In this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, we're joined by Maren Gaines and Walt Weeks, founders of Bumble, a dating app that helps men be attractive to women. We talk about crime in New York City and how it relates to dating, and how technology plays a role in the dating game.
00:00:19.000You got human waste all over the streets.
00:00:23.000You got crime rampant through the streets as well.
00:00:26.000There's this viral video where 10 people just run out of a building just stealing stuff and people are heard saying, I guess crime is legal.
00:00:34.000And we've been hearing this for a while.
00:00:35.000Now the funny thing is you've got this progressive district attorney.
00:00:38.000So now that this study comes out showing 40% of people in San Francisco, I think registered voters, have said they're planning on leaving or considering leaving because of the lower quality of life and the crime.
00:00:48.000And there's this big thread talking about it.
00:00:50.000This progressive DA who's supposed to be arresting and prosecuting these people said, well, that's just because they're racist.
00:00:57.000Their fears are just linked to racism.
00:00:59.000It's like the easiest way to not take responsibility for screwing up your city.
00:01:03.000So we're going to talk about this and a bunch of other social issues around, you know, what's happening with crime in New York City.
00:01:09.000But we're going to be spending a lot of time talking about dating and economic attractiveness.
00:01:15.000We have this article where it's basically a collection of TikToks from women.
00:01:19.000who posted photos of themselves before they met their boyfriends or husbands and they're all slim and attractive and they're like here's me now and they're like unkempt and obese and that this plays into a lot of dating tropes and we got some guys who uh i guess are experts maybe are you guys experts i don't know fresh and fit podcast somewhat i mean i would hope so Yeah.
00:01:48.000This is important too, because feminism, dating, how the media plays it, how the dating apps play it, has a huge impact on our political space.
00:01:58.000You know, politics is downstream from culture.
00:02:00.000So a lot of the things that we see really are rooted in I guess a lot of it's feminism, but a lot of it's intersectionality or critical race theory and all that stuff.
00:02:30.000Basically, our podcast, we help men become better, you know, through fitness finances and, you know, dealing with girls, you know, because obviously dating is tough for a lot of guys out here.
00:02:38.000So, you know, we talk about a lot of uncomfortable truths in the dating game and teach guys what it really takes to be attractive, despite, you know, how unflattering or politically incorrect it is.
00:03:04.000I think a lot about how we say politics is downstream of culture.
00:03:08.000I think that culture is downstream of technology.
00:03:11.000Depending on how you twist and bend technology, you're gonna get a massively different culture.
00:03:14.000And we see this with Bumble and online dating, a lot of that has contributed to this.
00:03:17.000Yeah, online dating, this mobile technology changed a lot of how we have dating culture.
00:03:22.000Yeah, social media itself, man, has changed the whole landscape because now access is abundant.
00:03:27.000So yeah, we got we got a lot of talk about this, but we're going to we're going to work our way into that through just, you know, regular politics.
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00:05:19.000Let's talk about this first story real quick, and let's see what's going on.
00:07:24.000So, yeah, we're pretty, they're pretty... That's one of the craziest things, is you have that county that was like safe Democrat that flipped Republican.
00:07:41.000Yeah, because Miami-Dade is typically always blue, but I wouldn't be surprised if Broward like went red for a bit because Broward is like a lot more diverse than South Florida.
00:07:50.000Well, it is South Florida, but it's much more diverse than Miami-Dade County area.
00:08:42.000Guys are getting, like, finesse from girls, like, for example, you bring her to your house, you know, you have a great time, but then you wake up, your stuff is gone.
00:08:50.000That stuff happens in Miami all the time, right?
00:08:53.000And then, just being a regular civilian, you know, you're walking around, whatever, Certain areas obviously still not safe, but I would say more like car break-ins You know guys getting finessed from girls, and then also you know even behind the scenes There's like a you know theft with scammers.
00:09:08.000You know people but does it feel like it's going up um I'll say this on Miami Beach.
00:09:13.000It's definitely changed significantly over the past you know 10-15 years you know ever since I For me what I noticed the trigger point was right around 2008 when Florida started getting on the map with DJ Khaled and Lil Wayne and all these rappers like really like representing the South Florida area and then it brought more tourism more traffic to Miami because a lot of people think Miami Beach like oh Ocean Drive they think that's Miami no that's Miami Beach yeah but Miami Beach now it's it could be ratchet at times like Memorial Day weekend you don't want to be there
00:09:38.000So, um, but yeah, there's a lot of crime in Miami Beach because, you know, it draws a certain crowd there on certain types of events, and then, yeah, a lot of fights, shootings, robberies, you know, in Miami Beach quite a bit.
00:09:50.000I would say the main areas are, like, Broward and Miami Beach, because we're in Brickell downtown, so we're kind of, like, in a safe area, so to speak, but it's all, like, crazy, like, you know.
00:09:57.000And then downtown Miami has, like, all the homeless people.
00:09:59.000Like, all the homeless people in Miami are concentrated downtown.
00:10:02.000yeah dude it's yo okay get this right so i came here five years ago to miami right from barbados and downtown brico is kind of like okay open area not too much people over there not too many homeless now it's like overrun but you know the pandemic all the stuff happens people are out of jobs That's where they go.
00:10:18.000Brickell is like the Manhattan of Miami.
00:10:19.000If I was to give people an example of what it is, it's like the financial district.
00:11:38.000And, you know, so I was talking to people in the neighborhood about, they're like, you got to be really careful, you know, I hope you have guns.
00:11:44.000And we were like, we didn't have any guns.
00:11:45.000We're in the middle of nowhere, but we weren't armed or anything like that.
00:11:49.000And so then talking to these people, a lot of them were Latino immigrants, a lot of them were Cuban.
00:11:55.000And they said, oh yeah, we were talking to our neighbors about it, and they were like, oh yeah, those guys, oh yeah, they killed, I think they caught them, they were illegal immigrants who were ransacking houses west of Miami where it's like there's no cops, it's pitch black, it's like farmhouses.
00:13:03.000And then what happened was, I think we had like a lot of rain, a lot of like, What, what was it was like a fissure or something like that?
00:13:09.000I mean, the thing about Miami is like a lot of the buildings were built, you know, on the back of, of, you know, the cocaine era, you know?
00:14:17.000Or is it like because when I was there, I remember I went down to Miami Beach one day and there was like a couple inches of water just in the street.
00:14:24.000And they said, oh, it's because Miami's sinking.
00:14:26.000But other people told me it's been like this forever.
00:14:34.000So I'm wondering how much of it's political, because here's the thing that they're saying that, you know, the water levels are going to rise, climate change and all that.
00:14:41.000But you still got all these investors buying up property all across That's my question, dude.
00:14:46.000Why are these millionaires dumping money into a property that may go underwater?
00:14:50.000So I'm thinking, they must be doing something behind the scenes to stop the... Not only that, me and Fresh are both involved in real estate too, and the market in Miami right now is hot, man.
00:15:00.000If you guys are trying to buy a Miami, man, it's gonna be expensive because these New York investors, they're moving down in droves, man.
00:15:07.000People from Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut, the Northeast in general are moving down there in droves because they're looking at like, okay, what did the beer bug teach us?
00:15:14.000Okay, well now you can work from home.
00:15:15.000You don't necessarily need to be tied to a certain location to be able to do work and commute in.
00:15:20.000So why are you gonna pay three, four, five, $6,000 to live in a closet in New York City when you can go down to Florida, warm all year, no state income tax, and for a lot of people that don't know this, Florida is actually fairly cheap to live in.
00:15:31.000Miami is actually a cheap city to live in.
00:15:33.000You can get a one-bedroom apartment in Brickell, which is in Manhattan and Miami, for $2,000 a month or less.
00:15:38.000You would never find that in Manhattan.
00:15:40.000My friend had a place in Brickell, overlooking the bay, and they had two pools for residents.
00:15:48.000A saltwater pool and a freshwater pool.
00:17:53.000So, um, the only thing that sucks is like, you know, Houston traffic is awful and you need a car, but Texas is a great place to be.
00:17:58.000So I think those three states in the next five to 10 years, you guys are going to see an explosion because now people are seeing, I don't have to be domain dependent on where I am to like work.
00:18:07.000So if you're going to work remotely, why not pay less taxes and be in a warmer, better area?
00:18:11.000There are some rumors, I haven't looked into this, that West Virginia is also trying to get rid of their... Well, West Virginia is trying to get rid of their income tax, at least at a certain level.
00:18:18.000I don't know if they're actually going to do it or not.
00:18:44.000I would say New Hampshire is also good as well for people that want to stay in New England and still be able to get that experience because there's no state income tax in New Hampshire either and you're just a hop skipping away from You know, if you want to go to Boston or Springfield or anything like that.
00:18:58.000Regarding, like, coastal cities going underwater, I think what happens when that does happen is it happens in jolts, because if the ice caps melt, there will be, like, a rise in water.
00:19:08.000But what happens is when the ice is removed from the earth, the earth rises where that ice used to be, and earth elsewhere on the planet goes down.
00:19:22.000You're saying the water level... When ice caps melt and just disappear all in a day, if there's like a firestorm and all the ice caps are gone, all that land rises where the ice used to be compressing it, goes up.
00:19:32.000And so Earth, on other parts of the planet, go down when that land goes up.
00:19:37.000So when the ice caps are removed, part of Earth will sink.
00:21:08.000What I think, honestly, is that these New York investors have so much money that even if the place was to flood or whatever it is, they can fix the damages.
00:21:17.000They're buying it at such a low cost that even buying it at that cost and fixing the damage is going to be cheaper than buying a piece of property in New York.
00:21:25.000I grew up in Brooklyn, New York, right?
00:21:31.000As a kid, from zero to nine years old, then I moved.
00:21:33.000That property, I went and like looked at it, it's worth like $2,000,000 now.
00:21:37.000And it's like just like a little crappy apartment like building and it's like worth $2,000,000 now.
00:21:42.000So it's like New York real estate, you can't even get in the game unless you have millions.
00:21:46.000So it's like, oh, I can go to Florida and buy like a triplex or a quadplex or whatever, or maybe even apartment building for under a million?
00:24:06.000So I think this is like a, I would say this is a made up agenda to push what they want, but control the money and control, control, you know, the food, all that stuff.
00:24:16.000I'll tell you guys what I'm doing personally.
00:24:17.000I'm like getting rid of all my fiat currency.
00:24:19.000I'm throwing it into Ethereum, Bitcoin, real estate, and then I even bought some silver, precious metals as well.
00:24:27.000And then the next thing I'm going to do, I don't know much about the stock market.
00:24:30.000I'm going to get into that as well, get a broker account and then get into that as well.
00:24:35.000But yeah, man, if you have a diversified portfolio and you like take your earned income and throw it into assets, man, that's the best you could do.
00:24:41.000Because I agree with you, inflation is going to We're gonna pay for it soon.
00:24:45.000If these supermarkets are buying food right now.
00:26:05.000No, no, no, no, that's the good news, like... No, no, no, listen, listen, when all the food is, you know, gone or expensive, you need to eat the bugs.
00:27:35.000I'm like, I can't buy anything with it anymore.
00:27:38.000If I had used it a couple grand 10 years ago, I could have bought something.
00:27:42.000Today, man, the inflation's been so crazy.
00:27:45.000The buying power is just like... And we tell guys on our podcast, you know, like you want to have at least six months to a year of like cash on hand, you know, for immediate, you know, fiat currency like that you can have access to.
00:27:56.000but everything else man throw it into like assets because the dollar is going to start you know the inflation is going to hit us very soon so let's check it out yeah but i agree with the guns thing though because that is definitely help in california i sedate this chick actually she was um she approved the weapons permits in the los angeles county she said she was a year behind wow a year behind dude That's creepy.
00:28:34.000I'm like, if I went out and bought a gun right now and kept it properly stored and the dollar goes down, that buying power of the value within that weapon is going to keep going up.
00:28:45.000You're going to retain the same value.
00:28:47.000So I'm like, that's a pretty good investment.
00:28:49.000And also, you got to think about this, too.
00:28:50.000I love the conspiracy theorists who are like, you know, buy gold.
00:28:53.000You know, all the old Alex Jones videos.
00:31:02.000Yeah, they'll come to your- if you have a pet cat and you let them outside, they'll come to you and drop like a dead bird or a mouse or something in front of you, to like give to you, and apparently they're telling you you're a bad hunter.
00:31:58.000That's what they feed the chickens, you know.
00:31:59.000And then for, like, if your hens, you know, they're laying, they have a thing called a layer, egg layer, and then they eat it, and it's, like, weird grainy protein garbage.
00:32:06.000Apparently, if you put a wooden egg in there with the chickens, they think that it's egg-laying season, and they'll lay more eggs.
00:34:43.000But if you could have an animal with you that was like your animal that was cool with you and listened to you, you'd want something big and powerful.
00:35:19.000I'm not listening to you That dude had no game.
00:35:24.000Yeah, he was like how many people who listen to the show watched Pokemon all that all that dude would do is just like Trying he had rock Pokemon.
00:36:43.000But you could get a surfing Pikachu though.
00:36:45.000Surfing Pikachu still Pokemon Stadium 64.
00:36:48.000Yeah, you have to do some stuff and then you could teach your Pikachu sir I think you're loving the Pokemon discussion right now We're gonna hard segue cuz we had a conversation last night about critical critical race theory in schools, okay?
00:37:01.000Have you guys followed any of that stuff?
00:37:02.000We had a hotep on we had hotep on he was talking about a little bit Yeah, so this is like.
00:37:07.000I don't know I I guess the... maybe esoteric is the right word.
00:37:12.000It's kind of scary because more people should pay attention to this stuff.
00:37:15.000But one of the things we talked about in the bonus segment, which maybe we'll get into a bit more in the bonus segment for this one as it pertains to dating and stuff like this, is...
00:37:23.000How, like, the gender identity stuff is affecting future generations.
00:37:28.000People aren't having families anymore.
00:37:42.000I mean, I could kind of think about it, because if you raise the child the wrong way, they could probably, like, want to destroy the earth.
00:37:55.000I know we talked about Pokemon for some reason, but we'll just... We'll pretend we're segwaying from the Florida climate change stuff into the dating stuff with this story.
00:41:57.000I mean, we're talking about inflation.
00:41:59.000We're going to have, if we don't have more people, this weird... Are you guys familiar with the economic system and the Federal Reserve and all that stuff?
00:42:23.000No, but I honestly believe, man, at some point in time, we're going to have a massive shift where it's going to be under one control, which is like the government, the food, you know, the money.
00:42:32.000And it's kind of like, okay, now that we control, you know, what's needed in life, like you have to do what I say.
00:42:38.000And the majority of people are going to kind of follow a trend.
00:42:40.000And if you don't follow the trend, you're going to be exercised from like you know the whole society you know the current system so i'm thinking you know what china thinking about their current setup they're hardly having any kids it's all business and structure technology how to how to expand how to build an empire versus now america's kind of like you know
00:42:58.000Well, they want people to have kids now, though.
00:44:29.000I mean if we don't have kids anymore and we're kind of like you know just you know doing our thing it is selfish at the same time but I understand why people do it my thing is you don't have kids though it's kind of like We're going to be stuck in a certain mindset and I would say hysteria because now we're not bringing up new ideas and new people to think about certain things.
00:44:49.000So we're stuck in a certain box of, okay, it's how we think.
00:44:52.000If you don't agree with it, it is what it is.
00:44:55.000You need to propagate the next generation.
00:44:57.000Right now the birth rates are the lowest they've ever been and there's a bunch of reasons for that.
00:45:01.000I don't believe that rather rent thing though.
00:45:46.000They're less likely to buy a home you know but yeah I agree that yeah credit is a part of it and then also they're pushing back because I've always said it like there's really no need to buy a home unless you're gonna have kids because then you're tied down to that area and the only reason you would want to be tied down to a geographic area is Is for a good school, exactly.
00:46:02.000So I wouldn't, you know, if you're a single guy or you're, or even if you're in a relationship with a woman, you know, together, a monogamous relationship, like, unless you're going to have kids, I wouldn't buy a home because I think it's like not a.
00:46:14.000You lose your leverage to be able to maneuver around and do what you want to do because now you're confined to one geographic area on a house.
00:46:42.000Like a lot of people want to live in it.
00:46:45.000So what happens is you buy a house, you own it, you're paying less per month to live there.
00:46:49.000And then when you decide to leave and go somewhere else, you call a rental management company, you sign a paper, you walk away and you don't think twice.
00:46:56.000You don't even you don't even think about the house anymore.
00:46:59.000And then all of a sudden, every few months, some money appears in your bank account.
00:47:01.000Yeah, if it's like for that, where you're going to rent it back out, that's great.
00:47:04.000But a lot of people, you know, they're not... I would say... They're going to buy a house and like live in it, be like, I have a house, you know what I'm saying?
00:47:10.000Like the American dream, you know, the white picket fence, a home in a good school district.
00:47:23.000So when they leave, it's like, okay, I'm leaving everything behind.
00:47:25.000But I get what you're saying, you can do it as an option, but the majority of people that I've seen in the real estate community, I've seen in Florida, they just dip.
00:47:33.000I don't think there's good schools anymore though, to be honest.
00:47:48.000We had this Azra Noumani on the other day, and she's working with a bunch of parents targeting critical race theory and critical theory in schools.
00:47:55.000The stuff they're teaching kids, man, is just insane.
00:48:07.000But they're giving it to first graders.
00:48:10.000You imagine, like, a worksheet for a third grader is gonna be like, you know, a train leaves Cincinnati going 50 miles an hour, and then a train leaves Chicago going 70 miles an hour, like, you know, math problems like that.
00:48:19.000We're looking at this workbook, and it's like, what makes you uncomfortable in your black skin?
00:48:58.000Oh, dude, if that's the case, then yeah.
00:49:00.000Obviously, I went to school in the 90s, right?
00:49:02.000So, like, back then, you know, you were still, you know, coloring in in circles and stuff, like, oh, don't mess outside the line and, you know, playing tic-tac-toe and, you know, maybe, you know, getting in some fights in the schoolyard, whatever it is.
00:49:11.000But, like, now, if that stuff's going on, that's a clown world, bro.
00:50:05.000Bring them out to public spaces and community events.
00:50:08.000The problem with these schools is you don't actually know what they're teaching your kids and you can't just give that responsibility to strangers.
00:50:14.000And that was a mistake parents made for a long time.
00:50:17.000Because even outside of the indoctrination of weird culty ideologies and racist garbage... College campuses are awful right now.
00:50:24.000Yeah, dude, we hear stories about, like, a dad who's like, I sent my 18-year-old daughter to college, she came back hating me, and her hair was, her head was shaved, she was wearing weird clothes, and her face was all pierced up.
00:50:34.000You're a toxically masculine dad, you know?
00:51:21.000These young 18-year-old women, they only know the people in their college, so probably up to 22, maybe 24.
00:51:26.000Maybe an older college professor, ooh, that was taboo.
00:51:28.000But for the most part, they're going to parties with people similar in age to them.
00:51:32.000Now, with dating apps, They just open up an app and there's a 35-year-old guy who's got a car, who's got his own apartment, and she swipes right on him.
00:51:40.000He's like, oh, he's got a convertible.
00:51:42.000Then she sees a 20-year-old guy who's at her college, and she swipes right on him.
00:52:22.000Uh, you're right because right now we're in a social media age where you can see what wasn't normally in front of you before.
00:52:28.000So what's happening is like you said earlier, girls are on platforms like Instagram, you know, they're on Facebook.
00:52:32.000They're also on like, you know, TikTok and you're seeing these, these, these very, uh, I would say affluent guys with, you know, a lifestyle that they want to be a part of versus the guy at college is kind of like, okay, let's go party in dorms.
00:52:43.000But it's kind of like what she did already.
00:52:45.000So now she's opened up the whole new world and she might be in Idaho or even Texas whatever and a guy says hey I'm in LA I'm in Miami come out to see me and let's get lit and that's a whole new world to her and she's excited.
00:52:56.000So I would say girls like lifestyle no more than anything else and now they can actually see it through social media and they want to be a part of it.
00:53:02.000However, most guys that are young are in school.
00:53:28.000He was posting about how at the highest level of dating, the most attractive men, it's like guys on Instagram with successful accounts and they're super rich and they're super desirable.
00:53:38.000And what they do is they just see an Instagram account for an attractive woman and then just DM her and be like, hey, yo, we got reservation at this fancy restaurant.
00:54:20.000Instead of relying on dating apps, do everything.
00:54:22.000But with Instagram now you have leverage returns like you can go on the explore page you can find girls there you can hit them up randomly you can go to like let's say you want to go to Colombia right I could put a hashtag Colombia in the search bar from there I could find a list of girls that tag that same location I say you know what I'm going to Colombia in two weeks let's go get some drinks and party There you go!
00:54:44.000But before you can get there, you got girls lined up for you off-ramp.
00:54:48.000That's powerful because social media and scale.
00:54:50.000So I'm just saying for guys nowadays, if you want to have the most options possible, get on Instagram or some platform like that that's social media driven.
00:55:17.000Because what you mentioned is basically like a byproduct of the current dating marketplace we have now, which is basically a globalized sexual marketplace.
00:55:23.000Just like the world is globalized, the dating marketplace has become globalized as well.
00:55:28.000And what's happened is, to understand this, well, we gotta know first, right?
00:55:31.000For the guys out there that might not be familiar with us, we talk about something called hypergamy, right?
00:55:34.000Which is like, women dating up, wanting a man that's, you know, better than them in different facets of life.
00:55:40.000You know, typically it's, you know, they want the provisioning and security on one end, but they also want an attractive guy that's physically attractive as well, from a height standpoint, jawline, physique, et cetera.
00:55:48.000So, Aishaturo Otomachi talks about this in his book, The Rational Male, the two sides of hypergamy.
00:55:53.000So, in today's day and age, with the globalized marketplace, Girls have more options than ever before.
00:55:58.000So if a girl's on a dating app, women have all the leverage on dating apps because almost 80% of the users on dating apps are men.
00:56:32.000And what's happened is, with the way the world is now, a woman that was in, let's say, Idaho.
00:56:37.000We always like to use the state of Idaho, right?
00:56:39.000In the middle of nowhere, she's attractive in her local area.
00:56:43.000The guys that would have been potential good mates, those guys are now invisible to her because she's getting hit up by higher status men in LA, in Miami, in Vegas, whatever.
00:56:59.000We always say women trap with their with their thirst trap with their bodies men thirst trap with their lifestyle and
00:57:03.000that's what Instagram allows People to do so women since women date up and they want the
00:57:08.000bigger better deal They're not gonna settle on a guy that's just good enough
00:57:11.000if they can get something better So what's happened is since women have an abundance of
00:57:15.000options, they just pick at the top And if you go through any attractive woman's Instagram, you're going to see a whole bunch of blue checks, celebs, whatever it is.
00:57:22.000And these are average women getting this type of attention.
00:57:25.000The average guy gets kind of left out on the dust.
00:57:26.000And this is why so many men in the age group that you were saying from like 18 to 29 are virgins.
00:57:32.000And we actually talk about on our podcast that if you were to take virgins in 2021, I would be willing to bet a majority of them would be men and not women.
00:57:40.000And women are far more... There was a study that came out.
00:57:44.000Uh, there is an increase in virgin women, but it's substantially less.
00:57:47.000The increase in men under the age of 29 who are virgins is really, it skyrocketed to like a third.
00:57:52.000Yeah, it was like 20 some percent, now it's 30 percent or something like that.
00:57:57.000It was like in the teens and then just doubled.
00:57:59.000And then for women, it wasn't even that big of a jump, but it did go up.
00:58:02.000Yeah, and we say all the time, you know, some people disagree or whatever, but from what we're seeing, women typically want the top 10 to 20% of men, and they're getting, those are the guys that are having relations with most of the women.
00:58:15.000And it's actually very funny, because on our podcast, one of the questions we like to ask, just to kind of get a gauge of the room, the temperature, hey ladies, what percentage of men do you think are actually, you know... Active.
00:58:48.000Because if they don't meet a certain metric, and social media, online dating, whatever, it's created this illusion of abundance almost to a fault.
00:58:56.000So that's what's kind of been going on.
00:58:58.000There was another study where they asked men and women to rate attractiveness of, you know, women to men, men to women.
00:59:06.000Yeah, it was the one where they found that men rate women on an even scale where it's like the ugly women are ugly and the average women are average and the hot women are hot, but women rate men on an extremely imbalanced scale where 80% of men are unattractive and only the hottest men are attractive.
00:59:22.000It's either OkCupid or Tinder that they pulled that from.
00:59:26.000But yeah, and the reason why is because women are far more selective on online dating apps because they have the leverage.
00:59:31.000Like, there's far more men and far less women.
00:59:33.000And on top of that, the apps, the only person that really, the person that loses the most with online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, etc.
01:00:05.000And when I say that, women think I'm speaking Chinese.
01:00:06.000It's like, no, it's actually very difficult for men.
01:00:08.000And then on an online dating app where they have all the leverage, it's even tougher.
01:00:11.000So we always tell guys, you need a good Instagram account as well to augment your online dating profile.
01:00:15.000Cause on a balance of probabilities, if she swipes on you, she's still going to think you're corny to some degree or not really finding that attractive.
01:00:21.000So you have to augment your entire, how do I say this?
01:01:14.000And Boomhauer's like, you know, I got you hanging, I'll teach Bobby.
01:01:17.000So he takes Bobby to the shoe store, and then he's like, alright Bobby, I'm gonna teach you how to pick up women.
01:01:22.000And then Boomhauer walks up to a woman and goes, hey girl, what's going on here, give me that number and I'll hit you up sometime.
01:01:26.000And then she's like, she slaps him, and then he walks up to another woman and he goes, hey damn girl, looking pretty good, you gonna give me that number, I'll hit you up sometime.
01:01:32.000And then she like slaps him, and then he keeps doing it, and then he finally gets a number.
01:01:36.000And he walks up to Bobby and he's like, look at that, Bobby got a phone number right there.
01:01:39.000And then Bobby's like, that's the secret, Mr. Boomhauer.
01:01:42.000You just ask every woman and he goes, shh, come on, that's secret, shh.
01:01:51.000So in Miami, right, when I first moved there back in 2018, I used to do something, it's called night game, right?
01:01:57.000But like when you go out at night to the clubs, bars, whatever it is to meet girls, right?
01:02:00.000I used to go one for 40 man and people think like what you talk to 40 girls to find one that like wanted to leave which I was like yeah bro it's it's tough cuz like when you go out at night you're playing like on ultra hard mode you know what I mean because the music is loud bouncers are trying to you know you know CB you keep you too friendly You know, you got the friends that are trying to CB you.
01:02:26.000It was when I first moved to Miami in 2018, but it takes a lot of work because you got to co-approach a bunch of girls, figure out which ones want you, which ones don't.
01:02:33.000And then the biggest thing is a lot of girls just like attention, right?
01:02:36.000A lot of women like to sit there and talk with you and get your non-sexual attention.
01:02:39.000So you got to be able to like kick those girls to the curb immediately.
01:02:41.000Let's get the feminists all angry right now.
01:03:35.000It's that if you're a 35-year-old woman who makes $50,000 a year and you're like, you know, a manager at a business of some sort, a man who's 35 years old who's a manager who makes 50k is not trying to date you.
01:03:50.000I'm not passing judgment or criticizing women.
01:03:52.000I'm saying quite literally dudes want to date young women.
01:03:55.000And it's like we were mentioning just a moment ago in the previous segment about how You know, these guys who have careers and have cars and have apartments are on dating apps or Instagram and they can hit up this college student or a chick in Idaho who's like, you know, now she has access to every man.
01:04:11.000So this 35-year-old guy is not trying to hook up for the most part, or at least I should say as a tendency.
01:04:16.000So then you end up with women upset they can't find economically attractive men.
01:04:21.000And then you end up with this study talking about divorces.
01:04:25.000That when men don't make more money than the women, the women don't want to be in the relationship anymore.
01:04:32.000Um, and this is an uncomfortable reality for women.
01:04:35.000And the thing is, is that women got to understand that men have standards too.
01:04:40.000It's just that when, yeah, I know it's shocking, right?
01:04:42.000Because like, the thing is this, if a woman says, I want a man that makes a certain amount of money, a hundred thousand dollars a year to be what most women want, six feet tall, attractive, whatever confidence.
01:05:01.000And a lot of women don't understand this because if a man speaks his mind of what he really likes in women, he can get canceled, be called a misogynist, whatever it is.
01:05:08.000So very few men tell the truth about what they're attracted to in women.
01:05:12.000And the reality, ladies, I'll tell you.
01:05:14.000The more money you make, and the older you get, the less negotiating power you have in the relationship world.
01:05:21.000Because the things that make a woman attractive are not the same things that make a man attractive.
01:05:25.000Women think, a lot of the times, tend to base their value on masculine traits.
01:05:29.000How much they earn, their career, etc.
01:06:30.000Imagine if a dude you mentioned looking good in heels or whatever I think imagine if a dude said my goal is to be a stay-at-home dad and raise kids You know, I don't want to be in the workplace.
01:06:42.000I want to get married and have kids at a young age That's not attractive I mean, there are certainly women who find that attractive, of course.
01:07:19.000You know why the house always wins at a casino?
01:07:21.000Because the odds for, say, roulette, or for craps, is 51% in the house's favor.
01:07:28.000Which means over a long enough period of time, you will lose.
01:07:31.000You can maybe go in, Throw that dice at one time, get lucky, and win the jackpot.
01:07:36.000But that's the exception, not the rule.
01:07:38.000When it comes to dating, even if it's just 51% of men who don't like this and 51% of women who don't like that, that's a pressure where you in the dating marketplace will keep experiencing this and you'll say, why is it so hard for me to find a guy who just wants to be a stay-at-home dad?
01:07:51.000Or a guy who says, why is it so hard to find a woman who just wants to be the CEO of a company to be my wife?
01:07:59.000You just said something magical, which I have to say on the podcast.
01:08:01.000As you guys know, on our show, we bring ladies into the show.
01:08:03.000A lot of career women, a lot of women that are entrepreneurs.
01:08:06.000And they ask us, how do I land a guy like this?
01:08:07.000Or they just, you know, they toss me to the side, whatever.
01:08:10.000The problem is that a lot of women don't understand that concept you just said.
01:08:13.000A lot of women operate on possibilities instead of probabilities.
01:08:18.000And the reality is, the probability is, when you make money, you're successful, you're a strong, independent woman, and you're in your 30s, the probability that you're gonna find an attractive man that makes as much money as you, if not more, is confident, attractive, all these traits that women typically want in men, the probability is low.
01:08:39.000A lot of women live in a Disney fairy tale, okay?
01:08:42.000Women are told life is all good, sugar and spice, and on top of that, privilege is invisible to those that have it.
01:08:47.000If a woman was attractive in her 20s and late teens and was getting attention from men, she's going to continue to think, I will continue to get the same attention and validation from men into my 30s.
01:08:56.000But they don't realize until they're in their 30s and they're not necessarily as attractive, they can't compete, right, on what men actually want, youth and beauty.
01:09:02.000Then that's when the reality hits them and they operate on possibilities.
01:09:27.000But no, you're using masculine traits and now you've pretty much pissed away your ability to have that negotiating power to get a high status guy.
01:09:34.000Have you ever seen the Marketplace Value Study?
01:09:38.000And I think they deleted a lot of these because it was offensive to the woke.
01:09:43.000But what it shows is that Women start off, young women have the maximum possible societal value in terms of what humans are willing to protect and defend.
01:11:21.000The thing is, is that a woman's value, it shines the hardest and brightest,
01:11:25.000but it's for a smaller period of time.
01:11:27.000For men, if they do the work, of course, you know, if you're 35 years old and you're broke,
01:11:31.000it don't matter, but you know, if you do the work, you can shine for a longer period of time.
01:11:35.000And I want to stress too, this is not a personal opinion of value.
01:11:38.000This is a number based on the study I'm referring to looked at messages.
01:11:42.000Who was getting hit up on dating websites?
01:11:45.000And it wasn't so much as to say, like I think they outlined this, they're saying we're not saying people are more or less valuable as human beings.
01:11:51.000We're saying that in the dating world, women get messages at a declining rate from 24 and then onward.
01:11:58.000Men get an increasing amount of message as time goes on.
01:12:01.000But there was also another funny metric in that where they found that women Tend to message men equal to their age men always message 22 year olds.
01:12:12.000Yeah, it's it's a And I know that study you're talking about the universally between men between the ages of 18 all the way to 60 almost always prefer women between the ages of 18 to 24 You know, it's like, it's... And 22 was like, the number.
01:12:26.000It was like, the age of the man is going up, and the woman is just at 22 the whole time.
01:12:44.000I'm not getting the same attention and it's kind of like she understood if she had choose that time back you know back then which is like in her 20s properly she could probably lock down a man that actually cared about her.
01:12:53.000Now it's kind of like okay I messed up those years in my life I'm 35 years old what do I have left to give and your youth isn't there and guys want youth.
01:13:00.000I think the problem is that like girls don't really know what men really want and men I would say men kind of know what women want, but it's kind of like they are putting themselves in a box saying, hey, you know what?
01:13:10.000I can have fun in my 20s, get lit, travel.
01:13:13.000Men can afford to try to figure it out.
01:13:23.000You know, like, and the thing is, is that, like I said, they like to measure their value in masculine standards, which is asinine because that's like me saying I can fit, just like I said earlier, if I could wear heels and walk in a dress, you should like me too.
01:13:33.000And that's how women sound when they say I have a career.
01:13:39.000But I think, you know, what you're saying about masculine traits is what I think triggers feminists so severely.
01:13:46.000The reason why, like, this is the one video where it's like all of a sudden I see all these feminists tweeting about me, is because they were told their whole lives, you need to get a career.
01:14:12.000And that must be like getting smacked in the face with a bag of bricks.
01:14:16.000You can find men who do, for sure, but as you already stated, what ends up happening is women then have to start lowering their standards to find a man who's going to be awesome.
01:14:26.000We found from the show, women will never submit.
01:14:28.000They'd rather die alone with dogs and cats than submit to a guy that they don't want.
01:14:32.000and here's the scary part they've been lied to like you said their whole life so now is that okay they're awakened to what's the truth and it's like i don't i'm fighting it because i don't i don't want to submit but here's the problem though you have to because that's that's your only way out now because you waited too long to close that gap so i'm just saying to women out there like if you hear this right now you're young take it for what it is because if you don't you wait too long to find this man to settle down with in your 30s kind of like okay why is he going to choose you over the 22 I'll say this too for the women out there that want to chase a career in everything.
01:15:03.000I'm not saying don't chase a career and don't make money.
01:15:05.000Just know the consequences of that are you're going to have a smaller pool of suitable candidates that meet your requirements and on top of that it's not going to increase your sexual market value.
01:15:17.000Your money does not come into that like it does for a man.
01:15:21.000Chase your career, but you should also be working on trying to find a guy as well.
01:15:24.000And the thing is that women prioritize chasing a career and they don't actually prioritize like being a good girlfriend or being a good wife or being a good partner for a man.
01:15:33.000And they're going to put their career over that.
01:15:34.000And the thing is, is that you have the most negotiating power and ability to lock down a high status man that you want when you're young and attractive, not later on.
01:15:43.000They're not trying to be what men want.
01:15:45.000They're trying to be what society has told them to be.
01:15:48.000And so, you can keep saying social construct over and over and over again, but the reality is, guys, you look at OkCupid's data, and they behave a certain way.
01:15:56.000By all means, feminists, you're allowed to insult those men.
01:15:58.000When I did the segment, they were like, you know, Tim Pool is basically saying that men are losers who are immature, and I'm like, fine, I don't care.
01:17:05.000And that's why, just like you said before, the reason why so many women divorce a man if they make more money than them or whatever is because when you're the breadwinner, it inadvertently puts you in a leadership position within the relationship.
01:17:17.000And I've said on the podcast before, Women are incapable of leading men within the confinements of a relationship.
01:17:21.000And as a matter of fact, if you put her in that leadership role, she's going to lead you all right to the end of the relationship because women are not built to lead or provision long-term for men.
01:17:35.000Women reveal how their appearances have dramatically changed since they met their partners, saying comfort eating, birth control, and babies have completely altered their bodies.
01:17:45.000This is in many ways the purpose of marriage.
01:17:48.000Young women and young men getting together and having a contract to each other under God till death do us part.
01:17:55.000Because back in the day it's a problem if a dude continuously becomes more valuable and more attractive and the woman doesn't.
01:18:02.000And then you end up with a bunch of angry women and you end up with a bunch of...
01:18:07.000Flandering men or womanizing men to have structure.
01:18:14.000There was a meme where it was like, it was a guy in his knee with a ring and he says, will you enter into a government contract with me that you're allowed to break at any time?
01:19:43.000you play a game right and let's say you're playing level one okay you're doing whatever you need to do to make level two at the last stage level 10 is a boss right at the boss fight you pull all the stops you upgrade your weapons you finally use your potions exactly exactly so you have the last legendary weapon you slay the the boss now you're finished the game you're not putting any more effort into the game because you already won the game Same thing with relationships with these women.
01:20:08.000They find a guy that they can lock down and can take care of them and they put all the effort into it at the beginning to get that guy.
01:20:14.000Now that they got a guy, it's like, okay, if I leave, I get to have his stuff and I'll be good.
01:20:20.000So I can do whatever I feel like because now he's under my frame.
01:20:23.000So I feel like marriage itself, sure it's in store, definitely has a place for women to strive.
01:20:30.000But for men, it's a very detrimental thing to do because you can end, And I want to say this, right?
01:20:37.000So women have the advantage because they can leave anytime and get what they want.
01:20:40.000But the guy, if he leaves, he's going to lose.
01:20:43.000So I'm just saying, in that situation, they have all the leverage.
01:20:46.000And them just being there, they can win and do whatever they feel like.
01:20:49.000Because now, like I said before, they get everything.
01:20:53.000I think that prenuptial agreements should be automatic and that you should have to file to do away with it.
01:21:00.000The idea that there is no prenup going into it and that everything you used to own is now half owned by that person because of the signage is insane to me.
01:21:21.000It's kind of like, I understand why women leverage sex against men in marriages because they can.
01:21:27.000Because think about it, if you leave your wife and you've been together for 10 years, alimony, child support, all these things come into play and you're stuck there.
01:21:35.000So my thing is, these women can take advantage because the law allows them to.
01:23:27.000Women ask far more of men than men ask of women.
01:23:30.000So my thing is something simple like bedroom fun will keep you too friendly, right?
01:23:34.000How many sexless marriages are there out there?
01:23:36.000Or, worse yet, I see on TikTok, a wife saying, you're not going to get any unless you take out the trash.
01:23:41.000You're not going to get any unless you mow the lawn, blah, blah, blah.
01:23:44.000But if someone breaks into the house, you're expected to protect this woman with your life and she don't even want to give you no bedroom fun?
01:23:50.000That's why we tell guys, most of the time, unless you want to have kids, You shouldn't get married at all, because women get in line when they know that you have other women in line.
01:24:00.000That's why we tell guys to not date exclusively.
01:24:03.000Let's think about the actual math of the situation here.
01:24:09.000It sounds like feminism has been the greatest gift to High-value men.
01:25:03.000And if you look at how, uh, in the animal kingdom, you know, typically it's like the most dominant, powerful male, like, you know, takes all the women.
01:25:10.000Roosters got like 12 ladies, they take it, they fight each other, they kill the other one, and they take their harem.
01:25:15.000So right now, because of all this, like you mentioned, these guys go on Instagram, and they can just DM 50 women, and get back 5 messages, and then one of them is a go.
01:25:37.000They've basically given all leverage to the men that will never actually commit to them.
01:25:41.000And what happens is the guys that are good husbands, good potential long-term partners, those guys get left out in the dust.
01:25:48.000And the women don't come back to them until, you know, maybe their youth is gone or whatever it may be, and then you end up with these marriages that don't end up working out because the guy isn't getting her best, but he's still held to a certain standard he has to provide.
01:26:54.000Think about what we're talking about in this segment.
01:26:56.000A guy could lose his job and make less money, and now he's not economically attractive anymore, and then you get a divorce.
01:27:03.000But a man, even criticizing the fact that these women are overweight, they've let themselves go, and it's considered misogynistic or sexist or offensive.
01:27:11.000Society actually encourages women to leave their men we no longer provide because they get the money, 80% of divorces are initiated by women, the family courts destroy men, they're heavily gynocentric, so What is is there any benefit to really getting married in today's day and age?
01:27:27.000Yeah, I can't see many even social media You see all the time girls leaving their man for other men and it's funny because when you're married to a woman, right?
01:27:35.000Let's say you lose your job like you said earlier and you know, you know I would say, you know, I'm gonna get attracted to her she can go cheat and And have fun on the side, and then still take a half your money.
01:27:44.000Let's start from the beginning, alright?
01:27:46.000So, you said you encourage men not to get married.
01:27:50.000Is that an opinion both of you guys have?
01:27:52.000Yeah, there's very few situations where you should marry.
01:28:04.000Well, a big reason why is because marriage is a traditional thing and a lot of women aren't traditional.
01:28:11.000Let's be honest, I'm just going to have to say things that might offend people.
01:28:15.000Women are more promiscuous than they've ever been.
01:28:17.000You're going to have to train a lot of bad habits out of your girlfriend and or wife.
01:28:21.000to make her a suitable candidate to be your long-term partner to raise children because the problem is this society nowadays you got this rap music you got city girls teaching girls all this other stuff these are bad habits not conducive to a good long-term girlfriend and or wife of your child you know what I'm saying last thing you want is your son to be walking down the playground like hey dude I saw your mom's like butt on OnlyFans like that's terrible you know what I'm saying like and Lana Rhodes is dealing with the consequences of that right now for poor decisions in the past But that's what I'm saying.
01:28:47.000So like, women are more promiscuous now.
01:28:49.000They don't want to follow male leadership.
01:28:52.000They don't want to adhere to traditional traits, but they expect you to adhere to all your masculine traditional traits.
01:28:58.000So it's a bad trade for you a lot of the time.
01:29:00.000And not only that, why would you sign a contract with someone that's incentivized to break it?
01:30:13.000More than likely, if you marry a woman in today's day and age, she's going to have a past.
01:30:18.000Women want a man with a future, but a man does not want a woman that has a past.
01:30:21.000But the problem is that if I say I don't want a past, that's considered misogynistic, toxic, Whatever.
01:30:26.000But no, I'm taking a huge risk by marrying you and having children with you.
01:30:30.000So I need to make sure, just like you want me to be able to provide for the family, that you're going to be a dutiful wife and not embarrass me and the family.
01:30:37.000Because when women cheat, there's serious negative consequences to it that can destroy a family.
01:30:42.000Get pregnant by another man, whatever it is.
01:31:10.000I need to you know to do these things whatever and I was like you know what this wasn't part of our agreement at the beginning like you know it was us helping each other out whatever the point here is that like they can now exert more boundaries on you and demands on you and because you're in that situation it's kind of like okay this is my wife I should do this because if I don't she might leave me And her leaving me is very powerful because now I'm going to lose half my stuff.
01:31:32.000That being said, I left her because I knew going forward, if I stayed any longer, I could be held liable for a lot of things, like maybe child support, maybe even, you know, having to pay alimony.
01:31:42.000So I got out as fast as possible under that year.
01:31:44.000But I'm saying most guys, they stick, hey, you know what?
01:31:46.000I'll stick with her, you know, I'll deal with the bull crap, whatever.
01:31:48.000And then they get finessed because they had to pay, you know, all that stuff they got to pay.
01:32:10.000You know, go ahead girl, do your thing.
01:32:12.000All I'm saying is that If you're going to marry a woman, her past does matter for you as a guy.
01:32:17.000And there's studies that show this, that the more partners a woman has, the lower her ability to probably have to pair bond with you and or have a marriage that's going to last.
01:32:26.000It has significant consequences if the woman had a promiscuous past.
01:32:29.000So guys need to be smart and know that if you're going to pick a woman for a long-term relationship to have children with, You gotta know what you're doing.
01:32:36.000And in today's Western culture, women are incentivized to be promiscuous.
01:32:40.000And I shouldn't be admitting this as a guy that dates casually or whatever, but for the women out there that might be watching or guys that are thinking about getting married, this stuff matters, guys.
01:33:17.000You know, I'll say this too, to all of the women who may get angry about hearing this stuff.
01:33:22.000If you don't like hearing this, I'm not saying this to say any of it's good or right or anything like that.
01:33:28.000But now you're hearing what men are thinking and what men are talking about and what men want.
01:33:31.000Yeah what they'll never say and there was a peloton commercial too that got people offended because the guy last last christmas i think it was yeah they got the guy uh bought her a treadmill he bought her a yeah peloton which is like a bike yeah bike and uh and it there was a bunch of rage like are you telling your wife that she needs to lose weight blah blah blah And this just shows the crazy clown world that we're in where having standards on women is considered misogynistic or awful.
01:33:56.000And it's all you're simply telling her is, hey, listen, if you want to continue to get this security and provisioning and relationship with me, you need to also perform.
01:34:06.000There's a burner performance on men, but there's never a burner performance on women.
01:34:09.000Women are... We have a bunch of social conventions out there that allow women to misbehave, act poorly, be obese, be crass, be annoying, with zero consequence.
01:34:19.000If a woman is fat, love your curves, girl.
01:34:37.000Men are, there's negative reinforcement to mistakes made if you're a man, but there are not negative, there's not negative reinforcement for bad female decisions.
01:35:20.000So the joke conspiracy theory is that they sell the ice cream to all these women, get them really overweight, and then do commercials saying, you're so beautiful!
01:35:31.000Because you do these ad campaigns for soap where you got all these super attractive models, and these women who keep eating your ice cream, they're going to be out of shape and feel bad.
01:35:39.000So you got to make the commercials telling them, hey, it's great, it's great.
01:35:57.000Where's the men's fitness magazine with a big fat morbidly obese guy saying like... This actually reminds me of the Sokol squared hoax guys.
01:36:05.000Do you guys know about James Lindsay, Peter Bogosian, Helen Pluckrose?
01:36:08.000They spoofed a bunch of journals. One of them was fat bodybuilding.
01:36:36.000And it's amazing because like I used the example before the analogy, like if I walked around in a dress and heels and I said, oh, well, you know, I'm really good at doing this.
01:36:52.000These are considered masculine traits.
01:36:54.000No matter how much feminists want to argue with us about it, like earning money, becoming high powered, high status, whatever.
01:36:59.000These are things that men tend to do and women find attractive and men, they're masculine traits.
01:37:03.000So if you have them, cool plus for you, but it's irrelevant towards your sexual market value.
01:37:08.000And yes, like I said, there's never going to be a body positivity for men because I always say, for a man to be attractive to women, he's gotta live in a fact-based reality.
01:37:19.000Men don't get the privilege of living in a Disney fairytale.
01:37:21.000I can't tell you how many women I know.
01:37:50.000You gotta reveal unflattering realities about how women really may select to get them.
01:37:55.000But women get the privilege of saying, I'm gonna wait around and the right guy will come because they get the privilege of being able to believe in Disney fairy tales because they're the gazelle.
01:38:46.000Is the universe this 12-dimensional membrane or whatever this crazy theory is?
01:38:50.000And he said, there's a lot of problems with it we can't figure out, but you got a lot of scientists who have dedicated 60 years of their lives to this scientific theory and they will never give that up.
01:38:59.000So you prove them wrong, and they're like, my whole life was wasted and broken.
01:42:23.000Basically, I went viral on TikTok, uh, like back in like late 2020 for saying like, if a girl reschedules on a date, you need to punish that bad behavior maker by the first round of drinks and went viral.
01:42:32.000Cause like, Punish bad behavior, are we dogs?
01:42:34.000It's like, no, you just need to let her know that you have boundaries and she can't disrespect your time.
01:42:38.000And then they're like, you punish bad behavior.
01:46:03.000My home province in Canada was covered in glaciers during the Ice Age, and as the crust rebounds over time, we sometimes experience small earthquakes.
01:46:20.000Florida's next All right, Iman says first super chat listening for two years now.
01:46:25.000Hey, appreciate it, man Love the show hi to Lydia speaking of getting hustled got hustled in Enola on bachelors trip woke up with fake phone and $2,300 spend on debit card police didn't care to take a report That's I'm not surprised Happens, bro Joe Harshbarger.
01:46:44.000Tim, what if they are driving gas prices up because they want to make it more convenient to drive electric cars
01:47:42.000But if you're driving, you know, we would drive from here to like Philly.
01:47:45.000We stop at a rest station, you plug in the supercharger, and then you go inside, grab some food, come back out, your car's fully charged, you're good to go.
01:47:52.000Not as convenient as just pump to a gas station.
01:47:54.000You pump up in a minute, you're done, you're good to go.
01:47:56.000See, we got the Range Rover diesel, so we'd be mocking in there.
01:49:26.000Then we, you know, the plan was We would spend Monday through Thursday doing the shows just in the trailer, and then Friday night we would get a venue and do a live showing.
01:49:37.000It's not super easy because we've got to get the camera set up, we've got the light, we've got the internet set up, so... You've got our studio.
01:49:42.000But the idea would be to sell tickets, have people come and actually get to hang out, sit in the audience, and then super chats plus audience questions.
01:50:18.000Um, I'll just shout out to the Sig M400.
01:50:20.000I mean, you know, I've recently just got a bunch of guns.
01:50:24.000Steven Crowder sent me the Sig M400, told me it was like the Cadillac of AR-15s or whatever, and it took me like a year to get it, because there was just like, just some, it was just difficult.
01:50:33.000I lived in New Jersey, New Jersey had crazy laws, we moved to West Virginia, now it's easy.
01:53:07.000A lot, a lot of guys are struggling, man.
01:53:08.000And I think, uh, since, you know, My prediction is as women become more and more selective and they deal with a smaller, smaller portion of men, you know, that top 10% of men and it dwindles down, more and more guys are going to go looking for answers.
01:54:37.000Jay Rich says, are we headed towards a world where the average man and woman won't settle for each other and ultimately live alone and pay to play with the top 1% of either gender when they need to?
01:54:47.000Would that be better or worse than what we have now?
01:54:49.000The only thing I would say is it's not going to be the average man be willing to settle.
01:54:52.000It's going to be the average woman won't settle.
01:54:54.000It's going to be, because average women now, if you ask them what they want in a man, they're not describing an average man.
01:55:19.000If we were to average it out from all the hundreds of women we've spoken to, over six feet tall, at least $100,000 a year, attractive, in somewhat shape, not being fat, You're already describing a man that's in the top, you know, 5%, you know, of men.
01:55:35.000So if you extrapolate that for single men that are attractive that meet these other requirements of yours that are 6 feet, we're talking top 5, top 3, top 4%.
01:55:57.000If you have clout nowadays, it's kind of like the social currency.
01:56:00.000You have that, you have access to a lot of women.
01:56:02.000Yeah, and it's just, the thing is, is I think, um, well, it's not even I think at this point after interviewing hundreds of women, I know they have an abundance mentality that is almost detrimental to their, uh, ability to lock down a guy because they think, well, I went to this social situation or I went to this party or I was on this yacht and I met all these kinds of guys.
01:56:22.000No, they're not like they're abundant.
01:56:23.000Maybe from, from a, they want to sleep with you.
01:56:26.000Uh, uh, Because women don't understand that just like women have like a dual mating strategy, men do too.
01:56:32.000You know, you have the girls that you want to just like hook up with, then you got girls that are wifey material.
01:56:36.000The problem is that a lot of women conflate a guy wanting to sleep with them and give them attention as, okay, well this guy is a potential candidate for a relationship too.
01:56:43.000And what they don't understand is that, you know, relationship value and, you know, attractive value are two different things, you know?
01:56:50.000And a lot of guys, and here's the other thing too, I always tell women too, they get mad at me, but you know, feminists, if you want to get mad at it, it's what it is.
01:56:57.000A man's value is derived from how many attractive women can you get and sleep with.
01:57:03.000A woman's value is determined by what caliber of man can you attract and most importantly, retain.
01:57:17.000If you are not married, or in a serious relationship with a man that you love, admire, and respect, and want to be with, you lost as a woman.
01:57:23.000And as a man, if you can't attract an abundant amount of women, or at least a woman that you find attractive that you want, then you lost as a man.
01:57:31.000The problem is that we don't like to have winners and losers.
01:57:33.000We want to give everyone a participation trophy.
01:57:34.000And it's okay to call a man a loser, but not okay to call a woman a loser.
01:57:38.000And the thing is this, they want to play the game on easy mode, because let's be honest, dating for women is on easy mode.
01:57:43.000But they want to get hard mode benefits.
01:57:45.000They want to be able to say, well, I have guys in my DMs.
01:57:47.000Hey, well, I got, I get invited to these kinds of parties.
01:57:49.000Well, I got guys taking me out on dates, blah, blah, blah.
01:57:51.000I should be able to be promiscuous as well.
01:57:53.000No, you got the game on easy mode, so you don't get hard mode benefits.
01:57:56.000If you want the exotic drops from the boss, you know, you don't get that on easy mode.
02:00:13.000I would say I would blame it more on the lack of a father in a household.
02:00:17.000The reason why, you know, the divorce rates are so high and, you know, women are not happy with men is because the father used to be a critical component in mate selection.
02:00:26.000And the father would pick a man that was conducive to his daughter's long-term success from a security standpoint.
02:00:34.000You know, he didn't have to be the most arousing guy, be the nerd, whatever, but that guy was going to be a really good husband and a really good father.
02:00:40.000The thing is though, since women make their own money, right?
02:00:46.000If they make their own money, they no longer want that security from that guy that might be, you know, a loser.
02:00:51.000They want the hot guy that, that, that is attractive and makes money, more money than them.
02:00:56.000And there's a bunch of other reasons why society fails when you remove the father, but the father is a critical component in his wife being able to lock down a man and be happy in a relationship as well.
02:01:06.000All right, we got this one from Simulation115.
02:01:08.000He says, what are the guest's thoughts on otaku and anime culture and its effect on dating?
02:01:13.000Honestly, man, I love anime however, I would say though it's created it's created space where like it's a bunch of guys that Only how to put this thing that bubble and it's kind of like they I Don't so harsh, but they only look at women as I don't know how to say this in a nice way.
02:02:35.000For a young guy coming up, especially when you're on your rise and you have no kids yourself, to marry a single mother with a kid, you're literally just saying to yourself, you know what?
02:02:42.000I'm going to put my dreams behind, focus on this person's seed, and raise them.
02:03:14.000She's already had somebody give her imprint and you're not going to break that imprint.
02:03:17.000from from uh from biological and from like a financial standpoint it's just not intelligent to do that like you you're basically what's happening is you have a hundred percent responsibility with like no authority because this is not your child yep so you know the disciplining there's going to be some you know arguments probably with with the wife on that um it's not your kid so they're probably not going to respect you the same they're gonna you're not Not my daddy!
02:03:39.000And then you're putting all this money and effort into a child that isn't yours, and the woman can leave at any time.
02:03:44.000It's going to hurt you twice as bad, because you're going to build an attachment to that child to some degree.
02:03:48.000And you have zero rights to that child if something goes down.
02:03:52.000So it's in a man's best interest to have his own kids, and to marry a woman that doesn't have kids, and raise your own seed.
02:04:00.000Because family court's already bad enough.
02:04:02.000You're already going to lose your own biological kids, more than likely.
02:04:05.000So you better at least have it be where you have a small chance of being able to see them versus having a stepchildren that aren't even yours.
02:04:10.000And last thing, in your own home, discipline is made up to the woman because remember, that's not your kid.
02:04:15.000So if you hit them, if you punish them, remember, it's motherly instincts saying, hey, you know what?
02:04:45.000They speak a lot of truths, man, and they choose... So, basically, they've looked at the sexual marketplace that we just described, with the globalized marketplace, and hypergamon, steroids, whatever, and they've decided, I'm leaving, I'm not playing.
02:05:54.000You're booming and they'll talk about you no matter what.
02:05:56.000Yeah, like, when you've got drama shows like H3H3, where their whole thing is to, like, drama, not issues, then it makes sense they would want to talk about me because I was criticizing them and they were doing this thing with Crowder or whatever.
02:06:09.000But I mean, there's no real overlap between anything that we do.
02:06:13.000Like, you know, all the conversation with Sam Seder about deontology or utilitarianism, and the guy's not smart enough to know what those things are.
02:06:21.000And then Ethan will bring that guy on his show, who's not smart enough to know basic philosophical concepts, to be able to talk about things like solipsism or whatever.
02:06:27.000If we're gonna talk about, like, the current political state of, you know, Taiwan, China, of which I'm not even an expert, and then some guy who does a drama show who's like, I don't do any research, I just do whatever I'm told by the government, like, there's not even an overlap there.
02:06:38.000By all means, guys, like, we're not a pop culture podcast, you know what I mean?
02:06:43.000So it's in his best interest to be like, ah, you know, Tim Pool or whatever, and then do this thing with Steven Crowder.
02:06:49.000We talk about a lot of stuff that's extremely esoteric and it's not particularly valuable, which is tough.
02:06:53.000Because I know that if we do a drama show, if we do drama and gossip and Britney Spears and all that stuff and Minecraft or Fortnite, that's money in the bank.
02:07:45.000Like, when girls, like, leave a guy, or whatever, and he's, like, he just doesn't give her an emotional rollercoaster, because women are slaves to their emotions, man.
02:07:51.000There's a reason why they love crime dramas, and why they, you know, they like certain types of television, and gossiping, and all this other stuff.
02:08:37.000Yeah, men and women are better together than they are apart.
02:08:39.000Yes, there's some situations that make it almost impossible nowadays with marriage and women being incentivized to break that marriage contract.
02:08:45.000But, you know, men and women work together.
02:08:48.000We've done it for centuries and we've come pretty far, right?
02:08:51.000You're looking at us and 1080p right now, right?
02:08:55.000Rondo says yo, I never thought I'd see fresh and fit on Tim cast fresh and fit How do I convince my friend to not hate women?
02:09:02.000He had his heart broken when he was dating.
02:09:04.000Oh Yeah, so he's going through that rage right now.
02:09:07.000Yeah, the biggest thing dude is You got to understand guys that you know shout out to our boy Rollo again like I agree with him 100% on this like women love opportunistically man like you got to bring something to the table and I think a lot of the times when men get frustrated with women it's because they think that it's a Disney fairytale she's gonna love me for me unconditional love we we had a discussion one time with girls and you know they were all saying like yeah I believe in unconditional love again what do I always say women get the privilege of living in a Disney fairytale you got to live in a fact-based reality as a man
02:10:11.000No, guys, you need the fulfillment through you.
02:10:14.000You need to be working on your business, your fitness, becoming a better man, because when you become a better man and a woman is just a complement to your life, bang, she's going to immediately fall into her place and her feminine.
02:10:22.000She's going to know that you're on a path and women She's not your co-pilot, guys.
02:10:46.000If you would level up you know to a certain level you could have her break your heart that sucks of course but guess what you're at a high level where you have options you know to your life so if she messes up guess what Janet's here Jackie's here so it doesn't really matter it doesn't hurt you that bad because you have options for yourself so Right on, man.
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02:12:08.000I wanted to close with a quote, which I don't usually do, but I was thinking about this quote while we were talking tonight, and this is something that's been bothering me a lot about feminism lately.
02:12:16.000This quote is from Musashi, and it says, And I think this is exactly what's happening with feminism, and that is what breaks my heart.