Tony Robbins
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Tony Robbins, a life strategist and best selling author joins Tony Robbins in studio to talk about the spirit of sadness and discouragement that has descended on the country, and how we can overcome it. Tony Robbins is a very smart man and a very successful businessman who has been around for a long time, and is one of the best-selling authors in the country. He is also a very wise man, and Tony Robbins has a lot of wisdom to share, so we thought it would be fun to have him join us for a chat about what it means to be emotionally fit, and what we can do to get better at dealing with the seasons and the challenges that life throws our way, and the opportunities that come with them, to make us more emotionally fit and more resilient in order to deal with the challenges we face in life and in business and in our business, to help us deal with them in a more productive and more productive world, and why we need to learn to recognize the seasons, so that we can make the most of them and what they mean in our lives and business, and in the world around us, to achieve the best we can be the most amazing things we can achieve the greatest things we want in the most challenging times of our lives, to realize that life is a series of cycles, and that they are all about seasons, not seasons, and not seasons about the seasons that make us grow and change, and they are a series about which we can change the world. . In this episode, Tony Robbins talks about how to become emotionally fit so we can deal with challenges, and thrive in the season, and get the most out of them, and we can grow the most effectively and achieve the most important things we have in life, and have the best of the most we can learn from them, and how to overcome the most difficult times of the seasons in which we all have the most powerful of all of us in this episode of the podcast, we discuss the importance of being emotionally fit in the seasons of which are the seasons you can learn how to be emotional fit and the seasons we can help us grow, and learn from the seasons which make us most powerful, not only from them the more challenging times in the past and the ones we can create the most beautiful seasons, and so on and so that you can grow in the more difficult ones, and so much so that they become the most valuable seasons in the next one.
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there's a spirit of sadness and discouragement that has descended on the country you can feel
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it you could see it in the new year celebrations that weren't very celebratory and you certainly
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notice it when you talk to people people you know well people who are paying some attention even
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those who aren't they seem down they're anxious of course about this year which is going to
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transform the world there's no question about that but they also seem a little defeated and sad what
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is that exactly you don't need to be a guru to sense it it's real and how should you respond to
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it and so that's a question we've been thinking about a lot this week and one of the people we
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want to pose it to is a very smart man one of the most famous people in the world Tony Robbins
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a life strategist of obviously one of the best-selling authors in the country and he joins us now in
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studio Tony thanks a lot for coming on good to see you again do you know what I mean when I say the
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spirit of sadness do you see it around you and what is that it's sadness and it's anger too yeah
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you can't travel without seeing it with people on airlines it's pretty extreme people have lost
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their patience after COVID but the anger usually comes from fear yeah and there's a lot of fear
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about the future because there's not a compelling future if you ask people what's the vision for
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the future for this country I mean for days of John F Kennedy he would talk about you know where
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we're gonna go we're gonna go to the moon right and from the world you know we're gonna bring freedom
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everywhere may Reagan had his view of the you know the city on the hill and here's what we're
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gonna become but if you ask today I don't think most people have a clear vision and without a vision
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people perish it says in a really good book I call the good book but what's missing is a compelling
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future what I mean by compelling future is anybody can deal with a difficult today if they know they
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have a really amazing tomorrow they're moving towards but when people start thinking young people
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today I'm not gonna have a kid because in 12 years the whole world's gonna end right you know
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because the environment is obviously not true or there is no future because every party says the
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other party's gonna destroy the world destroy the country people without a vision just have no
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direction and so it's up to us to become more emotionally fit and by the way this is not new
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that's wise yeah every everybody thank you but everybody whose studies history knows things happen
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in cycles and as the most simplified version a couple years ago you and I talked about this real
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briefly but think of it this way man transformed humanity transformed from survival hunting and
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gathering to actually having a community by figuring one pattern recognition which was seasons when you
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recognize the seasons you're not panicked you're not freaked out why is it getting so cold and if you
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understand the seasons you know I don't have to hunt and gather I can plant in the spring but if I
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plant in the winter and work very hard I get nothing I have to do the right thing at the right time so we
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have to become aware of what season we're in so springtime in a person's life springtime in an
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economy is easy when you I've got a little two and a half year old I've got five kids and five grandkids
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so I've got a 48 year old daughter and I've got a two and a half year old daughter so I've got the
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whole range speaking of seasons speaking of seasons but if you look at my daughter I'm she's learning
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chinese spanish english she's playing the piano she's doing all these fun things the two and a half
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learning is the easiest thing in the world when you're in a springtime economy you think you're a genius
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with your business it grows because everything's growing right that's right but life is always
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good times challenging times that make us grow so then we have a summer summer's always more
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challenging it's hot and difficult and you got to push through what was growing real easy is not so
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easy to do anymore people start to panic but if you stay strong and you keep pushing forward and keep
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growing you get to go to the fall another easy season a beautiful season now people don't want to
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loan you money and give you a house even though you don't have an income you remember those days
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very well there's easy money stock markets go crazy these seasons last about 18 to 20 years
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they go every 80 year like cycles you can see them in a thousand years of history and let's say roman
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history of about a hundred year cycles 25 years now they're 18 20 year cycles but what follows the
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winter what follows i should say the reaping time is the winter some winters are long some are short
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some are hard some are easy but you never go from reaping straight to spring and we're in winter right
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now it's we're about depending who you study historically we're halfway two-thirds way through
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it where there's challenges economically where there's tremendous fear each season has a different
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emotion until we exhaust it even optimism you ever smile so much your face hurt yes so that's what's
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like in springtime summertime there's inner conflict within the country fall everybody's reaping
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again not everybody but certain people winter it looks like it's never going to happen it looks
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like here's the truth no war lasts forever no pandemic lasts forever no economy lasts forever
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and what if you were god if you were the universe how would you set up after the really rough night
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you'd have a great day and that's pretty much the season so we're in winter and we have to retool
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ourselves for this time because right now people have more fear it's exaggerated and the media helps
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the media is not bad people as you well know it's good people doing their job their job is take care of
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their shareholders how do you do that you get attention how do you get attention fear and anger
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get it more than anything else that's why we have clickbait the minute you click on it even though it's
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not true you get group gets paid so we live in a world where fear sells and we're being hit on it
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everywhere you don't have to go get it it comes to your pocket so we have to rewire ourselves it's
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like if i said to you take your car and go on a 24-hour le mans ride you can have a really nice
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mercedes ferrari whatever you think it is it's not gonna last you've got to retool it or there's
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desert races thousand miles if you don't have the right sprockets in there if you don't have
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something that when you drop down to the sand can still bring the air into the car you're not there
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so my view is you've got to retool yourself you've got to train yourself this time and you also have
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to know it's not forever the other side of this is going to be a new springtime but we're going to
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have to go through some challenges first and they could be severe and most of these extended winters
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we've had some kind of war this case might be a cyber war with china or something of that nature
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but there is another side and it requires faith and determination to move forward and it requires
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you focus on what you can control versus what you can't that's right a friend of mine was saying the
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other day oh my god you know this man's a really smart guy uh very successful man i've known him
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for 35 years i've coached him and i get coached by him we've kind of pitch and catch with each other
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and he's saying i'm so worried he's also jewish and he's like do you see what's happening in the
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world and what if there's somebody drops a nuclear bomb and i said you taught me years ago he taught me
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don't ever look at the worst case scenario because if that happens we're all screwed and
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it doesn't matter we'll have to figure it out and i said if somebody drops an nuclear bomb you won't
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even know you'll be vaporized so living around in fear about it's not it let's focus on what we can
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control let's focus on what is here and then you start to build and so i i really think that people
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need to build a path from where they are to where they want to be and that's really my focus in helping
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people to do that what a wonderful explanation so you don't think i mean you think winter's inevitable
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if i'm yes yes because it always is and it always follows good times but it's not the end
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no and when things are going bad they think it's going to be bad forever when it's going
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good people think it's going to good forever life is cyclical what's the upside of winter
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well if you don't whine about and complain about it you get strong when i started my business it
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was 18 percent interest rates when i hear people today saying i can't buy a house at seven percent
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interest rates i think today it was 18 percent interest rates people be sacking the white house
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you know people have such a different expectation but it made me incredibly strong i was in the middle
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of stagflation all those things that we're starting to consider may happen again i went through all
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those things but it made me strong and i've had dozens and dozens of people come and go in my
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industry and here i am 46 it'll be my 47th year coming up here i started when i was three you know
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but in 47 years i'd be an idiot not to see patterns patterns that control we think how we feel what we do
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the results we get there's macro patterns in the world and there's micro patterns inside of you
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you don't get angry every moment you get angry certain times you don't overeat every moment only
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we get triggered certain ways so showing people how to create a path from where they are where they
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want to be regardless of the outside world to me is the most important thing and there's joy in
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winters maybe different kinds well you can snowboard i mean some people freeze the dead other people
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snowboard some people you know have more time with their family some people get together and say
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hey it's time to really redevelop my career maybe retool myself right now for what's coming so i can
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take advantage because ai and robotics and nanotechnology are all coming faster than people
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think it's going to massively disrupt some jobs will be new jobs but you're gonna have to retool for
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them or otherwise you'll be left behind i gotta say you're just reminding me that um you mentioned
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coveted at the outset which was i think by any measure no matter what side you're on was a disaster
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but it was also for some people some small percentage of us a really really happy time i'll speak for
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myself it was one of the happiest times of my whole life oh that's because i got to be with
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my family well i had a similar experience you know i've lived 275 days on the road since i was 17
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years old traveling you know 30 countries a year and uh suddenly i'm getting calls from gavin newsom's
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office saying guess what your convention here the stadium with 15 000 people 100 people in the
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stadium like how's that going to work right it's not worth the airfare not going to happen so i said we'll
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go to vegas we'll move to vegas they'll never shut down vegas one week out from the 12 500 people
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they shut down vegas then i said we'll go to texas the governor there he's tough he won't shut
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down yeah he's tough yeah he shut down of course he did theaters we opened all these theaters we'll
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put 10 people in each theater we'll do 1300 theaters we'll have 13 000 people to work out at least have
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a group and you know small group of people on big screens and music and they shut down the theaters
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so it's like so i had to figure out how to serve people so the first thing i did was i built a studio
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25 000 square feet and i built these screens 20 feet high and led 0.67 so i can see every better
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than if you and i here in person because you're bigger too and i can see all these people at once
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swipe and see another group and so i grew my seminars from the 15 000 people to 40 000 people
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because now i have people from 195 countries attending and they were in their homes and
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i didn't think it could convert that but by bringing him on i worked with the founder of zoom and
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i made it so that we could bring people up on screen not just a thousand but being bring 25 and
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30 and 40 000. i made some software so when people instead of clapping they'd shake their phone sends
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an electric signal so it's one person you don't hear about 25 000 30 000 it shakes the building so it's
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real and so i once i did that and i started my biggest seminar was a million and a half people last
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year for what was it for four days three days and it was from 195 countries every person in the world
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and people had such huge transformations i did it for free because people are stuck at home
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so i made that my tradition and i've done that now for four years in a row for free
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for free and just said i don't want money i don't want time i don't travel get in your way
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and this year i'm gonna do one for three days i'm doing january 25th through the 27th and it's just
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two and a half to three hours a day instead of going to a movie come with me at you know two o'clock
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in the afternoon eastern but i have people from 195 countries attending so and it they'll have a pathway
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and what i mean by pathway is this what we're being called to by all these problems
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if you let the sadness or depression or fear overwhelm you or anger you're making no progress
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it'll blow you up but you need to understand that all this disruption is a call you went through a call
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when fox made a change with you yeah a call is something disrupts your life is the hero's journey
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right you look at all the stories of mankind and you look back and you see there's this same path and
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you can make it really complex i like a simpler version first simple version is your life is
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seeming good or bad and then something disrupts it you go through a divorce you suddenly have a health
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problem somebody in your family has a health problem there's a you lose your job or something
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happens to the economy or covet or whatever it doesn't have to be within your control and what
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does that require it means you got to be called on a new adventure it makes you get out of your comfort
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zone that's where we are right now you either fall back and freak out or you discipline your
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disappointment and you move forward and what happens you go on a journey and on that journey
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you're going to face all kinds of demons and challenge and dragons you're going to meet some
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new mentors you're going to develop some new skills and if you do the hard work and push through
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you'll make the aside you'll be transformed you'll be the hero of your own life and you can
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bring back what you've learned and help other people and it's not that hard i mean i'll give you
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seven steps real fast i'll get to members of the first four because the other three kind of take care of
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themselves step one what's make somebody go on a journey is when they unleash or awaken their
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deeper desires so for you and i don't know for sure but my bet is the fox situation was disruptive
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but it also unleashed within you new possibilities i could do this on my own terms i could do things
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more international i'm not going to be limited what someone else tells me i can or cannot do
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and i know you weren't limited very much before but you have total freedom now to do it but as you
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go on that journey you got to build a business you used to work for someone else yeah and you got
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to bring people in and they're not all going to perform and then you discover some people even
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so loyal to are not quite as committed as you are they're not doing the job and you have to take on
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things you probably didn't want to take on you're spending your time looking at the big issues and
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dealing with things but at some level you got to deal with the business and so along the way you'll
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have to deal with those challenges you'll find new people you'll find new mentors you'll develop new
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skills and they decide you'll be better off than ever before and be able to come back and help more
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people but you have to know what is it you want and why do you want it because it's like new
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year's resolutions why don't they work because when you do new year's resolution you're just
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saying what you want to have happen right it's not really a resolution when you resolve something
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that means you cut off anything except what you've committed to people don't resolve it go i kind of
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like this most people don't have much of a plan but if you know what you want with real clarity and
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why you want it now you're on the path so for example someone says how do i know i'm going to get
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where i want to be financially how do i know i'm going to get where i want to be in a relationship or
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in my business or career first step is what do you want if you don't know what you want you're
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not even on the path if you know exactly what you want you get really clear and you know why you want
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it you got enough reasons to push you through now the second step is you got to find and face the
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truth and that's what has to happen for everybody find and face the truth means see the gap between
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where you are and where you want to be there's always a gap if you're honest so instead of well i'm
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big boned is what i used to tell myself when i was 38 pounds heavier no i was freaking fat that's what i was
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right but i'd say i was big bone i have same bones i'm 38 pounds lighter and stayed this way for 35
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years right but when i had that mindset you got in the way so you have to say here's where i am
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here's where i want to be and you have to be honest it's not where i want to be it's uncomfortable but
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then the second part is you got to uncover face the truth what has gotten in the way in the past
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and there's only five things usually fear fear of failure for success or of unknown fear of not
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looking good for all those things or two a limiting belief like i've tried everything once you
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believe that you don't even try anything anymore someone trying to lose weight that's the common
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one they'll say because they've tried a bunch of things didn't work or um all the good ones are
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gone you know right all right or they're gay and i'm not or i'm gay and they're not or whatever the
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story is there's a story a belief system that limits them and so it keeps them from maximizing their
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ability third thing that could have gotten in the way some other emotion overwhelm stress anger
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resentment those things just shut down your progress so you have to make a change fourth thing that it
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could be for you well it could really be that you just got some bad habits it's like people about
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52 percent of what most people do in a day and i don't know where they come up with these stats
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some say 48 some say 52 roughly half is all automated automated it's it's habit you're not even
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thinking right that's for sure and what's good about that is you don't think about driving your car
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what's bad about that is you get stuck doing the same things over and over thinking the same
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thoughts having the same feelings not really changing so you have to say oh there's some habits that need to
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change i i want to lose 24 pounds and my first thing in the morning is go to starbucks and have
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a mocha smoke or whatever and it's just you're not going to get there you have to have a different set
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of habits and then the fifth one is or were you missing a skill like for example some people don't
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know what to do financially they don't have invest and so they don't do anything and then you wake up
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figuring out why am i so broke well you're broke because you're a consumer you're not an owner you know
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so you have to look at what what skill do you need to get is there a skill for running your business
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when i started my business i had no skills i had passion i had desire i had hunger i had great
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abilities but i didn't know how to run a business so i learned those skills now i've got 114 companies
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we do seven billion dollars in business across all kinds of different industries you can imagine it's
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like it's the most fun thing in the world because i know how to do it so if you know what you really
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want and you face the truth and find the real truth then you've got to put a massive action plan
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together and that just means not a perfect plan but just what are some things you do immediately
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start making progress because as you make progress new insights will come to you and then the fourth
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one and i'll finish with that the others are quick is just you have to then do the hard work
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you got to slay your dragons you got to slay that limiting belief or that anger or that hurt or that
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sadness you got to create that compelling future you got to go get that skill and then after those
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first four steps you'll have momentum now you just need a daily practice something that puts you in the
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place of doing the right thing each day so it becomes a habit you need to measure measure more
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often when i take over a company the first thing i do is measure more often and i find the things that
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matter and i'll measure them not once a year then you have a bad year measure once a month you're not
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going to have bad years you got 12 times to make it better measure it once a week you won't have bad
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months measure it once a day and some companies when i take over i'll measure some things three or four
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times a day because where focus goes energy flows and so now all of a sudden you're measuring and
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improving even doing the daily practice you'll then get to a point where you can celebrate and once you
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celebrate it starts all over again because you'll be called another journey because we're meant to
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grow if you ask people ask me what does it take to be happy you met millions of people what does it
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take so many people are unhappy well relationships are one of the keys to that but there is one key
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even within relationship progress progress equals happiness if you go and achieve some huge goal
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i don't know if you've ever done this and then you achieve it you have one or two experiences either go
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is this all there is yeah after you achieved it which is horrible feels worse than failing
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or you go wow this is amazing and you celebrate but how long do you feel good for after achieving
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some great goal five years a year six months 60 days 20 or 30 minutes 20 or 30 minutes that's
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most people are in the 20 to 30 minutes to maybe two months max yeah right why because we're not meant
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to just sit at the table of success and get fat and feel bored we're meant to grow and when we grow we
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make progress we feel alive and what makes us feel most alive i know in your life and of mine too
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knowing you as a person is when you grow you have something to give and what makes life meaningful is
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not just a happy life it's not always happy but a meaningful life is a life where you serve something
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more than yourself something that gives you the energy and excitement whether it be serving your kids
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and family or your business or something in your community or something in the world that's what
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makes it work but we all need you on the path and you can do this within the air where are you unhappy about
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my body well first step do you know exactly what you want and why you want it okay let's start there
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okay second you know what you want why you want it tell me have you faced the truth how big a gap is it
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specifically how far off are you let's measure it and then what's gotten in the way is it fear
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is it limiting beliefs is it some form of emotion that gets in the way frustration anger overwhelm
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is it some kind of habit you got or is there a skill you need to get okay great let's get a plan
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and let's go do the hard work those first four things will get anybody going once you do you'll
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among the things that uh scare people maybe the top thing that scares people right now is going broke
00:20:50.360
as i said and the u.s economy feels unstable or squirrely or hard to understand if nothing else and
00:20:57.080
most people myself included don't have the skills to start 114 companies they're just not good at
00:21:01.560
nor did i yeah but i would say at least i'll speak for myself i'm never going to have those skills yes
00:21:06.920
and um so that's not an evidence that's open to some people maybe most people and so how what you
00:21:12.920
know what you just have a book out holy grail of investing in which you talk to people who've been
00:21:18.840
successful in investing very successful but if you could just lower the bore a little bit for the
00:21:23.480
average person who doesn't have a ton of money to invest who's really worried about what's coming
00:21:28.360
what would you recommend before i even talk about investment the most important one is understanding
00:21:33.640
what allows someone to have abundance in their life and i grew up dirt poor i think you know and
00:21:38.600
i had four different fathers and they were good men and we had no money and no food and the reason
00:21:43.480
you know i know you know i don't know if i told you but two years ago i think i last saw you and
00:21:47.880
we've now completed the billion meals challenge i decided i want to feed a billion meals and we did it
00:21:52.680
two years early we just completed it last year now i'm doing a hundred billion meal challenge but why not
00:21:56.520
because i'm such a good person because i grew up poor we had no food and so i look back at those
00:22:00.840
days and go why were my fathers good men why were we broke no matter what good times are bad and why
00:22:07.160
did they lose their jobs at various times and my original teacher is a man named jim roan he was a
00:22:11.480
personal development kind of a business philosopher one day i sat down with him and i said i gotta ask you
00:22:16.120
a burning question like how is it so unjust that here's a teacher who can barely survive and then this
00:22:22.120
hedge fund manager over here makes a billion dollars a year and he said tony that's a good
00:22:26.360
question he said think of it this way we're all equal as souls but we're not equal in the marketplace
00:22:33.080
so what do you mean he said well i'm not being negative but if somebody works for mcdonald's
00:22:37.560
that's not designed to be your long-term job right it's designed to get you as a starter job and it
00:22:41.640
doesn't pay very much because anyone can do it today they got pictures you don't even have to speak
00:22:46.440
the language 100 and you can do that job and learn it within a few hours so it's not very valuable
00:22:51.640
so it doesn't make a lot in fact now it'll be replaced by machines lots of companies are working on
00:22:55.320
that now in the fast food industry so there's not a lot of value now the guy that did the billion
00:23:00.440
dollars that you have judged about tony he said those teachers you're talking about some are great
00:23:04.840
i'm sure you've had some great ones some are not so great and he said and there's no standard and
00:23:09.080
there's a limited number of people they affect there's nothing wrong with that it's beautiful but
00:23:12.760
this guy that made a billion dollars made 25 billion dollars for his investors which include people's
00:23:17.960
pensions their backgrounds when other people are making four and five percent he made 38
00:23:23.720
so they're doubling their money every two and a half three years versus doubling their money let's
00:23:28.040
say every 10 or 12. so he's adding massive value and i'm not saying you need to be one of those people
00:23:33.800
but what you do need to do is what's missing in our culture everybody's trying to figure out what am i
00:23:37.960
going to get from the government what am i going to support like why isn't things that i want looking
00:23:42.120
at the system instead of myself and he said instead do more work harder on yourself than you do your job
00:23:48.280
find a way to become more valuable than anybody else in the marketplace and if you continually do
00:23:53.160
more for others if your focus is how can i do more for others than anybody else you'll win that formula i
00:23:58.920
got at 19 years old and i've lived it it felt real to me i mean the way i kind of live anyway but i made
00:24:05.400
that the basis of every company i've ever built and so the companies have become successful because
00:24:09.720
everybody in that culture is how do we do more for anybody else in the industry and you do that over and
00:24:13.640
over for years you build a brand and then people seek you out and you succeed so the first thing is
00:24:18.760
what can i do to become more valuable in the marketplace uh they asked warren buffett the
00:24:23.080
other day they asked him how do you about inflation and what should we do about inflation and i remember
00:24:27.880
when i interviewed him i asked him what what was the best investment you could ever make and i thought
00:24:31.080
the best investment he'd ever make and i thought he'd say coca-cola or you know geico i know the
00:24:35.160
company's invested in he goes tony it's what you teach i said well i teach a lot of things which one and he
00:24:39.720
said well he said i have all these ideas but they would have died on my lips but i learned how to
00:24:44.600
communicate he went through dale carnegie he said that skill was the most valuable skill and he said
00:24:50.040
i tell people if you want to do well in inflation and inflation is eight percent five percent ten
00:24:53.800
percent all you got to do is be eight ten twelve fourteen fifteen twenty percent more effective more
00:24:58.280
productive how do you do that you invest in yourself he said that's the first investment you do
00:25:02.760
no one can tax it and it grows if the dollar goes down and we go to shekels if you're a great doctor
00:25:08.040
you're a great you know web designer you're a great whatever you will be paid extremely well
00:25:13.560
but you have to be focused on adding value and you've got to become more valuable yourself so
00:25:17.800
that's where it starts second step i've written three number one best sellers and two of them the
00:25:23.560
last two were financial ones this would be my final third one in the trilogy and the first one
00:25:27.800
i interviewed 50 of the most successful financial people in the world the ray dalius the warren buffets
00:25:31.640
the carl icons to find out what did they do different and to find out is the game winnable
00:25:35.880
because after 2008 it feels like the game is rigged against the game winnable exactly and so i
00:25:41.240
went out and i thought i can ask some journalists that they'll tell me their point of view that's
00:25:44.840
great let me talk to people that started with nothing and have become the most successful in
00:25:48.840
the world in their section in their business and so i got a chance to have access to those people
00:25:53.160
and one led to another and wow it was a four and a half year journey and i wrote money master
00:25:57.720
the game out of that and i was able to show yeah you absolutely can win the game first step answer
00:26:02.120
your earlier question you've got to start becoming an owner instead of being a consumer our entire
00:26:07.480
society makes you a consumer so you buy an apple phone every year two or three but you don't apple
00:26:13.560
stock what are you thinking right the most only way you're going to become wealthy is either start a
00:26:19.000
business or become an owner of businesses you don't have to be a great entrepreneur then you just have
00:26:25.160
to invest in some smart people in that area and so the process of learning how to do that by just
00:26:29.960
doing two things taking a percentage of what you earn no matter how little it is and locking and
00:26:34.440
automating that to go in an account where you don't see it that's the first discipline there's
00:26:38.600
a guy i wrote about my first book theodore johnson worked for ups never made more than 14 000 in a
00:26:44.440
single year retired with 70 million dollars he was a driver everybody loved him he'd lift everybody's
00:26:50.680
state if he was sick where is theodore but a friend of his said we're going to take 20 of what you
00:26:55.560
earn and we're going to make you wealthy i'm going to tax you 20 he said i can't live in
00:26:59.320
14 000 here he goes we're going to automate it it's going to disappear you're going to adjust but
00:27:03.720
that money is going to be your future that money compounded through just investments in the stock
00:27:08.120
market and ups to 70 million he gave away 35 million while he was alive so you don't have to
00:27:12.360
be a superstar business person you got to be an owner so that's number one two i wrote unshakable
00:27:17.560
because i knew i didn't know when nobody knows when obviously the markets are going to crack you
00:27:21.480
obviously there's going to be a crash as there was in 2020 i wrote it before that and i just showed
00:27:25.800
people how to be unshakable that time how to win during that time this book though i got really
00:27:30.840
excited because when i wrote those first two books i learned four things that every great investor does
00:27:37.480
really i'd like ray value is a macro investor somebody else might be a value investor like
00:27:43.240
you know warren buffett there's all different types of investors they all 50 of them agreed on
00:27:48.280
four things first this sounds stupid they're all obsessed with not losing money which is the
00:27:53.000
opposite of most investors we're trying to figure how to make money because they know if i lose 50
00:27:58.280
on a stock i don't need to make 50 to get even i'm going to make a hundred percent at 100 000 it drops
00:28:04.200
to 50 i can't just go up 50 i gotta go up a little higher than that to get back there so they're obsessed
00:28:10.120
with that but how do you do that well warren buffett has a philosophy says rule number one investing
00:28:15.160
don't lose money rule number two see rule number one well that sounds really nice how the hell are you
00:28:18.600
going to do that second principle they all agreed on something that sounds complex the most important
00:28:24.440
part of your investment future you don't have to be a genius is what's called asset allocation big words
00:28:30.040
all it means is you have a certain amount of money invest a thousand dollars a million dollars doesn't
00:28:33.960
matter you have to have a pre-designed way you're going to do that it says i'm going to take some of
00:28:38.440
this some percentage 10 20 30 40 50 and put it in something that's secure meaning low risk probably low
00:28:45.240
return but over time it'll compound like it looks like grass growing until it's like it's the tortoise
00:28:50.680
in the hair another percentage of my money i want to put in areas that are more high risk potentially
00:28:55.640
higher return but if i lose it all i need to make sure my security bucket kind of takes care of me
00:29:00.200
and so they laid this thing out each one of them laid it out for me and they never bet the whole farm
00:29:05.000
on one thing that's why they succeed pretty simple third and i'm going to show you what i got in this
00:29:10.360
book that blew my mind why i wrote this book in a second it relates to asset allocation third
00:29:14.600
principle was you got to look for what they call asymmetrical risk reward these words are so big
00:29:20.360
all it means is where can i invest with the least amount of risk with the most amount of upside
00:29:25.960
so if you look at really wealthy people you think they take giant risks it may look like it like i
00:29:31.640
don't know if you met richard branson he's a friend of mine and richard he's risked his life in so many
00:29:35.880
ways going into space going across the ocean going in balloons but if you look about how he invests
00:29:41.400
his whole thing is what's the downside how do we protect the downside how do we make this asymmetrical
00:29:46.440
so when he decided to take on you know the fight with you know british airways and start his own
00:29:52.440
airways what was the biggest risk what do you think it would be i i government regulation one of the
00:30:00.760
prices the biggest risk is buying all those boeing airplanes of course so you just assume most people
00:30:06.920
say well i got to buy them and that's the risk no no he negotiated for a year and a half with boeing
00:30:11.640
to made a deal that said i'm going to buy all these planes but if within a year i can't make it work i
00:30:17.160
get to give all the planes back to you at no loss to me whatsoever he had nothing but upside no downside
00:30:23.240
that changes the way you feel day to day right yes um you know paul tudor jones is one of the
00:30:27.800
greatest investors in history i've coached him for 24 years unbelievable guy uh he made back in 1987
00:30:34.040
when the stock market dropped 20 percent in a day still the largest percentage in a day he made people
00:30:38.200
100 that year he made more money anybody can imagine brilliant guy coached him constantly his whole
00:30:43.160
thing is i'm going to make an investment i want to risk a dollar thinking i'm going to make five i might
00:30:46.360
be wrong but i don't want to invest i feel like i got that kind of upside if i'm wrong i can invest
00:30:50.680
another dollar and i still can make four he can be wrong four times and still be okay so that idea is
00:30:57.160
huge and then finally one is diversification which everybody knows don't put all your eggs in one
00:31:01.080
basket one piece of real estate one anything oh that's great those four are pretty pretty useful
00:31:06.280
i wrote this book called the holy grail investing because as i'm sitting down with ray dalia one of
00:31:09.960
the greatest investors in history he has 195 billion dollars he manages for even countries and pension
00:31:16.680
funds he's the got the greatest returns ever in 2008 when things were down you know 35 38 he made
00:31:22.840
eight percent to give you an idea just genius ray and i become great friends over the last 13 14 years and
00:31:27.960
one of the times i first asked questions of him i spent 10 hours preparing for what's supposed to
00:31:33.080
be a 45 minute interview which went for three hours you know and ray was great because he goes i get it
00:31:38.120
we bounced off each other but one of the questions i asked him then was what's the single most important
00:31:43.240
investment principle if you knew nothing else that would make you successful he goes tony i struggled
00:31:48.200
with that for 22 years and i can tell you the answer he said i call it the holy grail of investing
00:31:53.240
that's why the book's titled that it's after what ray taught me and here's what he said i finally
00:31:58.040
figured out that the biggest challenge is loss and risk everybody wants upside but to get more upside
00:32:04.360
take more risk it's not right for everybody he said but i've discovered if you have eight to 12
00:32:11.160
uncorrelated investments you'll reduce your risk by 80 percent and increase your upside now what does
00:32:16.840
that mean uncorrelated most people know most people invest in stocks when they think the economy is going
00:32:21.960
great right it's going not so great they invest a little bit more in bonds one's one's doing great
00:32:26.040
the other tends to do it they're usually uncorrelated but in 2008 in 2020 that wasn't true they all
00:32:32.280
dropped yes right and if you go to your broker goes i don't know what happened it's predictable it happens
00:32:36.600
all the time so he explained to me lots of depth i won't explain here about why that happens but he said
00:32:40.840
here's what's unbelievable tony he goes if you give eight to twelve that are uncorrelated investments he
00:32:46.360
said you can sleep so nicely at night and still have great returns so i went to go apply that
00:32:52.840
well it's hard because so many things are correlated today and if you go to the average person they're
00:32:56.680
investing in stocks and bonds and maybe real estate investment trusts reits but they often get very
00:33:01.640
correlated and then nothing works but there is another asset class that most people know nothing
00:33:07.640
about called private equity private credit and private real estate and if you go to the fortune 400 and
00:33:13.800
say what most billionaires in the world what industry tech no real estate nope financial services
00:33:20.280
yet but it's not hedge funds that go up and down it's these guys of private equity they're the kings
00:33:24.680
of the financial world it's mind-boggling and one of the reasons is they go out right now there used to
00:33:29.880
be 8 000 companies you can invest in the stock market there's only 3 700 now they've dropped drop drop
00:33:35.160
drop if you the s p 500 people are familiar with 24 of that is five companies it's all concentrated in a
00:33:41.400
small place not a lot of ways to be uncorrelated so these guys go out and buy companies in the old
00:33:47.640
days they try to leverage them but now they actually do something cool they find a better ceo they find
00:33:52.040
better marketing they put better technology and they put an ai they build a company up they buy it
00:33:56.920
build it up and they sell it and they have time because when you invest with them your money's tied
00:34:01.320
up for about five years and most of them they have a great business model they're making two percent a
00:34:06.680
year whether they make you money or not and 20 of the upside why do people invest with them for the
00:34:12.200
last 35 years i want your audience to hear this is mind-boggling private equity around the world has
00:34:17.480
outstripped every stock market in the world in its returns so we'll take the s p 500 that people are
00:34:21.960
familiar with probably here in the us over the last 35 years it's produced 9.2 compounded on average a
00:34:28.200
year that's amazing if you're getting five percent your money's going to double every 14 years when
00:34:33.480
you're at nine percent only takes eight years to double your money but private equity average
00:34:38.680
private equity at 14.2 for those 35 years and what does that mean that means you're compounding 50
00:34:45.080
faster so i wrote this book as i want to answer the question how could people get bigger how could they
00:34:50.360
get to their goals faster with less risk and i know the people in the world that do it so i started
00:34:54.680
interviewing 13 of the biggest guys in the world running 100 billion dollar funds who have produced 20
00:35:00.360
percent or more compounded not 14.2 but here's the last part i don't throw all the numbers at you
00:35:05.000
just so you get the picture of everyone at home if you put a million dollars 35 years ago in the stock
00:35:10.680
market s p at 9.2 that's worth 26 million dollars today if you never did a thing with it if you put
00:35:17.160
it in the same private equity at 14.2 it's 139 million dollars for the same time and the same amount
00:35:23.000
of money so that's why when you go to wealthy people remember i said asset allocation the latest studies
00:35:28.520
show ultra high net worth people have 46 of the money in private assets private equity private
00:35:35.240
credit you know all those pieces and only 29 in public markets so you want to have both
00:35:40.360
now how can i write this book this is only for wealthy people it always annoyed me that the richest
00:35:45.480
people in the world the government actually regulates and won't give the average person the
00:35:48.760
opportunity you have to be an accredited investor yes you're familiar a million dollar net worth or
00:35:53.720
200 000 in income is the minimum to be able to do that then you get these doors open to you
00:35:58.600
but there's a new law that the congress the house just passed it and senate's not taking it up it
00:36:03.480
was bipartisan it passed the house already just a couple months ago they're taking it up now that
00:36:08.360
allows anyone to not have to have their money to simply take a test and then all of a sudden you
00:36:13.480
have the same quality investments that have these huge returns available to you potentially anyway
00:36:17.960
than you've never had access to before a lot of people built a business and sold it made money they
00:36:21.800
don't know how to invest so once you take the test you can do this and the best part of it all is
00:36:27.400
there are opportunities and we can talk about i know i've been talking forever here but
00:36:31.400
that allow you do things that only the wealthiest people in the world will do because when i saw this
00:36:35.320
i said okay now i can find my eight to twelve i got a broader audience different types of investments
00:36:39.560
that aren't correlated this is exciting but then i went to go make investments and it's kind of like
00:36:45.480
you know going to the best club in new york and you got the money but if you don't know the right
00:36:50.040
people you're not super attractive you're not getting in right or you have a ferrari that new
00:36:54.600
ferraris are all sold in advance to people that already own a ferrari right you just can't get
00:36:58.520
one so i would get little pieces here and there because i was tony robbins or i had a friend or
00:37:03.400
something but not huge not the amount i want to invest one day i'm sitting down with this friend of
00:37:08.200
mine paul tudor jones he's a former partner of his started his own firm and i said i'm so frustrated
00:37:13.320
i see private equity as the best investments in the world but the best guys it's impossible to get
00:37:18.040
in or you get a little tiny sliver he's tony can i tell you where i make my majority of my investments
00:37:24.120
and this guy's super successful so i'm leaning in yes tell me he goes there's this place in houston
00:37:28.840
a group called kaz that taught me something i didn't i said houston i'm expecting to say
00:37:33.640
new york london singapore he goes that's off the beaten path but they're the best at this he goes
00:37:38.520
there's a way for you where you don't have to try to get in where you can buy a tiny sliver of the
00:37:43.800
ownership of the companies that own all those funds and then you get the two and 20 you get cash flow
00:37:49.800
and the growth like you're an owner right side by side with them i said what and he started explaining
00:37:55.720
to me how that happens and so now i own a piece of 65 different private equity firms like vista 100
00:38:01.720
billion dollar firm written by one of the smartest people i know robert smith he he built things in the
00:38:07.720
sas industry i have them across different industries they're all multi-billion dollar 10 20 30 40 50 100
00:38:13.160
billion dollar firms and i have a sliver of each of them as an owner and then i don't just get one fund i
00:38:17.880
get all the funds the ones they did in the past the ones they're doing now the ones they do in
00:38:20.760
the future so that's just one example another example is people were trying to get returns on
00:38:27.160
bonds forever now they've gone up you know four or five percent they're reasonable but forever they
00:38:31.640
were at zero because of interest rates right so people started looking for you know how do i get a
00:38:36.600
better return and they started investing in junk bonds back in 2021 junk bond market went like this
00:38:42.520
you know they call it the high yield return market yeah because there's risk that accompanies a huge
00:38:47.640
risk and they're only given 3.9 but in a world we're getting one one and a half and two people
00:38:52.680
started saying i'll do it i was making investments in private credit because see banks a lot of them as
00:38:58.840
you know silicon valley and so forth have had challenges they all tightened over the last 10
00:39:02.120
years companies money they go to these private equity guys they're really good at evaluating and they
00:39:07.640
make loans to them well guess what when people were you know trying to get 3.9 on these big risky
00:39:13.320
things i was getting nine percent on private credit and you know if you own your house and you have a
00:39:18.440
you know fixed rate mortgage and interest rates did what they've done the last two years you're okay
00:39:22.520
you still got three percent but if you have an adjustable mortgage it's different right a floating
00:39:27.800
rate well business loans are on a floating rate so those firms that i own where they were
00:39:32.360
only company to businesses money to businesses of five and six percent now those same they've adjusted
00:39:38.760
they had to so now they're paying us you know 11 12 13 percent for the same loan that's less than
00:39:45.000
one percent failure rate amongst that marketplace any bank would die for that so these guys are so
00:39:49.560
smart so it's like less risky now the limitation is your money's tied up for a period can i ask a dumb
00:39:54.120
question why i don't know dumb questions um i have some dumb questions here's one why would um that's
00:40:01.400
the question i asked why would you go if you're seeking to borrow money why would you go to the private
00:40:08.280
credit markets rather than a bank oh because the banks aren't loaning money to a lot of those
00:40:11.640
companies do how many companies are from a hundred million to three billion it's this giant market
00:40:16.520
and they have a real rough time now if you're going to jp morgan your apple is easy to get money right
00:40:21.160
and they don't need it anyway but it's easy to get that but if you're one of those smaller companies
00:40:24.760
under three billion tough to do it banks extremely tough to do it banks so guess what they open the
00:40:30.040
market for them and they develop a relationship they want to borrow again private credit guys know you're
00:40:35.080
good they make another loan for you so it's great for them but i'm not just making those higher
00:40:39.320
returns i'm also making the two and twenty along the way it's it's mind-blowing i'll give you a
00:40:43.960
third one i always wanted i grew up totally poor and i always wanted to own a sports team because
00:40:49.080
i wanted to be a professional baseball player i used to go to the dodger stadium way back in the
00:40:53.240
stadium back there the cheapest seats and uh i always wanted that and so at one point i finally made
00:40:59.080
enough money that i could participate in the building of the lafc football club i got to be one of the
00:41:03.160
early investors and design helped design the club and it was fun stadium the whole thing but the
00:41:08.520
microscope i went through for a year to get qualified besides your money is insane a new law was passed
00:41:14.200
over the last three years that a few firms have been able to participate in because they don't use
00:41:17.960
leverage and you can now invest in companies and get a little slice of teams multiple teams so i worked
00:41:25.400
so hard to have the lafc now i have a piece of the golden state warriors i have a piece of the la dodgers i
00:41:30.680
have a piece of austin redstocks that piece of the pittsburgh you know uh what do you call it uh
00:41:36.360
hockey team i mean it's it's amazing and what's amazing is this used to be putting butts in seats
00:41:41.240
but what this is is something not correlated to the stock market nothing at all when we have inflation
00:41:46.200
they charge more for the hot dog and people pay it because they have fanatics that's what fan means
00:41:50.920
right fanatics are people that first of all you've got legal monopoly no one else can compete with you
00:41:55.800
in that city that's pretty amazing second of all you've got fanatic fans third of all you have a
00:42:00.280
business that does well even inflationary times and if you know michael jordan paid what 200 and i
00:42:05.400
think it was 38 million dollars for his piece of his team nba team he just sold it 12 years later for
00:42:11.960
three billion and kept some of it that's the kind of growth in the last 10 years the growth across major
00:42:17.960
league baseball nba hockey and soccer which are the ones i own together have averaged 18 compounded per
00:42:24.760
year so to give you a sense like at 20 your money is doubling every three and a half years you know
00:42:30.440
at 14 about every five years so if you want to get to your goals quicker these are fun ways to do it
00:42:36.760
and they never were available before you won't find this in any book that i'm aware of anywhere in the
00:42:40.280
world because it's kind of part of this network of people but you can become that now because you'll
00:42:45.560
be able to tap into this just by either being qualified or getting the education to qualify yourself and
00:42:50.040
taking the test what is your view of debt so a lot of people feel like they're trapped because they
00:43:03.320
maxed it on their credit cards honestly so what do you do about that well you have to pay it down you
00:43:07.640
have to develop a plan you got a spending plan and or find a way to earn more by finding a way to add
00:43:13.080
value some new skill new ability some new business some new you know hustle that you're going to do on
00:43:17.560
the side but i think the biggest you got to realize is if you take money and you borrow money to buy a
00:43:22.840
flat screen tv that's pretty idiotic because that's going to depreciate it's going to give no value but
00:43:27.400
if you borrowed some money to buy a tractor for your farm that's going to make you more productive you'll
00:43:32.600
be able to pay back the loan and be more productive and your business grow so the question is are you using
00:43:37.240
it just to survive or get things or using it to get more resources when you use it for more resources then
00:43:43.800
debt can be really valuable for people but too much debt will stress anybody out and too much
00:43:47.960
debt will take any company down if they're imbalanced so you in other words you've got a more flexible
00:43:53.560
view of it there are times when you think debt is wise and times when it's unwise and it's for
00:43:57.480
not only the times it's what's it for is it for increased productivity is it for something that's
00:44:01.960
going to expand your capacity your skill your ability tools for your business tools for your career
00:44:06.520
or is it just for a purchase of something you probably should just wait on because
00:44:10.600
once you spend that money you're paying interest on it now high interest i mean credit cards are now
00:44:15.320
just insane they were insane before but i don't know i saw the other day i don't know if it's
00:44:18.920
accurate i i saw that the average was over 20 now i mean that's insane to borrow money at that level for
00:44:25.080
some consumer item so you would you would opt out of that immediately i'd opt out of that and i'd start
00:44:30.520
paying that down and then i'd start to take a percentage of my income even if it's super small and
00:44:35.480
so i'm going to use this to be an owner i'm going to take it off the top and then i'll figure out how to
00:44:39.000
invest it but i'm going to have that automated by my bank or by my investment company so i don't see
00:44:43.000
it and i'll start to adjust and then i start to have it i mean look at people don't understand they
00:44:47.720
have all heard of compounding right the richest people in the world don't do it by getting rich how
00:44:51.800
many athletes have you interviewed how many movie stars you interviewed that were rich they made 10
00:44:57.240
million dollars a year kim basinger used to was the highest paid actress of the 90s won academy awards
00:45:02.520
was getting 10 million dollars a picture went bankrupt uh we both know mike tyson a good friend of ours
00:45:07.560
right and mike i love mike to death he made a half a billion dollars in income and went bankrupt
00:45:12.760
right so that's not the way that you get wealthy you get wealthy by taking a little bit of money
00:45:16.840
over time and compounding it so i tell parents teach your kid who's 19 put 300 a month away sounds like
00:45:23.960
a lot but they don't have any overhead they can do it put in the stock market average returns eight
00:45:28.520
percent over time eight to ten don't let them touch it and if they started at 19 and just do it to 27
00:45:34.600
years old 300 bucks a month the total amount's like 28 grand over those eight years never invest
00:45:39.960
again they're set all right let's say they have a brother he starts at 27 same amount of money 300
00:45:47.000
bucks and does it to least 65. he's put 138 000 roughly in and he's done it for 38 years not eight years
00:45:55.400
he has less money at the end because compounding the first guy's got 1.8 million and all he did was
00:46:02.120
invest for eight years 300 bucks a month put it in the stock market the second one has 1.5 million
00:46:07.720
but he didn't have as much time he took longer to do it he started later so he didn't get the same
00:46:11.960
level of compounding so compounding just like the million versus 139 million 26 or 139 it's both
00:46:17.720
getting in the game and it's where you put it and so this book is trying to show people where you put
00:46:21.880
it and then i interviewed 13 of the masters of the universe and found out like what is their approach
00:46:27.400
and ironically it's what i taught you earlier i mentioned earlier their whole focus is not to just
00:46:32.280
buy a stock when it's down or buy a company when it's down they want to buy a company right but the
00:46:36.360
whole thing is how do we add value how do we take this company and make it more valuable than it's
00:46:41.160
ever been and then take it public or sell it to a bigger company and that's where they make their
00:46:45.160
profits and their other value is they don't drop as much because when markets go down they can buy
00:46:50.200
when markets go up they can sell because they've tied up your money for five years so all your money
00:46:53.400
can't go in those types of investments because you need some liquidity but it's if you're going
00:46:58.120
to want to try to maximize to get to a retirement in the world we're in today it might be nice to have
00:47:02.280
the smartest people in the world on your side and be their partner making two percent right beside them
00:47:07.720
as an owner in the business and making 20 of the upside think about it they have a these are very few
00:47:13.480
than this small a billion dollars in funds they're going to be guaranteed 20 right that's what their
00:47:19.720
two percent is going to give them 20 million bucks a year for five years they're gonna make a hundred
00:47:22.920
million dollars whether they make money or not and most of them are good at making money so in five
00:47:27.880
years they take the billion to two billion didn't have to hire a ton more people and they're gonna
00:47:33.000
make 20 percent of that side they make 300 million dollars on a billion that's why there's more of
00:47:37.720
those in the fortune 400 than any other industry so i said there's a good pathway perhaps that's a
00:47:43.400
path you and i should take advantage of as long as we're smart enough to see what's there and willing
00:47:47.560
to educate ourselves instead of living like i can't do it and the game's against me well there are some things
00:47:52.680
that's that's actually what i i wanted to close on since we began the conversation by my noting
00:47:57.480
that it's there's a sadness palpable and you pointed to the reality of that and then suggested
00:48:03.400
an upside to it or at least a different way to think about it you've mentioned twice the perception
00:48:08.440
that people have that's grounded in some reality that the system is rigged and you kind of can't win
00:48:13.400
you said it it emerged after 2008 i think that's right but it's only become more
00:48:18.120
profound i mean people really feel that way true how what do you say to them i say you got
00:48:25.480
your what your experience of your life is not your life your experience your life is the life you focus
00:48:31.400
on so right now if i want to figure out what's wrong i'm sure i can find a million things i gotta
00:48:37.160
you know 100 plus companies lots of employees all the world different industries what are the chances
00:48:42.280
right now somebody's screwing up if screwing up is doing what i don't think they should be 100
00:48:46.760
i can focus on be all stressed out or i can focus on what i can control i can focus on what can be
00:48:51.560
dying focus on what's great what's wrong is always available so it's what's right so we've always had
00:48:55.640
problems like that study history i hear people talking about this the worst time in history
00:48:59.560
politically we've never been each other's throats like this and i don't have it with me i wish you
00:49:03.240
did i could pull it out for you i have this little write-up that's two different posters that were
00:49:07.320
during the time of adams versus jefferson if you read what they were saying about each other it looks
00:49:12.360
calm compared to republicans and democrats and liberals and conservatives say today we've always
00:49:16.520
had it's cycles we go through cycles and if you know cycles you're not so fearful you say okay
00:49:21.160
this has happened before what do i need to take advantage of this but if you just go in a mindset
00:49:25.000
of oh my god it's rigged against me i can't win then it's self-fulfilling so you have to not be one of
00:49:29.320
the many you have to think differently you've got to educate yourself one of the biggest things jim
00:49:33.400
ron taught me is he said look if you want to have an extraordinary life you need to feed your mind
00:49:39.160
and not let everybody else feed it and so when i was totally broke my mom kicked my dad out she chased
00:49:45.320
me out on christmas eve with a knife she wouldn't have killed me or anything but i wasn't going back
00:49:48.280
in that house she was a little crazy she abused alcohol and prescription drugs and i love my mom i
00:49:53.000
wouldn't be who i am without my mom but i assume you're bigger than her i i am bigger than her but i was
00:49:57.160
five two in high school five one and she grabbed me here and smashed me against the wall poured liquid
00:50:01.560
soap down my throat i mean she was and i you know you learn to acquiesce but anyway my point is
00:50:06.680
i was on my own trying to figure out what the heck am i going to do and you know it's christmas eve
00:50:11.240
i'm sleeping on the hill and it starts raining i sleep in somebody's you know a friend of mine's
00:50:15.960
laundry room and then i i felt so depressed i remember jim ron i'd met him when i was 17 saying
00:50:23.160
every day you got to stand guard at the door of your mind he said you should read 30 minutes a day
00:50:27.000
not what comes to these days on your phone not clickbait something philosophy or a skill
00:50:33.400
or a psychology or a tool that makes you better read it just 30 minutes a day it'll change your
00:50:38.040
life because you're feeding your mind something different than what everybody else feeds them
00:50:41.400
and so i i put this little five-step plan together back then i did it again back in 2008 because i had
00:50:46.680
all these companies not not the same numbers now but and it was rough in 2008 i had my billionaire
00:50:51.640
friends were in trouble and so was my barber i mean we all were affected by it and i did the same
00:50:55.480
five steps step one if you want to be emotionally fit if you want to be able to say when all hell's
00:51:00.840
breaking loose i can still do incredibly well you've got to every single day do something to
00:51:04.760
feed and strengthen your mind so for me that's reading 30 minutes a day or doing an audio that's
00:51:09.960
easier because i call audio net time no extra time i can do i'm driving while i'm working out
00:51:14.920
and i get to feed my mind something different than all the crap that comes to you that's designed to get
00:51:18.520
your attention and make money from you that's right so every day 30 minutes a day and then
00:51:23.400
roan used to say jim roan used to say to me i'll never forget he said tony goes i got a question
00:51:26.680
for you he said if if your worst enemy puts sugar in your coffee what's going to happen
00:51:34.680
i said you're gonna have sweet coffee so what if your best friend a family member somebody you love
00:51:38.520
by accident drops one ounce of strychnine in your coffee what happens i said you're dead because that's
00:51:44.280
right life is both sugar and strychnine so watch your coffee which he said every day stand guard at the
00:51:50.040
door of your mind what you let in because that's what's controlling your life i agree with that
00:51:53.880
and then the second piece i added to it was i learned was your mind is controlled by your body
00:51:58.680
as well you can't separate them so every day you got to feed and strengthen your body in somewhat
00:52:02.760
you got to push it beyond what you're comfortable with today most people are so unhappy in their work
00:52:07.800
i just read the study the other day it's 38 of the people it's like up 33 from before from the early
00:52:14.600
days of covid are totally unhappy in their work they want to do something else they don't look
00:52:19.320
forward to it it's huge what's happened they don't want to go to work because they were paid to stay at
00:52:24.920
home and they got used to it but now that they're home they're feeling isolated and alone that's because
00:52:31.160
the path of least resistance will never make you proud it'll never make you happy it'll never make
00:52:36.840
you strong you get strong building muscle by pushing against something that's difficult so these people
00:52:42.760
are trying to have so much self-care every moment and be by themselves and nurture themselves that
00:52:48.200
they're not growing and when you're just by yourself and you don't have something to serve more than
00:52:51.800
yourself you're not going to do much and also we sat forever and the average person i don't know what
00:52:56.520
their real weight gain was i read one study said 14 pounds one said 18 i don't know what's really real
00:53:01.800
but most people gain weight they were sitting doing nothing but when you push your body to lift some
00:53:06.600
weights or to walk extremely fast or to run or something where get in the pool where you have to push
00:53:12.440
and you get strong it changes your emotion because fear and anger are the two emotions that mess up
00:53:18.120
most your life your relationships your business your life and fear and anger are both physical
00:53:23.240
you're really fearful i don't know if you've ever felt that in your gut or the back of your throat you
00:53:26.600
know it's physical but so is courage courage is you're scared but you do it anyway but that's also
00:53:31.640
physical it's a sense of certainty and when you push your body you get it third if someone's listening
00:53:35.880
saying how do i have a better year third thing you got to do is find some great role models
00:53:39.880
because in spite of all the bs you hear out there yes i'm no dummy the majority of people are not
00:53:44.280
happy they're not fit they don't have great relationships they don't have great passion
00:53:47.960
they don't love their work that's not everybody i like studying the few who do finding out what they
00:53:53.400
do and do what they do so the same seeds reap the same rewards so you find great role models
00:53:58.600
role models make it real and then fourth you need a massive action plan you got to get yourself in
00:54:03.480
action not wait till everything's perfect and if you try something and it doesn't work try something
00:54:08.280
else if that doesn't work try something else most people try it it didn't work and they give up it's
00:54:12.520
like i said to people how long would you give your average child to learn how to walk you know before
00:54:17.880
you cut them off and said dude you're just not a walker you know your kid's gonna go what are you crazy
00:54:23.400
your parents gonna go my kid's gonna keep trying until he or she walks that's why most people walk right
00:54:28.120
just so different but that's how people's mindsets are right so if you if you have a massive action
00:54:35.000
plan you keep changing your approach you'll get there and then the fifth step to me and i did this
00:54:38.600
way back then was go find somebody worse off than you and take care of them do something for them yeah
00:54:43.480
because that always changes the game so i was fed when i had no money in food so i fed two families and
00:54:49.400
then four and then eight and then a billion meals now now i'm working 100 billion it you know i couldn't
00:54:53.960
even conceive that kind of number then i did what was in front of me i fed two families and it felt
00:54:58.280
so amazing because when i was with these families i didn't go as the as the person giving it i went
00:55:02.040
as the delivery person because i didn't want to offend them but i want to see the impact and to
00:55:06.040
see these families their lives changed and their families and their children changed everything else
00:55:09.480
and the joy in their life and i know for me it wasn't the food that changed my life it was that day
00:55:13.720
when i got fed i made a new belief that strangers care and strangers care about me and my family
00:55:20.200
that i need to care about strangers it's one of the reasons i'm here today so you can change
00:55:23.880
somebody's life by doing that but also it creates contrast you think your life's so
00:55:27.960
difficult and you see somebody else's life totally right or you travel the world and you realize
00:55:32.760
america's a pretty damn good place with all its flaws it's as good a place as ever any place on
00:55:38.040
earth for most people so it's just um it's providing those steps those little things you can do can
00:55:43.160
change it all and that's by the way what i'm doing that's i'm doing this again this year i want to
00:55:46.600
just mention some people want to join us it's the whole focus of our it's a three-day seminar it's two and
00:55:51.800
a half three hours a day three days in a row the 25th of january to the 27th starts at 2 p.m eastern
00:55:57.480
but we have people all over the earth 195 countries that will attend you'll you'll be connected to
00:56:01.320
over a million people in our community who can help you and support you but the kind of results people
00:56:06.040
got by doing that when they were stuck at home before because you can do it from your home or your
00:56:09.080
office with your friends family by yourself you know i had one guy that one stands out for me is
00:56:13.960
this guy i i had the bring him up on screen i interact with people and this guy is in his bed
00:56:18.840
he weighed over 700 pounds he'd been in bed for six years naked he his brother died he took some
00:56:27.080
drugs to try to deal with it those drugs affected his body and he had breathing oxygen he was told
00:56:32.120
he'd never be able to breathe on his own without the oxygen in bed has to go to the bathroom never
00:56:36.360
gets up to go to the bathroom never been out of the bed he got so inspired that he took a not a
00:56:41.640
coat hanger but like a one of those little light metal things and he started doing this little daily
00:56:45.880
practice of doing these exercises and i gave him you know a task i said you do these things you get
00:56:51.000
to where you go to the bathroom you get to where you can drive a car again i'll fly you to my seminars
00:56:54.600
my guest and we'll take the next level we'll have you walk on fire we'll do the whole thing he got
00:56:58.520
inspired he did this got muscle strength got off the oxygen made it to the bathroom i think it took him
00:57:04.120
three months he's now you have 700 pounds he's lost 310 pounds to give you an idea came to the seminar
00:57:09.720
transformed his life and he never would have seen it because he never come to a seminar be in bed
00:57:14.520
i had this guy that was just got out of prison i just saw him two weeks ago and um he's a pretty
00:57:20.840
tough guy tattoos all over his body um you know people treated me he got really mean he was really
00:57:26.760
horrible with women went to jail and got out and he had a little girl and couldn't see her they wouldn't
00:57:31.960
let him see her and so he set a goal to start changing himself started doing all these little daily
00:57:36.600
practices and i was on two weeks ago he's got full custody now he's able to be with his daughter
00:57:41.160
he's coaching other people he attended the seminar in his truck he was driving a truck for a living
00:57:46.440
going out of prison he pull over and he's watching on that and so a woman who lost you know her baby
00:57:52.200
her child at two years old to cancer is horrific seeing her change seeing people double or triple
00:57:57.480
their businesses so we have amazing abilities it's no bs to say you can go from where you are to where
00:58:01.960
you want to go but you'll never get there with it's all rigged against me some of it is rigged against
00:58:05.720
us it's true but that doesn't stop you from being able to still create an extraordinary quality of
00:58:09.800
life if you build a path amazing tony robbins thanks for having me there's a reason you're famous
00:58:18.200
i appreciate oh i want to tell people go to time to rise summit the time to rise summit.com no charge
00:58:25.640
for it whatsoever and you come attend from wherever you are i should also say for those who don't know
00:58:29.320
tony robbins knows more people in the world than anyone i've ever met on mine thank you thanks for