01:10:41.100And also the comment about waiting for your enemies to float by, because another thing that is, that I am learning.
01:10:47.420And I was fortunately told it by a wise man who I, because I've started to consult wise men now, because I think it's probably a good idea.
01:10:55.660And he said, sometimes the best thing to do is just sit on your hands and do nothing.
01:11:09.220And I was speaking to this guy and he said, sometimes it's just, you know, the fight comes to you, man.
01:11:14.820It's not like you're running around the playground looking for people to punch.
01:11:17.900There come all, there's a queue of them lining up to punch you in the face.
01:11:21.820So you don't need to, you don't need to chase the fight.
01:11:24.420You need to, you know, and that's, I think, actually one of the good things.
01:11:27.440So I've, not only have I enjoyed talking, but I've also, it is a, it is a, it's a thought I will take away.
01:11:34.560Because it's like, you don't need to be on a wall footing all the time.
01:11:39.560Certainly not for cortisol levels and stress levels within you, but you get quite used to them.
01:11:45.320So, so when you get, when you go on a summer holiday or something and it's like, what we can do is say, have a few beers and go water skiing.
01:11:51.480It's like, yeah, but, but how are we going to change the way water skiing is done?
01:11:57.680It's like, yeah, that's what I mean about the process.
01:12:00.580You know, it's early in my sort of understanding about what I'm meant to be here to do, which is sort of a question that we should all ask ourselves all the time.
01:12:09.160And the problem is, is when you start fusing conflict with your identity and that's the moment you get into somewhere dark because you start thinking, well, what I am here to do is to do X.
01:12:21.640And all of a sudden when X isn't available, then what is?
01:12:42.660And it's also like the, you know, exactly, it's sort of the French Revolution thing of once you start chopping people's heads off, in order for the French Revolution to continue and the terror, we have to chop some more people's heads off.
01:12:56.480But also there is, the counter argument to that is defence rather than attack.
01:13:04.520You know, it's the shield versus the sword, which one is more useful, but both are required.
01:13:10.860Well, I think it's something that all of us are trying to navigate.
01:13:13.060So it's been a pleasure having you back, Lawrence, and talking about all of this.
01:13:16.560Before we ask questions from our supporters that only they will get to see the answers to on Locals that they've already submitted, we've got one final question for you, which is always the same.
01:13:25.120What is the one thing we're not talking about that we really should be?
01:13:28.780Well, we just talked about it for ages.