Urijah Faber | This Past Weekend #146
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1 hour and 56 minutes
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Summary
Uriah Faber is a former UFC Welterweight champion and former welterweight title holder. He's also a serial entrepreneur and has built a business empire that keeps him on top of the world. In this episode, we talk about how he got started in the business world, what it's like being a kid growing up in a small town, and what it takes to be a professional fighter.
Transcript
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Today's guest managed to plant the seeds of an entrepreneurial business mastermind,
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all the while becoming a champion in the world of cage fighting. He's no longer fighting,
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but he's got so many things going on in the business world that his career just continues to climb.
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But no, I've never seen anybody. I mean, that's really just making the most out of things.
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Bro, when I was in the lobby and whatnot, I tried a napkin. I was trying a couple different things.
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Because you just took an Aquafina wrapper off of a bottle and then used it because it's thin enough to floss your teeth with.
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I remember driving around my dad's old beat-up truck, and he always had toothpicks or he had a little crappy toothbrush.
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She'd keep it in his center console, and he was constantly digging in his teeth.
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So we must have genetic teeth gaps that store food.
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It might have been a survival tactic back in the day.
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Or I'll grab, if I'm in a restaurant, I'll get a couple toothpicks and keep them for the day.
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She's like, I've never seen somebody floss her teeth as much as I do.
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And look, yeah, I'm not more damaged than I already am.
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Yeah, you're like I'm not a machine breather at this point.
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But I just can't handle having a bunch of crap stuck in my teeth.
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Now, is it because you worry that other people see it?
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Like, I'm just trying to wonder if it goes back to a place in you that resonates in other areas of your life, you know?
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I think like, you know, I just think it's kind of fascinating, you know, because you like, you know, a lot of guys have, you know,
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gone through fighting and been and had an experience in that world.
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But you like kind of seem to also attack like kind of the business world and like continue to, you know, just keep whatever your motivation was or maybe to fight.
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But you keep that motivation just cruising right into whatever the next thing is.
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So I guess I'm just wondering like if organization is one of your skills, if there's like...
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I think if I take it back, I do remember my mom always saying, you know, she's saying, you're really lucky.
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You better like all that kind of stuff since I was little.
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She also used to tell me if I wore too tight of underwear that my wiener wouldn't grow.
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Which I don't know if that's true or not, but I think she was, you know, I was a guy that likes to keep old shit.
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They try to get me to get rid of my shoes and my favorite shoes, throw them away.
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This shirt's like nine years old or something like that.
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Now, when you were fighting and stuff, did that change in your fighting style?
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Or do you feel like the fighting style that you had when you started was kind of the same?
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Because I know you've just kind of, you know, I don't ever want to say somebody's finished from something, but finished like a year ago.
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My intensity was always the same, but style changes.
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And like you said, I don't know how much you do or don't know about the sport.
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So I'm excited though and I admire the fact like, you know, I've always been kind of like, I guess, afraid to defend myself or I grew up that way without like a lot of like, you know, somebody teaching me how to defend myself or letting me know when it was okay to defend myself or anything like that, you know?
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So I think it probably just comes from, you know, we grew up in like kind of a scary area and we just not having like a father, you know, like that kind of overly strong figure.
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And being just probably afraid, you know, like, but anyway, so I admire that you guys can do that.
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When they say, they say that two of the most feared things in human beings, period, is a physical confrontation and public speaking.
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But yeah, it's a scary, and it's weird to think about that for me, for, you know, 13 years of my life and before that as a wrestler, my day was filled with fighting guys that are also some of the best guys on the planet.
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So you get rid of that real quick, but it's also something that can be scary.
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And that's why it's probably so intriguing to people, you know?
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Same with the reason you can get up and be funny and, and not afraid to introduce yourself.
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Like for some people, that's a scary, scary thing.
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So when, when you talk about like, has things changed as a fighter, especially when I first started, I was coming from a wrestling background.
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I wrestled in college at UC Davis and I had to, uh, you know, make ends meet.
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I was busting tables and coaching kids wrestling and making a couple hundred bucks to win and, um, just having fun with it really.
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So I definitely changed as a fighter skill wise.
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I got better with things, but the same mentality is, is, is important.
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You got to just believe in yourself and people get knocked down on that kind of stuff.
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Like you may think you're the, you're the funniest dude in the world and you get up there and you can't get anybody to laugh.
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Maybe that shakes your confidence or else you're just like, I am the funniest guy, but you know, blame it on something.
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Or I need to hit another, I need to practice my jokes better or whatever.
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You got to keep that mentality that you've got something and then, and then change it around.
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So fighting style changed a lot throughout time, but same mentality, same mentality.
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Is it, is, is, is fighting the kind of sport where you're, you're most, everyone is, is humbled pretty often.
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There's humbling moments, but you have to be a little bit delusional.
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Also, I think, uh, you know, you talked about Conor McGregor.
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I don't think, you know, people like, Oh, cause I know him.
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And they're like, is he faking it for the, this and that?
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And I'm like, no, he, he's, he's a, he's a funny guy.
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He's got a little bit of a temper and he really, really believes all the stuff he's saying.
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And I, and I've got to, he's almost delusional to a point.
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Delusional of success, delusional to a point of success, which is, you know, you got to be
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When you look back and see him, so like even in these clips and he's, you know, uh, in
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the clips when you guys were on the UFC show, um, and he's all, yeah, I mean, he shows up
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He looks like Pee Wee fucking Herman right now.
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He looks like a pimp, uh, in, like in, uh, on Martha's Vineyard, you know?
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But do you think that he, like, even at this time he had this kind of bigger vision or he
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was just like maniacal or do you think it was just, uh.
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It's just like me or anyone else that's become a world champion on that level.
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And, and had this type of success, you envision it, you believe it, you're thinking it's going
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to happen and, you know, it's just matter of fact, like it's going to happen.
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Maybe you guys can find it when he's a kid saying, I'm going to be a champion of the world.
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I'm going to have more money than I know what to do with.
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And he just, you know, got pimples and, and shaved head and, uh, it's cool to see, you
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And you fought, I mean, dude, you fought, I mean, you were just always fighting.
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44.5 was a world champion at, uh, uh, you know, at the highest level when, when I was
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20 something years old and I maintained it for a while.
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I was the top contender my entire career, had a lot of title shots.
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Uh, even when the UFC came, the UFC and the WC merged.
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So I was the WC and the UFC, the UFC owned the WC and all the lightweight fighters from
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So when they merged, I went into the UFC, I was 32 at the time and I kept going after
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So, you know, 13 years, I was in the top three in the world and, and, uh, had a lot of fun
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My dream is to be world champion, world lightweight champion in the UFC, have more money than I
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know what to deal with and have a great life for my, my kids, my grandkids, everyone in
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my, in my family, everyone that's, that's come up with me.
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He just basically spells out what's happening right now.
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Did you, like whenever, so if you start to look at like, you know, what's happening right
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like success like that, like really envisioning it.
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And I think everybody probably hope has like an idea of success.
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Do you think that in your own life that you saw like a vision of success?
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Do you think that success is just something you've constantly, constantly seen, like
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Like, what do you kind of feel like success is in your life?
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Cause you've had success not only in fighting, but now in business as well.
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If I ever give a talk, a motivational speech or talk to a big company, I, you know, I just
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And for me and for a lot of the successful people, the same common things come up and
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You can, you know, get up after you get knocked down and all this stuff.
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Um, and I remember I was working at a wrestling camp in, in Tahoe.
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Um, I worked there when I was a freshman in college all the way through into my career
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as a, as a champion in mixed martial arts and everything else.
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And I was a freshman or a, I think a freshman or no, I was a, my first year out of college.
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So this is right after wrestling at Davis, right after wrestling at Davis.
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And I was up there coaching and I had traded a, uh, a parachute shorts for the CD that
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And I had a cassette tape, put the cassette tape that hooked up to a ghetto CD player.
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And I put that CD player in there and it was a song.
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It was going, I'm going to be bigger than Jesus and bigger than wrestling and bigger
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than the Beatles and bigger than wrestling plants.
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I'm going to be the biggest thing to hit these little kids, bigger than guns and bigger
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And I just bought a $350 car cause I had a other $400 car that broke down and I left.
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It had like triangle windows and it beeped when it backed up or, uh, that was one of them.
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And, uh, the car was shaking and I had this little cassette thing with the thing and I
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had this CD and I was just envisioning being on TV and I had had like two fights in any
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Yeah, I started to feel the fire and I was just envisioning like, but this is in, this
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is in 2004 when there was no, it wasn't that big that time.
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The biggest name guys were getting paid like 150 grand if they won the whole thing.
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So you would have to even, you'd have to get up to that weight to even compete.
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Um, so my first fight was, uh, I, I just eaten everything I could to weigh 149 pounds.
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And, uh, and then I fought at 155 for my first fight and I fought this big Mexican kid.
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Honestly, like obviously you were in shape, but to put on that much weight, that's a lot.
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So we're, we're, we're put, we're cutting down all this weight and then putting it back on.
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I was, I was eating to do that, but I was, I was, you know, ripped.
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And, and, uh, and went in and I just remember I got scared.
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I didn't get scared, but I got nervous for the first time when I, uh, saw the casino.
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We drove up on the Indian casino cause it was illegal in California at the time.
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And I, and I remember the hair standing up on my neck.
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You're, you're driving out of country to, out of, out of the state to do Indian casino fighting.
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That is, it was the only place where it was legal cause it's sovereign land.
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It wasn't that far from me, but we had to go where, where they could do whatever the hell
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And I'm getting paid 200 bucks to show up, 200 bucks to win.
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I gave me an extra 50 bucks and I fight this big Mexican guy.
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But hey, don't knock him if he had gay pride too.
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It was gay fist fighting that would come to the bars in Louisiana.
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And it was a couple of gay guys that would get in there.
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Uh, I mean, one of them was fucking, dude, nobody was fighting this dude.
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Dude, there's a whole like, like trend of every once in a while, like every like year
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or two, like a lady boy just comes up and whoops people's ass.
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And there's actually a movie about this one lady boy chick who like made it to the Lumpu
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Nyao Stadium, which is like the big show and like was fucking dudes up.
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But she's all, you know, it's like a, it's like a, like a super accepted thing over there
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It's like, oh, are you, you know, like they're trying to do it here in America, you know,
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make everybody like gender neutral and everything else like your hair.
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But I, but I, for some sports, I think like sometimes it's like, um, with some of that,
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it's like everybody, it's like, yeah, support everything.
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Like Bill Burr the other night was saying, you know, they keep making everything also for
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But some of it is just like, to, it's not like he goes, but nobody goes to the WNBA
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Title nine, title nine is, is something that all college athletes know about.
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There had to be an equal amount of resources going to women and men.
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And so there's a little animosity there, but it does make sense that, you know, women should
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But, um, sometimes it was like, you know, the cause of forced programs, you know, going
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down and then they'd like throw in women's rugby and there'd be a couple of chicks that
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And then they got big girls are making them get out there just because they're, you know,
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You know, I remember one girl that got stung by a bunch of bees and they made her get out
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Like, you know, I just need a couple of EpiPens and I'll fucking recover.
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You had to get stung by bees to be a rugby player.
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That I'd have a little more, uh, I go watch that.
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The area you grew up in, Davis, there's a lot of rugby and stuff up in that area, like
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And it's funny because I don't know how it is in other countries, but for here in the
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So, um, rugby, you get a lot of tough guys in there, but they're usually, you know, George
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Dude, I remember they had to do, you just reminded me of this.
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They would check for sinkholes cause Louisiana really isn't supposed to exist.
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Because I mean, it's like New Orleans is eight feet below sea level, you know?
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So really it's like people, you know, trying to like build a universe in a, in the bottom
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of a teacup, you know, and then get pissed when tea shows up, you know, when there's
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a little bit of chamomile on your shoulders and suddenly you're furious.
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It's like, what the fuck are you built down here?
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But they had a dude, they had this company would test for sinkholes and they used to
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They'd hook you to a chain, put a chain on you, put the thing around your waist and have
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And if you fell right through the fucking earth, they yank you back up, they yank you
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But then they're like, Oh, this is dangerous land out here.
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I think some of that was just back in, in like, you know, times were a little bit different.
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I mean, I'm 38 now, so times were a little bit more fun.
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Not, not for the kid getting sun cold, but for everybody watching, maybe.
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You know, I went to a, I did a USO tour with Carlos Condit, Michael Bisbing and BJ Penn in
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We went to Afghanistan, two helicopters, and we went to all these different places and whatnot.
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So there was, we were at like a fence and there was like the civilian people that was
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living in the desert and there's about six kids that ran up and it was like, like a flock
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They come up and they're like, Hey, Hey, Hey, trying to get our attention and this and that.
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They're talking to Michael Bisbing and Michael Bisbing said, my name is Michael.
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And then Michael's like looking to go throw him some shit and everything.
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And then the, the, uh, the people were the, the military guys like, Oh, don't feed the
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And then the guy started telling us back when it was unregulated that they used to do all
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Like they would tie like toys and candy bars and stuff like that to, to ropes and kids
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would go grab and they'd yank them and stuff like that.
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And then they all got in trouble cause they're, that's meathead shit to do obviously.
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But, uh, it was weird to see that fucking, that dynamic where these kids, like they come
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They'd come up and talk and then, and then, uh, uh, uh, a military dude would show up and
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Almost like when the zookeeper is there, they skip off and when it's just like people watching
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They see something dangerous and flock off and then run back and try to get some candy.
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What do you think the most famous people on the planet are?
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Like Jesus Christ, Michael Jackson, Michael Jackson, maybe, um, Elvis Presley, Mary, maybe
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that photo of Mary with like the Bay or like, you know, where you kind of see the little
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Maybe I'm just trying to think of, yeah, like images everybody would see Muhammad Ali, Muhammad
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For this day and age, if you were to go over to somebody, the rock day now, the rock.
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I don't, I can't tell you what Ariana Grande even looks like.
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Do you, uh, so now that you've had a year and a half away from fighting, like what are
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You know, that's a great, that's a great point.
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There's a lot of things that you don't miss about it.
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I remember having the same thing with wrestling.
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Then you get in the mixed martial arts world and, and you're basically fighting people
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You're constantly having to, you know, nourish injuries and things like that.
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I don't miss having to do the grind, like forcing yourself to do stuff when you don't
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want to do it, which some people don't do anyways.
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And those aren't the guys that are the top guys, but most guys that are at the highest
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level have to do a lot of shit that you don't want to do to accomplish some of
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So I want to stop you right there and just say, so when those moments arise where
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it's like, you don't want to do something, what are some, what were things that you
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used or things you did to do like that contrary action?
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Even though I didn't know I didn't want to do it.
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I mean, uh, just first off the, the, the bigger picture, you know, looking at, looking
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I wanted, uh, to be a world champion or I wanted to have this house where, you know,
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material things or having the, the family that you want.
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Um, I just think about the things that motivate me and all the benefits that come to being
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Like if you're laying there and you think, fuck man, my alarm just went off.
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Well, of course you don't want to go to the gym.
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But do you want to go to the future that has you feeling of cheat?
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Do I want to be, be able to go sit in, uh, by the ocean in, in a cool place in Mexico
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and, and drink some beers with my chick or my buddies, uh, and not have to be working
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Cause that might get you over that hump of, yeah, I might not want to go to the gym.
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But is it easy to say that I don't want to go to that bigger picture?
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And I, and, and that's for me is, is the part I enjoyed is, you know, I like the challenge.
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I still, for my, for my workouts, I'm still getting in and competing with the guys that
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Do you still train like you're, I do, but just for jujitsu mostly, I'm trying not to get
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hit in the head as much because that's something that you have to do is you have to get your
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So I do a lot less sparring every once in a while.
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I'll spar that means actually punching or kicking or elbowing or kneeing, that kind
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To be fair, his team was like a purebred team of his guys.
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And one guy in particular, Gordon Ryan, who's like the best in the world that we recruited
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on our team because we didn't have a heavyweight guy.
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Now, is that that, I know they just had a trade between, who's the fighter, the-
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I mean, trades, the word trade has never been even muttered in our, in our sport before.
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So the fact that they're doing that is kind of interesting.
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One FC is the biggest organization outside of the UFC, not here in America, but because
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They're in like hundreds of millions of Asian homes.
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And the UFC hasn't necessarily been able to, to hit that market.
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They've, they've tapped the international market, but they didn't focus just on that.
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It's like, you know, there are specialists, one FC over there.
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They, they cater to a different, you know, a different culture.
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And so, uh, actually Matt Hume, who is the trainer, Demetrius Johnson, he also runs one
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So for that to have happened, it took some involvement with him.
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Um, I think Demetrius had, had, you know, been a little, you know, disenchanted with the
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He never was a massive draw, even though he's one of the biggest six successes in the sport
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So the opportunity for him to go have a career in the Asian market, he's like a video game
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Uh, he's like a real quirky, you know, fun guy.
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Um, it it's, it's probably a better fit for him.
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And I think, you know, giving enough pushback on the UFC, you know, they've got their ducks
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They're going to have to pay him a lot, even though he's not the champion dude, cause he's
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So they may not see the give and the get, but it's interesting.
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Maybe that's going to like create a bigger, yeah.
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Do you think it would be is, is, are those two leagues and you know, I don't know that
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So are those two leagues, um, would it be a thing where every year that they have a fighter
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that goes against each other for like a, it has an overall, like a new belt or something.
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I would say probably not unless one buys the other, which I don't see happening.
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But, um, but they have in the past, I know that Dana White went over back in the day
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And I know Dana had taken over Chuck Liddell as a UFC representative to go fight Alistair
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You know, when you're dealing with individuals that are, that have the say, you can do whatever
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You know, and it was Lorenzo and Frank Fertitta.
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And, and, but yet they bend the rules all the time.
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And also Ben Askren is a guy that talked a bunch of shit on Dana White back in the day
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They said because he was too boring, which they say, you know, cause he was a wrestling,
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like a racing based guy, but it was really, he talked a ton of shit on Dana White.
00:27:01.280
It was like, you go to your bot, your future boss and be like, you're a fucking idiot.
00:27:08.100
And they'd be like, Hey, can I get a job though?
00:27:10.420
Like, I know like Nick Diaz, I know has always been like outspoken kind of against things.
00:27:14.120
And I think, you know, sometimes it's put him in like a tough spot, you know, it's
00:27:17.360
put him in a tough spot, but you know, it's like, you know, I mean, he speaks from
00:27:21.140
the heart, you know, I mean, not trying to switch to Nick or get you to talk about
00:27:24.020
that or anything, but I just remember being in a conversation with him one time and he
00:27:26.880
was like very outspoken about that sort of thing.
00:27:40.680
Like my brother, you know, had a, uh, little mental illness at one point.
00:27:46.220
He was just being unpredictable and, uh, but he's smart as hell and didn't really care.
00:27:54.180
And you don't know these blood, he knows how to play the game, but he do unorthodox shit
00:27:58.780
where he'd like, sometimes he'd go all in and sometimes he'd just fold or whatever.
00:28:16.260
And then it's like, then everybody wants to see the fight.
00:28:19.500
We're not, we said we're not fighting for the money.
00:28:21.100
And then they'll go nine rounds at a produce section.
00:28:24.820
One of the best fights is when Diaz fought, uh, I forget the guy's name.
00:28:31.900
They fought and Diaz lost the decision, even though, oh, it was Frank.
00:28:36.820
Uh, it was, it was Riggs, Joe Riggs, Joe Riggs and Nick Diaz.
00:28:40.880
They fought each other in the ring in 2006 or something.
00:28:44.740
Then they both go to the hospital after a close fight that I think Riggs got, but Diaz
00:28:50.340
Then they fight in the hospital in the emergency room.
00:28:54.240
One of the best before and after fight stories.
00:28:56.960
And do they have the video of them in the emergency room too fighting?
00:28:59.400
Uh, I don't know, but there's probably a story if you, if you look it up, but that's great.
00:29:02.960
Uh, so I think you can see them like talking to shit, being held back.
00:29:07.520
You know, what's funny is about, uh, you know, or what's it, what's unique as you're talking
00:29:13.240
When I think about Nate Diaz, I think about him more talking shit than I do fighting.
00:29:19.700
When I think about him in my head, it's like if somebody is like, oh, Nate Diaz, the picture
00:29:23.100
that pops me in his head is like almost, yeah, him fucking, you know, like him being him more
00:29:29.060
than it is like a, uh, like a memory of a certain fight of his or something.
00:29:32.540
It's kind of interesting because other fighters, the same thing doesn't happen as much.
00:29:36.680
Hey, you know, when you think of cowboy, you think of a cowboy hat.
00:29:39.800
When you think of the California kid, you think of blonde hair smiling.
00:29:43.060
When you think of Nick and Nate Diaz, you think of middle fingers and, and, and heads up
00:29:49.660
So, you know, they're, they're branding, whether they're trying or not, they're doing their
00:29:57.200
I actually like that was one of the first fighter people that I ever met was Nick Diaz and I was fascinated
00:30:09.560
I mean, they come off, they're, they're one as a unit when it's them against the world.
00:30:13.760
But like, as far as like getting to know them, like Nate is way more mild than Nick.
00:30:20.680
And he's a little bit more like, you know, dependable as far as like showing up to places
00:30:26.660
Like he can tell you about health food and he can tell you about jujitsu and he knows
00:30:35.080
It's kind of a weird dynamic, but, um, they're fascinating brothers, man.
00:30:41.640
But when you said he wore, he wears his heart on his, on his sleeve, man, it's exactly
00:30:46.100
Like I could, like one minute he was like the toughest guy and one minute he was also like
00:30:50.300
at the same time kind of, um, I don't want to say the sweetest guy cause I don't mean it
00:30:54.800
like that, but he was like the most endearing, endearing.
00:30:59.340
Like it was, it was almost fascinating to be around that.
00:31:06.420
I've always, you know, been, been rooting for those guys.
00:31:14.080
So I've rooted for him and almost anybody he knew so much in a weird way.
00:31:20.080
Um, so now that, now that you've gotten out of fighting, did you start, was there a point where
00:31:24.720
you started to like, look at business after did you start to like, you know, do things
00:31:32.360
I definitely was preemptive of the business and it was more out of a means.
00:31:35.840
Like if you look back at me from a business standpoint, my first business was top of the
00:31:43.960
And I started that when I was a struggling fighter, just graduating college.
00:31:49.080
I, I basically was getting paid a couple hundred bucks to show up a couple hundred bucks to
00:31:55.320
Uh, I, that in Tahoe, is that the place you're talking about?
00:32:03.580
I was an employee for the, for the college making $7,000 a year working 10, 10, that's,
00:32:20.980
Then I, then I'm bussing tables, uh, at, at Inc., which is a little late night place,
00:32:28.540
After wrestling practice, I go and I started TLC, top of the line coaching.
00:32:32.180
I'm coaching kids at two different schools, cash under the table.
00:32:36.100
And then in the summers, I'm working wrestling camps and the wrestling camp I was talking about
00:32:45.260
But for me, I graduated college with a great degree and I'm just like, I'm like living
00:32:56.440
I'm working like 17 hours a day, but I just, I'm, I'm skating by and I'm not getting, I
00:33:03.360
My appointment's like, I mean, my, my apartment's like 250 bucks a month.
00:33:07.340
I took a crappy little room in a, in a, in a apartment with two of my buddies from college
00:33:13.100
and, um, you know, you must have had a positive attitude during, I mean, that seemed like something
00:33:17.940
you must've had, like a real, like almost a disposition that you were born with or something
00:33:21.420
because yeah, some people would look at that as like, fuck, I got to do all this work.
00:33:25.720
It seemed like you were looking at it as like, oh, this is great.
00:33:30.220
And, and, you know, I, I remember, and I talked about before the thinking big thing, like how
00:33:35.420
Like the people I've met, I've met billionaires and, and successful movie stars and musicians
00:33:40.820
and, and clothing moguls and, and, you know, all these different walks and it's, that, that's
00:33:49.820
And then definiteness of purpose, like knowing what you want, like going after that, that,
00:33:54.960
that thing that you want or having your vision for yourself.
00:33:57.700
And all through high school and college, I had a late start in wrestling and I always
00:34:01.940
write down my goals and I don't know what it was in, in high school, I would write down
00:34:06.780
my goals and I always wanted to be, you know, an all American top eight in the state.
00:34:13.400
That was once I got to be, be able to think that big, but I never wrote down be a state
00:34:21.520
It's, it's, you know, no one else in my school had gone to the state.
00:34:24.140
But you're skipping a step, all American, you're skipping the step of state champion, right?
00:34:31.520
Being an all American is top eight in the nation.
00:34:40.220
And I wrote down to be top eight as my biggest goal.
00:34:43.700
It was, it was first to get to the state tournament.
00:34:49.160
Like, cause I was working just as hard as the state champions and I had the gifts that have a state
00:34:54.440
I was, you know, I had, I was doing extra shit.
00:34:58.200
I'd run to school, ran like 13 miles to school one day.
00:35:02.120
Dude, they, this reminds me, they had a guy on, he was on, um, the UFC, the fight show that you guys did.
00:35:12.900
He was like kind of this big, he was from Alaska and he went to Louisiana.
00:35:18.620
When I went to Louisiana state, he was there and I remember he would, this was made me think of this.
00:35:23.580
He would run across campus with his girlfriend on his back in the morning, bro.
00:35:28.380
And you would see him running across just to stay in shape.
00:35:31.760
And he was the first person I ever met in my whole life.
00:35:34.620
Uh, he was a really sweet guy that talked about UFC and MMA.
00:35:37.260
And he would, when people heard him talk about it, it was almost like listening to somebody like
00:35:40.720
that had come from a mountain, like talking about a rare thing they'd seen in the woods.
00:35:49.400
I went, I went to Sam Hoger's gym years back and had done a seminar for him.
00:35:56.560
Like you do these extra little things and you're, and you're a gifted athlete.
00:36:03.220
And I was raised up healthy and I, um, but why did I not put down champion only top eight?
00:36:09.960
Then I went to college and I, I, and I, I had, I lost a four guys in my state tournament.
00:36:20.880
Three of the guys, three of the guys came to the same college I went to and, which is
00:36:30.040
So you were training, so you were working with champs pretty much every day.
00:36:33.340
I was, I was working with champs, but the point was I got there and when I, when I, when
00:36:37.860
I went there, when I went there, three of the guys that beat me in high school, um, and
00:36:41.720
placed better than I did came to the same school.
00:36:43.840
So, and I set a new set of goals, which is to beat those guys and beat the other guys
00:36:50.080
Again, I started low, started low, started low.
00:36:51.820
And I got to a point where I beat out all those guys.
00:36:56.960
I made it to the national tournament and then, which was my goal.
00:37:01.300
And then I wrote a goal to be an all American, which was top eight.
00:37:11.660
Cause sometimes I'll think about that kind of stuff.
00:37:15.320
Like, you know, I'll think about like, you know, I want to be, you know, great.
00:37:23.660
But, but it's also, I don't want, this is interesting.
00:37:27.660
I'm trying to feel this and think about this at the same time.
00:37:31.160
Like if I say that I'm great, I don't want to, or if I think that I can be great, it's
00:37:36.320
almost like for some weird reason, I'm, I don't know if I'm ashamed to say that.
00:37:42.500
Like, I'm trying to think of what that feeling is that would make me, you know, like admit,
00:37:52.440
First off, the fear, it's a double-edged sword.
00:37:55.920
If you never say it, there's no accountability.
00:37:57.640
It's a lot easier not to say something because then no one's going to point and say, hi, you
00:38:06.800
It's just like, I don't want to say like I'm in this for the depths of it because, wow,
00:38:14.040
It's crazy that, that commitment level and realizing, and that's what I realized after
00:38:19.840
I went in and I, I beat a guy, I beat two guys that were national champions the next year
00:38:28.200
And so what I went to, to my, my next phase of life in my next thing I was going to go after,
00:38:35.480
And now that, that's what I'm talking about with thinking big.
00:38:54.000
In the biggest show, they only had a weight class of 170 pounds a night and I was 133
00:39:04.420
And, and, and, and the big period, in the, in the big show, there's three shows a year
00:39:13.140
And yet here I am graduating college with a degree from a great university and saying,
00:39:23.560
Well, here's what I'm, then here's my question is, did you think though, that it was going
00:39:29.740
Or did it seem like this is just kind of a wild thing that's going on in the world right
00:39:36.540
Like you can't, I mean, you don't know that it's going to grow.
00:39:39.780
So, you know, when somebody asks you to come down to the ballpark and play a game of like
00:39:42.880
unique six on six or football or something, you don't know, maybe years later, it's going
00:39:49.920
And so, mind you, 2003, 150 grand is still pretty good money.
00:39:59.620
That being said, I also got my emergency teaching credential.
00:40:05.760
So I also have my emergency teaching credential.
00:40:07.780
So I was going to start substitute teaching for like 11 bucks an hour.
00:40:11.100
Then I took my first fight and I beat up this kid in a minute and a half and forget that
00:40:16.840
I had trained all through high school and college as a wrestler.
00:40:21.020
In my mind, it was a minute and a half of work and I got paid 400 bucks to show up and I
00:40:28.740
I made 450 bucks, almost 500 bucks in a minute and a half.
00:40:33.980
And I had all my buddies there and a bunch of hot chicks and I'm the center of attention
00:40:45.900
You know, like, so is it, it's about perception.
00:40:48.840
Now, when you have money in the bank and you're looking at, what the hell was I thinking?
00:40:52.940
But at the time, I was going passion, all passion and just thinking big, you know?
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I'm trying to think, uh, well, I'll get back on the, what I was saying about, well, you
00:43:40.800
And, and, and perception is fascinating to me because that's, I mean, it's the thing
00:43:43.960
you talked about a couple of times, you know, like looking at the big picture, you know,
00:43:50.680
Uh, because that's the thing that I, that I even noticed in myself and it's a constant
00:43:54.480
battle is when I'm in a good mindset and I'm able to perceive the bigger picture and actually
00:44:00.020
like be brave enough to even admit to myself that I want to try and like, yeah, be great.
00:44:09.940
It's like, it's, it seems fascinating to be great, but it also just, yeah, something
00:44:16.680
So is other people keeping you accountable, then also you've said it out loud.
00:44:28.100
I met some of the best video gamers on the planet and I got to talk to them about what
00:44:32.460
You know, even you, you know, I, I, I, I set it up on your path to where you are now
00:44:37.600
and it was, you know, a lot of stuff over, you know, 15 years.
00:44:51.720
And, uh, so when you do that accountability and you say it, then that changes things.
00:44:55.940
And that's what I did when I got out of college, I realized, so now I'm coaching at the college
00:45:00.940
and I'm seeing guys that I beat that, that are all American and national champions and
00:45:08.480
And I know that I've worked harder than these guys.
00:45:10.900
Cause you're realizing you're in their classroom.
00:45:12.200
You're realizing you beat them and these are guys are doing well.
00:45:15.320
And I'm like, why did I not put down the champion thing?
00:45:19.460
I'm living in my little apartment, um, bus and tables at Inc.
00:45:23.060
I'm coaching kids and I'm, and I'm coaching wrestling, working like 17, 18 hours.
00:45:43.860
Oh, you think owning two houses harder than being the world champion?
00:45:46.240
Well, I mean, yeah, these days, this is where we talk about perception and then, and then
00:45:52.620
the last one was on a, a healthy and successful business.
00:46:02.400
It's very easy to be the world champion of, of, of the hardest sport in the world, but you
00:46:15.060
I think at these LA prices, it would seem a lot more feasible.
00:46:24.260
Uh, let's, so we have questions that came in from some fans.
00:46:26.700
We're not aborting our conversation, but I just want to, uh, chop some in here and there.
00:46:32.740
And you'll be able to hear one of the ones that came in.
00:46:35.300
Gang, gang, Rat King, Theo, thank you for taking the video call.
00:46:44.160
You got them relaxed Cobras on the end of his fucking arms, his little nubs, by the
00:46:51.340
Do you have any books or conditioning tips or anything that you would recommend that I
00:47:02.800
Any tips on real, uh, real estate investing, you know, anything that you'd know, you wish you
00:47:07.460
knew, uh, when you started getting into your guys's, uh, monetary endeavors, you know what
00:47:15.520
Thank you very much for everything that you guys do.
00:47:29.300
He's more fired up about, about my life than I am.
00:47:32.700
Uh, but those questions are almost, it's almost crazy.
00:47:35.380
That's the questions that came in because we just stopped right here on real estate.
00:47:38.680
So, and I know that that's part of the world that you're in.
00:47:43.440
One was if you had any real estate investing advice that you wish you had known earlier.
00:47:47.300
And then he said also any good books or things that you should do to prepare for a fight.
00:47:52.860
And he also said, what's up to Andre Touchy Feely?
00:48:01.200
He's got an outcast and underdogs, uh, music label and his clothing.
00:48:17.320
Um, you know, he wrote Three Thinking Grow Rich.
00:48:20.020
But he has the, also the laws, I forget the, I forget the rules of success.
00:48:25.300
That's what he talks about, positive mental attitude.
00:48:28.240
And, um, uh, yeah, there's Touchy Feely right there.
00:48:33.040
I just produced a movie and we put Feely in it.
00:48:39.420
No, it's called Green, uh, it's called, uh, Green Fever.
00:48:50.460
So, even outside of books, though, what are practices, I think, that, you know, like,
00:48:56.480
I would say, for a guy like that, he seems like he's passionate and a happy dude.
00:49:18.640
Both Lee Kemp and Dan Gable were both two of the best wrestlers of all time.
00:49:22.480
And the commitment level these guys had is what set them apart.
00:49:26.600
Just deciding they're going to do something and then just, just going after it.
00:49:31.680
And then I would say, you know, you got to put yourself in uncomfortable positions.
00:49:38.520
I mean, I hate to run the way I run because I run until I'm, like, fatigued in a short
00:49:44.380
And, uh, I would do some, some hard pushes where your lungs are blown out.
00:49:47.960
Do five-minute rounds as fast as you can for as long as you can.
00:49:55.580
He's probably going to fight three-minute rounds, but.
00:49:58.640
Or you could give somebody a fucking hatchet in your neighborhood a dude that's trouble, you
00:50:05.160
If you wanted to get old school with it, you know, do that, do those hatchet runs.
00:50:09.740
Um, so, so, so those are some of the things you say, like physically that the guy could
00:50:15.600
And I, and I would say, you know, I just, I just watched a Ted talk when I got over here.
00:50:20.600
Look for as many of these motivational things as you can get, because it all ties in together.
00:50:24.860
Like we're talking about, um, you know, you got to believe that you're going to win.
00:50:31.480
And then, you know, you have to go out there and do it.
00:50:33.980
So, uh, I would say, you know, get on some of these subjects on, on, on the internet and
00:50:39.180
start, you know, book on tapes, uh, stay motivated, stay motivated, find motivators, find motivators,
00:50:45.820
and then get yourself out of your comfort zone when it comes to fitness and whatnot.
00:50:49.840
When you got into business and stuff, did you start to realize like, here's one thing
00:50:53.320
that I've learned, like, or started to question and see that there's things that I'm not good
00:51:00.040
at and to let some of those get help with some of those, let somebody else do some of those.
00:51:05.240
Cause I come from this thing where it's like, I'm afraid to let anything go.
00:51:08.800
You know, like it's just, uh, it's not my nature.
00:51:12.520
How did you, did you have moments where you came to that or were you, did you always kind
00:51:16.600
I've always, I've always been pretty good at delegating just because I'm, I feel like I'm
00:51:21.080
real self-aware and I understand my, my strengths pretty well.
00:51:26.720
And I know some of my weaknesses and I'm also not afraid to share in things.
00:51:30.620
So, um, which is sometimes it, it comes back to bite you, but as a general rule for me,
00:51:36.480
it's worked out, you know, I'm okay to give inclusive, give something to someone to help
00:51:42.020
motivate them as long as they're pulling their weight and they're like-minded and I trust
00:51:51.280
And we asked, we told him he can't ask for one for another year.
00:52:06.040
And then on top of that, just always, just like the fight game, you're just always trying
00:52:11.600
And I've been learning that I've learned, I've taken some hard knocks in the business
00:52:17.080
And, and it's been, you know, having conversations like this.
00:52:28.480
There's, I believe 11 of us in the group, all from different walks of business.
00:52:36.800
We, there's like a gestalt way of, of communicating, which means we talk about our experiences, not
00:52:44.160
You have to like speak from your own experiences, what you've done, like, oh, like I had this
00:52:49.380
happening, like, oh, I had an experience that I can relate to where I was doing this and
00:52:53.400
someone tried to sue me and you have to share your experiences.
00:52:58.380
Um, but the truth is like, you know, a business is 90% of the time, just a group of people.
00:53:07.380
And I mean, there's products and there's this and there's that, but you have to, you know,
00:53:11.700
work with managing people and be able to delegate and be realistic what you're, you're good at
00:53:17.040
Um, you ever heard of the shoestring millionaire, the guy that, you know, the guy that made
00:53:28.980
No offense if anybody's a rapist or sorry, but no, I don't know what I'm talking about,
00:53:32.900
but I feel like murders and rapists always get like some of the craziest names.
00:53:42.500
The whole backstory to that is, is, could be great.
00:53:46.320
Well, maybe we'll make a Frenemy movie about it.
00:54:00.780
And this is where Nick's salary goes up because this is where he comes in.
00:54:07.560
So, uh, do you, have you found that you enjoy one more than the other being a businessman or
00:54:13.280
being a fighter or do you find that really they were the same thing and you're just doing
00:54:21.040
As long as you're passionate about both, you know, I've been passionate about the business
00:54:25.380
And again, I started out my business through necessity.
00:54:31.440
Then I ended up doing alpha male shirts while I was selling tickets and shirts to make,
00:54:40.080
Then I started a, uh, a gym where I brought in a guy that, that wanted to start a gym.
00:54:48.400
My dad did the construction for, for a cheap price.
00:54:51.380
I helped, you know, you know, dig holes and build stuff in addition.
00:54:55.840
Then I started a management company, um, before anyone knew who I was.
00:55:00.580
And then, you know, it spurred into more and more things and just learning out of necessity
00:55:07.060
And for me, the bit, being a businessman is the same as, as the fight game.
00:55:11.860
It just allows me to live the life that I want to live on my terms.
00:55:16.140
When I, when I want to do things, uh, who I want to be with, you know, that kind of thing.
00:55:21.560
And that's, that's what I'm always fighting for.
00:55:23.820
And that's what I'm always pushing for is the ability to do that for the rest of my life.
00:55:27.760
And of course you have to do stuff like we talked about that you don't want to do
00:55:31.440
in order to do the things that you want to do, but you want to try to get those down
00:55:38.280
I feel like Joe Rogan's a good example of that.
00:55:40.640
I mean, that's a guy that he loves fucking fighting.
00:55:45.200
He loves interesting, weird shit and like talking about it.
00:55:56.900
He has a dude in his warehouse fucking tinkering with clocks right now.
00:56:00.900
There is no doubt that Rogan one day is just going to fucking set a watch.
00:56:09.620
What if he already went back and he's your dad?
00:56:11.920
What if one day he just shows up with a tattoo of his family on his arm and I'm in one of
00:56:21.160
One of the gifts I noticed he has is the constant ability to stay curious about things.
00:56:30.220
Like it's almost, I don't know if that's a gift or something that he nurtured over the
00:56:33.220
years, but yeah, he has the ability to stay curious about everything.
00:56:36.880
But also, yes, he's created a life where that fits the life that he wants.
00:56:41.220
Like he doesn't take on like television shows and that kind of shit.
00:56:44.300
Like they're always throwing that stuff towards him, you know?
00:56:46.640
So, um, but he's like, I'm per, this is what I want.
00:56:51.480
And that's, that's, that's through a lot of hard work and dedication and probably doing
00:56:54.860
some things he didn't love to do at points here and there and, and finding his way.
00:57:01.020
It was about, I think he's talked about it where he was talking about, you know, getting
00:57:06.280
And we had a conversation this, and then I got mad at him for something he said on one
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And it was a stupid, immature conversation we were having.
00:57:16.720
And at the end of the day, he goes, man, I don't care about money.
00:57:19.880
He goes, the whole reason he goes, I don't do things for money.
00:57:22.360
He goes, the whole reason I have, you have fuck you money.
00:57:30.740
And he, he's been a, he's been a, uh, you know, a big part of the mixed martial arts world
00:57:37.680
He kind of, uh, you know, we were just talking about this earlier that if there was ever like,
00:57:44.200
um, like if the world was going to end and everybody was going to listen to one guy, like,
00:57:51.580
Like if Joe Rogan's like, Hey, I'll see you guys in Denver in six days.
00:57:54.580
Well, you at least, well, I don't know about that.
00:57:56.860
Like I would, I would say, I would count that he wasn't trying to hoax us and like say,
00:58:03.840
And he's really has to go somewhere else to say.
00:58:09.020
But do I know that, that I believe that his idea is the best?
00:58:14.780
Because he gets on some fucking tangents sometimes where I'm like, are you serious?
00:58:21.880
I remember he asked me one time, man, the hardest thing sometimes is to keep up with like,
00:58:28.180
It's like, it's hard to like, um, yeah, he just likes to think he's like, you think you're
00:58:34.940
I'll tell you what, you're not the only Theo though.
00:59:06.040
And they're also the tallest group of people on the planet.
00:59:09.340
And I ironically got my short side from my four foot ten great, great grandmother,
00:59:16.320
And my Italian grandfather was nearly seven foot tall.
00:59:30.400
You can be things at Halloween that other people can't be.
00:59:37.620
You could hide on, let's go to a call, actually.
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Actually, we have a call I think is going to fit this.
00:59:44.760
I'm huge fans of you both, and I have a question for Uriah.
00:59:47.700
Yeah, I'm particularly not a very tall guy, and I know you're not either.
00:59:52.580
And I was just curious if growing up, if you ever had like little man syndrome or if
00:59:57.100
your size or stature ever affected you in any way.
01:00:07.260
I never really had that, and I think it's because I'm delusional.
01:00:15.680
I think I did a great practice when I got my ass kicked or something like that.
01:00:26.420
You can be 5'6", babe, and help your freaking sibling out.
01:00:33.400
And I think it was because I always got treated with a lot of respect.
01:00:44.300
When I was young, I used to do a lot of, like, I used to do commercials and, like, runway
01:00:54.040
But I will say, you know, I have experienced, like, just other people thinking that way.
01:01:02.820
Like, it would be shocking to me when somebody would be like, oh, well, how is it, you know,
01:01:13.600
There was Tito Ortiz, Randy Couture was out there, Frank Trigg, Quentin Rampage Jackson.
01:01:28.660
All these individuals that were there at this event.
01:01:32.560
And Frank Trigg was the smallest one, but he's a 70-pounder in the UFC, which means he
01:01:51.000
But 70 pounds, I'm like, who's on these City of Hope fights?
01:01:54.880
I remember all the other guys were big guys, right?
01:01:57.840
Like heavyweights and light heavyweights, and he was a 170-pounder.
01:02:00.960
And I told him, I said, hey, bro, tomorrow I got a bunch of guys our size coming.
01:02:04.980
And remember, I was 133 pounds, and he goes, would you stop saying that?
01:02:17.800
And then I'll see pictures, and I'll be like, oh, that guy's about my size.
01:02:23.980
Tom Hardy, I'm like, Tom Hardy's about my size, and Dan Bilzerian.
01:02:28.920
And then I'll see a picture next time, and I'm like, oh, fuck.
01:02:32.820
But, dude, this is so crazy, because this all is, like, it's perception, man.
01:02:37.980
Like, your perception is this bigger picture perception, even of yourself.
01:02:44.260
I mean, I literally, I was like, dude, I met Bilzerian, this was years ago.
01:02:53.760
And then I told someone, I go, yeah, he's just a little guy.
01:02:56.520
He looks bigger on, you know, in videos and everything.
01:02:59.260
And then I later took a picture to send to my buddy of me and Dan, and I'm like, oh,
01:03:06.400
How much different height is there between the two?
01:03:13.780
Yeah, it's almost like a, like, just having that ability, that bigger, but not only having
01:03:21.300
a bigger idea, but having that bigger idea, like, infiltrate your perception.
01:03:27.400
So the bigger idea almost, it's not just a thought, it's like this more, more rounded
01:03:44.260
Yeah, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, and the Indian guy never talks.
01:03:48.420
We had to read that book in school, and the Indian guy saw Jack Nicholson's character as
01:03:57.540
so much bigger than he was, just because it was just, he had a presence about him, you
01:04:04.680
But I mean, there's definitely been moments where I've been in some fights before, where
01:04:08.780
you're from different, I mean, street fights I'm talking about, where you're from different,
01:04:12.840
like, when I got to college, I come from a small town, and I've also been, I went to
01:04:16.700
the same elementary school for, from kindergarten to sixth grade, everybody knows who you are,
01:04:21.300
you know, there's like, there's an awareness of who you are, and no one really messed with
01:04:24.780
me, I wasn't a big fighter growing up, but no one would mess with me, that's, I mean,
01:04:28.460
if they would, they'd be in a fight probably, but it didn't happen very often.
01:04:31.200
But you weren't out picking fights, you weren't that, you weren't like an asshole kind
01:04:35.720
Yeah, just, just nice guy, we lived in a small town, and I remember getting to college, getting
01:04:40.720
in the bar scene, and everybody has different rules of engagement, too.
01:04:44.320
There's a kid from the rich area in San Fran, there's a guy from the ghetto, there's a guy
01:04:47.940
from the small town, but for me, I'm not used to somebody getting my face and trying to punk
01:04:53.580
You know, I got in a couple of great fights with guys that just were playing with different
01:05:02.860
Like, in somebody's neighborhood, you can sit right in front of someone and dangle your face
01:05:06.700
and talk shit and, like, touch noses in other people's neighborhood, as soon as you step
01:05:14.560
It's interesting that it's like the mesh pot of people that come together.
01:05:18.000
You add alcohol to that, and egos and chicks around and whatnot.
01:05:25.780
But no, that's interesting that different people have different rules of engagement,
01:05:28.760
and also you used a term that I've never thought of, great fight was a term you used
01:05:32.840
I can't even imagine putting those two words together, actually.
01:05:35.400
But, so when some, the first time you, like, if you get hit, it doesn't, I mean, I can imagine
01:05:42.660
at a certain point, like, if I get hit in my face, bro, like, I would be, you know, first
01:05:46.940
of all, I have a big nose, so, like, that's definitely going to get hit.
01:05:49.220
No matter where they hit me, I'm fucking getting grilled in the fucking beak, you know, no matter.
01:05:53.600
But it's like, that would, like, I feel like just really make me want to shut down.
01:06:01.700
Were you able to stomach that a little bit more?
01:06:03.460
Well, yeah, because you know how to take a punch.
01:06:05.880
I mean, there's a lot of things to think about, but first off, pain is a different thing for
01:06:11.480
you because you've experienced probably, I've experienced a lot more pain than you have
01:06:18.040
The other thing is understanding how to position my body, how to mitigate the actual damage
01:06:23.320
done, whether I'm getting hit hard or barely slipping a punch or whatever, that changes.
01:06:29.500
The ability to be aware of what's actually happening, they say that it's not the punch
01:06:36.200
that you see coming, it's the one that you don't see coming.
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That's because your brain doesn't know what the hell is happening.
01:06:41.600
When your brain sees it coming and it goes, okay, I just got hit, and it can function that,
01:06:45.920
but if you just get hit, your body's not as accustomed.
01:06:49.860
So when I'm more used to that, I know how to body, use my position, my instincts will
01:06:53.920
allow me to deflect the blow a little bit in the correct way, not just follow instincts
01:06:59.580
Actually train instincts by professionals, and then it's not as big of a deal, right?
01:07:07.680
If you guys are curious where to hit somebody, if you want to knock them out or hurt them,
01:07:11.400
you hit them in the chin, in the upper lip, in the jaw right here.
01:07:16.320
You can sometimes do damage if you can get a guy in the temple or the back of the head,
01:07:21.940
This is where you're going to get your hands broken by hitting somebody, which I've done before.
01:07:26.340
And so, you know, that's like, I just had Bradley Martin.
01:07:38.060
He came out and was on our podcast, and he came out to the gym.
01:07:48.600
He's like a real athlete on top of being a bodybuilder, but he's a real character, too,
01:07:55.760
You know, we're talking about, you know, the fitness stuff, and it's like, he's like,
01:08:01.760
I think I want to learn how to do this and do that.
01:08:03.480
And he's like, do you think you can beat me up?
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And I'm like, I'm like, I mean, there's only one way to find out, you know?
01:08:16.100
And I'm like, I said, do you ever train anything?
01:08:19.940
And then so we had like a little bit of a debate of like, well, I would just pick you up,
01:08:27.280
Well, I had that experience where I had this conversation with a 300-pound guy before who
01:08:32.340
We were both washing the courts for work on the tennis courts in college, and we're out
01:08:40.100
there, and we're talking about this subject, and he's saying, I'd just grab you by your
01:08:42.920
neck, and I would just grab you by your neck, pick you up, and slam you.
01:08:47.700
And I'm a Division I wrestler at this time, and he's a star football player, like a defensive
01:08:58.320
Trollia, if you're out there, what's up, buddy?
01:09:00.220
And so we're out on the courts washing, and I've got my shoes off and my shirt off.
01:09:06.240
I'm just wearing shorts, and he's in there, and he's got his shoes on, whatever.
01:09:09.340
And we're talking, and he goes, I go, what makes you think I'm going to let you grab
01:09:14.640
He goes, I'll just grab you by the neck and throw you on the ground.
01:09:18.100
And so this culminates into me and him getting into it on the cement, and he's 300 pounds,
01:09:24.100
and I'm 140 pounds, and I get behind him like this, and he goes, and he does like a barrel
01:09:34.660
roll, and I slam my hip, and I end up choking the guy out at the end.
01:09:38.660
I mean, I choked him unconscious and made him tap, and then my hip was all hurt, and we
01:09:43.100
both felt like idiots afterwards and everything else.
01:09:45.140
But then I was telling Bradley this, and he's like, I guarantee you, I can pick you up and
01:09:58.740
So he's like, I can't because I'm injured this and that, but we're going to do it.
01:10:06.420
I want to feel what you feel like, grab each other, move around a little bit this and that.
01:10:10.560
And he's like, he gets the ice pack off his knee, and he stands up, and we start grabbing
01:10:23.760
And he goes in for a double, and then he goes in and grabs me, and we almost go into the
01:10:29.560
mirror, and then he slams me on the ground and squeezes me, and I'm just chilling at this
01:10:36.900
And he gets up and goes, I want my 5,000 bucks.
01:10:47.800
Was he flexing a little, trying to show his worth, do you think?
01:10:50.600
We were just having fun, and I convinced him to get up so I could feel him.
01:10:57.740
And he said that I set him off by doing something.
01:11:00.740
And so he went full mode, and I wasn't going full mode at the time.
01:11:03.780
And next thing you know, I'm slammed on my back with this 260-pound dude just flexing
01:11:19.180
Yeah, I was going to say, you got to live stream that.
01:11:24.260
And I go, bro, you just won a race that no one else knew was a race.
01:11:41.980
We have a one-minute set where he's going to try to take me down.
01:11:50.380
I mean, he can jump, he can do pull-ups, he's flexible, but he's 260 pounds.
01:12:08.140
Dude, yeah, I've got to start getting in shape, man.
01:12:11.820
Yeah, I don't like when Theo gets all fired up after we have a fighter and he starts trying
01:12:16.140
Yeah, because it's weird, because you guys leave.
01:12:19.580
You guys leave and it's just me and Nick, you know?
01:12:32.380
You talked about a hip injury a few minutes ago.
01:12:36.900
We had Dustin Poirier in the other day, you know?
01:12:42.160
He's a nice guy and he just wants to be the champ.
01:12:48.180
And he took out of the Diaz fight because of hips.
01:12:58.240
Is that the same choice that you think you would make if you're not in top shape?
01:13:02.360
Do you step back from a fight and wait until you are?
01:13:04.300
Like that seems to be like the choice that's most likely to be made.
01:13:10.500
I mean, the truth is, and Dustin knows this, you're never going to go into any fight 100%.
01:13:15.160
But there's, you can always have nicks and bruises and maybe little injuries and stuff
01:13:21.960
I mean, after I lost my first fight in the smaller shows, I fought seven times in one
01:13:25.840
year on these little reservations, making a thousand bucks here, 500 bucks here.
01:13:29.560
You know, that was how I was part of how I was making a living at the time.
01:13:32.620
And there's more of a necessity, but you know, when there's a lot at stake, you want to give
01:13:36.280
yourself the best chance and, uh, the best chance of recovery and everything else.
01:13:41.140
So, um, you know, I, I, I would say if the injury is bad enough, absolutely step out and
01:13:48.600
Cause you know, it's higher, higher stakes now.
01:13:50.540
It's, it's a big deal to every single fight's the most important one in your life.
01:13:54.200
When you look back on your career, was there a fight?
01:13:56.960
Uh, if you could go back and redo one fight, is there one or even a moment in a fight that
01:14:03.340
Um, you know, even as a comedian, I have some moments in my head that like, oh man, like,
01:14:07.900
you know, I taped a Netflix special that I really didn't like, you know, just the
01:14:12.540
And, uh, and I wish I could go back and do that over.
01:14:18.820
And I know, you know, at 44 fights, I've had some where you're more inspired than others,
01:14:23.100
especially me at a time when I was the pioneer for the lightweight fighters and my name was
01:14:28.980
the biggest in every, in, in, in the sport for, for my weight class.
01:14:33.080
It's like every single fight I had everything to lose.
01:14:37.100
And it was sometimes hard to get up for these fights that no one knew who it was and, and
01:14:41.960
So I've had some lackluster performances at times.
01:14:44.780
And then I've also had some, some performances where I've had some bad injuries.
01:14:48.280
Like I hit, uh, Mike Brown on the top of the head in the first round and I shattered one
01:14:55.880
bone and I snapped the other one in a five round title fight.
01:14:58.800
And I remember going back to my corner and tell my trainer who didn't speak any English,
01:15:03.820
And he told me to shut up champion, hit me in the heart.
01:15:11.420
The first fight against Mike Brown, I did like a jumping back fist and overhand, right?
01:15:15.380
Like, I mean, there's been a lot of moments where like, ah, man, I wish I could do that
01:15:21.560
But at the end of the day, it was always max effort was, was exhausted and that that's
01:15:29.060
Do you, you know, I was talking with Dustin about this, um, about the fact that I was
01:15:33.720
looking at some photos of him after some fights and I didn't know what fights they were that
01:15:38.080
And I was just, he looked no matter what, he looked like he'd gone through.
01:15:43.500
It's almost like, it seems like to a guy who doesn't fight or can't fight that you go
01:15:52.840
Like win or lose, just that you test yourself, that you test your metal to that point against
01:15:57.900
another man that, that, that, that is enough of a win in the end that it, uh, over it outweighs
01:16:06.680
And there's guys who make whole careers like that.
01:16:08.800
I think Donald Cerrone, Clay Guida, um, you know, the, those guys in particular have, have
01:16:17.780
made careers like that where, where they're in it and become staples in the sport because
01:16:23.080
every single time they lay it all out there and they put on a great fight and they walk
01:16:35.660
Um, those are guys that, you know, exactly what you're going to get when you watch those
01:16:47.540
I mean, those guys in, in, in, there's a lot of scenarios.
01:16:50.820
I mean, you can make a case for every fight being like that, but obviously there's fights
01:16:56.040
I mean, it's a tough, it's a tough, tough way to, to, to make a living.
01:16:59.860
Once you even made it to the highest level, then staying there and then actually getting
01:17:03.660
paid and then being smart enough not to spend all your money and do dumb things and go
01:17:09.620
I mean, there's a lot of different ways you can screw up in this sport.
01:17:12.600
Do you, uh, do you have younger guys reach out to you now since you've had a success
01:17:17.420
after, you know, not only, you know, success in the, in the cage, sorry, but success actually
01:17:23.340
Do you have young guys that reach out to you now?
01:17:25.100
Yeah, we have a ton of guys, especially on my team.
01:17:27.760
I mean, I have guys that talk to me all the time about, uh, about business that are peers
01:17:33.240
in the fight game and, um, ask advice and stuff like that.
01:17:37.140
Um, you know, I've helped manage guys in the past.
01:17:42.260
We have a lot of guys that have, have started their own businesses.
01:17:45.040
Chad Mendez, for example, he has his fins and feathers hunting business.
01:17:49.280
Um, he spends all his time when he's not training to fight as an athlete, he spends all his
01:17:53.480
time, you know, doing awesome hunts, which he loves to do.
01:17:56.200
And he's, and he's created a business around that.
01:17:58.800
Andre touchy feely just got him in his first movie that I'm, that I produced the green fever
01:18:05.720
It looks like, you know, yeah, no, he's, he's, he's got his own music label and he's
01:18:11.080
got his own clothing industry, you know, his own clothing stuff.
01:18:15.100
Um, Danny Castillo has P2O hot Pilates business.
01:18:18.980
And we have a lot of guys that have been falling in the footsteps and thinking like that.
01:18:24.060
Do you think that that's, um, more of a, like, I, like I look at some athletes now, like
01:18:29.480
I look at LeBron James and it's like, ah, he's kind of too much of a business for me.
01:18:34.140
He's not, it doesn't seem like as much of a basketball player to me.
01:18:40.600
It's like, ah, it's like watching something else go on.
01:18:46.060
Sometimes every time I see him touch the ball, whereas some players, it feels like when they
01:18:49.660
get the ball, that's a player with a basketball player.
01:18:52.660
Do you feel like that as you know, the business side of it becomes bigger that it starts to,
01:19:00.580
Um, it can, I mean, sorry, I got something I threw up.
01:19:15.840
I mean, his, his whiskey company is probably going to be frigging huge.
01:19:20.980
I mean, that was just a massive paid advertisement.
01:19:25.920
If you look at guys that have exited, you know, what who the vitamin water was what?
01:19:31.640
And then we have, uh, was it, was it Robert Downey Jr.
01:19:37.760
Maybe there was, uh, what's the name of the actor who, who sold his, his alcohol brand.
01:19:48.420
Uh, the guy, he was a doctor in, um, crazy anatomy or whatever.
01:20:08.180
Who sold the tequila company that made a ton of money?
01:20:16.440
Bro, fighters against people that are like people that have been hit a bunch and then people
01:20:19.920
who are just not that smart trying to guess things.
01:20:29.100
And we've, I was kind of stockpiling some interviews that I've done over the last year.
01:20:36.660
And we talk about business stuff, fighting, entertainment.
01:20:40.340
I've really been getting into doing the movie stuff lately.
01:20:43.660
I was in the Rocks movie, just a small part called Rampage.
01:20:48.040
And then I've got a slate of movies that I've been pushing for, you know, some producing,
01:20:55.780
Is it just, do you see, is it a cool business thing?
01:20:58.920
Is it something you've just always been intrigued by?
01:21:05.940
Any real estate stuff I've done, and I have to still answer that guy's question about the
01:21:09.380
real estate, I skipped that, has been, they're all projects.
01:21:14.240
My dad's a contractor and he's worked on five different projects for me where I rip a place
01:21:25.840
And so I like creating things and I've always kind of been interested in that.
01:21:33.220
And I've been learning the business over the last nine years.
01:21:35.200
My manager, Mark Shulman, he's a three arts here.
01:21:37.580
I started learning from him years ago by him trying to get opportunities for me.
01:21:45.860
Like, you don't get funding unless you have a, something that's worth some cash, either
01:21:52.680
It's all about the script and then you don't get the, you know, the distribution.
01:21:57.900
You can sell international sales and fund a movie before it's even made.
01:22:02.040
Like, there's all this stuff that you learn and you're like, oh, there's a real recipe
01:22:06.460
Like when I started fighting, there was no real recipe.
01:22:09.660
It was, you know, Indian reservations, sell t-shirts, do this, do that.
01:22:13.780
The road hadn't been paved, but entertainment, you can actually learn it and kind of conquer
01:22:19.820
If you, if you understand, you know, bankable stars and you understand, you know, the distribution
01:22:25.220
and not every movie is going to be a major hit, but you can get a base hit off one and
01:22:28.820
build a kind of a, you know, a repertoire of things until you really master things.
01:22:35.460
So I've been real close on, on finishing a couple of, of projects.
01:22:41.280
We, you know, we've worked on stuff that I'd be in and people in, in scripts that I've come
01:22:45.760
up with and had other people write and that kind of stuff.
01:22:50.360
I could see you in, what's that movie where they escaped from prison a long time ago?
01:23:05.220
I thought you were thinking of The Great Escape with, uh, oh, with, uh, Paul, uh, Clint
01:23:12.500
Or it's, uh, the guy, Randy Newman, Paul Newman?
01:23:18.900
He, he tries to escape for, uh, Cool Hand Luke.
01:23:27.300
So like McQueen, Paul Newman, Clint Eastwood, like that's my kind of shit.
01:23:40.120
Say you're financing a film and it's like, um, it's four guys.
01:23:53.580
Current, current, the guys right now that are actually acting or just that would be fun?
01:24:00.000
Well, Michael Bisping is a smart ass and he's actually a good actor.
01:24:10.520
I'd like probably Nick Diaz would be good for the wild card guy.
01:24:14.220
He might like, you know, he could pop off and get him.
01:24:19.140
He might be like, hey, we're going back into the prison and people are like, what the fuck?
01:24:22.580
He's the quiet guy in the van who doesn't say anything and then all of a sudden goes crazy at the end.
01:24:32.440
He could be like the alpha male guy and then he'd pop off or he could make someone wear lipsticks and be his girl or something like that.
01:24:41.980
He could get Brock in there and then maybe a little guy.
01:24:59.640
He'll put it on sunglasses sometimes for promos and stuff.
01:25:06.240
Yeah, and I don't want to be disrespectful to him yet.
01:25:14.200
The first fight I ever saw was when Diaz fought McGregor the second or third time, whatever the last one.
01:25:18.440
That's the first time you ever watched a fight?
01:25:20.880
And then now I've been going back and learning things.
01:25:22.740
That's because you've been championing Nose to the Grindstone.
01:25:27.680
I was out here in LA and somebody just texted me, are you going to the – what is it with the Dodgers in it?
01:25:35.000
And I said, I didn't know there was a World Series going on.
01:25:44.320
What if there's some things – you know, as you say that, man, I think about like holidays that I sacrificed, like fun parties, staying in college even like with my friends.
01:25:53.400
I remember moving out to LA before college was even done.
01:25:57.320
You know, constant like people's birthday parties, family members, births of, you know, sibling, you know, nieces and nephews' births, just things like that that over the years I've given up because I had to stay and had to do comedy.
01:26:13.280
And, you know, I've kept some of my friends from like old, old friends, 20, 30-plus years friends, but you don't always get to see them, but you always have that kinship and camaraderie.
01:26:25.940
And then there's people that can come into your life that are brand new that you can also build some great friendships with.
01:26:31.280
So for me, it's been like a sit, walk, run, bike.
01:26:36.780
If somebody wants to – like right now, you and I are on the same level.
01:26:40.860
If I want to continue this conversation with you and you get up and you start walking, I've got to walk up next to you.
01:26:46.580
And then if you start running and I want to continue that conversation, I've got to run up to the side of you.
01:26:50.680
And if you get on a bike, I've got to get on the bike.
01:26:52.260
Like that idea right there, it can't take over your world, but there's some level of that.
01:27:01.020
And then, you know, hopefully you bring your friends with you.
01:27:06.020
Or you take the time or you get to a place where you can make time to go hang out with them.
01:27:12.540
But when you're going and you're going and you're going, like you've got to be traveling with the wolf pack.
01:27:21.340
Like, yeah, and suddenly the wolf pack, you just become like one of the wolves.
01:27:28.340
It's like one day somebody's an idol and the next day they're kind of like an amigo.
01:27:33.700
You know, they're always a bit of an idol, but, you know, and they're always respected.
01:27:38.940
Like people that even a year ago were like idols to me or like some of them are like kind of buddies.
01:27:52.880
But no, his DVD of his fights, his highlights, I would carry that around with me and I'd watch it all the time.
01:28:00.940
Because I'd watch it on my computer or whatever else because I just loved the way he fought.
01:28:05.120
Everybody's at a party right over in the distance at a television just watching Roy Jones Jr.
01:28:11.400
I didn't mean I'd bring it with me to the club.
01:28:13.640
It would just get you – but no, it would get you amped up, right?
01:28:16.100
You'd get me amped up and then I'd become friends with him.
01:28:18.900
Before I came here, I was just with Mike Tyson.
01:28:32.860
Yeah, and he's – well, he learned through hard knocks.
01:28:35.300
Talk about a guy that had it all and just had to learn the hard way that, you know, how to be smart.
01:28:41.680
I sat next to him on a plane one time and we talked the whole time.
01:28:46.500
All the rappers, you know, MC Hammer, Hammer Time and the Pants and everything.
01:28:50.160
He seems like the fun-loving rapper, like almost like a Fresh Pints kind of guy.
01:28:54.260
But they said out of everybody, like Hammer would throw down at a drop of a dime.
01:29:08.160
You wouldn't know, you know, who you should and should not mess with until it's too late sometimes.
01:29:13.980
Yeah, that's – I get even nervous about interviewing guys in you guys' world because it's like I don't even know that much about it, you know?
01:29:19.140
Like for me, it's definitely more of a perspective.
01:29:21.900
Like it's the thing in my life I'm always afraid to do for myself, you know?
01:29:27.200
So it's fascinating that people can do it, that it's part of their just chemical makeup at some point to be able to do that.
01:29:36.840
Let's go to a couple more questions and then we'll wrap it up, man.
01:29:43.900
You mentioned how your trainer in that Mike Brown fight, he was like, get out there even though you got a broken hand.
01:29:49.680
And we just saw recently in the Khabib-Connor fight, Duke Rufus told Anthony Pettis not to go out for the third round because he had a broken hand.
01:29:57.160
Do you think trainers should – do you think your trainer should have – obviously you won, so it worked out.
01:30:05.280
I didn't win the fight, but it was one of my favorite fights looking back on because it was just – people became aware because I started throwing elbows only and I just – I lost both hands.
01:30:18.940
I dislocated my thumb on this one and I broke that one and that's like a fight that I go back on and people still ask me.
01:30:28.240
I had 20-something fights afterwards, but they're fine, you know?
01:30:33.700
There were multiple questions you guys touched on at first, but there were multiple questions about that from our listeners too.
01:30:39.200
But do you think the coroner has a responsibility?
01:30:42.600
Do you think they should stop it or I don't know?
01:30:50.040
And, you know, Duke Rufus is a good friend of mine.
01:31:01.960
Master Tong didn't speak a leak of English and I could have a whole couple hour conversation with the guy without speaking the same language.
01:31:09.060
Just by I could understand the stuff he was saying and his points and everything.
01:31:12.400
I got some great life lessons from the guy without us speaking the same language, which is crazy.
01:31:19.540
You know, he has a good relationship with Anthony and I think, you know, when you have a relationship like that, they know what to do.
01:31:26.580
And I know that Brian Bowles, shortly after I had my experience, he lost his world title because he thought he broke his hand against Dominic Cruz and didn't come out to the thing.
01:31:41.860
I just, I was like, I wasn't telling him, hey, I'm done with the fight.
01:31:55.280
I had a deep choke in and I just couldn't hold on.
01:32:00.700
Well, yeah, once you get in that choke, it's like a rodeo on somebody.
01:32:03.580
Is that, is that, does it sometimes start to get, oh yeah.
01:32:06.680
My hand, like we hit, we were standing, we were standing and I had it like this and we hit the ground.
01:32:13.720
Does a choke start to become slippery after a while when you're, like when you have it on someone or when, does that become an element of a choke?
01:32:45.360
She's like, okay, just tap when you're ready and put the dude out.
01:32:51.600
I used to follow her on Instagram until she got married.
01:32:57.620
Let's take a couple more, then we're going to get out of here.
01:33:05.300
I was just wondering what he thinks about this fucking Muppet, Logan Paul, thinking that
01:33:12.640
I just want to get a little bit of insight, see what kind of fucking joke this is.
01:33:26.800
I'm going to have him out on the promotional tour on Sage's side.
01:33:31.620
Dude, ironically, and I hate to, because that guy is obviously on my side of that Sage
01:33:49.940
Then he took six in the state of Ohio, which is one of the toughest states.
01:33:54.000
Sage, on the other hand, has been fighting as a career.
01:33:57.900
Logan's been doing the social media influencer thing and everything else.
01:34:03.040
But the mindset, man, that is the most important thing.
01:34:09.740
Logan would be a big disadvantage, obviously, in the stand-up and everything else.
01:34:12.940
But they always want to see Sage go against wrestlers because he's not from a wrestling
01:34:21.040
And Logan Paul has been boxing for fun against other social media guys and everything else.
01:34:33.160
And then I text him when him and Sage started talking crap to each other.
01:34:43.560
But unless Logan doesn't want to fight him, but I think he believes in himself.
01:34:48.740
I mean, he comes off as a guy that believes in himself.
01:34:53.480
Dana said he should be put in jail if he lets Logan Paul fight in the UFC.
01:35:09.240
I was 23, 24 when I started training for fighting with just a wrestling background.
01:35:15.280
And who are we if we knock somebody that believes in themselves?
01:35:18.040
So, I mean, I know that he has a lot of haters.
01:35:21.200
And I appreciate this guy honoring the fact that UFC is real.
01:35:29.000
But the fact that he's got 17 million followers.
01:35:40.480
There's another thing to actually step in the ring with a Sage North cut.
01:35:51.740
Well, the Vegas odds would start highly in Sage's favor.
01:36:09.640
If he can convince enough people he's going to win.
01:36:17.480
I mean, I have to talk about everyone in the picture.
01:36:20.120
I think getting Logan to actually want to fight.
01:36:33.640
You have one career as a social media influencer.
01:36:42.700
And now you want to prove yourself in a different area of your life.
01:37:00.460
So one of his obviously good skill sets is wrestling.
01:37:03.580
And I would say, I don't know Logan to this level.
01:37:08.480
And I'm sure he's worked very hard to build his following now.
01:37:18.000
But I guarantee you, if you ask him what the things he's worked on hardest on his life
01:37:23.560
have been, it's probably most focus and dedication has probably gone towards wrestling.
01:37:29.440
And I know guys like that that believe in themselves.
01:37:32.260
And I know about a state like Ohio, which takes wrestling very, very serious.
01:37:38.500
So, you know, I think Sage and Logan could happen.
01:38:00.340
Look, it's interesting because where would you go?
01:38:06.080
And also, the thing about the world he's in is you have no way of defending yourself from
01:38:14.600
And there's no like, well, I mean, I think that's why Logan really enjoyed the process of
01:38:19.500
having that fight because he got to like defend himself really.
01:38:25.140
Because he is just a kid growing up in a world that's really judgmental and he's done
01:38:31.960
But at the end of the day, he's a human being who works really, really hard, who has some
01:38:36.740
And he got to go out there and it didn't matter what anybody thought, he's going to
01:38:46.580
Even if you want, whether win or lose, it's admirable.
01:38:49.920
I think what needs to happen is that fight needs to happen with Sage and Logan.
01:38:53.880
And Logan, I mentioned this, you know, raising some awareness for a charity.
01:39:02.300
And we could have Theo and D'Elia versus each other on the same card.
01:39:11.820
Yeah, they got into just like a Twitter beef or something.
01:39:14.360
Chris D'Elia had the most favorited tweet ever slamming Logan Paul in his response.
01:39:23.580
Because you know, Chris D'Elia and I are friends from like 14 years ago.
01:39:34.360
And Chris D'Elia also lost the Fighter and the Kid's Trap to me by 1% of votes.
01:39:39.060
But this was absolutely one of the best things ever.
01:39:41.540
I don't know what Chris D'Elia said first, but Logan Paul said, I'm laughing because now
01:39:53.620
He was like, he started off with the wrong premise.
01:39:55.360
And then Chris D'Elia responded, at least when my career dies, you can film it and put
01:40:00.040
Because he had had the Japanese thing in the forest with the body, right?
01:40:10.920
Because I think also people were at that moment where they were also looking to burn him.
01:40:14.640
And Chris lives in his own universe where he likes to do his own.
01:40:21.020
But in a real fight though, Chris would be in trouble against Logan.
01:40:26.240
But, so Chris and I go way back because there was a TV show pitched in 2004 about my block
01:40:37.040
And D'Elia was buddies with all the guys that were doing it.
01:40:40.480
And they brought him along for like, as a comical piece of the director, directing thing.
01:40:46.260
He was part of the, like the, the unit that was there to film us, to create a sizzle reel
01:40:56.100
And, you know, their whole crew was just there.
01:40:58.780
We had a bunch of chicks around and they were, they were trying to pick off their own chicks
01:41:03.220
And it was just a bunch of guys that were young.
01:41:13.760
And it was Bill D'Elia and, and some of Chris's friends that were kind of going on
01:41:18.440
a reality because they're more, you know, scripted based and they're trying to do a different,
01:41:26.780
I think the UFC was kind of snuffing us at the time, but, but Chris and I knew each other
01:41:31.060
from that time and I've gone and watched his career grow and he's been awesome, man.
01:41:36.780
You know what he, one thing that he has more than a lot of people is he just has extreme
01:41:42.440
And it really, I think it comes from having a great family and you talked about not wanting
01:41:47.120
to get in a fist fight, you know, because, Hey, maybe your father figure was, was, you
01:41:51.960
know, missing or this, or this person took off, whatever.
01:41:54.760
Like that guy comes from a very stable, like healthy, awesome family.
01:41:59.080
I mean, his dad and his brothers and everyone are super cool.
01:42:03.740
That's a lot of times where the confidence comes from.
01:42:14.280
It's not going to like, I'm going to like push them in that direction.
01:42:18.020
Not even, I mean, everyone who wrestles, like I want my kid to wrestle because it teaches
01:42:33.420
You know, the worst that happens usually is you do a header and hit the ball or you fake
01:42:42.160
You could go anywhere in the world and play soccer and be super famous and make a ton of
01:42:54.000
For a Cali boy to be indoors in a cage all the time.
01:42:56.940
That's a really, I try to do as much of my training outside as possible.
01:43:13.300
Um, I wanted to know, uh, who would be the perfect opponent for you to dust off the gloves
01:43:21.300
If money wasn't the issue, if it was just strictly, who do you want right now in this
01:43:26.120
moment, who would that fighter be for you to get off the couch and fight again?
01:43:33.560
I cut it out, but he wished you luck before your, uh, Sakuraba fight as well.
01:43:44.900
I mean, he's the current world champion, best in the world.
01:43:47.060
And I, the reason why I fought was to be the best in the world.
01:43:50.060
Um, you know, it has to be one of the champions, right?
01:43:52.900
It has to be one of the champions that I can make weight 35 sounds like a lot, uh, a big
01:43:58.760
Connor's my buddy, but that's how you get really paid.
01:44:04.160
Uh, at this point I've never been like a animosity type of fighter.
01:44:08.320
I'm always like kind of trying to enjoy the process.
01:44:11.300
So for me, it'd be whoever is, is holding the belt at the time.
01:44:16.460
And, but, but for just joy of going and be able to fight someone and not, not from an
01:44:20.480
animosity or even for like, not even if it was a championship, who's just somebody.
01:44:24.640
And it could be somebody that was stylistically.
01:44:25.900
Um, you know, I think it'd be cool to fight a, uh, a guy like Khabib.
01:44:39.440
He's all about pushing the pace and, and, and mental toughness and conditioning and, and
01:44:49.680
I could push and push and push and I don't mind if I get taken down.
01:44:54.480
I've never been ground and pounded and that kind of stuff.
01:44:57.560
So, um, I think that would be fun, a fun challenge cause he's proven himself to be the best.
01:45:03.280
And that's so, you know, it's, it's amazing to just even think of like, uh, that part
01:45:07.300
of like fighting someone out of admiration almost.
01:45:13.820
You don't know who Sakuraba is, but Sakuraba and I were inducted in the hall of fame,
01:45:25.060
Like, like I, I had a video, like a cassette tape of him.
01:45:29.780
Um, that was like two hours long, him doing all sorts of crazy stuff.
01:45:34.840
Hoist Gracie is like the founder, the first guy to win the UFC.
01:45:43.820
He beat like six of them or something like that and submitted a bunch of the guys.
01:45:49.260
And so he would do stuff like flying karate chops and like spin around and like try to
01:45:56.240
And he would like, uh, he, he did a special no time limit match with the, let Gracie wear
01:46:04.000
And he basically tried to take his pants off and undress them during the thing.
01:46:09.300
It sounds like one of the Marx brothers or something.
01:46:12.860
Is that pretty wild to be inducted in the same time as him?
01:46:15.200
Somebody like that you see, is it interesting when you, cause you admire somebody so much,
01:46:19.520
you look at them a certain way and then it, you can't really feel yourself right next to
01:46:27.760
Like I'm sitting there watching this guy and he was a one 85 pounder.
01:46:31.580
He was fighting these heavyweight killers and like taking out legends and, and having fun
01:46:35.920
And then, you know, I'm stopping my career and getting acknowledged the same time he is.
01:46:41.040
And yet he was one of the guys that was like, you know, pump me up.
01:46:45.540
So we just competed in a, in a, in a grappling match to a draw, um, eight minute draw.
01:46:57.320
If I, if I did the weed thing, I would probably be sleeping during the thing.
01:47:01.300
I would, if I were to smoke weed, I would smoke a little bit of weed, laugh for a couple
01:47:05.620
of minutes, eat something and fall asleep all in about 10 minutes.
01:47:08.640
I'm not a functional guy when it comes to that.
01:47:10.300
They have an underground thing where those guys that like smoke and then they'll get
01:47:15.860
I know that everybody always mentions it gets in it.
01:47:21.660
And, uh, we got to get you on the Cali cast too.
01:47:30.560
Maybe make a, uh, maybe, maybe you can, do you ever do satellite?
01:47:37.460
We're just going to start taking it on the road, uh, doing some, uh, gas, like in Washington,
01:47:41.760
Maybe we do something like that and you can get some of the other fighters in the gym.
01:47:49.480
I mean, he is the closest thing we have to leave it to Beaver in the UFC, but he's 190 pounds.
01:47:54.800
Ripped and can like do a backflip and kick you in the chin.
01:47:59.740
If you ever, if you ever, if you ever see Sage's stuff, it's pretty incredible.
01:48:03.440
He'll do like a, he'll do like a backflip and land in the same spot.
01:48:10.520
What a neat camaraderie that you saw that you, it's like, uh, a lot of it's about the camaraderie
01:48:16.060
Like the fighting is great, but it seems like there's a ton of camaraderie in these gyms
01:48:25.260
So, uh, yeah, the camaraderie is important because, you know, at the end of the day,
01:48:29.420
you're beating, you're doing something that's very difficult, very tough.
01:48:38.740
Some weird slow motion video, but he lands in the same spot.
01:48:52.280
He can like, you talk about exuding good energy.
01:48:55.240
Like he can walk into any gym and he's like, Hey, someone could be trying to, you know,
01:49:09.000
I'm like, I got kids all over the place now calling me Mr. Faber.
01:49:16.360
I had him live in like two houses down with one of my, my good friends.
01:49:20.040
They had a house in the back and my buddy Pete, um, is just a regular dude, like successful
01:49:25.640
developer guy and kind of took Sage in and, but he's like, does not want to be called Mr.
01:49:33.280
And so he's like, Sage, would you please stop calling me Mr. Jeremy?
01:49:37.400
And Pete's like, I mean, Sage is like, yeah, okay.
01:49:42.320
So now we got Mr. Pete t-shirts and we got everybody.
01:49:49.380
And that's that prize cul-de-sac where you guys, you have your, your, it's kind of a whole
01:49:56.540
Um, you know, since moved on, that was like fraternity living.
01:50:00.580
Basically, we had five houses right next to each other and, and, uh, had probably over
01:50:05.540
50 fighters throughout the years that lived in that little area.
01:50:08.580
And guys like Chad Mendes and TJ Dillashaw and Lance Palmer.
01:50:12.900
And the list goes on of fighters that had lived on that block.
01:50:24.800
If you're looking for an investment property, you find the worst house in the best neighborhood.
01:50:31.120
And then you have to really truly understand what it takes to, to, to do something on a
01:50:36.660
Cause it doesn't mean anything if you're getting to buy something for too much, or if you don't
01:50:42.720
So do your research, become an expert before you do anything.
01:50:48.000
Also don't be afraid to finance and get into debt.
01:50:50.980
But, um, you know, that's how, that's how I make big moves is, is, is not being afraid
01:50:56.720
And, and, you know, guys like Theo or myself and, and a lot of people I've met, you find
01:51:02.220
I found a way by buying a house when I was making $7,000 a year back before the economy
01:51:10.140
I started having more success, uh, bought the house next door, bought the house next door
01:51:14.780
and, and, and ended up creating a little real estate portfolio.
01:51:17.860
And, you know, you also create an outcome on that.
01:51:19.880
You also create a, you're also, as you're developing real estate, you're developing something inside
01:51:24.540
Whenever you buy something and you put your, cause it's not, you're also putting money
01:51:28.460
on the line, but you're putting your, what you think on the line, you're putting yourself
01:51:32.100
on the line, you're mortgaging against yourself.
01:51:37.440
It was a friend that I really, really trusted financially, a good business guy.
01:51:42.060
We got in on about 15 years ago and we still have it.
01:51:44.720
I still have to do some, uh, you know, landlording stuff every now and then, but, um, but we
01:51:49.580
still have it and we'll be able to sell it now for a profit here, you know, 15 years
01:51:53.760
Uh, but it's been, but, but, but also in the years since then I've gotten involved in
01:51:58.260
other projects because then friends start to hear, oh, he owns something.
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And then you're part of, you just become part of different conversations.
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If you're going to flip, flip is dangerous because it's constantly a cashflow thing.
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If you're going to flip, then you have to really know your numbers, know the market,
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uh, know how long it's going to take you, know your budget, which I've messed up on plenty
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If you're going to flip, if you're going to buy, fix up, sell, if you're going to hold,
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You just have to make sure that the thing cash flows.
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That means if it's paying for itself or it's making a hundred bucks, that's good because
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And then commercial real estate is all about the tenants that are in it.
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If there's a national tenant, meaning like a big box store, like a, like a Dollar Tree,
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So, uh, you just got to be smart and educate yourself.
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And you'll start to meet parents who can do other stuff.
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Like I don't know anything about commercial real estate, but now I could maybe reach out to
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a Urien and ask him if I had some questions, you know?
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And so that's another thing you'll start to learn.
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It's like, um, and people most of the time want to share the advice that they have or
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Uh, and that's one thing that's, um, that's kind of fascinating is how much people want
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And people take it, they say everything, you know, all originality is borrowed.
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And I talk about this in my book, you know, a lot of times people will, they love talking
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It's, it's kind of like a, uh, an, an honor to, to say, yeah, I know something.
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So don't be afraid to ask and, uh, don't be afraid to tell.
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Oh, we got a bunch of influencers on that team.
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We, whenever, whenever we have Craig Robinson or Rogan or anybody that comes up, we'll always
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We got a little bit of a cornerstone Oh, but when I reach that ground, I'll share this
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peace of mind I found I can feel it in my bones But it's gonna take a little time
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For me to set that parking brake And let myself unwind
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And I will find a song I will sing it just for you
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Ladies and gentlemen, I'm Jonathan Kite, and welcome to Kite Club.
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A podcast where I'll be sharing thoughts on things like current events, stand-up stories,
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And as always, I'll be joined by the voices in my head.
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Anyone who doesn't listen to Kite Club is a dodgy bloody wanker.
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I'll take a quarter pounder with cheese and a McFlurry.
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Sorry, sir, but our ice cream machine is broken.
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Anyway, first rule of Kite Club is, tell everyone about Kite Club.
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And yes, don't worry, my Brad Pitt impression will get better.