00:08:58.800and lots of different cultures within those departments.
00:09:02.880What I would say is that, in a way, what you had here
00:09:09.380it rapidly became apparent there was a politicisation of this whole area.
00:09:15.140So, again, unusually, there was a very close relationship with mermaids
00:09:20.960and with gender intelligence, the track charities,
00:09:27.120and they had an unusual sort of influence over the sort of culture.
00:09:33.180Now, when I was in charge of the adult and adolescent department,
00:09:36.240I would have relationships with Mind and some of the charities, but they wouldn't sort of insist on the culture or ask me to run them by the protocols for treatment, et cetera, et cetera.
00:09:51.040We're separate organisations. My prime responsibility is thinking about the people that I'm serving, the trainees and the patients and looking after the clinicians.
00:10:03.340that's my prime responsibility and other people you've got voices that all feel they should have
00:10:08.260some influence but you'd have some distance from them um in order so you can keep your eye firmly
00:10:14.640on thinking about the psychological needs of the patients you're treating so this this sort of um
00:10:22.040this boundary which was sort of very sort of um you know there's there's a sort of movement
00:10:29.580backwards and forwards felt very unusual for me so lots of unusual things going on and um and it
00:10:36.960produced i i thought a rather not a clinical environment that i would want to work in
00:10:45.060marcus i find that very very shocking so essentially you have a charity mermaids which
00:10:51.460was not attached to the clinic in any shape or form it's not a regulated nhs body yet they were
00:10:58.380having an influence on the treatment of these children well you know they would argue not i'd
00:11:05.460say you'd always have stakeholders so i've outlined who my prime responsibility and then you've got
00:11:11.040your stakeholders and they have some influence you know you're trying to address what you know
00:11:16.460their concerns as well um i would say that as stakeholders they had an unusually close relationship
00:11:23.980with the clinical service. And my wife felt that began to interfere with the ordinary clinical
00:11:32.860environment in which there would be debate, discussion, challenge about a particular
00:11:39.120treatment approach. You know, this is what she would be used to. And it just wasn't happening
00:11:46.500in JIDS. So what she did, what we actually discussed and what she did was she was the
00:11:52.980first whistleblower in 2005 and um the medical director at the time uh david taylor set up a
00:12:01.140serious review of the service he was on news night the other day um because he he he produced this
00:12:08.800report in which he had recommendations he felt that the sort of um clinical governance of this
00:12:15.940experimental service was going off the beast if you like and he felt there should be much more
00:12:21.300thorough outcome measures, research, looking at the downside of treatment, all sorts of things
00:12:28.020that you would expect, particularly in an experimental treatment with vulnerable kids.
00:12:35.820However, he moved on as medical director and not a lot changed after that initial report.
00:12:45.260And Marcus, you use the word politicisation within the clinic. What do you mean by that?
00:12:51.300Well, I think that once your sort of your decision making is based on a sort of belief, a pre-existing belief structure, maybe embedded within the clinicians, maybe met by the parents and some of the parents and some of the kids, you're not in a clinical environment.
00:13:11.320You see, lots of people, you know, will come into psychiatry and they when people are in a sort of chaotic state of mind and they feel that their minds are falling apart, they often focus down narrowly on there's one problem with one solution.
00:13:27.980now psychological health is usually based on the opposite it's based on sort of opening things out
00:13:35.280thinking that we're complicated we've got many different moving parts as a personality and that
00:13:41.580usually our problems are made up of all sorts of things coming together so we're trying to sort of
00:13:47.380open things out for in for the kids for example you're saying okay that's what you believe let's
00:13:54.440have a look at what's who you are what's going on beneath the surface what might be troubling you
00:14:00.280let's open this dialogue out so we think about things in the round um and you're you're not going
00:14:08.680along with um fixed beliefs there's one problem and one solution so just one more thing so one
00:14:17.940thing that's often talked about is that the kid's completely certain well for me that's a red flag
00:14:26.080you know that if you're making very serious decisions you would expect to have doubts
00:14:31.600questions anxieties conflicts the absence of those is a problem you know and we believe and
00:14:39.000we know as psychoanalysts you know that beliefs can be driven by all sorts of forces not all of
00:14:46.860them healthy or rational um now my job is not to argue with the patient my job is to say okay
00:14:54.420that's what you think and you feel distressed if you feel I'm questioning that but my job is to
00:14:59.520open things out as I said and explore things um and Marcus I'm really glad that you brought up
00:15:06.940because there's two points I want to explore number one the influence of social media on kids
00:15:12.320and their desire to transition and number two the link between children who want to transition and
00:15:18.700autism yeah okay well you know when you're coming up to adolescence you're very preoccupied about
00:15:26.060the way you're seen and social media has increased about tenfold so that we we really haven't caught
00:15:34.240up what effect social media is having on us as individuals and in terms of our relationships
00:15:40.540with ourselves and with others and um so in a way it's as if the way i am is always now being judged
00:15:50.060from how i look from the outside well that's always been the case in adolescence but now
00:15:56.100it's increased tenfold and i think it's problematic in lots of different ways in
00:16:00.800more than just this area all sorts of areas because we're partly to be assessed with the
00:16:06.720outside world that's being a human but we've also got to look out after the soul i don't i'm not
00:16:12.740religious in the slice of the moment what's going on inside you but marcus aren't there also you
00:16:18.860know websites in particular i think pinterest was one that was being named encouraging children to
00:16:25.020transition or see themselves as trans yeah there are websites that um boast if you feel out on a
00:16:33.300limb a little bit odd like you don't fit in well that's probably about 50 percent of adolescence
00:16:39.580I don't know what your adolescence is like but I felt like I was a sort of square peg in a round
00:16:44.740hole you know come join the site and then there's a sort of coaching kids are coached to get past
00:16:54.460the gatekeeping questions um and sometimes you know that the clinicians say that the kids are
00:17:01.960almost like they're they're just speaking rote what they know the clinicians are you know so
00:17:06.880you've got a tick box sort of scenario these are the questions you'll be answered these are the
00:17:12.020answers that they're looking for yeah um so yeah it's all it's all very worrying there's a there's
00:17:18.880a cultish feel about about the sort of um the social media aspect of this so effectively there's
00:17:26.020these pages on on these social media websites or websites themselves are effectively grooming
00:17:30.980children in order to transition yeah i mean certainly you don't get a helpful discourse
00:17:38.120about the downside of transition there are lots of downsides of transition and that often it looks
00:17:43.920like a short-term solution to the anxieties and problems problems of puberty if we're thinking
00:17:49.240about adolescence but there's a long-term cost which isn't spelt out also transitioning is not
00:17:56.480it's not easy psychologically it's not easy socially and it's not easy in terms of the impact
00:18:02.960of um the medicalization of of your your psychological problem you know you've got
00:18:09.740to have ongoing hormones if you have subsequently if you have uh gender reassignment surgery the
00:18:16.280surgery's got all sorts of implications this is not an easy route and none of that i think is
00:18:21.780being spelt out in the uh i'm not an expert on the on the websites but this is widely documented
00:18:28.000yeah and marcus we'll come to that point in a second but what i really want to explore and
00:18:33.880then constantine by all means take over is the link between autism and the children who wanting
00:18:40.580to transition yeah so so so the thing is my wife and i are writing a book about psychological
00:18:47.280approach is because we feel it's a sort of vacuum that's been neglected and probably what the
00:18:53.760Tavistock should have been concentrating on for the last 20 years but basically you know if you've
00:18:59.940got sort of fragile a kid with a fragile ego that doesn't tolerate too much conflict or anxiety
00:19:09.600i mean then that can be all of us we're looking for ways of getting rid of the psychological pain
00:19:17.560as it were and sort of flattening the mind if you like and and um the autism kids are autistic or
00:19:26.020on the autistic spectrum they struggle with conflict anxiety and psychological pain um
00:19:32.760So they're very attracted to the sort of doctrine that says, basically, the reason you're suffering is because of X.
00:19:43.840If you do Y, you'll get rid of all your problems and you can flatten all this stuff that's stirring you up.
00:19:52.600And, you know, because just puberty is very important in this, in terms of the transition from being a child, often within a family or looked after by a parent within a sort of structure.
00:20:06.940And you're transitioning into being an adult. The hormones are going to kickstart your secondary sex characteristics.
00:20:14.760that's got all sorts of implications for what sort of role you're going to play in society
00:20:20.060what sort of sexual role what sort of adult you're going to be you're transitioning from
00:20:24.900being a child into an adult is expected to work have a you know have relations maybe have a family
00:20:31.980etc etc so all sorts of physical psychological and social anxieties get sort of stirred up by
00:20:40.280puberty and in a way there's a wish to sort of put the brake on just sort of stop it the problem is
00:20:47.360if you do that you take the kid outside their usual peer group and developmental structure
00:20:53.680in which all the kids are going through the same thing and learning on the job as it were
00:20:58.300um now that's what they said that was the rationale it's sort of like a sort of breathing
00:21:03.220space but what we suddenly what we subsequently discover in the court case it's not a breathing
00:21:09.400space at all because 90 percent of the kids who start on puberty blockers are on a medical
00:21:15.980conveyor belt which doesn't stop until cross-sex hormones etc um so it it is like trying to stop
00:21:25.160and arrest a sort of natural physiological and psychological and sociological process called
00:21:31.800puberty i was going to ask you about that marcus because i mean it's a strange question to ask
00:21:36.720someone whose job it is to help people improve their mental health and well-being. But do you
00:21:42.500think this is part of a broader thing in society where we over-pathologize, I would argue,
00:21:48.920certain feelings? For example, yes, if you're trapped in a perpetual cycle of deep sadness,
00:21:55.400we might describe that as depression. That does not mean that experiencing sadness for an hour
00:22:00.480or for a day or even for a week in response to some really difficult events in life is abnormal.
00:22:05.960it does not mean you need to you need quote-unquote help it just means something's happened then you're
00:22:10.880responding to it as a human would but if we have a society which sort of says the moment you feel
00:22:15.680anything negative we've got to treat you we've got to help you then it's no surprise is it that
00:22:21.080young children who are about to experience as you say a very difficult period of life
00:22:25.140seeing that coming maybe starting to experience bits of it go i need treatment i need medication
00:22:31.160I need physical help, whatever it might be. Do you think there's a part of that?
00:22:35.340100%. I think that, yeah, look, life is difficult. You know, the slings and arrows of outrageous
00:22:40.620fortune, you know, we're faced with all sorts of psychological problems at every, you know,
00:22:46.920every turn in life, every part of development. So, and sometimes they're thrown at a list like
00:22:52.260COVID and, you know, we're having to adapt. But I think the sort of wish to describe all these
00:22:59.500experience has been some sort of mental health problem i think does a disservice to mental health
00:23:06.320and and is in danger of pathologizing as you say a lot of quite normal reactions i i used to be um
00:23:15.840used to be in charge of a liaison service in kings in the 80s and a guy fell off um he fell
00:23:24.060a railway bridge and he basically was paralyzed he lost the use of his legs and the nurses came
00:23:31.180down and referred him to psychological medicine they said he was depressed and I thought I don't
00:23:37.040know what else you'd be you know it's a completely now I was sympathetic to them they were overwhelmed
00:23:43.180don't get me wrong so I didn't send them away but I thought it was an interesting word it was quite
00:23:47.760appropriate you know if you if you're paralyzed you're going to be depressed but not in a sort of
00:23:54.580um pathological way in an ordinary way it's part of mourning you know you're going to have to come
00:23:59.400in terms of the loss and i think you're right i think all sorts of things are being captured
00:24:03.260as as part of mental health that actually are belong belonging in in ordinary you know they're
00:24:09.960just part of the slings and arrows outrageous fortune the other thing that goes along with this
00:24:14.680You see, when there are, you've got to look at the influence.
00:24:22.400I'm not against medication, by the way.
00:24:24.200I'm not a psychoanalyst who's against medication.
00:24:26.460But there is a tendency for the drug companies to capture sort of an increasing field, say, ADHD or depression or anxiety.
00:24:38.380and all of a sudden you're sort of more and more people being sort of trapped in that diagnosis
00:24:45.400for which there is a pill and then you know you go to the gp and huge numbers of people are on
00:24:52.620antidepressants years ago they wouldn't have been called depressed they weren't suffering from what
00:24:59.020i knew pounds shillings and pence as melancholia or psychotic depression for which there's medication
00:44:38.940and basically my wife and I are all about the evidence for kids.
00:44:41.860that's all it is um that was taken down because we vote facebook rules i mean you know i don't
00:44:49.060get into the nastier side of this very now what can be very nasty argument um we just present
00:44:56.020the sort of clinical facts as it were so that was quite amazing to me my twitter um what's it
00:45:03.580banned as well for similar reasons and you contact them and you go why because i'm not slagging
00:45:10.660anyone off i'm not saying anybody should die or anything like that i've just you know been
00:45:15.700sort of trying to get support for a kira bell in the case and um so yeah it's quite extraordinary
00:45:24.940what's going on and sometimes when you when you talk to people they go it can't be as bad as you
00:45:30.340say this you must be i don't know you've lost the plot you've hit a midlife crisis you're angry with
00:45:38.000to have a start no it really is quite extraordinary it you know as a mental health practitioner
00:45:44.620someone who's proud to be in the business that i'm in i'm really quite ashamed by you know the
00:45:50.260lack of it this is political belief and ideology over rational scientific argument and marcus
00:46:00.220i i think the thing is that that we often forget about as well is what the process of transition
00:46:07.100is like? We just apply the term trans and that suddenly people have this transition and they go
00:46:12.920on and they live their lives and everything's hunky-dory. But the reality isn't really like
00:46:17.220that, is it? Well, that was the legal argument. You know, is an 11-year-old capable of making
00:46:24.160decisions about the implications, a short-term, you know, taking the medication, which has got
00:46:33.720long-term hidden effects in terms of their development and um yeah and and in which
00:46:42.320really the downside of treatment is never really spelt out so so um jids would have so they argued
00:46:51.140that 11 year olds were capable of making these decisions but then they'd have um sort of special
00:46:58.020bits of information which were written like sort of Janet and John books for simplicity so hang on
00:47:05.500you're saying hang on then the kid's capable of making complicated decisions but it's written in
00:47:11.280this simplistic way these two things don't add up but that doesn't add up with anything else that
00:47:17.360we think about children I mean think about the age of consent right yeah children can't consent to
00:47:24.160what may be just you know an activity that doesn't really have any long-term consequences but you
00:47:29.840know if there's no pregnancy you know people had sex nothing really happened you could argue
00:47:34.860so they can't consent to that but what they can consent to at the age of 11 is completely
00:47:39.580transforming their hormonal balance and their physical body that that does not seem to match
00:47:45.220up to our current standards for for treating children as children does it not at all no i
00:47:50.580I mean, you can't get a tattoo, can you, until you're 18?
00:47:53.420There's all sorts of things you can't do until you're 18.
00:47:55.880No, this is, there's a sort of non-think about this area.
00:48:00.520You know, it's like a sort of group phenomena in which you cannot challenge it.
00:48:06.320You know, A, you get attacked, as J.K. Rowling did.
00:48:09.720But B, you know, there's a sort of cultural, look, you're prejudiced.
00:48:16.100This is all part of some paternalistic plot to control what other people do with their lives.
00:48:23.800Never been my intention as a psychoanalyst, as a psychiatric practitioner to control people's lives,
00:48:30.640apart from, you know, when they're, you know, they need sectioning and they're so psychotic that their actions may danger others or themselves.
00:48:40.960Apart from that, at the end of the day, my job as a psychoanalyst is to help individuals understand what's driving them so that they can make better decisions about their lives.
00:48:54.720But I'm not trying to turn them into a version of what Marcus Evans thinks they should be.
00:48:59.700That's not my job. That's unethical in my view.
00:49:03.580but that's how you're viewed this is really some sort of i've been called a christian right-wing
00:49:11.400bigger um i've sort of it's why we got you on the show marcus yeah my political i'm sort of
00:49:19.280liberal with wishy-washy and i think the last time i went to church to my mother's horror
00:49:25.760is when i was nine years old you know i know actually i had to go to church i was at boarding
00:49:30.980schools i had to go and church until i was 15 but um you know this is what gets chucked at you
00:49:36.680yeah it is i think everybody knows that now it's just an easy way to dismiss people isn't it
00:49:42.720uh you know francis and i you know francis is an old school lefty i'm a sort of centrist
00:49:47.800with quite libertarian views but uh people will assume if you care about you know children not
00:49:54.300getting their breast sliced off at the age of 14 that that means you're a right-wing bigot well
00:49:58.340maybe maybe we should be all right-wing bigots on that basis shouldn't we i mean the thing is
00:50:04.580there's a sort of you're in alliances with all sorts of people that i never thought i would be
00:50:09.960so um i had a long discussion with panorama about going on the first panorama which was exposing
00:50:17.680jids and they said that we need we can't get anybody to go in front of the camera and as a
00:50:22.780psychoanalyst i didn't want to because you know because i've got patients and you know your job
00:50:28.080as a psychoanalyst is to be in the background unfortunately I've broken those rules for my
00:50:33.000the people that I see but um but basically I watched the effect of the fact that Polly Carmichael
00:50:42.700kept saying you know these kids are safe in their hands and we're very you know measured in what we
00:50:48.780do and I knew that wasn't the case and I was furious with myself for not going on panorama
00:50:55.420So the Daily Mail contacted me and said, we'll do a piece. You can tell your story.
00:51:01.560And of course, all the broadsheets, they'll give you a sort of quote, but they won't let you tell your story.
00:51:06.800So so I was doing an interview with the Daily Mail, which I and the Daily Mail were absolutely down the line on this.
00:51:15.460They were very thorough. They were very professional and they knew all about it.
00:51:19.620And I was very grateful to them. But I'd never imagined myself doing an interview with the Daily Mail.
00:51:25.420until this so yeah life's taking a funny turn and marcus why do you think this issue is so toxic
00:51:34.540because it seems to me for the vast majority of people if you ask them about it they would be
00:51:40.380entirely in agreement with everybody here in this discussion why is it that it descends into name
00:51:46.240calling you know people getting you know threatened abuse etc etc well i think i think we've become
00:51:54.060And again, I think it goes back to your earlier point, Constantine, where we've become obsessed by people's feelings.
00:52:04.700Now, as a psychoanalyst, I'm here to say things are very important, but also the objective mind is important.
00:52:12.520And we've got this out of characters, out of balance so that, you know, someone's traumatized by what you're saying because they feel hurt.
00:52:21.740well that's part of the story but but we should also be interested in thoughts and facts and
00:52:29.320reason you know we we need both and at the moment our discourse seems to be dominated by what people
00:52:37.500feel um and as i say just to say as a psychoanalyst i you know i'm i'm listening all day to what
00:52:44.920people feel but i also want to know what people think you know we've got to use our minds as well
00:52:51.120as our hearts and um sorry i've i don't know if i've lost your question there no no no no it was
00:52:58.660no i i it was a very it's a very very good point you know that we become obsessed with people's
00:53:04.160feelings we become obsessed you know with what not wanting to hurt or offend people but there
00:53:09.580also is something unfortunately called objective reality you know and if you've got an 11 year old
00:53:16.720girl or boy and you're slicing off parts of their genitalia because of feelings, you need somebody
00:53:24.180to go, well, hang on a minute here, we need to look into this. The thing is, is that there was
00:53:30.680a long history, wasn't there, of prejudice in this sort of area. And it's as if this sort of
00:53:38.820has piggybacked on that bad history. And now nobody wants to be seen as being prejudiced.
00:53:46.720The problem with that is it's like judgment has also been lost in the process, because I would say there's a difference between judgmentalism and judgment.
00:53:57.500We need judgment. We need to be wary of judgmentalism and we need to start separating these things out and being able to, you know, freedom of thought and freedom of discourse is so important for us as individuals.
00:54:11.480you know so a person comes to me and says i'm absolutely sure i'm x and my job isn't to butt
00:54:17.820heads with them but it is to say well hang on i wonder why you you're so fixated on this belief
00:54:26.180and why you have to drum that into me that i can't challenge it because sort of tyrannical
00:54:33.120states of mind again a psychoanalyst you're sort of wary of you sort of think well hang on a minute
00:54:39.060what's driving this and why can't you why can't we examine this area because you know most most
00:54:47.300of the time we know that sort of when we're in a healthy state you know you're not so defensive
00:54:52.220you can have things examined and looked at from different points of view but when you become
00:54:56.720fanatical it's usually being driven by something else and that's my job as a psychoanalyst is try
00:55:02.980and understand what that is yeah and marcus one question that i really wanted to ask you so i'll
00:55:08.360tell you, so I was a teacher for 12 years, regular viewers and listeners of the podcast have a drink
00:55:12.740now and one of my colleagues, I remember she came to me absolutely distressed and floods of tears
00:55:18.180to tell me that her 11-year-old daughter told her that she wanted to transition and she used the
00:55:24.380words, not if I transition, when I transition. This is an 11-year-old girl. What would your advice
00:55:30.560be as a mental health practitioner to that woman in particular and to schools of parents up and
00:55:37.460down the country who are dealing with this particular issue well i certainly think right
00:55:44.260okay so there's several levels to this one is at the school level that you know if there is
00:55:51.720um you've got to find out who's teaching what and are you happy with what's being taught
00:55:58.900and i would sort of you know parents need to get organized around this and and some parent parental
00:56:06.420groups have got wise to the fact that their kids are being taught things which you know are part
00:56:13.840of a sort of political doctrine and then i'd you know that that needs to be addressed and there's
00:56:19.760and stephanie davis awry runs a website called transgender trend which has been sort of helping
00:56:26.620parents sort of get to know what's going on and there are materials with which you can present
00:56:32.640the headmistress or headmaster or whatever and challenge that at a sort of individual level
00:56:38.720if you've got a partner um you know you've got to sort of get on the same page off this this
00:56:45.340problem often drives a wedge between the parents which again is very unhelpful um you've got to
00:56:53.160have a sort of serious sort of thrash out of where you're coming from and what the approach might be
00:56:58.720but for me i would say you know you're trying to what you do with adolescents when they get a b in
00:57:07.420their bonnet about something you know you're trying to sort of have a think about what they're
00:57:12.820like in the round you know as a personality are they struggling in a particular area how do they
00:57:18.380measure up against their brother and sister are they struggling at school think about them as a
00:57:24.300person across the board because kids often you focus on one thing and the problem area is
00:57:31.960somewhere else and you don't want to get into arguments if you if you can you know sometimes
00:57:37.600you've got to stand up to your kids you know and say well hang on you know we need to slow this
00:57:43.760down and I'm not being bullied into anything and I'd certainly be prepared to do that but then
00:57:50.780I was trying to think about them and think about, as I say, what's going off of them off camera, if you like, as well as, you know, everyone's attention is sort of drawn to the area of conflict.
00:58:09.220And that's often not what's driving the problem, as it were.
00:58:13.380So then you've got a problem of trying to get mental health practitioners who there's been a sort of enormous policy capture into this area where you've got the affirmation model, which was adopted with virtually no evidence and jettison in what used to be in place was what's called watchful waiting, which is that gender dysphoric kids, you know, most of them would desist.
00:58:43.380if supported and left to their own devices um there's a sort of huge capture of of the clinical
00:58:52.320environment um so then you've got to find you've got to be wise and you've got to find clinicians
00:58:58.980who are not going to automatically affirm if you think they need clinical help but someone who's
00:59:05.400prepared to say i'm a general child psychotherapist psychologist and i will look at your kid in the
00:59:12.440whole take into consideration you know comorbid problems etc etc get to know them and we're not
00:59:20.120making any quick decisions sorry for the long spiel but that's no no no marcus it's great advice and i
00:59:27.600i think it's an issue actually that that terrifies a lot of parents a lot of people won't speak up
00:59:33.680on it but there are plenty of people who don't even have children yet who are thinking well when
00:59:37.920i do have a child is this the thing that they're going to go to school and get brainwashed and
00:59:43.060there was a story in the papers today from eton of all places where they're teaching them
00:59:47.280transgender ideology and all this sort of stuff so it seems to be very widespread in the educational
00:59:52.120system can i just say one more thing the ideology divides basically divides the generations you hear
00:59:59.560we have parents who contact my wife and i going they don't trust the services my kid wants to
01:00:06.260transition you know we're in an argument so it divides the generations it sometimes divides
01:00:12.880the parents you know dad's for mum's against and this can actually split up couples um
01:00:21.320not in my house mate my wife would destroy anyone who tried to go near it divides the mind from the
01:00:28.520body you know because actually this is a problem in the mind and it's related to all the changes
01:00:33.780that are going on in the body so you know it's a very divisive area and uh we're needing to sort
01:00:39.980of bring find links and bring things together and it creates so much division um and pain because of
01:00:47.040it and damage thank you for that cheery ending to the interview marcus brilliant uh but listen we've
01:00:51.960got one more question for you and by the way thank you so much for coming on the show it has been a
01:00:56.100genuine pleasure speaking with you and our last question as always is what is the one thing we're
01:01:00.740not talking about as a society but we really should be well i i think it's related to what
01:01:07.920we've been discussing i think it's the closing down of the discussion and debate which is
01:01:14.320you know it's such bad news and um it's bad news individually we all need to be challenged and we
01:01:22.960live in an environment we all you see this idea you could define who you are your identity is
01:01:28.940partly formed by who you you are but it's also in negotiation with the external world and you know
01:01:36.280we've sort of lost sight of that sort of um dynamic if you like we we live in relation to
01:01:43.780the external world we don't have the right to say this is me and you know you've got to accept it
01:01:50.520and if you don't i'll scream and shout at you you know other people have got their own minds
01:01:55.880they're entitled to have a view including what they think of you and this is important for
01:02:02.140individual psychology and psychological health and it's important for democracy
01:02:06.760spoken like a true bigot thank you marcus
01:02:09.820marcus thank you so much for coming on we'll make sure to put your details
01:02:14.580in the description of the video thank you everybody for watching we'll see you very soon
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