Cheryl Hines: Stories From “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and Sticking by RFK on His Way to the White House
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Summary
Cheryl Hines grew up in Florida and then moved across the country to Los Angeles to pursue her dreams of becoming an actress. She talks about how she got her big break, the challenges she faced, and what she learned along the way.
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Cheryl Hines, thank you for coming all the way out here.
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Your life, the trajectory is like pretty amazing.
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You know, I grew up in Orlando and Tallahassee.
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Um, and then one day I drove my Toyota Tercel across the country to Los Angeles.
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And when it came time to move, he was very sad.
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I just want to get out of, I want to see the country.
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And so we broke up and then we drove across the country together.
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Because I knew I was going to move to, because I always wanted to be an actress.
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And I knew it was going to be New York or LA, but I knew two people in LA.
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One guy from my high school and another guy who was a family friend, um, one of my brother's
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So I thought, okay, then that makes more sense.
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Well, actually, um, so my, one of my best friends, Paul Beckett, he had, he, we ended
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high school together and he moved out there and he was a professional, um, background actor.
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He loved it because it was, it was, you know, day to day, you get a project, but you don't
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You know what the hardest thing about doing background work, have you ever done background
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No, I've been in the background in a lot of events, but I've never been paid for it.
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But it's harder than it seems because, you know, if you're, if they're shooting a party
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scene and your background, you have to stand behind the main actors and act like you're
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No, you can't speak out loud, but you just, you just, uh, you act like you're talking and
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you make eye contact with the person that you're talking to and then you take turns mouthing
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Because you have to do it as an actor too, because sometimes, you know, you're shooting
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something in the, in that somebody else's coverage.
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And so they ask you not to actually say words out loud while they're doing their dialogue.
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Usually when you see people clapping, they're not actually making noise.
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No, you're just a professional and you know, not to.
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So you show up not knowing anybody except one extra, went to your high school and then
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Um, I, you know, I got a bartending job, which actually was also hard.
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And in LA, it was hard to get a job as a bartender or as a waitress because everybody's
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doing that because everybody is trying to, you know, get a job as an actor or writer.
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But, um, but I've managed to get a job in this hotel in downtown LA.
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I think they've changed it since then, but so that was good.
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And then it just, it took a year for me to work in that, in that hotel, in that bar to
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And at that time you would send out your headshot and resume to all of the agents in town and
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hope that somebody would be interested in just from looking at your picture, be interested
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I wasn't ready for the rejection because I thought, what if I send out a picture and resume to every
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So until I was ready with that, that form of rejection, I couldn't bring myself to do it.
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How did you get, how do you prepare for that kind of rejection?
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Uh, a lot of self pep talks, you know, when you're, I would just say, okay, what's going
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You're probably not one person is going to respond.
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And for the first year of my life there, I thought, yeah, it'll change me.
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It'll, this is the only thing I've ever wanted to do.
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So, but, but after I was there for a while, I, I realized, okay, my self-worth doesn't
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depend on if somebody looks at my picture and decides they want to, um, represent me
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But I finally got to that place where I realized, okay, life is going to go on.
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And this was before you'd sent a single headshot to a single agent.
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Well, uh, I guess I just didn't want to, uh, I didn't want to, even though it was the only
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thing I wanted to do, it's the only thing I've ever wanted to accomplish.
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And I thought, well, is my life going to be over at 25?
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If I can't, am I going to let them decide if I'm successful or not?
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So, yeah, I had to, I had to get to that place.
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Well, then I sent my, I sent them all out and I did get a response.
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And let's just say it wasn't one of the big agencies.
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And really there are a handful that are, I mean, there are a lot that are legitimate,
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but there are really only a handful that are powerful.
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As a matter of fact, I was, I was, I wasn't getting any auditions.
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They never sent me out on one audition, but, um, remember the Tanya Harding and, um, Nancy
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And so there was a, um, you can, you used to be able to see the, the breakdowns for what
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So I would read the breakdowns to see what people were casting for.
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And at the time people were telling me I looked like Nancy Kerrigan.
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So I thought, okay, well, maybe I should, there was a TV movie for this, for Tanya Hardy and
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And so I knew my agent was not submitting me or if they did, nobody's opening that.
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I put a post-it on my picture that said, uh, you should see her for Nancy exclamation point.
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I didn't sign it because I didn't want anyone to think that I was, uh, doing anything underhanded.
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And then I, for the return address, I put my agent's address and I got called in.
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Wait, you pitched yourself on behalf of your agent?
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Well, I didn't book it, but my agent, but my agent called.
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Actually, but I did have a really good audition and I may have been called back because it,
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And growing up in Tallahassee, probably a pretty good ice skater.
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And I said, um, well, you know, I know, of course I know how to ice skate.
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I think I, I think I got called back because when I got called back, I do remember there
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were four girls that looked a lot like, uh, Tanya Harding and four girls that looked like
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And I was just sitting in this room, just looking around like, wow, this is weird.
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I think you'd rather be on the Nancy Kerrigan side.
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It was for Swamp Thing, the TV show, inspired by the movie, Swamp Thing.
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Was it a straight-to-video at Enterprise, or what was it?
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Well, because I, this was my springboard to stardom.
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Oh, because I just got, I just got this role and there was nothing else really shooting in Orlando.
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Because, you know, we were three hours later, earlier, later.
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I mean, this was not like, nobody got golden globes from Swamp Thing.
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This was probably what I was, this was probably, how long ago?
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You have to, you know, and he's asking me, do you feel like you can do that?
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I'm a trained actress is what we do all the time.
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Do you have a lot of body hair for an opening line?
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And, you know, I was like, okay, well, I can't say that I do.
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And then he says, you want to take off your shoes and get comfortable?
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And he said, you don't want to take off your shoes?
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It never occurred to me that this is a weird guy who's trying to do something sexual.
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I mean, I guess it's sort of a slow burn, you know, because a lot of stuff you do as an actor is weird.
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There are a lot of things that are not normal, that are odd, that are out of your comfort zone.
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You know, you're showing up on a set and kissing a person that you just met and that's part of your job.
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So, there are things that happen that are just strange and also normal at the same time.
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So, you know, taking one boot off, I just didn't think that that was...
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I can understand how a woman that's in a spot like that, it's a very vulnerable place for them to be.
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And if I didn't have my friends on the other side of the door, I don't know what would have happened.
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So, how did you wind up on Curb Your Enthusiasm?
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Well, I started studying at the Groundlings Theater in LA, which is...
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And at that point, I had gotten a better agent.
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I was auditioning for different pilots, different TV shows.
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And I got called in to audition for a one-hour special.
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They were just calling it the Larry David unscripted or untitled special.
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And so, I went in and I was scheduled to audition and then they called me and they said, we're running behind because there's no script.
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It's all improvised and it's taking longer than we thought.
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So, I don't know when you're going to be able to go in.
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And then that night, I was performing in a sketch comedy show.
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And I was performing a sketch that I had written.
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And the producer, director of the one-hour show was in the audience and really liked the sketch and thought that my sense of humor and Larry's would match up.
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You know, I knew that he co-created Seinfeld with Jerry Seinfeld.
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And so, I wasn't, it was probably good that I didn't because I wasn't intimidated because I didn't even know who he was.
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And I knew I was going in to play, to audition for his wife.
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And I felt like, I'm, I don't know if I'm right for this part, but I'll go in and try to have a great audition and see what happens.
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And then, and then when I walked in, I mean, the sketch that sort of opened the door for me was about a woman in, in her workplace.
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And this guy comes in to do a safety, like go over safety procedures in an earthquake.
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And everybody in the office seemed to know what to do in case of an earthquake.
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And they were answering all the questions, right?
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Oh, if, do you light a match after an earthquake?
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And somebody said, no, because there could be a gas leak.
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And I'm thinking, whoa, how did they even know that?
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And, you know, should you walk around without shoes on?
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And they said, no, because there could be broken glass.
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And then they said, what do you do if your water supply runs out?
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And I said, well, if push comes to shove, you can drink your own urine.
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And so the rest of the sketch was, they're trying to move on, you know, okay, let's, do you call your friends?
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And I go, just to be clear, I don't drink my own urine.
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I'm not, I never, I'm not going to come home and drink my own urine.
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And I, and I won't let it go, you know, at the, and I said, look, I'm going to say right now, I'm not going to drink my own urine.
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Even, even if there's an apocalypse and the only way to survive is to drink your urine.
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I want you guys to know right now, I'm not drinking my urine.
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So that was the sketch that, that Bob Whitey saw that, and he brought me in the next day to meet Larry.
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And then when I walked in for the audition, he said, oh, the urine girl is here.
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Well, that does sound like something from Curp Your Enthusiasm.
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So Bob thought that Larry would appreciate that sort of sense of humor.
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So there were some seasons when there were some, there was like a four hour, a four hour, a four year break between some seasons.
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Because it was Larry David and Larry wanted to only do shows when he felt inspired.
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So he felt like after, even after the first season, I thought that was the end of the show.
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And then I get a call and say, oh, we're going to do another season.
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And then one time I got a call from him and he said, uh, I've, I've got some bad news.
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And he said, we're going to do, we're going to do another season, but you're not going to be in it.
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And, uh, and then they did a season in New York that I wasn't in.
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And in the show, Larry and I had gotten divorced.
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And then the season after that, he brought me back into the show as his ex-wife.
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But it was over 24 years that all this took place.
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I know it doesn't seem like it, but he's, he's very caring about people close to him.
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24 years is a long time to spend with the same people.
00:42:53.020
And our crew, we had a few crew members that were with us from the beginning.
00:43:00.660
It was very sweet too because there was so much time that was passing and we all were,
00:43:08.000
we had kids and then we watched our kids grow up and then we, you know, some cast members
00:43:18.680
So it was sweet, you know, they were just a real part of my life.
00:43:23.520
It sounds like that was a lot of your adult life.
00:43:27.300
And you met your husband through the show or through Larry?
00:43:32.040
I, I met Bobby, Robert Kennedy Jr. through, I mean, Larry just introduced us, you know,
00:43:39.960
I, Larry and I went to a water keeper event and he just introduced me to Bobby, not in
00:43:46.100
any way like you guys should, you know, have anything to do with each other.
00:43:54.740
It was just like, this is Cheryl, this is Bobby.
00:44:13.780
And also I just remember, oh, that's a pleated khakis guy.
00:44:28.000
I think growing up in Tallahassee, I had a lot of guy friends that wore pleated khakis and
00:44:38.540
it was kind of a, it reminds me of a, hmm, like a football coach type of a, it's to me at the time, it felt like not a creative type person that I was used to.
00:44:58.100
The pleated khakis are the not, they're the more non-creative.
00:45:09.500
I mean, listen, they weren't good for guys or girls.
00:45:23.840
So it was part of the appeal, I got to fix this.
00:45:27.060
I mean, that part of the thing was just like, oh, he's a pleated khakis guy.
00:45:35.260
Then when years later, when we got together, I was.
00:45:42.600
Because when I met him, he was, he was married.
00:45:51.820
It was no spark or interest or anything like that.
00:45:57.500
And, and then I stayed involved with water keeper and I would see Bobby once a year, I think at a water keeper event.
00:46:09.360
And it was, he was always pleasant, always nice.
00:46:12.800
But we, I really never even spoke to him that much because it was always a big event.
00:46:34.680
Um, it'll be interesting to see him because it's hard, it's hard going through a divorce.
00:46:42.100
And it's hard even talking to somebody about it because nobody, unless you're going through it, nobody wants to talk about it.
00:46:49.860
And even if you're going through it, you might want to not want to talk about it.
00:46:52.500
But anyway, when I saw him, I said, how are you doing?
00:47:02.700
And then, and then we started talking and I just, it was really the first time I talked to him as a person, as a, he was, uh, very, very dynamic.
00:47:19.300
You know, he's a dynamic person and I just saw him in a different way for, for the first time.
00:47:37.180
Uh, they, you know, my friends, they thought it was fun, but, you know, at the time Bobby was living in New York.
00:47:49.280
Bobby was an environmental attorney and, um, everybody loved him.
00:47:56.800
Except for the big corporations that he was suing.
00:48:01.000
Uh, so, you know, it was just a kind of a fun, uh, situation.
00:48:08.380
And they wanted to hear the highlights, you know, my friends.
00:48:14.760
Um, but it wasn't, it didn't seem like it was going to be anything permanent.
00:48:23.600
So, I don't know, but it was just, uh, wasn't, didn't seem like a big thing at first.
00:48:38.660
Probably easier to marry someone who understands what that is, I would think.
00:48:43.840
I understand why people, I mean, it has its, um, its pluses and minuses, right?
00:48:53.680
Because probably two people that are known or, you know, well-known or whatever that looks
00:49:13.340
There are probably two famous people that feel, somebody feels left out while the other person's
00:49:20.100
So, there might be that, um, I know that should be true with friends that are actors, you know,
00:49:28.540
two actors together and sometimes, or a director and an actor and their career is doing great
00:49:34.460
and the other one is, you know, in a different pocket in their career.
00:49:38.040
That can be tough, but it was good for me and Bobby because we were in different worlds.
00:49:45.480
And, uh, I remember early on when we were going through the airport together and somebody stopped
00:49:54.300
him and said, you know, what you're doing is amazing.
00:49:59.000
What you're doing is so important for the environment, for our country, uh, for people,
00:50:11.320
And then we keep going through and then this guy said, oh my gosh, that diarrhea scene that
00:50:22.460
And I look at Bobby like, ha ha, you're not the only one.
00:50:26.900
So we had a, it was fun getting together with him in that way.
00:50:32.260
Well, then he asked me to marry him and I said, I don't, I don't really want to get
00:50:38.840
married if we're going to live in different States.
00:50:53.180
It wasn't an easy decision, but yeah, that's what happened.
00:50:57.200
And just from the outside looking in, things go great and then COVID happens.
00:51:02.260
And Bobby goes from being controversial to being really controversial.
00:51:12.940
And more love too, not just more hated, but more prominent.
00:51:19.640
Also more prominent and started really speaking to a lot of people.
00:51:27.260
And it was hard to being in LA or challenging perhaps because the, I would say the majority
00:51:38.420
of the people in LA that I was encountering did not agree with him.
00:51:46.380
Um, and they could not imagine anybody agreeing with him, but the reality was there were millions
00:51:56.880
of people across the country that did, were agreeing with him.
00:52:01.800
Um, but it was hard to see that in LA, but that's what was happening.
00:52:39.720
Like it's, um, you know, the whole, I can't believe I'm the first one saying it.
00:52:46.520
The whole vaccine issue, people were so, um, passionate about it one way or the other.
00:52:56.600
And the people, and, and there were a lot of people that felt like, uh, if we don't all
00:53:06.480
And if you don't take it, you're going to kill us.
00:53:09.940
So the, so people really felt like that and, and would tell me that.
00:53:17.040
You know, I didn't have very strong feelings about vaccines one way or the other my whole
00:53:22.480
I didn't realize that it was a religion to a lot of people.
00:53:27.540
Well, but that, you know, it's religion because that doesn't make any sense.
00:53:31.400
If the vaccine is effective and you take it, then you're good to go.
00:53:38.680
Did anyone, I heard smart people make that case.
00:53:41.660
People I thought were smart, but it doesn't make any sense just on the face of it.
00:53:51.720
No, it wasn't enough for someone to be able to take the vaccine and feel like, whew, I'm,
00:54:02.360
So the, my body, my choice was not a real thing.
00:54:09.020
It was like, and I want to, I need to get involved with your body.
00:54:15.220
And feminism is also obviously fake because why would you hold a woman responsible for
00:54:24.460
You'd be like, well, you know, you're a human being like with autonomy and stuff and you're
00:54:29.040
responsible for your views, but your husband is a different person, not the same as you.
00:54:32.800
And he's got his views, so they're not your fault, right?
00:54:36.200
That one would think, but that's, it's also not the case.
00:54:42.700
How did, so as, but this went on and on and on.
00:55:02.900
You know, it felt like the conversation was loud and it was, you know, what was really hard,
00:55:12.240
Like, like I said, both sides, I felt like both sides were pretty loud.
00:55:16.760
And so even if you would find out that maybe somebody had passed away, uh, it seemed like
00:55:25.080
both sides wanted to know, was that, was that person vaccinated?
00:55:31.680
And it, and it made me sad because I, I had several friends that passed away during that
00:55:37.240
time and it felt like we were talking about the wrong things at the moment.
00:55:44.860
It's like, wow, I, it's not, why are we talking about the person that just passed away and
00:55:51.700
who, who they were and how they affected our lives, you know?
00:55:57.600
How can I use other people's deaths to score political points?
00:56:03.880
What's a measure of your decency that you hated that?
00:56:08.620
You should take, take a mourn the person's death, right?
00:56:21.880
But when it goes quickly from, you skip over that conversation, it was just hard.
00:56:31.440
I think it was hard for people to accept that vaccinated people ever die because it's magic.
00:56:38.860
And I think they were like, oh, there's got to be some way to explain that.
00:56:44.840
Well, it felt like both, it felt, once again, it felt like both sides were, well, yes, they
00:56:53.060
got the vaccine and then they got COVID, but they would have died if they didn't get the
00:56:58.000
vaccine or, you know, it's, it's sort of like the, you could fit, fit different scenarios
00:57:10.240
And, you know, studies, so many talks of studies.
00:57:20.040
And it's like being in a courtroom and you're watching both sides.
00:57:25.820
You have an expert and the expert will say 100%, you know, if you pick up this glass, you will
00:57:36.600
And then the other experts say, 100%, that is not true.
00:57:40.900
Here's a study that shows something completely different.
00:57:42.980
So it just felt like there was a lot of that going on.
00:57:47.840
Instead of, to me, what I, what I have a hard time understanding is instead of always pointing
00:57:57.780
the finger and saying, you're wrong, you better listen to me, you're wrong.
00:58:04.740
Instead of that, and two people saying, okay, let's talk about this because it is a problem.
00:58:31.440
Well, it's helpful to begin the conversation with here.
00:58:42.120
Because it's the ultimate display of good faith.
00:58:48.060
But when you begin with, you know, here are the eight things I don't like about you.
00:58:53.080
So at this time, your husband is at home writing The Real Anthony Fauci.
00:59:04.080
Did you talk to him about it as he was writing it?
00:59:05.660
Um, there was a lot of Anthony Fauci talk in our house for good reason.
00:59:21.800
Um, and there was a, you know, he worked really hard on it and he, he spent a lot of time,
00:59:35.100
So, you know, there were a lot of days that were just filled with citing sources by, you
00:59:42.200
know, um, this article, that study, this goes in page two, this goes in.
00:59:47.980
So it was, it took up a lot of space in our lives.
00:59:53.200
I mean, there are thousands of footnotes in that book and it's a very long book.
00:59:57.140
Um, yeah, so it was, uh, I, uh, you know, was it important?
01:00:09.580
No spouse of a writer is ever happy about books.
01:00:12.800
I've had children cry to me when, uh, I'm going to write a book, another book.
01:00:22.340
It's awful, but it's terrible for the people around you.
01:00:38.920
So were you ever worried that, I mean, this is getting more and more and more controversial.
01:00:46.120
You, you marry this man and you're in separate worlds, as you said, and that's a wonderful thing.
01:00:57.100
And people in your world think Bobby Kennedy's pretty cool because he's like a Kennedy and
01:01:01.100
they're like sort of, you know, Democratic Party royalty and liberal in a wholesome
01:01:07.200
And like, not, not a scary liberal, but like a do-gooder liberal.
01:01:16.900
And all of a sudden, everyone in LA is pissed about COVID and there's your husband who's
01:01:29.260
Were you worried that that was going to affect you, your life?
01:01:54.920
I didn't know if this was going to be, um, something that we move through that I moved
01:02:22.600
Well, as I said at the outset, you're in a place I doubt you anticipated being.
01:02:27.280
So that was, that was, uh, when I realized, oh, uh, this is.
01:02:37.580
So I would, it was publicly reported that people in Los Angeles were like, maybe we shouldn't
01:03:09.420
They're so upset by politics that even to see me is upsetting to them.
01:03:18.940
Can I suggest something though, that this is why it matters.
01:03:22.000
It's not just about getting parts in TV shows or writing books about Fauci.
01:03:28.300
It's the mindset that says, well, you know, we hurt the guilty, but we also hurt his family
01:03:35.640
And it's weirdly common in elite circles in the United States.
01:03:39.780
You know, it's like, what do you have to do with this?
01:03:43.340
You married the guy in, by the way, you were already successful when you married him.
01:03:52.340
You're not writing a book on Dr. Fauci, but let's hurt her because she's related to him.
01:03:55.740
That's, that's where genocide comes from, that way of thinking.
01:04:05.880
And at the same time, uh, on the opposite side,
01:04:09.900
yes, there are people that I'm probably not going to work with again.
01:04:14.520
And, and there are people that I will be working with that have reached out to me and that are in
01:04:24.040
this business that are very successful people that say, oh, I want to work with you.
01:04:32.500
So it's, but it was hard because at the time, I mean, I've really loved all the people I've worked with.
01:04:43.340
And, and I also know, you know, we're, we're sort of generalizing.
01:04:47.400
I, there are plenty of people that I have worked with that have reached out to me and, you know,
01:04:57.300
Um, they're not doing it publicly, but the other people aren't doing it publicly either.
01:05:02.500
Nobody's, you know, besides Bradley Whitford, nobody's going on, you know.
01:05:14.460
I try and stay away from all things Bradley Whitford related.
01:05:25.120
I, it's when Bobby, I guess it's when Bobby backed, uh, President Trump.
01:05:31.240
Um, and I just woke up, I woke up and I had people texting me and I was trying to stay
01:05:37.780
off social media too, because it's nothing good comes from it.
01:05:42.260
And I'm, I'm looking at my phone and I'm seeing texts from my friends saying, uh,
01:05:50.720
And I'm thinking who, oh, who's the asshole today?
01:05:54.980
Um, and then somebody sent me his, something that he posted on X.
01:06:00.800
And it was something like, uh, um, I bet my nephew Jackson would know it by heart, but
01:06:08.220
it was something like, Hey, Cheryl Hines, um, something like insulted Donald Trump.
01:06:15.940
And then, uh, of course, insulted Bobby and said, Oh, you're, this is a real good, um,
01:06:25.640
setting a great example for the kids talking about me and, uh, a real profile and courage.
01:06:32.960
And I was like, what's, what, first of all, what kids, what, what kids am I setting an
01:06:47.360
And if the example that I'm setting is that I'm supporting my husband, I'm glad that's
01:07:02.760
Uh, and then profile and courage just because that's the name of the book that John F.
01:07:07.640
Kennedy wrote, but you know, no explanation other than it's just, he just, uh, sort of called
01:07:13.340
me out, uh, for not being out, outraged at my husband.
01:07:18.880
I'm not even sure what he was hoping that I would, uh, publicly denounce your husband.
01:07:31.340
You know, I, it was a straight, it was so strange to me.
01:07:37.600
Like Brad, and I, you know, I, I know Bradley and I, he, he's an acquaintance.
01:07:44.380
And if I saw him at a party, we'd hang out and laugh and talk.
01:07:48.060
But so for him to just suddenly come after me in a tweet was just weird.
01:07:53.940
But kind of consistent with the culture of the city that you live in, right?
01:07:58.740
There's not a lot of, I mean, it's so monochromatic.
01:08:01.440
It's like everybody has the same views on everything.
01:08:05.520
Um, after the first, um, after the election with, with, uh, Trump and, and Hillary, I remember
01:08:16.540
going to work and I remember we were, I was in, it was in the green room up somewhere and
01:08:22.480
people were talking about the election and everybody was saying, I can't believe Trump
01:08:28.480
Couldn't believe who is, who voted for this person?
01:08:30.920
And there was one actor that said, Oh, I voted for him.
01:08:52.960
And I wanted to hear, I wanted to talk to him because I felt like, Oh, tell me why.
01:09:01.560
And everybody else was just acted like he was a leper in the moment.
01:09:07.740
And I remember thinking at the time, like, this is so strange.
01:09:14.180
Cause that's not an environment conducive to creativity.
01:09:21.240
And willing to entertain all kinds of wild notions.
01:09:36.540
And, you know, maybe it has something to do with the declining creative output in Los
01:09:48.380
Listen, the, the people in this country and the entertainment business are the best in
01:10:16.220
I, I'm probably the only person with my voting record who defends LA, but I, I always
01:10:21.900
But I just notice that it's when I was a child, it's, it did seem open-minded.
01:10:27.820
Maybe too much, probably famously too open-minded.
01:10:36.080
On the other hand, it is the road to creativity.
01:10:44.840
I find it odd that, uh, on the one hand, you have a lot of people saying, um, yeah, let
01:10:53.620
people be people and love the person, no matter who they are.
01:10:58.080
I mean, that's, that was the feeling I always felt in LA.
01:11:02.260
Unless you're married to someone who writes a book I don't like.
01:11:16.900
It sounds like you're just by the way you talk that you were not super political.
01:11:23.580
I was, uh, you know, the only thing I had ever posted was to vote.
01:11:34.160
But personally, you weren't like yelling about politics at dinner most nights.
01:11:39.580
And by the way, I, I never knew what politics my friends or coworkers had.
01:11:47.040
Uh, cause I would never be the person to bring up politics unless they were talking about it.
01:11:51.600
I would chime in, but, um, it just was not, I would, was not that person that was interested.
01:11:59.400
I was, I was interested in entertainment and writing and producing and directing and acting.
01:12:05.700
And to me, and so inspired by the people around me in LA, so inspired by them.
01:12:13.560
So yeah, politics was just for what other people do.
01:12:21.420
So when your husband said, oh, by the way, uh, just, you know, I may run for president.
01:12:33.000
You said, this is not something you thought of before.
01:12:50.620
Uh, I was shocked and I, I, you know, I was like, well, I need a minute to think about this.
01:13:05.300
I mean, do I have to give you an answer right now?
01:13:09.860
And he said, no, I just, I need to know how you feel about it.
01:13:14.220
I won't do it unless you're, it's okay with you and you're supportive of it.
01:13:19.060
And, uh, I said, I have to really think about it, you know, because I knew,
01:13:44.120
And I think what's really hard is I've always been very independent in my life, right?
01:13:54.460
I sort of, you know, made my own path to do this and that, you know, other things.
01:14:03.320
And however I got there was not the normal way.
01:14:07.200
So I was used to taking risks for myself and knowing, well, this might not work out.
01:14:15.380
This might work out, might not, but that's okay.
01:14:19.820
But it's sort of a harder, of course, situation.
01:14:26.300
Anybody who's in a relationship, anybody who has kids, anybody who loves somebody else.
01:14:33.500
When they want to take a risk, um, and they're doing it because they, they're, they want to
01:14:45.600
Um, it's harder when they're the ones making the decision, but you know that it's going to
01:15:01.680
What did they say when you show up at work and you're like, Hey guys.
01:15:10.760
Um, you know, they were always very, um, loving to me and, and even to Bobby.
01:15:34.100
So I never felt hate coming at me or towards Bobby, but definitely there was strong, um,
01:15:45.020
opinions about, should he be running for president against Joe Biden?
01:15:53.140
Cause he's the fourth Kennedy to run for president and the only one not to get the support of
01:16:02.300
It was, it was, it was an interesting time and I, I did have, um, maybe one, um, discussion
01:16:12.440
with someone on the set where that person said, well, he, Bobby has to drop out.
01:16:26.400
And I said, well, um, I said, you know, I don't know that Biden is a strong candidate.
01:16:42.000
I don't know that Joe Biden is a strong candidate.
01:16:44.840
Yeah, because, because that, that's what they asked me.
01:16:50.400
And he said, they said, why, why is Bobby running?
01:16:53.880
And I said, because, uh, perhaps Joe Biden is not a strong candidate.
01:16:59.100
And, um, I mean, that was probably as heated, heated as it got, but it was clear that a lot
01:17:07.600
of people in town did not want Bobby running against Joe Biden.
01:17:13.140
A lot of people in the country, a lot of Democrats, Democrats were not supportive of Bobby.
01:17:22.020
On the margins, but the party itself was adamantly opposed.
01:17:29.360
So how long did you do the show during the campaign?
01:17:35.960
So it was, so I was probably, um, Bobby was probably running for, um, maybe two months,
01:18:24.980
Because I, you know, I had been working on this show for a long time and.
01:18:40.780
And I mean, even when the vaccines of it all were introduced, it, there started to be an
01:18:52.340
element that, um, made its way into conversations at work that up until that moment had, like
01:19:11.920
So, and, and, you know, not to say that people through the years didn't have health issues,
01:19:23.440
And so we, you know, we were there for each other.
01:19:40.820
Is that because you showed up and said, you have to vote for Bobby for president or else
01:19:45.620
Or was it because people were cruel to you because of your husband?
01:19:49.160
Well, I, I, you know, I don't know if I'd use the word cruel, but, um.
01:19:58.020
I never told anybody they needed to vote for Bobby.
01:20:13.360
That part of it made me sad that that was how the show was ending for me, you know, and
01:20:29.320
They were, they, they were ending the, um, the series and, you know, going on late night
01:20:36.940
talk shows and talking about the show and they could talk about the show.
01:20:43.260
Without talking about politics, without anybody asking them questions about their spouses.
01:21:02.380
You couldn't go anywhere without having to answer questions about your husband.
01:21:06.660
I still, it's still, it's still a conversation.
01:21:13.640
I'm not for punishing the innocent because that again is the genocidal mindset that I
01:21:21.120
I'm shocked to learn how many people have that mindset and think it's okay to torment
01:21:28.800
Thank God I'm not held accountable for my relatives.
01:21:36.700
And, but the idea that you would attack someone for a relative is, man, that's so dark, I
01:21:52.660
You just see so much of this and that's the same attitude, you know, like, well, let's
01:21:56.920
kill the Tootsies because they're Tootsies and their parents are bad.
01:22:20.580
Something that stood out to me, like during all this time, when, when the tables were sort
01:22:29.440
of turning, um, after, after the 2020 election and Biden became president, I had a friend,
01:22:40.180
a good friend of mine, who's, who's no longer speaking to me, but, uh, she said,
01:23:09.300
And she said, well, if she is married to Donald Trump, I hope she can't do anything.
01:23:30.200
I said, I said, so, and she said, haven't you, haven't you thought that?
01:23:41.360
I said, I have not spent one moment, um, hoping something horrible for somebody else.
01:23:50.500
It was so, but just, but just to know, like, that's what's living on in her mind.
01:23:57.280
Like she has spent, even if it's two minutes of her day, but it clearly, it sounded like
01:24:05.140
Must spend time, like, wishing, and by way, everything that I know,
01:24:19.900
Um, and she does it quietly and she doesn't need fanfare for it, but she really works hard,
01:24:28.540
uh, to try to reunite children with their parents for the, um, a lot of different programs
01:24:39.080
But so for one of my friends to be wishing something on somebody that she doesn't even
01:24:53.720
So she didn't say, I hate Melania because of these three things she did.
01:24:57.500
It was her connection to someone she doesn't like.
01:25:02.720
I don't know why that brings such clarity to me, because like I said, now this friend
01:25:20.120
Well, this is like the root of like a lot of the world's problems.
01:25:26.000
It's what's happening in a lot of places in the world right now.
01:25:36.900
It's like, well, you hate her only because she's married to somebody else you hate.
01:25:50.820
Well, I had been friends with her since, uh, for 30 years.
01:26:00.620
And, you know, I've come to, did you have to ask yourself, well, if that's who this person
01:26:14.440
And so one more sore subject, but the security thing, I, that was very upsetting to me.
01:26:22.460
I mean, I know your husband and I really love your husband.
01:26:25.640
But even if I didn't like your husband, I would, um, and I very much do, but I would,
01:26:30.340
even if I didn't, I would think, hmm, presidential candidates ought to have secret service protection
01:26:35.280
if there, if it's real candidacy, traveling around the country with staff, which he was
01:26:39.280
packing venues, which he was very famous person.
01:26:43.020
And then of course the whole, his family backstory is like so unbelievable.
01:26:48.260
So we don't need to be reminded of what could happen.
01:26:50.880
And yet he did not have secret service protection from the Biden administration.
01:26:56.700
They wanted him out of the race one way or the other.
01:27:03.780
I didn't see many prominent people stand up, including people he's related to and say,
01:27:20.580
I was with him in some city, New York, I think.
01:27:25.460
It was last, I don't know when it was, whatever I traveled to, but it was somewhere.
01:27:34.500
And he had no secret service protection at all.
01:27:55.320
Um, because that was, that was also part of, um, what, you know, there were so many things
01:28:04.400
that were very surreal about it, about Bobby running, but that was one of them where, you
01:28:16.760
The biggest concern about him running is, was security because I, you know, I'm like,
01:28:33.980
And yes, your father was assassinated while he was running for president.
01:28:38.860
Your uncle was assassinated when he was president.
01:28:46.200
And, and then I thought at the beginning, I, I thought, okay, he's announcing he's running
01:28:57.900
We'll, we'll see what happens in the primaries because in the primaries we'll know if he
01:29:04.340
has support or not and it'll go one way or the other.
01:29:08.660
Maybe he'll be running for, I don't know, five or six months or something.
01:29:14.300
Um, and we had a private security, um, and he, you know, applied for, for a secret service.
01:29:27.200
And first, first of all, they didn't even respond to him in a, um, in a, um, normal timeline.
01:29:42.480
So it was just like, well, we'll wait, we'll see, we'll see, we'll see.
01:29:46.880
And then when Bobby switched to running as an independent, the Democrats came out basically
01:29:58.780
and said on TV, I watched an interview where they said, no, we are going to make sure that,
01:30:15.300
And then, you know, the, what we could hear people talk about not in front of the camera was
01:30:22.760
also he's, we're going to make sure he has to spend a lot of money on security.
01:30:29.240
And also heard, um, if he was given secret service, then it would legitimize him as a candidate
01:30:47.200
And then, yes, you had some family members who came out publicly against Bobby and said,
01:31:06.640
even though we don't agree with him politically, we are concerned about his safety.
01:31:20.680
It's your, you're, they're your in-laws, but I mean, I can't imagine anything more loathsome
01:31:26.440
It was, um, hard to believe, really hard to believe.
01:31:31.720
And then, you know, I, I went down a rabbit hole when I was writing this book because at the
01:31:38.780
time people, different, um, outlets would give different reasons why, of course,
01:31:50.200
But then you would look, I would look up and Barack Obama got it 300 and something days
01:31:57.680
The, you know, people, people got it 200 days before the election.
01:32:06.320
There, uh, some people got it before they even announced that they were running.
01:32:12.060
So whatever they were, whatever people were saying that they always were trying to make
01:32:30.020
Um, and meanwhile, you know, he had someone show up at one of his rallies, um, with loaded
01:32:38.620
weapons, uh, you know, uh, pretending to be a federal agent flashing badges and, and they
01:32:50.300
arrested him, but then I was home watching when a guy came over my back fence and was
01:32:58.820
I was on, I was doing a Instagram live with my friend from Tallahassee.
01:33:03.460
And I said, I, I, I see this guy out the window and I, and she said, are you okay?
01:33:12.460
And then I see our security guard, you know, take his weapon out.
01:33:21.460
So yeah, that guy was apprehended, was arrested by LAPD, was released, and then took, uh, an
01:33:29.920
Uber back to our house and was arrested again the same day.
01:33:32.860
And both of those, both of, both of those events were publicized.
01:33:41.840
I, you know, I was in LA when, when it happened, when the one guy was arrested at the, um, rally,
01:33:52.720
I don't know if it made the national news, but people knew, um, people in the administration
01:34:04.740
And, and it's not everybody, I know that there were a few members of the family that
01:34:14.860
Issuing a public statement and calling on Joe Biden to provide their brother with Secret
01:34:18.980
Service would have fixed that in about two seconds.
01:34:32.060
So, a year and a half later, you know, Bobby had been running for a year and a half by
01:34:40.000
The night Trump is shot in Butler, Bobby and Trump speak for the first time and start kind
01:34:48.320
of feeling each other out about maybe we could team up.
01:34:52.700
Maybe Bobby could endorse Trump, which would be, at the time seemed completely crazy, but,
01:34:58.100
uh, was clearly possible from your perspective, like, well, I mean, first your husband comes
01:35:04.740
out against vaccines, then he attacks Fauci, then he runs for president, and now he's thinking
01:35:11.820
I mean, these are, like, how many more red lines are there in Hollywood?
01:35:15.600
I think, yeah, that was the last, that was definitely the last, um, strike.
01:35:33.700
But yeah, it was, uh, that was, that, it's all been, uh, a learning process for me.
01:35:44.980
You know, and to, to, it's been, um, it's, it's, sometimes it has tested me to take a
01:35:58.760
step back and get a different perspective, you know, because the, like you said, that
01:36:07.000
was something I couldn't, I could not have ever imagined.
01:36:15.560
I mean, the Trump people who very much wanted, um, I know, you know, Bobby's endorsement wanted
01:36:20.500
him to campaign with them, wanted to bring on the administration, knew that your opinion
01:36:26.080
was really important to him, obviously, or his wife, but he really cared about what you
01:36:30.860
thought, and they were like, they were focused on that.
01:36:34.180
So when was your, when was the first time you met Donald Trump?
01:36:37.760
I met him, he, he was, uh, the, the assassination attempt was on a Saturday and I met him on
01:36:51.460
So that was right before the Republican convention was starting.
01:36:59.180
So, so President Trump wanted to meet with Bobby that morning in Milwaukee.
01:37:05.620
They had talked for the first time on Saturday and then by Monday you were out there.
01:37:12.640
Well, we see that in this administration, they work fast.
01:37:17.600
So yeah, everything was happening quickly, but you know, there was a,
01:37:26.180
there was a shift, there was a huge shift when there, there was the assassination attempts
01:37:38.880
It was a, you know, so many people were, a lot of Americans felt like that this is too much.
01:38:00.820
And at the same time, it was, um, had to be emotional for President Trump and his family.
01:38:12.880
I mean, the bullet came very close to killing him in inches.
01:38:26.020
So there was a lot, there, there was a lot going on and a lot of, um, even emotions, emotions
01:38:39.180
So when they started talking on, on Saturday, they said they wanted to meet on Monday.
01:38:48.400
I was going to meet Bobby after this meeting, he was going to sit down with the president.
01:38:54.420
They were going to talk and see what was, what, if anything, they, if they wanted to
01:39:01.180
work together, if they didn't, if they agreed on things, if they didn't.
01:39:04.300
And I was going to meet with Bobby after the, the, that, um, meeting.
01:39:09.180
But when I landed in Milwaukee, the, the security said, oh, we're taking you straight to the
01:39:24.020
That was the first time I, I walked in and it was, it was Bobby and, um, Amaryllis, who
01:39:34.740
Who's running, who was running Bobby's campaign at the time.
01:39:37.500
Um, Susie Wiles, who was running, um, Donald Trump's campaign and, and Donald Trump.
01:39:44.800
And that was the first time I met him and he shook my hand and, you know, he, he was
01:39:53.680
a very genuine person and it was, I don't know.
01:40:01.420
I, I don't, I don't want to say surprising, but maybe surprising.
01:40:10.600
I mean, here you, you work on Curb Your Enthusiasm.
01:40:14.800
Donald Trump's the enemy and all of a sudden you're like in a meeting with him.
01:40:17.840
By the way, there's an episode of Curb where Larry wears a MAGA hat to repel people in
01:40:23.540
LA so he doesn't have to have lunch with people, which is funny, but it's also true, uh, which
01:40:31.460
is also funny, but, um, but yeah, so, uh, so I was, I don't know.
01:40:44.980
Or, um, I was expecting, uh, I think I was expecting somebody who didn't listen to other
01:40:57.880
people, wouldn't be interested in other people, uh, and that's not, that's not who I met.
01:41:08.560
I met, um, somebody who was very interested in, in other people, really wanted to hear
01:41:22.840
Did you call back to LA and say, Hey guys, he's actually cool.
01:41:30.300
Um, I didn't even tell anybody at the time and, and, and it was so, it was so stressful.
01:41:37.880
Well, there was stress for so many reasons at that time.
01:41:44.120
I mean, this just happened with Donald Trump with secret service protection and Bobby still
01:41:53.680
And, um, during that meeting, um, president Trump posted Bobby Kennedy should have secret
01:42:06.400
And that day Bobby got secret service protection.
01:42:09.880
I mean, were the wheels already in motion perhaps, but the, but the other thing about,
01:42:15.220
so he ended up getting secret service protection.
01:42:18.420
It was a, um, presidential, um, an, an executive order, which was fine.
01:42:26.880
But usually in, uh, when a presidential, um, candidate gets secret service protection, when they're running, their spouse, their family also has protection.
01:42:41.420
But because this was an executive order, it was just for Bobby, which was also strange.
01:42:58.920
So I will be in the house with the kids for two days.
01:43:02.420
And then Bobby's coming into town and then we have to evacuate the house so they can do a bomb sweep before Bobby gets there.
01:43:10.600
And I'm thinking, yeah, I'm thinking, oh, the house that we've just been in for three days.
01:43:24.920
So it was just a very, it was a very stressful time.
01:43:34.540
So I, I mean, stressful already that there was an assassination attempt on, on Donald Trump.
01:43:46.020
Um, and then now he's meeting with Bobby because they're talking about perhaps working together.
01:43:56.720
And then, um, and then that day we get secret service protection.
01:44:04.800
So that's another, you know, crazy thing that's happening.
01:44:10.420
Cause now you're talking about, um, police, you know, sheriffs everywhere around your house and, um, motorcades everywhere.
01:44:28.400
Um, and the dogs, you know, now we had bomb sniffing dogs and we already had our crazy dogs.
01:44:35.460
It was just, it was, all of it was a lot happening at, at once.
01:44:41.220
That's when I, I was just telling you, I broke into hives.
01:44:46.640
And then later that day, while I was in Milwaukee, um, my lips started swelling.
01:44:59.980
So much so that I had to go to the emergency room because I was worried that my throat might close up.
01:45:14.800
So when was the first time you told people back home that Trump was actually kind of normal in person?
01:45:34.660
Um, I told my, I mean, I'm very close to my, my sister, my brother.
01:45:42.140
So they're really the, the, you know, my sounding board.
01:45:48.260
I, one of my best friends back in LA, I mean, I have a few best friends back in LA.
01:45:54.500
I wouldn't even tell them that because I didn't want them to be stressed about it.
01:46:00.260
I didn't want, I didn't want people to know because I don't, I don't need that other people asking them about it.
01:46:07.420
Because I know that there are, people are already mad because I'm married to Bobby.
01:46:15.760
I don't need people being mad at my friends because I'm married to Bobby and they're friends with me.
01:46:24.820
Well, so I wasn't even telling people, I don't want to put them in a position of, oh my God, I can't believe your friend did this.
01:46:34.980
Um, I mean, it makes sense if you live in a completely insane world where talking to Donald Trump is a death penalty offense.
01:46:42.600
I mean, it's so fucking nuts that it's hard to know how even to assess it.
01:46:46.760
Um, but you know, my family, my, my sister and my brother, they were like, yeah, that, that makes sense.
01:46:59.000
You know, they were very curious to hear, hear about it and how, what I thought about it and what I, how I found Donald Trump to be.
01:47:12.740
But I guess that makes sense because you do hear that about him.
01:47:15.900
You hear that he's, people say he's charming and I understand why because somebody who is, somebody that you meet that feels completely comfortable with who they are, completely comfortable in their own skin.
01:47:37.740
Because it's like, oh, I'm not, I don't need to put on any airs.
01:47:58.720
Did you call your friend in LA and say, actually, she's pretty cool?
01:48:05.940
I mean, Melania, I haven't had, I've definitely had more time with, with President Trump than Melania.
01:48:16.460
Just a few moments with Melania, but she was so sweet to me when I, one of the first things that we went to after the administration started was the governor's dinner.
01:48:33.080
It was a very beautiful dinner with all the governors.
01:48:35.880
And I just had one tiny moment with Melania and she asked me how I was finding DC and how I was doing with everything.
01:48:46.120
And she said, you should really try to enjoy it.
01:48:49.600
And I took that in because I thought, yeah, you're right.
01:48:57.400
Because up until that moment, I was thinking, I don't know if I'm going to like this.
01:49:09.620
And then when she said that, I thought, yeah, why don't I try to enjoy it?
01:49:17.700
And then it really, I don't know, it really like, those were the words I needed to hear at that moment.
01:49:26.500
Not all of it, but I've enjoyed, I enjoy the people that I spend time with in DC.
01:49:37.400
I really like the people that Bobby works with.
01:49:42.660
I like them as people, you know, as someone to hang out with and talk to you at the dinner party.
01:49:54.820
You had an appearance in The View the other day, which I saw part of it.
01:49:59.720
And they immediately started attacking you for your husband because they're feminists.
01:50:05.220
And they were, the criticism of him and then to direct it at you, I guess I've said it eight times, but I really mean it is insane.
01:50:22.100
Why is it that someone, because he has said many times, including to me, against vaccines on principle,
01:50:29.980
but some of these vaccines are clearly dangerous and they are, and that's proven.
01:50:36.520
Like, why would that be a controversial statement?
01:50:45.040
And I'm confused by people attacking the parents who say,
01:50:52.360
my child is different since they received the vaccine.
01:50:57.820
It's very strange for other people to say, you are crazy.
01:51:10.200
And these are parents who said, oh, I'm just telling you my experience.
01:51:15.160
My experience was my child was hitting developmental markers.
01:51:19.060
My child was, was hitting milestones and then they got the vaccine and everything changed.
01:51:30.200
Why are, I, I, that's, that's what I really don't understand either.
01:51:39.900
You know, I don't know anyone like that just because I shield myself from anyone who would even,
01:51:45.020
even gives a hint of having those attitudes because I can't deal with it.
01:51:49.400
So I don't, I don't, I don't know the answer, but you're, I mean, you know a lot of these people personally.
01:52:01.000
There's something about vaccines that they've made.
01:52:06.960
People have made very political in a way that's hard to understand because it's,
01:52:12.820
if you're talking about cancer or you're talking about, you know, different,
01:52:18.340
different ways to treat cancer, people don't get upset about it.
01:52:29.300
So there's something about the mindset of people.
01:52:33.920
The mindset of some people is you are putting everybody in danger if you don't get vaccinated.
01:52:47.860
Well, if you have the vaccine, you should feel pretty good that you're not going to get it
01:52:54.300
It's like yelling at me for not wearing a seatbelt.
01:52:59.480
And somehow it's, I don't, I really don't understand it.
01:53:06.080
I don't understand how when people got mad at other people, also women turning on each other,
01:53:13.180
I find motherhood is challenging enough, parenthood.
01:53:21.140
And if another mother is telling me, wow, this is what happened.
01:53:36.960
Because I did, because I think she's lying to me.
01:53:42.280
Why does, why, what, why would somebody lie about it?
01:53:47.120
They're not, nobody's gaining anything by sharing their story.
01:53:53.160
So it's, I don't know why they're so mad about vaccines.
01:53:58.020
There's some people are worried that if you, if you question the safety or if you, like
01:54:06.240
I said, on the view, I said, you know, can we do better?
01:54:16.060
Boy, there's the vaccine injury compensation program that's paid out $5.4 billion.
01:54:23.520
That's what I told him on the view and no response.
01:54:29.320
I mean, no, Whoopi asked me if it was just COVID.
01:54:32.060
I said, no, I, I think it was for all vaccines, but can we just look at that without thinking
01:54:38.900
about it in a political way and say, oh, well, people are, people are being paid, compensated
01:55:05.600
It's like you're saying, can we just start at one place where we all agree on something
01:55:09.080
and then say, well, can we do a vaccine where less people are injured?
01:55:24.480
Why is that, why is that, why does that make people mad?
01:55:31.080
It does seem, I mean, I'm trying to, I've thought about this for years, ever since your
01:55:42.180
I've been thinking about it many years ago when he wrote that Rolling Stone piece, 15,
01:55:47.560
And I knew him and I, and I admired him as a writer.
01:55:52.740
And in addition to other things, and I watched him just like literally end his career and
01:55:57.680
all these friendships and Bobby Kennedy was like, he's a Kennedy.
01:56:02.120
It went from that to Bobby Kennedy's name may not be spoken because he criticized vaccines.
01:56:07.120
And I've been trying to figure out what that's about ever since.
01:56:20.840
Diego Rivera, the communist Mexican muralist wrote, or drew, painted a fairly famous mural
01:56:31.200
And it looks like the kind of classic Christian Christmas image of Jesus in the manger, but
01:56:44.860
It's really interesting for what it reveals of, of the mindset around vaccines, but it's
01:56:52.200
This is not, because again, it's not a question about like, what's the most effective oncology,
01:57:06.180
Well, it's interesting when you're talking about it that way.
01:57:08.580
It is interesting because it's probably the, the only thing that people are asked to do
01:57:20.440
as a group, regardless of who you are, regardless of what your religion, what your, um, health
01:57:32.240
is, you're asked to take the vaccine and don't ask questions.
01:57:42.900
So I guess maybe that's where it started, right?
01:57:49.380
They had, they had to convince people that no, this is for everybody and you can't ask
01:58:03.760
People used to burn widows, you know, or, or whatever, you know, people had all kinds of
01:58:09.760
ugly primitive rituals that they were ultimately talked out of that were once compulsory, which
01:58:16.000
Like, I get it, but this one has been the same for 90 years.
01:58:20.620
Like there's something piercing the skin, injecting something into somebody.
01:58:27.260
I mean, there's a control element, but there's also a ritualistic component to this.
01:58:36.800
And I hope I'm not screwing this up, but I don't think that I am mural.
01:58:51.940
I mean, look, I've arrived at this over many years of thinking about it because I can't
01:59:05.560
And then punish the guy's relatives who questions it.
01:59:12.420
But the other thing too, that I, I have a hard time understanding that.
01:59:19.400
The people that are saying that, you know, vaccines were tested however long ago, 40 years ago,
01:59:39.220
There are drugs on the market all the time that are approved.
01:59:44.940
Then 10 years later, 20 years later, you see a lot of people have been injured and they pull the drug
01:59:54.860
I mean, they used to x-ray women when they were pregnant at, in the fifties.
01:59:59.880
Because they thought it was a great, you know, new technology to...
02:00:06.880
Nilla wafers were considered a health food when I was a kid because they had weed in them.
02:00:14.940
Like your parents would be in a car with the windows rolled up and smoking.
02:00:19.160
But they didn't know that at the time that they were harmful or causing cancer to the kids in the bag.
02:00:26.860
And then at some point, you know, there's a stop down.
02:00:32.980
People say, oh, we just learned that this is not good for you.
02:00:44.500
And everybody stops down and makes a new choice, right?
02:00:48.700
And says, oh, okay, yeah, I'm going to stop using that.
02:00:53.440
So for people to say it can absolutely not happen with vaccines, there's no way, there's no way to make them better or to, because they're great already.
02:01:32.480
So I've met very few people who've had a life with the trajectory that yours has had.
02:01:38.480
It's more like, as you described, a hairpin turn in this direction.
02:01:42.080
The last, you know, so you grew up in one world and are a completely different world.
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And then all of a sudden you're in a completely different world.
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Like, what are the conclusions you draw from this?
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No, you know what I've, I've learned of, I mean, I've learned a lot of things, of course.
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I've learned, um, and I always felt like I knew what really matters.
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My family has always been the most important thing to me.
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That's why the best thing about getting married is that you get to pick a family member.
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It's the only time in your life where you get to pick, pick somebody to be a part of your family.
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Uh, I learned that that is really the only thing that matters.
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So for me, I mean, there have been times with Bobby that when I get frustrated and I feel like,
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I can't believe you said that or said it like that.
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Um, and it doesn't matter so little in the big scheme of things.
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So even some of my friendships that have, that did not survive this, right?
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It's too emotional, it's too emotional for them to be friends with me because of what Bobby does.
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Um, I have learned to, you know, it's, that's okay.
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And I can still love who they are and what we had together.
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I don't have to spend time missing it or being sad or whatever that is.
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I can step back and say, oh, that person was the right time, the right person at the right time.
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And, and, and at the same time, you know, I just turned 60 and I'm at a place where I really have learned a lot just in terms of learning brand new things in my life that I never thought I would.
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I, I, and it's not, this isn't like we talked about politics.
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I never set out to, I can't wait to learn a lot about politics, but I did, you know, even in the election, I learned a lot about, um, how to run a campaign, what it looks like from the inside of a presidential campaign.
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And if somebody says something enough times, then it becomes the truth to people.
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And even when Bobby, even when Bobby switched to being, um, an independent, just learning every state, you have to have a certain amount of signatures from different people and you turn them in at different times in the calendar year.
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So even learning that stuff, which I never wanted to learn, but I know it now, um, fascinating to me that now being in DC and now being, being sitting where I am and seeing what I see and being around the people that I, I'm around, I can say that the people in, in the cabinet, people in the administration.
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And it may sound silly that I didn't recognize that before because I felt like, well, I'm sure there are people that are in it for themselves and that want, you know, but where I see it, that is not the case.
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The case is that everybody sits at the table and they say, what can we do to make the country better, to work together.
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And I keep, I keep, I keep, I keep, I'm learning more now about politics, about, uh, how things, what has to happen to change a law or to, or to get something done in DC or to, um, make a change in the nation.
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And I'm learning all these, you know, sort of big concepts that I otherwise would not have thought about.
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I find the people that I'm sitting next to at dinner, fascinating.
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They're smart and they have hard jobs, very difficult jobs.
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And I think a lot of people, you know, people, people maybe in LA that sit around and say, oh, I could do it so much better.
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I mean, it just seems to me that given how fast everything is changing, you're so blessed to be in part doing something different, learning new things.
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And I mean, sometimes the, what we think are tragedies turn out to be like the greatest blessings.
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And I mean, I don't know, you're still interested in stuff, which is pretty great at 60.
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Listen, I have a lot of friends who, their kids have grown up and moved out and now they're bored and they're trying to figure out how to fill the day.
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And the business they were in is dying or changing really fast in any case.
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It's very, the entertainment industry is really a tough place to be in right now.
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And maybe because, because I have been in the, the entertainment industry and, you know, I mean, there are a lot of films, TV shows about politics and politicians because it's fascinating.
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We like to watch it play out on the screen, but then to now be in the middle of it, seeing it, it's pretty great.
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Cheryl Hines, you're a deep person and I'm grateful that you came.
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It's called newcommissionnow.com and it refers to a new 9-11 commission.
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So, we spent months putting together our 9-11 documentary series.
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And if there's one thing we learned, it's that, in fact, there was foreknowledge of the attacks.
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We're shocked, actually, to learn that, to have that confirmed, but it's true.
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The CIA, for example, knew the hijackers were here in the United States.
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In his passport is a visa to go to the United States of America.
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A foreign national was caught celebrating as the World Trade Center fell and later said he was in New York, quote, to document the event.
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I didn't know there would be an event to document in the first place because he had foreknowledge.
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And maybe most amazingly, somebody, an unknown investor, shorted American Airlines and United Airlines, the companies whose planes the attackers used on 9-11, as well as the banks that were inside the Twin Towers just before the attacks.
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They made money on the 9-11 attacks because they knew they were coming.
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The U.S. government learned the name of that investor, but never released it.
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Maybe there's an instant explanation for all this, but there isn't, actually.
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And by the way, it doesn't matter whether there is or not.
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The public deserves to know what the hell that was.
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How did people know ahead of time why was no one ever punished for it?
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The 9-11 Commission, the original one, was a fraud.
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Its conclusions were written before the investigation.
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This country needs a new 9-11 Commission, one that actually tells the truth, that tries to get to the bottom of the story.
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We need to force a new investigation into 9-11 almost 25 years later.
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