have a study that I did many years ago with one of my former doctoral students where we looked at
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how women will alter how they dress how they beautify themselves as a function of where they
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are in their ovulatory cycle their menstrual cycle and so what we found as you would exactly expect from
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an evolutionary perspective is when they are maximally fertile in their menstrual cycles this is when they
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engage in the most amount of sexual signaling they're more likely to wear high heels they're more likely to
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be more scantily clad in their dress they're more likely to put makeup on and so so it's not that
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evolution has programmed women to wear lipstick it's that evolution has programmed women to engage in sexual
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signaling as a function of where they are in their menstrual cycle which we then see a modern manifestation
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of that behavior in contemporary settings so it's kind of like evolution programs you with a set of
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toolkit to survive or maybe in some cases go a little bit beyond that and that toolkit gets represented
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in modernity in the form of say consumption or wearing high heels so that's a manifestation of a baser
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instinct perfectly stated that's exactly it the reason why I was interested in marrying evolutionary
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psychology with consumer behavior because short of us breathing the the set of actions that we most engage in is
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in consumer behavior right and it's not just consumer consuming coca-cola and starbucks and buying jeans we consume
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friendships we consume religious narratives we consume literature so our existence is one that is consumatory and
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since I was interested in evolutionary psychology I thought well that's great I will now take these
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evolutionary principles and as you exactly said demonstrate their signatures in modern environments
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very interesting that do you find that the word consuming friendship or consuming religion is appropriate or is it like
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participating because I'm trying to understand is it the same base instinct or is there something else to it
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yeah great yeah great question so it's not necessarily that we consume friendships but
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as part of you and I maintaining a friendship there is a set of consumatory related behaviors that arise so let me
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give you a specific example if you and I are very good friends it makes good sense for us to remember each
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other's birthdays so that I will remember your birthday and when it's your birthday I will invite you out to
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dinner with the expectation that when it's my birthday you will reciprocate and therefore that mechanism of
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reciprocity is an evolved mechanism which in this case man itself manifests itself in our friendship ritual
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and then in a consumatory sense in that we're inviting each other to restaurants or to buy gifts for each other
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so it's in that sense that I say we're consuming friendships we also consume marriages in that for example
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there is a slew of consumatory behaviors that happen related to the wedding ritual but even the process of
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choosing a mate involves endless consumatory behaviors so for example the fact that in many cultures you buy
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an engagement ring well it turns out that an engagement ring is laden with evolutionary based principles so for
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example the younger the woman is the more beautiful the woman is the higher the likelihood of spending more
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money on purchasing an engagement ring meaning that the mating market is literally a market right I come to
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the mating market with a set of attributes that either increase my mating value or decrease it so does my
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perspective mate and then there will be all sorts of economic exchanges that happen in recognition of that
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and what drives those economic exchanges is rooted in evolution
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um I it reminded me the mating market is a market anybody who disagrees is not on dating apps enough to
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understand that and I once stated that as a matter of fact on a podcast about how the economics of dating
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market operates I've studied Gatsad so I have some understanding of it and I eventually found people got
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extremely unhappy about it to think of something so romantic as falling in love and getting married and
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buying each other gifts as something that would lend itself to a market and consumption dynamic they
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found it super offensive I'm sure you come across that you speak of things in somewhat logical cold
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ways that otherwise people romanticize in fiction and poetry why do you think does that happen do you
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have any speculation on that well what a beautiful question great truly great question what there are many
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reasons why people abhor the applying of evolutionary principles to human behavior one of which you
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exactly intimated in your question right I want to feel that there is something transcendental when I read
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poetry or I read great literature or in the manner by which I fell in love with my wife with whom I've been
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for 25 years the fact that I offer an evolutionary explanation for these phenomena in no
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way reduces or diminishes the fact that they are transcendental right but they don't somehow happen
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in an alternate universe that is decoupled from my biology right so yes my heart did beat differently
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when I met my wife yes I had butterflies in my stomach that doesn't go away notwithstanding the fact that I
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can offer an evolutionary explanation why I was likely to have fallen in love with her and vice
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versa so let's give an example I'm not a tall guy we know that height is a beautiful thing and yet this
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beautiful woman called my wife decided to to choose me well then I can ask myself well how could it be
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that notwithstanding that I'm not six foot one I'm only the height of Lionel Messi I'm able to have been
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historically successful with the ladies well it's because I've got other attributes that are desired
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by women that hopefully compensate for the fact that I'm not a tall guy I'm a I have a good sense
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of humor I've worked hard to achieve things in life I'm attentive and so I can compensate for not being
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tall by by scoring very highly on other traits that are desired by women the fact that I just offered that
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evolutionary explanation offers zero diminishing to the beauty of the romantic reality that I face with
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my wife right so I can both eat gum I mean chew gum and walk at the same time I could appreciate the
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romance of romance while also offering a scientific explanation for it yeah I feel like people don't
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understand that reality is layered concepts together and on some layer on some level on some
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conceptual layer it is logical on some level it's romantic and they can both coexist we can move
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between these planes and that's the beauty of the human rational that's where I think it gets
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interesting but you know with consumption one question that often comes up God is um why would
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there be an instinct for over consumption and you know we are in the times where it's not so much
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under consumption that hurts it's that the the poorest people in America are actually overweight not
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underweight which is a unique fact of life right and so it it it lends itself to asking the question
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why do people hold why do people over consume why is over consumption a problem yeah another great
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question so in uh my earliest books so the first book was called the evolutionary basis of consumption
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which is an academic scientific book and then in a subsequent book meant more for the general market
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called the consuming instinct I exactly address that question I refer to these as dark side consumption
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so for example pathological gambling is a form of dark side consumption uh pornographic addiction would
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be that eating disorders is is the opposite you're not over consuming but you're under consuming and
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that you're not eating right so why is it that if we are adaptive creatures we would engage in
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maladaptive behaviors right shouldn't evolution have honed us to be these you know perfect uh machines
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well adjusted to our environments well of course the answer is no in the following way each of these
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manifestations of maladaptive consumer behavior originates with an adaptive process that goes haywire
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right so let's draw an analogy regular cells divide and multiply cancer cells divide and multiply
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the difference between the healthy cell and the cancerous cell is that the cancerous cell doesn't have a
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stopping algorithm it it replicates endlessly so what began as a process that is an evolutionary
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based process the division of cells becomes maladaptive when it becomes hyperactive and so now let's
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apply it to a specific context in consumer behavior take for example compulsive buying which speaks to
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your over consumption compulsive buying is a literal psychiatric dysfunction so it's not just i've got six
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pairs of shoes it's it's when you typically will get a divorce you'll go into financial ruin because you are
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over consuming but in this case compulsive buying is almost uniquely restricted to women so when you what if if as a
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psychiatric disorder it's almost exclusively women who suffer from compulsive buying but now here's the
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evolutionary insight it's not a domain general mechanism whereby they're just overspending on anything
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right they're not compulsively hoarding lawnmowers they're not compulsively hoarding electronic cameras
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they are compulsively hoarding beautification products so what started off as a perfectly adaptive mechanism
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which is if i'm speaking as a woman now i'd like to beautify myself to make myself more attractive in the
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mating market hyper fires so that now i can't stop purchasing stiletto high heels i can't stop
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purchasing all of the various forms of beautification product pathological gambling is exactly the same
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thing pathological gambling afflicts largely young men of low social status because all men seek to ascend the social
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hierarchy some of us become famous soccer players others become bankers others become artists we're all using
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different paths for the one same goal which is to ascend the social hierarchy because the number one most desired
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trait by women in men is if they are of high status the the pathological gambler is simply applying a
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maladaptive strategy for an otherwise adaptive process which is if i could only get the the the ball to hit black this
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time around i could now make my three million dollars and then i could attract all the girls so all of these
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various forms of over consumption are ultimately rooted in an adaptive process that misfires
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um i'll offer something tricky okay and tell me tell me if i get this wrong too i was
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i i had the chance to read a little bit of das kapital back in the day and it's a very interesting
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um report on modern society in a way it leads into the communist manifesto and that's where it all goes
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wrong but das kapital has a few interesting insights and one of them talks about how money becomes a
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commodity for men very often where people gather money for money's sake not for consumption's sake
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as if money itself is a commodity and we want to hold that and that i think is a predominantly male
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phenomenon like men like their money in the bank women like that in their closets like one of the two
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and so i wonder um i understand why women would like to buy those compulsive buying behaviors there is a
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compulsive earning behavior in men parallelly or is that a false posit do you think that that happens
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and why would that happen well it happens so the this the desire to seek status as a human universal in
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men so you're exactly right the means by which men pursue that strategy greatly varies depending on the
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cultural ecosystem so if i'm in the hadza tribe in africa i don't care about having a lot of money in the
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bank account but the number of cattle head that i own will get me more beautiful girls in other
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societies it might put one even in in the western societies why do women choose a starving artist he
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doesn't have any money yet because they are banking on his future trajectory right no woman has ever said
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i'd really like to be with a failed potential rock star who shows zero ambition zero
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drive and zero talent but i am willing when i'm 22 to bet on the starving romantic uh future musician
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because i think that he's got great talent and grit and he will be the next great rock star so the fact
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that men hoard money is not because they are specifically drawn to the physical paper right but it's because
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that is a honest signal of how i assort on the social hierarchy this is why by the way many people
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in this case it could be both men and women seek very prestigious university degrees that otherwise have
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zero economic value right i mean many many americans go to uh the ivy leagues by the way i'm an ivy leaguer i
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have a me too me too so i get it i was an ivy leaguer yeah i went to columbia i went to columbia okay i'm
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guessing because you couldn't get into cornell sure yeah that's the reason absolutely right
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so i i did my ms and phd at cornell well there are of course i studied something useful that led me to
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have a successful academic career but of course many people will go to cornell and columbia
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and get a degree in underwater lesbian dance therapy uh but of course i can put that i'm an
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ivy leaguer and that hopefully will impress the idiots within my social circle but i really have
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zero uh you know ability to turn that degree into anything meaningful right so there are many ways by
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which we can hoard things to achieve social status men do it with money because that's the currency that
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is an honest signal of me having succeeded right so it seems like um one general principle of many
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general principles because consumption is such a broad activity for women because men primarily want
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beauty in women and that's an oversimplification there's a lot of research to that thanks to david
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buss and then women want status in men so men consume to ascend on the status hierarchy and women
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consume to ascend on the beauty hierarchy that's a broad enough principle that's perfect and i'm so
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delighted that you just mentioned david buss number one he is a pioneer of evolution psychology number
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two he's a very good friend of mine number three he wrote the foreword to my book the consuming
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instinct so kudos to you for mentioning david he's amazing i yeah i had the privilege of meeting him and
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recording with him like a month and a half ago at his residence in austin he's a great guy i read some
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of his work too and it's as impressive meeting him in person imagine had i been as tall as him i would
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have been emperor of the universe yeah he's pretty tall you are right you would be emperor with that
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sense of humor and height going for you you'd be the you'd be the prince yeah um is there anything
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else because look when i think of a consumption from a first principle point of view sure i consume
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fruits food whatever etc because there is necessity and there is necessity for shelter and then there is
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necessity for safety those are primarily they help me to live and survive and reproduce and then there is
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status and then there is beauty is there something else that comes to your mind that generally people
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lean into for consumption yeah beautiful question so i what i do originally in the in the evolutionary
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basis of consumption is i argue that much of our purpose of behavior in general and in consumer
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behavior in particular could be broken down using the following uh four categories within the taxonomy
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so number one is survival number two and i'll give you examples of each in consumer behavior number two
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is reproduction number three is skin selection and number four is reciprocal altruism those are sort of
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four foundational darwinian modules that explain i mean pretty much everything uh so unlike say maslow's
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hierarchy which by the way i i released yesterday a clip on my show where i was talking
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about a recent biography i read on maslow maslow is fantastic but his hierarchy of needs was not
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couched within an evolutionary framework it was more because he was a humanist psychologist he was arguing
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that yes we could we could be stuck on physiological needs at the base level but really to truly be fulfilled
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you have to aspire to the fifth level self-actualization which is perfectly fine it's true but it is not
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rooted in the evolutionary framework so what i decided to do is say okay well i coming as an evolutionary
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psychologist i would like to root all of our consumatory phenomena within an evolutionary
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based framework so survival let's give an example of survival you and i and every single person in india
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and any person who's ever existed on earth have evolved gustatory preferences taste buds that originate from the fact
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that we come from an evolutionary environment where caloric scarcity and caloric uncertainty would have been endemic right
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the the main the main the main challenge facing any species including the human one is first avoid becoming someone's dinner
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get dinner and then reproduce that's it good night everybody right so survival one way by which it manifests itself
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in is in food consumption so because you and i have evolved the gustatory preferences to prefer fatty foods
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then i can pretty reliably predict that you and i probably prefer some fatty food over raw celery
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now the individual differences between us might be that i prefer a fatty steak you prefer a chocolate mousse
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but we both prefer some instantiation of fat over uh celeries raw celeries okay so so many many food consumption
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phenomena would fit under the survival model let's do reproduction well we've already alluded to that
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for example the fact that women engage in sexual signaling in the mating market using specific products
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while men use other products to do so for example 99 percent of ferrari owners happen to be
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drumroll men and it doesn't change across cultures it doesn't change across time periods
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notwithstanding the fact that there are innumerable women who are millionaires and billionaires who could
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certainly afford the ferrari yet they don't line up at the car dealership why because men couldn't give a damn
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i could take a very unattractive woman who owns a ferrari versus a gorgeous drop dead woman who takes the bus
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guess guess what 99.9 of men would prefer to mate with right now again that doesn't mean it's the only metric
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it's most men don't only choose based on beauty but it certainly is a driver of my mate choice and yours
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okay so so that would be survival survival and reproduction now let's come to the next two kin selection
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and reciprocity now it turns out we see this in many species including humans that organisms are
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willing to go to great lengths to even to sacrifice their lives for their kin right so why would i jump
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into a river and to save my three children at the risk of me potentially dying if if if darwinian
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selection operated at the organism level you should never see that behavior right because i only care
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about my survival it makes absolutely no evolutionary sense for why i would engage in kin altruism to jump
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and save my kids but jbs haldane who by the way spent some time in india haldane h-a-l-d-a-n-e was a
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evolutionary geneticist he basically solved that conundrum which has then been explained further
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by guys like bill hamilton hamilton who unfortunately passed away from a malaria infection
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if you understand that evolution operates at the gene level and if you understand that each of my
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children on average shares half of my genes with me therefore if i jump into the river and save this
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packet of genes called three children well it makes perfect evolutionary sense for that behavior to
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have evolved right and you see it in many many species where it's as if literally that calculus
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is built into the organism's brain okay so that it's engaging in a cost-benefit analysis as to whether
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to risk its life to save the packet of genes that are in the burrow okay or whatever or in the river
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now how would that manifest itself in consumer behavior well gift giving patterns follow exactly
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that calculus to a t okay so with one of my by the way i'm only dropping this because i'm i'm speaking
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on an indian show my greatest doctoral student of all time is a gentleman by the name of tripad gill
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who is a is a is a very close friend now uh and a gem of a human being well with him we published a
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paper way back in 2003 where we looked at the manner by which people allocate their gift giving budgets
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as a function of the genetic relatedness between them and the recipient and guess what it is perfectly
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calibrated meaning let's put it in easier terms most people are much more likely to give a larger gift
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to their sibling than to their second cousin right uh and and i mean the data is just it's lit it's
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just perfect it's gorgeous okay so that would be so now i've i've given examples of consumer phenomena
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in survival in reproduction in kin let's do the fourth one well okay we understand why i jump into the river
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to save my three children why do i jump into the river to save you you're not biologically related
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to me you could be a friend or even more paradoxical why would i ever jump into a river to save you if
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you're a total stranger right that there are evolutionary explanations that might explain why
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you and i if we're close friends we might engage in in these behaviors but why a total stranger
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this is where the brilliance of robert trivers comes in who is one of the greatest evolutionary
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biologists since darwin which is saying a lot well he is the gentleman who proposed the evolutionary
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explanation for why reciprocal altruism evolves within human species and then i'll link it to
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consumer behavior in a second but let's look at our primate cousins our primate cousins engage in a
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behavior called reciprocal grooming what is reciprocal grooming well there i'm now some primate other than
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human the humans are called hairless primates but we have a lot of primates who are have a lot of hair
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when you have a lot of hair there are all sorts of ticks and parasites that come into your hair
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i can't reach in the in my back to take out those annoying things how about i show you my back and you spend the
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next half an hour taking away those sticks with the understanding that once we do it one way
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i will reciprocate right so this reciprocal grooming builds bonds forges alliances uh there's even related
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to hierarchy in terms of who grooms whom first and so the mechanism of reciprocity is built into social
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species now why do humans do it there are several reasons but let's go back to our ancestral
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environment when you and i are walking around in the african savannah or our ancestors remember earlier
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i said we face caloric uncertainty and caloric scarcity which means that i might die of hunger and my family
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might die of hunger if we bring down this three thousand pound game there is no refrigeration it's difficult
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to to save all of it how about we engage in the following insurance policy i will share my spoils
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with your family that is not biologically related to me on the understanding that in the future
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you will reciprocate in kind by us engaging in this reciprocal arrangement we end up increasing our
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chances of survival now by the way there's fantastic studies which i discuss in several of my books
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that shows how this understanding of reciprocity has shaped our mind example if i show you a bunch
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of photos of people okay you ready to get your mind blown i show you a bunch of photos of people
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and i ask you to memorize their faces and the only thing i add to the face is whether this person
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is a social cheater meaning that this person would violate norms of reciprocity or not but otherwise i keep
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how physically attractive they are controlled like i do the proper experimental design guess what happens to
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people's memories they're much more likely to remember the faces of social cheaters showing to you
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that our memory system has evolved to solve specific evolutionary problems and therefore the reason why
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i remember whether you're a social cheater or not and hence your face is because that has a clear survival
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benefit to me in remembering that because if i know that when i give you a gift i can be assured that
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you're going to be a parasite and never reciprocate this is valuable information for me to have from an
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evolutionary perspective don't trust this asshole and so therefore i could then demonstrate that this
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reciprocity darwinian mechanism manifests itself in many consumatory contexts including in the alignment of
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our friendship if i invite you three times three years in a row for your birthday and you fail each of those
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three times believe me i'm going to remember that were you showing these faces uh was the signal for
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social cheating something like a fake smile where the eyes don't move but the lips do
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no it isn't that although that it's that what you just said is also something i mean not exactly in
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the way you framed it has also been studied by robert trivers i remember i just mentioned him earlier about
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the theory of reciprocal altruism well robert trivers is also the gentleman who solved the conundrum
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of why we engage in self-deception right so and and now you're going to see why it's related to your
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story about uh some of these facial signatures when you and i are having a conversation there's an
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evolutionary arms race because i would like to potentially manipulate you to my advantage and
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you're carefully looking at my face listening to the intonation of my voice looking to see if there's
00:30:39.780
any shifting non-verbal cues that i'm exhibiting that suggests that i'm being duplicitous so there's an
00:30:46.160
evolutionary arms race between the two of us and i don't mean literally the two of us i mean in in
00:30:52.120
in the way evolution has shaped us now because for most people short of psychopaths if i engage
00:31:02.560
in duplicitous behaviors there are micro cues that i exhibit that shows that i'm lying
00:31:09.880
what better way if i want to protect myself from exhibiting those cues to you since you're very
00:31:18.480
much on the lookout for it if i self-deceive myself into believing the lie i'm about to share with you
00:31:26.780
then you could look all you want on my face you'll never see it so this is why so you could you could
00:31:33.060
begin to see why robert trivers was so brilliant although not an easy guy to have a communication
00:31:39.320
with i hate to say it because i've tried to have conversations with him and he's someone who
00:31:45.020
regrettably has suffered from some mental illness so astoundingly brilliant guy perhaps not the greatest
00:31:53.620
in terms of personal charms uh so this shows you how these types of cues might be things that we are
00:32:01.560
very much attuned to i recently did a clip to your question to your point on mamdani and and i'm going
00:32:09.180
to now do the mamdani the mamdani signature you see you see how you see how smiley i am well for anybody
00:32:20.100
who's a three-day-old pigeon you recognize that there is something astoundingly sinister in his smile
00:32:27.800
and the reason for that there is a scientific term for everything it's called the non-duchenne smile
00:32:34.760
duchenne was a neurologist who was actually trained by shakko who is the father of neurology and duchenne
00:32:43.980
demonstrated that when you are exhibiting a genuine smile versus a fake smile there's a different set of facial
00:32:53.580
muscles that are activated so when you engage in a non-duchenne smile it is very very easy to to see that it is a fake one
00:33:04.120
and so i hope i've answered your question yeah yeah you have uh but it begs the question because
00:33:09.620
if people are programmed so let me get this straight first of all there's a lot to unpack
00:33:13.680
so people engage in self-deception so that they can actually deceive other people so it's a means of
00:33:17.700
actually communicating the like without being recognized and i want to bring back mamdani i
00:33:23.440
have no personal affiliation no affection for mamdani it's just something that happens in the
00:33:27.060
distance that people talk about but it's an interesting phenomenon nonetheless and my personal
00:33:32.440
view on him um a little bit is that i've gone to college with guys like him i i know what this
00:33:38.500
champagne socialist types look like and i'm largely untrustworthy um but if you if that deceptive
00:33:45.960
smile is so obvious why did he win what what do you think happened there i know it's a little bit
00:33:51.320
of a detraction no no brilliant i'm gonna do a i'm gonna look for a a prop for a second hold on a
00:33:57.440
second you ready okay this is a memory stick this is a memory stick but for a second i'll ask you and
00:34:06.360
your audience to uh assume or pretend that it is the cork of a wine bottle uh one of the beauties of
00:34:16.400
being a multilingual speaker arabic is my mother tongue is that you come up you have sayings and
00:34:22.720
the other languages that are not as i'm sure is the case and they don't translate and they don't
00:34:29.000
exactly uh so there's an expression in arabic that says getting drunk by smelling the cork of the wine
00:34:37.280
bottle okay now what does that mean it means that you are of such weak constituency that you don't
00:34:43.260
even have to go through the hard work of actually drinking the the wine bottle you just take a whiff
00:34:48.560
and you're already drunk well but it also is used as a metaphor for someone who is weak-minded right
00:34:54.180
if i if i just uh tell you a few sweet words and you're already drunk by the cork of the wine bottle
00:35:01.800
then it's easy to deceive you so now here's the answer i think you you know where i'm going with
00:35:06.860
the answer to your question regrettably most people when it comes to choosing their political readers
00:35:14.360
don't activate their cognitive system but they activate their affective system and there's a there's a
00:35:22.500
persuasion theory called the elaboration likelihood model that speaks exactly to that point which by
00:35:28.640
the way is used a lot in psychology of advertising the the cognitive system is called the central route
00:35:35.280
to persuasion the affective system is called the peripheral route to persuasion now advertisers know
00:35:42.240
this very well without knowing all these fancy scientific terms if i'm trying to sell you a perfume
00:35:47.680
forgive me if i put you on the spot do you think that i'm going to activate your cognitive system
00:35:53.900
or your affective system in my system my affective system yeah right exactly so that so this is why it's a
00:36:01.500
hedonic product so therefore here's what i'm going to do i'm going to show you a girl on a horse
00:36:08.000
with her hair flowing there'll be no talking and then there's going to be some obnoxious brand name
00:36:14.180
mister right so i i what i have done is i have activated your peripheral system your affective system
00:36:21.540
i i don't usually sell you perfumes by telling you here is what eight harvard physiologists said is the
00:36:29.840
molecular structure benefits to your perfume that's triggering your cognitive system i don't want my
00:36:38.380
cognitive system when you're selling me perfume on the other hand if i'm telling you here are the
00:36:43.660
reasons why you should invest in my mutual fund then i should technically be triggering or invoking your
00:36:50.060
cognitive system so now let's link it back to mamdani and political choices when we are making
00:36:56.700
very consequential decisions about the people who are going to lead us i would hope to cross my fingers
00:37:04.300
that every person in the electorate is going to activate their cognitive system you're ready very few people
00:37:13.200
do why because thinking is hard thinking involves effort most people are cognitive misers as i like to remind
00:37:22.720
people they it's a lot less effortful to invoke my emotional system than it is to invoke my cognitive system so if
00:37:33.040
you have a politician who can say enough of the bullshit so that it could get us most of us drunk then good
00:37:44.160
enough for me so this is what explains how people vote and by the way i don't mean this as a political
00:37:51.000
partisan point but this is how people fall in love with the majesty of barack obama now it is true that
00:38:00.160
every single word that every single word that he utters is complete vacuous fatuous bullshit but my god does he say it with the cadence of
00:38:12.320
the southern baptist preacher right he's got this beautiful mellifluous voice let's look at
00:38:19.840
even someone much worse than barack obama our own recently departed prime minister justin trudeau he's tall
00:38:28.800
he's got beautiful hair he's young he's a feminist who really cares about women's plight so much so that he changes
00:38:39.100
he changes words like recovery he changes words like recovery he changes words like recession to
00:38:48.060
secession look i'm getting drunk i'm not sure i don't know if i could go on with this interview because
00:38:56.860
i'm already getting drunk just thinking about him i'm getting so turned on so therefore why does mamdani
00:39:03.180
win because most people are bafflingly imbecilic therefore if i do and i say everything is free
00:39:14.860
everything there'll be free food there'll be free transportation there'll be free anything you want
00:39:22.120
because tax the rich because the wealthy are exploiting you my god that sounds like a good message
00:39:30.120
i'd rather not spend my effort thinking about the accounting of how things could be free
00:39:36.780
and therefore you know what i'm voting for mamdani it literally is that simple you know um i i often told
00:39:45.560
my team early on i said uh the right psychological category between whether someone will do something
00:39:50.740
or not is not good or bad or right or wrong it's cognitive load and cognitive freedom people do not
00:39:56.020
want to be loaded cognitively and they want for it to be as simple cognitively as like that's the real
00:40:01.140
spectrum of action when it comes to pure understanding of the mind and i also think that
00:40:06.740
marketers understand intuitively something about psychology that psychologists do not for instance edward
00:40:13.740
bernese who's kind of a cross-pollination between marketing and psychology he convinced women
00:40:18.220
smoking was the most feminist thing ever it was a sign of freedom and all of us got duped by it he convinced
00:40:23.320
people that bacon and eggs are the great american breakfast and that led to heart disease and all
00:40:28.160
that and so is there something that these people who actually have skin in the game when it comes to
00:40:33.940
selling something when it comes to moving the human action needle uh do they know something more
00:40:39.360
than what psychologists do or is it different well if i can just correct you one bit although i understand
00:40:45.740
the gist of your question it's not psychologists versus marketing marketers are the ultimate
00:40:53.820
psychologists right i mean i did my my phd was at the johnson school of graduate management i mean my
00:41:00.820
my doctoral supervisor is a cognitive psychologist i was trained in psychology of decision making but the
00:41:06.960
fact that i apply it in consumer psychology doesn't suddenly make it not psychology right so
00:41:14.320
so so it so it's the marketer may not be a psychologist in that he didn't get a degree in
00:41:22.740
psychology but he is the ultimate psychologist because he is wedded to reality it pays or it doesn't pay
00:41:32.240
if i fully understand human psychology and i act accordingly this is why by the way usually
00:41:40.160
as i started my career in applying evolutionary psychology to consumer psychology when i would
00:41:46.300
give lectures in front of practitioners business leaders advertising executives they were like this
00:41:54.820
is gorgeous perfect when i would give the exact same talk in front of academic psychologists now some
00:42:02.120
of them said yes gorgeous perfect david buss but others said this is nonsense are you arguing that
00:42:08.980
human beings and consumers are animals yes idiot i'm exactly arguing that right consumers don't suddenly
00:42:16.900
cease to be biological beings when they are navigating the marketplace right so to your point the reason why
00:42:25.080
many psychologists are more likely to be detractors of my work is because they are wedded to
00:42:32.560
ideological principles that might be contrary to evolutionary psychology so for example if i believe that all
00:42:40.820
consumer behavior is due to socialization as an endless number of business scholars would think
00:42:48.940
well then i don't like god sad because god sad is saying no no of course socialization matters
00:42:54.680
but there is a set of underlying biological imperatives that holds true whether i'm in mumbai or chennai
00:43:02.840
or i am in nagasaki that's what makes us all universally the same well the academic psychologist may not like
00:43:10.960
that the practitioner goes yeah no kidding and so the reason why bernese was so good is yes because he
00:43:18.960
married psychological principles to in his case manipulate consumers no kidding right right so you'd
00:43:27.360
mentioned um survival you'd mentioned reproductive success you'd said kin altruism and reciprocal altruism
00:43:34.680
is the four sort of broad categories yes sir i have one more tell me if that fits somewhere and that's pure
00:43:40.000
mimesis pure mimetic desire my friend has that watch i want that watch everybody who's my colleague has this
00:43:45.460
car i want this car that kind of stuff and we end up like when i think of human consumption my sense would be
00:43:50.820
purely as an amateur that most people consume things that they consume largely because other people consume
00:43:56.240
those things whether that's tv shows whether that's music pop culture trends virality tiktok it's all probably
00:44:02.320
explained by mimesis is that a fair proposition yeah great question uh i can fit that phenomenon within the
00:44:09.540
four darwinian modules uh there are several ways to do it so let's let's let's begin
00:44:16.740
in terms of your social comparison because he did it i'm gonna do it well there is a phenomenon called
00:44:22.100
keeping up with the joneses right keeping up with the joneses is i live in on a street and this
00:44:29.140
asshole show-off neighbor of mine just bought a cooler car i don't like that because i want to be the top
00:44:36.660
dog in the neighborhood and therefore to your point i will engage in some form of
00:44:43.460
social comparison that then drives me right so that positional economy and the envy associated with
00:44:50.900
that positional economy can easily be fitted into one of those four darwinian modules so in the case of
00:44:58.180
keeping up with the joneses in terms of the car i i didn't say oh he got a really nice lawnmower
00:45:06.340
this is pissing me off therefore i better get a similar lawnmower because lawnmowers are not
00:45:13.060
publicly consumed they're privately consumed so that's not going to serve as a very powerful signal
00:45:19.380
to the world to the mating market of my value but if when that asshole buys the cooler car than me
00:45:26.260
that is emasculating me and therefore i might also go by so so yes you're the phenomenon that you
00:45:32.420
described is certainly an important one it's because we are a social comparative species
00:45:37.620
but it easily can be amalgamated within one of those four mulchers follow follow follow follow
00:45:43.860
got it got it got um there's one more interesting phenomena and that's kind of like um so i i am aware
00:45:50.260
of the idea of like the zahavian principle which is where i let's say if i'm fighting himanshu here i'll
00:45:55.940
tie my hand around my back to say i am you're worth one hand and that signals strength by proving a
00:46:00.820
handicap i signal strength but you know how rich people they want to signal they're broke so they'll
00:46:06.500
wear these hoodies these tech billionaires will be in their hoodies and flip-flops i've met quite a few
00:46:10.420
who don't even sometimes wear shoes and it's kind of interesting but the aspirational class will try
00:46:15.460
and get their rolexes and their petite phillips or whatever watches ap's they wear um and then the
00:46:21.300
intellectuals want to look pedestrian the pedestrians want to look intellectual and it seems like this
00:46:25.700
what is this concoctment like what is happening in society well first of all you you don't know the
00:46:31.300
amount of uh pleasure to my heart it brings me when i'm on a show and i hear the words zahavian
00:46:37.300
signaling so kudos to you sir uh of course i discuss zahavian sing uh signaling at length and in my work
00:46:46.980
let me give you the background to your audience before i answer it specifically to what you asked
00:46:52.260
so earlier we said life is a two-step process eat dinner avoid becoming someone's dinner and reproduce
00:47:01.860
there's no point of me surviving if i don't end up reproducing okay great so now darwin comes along and
00:47:08.820
in or on the origin of species he explains all natural selection which is channeled for survival but
00:47:17.460
then in a subsequent book a few years later he then says but what explains then the evolution of
00:47:24.740
the peacock's tail right because the peacock's tail could not have evolved because it confers greater
00:47:32.020
survival advantage to the peacock it actually does the exact opposite right it makes me more conspicuous
00:47:37.220
to predators it makes it more difficult for me to take flight and escape from predators so why could
00:47:43.140
such a tail evolve and why are the peahens choosing the males that have the biggest and most iridescently
00:47:51.940
colored and conspicuous tail well that's where then we get into sexual selection which says that it also
00:47:59.220
is important that i evolve traits that confer mating advantage a key feature of that is what's called
00:48:09.380
honest signaling or costly signaling or zahavian signaling which basically says that for a mating
00:48:17.940
signal to actually be discriminating for the females of that species i mean there are some species that
00:48:24.180
are sexual reversal but for most it works one way the males are impressing the females well if if the
00:48:32.660
trait is simply let's see who can do five push-ups and therefore the females will choose the one who does
00:48:41.220
it well it's not a very honest signal because most of us can meet that signal most of us can do five push-ups
00:48:48.340
on the other hand if the signal is as happens in some amazonian tribes put your hands in a
00:48:55.380
glove of leaves that are filled with really pissed off bullet ants where one bite from the bullet
00:49:03.940
and a single sting is as painful as getting shot hence it's called a bullet ant if i could put my hand in there
00:49:15.060
and the ants can now engage in multiple stings and i still am standing after that while the ladies will
00:49:25.060
go hmm that seems like a pretty tough guy right so zahavian signaling evolves precisely because it is an
00:49:33.700
honest signal of the phenotypic quality of that particular organism it's a very very powerful concept
00:49:40.740
which i then go on and use in consumer behavior so now i come to your question the reason why the ultra ultra
00:49:48.740
rich don't purchase maseratis but the nouveau riche purchase maseratis because when i'm a nouveau riche
00:49:59.060
entrant into that ecosystem having a maserati is an honest signal of my having arrived within that social
00:50:09.620
class but when i am elon musk who if i can engage in not to name drop is a
00:50:18.740
good friend of mine elon musk and the the ecosystem that he lives in the maserati is not a very honest
00:50:28.180
signal of because every single member of my ultra billionaire class could afford a maserati so i better
00:50:36.900
look for alternate ways to differentiate myself from those other lowly billionaires if i want to show that
00:50:44.020
i'm a serious billionaire then i'm going to find other ways to do it here is a way i can do it you
00:50:50.100
ready how about if i engage in and this is not elon musk now right this is this is from this is actually
00:50:58.260
i have a whole section of this in my 2007 book when i argue that art consumption is a form of zahavian
00:51:07.300
signaling that's exactly what i'm doing but it's not art consumption in that i'm purchasing a recently
00:51:14.260
discovered leonardo da vinci painting because that we might argue well at least there's a unique talent
00:51:21.540
that came with da vinci to be able to create such an aesthetically beautiful piece how about if i pay
00:51:27.380
150 million dollars for a painting that just has three lines on it which literally a monkey on crystal
00:51:40.340
meth could have produced now that's all of modern art thank you now i have really differentiated you
00:51:50.020
differentiated myself from all you other lowly bullshitter billionaires because if i could take 150 million
00:51:57.060
dollars and literally burn it by spending 150 million dollars on those three lines then boy i must be
00:52:06.020
the real deal to be able to to engage in in wasteful consumption and hence it's a costly signal so
00:52:12.580
therefore all of those things that you're talking about are a recognition of that dynamic i don't have to
00:52:19.060
wear fancy clothes when i'm elon musk because there is a million other ways by which i can
00:52:26.500
demonstrate the honest signaling of my status um isn't there something called poor signaling for
00:52:35.780
like you know the intellectuals who kind of wear clothes that look very pedestrian um is which
00:52:41.860
is the word used is it poor signaling or poverty signaling or something of that nature i i might be
00:52:47.700
forgetting yeah i don't know about the specific term you're thinking of but i can tell you the
00:52:53.940
following you ready it turns out that there has been a study and actually i've got a funny story about
00:53:00.020
this so uh it the higher your academic status at an academic conference the less lowly that you dress
00:53:11.860
right that's been tested and i remember that i was actually listening to a at a conference to that
00:53:23.620
research being presented and in my inimitable style i put up my hand and i said can you see how i'm
00:53:32.260
dressed in my bermudas i guess it supports your theory of course everybody laughed but that's exactly the
00:53:40.180
point which is now i can i can change it from sartorial garb to a slightly different thing i've noticed that when
00:53:48.260
i go to conferences or i give academic talks usually the truly top academics don't i mean it's not always
00:53:58.260
true there are some really obnoxious super high status academics but this typically the super high
00:54:06.180
high don't do this and they don't interrupt you and so on but the the ones in the middle that are
00:54:16.020
doing this not so much because they want to engage me but because they want to use it as a signal to
00:54:22.100
the big alpha dogs in the audience to impress them they're the ones who score very high on obnoxiousness
00:54:29.220
right so and i'll give you a great example that had happened i i believe david buss was one of the
00:54:36.740
so my first time that i ever presented at the top evolution conference it's called hbess hbess is for
00:54:44.980
human behavior and evolution society so all of the top evolutionary behavioral scientists are there
00:54:51.220
the who's who i this was my first time this is almost 25 years ago so i'm this young professor you know
00:54:59.700
not many people know who i am and i'm noticing in the back there is david buss there is john to be
00:55:07.140
lida cosmetes i know that many of the people in your audience may not know who they are there's martin
00:55:11.940
daly and margo wilson i mean that's probably the the five top pioneers actually i do remember david buss
00:55:18.580
was there uh the the five pioneers of evolution psychology which to me at the time would be from
00:55:24.260
an academic perspective like meeting you know leonel messi and zidane and soccer right and so at after i
00:55:31.380
gave my talk this was at ucl university college london in england uh they they ushered me over to to see
00:55:39.620
them and they were just the loveliest most humble folks super supportive oh this is great stuff it's
00:55:49.140
such a pleasure to meet you you're doing great work and i remember i left there my wife was with me and i
00:55:55.140
was like buzzing for three hours because you know you might think that these these folks given how
00:56:01.620
you know famous they are and so on they might beat up on me no but it's the next rung that act obnoxious
00:56:08.740
because they're signaling to others so there's definitely a lot of truth to what you said
00:56:13.700
interesting um i don't know if this concept came from reading something about you or from you
00:56:18.500
directly but it's in the same time as i was reading you and i found this super interesting and i know
00:56:22.900
people just do not understand this there is a specific kind of a woman that is used to advertise
00:56:28.260
to men and a specific kind of woman that is used to advertise to women right is that a is that
00:56:32.660
something that exists in theory yeah so that i mean i don't know if that's what you're what you're
00:56:37.700
alluding to but i i think it is in in sexual selection there are two mechanisms remember i
00:56:46.420
mentioned earlier natural selection and sexual selection sexual selection is the selection of
00:56:51.700
traits that confer a mating advantage now within sexual selection there is
00:56:58.340
is intrasexual competition and intersexual competition so let's first do it for other
00:57:06.180
animals and then we'll do it for humans to your question intrasexual competition are traits that
00:57:14.180
evolve for competition within the same sex so for example when rams evolve this very uh thick cranial
00:57:24.260
structure with those big horns so that they can butt heads with i mean literally at 50 60 miles an hour
00:57:30.180
for most of us it would lead to our death for them it just results in the winner getting all the ladies
00:57:37.860
that trait has evolved for intrasexual competition between same-sex uh parties on the other hand the
00:57:45.700
peacock's tail that i mentioned earlier evolved for intersexual competition that trait is not meant to
00:57:53.540
intimidate other peacocks it's meant to woo the ladies right so both of these forms of sexual
00:58:00.340
selection exist in nature so your question speaks to that distinction i could sometimes wear i'm speaking
00:58:09.060
as a woman now i could wear high heels as a form of intersexual signaling because i am trying in this case
00:58:19.300
to draw the attention of men to draw the attention of men on the other hand when i
00:58:26.020
don myself in luxury brands i'm engaging in intrasexual competition right as i mentioned earlier men don't
00:58:35.940
typically go oh my god sydney sweeney you're gorgeous but you're not wearing high-end uh balenciagas
00:58:44.260
right sorry no sex for you tonight right but on the other hand women will compete with each other
00:58:53.380
using those cues of luxury and and actually there is a paper maybe that's what you were thinking of
00:58:58.980
or or maybe you did read it in some of my stuff but there is a paper not published by me uh i think
00:59:04.180
it was published in journal of consumer research that exactly made that point which is why would women
00:59:10.180
ever be interested in luxury brands if men don't care about that signal well because they're not
00:59:16.020
trying to impress men in that case no i think um fair point but what i think i was referring to is um
00:59:22.180
and i'll butcher it but tell me there is uh men women and women women in advertising and specific kind
00:59:28.020
of women are used to advertise to men because they appeal to the male gaze instantly like they are
00:59:32.420
generally more curvy and you know broad like bigger breasts whatever and there is a woman woman that is
00:59:38.340
maybe not as hot in the evolutionary sense but more beautiful that appeals to women specifically
00:59:44.100
and it's an advertising you're saying which type of female endorser i use in advertising will come in
00:59:53.220
these two types yes right right so i i don't know if i can think of a specific study that has done that
01:00:01.780
but that makes perfect sense to me in the following way so for example to your point if i'm a very sexy
01:00:12.580
i'm a woman now i'm a very sexy waitress at a restaurant who is dressed in a scantily clad manner
01:00:23.540
what do you think will happen to the size of the tips depending on whether the patron is a male or
01:00:31.620
female patron i mean that literally will answer your question what can you tell what right so with
01:00:37.140
the male they go above normal with the female they might go below normal but stick to normal
01:00:40.900
exactly or or i'll punish her yeah right may go below normal by quite a bit yeah that that that
01:00:47.060
slut showing her uh her cleavish to us you know what i was going to give her 15 screw her okay on the
01:00:53.860
other hand for a minute and so the recognition that different and by the way that is exactly a
01:01:02.900
manifestation of the power of evolutionary thinking right it is an understanding that the exact same
01:01:11.780
stimulus will be perceived differently by different groups of consumers for very clear evolutionary
01:01:19.460
reasons and let me give you a beautiful example of that actually this is another study with
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i mentioned them earlier trip at gill it was a study that we did many years later after the gift
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giving one and i hate whenever i mention this study because we still haven't published it
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only because you know you're busy with a million other things but maybe having this conversation
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with you today will will light the fire for us to finally publish it so trip at and i about 10 years ago
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had decided to do as a set of studies looking at what happens to people's perceptions of a dating profile
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as a function of the types of consumer products that are shown in their profiles okay so one example
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is we take a male nothing changes everything in the description is the same the photo is the same but
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there's a place where it says my favorite personal possession is and we either show that it's a red porsche
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beautiful or it's a sorry to anybody who owns a beaten up kia it's an old beaten up dreadful kia okay
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uh nothing else changes nothing now i'm going we we measured many dependent measures but i'm only going
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to focus on one now and you will see how i am answering your original question using another example
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now at the end of seeing this particular uh dating app a dating ad i'm going to ask men and women
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to rate how tall was this guy you ready so now i've set you up for it what do you think happens to the
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guy's height as a function of whether women or men are evaluating the porsche guy so men would think
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he's shorter women would think he's taller is that right that's why you're also an evolutionary
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psychologist because your brain is shaped by the same evolutionary forces that have shaped my brain
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i just have the official title evolutionary psychologist but so are you okay so women look at
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that that actually that that product that product that product is a signal of status we have another
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signal phenotypic signal of status called height therefore i magically through the magic of evolution
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suddenly the same guy becomes taller in the porsche to women now look at intra versus intersexual
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for a guy for a guy my biggest threat is not that you are uh cuter than me or have prettier lips than me
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if you have higher status than me i don't like it therefore when i see the guy with the porsche
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i engage in intrasexual derogatory tactics how do i derogate you well there are many ways one of
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which i say well he must be some short little guy that's why he's overcompensating by getting the
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porsche so the same product the same guy resulted in either status elongation or status contraction
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depending on whether i am male or female so yes to your question you're exactly right
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i wonder if there's a study to this effect because i found this phenomena we live in um
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we live in a unique time and so your generation for instance god uh you grew up on television and
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newspapers my father's generation who's probably a little bit older was radio newspapers and televisions
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came during his time um we come with social media my nephew comes with ai and so there is this sort of
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medium mapping that happens with generation when technological progress is as fast and for instance with
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my father anything that's written he automatically assumes is true and so he's so susceptible to
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advertising and propaganda that's written for me and my colleagues i find anything that they see
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on a screen given what's going to happen with sora given what's going to happen with artificial
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intelligence man they automatically assume it's correct and then they have to recheck in their
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head be like maybe it's not you know there's a lot of fake news around and so on and so forth
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i wonder if there's a study about how generations rely on specific mediums for advertising and how
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susceptible they might be to it is there some data on that i don't know if there is data but but
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someone is going to take exactly what you just said and steal it and turn it into a phd dissertation
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the way that you just laid out is exactly the mechanism that i try to teach my students when i'm saying
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come back to me with 10 different research questions don't start giving me convoluted stuff i just want
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a single sentence and if i read that sentence and i fully understand what your research question is
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you're exactly on the right track so if i say uh does women's ovulatory cycle affect their clothing
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choices a 10 year old will understand that so your question that you asked perfectly fits that i i exactly
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get there's an intergenerational element there is a likelihood of being persuaded i get it so i don't
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think that there is any study that at least that i'm aware of that has looked at that but certainly the
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way you've laid it out makes sense to me but that speaks in a sense to a greater universality which is
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intergenerationally the mechanism by which i try to persuade you changes but the capacity for the
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architecture of the human mind to be to use advertised exactly is an inherent part right
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all that changes is the mode of delivery by which i get to you but i can always find the frailties in
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your in your mind you know um we are like i have one large theme to cover before we finish but it just
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struck me and i think it's my folly it would have been great to talk to you about why people consume
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certain ideologies and from that it would have gotten into say the technology side and how sort of
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the world operates in the non-material sense but maybe the intellectual sense so maybe at a later
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point but i wonder with these algorithms and you see this now right um outrage which is pure anger
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has become this common participatory ritual of a sort we all engage in anger whether it's directed
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this side or that side and it happened very recently with this sydney sweeney ad right where
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on one level outrage was being consumed on another level jeans and i mean like american eagle jeans
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i mean levi's jeans like jeans were being consumed not jeans as in how you might use it in a lab um
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what do you think of that what do you think happened there what do you think from an evolutionary
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point of view well you're taking an emotion that is easy to deploy so usually when you get angry in a
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situational sense it's it it it has to be easily deployable right so for example if i'm taking a
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shortcut down a uh you know a dark alley and someone accosts me aggressively it wouldn't make sense that it
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would take 30 minutes for me to build up a uh an evolutionary based anger response right because i detect a
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threat there's an autonomic mechanism that says you better rise up to that challenge quickly and
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so to your question and to the earlier one where i said oh it's just new modes of delivery for a
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mechanism that is part of our indelible human nature what social media is doing is it's sending us down
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that dark alley every second of the day right so someone says something to me on social media
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that could be viewed as defamatory insult to my character guess what you're attacking me in the
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alley i'm now going to get pissed so oftentimes people say you know you you put out a lot of
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positive content professor sad and so on but you seem a lot more intimidating and combative on social
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media than when i meet you in person you seem so much more friendly and affable in person how do you
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explain that i go well that's the difference between disposition and situational traits by
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disposition i'm very affable and warm but if you keep accosting me in obnoxious ways on social media
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you are going to trigger the honey badger in me so i think that's what's happening in terms of the
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outrage now oftentimes the outrage is not well justified but that's what social media does to us
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it is tickling this easily deployable emotion which makes evolutionary sense in the dark alley
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perhaps doesn't make evolutionary sense when we get pissed because sydney sweeney says i wear nice jeans
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right um and i mean i wonder why morality is such an interesting part of it because so first of all
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social media is very unique in which it'll find all participants worthy of anger in its quest to engage
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most people right so it literally searches for people with specific emotions to maximize engagement
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but then anytime i see this anger and it could be from whatever political side it could be from
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whichever ideological background it always garbs itself in morality that there is a higher morality
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and you have somehow betrayed it and you are not part of it and i need to point out that you are lower
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morality and this is the standard morality or else it doesn't work where is the principle of morality
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playing into evolution and how important is morality in evolution yeah wow uh so a couple of couple of
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ways to answer this first one thing that upsets me greatly is what not that you've done this but will
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often happen is when people are usually arguing for the unique insights of religion as compared to science
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they usually will invoke the morality argument to explain why religion is so important they say
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if it if it if it isn't through some divine source that we get our morality then how do you know
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what's right or wrong complete nonsense because there are very clear evolutionary arguments which i won't
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necessarily get into now there are very clear evolutionary arguments many books written many articles
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written scientific articles explaining why the moral sense would have evolved in a social species
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like human beings so it's not in the least bit mysterious how you would explain morality from an
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evolutionary perspective but to to your more specific pointed question and here i i keep joking about
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this but i'm being truthful uh i have so often in the recent past uh plugged this particular book that i'm
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now thinking that i need to write to those two authors to tell them that i deserve some of their book
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royalties how many times i've plugged it and i'm going to now plug it again there is a book by two
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french psychologists called uh dan sperber and hugo mercier the book is titled the enigma of reason and they
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basically argued in the book that we haven't evolved the capacity to reason in the quest of some
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objective truth but rather to win arguments now that already is quite a pessimistic perspective
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to someone who tries to develop a mind vaccine so that people can actually navigate the truth
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because the reality is most people go la la la i don't want to hear it my tribe is right and therefore
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my tribe is right and no amount of evidence that you could ever offer me professor saad is ever going
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to move me from my anchored position so now how do we link that to morality one of the ways
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i ensure that my tribe is always right is to invoke a moral justification for my position right now that
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could be totally false and could be could be incorrect but if i can put the weight of morality on my side
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that makes it that much easier for me to win the argument and i hate to say this not to turn it
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political the left is much more likely to do this than the right not that the right
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doesn't commit its own cognitive and emotional biases but when it comes to invoking morality
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to justify my position the left does it more there's the old i'm gonna botch the the saying now
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but the left usually says about the right that they are morally degenerate right that's why we have
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to violently respond to them because they are literally hitler whereas the right simply says hey
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i think your position is wrong now let's have dinner together uh so so morality could be asserted
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so that it allows me to win arguments um to your point about religion and morality there is a singular
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piece from a debate between um jordan peterson and shlavojijek that settled this debate for me
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right and jordan said something about it is in the presence of god that nothing is permissible
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you know in the sense of bad things and then shlavoj said no no it is exactly in the presence
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of god that everything is permissible take for instance 9 11 and you know you just might drop
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like morality is put into question at that point but um it's also very interesting the left and right
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comparison the left likes to virtue signal and we see the metastatic left likes to virtue signal and the
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metastatic right is beginning to vice signal and you see how openly they're owning their racism and how
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openly they're owning for instance their discrimination against the the other tribe and so you see this
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metastatic political behavior on both sides it's very interesting um i want to ask you a speculative
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question and i'm sure you wonder about it we are at a precipice technology forever is going to change
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with the way the last few years have gone in technology after a after a somewhat um latent period
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we've hit something enigmatic and this magical thing which we call natural language processing or large
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language models in artificial intelligence formats robotics are on our eyes elon saying we'll go to
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space we'll go to the mars and he's going to put a chip in my head and suddenly i can think of all these
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all of this is happening and i just wonder with all this technological energy that's brewing how
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do you think will consumption change and i know it's a purely speculative question we don't even know
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what will actually become a thing what will manifest what do you think what are you seeing already
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yeah it is a very open-ended question but certainly a very interesting one i can take maybe a stab at
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one angle of that question although there could have been many branches we could have gone off i remember
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when i was doing my mba in the late 80s there is a term that i learned that has stuck with me to today
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uh called mass customization and let me step back a second uh in the in the in the production centric era
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henry ford the goal then was if you remember the the the famous quip by henry ford the consumer can have
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the car in any color he wants as long as it's black right now what is he saying there he's saying i don't
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give a shit about what your consumer preferences are my job in a production centric economy is to
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meet consumer demands so there's going to be an inflexible manufacturing system that just puts out
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cars then later the marketing centric perspective comes in says no no wait a minute we have to produce
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cars cars to fit the fact that there is consumer heterogeneity and so on right now mass customization
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links those two together because it says can i create flexible manufacturing systems that still
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appeal to the masses can i have a system that produces the run a la henry ford but that is
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sufficiently flexible that it can produce different cues of products or okay well i think what ai and
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technology does is it takes this mass customization mechanism and turns it into an orgiastic process
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right the fact that the ai algorithm can give me i said i mean literally it's it's um
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i will sometimes go to my instagram feed and when i'm doing just the the mindless
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you know scrolling through the feed and i go how the hell is it possible that i am now being shown
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these endless old-school vintage watches which is something that i really love what what which
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behavior that i i don't remember ever entering a google search where i said show me vintage watches
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but yet somehow the magic of ai is giving me things as though it is literally spewing it from my brain
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and and i really can't remember what was the overt behavior that i engaged in that allowed it to guess
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this but clearly i must have done something that it guessed that who knows i don't know
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and so that's i think from a consumer behavior perspective is to take mass customization as i
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would have learned it in the late 80s as an mba student and turn it into the capacity to engage
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in this flexible delivery to every single individual on earth might perhaps be the most obvious way by
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which i see ai altering how we consume i also think um we will have empathetic advertising where
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listen i understand your pain buy this it'll solve it which is a very unique kind right and it slips in
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i think um open ai announced their advertising bit very recently i also think it would be very interesting
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to study how men women and different cultures consume chat gbd because it's become this very intimate
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space for people and uh i often see a huge difference in how my wife my soon-to-be wife
01:20:14.820
and i consume chat gbd and it's like poles apart um and i i ask people like just like how i ask them
01:20:20.660
what their explore feeds on instagram are because that tells you a lot about what a person's thinking
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without them saying it uh in a similar in the similar way in what do you do with chat gbd is also
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very interesting because it's just so private it seems like you're having a conversation with yourself but not quite
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it well remember earlier i said when you were talking about the intergenerational mode of delivery
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and i said well you just came up with a phd dissertation research question well you just
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came up with number two uh listen your students will be very happy research question sex differences
01:20:51.940
in chat gpt interactions and now i can i can start listing you know off the top of my head 10 different
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hypotheses that i can engage in so that's perfect because by the way in every single course that
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i've ever taught at the bachelor's level mba level masters of science level and phd level i always use
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the following project come up with a research question propose a set of hypotheses develop the data
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collection instrument to collect that data analyze the data and give me what the conclusions are give
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me the practical implications give me the so i mean like they're literally doing a thesis in a one
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semester course when they first come in they're like what the hell professor what are you talking
01:21:40.020
about i don't even know how to by the end of the course they will all come up to me and say
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of all the things that we learn going through that process from a to z of how the scientific method
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works is arguably the thing that we you know that we're most thankful for uh and so
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if nothing else that people take away from our conversation you just came up with two research
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questions that are worthy of a doctoral dissertation so what are you waiting to sign up for a phd program
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notwithstanding very successful show whenever you invite me i think i need a i need a great advisor i
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think you could do it i'm honored no but you know it's it's really interesting because i i really think that
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you know it's a very powerful way for me to pick up the pedagogic value that i give to students
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because when i see how when they start off the first week when they send me their research questions
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how that document looks versus 13 weeks later what it looks like it's as if i could visibly see that
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you've lost 100 pounds they're a different human being that's the power of the scientific method you're
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right um god i have no more questions do you have any questions or any comments any suggestions for me
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oh well first uh great job uh i i don't i don't give people easy compliments they have to earn it
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uh your questions were totally fair totally right i loved our conversation keep doing your great job
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i only have compliments for you no questions thank you god um i am waiting for your next book to come
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out whenever it does i'll reach out to you we'll set up something else uh i think i i mean it i this is
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probably from somebody who's non-academic i think one of your most interesting contributions to culture
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has been the coinage of terms like the parasitic mind virus uh now suicidal empathy i see it being
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replicated in intellectual circles in india and people may not even recognize you but they know the term and so
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you put these interesting physiology and i think you need a sense of humor for that i think you need
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this sort of levity for that and you don't have to take yourself super seriously for you to actually
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influence culture in that way so thank you so much you've defined culture and that's that's a very
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very rare compliment of all the people i get to speak to which is my privilege very few people have
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defined culture and you have so thank you so much for that um and if there's anything else i can do
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please let me know this has been an absolute pleasure likewise cheers