TRIGGERnometry - April 03, 2024


My Trans Twitter Spat With J.K Rowling - Caolan Robertson


Episode Stats

Length

58 minutes

Words per Minute

210.51411

Word Count

12,407

Sentence Count

1,006

Misogynist Sentences

9

Hate Speech Sentences

44


Summary

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In this episode of Trigonometry, we speak to journalist Caelan Kelly about her controversial interview with trans journalist India Willoughby. During the interview, India revealed that they'd called the police on JK Rowling and that she could be arrested.

Transcript

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00:00:30.680 During the interview India revealed that they'd called the police on JK Rowling.
00:00:35.720 And that JK Rowling could be arrested.
00:00:37.940 And then JK Rowling responded to it.
00:00:39.500 And I ended up just calling JK Rowling a c**t.
00:00:42.040 And obviously I apologised the next day.
00:00:43.580 And then she responded.
00:00:44.840 And I think she's been driven to breaking point actually.
00:00:48.240 Over time, the longer you spend on Twitter.
00:00:50.520 Naturally I think you just get drawn down more of kind of extreme rabbit holes.
00:00:54.480 It is seen on the left on Twitter as okay to call JK Rowling a c**t.
00:00:59.320 Because we don't see people as human beings on the other side of our politics anymore.
00:01:04.220 So Caelan, welcome to Trigonometry.
00:01:06.940 You are in the process of leaving Byline Times following a conversation that you hosted with India Willoughby.
00:01:13.500 Who's by the way a former guest of our show.
00:01:15.740 Although it was a very different India Willoughby that came on our show I think.
00:01:18.820 It's fair to say.
00:01:19.500 And then there was a big spat with JK Rowling involved.
00:01:23.080 And some nasty things being said.
00:01:25.120 And apologies and whatever.
00:01:26.140 So why don't you tell us what happened.
00:01:28.780 So I've run Byline TV for four years.
00:01:31.320 It's a little bit different to the paper.
00:01:32.980 Editorially it was something I was deciding.
00:01:35.840 Who we interview and who we have on the shows.
00:01:38.160 And I saw on Twitter that JK Rowling had misgendered India.
00:01:43.620 If that's what you want to call it.
00:01:44.620 Called him a man.
00:01:46.140 And it was in the news.
00:01:48.200 And it was really shocking.
00:01:49.820 Apparently to a huge number of people.
00:01:51.600 So I DM'd India and said.
00:01:53.800 Hey do you want to come on Byline TV and talk about this?
00:01:58.140 And they accepted.
00:02:00.360 Got a train down the next day.
00:02:01.540 Because I just thought this was a really newsworthy thing.
00:02:03.800 This is what I've been doing for the last four years.
00:02:05.740 Is covering things that are current.
00:02:07.200 Interesting.
00:02:08.460 Generally culturally interesting.
00:02:09.600 There was not really an agenda or anything behind it.
00:02:12.740 And during the interview India revealed that they'd called the police on JK Rowling.
00:02:18.920 And that JK Rowling could be arrested.
00:02:21.340 Which is a huge.
00:02:23.460 Just basically a huge story.
00:02:25.180 Right?
00:02:25.440 It was shocking to hear.
00:02:28.540 So I rushed out and put that out.
00:02:31.320 JK Rowling has definitely committed a crime.
00:02:35.280 I'm legally a woman.
00:02:36.920 She knows I'm a woman.
00:02:39.020 And she calls me a man.
00:02:41.760 Well I've been to the police.
00:02:43.640 And I've reported it as an issue.
00:02:45.460 I contacted Northumbria Constabulary yesterday.
00:02:50.900 So you reported JK Rowling to the police?
00:02:53.180 I have reported JK Rowling to the police.
00:02:57.320 For what she said.
00:02:58.740 Calling a trans person a man.
00:03:03.420 Deliberately knowing that that person is a woman.
00:03:06.500 And I am a woman regardless of what JK Rowling says.
00:03:09.300 I've been through everything that's required of me.
00:03:11.800 My birth certificate says female.
00:03:14.040 My passport.
00:03:14.860 All of my documents.
00:03:16.100 It is a hate crime.
00:03:17.760 And it should be treated just as somebody calling a black person the N word.
00:03:23.520 Or an Asian person the P word.
00:03:26.980 Something I expected to get coverage in the press.
00:03:30.620 Maybe a million views.
00:03:31.800 But it exploded way beyond anything I'd ever posted in my political life.
00:03:37.920 On the left or the right.
00:03:39.600 With something like 21 million views in a day.
00:03:43.160 And then JK Rowling responded to it.
00:03:45.000 And was like oh this is nonsense.
00:03:47.820 This is poor journalism.
00:03:48.860 This is garbage.
00:03:49.400 And then started personally attacking me for the whole day with 11 personal tweets.
00:03:54.000 Googling my past.
00:03:55.100 Saying I was a grifter.
00:03:57.020 Saying that I.
00:03:57.640 And then literally was tweeting my response to the interview.
00:04:02.680 Saying that I was calling India a him.
00:04:05.160 Which I literally wasn't.
00:04:06.240 If you watch the video it says them.
00:04:07.440 I used journalistic integrity.
00:04:09.600 I questioned them about the rise of detransitioners.
00:04:12.320 I questioned them about some of the darker side of the trans community.
00:04:16.560 Which I think was just trolling.
00:04:18.080 And just trying to basically take the piss.
00:04:20.020 And just try to turn everyone against me.
00:04:22.020 And just cause a massive shit show.
00:04:26.840 Which was really overwhelming.
00:04:29.220 Like I've never been at the center of a culture debate like that before.
00:04:32.740 I've never had it where someone as big as JK Rowling is like personally attacking me.
00:04:36.420 For even something I didn't do.
00:04:39.520 And I think the interview was justified.
00:04:41.120 Like as a journalist.
00:04:42.900 Interviewing someone about something that they've done.
00:04:46.360 Reporting a massive celebrity to the police.
00:04:48.020 Is fairly normal.
00:04:49.340 It's a fairly standard process.
00:04:50.980 So I just.
00:04:51.980 I found that.
00:04:53.800 Just a really extreme unhealthy situation.
00:04:57.140 I've never spoken or gotten involved in the trans debate before.
00:05:00.200 I've always talked about Brexit.
00:05:01.600 On the right it was immigration.
00:05:03.040 It was culture.
00:05:03.660 But I've never really put my foot in that.
00:05:05.620 And didn't realize how fucked up it was.
00:05:08.280 Until that day.
00:05:09.740 And then India started getting really angry.
00:05:12.240 Because.
00:05:12.940 And tweeting about me.
00:05:13.720 Because I.
00:05:14.500 I guess.
00:05:16.280 Misgendered them.
00:05:17.500 Which I didn't.
00:05:18.360 And then the trans right activists were coming after me.
00:05:20.680 The JK Rowling fans were coming after me.
00:05:22.180 And it was just like an absolute shit show.
00:05:23.960 And I kind of.
00:05:24.320 I guess this is why no one else.
00:05:26.380 Really.
00:05:27.080 In the journalism sphere.
00:05:28.420 Gets involved.
00:05:29.440 And has a lot of these conversations.
00:05:30.680 Because of how toxic it's all become.
00:05:33.800 And it kind of amalgamated with.
00:05:36.840 So much vitriol.
00:05:38.620 I just started losing the plot.
00:05:40.200 Like I couldn't really cope with it.
00:05:41.780 I mean I was getting messages from family.
00:05:43.760 From school friends.
00:05:44.420 Who were being DM'd from like.
00:05:46.420 Instagram.
00:05:47.080 And my Facebook pages.
00:05:49.380 From JK Rowling fans.
00:05:51.240 And trans right activists.
00:05:52.280 Saying just like absolute abuse.
00:05:55.100 And I ended up just calling JK Rowling a cunt.
00:05:57.680 Because she was.
00:05:58.340 I felt like she was trolling me.
00:06:00.020 Completely.
00:06:00.620 Constantly.
00:06:01.200 To like breaking point.
00:06:03.840 Which is.
00:06:05.420 Obviously she's not.
00:06:07.460 But I think she knew what she was doing.
00:06:11.320 In trying to.
00:06:12.940 Like.
00:06:14.600 Derail the interview.
00:06:15.660 Derail the whole thing.
00:06:16.840 Undermine.
00:06:17.560 Me.
00:06:17.980 Byline.
00:06:18.400 Everyone.
00:06:19.420 And I think it was just.
00:06:20.360 I think it just broke in the end.
00:06:22.280 Why do you think she was doing that?
00:06:24.520 Because it's quite a strong.
00:06:25.940 Allegation to make against JK Rowling.
00:06:27.680 My experience of her.
00:06:30.640 Statements in public.
00:06:31.800 Has been that she's quite moderate actually.
00:06:33.440 Given someone.
00:06:35.320 Who takes.
00:06:36.500 Way more abuse than even you experienced.
00:06:38.540 In that one incident.
00:06:39.680 I don't blame her.
00:06:41.040 I think what she's been through.
00:06:43.280 Is extreme.
00:06:44.760 And the harassment.
00:06:45.500 And her.
00:06:45.860 Her entire legacy.
00:06:47.760 Attempted to be undermined by.
00:06:49.780 Trans right activists.
00:06:50.360 And LGBT people.
00:06:52.280 Is horrific.
00:06:53.860 And undeserved.
00:06:54.920 And it wasn't really until a few days after.
00:06:57.740 And obviously I apologized the next day.
00:06:59.300 And then she responded three.
00:07:00.960 Like really really gracious responses.
00:07:02.860 Being like.
00:07:04.100 This was.
00:07:05.420 Completely.
00:07:06.260 Like.
00:07:06.560 Out of nowhere for Cailin to apologize.
00:07:08.060 I didn't ask for this.
00:07:08.860 I really appreciate it.
00:07:10.480 We all say things we regret.
00:07:12.060 And I realized that she's.
00:07:14.440 Like.
00:07:15.220 I mean that was lovely.
00:07:16.680 And I think she's been driven to breaking point.
00:07:19.020 Actually.
00:07:19.740 By all of this stuff from the last few years.
00:07:21.560 And I think when she sees an interview.
00:07:23.420 With someone who's basically trying to get them arrested.
00:07:26.200 She's going to go.
00:07:27.020 I think she just flipped.
00:07:28.120 And she was just furious.
00:07:29.160 And she was just trying to throw it all back.
00:07:30.820 I mean.
00:07:30.980 The whole trans debate.
00:07:33.840 Is so unbelievably vitriolic and toxic.
00:07:37.120 And I would even say.
00:07:38.780 More so from the TRA side.
00:07:41.800 That.
00:07:42.800 I don't.
00:07:43.700 I guess I don't blame JK Rowling for.
00:07:45.580 For feeling the way she felt.
00:07:46.720 And for going after me.
00:07:49.400 And.
00:07:51.040 You know.
00:07:51.340 I've been against.
00:07:52.720 Like.
00:07:53.160 The horrid culture war.
00:07:56.100 Vitriolic.
00:07:56.860 You know.
00:07:57.180 Twitter behavior.
00:07:57.980 For the last few years.
00:07:59.000 I can't stand all of that.
00:08:00.100 I tried to stay out of it.
00:08:01.040 And even.
00:08:01.480 I became like that.
00:08:02.700 I became one of those horrible people.
00:08:04.100 That night.
00:08:04.540 When I tweeted that too.
00:08:05.880 Just from being in it for a day.
00:08:07.420 So I can't imagine what she's been going through.
00:08:10.100 But yeah.
00:08:12.100 I'm guessing.
00:08:12.700 What I'm curious about.
00:08:13.960 Is why you think.
00:08:15.280 Her response.
00:08:16.240 Was an attempt to undermine the interview.
00:08:18.200 And attack you personally.
00:08:19.280 Because.
00:08:19.820 If somebody had done a piece about me.
00:08:23.180 That.
00:08:24.100 Had someone come in.
00:08:25.420 Who's clearly mentally unstable.
00:08:27.380 Who'd claimed to have reported me.
00:08:28.940 For the police.
00:08:29.360 To the police.
00:08:29.880 For what is clearly not a crime.
00:08:32.560 I'd make fun of that.
00:08:34.480 Whole thing too.
00:08:36.260 So I guess.
00:08:37.020 I'm.
00:08:37.340 I'm.
00:08:37.860 I'm curious.
00:08:38.520 That you think this was.
00:08:39.780 Kind of.
00:08:40.260 An attempt to attack you.
00:08:41.420 And undermine you.
00:08:42.960 Why.
00:08:43.460 Why you think that.
00:08:44.400 Well.
00:08:44.600 I think.
00:08:44.920 I was just.
00:08:45.520 An interviewer.
00:08:46.160 Asking.
00:08:46.980 What has happened.
00:08:47.760 In the last 24 hours.
00:08:48.860 India said.
00:08:49.700 She had reported.
00:08:50.440 JK Rowling to the police.
00:08:51.300 So I didn't have a stake in it.
00:08:53.000 I didn't have an opinion in it.
00:08:53.960 I didn't say.
00:08:54.460 Oh that's great.
00:08:55.320 Like.
00:08:55.760 Let's.
00:08:56.120 Let's go and watch the arrest.
00:08:57.520 There wasn't.
00:08:57.940 There wasn't a piece in it that I had.
00:09:00.280 And I've never gone against people like JK Rowling in the past.
00:09:03.220 So I think it was.
00:09:04.080 I think it was an attempt to basically just shut that whole thing down.
00:09:08.600 She was probably annoyed at me for even speaking to India.
00:09:11.440 And even giving that person any airtime.
00:09:13.580 And I think.
00:09:15.920 I think it was pretty unfair.
00:09:18.340 But I understand why she did it.
00:09:19.420 And I understand the point that she's at.
00:09:20.920 Of just being absolutely done with all of this.
00:09:24.320 So it's difficult.
00:09:26.620 Caelan.
00:09:27.140 One thing that.
00:09:28.420 I find.
00:09:30.340 Quite.
00:09:31.860 Bizarre.
00:09:32.360 Is that you didn't realize how toxic this was.
00:09:35.040 As someone who's very much lived in the online space.
00:09:37.860 You must have been aware.
00:09:40.940 You know.
00:09:41.340 That you were stepping into.
00:09:43.200 You know.
00:09:43.580 The most toxic debate.
00:09:45.500 On the internet.
00:09:46.340 At the moment.
00:09:47.180 Well.
00:09:47.720 In my entire track record.
00:09:49.280 I've never set foot in that debate.
00:09:50.980 I've never made a comment about it.
00:09:52.160 And I thought.
00:09:52.540 As an interviewer.
00:09:53.700 At the other side of the table.
00:09:54.840 Who's literally just asking questions.
00:09:56.720 That I would have a separation to that.
00:09:58.200 I'm not.
00:09:59.060 Giving commentary.
00:10:00.240 Or opinion.
00:10:01.000 So it seemed relatively safe.
00:10:02.560 It might be a little bit spicy.
00:10:03.600 It might be.
00:10:04.000 Like a news report.
00:10:04.700 But I didn't expect it to be that intense.
00:10:07.980 And to have someone with that many followers.
00:10:09.600 And you know.
00:10:10.220 Elon Musk was liking tweets about me.
00:10:11.800 That she was.
00:10:12.280 She was putting out.
00:10:13.020 I mean.
00:10:13.160 It was.
00:10:13.440 It was all over the place.
00:10:14.700 And I didn't expect that.
00:10:15.740 And I didn't expect it to be personal.
00:10:17.520 So.
00:10:18.560 And I don't think.
00:10:19.420 I don't think most people would.
00:10:20.360 If they were just doing an interview with someone.
00:10:21.940 And not passing opinion.
00:10:23.620 Fair enough.
00:10:24.340 So.
00:10:25.200 You tweeted what you tweeted.
00:10:26.840 You then apologized.
00:10:28.000 She very graciously accepted.
00:10:30.520 Then what happened?
00:10:33.160 Well.
00:10:33.640 I'm basically just.
00:10:35.040 Done with.
00:10:36.200 I've worked for.
00:10:37.180 Left wing and right wing media.
00:10:38.120 For like nearly a decade now.
00:10:40.360 And.
00:10:40.780 It has been.
00:10:42.080 It's been.
00:10:43.380 There's been amazing points.
00:10:44.560 There's been points that have been.
00:10:46.200 I've made great work.
00:10:47.520 And I'm really really proud of it.
00:10:48.480 And added stuff to the world.
00:10:49.800 That I think are good films.
00:10:50.760 And good pieces of content.
00:10:51.680 But I think it's.
00:10:52.580 It takes its toll.
00:10:54.760 Massively on someone.
00:10:55.880 Whose job it is basically.
00:10:57.320 To constantly be.
00:10:58.800 Be responding to what's going on in the news.
00:11:00.760 And constantly being on Twitter.
00:11:01.640 And constantly.
00:11:02.320 You know.
00:11:02.480 Being part of.
00:11:03.260 Of debate.
00:11:04.420 And it's gotten.
00:11:05.440 Extremely toxic recently.
00:11:06.520 So I'm just going to.
00:11:07.380 Take a break for six months.
00:11:08.480 I'm not going to do any work for six months.
00:11:09.800 And I'm going to.
00:11:10.600 Probably start my own.
00:11:12.260 Network.
00:11:12.740 Something down the middle.
00:11:13.680 Something that isn't left or right.
00:11:14.860 Or up or down.
00:11:16.040 Or pro or anti-trans.
00:11:16.940 Something.
00:11:17.380 Right down the middle.
00:11:18.040 That people can make up their own minds about.
00:11:19.740 And just going back to making good films.
00:11:21.480 Because.
00:11:22.000 It's really easy.
00:11:22.860 When you're on the internet.
00:11:23.640 If you.
00:11:23.920 Even if you're a journalist.
00:11:24.760 This is why so many people get involved in it.
00:11:26.100 To go down rabbit holes.
00:11:29.080 And to start chasing clicks.
00:11:30.480 And start chasing likes.
00:11:31.540 And start following where the drama is.
00:11:33.260 And where the attention is.
00:11:33.940 Before you know it.
00:11:34.600 You become.
00:11:35.340 The thing that you.
00:11:37.020 Was the opposite of what you set out to be.
00:11:38.980 And that keeps happening.
00:11:40.740 And I think the algorithms keep pulling you that way.
00:11:42.700 And I just want to go offline for about six months.
00:11:45.080 I think that's what most people need to do.
00:11:47.080 Right now as well.
00:11:48.120 Just unplug.
00:11:49.080 Just disappear.
00:11:49.660 Keep watching.
00:11:50.380 Like and subscribe.
00:11:51.340 Yeah.
00:11:51.840 Yeah.
00:11:52.240 Well I think most people that are really hyper engaged in Twitter that I know.
00:11:55.780 On the left and right still.
00:11:57.240 Are burnt out.
00:11:58.780 Exhausted.
00:11:59.640 Becoming more angry.
00:12:01.140 And becoming just.
00:12:01.880 Just vitriolic.
00:12:03.040 And feeling the same way that I've been feeling about everything.
00:12:05.600 And I think everyone needs to.
00:12:07.320 Spend more time off.
00:12:08.620 Off Twitter.
00:12:10.460 At least for breaks.
00:12:11.520 Because it's become.
00:12:12.280 It's become.
00:12:13.000 One of the most.
00:12:14.220 Like toxic places I've ever seen.
00:12:16.380 Much more than when I was on the right.
00:12:18.120 Really?
00:12:18.700 I think so.
00:12:20.660 As in 2016 to 2016.
00:12:22.240 2018.
00:12:23.520 So you think.
00:12:24.580 I think now it's more.
00:12:25.460 Extreme.
00:12:26.340 I think.
00:12:26.580 I think.
00:12:26.880 You know.
00:12:27.100 Elon Musk taking over was a good thing.
00:12:29.020 Because it means that everyone now has the same platform.
00:12:31.200 Everyone now has the same voice.
00:12:32.780 But.
00:12:33.600 The media industry has.
00:12:35.660 Collapsed even more.
00:12:36.640 Journalism has become more.
00:12:38.340 Crap.
00:12:39.160 The BBC are no longer in funding actual investigations anymore.
00:12:42.200 They're not doing real journalism anymore.
00:12:43.880 And they're basically leaving.
00:12:45.780 The entirety of society.
00:12:47.140 To debate.
00:12:47.800 And have all these conversations between each other.
00:12:49.820 So I'm mainly blaming the media for this.
00:12:51.360 It's got nothing really to do with.
00:12:52.740 With the.
00:12:53.140 With the algorithms.
00:12:54.900 And.
00:12:55.820 It's.
00:12:56.420 It's.
00:12:56.720 I think it's just caused everyone to go insane.
00:12:58.620 And it's.
00:12:59.060 It's not.
00:12:59.820 It's not a healthy environment.
00:13:01.040 I mean.
00:13:01.120 It was a good thing.
00:13:02.360 30 or 40 years ago.
00:13:03.160 When we could sit down.
00:13:04.020 And get our news.
00:13:04.800 From news reporters.
00:13:05.680 Who.
00:13:06.600 You know.
00:13:06.820 Gathered information all day.
00:13:08.000 Did it on the.
00:13:08.580 Did it on the ground.
00:13:09.440 Actual old fashioned.
00:13:10.340 Proper reporting.
00:13:11.040 Like panorama used to be.
00:13:12.640 And then deliver that news.
00:13:13.840 You'd watch it.
00:13:14.400 You'd get your information.
00:13:15.460 Wasn't always perfect.
00:13:16.360 And then you'd go and live the rest of your.
00:13:18.180 Life.
00:13:18.540 With your family.
00:13:19.120 And put food on your table.
00:13:20.380 Now it's like.
00:13:21.620 You have to do.
00:13:22.220 All of your research yourself.
00:13:23.520 You have to.
00:13:24.020 Argue with a thousand people on Twitter.
00:13:25.360 Before you get to a conclusion.
00:13:26.520 And you have to almost throw yourself.
00:13:27.700 Into a culture war.
00:13:28.300 Just to get.
00:13:29.180 Your news.
00:13:30.120 From your own news feed.
00:13:30.900 And I feel like it's.
00:13:32.120 I think it's just.
00:13:33.440 Basically broken.
00:13:34.460 How we even understand society anymore.
00:13:36.060 It's made people more insane.
00:13:37.240 We don't really know what to believe anymore.
00:13:39.140 And it's an unhealthy.
00:13:40.700 Place to be.
00:13:42.020 And as somebody who has.
00:13:43.500 Created content for a long time.
00:13:45.160 Have you found yourself being.
00:13:47.560 Pulled.
00:13:48.340 To one direction or another.
00:13:49.900 Because.
00:13:50.740 You know that that's going to generate more views.
00:13:52.580 You know.
00:13:53.620 That it's going to generate more revenue.
00:13:55.660 Et cetera.
00:13:56.520 I try.
00:13:57.560 More so on the right.
00:13:59.020 I was.
00:14:00.580 Creating.
00:14:00.900 More outrageous content.
00:14:02.340 For views.
00:14:02.860 It wasn't really about money.
00:14:04.240 We.
00:14:04.540 I mean.
00:14:04.860 I was.
00:14:05.400 Always working for people with a set salary.
00:14:07.160 That was very small.
00:14:07.900 So it didn't matter if they got more or less views.
00:14:09.400 I would always get the same amount of money.
00:14:10.640 But.
00:14:11.240 There is an excitement.
00:14:12.580 I think naturally.
00:14:13.520 To.
00:14:13.720 To.
00:14:14.060 To generate more clicks.
00:14:15.340 And to do something that more people see.
00:14:16.860 It feels.
00:14:17.240 It makes you feel like you have more of an impact.
00:14:19.040 So a lot of the time.
00:14:19.700 You know.
00:14:19.800 When I was working with.
00:14:20.680 Tommy Robinson.
00:14:21.320 We would.
00:14:22.720 Our content would become.
00:14:24.440 More leveled up.
00:14:26.360 Because we knew that it would get more.
00:14:28.060 More clicks.
00:14:28.620 It wasn't the case with.
00:14:29.600 You know.
00:14:29.720 When I was working with Lauren Southern.
00:14:31.120 Or people like that.
00:14:31.480 Can I just pause you there.
00:14:32.400 You say more leveled up.
00:14:33.480 What does that mean?
00:14:35.100 Well.
00:14:35.700 When you're writing scripts.
00:14:36.740 And talking about Islam.
00:14:37.860 It would be.
00:14:38.880 You know.
00:14:39.120 We would just use rhetoric.
00:14:40.060 That would become a little bit more.
00:14:42.040 Outrageous.
00:14:42.720 Because.
00:14:43.480 I guess I knew it would.
00:14:44.980 You know.
00:14:45.420 More people would watch it.
00:14:46.320 And then we'd have more of an impact.
00:14:47.400 And then we'd have more success.
00:14:48.740 With our message.
00:14:49.720 You know.
00:14:49.840 It wasn't this.
00:14:50.500 Completely insidious thing.
00:14:51.580 It was just.
00:14:52.020 That's almost the marketing tool you have to use.
00:14:54.920 To become more successful.
00:14:56.760 And to have a bigger audience.
00:14:59.040 And then to get your message out.
00:15:03.060 Mostly though.
00:15:03.900 I mean.
00:15:04.140 The work that I was most proud of.
00:15:05.420 You know.
00:15:05.620 Was things like.
00:15:06.540 You know.
00:15:06.980 With Farmlands.
00:15:07.740 Or with some of those documentaries.
00:15:08.840 That were considered.
00:15:09.680 That took a long time.
00:15:10.520 That were actually adding something.
00:15:12.640 To public debate.
00:15:14.180 The film I made in Ukraine.
00:15:15.200 That actually added to public debate.
00:15:16.860 Series considered things.
00:15:17.920 But those.
00:15:20.140 Those are great.
00:15:21.080 But over time.
00:15:22.040 The longer you spend on Twitter.
00:15:23.400 It naturally.
00:15:24.280 I think you just get drawn.
00:15:25.360 Drawn down more.
00:15:26.360 Of kind of extreme rabbit holes.
00:15:27.360 When this is why no one's really doing.
00:15:28.760 Real journalism anymore as well.
00:15:30.160 I don't think.
00:15:30.640 I think this is why everyone's atomizing.
00:15:32.460 And going independent.
00:15:33.320 It's why.
00:15:34.060 You know.
00:15:34.300 Megyn Kelly has a commentary show now.
00:15:36.460 Instead of doing the original journalism.
00:15:37.820 She used to do.
00:15:38.260 I think it's why everyone's splitting off.
00:15:39.880 And breaking off from their networks.
00:15:41.460 Because they're saying more and more outrageous things.
00:15:43.300 Like you know.
00:15:43.680 Candace Owens.
00:15:44.400 All these other people.
00:15:45.120 I think it's atomizing everyone.
00:15:46.760 And causing everyone to be on a rat race.
00:15:49.380 To be the leader of who can say the most outrageous extreme things.
00:15:51.600 To get the most engagement.
00:15:52.780 So that they can have the biggest message.
00:15:54.080 It doesn't necessarily mean it's always a bad thing.
00:15:56.060 Because having more reach.
00:15:58.300 Is good for everyone.
00:16:00.100 But the mental health impact.
00:16:02.200 I think is devastating.
00:16:03.840 And I think it can just break people.
00:16:05.380 It can cause them to become horrible.
00:16:07.120 And I can tell you that myself.
00:16:07.980 It definitely can.
00:16:08.660 What's interesting to me is.
00:16:09.700 I think there's a big role for personal responsibility.
00:16:12.420 In all of this.
00:16:13.080 Because 20 years ago.
00:16:14.560 If you put more outrageous things in the newspaper headline.
00:16:17.240 It would also sell more newspapers.
00:16:18.520 But there would have been somebody.
00:16:20.020 In the editorial team.
00:16:21.380 Who would have said.
00:16:21.700 No no.
00:16:21.940 We can't do this.
00:16:23.300 And I certainly don't feel that.
00:16:24.960 We've become more extreme over time.
00:16:26.840 I've become much more measured.
00:16:28.720 In what I post on Twitter over time.
00:16:31.100 And how I consume Twitter as well.
00:16:33.180 So I think there's.
00:16:33.900 There's a big role for your own thing.
00:16:35.640 But I want to take you back.
00:16:36.780 To your conversation with India.
00:16:38.160 Because you say you just did an interview.
00:16:41.100 Which from one perspective is true.
00:16:43.180 But I think the very nature of the trans discussion is such.
00:16:46.500 That it's actually very difficult.
00:16:49.460 To do an interview with somebody.
00:16:51.900 Without at least to some people taking a position.
00:16:55.620 For example.
00:16:57.560 You said you didn't call India him.
00:17:00.080 But I thought I saw a video that you did.
00:17:02.940 Maybe I'm wrong.
00:17:04.140 I'm happy to be corrected.
00:17:05.460 But throughout this conversation.
00:17:07.960 You've called India them.
00:17:09.580 Which is to me.
00:17:10.840 No offense to you personally.
00:17:12.380 But just as a position.
00:17:13.620 Is even more ridiculous.
00:17:15.080 Than.
00:17:16.640 Because India is not a them.
00:17:18.720 There isn't.
00:17:19.200 There is no them.
00:17:20.780 Right.
00:17:21.340 Do you see what I mean?
00:17:22.220 Well I know.
00:17:23.120 So.
00:17:23.560 Sorry.
00:17:24.020 Just to finish the point.
00:17:25.580 So.
00:17:26.160 By doing an interview with somebody.
00:17:28.260 That you then defend on that basis.
00:17:30.080 Or whether you talk about India as a them later.
00:17:32.920 You have already made yourself part of the of the way the conversation is being had.
00:17:38.760 No I think if calling India as she is taking one side of the culture war.
00:17:42.300 And calling India as him is taking one side of the culture war.
00:17:44.780 Calling India as them is basically not referring to them as either of those things.
00:17:48.620 Them isn't a thing.
00:17:49.620 It's basically just a neutral term.
00:17:51.140 Which I think is the way to.
00:17:52.880 I think is the most neutral way that you can you can come at it.
00:17:55.560 That's interesting.
00:17:56.180 So.
00:17:57.980 Well.
00:17:59.560 The most neutral thing.
00:18:01.480 I think it's the most neutral way that you can come you can come about it.
00:18:04.320 Well yes.
00:18:05.600 But it's kind of like.
00:18:07.160 Look.
00:18:08.240 Obviously people might disagree with this.
00:18:10.120 But it's kind of like saying.
00:18:11.540 You know.
00:18:12.360 It's like what the BBC said.
00:18:13.780 BBC said.
00:18:14.560 Well we're not calling Hamas terrorists.
00:18:16.120 Because we were trying to be neutral.
00:18:18.080 There is a truth.
00:18:20.500 That.
00:18:21.340 That you have to acknowledge.
00:18:23.160 Like India is male.
00:18:25.020 So India was born male.
00:18:26.820 India identifies as another gender now.
00:18:29.460 I might not agree.
00:18:30.980 You might not agree with what those things are.
00:18:33.380 So them is just.
00:18:34.220 It's an abstract term.
00:18:35.400 And then it takes away the whole gender.
00:18:37.260 Yeah.
00:18:37.360 I don't think it does.
00:18:38.400 Yeah.
00:18:38.860 Also Hamas are terrorists.
00:18:41.800 Right.
00:18:41.900 And India is male.
00:18:42.740 So India was born male.
00:18:44.760 But still is male.
00:18:45.700 You can't change whether you're male or not.
00:18:47.360 Well this is what's difficult.
00:18:48.600 Like is it an aggressive.
00:18:50.420 Is it a rude.
00:18:51.620 Is it a mean thing.
00:18:53.420 To call someone who looks like a woman.
00:18:56.780 A male.
00:18:57.580 I mean I don't think it's.
00:18:58.380 You know when Blair White was being interviewed.
00:19:00.100 By Candace Owens on Dave Rubin's show.
00:19:02.060 And Candace kept saying you're a man.
00:19:03.760 I thought that was horrible.
00:19:04.860 Blair clearly looks like a woman.
00:19:06.180 And I don't.
00:19:06.580 And I think even.
00:19:07.380 Even if India doesn't look.
00:19:08.980 Quite the same as Blair.
00:19:10.940 It means that it's okay to.
00:19:12.480 To just call him a man.
00:19:13.060 But I'm not saying you're a man to India's face.
00:19:15.360 I'm just saying.
00:19:16.300 When you talk about India in our conversation.
00:19:18.620 To many people.
00:19:20.560 You being unwilling.
00:19:22.100 To effectively be honest.
00:19:23.140 About what the truth is.
00:19:24.620 Will be seen as taking a position.
00:19:26.600 Well I think.
00:19:27.020 I think removing myself.
00:19:28.180 Because I'm supposed to be a journalist in this.
00:19:29.420 Removing myself from that whole debate.
00:19:31.220 Is saying.
00:19:32.180 They are they.
00:19:33.080 And they are them.
00:19:33.980 Because that's not the non-binary thing.
00:19:35.840 That's just referring to them.
00:19:36.940 As if I said India.
00:19:37.960 Instead of them.
00:19:38.860 And it just takes it away.
00:19:40.020 Because that's not what I'm trying to do.
00:19:41.120 I'm not trying to get involved in the culture war.
00:19:42.820 If I said she.
00:19:44.060 The right rolling people would be annoyed.
00:19:45.920 If I said him.
00:19:47.020 Then the trans right activists would be annoyed.
00:19:48.780 And that's not the debate that I'm trying to get into.
00:19:50.620 So I think it's the neutral.
00:19:53.460 Proper way to talk about.
00:19:55.420 I would argue your experience demonstrates otherwise.
00:19:57.740 But anyway.
00:20:00.540 Maybe.
00:20:01.600 You know.
00:20:05.100 You know.
00:20:06.660 Listening to experience.
00:20:08.700 On the one hand.
00:20:09.800 I go.
00:20:10.240 This is absolute insanity.
00:20:12.540 Where we've come to as a society.
00:20:15.280 That we're sitting down and having this conversation.
00:20:17.400 On the other hand.
00:20:18.300 I'm going.
00:20:19.060 Well.
00:20:20.020 You know.
00:20:20.520 What did you expect in a way.
00:20:23.680 And what does I really say about society and journalism.
00:20:27.400 That this is the hottest topic.
00:20:29.280 If you're looking around at our society.
00:20:31.800 You're looking at wars breaking out.
00:20:33.340 You're looking at people struggling to afford the basics of life.
00:20:38.160 Housing crisis.
00:20:39.340 Whatever it may be.
00:20:40.740 Political system.
00:20:41.560 Not being fit for purpose.
00:20:43.520 What do you think is so incredibly toxic about this issue?
00:20:49.240 Well.
00:20:49.560 A lot of.
00:20:50.680 Generally.
00:20:51.560 Politics has become more toxic.
00:20:53.220 Just all across the board.
00:20:54.520 Even if you're talking about Ukraine.
00:20:55.680 Then you get called.
00:20:56.700 You know.
00:20:56.900 It's all called a proxy war.
00:20:58.120 Or you're called anti-Putra.
00:20:59.180 You know.
00:20:59.360 And that's become completely toxic.
00:21:00.960 You can't talk about Palestine or Israel anymore.
00:21:02.940 Without death threats.
00:21:04.100 You can't talk about almost any subject.
00:21:06.020 This is just slightly hotter than that.
00:21:08.120 Because we're very bougie in Britain.
00:21:09.980 And we like to talk about local issues.
00:21:11.240 And things that are easy.
00:21:13.280 And that's what journalism is focusing on.
00:21:15.020 But.
00:21:15.180 I mean.
00:21:16.360 I get told by so many people.
00:21:17.560 Well.
00:21:17.740 Why.
00:21:17.960 What did you expect?
00:21:18.640 Why did you just not have this conversation?
00:21:20.240 Why did you just not get involved in this?
00:21:21.500 Why did you just not cover this story?
00:21:23.020 And I'm like.
00:21:23.380 Well.
00:21:23.460 Maybe that's also one of the reasons.
00:21:25.040 That it's so difficult to talk about.
00:21:26.640 And it's so bad.
00:21:27.860 Because people just expect you not to get into it.
00:21:29.940 And not to talk about it.
00:21:30.760 And not to.
00:21:31.240 And to have it as an issue that we.
00:21:32.820 That we ignore.
00:21:34.180 And I think that's unhealthy as well.
00:21:35.680 But.
00:21:36.260 Generally.
00:21:36.860 Everything has become more fucked.
00:21:38.820 Working on the left and the right.
00:21:40.280 And seeing all of the.
00:21:41.480 All of the different dynamics.
00:21:43.080 And all of the different subjects.
00:21:44.460 It's become almost impossible to discuss anything on Twitter anymore.
00:21:48.440 Because we've all just.
00:21:49.440 We've all.
00:21:49.760 We all just hate each other now.
00:21:50.900 You know.
00:21:51.020 People.
00:21:52.560 Are not actually that horrible in real life.
00:21:55.560 You know.
00:21:55.740 People on the left.
00:21:56.460 Who I've worked with recently.
00:21:57.220 Who are really high profile figures.
00:21:58.900 Can be absolutely.
00:22:00.480 Lovely and loyal behind the scenes.
00:22:02.000 Who I'll probably have friends for the rest of my life.
00:22:03.760 And it's the same with people on the right.
00:22:05.220 But as soon as they get their phone out.
00:22:07.040 They become completely different people.
00:22:08.560 And they become incapable of even seeing the other side as human beings.
00:22:11.880 Seeing the other side as.
00:22:12.880 As.
00:22:13.200 As.
00:22:13.500 As normal.
00:22:14.200 It's even when I left.
00:22:15.760 The right.
00:22:17.180 And started working on the center left.
00:22:18.820 There were so many people that would say.
00:22:21.160 You should never have.
00:22:22.080 You should never have left.
00:22:23.340 You know.
00:22:23.820 You should never work again.
00:22:25.160 Who would make massive complaints.
00:22:26.220 That I should never be able to be employed again.
00:22:28.060 Never mind.
00:22:28.440 Make news again on those.
00:22:29.460 On those spectrums.
00:22:30.080 Because they don't see people.
00:22:31.220 Who engage in debates about things like immigration.
00:22:33.800 Or free speech.
00:22:34.640 As human beings.
00:22:35.520 Who should be allowed to even exist or work anymore.
00:22:37.560 And that's completely fucked too.
00:22:39.540 So.
00:22:41.180 It's.
00:22:41.640 It's just been.
00:22:45.480 Completely devastating to see.
00:22:46.960 It looks like that kind of decline of civilization and society.
00:22:49.960 Through the internet.
00:22:51.620 And.
00:22:52.520 I don't think it's going to get any better.
00:22:54.180 But the trans debate.
00:22:54.880 Again.
00:22:55.100 It's no better than the Palestine-Israel debate.
00:22:56.580 It's no different to the Ukraine.
00:22:58.800 Russia debate.
00:22:59.680 I think it is different.
00:23:01.180 For the reasons that we just tried to discuss.
00:23:03.300 Which is.
00:23:04.540 The problem.
00:23:05.440 The reason the trans debate is so toxic.
00:23:07.340 Is it's.
00:23:07.680 It's kind of.
00:23:08.920 Indicative of a broader thing.
00:23:10.660 Where we've become a society that prioritizes.
00:23:15.160 Being nice over being honest.
00:23:18.500 And.
00:23:19.140 So.
00:23:19.860 The them.
00:23:20.680 The them.
00:23:21.500 That's why I picked up on this.
00:23:22.800 Right.
00:23:23.320 It's like.
00:23:24.340 We had India on the show.
00:23:25.700 And we were very respectful.
00:23:27.320 And welcoming.
00:23:28.380 And blah blah blah.
00:23:29.740 But.
00:23:30.680 It doesn't change biological reality.
00:23:33.040 I'm happy to call India India.
00:23:35.720 Right.
00:23:36.300 But.
00:23:37.400 I guess what I'm saying is.
00:23:38.740 I think it's very different.
00:23:39.560 Because at the core of it.
00:23:41.140 There is an unwillingness to be honest about a truth.
00:23:44.460 In order to be nice.
00:23:45.940 Which is not the case with Israel and Palestine.
00:23:48.260 It's just a tribal conflict.
00:23:49.540 It's not the case with Ukraine and Russia.
00:23:51.520 It's just a international conflict etc.
00:23:54.360 But on this issue.
00:23:55.480 I think the reason it has become.
00:23:57.400 As prominent as it has.
00:23:59.360 Is you have you know leading politicians.
00:24:01.460 Keir Starmer at some point.
00:24:02.800 You know not knowing what a woman is.
00:24:04.100 And all this other stuff.
00:24:05.260 And a lot of people just see that as dishonesty.
00:24:08.100 Yeah.
00:24:08.340 I mean also.
00:24:08.880 Britain is a unique.
00:24:11.320 Also in Britain like.
00:24:12.860 We have a value system that is to be overly polite.
00:24:15.940 Like we're ridiculed of it across the world.
00:24:17.260 That is kind of what it is to be British.
00:24:18.660 So I think there should be a bit of a balance between.
00:24:21.060 Being nice and being honest.
00:24:22.080 Otherwise we're just going to be you know.
00:24:23.780 Brutally honest and horrible to each other all the time.
00:24:25.080 There's a lot of Eastern Bloc countries.
00:24:26.340 Which are a bit like that.
00:24:28.000 And it's kind of unpleasant as a culture.
00:24:29.720 So I think it's a good thing in your society.
00:24:31.520 In your culture.
00:24:32.360 To be a bit polite.
00:24:33.320 That doesn't mean you deny facts and reality completely.
00:24:35.460 Right.
00:24:35.680 I think calling someone them is polite.
00:24:37.880 And I don't think it hurts anyone.
00:24:39.240 I think it's fine.
00:24:40.060 I don't think it increases or decreases the culture war anymore.
00:24:42.400 I think that's a nice British thing just to be polite.
00:24:46.920 But I don't know.
00:24:47.840 I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:24:48.820 I mean you talk about that all the time with you know politeness and honesty.
00:24:51.500 But surely you know you acknowledge one of the great values about Britain is that we're
00:24:55.680 you know polite.
00:24:56.920 Completely.
00:24:57.280 But I think the reason the trans issue is a little bit different is that the downstream
00:25:01.940 and this is it took me a little while to truly get this as well.
00:25:06.160 So I didn't necessarily start in this position.
00:25:08.060 But with the trans issue the difference is that by being initially polite you then have
00:25:14.100 a bunch of downstream consequences because you are not able to talk about people's sex
00:25:18.020 properly.
00:25:19.040 If you if you say this person identifies as a woman and wants to dress as a woman and
00:25:24.760 have a feminine name and whatever but is male that's fine because when it comes to single
00:25:30.060 sex spaces when it comes to female sports etc you go well we accept India's right to
00:25:35.140 be whatever India wants to be except in these situations where India is still male.
00:25:40.040 You see what I mean?
00:25:40.780 Yeah.
00:25:41.060 Well I mean it's kind of you can also draw a line.
00:25:43.780 This is like what people used to say about gay marriage.
00:25:45.440 Once we allow gay marriage then we'll be allowing people to have sex with animals.
00:25:48.160 It's like once we allow one thing then the rest is going to go.
00:25:51.240 Once we're polite to trans people then it will become more.
00:25:53.280 No sorry just to be clear so that we were talking about the same thing.
00:25:56.460 I'm not saying if we call India a woman then at some point later down the line things will
00:26:02.620 get even worse.
00:26:03.820 What I'm saying is the logical consequence in the present moment of not acknowledging that
00:26:09.020 India is male is India is then entitled to do things that India shouldn't be entitled
00:26:12.980 to do well that's right now like go into a female space like participate in female sports
00:26:19.660 etc right.
00:26:20.620 So it's not about if we allow gay marriage then things will get even worse.
00:26:25.280 It's more like if we refuse to be honest about the truth now you're going to get Adam Graham
00:26:30.660 pretend that he's Isla Graham or Isla Bryson and end up in a female prison with a penis having
00:26:36.280 raped two women.
00:26:38.180 That's a good point.
00:26:38.880 Yeah I mean this is also why I probably shouldn't really have gotten into this because you know
00:26:45.600 far more about this than I do and I've never really researched it this was just an interesting
00:26:48.900 story and I just wanted to get that perspective and thought saying then was it was an all right
00:26:52.220 thing to do I think it's why I'm so sad about this whole situation because I didn't have like
00:26:55.960 a bad intention but yeah I mean what you're saying is true.
00:26:59.640 Bad intention I'm just saying I don't think it's possible to have these conversations and
00:27:05.580 fudge on certain things because you're just not you're not going to get anywhere.
00:27:10.400 So you think I should have called India a man in the response?
00:27:14.120 No I there's I actually if you want to be tactical about it what I would have just said is India
00:27:19.260 India India instead of them them them.
00:27:21.440 Yeah.
00:27:22.200 Fair enough.
00:27:22.840 Yeah that's how you might play it in that situation next time but but my point more broadly
00:27:27.920 is I just think this issue in particular is as contentious as it is because there's some
00:27:34.500 really key things that are being debated under the pretense of talking about the trans issue
00:27:40.380 and one of them is are we allowed to be truthful to prevent harm if it hurts someone's feelings
00:27:48.680 and my view after some consideration is yes we should be able to be honest even if some people
00:27:54.100 get upset by it.
00:27:55.100 Yeah and and it's also as well then you bring in the whole kids element of it you know kids
00:27:59.760 of a certain age 9 10 11 begin given puberty blockers when the reality is they can't possibly
00:28:05.440 consent to that form of medical intervention.
00:28:08.320 So what eventually happens with this issue is that people who aren't as aware of every facet of it
00:28:15.340 because it is kind of like an iceberg issue on the surface of it you go well we're just talking
00:28:20.080 about pronouns aren't we but there's everything else below and the moment people then walk into
00:28:27.140 this particular minefield they tread on something and they don't even actually know what's happened
00:28:32.840 or why something has blown up.
00:28:35.420 Yeah it's true but I think I think generally it's yeah I mean that makes sense it's something I guess
00:28:40.840 I still don't know that much about yeah um but I can see how that would work but it's also why I
00:28:45.640 haven't really discussed this ever really on a show before or done any work about it because it's
00:28:49.580 extremely complicated and I just don't know you know it's not my area of what I've ever you know
00:28:53.840 studied or talked about but um the other reason that the bio that this may have happened as well is
00:28:59.980 I think it's the publication that you worked for which is I'm keen to get back to which will be
00:29:05.220 perceived by many people as being kind of far left certainly the publication side of it and so when
00:29:11.500 a that publication does a piece with India Willoughby people are going to put those two
00:29:16.480 two and two together and then they're probably not going to give you the benefit of the doubt of
00:29:19.940 this is a neutral interviewer trying to have that conversation so I guess the question is you're now
00:29:25.020 leaving the byline times why is that?
00:29:27.580 well no I'm I'm I'm basically going to just take a step back for six months because I've spent
00:29:34.040 far too long on the internet far too long on twitter and far too long with these things
00:29:37.680 and I'm probably going to go and start another network but for six months I don't know for sure
00:29:41.160 what's going to happen but I just want to uh get off get off the internet because I'm going to go
00:29:45.200 completely insane like uh like a lot of my friends and colleagues uh well I know you can't talk about
00:29:49.240 everything because you you ended up signing and yeah I'm just curious to some extent what it is that
00:29:54.860 caused you to leave I guess yeah without getting you in trouble without getting you in trouble I'm
00:30:00.760 just curious well I mean it's what you can say I think it's just that I became the thing that um you
00:30:06.100 know this was a mutual decision I became the thing that I hate which is which is a which is someone
00:30:12.040 that was at the depths of the of the culture war floor on the internet that called a really high
00:30:16.980 profile you know one of the most successful children's author in the world a cunt and and just can't
00:30:22.440 and I just you know can't continue to you know do professional content and be and be like a
00:30:27.800 I don't know it's not a good look but it's also just embarrassing and it's not who I actually
00:30:33.260 like am and have been for the last few years I focused on making great films and great content
00:30:37.700 and actually trying to add something to the public discourse and through being involved in this stuff
00:30:42.640 even for 48 hours became the thing that I've criticized for years and became the thing about you
00:30:47.400 know internet radicalization rabbit holes becoming crazy became that again it has just made me want
00:30:53.100 to just you know take a step back again for six months and reset but it's extremely um yeah it's
00:30:57.980 extremely draining it's difficult can I just finish one thing on this because I'm so I totally get all
00:31:05.620 that and people everybody makes mistakes everybody what I'm what I was curious about is sitting in this
00:31:12.740 chair only a few months ago was Lawrence Fox who said that he wouldn't shag a female journalist
00:31:19.740 and I wonder if he had called that journalist a putrid cunt whether the response would have been
00:31:27.600 as measured and mild as actually it has been with you you've been on both left and right in the media
00:31:33.720 and I'm I just I wonder look I what Lawrence said you know we talked with him about it and I think he
00:31:39.980 was actually not necessarily all that happy with the way we conducted that interview I thought we
00:31:44.220 were fair because I did think that what he said was I mean what you said was way worse yeah uh but
00:31:50.800 what he said was also out of line but I guess my question is do you think that if Lawrence Fox had said
00:31:57.960 that he would have been treated the same as you've been treated you know do you see what I'm getting
00:32:02.920 that do people on different sides of politics who make broadly similar kinds of transgressions get
00:32:08.240 treated equally no I think it is seen on the left on Twitter as okay to call JK Rowling a cunt because
00:32:16.480 we don't see people as human beings on the other side of our politics anymore right-wingers do exactly
00:32:21.980 the same thing to people on the left which is why they think they're all pedos and they should be
00:32:25.160 thrown in jail they don't see them as human beings and people on the left don't see people
00:32:28.220 like JK Rowling as human beings in a lot of ways as well so when I made that comment which I don't mean
00:32:32.640 and I actually always liked JK Rowling um the um uh the fact that I have been even in the last
00:32:39.380 couple of weeks at events I've been to or events that are left-wing told oh you shouldn't have
00:32:44.460 deleted it you were right anyway you know you're on the side was sad because I shouldn't have said
00:32:49.640 that people people were saying to you you were right to call her that yeah people on the left um
00:32:54.880 because that's what they think they don't see people like JK Rowling as human beings because we
00:32:58.920 don't see anyone on the other side of our politics as human beings anymore because of the atomization
00:33:03.380 of things like Twitter and because of the way that we converse in our politics anymore and that's that's
00:33:07.980 the most sad thing um and I didn't really know it was that bad until I tweeted that um but it's horrible
00:33:15.620 but it's the future of our politics this is how we're all going to start conversing and seeing each
00:33:19.080 other not necessarily this show and you guys you've been doing this for a long time and in a measured
00:33:23.840 and proper way you haven't been chasing likes and clicks but most commentators do and that's why I
00:33:29.460 think people are people are breaking down that's why we're probably headed for something like civil
00:33:32.720 war one day because we don't see anyone else as human beings who don't have the same politics as
00:33:37.960 us anymore. Kaelin I find that the fact that the people on the left would come up to you and you know
00:33:45.560 metaphorically slap you on the back for that tweet when the left always talk about patriarchy
00:33:53.100 misogyny and you're a man who called and look you apologize fine but you're a man who called a
00:33:59.820 woman a cunt and that's incredible. There's going to be so many bleeps in this interview. Yeah it is.
00:34:05.300 Because we want that YouTube advertising money thank you very much. Exactly and it sounds it sounds
00:34:09.840 better when I say it let's be fair the accent it gives it a little je ne sais quoi but that's deeply
00:34:16.580 misogynistic. Yeah because because it isn't about misogyny it isn't about who's right and who's wrong
00:34:22.720 it's about us versus them and it's about it's about us being divided and the good side and the
00:34:27.860 evil side and that's all we see each other as. It doesn't matter whether it's actually misogynistic
00:34:31.940 or not. There are countless examples of stuff like this I saw on the right with hypocrisy as well
00:34:37.380 there's also. Like what give us some examples. Well I mean it's you know we talk about right-wingers
00:34:43.740 talk about grooming gangs being one of the central problems in Britain but there's a huge problem with
00:34:47.180 sexual abuse and sexual assault being tolerated with figures on the right and that's very well
00:34:50.820 known by a lot of. Which figures? Well there's well there's a lot of members of the EDL who are
00:34:56.480 convicted who were who were who were who were all doing this stuff who had all their names and stuff
00:35:01.380 published who didn't really have any backlash from from those groups and then there are figures now
00:35:05.340 who are very high profile who are some of the most high profile people in the world who have been
00:35:09.440 who have been engaged in that stuff who who see it as absolutely fine and who's who's you know
00:35:15.120 the right basically have a tolerance for that stuff and. I have to be honest with you we've had
00:35:20.300 lots of people who are left and right of center and I obviously know lots of people we both do in
00:35:26.660 their circles I have no idea what you're talking about genuinely. Yeah you know I mean I can't go
00:35:30.680 into this because there's an active court case with these things but look there is also a culture
00:35:33.800 of language of people like say like people like Andrew Tate on the right who are. I don't know if
00:35:37.760 Andrew Tate is on the right I don't know if he's political I just well maybe you know more I don't
00:35:42.380 know. Well I think Andrew Tate is seen as a right-wing figure 100% who has said hugely
00:35:48.280 misogynistic things on his TikTok about women and treat women badly but then who will also talk
00:35:52.740 about grooming gangs being the biggest problem in the UK or you know how Islam is you know then his
00:35:57.180 colleagues and people like that will talk about how you know Islam is terrible because it's
00:36:02.560 misogynistic and hates women and hates gays when they're doing the same thing so there's a lot of
00:36:07.260 hypocrisy but again it's not about us it's not about you know misogyny or not misogyny it's about
00:36:12.120 you know my side versus your side and good versus evil and tribalism so that's why I think that's
00:36:18.160 why that stuff is happening with JK Rowling it's also the fact that you know we can't you know we
00:36:21.920 want to talk about how great it is to celebrate women in power and powerful women but a lot of
00:36:27.380 people on the left want to tear down the most successful children's book offer you know one
00:36:31.240 of the first female billionaires um for because she said a few things they don't like and that's you
00:36:36.180 know hypocritical as well so this it's it's it's again I don't really think any of this is really
00:36:39.800 about politics it's just about tribalism and hating people on the other side because that's
00:36:43.660 what gets clicks and that's who we've been you know taught to hate do you think how much of this
00:36:48.880 do you think is people's beliefs how much of this do you think is outright cynicism going for the
00:36:56.180 clicks and how much of this is people being manipulated in a sense by the algorithms by their
00:37:01.780 experience online to see people who disagree with them in that way well the people who propagate a
00:37:09.300 lot of this stuff I think are driven by clicks and likes and you know they'll they'll say anything
00:37:13.720 that will generate attention and usually replies to tweets get far more attraction than than a tweet
00:37:19.380 itself which incentivizes and encourages arguments and and takedowns and it's why everyone who writes
00:37:25.140 a tweet there's a one under it saying the opposite it's about encouraging people to to to constantly
00:37:29.780 constantly be pissed off and angry and argue with people so I think a huge amount of it is that
00:37:34.000 um but the second amount is it's our news feeds are entirely different from each other's now and
00:37:39.660 we consume 300 foot of news feed every day which you printed out would be the length of a football
00:37:44.200 stadium and that's how we form our entire world opinion we don't read newspapers watch television
00:37:47.960 anymore and that news feed is curated based on the political opinions that you already have
00:37:52.700 or they're driven to more extreme versions of those and that is how you perceive the world
00:37:56.860 and that is usually giving you only one version of an event in which there are two sides and that
00:38:02.420 will drive you more and more and more to see the other side as an enemy to hate them more whether
00:38:06.440 you're on the left or the right and it incentivizes that tribalism because it's very monetizable as
00:38:13.020 well I mean this is how these these social media sites are are designed and driven to be profit-based
00:38:17.300 and to keep you on there for as long as possible and a lot of the time it's not people's fault they're
00:38:21.880 scrolling through their feed they think that they're looking at the real world they think that
00:38:25.060 they're looking at news stories but they're seeing one more extreme version of an event and not
00:38:30.660 believing the other thing happened um you know it's even like when when these kind of hate crime
00:38:34.780 statistics will come out you know in 2016 and 2017 I would read constant reports on my feed that would
00:38:40.220 talk about hate crime hoax here the big hate crime hoax in America with that Muslim girl with a hijab
00:38:44.700 that was faked and it was all about fake hate hate crimes happening and I went to my friend's news
00:38:49.160 feed on Twitter around the same time and it was talking about the rise in hate crimes and how it's become
00:38:54.640 an epidemic and how since Brexit is going through the roof and the two news feeds basically contrasted to
00:39:00.260 one that said they didn't exist they were all hoaxes and one that said it was becoming an epidemic
00:39:03.880 those two things are the reasons that we just don't understand basically reality anymore and can't
00:39:09.680 stand you know the other side because you know if I said you know hate crimes aren't on the rise
00:39:14.020 people would think I'm an absolute monster you know supremacist or whatever but I would think that
00:39:18.520 because my news feed told me that so it's it's hard so how did you make that transition from moving
00:39:24.240 right to left because you worked with some pretty major figures on the right you worked with Tommy
00:39:29.600 Robinson Lauren Southern you did a bit of work for Alex Jones yeah I mean that's and then moving to
00:39:37.920 byline times that's that's a hell of a gear change isn't it well kind of if you look at everything I've
00:39:44.000 said publicly in the last four years I haven't said anything that is left-wing you know I haven't said
00:39:48.680 a left-wing opinion you know I haven't said anything about the trans debate on the on the left or right
00:39:52.440 I've said Brexit's bad because it's damaged Britain because I saw that in the steelworks and news reports
00:39:56.700 I did a lot of work in Ukraine talking about war crimes but it wasn't really going on the left
00:40:00.660 byline times as far as I can see it I don't think I know you disagree is a hard left newspaper it's
00:40:06.200 one of the only newspapers that exist in Britain that are funding original investigative reporting
00:40:10.380 they exposed the PPE scandal they exposed a huge amount of corruption in the government and they
00:40:15.520 also facilitated me to be able to travel across the UK and do on the ground independent journalism
00:40:20.080 across Europe actually yeah and and at a time where we're not doing that anymore so I I saw that
00:40:26.200 outlet as a as probably a solution to the stuff that I was seeing on the right which was one-sided
00:40:31.980 commentary and no original reporting I saw a newspaper that's actually funding real investigative
00:40:37.180 journalism and I thought it was a great place to go which it was I'm really proud of my work with
00:40:42.380 byline so obviously I had the TV set up the TV so that was a separate wing of it I wasn't closely
00:40:47.660 involved in in the paper and their editorial and their investigations but I carried out you know
00:40:52.780 I used to I used to get a notepad and go out and find original stories when the stuff was happening
00:40:56.420 with farming and trade deals in this country I'd get into a car and drive all the way up to North
00:41:00.340 umberland and find farms knock on their doors ask them how they've been impacted and then do reports
00:41:04.220 and come back to London with them and they would do really really well because my work on the right
00:41:08.080 as much as you know it was it was very very successful and it was getting a lot of clicks it wasn't
00:41:16.020 adding anything to um to actual culture I don't think was adding anything to to to I don't think
00:41:22.940 it was doing anything really helpful or anything really good it was just propagating right-wing
00:41:25.940 opinions and I thought going on the left and doing the same thing would be just doing the you know
00:41:31.120 be doing the same kind of damage no one actually gets anywhere from it it's splitting society just
00:41:34.400 as much in the same way so that's why all my work has been investigative journalism for the last
00:41:38.700 four years the problem was getting involved for 10 seconds in in the trans debate but the reason I was on
00:41:43.580 the right was because you know in 2016 everything was on fire Europe was on fire everything was
00:41:49.680 burning there was terrorist attacks every five minutes you had Charlie Hebdo you had the newspapers
00:41:53.760 being shot up and no one was talking about it in the media you had the Orlando shooting where 50 gay
00:41:57.840 people were killed by a Muslim extremist and then you had Owen Jones being the only person they really
00:42:02.760 brought on to discuss it and say it had nothing to do with Islam they didn't look at the ideology
00:42:06.380 behind it they didn't look at the the reason it was it was happening they didn't look at the Quran
00:42:10.360 not like when Christchurch happened and they broke down the entire ideology of the white supremacist
00:42:15.020 tutor and took action against that and I felt like there was a gap in the media that needed to be
00:42:20.320 filled with people having these conversations and discussing them so that's when I wrote to Rebel and
00:42:24.280 I got a job as a presenter there and I was I you know I was at the beginning doing pretty good work
00:42:28.380 it was about free speech why we're not having these conversations it was talking about Islam
00:42:31.420 but it was pretty moderate and it was genuinely something I thought was really really good
00:42:35.460 but over time there is an incentive to create stuff that is more outrageous within the rebel model
00:42:42.900 there was that system which is why I left and then I guess I became a bit of a victim of it too
00:42:47.540 working with those people of just making stuff for the sake of being controversial and at the end of
00:42:51.660 it it wasn't what I had set out to do originally which was to fill a gap of having real conversations
00:42:55.780 it was just putting out right-wing propaganda and that's kind of how a lot of those people operate
00:43:01.140 um so so that's why I left a lot of that I mean there are other reasons also it's it's it's
00:43:06.740 extremely chaotic there's a huge amount of backstabbing that's why they're still all falling
00:43:11.060 out with each other even to this day sounds like the left mate to be honest yeah no but it's like
00:43:14.740 well I mean left is a little bit more organized but I mean it was well it's a bit more sensible
00:43:20.120 you know you don't have the same chaos on the left than you do on the right right now with you
00:43:24.040 know with the Daily Wire falling apart with Daily Wire's not falling apart they just got rid of
00:43:27.940 yeah and look what's happening with you know Steven Crowder and Jared and that lawsuit all in
00:43:32.560 the same week I mean that is not happening on on the left on that same level it's interesting because
00:43:36.780 we have a running joke whenever we have a left-wing guest uh we always say to the guys don't if
00:43:42.180 they're running late setting up well don't worry he's on the left he's not going to be on time well
00:43:45.920 I'm not on the left but but it's interesting I mean our experience with left-wing people which
00:43:53.820 was our industry in comedy is there far less organized than people in the right but anyway
00:43:58.820 uh so I so I it sounds like to me that actually many of the reasons that you were attracted to
00:44:05.760 the right-wing space still are valid in your mind and that's kind of you still think those things are
00:44:10.860 important yeah I mean the the questions are still valid why didn't media cover this stuff we still have
00:44:16.700 a complete lack of of courage to be able to have any of the conversations that you have on this show
00:44:21.180 which is why this is so successful and BBC is failing because you're having the conversations
00:44:24.980 that people need and want to hear for society to continue to develop um but the answers to those
00:44:30.760 aren't making videos uh in no-go zones with Tommy Robinson in Rome they are having these conversations
00:44:36.160 like this and I think just because the solutions I found were wrong doesn't mean that the questions
00:44:42.100 um were wrong I still think those questions are valid I've always said that um it's just
00:44:47.300 and just so that people understand why isn't doing a video in a no-go zone why isn't that part of the
00:44:54.740 answer to show people what's happening on the ground if if if it's an accurate I think it's if it's with
00:45:00.720 if it's with a commentator who is doesn't have an interest in showing exactly what's going on and is
00:45:08.120 there with an incentment to cause chaos then it's probably not the most healthy way to do it
00:45:16.480 you know yeah so can you sorry yeah I'm not sure I do know just can you explain that a little bit
00:45:23.720 more like what do you mean well I think I think going to a uh a lot of the time my reporting with
00:45:31.220 people on the right was already decided what what would happen and then we would go and cover it just
00:45:35.500 to fill an agenda right um and that wasn't again for nefarious sinister reasons it was because we knew
00:45:40.860 that we get views and then we would be able to become more influential to have these conversations
00:45:44.340 but yeah that that's that's just not a healthy way to do it to start with with your answer and
00:45:49.860 and to work backwards to to go and film it and you know if you know if you're going to go to an area
00:45:53.300 and you know it's going to erupt or you know it's going to kick off or you know whatever's going to
00:45:57.480 happen and then you film that and act really shocked I just don't think that's a healthy way to
00:46:00.680 you know make news um yeah so the the other way to do it is where you go there and you don't have
00:46:07.720 an agenda and you just report on what you see which is what I did with byline for the last four
00:46:12.480 years that's why that's why I left the right and tried to do content and investigative journalism
00:46:16.720 where I would arrive in a country like in Kiev last year I arrived there and I had no agenda I
00:46:22.120 didn't know how extreme the war was and I didn't really know what was going on I wasn't covering
00:46:26.680 Ukraine at all but ended up staying there for three months going all the way to the front line
00:46:29.780 and spending months figuring out and speaking to villagers understanding if they actually wanted to be
00:46:34.060 part of Russia or not going down to her so I'm actually figuring out what's going on for
00:46:37.300 myself and developing a film um with no agenda at the beginning and that's that's I think that's
00:46:42.360 something that I've transitioned to it's not from the right to the left really it's from making stuff
00:46:46.960 with an agenda to making stuff without an agenda um and just because byline times is perceived as being
00:46:52.320 a left-wing newspaper doesn't take away from the fact that it still allowed me to do actual
00:46:59.140 investigative journalism which I think is important I think I'm just hearing between the lines that you
00:47:04.660 think that like thinking that something is a left-wing newspaper is like a criticism the new left-wing
00:47:10.960 newspapers are allowed to exist and a part very important part of the ecosystem because left and
00:47:16.300 right will naturally focus on different issues and some of the issues the left will focus on are also
00:47:21.100 very important um as long as they're being covered accurately and fairly which as I think we'd both
00:47:26.380 we'd both agree hasn't always been the case with left and right yeah so going back to the
00:47:33.000 investigative journalism bit one of the threads that I'm noticing more and more and we've talked
00:47:37.740 about a lot of journalism with this it's actually really worrying that investigative journalism seems
00:47:44.820 to be on the way out when it's much needed in society because it holds powerful figures to account
00:47:51.200 yeah it shocked me how successful my neutral reports were when I started with uh with the tv like
00:47:57.820 literally just going to a town going to a farm going to a steelworks that was closing down or the
00:48:02.820 honda factory that closed down in swindon and just asking workers why it had happened or what the
00:48:07.440 reasons were and getting their perspective and then putting it out we get millions of views and then I
00:48:11.620 would hear the next day that you know lewis goodall or or someone from the bbc had gone and tried to
00:48:15.460 find them and ask them for an interview because these institutions are no longer getting in a car
00:48:19.640 getting a notepad out and doing actual work a because it's expensive and these companies want to save
00:48:25.060 money they have boards all across you know channel 4 and itv whose entire purpose is to cut costs as
00:48:31.780 much as possible and in that they lose the first thing to go is always investigative reporting and
00:48:36.640 that's why we're not seeing actual trusted stuff come out of these news organization anymore there's
00:48:40.940 been a new hiring process that is getting rid of their old reporters and replacing them with
00:48:45.060 political influencers for their tiktok account so they can drive engagement which is only going to
00:48:49.740 make this worse news night as part of their cuts last year cut their investigative department
00:48:54.320 as well which was literally the point of news night there's going to be a debate show now
00:48:57.600 and that leaves a huge void in britain that we have of what the hell is going on especially outside
00:49:03.640 news studios in london like i remember going to um when i went to portal but the steelworks my report
00:49:08.680 there got something like four or five million views and it was why the plant closed down and i just spent
00:49:12.720 two nights there speaking to steelworkers speaking to some of the key leaders no one in the news really
00:49:17.860 understood why it was closing down they went there for two seconds and left or they did it from london and
00:49:22.240 i asked all these people who gave me these really profound answers have the news reached out to you have
00:49:26.080 you been asked for interview and none of them said yeah even the first minister of wales said he hadn't
00:49:29.640 been reached out to and that report was i think really successful because people in this country
00:49:34.800 want original investigative on the ground reporting and they're not getting it from their televisions
00:49:39.600 anymore um and and it's it's it's really really sad because the point of the media is to give us that
00:49:45.600 so that we can um we can understand what's going on in our own country which we don't um i think that's
00:49:51.720 i've been most proud of is that work whatever i do next whether it's uh with you know byline again or
00:49:57.100 whatever it is it'll be that because even though it's expensive it's invaluable and it's fulfilling
00:50:04.380 as well you're actually finding out something that's true and then putting it out in the world
00:50:08.240 that people didn't know about and if it's popular as as it can be then that you will generate the
00:50:13.740 revenue that you need to actually keep doing it as well yeah you don't actually need to be
00:50:17.380 you don't actually need to be outrageous or extreme or just say crazy stuff to get clicks
00:50:22.920 you can actually produce really really high quality good work and people want that just as much um i
00:50:29.540 think people now want it more which is why we've always taken that approach and um i i understand look
00:50:35.260 it's true what you say people always respond to incentives um but the the incentives are not always
00:50:41.560 clear there was a moment when you know there is a short-term incentive to be outrageous and get
00:50:47.340 clicks but what i think we've observed in the six times six years we've been doing this is
00:50:51.400 most of the people who do that they rise quickly and then they fall quickly yeah whereas if you're
00:50:56.960 true to core principles which is trying to get to the truth wherever it goes then people will over
00:51:04.040 time actually see that and even if they don't agree with every individual interview you've done
00:51:08.300 or a bit of reporting you've done they'll know that you are trying to get to the truth and they'll
00:51:12.160 respect it more and then they'll watch it even if it's not necessarily the thing that panders
00:51:17.720 perfectly to their particular opinion yeah i mean it's kind of how the world works if you put
00:51:21.620 something of quality out enough times and something that's actually valuable that you've considered
00:51:25.560 it will reward you and the world will you know be able to feel its value so that's that's already
00:51:31.320 important but it's also why so many commentators on the right and the left who are really outrageous
00:51:34.980 and who do say inflammatory things usually only last about two years yeah yeah um and then it's and
00:51:40.540 then it's over it's because really all they have is outrage and they're not saying anything of
00:51:45.520 substance so once i've delivered that whatever it is outrageous comment fine you can keep doing it
00:51:51.820 again and again but it's almost like a drug here then you're going to need to get more and more
00:51:55.600 outrageous yeah and then that's and then they get into problems but also yeah i really feel that
00:52:01.440 people now are craving things that are more substantive constantin did this amazing series where he just
00:52:06.600 went out and talked to people at israel and palestine that was great protest and he asked
00:52:13.400 apolitical questions to protesters and they gave his response and it was fascinating to watch because
00:52:20.560 you're there you're there seeing this piece of content and part of you is going this is really
00:52:25.040 interesting and the other part of you is going i haven't seen something like this in 20 years yeah
00:52:31.080 no i had exactly the same thought with that i was even looking at like who shot it who i was just
00:52:36.020 fascinated with the whole crew everything everything about how you did it because it was completely
00:52:39.880 original and it was similar to the work that i've been doing um but no one's doing it because a people
00:52:45.580 are very lazy you can just do a show behind your computer screen b it's expensive but c it's it's it's
00:52:50.480 hard it's actually hard work it's it's scary you have to go into crowds it's a different it's a
00:52:54.420 difficult thing to do but the not when it does happen it does happen properly it will cut through
00:52:59.400 it will cut through culture completely yeah which is very important no and it's great and i i think
00:53:05.540 the the main thing is to i hear a lot of kind of disempowerment in the way you talk about social
00:53:12.660 media and i'm just always wary of having that approach because i think ultimately we're all
00:53:18.320 responsible for yes twitter can drive you to the extremes but doesn't have to like i played around
00:53:24.720 with that dunking on people thing and all of that for a while and then i was like no i don't like
00:53:29.020 doing this um and i'd much rather get a hundred thousand new subscribers by doing a speech that
00:53:35.300 goes viral than i would by dunking on india willoughby or jk rowling do you know what i mean
00:53:40.500 yeah but you're i think you're very unique in that you're also smarter than most people i would say
00:53:45.040 most people are kind of passive and they're not engaged in this all the time and they just want
00:53:48.560 to get their news for an hour before dinner time and then they need to go to bed they don't have the
00:53:53.120 time and capacity i think to think through the processes like that i think they're they're consumers of
00:53:56.880 of a news feed that determines their their their world opinion and they don't have the time and
00:54:01.800 capacity to go beyond that or to even think beyond that um which is why which is why everything is
00:54:06.680 becoming more radical it's why when you go to those protests and you speak to those protesters and you
00:54:10.920 say well what do you think about hamas and they have no idea that they're even you know they have
00:54:14.720 right-wing views because they've never seen that on their feeds and they become radicalized to the
00:54:19.100 left it's universal it's it's everywhere it's why christmas dinner parties are now basically ruined
00:54:24.800 because no one can talk to each other than other grandparents um and but the solution to it is that
00:54:30.440 kind of work and i think is the kind of work i've been doing for the last few years but for the media
00:54:34.500 to do it as well yeah and it's also as well look just because something is easy and it gets clicks and
00:54:40.560 it gets an instant hit doesn't mean that it's the right thing to do actually what is more prudent is to
00:54:47.760 take the longer route work work harder and actually you're gonna get what you truly want
00:54:54.260 what you really because most people okay once you get over the cheap dopamine hit of when something
00:55:00.160 goes viral if it's not something you're really proud about it's not a good feeling no it's why it was hard
00:55:06.580 back in the in the days with with a lot of right-wingers because i became that person and was just making
00:55:10.940 stuff every day for clicks that was outrageous sometimes stuff that goes way beyond what i would believe
00:55:15.500 and it's just it's just bullshit and it's why i didn't it's why i didn't stay in it for very long
00:55:20.600 as well it's why the people a lot of people i work with don't really exist now because they were doing
00:55:24.440 the same thing but um yeah it makes sense one of the final thing to explore i found interesting
00:55:32.480 particularly the contrast that i brought up with lawrence is i think the thing that happened even
00:55:37.000 though i as i said i think what you said was much worse than what he said actually
00:55:40.160 you apologize very quickly and we live in an age where so many people think that apologizing when
00:55:47.440 you said something wrong is the wrong thing to do as you people were telling you that afterwards
00:55:52.140 i actually think your example shows quite the opposite which is if you said something wrong which
00:55:58.540 we all do everybody the best thing to do if you said something wrong genuinely that you regret is to
00:56:05.100 apologize straight away yeah and and then to just be like look i apologize that's it and people will
00:56:10.720 move on uh a lot of the time yeah and i think it's why i think it surprised jk rollings why she replied
00:56:17.720 three times to that apology saying like we all make mistakes please leave cain alone like you know it's
00:56:22.620 fine like i really appreciate this apology and i replied and said i'm actually really in awe of this
00:56:26.580 response this is really really respectful and gracious and there were so many people saying like that we
00:56:31.120 need more of this on the internet because it doesn't happen anymore but there was also a lot of
00:56:34.560 people on the left who are then furious at me and the place i was worried for um for for even
00:56:40.500 apologizing or for even those people though yeah i know but it just shows how sad how sad that is
00:56:45.060 because it's i think it was genuinely a good moment like a nice moment yeah that morning at like 8am
00:56:50.040 um but yeah but you know you're always going to get the ideologues on either side yeah you know the
00:56:56.960 people go never apologize for anything you're like really yeah i'm um i'm sure you're great to hang
00:57:02.280 out with yeah and the thing is as well as for so many of these people to your point about how the
00:57:07.000 internet changes people i go never apologize is that is that what you teach your kids never apologize
00:57:12.200 for anything because i don't think you do and with many of these people i've seen them with their
00:57:16.580 children and they're good parents i don't think you'd be teaching your children always double down yeah
00:57:22.300 that's just raising a mini trump yeah just but it's how we're teaching ourselves to behave now i
00:57:28.640 think going on twitter i think that actually is the attitude it is to never apologize it is to never
00:57:32.660 back down and it's getting worse as we get more of a feed from from the internet i think that that's
00:57:36.820 the core problem with it and again not seeing the other side as human beings and never apologizing to
00:57:41.320 them because they're not people are they they should be you know thrown in prison that's what they think
00:57:44.980 well there we go uh we're about to go to locals and ask you questions from our supporters but before we do
00:57:50.760 the final question we always end with is what's the one thing that we're not talking about that
00:57:54.600 you think we should be before caitlin answers the final question make sure to head over to our locals
00:58:01.120 at the end of the interview the links in the description to see this working with the right there
00:58:07.140 was a lot more people i was surrounded with who really believed what they were doing and they really
00:58:11.580 had a purpose a lot of people on the left are driven by personality and money a lot more how do you
00:58:17.760 manage your propensity for extremes is his question well i don't think what i was involved in was
00:58:22.640 extreme well i think working with alex jones is extreme well the one thing we should be talking
00:58:28.620 about yeah but we're not i mean i guess i mean i i just my whole thing is i think we should just be
00:58:34.000 doing more actual investigating and thinking for ourselves and we should be funding more investigations
00:58:38.900 and actually looking at what's going on in the world and we should all just get off the internet for
00:58:42.660 a while that's just my end that's my end philosophy with all of it perfect head on over to
00:58:47.100 locals where we ask caitlin your questions stay on the internet what's the best way to get someone
00:58:53.600 to seriously consider arguments from the other side