E498 Dave Ramsey
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 53 minutes
Words per Minute
203.92319
Summary
Dave Ramsey is a financial advisor and radio host who gives advice to callers who have questions about their finances. He has a two-day live stream event coming up later this month, which we ll talk a little bit about.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
We hope you're enjoying your Air Canada flight.
00:00:10.720
Fast-free Wi-Fi means I can make dinner reservations before we land.
00:00:25.260
Wi-Fi available to Airplane members on Equipped Flight.
00:00:32.500
I'll be in Boise, Idaho on June 28th at the Extra Mile Arena.
00:00:38.680
Idaho Falls, Idaho on June 29th at the Hero Arena.
00:00:43.400
And Salt Lake City, Utah on June 30th at the Maverick Center.
00:00:49.140
Pre-sale is active now for these dates with code RATKING.
00:00:54.800
General on-sale starts Wednesday, May 1st at 10 a.m. local time.
00:01:00.000
Today's guest is a financial advisor and a radio host.
00:01:04.300
You know him from The Ramsey Show, where he gives advice to callers who have questions about their finances.
00:01:11.100
He has a two-day live stream event coming up later this month, which we'll talk a little bit about.
00:01:15.980
I'm grateful to spend time with him today, Mr. Dave Ramsey.
00:01:36.780
I can't believe you guys made my studio here, Dave.
00:01:52.340
We just want you to be home and come back again.
00:02:05.220
Yeah, we totally replicated my studio here in your Ramsey.
00:02:14.220
And is it so you have investment, like what's on the campus?
00:02:21.480
We've got two office buildings and, of course, the main lobby area where we broadcast the shows on the glass.
00:02:26.800
So the area for the public to come in and hang out while we're doing the shows.
00:02:30.320
And then we've got a 2,500-seat auditorium up on the hill up there that we do events in.
00:02:44.680
I mean, we've got, number one, we've got 1,100 team members.
00:02:46.940
So we do staff meeting up there and devotional on Wednesday up there.
00:02:54.340
We've got a money and marriage event with Rachel Cruz, my daughter, and Dr. John Deloney,
00:03:01.380
We'll have it sold out here in a couple of weeks for a total money makeover weekend.
00:03:05.240
So it's public coming in for public events to learn something that we're doing usually around the money subject
00:03:20.200
So you, so just for a lot of our viewers will know you, but some who wouldn't.
00:03:27.420
Like what made you care about money out of the gate?
00:03:29.340
Like did you have a, did you guys have allowance issues in the home?
00:03:39.680
So yeah, I grew up in a blue collar neighborhood.
00:03:46.640
Like I was 12 years old and I came in and said, I need some money to go to the quick sack and get an IC.
00:03:56.440
And he took me down here on Nolensville road and printed up 500 business cards that said, Dave's lawns.
00:04:02.680
Go knock on the closest 50 doors and ask the opportunity to provide their lawn care needs.
00:04:14.600
Well, yeah, I think if you have, if you force a kid to get a job nowadays, I think protective services will come and get you.
00:04:20.480
You know, it's pretty, sometimes it can be like that.
00:04:23.560
There wasn't a protective service that would have protected them from my parents.
00:04:30.140
And then I started buying and selling real estate in my 20s and got rich starting from nothing.
00:04:36.000
And I had, at least where I came from, I mean, I had a million dollar net worth and I was making $20,000 a month in 1983.
00:04:47.220
That's what I always, because none of my friends could spell Jaguar.
00:04:52.440
And, but I'd done stupid stuff and too much debt and the bank got sold, called our notes and spent the next three years of our life losing everything.
00:05:00.380
And that's what made me care about money, to answer your question.
00:05:04.500
Wow, because, yeah, because if you go out, if you go to a high pretty early, that's wild.
00:05:08.840
So did you think at that point you thought, oh, this is it, life's just going to be a.
00:05:13.700
I thought I had it all dialed in and I had nothing dialed in.
00:05:19.380
And so we, yeah, with a brand new baby and a toddler and a marriage hanging on by a thread, we got the opportunity to start again in 1988, September 23rd.
00:05:33.020
Well, I mean, that's the day we filed bankruptcy.
00:05:34.440
That's a, that's like, that's hell day, you know.
00:05:37.700
Do you have to go to the bank to file it or how do you do it?
00:05:41.820
It's a nice little procedure that you go through that's pretty intimidating.
00:05:46.680
And what do you, were you still like, was your dad still like a mentor at that point for business or anything?
00:05:55.080
And I had guys around here that were, that were family friends and stuff that we'd grown up with.
00:06:00.240
But, um, but I had started, um, I had started a faith journey.
00:06:06.120
And so as an adult, cause I was pretty much a wild character in my youth.
00:06:10.460
And, um, so, uh, I started finding out that the Bible said something about money and then I started talking to old rich people.
00:06:18.880
And both of these things said, you know, just common sense is live on less than you make, have a plan, get out of debt.
00:06:26.720
And, you know, I've got all these degrees and letters and licenses and crap after my name that says I'm supposed to know something about money, but I was broke.
00:06:37.720
And then people started asking us, okay, how did you turn your life around after all that garbage?
00:06:47.620
And then, you know, 35 years later, here we are showing people millions of them.
00:06:53.880
I mean, everybody knows Dave Ramsey and everybody's had, you know, has used you for financial guidance and stuff over the years or, um, or gone to you with certain questions.
00:07:03.840
I know you guys take so many questions on your show.
00:07:05.480
And with that turnaround moment, was there like, did it lead you to be like, I need more than just believing that finances are going to take care of me or like?
00:07:15.080
Yeah, I think that's probably part of the, part of the journey there.
00:07:19.760
And I'm like, dude, when you fall that far, you don't really bounce.
00:07:23.660
So, you know, we hit, we hit, we hit, we sat around, whined and moaned and blamed everybody else for about a year and, you know, um, figured out finally it wasn't everybody else's fault.
00:07:37.220
So I had to, you know, I had to course correct and adjust.
00:07:39.920
Um, and so, yeah, I, I, I think our, our faith, our new faith at that point, it was very young and tender and not a lot of knowledge or anything.
00:07:48.960
But anyway, we're, we're just trying to figure out how do you navigate with two little babies and sitting here broke.
00:07:54.120
And, you know, my wife's from the hills of East Tennessee, frying pan throwing, there's an Olympic event.
00:08:02.800
And so we about killed each other and, uh, I think she would have left, but she didn't have a car.
00:08:07.500
So, um, but yeah, the, uh, so yeah, I mean, that's the stuff that we did.
00:08:11.760
And, but again, gradually we just sat down with the yellow pad and said, okay, here's what we have coming in.
00:08:18.540
And we're always going to give some, we're always going to save some and we're going to feed ourselves.
00:08:26.140
And okay, now we got to get a little bit better and started gradually getting our income back up.
00:08:35.660
It feels like, but then, you know, it, uh, the thing about this stuff, this common sense thing, it's not a microwave.
00:08:48.080
And then sometimes you realize you look in the thing and you're like, I don't even have this thing plugged in either.
00:08:54.840
You're just sitting there and watching a bowl of cold meat water for eight hours.
00:09:04.700
Well, if you don't have a wife, you have a crock pot.
00:09:09.000
I mean, it's definitely, and it's a sad day for a man when you realize you're like, oh, damn, this is, you know, when you go in to get your crock pot, you know.
00:09:17.980
So that's, that's signing up for it right there.
00:09:22.480
And you name or some people name it after a woman and I'm like, well, this is getting a little crazy.
00:09:26.820
I feel like, but, um, when you look at like, yeah, like when I think back on jobs that I had, like I was, you know, I sold what I used to sell hamsters outside of, uh, raves.
00:09:37.920
When I was young, I've sold, I worked in dairy, I sold, um, Mexican food door to door.
00:09:51.980
Collecting cans and taking them over to the scales.
00:10:02.320
And, and I try to offer suggestions to like people that were like me growing up, like how do you find a job that could start to change?
00:10:11.660
Like if you don't have much and I often go to like pressure washing, that's what I'll tell people.
00:10:17.960
You buy a pressure wash, you can get a pretty good one for about 600 bucks and then you can start a business.
00:10:22.860
You can make your Dave's lawn care cards and next, you know, two weeks later, you're a dang business owner.
00:10:28.580
You know, are there suggestions like you have like that for people that are like, you know, like, and it can be a first job even like, what do I start?
00:10:38.800
I mean, it's amazing to me what people will pay you to do if you're just willing to go do it and you show up on time.
00:10:45.380
Um, and then I think the piece that goes with that is, okay, you, you don't want to start pressure washing and go, Hey, I want to be 63 years old, which is what I am and still be pressure washing.
00:10:55.540
And that's not a plan, but to get you through this week, you can do a battle.
00:11:00.680
That you can turn into a car deal, detail company and then turn it into something else and then sell that and do something else.
00:11:05.860
And what I figured out was these wealthy people, um, they, uh, they don't think, thank God it's Friday.
00:11:17.520
They're, they're, um, you know, every move they make is a step towards where I want to be in 10 years where I want to, who I want to become.
00:11:25.940
And so, okay, I might be pressure washing so I can get the money to go to code school and pay 10,000 bucks and go to code school.
00:11:35.880
And so you, what's the step, what's the, what's the method to get there?
00:11:40.840
And so the problem I think sometimes is if you take a, feel like you're taking a job like that and I've done all that, not the exact same thing, but I've done a bunch of crappy jobs too, uh, and entrepreneurial things.
00:11:50.920
And, you know, I buy an old car, a repo lot and come home, fix it up, put it back on the market.
00:11:55.740
And back in those days, there were classified ads in the newspaper.
00:11:59.340
And so we'd sell, turn around, sell the car and, or buy a bunch of junk at some auction.
00:12:04.180
I was there by the house, but I buy half the estate and then put it in, turn into a garage sale next week.
00:12:08.780
You got a damn Pontiac full of candelabras or something.
00:12:15.500
I was horse trading, we called it growing up, but no horses involved, but there was, you know, somebody knew how to buy something and flip it over.
00:12:29.300
And so, but it needs to be that that's not where you're staying.
00:12:38.780
It's like, you know, even your, you know, this meteoric, fabulous, famous career that you've done.
00:12:47.820
And, uh, but I mean, there's a lot of bad comedy clubs in the lineup.
00:12:55.700
Before you, with wrong people in the audience before you get to be the Theo Vaughn of today.
00:13:04.840
You don't, you don't win, you know, you're an overnight success.
00:13:09.020
I worked my butt off for 30 years to be an overnight success.
00:13:11.720
You've worked your butt off for a decade plus to be an overnight success.
00:13:15.440
And just cause somebody found you on Netflix last week, that don't mean you just started
00:13:21.120
I mean, even when I think back, like I used to get all these comments, I would get all
00:13:24.640
the email cards and go before the shows and put them on all the tables so I could get
00:13:29.840
So I would buy like the CD or DVD burner and burn a DVD and then sell it after the show.
00:13:36.420
I'd burn it like, and I remember when I got a three disc burner, so I could burn three
00:13:44.260
I had, uh, they were probably 300 bucks, 400 bucks.
00:13:51.900
Oh, the CDs for probably 10, but I'd take eight.
00:13:58.480
If you want 10 of them to give for Christmas presents, I'll set you up.
00:14:07.720
She said it didn't work, and she drove back the next day to come and change it all.
00:14:13.600
She spent more in gas, but I guess it was just the point of making sure she got what
00:14:20.260
But yeah, when I think about all the different things or missing certain like events in people's
00:14:25.240
lives or something to work, like, sometimes I wish I'd have had a little bit better balance.
00:14:36.500
But yeah, I don't think it's as easy as having, like, things evolve, though, too.
00:14:42.220
Like, one thing I'm thinking, say, if you start a pressure washing, right?
00:14:45.660
You're going to start to learn how to do business.
00:14:48.140
That's something you don't realize you're going to learn by starting a business sometimes
00:14:51.400
is that you're going to learn how to do business.
00:14:53.540
And next thing you know, you might have an employee.
00:14:56.400
And then you're like, oh, wow, now I'm an employer.
00:15:01.020
And you just learn, like, you'll do taxes and business that you'll file for LLC.
00:15:08.520
And then part of you, or for me, I notice, will start to bloom a little bit and be like, well, now what else do I want to do?
00:15:17.000
Because you've seen one thing that you tried and started with, you've seen it work or not work even.
00:15:25.140
But yeah, the more, like, kind of steps you take into doing business, the more that you become somebody who walks like a business guy in some ways.
00:15:37.780
I mean, I'm not the little redneck hillbilly kid, hell raisin, that I was when I was in high school.
00:15:47.940
My wife's not married the same guy she married 43 years ago.
00:15:58.620
But I had that 70s thing going with the little feathers on the side.
00:16:03.040
You don't remember them, but you've seen pictures.
00:16:05.100
The problem with the part down the middle is the part gets wide if you're not careful.
00:16:10.440
Dude, what would you say to somebody who's going into business with a friend?
00:16:16.360
What are things like a partnership with a friend, right?
00:16:18.720
Or starting a partnership with just a new business person.
00:16:22.940
What are pitfalls that people can look out for in advance of that kind of stuff?
00:16:28.340
Well, I mean, the biggest thing we run into, we coach about 10,000 businesses with the Entree Leadership brand, small businesses.
00:16:35.620
And they're anywhere from 500 to 200 team member size.
00:16:39.140
And so what I tell those guys, and I'll be speaking to them, you know, we do an event with about 3,000 of them once a year.
00:16:45.520
I'll be speaking to them in the next couple weeks here.
00:16:47.760
And so one of the things we tell them is really your beer drinking buddy and you sitting around talking about opening a business is a bad idea.
00:16:55.960
Yeah, you know, one of y'all needs to open it and the other one needs to work there.
00:16:59.800
And you can pay him out of the profits if you want.
00:17:02.920
But somebody, anything with two heads is a monster.
00:17:07.520
So generally speaking, don't do a partnership, generally.
00:17:10.380
Now, if you're going to have friends work on your team, which, I mean, I got a bunch of them.
00:17:15.280
And they either became friends while they're here or they were friends and then they came here.
00:17:26.620
Well, we had to learn from a family business perspective, and it works for friends as well, to separate the hat that we wear.
00:17:35.620
And so my hat that I wear with my buddy, you know, it's friend.
00:17:39.960
And, you know, we're having a cigar together or playing golf or we're doing whatever it says friend on it.
00:17:47.180
And so but when we're at work, my hat says CEO.
00:17:52.000
And his says, you know, technology or whatever.
00:17:59.820
And I'm going to treat you like I would treat the other team members because I treat them all nice and good and with dignity.
00:18:10.360
And you're going to treat me with the same respect that you would if you worked in a place where the CEO walked in the room.
00:18:17.180
Not that you bow or something like that, but you don't.
00:18:19.500
You don't roll your eyes and go, you know, use friend talk at your CEO.
00:18:24.260
And so you can't run up and tickle them or whatever.
00:18:29.840
But the idea being that, like, my kids, you know, my daughter, Rachel Cruz, is a huge personality, three, four number one bestsellers and, you know, speaks all over America.
00:18:45.480
And we've got eight of those people that are personalities that do different things.
00:18:50.320
And so she gets paid, not as my daughter, but based on the work that she does there.
00:18:57.040
And then when I'm, you know, she's got three of my grandkids.
00:19:01.400
So when I got Papa Dave hat on when I'm with the grandbabies at Thanksgiving dinner.
00:19:10.440
But I treat her the same way I would treat Dr. John Deloney or Ken Coleman, the other personalities as well.
00:19:16.040
So you just got to separate that and wear different hats.
00:19:18.640
So when you're wearing your friend hat, then act that way.
00:19:21.620
And, you know, when you're at work, you're wearing this hat.
00:19:26.940
And so family doesn't get a pass and a friend doesn't get a pass for incompetence or, you know, just I'm not going to come to work today.
00:19:34.500
No, that's not how we were all coming to work today.
00:19:37.900
If you are going into business with a friend, what are something that people can, like, what discussions need to be had up front?
00:19:43.860
Say you're going into a partnership with a buddy, you know, so you don't run into lawsuits down the line.
00:19:50.920
Nothing you do keeps you from, I mean, people can file a lawsuit for anything, even if it's not true.
00:20:01.200
But what we tell folks, if you're going to do a partnership, make sure you've got really good documentation.
00:20:06.580
And the best thing you can do is talk through and have in the document all the bad things that can happen.
00:20:23.700
You know, what happens when these things happen?
00:20:26.340
So, because you may be just great working with your buddy and he owns half the company, but his wife's cuckoo and he dies?
00:20:42.680
I mean, you know, I've had, I had a guy working here that was one of, one of our top leaders many years ago, got MS.
00:20:51.640
He's driving home, six miles home, got lost on the way home.
00:21:03.520
He was, you know, he's paid off the bottom line like he was a partner and just a wonderful man.
00:21:09.360
And, you know, how do you treat him, how you treat his family in the worst case scenario and how you're going to take care of them?
00:21:17.140
And because you want to take care of your buddy.
00:21:19.260
You don't want your buddy's kids to be homeless because something happened to him if he's your partner.
00:21:23.360
In this case, this guy was my, one of my right arms, you know.
00:21:26.100
So you just got to think that stuff through because it's going to come.
00:21:31.640
And if you haven't anticipated it, because everybody goes into this stuff like, oh, it's all going to work.
00:21:40.240
It's never as easy as it sounds when you're sitting and talking about it the first time.
00:21:45.360
Did you find yourself having unrealistic expectations about going into business spaces?
00:21:49.480
That's some things that I've struggled with in my life, especially recently.
00:21:52.720
It's like just unrealistic expectations that things are going to work or that they should be a certain way.
00:22:02.620
Trying to just really have a lot of my own will, I guess, in some ways it is.
00:22:06.860
You know, observing you from the outside, I think you probably suffer from this intense desire to be excellent.
00:22:18.880
And so if you demand that of yourself, it's okay to demand that of the situation, of the project, any of the people.
00:22:27.680
And so I don't hesitate if somebody's not to go, hey, come on, pick it up.
00:22:34.120
You know, it's not like I'm kicking back and asking you to go.
00:22:46.940
I do have a reality perception after 30 freaking years of doing stupid stuff.
00:22:52.640
I mean, I'm convinced we've survived about 90% of our ideas.
00:22:56.900
Everything good that's happened happened on about 10% of them.
00:22:59.700
But when you're starting it, I mean, you're going for a walk in the morning and, you know, or you're sitting on the dock having a cup of coffee at the lake and you have this idea.
00:23:10.900
You know, but when you're, you know, half a million dollars in and you go, oh, this sucks.
00:23:16.260
And so you've come to the realization that even though we demanded excellence, even though we drove the lane, put the ball in the hoop, even though we didn't have product market fit, something's off, pricing's off, something's off.
00:23:26.560
And, I mean, but if you're not trying stuff, you're not growing.
00:23:33.220
But you're going to screw up a lot of it even though you demand excellence.
00:23:37.120
But I don't have a hesitation at all expecting excellence and expecting it.
00:23:42.740
You know, why would you enter something you didn't think was going to work?
00:23:47.040
You know, like a stupid reporter the other day is like, did you ever have any idea it would be this big?
00:23:55.100
They're like, everybody is my market, you know.
00:23:58.460
But what I didn't know is how much work it was going to be.
00:24:00.560
I didn't have any idea I was going to have $100 million in payroll.
00:24:03.760
You know, I didn't have any idea that it was going to take that to do it.
00:24:08.100
I knew that it could be big, but I didn't know how bad it was going to be, how hard it was going to be.
00:24:13.000
Yeah, I think that's the thing that – you know what?
00:24:15.360
That's funny when I hear you say that because, yeah, like I started to get busier with stuff that was business.
00:24:20.900
I just wanted to be a comedian, you know, and then got into podcasting.
00:24:24.740
And then you have employees and then they have feelings.
00:24:30.800
Yeah, and you have relationships with them, you know.
00:24:36.280
Next thing you know, it's like I spend a lot of my day – most of your time gets gone kind of because there's another responsibility.
00:24:44.320
And so then I'm just like, man, I'm just – I never – I didn't expect this much more work to come out of, I think, just having some goals, you know.
00:24:54.100
Yeah, I thought I was going to be on the radio and sell some books on getting out of debt.
00:24:58.280
And, I mean, who knew I needed 400 people in a tech department, you know.
00:25:05.600
But the good news is that, like you said earlier, it's an opportunity to learn, an opportunity to grow.
00:25:10.160
So that way you don't just stay in the pressure washing business.
00:25:19.000
I still enjoy being on the radio, on the podcast, the YouTube every day.
00:25:23.120
We still do that show every day, three hours a day.
00:25:31.280
You know, we had breakfast this morning and we're having a lot of fun working on the problems and, you know, looking at the new opportunities and all that.
00:25:42.900
Elevate every morning with Tommy John second skin underwear.
00:25:48.880
Don't you want more skin on you feeling groovy?
00:25:52.340
What you put in your pants can make or break your day.
00:25:58.240
Elevate every morning with Tommy John second skin underwear.
00:26:02.980
Tommy John stylish and soft second skin underwear has dozens of comfort innovations.
00:26:09.040
Like a supportive contour pouch and breathable, lightweight, moisture-wicking fabric with four times the stretch of competing brands.
00:26:19.880
You know, I've been trying different pairs of boxer briefs for the past few months.
00:26:24.200
And I'll say that Tommy John, they really got my number.
00:26:28.980
That second skin, it's just like, God, it's just like feeling like part of your body's already in heaven.
00:26:36.820
Shop Tommy John's friends and family sale right now and get 25% off site-wide.
00:26:48.680
Save 25% for a limited time at TommyJohn.com slash T-H-E-O.
00:26:59.680
You know, when we started selling a T-shirt online, my friend Kevin made it in his basement and he would ship it out.
00:27:07.680
And then it grew and people wanted a different shirt.
00:27:11.860
And we put up something else and then a hoodie.
00:27:14.200
And then we had sometimes to have more and sometimes we had too much.
00:27:18.080
And all along the way, there to help us was ShipStation.
00:27:27.020
If you run an e-commerce business, you can relate to the amount of work it takes to put it all together.
00:27:37.580
Well, ShipStation is the multi-carrier shipping solution that integrates wherever you sell online.
00:27:43.960
And the best is as your business scales, whether it's scaling up or down because they all fluctuate, ShipStation is right there to work with you.
00:27:53.840
ShipStation is the innovative tool that helps turn your shipping challenges into opportunities for growth.
00:27:59.720
Go to ShipStation.com and use code Theo to sign up for your free 60-day trial.
00:28:11.100
What do you say to, like, employees who want to talk to their employer about getting a raise or getting – like, what is a good way to approach an employer about that kind of stuff?
00:28:21.580
Like, you know, a lot of stuff in business like that are relationship things.
00:28:24.980
If you'll just switch the moccasins a minute, where are there moccasins?
00:28:28.120
So if you were the supervisor or you're the owner of the business, how would you want someone to talk to you about it?
00:28:35.580
And so, I mean, I really appreciate when our folks come in and go, hey, you know, I'm making this and, you know, here's two or three positions in the marketplace that are more for the same position.
00:28:46.980
And so, you know, what I'm curious about is what I can do to be worth what those people are doing because I want to be worth more to the business.
00:28:55.320
And if they say it that way, oh, man, yeah, I'm like, yeah, okay, here, yeah.
00:28:59.300
Well, matter of fact, you know, we probably have overlooked that.
00:29:02.720
But maybe, yeah, maybe there's three things you need to do to level up to be ready to do that.
00:29:07.120
And so it's an opportunity for growth and those kinds of things because, really, you know, if you're an employer, your team has to make you more or save you more than they cost.
00:29:19.220
Or by definition, you go out of business mathematically.
00:29:22.520
And so if you'll look at that as a team member, it's like how can I add more value than I cost or save more money and depend on what they're working on than I cost,
00:29:34.100
then, you know, it's kind of a no-brainer unless the employer's a jerk and greedy or whatever.
00:29:39.060
But most employers are just trying to figure it out, too.
00:29:42.020
We're just trying to go, especially small business people.
00:29:50.780
We want to be with them 20 years and watch them grow up.
00:29:56.320
But we also don't want to close because we overpaid everybody and didn't make any stinking money.
00:30:03.540
The employer's got that stress they're carrying.
00:30:05.660
So if you'll keep that in mind when you're asking, how can I add value that's more than I cost or save you more than I cost,
00:30:17.360
I mean, she saved us several hundred thousand dollars with contract negotiations with our logistics people and shipping more than she cost.
00:30:26.760
Well, it's easy to say, yeah, you're worth that.
00:30:32.740
I mean, we always tell people around here, if you kill it and drag it home, you know, go out there, kill it, drag it to the cave, I'll share it with you.
00:30:38.900
You know, you bring in a million dollars in revenue, we can probably divvy that up.
00:30:43.120
We can probably figure out something to do with that.
00:30:44.780
You know, I don't need to take it all home, but I also don't need to give it all to one person either.
00:30:54.160
And so just look at it that way, not like, on the other hand, I had a guy come in years ago, a long time ago.
00:31:04.000
And he just, you know, he said, hey, man, you know, at these big companies, people that got this many degrees, they make a certain amount of money.
00:31:19.700
And I said, well, dude, I'm sorry, this is small business.
00:31:33.640
So, you know, he left and went and worked for corporate America where they'll pay him for those degrees and they can get away with that.
00:31:42.220
Like, what is some of the adder, even just like to get a little bit more minute with it, like, what are just, say somebody's out there listening, like, man, I feel like I want to talk to my boss about a raise.
00:31:51.860
Or I want to, how do they, what are some, should they tell themselves certain things to prep themselves to go in there?
00:32:00.520
Because it's just a space where a lot of people get really uncomfortable, I think, you know?
00:32:04.300
You know, anytime I'm in a situation like that where I'm uncomfortable, where there's conflict or a negotiation, if you want to call it that.
00:32:11.620
And I found that the more options I have, the calmer I am.
00:32:17.820
And so if there's only one thing, I mean, if I don't get this, I'm dead.
00:32:20.980
But if you've got, like, six people wanting to hire you, and, you know, you want to go in and go, hey, you know, I'd like to stay, and I like it here, and I like you, and I want it to work, but I got all this other stuff.
00:32:38.140
You don't have swagger in or something, but you can come in with a lot of confidence if you've got options.
00:32:42.600
But if you've got it all dialed in, it's just one thing, and if I don't get this one thing, the whole thing's over, and you add this drama, then you tighten up.
00:32:54.880
Yeah, and there can be things, even if it's not financial, you could get, well, is there a possibility that my car could be paid or insurance?
00:33:02.680
I think there's always different possibilities of things you can ask for, even that, you know.
00:33:07.300
Yeah, I mean, depending on how the business is structured and what's going on, there's a lot of different things you can do to help people and do different things.
00:33:14.600
And sometimes we've had situations where someone was just in a financial situation, you know, they got in trouble, and they come in, we sit down, we go over their budget, and we go, okay, number one, we're going to get you in a situation.
00:33:24.880
So you're never here again with your budget, how you're handling your money.
00:33:29.440
But then, number two, you know, your house is four payments behind, so we're going to catch the house up.
00:33:36.740
That's not a permanent raise, because the raise wasn't the problem.
00:33:42.380
So, you know, we help them fix the mismanagement, and then we catch them up.
00:33:53.520
Like, for the first time, like, last year or two years ago.
00:33:56.620
And sometimes I'm like, is this the best thing to do?
00:34:00.960
Like, it's tougher to have, like, freedom to just go where you want.
00:34:06.200
And then sometimes it feels like there's so many expenses with a home.
00:34:09.820
Sometimes it feels like, and I'm not saying it's true, but it feels like I'm not really building up any equity or saving money.
00:34:19.220
Well, again, over the scope of time, you're making money, without a doubt.
00:34:25.580
I mean, again, I'm old, so I've gotten to see this thing happen.
00:34:30.700
You know, I mean, I got my real estate license three weeks after I turned 18 years old in 1978.
00:34:35.820
And the first house I sold was to a buddy of mine from high school, which means he wasn't smart because he let me sell him a house.
00:34:42.320
You're like, now I'm going to live in one of the rooms, buddy.
00:34:59.960
So, you know, and if you bought a house four years ago, you've gotten in Nashville, I mean, you've made serious money on it in four years in terms of value increase.
00:35:10.360
But, yeah, the nickel-dime expenses, the messing with the repairs, I mean, crap, the more stuff you own, the more repairmen you have to know.
00:35:17.140
I mean, it doesn't matter what it is, whether it's got a motor in it or it's cars or houses or boats or all this stuff.
00:35:26.800
And it does get the feeling of just the hassle and the aggravation.
00:35:39.660
We did the largest study of millionaires ever done in North America.
00:35:44.980
And the typical millionaire that we found, 89% of them were first generation, meaning they did not inherit their money.
00:35:55.160
So 9 out of 10, that's good news for everybody.
00:35:58.900
And then the – but the two things that got them there was simply putting money in their 401K and buying a house and paying it off.
00:36:06.040
And so I'd meet a guy, you know, he's 42 and he pay – he owes – you know, he had a house of $600,000 or $700,000.
00:36:13.660
And he had like $600,000 or $800,000 in his 401K and he's 42 years old.
00:36:18.460
So he's worth over a million dollars and he paid off his house.
00:36:21.160
So home ownership is a key part of the first, you know, $1 to $10 million of net worth that somebody builds.
00:36:28.920
And so, yeah, I'm a huge believer in home ownership.
00:36:32.060
Don't do it stupid because buying a house you can't afford makes you broker.
00:36:44.360
You know, we did a detailed study and sent out not just from us, but we just went to the population and found them.
00:36:52.600
We had a research firm in New York City looking over our shoulder to make sure our research methodology was tight
00:36:58.560
because we knew we'd get a ton of pushback from, you know, people who think that America is dead
00:37:12.740
The problem is little man gets ahead every day in America.
00:37:16.220
And I've met them for 30, 40 years, you know, doing this.
00:37:19.320
I run into them and some of them did it because they did our stuff.
00:37:22.240
But some of them just said, you know, I'm going to live on less than I make.
00:37:30.340
So these are the top five careers of the millionaires that you guys looked at?
00:37:34.360
Well, what we found was what occurred most often.
00:37:39.620
The most often occurring among the people we surveyed that were millionaires was engineer.
00:37:52.460
And we always think of doctors and lawyers, you know.
00:37:54.320
But they're actually number six, but they're notoriously bad with money.
00:37:58.200
They make a lot of money, but they're like music stars or something.
00:38:06.440
We couldn't figure out at first what these things had in common because they don't seem
00:38:12.600
What we finally figured out is all five of these are process people.
00:38:17.580
You follow a process, a set of rules, and you learn the rules and you follow the rules.
00:38:22.880
You know, if you're an engineer, there's only one way to build that building and it doesn't
00:38:28.100
If you're an accountant, there's not, you don't, it's not art.
00:38:31.140
You don't get to make up how you do accounting.
00:38:34.680
Teachers have a lesson plan they have to follow.
00:38:39.260
Attorneys, you know, there's the law and you can only conduct yourself in court a certain
00:38:45.420
way or the judge will smack you backwards, right?
00:38:50.400
So they discovered because of the way the brain worked that led them into these careers,
00:38:56.040
they discovered the process of living on less than make, living on a budget, starting
00:38:59.380
to invest, being generous, paying off their house, that kind of stuff.
00:39:03.120
And they follow that process and that's what got them there.
00:39:05.720
It was not that, the interesting thing is one third of them, 33%, made less than $100,000
00:39:14.380
They were not earning their way into it, really.
00:39:16.240
Yeah, because you would think teachers, you always hear, we got to pay these teachers more,
00:39:21.740
But there's, the way the teacher's brains work, they do process and that's the secret
00:39:29.260
And all of those, I guess you have to have an education for.
00:39:50.420
It's like Ric Flair came on here one time and he said he was in a rehab facility for
00:39:55.400
And he looks over one day at lunch and one of the doctors is also in the facility.
00:40:03.320
Yeah, it's like, well, that's definitely, you're at a Hooters, bro.
00:40:06.240
I'm like, you're not, you're just at a Hooters.
00:40:08.000
Yeah, that's what the people say a lot of times is it does feel like that now.
00:40:15.260
It feels like the American dream isn't possible, that it doesn't exist.
00:40:21.340
Where do you think a lot of that energy comes from?
00:40:25.520
That that is the, it feels like that's the consensus these days.
00:40:31.920
There's a lot of, there's a lot of loud people that have that.
00:40:36.080
I don't know that it's necessarily a consensus among Americans.
00:40:41.500
Because consensus means that most people agree with it?
00:40:44.200
So I'm not sure of that, but there's enough, there's enough people that are making noise
00:40:47.480
in that regard, but there kind of always has been.
00:40:49.860
I mean, if you go back to the, you know, the seventies with the hippie movement, it was
00:40:55.640
And so there's always been a, you know, my group, the baby boomers.
00:40:59.220
And so there's always been somebody in the group that felt like the system was rigged,
00:41:03.880
man, we got to get the system, you know, we can't beat the system.
00:41:08.940
And so the neighborhood I grew up in, people say that, you know, and they never said it
00:41:23.080
And, you know, and no, you're not get up off your butt and go get a pressure washer.
00:41:28.080
So, uh, and most of these people, again, these millionaires, um, and a million dollars
00:41:41.540
Millionaires don't have seven cars and four houses.
00:41:43.920
No, no, they, they just got, they've just got a paid for house and some money in their
00:41:50.220
And so there's a, people kind of have a different mindset there and they think, okay, I can't be
00:41:56.120
Well, you might not be, there's not as many billionaires as there are millionaires.
00:42:02.800
And there is, there's a lot of, uh, loud noises out there.
00:42:06.660
It's a, I think it starts with, and one of the reasons I pushed back and did this study
00:42:11.680
and then we ended up doing a number one bestselling book on it, Baby Steps Millionaires,
00:42:15.300
pushing back in the marketplaces against those voices is because they're not, it's not true
00:42:23.300
And when you convince someone that it's true, you're stealing their hope and you shouldn't
00:42:30.320
And so you ought to encourage people to go do stuff.
00:42:33.400
Now you should not encourage them to go on American Idol if they can't sing.
00:42:38.120
But you, you should, you know, so stop their nightmares, but also encourage their dreams.
00:42:42.660
So this hopelessness that goes with that, I feel stuck.
00:42:53.020
You boomers bought your house for two baskets of strawberries.
00:43:03.600
I was doing an interview on NPR the other day and the lady said, you know, I was riding
00:43:07.360
with the Uber driver and the Uber driver said his daughter is a dancer and a barista and
00:43:15.000
And I went, that's been true in every generation.
00:43:18.480
If you serve coffee and you're in Nashville and you're a dancer, you can't get a house.
00:43:24.120
That's just going to be, that's not, those are not, you know, career fields that you're
00:43:28.640
going to make enough to be able to afford a house.
00:43:33.420
And who's buying Java off a stripper either, you know, to be honest, I'm not saying
00:43:38.620
what kind of dancer I didn't, I didn't have any idea there, but yeah.
00:43:43.660
I'm like who also, I guess it would be nice though if a stripper just shows up as a nice
00:43:51.640
Don't they have that nude barista drive-thru or something?
00:43:59.780
It's old news, but it definitely still, I think some people pretend like it's new news
00:44:08.480
I'm not sure exactly how we got there, but okay.
00:44:11.960
Well, yeah, but I'm just saying that's a unique business right there.
00:44:14.640
That's kind of wild, you know, that'll be a gift for me.
00:44:17.740
But back to your thing, the thing is hope is a decision and it's got to be based on,
00:44:26.400
you know, you've had the actual reality in your life of going from collecting cans to
00:44:35.840
I've had the reality in my life of going from mowing grass to millionaire in my 20s to losing
00:44:48.060
And so when someone says it can't be done, I went, uh, wait a minute.
00:44:53.020
Um, and I don't really, I'm fairly smart, but I'm not a rocket surgeon.
00:44:58.600
I mean, I don't, I don't really know how to do stuff.
00:45:08.740
I think people having a hope like that is important, you know, and I think that's, yeah, it's
00:45:15.600
If you take away somebody's hope, cause I guess that's what a lot of this, this, uh,
00:45:23.000
They're just trying to take away your hope because once they have your hope, they can
00:45:28.320
I feel like if they're running us, if they're running a game, you know, and they're, they're
00:45:35.700
But the other one is just, they really have lost hope.
00:45:39.620
And so they're angry and they don't want, and they want to loudly proclaim that it's not
00:45:45.600
Which makes them feel okay that they're not winning, that they haven't gone and done
00:45:55.240
I was talking, they had a kid rock was on a couple of weeks ago and he was talking about
00:46:01.120
If you want to re if you want to have success, you're going to have to probably work 60 hours
00:46:08.120
He was saying, and for a period of time, not your whole life.
00:46:11.260
I mean, we started this thing, man, I was 16 hours.
00:46:14.260
My wife had, you know, and she's like, I was a single mom for two years.
00:46:22.760
I was going crazy, going to cities, trying to get radio stations to carry the show.
00:46:28.000
And that's how we all got started was in talk radio.
00:46:38.180
I knew all the guys that are current Rush and Sean Hannity and all those guys are all
00:46:43.180
contemporaries and they're all friends and, um, you know, people that have been around
00:46:48.140
the business like that, but, uh, and, and a lot of the new guys that are doing really
00:46:52.280
But, but anyway, that, you know, we're just out there hustling, man, and you got to leave
00:46:59.380
So she's like, um, yeah, hard work's how you do this.
00:47:10.520
You know, you can't, you can't maintain relationships.
00:47:13.980
And so by the time my kids got on up, I, you know, I didn't miss a prom.
00:47:20.860
You know, I didn't miss a, whatever the big games.
00:47:23.340
I mean, little stuff I'd be gone during the week, but you know, but we started putting
00:47:26.960
these dates on the calendar and we would book our events around them.
00:47:29.680
You, you couldn't, you couldn't book on top of that.
00:47:32.880
Um, when people talk about, uh, when people talk, like you hear a lot of discussion these
00:47:40.000
days about, um, how inflation is going, is getting so, is growing so fast, I guess,
00:47:47.180
that it's not, that the wage, minimum wage isn't keeping up with it.
00:47:54.720
Like if you like, it feels sometimes impossible.
00:47:56.780
If you look at the minimum wage, you're like, how is this going to, it would feel impossible
00:48:01.440
almost, I feel like if you were trying to take care of a family or something on that,
00:48:06.720
Well, truthfully, uh, minimum wage has, uh, never, I don't think since even it was formed
00:48:14.100
in the seventies, I don't think any time in history, minimum wage has been enough to take
00:48:19.340
Uh, so you've always had to think beyond minimum wage.
00:48:22.620
If you wanted to excel, if you wanted to have, you know, a build some wealth or B just
00:48:29.320
So minimum wage is not designed for the entry level jobs are, that's not designed.
00:48:35.020
What, what's more disturbing than minimum wage is the, that wages in general, average
00:48:40.820
household incomes have not kept up with inflation.
00:48:43.820
And so that's alarming, that that's more alarming because that's the whole population.
00:48:48.580
It's not just this segment that enters, uh, you know, entry level stuff at minimum wage,
00:48:53.320
because, you know, if we go all the way back to minimum wage, I'm cutting grass for $3 a
00:49:03.100
We had to get them out of the yard, but you know, I mean, 1972, $3 a yard, but minimum
00:49:08.500
My buddy's working at, at, you know, Burger King flopping whoppers and he's making a buck
00:49:14.160
If I can cut that $3 yard in an hour, I'm making double minimum wage at 12 years old.
00:49:20.300
And that's how my little math brain was working.
00:49:22.100
And so I'm running that mower, you know, I'm going.
00:49:25.160
And so, uh, so you even cut somebody's yard and just go to the door and be like, Hey,
00:49:34.200
I had to go cut their grass, but some people, I bet if you rolled up to my door and knocked
00:49:37.420
on my door and said, Hey man, I just cut your yard.
00:49:47.160
But yeah, the, uh, but yeah, I mean that, that you've never, you've always had the opportunity
00:49:53.620
So you don't want to sit and say, okay, minimum wage is my gauge of whether I can go win because
00:50:01.980
So that's kind of a, sometimes that's kind of a political football that gets kicked around
00:50:09.580
It's a false narrative where I think the real narrative that is a little bit scary is that
00:50:16.440
And because we've had this unusual surge in inflation and it's blamed on Biden politically,
00:50:23.720
but it, some of it's his fault, uh, his, uh, policy issues, but most of it is just the,
00:50:33.780
And so the shortage, shortages of things always drive prices up on anything, anything,
00:50:41.600
And there was a shortage of freaking everything.
00:50:43.700
Remember supply chain and all that stuff people are talking about.
00:50:46.480
And so everything shot up, real estate shot up because people sat around in their houses
00:50:52.720
And then, you know, when the sun came out and the curve was flattened and all whatever,
00:50:58.280
you know, and we're all back out, well, these people all wanted new houses.
00:51:02.280
I mean, they came out of their house, like a Baptist after a casserole, they were going
00:51:06.100
I mean, they were, they were getting it, you know?
00:51:07.800
So, uh, and house prices, you know, 20, 21, wow.
00:51:12.200
That was an artificial thing though, that was created by the market being dormant and people
00:51:18.460
And then this idea of looking around at their house going, this, my house sucks.
00:51:22.660
They hit the market hard and it's still not recovered from that.
00:51:27.200
And some of the other things are hit that way too.
00:51:29.700
Um, and, and, but there's some things again, the policy issues, but most of it is just the,
00:51:36.440
And Trump nor Biden should get the credit nor the blame.
00:51:39.820
It was more how the marketplace was functioning.
00:51:44.440
Is that the right term to talk about inflation?
00:51:48.740
Um, again, it, to the extent that the politicians leave their hands off of stuff, but the, um,
00:51:54.760
both parties, but the, um, as a marketplace will smooth out again, demand prices go up.
00:52:05.620
So now demand goes down, which brings prices down, you know?
00:52:09.160
So the thing smooths out eventually you find this equilibrium, this balance.
00:52:12.640
And the problem is the price, the shortage drove the prices up and the shortage remained.
00:52:17.400
And then people's appetite, they just kept coming, man, like freaking piranha.
00:52:21.380
And that, the, the marketplace surges is what drove the pricing as much as anything.
00:52:26.400
Now that's not true in oil and gas at the pump.
00:52:30.000
That's not true on a few other things, but housing for sure.
00:52:39.060
You always hear about like the national debt, right?
00:52:48.440
Like, is that a real thing that affect, it almost seems so fictional now that it's like,
00:52:54.620
is it a real thing that could cause something to happen in like in our lives or like, is it
00:53:04.120
Cause everybody's like, you know, it's just zillions.
00:53:08.720
Some kid told me yesterday it was 65 zillion, your jillions.
00:53:22.100
How can you teach kids numbers in school, but you can't even teach them a number that
00:53:29.940
Uh, you know, I went through a period of time in my twenties when I was first starting to
00:53:35.580
do this stuff, late twenties that, uh, that I was worried that the hockey stick of this
00:53:42.380
thing, that the, the, the growth of the debt is, was going to cripple the economy and even
00:53:49.000
Um, and you know, I, so I've observed people in my world, write books on the end of the
00:53:56.980
You know, here's the economic end of the world coming economic end of the world.
00:54:00.120
Here's the, and, and, and they keep being wrong.
00:54:10.360
Yeah, it's concerning because anytime a group of people, us keep spending more than we make
00:54:16.160
and we keep electing people that don't have any ability to curb their appetite for our
00:54:22.720
money, uh, it's, uh, man, that, that philosophically, spiritually is scary.
00:54:35.320
Apparently not because it, I mean, I've been doing this a long, I mean, I've been watching
00:54:39.840
this thinking when, you know, when, you know, but it's not.
00:54:43.080
And obviously what the national debt is, what it does do factually is it robs money from the
00:54:53.980
And so, because what happens is, is the government issues a bond.
00:54:58.440
That's how they finance the debts, treasury bonds.
00:55:03.080
And so they issue that bond and then an investor goes and buys that government bond because
00:55:11.480
If that investor had done something else in the marketplace with that money to produce
00:55:16.360
something rather than sit on this bunch of fat in DC, it would have, it would have ginned
00:55:23.940
So it's stealing money from the economy in that sense.
00:55:29.420
And it's becoming a large, the interest only on it is becoming a larger and larger portion
00:55:33.920
of the quote, budget, unquote, as if they've got a budget.
00:55:38.400
Yeah, I have, I put money into kind of T bills.
00:55:55.240
I feel like there's like darker forces that are like, you can use the media to control
00:55:59.900
it and like, can like create articles to affect how the market goes.
00:56:04.280
So that's kind of like, so I prefer something like a T bill or something like that.
00:56:08.600
That's just like a safe, I know what it's going to be pretty much.
00:56:12.060
Well, there's always been falsehood and manipulation in the market.
00:56:21.080
Do you think it's still a safe place for people to invest?
00:56:23.580
I've got, I've got millions and millions of dollars in mutual funds.
00:56:27.080
So the, the way to offset that is number one, if you don't, I believe it's there.
00:56:33.640
I believe it's a very small percentage and I don't know where it is exactly.
00:56:38.180
I can't point and say that guy, that one, you know, that girl, that thing right there.
00:56:41.320
I don't know exactly where it is, but I mean, is there people that fluff the thing?
00:56:48.340
Is there people that, you know, that, uh, right before the news article goes out, they
00:56:52.220
sell their stuff insider trading happens all the time.
00:57:00.220
Is it so widespread that it makes the investment, uh, improper or imprudent?
00:57:13.840
So if I'm in a mutual fund, I'm in 90 to 200 different stocks and it's stuff that you
00:57:21.740
It's McDonald's or Home Depot or Dell computer or Apple or Exxon or whatever, right?
00:57:32.160
And so, uh, in those 90 to 200, is there some percentage of that problem going on?
00:57:38.520
Yeah, there is some percentage, but not enough that it, in general, those 90 to 200 companies,
00:57:46.900
I'm spread out enough that I'm catching all the good and it's more than offsetting the falsehood
00:57:56.180
So as Home Depot makes more money than I'm participating as whoever, Apple makes more
00:58:04.240
money than I'm participating because I'm one of the owners of the company, tiny, tiny little
00:58:08.920
bit when I own, you know, in that 90 to 200 stocks.
00:58:11.620
So that's how I don't buy single stocks mainly because they're higher risk and much more volatile
00:58:16.900
and you're much more prey to what if that was the company that was screwing around?
00:58:22.300
Then boom, you know, you bet the whole dadgum farm on that one horse race and that guy
00:58:39.560
I buy real estate that I pay cash for and I buy mutual funds.
00:58:46.360
Get groceries delivered to your door from no frills with PC express shop online and get 15
00:58:51.620
dollars in PC optimum points on your first five orders.
00:58:59.400
Them knee knockers, them little baby jugglers, them thigh slappers, them nuggets, whatever.
00:59:10.440
Not every man has children, but every man is responsible for their two boys below the waist.
00:59:16.380
When your little guys have more hair than they need, trust Manscaped for all your grooming
00:59:28.600
So join the 10 million men worldwide who trust Manscaped by going to manscaped.com and use
00:59:45.300
With the lawnmower 3.0, the 4.0 pro and the 5.0 ultra.
00:59:57.460
Get 20% off and free shipping with the code Theo at manscaped.com.
01:00:06.140
That's 20% off and free shipping with the code Theo at manscaped.com for the best your
01:00:19.440
BetterHelp for when you don't know where to turn or the places you've been turning haven't
01:00:31.680
And, you know, I was stuck in a moment one day where I just was dang caught up and I
01:00:46.700
And suddenly I'm just, it's just the idea to say, hey, I'm going to try something.
01:00:52.120
If you're thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try.
01:00:57.520
It's designed to be convenient, flexible, and suited to your schedule.
01:01:02.460
Just fill out a brief questionnaire to get matched with a licensed therapist and switch
01:01:07.320
therapists at any time for no additional charge.
01:01:13.120
Too many times I was with a therapist that I didn't really think was, it just wasn't the
01:01:18.280
And I stayed with them just because I didn't want to, I was too afraid to try someone else
01:01:30.900
Visit BetterHelp.com slash T-H-E-O today to get 10% off your first month.
01:01:43.520
So if someone had like a, they have a, you know, some money they're thinking about putting
01:01:49.020
it into the market or they're thinking about buying like maybe a small apartment building
01:01:52.540
or something like that, do you feel like that's a good choice for people?
01:01:55.860
I don't get in partnerships on them like we discussed earlier.
01:02:02.680
If it's good income producing real estate, you'll make more on it than you will in mutual
01:02:09.700
Real estate, you ought to make 17 to 20, including the tax benefits, the appreciation that's
01:02:17.380
The problem with real estate is it's a pain in the butt because you've got to deal with
01:02:23.520
You know, the roof leaks, whether it's commercial office building, whether it's a house, doesn't
01:02:32.980
And, but there's all, you know, there's a tenant that doesn't pay or does pay or it's
01:02:37.760
Uh, you know, there's, uh, there's a hassle factor to dealing with it.
01:02:42.440
Even if you hired management, I mean, uh, my son-in-law runs all the Ramsey real estate
01:02:46.760
stuff and he and I grew up in real estate, so I love working with him on it, but he handles
01:02:52.640
I don't screw with all that today, but, but it's a pain.
01:02:56.020
So this idea that I hear this stuff on social media stuff, real estate's passive income,
01:03:04.680
I mean, you're right in the middle of it or, or you're getting screwed one of the two.
01:03:09.680
I got into some real estate and it was, uh, it was a night, it was so much extra work
01:03:14.700
that I didn't realize, you know, complaints, somebody's Airbnb in the building, somebody's,
01:03:20.700
um, you know, started a fire or something, you know, because they didn't want to use the
01:03:41.640
Um, but yeah, there's no easy real, there's no easy way to it.
01:03:46.400
Well, I mean the T bill, you know what you're talking about?
01:03:48.860
That's, you don't buy it and you forget it and they send you a check.
01:03:51.940
It's not as big a check, but there's no hassle.
01:03:55.080
You know, mutual funds, a little more risk because you're in there with all these companies
01:04:00.120
Even if you're in 90 to 200 and limited the risk by spreading it out, you still got more
01:04:05.020
risk than you would in a T bill, but you're going to make a little more.
01:04:07.820
You want a little more hassle, go to the real estate.
01:04:10.700
So you don't want to be, uh, you know, I try to just say it's a risk return ratio.
01:04:17.120
If I'm going to take some risk and have some hassle, I want some extra money for that.
01:04:23.920
It's like, do I want to be, cause I'll notice, yeah, like some stocks is too much stress for
01:04:27.980
me cause I'll check them too much and I don't like it.
01:04:30.160
And then it's like, I've spent, you know, 30 minutes of my day dang checking stocks and
01:04:39.580
I don't even know what the market has done this year.
01:04:44.520
I don't, cause it's, I'm not betting on this week.
01:04:47.820
I'm saying, okay, you know, look at what the stock market has done since 1980, since
01:04:54.360
1990, since 2012, look at what I would have made if I'd have put $10,000, what it would
01:05:00.340
And that's how I'm playing it is the long haul, the long play.
01:05:12.420
Was there, was there ever a stock that you bought Dave where you were like, man, I wish
01:05:15.640
I would have held onto that, that you just remember, like even when you were younger,
01:05:21.600
The only dumb thing I did is I bought gold one time.
01:05:24.880
This buddy of mine, again, you know, these buddies in my twenties, he was making money
01:05:29.080
and he had this gold guy that we could buy options on gold, which we don't even buy in
01:05:35.160
the gold, just buying the right to buy the gold.
01:05:37.340
And he said he put in $5,000 and if it goes up, the option goes from $5,000 to $50,000.
01:05:50.680
You put it in and like he had predicted and he said, okay, we need to go in right now
01:05:59.820
So I lost the whole $5,000 and no sign of $50,000, right?
01:06:09.620
It's just your, it's an uber high risk situation.
01:06:36.000
I'd saved up, I mean, probably most of the money I had.
01:06:46.140
And then another time they had a dude, somebody was selling like glitter mining or something
01:06:51.060
in our area and they sold a bunch of shares of that shit and screwed everybody.
01:06:56.260
You know, I remember in the 80s, everybody decided that emus were going to be the new
01:07:17.800
And a lot of people decided they were going to sell everything and open an emu farm.
01:07:21.960
And because for the meat, it's like ostrich meat.
01:07:24.820
It's like, I don't know, it's a big bird meat, big white meat.
01:07:41.040
Yeah, I, yeah, so, yeah, it's hilarious, though.
01:07:43.920
These rednecks around Tennessee, they were having emu farms.
01:07:50.640
That was one of those fad things that didn't work, so.
01:07:59.320
They were going to get rich on Beanie Babies, right?
01:08:03.780
Women fighting, like, like, cage match fighting.
01:08:07.760
In the airport gift shop to get the Beanie Babies, right?
01:08:11.060
Remember the Princess Diana Beanie Babies that came out?
01:08:21.860
Not because it was an investment, but because my wife was freaking obsessed, and I was traveling,
01:08:27.380
So, yeah, see, $49,000 on eBay for the Princess.
01:08:41.760
It was like their NCAA, their college football pool they did every year.
01:08:49.880
And instead, his mom convinced him to buy a Christmas village of, like, rare Christmas
01:09:18.180
He's running into a lot of issues, but, God, that just broke him, man.
01:09:27.780
He said he took out an $800 life insurance policy on his wife.
01:09:44.620
And he's like, well, my truck payment's $7.99 a month, so...
01:09:50.520
Yeah, speaking of, like, yeah, like, kind of traps, I guess, like, what are...
01:09:58.980
I lost $2,000 in crypto, just like every one of my friends did when it first came out,
01:10:04.800
Like, NFTs, things like that, that kind of pop up that really...
01:10:10.060
To me, some of them seem like the modern-day pyramid scheme, in a way.
01:10:14.540
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a lot of emu farms, baby.
01:10:19.420
Why are more people falling susceptible to these types of things, do you think?
01:10:28.580
We're wired by God to look for the shortest path, to look for optimum, to look for the
01:10:39.220
That makes our lives better, because we create inventions and things that make our lives better.
01:10:43.040
That very wiring created the automobile, or created the iPhone, or created things that
01:10:51.320
But where it gets off track is where we think we can short-circuit a proven process.
01:10:58.220
And it causes you to jump from investor to speculator.
01:11:06.200
They're always saying, okay, I'm going to invest in mutual funds.
01:11:11.180
I'm thinking, what's it going to be in 20 years?
01:11:22.480
And so Bitcoin has never really been about investing.
01:11:29.600
No one bought that and said, you know, in 20 years, this is going to look brilliant.
01:11:37.120
No one flips houses with nothing down that they saw on TikTok.
01:11:44.380
When a builder even builds a home that they're not custom building, they call it a spec house.
01:11:53.140
They're speculating that they're going to sell that house.
01:11:57.060
They're not building that house in that subdivision hoping to sit on it 10 years.
01:12:01.360
They're building it hoping to sit on it 10 days.
01:12:06.060
So where you get confused, where you mess up is where you can fall into scams and get
01:12:10.660
rich quick and violate basic investing principles is when you move from investing, which is long-term
01:12:20.300
I want quick money, easy money, quick money, easy money.
01:12:22.440
And that's that wiring that's positive wiring gone astray.
01:12:27.680
And so, uh, and, and in a sense, that's what happened to me when I went broke in real estate
01:12:33.940
I was doing flip this house before Chip and Joanna were born, you know?
01:12:36.960
And so that's what we were, we were getting it.
01:12:41.600
So I was, I was churning them, man, but I was doing it on 90 day notes, short-term notes
01:12:46.400
because I was not buying them as a long-term play.
01:12:52.320
They look up and they can call my notes in 90 days.
01:12:55.020
So they called a million two in 90 days and it crashed me.
01:13:00.500
Now I would have told you I was a real estate investor, right?
01:13:03.500
But the actual definition of the term investor means longer term horizon, long window.
01:13:10.560
And so if it's, thank God it's Friday, oh God, it's Monday.
01:13:12.860
If I got to move it this calendar year or in the next two calendar years to make money
01:13:16.800
on it, then, you know, you're playing the roulette wheel.
01:13:24.280
It's okay if you want to do some of that, but quit calling it investing because then
01:13:28.620
it causes you to put too dadgum much money in it because you lose your butt then.
01:13:32.160
And that's where you get scammed is you're looking for something for nothing quick, a
01:13:36.140
quick turn, double my money fast because I don't think I can get there long-term.
01:13:40.900
So I'm so desperate and so scared, so fearful, so greedy that I got to get it right now.
01:13:47.920
I got a million dollars worth of stuff, but I didn't keep it because I built a house
01:13:52.880
Obviously, when you work, sometimes it's weird.
01:13:54.740
Like, people ask me, like, what hobbies do I have and stuff?
01:13:57.040
But the weird thing is, like, a lot of my hobbies became my jobs, you know?
01:14:06.840
Or do you still, like, have things that you like to do outside of?
01:14:10.620
You know, as I got further down in the business in the last several decades, I actually do have
01:14:18.000
But in the first few decades, it was just, you're right.
01:14:36.700
Again, I mean, once you've been on stage with an audience, our gig's a different gig.
01:14:41.700
But it's still, you know, it's fun to be with people and it's fun to be with people that
01:14:53.180
But I also have picked up a few things away from here so that I, distractions and I don't
01:14:58.440
know if they're hobbies, I guess, but I end up collecting stuff or whatever, doing that
01:15:03.120
And yeah, but there's nothing wrong with, especially in the first couple of decades with almost all
01:15:09.020
your energy doing that other than family stuff.
01:15:13.440
What are some, like, obviously you've learned a lot of financial lessons over the years.
01:15:16.420
Like, what were some personal lessons that you had to learn along the way too that like
01:15:21.180
Like, was there some things that have kind of stood out to you, you feel like?
01:15:32.320
I mean, like you said earlier, we're talking about hiring an employee.
01:15:36.200
I, I just, I was so dumb that I thought if you hired people that they would like work.
01:15:51.200
And so I just like, if you could fog up a mirror, yeah, let's go do this together, man.
01:15:57.440
And then I got all this crazy and all this drama and all this other stuff.
01:16:08.940
And man, when I was 32 years old, I didn't get that.
01:16:14.360
And so, you know, over the years I've had to learn to not be behind.
01:16:18.840
Cause I mean, if you're a boss, you're just at the back of the cattle and cracking the whip.
01:16:23.700
And it's like, you're moving at the speed of the slowest cow, you know, like the slowest common denominator in the room.
01:16:32.620
If you're the, a leader, you're standing at the train going, uh, we're leaving.
01:16:44.740
And so I had to get around front of that and say, all right, I'm going to lead.
01:16:49.000
And then I went to this Christian conference with a guy named John Maxwell, who's become a great friend.
01:16:53.640
He's one of the top leadership speakers in the world.
01:16:56.460
And he, um, he said, you know, you, you should be a servant leader.
01:17:11.300
And what he meant was you got to love your people and you got to care what's best for them.
01:17:16.400
And sometimes that means telling them hard truth that they don't want to hear.
01:17:20.500
Sometimes it means they can't work anymore because they can't behave, you know, uh, that kind of stuff.
01:17:26.760
And so I realized I had been serving my kids by making them brush their teeth against their will.
01:17:31.820
And, you know, so they have some teeth later that's serving them.
01:17:36.960
And so, yeah, I'm good with servant leadership.
01:17:45.200
I thought everybody else was going hard and I was pissed off cause they weren't keeping up.
01:17:48.620
And I'm like, well, you hired a bunch of donkeys and expect to win the dadgum Kentucky Derby.
01:17:54.780
So we had to look for thoroughbreds and have a donkey ectomy and it was a problem, man.
01:18:02.160
And, and I've, I'm, I, I mean, I'm a world-class leader today.
01:18:08.600
The way this place functions and operates, it's one of the best places in Nashville to work.
01:18:18.360
We care about them and we expect high things out of them.
01:18:26.080
I think that's something that I did have slowly like had to, yeah, that's been an, that's
01:18:32.240
Like even just having a few employees and it's like, you're suddenly a, yeah, you're suddenly
01:18:40.960
I think just a realization like, oh, I'm the boss, I guess, you know?
01:18:47.180
And I'm like, well, I was just trying, I was just trying to get crap done.
01:18:55.000
And then you brought all your crap with you when you did that.
01:18:58.540
So, you know, and that, that's been, that's been a 30 year journey.
01:19:05.220
That's so, it's really, it's such a good way to look at it.
01:19:09.740
Um, and would you go to conference and stuff to learn about that stuff too?
01:19:12.520
Cause I'm sure you had to evolve in that space.
01:19:15.720
And so I'm going to read, you know, leadership books, business books.
01:19:20.160
I love to get new information in this digital age and old guy like me.
01:19:24.280
I got, I get, I get, I'm sitting in these meetings with these studs and I, I don't even know what they're saying.
01:19:37.540
And so, um, yeah, I still do that stuff and I still, you know, hang out.
01:19:41.920
And the good news is some of the guys that are the best writers and thinkers in the world have become friends over the years.
01:19:49.520
I get to talk offline with them and they still teaching me stuff.
01:20:12.820
Yeah, I was like a big John Grisham fan when I was growing up.
01:20:19.260
Daniel Silva's the guy, the guy, he writes like, uh, the, uh, the character of the prog, uh, prognosis is, um,
01:20:26.760
uh, an Israeli Mossad, uh, spy, you know, versus Jack Carr's is a former SEAL team and, you know, and Brad Thor's is all the same stuff.
01:20:37.120
You know, they're, they're all former Delta, former SEAL or whatever, that kind of stuff.
01:20:39.880
So it's in the same genre and I've read all of his stuff too.
01:20:43.100
But again, I just, that, so yeah, I do read fiction.
01:20:46.540
Um, when people look at like, um, there's an election this year, it's an election year.
01:20:53.420
When people look at the election, do you feel like who they vote for could have an effect on their future finances?
01:21:04.160
Um, not as much as the candidates would like you to believe.
01:21:08.620
Um, it turns out that I've done stupid stuff under every single white house and I have done smart stuff under every single white house and I've increased our size of our business under every single white house.
01:21:20.400
None of them have been dumb enough to destroy my life and, um, none of them have ever sent me any money.
01:21:26.480
So most of them don't even send me my money back.
01:21:28.880
So, um, so, you know, what happens at your house is way more important than what happens at the white house.
01:21:36.580
It changes whether we've got $3 gas or $5 gas, you know, um, you know, uh, and, and that matters.
01:21:43.440
Cause if you run a heat and air company and you got 30 trucks out there and you're trying to feed your family and trying to feed that guy who's on that truck's family and the gas price doubles on that, run that truck down the road to fix somebody's heat and air.
01:21:55.560
And then that guy wants a raise and it ain't there cause some doober at the white house turned the faucet on or off on the wall.
01:22:03.340
And so, um, you know, policy does matter in that regard cause it affects things and policy during, uh, stressful times matters because it caught, whether people feel, Ronald Reagan didn't do anything special, but he made people feel like it was going to be prosperous.
01:22:19.300
Whether you agree with him or not, he, he was a, he was a motivator.
01:22:27.020
I, he didn't really have any magic wands that he waved at the Reaganomics or, you know, raise, uh, an art.
01:22:33.320
Art Laffer that wrote the Reaganomic stuff lives here in town.
01:22:41.100
But art Laffer did not turn America around Ronald Reagan, but Ronald Reagan made people believe again.
01:22:47.060
And when you can believe instead of believe everything's bad, it's horrible, it's divisive.
01:22:53.940
And then the economy starts to, that, that stuff does have an effect, but you can win in any situation.
01:22:59.240
So, uh, vote for, vote for who you want to vote for.
01:23:02.280
Um, but don't vote for them cause they're going to fix your life cause they're not.
01:23:08.220
Um, in the end, it really comes down to you, doesn't it?
01:23:11.820
You still believe that it really seems like that.
01:23:14.560
Um, you know, John Stossel wanted to interview me many years ago, went back when he did 2020
01:23:20.340
And he was a scary dude cause you know, if he's going to go come at your throat or whether
01:23:25.700
And we went down there and we were sitting off stage or on stage, I guess, doing the interview.
01:23:30.520
And he said, you know, I've read all your stuff and I'm, and he goes, I think, uh, I don't
01:23:36.280
think you're as much of a conservative as you think you are.
01:23:38.800
He said, I think you're a, uh, a social conservative and an economic libertarian.
01:23:47.400
And so, yeah, the economic libertarian would say, you know, uh, if it's to be, it's up
01:23:53.180
to me, get up, go mow some grass, get your pressure washer, get your butt in gear.
01:23:58.260
And you know, the government's just something you got to overcome.
01:24:04.280
If I'm waiting on the government to lift me, all I can think about is the DMV line.
01:24:08.560
I mean, come on, you know, so I'm not, so I'm that guy.
01:24:11.900
Um, but it comes out of my Scotch Irish redneck history.
01:24:15.060
You know, I mean, the Scotch Irish are always been fighting everything.
01:24:20.200
I think a brave heart, you know, as independent blood pressure too.
01:24:23.720
That always looking for a fight, you know, um, always looking to stir something up.
01:24:29.560
And so I, that, you know, I've made a good living doing it though.
01:24:44.860
Is there a better place to see a football game than Neyland?
01:24:55.680
The past two years has been definitely a good time to get on board.
01:24:57.720
Not good being with 110,000 people when you're losing, because they are angry rednecks.
01:25:06.360
We had, uh, suites for, uh, suite seats for years when our kids were down there.
01:25:11.680
And so we'd go down almost every game and, but the kids are grown and got grandkids and
01:25:23.060
Watch it on the TV now, but better, better experience anyway.
01:25:46.580
Um, have you ever been approached by, uh, like, I know you've had different, um, obviously
01:25:53.000
books and, and, um, like programs for people to achieve wealth and to save their money.
01:26:00.500
Um, do, have you ever like had a package or something that you've taken to like a shark
01:26:05.060
tank or to like, uh, um, uh, something like that where they've tried to know, uh, because
01:26:17.720
And again, we've lost a lot of money, done a lot of stupid stuff doing that, but we've
01:26:23.240
And so, um, I mean, we're the second largest talk radio show in America, 680 stations,
01:26:30.060
about 10 million listeners on talk radio alone.
01:26:38.240
Not a good way to get to be number two, but it happened.
01:26:44.780
So it was, it was, uh, and both of them did pills too.
01:26:48.240
I think, to be honest, but that's, I have no idea.
01:26:52.840
But yeah, they, anyway, so anyway, we started in that world when it grew and grew and grew
01:26:57.380
And I remember the day a guy walked in my office and said, Hey, we need a podcast.
01:27:08.880
So we were one of the first podcasts on Apple way back.
01:27:13.780
And cause a lot of people on talk radio didn't want to put it on podcasts because it competed
01:27:23.320
And you know, now, I mean, Spotify, Apple, we're number one, two, three on Apple, right
01:27:28.940
in there hovering me and Rogan and some NPR, uh, murder mystery stuff or something, you
01:27:36.440
So we're bouncing around in there and we've had a billion and a half downloads now.
01:27:43.680
So yeah, you start, you know, you start new stuff and then YouTube, good God, the numbers
01:27:52.800
And so now those two have now eclipsed, um, the, the talk radio business.
01:27:57.380
And so now I'm a podcaster apparently, um, at least you evolved with it though, you know?
01:28:04.360
I mean, we're, wherever the, wherever the action is, that's where we're going to be.
01:28:07.020
And we didn't abandon when we didn't, we're still dancing with the girl that brought us,
01:28:11.040
So we're still with talk radio, still got 680 stations, still love talk radio.
01:28:14.800
Uh, but, and you know, we're on Sirius XM, Sirius XM came on, it was two companies, Sirius
01:28:26.440
And then we put it on YouTube and then, then, you know, Facebook live.
01:28:39.280
So, but the, um, but Hey, you know, and cause you never know which one of these things is going to
01:28:47.540
And you don't know which one of these other things.
01:28:49.460
So I don't want to bet this whole thing and all these 1100 people are counting on me on
01:28:54.980
So we're, we're always innovating, always changing and moving.
01:28:59.120
Um, yeah, it's because yeah, you kind of don't know what the, yeah, you don't know what the
01:29:05.580
Um, there was something you said a second ago where like you made some money and then you
01:29:14.800
That I think is a big, like one of the craziest things that ever happened to me was I was podcasting
01:29:21.160
in my apartment and a guy came along and he said, Hey man, I'm going to give you some
01:29:33.020
He said, I'm going to pay some ads for a pizza place.
01:29:36.860
And, uh, and he said, let me give you some money.
01:29:42.180
And my first thought was, I want to keep that money.
01:29:47.920
I'll just, I'll just do it in my, to my, in my apartment till it fades out.
01:29:51.720
And then I'll have the money I made from the ads.
01:29:55.540
He just saw that thing that I couldn't see of putting the money back into getting myself
01:30:02.020
It's a little bit of a different place when people come, it's more of a business.
01:30:05.260
And now, you know, it was so hard for me to see that though, you know?
01:30:09.700
Well, and we get to see, I mean, those of us that are fanboys of your work, we'd see a
01:30:13.980
whole nother side of you that, you know, their standup.
01:30:17.040
And then these long form interviews that you're doing, and I'm here, I said, who knew that
01:30:20.580
was going to happen, but I mean, I've seen a bunch of these long forms that you've done.
01:30:26.300
And it's where people start to recognize what those of us in the business of being on stage
01:30:32.040
or in front of a microphone have known, we know, uh, for those of you out there, you
01:30:35.520
don't know this necessarily, but most of the top flight comedians, um, are very bright.
01:30:45.260
It's more than one of the more, more hard art forms to do acting.
01:30:49.700
You can be dumb as a rock and be an actor because you just try to be somebody else.
01:30:56.160
I'm sorry, but, but, uh, but I mean, comedy is, uh, you're, you're, you're messing with
01:31:01.860
You're messing with every part of things that mean something to them and you're twisting
01:31:06.180
it at just the right way with right, with the right hesitation, the right move of the,
01:31:13.740
We, you know, we doing motivational speaking or teaching, I teach our guys, if our audiences,
01:31:19.520
if we got 2000, 3000 people in audience, if they don't laugh, laugh every seven minutes,
01:31:23.780
we're going to lose them and we're not comedians, but we have to study what you guys do.
01:31:29.380
So getting to see you do this has, it's brilliant.
01:31:35.800
I mean, he moved from, you know, comedy into those long forms and what everybody loves
01:31:51.860
Oh, if you stop, I had dinner with him the other night after the UFC fights and yeah,
01:31:57.060
You better, if you're going to sit down with Joe Rogan, you better be ready to learn something.
01:32:00.420
It doesn't matter if it's over a bowl of soup, a microphone.
01:32:10.200
But what is the mentality that people, it's more of like the mentality of like investing
01:32:17.260
Because there's that fear that I want to just save this, you know?
01:32:24.980
If you realize that no matter what you try, some of it's not going to work, give yourself
01:32:30.500
Then you say, okay, we're going to put this money and we're going to take some home and
01:32:34.020
enjoy it and be generous with it in the community and invest some of it.
01:32:38.300
But we're also going to invest some of it in the best investment, which is, you know,
01:32:42.820
the freaking goose that's laying the golden eggs.
01:32:45.480
Let's, let's, you know, let's have lots of these geese.
01:32:47.420
Let's get, figure out different things we can do, different ways we can move this business
01:32:57.120
Do we, um, to create an environment that is a whole different thing than when I rent, uh,
01:33:05.480
And we'll always go to these other cities and always be on tour, always do these things.
01:33:08.840
But, but the events on this campus feel way different to the customer when they come in
01:33:14.320
here, because we can control all the freaking variables.
01:33:23.020
I got a two dB drop from the front of the stage to the back of that auditorium.
01:33:30.980
And you don't, you know how that sound crap is.
01:33:33.060
It sounds even worse in our world because we're voice.
01:33:35.480
Music, you can just turn it up if the sound's bad.
01:33:38.100
You know, but man, you get in these auditoriums, you got bounce back, stinking hockey arena,
01:33:41.680
stinking, hitting the concrete wall coming back at you.
01:33:45.260
You can hear yourself three times and can't even tell what your timing is on stuff.
01:33:51.840
That's, that's a reinvestment back into something we know is going to work.
01:33:58.140
It was tough for me to like realize that one of my greatest assets can be myself.
01:34:02.880
You know, and be like, well, what if I really want to invest in something to invest in myself?
01:34:10.960
Like there's a lot of fear around generosity sometimes, you know, about like, I have to
01:34:17.720
What is your journey been like with that in life or what have you learned about it?
01:34:23.320
There is fear around that and fear is the motivator is, is if I give it away, I'm going to have
01:34:27.940
less, which mathematically, you know, if I take a thousand bucks, I give away a hundred,
01:34:33.840
So yeah, I'd get less, but that's a short term mentality.
01:34:37.580
And, um, what I finally figured out after studying this all these years and watching people
01:34:42.740
who are generous, there's a real correlation between people that build wealth and people
01:34:46.880
Um, very few wealthy people are really super greedy and don't give.
01:34:57.740
They're very open-handed because they know they can get some more.
01:35:00.460
So what happens is generosity is not an action.
01:35:07.460
There are actions that come out when you have integrity.
01:35:09.960
There are actions that come out when you are generous.
01:35:12.660
Generous people are the one to hold the door open for you.
01:35:14.600
Generous people help you pick up the groceries when the stupid bag, they fall out and they're
01:35:17.740
rolling all over the parking lot in the grocery store and you're embarrassed.
01:35:20.340
But the generous person runs over and joins the party and helps you pick up the canned goods and all that.
01:35:27.000
The generous person is other-centered instead of self-centered.
01:35:40.740
Think about the vendor that you want to do business with.
01:35:45.620
You want to deal with a selfish person or a selfless, other-centered person?
01:35:51.860
Well, generosity makes people highly attractive.
01:35:58.280
Not because they're going to give us money, but just because of who they are.
01:36:05.260
And so there's this huge correlation between generosity and prosperity.
01:36:09.320
You tend to prosper because people want you around.
01:36:12.440
They want you in the deal because you're not there for what you can get.
01:36:16.340
You're there for what you can give, and we're all going to win together.
01:36:19.880
We don't have to kill each other to win, you know?
01:36:22.280
And so that's how, like, Rush or Sean and I in the old days or other people in the talk radio business.
01:36:28.240
Laura Ingram was doing a talk radio show in those days.
01:36:33.260
Even though we were competitors, we were head-to-head.
01:36:36.180
If I knock Hannity off a station, I get that station.
01:36:40.020
But we also know I don't have to kill him to win.
01:36:43.760
I mean, I don't have to completely – so we don't – I never talk bad about my competitors in that world because I want to be a generous person.
01:36:53.140
I've actually helped every one of those people do different things over the time.
01:36:56.260
And so it's just interesting that – and then the giving of money is a natural result for someone who has the character quality of generosity.
01:37:07.840
So, you know, and I watch people – okay, here's the stupid thing.
01:37:12.780
He pulls up in front of me at the restaurant, the valet parking right here in Nashville.
01:37:29.360
So I'm – but the guy that's working valet, he's out there in the sun.
01:37:42.120
And this guy pulls up in a Mercedes, and I know the car.
01:37:58.520
You know, it's a nice truck, but I pull up in my truck.
01:38:13.160
But you didn't give Ferris Bueller's Day off the keys to your Mercedes for $5.
01:38:21.180
That lack of generosity is short-sighted where it sounds like I'm some kind of big guy
01:38:25.700
because I gave $20 or whatever to park my stupid truck.
01:38:32.460
Hey, my truck didn't – there's nothing wrong with my truck.
01:38:36.200
The kid had a good night, at least partly, because of me.
01:38:40.000
So I think everybody came out on this transaction.
01:38:48.100
Not slow, but I think it's just been – yeah, I just came from such a fear mentality.
01:38:55.300
You know, we just didn't have any money, so it was like – I remember I'd keep my money
01:39:01.720
I would spend half my day hiding my dang money, boy.
01:39:07.020
I met this guy who's an Orthodox Jewish rabbi, and we've become good friends, Rabbi Daniel Lappin.
01:39:17.340
And he said the problem is when you have that fear is you think money is like cake.
01:39:30.220
When you light another one, you still got your candle.
01:39:32.200
You light another one, you still got your candle.
01:39:35.080
Money will grow around you when you're doing the right stuff that you're supposed to be doing.
01:39:50.520
I know you said other-centered earlier, which I thought was a term you hear a lot of times.
01:40:01.340
But it's – honestly, it's taught me how to be a better human being because I really wasn't a good one.
01:40:11.220
I grew up – the crap we did, man, and the way I behaved in my early years of my life –
01:40:29.300
And it turns out, again, better people have better lives.
01:40:32.160
So the whole character shift through the faith walk of meeting Jesus and changing that, you know, it cleaned up my view of things.
01:40:44.560
It cleaned up my actions and how I react and those kinds of things because, I mean, again, I grew up where it was, you know, a Scotch-Irish thing.
01:41:02.640
And so you got to go in – you know, they don't want you back on the show if you're a butt in the green room.
01:41:07.820
And so it turns out that all worked out for me.
01:41:11.280
So, you know, the re-transformation, the be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, Romans says in the Bible.
01:41:28.500
But like I said earlier, I'm a lot better husband than I was.
01:41:31.740
I mean, even with my grandbabies, I'm playing my grandbabies.
01:42:07.460
So, yeah, I guess it's central to everything if you want to look at it that way.
01:42:21.220
Did you, when you look at your future now, like what are things that you still want to do?
01:42:25.840
You've had so much success and such the opportunity to lead people, to make financial choices.
01:42:32.400
You helped my stepdad pay off our house because of knowledge he learned from you.
01:42:37.680
And so it took him a little bit, but I remember one day he told me he'd heard it.
01:42:43.340
And then probably 11 years later, eight years later, something he said, house has paid off.
01:42:52.160
You know, things that move the needle and I get to see something move with a little bit of scale out there where we can affect someone's life.
01:43:04.620
I went in and, you know, this YouTube thing with a billion and a half downloads on that thing.
01:43:10.180
Now, it's a whole new market that, uh, talk radio was old white guys, right?
01:43:18.600
And so Sharon and I were in Best Buy and these two kids are like 17 years old, run up.
01:43:24.500
Like I'm some kind of freaking rock star or something like, man, I love your YouTube stuff.
01:43:29.620
It's like, man, I just paid cash for my first car because I'm watching you.
01:43:33.020
This stuff on TikTok's so funny and man, thank you.
01:43:36.040
And there was like, Sharon's like, golly, they're 17 years old, man.
01:43:41.720
That kind of, that kind of stuff is worth, that makes it worth coming down here every day and, and, you know, flipping on the switch on the microphone, coming up with something, figuring out a way to connect and, uh, and be authentic.
01:43:52.740
You can't just, you can't manipulate these platforms.
01:43:55.100
They're too, they're too nuanced and there, there's, um, people can see a fake a mile away.
01:44:05.080
I think especially now there's so much stuff out there.
01:44:07.480
It's like, um, yeah, you want to try and be as authentic as you can to your own experience, you know, and you've had a lot of great experiences.
01:44:14.000
And so you want to be able to share those, you know, um, in a way that feels comfortable to people.
01:44:18.120
And, um, and obviously you guys have been doing that and doing it really well.
01:44:24.520
Like what is some of your just basic advice, Dave, if there's somebody who's, you know, uh, they feel like maybe they don't have a chance.
01:44:31.500
Or something, what would you give a, just a, what's your kind of pep talk, your financial guidance for somebody like that?
01:44:37.120
Somebody who's just like, you know, they don't know if they can figure it out.
01:44:42.880
They don't know if they have a ton of hope for themselves.
01:44:45.380
Um, you can't change everything about them, but what are some things you remind them of?
01:44:49.460
Dr. John Deloney, that's one of our Ramsey personalities on our team has done a lot of trauma studies.
01:44:56.420
And, um, he says when you're in the middle of trauma, like he's done been on police calls when they go in and there's a, uh, you know, murder or a suicide or something in the home, extreme trauma.
01:45:07.260
And, uh, your body physically reacts to trauma.
01:45:13.360
And he says the way to walk through those things is facts are your friends.
01:45:22.040
And so when you feel stuck and hopeless, you got to back out and start looking about, okay, here's what's really, here's the numbers.
01:45:36.900
And so oftentimes when someone calls on the Ramsey show, that's all we're doing.
01:45:56.480
And how much, you know, do you have in retirement?
01:46:03.700
Now, so the facts are that you really have plenty of money coming in and you bought a car you
01:46:19.620
You know, it's like, so, but all we did was peel back the drama that our, all of us, our,
01:46:33.700
And, and all we do is cut the dadgum trees down so you can see the forest, you know,
01:46:39.960
And so, um, you know, okay, here's your reality.
01:46:43.680
And it's like, you know, a lady called not long ago and she was, uh, she said, they're
01:46:57.960
I said, one thing you can do is just go get another house.
01:47:13.440
And I'm like, what, you know, we'll just go get you another house, but let's learn
01:47:16.480
about the details of the foreclosure and see if we can stop it.
01:47:18.580
We were able to actually figure out how to stop the foreclosure.
01:47:20.620
But, you know, the reality was her whole life was coming to an end on Friday and it's
01:47:30.860
You know, it's like, but we get just, you know, we get just hammered.
01:47:37.120
A lady was being foreclosed on a different one.
01:47:43.960
And she's got two little kids and the workers' comp didn't pay out.
01:47:49.560
So the house got behind and she's getting ready to be foreclosed on.
01:47:52.720
And we're like, uh, she owed $60,000 on a $300,000 house.
01:47:56.720
I'm like, no, you are not getting foreclosed on.
01:48:03.620
And another roofing guy called our office while we're on the air and caught the house
01:48:10.160
Other people stepped in and heard the story start taking care of us.
01:48:13.840
I'm a hundred percent sure it's not going to happen.
01:48:16.680
We're not losing this house, $300,000 house for 60K.
01:48:24.160
The situation, the variables had taken her power.
01:48:32.200
And so we weren't frozen up and we could see what everybody, everybody listening, everybody
01:48:37.600
Of course, we're not going to let that house get sold.
01:48:42.480
You know, you're not going to give it away for 60.
01:48:54.880
To somebody that's starting out right now, they're just starting out in the world.
01:49:01.300
How much money do they need to save if they want to have some freedom in the future?
01:49:06.620
Well, the first thing we tell them is get out of debt, everything but the house, and then
01:49:10.360
have an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses.
01:49:16.120
And so once you're at baby step three and you have three to six months of expenses, you
01:49:22.700
And so you have savings to pay off for three to six months in case something happens.
01:49:34.300
If you're going to buy something else, you save up and pay for it.
01:49:36.900
But to answer your question, baby, step four is invest 15% of your income.
01:49:40.780
When you don't have any payments except a house payment, you can save 15% of your income.
01:49:46.080
And the average household income in America right now is $72,000 a year.
01:49:49.360
If you save 15% of 72,000 from 30 to 65, you're going to have about 5 million bucks
01:49:57.840
So if I'm like five X wrong, you're still a millionaire.
01:50:04.300
It's like, but, but you can screw it up because you live in America and you can get a $1,200
01:50:09.820
You can't afford to impress people to stop light who don't even care about you.
01:50:15.040
But, um, or I need another truck, you know, or I need another, whatever.
01:50:21.400
So then we say for kids college, uh, six is what your stepdad did.
01:50:26.100
By the way, oddly enough, 11 years is the average millionaire that paid off their houses
01:50:30.580
in 11 years, 11.2 years in the study that we were talking about earlier.
01:50:34.180
So, so that's one of the things that people did to become millionaires.
01:50:36.920
They walked right there on baby steps, millionaires.
01:50:39.300
They walked right up this, they get their house paid off in an average of 11 years.
01:50:43.480
Some of them seven years, some of them 14, but an average of 11.
01:50:46.760
And then when you don't have a house payment, dude, I mean, that's two, 3000 bucks a month.
01:50:52.720
You got bank to be generous with bank to be investing.
01:50:57.540
You can relax at your house and get in the bath.
01:51:03.980
I'll buy a dang bird bath and sit in that thing.
01:51:06.720
And if I'm debt free, I sit in the front yard in there and dang, use some dang soap up.
01:51:14.660
Dave Ramsey, anything else that you want to share with her that you think?
01:51:19.000
I feel like we've been through a lot of avenues.
01:51:26.620
You're watching your career and watching you clean up and get right and doing stuff.
01:51:40.200
And then two years ago, I'll be like, man, wouldn't it be crazy if we got to have Dave Ramsey on?
01:51:47.180
And then you could tell him you were underwhelmed.
01:52:01.960
I mean, there's probably a clip for almost everything these days.
01:52:05.820
For everything you want to find out about finances, how to take care of yourself, how to move forward.
01:52:13.940
You can call into his show every day if you have a question.
01:52:17.440
And there's some great videos of some of the best questions that they've had online as well.
01:52:41.940
Oh, but when I reach that ground, I'll share this peace of mind.