Chris Cuomo
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1 hour and 59 minutes
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192.99461
Summary
Chris Cuomo was one of the first people to call me after I left my job at CNN, and it was a chance encounter that changed the trajectory of my career. In this episode, we talk about how important it is to reach out to people who are going through a difficult time in their life and see if we can learn something from them, and why it s a good idea to talk to them instead of just about them. Chris and I talk about the power of conversation and why we should all try to have meaningful conversations with people we disagree with, even if we don t like them. And we also talk about why we shouldn t be afraid to speak to people we don't like, even when we disagree on some things, because it might be the best way to learn something about them that we can about them and their life, and how we can try to help them overcome the pain they're going through and find meaning in their situation. It's a really important conversation, and I think you'll agree that it's something you should try to do more of, not less of. What do you think of Chris Cuomo's approach to talking to people you disagree with? What would you like to see me do? What are your thoughts on how we should be doing more of that in the future? I'd love to hear your thoughts and reactions to this episode. Tweet me and let me know what you thought of it in the comments section below! Timestamps: 4: 4:00 - How do you feel about this episode? 5: What is your favorite part of a conversation you ve had with someone you ve worked with in the past? 6:30 - Why do you like Chris Cuomo? 7:40 - Why is it important? 8:20 - Why does it matter? 9:15 - What s your favorite moment from a conversation? 11:00- What are you would you do to help someone else? 14:30- What s the most impactful thing you ve done in your life? 15:00 16:15- What is the best thing I ve done? 17: How do we learn from someone else s story? 18:00 -- What do we should do more? 19:10 - What are we trying to learn from others? 21:30 -- Is it possible to be a better human being? 22:40 -- What s a better person?
Transcript
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So, here we are on a Wednesday and Chris Cuomo is sitting in my living room.
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Now why is Chris Cuomo sitting in my living room, formerly of CNN?
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Well, I'd never met Chris Cuomo before today, and of course for years I was incredibly mean
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But I'll say this, he was one of the very first people to call me, completely out of
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the blue, no idea how he got my number after I left my job last spring.
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And that began a series of conversations, very long conversations, in which I discovered
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that Chris Cuomo is a really interesting person.
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And though we disagree on some things, we don't disagree on everything at all.
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And I thought, wow, I wonder how many other people like Chris Cuomo are out there.
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People I have dismissed or mocked because we disagreed on some things, who actually, if
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you got to know them, you might learn something.
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And so with that, a conversation with Chris Cuomo begins.
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So one of the reasons I think that you called me was because we'd had such similar lives,
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and you're one of the few people who kind of understand.
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And both of us spent decades in one world, were exiled from it.
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And I think the question is like, what if we learn from this?
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And I knew it was important to reach out when you were going through your exit, let's call
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And because I knew the pain of it and I knew the challenge of it and everything is different.
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But I do believe that one of the lessons I've learned is you have to think about how other
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people are being affected by situations, especially once you have pain in your own life.
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And it doesn't matter what you agree with, what you like, what you don't like, it's
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all gotten so far removed from humanity that the idea that I don't like that Tucker Carlson
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takes a bite out of my ass on his show on a regular basis.
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But that that means that this is not somebody who you should care about as a human being.
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And I feel like our culture isn't working anymore.
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And as a result, everybody is against one another for the same kinds of reasons.
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And if it's not working, then why aren't we trying something different?
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Why wouldn't I reach out to somebody who has a family and who has a following and is dealing
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with a hard time to see if I can help and see what's going on in their life and what they're
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And I was concerned about calling you at first because I thought you might be thinking that
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You know, I didn't want to make anything worse for you.
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But as you say, there's such tremendous power in conversation.
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We only know what we're told about people and the snippets that people want us to see and
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the context and I'm not saying that, like, you know, you're one benefit of context away
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from never of saying anything that I don't think you should say.
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How can this not be helpful to sit across from somebody and talk to them instead of about
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So, of course, I couldn't agree with you more, which is why we're here.
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And and I think both of us have tried to talk directly to people that we disagree with legitimately
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on some things, but because it's it's a really useful and important experience.
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It does make you kind of wonder maybe there are forces trying to prevent those conversations.
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You and I have been in the game for a long time.
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And whether you like it or not, whether you mean it or not, you wind up playing the game.
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You can especially with the platform that you had, you wind up essentially picking sides
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and you wind up having agendas either that present themselves to you or are foisted upon
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These people, I'm resistant to them because they're attacking what I'm saying and they're
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I'm talking to him about who he is and what he's about and why he does what he does.
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You've got politicians resigning because they say, yeah, it turns out nobody really wants
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us to do anything here but fight and I've kind of had enough.
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I mean, whoever thought we would see any of this and yet nobody's trying to remedy it.
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And the one way in which I really sympathize with you, and I said this in public at the
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time, is that you were attacked and I don't know the details, I'm not going to ask you
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to reveal them, but felt like you were fired because you remained close to your brother
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who was governor of New York and he was going through a bunch of stuff.
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He left office and you were still talking to him and you weren't allowed to.
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And my take on it from a distance, knowing neither you nor your brother, was you've got
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And that obligation supersedes all others because that's your family.
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If my brother committed triple murder, I'd be against triple murder, but I would never
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And so anybody who says your obligation to me overrides your obligation to your own brother,
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People feel differently about family, which was somewhat of a new concept for me.
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I had a big shot media person say to me in an interview on their platform, I would not
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Not if it would have conflicted with my ethical obligations as a journalist.
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Or your career ambitions is what they're really saying.
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And I said, well, first of all, it didn't because I didn't cover my brother's situation
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I've never had the audience give me a hard time until they started hearing things in
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the media that didn't square with what they had thought.
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Can I say, whoever said, I don't know who you're talking about, it could have been any of them
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because they all have the same view, but they're the moral criminals as far as I'm concerned.
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If someone is going to say, I would sell out my brother because my boss wanted me to, what
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Look, people can have their own ethics, their own morals, their own standards.
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Well, I'm going to judge the crap out of them for that.
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For me, it was more, I got myself into a situation I didn't see coming.
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And I thought, and my therapist like laughs when I say this.
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He's been like a life coach to me for a really long time.
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I never say his name because he'll lose all his elevations if anybody knows that he's
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But he was like, what do you mean you didn't see this coming?
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They hated what was happening during the pandemic with you having him on the show and all the
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And what I have decided was, look, I didn't have any control over how getting fired happened.
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And that's what made me call you is that that was so hard.
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It was so hard for me to see all this stuff that I had worked so hard on and I valued so
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I'll never be number one on a huge platform again.
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I'm not great when things are good, but I'm a great friend in crisis.
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And I had to really think about things I'd never thought about before.
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And I wanted to check in with you about that to see how you were negotiating that space
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But when I met you, and, you know, you should, we should talk about this.
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And you were, yeah, well, let me tell you, it was a favor to me.
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And I thought that that was a real blessing for you.
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What did you figure out that you didn't know before?
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Well, I sort of, I mean, I'll just say, you know, I loved working there.
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So it's not an attack on them to say that I was hemmed in by the fact that I work for
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And that's just the nature of the relationship.
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No matter how free you think you are, part of you is assessing like, whoa, I actually am
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And I knew that they disagreed with me on a bunch of big topics.
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And to their great credit, they never tried to change my view on those topics.
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And I would say that now, you know, even though I'm not there anymore.
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But you aren't fully free if you work for someone else.
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And I just had reached this time in my life where I felt like there's all these really
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I want to be as honest as I can possibly be at all times.
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So I, and I also had this kind of supernatural sense that everything's going to be fine.
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And I'd also done it for too long, you know, too long, too long, same gig.
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It's good to be, and I had been fired before a couple of times.
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So it's good to be fired because it brings you low and you don't become the overbearing
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A little public humiliation is really important for a man.
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And so I was very happy from day one, but it was a different, maybe a different time in
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Everybody who I reached out to about you said, you know, he's changed.
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And when I spoke to you recently, not in the beginning, but recently you said, yeah, I'm
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Well, it's just, I mean, I had, I don't think I was playing a role ever.
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I was definitely used by your former employer and mine, CNN, to flack for the Iraq war.
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And I allowed that without even really knowing what was happening.
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And I was always bitter about that in the way that you are when you've done something
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In other words, if you fight with your wife and it's 100% her fault, you're not that
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But if it's really your fault, then you're extra mad because you're mad at yourself.
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And that, and I was, I've been mad at myself for 20 years over the things that I said and
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was pushed into saying, promoting the Iraq war, which is totally indefensible in my opinion.
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Now, so, but other than that, I have always, I think, been myself, but I just, you reach
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a stage in life where I don't, I don't feel like I have anything to prove and I don't
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Like, you were probably the last person I was really, really nasty to, sorry.
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Like, I just talked to Putin and everyone's like, you gotta be rough on Putin.
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Yeah, I can go in there and tell Putin, you're a, you're a monster.
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So that, you know, I just don't have a chip on my shoulder at all about any of that.
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And I just want to hear people talk because I think it's interesting.
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And so I can kind of pull myself out of it more than I was able to before.
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If you're 31 and trying to make it in TV, you know, you're sort of, you're itching for
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And I know you know what I'm talking about because you've lived the life.
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But there's a lot of pressure on you to make a moment.
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And now I'm just like, I've had a lot of moments.
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So do you feel that when you, when you look at how you used to do it versus how you're doing
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And how much of it was, this will be funny or this will resonate.
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And the only times I've gone really wrong as with the Iraq war was when I, and I suppressed
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That was really the last time, 2002, that I did that.
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Now, if somebody gives you that answer, you know, the, the follow-up is, what do you mean?
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You got duped by people in a newsroom to be for a war?
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I got duped by someone in the Bush administration.
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But I was on a show that was inherently partisan, left versus right, Republican versus Democrat.
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And the Republicans were in favor of invading Iraq and the Democrats were opposed.
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But at the time that was, so, so there was on the one hand, I didn't want to be on the
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And on the other side, I had these people from the Bush administration saying to me, actually,
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we have a lot of intel that we can't give you, but it's totally real.
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And my question, my questions are always the dumbest possible questions.
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It's like, what does Saddam have to do with 9-11?
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But it was such a big deal because it changed things.
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Congress isn't going to own their responsibility anymore.
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It started to be okay to give bullshit rationales for military action.
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And everybody was so angry that if you tell me the guy who did it is in there, I'm not asking any other questions.
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And if we had had these then, we would have what we're seeing in the Middle East right now.
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Where people would be like, whoa, what are you doing in Fallujah?
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So that really was a very formative experience for us.
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I used to be like, no, I want to be a team player.
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I just want to know why you want me to do what you want me to do.
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If I think it's important for people to understand and I have the ability to go and they don't,
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And, you know, some people, they don't like the questions.
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I get why that would be frustrating for a manager.
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And people who know me know it's coming from a good place.
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I just want to, I have such a strong sense of purpose.
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And living through 9-11 taught me such hard, bad lessons about, holy shit, you're supposed
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And, you know, you did not go after these people the way you were supposed to.
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And you didn't do it for the wrong reasons, which were, one, you were covering it, right?
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And so, you know, you're kind of into the continuation game.
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And the American people didn't want you checking it.
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Are you speaking of the Patriot Act specifically?
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Before, when Bush said, hey, stop asking all these questions about the weapons of mass
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destruction and the yellow cake, you're starting to create bad conditions on the ground for
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And the American people stopped watching the news.
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And I remember, I was at ABC, and they stopped watching because it seemed like we were jeopardizing
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And everybody pulled back on that and just covered the war.
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And we all went in our embed training and everybody went over there and did it.
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And that's why I'm always chasing members of Congress about something that everybody thinks
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is a stupid in the weeds issue, which is, hey, why don't you do a vote on this?
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Why don't you vote on what we're giving Israel?
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Why don't you vote on what we're giving Ukraine?
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Why don't you vote on what we just did when the Houthis were attacking us?
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Why didn't you vote on when Trump bombed in Syria?
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It's not an immediate interest for us that's personal to us and our safety.
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I'm sure it's strategic, but that's not what the War of Powers Act is about.
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We are stuck in a game that's about nothing but advantage.
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And I had time to think about all this when I got shit-canned and to go back and look at what I had been about and what I had done and what I had not done.
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And if I were going to come back, because, you know, you're tougher than I am.
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But you are, you had more resilience about this than I did.
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But I still feel like I'm on one knee and getting back up.
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And what motivated me to come back was two things.
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Two, you know, she was like, you got to get up.
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You got to do something with your life that is helping people and making something of this place.
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My response was, get away from me and my bottle.
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My response was that I was embarrassed and I knew she was right.
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But sometimes you know what's right, but you don't have the energy, the will, or the self-confidence or belief to do it.
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So, if I were going to get back into this, because there's such a price for entry.
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And another thing, you know, I was thinking when I was walking around outside, you know, you got security outside your house.
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And I was thinking to myself, God, I know what this is about.
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You know, and your kids are older, lucky for you, but they're still, they're still aware.
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And I put my family through so much that I didn't understand that I was doing at the time because I had blinders on.
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My daughter's, my daughter making up accounts online to defend her uncle.
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So, dealing with all those things, and it's fine.
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They got a couple of my good genes, and they got mostly their mom.
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And I'm only doing this job the way I want to do it and what I think matters about it.
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And if that's not good for my employer, then I'm done.
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I'm going to talk to who I want about what I want.
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And the reason that this is wrong is because everything is about silos and sides.
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Not the millions of people who want to take it.
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Why wouldn't I want to understand this person better when you have the reach that you have?
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It doesn't make any sense, except if you're just playing a stupid game that has rules
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about who you're supposed to like and who you're not supposed to like.
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So I'm not going to advance something that I thought was dirty when it was done to me.
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And I don't think there's value to the American people.
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They don't know what to believe because nobody ever shares ideas.
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And, you know, we can go through different stuff that I say, that you say.
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Because I still want to know why you came after me as much as you did, by the way.
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Because I don't like CNN and I really mean that in my heart of hearts.
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Because people kept sending me videos from Instagram.
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I sent it the first video and then it was best.
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What I did was not really a pure refutation of your positions on COVID.
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It was me taking the cheap shots, which I'm not always above.
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Did it feel good when you would come after me like that?
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I guess cameras aren't picking up all the people sitting here.
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But I mean, in the sense that, you know, I don't want to use any kind of sexual metaphor,
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It's like something you shouldn't be doing, but there's kind of the animal thrill of doing
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Do you know how hard it is to deal with having your in-laws enjoy a joke that makes you want
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to, you know, do bad things that are going to cost you civil litigation money?
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Somebody did say, you know, Chris Cuomo is a lot bigger than you.
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I just couldn't, you know, I almost, I have weaknesses.
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I will say I don't, I think I have a weakness for women.
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I gave up drinking many years ago, but I still, I'm still beset by the weaknesses of the flesh.
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And my wife, I will say, who you were just with, is an unusually good person.
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And would always say, I don't like it when you're mean.
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Oh, and I'm very dependent on my wife's approval.
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And she never criticized me, but she, in a gentle, gentle way, like, I don't like it
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You know, I watched a lot of your stuff for this and it's a different vibe, Tucker.
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I mean, look, if we had been in more contact before you did the Putin interview, I would
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have told you, you got to check some boxes with this guy.
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I get, I get why you're going to say, I'm not going to get there and get into a fight
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with a guy who may not let me out of the country.
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I was afraid of the U.S. government, not of Putin at all.
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Arresting me when I got back for a sanctions violation.
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If you go talk to Putin and if you don't ask him tough questions, the Biden administration
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You know, when the story came out that they had arrested somebody in Russia, that got like
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One of the things that you have to know about this guy, which I didn't believe, but now
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I do because I've been looking around his house like a little snoop.
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You don't watch TV and you don't pay attention to your social media about what's being said
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That's why your hair is so full and so rich in color.
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I don't need to be told by people who don't know me.
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I never, in my old job, I never, my executive producer sitting right there, I never got the
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And so, no, I don't want to know that because I'm...
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I don't watch myself on television or on tape or whatever it is and they don't...
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My, you know, immediate family, which is large, and then a large extended family with whom
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And so, I immediately get word if I'm doing something that offends them, which is not very
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And I care about, you know, my religious faith.
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And by the way, I think it's really wrong to do that.
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Why would you give emotional control to a stranger?
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Well, look, you've gone on your own now, so it's different.
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But for a pawn like me, I am somewhat at the mercy of how people decide to feel about
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Once you self-liberate, or you liberate yourself from the completely irrelevant opinions of partisans
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and strangers, and focus only on the people in your world who God has put right in front
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And it's dependent on social media as a proxy of Vox Populi.
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But not caring is, as a practical matter, much more effective.
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Because then you don't have any voices in your head other than the ones who matter.
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Yeah, until your boss picks up the phone or the comms person picks up the phone and says,
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These people are not happy online because you use the word mouth breather.
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And it turns out that that's a form of a breathing thing that people are upset about.
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And you look online and it's only 400 people who said this randomized thing.
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So I would always say to them, like, if you think you can host a TV show, why don't you?
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But actually you're working in the PR shop at some, like, depressing company.
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And if you think you're better at my job than I am, why don't you do it?
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And so their whole justification for their sad jobs, at which they're not very good,
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And I just, I'm not interested in playing along.
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Like, why would I care about some 32-year-old, unhappy, unmarried PR person?
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It's like the single dumbest, most insecure group in America.
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And they're like, oh, you've got to do the New York Times Magazine.
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The credit card companies are ripping Americans off, and enough is enough.
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The fees Visa and MasterCard charge Americans are the highest in the world,
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double candidates and eight times more than Europe's.
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Not authorized by any candidate or candidates committee.
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I get the turning yourself off to criticism, although I think that's harder to do than to say.
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If my wife looks at me cross-set, she'd bring me to my knees.
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I'm totally for guns, but not in the hands of people who don't know what they're doing with guns,
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who are irresponsible, because it's too much power, right?
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And the same is true with opinions and letting them in to your head.
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Keep all of that stuff out and just follow the voice.
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And the more quiet you are, the clearer the voice is.
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I want to talk to you about where that takes you in terms of what you're doing and how it's the same or different for me.
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But I got to tell you, on one level, now that I know that you are not responsive to the external in terms of social media, the masses,
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that makes you coming after me as much as you did even worse, by the way.
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Because it's not like you were part of some feedback loop where you were like, man, this is reading.
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It was, and I try never to be passive-aggressive.
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Okay, there's no excuse for passive-aggression.
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But in some sense, that was, I'm not just saying this to spare your feelings, but I mean it.
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So it was, I think so little of Jeff Zucker, who I texted immediately when he got fired, though, on principle.
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But I worked for him, and I just, you don't have to comment, but I really have a low opinion of Jeff Zucker.
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I don't think he's a good person, and I mean that.
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And a lot of people up and down management at CNN, I know personally since I spent years there.
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And to some extent, it was like my passive-aggressive way of, I mean, you were the biggest show, of, you know, striking out at CNN.
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One, and people always say I'm saying this gratuitously, but why would I at this point?
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Zucker is the best maker of television I've ever worked with.
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And he gave me all the opportunities that put me in a position to succeed.
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He would not let me go back at you, by the way.
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He said, one, that's not what we're about here.
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You say you want to be trying to be in the arena to make things better.
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I will say when one of your co-workers, and I cannot remember his name, but he's a very weird guy who did the media show.
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Stelter was about to attack my children and called and told me that.
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And I threatened him and called him names and all this stuff.
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And he called my employer to complain that I was a sexist because I called him this word.
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So I did, I called Zucker on his cell and I said, one of your guys is about to attack my kids.
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I don't disagree that sitting across from Putin and getting into a shouting match or whatever is going to bear much fruit for people.
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And I get that it's a commodity in the media, but I get that it may not be the highest good.
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But don't you feel that if you are going to go and sit with someone like that, you have to hold them to account for things that matter?
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The fact that he may have murdered somebody or a lot of people.
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Well, I don't, I mean, the Ukrainians say that he didn't kill Navalny.
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Guy looks good one minute and the next minute he's dead?
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I mean, in some larger sense, the Russian government.
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No, the Ukrainian government said, no, he died of natural causes.
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Navalny died in the middle of the Munich Security Conference.
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It's also in the middle of the debate over Ukraine funding in the United States.
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And his death was within hours used by the president of the United States to justify another 60 billion.
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Look, here's what I learned, and I'm hardly a Russia expert, is this is an extremely complicated political environment.
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And so their politics are incomprehensible to me.
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I mean, I've been in a lot of countries and covered a lot of stuff abroad.
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And the one thing I've learned is you actually don't really know what's going on.
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And so I had a bunch of Navalny questions to answer your question in my, you know, 4,700 questions that I'd written out.
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And I decided on the fly not to ask it because I felt like, what about Navalny?
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Well, whatever he's going to say, I'm not going to move the ball at all.
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There's a war going on that is resetting the world.
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I'm not for throwing your political opponents in prison.
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I'm mad that the Biden administration is now doing it.
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I mean, honestly, I want to get that on the record.
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Ashing the economy is not crushing the war economy, though.
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A lot of that money winds up coming back to the Uniparty, the corporations that do that.
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Kicking Russia out of swift, stealing people's stuff, the oligarch stuff.
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A lot of people have nothing to do with the invasion of Ukraine.
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That's the hardest-edged possible politics being played by the U.S. government using the U.S. dollar and the sanctions regimes to do it.
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These people, if they elect somebody who's senile like Biden or someone who doesn't like us, they will use the dollar and sanctions to destroy us.
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And so that fact will change world history, change the course of American history.
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We're going to live with that for the rest of our lives.
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And I don't know if I achieved that or not, but that was definitely.
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But what I didn't want to do is try to convince other journalists, for whom I have no regard at all, for the most part, that I'm a good person.
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They call me a Nazi all the time, which I'm not.
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I just want to focus on what I want to focus on.
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I agree that every time you go into an interview, one, look, you know.
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The first blush of it was Carlson doesn't get to interview Putin.
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And, in fact, as much as it pained me, I defended that proposition that I don't know.
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Of course, Tucker Carlson, if he can book Putin, he can interview Putin.
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Why Putin chooses Tucker Carlson, what Tucker does with the interview, we'll judge when he does it.
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This was, so I was abroad and, as noted, not kind of obsessively following the coverage of myself.
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They didn't want you to do it because they thought that you would be a stooge for Putin.
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You say, this is the best place I've ever been in my life.
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It is so much better on the basis that I described.
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Well, actually, look, I'm no expert on the Russian economy.
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I can only tell you what I saw, which is a city of 13 million people, much larger than
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And there is, you know, no homelessness, no graffiti.
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The architecture has not been degraded by postmodern, the oppression of postmodern architecture, which
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is designed to demoralize and hurt you and destroy your spirit.
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Do you believe that postmodern architecture is designed to kill your spirit?
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Well, look, anything that we make with our hands, it's the purest expression of our creativity.
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So there's a purpose behind everything that we make.
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There's a message behind all of it, as there is in all art.
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You don't paint a painting with no vision behind it.
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You paint a painting because you're saying something.
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And so buildings that are warm and human and that elevate the human spirit are pro-human.
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And brutalism, for example, or the I am pay glass boxes that crowd every city in the United States, those are not elevating.
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What's the message of working in a cube in a room with a synthetic drop ceiling and drywall on the walls and fluorescent lighting ahead of you and no privacy at all?
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And everyone kind of ignores this, like, oh, well, that's the way buildings have always been.
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And architecture and anything made by human hands is the purest expression of the society that produced it.
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They're a visible and tangible sign of who you are, not just as a person, but corporately as a society.
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And if you live in a place that creates nothing beautiful and doesn't provide people uplifting buildings to live and work in, that's a very sick and dark society.
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But Moscow is not so different from the cities of the United States in my youth.
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We had a free society, much freer than we have today.
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We had much more capitalism, free markets, free monopolies.
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But you're not saying Moscow is a free society.
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I'm saying the United States was a free society.
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The country that I grew up in had a semi-functioning capitalist system with competition.
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It wasn't all like four companies dominating everything, which is what we have now.
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I guess there are probably some limits, but I wasn't aware of what they were because they were so broad.
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And you had safe, for the most part, clean cities.
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So, again, as I've said, and I really mean it, and I said it to our producers who we were traveling with at the time, this does not make me love Putin.
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And so I say this for Moscow, and Jon Stewart is just such a tool of power.
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He's like, whoa, you know, fentanyl ODs are the price of freedom.
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It's like telling women working at Citibank is liberation.
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Getting to raise your own children is liberation.
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Getting to do what you want to satisfy the deepest desires of your heart, that's liberation.
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I don't think it's super subtle or esoteric or complex, but they're like, oh, to live Putin.
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So for you, it's not Putin's better, Russia's better.
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It's that it gave you perspective on what you think has changed in America for the worse.
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Well, I'm sure, and I'm sure it was at least in part due to my inability to explain it fully,
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But it's also a product of intentional distortion of what I'm saying, which is this is an indictment
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of our leadership class, which deserves to be indicted and imprisoned, in my opinion.
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And so I'm stuck here by choice and circumstance.
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And I want my country to be as great as it can possibly be.
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And that's why I opposed the Ukraine more from day one.
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What about the argument that they make that if you allow Russia to exercise reach, it'll
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Well, they had a referendum in Crimea where they asked the overwhelmingly like 90% Russian
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population of Crimea, do you want to be part of Ukraine after the coup of 2014 or do you
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So that's the democratic process, I would say they are.
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But you don't change sovereignty over what the popular vote is.
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I mean, democracy is the promise of self-government.
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But if where we are right now decided it wanted to be its own state, they don't get to
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But as a matter of principle and practice, if you're committed to democracy, you should
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let people choose how they seek to be governed.
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And, but the truth is Ukraine is not a sovereign country and hasn't been since at least 2014
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when the West, the CIA, and this has been documented in great detail, staged a coup and
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with a color revolution and took over their government.
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And now we know all the details that, you know, we have bio labs and CIA offices and it's
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I mean, of course I care, but I care in the sense that if, you know, Burundi invades Rwanda,
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which has happened, or Vietnam invades Cambodia, which has also happened, I'm against that because
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But what I care about is the country that I live in.
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We're, we act at the behest of the demands of other countries.
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We imperil our own national security on behalf of other countries.
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But their rationale is an extension of collective strength.
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I don't have any problem with you owning any of these opinions that you do.
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I can have my own opinion about the level of sufficiency of your reasoning.
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It is that you shouldn't be demonized for it, though.
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And to flip it, because your audience is going to very much want to understand this.
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What do you believe personally, or do you believe people believe, that I say or report
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What do I mean to you when it comes to COVID that bothered you about the coverage or the
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I was completely opposed to, from the very first day, the idea that you can restrict
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people's freedom of movement or force them into taking any medical treatment of any kind,
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And I am strongly, and have been really my whole adult life, opposed to abortion, which
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However, the one abortion slogan I always liked was, my body, my choice.
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I don't think it's actually your body, so I don't think it's a rational argument if you
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And the my body, my choice people are like, actually, no.
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It's my body and my choice, and you're going to do this, or we're going to hurt you.
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And so, anybody who seemed to be endorsing it, as you did, I was completely opposed to
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And the businesses we support grow at double the average rate.
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I see reproductive rights differently, and I do think that it was a very dangerous...
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Politically, it's an easy analysis of the dog catching the car and getting rid of Roe
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You have this IVF thing that happens in Alabama.
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You're going to have a lot of crazy stuff happen now, and women are going to have to pay
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But, here's where I was coming from on COVID, and I want your take on this.
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So, we're in this emergency situation that I very much believe was real.
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And I wanted to believe, President Trump, that this is being hyped, and it's going to
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There's going to be a few dozen cases, and we'll be okay.
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I didn't want people to get sick, let alone me.
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So, then it becomes a really big thing, and I have this unusual set of inside eyes, right?
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Because my brother is running one of the biggest states and dealing with some of the most cases.
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So, I'm deeper into it, probably, than anyone else covering it in the country, because I'm
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watching my brother get overwhelmed by need in the hospital.
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That's how I got COVID, was going to visit hospitals, because I kept hearing these stories
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about all these dead people all over the place, and how there were gurneys flying, and they
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The government says, this is what we have to do.
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And there are similar practices going on around the world.
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But why was it wrong for me to say, this is what they're telling us to do?
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I'm the guy who got busted in the New York Post, because I took a run without a mask on,
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walked back in my lobby, and somebody ratted on me, and then I became a hypocrite.
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And that's one attack that I will not walk back, because I think it's fair.
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And when told to do it on airplanes, I always punched a hole through it.
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Otherwise, I can't get the cigarette in there if there's a...
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My wife and I have not slept with our door closed in, I mean, many, many years.
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No matter what the climate, we sleep with the door open, because we believe in fresh
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And no one's going to keep me from getting fresh air.
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So, but if it's true that you must wear your mask at all times, then you must wear your
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Whether it's inconvenient or not, don't go for a run.
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But people are getting arrested on the beach alone.
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And I feel the same way about the vaccine and what was understood and not understood.
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Wait, but can I just ask you one question that really was the pivot point for me when
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I realized these people are liars and it's my job not to affirm what they say, but to
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question and to challenge them, no matter what they call me.
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But when the BLM riots happened and public health officials said, it's okay because fighting
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systemic racism, which they never defined, despite my requests, is more important than
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And I'm like, you may think that as a political matter, but as an epidemiological matter, you've
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And you don't give a shit about public health because you were just telling me that this is
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not allowed, except when it's a militia helping you.
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And no one ever explained to me how it's okay to infect people with COVID as long as they're
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I guess the way I was watching it in real time is, well, they can't control...
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But do you really want to go arresting your way into a crowd of people who are already
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outraged by something, let alone if it becomes...
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If a bunch of Nazis came out in the early summer of 2020 and said, we're Nazis, we're
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Although a lot of those guys do wear masks to hide their identity.
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And I think they felt the same way about those protests.
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Well, they've got drones and automatic weapons.
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Look, the one thing we know about the people...
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She was pushed against a door going into the Senate chamber.
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You don't commit violence against women, period.
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I'm the last person, apparently, in America who thinks that.
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An unarmed woman should not be shot under any circumstances.
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If she's unarmed and she's 5'2, I think it's totally dishonorable.
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And to see Joe Scarborough, of all people, of all people, saying that's okay, I'm like...
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Look, I mean, so many of these situations are so impossible.
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Because the whole point is, nobody has these conversations.
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People have friends where they don't agree on things.
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The MAGA stuff changed it a little bit for people.
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They started being mean to each other in their personal lives.
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Yes, it's like the worst thing that's happened.
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Shooting unarmed people is a very dicey proposition.
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So, I'm 6'1", or was before I had back surgery.
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You know, we're trying to be real with each other here.
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There's not one woman in America who can kick your ass.
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And you have to say it to make the unhappy, unmarried woman...
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You think you could get in there with the women who are fighting and come out looking like that?
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I have a polygraph exam, and I don't want to have to do this on camera, okay?
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I would pass in flying colors, because I know how to beat the test.
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No, that's why they're not admissible in court.
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But can I just ask you, like, you know in your heart you don't actually think there's a single woman in this country...
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The whole point is that I don't have to know them by person.
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Men and women are very different, much more different.
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We spend all of our time on racial differences.
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Your race, my race, and there are differences between races.
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There is no difference between races that's a quarter as profound as the difference between sexes.
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These are biological differences that are physical, they're psychological, they're hormonal.
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But that's kind of the point about drawing racial distinctions, is that you're really the same.
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But what I'm saying, I don't see it as a less than.
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Can women lift as much weight as men on average?
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And I think that my job, all of our jobs as men, is to treat women differently, comma, and better than we treat men.
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If you got into an argument, and I know you well enough to know, if you're standing in a restaurant and someone's like,
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I really don't have a lot of capital right now.
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If a woman got way up in your face, you would know...
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So it is a bigger sin, not just against her, but against yourself and your dignity and your responsibility as a man.
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You're telling me some girl is going to kick your ass.
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There are all these professional fighters and women who train in self-defense who will beat my ass.
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How many female fighters have gone against male fighters that are roughly the same?
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Although, did you see that girl who just won the high school wrestling championship?
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Then why do we have a Violence Against Women's Act?
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You have Violence Against Women because you have a cultural preset of victimizing women
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and putting them in positions that are inferior.
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And it was important enough that society decided to punish it extra.
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It's illegal to be as, you know, fair to women act.
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Yeah, because you have a culture of where men...
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The rule of thumb comes from British common law of you can beat your wife with anything
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The British Empire is the empire that stopped widow burning in India.
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There was no force for female liberation more powerful than the British Empire ever
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until the American Empire showed up and inverted it and started telling women, true liberation
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is working for some soulless company that hates you and will pay for your insurance to
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freeze your eggs so you can put off what you really want to do in life and work for us.
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But these are choices that individuals don't get to make.
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There are structural things that take away your choice.
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I think the inability to raise children on a single income is like the biggest change in
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But when you propose something like family leave or allowing men or women to be able
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to be there with the newborn, nobody wants to give them money for it.
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You didn't spend time with your kids when they were first born?
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So I know for a fact, not as a matter of theory, that a child needs two parents and that each
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parent brings something vital and... but different to parenting.
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But the one thing I definitely know is that there's not one man on the planet who knows
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There's a period for the first several months that if you're not a woman, you are not comfortable
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And if you can find a man who's totally comfortable around a newborn the way any five-year-old girl
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It's like finding the girl who can beat you up.
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And so the truth is the difference between men and women...
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You're going to wind up having a woman stop you somewhere and beat you up.
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No one wants to admit it because we're like, oh...
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There's a tiny percentage of the US population, which is an overwhelming percentage of the Democratic
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The people who think it's okay to punch them in the face, the people who don't punish rapists,
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the people who allow you to be afraid on the subway, those people hate women.
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The ones who are telling you, forgo your family to work at Citibank, those people hate you.
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There is definitely a cultural problem we have in terms of allowing...
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Allowing women to have the same exercise of options that men have.
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And sometimes you go too far and in the wrong directions.
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If you read any survey of women, what do they want?
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And I got married because I really liked my wife and I thought she was hot.
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And she was the one who was like, we should have children.
01:03:51.300
Well, she had to be thinking, what am I going to get out of this?
01:04:05.060
But the point is, if you ask women what they want, the overwhelming majority will say, I
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And that is the thing that the Democratic Party prevents them from having through policy.
01:04:29.840
And the reason they do that is because the single most important constituency, as you
01:04:42.920
And so they do a lot of different things to discourage marriage and fertility.
01:04:48.000
One of them is paying single moms not to be married.
01:04:51.040
Another is constantly promoting anti-fertility measures like abortion and birth control.
01:04:57.020
They actively work to prevent women from forming families.
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You are more judgmental and stronger in your convictions than I am.
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It wasn't right to call it an insurrection because an insurrection is a real thing.
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Is this the girl who's going to beat you up is getting mad at you?
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I'm going to start bringing them around you the next time we see each other.
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If you had said this before and then walked into that fight, Trump even couldn't have
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There has never been an insurrection that was largely unarmed, okay?
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And I know people are going to say they had fire extinguishers and sticks.
01:06:15.680
If your intention is to take over the United States government, you're going to come heavy.
01:06:27.500
Ashley Babbitt, for good reason, bad reason, no reason, was where she was.
01:06:31.820
She put that officer in fear of his life with like 10 other people.
01:06:37.580
We don't know that she put him in fear of his life because there was never an investigation
01:06:42.740
So Michael Byrd, the man who shot her to death, had already been sanctioned for leaving
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his loaded Glock in the men's room of the Capitol.
01:06:52.580
Now, you tell me, I don't know what your view of firearms is, but I have a lot of views
01:06:59.440
You can't leave a loaded, striker-fired handgun with a bullet in the chamber with no safety
01:07:13.920
That's negligent and a mortal threat to anyone else who uses the men's room, especially children.
01:07:32.380
And that is a, yeah, that's a breech-loaded Winchester.
01:07:45.100
He's, first of all, the investigation is what we all saw on video.
01:07:54.660
Do cops don't get to shoot you without a warning in a situation where they are exercising a
01:08:04.700
In a situation where there is a mob descending upon this guy, he's trying to hold the glass
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doors because he wants lawmakers to not get hanged or whatever, and they're breaking through.
01:08:17.400
He then made a judgment that his life was going to be-
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And him leaving a weapon somewhere is a bad move.
01:08:24.460
But it doesn't have any relevance in terms of what he did here.
01:08:26.780
Well, of course it does, because it speaks to his judgment.
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And here's the point I would make, is that Ashley Babbitt was not a mob.
01:08:38.200
He shot an unarmed woman who was under 5'5", who did not pose a mortal threat to him.
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And so just on the basis of those facts alone, I need to know more.
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But we don't know more, because there was no investigation.
01:08:57.200
And then he goes on TV and accuses everyone of racism who doesn't like the killing that he committed.
01:09:01.840
And then you have people on television saying, I'm so glad that she died.
01:09:07.780
This is a veteran, by the way, who runs a pool company in San Diego.
01:09:12.740
This is the person who served the country and who was getting the least benefit from her.
01:09:20.520
And her death is, like, totally fine, because we don't like her politics.
01:09:23.840
If they think it's okay to kill Ashley Babbitt when she posed no mortal threat to anybody, not even conceivably, then they'll be happy when I die.
01:09:33.000
And you're probably not wrong, because the fact that there's even a they in your analysis of it shows that we're in the wrong place.
01:09:42.240
Yeah, but what I'm saying, no, no, but what I'm saying that humanity should be an absolute value, you know?
01:09:51.040
When, like, January 6th, I know people will say it was an insurrection.
01:09:56.440
He wasn't charged with that, and there's a reason he wasn't charged with that, and it's not a technicality.
01:10:01.060
And your approach and the approach of other people that, hey, this was just, you know, these guys were in the wrong place, the wrong way, but that's all it was.
01:10:14.440
And I think they were way over the line, and I think that they were motivated to go way over the line, in part by the president of the United States.
01:10:21.520
Obviously, we're a riot, but let me ask you just a couple questions.
01:10:23.760
One is, why can't we know how many federal agents were in the crowd and what they were doing there?
01:10:33.160
But it's the opposite of what we have, and there are thousands of hours of tape, and the release of which will not jeopardize security in the Capitol.
01:10:44.980
You cherry-picked it, though, and you made it look like the least.
01:10:48.140
Like you kept showing the Indian guy walking around like it was a shaman guy.
01:10:51.400
The Indian guy did over two years in prison for no crime whatsoever.
01:10:56.400
Again, his name is Jake Chansley, and he's a very smart guy.
01:11:02.560
He's pretty far out, but he's no more far out than Janet Yellen or anybody else.
01:11:07.460
Yeah, except Janet Yellen wasn't busting into the Capitol and walking around.
01:11:13.100
I mean, Janet Yellen was Fed chair and then taking millions of dollars in speaking fees from the banks?
01:11:20.520
I'm fine with those types of ethical lapses and how we allow the system to keep going around.
01:11:30.120
But I do think that, look, I think that what I see in January 6th, what I see when it comes to immigration, what I see when it comes to Russia, all of these things wind up becoming fodder for division.
01:11:42.440
You have to have a take, and it winds up having to be the opposite take that the other side has.
01:11:48.340
And I really think that it's symptomatic of our decline.
01:11:53.080
January 6th was either no big deal, the BLM stuff was worse, or it was an insurrection, and everybody there is treason.
01:12:00.920
We don't like what the president does, treason.
01:12:09.300
You are hit with the stick of you are forwarding the replacement theory, that the Democrats want to bring in as many brown people as possible to replace white people.
01:12:21.260
Well, like three books have been written on it.
01:12:25.080
The policy is not to replace white people with brown people.
01:12:29.460
So what I'm interested, and by the way, I've never said white people.
01:12:34.060
I said the current people who are born here, many of whom are not white.
01:12:43.080
You'll say like, well, white people created everything.
01:12:48.580
Well, I've never said they don't want us to have white babies.
01:12:52.280
Though the attacks on white people are one of the biggest things that's ever happened in our country.
01:12:56.780
The fact that people in the media can just sort of blithely attack an entire group on the basis of their skin color, I just grew up thinking that was completely out of bounds.
01:13:05.820
Does it matter if the group is a majority or a minority?
01:13:09.220
Well, the principle never changes, which is you're not responsible for your skin color.
01:13:15.040
And so you can't attack people on the basis of immutable characteristics.
01:13:18.100
And if you can, then tell me why segregation was wrong.
01:13:27.820
And I think attacking people on the basis of their skin color is always wrong.
01:13:32.900
It was every bit as wrong as what's happening now.
01:13:37.600
How can you give someone a job on the basis of a skin color?
01:13:40.060
How can you deny someone a job on the basis of a skin color?
01:13:44.840
That's what I was taught growing up in a very liberal place in California.
01:13:48.020
And then I get older and it's like, oh, we're definitely going to do that.
01:13:51.980
And you can't complain about it or you're the racist.
01:13:54.060
And it's like, no, no, no, you're the one punishing people for how they were born, for
01:14:02.520
In fact, I thought that was the lodestar of American politics.
01:14:04.860
The one thing we hate is attacking people, denying them opportunity on the base of their
01:14:12.360
Not only do we do that, but you can't mention it.
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And boy, I've had a lot of people, Republicans, tell me I can't mention that.
01:14:29.900
Because it is substituting a level playing field where there isn't one.
01:14:36.360
So the way affirmative action was supposed to work was that it would enable a merit-based
01:14:43.040
system that people who are minorities were being kept out of for two reasons.
01:14:47.680
One, they didn't have the opportunities early on to build up the tools that a lot of white
01:14:54.240
people did because of what they call now privilege, but really it's opportunity.
01:14:58.720
And the second reason is that because white people were the majority and didn't like the
01:15:05.300
So you had a system that was set up against them, had to be remedied.
01:15:10.260
It's almost impossible to apply logic to this because it's based on, obviously, racial hostility
01:15:21.460
Fairness under law, meaning that just because this person is brown doesn't mean you can
01:15:29.120
Just because this person is any color, any color, you should never punish someone for
01:15:42.320
If whites become the minority, which I keep reading it's going to happen really soon,
01:15:46.900
should they be beneficiaries of affirmative action?
01:15:48.820
If they start to get discriminated against on the basis of that.
01:15:53.680
Well, they're already discriminated against in college admissions, in hiring, both federal
01:16:02.740
If you're to break out the country by ethnicity, which I hate, I don't think we should count
01:16:07.060
I think we should address people as they were created by God, which is as individuals.
01:16:11.620
That's fine as long as everybody's getting a fair shake.
01:16:15.220
Whites are not in the top five for income in the United States.
01:16:18.820
Right now, Nigerians, on average, make more than whites.
01:16:22.640
So if you're talking about a world that is black and white, and the whites have some
01:16:27.100
sort of entrenched privilege and are beneficiaries of all this stuff, you're really talking about
01:16:33.100
And so in the current country, virtually every immigrant group has a higher income than native-born
01:16:41.160
I'm just saying that's not a basis upon which to discriminate against whites.
01:16:44.920
And if you continue to with those numbers in hand, and those are public numbers from
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the Labor Department, then you're really doing this because you hate whites.
01:16:52.760
And I don't want to live in a country where we punish people because the people in charge
01:16:56.760
Because we've lived in that country before, and I don't want to live in it again.
01:16:59.220
So how is it that the people in charge are mostly white, but they hate whites?
01:17:05.500
And I would say this, I mean, I don't know the answer, but I would say this just as I
01:17:12.440
I have never one time been yelled at by a non-white person.
01:17:23.560
I've never had any Spanish person or Asian person, any non-white ever do that.
01:17:27.400
But it's been about 99% 32-year-old female white lawyers.
01:17:41.180
There's a lot I don't understand, including this.
01:17:44.700
Because in this country, you should never be allowed to punish people on the basis of
01:17:52.040
And I don't, all these rationales, well, systemic this, systemic that.
01:17:55.120
You don't have the evidence to support your position, not you, but the person making that
01:18:01.160
You can't punish people for the color of their skin.
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That's the whole freaking lesson of the entire civil rights movement.
01:18:09.260
You know, we're like pretending it's like the opposite lesson?
01:18:16.140
If it's not going to happen naturally, how do you enable it?
01:18:21.240
If you could do that, that wouldn't punish people or advantage people, either one, on
01:18:27.880
If you could find a way that wouldn't let some people sit in the front row and others
01:18:31.200
sit in the balcony or give some people, you know, a water fountain in the lobby and some
01:18:35.960
a water fountain in the utility closet, then we could talk about it.
01:18:39.700
But no scheme devised or that conceivably could be devised doesn't wind up helping some
01:18:45.320
people on the basis of their skin color and hurting people on the basis of their skin
01:18:48.260
color. And they used to tell us for years, like, oh, a front of action doesn't hurt white
01:18:54.040
The Greeks invented democracy, so if you like democracy, you're Greek. If you've ever voted
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for a candidate, voted someone off an island, left work early to go to the polls, or lied
01:19:09.800
about going to the polls so you could leave work early, that's good enough. You're Greek.
01:19:14.420
So eat like it. That means ordering delicious and fresh chicken souvlaki with tzatziki from
01:19:19.600
Jimmy the Greek. You deserve it, you pillar of democracy, you. You're Greek. Eat like
01:19:37.700
So this is supposed to be an interview of you and your dark secrets.
01:19:41.160
The worst thing I've ever done was to forget what I'm supposed to be about. Every time I
01:19:54.100
An amazing ability. And I just started looking into myself more about this. You know, and
01:20:02.240
in this way, I'm very shy about this stuff, but everything that happens in life, there's
01:20:07.480
very little that you control, right? Most things happen to you, not by you. But with everything
01:20:14.100
that happens, you have an absolute ability to control what it means and how to react to
01:20:18.120
it. And that is really easy to say and really hard to do. And what I did when I got shit
01:20:25.300
canned, and I really, I got to be honest, I didn't handle it well. I really didn't.
01:20:31.000
Can I just ask, just because you're explaining how you keep repeating the same mistakes, which
01:20:35.280
is a very frustrating and very human phenomenon. But do you think you got fired for mistakes
01:20:43.520
And I'll tell you why. Because did I do what they say I did? No. I never lied. I didn't
01:20:49.640
go after my brother's accusers. And you could say, why not? Isn't that what you're supposed
01:20:53.040
to do? His party has rules. And the rule is an allegation is enough. And you don't really
01:20:58.480
go after the accuser if they are believed. Okay? That's what he signed up for. Okay.
01:21:04.620
I think you're talking about the Democratic Party.
01:21:06.060
That's right. That's what he signed up. One allegation is enough. He had more than one.
01:21:11.780
Okay? So that's the rule. And that was my conversation with him. I never went after
01:21:16.600
his accusers. I didn't work the media. I didn't call up and say, I wouldn't have called you,
01:21:20.760
that's for sure. But I didn't call people up and say, do me a favor. We're friends.
01:21:24.540
Be nice to my brother. And here's how we know that has to be true. Okay? You don't think
01:21:29.600
that if I had called somebody up and asked for a favor, they'd be raising their hand right
01:21:32.920
now and saying, he called me. He called me. You don't think that they would immediately
01:21:37.620
announce it? Of course they would. I would have been fine if you'd done that because
01:21:41.040
it's your brother. But I'm saying the media would say, no, this is unethical. I didn't
01:21:46.500
do what they say. But I foolishly believed, and this was a mistake, that my bosses, the
01:21:58.820
media, the people who I thought knew me, would allow this uncomfortable balance to be respected
01:22:08.740
and seen for what it was. And because look, is it a conflict? Of course it's a conflict.
01:22:14.960
Unless your boss says it's okay. Which obviously he did, right? Because obviously
01:22:20.340
there was no secret about me talking to my brother and listening to some of his meetings
01:22:25.700
with his staff. And it was a mistake for me to think that that would be respected and
01:22:33.480
treated fairly. I should have never thought that way. I should have seen it for the way
01:22:38.780
I would now if someone came to me and said, do you think this is going to be a problem?
01:22:42.120
Yeah, it's going to be a problem. As soon as they find out about this.
01:22:47.520
The only part that rings a little false is when you said, to my ear, is when you said
01:22:51.780
that would have been unethical. And so you're someone who's been in the media your whole
01:22:56.400
life at high levels, ABC News, Fox News, CNN, news nation, news nation now. But like, you
01:23:06.460
know, because you've lived in that world that ethics in the media are like lower than they
01:23:11.780
are among prostitutes. Like, I think, first of all, you got to live your own standard, right?
01:23:18.540
Fair. You got to live your own standard. And I believe in the media. I believe in it. I think
01:23:26.900
it's, if not, I don't want to say the most, but it's definitely one of the main signatures of our
01:23:36.920
So you're saying, to be clear, you believe in the idea of...
01:23:40.460
And do people practice it that way? Not enough. Everything is imperfect. Everything that is human
01:23:46.300
controlled is imperfect and easily corrupted. Some people do it very well, certainly better
01:23:53.600
than I do. Some people suck and are mean and try to do things just for advantage. And it works
01:23:59.820
really well because we reward the wrong things. Negativity is allowed to be a proxy for insight.
01:24:06.080
Taking you down does lift me up. And people don't want to hear good things about Tucker Carlson.
01:24:13.740
They want to hear bad things about Tucker Carlson. If I were to do a profile of you that was
01:24:21.140
making a fair case for all the success you've had, it would get dismissed as a puff piece and I would
01:24:28.760
be seen as a dupe. If I were to say falsely, but with just a little bit of proof that even regular
01:24:35.620
people who aren't in our business would be like, God, the proof is kind of thin on this,
01:24:39.300
that Tucker Carlson loves to kick puppies, they would say, that's a hard-hitting piece
01:24:43.780
of journalism right there. Because negativity is the proxy for insight. So that's our business.
01:24:49.280
So they would look with that mindset. I made it too easy for them to come after me for my situation.
01:24:57.520
And I sort of seen it, but more importantly, my real mistake was allowing my family to absorb
01:25:02.520
that blow as if it were just about me and my brother. And it wasn't. And it's really hard to
01:25:10.100
have something that goes so wrong in your life where you come out of it like, I don't even know
01:25:15.420
what I would do differently. There's no world where I don't help my brother. There's no world where I
01:25:19.940
don't help my family, where I don't help my friends. That's all I am. But what I did to my family,
01:25:28.700
what I did to my kids, I hate myself for it. And all I can do is to try to be different now,
01:25:39.120
make different choices now. Like, I don't pick fights the way I used to. I believed that my value
01:25:47.400
at the time on CNN was, I'm going to bring on Tucker Carlson. He's a smart guy. He's practiced on what
01:25:53.440
he is. I'm going to take him apart tonight. Not gratuitously, but I'm going to take him on on his own
01:25:57.480
basis. I want him at his best. Whatever his best argument is, let's have him on and let's get after
01:26:02.120
it. I don't do that the same way anymore. And- Because you're gun shy or you- No, because it's
01:26:09.300
not worth what it did to my family. But there's been a saving grace, which is what brings me here
01:26:18.020
today to be with you. It doesn't work anymore. Yeah. You tearing me apart on any issue. Not
01:26:24.160
personally. Let's say it's just policy. You just kill me on immigration. Okay? It doesn't move the
01:26:29.940
needle. The people who believe me think you're an asshole. And the people who believe you think
01:26:34.380
that I'm an idiot who shouldn't be listened to. That's it. It doesn't change any minds. It doesn't
01:26:39.660
change any minds. It's true. The only thing that can change minds is to change your audience to
01:26:44.320
critical thinkers and people who are open. They're not lemmings. They're not sheeple. They're not party
01:26:49.300
people. They're independent. They're free agents. They're critical thinkers. And to have conversations
01:26:54.980
that are uncomfortable. So how could you possibly be upset about being fired? I mean, this sounds
01:26:59.840
like, this is not flattery, it's sincere. That sounds like a much more enlightened view of the
01:27:05.940
world, a truer view of the world than the view that cable news encourages. That's a good thing,
01:27:12.120
isn't it? Look, again, bad things happen. You get an opportunity, what to do with them. I'm
01:27:18.340
choosing to try to create a better professional mode for myself. But, but, I can't look at what
01:27:30.000
happened to me and not see injury. Now, do I have the ability to say, Chris, I'll show you injury.
01:27:36.800
Injury has fallen off a crane. Injury is getting cancer. Injury is not being able to feed your family.
01:27:41.900
True. I am ridiculously blessed. I never think otherwise. My father would haunt me if I did.
01:27:48.040
I know that for a fact. But, I had a platform, a position at a place where there was incredible
01:27:59.320
reach. And I was able to weigh in on whatever mattered in the world and get an audience that
01:28:06.200
was unfathomable to me before I was at CNN. And I lost that when I was fired. And I'll never get it
01:28:13.340
back. Never. And my name right now is Chris Cuomo. I'm okay with that. Comma. Fired by CNN. I accept
01:28:24.900
that. That's a fact. Comma. For lying about what he did to help his brother. That is not true. And it
01:28:34.240
cannot stand. And I cannot have my kids have to deal with that as a Google search of me. It's not true.
01:28:40.940
And the people who said it know it's not true. So, there's an injury. You know, I always used to,
01:28:48.980
maybe I'm the one who grew up in the mafia family because I just don't see that. I didn't grow up in
01:28:52.800
a mafia family. I know. I'm just joking. I'm just joking. I just want to take your head and squeeze it.
01:28:58.540
No. No. Is that wrong? Is that evil? It's a little wrong. But I'll accept it. But I just don't,
01:29:06.720
look, lying is bad. It's always bad. Lying is always bad. But doing whatever you can to help
01:29:13.100
your family, again, it's just a hierarchy of loyalty. And anyone who tells you that you have,
01:29:18.560
except to God, a higher loyalty than to your own family, that's your enemy. No,
01:29:25.200
your loyalty is to your family. Okay? Period. So, I don't, you know, you say you didn't lie. I actually
01:29:30.460
completely believe you. But if I found out that you did lie, I wouldn't judge you. It's your brother.
01:29:36.120
I mean, like, what? I think it matters. If your brother was on the run and he said,
01:29:41.020
can you give me 500 bucks for a big passport? I give it to you. In a second. Yeah. Yeah. That's how I feel.
01:29:47.440
So, like, how is that a sin? I don't know if it's a sin. I don't know if it's right. I don't know if
01:29:51.780
it's wrong. I'm just telling you that's the way I am. Yeah. But. Good. Well, I admire that.
01:29:56.600
If I had been lying, look, I apologized. Okay? And this was really hard for me. Not,
01:30:01.760
I mean, I apologize all the time when you make repeated mistakes the way I do. And you lose
01:30:06.180
your temper and you do stupid shit that you didn't mean to do. You wind up apologizing a lot if you're
01:30:10.740
trying to get better. I apologized for what? For what I did? No. For helping my brother? No. Because
01:30:18.500
I was told by my boss that people at CNN felt that they'd been compromised by what was coming out
01:30:25.120
about what I was doing for my brother. That, I never, I never saw that coming. And if I had
01:30:30.480
known at the beginning, and I offered to leave twice, if I knew at the beginning that it was
01:30:35.720
going to be bad for the men and women who were working at CNN doing what they were doing and
01:30:40.640
I was going to compromise their ability to do it, I would have quit like that if I had known.
01:30:45.400
Can I just say, I mean, I don't know, how long did you spend at CNN?
01:30:49.140
Over 10 years. Over 10 years. So I didn't spend quite 10 years. I spent a long time there.
01:30:52.820
And the idea that they would have moral qualms about that at CNN is just not believable. Just
01:30:57.380
don't believe that. I mean, they put on from Operation Tailwind when I was there to the
01:31:02.360
Russiagate stuff, which was just factually untrue, to all kinds of other stuff. Like they have no
01:31:06.560
qualms about lying because I've seen it. They did when I worked there. And so I just don't believe that
01:31:12.120
they were morally offended by a man helping his brother and not even in ridiculous ways. Like you
01:31:16.680
weren't, you know what I mean? So I guess my question is, I'm used to seeing people taken out for
01:31:22.160
political reasons. You're from one of the most famous Democratic Party families in the world.
01:31:27.840
You're related by marriage to the Kennedys. Like no one's doubting, right? What side you're on,
01:31:31.680
at least by appearances. Why? What was the real reason they took you out? I just don't believe that.
01:31:39.060
I hurt CNN. How? Because the media saw me and what I was doing as being beneath the level of
01:31:49.380
transparency and ethical obligations that someone should have in the position that I was in.
01:31:55.380
I don't like to swear, you know, but I just can't say bullshit enough. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.
01:31:59.700
I'm telling you. Jeff Zucker was like having an affair with an employee, supposedly, according to the
01:32:04.400
media. But, and was later let go because of it, according to the media. But the point is,
01:32:09.540
I just don't believe that. And my guess, because I don't know, because no one there will talk to me
01:32:14.400
anymore. But my guess is. They won't talk to me either. Which really hurts. It's crazy though.
01:32:19.660
It really hurts. But I'll tell you what though. But I think it was the testosterone level thing.
01:32:22.760
They just don't want a man who doesn't hate himself on TV. That's what I think. Look, that's not the
01:32:28.940
reason that was stated. People get frustrated with me because I don't go bad on Jeff Zucker. And I
01:32:35.360
won't. Two reasons. What I said earlier about the opportunities he gave me. And two, that's a bad
01:32:41.700
place. And I've been there. And if you let yourself get absorbed. I get it. It is hard to get out. So
01:32:48.360
I have so much respect and concern for so many people who are still at CNN. And I think it's an
01:32:57.680
amazing place that's capable of amazing things. And I really miss what I had there.
01:33:05.880
And it would be easier, I guess, and outwardly more satisfying to be like, I hate them. And I hope
01:33:12.420
bad things happen. No, no, no. And I'm glad you don't feel that way. I don't feel that way about
01:33:16.000
my last employer. I'm not mad at them at all. I never feel mad at them. And I'm not. And I mean it.
01:33:21.600
But. I'm mad. I'm angry about what happened to me.
01:33:25.620
I just don't. There's clearly a reason that's different from the stated reason.
01:33:31.160
And I think the most obvious answer. I think I was just trouble. I became trouble for them.
01:33:37.060
And the brand matters more. And when it was working for them, I was the man. And they couldn't get
01:33:42.640
enough of me. You were the highest rated show. Right. Not even close. I was the number one show.
01:33:47.400
But they. They can't fire you if you've got the number one show. Oh, yes, they can.
01:33:51.420
Are you serious? Yeah, like this. And out you go. Wow.
01:33:54.700
And look. Wow. But I keep that in mind. It's a tough business. I understand that. And here's
01:34:01.400
what I tell myself now. And I think this is important for our audiences also. This is what
01:34:05.980
I signed up for. The really, really impressive ability you have to separate yourself from the
01:34:13.600
impressions of you. I don't have that. That's good. I say that, but I don't have it the way you do.
01:34:19.920
I now tell myself this. And this is what keeps my hands like this instead of like this.
01:34:26.880
I signed up for this. You want to be forward facing? No. You want to be in the media? No,
01:34:31.540
that's true. You want to have the platform? You want people to listen to what you say?
01:34:35.300
Then you're going to have to listen to what they say. And if they don't like you, you have to take
01:34:38.500
it. And that's what you signed up for. If you don't like it, that's fine. Leave. Go work somewhere
01:34:44.220
else. Go start an electrical services company and have a different life and live it. But if you
01:34:52.640
want to be public facing and you want to be part of the dialogue in the arena, right, as Teddy
01:34:58.220
Roosevelt said, then this is what you signed up for. And I tell myself that all the time.
01:35:04.100
And it never ends well. I mean, it doesn't. It always ends in tears. These relationships with
01:35:08.320
these media companies have lived it. I have to ask, though, did anyone, well, was it Zasloff,
01:35:14.160
by the way, who did it, do you think? Look, he wasn't in yet. But it's hard for me to believe
01:35:23.220
that, you know, Jeff Zucker, I thought he like was making that deal happen. You know, another regret
01:35:31.820
for me on this is, God, you know, Jeff was so important to that place. He was so valuable.
01:35:39.560
And because of this dynamic, he wound up being out. And I never wanted that. You know, people
01:35:47.120
say, well, at least he got fired. I feel terribly that he got fired. Good. And he was so valuable
01:35:53.700
to that place. I mean, we see that now. I don't know who knew and who did what. I'm
01:36:01.620
told things. I'm not going to repeat them because I can't prove them. But I don't
01:36:06.220
think it was a one man decision. It never is. So when you did leave after 10 years as
01:36:12.040
the highest, your highest rated show when you were. I didn't leave. I was fired. When
01:36:16.420
you got shit canned, as you said. Did any of the other anchors call you to say, gosh,
01:36:22.760
I got kind of shafted. I'm sorry to see you go or. No. Nobody called you. No on air
01:36:30.000
person. People called. A couple of guys, but none of the ones that you know or you recognize
01:36:36.620
with the CNN brand. Why? Because they were told things that weren't true. And I think
01:36:46.980
in fairness to them, you take care of yourself in those positions and you don't get caught
01:36:53.400
in a situation where maybe you'll get swept into the controversy of being on Cuomo's side
01:36:59.600
and he's the wrong side. He's the bad side. I'm on Jeff's side. I'm on C whatever side
01:37:05.580
you protect yourself. But if you work for a company or any organization that prevents you
01:37:11.640
or terrifies you into not making human contact, expressing sympathy. I don't know that they
01:37:17.560
terrified him into it. I think it's I think it's either they didn't want to talk to me because
01:37:21.620
they thought I fucked up or they didn't want to talk to me because they thought I messed
01:37:26.000
up or they didn't know what to do or they were worried about what would happen if they
01:37:35.580
did. And I get it. But by the way, they're not the only news organization that behaves
01:37:40.620
like this at all. They all do as far as I know. But isn't that a red flag that you're
01:37:45.080
working for like horrible people? Look, it was an ugly situation. But they're ugly people
01:37:49.240
though. I mean, like who would do that if I, you know, if I fired someone who worked
01:37:53.940
for me, who was popular or unpopular or whatever, I would never say to the other people on staff,
01:37:58.520
don't ever reach out to that person. I don't judge it. You know, Marcus Aurelius is one of
01:38:05.440
my favorite philosophers, right? He was the last of the good emperors, whatever that means
01:38:10.620
in Rome. And he says the greatest revenge is to not be what you oppose. I agree with that.
01:38:18.140
And that is hard to do, especially for me. I'm ridiculously petty. And not just because
01:38:26.180
Well, maybe a little bit. But it's really hard to do. And I don't judge people for not
01:38:33.000
reaching out to me. I get it. I get that it was hard. I get that this is really painful
01:38:39.620
for a lot of people in a lot of ways. And I really feel badly about that. I wish I had
01:38:44.500
control over it. But I don't. And I am here. And I am a phone call away for anybody. And
01:38:53.940
now people are calling. Now they're calling. And I'm good with that. And if I can help,
01:39:00.900
I want to help. And if you want to reach out, I'm here.
01:39:06.300
What do you think the chances are that some of the people who didn't call you, I'm not
01:39:14.660
Oh, I did. Sometimes I have trouble discerning between-
01:39:23.080
But that your colleagues will be calling you in a couple years as your former employer does
01:39:28.620
collapse under the weight of its own irrelevance and sort of ask you for guidance on how to
01:39:35.300
Well, look, it is different doing what you're doing now, doing what I'm doing now. I don't
01:39:42.900
think CNN is going to collapse. I think it's a very powerful organization. I think everybody's
01:39:49.000
got to retool and find different ways to be effective. If anybody can do it, CNN will.
01:39:53.780
I don't know the new management team there. I don't know this guy. I hear positive things
01:39:58.520
about him from people in-house. It's hard times in the media. It is. News Nation, where
01:40:05.860
I am, is hiring. I think it's the only cable news outfit that's growing. It's the benefit
01:40:14.120
of starting low. But it is growing. And I think the main reason that it is, is because there's
01:40:20.900
such a desperation for different and disruption of the norms. And I know it because people
01:40:29.780
say it to me all the time. The most common thing is, I don't know what they're going to
01:40:33.380
say after this, but the most common thing I've heard up until this is, you know, at CNN,
01:40:39.060
I saw you differently. Now, sometimes they'll say you were different at CNN. I don't see that.
01:40:46.360
I mean, I was certainly different personally because I hadn't gone through this maelstrom,
01:40:50.740
this crucible. But they'll say, you know, when you were at CNN, I didn't like this. But now I do
01:40:56.320
now. And I think that there's just so much silo thinking that News Nation is not part of that.
01:41:04.740
And it's getting an opportunity to just be what people see on its air without people thinking,
01:41:10.780
well, I know they're trying to trick me into being this way or that way. And I think that's
01:41:15.080
probably why it's growing. But I'm sure that's right. I'm the last person who would know,
01:41:21.040
as you know. But I think it's also important to acknowledge that maybe changes have taken place
01:41:27.580
within you. I mean, your views probably don't agree with all of them. I know I don't.
01:41:32.260
But you do seem, well, smart, I will say that, but very self-aware.
01:41:41.940
So I wonder if like, well, having been fired and humiliated a lot, I've always thought that
01:41:47.340
men need to be humiliated regularly, especially people who are successful, because otherwise they
01:41:52.620
become totally unbearable. And I wonder if that's like not the greatest thing that ever happened.
01:42:00.620
I think that you can find value in it. There's value in suffering. There's value in struggle.
01:42:08.160
There's value in pain. In fact, I do believe that the things that have shaped my life, when
01:42:13.480
I look back at like what moments mattered and what moves mattered, what events, they're
01:42:27.040
Well, let me flip it around. Have you ever learned anything important from eating French
01:42:34.460
No. No. The easy moments don't yield that much.
01:42:41.300
So you said, I can't complain. I don't have cancer. I haven't fallen off a crane, I think
01:42:46.060
is what you said. And I hope I never get cancer and I hope I never fall off a crane. But there
01:42:51.920
is something, I know a lot of people have had cancer and are completely fine and grateful
01:42:57.300
to be alive, of course, and they suffer. But there is a difference between suffering with
01:43:02.820
an ailment that's not your fault and being publicly humiliated as a result of decisions
01:43:09.700
that you made and suddenly becoming unpopular with all the cool kids. Like that seems in a
01:43:15.780
lot of ways, I'm not in any way minimizing all the other bad things that happen to people,
01:43:21.640
It's different. I would argue that I was never really that popular with the cool kids.
01:43:28.200
I've always been kind of boxed out in the media. Why? Because my name's Cuomo. And when I first
01:43:37.100
wanted to get into this business, I couldn't even get a job at New York One. The reason that
01:43:41.560
I wound up working at Fox News was because Roger Ailes was the only one who would give
01:43:47.920
me a shot. Everywhere else I went, you know, I was a lawyer. I'd been practicing law. And
01:43:56.900
Among the liberal outlets, but it was Roger Ailes who was the only one who gave me a job.
01:44:02.760
He said, so, yeah, a little bit of a long story, but through mutual relationships, he had seen me
01:44:11.480
on television. And his joke was, this guy looks like he should be on a soap opera, but he sounds
01:44:20.340
like he's from the inner city. And he said, let me meet him. And I met him and we talked
01:44:28.800
about a million different things. And he said, look, they're going to make you go to local
01:44:34.040
television and you're going to learn a lot of bad habits. You're going to learn a lot
01:44:37.040
of good things. I'll bring you in here. I see something in you and I'll teach you everything
01:44:42.600
I know. Here's the thing though. If you fail, you're done because you'll be failing at a
01:44:49.660
place where people are going to see you fail. This is not West Virginia. But if you don't
01:44:54.560
fail and you pick it up, you're going to leapfrog ahead of where you would have been
01:44:58.880
otherwise. He said, and here's the good news. You don't seem to give a shit whether you
01:45:03.380
succeeded this or not, because I wasn't going into it because I wanted to be a star. I thought
01:45:08.420
there was an incredible opportunity to contact people and to show them things and mess with
01:45:17.620
how they feel about things that wasn't being used. It seemed so cookie cutter to me at the
01:45:23.000
time. When I entered the business, they would talk to me about how I tracked and that these
01:45:30.040
aren't movie lines, Chris. You know, you have to read them. You know, there's an intonation
01:45:33.980
and your hands kind of keep your hands down. By the time I left, I was like a model of like,
01:45:39.700
you don't use your hands more. You know, you got to be more natural. Those sound like everybody
01:45:42.720
real. Things change. So I went there and Roger made good on his promise. He sent me all over
01:45:49.620
the country covering crime, learning the skills of being a broadcaster and an interviewer,
01:45:56.220
the trinity of interviewing. He said to me, pointed at this here and here. He said, you've
01:46:03.060
got to balance your head, your heart and your balls. And there's a time to be ballsy. There's
01:46:08.840
a time to be compassionate. There's a time to be smart. And you got to figure out what
01:46:12.860
the balance is, the alchemy of them. And he gave me those opportunities. And he told
01:46:18.400
me when I left to go to ABC News, he said, you're making a mistake. He said, they will
01:46:24.700
never accept you. And I said, they don't accept me now because we're at Fox News. I was like,
01:46:30.020
you know, this is, I got to go. This is like the real place. And he was like, they're never
01:46:33.980
going to accept you. Was he right? I think to a certain extent, there's been a selective
01:46:42.120
kind of exclusion, but it never really mattered to me. I didn't go into this business to be a star
01:46:48.560
to make friends. I got my people and I'm not really friends with a lot of people who are in
01:46:53.240
the media. I never have been. And if I am, it's because our friendship transcends media. It's not
01:47:01.080
based of it. And the relationships that I had that were largely media based,
01:47:06.100
they disappeared when I got shit canned with a few exceptions.
01:47:10.940
I think that it's like you stop going to the nightclub. You know, I hang out in the nightclub.
01:47:16.660
I go to the nightclub. You're not allowed in the nightclub anymore. I guess I'm not going to see
01:47:19.960
you that much. And that's what the relationship was about.
01:47:23.360
I never have brunch with Wolf Blitzer anymore. It's weird.
01:47:26.040
I love Wolf Blitzer. I called him the captain. I thought that he was such, is such. I don't know
01:47:35.140
what I'm talking about in past tense. Wolf is such a great exemplar of what I wanted to be in that
01:47:41.940
business. He's unfailingly kind. He does what he thinks is right and he works his ass off.
01:47:48.540
Um, uh, I, I called him the captain. I, I miss him. Um, I miss a lot of them, but life goes on.
01:47:57.100
He's unfailingly polite. I would definitely say that having worked with him.
01:48:00.820
Oh, it's more than that. If you talk to the people who stars are usually not nice to,
01:48:06.180
you know how they'll say, Oh, he or she, they're a little hard on the furniture.
01:48:11.120
Furniture is a metaphor for these other human beings that are doing jobs in production.
01:48:16.220
And he, you won't find someone. He's the kind of person that if you say you don't like Wolf,
01:48:23.180
there's something wrong with you. It's not because it's not because of him. Me, you can dislike.
01:48:28.380
Like I have people who have the same last name who will say, hold on. I love the guy. These are
01:48:33.260
things I don't like. I'll tell you one thing you and I share you. I noticed this when people talk
01:48:37.880
about your wife, when they talk about your wife, they talk the same way they do about my wife.
01:48:42.620
Yeah. Oh, when you meet her, she's the nicest person. She is a good person. And then a little
01:48:53.340
subtly, it's like, as opposed to the guy she's married to. We have a phrase to that in my house.
01:49:00.520
It's called DA, the designated asshole. And that's my job. That's my job, baby.
01:49:05.380
I own it. I own it. But I'm trying. And I believe that even this is a function of that. People aren't
01:49:12.340
going to like this. They're either going to say that I should have basically been raking you over
01:49:17.740
the coals all the time. Otherwise, there's no value to this. I'm just allowing people to not see you for
01:49:24.240
what you are. And I just don't think that gets us anywhere. And I think people can make their own
01:49:28.940
minds up about things. That's just a silly partisan point on either side. And of course, that's the past.
01:49:34.980
I do think it's bigger of me, though, than you. And I'll tell you why. I'll tell you why. I was
01:49:40.080
thinking about this, actually, during the conversation. One, you're less injured by what
01:49:45.800
happened to you than I am. You are killing it business-wise, right? Everything you do is huge.
01:49:52.700
And your boy Musk, meeting with Trump, by the way, to fund his campaign now. I want to get your head on
01:49:58.420
that. But I feel like this was really... I'm surprised that I was able to listen to our council
01:50:10.580
and say, wait, no, this guy has done nothing but hit me like a pinata. And I decided, you know what,
01:50:18.700
that was them. And let me meet him on his own terms.
01:50:21.900
The funny thing is... But that was big for me. I'm a very small person.
01:50:24.640
I barely remember that. I know. I hate that. I hate it. Because I remember all of them.
01:50:29.880
So I have a really good friend who I talked to this morning. He's just a wonderful man.
01:50:34.400
And his name is Glenn Greenwald. And you can agree or disagree with his views on...
01:50:40.620
No one was ever meaner to me than Glenn Greenwald. No one ever. And he must have written 50 pieces
01:50:46.360
calling me various names, all unpleasant names. And we ended up six or seven years ago meeting
01:50:53.780
and finding that we agreed on some things, not everything, obviously, but some things.
01:50:58.540
And that friendship, and I think it's fair to call it a friendship, has just brought me so much joy.
01:51:03.800
It's so nice to see that someone is like... That you're wrong about your assessment of somebody.
01:51:09.580
And the person is almost like way better. And I have to say, I've had that experience so much
01:51:12.780
in my life. It's the greatest privilege of this job is to meet people and find that they're nothing
01:51:17.500
like the caricature. Occasionally, they're worse. You know, but that is...
01:51:22.740
Or you're right. That's exactly right. That has happened to me, having interviewed thousands
01:51:25.520
of people, as you have. But I would say most of the time, I'm like, I like that guy.
01:51:30.680
Do you know what I mean? I really have felt that.
01:51:33.020
Depends how you meet him and, you know, the context. I think the context matters.
01:51:36.840
Sometimes people are in performance mode. They're being what they think they need to
01:51:40.040
be in a thing. What did Greenwald say when you said you were going to talk to me?
01:51:44.600
I didn't. I didn't tell him. Yeah, we were talking about something else.
01:51:47.540
What do you think he would have said? What do you think he will say?
01:51:49.300
I don't know. I didn't know he was opposed to you.
01:51:52.600
I don't know that he's opposed. I don't think that I really matter to him. But I mean,
01:51:55.500
you know, he's coming after me now and again. I'm an easy target of opportunity. I get that now.
01:52:01.220
You know, having a year of not being on and watching TV, which I don't do a lot of news
01:52:10.580
watching. I don't like it to confuse what I think the right angles and the right things
01:52:17.620
are for me to do on my show. But having that time to watch and think, I'd probably come
01:52:26.400
Well, I will say it's fun. I'm just being honest. You should do that.
01:52:31.420
It's really not my way, by the way. But I got to tell you, you made it hard to try to not play
01:52:36.840
the game that was being played on the other side of it. But I do know this and I know this. And
01:52:42.360
I know it again, what I signed up for. I know two things about our business, okay? One is
01:52:51.540
the two-party system has failed us. Yes. And Trump versus Biden, all due respect to them and their
01:52:58.160
fans, okay? I'm not impugning them as people. Although Trump, I could go down the road with.
01:53:03.740
The fact that they're the choices and that the country sees that they are inadequate choices
01:53:11.420
only has one source, the party system. It has failed us. It's not the Constitution. It's not
01:53:18.560
a creature of law. It's just tradition. The Supreme Court said that in the 1970s. It's got to go.
01:53:23.700
I don't know how it goes. I don't need to know how to go to know that it's a problem.
01:53:27.500
When you go to Thanksgiving, a family Thanksgiving, I mean, you're the son and brother of two of the
01:53:32.460
most famous governors in the last 50 years. This does not go over well. It doesn't, okay.
01:53:36.780
Because I have real Democrats and real Republicans in my family. And what I say to them is,
01:53:42.620
you know, which by the way, I say very little because, you know, I'm trying to get my holiday
01:53:48.540
on here. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. But what is your party even about? What are you
01:53:53.400
except they suck? What are you? What are Republicans now? Because I remember back in the day,
01:53:58.920
I married into a real Republican family. They are real people of character, of fiscal austerity.
01:54:05.240
They have a different position than the current orthodoxy about what policy should be abroad.
01:54:10.680
Character counts. You know, they were real conservatives, okay? That's not what that party
01:54:14.920
is anymore. Democrats, my father's Democratic Party, he was all about workers. He was about the
01:54:21.260
underclass. But he was about government does everything you need it to do and nothing more.
01:54:28.060
You help the people who can't help themselves. That's what it was supposed to do. And it was
01:54:31.740
supposed to try to find ways for people to cooperate. That's what he was all about.
01:54:35.980
I remember sitting in the executive mansion in Albany, and he had the head of the Senate,
01:54:42.060
Italian guy, Ralph Marino. They were absolutely at each other's throats, okay? Budgets and stuff like
01:54:50.620
that, right? Pop was the governor. This guy was the head of the Republican Party, basically.
01:54:56.540
He brings Ralph Marino over. They sit on the couch, opens a bottle of wine, or I think I actually opened
01:55:01.900
the bottle of wine. And they started talking, and my father was like, you know, Ralph,
01:55:08.780
you know, I don't want to hear this and this about me. Ralph's like, fine, you're right. That went too far.
01:55:14.860
But what you're trying to do with this is, this just is not right. And you're trying to force it on
01:55:20.860
us and you're holding this thing. And they had this whole conversation. A Republican and a Democrat.
01:55:27.580
This guy was the leader on the Senate, you know, state side, okay? He had no business by today's
01:55:35.100
rules being in that house, let alone making a deal. Not a bad deal, not subterfuge, but I get it. We
01:55:44.620
disagree, but we got too hot. And that's a mistake. Now, how do we make this budget? How do we get this
01:55:50.220
done? That's what it was about. And by the way, that was tortured enough. What we are now is you're
01:55:58.300
a traitor if you're in that room. Of course. And I know two things. The two-party system has failed
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us. And we have to have more voices and more conversation, not less. I know it. And that
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doesn't mean that people have to agree. In fact, the opposite is better. And I know I'm going to get
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beat up for it. And that's okay, because that's what I signed up for. But I'm happy that we did this.
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I think there's value in it to people. And some won't think that, but I'm not going for all.
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I'm only going for some because there's only a small slice of people right now who have an open
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mind about anything. The winnables. My firing is not more important than your firing.
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Why do you think that you were the one? Like, you know, you're getting my head on why it was me.
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I mean, strictly speaking, I have no idea. I've never been told. I've heard a lot of people
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throw around theories, but I don't know which are true. And I don't really care.
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But more broadly, I understand why. It's called destiny.
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You know, your life has an arc and a path and you don't know what it is, but you can feel it
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happen. But you didn't say, why me? What about all these other people?
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No. I felt like this was always going to happen. I mean, I was shocked for like three minutes,
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but that was it. Well, I talked to you right after, I think within a couple of days. And no,
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I was, this is my path. And there will come a time when you, you know, you show up for your annual
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physical and he's like stage four pancreatic. And you're like, okay. You know, I mean, that's just,
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that's just what, that's what it is. And so I'm almost never really shocked by anything that happens,
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but that I just immediately saw the upside. And cause I wasn't mad and I wasn't mad actually.
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Really? So this is just you. Oh, you'll never meet anyone who's more opposed to pills than I am
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or any, any intoxicants of any kind other than nicotine and coffee. That's it.
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Dude, I am. I am about better life through chemistry.
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No, I don't take anything ever, like ever. In fact, I had a back spasm yesterday. I've had back
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surgery and it hurt. It's like, I'm not taking Advil. Um, no, I'm just totally opposed to that.
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That's a whole nother conversation. But, um, yeah, I'm with, who's that weird actor in Scientology?
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I couldn't, I'm sorry. I couldn't remember. I couldn't remember.
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But he gave some speech on TV a few years ago or several years ago, 10 years ago,
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about how SSRIs and all that stuff is evil. And everyone's like, he's crazy.
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But I was like the only person. It's like, you go, Tom Cruise.
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No, dude, I was so, I'm all about that. Anyway, no, I, I really felt that it was destiny as I feel
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that most things are. I think there is a plan. Anyway, I just want to thank you. That was like
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the most interesting conversation I've had in a long time. And I sincerely enjoyed it.
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I'll be telling you how much everybody hates me for this, because you won't be paying attention.
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But I won't be. This was the right thing to do.