Israel is a Magical Place (The Saad Truth with Dr. Saad_961)
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A retrospective about my recent trip to israel, including my keynote address at a conference on global antisemitism, and the many opportunities I had to meet and meet people in Israel, including Prime Minister Benjamin Netanenkel.
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all right thank you very much for joining me today i wanted to do a retrospective about my
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recent trip to israel i was fortunate enough to be able to bring my family my wife and kids
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it was their first time in israel but it was my fourth time the first time was in 1983 i spent
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the whole summer there second time was in 1984 i also spent the whole summer there
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and then i didn't go back for another 15 years i went back in 1999 in the summer i was speaking at a
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behavioral economics type of conference academic conference in in israel and this was my first
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time back so my fourth time but my first time back since 1999 i had been invited by the israeli
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government uh specifically by minister amichai shikli who is the minister of diaspora to a
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conference on global antisemitism and i was one of the keynote speakers i posted the the my keynote
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address on x but i haven't yet uploaded it on my youtube channel and on my podcast i'll probably
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do so tomorrow so please check it out it's uh it was a beautiful venue you know a lot of people
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attended it was really wonderful got a chance to meet a lot of people that navigate in similar circles
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but i've never met before so that was really nice but as we got there so we got there uh two sundays
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uh with the idea of sort of going around israel for the first week and then making our way to
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jerusalem for the you know for the for the conference and then i was approached once people
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found out that i was in israel it was really overwhelming i must have received 50 60 invitations
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to appear on various podcasts and media and television and invitations to speak and to meet
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i unfortunately wasn't able to oblige all these requests because you know my schedule was pretty
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full and also i was there with my family but i did accept one impromptu invitation uh to speak at the
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tel aviv international salon uh and i did speak at that last thursday and then that was followed by a
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q a period now i'm and it was very very successful it was a wonderful event you can go and watch both
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my lecture which is about i think maybe an hour and 10 minutes long followed by about a 40 minute
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q a all of that is available on my youtube channel my podcast on x it's everywhere you can go check it
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out uh there was a bit of a brouhaha and that the people who organized the tel aviv international
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salon had asked people to sign up and well over a thousand people signed up and came from
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apparently all over israel but then they turned many of the hundreds of people at the door because
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the venue was not big enough and then they also said that it was largely reserved for young people
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the idea and apparently it was stated in the sign up alert that it'll be largely for young people to
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them because they want to get young people involved anyways as you might imagine a lot of people were
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very frustrated that they couldn't make it hopefully the fact that the lecture and the q a period are now
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posted it'll aswash some of the people's uh anger now of course it was kind of perhaps a bit uh misplaced
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to send me angry emails about the fact that people weren't allowed to get in because it's not as though
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i'm the one who's controlling who gets in or or not uh but i understand your your frustration
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so the jerusalem talk and the conference were amazing many thanks to minister shikli and the
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tel aviv salon was great i also got a chance to the director general of israel's foreign ministry
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asked to meet me we we spent about an hour together with his political advisor and chief of staff that was
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really great i was invited to president isaac herzok's house there was an event that was being held to
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honor vladimir jabotinsky and at that event uh ambassador mike uh huckabee spoke at and i got a chance to meet
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him that was really uh nice uh had a chance to meet very briefly uh prime minister netanyahu
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some folks were trying to organize a longer meeting uh one-on-one meeting which unfortunately wasn't
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able to happen because of the prime minister's uh you know very busy schedule hopefully it'll happen
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in some future they got a chance to meet michael rapaport the actor and his lovely wife hung out
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with them that was great uh but there's a lot more i want to say about this but let me just
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mention that i've been very fortunate to you know 99.9 of the people that have ever come up to me
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anywhere have been very loving very supportive fans and so on but israel took it to a completely new
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level the the kind of love and affection that i felt was really really touching i mean anywhere
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everywhere everywhere on the streets in cafes in restaurants at the events i even was uh taken to a
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uh bookstore in jerusalem and the owner of the bookstore you know turns out to be a huge fan
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so all of this was absolutely unbelievable uh definitely looking forward to going back
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i went to my cousin's house my uh paternal cousin uh turns out that he's done very well for himself
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the last time that i had seen him was in 1999 when i last visited israel but we had spent our summers
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together in 83 and 84 he's done very well for himself he lives in one of the most upscale areas
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of israel he invited us for shabbat his whole family was there his kids it's very very touching to
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to be there and see them uh what else have i got for you so we as i said the first week uh we were
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hosted by some people they don't wish to uh have their names known or who they represent and so on but
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it's a it's an organization that invites you know public figures to experience the magic of israel which
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i mean for me it's not difficult to be sold on the the truly unique character of israel but i i need to
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say this and i hope that the people in question are listening here uh the the people who hosted us
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in jerusalem but then also came with us uh i mean they hosted us in tel aviv but then also
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came to came with us uh to jerusalem are some of the most saintly kind godly people
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i mean if you don't believe in god and you meet these people you suddenly become a believer
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because they exuded out of every single pore every single cell of their bodies they exuded
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goodness and kindness so to those people you know who you are uh my family is still reeling
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at the fact that we're no longer there with you we we miss you immensely we ended up visiting
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uh cesarea beautiful area all the tour guides by the way we got you know you know private drivers
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and tour guides and so on that was gorgeous we went to tzvat which is a city that i've never been to
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before it's uh a city very much steeped in a mixture of uh kabbalistic you know ethos and some ultra
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religious folks some kind of hippie types it was very very nice to see but i would have been much
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happier if we could have reduced the links to kabbalah uh for every single thing that was mentioned
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on that visit uh even my injured knee for those of you who saw uh i i had to walk around on crutches
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had to go to the hospital uh because of some problems i was having with my knee somehow our tour guide
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managed to offer a kabbalah interpretation of my knee injury uh we went and did some glass blowing
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also linked to kabbalah i mean okay it's enough kabbalah but anyways it's all good uh let's keep
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going oh so listen to this so our one of our tour guides uh finds out that i'm a big soccer fan
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tells me hey there's an amazing match between uh maccabi uh natanya and maccabi haifa this is the
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premier league in israel and let's see if we can get you tickets for you and your family and so i asked
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them uh could you tell me who the uh the owner of maccabi natanya is and he gave me the name the name i don't
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think he he'll mind that i say it it's public uh information the gentleman's name is ross keston
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and so i didn't know ross i've never spoken to him i find him on x where we're we're being driven back
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i write to him and i simply say i mean not even a salutation uh
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i need four tickets for the upcoming game can you make it happen within a few minutes that four
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tickets are there so ross thank you so much we've since communicated hopefully we get a chance to hang
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out in miami and then when we went to the game his nephew comes up to us approaches me it's very very
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sweet lovely young man and then he actually gives my son a shirt number 10 shirt of the team uh with
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the family's name written in the back so this is the kind of hospitality that we faced everywhere we went
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we also went to haifa and had some uh amazing french fries and shawarma now here's the incredible thing
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everywhere that i went whether it be in haifa or or in jerusalem less so in tel aviv i spoke to
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everyone in arabic right so for example the the physician who took care of me uh was an arab we
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spoke in arabic the all of many of the drivers were arabic i became good friends with one of our drivers in
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jerusalem and so everybody was kind of joking that it you know there was more arabic spoken than hebrew
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uh certainly in several cities so i felt really back at home in the middle east which brings me to
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sort of the general in arabic you say like the the atmosphere you didn't see any uh
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you know uh animus between the arabs and the the jews uh i even spoke to many of them in arabic and
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they were like ah everybody gets along here everybody's happy they were all super you know
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proud uh to be israelis uh even though of course there were muslim tons of women who were wearing
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islamic veils nobody was bothering them and so all that you hear about israel is so ridiculously far
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uh from the reality so on that front it was absolutely unbelievable there was i guess one
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incident that i just posted about a few minutes ago that is now received a lot of attention several
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media outlets reached out to me to talk more about it even i had an approach from a ministry in israel
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that wanted to talk more about it uh i i knew two professors at hebrew university who were very keen on me
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speaking at hebrew you and we were trying to set up hebrew you by the way is in jerusalem uh and when
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we were trying to set up that i speak at the university uh i was told well you know if you
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restrict your uh lecture to you know more technical stuff for example evolutionary psychology or consumer
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psychology or psychology of decision making something technical about your scientific research is great but if
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you are going to talk about some of the i'm assuming the stuff you know in the parasitic mind or
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suicidal empathy and my political positions and so on uh then the the the senior administrators are likely
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to to not invite you and so imagine that someone like me who is you know steadfastly defending of course
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western values of course israel uh is is not invited to speak at hebrew you you know because i'm too
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controversial now i understand some of the dynamics there i think 30 percent of uh the students at hebrew you
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are arabs by the way look at that 30 percent of the students at the most prestigious university in
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israel are arabs that doesn't seem like much of a genocide uh so maybe the senior administrators
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all senior administrators are castrated invertebrates they have no spine they have no testicles so in
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this case i thought it was really quite telling that even in israel someone who like me who is coming
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to of course fully support israel is told but you know sorry we can't we can't have you speaking
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these truths so not good uh on our way back uh to the airport our driver uh had you know was 45 minutes
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late and uh luckily minister shickley was kind of pulling pulling into the hotel when i told him that
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we were late he gave us one of his drivers and then we just whizzed with sirens you know blasting
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uh straight to the airport given the special treatment to make sure that we would make it
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back on our flight so bottom line you know i've spent much of my career always fighting against
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the current right so when i began my research in evolutionary psychology people said well what are
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you doing with this research in in a business school this is it's not going to help your career i said
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i don't care i'm going to do what i think is interesting and the right thing to do and so i
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darwinized consumer behavior and psychology decision making and so on uh and of course it was very very
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difficult at times to get my papers published in top journals because they would get desk rejected because
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most social scientists are certainly quite hostile to biological based reasoning when it comes to
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understanding human behavior so it started off with that and then of course later in my career when i
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became a lot more vocal about the rot in academia i was always swimming alone against the current and so
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to be in a place where just everybody was supportive everybody was giving you love everybody was inviting
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you everywhere taking care of you protecting you uh you know gushing over you was very very special and i could
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tell you that uh you know it really does get into your blood in terms of the this the special unique
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character of israel part of it is in arabic the term is fawda fawda means you know it's chaotic there's
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definitely some chaos there's you know israelis can be quite uniquely brash and aggressive there's a bit of that
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a lot to get used to but in terms of when you peel the onions the the kind of intense love and passion
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that they that the israelis have is is extraordinary uh not once that i speak including to members of my
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family or to other people not once that i hear a single israeli say anything even privately that was
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negative you know about arabs or muslims and so on uh they truly want to have this small piece of land
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the size of new jersey to be able to maximally flourish and in an ideal world all of their neighbors
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would accept the fact that they're there and then you can really truly unleash the unique
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richness of middle eastern culture and i and i here i'm i'm talking specifically about arabic culture
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uh one of our drivers as i said who with whom i became very close friends at one point uh in several
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places i had to have a an armed you know person with me in case something would happen whatever and
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at one point he turns to me and says well why did you why do you have this bodyguard i'm your bodyguard
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nobody's going to touch you if i'm the guy who's driving you around that's the kind of uh
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you know ethos of hospitality and honor that you have in the middle east and what poisons this is the
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religious tribalism if we can sort of move past that and and really allow the human capital to be
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unleashed my goodness what a magical place and so overall unbelievable trip so thankful that i went
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i was very very worried before i left just because i'm i'm not a good traveler in the sense that
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i always you know i don't like to go to hotel even though we were you know we were placed in really
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truly top hotels i don't like to touch the hotel sheets i don't like to touch you i'm very germaphobe
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i don't i don't like to be on a plane for 12 13 14 hours and so i was very very concerned about the
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long journey but having now come back boy i long to to return and already there there's been a few
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prospective invitations that are coming so inshallah as we say uh the future looks bright
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hopefully this these abraham accords are going to unleash a new era in the middle east where you know
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people can live in peace respecting each other and hopefully uh building a a beautiful coexistence
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so let's let's pray for that so that that's what i wanted to talk to you about just to kind of give
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you a sense of the the real magic of this place absolutely by the way the food oh my goodness as you
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know as many of you know prior to when covet started i you know i was much heavier and then i lost all my
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weight boy it wasn't easy to stay svelte in israel because i was getting pumped with food every place
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that i turned but it was really good so that's it i just want to give you a bit of a feeling of uh
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israel if you haven't been put it on your bucket list you really should go i mean the the old quarters
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the armenian quarters the the muslim quarter the jewish quarter in the old city of jerusalem i mean
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it's it's obviously it's a world heritage site it's not to be missed i'll just mention one more thing
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i've never seen as many people jogging like maniacs as i did on the beaches of tel aviv i mean
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imagine being placed on the 405 highway in southern california which is like a six lane highway in
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either directions where cars are whizzing by that's how i felt when my wife and i would wake up every
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morning and go for our morning walks before i had my knee issues i mean every single person in tel aviv
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was running at 100 miles an hour i don't think i've ever seen people that were quite as fit as the
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people from tel aviv so there you have it folks thank you so much have a great afternoon make sure
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to go visit israel no there isn't a genocide going on no there isn't an apartheid going on
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i saw jews and moslems and some christians for example the armenian quarters living
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completely peacefully with each other with little to no animus all right folks i'll talk to you soon
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thank you for joining me have a great sunday cheers